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Happy Hour #233: SMNTY Prepares for a Voyage! · Stuff Mom Never Told You

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  Speaker 1: Hey, this is Anny and Samantha, and welcome to stuff
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  Speaker 1: I've ever told your prediction if I heard you.
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  Speaker 2: And welcome to another edition of Happy Hour. If you
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  Speaker 2: are partaking of anything happy hour ish, do so responsibly.
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  Speaker 2: This one we are kind of sponsored because we're going
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  Speaker 2: to talk a little bit about our upcoming voyage. But
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  Speaker 2: before we do that, Annie, are you sipping on eating
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  Speaker 2: delicious for a happy Hour?
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  Speaker 3: I got my light beer exposed me for I did.
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  Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure people already know I said it a
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  Speaker 2: few times. I've exposed to you a few times. Apparently
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  Speaker 2: I've exposed to you quite a bit on a few things,
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  Speaker 2: to the point my partner's like, you need to stop talking.
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  Speaker 1: Let me live my private life as a public podcaster.
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  Speaker 2: Correct and all those things, and if you would like
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  Speaker 2: to y'all, we are going on a voyage, like we said,
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  Speaker 2: and it is happening October second through the seventh.
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  Speaker 3: We are going with Virgin Voyages.
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  Speaker 2: On their stuff at c where we Ay and I
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  Speaker 2: and our amazing produced Arima BB does as well as
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  Speaker 2: stuff they don't want you to know and stuff you
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  Speaker 2: should know. We are going to be on the voyage
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  Speaker 2: being able to share what it's like doing a podcast.
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  Speaker 2: We're actually going to record a podcast live with whomever
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  Speaker 2: wants to come and show up. So if you're interested
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  Speaker 2: in doing this, we are going from New York to
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  Speaker 2: the bermudas you can check out www. Dot virgin Voyages
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  Speaker 2: dot com slash stuff to get more information.
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  Speaker 3: You still have time come hang with us.
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  Speaker 2: And speaking of coming hang with us and speaking of
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  Speaker 2: us doing this podcast live, y'all know we are over
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  Speaker 2: preparers when it comes to this, and we also love
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  Speaker 2: a good suggestion and oftentimes are asking you, our listener,
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  Speaker 2: what should we do. We have a few topic ideas
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  Speaker 2: and now I will throw out some topic ideas about
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  Speaker 2: what we want to cover live. But it's different beast
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  Speaker 2: doing it live versus us doing a recording. Because if
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  Speaker 2: you've ever somehow guested with us, because we've had a
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  Speaker 2: few listeners come on to do some episodes with us,
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  Speaker 2: whether we did it for Sex and the City and
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  Speaker 2: that is coming back soon, don't you worry, or whether
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  Speaker 2: we feel like you have so much knowledge in a
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  Speaker 2: certain subject that you are a pro at doest and
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  Speaker 2: should come talk about it.
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  Speaker 3: Stuff like that.
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  Speaker 2: You have seen us where we say, yes, we are recording,
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  Speaker 2: but it is not live. So if you want to
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  Speaker 2: take something back, all those things and it's not so
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  Speaker 2: much of a performance as we are doing kind of
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  Speaker 2: a script write Annie.
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  Speaker 1: Generally these happy pars not so much, but yes.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, And even with these happy hours though, if we
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  Speaker 2: want to take something back or edit something, or I
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  Speaker 2: stumbled through something, which I do often, we can have
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  Speaker 2: it edited. That's one of the best things about podcasting
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  Speaker 2: is that we're not on radio, contrary to a lot
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  Speaker 2: of like movies, how to think that that's how we
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  Speaker 2: do it. But with that, we also want to do
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  Speaker 2: a topic that is lively interactive and not necessarily traumatic.
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  Speaker 3: This is where we were like, oh, yeah, how do
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  Speaker 3: we do this? How do we do this invitingly?
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  Speaker 1: Because it's a it's a vacation.
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  Speaker 3: It is I.
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  Speaker 2: Want to be on a voyage together where we are
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  Speaker 2: enjoying and having our adults only time because it is
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  Speaker 2: twenty one and over hangouts where we taste amazing food, which,
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  Speaker 2: by the way, I'm very excited about all these restaurants.
