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- 1:16Welcome to Hot Takes the Murph Man coming to you live from
- 1:19Porter Studios here in El Paso, TX.
- 1:21I am the Murph Man with my Co host Connor.
- 1:23How you doing today Connor? I'm doing good today.
- 1:26How you doing Mark man? Is that too much energy for you
- 1:28so early in the morning? A little bit.
- 1:29That's fine. I was like, that's a little
- 1:32extra. I'm like, OK, yeah.
- 1:34No, I just want to see what you. Can I switch it up a little bit
- 1:35or what? No, I just because I know we're
- 1:38tired and you're just like, oh God, I don't want to be here.
- 1:41Yeah, but you have a good work ethic and you're here, so.
- 1:43Props. Thank you.
- 1:45So what's going on in the world that you want to talk about
- 1:48today? Anything in particular?
- 1:49I don't know what's going on at all so.
- 1:52Well, UTEP is playing Oregon State Beavers.
- 1:55What do you think the chances are for Homecoming?
- 2:01A good 64 points, no chance to win. 64 Why not 63?
- 2:10Why not 62? Just, you know, 64.
- 2:15Percentage. I mean, I guess.
- 2:20That's funny. You know?
- 2:21You know why, right? No, no, it's because it's like a
- 2:25third of the chance is 33, then you have 66, but not even 2/3,
- 2:29you're like a little less than 2/3 of 64.
- 2:32I guess, yeah, that's. Why?
- 2:35I'm like, that's just a a weird percentage number to throw out
- 2:38there. It's just a percentage.
- 2:40I, I know, but so anyway, I think UTIP will beat the Beavers
- 2:46and I, I think it's like a 71 1/2, 71.2532415% chance.
- 2:54No, that's random, OK. 3.14 π. I know what that.
- 3:04Is, Yeah. How many numbers are in π
- 3:07infinite? Yeah, that's right.
- 3:09Isn't that crazy? No, no.
- 3:12You don't think that's crazy? No, Why not?
- 3:16We have infinite numbers, you know that, right?
- 3:19I know you have infinite numbers.
- 3:21So then did you know if you started counting to a million
- 3:26from the day Uncle Jesus was born, every second, one number,
- 3:30every second, you still wouldn't be at 1,000,000.
- 3:36It's a trip, huh? I guess.
- 3:40Yeah. Counting one number every second
- 3:43since Jesus was born, you still wouldn't reach me.
- 3:45When was that? The year of 0, so 1900.
- 3:51And I mean 2026 years ago. OK.
- 4:01You don't find that interesting? No, you suck.
- 4:05I don't think that's true though.
- 4:06But. You don't think that's true?
- 4:10I don't think that's true. I think it is.
- 4:13I think it is. I believe it is.
- 4:15Why wouldn't it be true? I don't lie.
- 4:18Why would you know that though? Have you counted to a million?
- 4:21Has anybody counted to 1,000,000?
- 4:24You physically can't. We just got through saying that.
- 4:27You can. If you count every second since
- 4:32you were born, you. How many seconds has it been
- 4:37since I've I've been born? You want to do that math?
- 4:40I'll do it later. I don't have my phone on.
- 4:42We're doing a show right now, so I'll do it after I know.
- 4:45Go on, break one of those. You'll do it on break.
- 4:50All right. Well, Speaking of break and one,
- 4:53before we go on into our show, I want to tell you a little bit
- 4:55about Conor and I are here. We're not experts on this
- 4:58subject where we talk from world, world experience, our
- 5:01lives, our experiences, our friends, family, whatever you
- 5:04want to call it. And whatever we say here is not
- 5:07about anything other than our opinions.
- 5:11Now, sometimes we do get a little heated and, you know, we
- 5:14discuss and we get off track because we don't rehearse the
- 5:17actual show itself. I do the slides and everything
- 5:21that we have and clips. And yeah, I do that, but we
- 5:24don't actually discuss. OK, here's what you're going to
- 5:26say. Here's what I'm going to say.
- 5:27We don't plan it that way. It's all spontaneous.
- 5:30So that's why I like that. All right?
- 5:34But I will tell you right now, let's go ahead and get the show
- 5:36started and let's go ahead and ignite that fuse.
- 5:49Welcome to Hot Takes with the Murph Man.
- 5:52Today we are talking about your first real budget, managing a
- 5:56paycheck, rent, and real world expenses.
- 5:59Your first paycheck feels amazing until rent, groceries,
- 6:03and bills show up in episode 54 of Hot Takes with the Murph Man.
- 6:08Murph, Man and Connor Breakdown How to build a real world budget
- 6:12that balances financial freedom with adult responsibility.
- 6:16Discover the power of the 5030 Twenty rule.
- 6:19Learn how 0 based budgeting apps keep your spending on track, and
- 6:23find out why the true priority in your 20s should be increasing
- 6:26your income earning potential rather than pinching every
- 6:29penny. TuneIn to master your cash flow,
- 6:33dodge common financial pitfalls and turn your budget from a cage
- 6:37into a financial compass. All right, we are back.
- 6:44So I got to tell you, budgeting to me is so important.
- 6:50This is something Connor can tell you I work on on a daily
- 6:54basis, right? I check my budget every day
- 6:57because things happen every day, unexpected expenses or I come up
- 7:02with an idea and like, oh, I want to do this.
- 7:04And I told you guys last week that my budget is planned, you
- 7:07know, till I retire basically, so I can figure out where I need
- 7:11to save and what I need to spend and so on so forth.
- 7:14And as I'm doing this, I am realizing that I can save money,
- 7:20all right? But instead of saving the money,
- 7:23I'm actually investigating into the pro, into our business,
- 7:26right? So it's not that I don't want to
- 7:29save money, just my goal right now is to get this business off
- 7:32the ground. And that's where my money's
- 7:33going. So I have to budget for it.
- 7:35And for example, this past week I wanted to buy a program that
- 7:41does avatars and I went and bought it and I didn't like it.
- 7:46So got my money back, you know what I mean?
- 7:48But I had to come up with that money to begin with on my budget
- 7:51if in case I had it. Also, programs are starting to
- 7:54renew because we've already been in this for over a year.
- 7:57And all the problems I had when I first started, you know,
- 7:58there's some I got rid of, but there's some that I still want
- 8:01to keep. So now I'm like, OK, I got to
- 8:03find the money for that, right? Because there was one I didn't
- 8:06want to keep, but I'm going to now, right?
- 8:10Or I might. We're going to still, we're
- 8:11still working on that. We have until the 4th of October
- 8:13to decide if we're going to keep it or not.
- 8:15But next October 4th is already in my budget to keep it just in
- 8:18case, you know what I mean. So I plan ahead like that.
- 8:23That's what I do for budgeting. I don't obsess over it like I
- 8:27used to because it's pretty good now.
- 8:30But every time I get new income, I decide, OK, what bills am I
- 8:33going to pay? And I start playing with my
- 8:34budget and everything. And it works, right?
- 8:38But what I want to do is help you understand what it means to
- 8:42budget. OK?
- 8:44Like the slide says, your first paycheck feels amazing until
- 8:46rent, groceries and bills show up.
- 8:49This episode helps you build a real world budget that balances
- 8:51a freedom with the responsibility and sets the
- 8:53stage for financial stability. What do you mean by financial
- 8:57stability, Connor? What do you think that means for
- 8:59you? To be stable.
- 9:02That's yeah. You're defining it with the
- 9:04definition so, but what does stable mean for you?
- 9:09To be balanced, to be equal, like not good, not bad or not
- 9:18left not. Right centered about talking
- 9:21financially, you said define stable and not.
- 9:24You don't. You don't want to get into
- 9:26places where you don't pay your bills and you lose your house.
- 9:28Card good or bad? OK.
- 9:30But it's one of those things that when you think about it,
- 9:33you don't realize how much it actually matters to budget,
- 9:37right? So I think one of the important
- 9:40things that we got to do is have a plan.
- 9:44So let's talk about that right now.
- 9:45Another burning question. Today's burning question is what
- 9:57is the 5030 Twenty rule of budgeting?
- 10:00A 50% wants, 30% needs 20% savings B 50% needs, 30% wants
- 10:0820% savings slash debt C 50% debt, 30% needs, 20% wants D 50%
- 10:17savings, 30% needs, 20% wants. All right, Connor, this is a
- 10:25little confusing, but let's let's first of all, let's define
- 10:27three things. Let's define wants, needs and
- 10:30savings before we get to the answer to the question.
- 10:32What are wants once are anything that is not a need.
- 10:39So anything extra, obviously. Well, does that make sense
- 10:42though? Yeah, but you defined it with
- 10:45the definition. Do you want pizza or do you need
- 10:50pizza? No, you need food.
- 10:54You want pizza? It's stuff you desire.
- 10:59Yeah, you can say that. OK, then you have the needs,
- 11:03everything you need for to succeed in life, to pass, to be
- 11:06healthy, all that good stuff. And putting in front of savings
- 11:08is savings is what you put aside so you don't touch it and you
- 11:12try to make some money down the road, right.
- 11:14OK. So 5030 or 20%, where do you
- 11:16think they fall? Well, let me think 20% would be
- 11:23for savings. That's what I would do. 30% I
- 11:30would say. I'd say 30% is stuff you want,
- 11:37not much on priority. I would say half your money you
- 11:40would spend on stuff you need. Half your money you want.
- 11:45On need, Sean. Oh, stuff you need.
- 11:47OK, that's. What I would say so I would
- 11:51think B would be the answer. 50 needs 30 wants 20 savings.
- 11:55OK, I think you're right on that one.
- 11:58That is 100% correct because having this set up, let me give
- 12:02you an example. Easy numbers, let's just say you
- 12:04get 1000 a month on paycheck, OK, Immediately $200 goes into
- 12:10your savings account, OK Now of course this is take home pay,
- 12:14not your net pay and gross pay are different.
- 12:19Gross pay is what you actually earn.
- 12:21Net pays which take home after all the taxes and fine and all
- 12:23your health benefits and all that are taken out.
- 12:26OK. So when we sit there and we look
- 12:35at this 20% is put into savings. Now we're going to talk about
- 12:39that a little later, 30% are your your wants and 50% are your
- 12:47needs. So the first thing you do out of
- 12:49that $1000, you put the 20 in savings and then you go through
- 12:53the 50% and you identify all the bills you have for the month,
- 12:56groceries, gas, all that has to be budgeted into your account.
- 13:00Why shouldn't you do that first, technically?
- 13:05Well, I'll explain why I'm saying it this way, OK?
- 13:10And then after that, whatever's left over, whether it's 30% or
- 13:14less or more, OK, you decide what you're going to do with it.
- 13:18And if it's more, you can put into savings.
- 13:19If it's less. And kind of brings up a good
- 13:21point, why would I do savings first?
- 13:24Well, the way I recommend you do this, and we're going to talk
- 13:27about this down the road, right? But you get your first paycheck,
- 13:33you do what you call is an ACH transfer or an allotment or
- 13:36whatever the case may be. So you can actually have money
- 13:39pulled out of your account and put into savings automatically.
- 13:43You don't even see it on your paycheck on the bank.
- 13:47That's what I mean, 20% gets taken away.
- 13:49Sorry, 20% gets put into your savings without you even
- 13:51realizing you're doing it. As your income goes up, that
- 13:56same amount keeps going into your bank every paycheck, right?
- 14:00Then you have more money for your ones and needs, and if you
- 14:03need to, you can pull money out of the savings if you don't.
- 14:05Have money or something? If your money goes up, wouldn't
- 14:08the wouldn't you put more into savings?
- 14:10Yeah, you would want to do that exactly.
