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- 0:02Cathi Spooner: Welcome to Next Level Play Therapy, a weekly podcast dedicated to supporting the next generation of child and adolescent therapists to provide exceptional play therapy services.
- 0:14Cathi Spooner: We'll explore all things play therapy to elevate your work with children and adolescents using the therapeutic powers of play.
- 0:23Cathi Spooner: I'll discuss practical tips and ideas.
- 0:26Cathi Spooner: So you can provide a transformative experience for your young clients and make a real difference in their lives.
- 0:34Cathi Spooner: So get ready to take your play therapy skills to the next level and make a lasting impact in the lives of children, adolescents, and families.
- 0:48Cathi Spooner: Hey there, good morning, good morning, good morning.
- 0:51Cathi Spooner: It's morning here in the United States.
- 0:53Cathi Spooner: Good afternoon to you if you're outside of the United States.
- 0:58Cathi Spooner: So today is Thursday.
- 1:00Cathi Spooner: I usually go live on Wednesday, but I was having air conditioning put in yesterday, so I I decided it would be better to wait another day to go live and I'm really excited today because I have some guests for Jurassic Sand to talk about their sand.
- 1:23Cathi Spooner: If you are interested in doing sand tray.
- 1:27Cathi Spooner: If you're already doing sand tray therapy with your clients, you may or may not have experienced the torture of dusty sand.
- 1:39Cathi Spooner: So today I invited, um, Mary and John from Jurassic sand to talk about their sand and how it is Well, in my opinion, it's more beneficial because it's not dusty, so I invited them on to talk a little bit about their sand.
- 2:00Cathi Spooner: So that is today's episode, talking about, uh, my favorite sand to use in sand tray therapy that is not dusty.
- 2:12Cathi Spooner: So let me bring them on and introduce them for today.
- 2:17Cathi Spooner: Hey, Mary and John.
- 2:20John: Hi.
- 2:20Mary: Good morning Cathi.
- 2:21John: Thanks for having us on.
- 2:23Cathi Spooner: Yeah, I'm excited to have you.
- 2:25Cathi Spooner: Very excited to have you.
- 2:27Cathi Spooner: I love jurassic sand.
- 2:29Cathi Spooner: Um, and have probably almost every sand that you have.
- 2:34Cathi Spooner: Um, and they're all phenomenal.
- 2:37Cathi Spooner: So I thought maybe, um, so if, uh, if anyone, anyone is joining us live, go ahead and post your name in the comments.
- 2:47Cathi Spooner: If you have questions for Mary and John about their sand, that would be awesome.
- 2:53Cathi Spooner: Post those in the questions.
- 2:55Cathi Spooner: And for those of you who stay to the end of the broadcast, even on the live, I'm sorry, even on the replay, there is a, uh, surprise at the end special gift.
- 3:09Cathi Spooner: So, alrighty.
- 3:10Cathi Spooner: So post your name in the comments, ask any questions.
- 3:15Cathi Spooner: Also, if you're watching on the replay, you can always ask question as well because I can always reach out to, um, Mary and ask her and she'll give me an answer right away.
- 3:26Cathi Spooner: So, all right.
- 3:27Cathi Spooner: So do you, can you guys, tell us about your sand and what makes it not dusty.
- 3:35Cathi Spooner: Maybe a little bit about Jurassic sand.
- 3:37Cathi Spooner: That would be awesome.
- 3:39Mary: Okay.
- 3:39Mary: Well, the main point about Jurassic sand is that it's natural and it's made basically, it's a desert sand, so it's just made from the wind blown and, um, that's compared to a lot of the manufactured sands that you can get in, um, home improvement stores and things, where it's, um, made from crushed rock and pulverized rock down to a certain size.
- 4:05Mary: So our sands, the grains are more rounder usually and smoother because they've just been blown in the wind.
- 4:11Mary: So long.
- 4:12Mary: What about
- 4:13John: Yeah, yeah, definitely.
- 4:14John: The all natural part of our sand is definitely what makes it no dust.
