Latest / Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge / Two T’s Getting the Tea with LESA MILAN

Transcript

Two T’s Getting the Tea with LESA MILAN · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

• 0:02
  Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencants and camera judge. Hello, guys,
• 0:11
  Speaker 1: and welcome to two teas and a pod. It's just
• 0:14
  Speaker 1: one tea today, but I am so excited to bring
• 0:17
  Speaker 1: in Lisa Milan from the Real Housewives of Dubai. Hello, Teddy,
• 0:23
  Speaker 1: how are you? I'm good? Of course, you look so stunning.
• 0:28
  Speaker 1: I can't even take it. That's so sweet. Thank you
• 0:31
  Speaker 1: so much, Um, thank you so much for joining us.
• 0:35
  Speaker 1: Well me like, how I'm so used to saying us,
• 0:37
  Speaker 1: where's camera? Well I already asked him because we podcasted
• 0:42
  Speaker 1: earlier and now she's filming, so that's why she can't
• 0:45
  Speaker 1: be on right now. But she's like, I got to
• 0:47
  Speaker 1: meet Lisa for a second. I watched What Happens live,
• 0:50
  Speaker 1: but it was really great. Yeah, she's did. She's so sweet.
• 0:53
  Speaker 1: She was really sweet. She said you're super beautiful and nice,
• 0:58
  Speaker 1: and then she said she as a huge glam squad. Though,
• 1:02
  Speaker 1: is that true? I do have a glam squad. I
• 1:07
  Speaker 1: don't think it's any bigger than anybody else. Actually, she
• 1:09
  Speaker 1: said entourage. So now I need to know how many
• 1:12
  Speaker 1: people do you travel with? Well, I'm Jamaican, right, so
• 1:17
  Speaker 1: we're traveling a whole pack. Yeah, it's true. I love it.
• 1:23
  Speaker 1: I was like, well, how many people? And now I
• 1:25
  Speaker 1: want to travel with more people? Yeah, I know I have.
• 1:29
  Speaker 1: I mean between my husband, my three kids, the nanny,
• 1:32
  Speaker 1: my mom, everybody. Yeah, it's a whole thing. Oh, I
• 1:36
  Speaker 1: love it. How did you meet your husband? So we
• 1:38
  Speaker 1: met in Miami. I'm originally from Miami. We met at
• 1:41
  Speaker 1: a nightclub called Live on a Sunday. Yes if you
• 1:46
  Speaker 1: know you know right? Yeah, yea been there, Yes, I've
• 1:50
  Speaker 1: been there, done that. So yeah, we met at Live
• 1:53
  Speaker 1: and one thing led to another. We were dating long
• 1:56
  Speaker 1: distance for a little bit over a year, and then
• 2:00
  Speaker 1: came back the question and here we are ten years later. Well,
• 2:04
  Speaker 1: so now I have to ask you a question because
• 2:06
  Speaker 1: we've been married ten years. We've been together almost thirteen. Um,
• 2:12
  Speaker 1: did it happen the first night at Lives not Live?
• 2:16
  Speaker 1: But no, we didn't. Actually, this is how I got
• 2:18
  Speaker 1: the ring. I just let it trickle on. He flew
• 2:21
  Speaker 1: me to the Bahamas, and then he flew me to
• 2:24
  Speaker 1: Dubai and then after a while I just gave it.
• 2:27
  Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, he's too hot. I can't resist.
• 2:31
  Speaker 1: That's I mean. I got the ring and I have
• 2:33
  Speaker 1: in the first night, So I really just you know what,
• 2:37
  Speaker 1: I'm such a prude. I wish I could. I am
• 2:40
  Speaker 1: like a germophobe, shower before sex type of girl. So yeah,
• 2:45
  Speaker 1: So does that mean that you're primarily an at night
• 2:49
  Speaker 1: sex person? I am primarily at night or after the
• 2:53
  Speaker 1: gym because I showered after the gym. You can get
• 2:55
  Speaker 1: me in the daytime. That's my favorite time. It's actually
• 3:00
  Speaker 1: my best time because then I like have energy, whereas
• 3:03
  Speaker 1: the night time norphans are running. Yeah, at night time
• 3:06
  Speaker 1: with the kids, you're like, please, I need exactly exactly.