- 14:12But I'm saying if you don't ever touch your paycheck again, your
- 14:17money goes up, more money goes into your bank account, but that
- 14:19same 20% from the beginning always goes in there, whether
- 14:21it's $100.10 dollars, $15, whatever the amount is.
- 14:25You can change that, obviously, But that money has gone into
- 14:30your bank account, into your savings, and you haven't looked
- 14:32at it on your paycheck at all. So you don't even think about
- 14:34that money anymore. Does that make sense?
- 14:37Yeah. Yeah.
- 14:37So as you get paid more than yes, you could put more into
- 14:43savings, which you should put more into savings.
- 14:45And do you remember how many months you need to have in
- 14:47savings for emergencies? How many months?
- 14:53I don't know. Six months.
- 14:55Six months so that it it takes between 6 to 10 months to find
- 15:00the job. Sometimes if you get lose your
- 15:01job for whatever reason, business closed down, whatever
- 15:03the case may be, unemployment lasts for a few months, but it's
- 15:07nowhere near enough, believe me. And, and here's what really
- 15:09sucks, just so you know, if you don't notice about an
- 15:11unemployment when you have a, a, when you lose a job, let's just
- 15:20say I'm making $1000 a month at this job and I have a side
- 15:23hustle at Burger King making $200 a month.
- 15:25Easy numbers. OK, if I get $600.00 from
- 15:31unemployment because of my $1000 job that I lost, they subtract
- 15:34the 200 that I make. So it's actually this, this is
- 15:39where the system is so screwed up.
- 15:42It benefits people to not work and get all the benefits.
- 15:45Unemployment, housing, food stamps, right?
- 15:51It's actually better to get that than try to even make money and
- 15:53and get a job while you're receiving those benefits.
- 15:58You make more by not working. Damn, that's that's crazy.
- 16:05That's great. So when when you think about a
- 16:07lot of people who live in housing and whatnot and they
- 16:10look at and they say, OK, you know, why would I want to get a
- 16:13job? That's a mentality.
- 16:16The government takes care of me, OK, Why would I want to do it?
- 16:21And that's, that's the, the point that I make is you can
- 16:27stay at that level of low income for the rest of your life and
- 16:30never have to work and whatever, whatever disability, you know,
- 16:33whatever the case may be. But if you want to improve your
- 16:35life, you're going to have to find a job at some point and get
- 16:37off those benefits. And with this, with the life
- 16:39that I've had, with the situation we had, I've had to
- 16:42get on benefits to survive. But it was three months, four
- 16:48months, you know, and you talk about the six months of savings.
- 16:52If I had six months of savings, I would have been able to
- 16:55afford. That doesn't make sense.
- 16:57But I didn't have it because I just had to pay for Mom's
- 16:59funeral and all her medical costs and everything.
- 17:01Thousands and thousands of dollars all went out the door.
- 17:04So we struggled. We got the help, we need it and
- 17:09we got out of it. OK.
- 17:12Now I'm at a point where, like I said, instead of putting the
- 17:16money savings I'm putting into the business, so on and so
- 17:17forth, OK. But if you get that first
- 17:22paycheck and you put those statements in the bank account
- 17:25and don't touch it, you have two, You can have two bank
- 17:27accounts. You can have one that builds up
- 17:29for savings and one that builds up for emergency fund, OK.
- 17:34And that money gets together. Your paycheck, you never see it.
- 17:36Your paycheck goes to your bank and you say, oh, that's my money
- 17:38I can work with this month. So the money gets put in
- 17:41savings. You don't even remember you have
- 17:43it until you get the bank statement.
- 17:45You know what I mean? Yeah, if you even get a bank
- 17:47statement, we'll do it electronically.
- 17:48So that's that's those fifty 3020 rules.
- 17:51OK. And we'll talk about that more
- 17:53in a little bit, but let's go ahead and get to our hot takes
- 17:57of the day. Today's hot take is this.
- 18:09The financial priority in your 20s shouldn't be saving every
- 18:13penny, it should be increasing your income earning potential.
- 18:17A $5000 investment in a high ROI certification or skill building
- 18:22course will yield more lifetime wealth than having $5000 sitting
- 18:26in a low interest savings account.
- 18:30OK, think, think about that, Connor.
- 18:33It says you shouldn't be trying to save every penny.
- 18:35You should increase your income earning potential, IE get
- 18:41something, get some kind of training, go to college, because
- 18:44in the long run they'll give you more money, right?
- 18:48Yeah. A $5000 investment in the high
- 18:50return of investment, it's ROI certification or skill building,
- 18:54such as cybersecurity. If you were to get that, that
- 18:57license, you're making $45,000 a year immediately with that first
- 19:00course done. Spend a couple 100 bucks in the
- 19:03course and you become cybersecurity expert, you know,
- 19:08and that in turn will get you more money down the road as
- 19:10opposed to just going to work at McDonald's and starting your job
- 19:13career and working your way up, right.
- 19:16So when you look at this stuff, realize you're trying to invest
- 19:20in your future and yet ask yourself what's the best use of
- 19:24my money right now? Yes, put some into savings.
- 19:27Yes, have your living expenses, have your wants.
- 19:30But ask yourself, should I invest in property?
- 19:34Should I invest in business? Should I invest in myself?
- 19:39And you really can't go wrong if you invest in yourself, OK?
- 19:44Yeah. Now, what I think is also funny
- 19:47is when you look at investing in your 20s, if you start early,
- 19:54you can be a millionaire if you have good investments by the
- 19:57time you're 4045, if you do it right, you know, and we've
- 20:02talked about this before. When I die, my retirement from
- 20:05Texas Teachers Retirement System is going to be going to you.
- 20:09I'm getting half of it now and you're going to get half of it
- 20:11for the rest of your life. So and we thought it was like
- 20:13500 bucks. I think it's going to be closer
- 20:14to 1300 bucks. You know, imagine saving well,
- 20:2014,015 thousand a year without you having to spend depending on
- 20:25your actual income. That's pretty good right and
- 20:30over years that hopefully that that builds up.
- 20:33Hopefully I don't die early, right.
- 20:36I hope I get to live it out. But no matter when I die, you
- 20:39still get that amount. So you can always look at that,
- 20:44but start investing in yourself. That's that's my hot take for
- 20:48today. OK, how about we take a break,
- 20:51Hunter, Ready for a break? Yeah.
- 20:53All right, let's. Go ahead and take a quick break.
- 20:57It's time for a break. Hot takes with the Murph man.
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- 25:00All right, now back to the show. We're going to talk about those
- 25:06terms and definitions that we need to know so that we can talk
- 25:09about things today. So here's laying down the goals.
- 25:20Before we dig in, let's clarify some of the key terms we'll be
- 25:24using today while laying down the coals. 0 based budgeting.
- 25:28A budgeting method where every dollar has a job.
- 25:31Income minus expenses equals 0. Fixed versus variable expenses.
- 25:37Fixed equals consistent rent subscriptions.
- 25:41Variable equals fluctuating food, gas, fun emergency fund a
- 25:46savings buffer for unexpected expenses.
- 25:49Aim for 500 to $1000 to start. This is your financial safety
- 25:54net. All right, that's something I
- 26:00want to mention here real quick. OK.
- 26:02Is these terms 0 based budgeting?
- 26:07Every in Penny has a place you can literally spend your money
- 26:12and know exactly where it's spent.
- 26:14One thing that I don't recommend is carrying cash, Right Connor?
- 26:22I say carry cash. How do you track it?
- 26:25Do you keep your receipts for everything?
- 26:28No. Well, I mean, yeah, if there's
- 26:30like a buy one, get 1 somewhere. OK.
- 26:33But most of the time we don't save our our our.
- 26:37What's it called? Receipts are receipts.
- 26:40Yeah. So carrying cash is a hard way
- 26:42to track your money if you're trying to do 0 based budgeting.
- 26:45Now can you set aside that money and say, all right, let's go and
- 26:50let's get a $100 I can spend for my wants that that week, right?
- 26:57That means you can spend it any way you want.
- 26:58Does it matter? No, because you already budgeted
- 27:00for it as long as all your needs are taken care of.
- 27:03But that's where we talk about the fixed and variable expenses,
- 27:06fixtures of consistent expenses such as rent, subscriptions, if
- 27:11you have bills you got to pay, you know, like if you're on a
- 27:15payment plan for the electricity, that kind of stuff,
- 27:18it all changes, OK. So it's one of those things that
- 27:24the the consistent stuff is consistent until like they raise
- 27:28your rent for something, then you got it becomes consistent
- 27:30again, OK. But those fluctuating are those
- 27:32variable expenses are like your food, your gas, your fun gas
- 27:36right now is one of those things that is killing everybody.
- 27:41What was the last time we checked the price on 4/30 or
- 27:46what gas? Yeah, try 450, dude.
- 27:50Yeah, OK. It was like we go to Sam's.
- 27:55It's like a little bit less than gas stations, but even that's
- 28:01expensive. Remember when it was like 4
- 28:05even? No.
- 28:06Thursday it was four O 4. And then you mean 4.4?
- 28:11No, that's 444 O 4. 4/4 I mean, OK.
- 28:16On Thursday of last week it was $4.04.
- 28:22Thursday this past week it was. We paid 432.
- 28:26It went up $0.28 in a week. OK.
- 28:30So if I have a, a budget that says OK this week, I, you know,
- 28:34if you drive to work back and forth every day and you do, you
- 28:36know, if you fill up once a week, you know, OK, about once a
- 28:39week, I'm going to have to spend X amount of dollars on gas.
- 28:42But imagine going from say $30.00 a month to let's see what
- 28:50would be $0.20 a $0.28 a gallon. So let's just say 30 for math
- 28:54and it's for 120. So I it's now 3320, so I raised
- 29:00$1.20 in a month, that's $10 in a year, that's $120.00 just.
- 29:04And that change alone. OK.
- 29:08So when you have variable expenses, that's why you want to
- 29:10have that savings, so you can pull from it if you need to.
- 29:12That's why you have the emergency fund, a savings buffer
- 29:15for unexpected expenses. Yeah.
- 29:17You know, when we think about that stuff, we think it's all if
- 29:22your water heater breaks, if your car breaks down.
- 29:27Yeah, those are the emergency funds, but it could also be, you
- 29:32know, either you take it out, same as or you lower your wants.
- 29:35That that's the important thing, right?
- 29:37Eat from home, don't eat out. There's things you can do to
- 29:39lower your wants, OK, Go to a concert or or save the money and
- 29:44don't go to a concert, OK, You know, but unexpected expenses
- 29:49and like I tell you is it's if you plan for certain stuff,
- 29:52things happen. Like yesterday I made the
- 29:54reservation or the, Well, not yesterday.
- 29:57Last week, I made the reservation for a a family
- 29:59reunion we're having in El Paso, and I had to put a deposit on
- 30:04the room. If I'm not planning it, that's
- 30:08money that you're like, oh, man, I don't have that money.
- 30:11Or if I get it, I got to save it somewhere else, you know, figure
- 30:14out a way to get it right. Yeah.
- 30:16So you have unexpected stuff. And so you can have your
- 30:18emergency fund for emergencies. You can have your savings in
- 30:25case catastrophic something happens and you can't work for
- 30:27six months, OK, there's certain things you can do different
- 30:31savings accounts and when we have that right.
- 30:33Yeah. Yeah, well, yeah, we have mine,
- 30:36We have yours. We have ours.
- 30:38We have another bank account with another bank, right?
- 30:40I don't, I don't know about all that, but yeah.
- 30:42Well, USA and the Navy Federal, we each have a savings on each
- 30:47one. So that's four and then on this
- 30:50one we have. That's two week, 1 each. 1/2
- 30:55name Federal, 12 USA. That's 4.
