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Control Your Life: You Hold the Power to Decide · Motivation Mindset Podcast

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  Speaker 1: Most people.
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  Speaker 2: They get a job, they look around and see how
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  Speaker 2: everybody else is doing their work, and they start doing
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  Speaker 2: it the same way. They should stop and think. I
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  Speaker 2: wonder if any of these people know what they're doing,
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  Speaker 2: is there a better way to do it?
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  Speaker 1: Well? Don't we have a need to fit in? I mean,
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  Speaker 1: we don't want to.
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  Speaker 3: We don't want to stand out, We don't want to
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  Speaker 3: get fired, we don't want to make waves.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly exactly, just fall into line, you know, take a number,
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  Speaker 2: be like everybody around. Now, that'd be great in the
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  Speaker 2: animal kingdom, but human beings aren'tupposed to live that way.
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  Speaker 2: I think we should make a few waves. We should
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  Speaker 2: maybe stand out, be different. Not for the sake of
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  Speaker 2: being different, okay, but because we are different. We all
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  Speaker 2: think different thoughts, and I believe we should start to
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  Speaker 2: think and build images in our mind of what we'd
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  Speaker 2: like to do, and then set out and do it.
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  Speaker 4: The greatest ability that God has given human kind above
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  Speaker 4: the animals, is.
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  Speaker 5: The ability to choose.
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  Speaker 4: A doll can't be anything but a dog, A cat
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  Speaker 4: can't be anything but a cat.
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  Speaker 1: A human being.
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  Speaker 4: Has the power to choose. Choose. We can choose, And
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  Speaker 4: I'm asking you. What do you see in the future
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  Speaker 4: for you? What brought you here today? What caused you
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  Speaker 4: to get up? What is it that you're looking for?
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  Speaker 5: What would you like to do? What do you believe
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  Speaker 5: you've been destined to do? What talents, skills, giftings, and
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  Speaker 5: abilities do you possess to support your desire to do it?
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  Speaker 5: What are your motives for wanting to do it? Why
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  Speaker 5: do you want to become what you are looking to become?
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  Speaker 5: What steps are you taking to become and to live
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  Speaker 5: the life? To make the dream of reality?
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  Speaker 6: Life is death without change. Are you willing to make
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  Speaker 6: a change in your life to realize a dream, to
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  Speaker 6: fulfill what's in your mind, what you can visualize as
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  Speaker 6: your life and now? Are you willing to put the
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  Speaker 6: sweat equity, the time, the persistency that it takes not
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  Speaker 6: on your timetable, but on faith it's timetable. If you are,
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  Speaker 6: then you have to educate yourself in whatever that subject
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  Speaker 6: matter is.
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  Speaker 5: Every day, do something that moves you toward that goal,
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  Speaker 5: that keeps that goal alive and insight and in focus.
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  Speaker 1: However small or insignificant that step might seem. Take it,
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  Speaker 1: do it, make it happen.
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  Speaker 5: Because that goal isn't going to achieve itself.
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  Speaker 1: Get better. There isn't any of us that can't get better.
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  Speaker 7: So turn on this whole idea of personal development and
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  Speaker 7: personal growth. That was what my teacher shared with me
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  Speaker 7: to change my life starting a few steps from here
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  Speaker 7: at that convention, I'm telling you for things to get better,
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  Speaker 7: you got to get better.
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  Speaker 1: Don't ask for it to change out there, ask for
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  Speaker 1: you to change here. Don't ask for a more favorable win.
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  Speaker 1: We call that naive.
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  Speaker 7: Don't ask for better seed, better soil.
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  Speaker 1: This is the only planet you got.
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  Speaker 7: Just ask that you can get and stronger and better
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  Speaker 7: and be able to take care of your own responsibilities.
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  Speaker 1: Get better.
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  Speaker 8: We bitch about everything in your life, but we do
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  Speaker 8: nothing about it. Very few people do anything about it.
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  Speaker 8: I'm fat, I'm out of shame all these days. What
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  Speaker 8: to be doing about it? You gotta take action in
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  Speaker 8: your life. You gotta stop, You gotta start being. Find
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  Speaker 8: a solution to your problem.
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  Speaker 9: Don't be the problem.
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  Speaker 8: Take action, for every action is an opposite reaction. If
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  Speaker 8: all you do is better, nothing's gonna happen in your life.
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  Speaker 8: Take action, take control, stay.
