Latest / The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast / Headlines and Wedding Bells
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- 0:00Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
- 0:03Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.
- 0:05Speaker 2: Well, it is officially the off season of the Almost
- 0:08Speaker 2: Famous podcast, and we're going nowhere. Ashley, what's up?
- 0:12Speaker 3: Well, it's up. This is the smallest off season of
- 0:14Speaker 3: all times, because before you know it, we'll be back,
- 0:17Speaker 3: because I think it's like three weeks and then we
- 0:19Speaker 3: come back to something amazing. We're gonna have Paradise and
- 0:21Speaker 3: The Golden Bachelor both on Thursdays. Ben, we have like
- 0:26Speaker 3: I feel stupid for the headline that is obviously first
- 0:30Speaker 3: up this week, which is Hannah Godwin and Dylan Barber's wedding.
- 0:37Speaker 3: It was magical. Remember how last week there was a
- 0:39Speaker 3: headline that said that like perhaps they were like eloping,
- 0:42Speaker 3: Like what was happening. We didn't see anything going on
- 0:45Speaker 3: on Instagram. They're like, hey, what's up. We're in France,
- 0:48Speaker 3: it's wedding week. And I had said something I just
- 0:52Speaker 3: feel dumb because of course, like Hannah and Dylan are
- 0:56Speaker 3: gonna like live it up, and of course they're gonna
- 0:58Speaker 3: have bachelor friends there, but like we didn't have anything
- 1:01Speaker 3: that had happened over the weekend because they got married
- 1:04Speaker 3: on the weekdays. I think it was maybe Tuesday, okay,
- 1:07Speaker 3: and oh my gosh, what a spectacular event it was.
- 1:10Speaker 3: People were saying, this is the Bachelor's Well, why do
- 1:12Speaker 3: you feel dumb wedding? I don't, I cause, like, why
- 1:16Speaker 3: would I ever even say things like they're not going
- 1:19Speaker 3: to have like a big to do, like they're going
- 1:22Speaker 3: to a lope, or like they're not going to have
- 1:24Speaker 3: bachelor friends there, like of course they are.
- 1:27Speaker 2: Some people don't though. I mean, I I don't think
- 1:31Speaker 2: it was a terrible take because maybe I was just
- 1:34Speaker 2: out of the loop. But I didn't know that their
- 1:38Speaker 2: wedding was coming up. I don't think they had talked
- 1:40Speaker 2: about like their wedding happening this week.
- 1:43Speaker 3: Oh but they but they did. We just didn't know
- 1:45Speaker 3: where it was going to take, where it was going
- 1:46Speaker 3: to be always seeing Hannah like try on dresses.
- 1:50Speaker 2: But we just didn't know the extravagance of it. We
- 1:52Speaker 2: didn't know the details at all of it.
- 1:54Speaker 3: And it was so breathtaking. I wasn't there, but we've
- 1:58Speaker 3: also like just stalked it on Instagram. It was just
- 2:02Speaker 3: like it was that a French chateau really like a
- 2:06Speaker 3: French palace. It's a Chateau de Villetti and it was
- 2:09Speaker 3: about an hour outside of Paris. They had one hundred
- 2:14Speaker 3: and forty five friends and family members. Actually, we are
- 2:16Speaker 3: having Heather Martin on the show tomorrow so she can
- 2:18Speaker 3: give her first hand detail, so I'll kind of breeze
- 2:20Speaker 3: buy this. I did see Heather actually this weekend at
- 2:24Speaker 3: another wedding, because this girl has been on a parade
- 2:26Speaker 3: of three weddings over the past like week and a half.
- 2:28Speaker 2: Whose wedding were you at?
- 2:30Speaker 3: I was at my friend Courtney Bagby's wedding. She do
- 2:33Speaker 3: you know Corny?
- 2:33Speaker 2: I don't.
- 2:35Speaker 3: You must have met Courdy and so she's a huge
- 2:38Speaker 3: Bachelor fan and she's an agent for some bachelor lums.
- 2:42Speaker 3: So she just said, you know, de doctor. She was
- 2:46Speaker 3: just like, I mean, it was like out right, just
- 2:47Speaker 3: the fireworks went on for twenty minutes. Did you see
- 2:50Speaker 3: the videos of the fireworks?
- 2:51Speaker 2: Yeah? It was beautiful wedding, all the details. Again, we
- 2:54Speaker 2: were just interested in this wedding because obviously it was
- 2:58Speaker 2: gorgeous wedding. There were bachelor lums there. Having Heather kind
- 3:03Speaker 2: of tie some loosens for us and give us the
- 3:05Speaker 2: behind the scenes will be really helpful and So again,
- 3:08Speaker 2: if you're interested in this wedding, we're gonna get all
- 3:11Speaker 2: the details with Heather Martin, who attended the wedding part
- 3:14Speaker 2: of the Bachelor Nation. Few that went but the faithful
- 3:17Speaker 2: that went on this week. That's a huge week for
- 3:20Speaker 2: the Almost Famous podcast. Also, Ashley, we have a couple
- 3:25Speaker 2: other weddings coming up. We have Dean and Kalin's wedding
- 3:27Speaker 2: obviously coming up here in a few weeks. There's a
- 3:29Speaker 2: lot of love in the air, and I have a
- 3:31Speaker 2: feeling that, yes, as you mentioned, Paradise just a few
- 3:35Speaker 2: short weeks away, Golden Bachelor will be airing as well.
- 3:39Speaker 2: I have a feeling we're gonna be talking about brand new,
- 3:41Speaker 2: beautiful love stories coming from these next few seasons.
- 3:47Speaker 3: There's also so many of our past love stories that
- 3:50Speaker 3: are all cementing things with weddings. Yeah, like this month
- 3:54Speaker 3: and last so it was Hannah and Dylan, Marie and
- 3:57Speaker 3: Kenny are coming up, and then we also have Serena
- 4:01Speaker 3: and Joe who are technically still married. Then there's one
- 4:03Speaker 3: other that I'm missing, I.
- 4:06Speaker 2: Mean Thomas and Becca.
- 4:07Speaker 3: Becca and Thomas.
- 4:08Speaker 2: Yeah, but then.
- 4:09Speaker 3: Duh, how did I forget the one wedding of them
- 4:11Speaker 3: all that we're going to deven Caleins next month.