- 4:19John: And, um, when you excavate sand from the earth and then pulverize it to a certain grain size, that's going to cause a lot of dust, and it's also going to cause a lot of sharper angles on the grains.
- 4:32John: All of our sand has really smooth round grains.
- 4:34John: And so that also leads to less dust.
- 4:37Cathi Spooner: Well, that answers my, I've always been so curious how you got your sand so smooth.
- 4:44Cathi Spooner: That's especially the garnet sand.
- 4:47Cathi Spooner: I didn't realize it was more of the windblown debris.
- 4:52Cathi Spooner: That's pretty cool.
- 4:54Cathi Spooner: And you know what?
- 4:55Cathi Spooner: That's one of the things that I really like about your sand is because it is natural.
- 5:01Cathi Spooner: And as a sand therapist, like someone who uses Sand tray therapy with children, adolescents, and adults and we're adding all those miniatures and you can see all my miniatures in the background, it feels to me like it's more grounded because it, uh, okay this is totally going to sound nerdy but you guys will get it.
- 5:22Cathi Spooner: It's more natural and it feels like it's more grounded to the earth and I don't know it just feels more powerful as a sand tray therapist to me.
- 5:34Cathi Spooner: I love that part about your sand and there's different textures to them too.
- 5:40Cathi Spooner: And I love that.
- 5:43Mary: Yeah.
- 5:44John: Definitely.
- 5:45John: And we have different grain sizes, which leads to those different textures.
- 5:49John: And so that's a lot of, a lot of play therapists like having different textures and different feels on their sands.
- 5:56John: Um, it's not always about the color or the aesthetics of the sand, but it is a lot about what they want to use the sand for in different grain sizes, really.
- 6:07Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 6:08Cathi Spooner: How do you get it to be not dusty?
- 6:13John: So, that's really done by nature.
- 6:15John: And so, when it's been blown around for millions of years, and then when we go get it, we get it to be not dusty, um, right when we get it from the earth, and so.
- 6:28Mary: Right, but, but to clarify, in some of the garnet sands, we, we do have to wash those.
- 6:33Mary: Right.
- 6:34Mary: Because they don't, um, it's just not the same kind of deposit where they're from, but, um, we do do a, a washing, but, um, some of it is just screening too, just, just to make sure, because it is all natural, you know, you don't want to get a scorpion in your sand or something
- 6:54Cathi Spooner: And I'm from the east coast.
- 6:56Cathi Spooner: So I, I never, we moved here five years ago to the West Coast because I live in Southern Nevada.
- 7:02Cathi Spooner: We never had scorpions.
- 7:04Cathi Spooner: And then we moved out here.
- 7:05Cathi Spooner: I'm like, Oh, I don't really like scorpions.
- 7:09Cathi Spooner: And I never thought about having scorpions in my sand.
- 7:12Cathi Spooner: But that's the thing.
- 7:14Mary: Yeah.
- 7:15Mary: Yeah.
- 7:15Mary: It is from the desert.
- 7:16Mary: So, yeah.
- 7:17Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 7:18John: And yeah, we definitely, uh, ensure that all our sand is not dusty.
- 7:23John: When we're, when we're getting the sand, when we're cleaning it, we definitely do the eyeball test and make sure there's no nuisance dust or anything like that.
- 7:32Cathi Spooner: And no scorpions.
- 7:33John: Yeah.
- 7:33John: Make sure no scorpions.
- 7:35Cathi Spooner: That'd be funny.
- 7:37Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 7:38Cathi Spooner: So do you want to, um, Do you want to tell us a little bit about your sand?
- 7:42Cathi Spooner: And I know, um, John, you have some samples there and I can add your phone whenever you're ready.
- 7:51Cathi Spooner: And so for those of you that are watching, um, John and Mary have some samples about their sand and then John's going to use his camera so he can show you a little bit about the sand.
- 8:02Cathi Spooner: So if you're watching, If you're watching live and you have questions about the sand, go ahead and post those in the comments and then we can answer those.