- 31:00OK, I guess. Yeah, I don't really check it
- 31:03so. Well, I know because we don't
- 31:06check it. That's the whole point.
- 31:06That's the point of having savings.
- 31:07You don't like, you don't have savings?
- 31:10Well, unemployed. But when we get a little extra
- 31:16funds, we put it in there, yeah. And if we need it, we can spend
- 31:22it. OK.
- 31:23So keep that in mind. And you know, one thing I always
- 31:26tell people is we have a segment called the Story from the Fire.
- 31:30Why is so that we can talk about our topic from another person's
- 31:38point of view. So let's talk about today's
- 31:42Story from the Fire. OK, Sorry.
- 31:56In today's story from the fire, Brianna spent freely until her
- 32:01car broke down and she had no savings.
- 32:03She built a budget, started tracking expenses and created an
- 32:07emergency fund. Now she's in control, not in
- 32:11crisis. She learned that a budget isn't
- 32:14a cage, but a compass that tells your money where to go.
- 32:21All right. So Brianna spend money until her
- 32:24car broke down and she had no savings for it.
- 32:27Then she had a budget, started tracking expenses and created an
- 32:29emergency fund. And now she's in control, not in
- 32:31crisis. She learned that a budget isn't
- 32:34a cage, but a compass that tells your money where to go.
- 32:37That's interesting, right? Yeah.
- 32:39A compass that tells your money where to go.
- 32:42Yeah, if if you have that and you know where your your
- 32:45expenses are, then you can definitely plan ahead and you
- 32:49can do those kinds of things. OK, so now I want to get into
- 32:55the nitty gritty of our topic, OK?
- 32:58It's called the heat map, and it's our call to action.
- 33:01So you know what we want to do to save money.
- 33:06Here's our heat map. The heat map will show you where
- 33:17to focus your efforts for the most impact.
- 33:20Use the 5030 twenty rule. 50% needs, 30% wants 20% saving
- 33:26slash debt. This is a simple and effective
- 33:29framework for budgeting. Track every dollar for one month
- 33:33to find your spending patterns. You can't manage what you don't
- 33:36measure. Automate bill payments and
- 33:38savings transfers. This makes saving effortless and
- 33:42prevents late fees. All right, so we want to use the
- 33:475030 rule. For 3020 rule, I should say.
- 33:51Track every dollar for one month to find out your spending
- 33:54patterns. If you do it for three months,
- 33:57you get a really good idea of where you're blowing your money.
- 34:00Right? Like, we know what's eating out
- 34:01for us. Oh yeah, More for me than you,
- 34:04but yeah. Oh, no, not really.
- 34:11A couple of weeks ago you made dinner for us.
- 34:15And what did you say after you made the dinner?
- 34:19What did I say? What did I even make?
- 34:22What was this? The chicken patties with gravy
- 34:25and vegetables and mashed potatoes and all that.
- 34:28It's a lot of work. And you said, what do you
- 34:31remember? No.
- 34:34I got to wash those dishes now. Oh, that's right.
- 34:37And then you said, now I get why you go and eat out.
- 34:43No, I get why, but it's because that day we didn't have any
- 34:48dishes so I had to wash them or make food.
- 34:51That's because my brother had to get together and he had paid
- 34:54their dollar dishes. I still had AI had to clean the
- 34:57dishes I used to make food to dirty them again.
- 35:01Yeah. And I'm like, I'm not cleaning
- 35:03that again. And and you said, you know, I
- 35:06can understand what you eat out. Yes, it's convenient, OK.
- 35:10And we're always out. But that's part of my wants
- 35:12budget. My 30%, my needs are taken care
- 35:14of. I don't have to worry about
- 35:16that. But my wants budget allows me to
- 35:18spend that money when I need to. Now, if I don't have the money
- 35:20to eat out, guess what? We're not eating out.
- 35:22We're eating at home. But I will tell you the best
- 35:25place to eat when you're broke, Hunter.
- 35:32Where? I don't know.
- 35:34But the cheapest place we could eat the cheapest?
- 35:41Circle K. That's where we can get drinks
- 35:43for $0.78 if you remember OK but.
- 35:51I don't know. Stamps $1.50.
- 35:54Gives me a hot dog and a soda. I don't want true, I guess,
- 35:59yeah. Right.
- 36:00Or a pizza slice for 2 bucks. 175 isn't it?
- 36:04No, it's too. Do you know how much we we pay
- 36:06when we go there? No, $10 and we get food and
- 36:10drink. Damn.
- 36:13All right. That has been my go to for the
- 36:17longest time. Whenever I want to do something,
- 36:19I just don't have a lot of money.
- 36:20I'll be like, let's just go to Sam's and let's get a a pizza or
- 36:23something. 10 bucks done and $0.89 for the sodas.
- 36:27If you know Circle K. But you you want to track every
- 36:35dollar for one month to find your spending patterns.
- 36:37I'm telling you right now, if you do it for three, three
- 36:39months, you're going to be like, wow, I spent money on that, OK,
- 36:44And super stuff. One thing, everyone thinks the
- 36:46Dollar Tree is cheaper and it is.
- 36:49But if you go in there and you spend $40, is it really cheaper?
- 36:52Well you get like 4035 items with that.
- 36:59Well, the company is a lot less now that they raised it to
- 37:01dollar 25 and. Oh yeah.
- 37:03And the taxes, you know. Which yes, but I guess I don't
- 37:10have an adult tree anymore. It's like a even.
- 37:15I don't even know fucking. 1/4 tree.
- 37:19Yeah. And now they have the segment of
- 37:22like $3 and $5 and they're becoming a regular store.
- 37:25They're becoming 5 below. Yeah.
- 37:28Yeah, exactly. And then the last part we have
- 37:32here is automate bill payments and savings transfers.
- 37:35Now let me give you one of these with caution, OK?
- 37:40I try not to do automatic payments whenever I can.
- 37:47It some places will actually give you a discount if you do it
- 37:50automatically. You know, you don't get have to
- 37:53pay the credit card fee to pay or anything like that.
- 37:57But what I, what I think is funny is that when you, when
- 38:01you're doing that, if you're expected to pay on the 15th,
- 38:07right, you have your automatic payment on the 15th.
- 38:09But what happens is I don't get paid till the 16th.
- 38:12It's like, whoa, I missed it. You know what I mean?
- 38:17And that happened to me recently where I had a bill that I
- 38:20thought was coming on the 25th and it came out on the 22nd.
- 38:23And it's because I read the number as a 5.
- 38:25I don't know why. But two and A5.
- 38:30Yeah, it's, it's not the same. I know that, Connor.
- 38:32I'm not stupid, OK? Maybe turn the two upside down.
- 38:36Yeah. But it was just a quick glance
- 38:37at it, OK. And I ended up, you know, I had
- 38:42the money in the bank, so it was good.
- 38:43No big deal. But having those automatic
- 38:47payments can throw you off sometimes.
- 38:49And also like, let's say if you get a tax refund and you want to
- 38:52pay off some bills and you pay some bills ahead of time,
- 38:56sometimes you still get charged the automatic payment.
- 38:59So you know, what it does is if you have a regular paycheck like
- 39:04every Friday, then you want to have automatic payments every
- 39:09Friday because you know that money's going to be there on
- 39:12Friday. And that's the thing when you
- 39:13get paid every two weeks, those dates fluctuate a few days every
- 39:18now and then. And if you say on the 1st I'm
- 39:21going to get paid and you get paid on the third because that's
- 39:24your two weeks, then you can have some trouble.
- 39:27So automatic payments are good to keep you on track, but you
- 39:31also want to be very careful what you do with your budget,
- 39:35OK? Because if you have automatic
- 39:38payments, it can actually like, cause problems.
- 39:40Pretty. Do we agree on that?
- 39:42Yeah. You know, and one thing that I
- 39:48like is the statement that we said was pay yourself first.
- 39:54Remember, we talked about that. If you have money going into
- 39:56your savings, great. You know, I have an allotment of
- 40:00$600.00 of what an allotment like it gets taken on my being
- 40:05help us into a checking account. And every month I take out like
- 40:10300, four, $100 out of it because it's my paycheck, right?
- 40:14And instead of changing it to 200, I leave it at 600.
- 40:17It's just a matter of doing a sale.
- 40:18And I'm it's, you know, it's in my account.
- 40:20No big deal. Yeah, but there was one month
- 40:23that I forgot to take the money out and I struggled.
- 40:27I, I really, I struggle that month a little bit.
- 40:29I'm like, why am I so bad? I, you know, I keep track of my
- 40:32budget and everything. The next month when I went to go
- 40:35take my $600.00 out or next paycheck, I saw $600.00 extra.
- 40:40I'm like what? Oh damn, you know.
- 40:44Yeah. All of a sudden I had an extra
- 40:48$600.00, you know, so, but then it seems all right, we fixed the
- 40:51car and one year, do you remember how much we paid in car
- 40:57repairs with a new engine on the car and everything the whole
- 41:01year like. Well, OK, what was the issue
- 41:06with the? We need a new engine and then
- 41:09the sub need the wreck and pinion.
- 41:11That's right, Was it? We didn't switch the battery
- 41:14right? It's not the battery we're
- 41:15talking about like we're talking about major expenses here.
- 41:17Why not? But like wasn't the issue the
- 41:19battery also? Yeah, we got new battery done,
- 41:22but we've got a new engine. We got a new engine and wreck
- 41:26and pinion. 2300. I wish the new engine was 6000
- 41:34and the Reckon Pinion was 1800. OK, OK.
- 41:38And then because I didn't have a car for three months, because we
- 41:40had to wait for the engine to come in, I had to rent a car.
- 41:42For three months I remember that and that.
- 41:44Was the 2300 give or take? Oh wow.
- 41:48Just on renting a car that. That I how much do you rent a
- 41:50car like per day? I don't know but it was 90 days
- 41:55or 105 actually. I ended up renting it so that's
- 41:5920. No one does that, so I don't
- 42:01expect to spend thousands on just.
- 42:04Right. But we we were able to do that
- 42:06and that was good. But.
- 42:07It was a nice car though, so it does a lot of gas.
- 42:10Well, actually, yeah. I think that was a little upside
- 42:13to. It the The thing is, I had to do
- 42:15it every month because I was hoping to get my car back and I
- 42:18didn't want to have it. I get the car today and still be
- 42:20stuck for 29 weeks or 29 days, you know what I mean?
- 42:23You you could drive. That well, yeah, but I'm saying
- 42:25that would be wasted money. They don't need it.
- 42:27So I would get the car every month.
- 42:28And there's one time I went in and I, I, you know, I parked the
- 42:31car and I go and I'm like, hey, I'm turning the car in, but I'm
- 42:34also taking it out again. And they're like, well, we have
- 42:37this car for you. I'm like, Nope, I want that car.
- 42:39And they're like, all right. And they did the paperwork and
- 42:42they gave me the same car. I got back in the car and I
- 42:44drove away. You know, that's so funny.
- 42:47Like the one time they're like, no, we it actually is due for
- 42:51maintenance, we're going to give you another car.
- 42:53And I said, do you have that car again?
- 42:57And she says, yeah, we do. I said, OK, give me that one.
- 43:00And they did, you know, so I got to know the people that are in
- 43:02everything. And when I rent for trips and
- 43:04everything, they still Remember Me because a lot of people don't
- 43:06rent from them for three months, you know?
- 43:08Yeah. But anyway, The thing is I spent
- 43:13the engine, the wreck and pinion, the rental of the car,
- 43:16you know, $10,000 and. Yeah.