- 4:13Speaker 2: Yeah. So there's some big weddings coming up, a lot
- 4:15Speaker 2: of love happening in the air, which is a really
- 4:18Speaker 2: exciting time for the Bachelor. I know that you and
- 4:19Speaker 2: I in the past and we haven't been as much recently,
- 4:22Speaker 2: but we've been critical of kind of the trajectory of
- 4:24Speaker 2: the show. I think this last season showed the lack
- 4:27Speaker 2: of drama, showed the more of the love story. Obviously,
- 4:29Speaker 2: we got a great love story from Charity Season that
- 4:32Speaker 2: I think we'll be talking about for years to come.
- 4:35Speaker 2: I will say though, this new kind of era of
- 4:41Speaker 2: the Bachelor franchise, yes, it felt more dramatic at times,
- 4:44Speaker 2: but it has been leading to what I feel like
- 4:47Speaker 2: is a kind of plethora of weddings and cemented love
- 4:51Speaker 2: stories more than maybe in the past. We've been doing
- 4:55Speaker 2: this for eight years, and I think we're talking about
- 4:57Speaker 2: weddings more than we ever have.
- 5:00Speaker 3: So too, for sure, And I just want to say
- 5:02Speaker 3: that I've you know, you know, out and about just
- 5:04Speaker 3: talking to people about Charity Season over the past couple seasons.
- 5:09Speaker 3: Before that, I was getting a lot of people being like,
- 5:11Speaker 3: just like not that into it. Anymore, you know, just
- 5:12Speaker 3: like I don't know if I feel the lead. People
- 5:14Speaker 3: come up to me now they're like, oh my gosh,
- 5:16Speaker 3: did you love this season? Like She and Down are
- 5:19Speaker 3: meant to be. So it's just nice to hear that stuff.
- 5:22Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we're in a good I think it's
- 5:23Speaker 2: it's a good season for the Bachelor franchise. I do
- 5:27Speaker 2: believe there is a lot of hope and a lot
- 5:31Speaker 2: of forward excitement. I'm personally Ashley, as you said, just
- 5:35Speaker 2: a few weeks away from Paradise and The Golden Bachelor.
- 5:38Speaker 2: I know it is going to be a marathon of
- 5:40Speaker 2: Bachelor in my life for for hours every week. But
- 5:44Speaker 2: I will say that typically there's a sense of anxiety,
- 5:48Speaker 2: like I don't know if I can commit to watching
- 5:50Speaker 2: this many hours of the show every week. And Charity
- 5:55Speaker 2: season was different because I enjoyed watching it, I was
- 5:57Speaker 2: into it. I feel very excited I did about the
- 6:03Speaker 2: Paradise and The Golden Bachelor. I am excited to tune in.
- 6:07Speaker 2: I'm excited to see how they play out. And so
- 6:10Speaker 2: this is a season of excitement for me when it
- 6:12Speaker 2: comes to show, which I have not felt other than
- 6:16Speaker 2: Charity Season in some years.
- 6:19Speaker 3: I know and everybody and have got annoyed with us
- 6:21Speaker 3: when we're just so harsh on Zach's season. Actually, Zach
- 6:24Speaker 3: season was kind of enjoyable towards the end. I mean
- 6:26Speaker 3: not kind of, I mean I really enjoyed his Top
- 6:28Speaker 3: four era.
- 6:29Speaker 2: And there's another great love story that comes from another
- 6:31Speaker 2: great love story.
- 6:32Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 6:32Speaker 2: Well, speaking of love stories, yeah, speaking of love stories
- 6:35Speaker 2: that have came from Paradise. Raven Gates reveals if she
- 6:39Speaker 2: and Adam want another baby and discuss going from one
- 6:44Speaker 2: kid to two kids.
- 6:46Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, Raven did a Q and A on her Instagram.
- 6:48Speaker 3: I love Raven's Instagram. I'm always whenever I see she
- 6:51Speaker 3: has a fresh story up, I'm always interested to see
- 6:52Speaker 3: what it's about. I just feel like her. She is
- 6:57Speaker 3: like real about motherhood while also just being like such
- 6:59Speaker 3: a now mother that I'm like, you do make it
- 7:01Speaker 3: look easy, even though I know it's not easy for you.
- 7:03Speaker 3: I just like watching her motherhood anyway. So she obviously
- 7:07Speaker 3: has just about an over month year old and the
- 7:11Speaker 3: month youre a month old, and then she also has
- 7:16Speaker 3: Gates who's a little over a year and a half.
- 7:18Speaker 3: And now people are of course asking in the Q
- 7:20Speaker 3: and a's are you going to have another one? So
- 7:22Speaker 3: the direct answer is it's kind of how this one,
- 7:27Speaker 3: you know, how they go with two for right now.
- 7:30Speaker 3: But they are planning out their house. They're building a
- 7:33Speaker 3: house next year and Adam has made sure that in
- 7:36Speaker 3: the plans there are three kids rooms. So i'd say,
- 7:41Speaker 3: i'd say expect more from them. She is having a
- 7:44Speaker 3: little bit of a rough time right now. Just this
- 7:46Speaker 3: Morning's You're you know, she said that Gates is sick
- 7:48Speaker 3: and she has metisas. I think I'm saying it correctly.
- 7:52Speaker 3: It's when the ducks in your in your breast get
- 7:57Speaker 3: clogged up and.
- 7:58Speaker 2: Becomes so soulful yes so.
- 8:00Speaker 3: Yeah so, and it makes you have like other full
- 8:04Speaker 3: body symptoms. And she is going to the doctor, i
- 8:08Speaker 3: think today to get that fixed out. But she's like
- 8:09Speaker 3: really disappointed because the breastfeeding journey this time around was
- 8:12Speaker 3: going a lot easier than it was for Gates, and
- 8:16Speaker 3: now with this she just this week kind of stopped
- 8:19Speaker 3: producing milk and hasmetisis. And that's all a rough situation,
- 8:23Speaker 3: but you know, she'll get through. We're thinking about her.
- 8:27Speaker 2: I Uh, this is just a side story. I wonder
- 8:30Speaker 2: if it's the same thing. I forget. I was in
- 8:33Speaker 2: high school and I got into my buddy's hot tub
- 8:35Speaker 2: and it was the chemicals were not up to balance,
- 8:38Speaker 2: and all of us that were in the hot tub
- 8:41Speaker 2: got out and.
- 8:41Speaker 3: Like I remember this, yeah, you telling me this.
- 8:44Speaker 2: It was like the next day, I woke up so sick.
- 8:47Speaker 2: I had lumps, like all of my like pores were
- 8:49Speaker 2: like clogged up in lumpy and I like fevers and sweats.