- 8:13Cathi Spooner: If you have questions after the broadcast, if you're watching in the replay, feel free to post those questions and I can always get back to about those.
- 8:24Cathi Spooner: Alrighty.
- 8:25Cathi Spooner: Let me add John's phone.
- 8:28Cathi Spooner: Okay, I'm totally nerding out because I, I love their sand.
- 8:33John: Yeah, definitely.
- 8:34John: And you can see all the different colors, but beyond that, the different grain sizes.
- 8:40John: So, yeah, yeah.
- 8:42John: If you rake through this, this is our original Jurassic.
- 8:45John: It's a lot finer than, say, our deep purple here, which is a garnet.
- 8:51John: And so these have much bigger grain sizes.
- 8:55John: And so that's a big draw for play therapists is the different grain sizes and what you can do with that.
- 9:01Cathi Spooner: Yeah, and you know it's interesting too because I know you guys don't do the the black volcanic sand anymore, but for me that garnet sand, especially the coarse grain, Um, kind of, kind of filled that, I'll call it a void because it's really, really dark and the grains are really, uh, more coarse and thick like that volcanic sand was.
- 9:30Cathi Spooner: And I loved that volcanic sand.
- 9:33Mary: The grains are more angular.
- 9:35Mary: Sure.
- 9:35Mary: We have one that's a little coarser called Riverbed.
- 9:38Cathi Spooner: Yes, that was cool too.
- 9:41John: And yeah, we've gotten a lot of positive feedback about people liking the riverbed for wet trays.
- 9:48John: So when they get it wet, they actually really like the riverbed sand for play therapy.
- 9:53Cathi Spooner: Oh, that's interesting.
- 9:54Cathi Spooner: Yeah, because I was going to ask you which of those Which of those can get, some of them can get wet, and some of them cannot get wet, right?
- 10:04Mary: All of the sands can get wet, but we do have a lighter weight, um, one we call kknot sand, if you want to show that.
- 10:11Cathi Spooner: Oh, the knot, yes.
- 10:13Mary: And that's actually not a sand, it's made from the interior of corn cobs, and so that one is, um, crushed corn cobs, like it's, made from that.
- 10:24Mary: But we have it as an option because some people need to something lighter.
- 10:28Mary: And so, like, if you say you're you have 50 pounds of sand in your sand tray, well, you can't really carry that around.
- 10:35Mary: It's too heavy.
- 10:36Mary: But the equivalent amount of knot sand only weighs 16 pounds.
- 10:40Mary: So if you say you're traveling to a client doing an in home Session, you can carry a tray of that in.
- 10:48Cathi Spooner: And did you find, I thought I remembered, um, the knot sand was good for kids who have sensory issues like they do they, they don't because sometimes like with kids with sensory processing, especially the tactile, sometimes different textures in the sand will be unbearable.
- 11:10Cathi Spooner: Have you had, I'll tell you that experience with the knot sand?
- 11:15Mary: Yeah, I've, I've heard from just a couple, um, teachers about that and they say some, um, some like maybe special education kids like say the knot sand or like the riverbed sand because it's, um, rougher and they can feel it versus say our original, which is very smooth.
- 11:33Mary: Yeah.
- 11:34Mary: And that and so, but I think different children have different preferences too about like what fingers to feel and yeah, I just don't like the feel of the really smooth and others do
- 11:45Cathi Spooner: Yeah, yeah, that's true.
- 11:48Cathi Spooner: Yeah, because i've i've had people ask me in sand tray trainings that I do if I, they'll ask me about using rice and things like that.
- 11:58Cathi Spooner: And I always kind of showed them the, the knot sand if they brought kids who were looking for, you know, cause sometimes the preschools will use the rice instead of the sand.
- 12:12Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 12:14Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 12:16Cathi Spooner: And that, uh, the sparkly white one.
- 12:19John: Oh yeah.
- 12:20Cathi Spooner: Stardust.
- 12:22John: One's really cool.