- 43:21Thank God I had an emergency fund, you know what I mean?
- 43:25I was able to pay that. Now.
- 43:26At the same time, I was going to throw Connor a big graduation
- 43:29party and I told him I can't do that now.
- 43:32Yeah, you know, right. I was like, either that or no
- 43:36car. And I'm like, we need the car.
- 43:40So. Both cars, actually.
- 43:42That's right. Well, and then three with the
- 43:44rental. Yeah, yeah, Three cars or a
- 43:47graduation party. What would you guys choose?
- 43:49So it was funny because again, we talk about savings.
- 43:55I took Connor to go to a restaurant where he could invite
- 44:01all his friends and everything right?
- 44:03What? Peter Piper.
- 44:05That's where you graduate. You don't remember what we did
- 44:07for your graduation. Oh yeah.
- 44:10Yeah, OK. Trust.
- 44:12Me, I remember that. Why reasons?
- 44:16Bad memories, kinda. It was good, but there's some
- 44:21bad. OK, Yeah.
- 44:22Looking nothing bad at the party.
- 44:24No. OK, got it.
- 44:26OK, yeah, I thought the party was bad.
- 44:27I'm like, I'll kiss my ass. Man, Oh no.
- 44:29We were like the only ones in the restaurant.
- 44:31It was cool. Yeah, our party was the only one
- 44:33in the restaurant and it's funny because we could take beer in,
- 44:36right? So I gave beer to the staff and
- 44:39drinking and did we say they're God?
- 44:42I think it was 6 hours. Let's see, I graduated why he
- 44:49got got in at 7. Graduation started at 9:00.
- 44:51No, it wasn't the same day. Oh, it wasn't the same day.
- 44:55We went to Applebee's but I had the party then for the weekend.
- 45:01Really. Yeah.
- 45:01Oh, that's right. Do you remember in 7th grade
- 45:05when you guys went undefeated in football?
- 45:06Yeah. How we did your birthday.
- 45:09Peter Piper, yeah. Now that one was funny too,
- 45:11because Connor's team had a undefeated season and it was
- 45:17going to end. I want to say why would it end
- 45:21in October? So we don't have 10 weeks.
- 45:27But does middle school end in October on your birthday?
- 45:29Like end of the month? Look up.
- 45:32He pays the athletics real quick.
- 45:35Anyway, I told Connor, look, we can celebrate your birthday on
- 45:38your birthday, or we can wait until the end of the season and
- 45:43do a combination birthday and undefeated season, right?
- 45:49Yeah, it was mostly for US winning undefeated, but it was
- 45:57also kind of for my birthday, so. 9th grade.
- 46:02They don't do 9th grade, it's only high school.
- 46:05Go back when sorry you guys. Will that be scheduled?
- 46:08Then it would be in football, then it would show here.
- 46:12But it's not. Then look up.
- 46:14I'll, I'll look, yeah. I'm by school.
- 46:19Well, it doesn't matter. It's still.
- 46:20No, no, no. Like type in the schedule for
- 46:23Wally Hartley. OK, OK.
- 46:25I'll do that, yeah. So I took her.
- 46:28You want to wait till your till your team gets undefeated.
- 46:31And I said if they don't, we'll we'll still have your party.
- 46:33It's your birthday if it's undefeated.
- 46:36Well, I planned ahead and the team, they were going to play
- 46:41last night, I had, I was pretty sure they were going to to win
- 46:45the last game. So I ordered the party.
- 46:48I I reserved it and I ordered 4 long tables at Peter Piper and I
- 46:52ended up getting a cake that says happy birthday being
- 46:56undefeated or something like that, right?
- 46:59Yeah. Is that middle school?
- 47:02Yeah, 8th grade or this year it ends in December.
- 47:08Yeah. Yeah, see I don't know why we
- 47:10had the birthday in in November. I know we don't went to December
- 47:14for your birthday anyway. So I told him we need to save
- 47:20money. We got to get this party
- 47:21together. I invited the entire football
- 47:24team, JV and varsity and I I went up to the coach.
- 47:28I said, hey, you know, celebrate my kids birthday and I invite
- 47:31the teams with their families to Peter Piper.
- 47:35And of course it's like, are you serious?
- 47:36I'm like, yeah, you know, it's not going to be that expensive.
- 47:41And, you know, the families started ordering their own
- 47:44pizzas. I'm like, no, no, I got the
- 47:45pizzas and they're like, no, we're going to help you out.
- 47:46It's OK. That so it was even cheaper than
- 47:48I was hoping. I was planning to spend.
- 47:51But how long did we stay at Peter Piper?
- 47:53They actually kicked us off our tables because they need them
- 47:55for another party. Do you remember?
- 47:57That yeah, we had like what? Just one table, one full.
- 48:01On no, we kept one. Yeah, we kept one table.
- 48:03Yeah, I mean, I don't think they kicked us out, but I kept
- 48:06because they needed it. Tokens and everything.
- 48:08Yeah. And you know, and The thing is,
- 48:11having those emergency funds, it's not always about
- 48:13emergencies. It's about saving for events.
- 48:17OK, Yeah, it's for emergency, like the cars for emergency.
- 48:22Yeah. There you go.
- 48:24Five to six weeks, yeah. So we played.
- 48:27Oh, this is not mid-october. Yeah, I was right.
- 48:30Yeah. OK.
- 48:32Anyway, so when you think about emergency fund, yeah, you have
- 48:37emergency funds for emergencies, then you have the fund for
- 48:40savings, for things that might come up, little things here and
- 48:44there. You know, you want to have one
- 48:45for savings, for investing, all of that.
- 48:49And I, I think it's very important to keep that in mind.
- 48:54You know, you have wants, but if you're planning an event, like I
- 48:57say, a graduation party, out of those wants, you want to put
- 49:00money aside for the graduation party.
- 49:02Does that make sense? It's not part of your savings.
- 49:05It's taken out of your wants to put into an account to save for
- 49:08something you want. And when you do that, you're
- 49:11able to do things, you know? Yeah.
- 49:19But I'll tell you what, let's go ahead and take a quick break.
- 49:22My voice is getting a little dry here.
- 49:25And we'll come back and we'll talk about those places you'll
- 49:28get burned, those pitfalls to avoid.
- 49:32It's time for a break. Hot takes with the Murph man.
- 49:34We'll be right back. That's right, Badlands Trivia
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- 54:10Borderland success.com. And that's my holding company
- 54:13that has all the different segments under it or divisions
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- 54:24I mentioned last weekend it's getting better and better
- 54:26because I'm adding more pages to it so.
- 54:28Yeah, you actually getting the links like to your sub pages?
- 54:34Yeah, and well. The thing is just saying it, I'm
- 54:37actually doing the pages once I set them up, then I can just
- 54:39link them. Yeah, you know, but yeah, it's,
- 54:42it's getting there. So check it out.
- 54:43Borderlands success.com. Now let's get to those pitfalls
- 54:47in the segment we call where you'll get burned.
- 55:00Let's talk about where you'll get burned.
- 55:02These are some common pitfalls. Budgeting once and forgetting
- 55:06it. A budget is a living document.
- 55:09Review and adjust monthly. Underestimating small expenses.
- 55:14They add up. Track them.
- 55:16Your daily coffee is a bigger expense than you think.
- 55:19Skipping savings. Pay yourself first, even if it's
- 55:23$10. Your future self will thank you
- 55:25all. Right, that's right.
- 55:28These are the pitfalls that we talked about.
- 55:30OK, you have the budgeting once and forgetting a budget is a
- 55:35living document. Review it and adjust monthly
- 55:38because expenses change. Like we were talking about gas,
- 55:41food, everything's going up in price.
- 55:43So my budget of two years ago would not be viable right now.
- 55:48I can tell you that. OK, Don't underestimate small
- 55:52expenses. Like I told you, the cash in
- 55:55your hands gets burned right away, right out.
- 55:58Done. Yeah.
- 55:59So let me ask you a question, Connor.
- 56:00If I could give you $75.00 a month, right?
- 56:03Maybe up to 150 depending, would that be a good thing?
- 56:07I. Mean, yeah.
- 56:11Stop spending your money on monster drinks.
- 56:13That's $75.00 a month. Depends if I buy it like every
- 56:21day or. Like every week if you buy it
- 56:22like 3 or 8, that's a specialist right now, right?
- 56:25Or the big ones, yeah. OK, so 8 times, three days for
- 56:318:00. 4.5 so they'll be. What do you 4.5?
- 56:35How much they cost? OK, no no 4.5 is is not even
- 56:40half of 8, so 3 for 8:00. Meant the price of a monster
- 56:44shot. OK, no this this to the math 3
- 56:46for 8:00. It's 3.89 for a monster and if
- 56:48it's. OK but right now 38 listen
- 56:52please, there is 3 for 8 special on monsters.
- 56:56On the big ones, yes. OK, if you not always there.
- 57:01If you buy every three days, that's 30 days worth times 10.
- 57:06So that's $80 on Monster drinks. You buy one every day or buy
- 57:11three at a time. But I'm just trying to see if I
- 57:12get one every day. OK, that's what I'm trying to
- 57:15figure out, not about the deal. So $3 you say 3 dollars, 4
- 57:18bucks, 4 bucks is 120. Ish.
- 57:24The those little nickel and dime stuff, you guys, you don't
- 57:26realize how much it actually takes out of your budget if you
- 57:28don't keep track of them. Never thought of that right?
- 57:32People get Starbucks every morning. 5 bucks a month,
- 57:34$150.00. Each.
- 57:35Yeah, try. More coffee is more expensive
- 57:38than gas. Coffee is more expensive than
- 57:41energy drinks. Yeah, well, you know, it's funny
- 57:44though. If you get a gallon of coffee,
- 57:49you'd pay almost 35 or $40 a gallon.
- 57:53There's no way it's 35 for a gallon.
- 57:56OK, 20 oz cup and how many ounces in a gallon?
- 58:00120, so that's 6. I don't know.
- 58:03So I guess, OK, it'd be $30 a gallon, not 40.
- 58:05My bad. Yeah, I don't really do what's
- 58:09Oh yeah, 16 cups to a gallon. OK, well, that's cups.
- 58:15You did say cups. OK, one gallon is 16 cups, yes.
- 58:20OK so 16 * 580 dollars Yeah. Translate math, dude.
- 58:33I'm not saying I don't trust it. But yeah, so you know, you're
- 58:39paying $80 a gallon, OK? Just think about that.
- 58:44And last but not least, keep your savings.
- 58:45Pay yourself first, even if it's $10.
- 58:47Your future self will thank you, OK, When you sit there and you
- 58:53know, you take care of yourself, emergencies take care of
- 58:57themselves. Does that make sense?
- 58:58So when something comes up, you don't have to worry about it.
- 59:01But let's let's talk about, I want to digress a little bit
- 59:05here, OK? And I want to talk about
- 59:08savings. Now we have the 50% needs, 30%
- 59:13wants, 20% savings. But if you're going to invest in
- 59:16stocks and bonds, how do you think that should be divided,
- 59:18Connor, any idea? I'm just curious if you have any
- 59:21idea about that. No, let me see stocks and bonds
- 59:2620% stocks, OK. And.
- 59:31The other 80. That's your I don't know.
- 59:37No, I'm saying once 50% needs, I mean needs 50%, once 30% and
- 59:43then savings 20%, whatever that amount is, OK, if it's $10,
- 59:49break that down into 100%. What percentage would that $10
- 59:54be put into savings or whatever? How would you break that down if
- 59:57you're investing in stocks and bonds?
- 59:59I don't know, I would do just half of it.
- 1:00:02And the other half would go. Savings.