- 8:53Speaker 2: It was one of like I only remember that because
- 8:55Speaker 2: it was one of the most painful experiences. And so
- 8:59Speaker 2: I wonder if that's the same thing that Raven has,
- 9:01Speaker 2: because if so, and she's raising a child right now,
- 9:04Speaker 2: Like I can't imagine like I was bedridden, like I could.
- 9:07Speaker 2: I was such a baby during that time.
- 9:09Speaker 3: It's definitely not the same thing, but it could be
- 9:11Speaker 3: like related, yeah, something with it. And then I just
- 9:14Speaker 3: say that she also like they seem to be on
- 9:18Speaker 3: dates all the time, and I'm so jealous. I'm like,
- 9:20Speaker 3: they just like seem to have the best relationship. And
- 9:23Speaker 3: somebody was like, how do you like always have date nights?
- 9:25Speaker 3: And she says that she schedules them in advance, so
- 9:30Speaker 3: like they know like for the month, what nights they're
- 9:32Speaker 3: going out to just be the you know, just have
- 9:35Speaker 3: quality time. And then I told Jared to go. Jared,
- 9:39Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm jealous of this, like can we do this?
- 9:41Speaker 3: And no, Now we've decided that every other Wednesday, we're
- 9:44Speaker 3: gonna do it. Thanks to Raven and Adam.
- 9:46Speaker 2: My parents did that. My parents had date nights consistently
- 9:51Speaker 2: when I was growing up. And then I also talked
- 9:53Speaker 2: to Jessica's parents and they would do this. I don't
- 9:57Speaker 2: know when theirs was, but like a lot of couples
- 10:00Speaker 2: I talk to who have been married, it feels like
- 10:01Speaker 2: one it's not the secret sauce, but it's a piece
- 10:04Speaker 2: of a healthy relationship I think is having something scheduled,
- 10:07Speaker 2: getting away. I also think it's good for the kids
- 10:09Speaker 2: because they're you know, they're not dependent on you always
- 10:13Speaker 2: being around, and they kind of just expect on Tuesday
- 10:15Speaker 2: nights every week or every other week or once a month,
- 10:18Speaker 2: you know, mom and dad are going to go out
- 10:19Speaker 2: and they're gonna come back, and they're a little happier
- 10:21Speaker 2: than they usually are, a little more giggly, and like,
- 10:24Speaker 2: I think it's good for the kids to see. I'm
- 10:27Speaker 2: just I'm impressed with Raven and Adam's commitment. They're just
- 10:30Speaker 2: a great couple to be around too.
- 10:32Speaker 3: Yeah, they are.
- 10:32Speaker 2: They're a lot of fun. One couple that didn't work
- 10:46Speaker 2: out was Clayton and Susie. I still even reading this
- 10:49Speaker 2: headline am shocked. It's it's like almost wild to me
- 10:54Speaker 2: that they were ever together. Like, I don't even picture
- 10:56Speaker 2: When I think see Susie's Instagram, I don't remember her
- 10:58Speaker 2: with Clayton. And when I see Clayton's there, I don't
- 11:00Speaker 2: remember him with Susie.
- 11:02Speaker 3: I think of her with like justin just Glaze, because
- 11:05Speaker 3: she does like a lot of content with Justin Gliz.
- 11:08Speaker 3: She's in that friend group, and I'm like, they could
- 11:11Speaker 3: be cute.
- 11:12Speaker 2: They could be cute. Well, here's the headline. Susie Evans
- 11:15Speaker 2: reveals the most disgusting and frustrating thing about dating in
- 11:21Speaker 2: La Okay.
- 11:22Speaker 3: Yeah, so she said that everyone is really career driven,
- 11:26Speaker 3: and she says, maybe I'm part of the problem, but no,
- 11:30Speaker 3: there's a bigger problem happening and it doesn't really have
- 11:32Speaker 3: to do with dating culture, although it does kind of,
- 11:35Speaker 3: she goes it does this is like he's a stream
- 11:37Speaker 3: of consciousness. Basically, she goes. The thing I find the
- 11:40Speaker 3: most annoying about dating in la is when I'm not
- 11:44Speaker 3: even trying to date, Like, for example, a man approaches
- 11:47Speaker 3: me with a business opportunity and I'm down to get
- 11:50Speaker 3: together with this person to work on a project, and
- 11:52Speaker 3: then this person has to take me out and wants
- 11:54Speaker 3: to take me on a date and get to know
- 11:56Speaker 3: me on a different level. When I express that I'm
- 11:58Speaker 3: not interested, then all those business opportunities get pulled out
- 12:02Speaker 3: from underneath you.
- 12:03Speaker 2: It's fine, really disgusting.
- 12:04Speaker 3: Yeah, it is really gross. She goes, I make money
- 12:06Speaker 3: on social media and I have a videography business. I
- 12:09Speaker 3: film weddings. I'm good. I don't need your business if
- 12:11Speaker 3: it means I have to date you. And then she
- 12:13Speaker 3: continues by saying, I just find that it to be
- 12:17Speaker 3: the most disgusting and frustrating thing that I've experienced.
- 12:19Speaker 2: Now.
- 12:20Speaker 3: I see when people move to big cities that are
- 12:22Speaker 3: trying to make something new, people see them as vulnerable
- 12:26Speaker 3: and try to capitalize on it. I am so grateful
- 12:28Speaker 3: that I don't give about money and I don't need
- 12:31Speaker 3: this person's opportunity. I literally cannot be bothered.
- 12:35Speaker 2: I just find this like there's like, I don't know, Ash,
- 12:40Speaker 2: there's something. I mean, there's a lot of things about
- 12:42Speaker 2: this that just like really feel wrong and unhealthy. And
- 12:45Speaker 2: it feels like the stories of the past that we
- 12:49Speaker 2: would like to believe that we've moved past and moved through.
- 12:53Speaker 2: But the fact that people are interested in working with
- 12:55Speaker 2: somebody with an idea of romantic relationship kind of being
- 13:01Speaker 2: the at the forefront feels just gross at every level.
- 13:06Speaker 2: And I've never like dated in LA, but you know,
- 13:08Speaker 2: obviously used to spend a lot of time in La.
- 13:11Speaker 2: Never dated in La, so you but you had have
- 13:15Speaker 2: lived there. I mean, is this something that you were
- 13:17Speaker 2: familiar with? Does it feel like this is the dating
- 13:19Speaker 2: scene in LA where I mean, for me, I always
- 13:23Speaker 2: feel like LA exhausted me because yes, it was always
- 13:26Speaker 2: like who's doing more, who's doing better, who's making more money?