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  Speaker 3: Hard, Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to
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  Speaker 3: who someone else is today, because you need to have
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  Speaker 3: a hierarchy of improvement. You need to be aiming for something,
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  Speaker 3: and that means you're going to be lesser than people
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  Speaker 3: who've always already attained along that dementia. So the question
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  Speaker 3: is who should you defeat in the final analysis? And
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  Speaker 3: the answer is you should defeat your former self. You
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  Speaker 3: should be constantly trying to do that. And you're the
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  Speaker 3: right control for yourself too, because you're the one who's
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  Speaker 3: had all your advantages and disadvantages.
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  Speaker 10: Do you understand what that means? Do you understand how
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  Speaker 10: aggressive you gotta be? Do you understand even when you're aggressive,
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  Speaker 10: you still gotta have patience? Do you really understand the
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  Speaker 10: work that has to be applied to it? Because you
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  Speaker 10: can want all day long, but if you don't apply
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  Speaker 10: action to.
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  Speaker 7: It, then how can you achieve?
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  Speaker 10: How can you achieve the greatness that's within you?
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  Speaker 1: How bad do you really want it?
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  Speaker 11: You gotta hear me people talking about Oprah Winfrey, you know,
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  Speaker 11: Tad Turner, Warren Bumpett.
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  Speaker 1: Listen to me. I don't care how much money you make.
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  Speaker 1: You only get twenty.
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  Speaker 5: Four hours in a day, and the difference between Oprah
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  Speaker 5: and the person that's broke is Oprah uses her twenty
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  Speaker 5: four hours wisely.
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  Speaker 1: Is your brain will trick you. You are your own
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  Speaker 1: worst enemy.
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  Speaker 9: You're failing because, on a daily basis, you fail to
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  Speaker 9: exercise your self disciplined muscle. On a daily basis, you
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  Speaker 9: fail to sacrifice. You're failing because on a daily basis,
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  Speaker 9: you fail to come up with the plan. On a
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  Speaker 9: daily basis, you fail to get uncomfortable, you fail to
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  Speaker 9: push past your limits, and you fail to believe in
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  Speaker 9: your sin.
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  Speaker 12: Here's the problem I find most people have. They judge
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  Speaker 12: themselves to the lens of a moment. They fail at something,
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  Speaker 12: they miss, they embarrass themselves, they flubb something, and they
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  Speaker 12: think that defines who they are. But I'm telling you
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  Speaker 12: right now, you're not defined by who you are. You're
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  Speaker 12: defined by who you want to become and the price
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  Speaker 12: you're willing to pay to get there.
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  Speaker 1: Because life does it give you what you walked. It
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  Speaker 1: gives you what.
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  Speaker 6: You deserve, and if you haven't worked for it, if
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  Speaker 6: you have it, sacrificed for it, if you.
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  Speaker 1: Haven't given your all, then you don't desert it and
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  Speaker 1: you won't get it.
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  Speaker 13: The future belongs to the risk takers, not the security seekers.
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  Speaker 13: Life is perverse in the sense that the more you
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  Speaker 13: seek security, the less of it you have. But the
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  Speaker 13: more you seek opportunity, the more likely it is that
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  Speaker 13: you will achieve the security that you desire. Whenever you
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  Speaker 13: feel fear or anxiety and you need to bolster your
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  Speaker 13: courage to persist in the face of obstacles and setbacks,
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  Speaker 13: switch your attention to your goals. Create a clear mental
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  Speaker 13: picture of the person that you would like to be,
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  Speaker 13: performing the way you would like to perform. There's nothing
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  Speaker 13: wrong with thoughts of fear as long as you temper
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  Speaker 13: them with thoughts of courage and self reliance. Whatever you
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  Speaker 13: dwell upon grows, so be careful. This brings us to
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  Speaker 13: a very very important mental principle called the law of accumulation.
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  Speaker 13: The application of this law is a fundamental reason for
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  Speaker 13: success in every field, including yours. This law says that
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  Speaker 13: every great life or great career is an accumulation of
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  Speaker 13: hundreds and perhaps thousands of efforts that nobody ever sees
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  Speaker 13: or appreciates. Great success is the result of countless hours,
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  Speaker 13: maybe even months and years of preparation and hard work
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  Speaker 13: toward the goal of becoming very good at what you
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  Speaker 13: are doing. This law of accumulation says that life is
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  Speaker 13: very much like a balance sheet with both credits and debts.
