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- 0:08Speaker 1: School of Humans.
- 0:13Speaker 2: In the winter of twenty eleven, something was very wrong
- 0:17Speaker 2: with fifty seven year old Robert Wayne Cox. Robert had
- 0:21Speaker 2: always been healthy and athletic. According to his sister Lydia,
- 0:26Speaker 2: Robert was basically happiest when he was at home. He
- 0:29Speaker 2: lived on a thirty five acre plot of land in Havan, Arkansas,
- 0:33Speaker 2: a tiny town where the population hovers between three and
- 0:36Speaker 2: four hundred people.
- 0:38Speaker 1: Robert was a homebody.
- 0:40Speaker 2: He loved hanging out with his family and also, according
- 0:44Speaker 2: to his sister, he loved messing around with old cars,
- 0:47Speaker 2: restoring them and doing construction projects. He actually helped build
- 0:52Speaker 2: the log cabin that was on his property. He was
- 0:55Speaker 2: very proud of that accomplishment. Robert was happily married. He
- 0:59Speaker 2: had been with his wife, Vicki for over twenty years.
- 1:02Speaker 2: She had two children. Robert also had a son named
- 1:06Speaker 2: Brian from a previous marriage. Robert's father, Jean, lived in
- 1:10Speaker 2: a home he had built on the property back in
- 1:12Speaker 2: two thousand and six, and his sister Lydia lived just
- 1:16Speaker 2: down the road. For a long time, Robert Cox had
- 1:21Speaker 2: a very happy and settled life. But in twenty ten,
- 1:25Speaker 2: something started happening to Robert Cox. There was a very
- 1:29Speaker 2: rapid physical deterioration, and by the fall of twenty ten,
- 1:34Speaker 2: Robert couldn't really walk. His chin dropped down to his chest.
- 1:38Speaker 2: He became completely nonverbal. His sister, Lydia, was terrified by
- 1:44Speaker 2: what was happening to her brother. She took him to
- 1:47Speaker 2: doctor after doctor trying to find answers. Then, on February nineteenth,
- 1:52Speaker 2: twenty eleven, Robert Wayne Cox disappeared without a trace. He
- 1:58Speaker 2: has never been seen again. I'm Catherine Townsend. This is
- 2:03Speaker 2: Helen Gone Murder Line. If you have a case you'd
- 2:07Speaker 2: like me and my team to look into, you can
- 2:09Speaker 2: reach out to us at our Helen Gone Murder Line
- 2:11Speaker 2: at six seven eight seven four four six one four five.
- 2:16Speaker 2: That's six seven eight seven four four six one four
- 2:20Speaker 2: or five. When we asked for people to reach out
- 3:09Speaker 2: and to leave voicemails about unsald murders, I knew that
- 3:13Speaker 2: we would get a big response. I didn't quite understand
- 3:15Speaker 2: how tremendous the response would be. I got seven voicemails
- 3:19Speaker 2: about Robert Cox's case. Seven different people reached out to me,
- 3:24Speaker 2: either on our murder line or on my personal number
- 3:27Speaker 2: or via Facebook to tell me about this missing person's case.
- 3:31Speaker 2: There are so many people in Arkansas and everywhere around
- 3:34Speaker 2: the country who cared deeply about this case. One of
- 3:38Speaker 2: those calls came from Robert Cox's sister, Lydia Cox Carter.
- 3:43Speaker 3: Hello, my name is Lydia Cox Carter. My brother has
- 3:48Speaker 3: been missing, possibly murdered for the last twelve and a
- 3:52Speaker 3: half years. I have struggled with law enforcement like nobody's business. Uh,
- 3:59Speaker 3: there has never been a proper investigation done. I believe
- 4:03Speaker 3: there is family involvement, the wife, his own son, and
- 4:08Speaker 3: step kids. He was on hospice at the time of
- 4:12Speaker 3: his supposed disappearance. We are in Havana, Arkansas, which is
- 4:19Speaker 3: Yale County, and the new sheriff that we have now
- 4:23Speaker 3: that come into office this year, he has opened up
- 4:27Speaker 3: my brother's case to outside agencies.
- 4:31Speaker 2: Over the years, Lydia has been her brother's biggest champion,
- 4:35Speaker 2: and she has fought ever since the day he disappeared
- 4:38Speaker 2: to get answers and to figure out what happened to
- 4:41Speaker 2: her brother. Robert Wayne Cox was born and raised in California.
- 4:46Speaker 1: In nineteen eighty seven, he moved to Arkansas.
- 4:49Speaker 2: He went to work for the county Road Department and
- 4:51Speaker 2: became a road foreman, a job he would have for
- 4:54Speaker 2: the next fifteen years. Robert married and he and his
- 4:57Speaker 2: first wife had a son named Brian. Eventually, the couple divorced,
- 5:01Speaker 2: and apparently it was acrimonious.
- 5:04Speaker 1: In fact, according to Lydia, Robert's.
- 5:07Speaker 2: Ex wife hated him after the divorce, but Lydia said
- 5:10Speaker 2: that Robert always maintained a close relationship with his son Brian.
- 5:16Speaker 2: After the road form and job, Robert started working for
- 5:19Speaker 2: a close friend of his. This involved working with heavy equipment,
- 5:23Speaker 2: helping with cattle, and doing rural projects clearing trees for logging,
- 5:28Speaker 2: that kind of thing. This suited Robert because he loved
- 5:32Speaker 2: working outdoors. In the early nineties, Robert married again to Vicki.
- 5:38Speaker 2: Lydia moved back to the area in nineteen ninety five,
- 5:41Speaker 2: and she and Vicki became close friends.
- 5:43Speaker 4: Here's Lydia, Me and Herber liked best friends from the
- 5:47Speaker 4: get go. Yeah she was funny, she had a great
- 5:51Speaker 4: sense of humor. She fit in with our family. She
- 5:55Speaker 4: thought the sun rose and said on Robert Cox. She
- 5:58Speaker 4: was always with him every opportunity at that time. And yeah,
- 6:02Speaker 4: we used to go grocery shopping together. Yard sailing. We
- 6:06Speaker 4: drive to Kentucky to go see her daughter and her
- 6:08Speaker 4: little granddaughter. I mean we did everything together.
- 6:13Speaker 2: Vicki had two kids. Lydia said that they were all close.
- 6:17Speaker 2: The two sons went to high school together. They were
- 6:20Speaker 2: tight even after the boys grew up and moved out
- 6:23Speaker 2: of the house. Vicky worked as a supervisor for Levi.
- 6:28Speaker 2: Later she began working as a hairdresser. In two thousand
- 6:32Speaker 2: and six, Robert helped his father, Jean, build a home
- 6:35Speaker 2: on the property. For a long time, Robert's life was great.
- 6:40Speaker 2: He had a happy marriage, a happy, blended family, and
- 6:43Speaker 2: he was able to work outside doing what he loved.
- 6:46Speaker 1: But things started to change.