- 13:30Speaker 2: What project are you working on today? And it just
- 13:32Speaker 2: felt tiring to me because there's many times in my life,
- 13:35Speaker 2: especially recently, I want to answered I'm not working on
- 13:38Speaker 2: anything new, like there's nothing like, there's nothing excite me
- 13:41Speaker 2: as exciting going on other than me being happily content
- 13:45Speaker 2: and the stuff that I'm already invested into. LA always
- 13:49Speaker 2: tired me out. So I would love to hear your
- 13:51Speaker 2: thoughts on dating in LA and also kind of the
- 13:54Speaker 2: social scene.
- 13:56Speaker 3: Yeah, I just I'm so very few dated, you know,
- 14:00Speaker 3: what do you mean? I hated going on dates so much.
- 14:04Speaker 3: When I think about days in LA, A couple come
- 14:07Speaker 3: to mind. One one I think I've shared here because
- 14:12Speaker 3: it was just the most the utter, most disgusting experience
- 14:16Speaker 3: I've ever had because the guy, within an hour of
- 14:18Speaker 3: knowing me, asked when the last time I had sex was,
- 14:23Speaker 3: and then he also asked me when the last time
- 14:27Speaker 3: I did something like uh like, let's just say third
- 14:29Speaker 3: base for the PG audience, and I was like, wait,
- 14:33Speaker 3: what that was? Within an hour? Little did he know
- 14:36Speaker 3: that he was talking to the bachelor's virgin. Yeah, so
- 14:40Speaker 3: that was my experience.
- 14:43Speaker 2: And was like, hey, when was the last time he had sex?
- 14:45Speaker 2: Like they that's just such.
- 14:47Speaker 3: When was the last time you got laid?
- 14:50Speaker 2: Oh goodness, that's just something I mean, I don't know,
- 14:53Speaker 2: that's just something I would never think.
- 14:56Speaker 3: You imagine.
- 14:57Speaker 2: No, it just feels so weird and it feels so
- 14:59Speaker 2: uncomfort and like I'm wondering if that is I mean,
- 15:03Speaker 2: there's just here's my here's my comment to that one.
- 15:05Speaker 2: That's just a weird question too. That person has terrible game.
- 15:10Speaker 2: Terrible game, like if that is what they lean on,
- 15:12Speaker 2: if they can't be funny enough, if they can't be
- 15:14Speaker 2: witty enough, if they can't be engaging enough or interested enough,
- 15:18Speaker 2: and you as a human to like get you interested
- 15:21Speaker 2: in maybe having some type of romantic relationship with them,
- 15:24Speaker 2: if they are interested in a romantic relationship, if they
- 15:27Speaker 2: have to like throw out, hey, when's the last time
- 15:30Speaker 2: you did this? Like that feels like that feels like
- 15:34Speaker 2: freshman year of high school?
- 15:36Speaker 3: Yeah right, or like when you would go around a
- 15:39Speaker 3: circle like yeah, you.
- 15:41Speaker 2: Play never have I ever? So that everybody like gets
- 15:43Speaker 2: a little fired up, and like it's like it's real weird,
- 15:45Speaker 2: like when you're kids.
- 15:47Speaker 3: And I hated never have I ever because I had
- 15:49Speaker 3: obviously never had I ever done anything?
- 15:51Speaker 2: When was the last time you made out with your
- 15:53Speaker 2: poster of the Jonas?
- 15:54Speaker 3: But brother, now that would be more willing to talk about.
- 15:59Speaker 3: So yeah, that's what I think of.
- 16:00Speaker 2: I just think it's weird. I feel bad for Susie.
- 16:03Speaker 2: She seems like a sweet girl and she has some
- 16:05Speaker 2: good friends. I'm sure she's gonna be fine. I hope. Hey,
- 16:08Speaker 2: next week I am going to be out on the
- 16:10Speaker 2: Almost Famous podcast. The reason is, as we've mentioned before,
- 16:14Speaker 2: Jessica and my parents and my in laws and myself
- 16:18Speaker 2: are going to Italy. This was a gift for sixtieth
- 16:23Speaker 2: birthdays for my dad's retirement. It's just gonna be a
- 16:27Speaker 2: really great trip for the six of us to be
- 16:30Speaker 2: together and go from Rome to Florence to the Amalfi Coast. Well,
- 16:34Speaker 2: I'm not the only Bachelor contestant spending time in Italy.
- 16:38Speaker 2: In fact, our headline is this Victoria Fuller vacations in
- 16:42Speaker 2: Italy with boyfriend Greg Grippo. Now, if you remember when
- 16:47Speaker 2: they first announced their relationship, they had tattoos, because yes,
- 16:51Speaker 2: they were spotted in Italy. Even though they were claiming
- 16:53Speaker 2: they weren't together in Italy, they were. They had matching tattoos.
- 16:58Speaker 2: But they went back and it sounds like they're just
- 17:01Speaker 2: getting back into the States from Italy.
- 17:04Speaker 3: Yeah, it's almost like a year reunion. I think it's
- 17:06Speaker 3: like one month month off from like their last year's
- 17:09Speaker 3: trip to Italy.
- 17:10Speaker 2: Oh, that makes sense.
- 17:13Speaker 3: They are like obviously like one back on. Remember a
- 17:17Speaker 3: couple like about a month ago, people were thinking that
- 17:19Speaker 3: they were broken up because they hadn't posted a ton
- 17:21Speaker 3: of each other for about like six weeks. So now
- 17:24Speaker 3: they're together, we need to get them on the podcast
- 17:26Speaker 3: so we can like really talk about if there was
- 17:29Speaker 3: an off moment. Because the two of them are showing
- 17:32Speaker 3: their sexy selves on boats and you know, now on
- 17:35Speaker 3: the beach and just living up their young wives. They
- 17:39Speaker 3: look great and they're now home because Victoria was like,
- 17:43Speaker 3: you can We're not gonna this is the last post.
- 17:46Speaker 3: It's just like this is the last, you know, sexy post.
- 17:49Speaker 2: They're a very attractive couple.
- 17:53Speaker 3: Like, yeah they're sexy, Yeah that.
- 17:54Speaker 2: Both of them, you know. Yeah, Like I feel like
- 17:57Speaker 2: they go to Italy and they make it there looked at. Yeah,
- 18:01Speaker 2: they're looked at.