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  Speaker 13: Every time you do something positive to enhance your abilities
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  Speaker 13: and to improve your life, you get a credit on
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  Speaker 13: the credit side of your ledger. Each time you waste
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  Speaker 13: your time or neglect to take advantage of an opportunity
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  Speaker 13: to learn and grow, you get a debit on the
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  Speaker 13: debit side of your ledger.
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  Speaker 1: Here's the key. Everything counts.
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  Speaker 13: Everything that you do or fail to do is written
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  Speaker 13: down and totaled up on your balance sheet. Everything that
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  Speaker 13: you do or fail to do counts in some way.
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  Speaker 13: Nothing is neutral. Everything is either moving you toward a
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  Speaker 13: better life or moving you away from it. Everything counts. Successful, happy,
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  Speaker 13: self confident person is an individual who has consciously and
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  Speaker 13: deliberately built up a lot of credits on his or
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  Speaker 13: her balance sheet. An unhappy, negative, or insecure person is
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  Speaker 13: a person who has a lot of debts on his
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  Speaker 13: or her balance sheet. Because the only things that count
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  Speaker 13: are your actions, it seems that every positive and constructive
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  Speaker 13: action you engage in adds up and increases your levels
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  Speaker 13: of self confidence and self esteem. The law of incremental improvement.
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  Speaker 13: Perhaps the most important corollary of the law of accumulation
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  Speaker 13: is what is called the law of incremental improvement.
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  Speaker 1: This is really the law that explains how.
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  Speaker 13: You move from wherever you are to the top of
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  Speaker 13: your field. This is the law that explains all great
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  Speaker 13: success in America or anywhere else in the world. This
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  Speaker 13: law simply states that a person becomes good at his
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  Speaker 13: or her chosen field by improving incrementally continuously over a
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  Speaker 13: long period of time. The development of the unshakable self
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  Speaker 13: development will open up such possibilities for you as you
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  Speaker 13: cannot now imagine. You will be able to dream bigger dreams,
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  Speaker 13: set bigger goals, make greater commitments, and plunge into life
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  Speaker 13: more wholeheartedly than you ever have before. Self confidence is
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  Speaker 13: the hinge on which the gate of individual achievement terms.
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  Speaker 13: When your self confidence becomes unlimited, you will be able
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  Speaker 13: to re realize more of your potential than you could
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  Speaker 13: under any other circumstances. More than two thousand years ago,
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  Speaker 13: Aristotle wrote that happiness is a condition. It is not
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  Speaker 13: something that is achieved by pursuing it directly, but rather
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  Speaker 13: comes as a result of our engaging in purposeful activities.
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  Speaker 13: We develop the confidence to tackle larger goals by applying
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  Speaker 13: our energies to the accomplishment of smaller goals. We build
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  Speaker 13: up our confidence as we move forward until we reach
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  Speaker 13: the point at which there is nothing that we won't
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  Speaker 13: take on. In fact, the habit of setting and achieving
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  Speaker 13: ever larger goals is absolutely indispensable to the development of
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  Speaker 13: ever higher levels of self confidence and personal power. You
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  Speaker 13: can only really believe in yourself when you absolutely know
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  Speaker 13: that you have the ability to do what you set
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  Speaker 13: out to do. True self confidence does not come from
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  Speaker 13: positive wishing or positive hoping or positive thinking. It comes
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  Speaker 13: from positive knowing, based on having proven to yourself over
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  Speaker 13: and over again that you have what it takes to
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  Speaker 13: get from wherever you are to wherever you want to go.
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  Speaker 13: Self confidence is a state of mind. It is an attitude,
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  Speaker 13: and as an attitude, it is more important than facts. However,
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  Speaker 13: it must be based on facts to be the kind
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  Speaker 13: of self confidence you can rely on in a crunch.
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  Speaker 13: Your job is to do whatever it takes to convince
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  Speaker 13: yourself in your heart that you are absolutely unstoppable and
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  Speaker 13: that you can achieve anything that you put your mind to.
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  Speaker 13: If Self confidence is an attitude of mind. It is
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  Speaker 13: based on mental principles and mental laws, foremost of which
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  Speaker 13: is thought is creative. You are not what you think
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  Speaker 13: you are, but what you think you are. As you
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  Speaker 13: systematically and deliberately change your thinking about yourself, your outer
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  Speaker 13: reality changes to conform with it. Your thoughts create your life,
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  Speaker 13: including and especially your thoughts with regard to your feelings
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  Speaker 13: of self confidence. The reason that goals are so important
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  Speaker 13: is because of these mental laws, the consequences of which
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  Speaker 13: are inevitable and inescapable. You are happy and successful to
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  Speaker 13: the degree to which you conform your life and your
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  Speaker 13: thinking to these laws and live in harmony with them.
