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Sex Unlocked: Ghosted Up & Getting in the Mood · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Let's talk about sex, baby, I wrote my little sex pots.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome back to another episode of Sex Unlocked. Hi, Sally Carson,
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  Speaker 1: how is my York a baby? It was so much fun.
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  Speaker 1: I was so ready to be home, though you were.
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  Speaker 1: I was. I just I don't like being away from
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  Speaker 1: home that much. I get that same way, and you
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  Speaker 1: travel a lot.
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  Speaker 2: I do travel a lot, and it's like, I mean, honestly,
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  Speaker 2: the whole time, I was just thinking about my man,
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  Speaker 2: so I just like want to.
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  Speaker 1: Go home to him. Yeah, oh my god. Yeah, you
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  Speaker 1: got a bad baby, I have it bad. I did
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  Speaker 1: not listen to your advice. I cleared the roster. The
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  Speaker 1: roster's gone. Yeah, but he probably gave you a reason
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  Speaker 1: to clear it, right he did. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So my flight on the way home from Spain, well,
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  Speaker 2: first of all, I texted you, but I'm like in bed.
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  Speaker 2: It's eight am in my Yorca. I get doorbell rings
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  Speaker 2: and it's like a bouquet of flowers with a note,
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  Speaker 2: and it was I was like what. I was like,
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  Speaker 2: this is a really nice hotel to be sending me flowers.
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  Speaker 1: And then I.
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  Speaker 2: Opened the note and it was it was he just said, hey, babe,
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  Speaker 2: I hope you have a better day today than yesterday.
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  Speaker 1: I can't wait to lick your face. And I was like,
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  Speaker 1: get me home to this point literally what it says.
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  Speaker 1: I have the photo pulled up. The flowers are stunning.
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  Speaker 1: I know, I'm really weird when it comes to flowers
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  Speaker 1: because the wrong flowers. Yeah, can really like if you
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  Speaker 1: send me flowers and there's baby's breasts in them, I'm judging.
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  Speaker 1: I've got the ick. Yeah, I can't go, Oh, what's
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  Speaker 1: the thought that counts? I go, oh, no, the flowers
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  Speaker 1: mean a lot, like the type of flowers, and he
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  Speaker 1: means everything. I was just giggling.
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  Speaker 2: Whoever he was talking to at the hotel telling them
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  Speaker 2: to like interte that yeah, because he told me because
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  Speaker 2: I called him. And he was like, I was on
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  Speaker 2: FaceTime with this poor girl picking out every flower individually,
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  Speaker 2: and he was like telling her what to say and
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  Speaker 2: she goes lick like lick.
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  Speaker 1: And he is, yes, I want to lick her face,
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  Speaker 1: like with the tongue. He said, she was dying. I'm
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  Speaker 1: sick right now, so I'm kind of dying. But her
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  Speaker 1: voice is hot. My favorite is that he signed off
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  Speaker 1: as ghosts. He signed it as ghosts. He's so worried
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  Speaker 1: about people finding out who he is. Which does he
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  Speaker 1: have an accent? Yes? Oh my god.
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  Speaker 2: I have to fill you in on that too, because
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  Speaker 2: that is the most sexy thing to me, is the.
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  Speaker 1: Way he speaks and like that that's a panty dropper.
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  Speaker 2: Well, my flight got canceled from so I flew in
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  Speaker 2: from Majorca to Madrid and then Madrid to JFK and
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  Speaker 2: then I was born from JFK to Charleston. Flight from
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  Speaker 2: JFK to Charleston gets canceled. I come through baggage claim.
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  Speaker 2: Ghost is right there. Wait we had no idea.
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  Speaker 1: Wa. I kind of had a feeling that he was
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  Speaker 1: going to You didn't tell him. It wasn't like a
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  Speaker 1: set up. Yeah, no pick me up. And he had
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  Speaker 1: he had home cooked meal for me. He made me
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  Speaker 1: and brought it to the airport hotel room like connected
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  Speaker 1: to JFK. Okay, so I got to sleep for a
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  Speaker 1: couple hours. Like it was like no man has ever
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  Speaker 1: done this. I would the roster too, I know. And
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  Speaker 1: I was and he's traveling right now.