- 6:48Speaker 2: In two thousand and eight, there was a global recession,
- 6:52Speaker 2: so Robert's friend had to let Robert go. By now
- 6:56Speaker 2: Robert was in his mid fifties. He found himself out
- 6:59Speaker 2: of work and at a loose end. This hit Robert
- 7:03Speaker 2: hard Lydia said this was the beginning of his depression.
- 7:07Speaker 2: His mental health started to deteriorate. Now around this time,
- 7:12Speaker 2: Robert also started to fixate more on Vicki. He began
- 7:16Speaker 2: to suspect that Vicky was being unfaithful. At first, Lydia
- 7:21Speaker 2: said she thought Robert was being paranoid. She could not
- 7:24Speaker 2: imagine Vicky betraying her brother.
- 7:27Speaker 4: Toward the end of two thousand and nine, he started
- 7:30Speaker 4: in saying, telling me, you know that he felt like
- 7:34Speaker 4: Vicky was messing around Donnie. He'd been following her and stuff.
- 7:37Speaker 4: And I said, you're crazy. She ain't miss her hound,
- 7:40Speaker 4: don you And He's like, yes, she is, Yes she is.
- 7:45Speaker 4: At that point in time, I just never believed that
- 7:47Speaker 4: she was doing something like that. Now, whether she was
- 7:50Speaker 4: or not, I don't know.
- 7:51Speaker 2: When Vicky took a cruise with her family, Robert's extreme
- 7:55Speaker 2: anxiety increased. Vicky would leave the house, Robert would wonder
- 7:59Speaker 2: where she was and who she was with. Sometimes Robert
- 8:02Speaker 2: would get into his truck and follow Vicky. Throughout twenty ten,
- 8:07Speaker 2: things kept getting worse.
- 8:09Speaker 4: He got very I guess you could say, kind of
- 8:12Speaker 4: clingy with her. And then he started driving back and forth. See,
- 8:17Speaker 4: we live almost thirty miles from here to Russellville where
- 8:21Speaker 4: she was working, and he'd drive over there, sometimes two, three,
- 8:26Speaker 4: four times a day just to make sure she was
- 8:28Speaker 4: at work because he just knew that she was messing
- 8:30Speaker 4: around on him. So there was also something, you know,
- 8:34Speaker 4: I guess mental going on, I don't know.
- 8:38Speaker 2: Later in twenty ten, as things were continuing to escalate,
- 8:42Speaker 2: that's when the physical symptoms started. Lyddy and her dad
- 8:46Speaker 2: drove Robert to different doctors. They put him on several
- 8:49Speaker 2: different medications, Zoloft first and then some other drugs, but
- 8:54Speaker 2: he was experiencing some negative side effects from the medication.
- 8:58Speaker 4: I believe it was zoloft, and when he was on that,
- 9:03Speaker 4: he started hallucinating. He'd look out into the field and
- 9:08Speaker 4: he'd say, you see that bear or that lying down
- 9:10Speaker 4: there or something like that. And then at one point
- 9:14Speaker 4: he got to where they had him on a psychiatric drug,
- 9:19Speaker 4: and he would think that he would see my mom
- 9:24Speaker 4: or our mom's deceased and our oldest brother is deceased.
- 9:29Speaker 4: He would think that he would see them down in
- 9:31Speaker 4: my dad's vehicles, sitting in the vehicle. So he would
- 9:34Speaker 4: take like a blanket or a jacket, or a bowl
- 9:37Speaker 4: of soup or something down there because he thought he
- 9:39Speaker 4: was seeing them sitting in there.
- 9:41Speaker 2: The doctors took him off the drugs and his hallucinations
- 9:44Speaker 2: went away, but his paranoia remained. Lydia was frustrated. She
- 9:50Speaker 2: thought that Vicki didn't seem to be worried enough about
- 9:53Speaker 2: Robert's rapid physical and mental deterioration. Lydia said she wanted
- 9:58Speaker 2: her brother to go to the doctor to be tested
- 10:00Speaker 2: for dementia. He did see a couple of different doctors.
- 10:06Speaker 2: One doctor said it was possible that Robert could have
- 10:09Speaker 2: frontal lobe damage, but the doctor said they needed to
- 10:12Speaker 2: get a pet scan in order to get a more
- 10:14Speaker 2: definite diagnosis.
- 10:16Speaker 1: But there was a hitch.
- 10:18Speaker 2: Robert didn't have health insurance because he had been out
- 10:20Speaker 2: of work for so long, and that pet scan would
- 10:23Speaker 2: cost four thousand dollars. Jean, Robert's father, said that he
- 10:28Speaker 2: would pay for the treatment, but Vicky refused, even when
- 10:32Speaker 2: Lydia claimed she told her sister in law that Vicky
- 10:35Speaker 2: would not have to pay Gene back. She claims that
- 10:38Speaker 2: Vicky just said no. Testing for dementia was scheduled, but
- 10:43Speaker 2: Robert never made it to the appointment. At this point,
- 10:47Speaker 2: Robert was also experiencing a lot of physical problems. I
- 10:51Speaker 2: saw a home video that Lydia is shared with a
- 10:55Speaker 2: local news station, and it really gives an idea of
- 10:58Speaker 2: how difficult it was for Robert to move around. We're
- 11:02Speaker 2: going to provide a link to that video in our
- 11:04Speaker 2: episode notes, and I really recommend that you check it
- 11:07Speaker 2: out because within a few months this man went from
- 11:11Speaker 2: being a vital, fifty something active guy who was in
- 11:15Speaker 2: shape to literally shuffling, barely moving forward. He looked like
- 11:21Speaker 2: a ninety year old man walking around. The difference is
- 11:24Speaker 2: extremely dramatic.
- 11:26Speaker 4: The last time that he was actually verbal was on
- 11:30Speaker 4: his birthday, which is September twenty eighth to twenty ten.
- 11:34Speaker 4: After that it was just downhill. After that, he was
- 11:37Speaker 4: having trouble swallowing, like eating whole foods and stuff like that.
- 11:43Speaker 4: So I started making his food purade. My dad went
- 11:48Speaker 4: and lotch you know, insurance stuff, and by Thanksgiving of
- 11:54Speaker 4: twenty ten, the head was dropping and by Christmas of
- 11:58Speaker 4: twenty ten, his chin was resting on his chest.
- 12:03Speaker 2: By December of twenty ten, ten were continuing to mount
- 12:06Speaker 2: between Vicky and Lydia. Then one day, Lydia got a
- 12:11Speaker 2: Facebook message that she said stopped her cold.
- 12:15Speaker 4: One night toward the end of December, Vicky sent me
- 12:19Speaker 4: a Facebook message told me that you know that she
- 12:23Speaker 4: had talked to the kids, and Brian's wife, Rebecca sent
- 12:29Speaker 4: Vicky a Facebook message and then Vicky shared it with me,
- 12:33Speaker 4: and Rebecca said, will go along with whatever y'all want
- 12:39Speaker 4: to do. But Robert told Brian that if he ever
- 12:43Speaker 4: got sick like his mom, he'd want Brian to kill him.