- 1:00:05Just basic savings, OK, If you're going to try investing in
- 1:00:09stocks and bonds, all right, there's low, medium and high
- 1:00:13risk, All right? High risk has the greatest
- 1:00:17return, yeah. OK.
- 1:00:19High risk, high reward. Exactly.
- 1:00:25If you're going to invest in stocks and bonds, 20% of your
- 1:00:28savings that you put in savings can go into high risk, 30% can
- 1:00:32go into medium and 50% go into stable low, low risk.
- 1:00:35You know, and if you're going to buy specific stocks and those
- 1:00:39are like funds, like they invest for you, you give them the
- 1:00:42money. But if you're going to invest in
- 1:00:45directly into stocks and bonds, my cousin gave me the best
- 1:00:48advice ever and it says he said give me, I mean, buy me anything
- 1:00:56that I use on a daily basis. OK.
- 1:01:00So like for example, when you when you think of products that
- 1:01:03will never go away, what do you think is one of them?
- 1:01:07Toothbrushes. OK, what brand of toothbrush?
- 1:01:15Colgate. Colgate's one.
- 1:01:16Everyone knows, right? Because they sell toothpaste
- 1:01:18also. Yeah.
- 1:01:19So it's like both. Right.
- 1:01:21OK. So invest in Colgate because you
- 1:01:24know they're going to be around. Yeah, Do they even have a stock
- 1:01:27for Colgate? Yeah, they do.
- 1:01:29Everything has a stock, Everything's publicly traded.
- 1:01:32Most things. There's some things that are not
- 1:01:34OK. Say, what would like?
- 1:01:36What would one not be? Chick-fil-A.
- 1:01:41Really. Invest in, go ahead, type in,
- 1:01:43invest in, invest in stocks and bonds for Chick-fil-A.
- 1:01:47I just, I want to, oh, by the way, we were doing the math on
- 1:01:49the break about the million seconds that was wrong.
- 1:01:52It's 31 years, see. It was a private family owned
- 1:01:58company. Yeah.
- 1:01:59Oh wow. Chick-fil-A is owned by a
- 1:02:01company, I mean by a family, I should say, not a corporation
- 1:02:05that you can invest in. OK.
- 1:02:09But mostly everything has stocks and right now like a stock of
- 1:02:12Colgate is probably around 85 bucks.
- 1:02:17About. OK.
- 1:02:20Now there's different kinds of stocks and bonds you can invest
- 1:02:22and we're going to talk about this on our next show, OK?
- 1:02:24But when you're investing, invest in the things that you
- 1:02:30know are going to be around the wild that you use, OK?
- 1:02:34Yeah. What's something else that is
- 1:02:37never going to go away? I'm just curious, like, what do
- 1:02:40you think? What's a big thing that you know
- 1:02:44that's never going to leave? Water well, like no, OK, I
- 1:02:48don't. Want products?
- 1:02:52Water Company. OK.
- 1:02:53But that's I'm thinking, what's a big company that everyone
- 1:02:56knows that you know is going to be around like Walmart, Amazon,
- 1:02:59OK. They can go away.
- 1:03:01Yeah, right. That's my point.
- 1:03:04That's exactly my point. At in when I was in high school,
- 1:03:07I worked at Kmart and Kmart was everywhere.
- 1:03:09That's before Walmart came in. Kmart was everywhere and it was
- 1:03:13tied into Sears. Both of those companies are gone
- 1:03:16now. Had I invested in them when I
- 1:03:19was in high in high school, there'll be nothing.
- 1:03:23Like look up how much does Kmart stock even even if it's I'm just
- 1:03:27curious. Kmart stock, yeah, it's not
- 1:03:32traded right now, it's just it's gone 0.
- 1:03:35I mean, yeah. So if I invested in that, I
- 1:03:37would have lost all my money if I didn't take it out.
- 1:03:41OK. So yeah, you want to buy stocks
- 1:03:45in the products, you know, they're going to be around that
- 1:03:47you use, OK Amazon, Walmart, you know, they're getting so big.
- 1:03:52Amazon and Walmart almost now competitors with each other
- 1:03:54because you can buy in almost anything on Walmart, you know?
- 1:03:59Yeah. So it's one of those things that
- 1:04:01you have to ask yourself like do I do this, do I not?
- 1:04:05Or whatever the case may be, you know, keep that in mind as you
- 1:04:12invest, OK? But if you invest in funds, the
- 1:04:16stock market that they invest for you, 20% high risk, 30%
- 1:04:22medium and 50% low, OK? Does that make sense?
- 1:04:28And hopefully the, the big, the high risk stuff pays off, you
- 1:04:31know, and then you have these people that do day trading where
- 1:04:34they actually like trade, they buy something in the morning,
- 1:04:37let go of it at night or they let go of it in the morning and
- 1:04:39buy it at night. So it's cheaper.
- 1:04:41You know, there's, there's things like that Forex exchange.
- 1:04:44Ever heard of Forex foreign exchange?
- 1:04:47You can say the dollar is going to go up or down or the yen or
- 1:04:50the one or the peso or whatever. And you're betting on foreign
- 1:04:53stocks on foreign foreign currencies.
- 1:04:55Thing, OK. And then of course, you have
- 1:04:58everyone's favorite now what's the what's the investment
- 1:05:00everyone talks about getting right now?
- 1:05:03Investment. Yeah, crypto, buy crypto, OK.
- 1:05:08Crypto's going down. It was or is.
- 1:05:13I haven't tracked it because I gave up on it.
- 1:05:15OK, But that's the thing. If you invest in something all
- 1:05:19right, and you keep it in, take it out when it gets high because
- 1:05:23you could lose it again. But Bitcoin I could have bought
- 1:05:26for pennies when it first came out and it's now worth 83,000 a
- 1:05:30share. That's why people have their
- 1:05:34wallets and they lost them. You know, I had a game that was
- 1:05:38a bit miner and I lost it and they thought it was important.
- 1:05:42You know, there's there's wallets like look up lost
- 1:05:48wallets value crypto or Bitcoin, and I'm this this is an ideal to
- 1:05:56tell you like there was people that invested in this because
- 1:05:59it's electronic and no like. Or like what do you mean?
- 1:06:06Let's see List of old Bitcoin wallets 1,000,000 Bitcoin
- 1:06:141,000,000 Bitcoin. That's $83 million or 800 or
- 1:06:21830, 83,000 do well, I I don't have anyway.
- 1:06:32There's another one that has 75,000 Bitcoin.
- 1:06:36There's another one with 53. These are lost wallets that
- 1:06:39people can't recover. They don't have their twelve
- 1:06:41word passcode. Isn't that crazy?
- 1:06:45Yeah, you know, I'm like, is it because they lost their Yeah, or
- 1:06:50is it that's. What those are?
- 1:06:55Dang, and. You know, people that had that
- 1:06:57they could have died. They.
- 1:06:59Could have died. They could have destroyed
- 1:07:01something like a hard drive, right?
- 1:07:04It's for the computer. Computer got crashed.
- 1:07:07So is investing in crypto a good idea?
- 1:07:10Yeah, you can, but you could lose it too.
- 1:07:15And I mean literally lose it. All right, So keep that in mind
- 1:07:21when they're trying to to save and trying to invest and put
- 1:07:27your money where you know it's safe.
- 1:07:28If you put into a bank, even banks can fail.
- 1:07:31You know you're warranted up to I think 250,000 insurance on the
- 1:07:34banks. So if you have an account that
- 1:07:37has 1,000,000 in it and they go bankrupt, you only get 250 back.
- 1:07:42You'd be lucky if you get 250. Well, right, But I'm saying, but
- 1:07:45it's insured by the federal government for 250 per account.
- 1:07:48Yeah, yeah, no, an account for every 250,000 year old.
- 1:07:52Yeah, back in the 19 what, 20s when the Great Depression
- 1:07:55happened, when all the Bings got shut down. 1920s yeah, During
- 1:08:01the depression, yeah, you're not wrong.
- 1:08:03OK. Look this up.
- 1:08:06OK, literally, I had the keyboard in my lap.
- 1:08:10I put it down. I thought you don't need the
- 1:08:12keyboard, just leave it on the floor.
- 1:08:14Yeah, I don't need it. I'm asking them all these
- 1:08:15questions today. Look up savings and loans
- 1:08:19failing. What do you think that was?
- 1:08:23I don't know, 1980s, Nineteen 90s.
- 1:08:26That's right, we had a second one.
- 1:08:29And then you have the the housing market bubble crash.
- 1:08:32Oh yeah. There's a, there's a movie
- 1:08:35called Margin Call that talks about that and how they were
- 1:08:42overextended on it. And it's just, it's crazy.
- 1:08:44You know, one thing I will tell you that I I agree with politics
- 1:08:50right now is they're stopping investment from from buying
- 1:08:53houses. So it's going to let the little
- 1:08:57people own houses that are available now.
- 1:09:00They're going to get set about our organizations and get
- 1:09:01charged an arm in the league. What are you looking at?
- 1:09:04No, just the nice monies. Just like yeah, 1/3 of the banks
- 1:09:08failed. Thousand home foreclosures
- 1:09:12happen per day. Damn, that's a lot dude.
- 1:09:15All right, do me a favor, look up what was worse, did the
- 1:09:19depression bank closing or savings and loans and then so
- 1:09:28investing is what? Was the second part.
- 1:09:32Savings and loans? Which was worse?
- 1:09:37Loan scandal? Oh yeah.
- 1:09:39Oh. Yeah.
- 1:09:44So the Great Depression was worse because it took us into
- 1:09:46the depression, OK, over 9000 banks versus 1000 savings and
- 1:09:52loans, OK. I know there was a lot.
- 1:09:54I just didn't think the disparage was that much.
- 1:09:57Yeah, the gross mess. Yeah, dude, the GDP nearly
- 1:10:02plummeted 30%. Oh, look at Black Monday.
- 1:10:07Oh do. You know what that is?
- 1:10:12Part of it. It was what, a week after
- 1:10:22depression? No.
- 1:10:24Oh yeah, no, never mind. That was the second part I was
- 1:10:27thinking of. Yeah, like Monday.
- 1:10:30We lost 22% of our GDP in one day.
- 1:10:34One day I want to think about that.
- 1:10:38Our value of the stock market dropped 22% in one day.
- 1:10:46That number is just staggering. Our value dropped 22% in one
- 1:10:51day. That's why it's called Black
- 1:10:53Monday. Well, I mean, Great Depression
- 1:10:58was still worse. Yeah, but but again, you know,
- 1:11:01in one day you lose 30% of your value.
- 1:11:03So yeah, people that were planning on retiring that had
- 1:11:05$1,000,000 in their bank account and then all of a sudden they
- 1:11:08only had a 700. Ish.
- 1:11:12That's crazy, right? You know, So, yeah, be careful
- 1:11:17with that. If you're investing, make sure
- 1:11:18it's stable, make sure you take care of it.
- 1:11:20Keep an eye on it. You know, don't just put the
- 1:11:22money in and let someone else manage it for you because you
- 1:11:24never know. I had a hundred, a $120 in my
- 1:11:35account when I left, OK? And I put it all in high risk.
- 1:11:40It was $120.00. I'm like, who cares, right?
- 1:11:43So I left my job and I put the last 120 I put in there, you
- 1:11:45know, just high risk, took everything else out.
- 1:11:49And I put the last payment that went in there.
- 1:11:50I didn't touch it. Eight years later I had 4000.
- 1:11:56I think this was 120, you know, because I had in high risk four
- 1:12:02years or eight years, you know, 4000.