- 12:23John: It's pretty much like a water.
- 12:26John: When you have it in a bag and you move it around, it's very liquid like, and you can see just how round the particles are, the grains of sand.
- 12:35John: So, it's pretty cool.
- 12:37Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 12:38Cathi Spooner: And what is that one made out of?
- 12:42Mary: Um, all of the sand, you know, is sand, which is quartz, which is silica.
- 12:48Mary: That's what sand is.
- 12:50Mary: And that one's, um, I'm not exactly sure where we get that.
- 13:00Mary: They're all from the desert Southwest.
- 13:01Mary: It's just, um, this is one that actually is, um, just very smooth and very slippery.
- 13:08Mary: So you have to be careful if you spill it.
- 13:10Cathi Spooner: Yes, it is very slippy slidey.
- 13:12Cathi Spooner: And I'll an interesting thing about that sand.
- 13:16Cathi Spooner: I, I had a, um, a kid that I was working with a child, uh, male, and he, that was for, he had a lot of anxiety.
- 13:27Cathi Spooner: That sand was so soothing for him.
- 13:30Cathi Spooner: Like if we had to talk about difficult things, I would get out.
- 13:34Cathi Spooner: I would, I would make a little.
- 13:36Cathi Spooner: Cause I had some small sandboxes as well that I used for training, but I brought one in for him so that when we were talking, I filled it up with some of that, uh, stardust.
- 13:48Cathi Spooner: And he would, he would use that as his self soothe while we talked, cause he was older.
- 13:55Cathi Spooner: While we talked about some of the things he was worried about.
- 13:59Cathi Spooner: And his mom got him some of that sand So he can have some at home.
- 14:09Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 14:11Cathi Spooner: It's very slippy slidey though.
- 14:16Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 14:18Cathi Spooner: When I do sand training in person sand trainings and I have that one available for people to use.
- 14:24Cathi Spooner: So when I do the in person I'll have all your sand in different sand trays and people get to use.
- 14:30Cathi Spooner: different sand trays with the different sand.
- 14:32Cathi Spooner: And that was very popular.
- 14:39Mary: So one question we get a lot is about cleaning the sand and how to keep it clean, especially now with the pandemic.
- 14:50Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 14:50Cathi Spooner: So how do you guys have suggestions about cleaning the sand.
- 14:57Mary: Um, yeah, well, so there's different, there's different kind of levels of, of clean.
- 15:02Mary: And so one option would be, um, you know, to screen it, like if you're just trying to get twigs or debris out of it, but usually your sand trays are indoors so you're not worried about that as much, you know, so so the easiest option is just to screen it to get debris out.
- 15:18Mary: But then to actually like disinfect it or sanitize it um There's different things you can do one option is to use the spray bottle of like nine parts water one part bleach.
- 15:30Mary: And you can spray it and get it moist And, um, you know, kind of move it around, spray it, get a good covering.
- 15:36Mary: So it's moist and you let it sit for like a minute and then you just let it dry and it'll be, um, and that's disinfecting.
- 15:43John: Yeah, that's sanitizing.
- 15:48John: And then another option is Lysol.
- 15:50John: You spray it.
- 15:51John: But the, the trick is with those disinfecting and sanitizing is the idea is to get every grain of sand.
- 15:58John: And so it's really tough when there's hundreds and hundreds of thousands, millions of sand.
- 16:04John: So you, you're not going to get every grain.
- 16:06John: So really the best way to keep your sand clean if you're doing sand tray is to make sure you and your client wash your hands thoroughly before you touch the sand.
- 16:16John: Because that's going to ultimately keep it the most clean.
- 16:19Cathi Spooner: Yeah, yeah.
- 16:20Cathi Spooner: And I'll usually have, um, I'll usually, we have a lot of, um, of those hand sanitizer disinfectant all around our office.
- 16:32Cathi Spooner: And I always have them use that before we go in and they have to do that after we leave.
- 16:39Cathi Spooner: Sometimes with the different sand because some of it kind of sticks to their hands a tiny bit.