- 12:48Speaker 4: So I immediately printed that off. I don't know why
- 12:54Speaker 4: I did, but thank God that I did. And I'd
- 12:58Speaker 4: come back at Vicky and I said, who would even
- 13:02Speaker 4: talk or be thinking about that in a time like this,
- 13:07Speaker 4: And She's like, I know, She said, I don't know
- 13:10Speaker 4: what I would do without you if I didn't have
- 13:12Speaker 4: you help in me, because you know, Brian, once his
- 13:15Speaker 4: dad started getting sick, he just quit coming around as
- 13:17Speaker 4: much and stuff, and him and his dad was pretty tired.
- 13:21Speaker 4: And then after when all this took place, Brian come
- 13:27Speaker 4: out and he seen him a couple of times out
- 13:30Speaker 4: in a pasture across the road from his dad's house,
- 13:32Speaker 4: and then after that him and his wife just kind
- 13:35Speaker 4: of disappeared, and everybody was asking me, my husband and
- 13:38Speaker 4: other neighbors, like, where's Brian, Where's Brian? Why ain't Brian
- 13:41Speaker 4: out here? Because nobody's seen Brian.
- 13:43Speaker 2: Again, we're coming up to the day when Robert Cox
- 13:48Speaker 2: went missing in February of twenty eleven. But first I
- 13:53Speaker 2: want to take a step back here and talk about
- 13:56Speaker 2: this property that Robert and Vickie lived on, because understanding
- 13:59Speaker 2: that terrain is crucial to figuring out what happened to
- 14:03Speaker 2: Robert Cox. Robert and Bickie's home was on a thirty
- 14:07Speaker 2: five acre piece of land. Robert's father, Jean, had a
- 14:11Speaker 2: small house on that property on a three acre plot.
- 14:15Speaker 2: Lydia lived just about a mile away. There were a
- 14:18Speaker 2: couple of neighbors between them. The entire area around Robert
- 14:22Speaker 2: Cox's house was bordered with something called clearcut.
- 14:28Speaker 4: I don't know if you know what a clearcut is,
- 14:31Speaker 4: but they'll plant like a pine thicket and they let
- 14:35Speaker 4: them trees grow to about for about fifteen twenty years,
- 14:38Speaker 4: and then they'll come in and they'll clear cut it
- 14:42Speaker 4: and they take the biggest part of the tree and
- 14:44Speaker 4: then they delimit. So when a clearcut is done being cut,
- 14:50Speaker 4: it is very very rough ground and there is tree tops, branches,
- 14:57Speaker 4: you know, big holes where they pull the trees out
- 15:00Speaker 4: of the ground and all that stuff. I mean, it's
- 15:02Speaker 4: just a big mess.
- 15:05Speaker 2: In his week in state, Lydia explained there was no
- 15:09Speaker 2: way that Robert could have navigated that property by himself
- 15:13Speaker 2: because he would be in danger of falling. Also, Lydia said,
- 15:17Speaker 2: by the time her brother disappeared, he was not going
- 15:21Speaker 2: out by himself. Going out by himself would have been
- 15:23Speaker 2: completely out of character.
- 15:25Speaker 1: It would have been very dangerous for him.
- 15:27Speaker 2: The last time that Lydia saw her brother was on
- 15:30Speaker 2: Wednesday night, February sixteenth. On that evening, Vicky brought Robert
- 15:34Speaker 2: by Lydia's house. Lydia said the next couple of days
- 15:38Speaker 2: were pretty busy. Her dad Jean saw Robert, but she
- 15:42Speaker 2: didn't see him on Thursday or Friday. She and her
- 15:45Speaker 2: husband were getting ready to have company, and so she
- 15:48Speaker 2: was getting the house ready and just taking care of
- 15:50Speaker 2: a lot of things. So now we come to that
- 15:53Speaker 2: fateful day, Saturday, February nineteenth, twenty eleven, the day that
- 15:58Speaker 2: Robert went missing. Lydia took us through her memories of
- 16:02Speaker 2: that day, a day she says she relives over and over.
- 16:07Speaker 2: Her day started at around eight thirty. She called her dad,
- 16:10Speaker 2: Jean to ask if he had breakfast yet. Jean told
- 16:13Speaker 2: her that he was planning on driving to chalk taw At,
- 16:15Speaker 2: nearby town. He was taking a drive to pick up
- 16:18Speaker 2: some wagon wheels that he had left there to be repaired.
- 16:21Speaker 2: This was Lydia's regular routine. By the way, she often
- 16:25Speaker 2: went to her brother's house at least once a day,
- 16:27Speaker 2: sometimes multiple times, in order to check on her elderly
- 16:30Speaker 2: father and her brother. Lydia told Jean he needed to
- 16:34Speaker 2: have something to eat, so at around eight thirty, her
- 16:37Speaker 2: dad stopped at her house to have a quick breakfast.
- 16:39Speaker 2: Then he left to run his errand Lydia spent the
- 16:43Speaker 2: rest of the morning cleaning her house, taking care of chores.
- 16:47Speaker 2: She was getting ready to have company. Then at twelve thirty,
- 16:51Speaker 2: Lydia said she realized that she hadn't checked in on
- 16:54Speaker 2: her brother yet, so she called her brother's house and
- 16:58Speaker 2: Vickie answered the phone.
- 17:01Speaker 4: So it was exactly twelve thirty two pm when I
- 17:04Speaker 4: made the call up there. She answered the phone, and
- 17:09Speaker 4: I said, what are y'all doing? She said, well, Angie's
- 17:13Speaker 4: painting my toe nails and doing laundry. And she said Shelby,
- 17:18Speaker 4: the granddaughter, was doing something. She may have been outside
- 17:21Speaker 4: riding before will or something, I don't know, I don't remember.
- 17:24Speaker 4: And then I said, well, what's brother doing? She said, well,
- 17:28Speaker 4: I don't know. She said, he was in here pulling
- 17:31Speaker 4: on my arm. But he's been gone for about ten minutes.
- 17:35Speaker 4: And I said, well, don't you think you need to
- 17:37Speaker 4: send somebody outside to make sure he's okay? Because I
- 17:40Speaker 4: wasn't worried about him wandering off because he was very homebody.
- 17:44Speaker 4: He was either in and out of his house or
- 17:47Speaker 4: walking from his house to my dad's house. And so
- 17:53Speaker 4: she told Shelby, the granddaughter, she said, go outside and
- 17:56Speaker 4: see if you see or papaw. When I heard her
- 17:58Speaker 4: go out the door, heard her stand on the porch,
- 18:02Speaker 4: called Papa, pappaw a few times. Come back in. She said, no,
- 18:05Speaker 4: I don't see him. Vicky said, well, when my toenails dry,
- 18:11Speaker 4: she said, I'll slip my shoes on and I'll go
- 18:13Speaker 4: outside and see where he's at. And I said, no,
- 18:16Speaker 4: you get off your ass now and you go outside
- 18:19Speaker 4: and see where he's at. She said, okay, okay, and
- 18:22Speaker 4: I said, keep me on the phone. They supposedly went outside,
- 18:26Speaker 4: looked around the yard. She's like, I don't see him anywhere.