• 3:13
  Speaker 1: And then you guys filmed the reunion a few weeks ago. Yes,
• 3:17
  Speaker 1: and how was your first reunion? You know what? It
• 3:21
  Speaker 1: was super intense. Um. I was really nervous going into
• 3:25
  Speaker 1: it because I didn't know what to expect. I'm sure
• 3:27
  Speaker 1: you can relate, um, And I thought doing filming everything
• 3:31
  Speaker 1: was great. But I feel like after the show aired
• 3:34
  Speaker 1: and the girls saw who were the fan favorite, people
• 3:38
  Speaker 1: just became like the biggest haters and I felt like
• 3:41
  Speaker 1: it was like them against Channel and I. So it was.
• 3:45
  Speaker 1: It was pretty crazy. So did you feel like it
• 3:48
  Speaker 1: was definitely like I don't know if you guys had
• 3:50
  Speaker 1: chairs or couches, but like one side versus the other,
• 3:53
  Speaker 1: do you feel like there was a mingling in between
• 3:55
  Speaker 1: the two? It was definitely one side versus the other
• 3:59
  Speaker 1: hun present and I need to know, And I mean,
• 4:02
  Speaker 1: I'm not trying to throw shade here, but do you
• 4:04
  Speaker 1: think that Brooks borrowed your MS Jamaica crown for well
• 4:11
  Speaker 1: the reunion? I'm definitely not. That crown is big and
• 4:15
  Speaker 1: too heavy and made with real stones. It's not a costume,
• 4:19
  Speaker 1: so absolutely not. She looked more like the Statue of Liberty.
• 4:23
  Speaker 1: But damn, and and don't get me wrong, I love
• 4:28
  Speaker 1: her at two but like Tam and I were dying,
• 4:30
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't even know, and you don't have
• 4:32
  Speaker 1: to give this away, but I'm like, you cannot wear
• 4:35
  Speaker 1: a crown to the reunion if you don't have the
• 4:37
  Speaker 1: first seat. And this is you know, with all do
• 4:40
  Speaker 1: I've never been a first seat. I was a middle
• 4:42
  Speaker 1: seater for life, so like I but I agree, and
• 4:47
  Speaker 1: I think I don't know after your first season to
• 4:49
  Speaker 1: where a crown is a bit premature, But you know,
• 4:53
  Speaker 1: whatever floats her boat, I guess. But we were in
• 4:57
  Speaker 1: New York so maybe she wanted to pay tribute to
• 4:59
  Speaker 1: the whole Statue of Liberty thing because the theme was
• 5:02
  Speaker 1: actually desert glad. Well, that's what I couldn't figure out
• 5:05
  Speaker 1: because some of you guys, and it's hard to tell
• 5:07
  Speaker 1: on the picture, but some looked like it was like
• 5:09
  Speaker 1: a neon yellow or people aways will say it's it's
• 5:11
  Speaker 1: green or what. I don't know. But the crazy thing is,
• 5:14
  Speaker 1: so I was in like a lime green and Ion
• 5:17
  Speaker 1: was in like a yellow. We did not plan this,
• 5:20
  Speaker 1: I know, because we're best friends. People think it was planned.
• 5:23
  Speaker 1: I saw her dress and I was like the pageant
• 5:25
  Speaker 1: girl in me kicked in and I was like, oh,
• 5:27
  Speaker 1: you kiddn't me because she told me her dress was purple,
• 5:32
  Speaker 1: so old and it's nowhere near purple. I know. She
• 5:36
  Speaker 1: was like, yeah, last minute, we had to change and
• 5:38
  Speaker 1: this is the color that we went with. But she
• 5:40
  Speaker 1: looked stunning, and in the end when we sat next
• 5:44
  Speaker 1: to each other, it kinda you know, it pans out.
• 5:47
  Speaker 1: But yeah, it was not planned at all. And I
• 5:50
  Speaker 1: was slightly worried about you potentially having a nipslip. What
• 5:54
  Speaker 1: did you do to make sure that that wasn't gonna happen?