- 1:12:06That's a, that's, that's a pretty good return on
- 1:12:08investment. I'll tell you that.
- 1:12:09Had I done that with all the money that I didn't, you know, I
- 1:12:12didn't need? Is it your mom?
- 1:12:14Yeah. Yeah, I took all that out.
- 1:12:17I hate it anyway. But like I've told you, Connor,
- 1:12:22when you get your first paychecks and you start working,
- 1:12:25yeah, you're going to want to spend it.
- 1:12:28But I told you, the first thing you do is invest, right?
- 1:12:31Put into savings and don't ever touch it again, right?
- 1:12:35Had that money go into your account no matter what?
- 1:12:38Yeah. And then invest in Roth Iras,
- 1:12:42investing in four O 1K vested matching.
- 1:12:44I'll talk about all this next week.
- 1:12:46But you can really maximize your your benefits because you can
- 1:12:49only put so much money into a savings account, and I mean into
- 1:12:53a IRA account. I don't know what the actual
- 1:12:55amount is. I'll worry about that next week.
- 1:12:58But if you're making a job in cybersecurity and making 80,000
- 1:13:03a year, going from zero to 80,000, how easy would it be for
- 1:13:08you to invest 20,000 of that? Easy, right?
- 1:13:11Because you don't, you're not using it right.
- 1:13:15And if you can do that for the first couple years, you're,
- 1:13:17you're doing well. You know, if you can keep doing
- 1:13:21that throughout the years, great.
- 1:13:23Even even better. Imagine 20,000 a year in
- 1:13:26savings. In five years, you have 100,000.
- 1:13:30In 10 years you have 200,000 right?
- 1:13:35But with interest it adds up, you know?
- 1:13:40So when you get that first real job that pays you good money,
- 1:13:44put the money in savings and don't ever look at it again.
- 1:13:47Just this easy thing to do. Invest 100% in your investments
- 1:13:51in your 4O1K, invest in Roth Iras, Do all of that.
- 1:13:55If you get a really good paying job like 80,000, or in your case
- 1:13:59might be even higher depending on what job you get.
- 1:14:01Right, But you don't. Yeah, If you don't, if I tell
- 1:14:08you right now you're going to make 20,000 in savings.
- 1:14:13In your last job you were making maybe 15 a year.
- 1:14:18Imagine being able to put 20,000 in savings. 15 Wait, hold on.
- 1:14:2215,000 a year. None.
- 1:14:29Yeah, trust me, I know the math. It made 500 a month.
- 1:14:35That's what you would give me. No, I made 500 a month.
- 1:14:40A paycheck. Biweekly I made like 2 something
- 1:14:45and then in five in a month I made 500.
- 1:14:52I'd have to show you, but no. OK, you were making money, you
- 1:14:55just didn't realize it. But yeah, so put that money into
- 1:15:01a bank account as fast as you can and let it build interest,
- 1:15:06compounded interest. What are you looking at now?
- 1:15:08Don't worry. Oh, OK.
- 1:15:11Times 40 actually you want to do times 20802080?
- 1:15:15Yeah, that's that's how many year hours you have in a year.
- 1:15:27Then. I want to hear see it.
- 1:15:29Oh, shut up. See it?
- 1:15:30You were right. All right, so you know, when you
- 1:15:38get to the point where you can actually say get a real, real
- 1:15:40job and if you've been wise with your money, you know, you can do
- 1:15:47a lot. Like I'll tell you what, I
- 1:15:48bought my first house at 23, my second house at 28, that
- 1:15:53divorced and lost it at 30. Damn right.
- 1:15:56But how many people can say they bought a house at 23 years old,
- 1:16:01right? Can you imagine owning the house
- 1:16:02in three years? No.
- 1:16:07Well, you could if you get that job right.
- 1:16:10Yeah. Yeah, but I wasn't making that
- 1:16:12kind of money. I was in the Army, but it was
- 1:16:16the same as paying rent in the town I was in.
- 1:16:17So I was buying a house. And so I did.
- 1:16:20But keep that in mind. All right.
- 1:16:23But I want to talk about those things you can do to prevent you
- 1:16:28from going into those pitfalls in our segment called the heat
- 1:16:31Shields. Here are your heat Shields for
- 1:16:43this episode's topic. The heat shield is the
- 1:16:46intentional prep. Deploy the shield by dedicating
- 1:16:49focused time to research and self-assessment, ensuring you
- 1:16:53are protected from the negative impact of unpreparedness or
- 1:16:57external pressure when moving to the next stage.
- 1:17:02So we'll coverage financial snapshot, run a monthly 15
- 1:17:06minute check on your credit score and debt to savings
- 1:17:09ratios. I don't know if you need to do
- 1:17:12it 15 minutes a month. OK, but I would do it every
- 1:17:18paycheck. You know, I'll do it more often
- 1:17:20than that every paycheck. Make sure your budget is good
- 1:17:23for the next until the next paycheck and try not to live
- 1:17:25paycheck to paycheck again. Always have a little extra
- 1:17:27leftover for the following pay period.
- 1:17:31Proactive monitoring. Track your financial metrics to
- 1:17:33catch all small problems early. One of the problems I have with
- 1:17:36my budget is I have these this budget.
- 1:17:39It's an associate and just like all the months down, every bill
- 1:17:42for every month, month are separated and the balance
- 1:17:45continues. If I go in there and
- 1:17:48accidentally hit delete without even realizing I had to leave on
- 1:17:50one of the numbers, right? And then it comes time to pay it
- 1:17:54and I'm like, Oh my God, it's I'm not budgeted for that.
- 1:17:58It happens, right? So I've learned over time to
- 1:18:01make sure I'm careful with that. But yeah, you, you want to
- 1:18:08monitor it constantly, OK. If you're really trying to save
- 1:18:14and invest and do things with it, like I am with the business,
- 1:18:17you know, like if if I have a business expense, I'm going to
- 1:18:23expand and try and, you know, do something with it, right.
- 1:18:30So that's what I'm monitoring it for.
- 1:18:32OK, last but not least is dead boundary setting.
- 1:18:35Keep strict limits on borrowing to prevent high interest
- 1:18:37burdens. Yeah, loans can come with high
- 1:18:40interest, but if you have a high interest loan that say your your
- 1:18:42credit card is 35%, which is ridiculous and loan 15%, you're
- 1:18:49saving money by getting the loan and paying off the first loan.
- 1:18:52Does that make sense? If you get a credit card with
- 1:18:5635% interest and then you get a loan for 15% interest.
- 1:19:01You use a loan to pay off the credit card and you're saving
- 1:19:05money on interest because you're only paying 15, you're almost
- 1:19:07saving 20 but. You got to pay for the 30.
- 1:19:09Five, yeah, no, no, you pay it off with the loan.
- 1:19:14It's called this consolidation. Let's just say 5 credit cards,
- 1:19:17$100 each, OK, You're paying $25.00 a month.
- 1:19:21So how much is that? Five credit cards, then it's
- 1:19:2325125. 5 * 25. OK, $125.00 a month, 35%
- 1:19:30interest. Now I get a loan and I pay off
- 1:19:33that amount, $500 credit cards. My payment over here is only
- 1:19:39$80.00 a month. So I've saved $45 on the
- 1:19:42payments. Plus in the long run I've saved
- 1:19:45money on the interest. Now you wouldn't do it for 500.
- 1:19:48I'm talking about like 10/15/20 thousand, you know.
- 1:19:51But yeah, you don't think of that, right?
- 1:19:55But it's a big difference. It's a very big difference.
- 1:19:59And when you're able to do that and save and look at that, if
- 1:20:05you do a debt consolidation loan, one of the biggest
- 1:20:08pitfalls, OK, is you get a loan, you pay it off, right, Pay off
- 1:20:16all your credit cards. And yeah, there's one payment.
- 1:20:17And then you start building up your credit cards again.
- 1:20:21And you're like, damn, I did that for nothing, you know?
- 1:20:26Put your credit cards away, don't touch them, and when you
- 1:20:28need them, they'll be there. That's the most important thing
- 1:20:30right now, right? Plus it have extra credit score
- 1:20:33and you get more money and everything.
- 1:20:35I mean more, more points, higher credit score and you can get
- 1:20:37more money if you need it. But when you're doing loans and
- 1:20:42debt consolidation, you want to consolidate as much as you can.
- 1:20:48It's like, for example, if you get a home equity loan and you
- 1:20:51get $50,000 and you can pay off all your debt and that payment,
- 1:20:55if you were paying say 1500 a month and now your payment is
- 1:20:58only 700, you're saving 800 a month, right?
- 1:21:01That's a big, big, big amount. When we talk about the larger
- 1:21:04amounts, right? Do me a favor, Connor, can you
- 1:21:07check? No, I'm kidding.
- 1:21:09He's putting it down. I'm.
- 1:21:11Like I'm putting the keyboard down because I'm like, I want to
- 1:21:13switch my legs. So yeah, it's, you know, the
- 1:21:19consolidation is good. Now, one thing I will tell you,
- 1:21:22if you get into financial troubles and you can't pay your
- 1:21:26credit cards and you get to a point where you have to file
- 1:21:29bankruptcy, OK, do not charge on them, OK, If you decide to a
- 1:21:40point where you're like I can't make these payments, just cut
- 1:21:42them and don't ever use them again at.
- 1:21:45Least you got paid off. Well, you can't pay.
- 1:21:48But The thing is you're not increasing your loan.
- 1:21:50And one of the things that's important is if I call the
- 1:21:53company up and they say, hey, I cannot pay you anymore, I can't
- 1:21:58afford the $300 payment a month. So either you lower it to 50,
- 1:22:05that's what I can afford, or nothing.
- 1:22:08OK, You choose. What do you think they're going
- 1:22:11to do? I don't know.
- 1:22:13They might tell you, oh, we'll take 75, whatever, right?
- 1:22:16But they close your card, it's not used anymore and your
- 1:22:19credits closed and the special credit score because your
- 1:22:21payments are behind now, OK. And and you get the loan.
- 1:22:26Well, yeah, but I'm saying, but you have to pay off that credit
- 1:22:29card. A lot of people do something
- 1:22:33called debt, debt run a blink or what the debt consolidation
- 1:22:41companies it it's not a debt consolidation loan.
- 1:22:46They go and they contact all your credit card companies and
- 1:22:50say he cannot pay anymore, negotiate a lower rate for you,
- 1:22:54right? They cut your credit cards off
- 1:22:56and they lower your payment. But if your credit's good and
- 1:23:00you're just trying to lower your payment, that's the worst thing
- 1:23:02you can do because now all those credit card companies report
- 1:23:04just closed and behind on payments.
- 1:23:08If you get a loan that's different than those debt
- 1:23:11consolidation companies, like credit counseling and everything
- 1:23:16like that, OK, those companies are great if you're trying to
- 1:23:22pay your debt back. But if you're at some point that
- 1:23:24you don't, you know, you could get sued, Yeah.
- 1:23:28And all that stuff. But another thing that companies
- 1:23:30are doing nowadays are sending out 1090 nines as income.
- 1:23:34So they charge off your debt, meaning they take a loss on it,
- 1:23:36right? They say, oh, Connor doesn't owe
- 1:23:38me $5000 anymore. Then they send you a 1099.
- 1:23:40Now you have to file that on taxes.
- 1:23:45And now you have to pay taxes on those $5000.
- 1:23:47And you have to because you, you can't avoid the IRS, right?
- 1:23:50So I saw a TikTok that says, you know, if you lend money to a
- 1:23:54friend or family member, they don't pay you.
- 1:23:57Don't worry about it. Don't stress it.
- 1:23:58Just send them a 1099 and tell them I gave you this money.