- 18:30Speaker 4: I'm telling her places to look, and I said, make
- 18:33Speaker 4: sure he's not in the garage, make sure he's not
- 18:35Speaker 4: in the storage shed, and then next to his garage
- 18:39Speaker 4: there was a gap, and I said, well, go in
- 18:42Speaker 4: that gap and make sure he's not behind one of
- 18:44Speaker 4: those buildings. She supposedly did that, and she said, oh, yeah,
- 18:50Speaker 4: I see him. He's almost to the road. I'm going
- 18:54Speaker 4: to go get my keys and get my car out
- 18:57Speaker 4: of the garage and go up on the road and
- 18:59Speaker 4: pick him up. So we hung up. I went running
- 19:04Speaker 4: out to the shop where my husband was working, told
- 19:08Speaker 4: him what was going on. And I told him, I said,
- 19:10Speaker 4: I swear to God, she's going to wind up killing
- 19:12Speaker 4: my brother or losing him. And I said, I'm fixing
- 19:15Speaker 4: to whip out that power of attorney and take him
- 19:17Speaker 4: away from her and bring him down here. And he's like, well,
- 19:22Speaker 4: whatever you want to do, we'll do it. So I
- 19:25Speaker 4: come back in the house. I start doing my chores
- 19:28Speaker 4: again because I'm thinking everything's okay. So about thirty minutes later,
- 19:36Speaker 4: I hear my cell phone telling me I had a voicemail.
- 19:40Speaker 4: So I pick up the voicemail. She says, well, we
- 19:44Speaker 4: can't find Rob and hung up. That's all she said.
- 19:50Speaker 4: So I go running out back out to the shop.
- 19:53Speaker 4: I told my husband. I said apparently they've lost him.
- 19:57Speaker 4: Get on your quad head that way. I'm going to
- 19:59Speaker 4: get my horse. I'll be there as quick as I can.
- 20:03Speaker 2: Lydia jumped on her horse and rode toward Robert's house
- 20:06Speaker 2: as fast as she could. Her husband jumped on his
- 20:09Speaker 2: squad bike. It had rained recently in the area, so
- 20:13Speaker 2: that ground was saturated. Lydia said that her horse was
- 20:17Speaker 2: getting bogged down in that mud, so the area, which
- 20:20Speaker 2: was tough to navigate on the best of days, became
- 20:23Speaker 2: almost impossible. Lydia saw a neighbor, Bob, approaching from the
- 20:27Speaker 2: north side of the clearcut. Lydia talked to Bob and
- 20:30Speaker 2: found out that Vicky had been to Bob's house. Now
- 20:34Speaker 2: it's unclear whether she actually talked to Bob, Lydia says
- 20:37Speaker 2: she believes that Vicky went to the house, didn't see him,
- 20:41Speaker 2: and then called and left him a message. Anyway, somehow
- 20:44Speaker 2: Bob got the message, so by the time Lydia got
- 20:47Speaker 2: to Robert's house, several people were already there looking for him. Bob,
- 20:53Speaker 2: another neighbor named Don Angela, her daughter, Shelby, and Vicky,
- 20:57Speaker 2: plus the local mail carrier. By that night, there were
- 21:01Speaker 2: over one hundred volunteers scouring the woods looking for Robert,
- 21:05Speaker 2: literally more than a third of the town. A friend
- 21:08Speaker 2: who had a private plane went up in the air
- 21:10Speaker 2: and flew around all afternoon. He found no sign of Robert.
- 21:15Speaker 2: Lydia said law enforcement showed up, and from the beginning
- 21:19Speaker 2: her relationship with the Yale County Sheriff's Department was pretty strained.
- 21:24Speaker 4: She said.
- 21:24Speaker 2: The local sheriff's department was really unprepared for a missing
- 21:28Speaker 2: person's case like this. Lydia admits she was frustrated by
- 21:31Speaker 2: some of their decisions, like the fact that they set
- 21:34Speaker 2: up their command post a quarter of a mile away.
- 21:37Speaker 2: Lydia wanted to know why they weren't setting it up
- 21:39Speaker 2: closer to home, and why they weren't questioning Robert's family
- 21:43Speaker 2: members already. Lydia was questioning aspects of Vicky's story. First
- 21:49Speaker 2: of all, she wondered, how could her brother, who had
- 21:51Speaker 2: difficulty walking a few steps, somehow walk hundreds of yards
- 21:56Speaker 2: to the edge of that clear cut and disappear within
- 21:58Speaker 2: just a few minutes. Secondly, Lydia thought it was strange
- 22:02Speaker 2: that Vicky went to see a neighbor, but that it
- 22:05Speaker 2: was it's the neighbor's son who actually called the police.
- 22:08Speaker 2: Her brother was vulnerable, why hadn't Vicky called nine to
- 22:12Speaker 2: one one? Then Lydia noticed something else. When she was
- 22:18Speaker 2: talking to their neighbor Don Don, was describing his attempt
- 22:22Speaker 2: to recreate the scene with Vicky. Don asked Vicky exactly
- 22:26Speaker 2: where she was standing when she was talking to Lyddy
- 22:29Speaker 2: on the phone and where Robert was standing. Lydia said
- 22:32Speaker 2: that from where Vicky said she was talking on the phone,
- 22:36Speaker 2: she could not have seen Robert through the dense brush.
- 22:39Speaker 4: So when my neighbor Don first got up there, he
- 22:42Speaker 4: was the first one there and he asked her, He said,
- 22:46Speaker 4: show me exactly where you last seen Rob. And she
- 22:50Speaker 4: took him down there and showed him and said right here.
- 22:53Speaker 4: And he said when he got down there, there were
- 22:56Speaker 4: no footprints whatsoever. And then when my neighbor Bob come
- 23:01Speaker 4: riding up on his horse, he come right along that
- 23:04Speaker 4: edge there next to my brother's property where she claimed
- 23:08Speaker 4: she had seen him. And Bob yelled from in the
- 23:11Speaker 4: clearcut up to the road. Who's got stars on the
- 23:14Speaker 4: bottom of their shoes? She says, I do. She had
- 23:19Speaker 4: on a pair of shoes that apparently had stars on
- 23:21Speaker 4: the bottom of them.
- 23:23Speaker 2: Remember, it had rain recently, which means that anyone walking
- 23:26Speaker 2: out there would presumably leave fairly deep footprints. Yet the
- 23:31Speaker 2: only footprints the neighbor found in that area, according to Lydia,
- 23:34Speaker 2: were Vickie's. I asked Lydia if law enforcement took pictures
- 23:38Speaker 2: of those footprints. Her response was telling.