• 5:56
  Speaker 1: Because I was so uncomfortable sitting in unions and I
• 6:01
  Speaker 1: was probably just as worried as the pictures and everyone
• 6:04
  Speaker 1: else because my dress came all the way from Kosovo
• 6:09
  Speaker 1: and I never got I didn't get to fit it.
• 6:11
  Speaker 1: We got it, it arrived in New York. We tried
• 6:14
  Speaker 1: it on. It had a mesh, but the mesh was
• 6:17
  Speaker 1: not my skin tone. It was like a beige yeah.
• 6:21
  Speaker 1: So I was like, no, I'd rather run the risk
• 6:23
  Speaker 1: of my boobs hanging out then to go with this
• 6:26
  Speaker 1: beige mesh. So we actually cut the mesh out and
• 6:30
  Speaker 1: just prayed for dear life. No, because like this one
• 6:33
  Speaker 1: little branch is like holding holding you like this branch
• 6:37
  Speaker 1: is your best friend. Because and the stone that was
• 6:40
  Speaker 1: like right over it was a hot mess. I'm feel
• 6:45
  Speaker 1: like there's already been a Dubai net slip. Was Stanbury
• 6:49
  Speaker 1: like with her whole boob was out. I'm like, how
• 6:51
  Speaker 1: did nobody catch this? I know, I know the producers
• 6:54
  Speaker 1: had hell with me too. Also, I had my boobs
• 6:56
  Speaker 1: done and I swear the doctor put my nipples way
• 7:00
  Speaker 1: too high when I had like the breast lifts. So
• 7:03
  Speaker 1: everything I wear I actually have to be really careful
• 7:06
  Speaker 1: because my nipple used to be like here, and I
• 7:08
  Speaker 1: was like up to here, so I had mind done too.
• 7:11
  Speaker 1: Did they go into the nipple or did they go underneath?
• 7:14
  Speaker 1: They did the t so they went underneath. So did
• 7:18
  Speaker 1: you have a lift and an implant? I did? Okay,
• 7:21
  Speaker 1: So that's for y'all listening, because I get a lot
• 7:24
  Speaker 1: of boob questions. I had no boobs at all, so
• 7:27
  Speaker 1: I didn't have a lift. I had like just an
• 7:31
  Speaker 1: implant stuck in. They did it through the nipple. But
• 7:34
  Speaker 1: that's why I had issues breastfeeding Dove, because okay, we'll see.
• 7:39
  Speaker 1: I I breast spent my two first sons, and after
• 7:42
  Speaker 1: breastfeeding them, that's when um my boobs were as floppy
• 7:47
  Speaker 1: as a flip flop girl. So I was right, no,
• 7:51
  Speaker 1: I want to get them done. But the doctor asked me,
• 7:53
  Speaker 1: do you want to have more kids? And I was like, listen,
• 7:55
  Speaker 1: I have two boys. I would love to go for
• 7:56
  Speaker 1: the girl. And he said he was gonna do it
• 7:59
  Speaker 1: under the soul. But then it ended up like it
• 8:02
  Speaker 1: was so difficult to breastfeed my third son because it
• 8:05
  Speaker 1: wasn't actually under the muscle, it was like right on
• 8:07
  Speaker 1: top of it. It was like the whole thing. I
• 8:10
  Speaker 1: felt I had mom guilt because yeah, I couldn't breastfeed
• 8:15
  Speaker 1: as much as I did from my first two, and
• 8:18
  Speaker 1: it was a whole thing. It was that that was
• 8:20
  Speaker 1: the same thing for me. I feel like there needs
• 8:22
  Speaker 1: to be more discussion about that because I didn't think
• 8:25
  Speaker 1: I would be able to have a third my first two.