- 16:44Cathi Spooner: So sometimes they'll wash their hands, but I, here's one of the things I learned a long time ago at a sand tray training for, um, the, for a therapist is really, you don't want to wash your figures in the sink because then the sand will collect at that little U so I always suggest that people keep like a bucket of water and then do it and wash their figures in the bucket of water, which you can put bleach in there too.
- 17:22Cathi Spooner: Um, and then Or have a bucket of water nearby and the kids can wash their hands in the bucket, not with bleach in it, but just so that the, their sinks don't get clogged up with sand.
- 17:37John: Yeah.
- 17:38Mary: Oh, that's a good idea.
- 17:39John: Yeah.
- 17:41John: And then another way to actually sterilize the sand is to put it on like a cookie sheet and put it in the oven and turn the oven up to 200 degrees Fahrenheit.
- 17:51John: And then put it in there for four hours, let it sit overnight.
- 17:54John: So it cools.
- 17:55John: And then when you wake up in the morning, you'll have warm sand, that's been sterilized.
- 18:00John: And so that's a good option.
- 18:02John: And so with, with those cleaning techniques, we often get asked, you know, how often should I replace my sand?
- 18:09John: And we always tell them never.
- 18:11John: Our sand lasts forever.
- 18:12Mary: So if the sand is non porous, non permeable, so the sand will last forever.
- 18:18Mary: Where, where the danger comes in is, we actually even had one, um, preschool call us because a child, they were standing around the sensory table, and a child, you know, they were, What?
- 18:31Mary: And we actually explained to them how to clean it and that the sand is fine.
- 18:35Mary: You just need to get the other debris out of there.
- 18:38Mary: And in that case, we had them put it in a big, um, garbage can, a big garbage can, and put a hose down in the bottom.
- 18:45Mary: And so everything came up in the water and they could just spill the, the dirty water off the top.
- 18:51Mary: And then spread the sand out, like on a sheet in the sun and let it dry.
- 18:56Mary: And it was, you know, good as new.
- 18:58Cathi Spooner: Oh, that's a great point.
- 19:00Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 19:02Cathi Spooner: I could just imagine if my son saw that when he was little, they're grown now.
- 19:07Cathi Spooner: Never touch it again.
- 19:11Cathi Spooner: You know, that's true because when I, I, uh, I, I got your, Originally I got Jurassic sand 'cause I was so tired of the dust.
- 19:22Cathi Spooner: I tried the cheaper options.
- 19:24Cathi Spooner: But when you're working with children and they sift and they pour, it's like this cloud of dust that rises and it is torture.
- 19:35Cathi Spooner: So I decided, you know what?
- 19:37Cathi Spooner: Gonna order the sand.
- 19:39Cathi Spooner: I've had your sand.
- 19:41Cathi Spooner: Um, when did I get it?
- 19:43Cathi Spooner: Like 2000, probably 2004.
- 19:46Cathi Spooner: Is when I when I ordered and I it was funny because it was your original sand.
- 19:51Cathi Spooner: So it's the orange one.
- 19:54Cathi Spooner: And I I have like yeah that one, it's that one which is very soft and silky um And so, you know, I lived on the East Coast, so I was in Virginia.
- 20:08Cathi Spooner: I didn't know how you got this awesome sand with these weird colors, because I'd never seen sand like that.
- 20:13Cathi Spooner: Like, sand doesn't come in that color from the East Coast.
- 20:17Cathi Spooner: Anyway, so we moved here, and I moved to Southern Nevada, and I worked over there in Southern.
- 20:24Cathi Spooner: Utah and I went to Sand Hollow and I thought to where I was like, Oh my gosh, real color, real color sand mesmerized, but that's actually a real color sand.
- 20:41Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 20:41Cathi Spooner: And then there's a pink coral.
- 20:44Cathi Spooner: What is that?
- 20:44Cathi Spooner: Coral pink.
- 20:46Cathi Spooner: That's my other, yeah, um, state park.