- 23:42Speaker 4: Who law enforcements? Yeah, they done nothing. No, man, they
- 23:48Speaker 4: did not.
- 23:50Speaker 2: No.
- 23:51Speaker 4: I don't even know if law enforcement was even in
- 23:54Speaker 4: that clearcut.
- 23:56Speaker 2: The Yale County Sheriff's Department kept searching. The state police
- 23:59Speaker 2: came in at around ten pm that night. They brought
- 24:02Speaker 2: bloodhounds and volunteers and they did search everywhere. They went
- 24:06Speaker 2: through fields, barns, cars, abandoned wells, sinkholes, and anywhere else
- 24:11Speaker 2: they could think of.
- 24:12Speaker 1: But they found no trace of Robert. But the dogs
- 24:17Speaker 1: did alert on the property.
- 24:19Speaker 4: Dog handler come in and she said, well, my dog
- 24:23Speaker 4: trackeding north along the edge of the clear cut and
- 24:27Speaker 4: then out east part way across the clear cut. I
- 24:31Speaker 4: told her, I said, there ain't no way. Then she
- 24:34Speaker 4: said they tracked him, you know, out in the yard
- 24:38Speaker 4: and then up the driveway to the end of the
- 24:41Speaker 4: driveway and then the dog lost sin. So then that's
- 24:45Speaker 4: when the theory come in. Well, somebody must have drove
- 24:48Speaker 4: by and picked him up.
- 24:50Speaker 2: This seemed far fetched to Lydia. Lydia said that a
- 24:55Speaker 2: strange car going unnoticed would have been very strange in
- 24:59Speaker 2: their neighborhood. This was a place where everyone knew everyone.
- 25:03Speaker 2: They knew when the trash truck came in and when
- 25:05Speaker 2: it left, So the idea that someone could have driven
- 25:08Speaker 2: by and picked Robert up at that exact time of
- 25:11Speaker 2: day during a five minute period is very implausible. Also,
- 25:16Speaker 2: if they did, what would their motive have been? When
- 25:20Speaker 2: he disappeared. Robert had nothing on him, no wallet, no medication.
- 25:25Speaker 2: What would their motive be for picking up and kidnapping
- 25:28Speaker 2: an elderly man in the middle of the afternoon. Lydia
- 25:32Speaker 2: said that at some point someone told her that the
- 25:35Speaker 2: first search dogs had been tired, so she called the
- 25:38Speaker 2: sheriff at the time. Sheriff guilty. She said she would
- 25:42Speaker 2: like to get fresher search dogs out there, and she
- 25:45Speaker 2: said he cussed her out, but the sheriff did relent
- 25:49Speaker 2: and agreed to send more dogs. When the second group
- 25:52Speaker 2: of dogs came to the area, they alerted in only
- 25:55Speaker 2: one place, the front door. Vicki told law enforcement that
- 26:00Speaker 2: when Robert left the house that day, he was wearing
- 26:02Speaker 2: gray tennis shoes, gray sweatpants, and a navy blue hoodie.
- 26:08Speaker 2: To Lydia, the clothing description was also a bit strange.
- 26:13Speaker 4: My brother dressed western boots, jeans, flannel shirts, T shirts,
- 26:19Speaker 4: you know, very simple in plain.
- 26:22Speaker 1: So a hoodie would have been a little out of character.
- 26:25Speaker 4: Very much out of character. I mean I never seen
- 26:27Speaker 4: him wear a hoodie, even when he was, you know, sick.
- 26:31Speaker 4: I mean, she was still putting his T shirts on
- 26:34Speaker 4: and then putting a flannel on, you know, over the
- 26:37Speaker 4: T shirts, like he always did. I don't know where
- 26:39Speaker 4: the blue hoodie come from.
- 26:41Speaker 2: Could someone else have been walking around a hoodie, someone
- 26:44Speaker 2: who wanted to create the description that way in case
- 26:46Speaker 2: they were spotted from a distance. Lydia's mind came up
- 26:50Speaker 2: with many possibilities, but all of them, in her imagination,
- 26:54Speaker 2: ended with someone doing something unspeakable to her brother.
- 26:58Speaker 4: I got to the point to where I was following vultures,
- 27:02Speaker 4: you know, I'd see him circling out in the pasture,
- 27:04Speaker 4: and I'd follow him, and I'd get out and I'd
- 27:07Speaker 4: go look just to make sure, because you don't know.
- 27:09Speaker 4: At that point, it was hard for me to wrap
- 27:12Speaker 4: my mind around that somebody and my family could hurt
- 27:14Speaker 4: my brother. But it was kind of looking pretty iffy
- 27:20Speaker 4: that somebody very well could have done something to him.
- 27:24Speaker 2: But her conversations with law enforcement continue to be frustrating, since,
- 27:27Speaker 2: according to her, they did not seem to consider the
- 27:30Speaker 2: possibility of Robert being the victim of foul play.
- 27:34Speaker 4: Why ain't just setting up in his yard and questioning family, well,
- 27:38Speaker 4: because that's the last ones that supposedly seen him, But
- 27:40Speaker 4: they didn't. And they just kept coming up to me
- 27:45Speaker 4: and asking me different questions and about my brother. And
- 27:49Speaker 4: I'm like, you don't understand. I said, he ain't able
- 27:53Speaker 4: to navigate this. The man's chin was resting on his chest.
- 27:58Speaker 4: He was on hospice, and you know where's he gonna go.
- 28:02Speaker 4: He walked with a shuffled gate to disappear in five minutes,
- 28:07Speaker 4: and that's what she said. The timeline at was five minutes.
- 28:11Speaker 2: Lyndia was also wondering where her brother's son Brian was,
- 28:14Speaker 2: why he wasn't on social media posting why he wasn't
- 28:18Speaker 2: in her opinion, helping more with the search. Eventually, she
- 28:21Speaker 2: admits she suspected multiple people in the family may have
- 28:24Speaker 2: been aware, at least of what was going on. She
- 28:27Speaker 2: said that she really noticed that Vicky did not appear
- 28:31Speaker 2: to be that concerned about Robert.
- 28:34Speaker 4: She was out there talking and laughing with them and
- 28:37Speaker 4: carrying on. I don't know who it was. Could have
- 28:39Speaker 4: been somebody in her family, I don't know, because a
- 28:41Speaker 4: bunch of her family come home started flowing in after that.
- 28:46Speaker 4: Another person told me that she was outside in the
- 28:49Speaker 4: yard and there was people up there, you know, looking
- 28:51Speaker 4: all around the yard and around the house and everything,
- 28:54Speaker 4: and she's like, there's plenty of food and drink in here.
- 28:57Speaker 4: If you guys get hungry, thirsty, come on in, get
- 29:00Speaker 4: you whatever you want and whatever and stuff like that,
- 29:03Speaker 4: and just you know, nobody were seeing. The woman shed
- 29:06Speaker 4: a tear. I never seen her shed it here.