• 8:27
  Speaker 1: I didn't naturally have you know, I had to do
• 8:29
  Speaker 1: insemination and IDF and then I would got my boobs
• 8:32
  Speaker 1: done and there wasn't It was like, are you planning
• 8:36
  Speaker 1: on having other kids? I was like, probably not. And
• 8:38
  Speaker 1: then it was just such a crazy thing, like I
• 8:41
  Speaker 1: started trying to breastfeed Dove and I got mas titis
• 8:44
  Speaker 1: and nothing would come out and it was because they
• 8:46
  Speaker 1: removed the nipple to put in the implant. Yeah, and
• 8:50
  Speaker 1: so it wasn't lining up mom with the mom guilt
• 8:54
  Speaker 1: is mom guilt is real. The mom guilt is so real, honestly,
• 8:59
  Speaker 1: And you think that because we do the you know,
• 9:02
  Speaker 1: the fan questions on two teas and a lot of
• 9:05
  Speaker 1: people are saying, are you sure you're done? And I
• 9:07
  Speaker 1: know I hate when people ask me that, but also
• 9:10
  Speaker 1: like I'm done, I'm done. Um, I think my My
• 9:14
  Speaker 1: husband only makes boys, so you know, I'm already outnumbered
• 9:19
  Speaker 1: three boys and me actually four because I call my
• 9:22
  Speaker 1: husband as one of the foes for sure, and myself
• 9:26
  Speaker 1: and as much as I would love to have a
• 9:29
  Speaker 1: little girl, I think kids are so expensive. And I'm
• 9:32
  Speaker 1: very hands on mom. I'm not like you know and
• 9:35
  Speaker 1: nanny nanny mom, And so my kids are always with me.
• 9:39
  Speaker 1: I am I pick up, I drop off my kids
• 9:41
  Speaker 1: to school. I take them to all their extracurricular activities.
• 9:44
  Speaker 1: I cook three four times a week. I don't have
• 9:46
  Speaker 1: the time for another baby. And now I'm trying to
• 9:48
  Speaker 1: look like a hot mama. So yeah, I mean this
• 9:51
  Speaker 1: is why I am in my current stay bribing my
• 9:54
  Speaker 1: kids right now. I'm like, guys, do not come because
• 9:57
  Speaker 1: we have another week before school starts. I'mlike, say, can
• 10:02
  Speaker 1: you please, thank you? I will be done in one hour.
• 10:04
  Speaker 1: Like just I get same, And then how did you
• 10:19
  Speaker 1: get cast on the show? So actually they reached out
• 10:24
  Speaker 1: to Shanellayan. So Shanelle and I have been like very
• 10:26
  Speaker 1: good friends for about six years. She started out as
• 10:29
  Speaker 1: one of my models and then she was just always
• 10:32
  Speaker 1: a girl's girl. We always vibe. She always invite me
• 10:34
  Speaker 1: to all these events because a lot of people didn't
• 10:37
  Speaker 1: know I owned my brand, Me in a Row, so um.
• 10:40
  Speaker 1: Because of that, she was always like, girl, it doesn't matter,
• 10:44
  Speaker 1: just come, you know. And when they reached out to her,
• 10:47
  Speaker 1: she was like, actually, I don't know if um I
• 10:51
  Speaker 1: want to do it necessarily, but I know a girl.
• 10:53
  Speaker 1: She's my girlfriend. She's literally a real housewife. She's always cooking,
• 10:58
  Speaker 1: she's doing everything that most of my mom's don't do right.
• 11:02
  Speaker 1: And they reached out to me, and then one thing
• 11:04
  Speaker 1: left to another. So yeah, I came on. So how
• 11:08
  Speaker 1: many of you guys actually, because kind of what you're saying,
• 11:12
  Speaker 1: when you're watching the shows, you're thinking, are they all friendly?
• 11:15
  Speaker 1: But like is it through Instagram? Because sometimes some of
• 11:19
  Speaker 1: the relationships don't feel as formed. So you you actually
• 11:22
  Speaker 1: knew new Ion, but anybody else? Yes, I've actually known
• 11:27
  Speaker 1: Nina the longest. So I've known Nina. I brought Nina
• 11:30
  Speaker 1: onto the show, so she now brought me. I brought Nina.
• 11:33
  Speaker 1: I've known her for so many years, and then on
• 11:36
  Speaker 1: social media, I knew Caroline Brooks for years on years
• 11:41
  Speaker 1: and years. I think I've known her actually since I
• 11:43
  Speaker 1: was pregnant with my son, but we just never really
• 11:46
  Speaker 1: hung out. And then Caroline Stanbury I used to see
• 11:50
  Speaker 1: her out and about we running the same circles and stuff.