- 18:02Speaker 3: Yeah, and they like probably do the things that you
- 18:05Speaker 3: see in like Italian posters. They probably like throw each
- 18:07Speaker 3: other against walls and make out and like the little alleys.
- 18:11Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sure that's wild. Yeah they are there.
- 18:16Speaker 3: I was like, I was going to say they had
- 18:18Speaker 3: that sex appeal.
- 18:19Speaker 2: Yeah, it's never been me. I would love it.
- 18:22Speaker 3: I try or like we're like yeah, we don't. We're like,
- 18:24Speaker 3: you know, attractive people, but like, just like we don't
- 18:28Speaker 3: just ooze that like.
- 18:30Speaker 2: No, no, I mean I don't have that. Well it's
- 18:35Speaker 2: the sex panther. I don't have that. I don't have
- 18:38Speaker 2: that energy pouring from me very healthy relationship.
- 18:42Speaker 3: But I could. I just like wish I could. But
- 18:46Speaker 3: like even when I try, I'm like, this could last
- 18:48Speaker 3: thirty seconds before I start laughing at myself.
- 18:50Speaker 2: Give me, like ye, give me a twenty second like
- 18:52Speaker 2: Instagram clip where I could like twenty seconds pose on
- 18:55Speaker 2: the beach, like making a black and white photo and
- 18:58Speaker 2: you know, be sweating a bit. I might be able
- 19:00Speaker 2: to pull it off. But then right after that, like
- 19:02Speaker 2: I'm putting on my snorkel and.
- 19:06Speaker 3: Well, did you see what Catherine posted Catherine Low No, okay,
- 19:10Speaker 3: so she just did a really funny Instagram reel. I
- 19:13Speaker 3: think it got a lot of views. So it says
- 19:16Speaker 3: what I ordered versus like what I got. So she
- 19:20Speaker 3: like has a video she has herself on the computer
- 19:23Speaker 3: like on Amazon ordering a video that she sees of
- 19:27Speaker 3: Sean when he's on the Bachelor being like super ripped
- 19:30Speaker 3: and like in the pool and all sweaty and like
- 19:34Speaker 3: wet and dripping, and he looks great. Right, and then
- 19:36Speaker 3: she goes what came and then it's him in the
- 19:40Speaker 3: pool with goggles on.
- 19:42Speaker 2: I mean, it's true, Like I have my flippers. I'm
- 19:45Speaker 2: not against some flippers, some goggles.
- 19:46Speaker 3: Flippers are fun. I'm all about goggles. And if you
- 19:49Speaker 3: take me back to like middle school, high school, I
- 19:52Speaker 3: always wore a nose plug in the pool, like my
- 19:55Speaker 3: my backyard pool, because then I could like really get
- 19:58Speaker 3: under the water without worrying about any and going out
- 20:00Speaker 3: my nose.
- 20:01Speaker 2: Actually, there's nothing acially on the diving board. There's nothing
- 20:04Speaker 2: more hot than a nose plug than a high school
- 20:08Speaker 2: high schooler with a nose plug and goggles going on
- 20:11Speaker 2: the bottom of the pool. It's great, we're doing fine.
- 20:14Speaker 2: We made it work and we're happy and we're doing
- 20:17Speaker 2: all right.
- 20:18Speaker 3: Uh all right, Well, I want you to give twenty
- 20:20Speaker 3: or thirty seconds for Instagram for all of our amusements
- 20:24Speaker 3: when you're in Italy and do something like this, just
- 20:27Speaker 3: like pretend that you're Greg and Victoria and post it
- 20:30Speaker 3: for us.
- 20:30Speaker 2: I can do that. I can do that, I can
- 20:32Speaker 2: pull something better. Remind you. Yeah, please just text me
- 20:35Speaker 2: and say, hey, Ben, don't forget to be hot. Yeah,
- 20:38Speaker 2: don't forget to be Hot final headline. This would have
- 20:51Speaker 2: made me nervous actually, because I saw a quote from
- 20:56Speaker 2: somebody named Higgins in here and I was like, oh, no,
- 20:59Speaker 2: what I do? Like, what interview did I take? That
- 21:01Speaker 2: went backwards fast? Well, it's not me, it's somebody I
- 21:04Speaker 2: don't even know but shares the same last name. But
- 21:07Speaker 2: this has been this headline has been coming across the
- 21:10Speaker 2: internet a lot here recently, and I think the conversation
- 21:16Speaker 2: around reality television and the treatment of the contestant it's
- 21:22Speaker 2: becoming more and more popular one because Bethany Frankel has
- 21:26Speaker 2: kind of headed up this conversation and said, hey, you know,
- 21:30Speaker 2: reality television needs to be unionized or there needs to
- 21:33Speaker 2: be better representation. The people need to be treated better
- 21:36Speaker 2: that come on the show. They don't know what they're
- 21:38Speaker 2: going to get into. All these things have been kind
- 21:39Speaker 2: of popping up recently. I believe we're going to be
- 21:41Speaker 2: following stories like this for years to come, where people
- 21:45Speaker 2: are really fighting for the contestants that give themselves up
- 21:50Speaker 2: for reality television. Well, it's never been a secret, Ashley.
- 21:54Speaker 2: I mean, you and I knew when we even went
- 21:56Speaker 2: on that The Bachelor is a really difficult situation for
- 22:01Speaker 2: anybody to get thrown in, especially anybody that's hurting, anybody
- 22:04Speaker 2: that has emotional kind of you know, damage or trauma,
- 22:09Speaker 2: anybody that's healing in their life. The Bachelor has always
- 22:13Speaker 2: kind of exposed that, and it doesn't really feel like
- 22:17Speaker 2: in most experiences the show helps heal people. I do
- 22:23Speaker 2: think there's some some healing and kind of getting it
- 22:25Speaker 2: out in the open and talking about it. But the
- 22:28Speaker 2: Bachelor contestants have consistently came off the show and said, hey,
- 22:31Speaker 2: this show wrecked me, this show hurt.
- 22:33Speaker 3: Me, okay, but not like not us. So I think
- 22:38Speaker 3: there's like there's different groups, there's different experiences. For sure,
- 22:42Speaker 3: there's people like us that are so grateful for it.
- 22:46Speaker 3: It got us either like for me out of my
- 22:48Speaker 3: comfort zone and literally like embraced my whole personality, and
- 22:52Speaker 3: then like just look at the journey that you've been on,
- 22:55Speaker 3: Like for us, it was one for the best, and
- 22:58Speaker 3: then their cast that it's the total opposite experience. Well,
- 23:01Speaker 3: I mean we were actually sharing this story. I was
- 23:04Speaker 3: with Heather, you know, Ma and then McKenna this weekend
- 23:09Speaker 3: at this wedding, and we were also at a table
- 23:11Speaker 3: with a Love Is Blind contestant and some Big Brother contestants.