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  Speaker 3: I've been looking through all the different ones.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, I gotta do this one, and we'n to
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  Speaker 2: do all of them, any all of them and then
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  Speaker 2: there's like little things that you can do that people
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  Speaker 2: don't know about if you know, you know, type of
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  Speaker 2: things like getting bracelets, maybe little shot classes. So I saw,
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  Speaker 2: so you know, we're going to do some adventuring. But
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  Speaker 2: with that again, like this is a fun time. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: we want to make sure that we are conveying that
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  Speaker 2: we are fun people, not just tragically crying girls oliver
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  Speaker 2: in the side of the corner, which is not a
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  Speaker 2: bad thing, just not the most appropriate time. It's all
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  Speaker 2: about the timing right, And again, we do have a
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  Speaker 2: few ideas, so let me throw some ideas for y' all,
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  Speaker 2: because we also will probably be talking to a lot
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  Speaker 2: of people who don't know about our show, so not
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  Speaker 2: you faithful listeners, but we would love for you to come.
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  Speaker 3: So because we love good you know, people who know us.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it does feel nice because like they know stuff
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  Speaker 2: you should know pretty well. They've been around, they've been
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  Speaker 2: the flagship, they've been the standard, and they're amazing dudes.
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  Speaker 2: We love them very much. Excited to hang with them
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  Speaker 2: on this voyage. But like they have a pretty broad
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  Speaker 2: aspect of topics that they can do, and they always
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  Speaker 2: draw in a good crowd and then you know stuff
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  Speaker 2: they don't want you to know. Ben. If you know Ben, Bolin,
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  Speaker 2: Nol and Matt who are part of this show, they
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  Speaker 2: are the kings of entertainment when it comes to being
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  Speaker 2: on stage. I really feel like Ben was is an
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  Speaker 2: actor slash have been an old school actor who could
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  Speaker 2: perform at a Broadway even he could do a soliloquoy. Soliloquy,
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  Speaker 2: I can't say they have the word. I can't even
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  Speaker 2: say the word liloquoy in a way that is so amazing.
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  Speaker 2: So like he brings in a crowd in itself us
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  Speaker 2: we are good, we're interactive, but it's not something that
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  Speaker 2: we do on a consistent basis. So we're trying to
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  Speaker 2: like we're going to stick with our intersectional feminism because
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  Speaker 2: that's who we are. We will never diver from that.
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  Speaker 2: But that could mean a host of things. So one
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  Speaker 2: of the things that we thought about, because it is
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  Speaker 2: going to be in October again, October second of the seventh,
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  Speaker 2: Halloween we should do because you know, we love good Halloween,
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  Speaker 2: but also sometimes we turn dark in our Halloween topics. Sure, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you know, you know, like we'll talk about like how
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  Speaker 2: periods are a horror like storyline that they don't want
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  Speaker 2: to admit not always the greatest subject.
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  Speaker 3: I think it's truthful. It was a great episode. It
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  Speaker 3: was a great episode.
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  Speaker 2: However, how does that translate doing a live participation type
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  Speaker 2: of event. So we've talked about doing hollow and related
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  Speaker 2: topics with that, maybe like you know, true crime level,
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  Speaker 2: Like we don't do too much of true crime because
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  Speaker 2: we don't think it's necessarily a brand that's about us.
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  Speaker 2: But we have talked about things like women who fall
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  Speaker 2: in love with serial killers? Why does this happen? We
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  Speaker 2: all obviously do like a deep dive. We talked to
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  Speaker 2: the psychological level of why this happens? And I think
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  Speaker 2: that's still important. I think that's important and we would
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  Speaker 2: dove into that. But what if we did that as
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  Speaker 2: like a part two in which we talk about men
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  Speaker 2: who have fallen in love with women serial killers, which
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  Speaker 2: has happened, not as many that we know of that
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  Speaker 2: we know of, but we can dig like dig into
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  Speaker 2: that in a little bit conversation of that and also
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  Speaker 2: like dive into maybe why women kill.
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  Speaker 3: I think we've talked about.