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  Speaker 13: The first law, which we have already discussed, is the
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  Speaker 13: law of cause and effect. This law is so simple
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  Speaker 13: and powerful that you need to remind yourself of it
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  Speaker 13: all the time. Everything that happens in your life, success
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  Speaker 13: or failure, wealth or poverty, health or illness, happiness or unhappy, happiness,
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  Speaker 13: self confidence or insecurity, are all subject to this law.
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  Speaker 13: The Bible teaches this basic law as the principle of
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  Speaker 13: sowing and reaping.
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  Speaker 1: It says that whatsoever a man.
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  Speaker 13: Soweth, that also shall he reap This especially refers to
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  Speaker 13: the thoughts you think. If you sow positive, optimistic, uplifting
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  Speaker 13: thoughts in your mind, you will reap positive, optimistic, uplifting
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  Speaker 13: events and experiences in your life. It cannot be otherwise.
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  Speaker 13: If you sew clear goals and objectives in your mind,
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  Speaker 13: you will reap clear results and rewards in your outer life.
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  Speaker 11: Every time you reach the next level, you grow, and
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  Speaker 11: every time you grow, your potential changes. After you conquer
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  Speaker 11: that challenge, you discover that what you are now capable
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  Speaker 11: of has changed. You have more strength to conquer higher mountains.
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  Speaker 11: If you are going to reach your true potential, you
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  Speaker 11: have much bigger challenges to face. There's an unlimited amount
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  Speaker 11: of mountains to climb because your growth is unlimited. And
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  Speaker 11: because your growth is unlimited, that means your potential is
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  Speaker 11: also unlimited. It's never ending, a never ending journey of
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  Speaker 11: growth and expansion.
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  Speaker 1: Your growth is unlimited in every area.
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  Speaker 11: What can I do now to make those changes so
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  Speaker 11: I can reach the next level in my health because
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  Speaker 11: the new energy I will get from better health is
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  Speaker 11: going to help me get to the next level in
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  Speaker 11: other areas as well. What can I learn or commit
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  Speaker 11: to now to make that area of my life better.
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  Speaker 11: Can my mental health and self image be better? What
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  Speaker 11: can I work on every day to make sure my
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  Speaker 11: inner talk and sense of self is better? Because the
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  Speaker 11: better I feel about me, the better I am going
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  Speaker 11: to show up in this world. When I get to
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  Speaker 11: the end of my life. I want to know for
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  Speaker 11: sure I left nothing on the table. I want to
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  Speaker 11: know I gave my heart and soul to reach my
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  Speaker 11: truest potential.
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  Speaker 7: I want to know I did all I.
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  Speaker 11: Could to carve out the greatest version of me. No regrets.
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  Speaker 11: That's what it's about, having zero regrets. And you can
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  Speaker 11: only have no regrets if you gave every ounce of
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  Speaker 11: your soul while you were alive on this planet. Every
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  Speaker 11: area can be mastered, So I am going to master
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  Speaker 11: every area. What's the point in having one piece of
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  Speaker 11: the pie. I'm cooking the whole thing. So I'm going
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  Speaker 11: to enjoy the whole thing, piece by piece until my
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  Speaker 11: soul is full. And it will never be full until
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  Speaker 11: the end of my life when I look in the
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  Speaker 11: mirror and can say honestly, I gave everything to be
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  Speaker 11: my very best and I'm proud of who I have become.
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  Speaker 11: Until that day, I will not stop. I want to
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  Speaker 11: know what my life would be like if I just
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  Speaker 11: gave everything I have for my goals and dreams, not
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  Speaker 11: just one day every day.
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  Speaker 1: What if I got better every.
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  Speaker 11: Day, not just one day, a new piece of knowledge
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  Speaker 11: I could use to benefit my future? How great could
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  Speaker 11: I become? Ask yourself that question? How great could I become?
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  Speaker 11: What areas of my life could be the very best
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  Speaker 11: they have ever been? What could I commit to right
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  Speaker 11: now to make absolutely sure I am pushing for my
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  Speaker 11: highest potential. I want you to make that commitment today.
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  Speaker 11: Do whatever you must do to ensure you get to
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  Speaker 11: the end with no regrets.