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  Speaker 2: He's like really far away and I'm really bad with geography,
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  Speaker 2: and I was like, well, where is this place? And
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  Speaker 2: he goes let me, let me tell you, and he
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  Speaker 2: gets on top of me and he pulls my like
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  Speaker 2: cammy down and he starts biting on this nipple and
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  Speaker 2: he's like this, this is New York.
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  Speaker 1: This is where we are.
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  Speaker 2: And he starts traveling down my body with his tongue
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  Speaker 2: to be like, and this is where I'm going. This
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  Speaker 2: is my layover and he's like, and then we go
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  Speaker 2: all the way across the ocean, and then he ended up.
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  Speaker 1: Where he ended up, and it which is where he was,
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  Speaker 1: which he is, and it was incredible. I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I have never experienced this, my love. Clear the fucking
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  Speaker 1: roster for the rest of your life. It's done. It's done.
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  Speaker 1: It's done. It's done. That that book is like completely closed. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm really really happy for you. You have no idea.
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  Speaker 1: I still have what dick though. Okay, Sally, you have
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  Speaker 1: to look it up. If he's gone, you have plenty
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  Speaker 1: of time to like understand what to do with it. Well,
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  Speaker 1: I asked my.
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  Speaker 2: Friend yesterday she and she's like, oh my god, I'll
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  Speaker 2: give you a whole lesson because she's.
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  Speaker 1: The one that's a freak. Yeah, okay, She's like all
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  Speaker 1: up in Charleston. Yes, she's she's on so hell she's
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  Speaker 1: on what Southern Hospitality? Oh yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So she was like everyone was like, go to this person,
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  Speaker 2: she's the one to ask.
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  Speaker 1: So I asked her and she was like, oh, you
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  Speaker 1: just you just pulled it back, girl. And I was like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: I need a fucking lesson from you. No, we're prepared.
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  Speaker 1: You're going there.
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  Speaker 2: I'm flying to New York next Tuesday to Friday, and
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  Speaker 2: so I'm spending four days with him.
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  Speaker 1: Oh this is so good. See I prematurely, I prematurely
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  Speaker 1: clear the roster. Yeah, I mean I'm a little nervous,
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  Speaker 1: but I don't I don't think you should be nervous.
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  Speaker 1: I think like he's a good dude, and he sounds
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  Speaker 1: I think he's yeah, but we'll see. You could be
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  Speaker 1: like on this podcast, like fully pregnant. H Well, I
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  Speaker 1: need to show you. I think it's downstairs. I have
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  Speaker 1: a I ordered a pregnant belly. Well why why? I
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  Speaker 1: have a white trash party on Friday. Okay, And so
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna wear a pregnant belly and like smoke cigarettes
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  Speaker 1: and you know, do the whole thing. And I would not.
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  Speaker 2: Take it off, like I wore for four hours yesterday
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  Speaker 2: and I said, I goes to picture and he was like,
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  Speaker 2: bring that to New York and I was like, Okay,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what kind of vanishes you're into, but
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  Speaker 2: I'll bring it.
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  Speaker 1: Sally. The amount of men in my dms when I
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  Speaker 1: was pregnant with my really and gorgeous little Donor baby,
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  Speaker 1: it was like, there's some freakyuckers out there. Yeah, they
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  Speaker 1: like that chick really into it.
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  Speaker 2: I mean I was chilling on the couch with this
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  Speaker 2: fake belly, like with chips on my belly, pretending to.
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  Speaker 1: Be hold on like anything you've ever seen in the
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  Speaker 1: movie You're Way. Did you get it on Amazon? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: And it was expensive and it's good. Well, while you're
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  Speaker 1: ordering things like that on Amazon, let me show you
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  Speaker 1: what my I won't drop her name because she would
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  Speaker 1: be more to but this is what I've been looking
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  Speaker 1: at on him. Let me see You're gonna die. My
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  Speaker 1: friend were at Polo Lounge. By the way. The guy
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  Speaker 1: at Polo Lounge, it's like an iconic restaurant that's been
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  Speaker 1: around for decades upon decades. Hill's Hotel. Okay, and the server,
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  Speaker 1: the poor guy, he saw so many dicks at the
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  Speaker 1: table that night, just by like leaning over to give
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  Speaker 1: us food. But this is what I'm ordering on Amazon?
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, did you actually order that? I'm I
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  Speaker 1: added it to the cart, but I'm like, do I
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  Speaker 1: really I needed? My friend was really adamant that I needed.