- 23:16Speaker 3: So it's like the reality TV table and it was
- 23:19Speaker 3: fun exchanging stories. But it's really amazing to see the
- 23:23Speaker 3: range of experiences one can have.
- 23:25Speaker 2: I agree. I mean, you know, and I think I
- 23:27Speaker 2: speak to this, and I think of Olivia Creedy, who
- 23:30Speaker 2: was on me too the season of The Bachelor I
- 23:32Speaker 2: was able to be a part of, and it felt
- 23:34Speaker 2: like a tremendous person had a really hard experience, and
- 23:38Speaker 2: I did not have that type of experience. My experience
- 23:41Speaker 2: was I've always said I've gotten through this thing unscathed,
- 23:46Speaker 2: and for whatever reason, that's my story. And I'm a
- 23:49Speaker 2: fan of the show and I'm a supporter of the show,
- 23:51Speaker 2: and I would tell anybody still to go on the
- 23:53Speaker 2: show because of my experience. But I do think of
- 23:57Speaker 2: the Olivia's of the world and go, yeah, this hurt her.
- 24:00Speaker 2: I heard her deeply, and I don't know how how
- 24:04Speaker 2: well the healing process began. Well, anyways, here's the headline,
- 24:07Speaker 2: and it's an interesting one. Bachelor producers admit to tormenting
- 24:11Speaker 2: contestants to make for dramatic television. The quote here is
- 24:16Speaker 2: you better cry now. Ashley walk us through the story.
- 24:21Speaker 2: There are previous Bachelor producers who are quoted here.
- 24:25Speaker 3: We don't know them.
- 24:26Speaker 2: We don't know them. They were they were gone before
- 24:28Speaker 2: we got there. But it is a big headline.
- 24:32Speaker 3: Yeah, okay. So there's this show it to docuseries on
- 24:36Speaker 3: Vice TV. It's called the Dark Side of the two
- 24:38Speaker 3: thousands and it goes through you know, different things of
- 24:42Speaker 3: the two thousands and you know, that was really the
- 24:44Speaker 3: birth time of reality TV. And they have this guy
- 24:48Speaker 3: named Michael Carroll, a former Bachelor producer that it gave.
- 24:54Speaker 3: You know, he sat down and talked about it, so
- 24:57Speaker 3: I'll read the quotes. He's a like in meetings when
- 25:01Speaker 3: they were coming up with the cast, they were like,
- 25:04Speaker 3: we need a bimbo, we need a hoe, we need
- 25:07Speaker 3: a ditsy girl that everyone can make fun of. They
- 25:10Speaker 3: would learn about their contestants backstories and wield them like
- 25:14Speaker 3: a weapon. She just went through a breakup, she just
- 25:16Speaker 3: got over anorexia. She has been a bridesmaid fifteen times,
- 25:20Speaker 3: but never a bride. She's gonna someone day one. She's
- 25:23Speaker 3: a virgin and she's never gonna She's never gonna. That's reality.
- 25:29Speaker 3: That's what they want to know. What's gonna happen in
- 25:34Speaker 3: that house before you know they were getting there. And
- 25:37Speaker 3: then they said that they would bring up topics that
- 25:40Speaker 3: would really make people emotional because they know they know
- 25:43Speaker 3: the backstory, so they bring up the stories like this
- 25:46Speaker 3: one girl their dad left them when they're eight years old,
- 25:49Speaker 3: or they were left at the altar, and that's how
- 25:52Speaker 3: it's gonna be. If you want to be on The Bachelor,
- 25:53Speaker 3: you're gonna know these things and they're gonna be brought
- 25:55Speaker 3: up in the interview room and then they'd be like
- 25:59Speaker 3: he also said something about the like contestant, why didn't
- 26:02Speaker 3: cry enough? They would be booted off the show, or
- 26:04Speaker 3: like the long awaited tears, like someone's gonna cry right now,
- 26:08Speaker 3: and if you don't cry enough, we're gonna find a
- 26:09Speaker 3: way to get you out and we're gonna make you
- 26:12Speaker 3: cry when you leave because you didn't get the Bachelor,
- 26:14Speaker 3: so you better cry now, Like, Okay, you know this
- 26:19Speaker 3: is nothing surprising to us.
- 26:20Speaker 2: There's nothing surprising here. I do think the first part
- 26:24Speaker 2: of this is more damning. Well, it's just something I
- 26:27Speaker 2: never know, but it's something I didn't know the behind
- 26:31Speaker 2: the scenes of right, you and I have talked about
- 26:33Speaker 2: how much of the behind the scenes we feel like
- 26:35Speaker 2: we know and that we do know based on our
- 26:37Speaker 2: time on the show and knowing some of the producers
- 26:40Speaker 2: post their time on the show. I didn't. I didn't
- 26:44Speaker 2: know that when they went through the casting process there
- 26:48Speaker 2: was a defining role that each person played. I knew
- 26:51Speaker 2: they knew who who the people were. I know they
- 26:54Speaker 2: did like a psychological exam. I know they know this stuff,
- 26:57Speaker 2: they know us well, but I didn't know they were
- 26:59Speaker 2: actually looking for these types of people. I guess I
- 27:06Speaker 2: would be oblivious at times to that. It just it's
- 27:09Speaker 2: not it's not okay that they say, hey, we need
- 27:12Speaker 2: we're gonna have this person, and this is what the
- 27:14Speaker 2: person's gonna end up doing on Night one. If they don't,
- 27:17Speaker 2: I don't know what kind of role they play here anymore,
- 27:19Speaker 2: and so we'll probably convince the lead to get rid
- 27:23Speaker 2: of them early because they're not really, you know, carrying
- 27:26Speaker 2: the weight of the role that we wanted them to.
- 27:28Speaker 2: I don't love that. Yeah, I don't like it at
- 27:31Speaker 2: all exactly.
- 27:32Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't like that either. I don't think of
- 27:34Speaker 3: it like that, but I do think them stereotyping, like
- 27:37Speaker 3: you know, undermine. Mine was definitely like dateless Virgin. You
- 27:42Speaker 3: know that's like super over the top. And then there's
- 27:46Speaker 3: like you were definitely like Golden Boy. You know that
- 27:48Speaker 3: they were like Golden Boy, like we're not going to
- 27:50Speaker 3: touch it. We just want him to look.