• 11:54
  Speaker 1: So they basically interviewed girls in our circle in our
• 11:57
  Speaker 1: friend group, like if you didn't know someone, you wouldn't
• 11:59
  Speaker 1: really make like in the peripheral Yeah, exactly, exactly. And
• 12:03
  Speaker 1: then Sarah I met while filming UM and then yeah,
• 12:09
  Speaker 1: but then, I mean, I have to be honest. Watching
• 12:12
  Speaker 1: the show, I think about like who would I be friends?
• 12:14
  Speaker 1: Like who would? And now you'd be friends with me? Well,
• 12:17
  Speaker 1: obviously I would be friends with you. You're so fun
• 12:20
  Speaker 1: like all the things. But my hardest one I'm having
• 12:23
  Speaker 1: connecting with is Nina, and I don't know what it is.
• 12:28
  Speaker 1: I don't know if she is giving off like everything
• 12:33
  Speaker 1: is good all the time. So then it's it doesn't
• 12:36
  Speaker 1: come off as authentic to me, But like, what would
• 12:40
  Speaker 1: you say is your most natural friendship on the show?
• 12:43
  Speaker 1: Ion ion Ian and I mean we're real, We're best
• 12:47
  Speaker 1: friends in real life. So when we both got casted,
• 12:50
  Speaker 1: it was like a dream come true. Because our our
• 12:53
  Speaker 1: husband's golf together. You know, we're actually hanging out all
• 12:57
  Speaker 1: the time. She's been to like so many of my
• 13:00
  Speaker 1: it's birthday party. She's actually I won't say she's always
• 13:03
  Speaker 1: the mascot, but she's always the life of all my
• 13:05
  Speaker 1: kids birthday parties. She had that over the top in
• 13:09
  Speaker 1: the clothes all the time. No, she's not over the
• 13:12
  Speaker 1: top all the time. But she's always been very larger
• 13:17
  Speaker 1: than life, you know what I mean. Like it depends
• 13:19
  Speaker 1: on the occasion. If it is an event, she is
• 13:22
  Speaker 1: gonna show up, probably in full goal sequence. You know.
• 13:25
  Speaker 1: I've been to fashion shows with her that she's not
• 13:27
  Speaker 1: walking in and she outdos everybody on the runway. You know,
• 13:31
  Speaker 1: that's her personality. She's really bright. But no, she's not
• 13:36
  Speaker 1: always stressed like that. Sometimes she's just a little bit more,
• 13:39
  Speaker 1: you know, normal. Well, I had co hosted with Cynthia
• 13:42
  Speaker 1: last week and we were talking about Teresa's wedding and
• 13:45
  Speaker 1: I'm like, hold on, I'm confused. Ion was not in
• 13:48
  Speaker 1: a gown. Oh my act like very understanding. She goes
• 13:52
  Speaker 1: she lost her bag or something happened with Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 13:55
  Speaker 1: she lost her stuff, and not just that she was
• 13:59
  Speaker 1: invitedst minute. So Teresa gave her the invite last minute,
• 14:04
  Speaker 1: and she couldn't you know most of her gowns and
• 14:06
  Speaker 1: stuff are in Dubai. You know, when you're traveling fifteen
• 14:09
  Speaker 1: fifteen our flights you're taking, you're not taking your whole
• 14:12
  Speaker 1: world with you. So it was a lot for her
• 14:14
  Speaker 1: to get things done. But I still think she she
• 14:16
  Speaker 1: rocked it. She looked no, I mean, she looked stunning.
• 14:19
  Speaker 1: She always does, but I was just going back over
• 14:22
  Speaker 1: the topness. And to be honest, she was on the
• 14:24
  Speaker 1: phone with me on her way there and she's like,
• 14:27
  Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm not in a gown, and I'm like,
• 14:31
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry. There's one like video where she's not even
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: in shoes and she's walking and she's still like towering
• 14:38
  Speaker 1: over everyone, looking like a glamazon. I'm like, please, I'm
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: like five three with my highest heels. Oh my god,
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: the same high. I'm five four, But I like to
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: say five five because of that one song five five
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: Brannah people on five five because it just sounds way cuter.