- 1:24:03You haven't paid me back. I'm writing enough, don't worry
- 1:24:05about it. But now you got to pay money
- 1:24:06taxes. So yeah, there's ways to do that
- 1:24:10right if you want to be a jerk. Oh yeah.
- 1:24:14Would you ever do that to someone?
- 1:24:15No, no, I, I, I I've thought of it.
- 1:24:19Does that count? Nah, all right, if if you don't
- 1:24:25do it, it's fine. It sounds so bad but.
- 1:24:30Well, yeah, but you know, don't lend money unless you have it to
- 1:24:33lend. OK, that makes sense.
- 1:24:38If if you ever lend anyone money, you can't say, you know
- 1:24:44you owe me the money. Just don't even worry about it,
- 1:24:47you know? Because if you don't get it back
- 1:24:48then it doesn't ruin the friendship, OK?
- 1:24:51And if you do give them, give your friends money they could
- 1:24:55pay back in another way, like bring your food pay back where
- 1:25:00you lent him or. No, if you lend someone money,
- 1:25:04you want money back, right? Depends.
- 1:25:11Just think about it like what would you rather do get get your
- 1:25:16money back or next time you guys hang out he paid like they paid
- 1:25:19for everything. Since you you know, let's say
- 1:25:24like I take my friends out, I take a friend out, me and him
- 1:25:29spend whatever and I paid for it.
- 1:25:31So next time we hang out, he pays for however much.
- 1:25:36Well, if you're buying each other meals, that's different.
- 1:25:38I'm talking about if you lend someone $1000, they can go.
- 1:25:40I'll take you to Chili's 20 times.
- 1:25:43You're like, no, I want my $1000, I'll take that.
- 1:25:46I'll take chilies, chilies. Anyway, let's let's get to our
- 1:25:54next segment called the Afterburn, where we're going to
- 1:25:56reflect on what we're talking about today and the questions
- 1:26:00you need to ask yourself. In today's Afterburn, here are
- 1:26:12some questions for you to reflect on.
- 1:26:14What are my top three financial priorities right now?
- 1:26:18Where can I cut back without feeling deprived?
- 1:26:21What's 1 habit I can build to stay on track?
- 1:26:26All right, so think about this. What are my top three financial
- 1:26:30priorities right now? If I ask you, Connor, if you get
- 1:26:33financial aid, what are your top three priorities?
- 1:26:38Paying off whatever I need for school.
- 1:26:41I mean, that's all I can do with my money, right?
- 1:26:48Well, I'm like use for transportation and living costs.
- 1:26:52Well, yeah, but I'm not doing that then.
- 1:26:53But if you know you're spending $20 a week on gas and you're
- 1:26:59going to be going 16 weeks, put aside 320 for gas or more is
- 1:27:05going up. Yeah.
- 1:27:07Right. If you know you're eating out
- 1:27:09once a week at the school because you go to school late,
- 1:27:12put that into savings. So when you get a windfall,
- 1:27:16meaning a lump sum payment, figure out what you need for the
- 1:27:19next months and put it in savings, right?
- 1:27:25And like that you can use as you need it.
- 1:27:26OK, where can I cut back without feeling deprived?
- 1:27:30That's one of the things that you really got to ask yourself.
- 1:27:34For me, it's eating out. OK, I can eat at home.
- 1:27:40I just don't. Yeah, right.
- 1:27:44We're like never at home. Like during the daytime we
- 1:27:47always come home at like 5 or 6. Well, that's dinner time.
- 1:27:50But we don't. Yeah, but when the sun goes
- 1:27:51down, almost. OK, what do we stay out till the
- 1:27:54sun goes down? So ask yourself, what can you
- 1:27:56cut back without feeling deprived?
- 1:27:57And last but not least is what's 1 habit I can build to stay on
- 1:28:00track. And that's for me.
- 1:28:03Make a budget, identify everything and use it.
- 1:28:07For me, just don't check my balances on my phone.
- 1:28:13That's why I like cash better because I would have to take my
- 1:28:16wallet out and see instead of just pulling my phone out.
- 1:28:19OK, So what? What do you do, Connor?
- 1:28:21Is because you don't really have any bills, right?
- 1:28:25Your money is all for once because you don't help me with
- 1:28:28anything, right? Yeah, and.
- 1:28:30I'm not throwing that in the face.
- 1:28:31I'm just saying, OK, so he looks into his bank account and says,
- 1:28:36oh, I got $10, I can spend $10. OK, Sometimes that's not a good
- 1:28:42thing because let's say you go eat at Chili's and your meal was
- 1:28:45$30 and you look OK, good. But then the tip comes in later
- 1:28:50and takes away that money. And it's not part of your budget
- 1:28:52if you don't have it written down.
- 1:28:54So you always want to make sure you write it down.
- 1:28:55Or you just don't give them a tip.
- 1:28:57Oh, don't do that. You're not one of those.
- 1:29:01No I'm not. I give like 20% minimum.
- 1:29:04You know. Around there 1515 for short
- 1:29:08minimum 20. So what you should give them?
- 1:29:12Or if it was like a low check and they don't even make a
- 1:29:17dollar on 20%, I had to give them more.
- 1:29:21Well, let's talk about taping culture real quick, OK, tipping
- 1:29:25A waitress, we sell, we, we fund their hourly pay.
- 1:29:29OK, Yes, that's 100% true. I mean, that's that money.
- 1:29:32If the company were to pay them a a living wage, we wouldn't
- 1:29:35have to tip them. I understand all that.
- 1:29:37OK. But if they start paying them a
- 1:29:40regular amount, guess what happens to the price of your
- 1:29:43food? It goes up by that much anyway.
- 1:29:47So you're not really saving money to start paying them a
- 1:29:49living wage. But you know, if you don't get
- 1:29:53good service, you don't have to tip a lot.
- 1:29:56Always tip something OK, but but, but, but, but there's
- 1:30:02always that. But OK.
- 1:30:05Ask yourself, did I get the service I needed?
- 1:30:09Did I get more than and should I give them more?
- 1:30:14But that's. Where I'll draw the line.
- 1:30:16Well, there's one thing you and I do a lot, and we tip more for
- 1:30:22it. Can you think what that is?
- 1:30:23Because people don't realize it. I.
- 1:30:26Don't know. When we go to restaurant where
- 1:30:28they're watching the football game or we're they're doing God
- 1:30:32knows what right talking or whatever the case may be, we're
- 1:30:35taking up that table. So they can't do a turn around.
- 1:30:38They cannot put a new a new table in there and make more
- 1:30:41money. They're losing tips.
- 1:30:43And when we go to like Dave and Buster's to watch football on on
- 1:30:47a certain day, we literally. Stay there.
- 1:30:52Stay there from like 2:30 till 6:00.
- 1:30:56By 8. Well, no.
- 1:30:57Well, if we watch the end of the game, yeah, we we're just
- 1:31:00watching the second game. Not even the not even the night
- 1:31:03game. The night game inside like 1010
- 1:31:05or 4. Hours.
- 1:31:06There's been times we sit there for six or eight hours at Dave
- 1:31:09and Buster's. But it's not like we're making
- 1:31:11them lose money. Dave and Buster's really doesn't
- 1:31:14have that much people during football.
- 1:31:17We sometimes you'd be the only people there with like two other
- 1:31:19families. Yeah, you're, you're 100% right.
- 1:31:22But again, if they're doing the rotation, like they'll say Billy
- 1:31:25gets it, Kathy gets it, Manny gets it, you know, but your
- 1:31:28table still has us on it. They skip you and they go to the
- 1:31:31next person. I mean, you know, so you're
- 1:31:35losing out on that. OK, So if you're sitting there
- 1:31:41watching games, tip extra. OK, tip extra.
- 1:31:45Now, what's funny is we've gone to Dave and Buster's.
- 1:31:47I used to host games there and I used to do do a lot of stuff
- 1:31:51with them. So they got to know me and
- 1:31:54Connor and we walk in most of the time.
- 1:31:59They bring us our drinks automatically.
- 1:32:02We don't even have to, like, tell them what we want, right?
- 1:32:06Yeah. Most of the time.
- 1:32:08They may not remember our drinks, but they're like, I know
- 1:32:10it's water and two Cokes. No, it's at one side.
- 1:32:13Oh, yeah. OK.
- 1:32:14You know, but then when you're like, oh, you're here for the
- 1:32:17wings, like, yes, I'm here for the wings.
- 1:32:19You know, every waiter knows that about me.
- 1:32:21I'm there for the wings. If you ever.
- 1:32:23Now, I will tell you a lot of people think Dave and Buster's
- 1:32:26little expensive. I think it's on par with
- 1:32:30everything else. But the food is really good.
- 1:32:34I will say that. Yeah, it's just the portions.
- 1:32:36That's it. I would say based on it like.
- 1:32:40OK, well your burger is a good size burger, Yeah.
- 1:32:43What's the portion you're referring to?
- 1:32:45Chili's. Let's just say that.
- 1:32:46What time are Dave and Buster's? Oh yeah, but I meant like
- 1:32:49comparing those for that price. That's why it's expensive.
- 1:32:52It's expensive only because of the portion.
- 1:32:55OK, when you're comparing the the meals, $11.00 at Chili's,
- 1:33:01$18.00 at Dave and Buster's plus drink, right, that's what you're
- 1:33:06saying. Oh yeah.
- 1:33:07OK. So it's almost half or 50% less
- 1:33:11eating at Chili's. If you want a burger, they're
- 1:33:12both good. And it's a bigger portion also
- 1:33:15you. Think it's a bigger burger?
- 1:33:16And chili, Chili's, yes, OK, it's a little bit.
- 1:33:19Yes, it's a little bit bigger. A little bit bigger, but you're
- 1:33:22you're saving 50% of Technically you get 2 meals at Chili's for
- 1:33:25the price you get at Dave and Buster's.
- 1:33:26That's why people say it's expensive there, not because of
- 1:33:29the money. But when you come in,
- 1:33:31comparatively, yes, But when you get to watch all the games,
- 1:33:37literally. Well, then it makes up for it,
- 1:33:38yeah. It makes up for it.
- 1:33:39OK. Or you could just get Hulu Live
- 1:33:41and pay for that, or YouTube TV or Sunday Ticket or whatever.
- 1:33:45It's not the same. It's not.
- 1:33:46I mean, it is, but it's not. Dave and Buster's.
- 1:33:49They have the big screens. It's like a theater.
- 1:33:52Yeah. We walk in and get a big screen,
- 1:33:55just watch one game. Well, three big screens to watch
- 1:33:59three games or the same game or whatever.
- 1:34:03On the sides, there's like 6 TV's.
- 1:34:05Yeah, so we see every game for Sunday.
- 1:34:09Yeah. And then the night game or
- 1:34:12Thursday night or whatever, right?
- 1:34:14It'd be on all the TV's. Yeah, mostly.
- 1:34:17Now, there was one time we went for the Paul Logan fight and a
- 1:34:22UFC fight and they had both on the TV's.
- 1:34:28So what's funny was you could tell who was there for the Logan
- 1:34:30fight and who was there for the UFC fight, right?
- 1:34:34You're watching two different TV's, so someone would cheer and
- 1:34:37someone and you're like, what's happening?
- 1:34:38And oh, it's not my TV that that that's happening.
- 1:34:40Really. I thought it was no because that
- 1:34:43was Logan Paul was the main event, no.
- 1:34:46No, but there was a UFC the same night.
- 1:34:49The women, right? No, no, no. 2 events, two
- 1:34:52complete different events. I remember that.
- 1:34:54We went to the but we sat in the back because they had no room.
- 1:34:59Here. Yeah, I'll tell you meant.