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  Speaker 1: She's like the only thing that's hard is that you
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  Speaker 1: can't really move because it's just sitting there, Like, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know if I can do this. I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I tight, what did you just sent me the lean? Okay?
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  Speaker 1: What is it? Eleven pound male sex doll with two
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  Speaker 1: piece app controlled dildo? App controlled? So what you sit
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  Speaker 1: on it and then you like talk like you just
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  Speaker 1: you can take the trailer off, but like or put
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  Speaker 1: it on the body and it lays on your bed
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  Speaker 1: so you can write it. I'm like, I don't think
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  Speaker 1: I need this. I don't think I need this. And
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  Speaker 1: you have a roster. You don't need that. Oh it's
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  Speaker 1: one hundred and five dollars okay, and you can get
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  Speaker 1: it in eleven pound fifteen pounds or the Big Daddy
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  Speaker 1: thirty five pound? Is the big Daddy like fat? Does
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  Speaker 1: it have a belly like a bigger deck? It's it's
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  Speaker 1: like a bigger. It's a bigger wiener and like like
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  Speaker 1: a bigger body. I'm like, I don't need this. It
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  Speaker 1: was me that wrong time to look at it too,
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  Speaker 1: because the night before Sally, I'm gonna admit this on
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  Speaker 1: the podcast, just because you admitted shit on the podcast,
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  Speaker 1: I got plowed. Okay. So the win on Friday, okay,
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  Speaker 1: and then pull a lounge with Saturday. So my friend
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  Speaker 1: asked me, She's like, are you going to use your
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  Speaker 1: Like we all got rooms at Beverly Hills Hotel. She said,
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  Speaker 1: are you going to bring a guy? And I was like, honestly, like,
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  Speaker 1: I think I'm just gonna have Michelle stay in my
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  Speaker 1: room because I'm fucking wrecked from last night. And it
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  Speaker 1: was like soft. Then it was like, oh okay, there's
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  Speaker 1: like limbs flying everywhere. I'm like being pulled off the bed.
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  Speaker 1: It was like, oh yeah, kind of all over the place, right.
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  Speaker 1: But then the end position where he got off when
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  Speaker 1: I tell you I'm in like squatty potty position, He's
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  Speaker 1: standing up holding my legs like basically over his head
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  Speaker 1: and just fuck sadly. I go to the bathroom and
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  Speaker 1: there's blood and I'm like I said so and so
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  Speaker 1: I was like, don't freak out. I was like, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm bleeding, and he goes, what kind of dudes are
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  Speaker 1: you messing with that they would freak out about that.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know, I'm just like a little concerned.
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  Speaker 1: I called my Obi. I was like, I think I
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  Speaker 1: need to be checked out because I'm not quite sure,
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  Speaker 1: like if it was hitting the iud if something else
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  Speaker 1: is going on, but like, this doesn't feel you weren't
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  Speaker 1: on your period, I'm not supposed to be on and
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  Speaker 1: the thing is like I I like, clean myself up,
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  Speaker 1: and then it was just done, done weird. So I
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  Speaker 1: don't know, is that weird? Has that happened now? I
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  Speaker 1: feel like that's happened to me before, because if the
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  Speaker 1: sex is really rough, which it sounds always was, it
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  Speaker 1: started very soft and loving and all the things, and
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  Speaker 1: then I like that I felt like a piece of
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  Speaker 1: chicken pound it out. Was like, what, I haven't had
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  Speaker 1: it like that in a long Did you like it?
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  Speaker 1: I was very into it. I felt like my freak
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  Speaker 1: days again. Hell yeah, I'm okay with you can't let
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  Speaker 1: go the freak days. No, you can't let go of
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  Speaker 1: the freak days fully they have to be able to
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  Speaker 1: like erupt at some point. And I think I was
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  Speaker 1: fine with it too, because when it got rough, it
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  Speaker 1: was like I could tell he was obviously about to come. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: And so I think I was so fixated on that
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  Speaker 1: and like the hotness of a dude's face when he's
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  Speaker 1: ready to get the job done. Oh yeah. Then I
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  Speaker 1: was like, I don't really feel the pain. But then
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  Speaker 1: I saw and I was like, oh my god, am
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  Speaker 1: I gonna like die? No? Wait, did he see the blood? Yes?