- 29:11Speaker 2: Also on Sunday, Lydia got another shock when she went
- 29:16Speaker 2: to her brother's house. She found hospice nurses there taking
- 29:20Speaker 2: her brother's things away. Robert had been missing less than
- 29:23Speaker 2: twenty four hours.
- 29:25Speaker 4: Sunday morning, she had Hospice out there and had them
- 29:29Speaker 4: come and pick up everything, the hospital bed, the bedside,
- 29:34Speaker 4: come ode, you know, just whatever they brought out, because
- 29:37Speaker 4: she said he wasn't coming back.
- 29:42Speaker 2: After Lydia saw the nurses taking Robert's things out of
- 29:45Speaker 2: his home only twenty four hours after he had gone missing,
- 29:48Speaker 2: she said the relationship between her and Vickie deteriorated fast.
- 29:53Speaker 2: Lydia had thought of Vicky as a sister, but Lydia
- 29:57Speaker 2: says they have not spoken since March of twenty eleven,
- 30:00Speaker 2: just a few weeks after her brother went missing. Lydia
- 30:04Speaker 2: also wondered about her suspicion started on Saturday night when
- 30:09Speaker 2: she asked Vicki about why Brian and his wife were
- 30:13Speaker 2: not out late searching for Robert.
- 30:16Speaker 4: I've seen her about ten o'clock and she said, well,
- 30:19Speaker 4: I finally heard from Brian. And I said, and she said, well,
- 30:24Speaker 4: they got wet and tired, so they went home and
- 30:28Speaker 4: took a shower and went to bed. And I said,
- 30:31Speaker 4: so your dad is missing, and he's a sick human being,
- 30:36Speaker 4: and you're wet and tired and you're going to go
- 30:38Speaker 4: to bed.
- 30:40Speaker 2: Lydia could not wrap her head around this. She had
- 30:42Speaker 2: always known Brian and her brother Robert to have a
- 30:45Speaker 2: very close relationship. She couldn't understand why, in her opinion,
- 30:49Speaker 2: Brian didn't seem to be more proactive about searching for
- 30:53Speaker 2: his father. However, as time went on, she kept thinking
- 30:58Speaker 2: back to that weird Facebook message, the one about a
- 31:01Speaker 2: mercy killing. She wondered, could Brian have known something about
- 31:05Speaker 2: what happened? Lydia says that after that, her relationship with
- 31:10Speaker 2: Brian also completely fell apart.
- 31:13Speaker 4: That following Monday, Brian was off work that day, so
- 31:18Speaker 4: I had gone that to Vicki's to my brother's house
- 31:24Speaker 4: to take care of the dogs. She had some goats
- 31:27Speaker 4: at that time and some chickens, so I went up
- 31:32Speaker 4: there to take care of them chores for her. And
- 31:35Speaker 4: when I come back around the front of the house,
- 31:37Speaker 4: Brian and his wife was there, and Brian had my
- 31:40Speaker 4: brother's quad in the yard and he was bent over
- 31:43Speaker 4: working on it, and I was talking to Becca. I
- 31:48Speaker 4: don't remember what we were saying, but anyways, I'm sure
- 31:51Speaker 4: something about what was going on. Brian never turned around
- 31:54Speaker 4: and looked at me, and I told him, I said, Brian,
- 31:58Speaker 4: I said, you know there's something wrong with this story, right,
- 32:01Speaker 4: I said, you know there is no way your dad
- 32:05Speaker 4: could have walked out in that clear cut and disappeared.
- 32:09Speaker 4: He said, well, we gotta go, he says, I got
- 32:11Speaker 4: to go to my friends. I don't remember why, but
- 32:16Speaker 4: they loaded up and left and night laid eyes on
- 32:18Speaker 4: that kid.
- 32:19Speaker 2: Since Later, her father Jean, went to Dan Bell where
- 32:23Speaker 2: Brian was working as a mechanic, and tried to talk
- 32:25Speaker 2: to him.
- 32:26Speaker 1: He also got the silent treatment.
- 32:29Speaker 4: After this all happened, my dad started going down there
- 32:32Speaker 4: trying to talk to Brian because my dad had a
- 32:35Speaker 4: good relationship with Brian too, and Brian wouldn't look at
- 32:40Speaker 4: my dad. He wouldn't talk to my dad. He would
- 32:43Speaker 4: just look through him, or look beside him, or drop
- 32:47Speaker 4: his head and just turn and walk away. So one
- 32:51Speaker 4: day he cornered him down there and he said, Brian,
- 32:53Speaker 4: he said, I don't know who did it, he said,
- 32:56Speaker 4: but somebody hurt my boy. And he says, and I'm
- 32:59Speaker 4: going to find out who it is.
- 33:01Speaker 2: Then, Lydia said, Vicky started replacing furniture in the back
- 33:05Speaker 2: bedroom where her brother had been sleeping.
- 33:08Speaker 4: That weekend after this whole mysterious disappearance thing. Vicky's replacing
- 33:16Speaker 4: bedroom furniture in the back bedroom. She even called me
- 33:22Speaker 4: down there and told me to come look at it.
- 33:23Speaker 4: After they got done with it. She said, oh, come
- 33:26Speaker 4: and look at the furniture I got from my brother.
- 33:29Speaker 4: And I'm thinking to myself, I'm not saying anything, but
- 33:31Speaker 4: I'm thinking to myself, why are you worried about changing
- 33:33Speaker 4: out furniture when your husband's missing? And then there was
- 33:38Speaker 4: some stuff back there. I don't know what they was burning.
- 33:40Speaker 4: I don't know if it's furniture or what. So, I
- 33:45Speaker 4: don't know. Just too many red flags for me. And
- 33:50Speaker 4: you know, law enforcement didn't seem to think that some
- 33:53Speaker 4: of that stuff wasn't pertinent. I don't know.
- 33:57Speaker 2: Lydia began to believe that her brother never made it
- 34:00Speaker 2: past the front door and that something had happened to
- 34:02Speaker 2: him inside the house. After a few days, the searches stopped,
- 34:08Speaker 2: the case went cold, and it became just part of
- 34:11Speaker 2: local legend the guy who lived there but disappeared one day,
- 34:15Speaker 2: but Lydia and her father could not forget a few
- 34:18Speaker 2: months after Robert's disappearance, they hired a private investigator named Donnie.
- 34:24Speaker 2: Donnie eventually built up a huge case file, and one
- 34:27Speaker 2: of the first mysteries that Donnie helped solve was why
- 34:30Speaker 2: he believes the search dogs alerted out near the clear cut.
- 34:34Speaker 4: There's a lot of things I wouldn't know if it
- 34:36Speaker 4: hadn't have been for the private investigator that come in
- 34:39Speaker 4: in June of twenty eleven. What I found out about
- 34:42Speaker 4: the dogs the state police dogs saying they tracked him,
- 34:48Speaker 4: you know, along the edge of the clearcutting out east.