• 14:54
  Speaker 1: I know, my licensees five five, but everybody else is like, yeah,
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: my daughter, she's not and she's almost taller. She's like
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: nice trying, Yeah, that's like my first And then where
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: do you stand? With and I always say stands very
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: and everyone that listens to the pot yells at me
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: all the time. They're like, it's stands very. I'm like,
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: I can't help myself. But where do you stand with her? Now? Um, well,
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: exactly where we left it? Like nowhere, like nowhere. I'm
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: absolutely nowhere. The thing is, the thing is to be honest.
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: I feel like we were just two very different people.
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: We just don't vibe. I. I can relate to people
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: who are authentic, I can relate to people who are vulnerable.
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: I can relate to people who are real, you know,
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: And I don't really get that from her. And I
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: don't think not to say that she's fake, but I
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: think she's quite guarded and protected and um, because of that,
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: we just don't really vibe. I'm an energy person, and
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: if our energies don't align, you know, I'm not going
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: to really invest and put a lot of effort into it.
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: And so it's always been kind of like that with
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: and I. Um, and I also think she's a little
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: bit intimidated by well from the final part, I agree
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: with you and the fact that like I can immediately
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: tell how somebody's acting towards me, regardless of it's them
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: or not, and then I take on that energy with them,
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: and it's hard for me to move on to that
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: even in these like you can see this. I knew
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: the second you came on. I'm like, all right this,
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: She's gonna be good. She's gonna be cool, she's gonna
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: be easy, like because sometimes you can feel that guarded
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: nous and then as somebody interviewing, you're like, exactly, I mean,
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: I hope, I hope she she lets her guard down
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: because we're so like Ianna and I are so fun, Like, girl,
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: you want to hang with us. We're the cool girls,
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: you know, the earth girls. You don't have to always
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: be perfect around us. And I feel like that's why
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: she and I we we gravitate to each other, because
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: we relate to each other on a mom level, on
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: on a personal level, on just so many different, so
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: many different wavelengths, you know, and with her it's you
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: just get one thing. And what do you think about
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: the people that said from the last episode when you
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: guys were all on the trip, they were like, if
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: Ion is being Lisa's mouth piece or whatever. It was
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: like because you didn't walk over there, like what do
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: you do you think you were just supporting her and
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: so you go handle it or well, the thing is,
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: the thing is I actually we felt like I was
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: in the wrong in that situation. And I am not
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: the type of friend that's gonna like gas you up
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: when you're wrong. Like we have that kind of relationship
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: where if I if she feels like I've done something
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: that's wrong, no I'm not gonna stay it in front
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: of the group of girls to embarrass her because that's
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: my girl. But it's just like when you're driving a
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: car with a police officer right your husband getting over.
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: You're not gonna be like, um, I told you to
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: use your signal, but you're not. You're gonna wat God.
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: We kind of have that relationship. I've said that before.
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: We kind of had that. We have that relationship where
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: I can be like, girl, you know you were in
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: the wrong, you know, go upolicies, but no, I'm not
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: gonna go. Yeah, it's not your job to go apologize,
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: you know. And I feel like she never takes accountability either,
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: you know, if she's always expecting everyone to say sorry
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: to her, and I've never ever heard her say she's
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: sorry back, you know. So for me. It's like, I'm
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: not giving you more than you give me. I match
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: energies and I'm good here. Well, this is how I
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: knew things were bad. When they showed that she had
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: a cigarette. I was like, they there's only probably five
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: times in housewife history they've shown a housewife's work at
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: a cigarette. I was like, things are not going well here.
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: I kind of overreacted too. It was not that deep.
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: You know, if someone says to me, I'm more successful
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: than you, I know who I am. Yeah, I'm confident
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: in who I am. You know. So if that's how
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: you feel a girl, that's fine. I know who I am.
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: I don't have to I don't see validation outside validation
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: from anyone, right. But you also don't need to tell
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: people how successful you are, and you don't, you know.
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: So that's why I felt like, I that was not
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: called for, you know. But at the same time, I
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: didn't think she needed to storm off and cry about it.
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: But then again, we had we all handled things differently,
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: and that's just how I would have handled it. Would
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: have been like, okay, girl, sure you're more successful. You
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: know my bank accounts, and then and then how do
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: you feel about husband's getting involved in general. Tam and
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: I were just talking about this because it's something that
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: happened in Atlanta, and I was like, I never want
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: my husband involved, like however, and she was like, no,
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: I don't mind it, and I was like, I absolutely,
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: I don't want him to speak up for me with you,
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: I'm with you. I don't want my husband to get involved.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: I feel like when when women are fighting and arguing,
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: I think it's important for it to just beat us.