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  Speaker 1: Was he freaked out or no? No? He literally asked
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  Speaker 1: me what kind of because I said, don't freak out.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, but I'm there's blood hopping.
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  Speaker 2: In here, because if my biggest day is when a
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  Speaker 2: guy is freaked out by like a woman's bodily fluids.
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  Speaker 1: Well, he asked me, what kind of men are you
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  Speaker 1: messing with that they would freak out about that, And
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  Speaker 1: I had him thinking, well, one of your friends when
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  Speaker 1: I was twenty two actually had a cornary about it
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  Speaker 1: and fucked me up beyond belief. Now, anytime you.
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  Speaker 2: Have blood, yeah, then it's like, don't forget Yeah, it
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  Speaker 2: like scarred me. Well, that just means he's a man
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  Speaker 2: that he can handle that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, he's a real man. But I am getting checked
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  Speaker 1: out next week because I just need to see, Like
• 12:20
  Speaker 1: what if you like lodged my iud into my throat
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  Speaker 1: to your throat is crazy? How big is his dick?
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  Speaker 1: A very nice side, very nice sized dick. Okay, yes,
• 12:31
  Speaker 1: most people, the average person would say that is a
• 12:37
  Speaker 1: big dick. Dick. I don't feel like I can't really,
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  Speaker 1: I don't have a big ge, Like I don't have
• 12:43
  Speaker 1: a good gauge on like what is a big dick?
• 12:45
  Speaker 1: What's an average dick? I know what a small dick is.
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: I do too, but like I think I'm pretty well
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  Speaker 1: versed on small, medium, large, And then like whoa, that's
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  Speaker 1: gonna hurt no matter what. Yes, I don't think I've
• 12:59
  Speaker 1: had the Wow. Really there is such thing as too big? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I used to. I used to have sex with this
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  Speaker 1: guy back in Utah. He was a basketball player and
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  Speaker 1: it was like uncomfortably big to where it was like
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  Speaker 1: I don't even need to sleep with you anymore because
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  Speaker 1: it's like not fun. Fine, Yeah, yeah, Like I still
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  Speaker 1: small dick is? I love a small dig Sometimes get
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  Speaker 1: on top and rite and feel like you know, puncture
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  Speaker 1: you lung. Yeah, it's it's really easy to suck. I'm like, oh, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I can suck. I'm almost to the back of her throat.
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  Speaker 1: It's like yeah, almost almost keyword. Not as long as
• 13:44
  Speaker 1: they're good at like other things, I'm fine with it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: what about a guy with like a pretty big flush
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  Speaker 1: on his wang? Will you uh? Will you suck? I
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  Speaker 1: stare clear, just mine, just my own. I hate that.
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  Speaker 1: I'll steer clear of anything with that. I don't want
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  Speaker 1: to be doing this then be going, yeah, no, I'm
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  Speaker 1: not even gonna have sex with that. I don't think.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think I like that. I don't think I
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  Speaker 1: think me out.
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  Speaker 2: Also, why are you not shaving down there or cleaning
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  Speaker 2: up down there, because then that's gonna make your dick
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  Speaker 2: look bigger.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just asking you to like fully go bald down there,
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  Speaker 1: maybe just like a good trim. I've had it one
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  Speaker 1: time Sally, and he went down on me like a champion,
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  Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm not returning the favor. I'm
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  Speaker 1: not I'm not. Did you also like no? Because he
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  Speaker 1: wasn't like if we were consistently having sex and stuff
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: and or if you were to be like, hey, can
• 14:54
  Speaker 1: you do a litle song? Yeah, then we would have
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: had the conversation. But I'm like, it's it's pointless. I'm
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: not gonna have this guy like are trimming for me
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  Speaker 1: because we're not like that. Yeah, but it also bothers me.
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  Speaker 1: When you get all juicy and then there's like stuff
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  Speaker 1: in it, I'm like, new bathe Yeah, that's disgusting. Like
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  Speaker 1: just the men that are listening to this fucking clean
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  Speaker 1: your hair up down there. Clean it. I mean some
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: people are into it maybe and like maybe spread the
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: cheeks a little too. Yeah. You know, did you see
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: West's dicks that went online? Who didn't? Not good? Not good?