- 34:52Speaker 4: And the reason they tracked him along the outside edge
- 34:56Speaker 4: of the yard next to the county road and out
- 34:58Speaker 4: to the driveway is because that night when this all
- 35:03Speaker 4: took place, or that day when this all took place,
- 35:06Speaker 4: Angela was wearing my brother's house shoes and the granddaughter
- 35:10Speaker 4: had on my brother's muck boots. So that's why the
- 35:14Speaker 4: dogs tracked where they tracked, because those kids had my
- 35:17Speaker 4: brother's shoes.
- 35:18Speaker 2: Un this would seem to be a major discovery because
- 35:22Speaker 2: presumably the police based their theory that Robert could have
- 35:25Speaker 2: been picked up at that road edge largely on where
- 35:28Speaker 2: those first dogs alerted.
- 35:30Speaker 1: Did he talk to them? Did he talk to Angela
- 35:32Speaker 1: and the granddaughter?
- 35:34Speaker 4: Yes? And there's conflicting statements with Angie and Vicky, because
- 35:40Speaker 4: Angie's statement says there's no way Robert could have been
- 35:44Speaker 4: in that clear cut, and there's no way he could
- 35:47Speaker 4: have made it out of the clear cut up onto
- 35:49Speaker 4: the county road. And she's correct because it was wet,
- 35:54Speaker 4: muddy and slick, and it's a four foot incline from
- 35:58Speaker 4: coming out of the clearcut up to the county road.
- 36:01Speaker 4: But yet her mother says he was in the clearcut,
- 36:05Speaker 4: appeared within five minutes, and there's nowhere to go.
- 36:11Speaker 2: Donnie, the PI discovered something else, something else, he says,
- 36:15Speaker 2: the police missed. He said the police never asked Vicky
- 36:20Speaker 2: about insurance policies that she had on her husband. Lyddy
- 36:23Speaker 2: explained that Vicky had a life insurance policy on Robert
- 36:27Speaker 2: and that she found out later Vicky had made some
- 36:29Speaker 2: changes as a little.
- 36:31Speaker 4: Bit of time goes on. He asked her, he said,
- 36:35Speaker 4: did the police, state police, or the sheriff ever ask
- 36:39Speaker 4: you if you had any kind of life insurance policies,
- 36:42Speaker 4: burial policies or anything like that. She said no. He said, well,
- 36:48Speaker 4: he said, do you have any insurance policies and she said, yeah,
- 36:51Speaker 4: I have a burial policy in an accident policy. And
- 36:54Speaker 4: he said, well, I'll need copies of those. He said,
- 36:56Speaker 4: that way, if something comes up, I'll be able to
- 36:59Speaker 4: help you out with it. She said, well, I kind
- 37:04Speaker 4: of might have messed up. He said, what do you mean.
- 37:08Speaker 4: She said, well, that accident policy, she said, I increased
- 37:11Speaker 4: it after Robert disappeared. So what it was is it
- 37:16Speaker 4: was a accident policy like you get from banks if
- 37:20Speaker 4: you lose a limb or eye or something, or you
- 37:24Speaker 4: get accidentally killed. So what she did was is it
- 37:28Speaker 4: was that fifty thousand, and she increased it to two
- 37:31Speaker 4: hundred or two hundred and fifty thousand, and then she
- 37:35Speaker 4: made her son Carl the beneficiary on that policy. Bran, yes,
- 37:42Speaker 4: her son, not Brian, her son. So that's a big
- 37:47Speaker 4: red flag. Why would you increase a policy after your
- 37:51Speaker 4: husband disappears.
- 37:54Speaker 2: In August of twenty eleven, Lydia said Vicky got rid
- 37:58Speaker 2: of the rest of her brother's clothes. That was also
- 38:01Speaker 2: around the time when Vicky took off her wedding ring.
- 38:04Speaker 2: The following year, Vicky was moving on, Vicky met George Keith.
- 38:10Speaker 2: Vicky and George started dating. They wanted to get married,
- 38:13Speaker 2: but there was one problem. Robert had not been legally
- 38:17Speaker 2: declared dead, and Lydia still had her brother's power of attorney,
- 38:21Speaker 2: which he had given her in two thousand and nine.
- 38:24Speaker 2: In July twenty twelve, Vicki petitioned the court to have
- 38:28Speaker 2: Robert declared dead, which they did. After Robert was legally
- 38:33Speaker 2: declared dead in twenty thirteen, Vicky and George were married.
- 38:38Speaker 2: I want to point out, and this is really important.
- 38:40Speaker 2: Over the years, Lydia and Vicki have obviously clashed. At
- 38:44Speaker 2: one point, Lydia was talking to local reporters and went
- 38:48Speaker 2: to the property.
- 38:49Speaker 1: Vicki told the reporters to get off her property.
- 38:52Speaker 2: Now, I'm sure that Vicky has a completely different story
- 38:56Speaker 2: to tell. I'm sure there's a whole other side of
- 38:58Speaker 2: that story. I have reached out to her for comment
- 39:01Speaker 2: and she's not replied. I've also reached out to Ryan.
- 39:06Speaker 2: I would love to talk to them because I really
- 39:09Speaker 2: do believe that it's only by piecing everything together we're
- 39:11Speaker 2: going to be able to find out what happened to
- 39:13Speaker 2: Robert Cox. Vicky has never been named as a suspect.
- 39:17Speaker 2: She did pass a lie detector test, She's never been
- 39:20Speaker 2: charged with anything and never to my knowledge, been a
- 39:22Speaker 2: suspect in her husband's appearance. Over the years, Lydia and
- 39:27Speaker 2: Vicky went to court several times. The judge mainly sided
- 39:31Speaker 2: with Vicky. Vicky ended up with Robert's property, but Robert's father, Gene,
- 39:37Speaker 2: was allowed to live in his house for the rest
- 39:39Speaker 2: of his life. Now, I can only imagine the tension
- 39:43Speaker 2: that must have been present at that property, because can
- 39:46Speaker 2: you imagine living on the property with your former father
- 39:51Speaker 2: in law, the father in law who suspects that you
- 39:55Speaker 2: have killed his son, and having to see him every day.
- 39:58Speaker 2: I cannot imagine what that must have been like for
- 40:00Speaker 2: any of those people. Over the years, Lydia reached out
- 40:03Speaker 2: to everyone she could think of. She called the Attorney General,
- 40:06Speaker 2: she posted on social media. She called the FBI and
- 40:10Speaker 2: true crime shows, including Nancy Grace, anyone who could help
- 40:14Speaker 2: her get answers.
- 40:15Speaker 4: And I said, and believe me, I am not here
- 40:18Speaker 4: to make enemies with you guys. But it's not your
- 40:22Speaker 4: loved one. It's not in your backyard, I said, it's mine.