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: You know. Now, if my husband sees me getting ganged
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: up on, I know what he's like, He's gonna jump
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: in and probably be like but he'll pull me away.
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: He's not gonna stay there and argue with women. He
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: doesn't do that, you know. Even the comment he made
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: about Sanbury being a fifty year old influencer, you know.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: You know, he actually apologized to her. He was like,
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: I could see how that watching it back, I can
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: see how that can be hurtful. But I was responding
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: to what my wife was sharing with me about you
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: saying if she wants to suck your husband's sick or whatever.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: You know, So, how did that escalate to that point?
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: Because when we were watching it it really seemed like
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: everything you guys were just child like. I'm the same.
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: I thought everything was good. I spoke to her. I
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: was like, listen, don't grove, iyan and I together. Then
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: she dropped the them. Then she dropped the them comment,
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: and then it just escalated from there because I'm like,
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: I just told you not to group us, and then
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: you're gonna call us them? But I don't know. She
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: just got triggered by Sergio talking to me, you know,
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: so you think it was jealousy? Uh? Then and insecurity?
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: She is very, very insecure person. She genuinely is, and
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: I feel like it just came out. She was having
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: a lot of drink and they say a drunk man
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: of a lie. So she showed us who she was.
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: But I was really disappointed in that because I just
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: had a great conversation with you saying not to group us.
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: He didn't show up to my fashion show. We're good,
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: you know, we're gonna move on, and then it just
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: went left. So and how did your husband take that comment?
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: He didn't like it at all. He didn't like it.
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: I know husband would come on, who would want to
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: hear that their wife someone sending their wife to suck
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: their husband's stick or whatever she said. You know, he
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: didn't like it, and so he was giving. But he's
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: always choosing the higher road. He's a Michelle Obama. I'm
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: not you know what neither am I I wish I was.
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: I know, I wish, but you know, he's like one
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: of those you know, when they go low, you go high.
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: So he was actually giving perspective, like Lisa, you never
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: have to stoop to her level. You know, she's just
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: a fifty year old influencer, like you know who you are,
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: you know, and that's not it. So that was like
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: he was kind of trying to give me perspective, but
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: it just, you know, people took it and ran with it.
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: But he did apologize to her because he was like, Okay,
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: I can see how that can be hurtful, but I
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: don't know what is the big deal about. He was
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: an age shaming her. You know, it wasn't an age thing.
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: It was more an influencer. Was more the influencer exactly,
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: but you know she was projecting. I could say A
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: really relatable moment that I had was when you were
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: with your husband, you were talking about your business and
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: your husband was on his phone because husbands. What we
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: need to make clear his husbands aren't paid to be
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: filming housewives. So like when you try to bring them
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: into things, like I remember trying to tell Edwin like
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: whatever it was, and he would like you could tell
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: he was like trying to work, and I'd be like, no,
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: it's gonna look like you don't care what I'm saying. Yes, yes,
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: and too they had him there for like twenty minutes
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: when he said, oh, waiting, waiting, and so he was like,
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: I have a meeting. I have clients in my office.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: Because people don't realize my husband has a whole career,
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: so and businesses to run like Nina Row is just
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: his wife's business that he invested in. You know, he's
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: the CFO because this is what he does for a living,
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: and I wouldn't he's good at it and he's good
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: at it, and I wouldn't trust anybody else with with
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: our money, you know. So people are like, oh, well
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: fire him as a CFO, Like nos, go nowhere, Okay,
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: where's the goat? You're gonna have to tune in actually
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: this yes, tomorrow's episode, you'll get everything that's happening with
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: MS goats. We love Miss Goats so much. Honestly, she's
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: a part of the family forever and ever and ever. Amen. Well,
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: that's nice for you, because my dad sent me birds,
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: or he sent my kids birds because he felt bad
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: because when I was a kid, he let our birds go.