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: Those were bad. And the only thing that skivs me
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: out more than like a big pecker full of bush
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: is when the bush is blonde. That really freaks me out. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: or was red? Wasn't it? It's not. I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: I've never seen that before. I don't know that. I
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  Speaker 1: didn't like that. I don't remember it looking like that.
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  Speaker 1: I saw those fictures and I was like, uh, did
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  Speaker 1: I actually sleep with that? Because that's crazy? Yeah, oh no,
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  Speaker 1: I think that all the time. By the way, Actually,
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  Speaker 1: not that often. Just with one of my exes, just one,
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  Speaker 1: just one. I wonder if you guys can nail down
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: who that is? All right? I want to read this
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  Speaker 1: to you. This is a comment from one of our listeners.
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  Speaker 1: Her name's Dana H. She said, so good. I just
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: listened to both episodes, and honestly, I didn't think I
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  Speaker 1: would like it, but I'm obsessed. I'm old now, lol,
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  Speaker 1: But I felt like you two are like my friends
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: and I back in the day, I was dying laughing,
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: and I met Sally at good Is it Palma or
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: did Yeah? Okay, she met you at Palma when you
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: guys were filming. She says, you were delightful. Reminded me
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  Speaker 1: of my two southern daughters. I was the old lady
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: that drank too much champagne in the sun. Keep up
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  Speaker 1: the good work. How cute is that? She's so cute.
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  Speaker 1: I remember her and I was having such a bad
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  Speaker 1: day and she like really made it better for me,
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: because that was a really rough day of filming. Oh
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: my gosh, Dana H. You made Sally's day. You did
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  Speaker 1: make my day and all that darkness. Everyone was after
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: me that day. Everyone. You're You're a champion though you
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: can handle that shit. But it does get difficult, right,
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: I mean I left crying, but we got it together.
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: We always get it together. We got it together. But yes,
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: I do remember her and I loved her. I love this.
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: What do you hope women of every age feel when
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: they listen to the show that you're you're I don't
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: feel like your vagina knows your age? Like, I think
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: it's very important to remain sexually active even as you
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: get older, and like, don't get her vagina died before
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: you do. That's a that's good. Yeah, I mean, age
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  Speaker 1: is just a number. That's how I feel.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I'm sure that we'll get to an
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  Speaker 2: age where we don't want, I feel like, have sex
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  Speaker 2: as much as but I'm sure as hell I hope not.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna, you know, try to stay as young as
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: I can forever in that area in my life.
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: I think that's a huge part of staying like young
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: and healthy. Yeah, because even when you don't want to,
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: I feel like you have to figure out how to
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: get in the mood to like you don't even have
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: to involve another person. I can imagine that if as
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: you get older and you're single, like you don't want
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: to go You're not going to have a roster. You
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: don't want to go out and find somebody to like
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: simply get you off, which is when the toys I think,
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: come in to play and they become very very important.
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: They're like the main character in the sex story. Yeah,
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: to get yourself in the mood. And one of our listeners,
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: I just saw this, Oh this is funny.
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: Men piss me off though, because I will say when
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: I was in my worka I met like this guy
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: and he had like a young girl with him.
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, how old was he? Give me an age range
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: of him fifty five maybe, okay, whatever, and he she
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: girl was like inner twenties or something.
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: And I was like, why don't you date your own
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: age or like older than at least twenty something?
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: You were thinking that in your head? In my head, No,
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: I asked him. No, I was tequila, and I was like,
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: I was asking him because I was just curious. And
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: he was like, I mean, no one wants someone that's
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: like gone through menopause. And I looked at him and
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: I was fucking pissed. Ala lot. I was yelling at him.
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: I was like, how dare you shame a woman's like
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: body naturally.
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: Like I'm like, this happens to all women.
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: And the man that I choose to be with in
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: my life is gonna love me through menopause and like
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: after I have kids and like all this stuff. And
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: he was like no, like no one wants that, and
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: I was like, speak for yourself.
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: He was such an asshole. He sounds like a dumbass.
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: And guess what. It has nothing to do with that.