- 20:50Cathi Spooner: Yeah, so that's my other destination to go and see that other state park where they have these colors.
- 20:58Cathi Spooner: But I mean, who knew you have like those, those colored sands and you have the do you still have the golden cambria because I thought I saw it in there so if people want more of like a beach beach vibe that was a nice one to get and my other favorite that you have and again I did not know this was real sand because now I live in the Mojave Desert and we went I took a drive over to um Lake uh Valley of Fire And in Valley of Fire, they had that Mojave sand color.
- 21:33Cathi Spooner: And I remember looking at it thinking, yeah, that I love that one.
- 21:36Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 21:37Cathi Spooner: I remember looking at it thinking, that's a real color.
- 21:42Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 21:44Mary: That one's really smooth too.
- 21:45Cathi Spooner: Yeah.
- 21:46Cathi Spooner: That one's really smooth and it's got this really.
- 21:51Cathi Spooner: So that, that beach sand really gives you the beach vibe.
- 21:56Cathi Spooner: And then this is my experience with it.
- 21:58Cathi Spooner: And the Mojave sand is got this when, and when, cause I've, when I use these at the sand trainings, people use it different sands.
- 22:08Cathi Spooner: And it's always interesting to me when they create their sand tray at the trainings, how much they, seem different in the different sand so I get asked that question all the time.
- 22:22Cathi Spooner: Does color make a difference?
- 22:24Cathi Spooner: And i'll say well yes, and no, it really depends on who's ever creating the sand But it does I think with the texture and the color a little bit gives it really a different experience.
- 22:40Cathi Spooner: So people will ask me all the time, you know, should you, you know, have more than one sand tray or different sand?
- 22:49Cathi Spooner: And ideally, I think that's awesome.
- 22:53Cathi Spooner: If you can offer more sand experiences, because it's always interesting to see what people do with it and the, um, different kind of sand trays and their experience in those sand trays.
- 23:08Cathi Spooner: And, uh, if that's the case, though, I always tell people you have to come up with some kind of, um, You have to come up with some kinds of rules because when they use one sand figure and then they put it in the other sand, then you get these hybrid mixed sand trays, which drives me crazy.
- 23:27Cathi Spooner: It's kind of like letting people mix your Play Doh and your Play Doh.
- 23:33Cathi Spooner: That is not a thing.
- 23:34Cathi Spooner: That's a rule.
- 23:35Cathi Spooner: No mixing Play Doh.
- 23:36Cathi Spooner: So in the playroom, cause I have different sand.
- 23:39Cathi Spooner: That's my rule.
- 23:40Cathi Spooner: You can't, you have to give me your figures.
- 23:42Cathi Spooner: And is that, yeah.
- 23:45Cathi Spooner: You know, that's my way of doing it.
- 23:47Cathi Spooner: Well, thank you for being on today.
- 23:50Cathi Spooner: Um, and for any of you interested, I do have, um, if you're interested in learning more about play therapy or expressive arts, I have some trainings coming up, I do have some sand tray trainings.
- 24:07Cathi Spooner: I have an online supervision group.
- 24:09Cathi Spooner: If you're interested in that.
- 24:12Cathi Spooner: Um, if you're interested in the sand tray trainings, you can also go to my website and I will post, I'll post the link for the discount code.
- 24:24Cathi Spooner: I'll also post a link.
- 24:26Cathi Spooner: I have a free pdf for must have sand tray therapy.
- 24:33Cathi Spooner: So I'll post that for anyone interested in that free PDF.
- 24:37Cathi Spooner: And thank you so much for joining us.
- 24:41Cathi Spooner: All right.
- 24:44Cathi Spooner: Bye for now.
- 24:46Cathi Spooner: See you later.
- 24:54Cathi Spooner: Thank you for joining me on this episode of Next Level Play Therapy.
- 24:58Cathi Spooner: I hope you found the discussion valuable and gain new insights and ideas to support your work, helping children, adolescents, and families heal.
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