- 27:51Speaker 2: Great, which is probably why my experience was and you know,
- 27:55Speaker 2: the the benefits of that was my experience was pretty
- 27:59Speaker 2: okay because it was you know, I didn't have any
- 28:02Speaker 2: storyline of trying to mess with me. I just I see,
- 28:08Speaker 2: you know, I obviously I've lived that experience. I've seen
- 28:11Speaker 2: my friends who I know were struggling at the time
- 28:13Speaker 2: go through this process, and I don't know what their
- 28:16Speaker 2: stories would be. Now. You know a lot of these
- 28:17Speaker 2: people have kind of disappeared after the show, and so
- 28:21Speaker 2: I don't know what they think of when they think
- 28:23Speaker 2: of the show.
- 28:25Speaker 3: I think that if you don't really like this is
- 28:28Speaker 3: kind of sad to say, but if you don't really
- 28:30Speaker 3: remember them, they probably didn't have a title that was strong,
- 28:33Speaker 3: and the Bridges probably didn't imagine them being around that long. Yeah,
- 28:37Speaker 3: they were like kind of the fillers. Yeah, So like,
- 28:39Speaker 3: what would you say that somebody who was well known
- 28:42Speaker 3: like Wells, Yeah, what would you say that they thought
- 28:45Speaker 3: of him going in.
- 28:46Speaker 2: I think they knew he was going to be a
- 28:47Speaker 2: good narrator, Like he was going to be a really
- 28:51Speaker 2: good contestant to have because he was a comedic, he
- 28:57Speaker 2: what he would play along. He understood the entertainment world,
- 29:01Speaker 2: so he could almost produce himself, and they knew he
- 29:04Speaker 2: could narrate situations and make it entertaining for the audience,
- 29:08Speaker 2: which I think is a fine role to stereotype somebody
- 29:11Speaker 2: as is this person's gonna be a really good storyteller
- 29:15Speaker 2: and I know, wells is that?
- 29:17Speaker 3: What do you think that Jared was.
- 29:19Speaker 2: I think Jared was a golden I think Jared was, hey.
- 29:21Speaker 3: This is a alternative golden boy.
- 29:24Speaker 2: Well, yeah, and I think Jared had a lot more.
- 29:27Speaker 2: I think Jared was a nerd in a lot of ways. Right.
- 29:29Speaker 2: He was the comic book movie fan who you know,
- 29:35Speaker 2: spoke in movie quotes and wore a Superman shirt on night.
- 29:40Speaker 3: One Man was definitely in like his audition tape.
- 29:42Speaker 2: Yeah, so he kind of was that lovable every you know,
- 29:46Speaker 2: a guy that you would know who's incredibly good looking.
- 29:49Speaker 2: And then obviously there was a date specifically planned for
- 29:52Speaker 2: Jared because he came in with the long kind of
- 29:54Speaker 2: like almost bowl cut, shaggy hair, and then they give
- 29:58Speaker 2: him this like, yeah, they they give him kind of
- 30:00Speaker 2: the glow up date where he gets a makeover and
- 30:03Speaker 2: they put him in a suit, and then all of
- 30:04Speaker 2: a sudden, everybody sees Jared differently than they did before.
- 30:08Speaker 2: And I think that was it too, because he was relatable,
- 30:10Speaker 2: he was kind, he was nice, he was likable. Uh,
- 30:13Speaker 2: and then obviously you give him a makeover and you're like, goodness, gracious,
- 30:18Speaker 2: this dude like a lot more attractive than I ever
- 30:20Speaker 2: seen him before, and he stayed that way obviously, So
- 30:23Speaker 2: I think that was Jared's You know, there was obviously
- 30:28Speaker 2: people on that season at the Bachelorette, like the jj
- 30:31Speaker 2: Lings and the Clinton Artist. Is that they they played
- 30:36Speaker 2: they played into a lot more they you know, I
- 30:40Speaker 2: don't know what their stereotype was, but they definitely capitalized
- 30:44Speaker 2: and used them at the beginning of the show for
- 30:46Speaker 2: character development more than anybody else mm hm.
- 30:51Speaker 3: And now I will admit that I definitely want to know,
- 30:54Speaker 3: like basically I just knew. I was, like, I know
- 30:57Speaker 3: that the characterizes people. I know, these of me stick
- 31:01Speaker 3: out versus other people in the bunch, so like I
- 31:04Speaker 3: kind of was like, I wouldn't all lean into it.
- 31:06Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that might be the suggestion. Typically when
- 31:09Speaker 2: somebody asked me, you know, they're going through the casting
- 31:11Speaker 2: process or they're going to become the lead and they
- 31:14Speaker 2: reach out, uh to chat and that hasn't happened in
- 31:18Speaker 2: years to me. I haven't spoken to a Bachelor since
- 31:22Speaker 2: Matt James before their show, but I think I would
- 31:26Speaker 2: tell them do a deep dive on yourself real quick,
- 31:30Speaker 2: understand what that you like, kind of think through like
- 31:32Speaker 2: who are you going to be on this show and
- 31:34Speaker 2: understand if that's somebody you want to be displayed as
- 31:37Speaker 2: or not. And if you don't, then they'll go on
- 31:38Speaker 2: the show. If you do. If you're like no, I'm
- 31:40Speaker 2: comfortable with this kind of stereotype and I'm comfortable being
- 31:43Speaker 2: the jock, or I'm comfortable being the one that stands
- 31:46Speaker 2: up for the right reasons every time, or you know whatever,
- 31:49Speaker 2: then go on it. Like be confident in that, but
- 31:52Speaker 2: if not, then don't do it.
- 31:53Speaker 3: Be self aware and find humor in yourself as well.
- 31:57Speaker 2: Sure, yeah, it's people to take themselves too seriously. Now,
- 32:00Speaker 2: I don't think I mean obviously from this last season.
- 32:03Speaker 2: If we look at Charity season, I think Braden would
- 32:07Speaker 2: be the villain quote unquote, right, the villain from this season,
- 32:10Speaker 2: the one that has the the most you know, controversial
- 32:14Speaker 2: storylines or the one that people disliked. I don't think
- 32:17Speaker 2: the show is going to ruin his life. I do think.
- 32:20Speaker 2: I do think. Yeah, in the past couple of seasons,
- 32:23Speaker 2: there aren't people that stand out that it's like, hey,
- 32:25Speaker 2: this is gonna like wreck you, And that might be that.