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: It's that women who have their frontal lobe developed are
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: smart enough to not fuck him, So he has to
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: go for girls who like, yeah, like all are in twenties. Yeah, yeah,
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: channel that I'm going to cheer up to my ARCA,
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: You're dick exact as I know. Has anything to do
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: with menopause. It has to do with these smart women
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: with juicy cookie still or beyond. Don't want you, Yeah,
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: we don't want to use her. I don't think it's
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: these old guys wanting younger for like the cookie and
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: the bod. I think it's that they want younger because
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: younger means dumber. Like I remember myself in my early
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: twenties was down for the cause, Yeah, you don't have
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: enough life experience to like drive you in a certain direction. Yeah,
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: that's my thought. Okay, So I love this show. Your
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: dynamic is so good. And I was cackling that Sally
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: shit her pants on the plane cuddled up with a stranger,
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: so brief to share. He's still reaching out to me.
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you he's a freak.
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: He wanted fly me to Abiza and then answer dam
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: Like when I was in Myorka, he was like, can
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: we just get you over here?
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: You're like no, because I have a guy who's like
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: drawing maps with his tongue from my nipple to my pussy,
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: So like sounds great for you, but I'm good. I'm
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: having right here at the airport, attached to JFA. Yeah,
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: I can like feel it still on my body. Are
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: your nipples hard? Yeah? I love that cold too. But
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: I have a dating question. I'm thirty five. I'm dating
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: a guy who's thirty nine with three kids eleven, thirteen,
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: seventeen that he had when he was married. I have
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: no kids, but want to have them. We've been dating
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: for a couple of months now and we are both
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: falling hard. We were having sex and he came inside
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: of me. I told him I had an iud and
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: he said he had the snip snip, which was a
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: relief at the time. But as things progress, I've been
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: so sad that if we stay together, we probably won't
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: have kids together. I never felt like this about a
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: guy before, and the more I see him be a
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: dad to his kids, the more I want them with him.
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: I never wanted kids with any of my exes, and
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: I figured I'd have them on my own. A la
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: la la. Does that mean me? I don't know? Am
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: I just in? Oh? What is me? Ye at you
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: like you had like I had? Yoh, like in all
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: a cart baby? Yeah? Yeah, I kind of love that
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: I do too. Like if I was this girl, I
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: would absolutely bring it up. You would, Yeah, Because if
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: you're feeling like if you're at the age that you
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: are and you're feeling like you want kids with this
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: guy and he's not going to give them to you,
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: is that a deal breaker? Because if it is, you
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: need to get out and like go and find someone else.
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: I think having kids with somebody is very, very intense,
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: and when you're good, you're good, but things go south quickly.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: You see a different side of people going through just
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: in like a normal custody situation, like sharing your kids
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: is very difficult. I would give it some time.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: I feel like I was born to be a mother,
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: like I want. There's never been a thought in my
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: mind where like I could see myself with all kids.
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: Okay, and do when you picture yourself with kids, obviously
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: we all picture doing it with a partner. But let's
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: just say you didn't find your partner and you hit
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: that point in time where you're like, I got to
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: make the call. Yeah, I would do it. I would
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: do it absolutely. I can't not have my own babies,
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: Like that's my worst nightmare. Like it makes me sad
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: to think about if it's not going to happen, because
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: people can, you know, people go. My sister went through it.
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: She had to do multiple rounds of IVF and it
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: was like heartbreaking to watch her go through that. But yeah,
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: I mean, the first question I asked ghost was do
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: you want kids? Yeah, And he's like, I'm going to
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: give you as many kids as you want.
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: Oh my god. It was so hot, so hot, really hot.
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: But that's like usually like the first question I ask.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: But that's because I know, so if this girl's gone
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: her whole life without knowing if she wants kids then
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: maybe just said she meets him. Yeah, give it a
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: couple more months, Give it a couple more months, like
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: really feel out the relationship because I want to have
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: kids with every single person that I meet. Within that
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: the first five minutes.
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: See this question, she said, can you with someone hoping
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: they'll eventually change their mind about having children? And I
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: say no to that because even when I was having
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: a crush on Austin and he said he doesn't think
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: or doesn't know if he wants I was like immediately turned.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: Off and he's going to have to start all the
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: way over. He obviously got snipped because he was like,
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: I don't want to deal. Let's just say. He was like,
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: you know what with you? I want one more. I
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: think you can reverse a vessectomy. Yeah you can. You
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: just can't untie your tubes. Like if she got her
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: tubes tied, I don't think that that can be reversed, correct.
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: But she only has an ID. But yeah, it's the
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: snip sniff is reversible. Because I talked to athletic man about.