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  Speaker 2: That before, but like a little bit deeper, especially today
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  Speaker 2: when we talk about some things we talked about women
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  Speaker 2: who have faked their deaths. I think that would be
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  Speaker 2: an interesting conversation and also digging up old cases about
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  Speaker 2: that that that might be a good topic and it
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  Speaker 2: could be interactive, a little bit of like why would
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  Speaker 2: they do it? Well, what are the reasons? And I
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  Speaker 2: feel like, again that could turn dark, yes, real quick,
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  Speaker 2: because I did did bring in the example of sleeping
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  Speaker 2: with the enemy and why she did and he was
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  Speaker 2: a horrible abusive and he tried to kill her. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: so it's like, again, this is I have a problem
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  Speaker 2: Annie and not not.
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  Speaker 3: Taking it dark. So we're going that way.
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  Speaker 2: We also talked about like, you know, why women are
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  Speaker 2: willing to go with hainous crimes kind of like that
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  Speaker 2: kind like Bonnie and Clyde, but not so much as
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  Speaker 2: a much participant, but oftentimes like that just like, oh
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  Speaker 2: well it happened in turn way, Like I've seen definitely
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  Speaker 2: stories of like women of men who they are married
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  Speaker 2: to who have like kidnapped people and kept them. But
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  Speaker 2: then like the women really did start turning, like feeling
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  Speaker 2: bad and trying to figure out how to do it,
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  Speaker 2: but also kind of that level of like being traumatized themselves.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like I'm explaining it.
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  Speaker 2: Right now, but like you know, talking a deep dive
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  Speaker 2: on that as well as looking at some of the
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  Speaker 2: specific cases and like maybe some of the heroines. We
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  Speaker 2: talked about that as well. I also thought about a
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  Speaker 2: really fun like throwback into why don't we Believe Her?
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  Speaker 2: But in talking about women's celebrities who may have gone
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  Speaker 2: through things and we've just or we owe them an
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  Speaker 2: apology like that turn we owe them an apology and
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  Speaker 2: talk about like the nineties like misunderstood actresses that we
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  Speaker 2: really were like, oh damn, they.
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  Speaker 3: Were victims here.
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  Speaker 2: And I think about that with Monica Lewinsky too, and
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  Speaker 2: I know we've talked about that as well, like she
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  Speaker 2: we owe her an apology, And I thought we could
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  Speaker 2: do a deep dive on stuff like that.
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  Speaker 3: As an episode. Any what do you think?
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  Speaker 2: So there's a few that we have in there, so,
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  Speaker 2: but what are some things that you think would be
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  Speaker 2: a little more of a fun take on a subject?
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  Speaker 2: Not necessarily these subjects that you're like, you should do
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  Speaker 2: this as a live show, you think would be a
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  Speaker 2: more interesting live show as opposed to us just doing research.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, and.
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  Speaker 1: We're still hammering out the details obviously, but we are
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  Speaker 1: talking about introducing interactions with the audience and things like that.
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  Speaker 3: So we would love to hear from you. What would
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  Speaker 3: you want to hear? What do you think would be good?
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  Speaker 2: Oh and if you do join us, which I really
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  Speaker 2: hope you can, because it would be a delight to
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  Speaker 2: hang with you because we would be hanging with you.
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  Speaker 3: Y'all.
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  Speaker 2: We have nothing but this one panel planned and I
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  Speaker 2: think it may be another couple of events that you
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  Speaker 2: are able to participate in, but outside of that, we're
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  Speaker 2: just going to be chillen. Yeah, So we would love
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  Speaker 2: to hang with you. So if that's something that you
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  Speaker 2: were like worried about everythinking like maybe, but come and
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  Speaker 2: hang like that is going to be us there to
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  Speaker 2: hang with whoever is on the ship, making new friends,
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  Speaker 2: making friends in general because we love that and meeting
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  Speaker 2: all the peoples. So we would love for you to come.
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  Speaker 2: And if you have ideas of like, hey, you should
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  Speaker 2: do these types of events, because we've been talking about
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  Speaker 2: maybe we're going to show up at some of the
• 10:24
  Speaker 2: bingos that they do. Maybe we're going to show up
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  Speaker 2: at their trivia stuff because you know, we love good
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  Speaker 2: trivia too. Maybe we're going to create our own little
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  Speaker 2: bar crawl.
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  Speaker 3: Who knows.
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  Speaker 1: It's a lot of options, you have ideas.
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  Speaker 3: If you have ideas, give it to us.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, we want to make this really fun for everybody,
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  Speaker 1: so we would love to hear from you and definitely
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  Speaker 1: let us know if you're coming so we can meet up.
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