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: So he sent them to my kids for Easter. And
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: I was like, I never asked for these birds. And
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: they're not even birds you can hold. They're just like
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: yelling at your birds all of the time. And one
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: of my friends was like, we love paarakeets. They're lucky.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: There's all these things. I was like, do you want
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: you are welcome to take them to your family because
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: my kids don't pay attention to them. And my dad
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: got so I said it on the podcast. I gave
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: them what my dad called me, like you got rid
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: of the birds. I was like, you know, you have
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: three kids too. I mean, adding pets to the mix
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: is like adding a whole another kid. And that's how
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: I felt about Miss Goat, you know. But my kids
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: cried and they talked us into keeping her, and you know, yeah,
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: and she's begatting like a neighborhood staple as well. So yeah,
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: just tune in to see what happens. And I know
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: we're almost out of time, but is there anything that
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: you would change about your first season? No, I think
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: I would just plug me in a room or often.
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: What what I can't take is when housewives start a
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: new business, the second thing you become housewives, and then
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: you can tell that everybody's like yeah, yeah, yeah, gambling
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: to try to make it legit. Yeah. Well, to convince
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: my husband to do the show, because he were such
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: private people, he was like absolutely not. I had to
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: like show him he understood speaks um currency. So I
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: had to experience to him in dollars pounds again for
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: him to get it. And finally he was like, okay, yeah,
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: it makes sense for your business and I'm going to
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: support you with it. And is there anything you can
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: tease us about the reunion? Well, let's just say Lisa
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: Milan was not all action in her She brought that
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: same energy that she has in her confessionals. Uh yeah, okay, okay.
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: And my next question, my final questions. I know you're
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: you're a busy, busy person. How many people cried um?
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: I would say one or two, one or two, but
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: I feel like there were some close moments um for
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: all of us, for all of us. But I would
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: say one or two all right? Yeah? And would you
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: do girls Trip? Oh? Absolutely? Have you done it yet? No?
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: Oh my god? Together you me? Ion? Who else will
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: were bring? We need someone else that is not afraid
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: to say whatever they think? Yeah? Yeah, and that would
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: just bring the fun as well. I know, have fun,
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: be a mess? Yeah, yeah, definitely definitely do girls T Yeah,
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: don't you think it seems so much fun? But I
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: would want to go on the location, Yes, for sure.
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: Some we're fun, some were fun and final final, I
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: love that, I keep saying final, Final, favorite Housewife franchichise
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: to watch? Oh, I don't know. I like so many
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: of them for different reasons. You know. The reason I
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: tune in for Atlanta is not the reason I tune
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: into Beverly Hills, and same for Jersey. I would say,
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: I can give you three. I love Jersey, I love
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: Beverly Hills, and I love Atlanta. If you watched for Ptomach,
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: I have watched Potomach. I like Potomac a lot as well.
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: That is mine. I honestly I'm waiting with bated breath.
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, I want them to bring Monique back.
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: I know. I had Monique on and her show is
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: really good too. I want them to bring Monique back,
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: but I think, yeah, but I bet she could. You
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: know what, Let's bring Monique on the Girl's trap. Let's girl, Yeah,
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: let's do it. Look at us casting. I know because
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: I love that she is real with her husband, her kids.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: She's not always trying to give the illusion that everything
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: is perfect, which makes her so much fun. Yeah, I
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: love her well. I can't wait to tune then to
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: the reunion, to the finale, all the things. And also
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: can I just maybe zip over Dubai to Dubai soon
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: because I want to try it out? Oh my god, yes,
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: I will host you want. It's the best place for kids,
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: so don't just zip over there without the kids. Literally,
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: we can't leave because it's like a wonderland for children.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: It's so safe and my kids are never bored. There's
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: a different amusement park for them to try almost every
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: other weekend. Okay, so how long will it take me
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: from Los Angeles to get to Dubai. It will probably
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: will probably take you like twelve to fifteen hours. We
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: can do it, but you fly business, take a night flight.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: Let the kids leap, I give him a bit of
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: drill and you're good to go. You're good. Let Melitonia
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: goes a long way. Thank you so much for joining
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: us here. This was well. My love to Tamera wherever
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: she is, but this was so fun. I'm so glad
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: we thank you for coming on. Thank you bye, honey.
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: By t