- 40:27Speaker 4: I said. When you lay your head on your pillow
- 40:28Speaker 4: at night, you know where your people are. You know
- 40:32Speaker 4: where your family is. I said, I know where most
- 40:35Speaker 4: of mine are, living or dead. I know where they are,
- 40:39Speaker 4: I said, But Robert Cox, I have no clue, and
- 40:43Speaker 4: I said in Robert Cox, you got five suspects that
- 40:48Speaker 4: are just running them up, and not one person has
- 40:53Speaker 4: ever ever brought them in and investigated, interrogated, I said nothing.
- 41:02Speaker 2: In twenty fifteen, Lydia talked to a local Fox News.
- 41:06Speaker 2: This time it was a two part special. The reporter
- 41:10Speaker 2: went out to the property and climbed through the clear
- 41:12Speaker 2: cut and you can really see what hard and rough
- 41:15Speaker 2: terrain that is and how hard it would have been
- 41:18Speaker 2: for an elderly man byll these physical challenges to navigate it.
- 41:22Speaker 2: At the time, Robert's father, Jean, told the reporter he
- 41:25Speaker 2: thought of his missing son every single day. He said, quote,
- 41:29Speaker 2: I get up at night and I go out and
- 41:31Speaker 2: look he comes to me in my dreams end quote. Eventually,
- 41:37Speaker 2: Lydia got a meeting with the prosecutor. She said she
- 41:40Speaker 2: was underwhelmed by his response. When I was talking to
- 41:43Speaker 2: Lydia about her meeting with the prosecutor, I had to
- 41:46Speaker 2: ask her about something I heard her say to another
- 41:48Speaker 2: media outlet. She said the prosecutor told her that unless
- 41:52Speaker 2: they had a body and a confession, that they couldn't prosecute.
- 41:57Speaker 2: I thought, I misheard or maybe she misspoke, because to
- 42:01Speaker 2: me that was unbelievable, but she said that's exactly what happened.
- 42:06Speaker 4: So we just sat there and we started asking questions
- 42:08Speaker 4: of the private detective was there, and I had my
- 42:12Speaker 4: state rep and then an attorney from the Attorney General's
- 42:16Speaker 4: office there, and then he's like, well, there's nothing I
- 42:19Speaker 4: can do for you. He says, you'll have to go
- 42:21Speaker 4: over to the sheriff's office and hash it out with them.
- 42:24Speaker 2: At that point, law enforcement did take action. They took
- 42:28Speaker 2: Lydia and her dad in and they separately questioned them.
- 42:31Speaker 2: They gave Lydia a lit detector test, which she passed. Again,
- 42:36Speaker 2: I should mention Vicky did eventually take a polygraph test.
- 42:39Speaker 2: Lydia said that she talked to VICKI after Vicky took
- 42:42Speaker 2: the test, and that Vicky was talking about taking xanax.
- 42:46Speaker 2: So Lydia believes that the xanacts that Vicky took could
- 42:50Speaker 2: have influenced the test, But it's important to mention that
- 42:52Speaker 2: she did pass the polygraph. The police department considers this
- 42:56Speaker 2: an open investigation, so they aren't revealing any details. In
- 43:01Speaker 2: twenty twenty three, a new sheriff took over, he said
- 43:04Speaker 2: he was going to have an open door policy. Lydia
- 43:07Speaker 2: said she has a good relationship with the new sheriff
- 43:10Speaker 2: and that the new sheriff has said that he would
- 43:13Speaker 2: open the case back up and be open to outside help.
- 43:16Speaker 2: And I just want to say to the Yale County
- 43:18Speaker 2: Sheriff's Department and to the Arkansas State Police, if you
- 43:22Speaker 2: do want my help in any way, I would be
- 43:26Speaker 2: more than happy to put time and work into this
- 43:29Speaker 2: case if you're willing to share any part of the
- 43:30Speaker 2: case file. Eventually, Vicky sold the house where she had
- 43:34Speaker 2: been living with Robert, the one that he built with
- 43:37Speaker 2: his bare hands. She and her new husband moved to Russellville.
- 43:40Speaker 2: For years, Robert's former house sat there empty. The house
- 43:45Speaker 2: was sold to someone in another state, and now it's
- 43:47Speaker 2: rented out as an airbnb. Jean passed away and tragically
- 43:53Speaker 2: he died, never knowing what happened to his son. After
- 43:57Speaker 2: he died, Vicky's daughter, Angela and her husband moved into
- 44:01Speaker 2: Jean's former home, and meanwhile, Lydia still lives in the
- 44:04Speaker 2: same house near her brother's property, so she has to
- 44:08Speaker 2: drive by the place where her brother disappeared and look
- 44:11Speaker 2: at some of the people who she believes may have
- 44:13Speaker 2: had a pardon it, or at least know what happened
- 44:16Speaker 2: every single day. According to the Yale County Sheriff's Department,
- 44:23Speaker 2: the case is still active. They told Fox News back
- 44:27Speaker 2: in twenty fifteen. Quote we wish that we could share
- 44:30Speaker 2: more information, but since this is a complex, active investigation
- 44:34Speaker 2: into an incident which occurred under suspicious circumstances, we have
- 44:37Speaker 2: to consider all possibilities and maintain the integrity of the
- 44:40Speaker 2: investigation end quote.
- 44:43Speaker 1: So what really happened to Robert Cox? I agree with Lydia.
- 44:47Speaker 2: I think it's incredibly unlikely, if not impossible, that he
- 44:50Speaker 2: was out walking randomly by himself and was kidnapped in
- 44:54Speaker 2: broad daylight completely disappeared in a five minute space of time.
- 44:59Speaker 2: Over the years, Lydia's mind has gone to dark places.
- 45:02Speaker 2: She's had to consider every single possibility. She's wondered about
- 45:07Speaker 2: Robert's physical deterioration, how fast it all happened. She wondered
- 45:11Speaker 2: if that was a coincidence, or could her brother have
- 45:14Speaker 2: been poisoned. Lydia told The Missing Podcast she did wonder
- 45:18Speaker 2: at one point about Vicky's habit of giving her brother
- 45:21Speaker 2: in sheer milkshakes, and when Vicky gave him the shakes,
- 45:25Speaker 2: Lydia said she would put a lot of extra chocolate syrup.
- 45:27Speaker 1: In the drinks.
- 45:28Speaker 2: She said when she made Robert shakes, he never needed
- 45:31Speaker 2: that extra chocolate, so she kind of wondered why Vicky
- 45:33Speaker 2: did that. Then again, Lydia was the one making a
- 45:37Speaker 2: lot of Robert's food, and even before the physical deterioration,
- 45:41Speaker 2: he was clearly having issues physical and psychological. There's one
- 45:47Speaker 2: more area that Lydia believes needs to be searched more thoroughly.
- 45:51Speaker 2: When Vicky sold the property, she kept the three acre
- 45:56Speaker 2: patch of land with Jean's house on it in the family.
- 46:01Speaker 2: Lydia wonders if her brother is somewhere on that property,
- 46:05Speaker 2: somewhere close to home. To this day, she believes he
- 46:10Speaker 2: never made it off of that property alive.
- 46:13Speaker 1: I'm Catherine Townsend.
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