- 32:29Speaker 2: I think we could probably point to the show changing
- 32:32Speaker 2: and how they handle their contestants so that they're not
- 32:36Speaker 2: coming off and being like, yeah, I'm I'm a mess.
- 32:40Speaker 3: Oh. I think they also kind of allow paradise to
- 32:42Speaker 3: be the redemption stories that people with that feeling about them.
- 32:47Speaker 3: M hm.
- 32:47Speaker 2: So yeah, it's a story that's going to be playing out.
- 32:50Speaker 2: Producers are speaking out. I think as producers get older,
- 32:54Speaker 2: they have some years removed from these shows. And I'm
- 32:57Speaker 2: not just talking The Bachelor here, these reality Tilvin shows
- 32:59Speaker 2: they have messes around all of them. Right. The drama
- 33:03Speaker 2: of these shows are created by humans, and those humans
- 33:07Speaker 2: are gonna have to carry the weight of that. And
- 33:09Speaker 2: so I do think this is a conversation that will
- 33:12Speaker 2: be coming up more and more as these producers get older.
- 33:15Speaker 2: We're now, you know, twenty years removed from the start
- 33:18Speaker 2: of really reality television. Some of these producers have moved
- 33:20Speaker 2: on to other jobs they feel more comfortable speaking out, So,
- 33:24Speaker 2: you know, we'll see how it plays out. My hope
- 33:27Speaker 2: is that these shows get healthier and that we have
- 33:29Speaker 2: more seasons like Charities. Yes, we might not remember the
- 33:32Speaker 2: villain from the season. That's fine with me, as long
- 33:35Speaker 2: as the love story exists at the end. That's what
- 33:38Speaker 2: I'm looking for in Paradise. That's what I'm looking for
- 33:40Speaker 2: in The Golden Bachelor. At least, that's my hope the
- 33:43Speaker 2: Golden Bachelor, definitely the Golden Bachelor. Bachelor headline is this,
- 33:47Speaker 2: Amanda Stanton is having a baby girl. She posted this
- 33:51Speaker 2: on Instagram.
- 33:52Speaker 3: She did. She kept talking about it and teasing it
- 33:55Speaker 3: with us last week and she posted the pictures of
- 33:58Speaker 3: the girls, her girls and her husband popping the balloon
- 34:02Speaker 3: and in came pink confetti, Let's.
- 34:05Speaker 2: Go Bachelor in Paradise and lum Lace Morris is pregnant
- 34:08Speaker 2: with her first child. This is hot off the press.
- 34:12Speaker 3: We know nothing about this. She just posted on Instagram
- 34:15Speaker 3: said that she's having a surprise baby, a glorious surprise.
- 34:20Speaker 3: And we don't know who the boyfriend or the dad is.
- 34:25Speaker 3: We do know, we do well, we do know him
- 34:29Speaker 3: based on Instagram, but we don't like have any photos
- 34:32Speaker 3: of the two of them together on her Instagram. Yeah,
- 34:34Speaker 3: and he's private. I tried, ye, maybe in Denver, you
- 34:39Speaker 3: would have had like some more common things. You should
- 34:41Speaker 3: get on Facebook. You can probably see him on Facebook.
- 34:44Speaker 3: So yeah, we'll find out. We're gonna get lace on
- 34:46Speaker 3: the podcast because I need to know how this is
- 34:49Speaker 3: going down.
- 34:50Speaker 2: You need to know how it happened.
- 34:51Speaker 3: I need to know.
- 34:52Speaker 2: I'll tell you after the podcast. You know how you
- 34:56Speaker 2: get pregnant? Yes, I have a good Oh.
- 34:58Speaker 3: I thought you texted her and was like, so, who's
- 35:00Speaker 3: the guy?
- 35:01Speaker 2: Oh No, I don't know much about that. The Bachelor,
- 35:05Speaker 2: Hannah Brown is engaged to Adam Willard.
- 35:08Speaker 3: This is a big, big one.
- 35:09Speaker 2: The big ones.
- 35:10Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 35:10Speaker 2: They posted some photos from this very romantic proposal.
- 35:15Speaker 3: People has the exclusive on this. They got engaged on
- 35:18Speaker 3: August twenty fourth, but announced it today aka Monday the
- 35:22Speaker 3: twenty eighth. It happened at Bolt Farm treehouse in Whitwell, Tennessee.
- 35:28Speaker 2: Here I got to add in here you want to
- 35:30Speaker 2: know some crazy you were there that day? No, Jessica
- 35:33Speaker 2: and Hannah Brown went on a trip together to Bolt
- 35:36Speaker 2: Farm like five months ago.
- 35:39Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, that's so crazy.
- 35:41Speaker 2: Yeah, huh so.
- 35:42Speaker 3: Yeah. She just thought they were going to go hang
- 35:43Speaker 3: out with friends. Little did she know that her parents,
- 35:45Speaker 3: her family was actually staying on property and they surprised
- 35:49Speaker 3: them after he got down on one knee in a
- 35:51Speaker 3: very intimate moment which was surrounded by flowers and rose
- 35:56Speaker 3: petals and candles and then a little deets. Oh my god,
- 36:00Speaker 3: I said, deet skin on the ring. It's from Ring
- 36:03Speaker 3: Concierge and it has three rings to represent the present,
- 36:08Speaker 3: the future, in the past. And she says the center
- 36:12Speaker 3: one is the biggest, which is the one that represents
- 36:14Speaker 3: the present. She says, that's always my favorite part of
- 36:17Speaker 3: our relationship. That's really really sweet. And another sweet quote
- 36:20Speaker 3: that I love that she said about him is I
- 36:24Speaker 3: love his calming presence and big heart and how he
- 36:28Speaker 3: accepts and loves all versions of me, even the crazy version.
- 36:32Speaker 2: Don't we all have it, Ashley. We do have a
- 36:35Speaker 2: big week. We have some great interviews coming up, some
- 36:38Speaker 2: really exciting times for the Almost Famous podcast as we
- 36:40Speaker 2: do I'm not even gonna say fill in this offseason.
- 36:43Speaker 2: As we walk through this offseason leading up to then
- 36:47Speaker 2: the airing of Bachelor and Paradise in the Golden Bachelor,
- 36:50Speaker 2: and then fairly soon after that we'll be jumping right
- 36:53Speaker 2: into the next Bachelor with Joey. But this is all
- 36:57Speaker 2: we got for today, and this is all the headlines.
- 36:59Speaker 2: So until next time, I've been Ben, have been Ashley.
- 37:01Speaker 3: See you guys.
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