- 1:35:01Like no, no. No, San Antonio.
- 1:35:02No, I'm talking about here, San. It wasn't San Antonio, it was
- 1:35:05Dallas. I don't know, But yeah, we went
- 1:35:08to Dallas and we got there at 7:00 because that's when we did
- 1:35:13said the fights would start. Well, that was just the
- 1:35:14preliminary card. He didn't start fighting until
- 1:35:1610. So we were there 5 or 6 hours,
- 1:35:19right? Watching every fight.
- 1:35:20Yeah. And yeah.
- 1:35:22So it can get expensive, yes. But again, you're sitting there
- 1:35:26for six hours, tip a little extra for that.
- 1:35:28Just that's just my little PSA for today, OK?
- 1:35:31Yeah, at least tip 20%. If they did good tip a little
- 1:35:35bit more. If not, I said 20% would be
- 1:35:38minimum. And, and here's a piece of
- 1:35:40advice I'm going to give you right now.
- 1:35:42The weighted waitresses at Hooters and Twin Peaks are not
- 1:35:45in love with you. They're not flirting with you.
- 1:35:50They're not interested in you. They're just doing their job,
- 1:35:54OK? So don't fall for it.
- 1:35:58And the stripper does not love you either.
- 1:36:00You felt hurt or what? No, I'm learning from
- 1:36:02experience. Not like you.
- 1:36:03Like when you when you go to a restaurant like that, you know
- 1:36:05they flirt with you. I've never had that happen to me
- 1:36:09so. OK, have have we got to look
- 1:36:11locos, locos. Yeah.
- 1:36:13OK, what were they wearing? Bikinis.
- 1:36:17Or lingerie, right? Twin Peaks does that.
- 1:36:20And, you know, they start talking to the guys and they
- 1:36:23get, you know, a little flirtatious and all the guys are
- 1:36:25like, oh, she likes me. No, she's trying to get a good
- 1:36:27tip. The name of the strippers.
- 1:36:29Don't don't fall for that. OK my my PSA for today.
- 1:36:34Yeah. All right, so now we get to my
- 1:36:38favorite part of the show is always the Digital Inferno.
- 1:36:40We need to talk about technology and what we can use.
- 1:36:43So stay tuned for our Digital Inferno.
- 1:36:50OK. Your budget should be automated,
- 1:37:00not manual. Use 0 based budgeting apps like
- 1:37:04Wine app. You need a budget or Mint to
- 1:37:07automatically categorize every transaction and assign every
- 1:37:10dollar a job. Set up automatic savings
- 1:37:13transfers within your bank's app immediately after payday,
- 1:37:17ensuring you pay yourself 1st and adhere to the 5030 Twenty
- 1:37:21rule without relying on willpower.
- 1:37:25All right, so use 0 based budgeting apps like YNAB.
- 1:37:30You know what YNAB stands for, Connor?
- 1:37:32You need a budget. You need a budget OK or men to
- 1:37:35automatically categorize every transaction and assign every
- 1:37:37dollar a job and. What does men stand for?
- 1:37:40Men's the name of the program? Oh.
- 1:37:43I was like, I can be like, man, I need that.
- 1:37:48Oh, let me give you props on that.
- 1:37:50That. Yeah, every now and then he
- 1:37:52impresses me with saying something just like off the top
- 1:37:56of his head. And man, I need that.
- 1:38:00That's funny. Dude, and I need that.
- 1:38:02That's that that. So Mint is.
- 1:38:05Like a program like Mint Mobile, you know?
- 1:38:09Wow. Yeah.
- 1:38:10This is brand name. Man, I need that.
- 1:38:14That's funny. That is really funny.
- 1:38:16I don't. Laurent.
- 1:38:22Sorry, stop. So you want to be able to track
- 1:38:33every spinning. So if you go into your bank
- 1:38:34account, you can actually make a category for each one of your
- 1:38:38expenses or note. Doesn't already do that?
- 1:38:41No, it might put it as a dining. Yeah, you're, well, ours do, but
- 1:38:45there's some that don't. But you can go in there and you
- 1:38:47can actually put it specifically that this was a dining expense,
- 1:38:51this was a business expense, this was emergency, whatever.
- 1:38:54And then at the end of the month, you can see your budget,
- 1:38:56do a pie chart and see what's up.
- 1:38:58Or you can set up some automatic savings transfers within your
- 1:39:00bank's app immediately after payday, ensuring your pay goes
- 1:39:03to yourself 1st. And you can give the 5030 twenty
- 1:39:06rule, which is what I've talked about the whole show right now,
- 1:39:13when you're keeping track of your finances, if you're going
- 1:39:16to use an app like I use Excel, you need to keep it up.
- 1:39:23If like my business expense, every time I spend money, I go
- 1:39:26straight into my account and I add it to my books, my notes,
- 1:39:29whatever, you know, So when it comes down to finances, I know
- 1:39:35exactly where my money went, right, or where it's going to
- 1:39:39go. Because again, like for the
- 1:39:42business here, I have my monthly expenses and one of them I'm
- 1:39:46getting is my insurance. That's another $40 a month.
- 1:39:51And then I'm going to get that app I was showing you the one
- 1:39:54that has all the finance stuff that's $40 a month, you know, So
- 1:39:58I have to budget for that and I have to plan ahead for that.
- 1:40:01And I have to ask myself, what do I want to spend my money on?
- 1:40:04Another thing is the video production software we're
- 1:40:06buying, right? I was, I was telling my brother
- 1:40:09this last night, he was here hanging out and I said, come,
- 1:40:11let me show you something in the studio.
- 1:40:14And I said I've made an investment into this right here
- 1:40:18in front of us, Connor. How much do you think is here,
- 1:40:22just here that we've invested in?
- 1:40:243000. Higher. 5000.
- 1:40:29A year 10,000 closer. Yeah, a little over 3000 on the
- 1:40:34laptop. God damn. 800 on the Mackey. 12.
- 1:40:40100 on the cameras. That's 5700 for the program we
- 1:40:46buy. That's almost $6000 with
- 1:40:50everything just and then microphones, 200 arms 50.
- 1:40:56So that's $500 between both microphones and we have four of
- 1:40:59them. We have 4 headphones that's
- 1:41:01$100. Crazy.
- 1:41:04And then we had other cameras. Well, yeah, those weren't, they
- 1:41:07weren't that expensive, but you see the thing with that, OK?
- 1:41:12So be aware of that, OK? Know where your money goes.
- 1:41:22You can spend it and not even realize where your money's
- 1:41:24going. OK.
- 1:41:26So just be very, very careful with that.
- 1:41:29And I think we can take a quick break and we can come back for
- 1:41:33the final burn. What do you think, Hunter?
- 1:41:35Yeah, this sounds good. All right, we'll be back after
- 1:41:37the break. It's time for a break.
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- 1:42:13by searching for MBR Channel. All right, that was open Hearts
- 1:45:52club. I died tired.
- 1:45:54So before we we give our final burn, I want to tell you
- 1:45:57something. We've been talking about
- 1:45:59budgeting and this is something near and dear in my heart.
- 1:46:02Next year we're going to talk about investing and I hope you
- 1:46:07pay attention to that one because that's one that we
- 1:46:12talked about a little bit today, but we get into a little more
- 1:46:14detailed certain terms and everything.
- 1:46:16So I'm not going to really tell you how to do it just so you
- 1:46:19know, but I'm going to explain it to you, OK, So you can
- 1:46:23understand what they mean. Like Treasury bonds, what are
- 1:46:26those? You know, if you hear something,
- 1:46:27you're like, OK, I've never heard these terms before, so I
- 1:46:32will talk about how to invest in them a little bit, but I will
- 1:46:35tell you more about the terms because you don't realize how
- 1:46:37much is out there that you can put your money into.
- 1:46:39OK. And for our final take, as
- 1:46:45before our final burn, we're going to go ahead and get that
- 1:46:49started and give me a SEC. Welcome back, Hunter.
- 1:46:56Thank you, thank you, thank you. The final take from today's
- 1:47:07discussion is your budget isn't a cage, it's a compass.
- 1:47:11Tell your money where to go or it'll disappear without asking.
- 1:47:17All right, tell your money where to go or it'll disappear without
- 1:47:21asking. Yeah.
- 1:47:24You like that? I do like that.
- 1:47:26I do like that. Yeah, tell your money where to
- 1:47:28go or it's going to disappear without asking.
- 1:47:29You make sure you keep track of everything and understand that
- 1:47:34when you do that and you know where your money goes, you're
- 1:47:37more conscious of where to spend it.
- 1:47:39Would you agree with me on that, Connor?
- 1:47:40Yeah. If I were to sit here and tell
- 1:47:42you where's your money going and you have to sit there and tell
- 1:47:44me at some point, you you're like, wait a minute.
- 1:47:46Wow, that's a lot. I didn't know it was that much
- 1:47:48or you know what I mean? So keeping track of just the
- 1:47:51fact that you're keeping track of it reminds you don't spend
- 1:47:54the money. OK.
- 1:47:55That's how I like carrying cash. There's just instinctively like
- 1:48:00I will pay or the card or something and you could check
- 1:48:04it, but in cash you have to pull out your wallet and count how
- 1:48:06much. I'm pure lazy to not do that.
- 1:48:11I'm lazy and I don't do that so but I know how much like cash I
- 1:48:16have, I just don't use it. Yeah, but you don't.
- 1:48:18But again, that's much you don't budget.
- 1:48:21Oh, yeah. OK.
- 1:48:23So keep that in mind. All right.
- 1:48:25And as we talk about this and where you were going, I was
- 1:48:29saying next week we're going to talk about investing, but I'm
- 1:48:32not really going to talk about how to invest.
- 1:48:34It's. Going to be like what is
- 1:48:35investing? Yeah, like the different types
- 1:48:38of ways you can invest money, like for example, Treasury bonds
- 1:48:41or, you know, T-bills and all that, whatever.
- 1:48:44You hear all these terms, but you don't know what they have
- 1:48:45Forex and you know, so it's it's going to be a lot of
- 1:48:48definitions. I'm not going to lie, you know,
- 1:48:51but I think people need to be aware of that before they stop
- 1:48:58and give their money into something that's not worth it.
- 1:49:02OK, true. All right, so anything you want
- 1:49:06to add for today, Connor? No, I'm just.
- 1:49:11Well, I liked it, yeah. No issues with the slides or
- 1:49:15anything. What about the topic?
- 1:49:18I don't know what do you think because I looked at these topics
- 1:49:22months ago and decided on them. Something new to learn I guess
- 1:49:26you could. Say it is because it's people,
- 1:49:28something people won't talk about.
- 1:49:29Yeah. You know, but I think that's it
- 1:49:32for today here in Border Studios.
- 1:49:36Yeah. And what?
- 1:49:38Why do you laugh? Aztec Aztec animations.
- 1:49:41Also and. Phoenix Post house yeah and
- 1:49:45we're fan live and born entertainment and and periodics
- 1:49:4915 Dbas Connor. We're we're multi divisional
- 1:49:55company. That's what we call Borderlands
- 1:49:57Success Holdings because we hold a lot of companies and it's
- 1:50:01going places, I think. What do you think?
- 1:50:04Well. If you have 15, I would hope so.
- 1:50:07Well, I'm hoping in that contest I entered to be ranked one of
- 1:50:14the higher podcasts. I hope.
- 1:50:17Let's see. OK, we'll see.
- 1:50:20We will see. Not by followers, but by content
- 1:50:22and everything we do. All right.
- 1:50:24So if you don't have any questions, Connor, I think
- 1:50:26that's it for today. All right, think so too.
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