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: That because he sniffed, yeah, which is kind.
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: Of crazy that you can like unsnip something. I guess
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: it sounds final kid on you Tube's tide doesn't.
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: Sound do you know what I'm saying? Like, just untie them? Yeah,
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: how are you like? Of course, of course the man
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: is like, here's free boner pills given to you by insurance,
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: and also you want to spread your seed, we can
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: undo the neutering. Fuck off literally, fuck off.
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: I got a call I did Jeff Lewis the other
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: day and one of the callers was like, what do
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: you say to people in the comments section? I've never
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: seen this, by the way, it actually hurt my feelings.
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: You're like people in the comment section saying you're a
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: man hater, And now as I'm talking, I'm like, oh,
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: this is why people call.
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: This is why Hey, there's a lot of man haters
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: out there.
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: It's okay. I just feel like it's such a blanketed thing,
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: like I'm not a man hater. I'm actually obsessed and
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: into it with it, like certain men I call out,
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: which is like what we all should be doing. It's
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: certain types of men. Yes, it's not like every man.
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: No, I mean, like all my friends are you know,
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: I have a lot of guy friends, and I love
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: my guy friends.
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: Do you think most of them would make good partners? Yes?
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: Oh yes.
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: Also the ones that I think some of them that
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: they don't know that they would, and they like expect
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: themselves to fail, so they just like are still being
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: single because they don't know that they're they have that potential.
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: But I see how they are with me and in
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: the friendship, and I'm like, if you just treated a
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: girl like this, you'd be.
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: The best partner ever. You want to know something though,
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: a lot of my guy friends that have said you
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: would make the best girlfriend, you would be the coolest,
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: And I sit there and look at them, and I'm like,
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: because you're my friend, Because you're my friend, there's not
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: the expectation there. If you and I were dating, I
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: can get very uncool, very really like, very quickly fast,
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: very cool, because there's an expectation, and you guys don't
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: like expectations. Be my friend is easy. You bail on me,
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: My feelings aren't hurt. I'm cool about it. That's so true, right, Yeah,
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: I mean I'm I can be super uncol in a relationship,
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: super toxic, super super fucking toxic. Yeah, no room for error. Nope.
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: All right. This is from Brianna R. Loved the first
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: episode Ladies, you guys are natural and nobs. I love
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: this concept because I feel like I don't have anyone
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: to turn to for sex advice or listen to how
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: to have a better sex life. So this is awesome.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: I call you guys my sexperts. I know you guys
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: aren't experts in sex. We aren't what, but I feel
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: like you guys have a lot of knowledge and tips
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: for sex, and I'm excited to try some of them
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: and keep being a listener. I'm with Sally. I used
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: to get a yeast infection all the time with condoms,
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: but switched to latex free condoms and that seemed to work. Well,
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: there you go, Sally, thank you, But I'm looking for
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: advice on how to get in the mood. This is
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: the one I loved because we were just talking about
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: the age thing. I'm struggling because I'm a teacher and
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: when I come home I'm exhausted all day and just
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: want to relax and go to bed. I feel you,
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: how do I get in the mood? What advice do
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: you ladies have. I'm around kids, so it's weird to sex.
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that is weird. I sometimes fire off a
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: quick now it's in my mouth, it's your deadar ocean.
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: If you don't finish your beans, you don't get cam D.
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck.
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you got two sides, you can do a bit.
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: I don't think that I in front of a classroom.
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: If I'm not in the mood, I feel like I'm
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: just not in the mood. Okay, But if I know.
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: I have a weird, I feel like I'm always in
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: the mood. I'm pretty much always in the mood too,
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: So I'm not always in the mood to have sex,
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: but I'm always in the mood to get off. Yeah.
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: I mean, one thing that like turns me on is when,
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: like if I just ask the man that I'm with
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: to just like rub me, you know, like get me
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: like a little massage Like that always.
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: Puts me in the mood.
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: If like my man wants to have sex and like
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: I don't, I'm like, I'm exhausted. Just start rubbing my body,
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: put some lotion on me, you know, just rub me.
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: I will be down in like five minutes. Yeah, Like mentally,
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: you're exhausted. Yeah, your vagina hasn't been teaching all day,
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: your vagina is like and someone stimulate me. Yeah. My
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: favorite thing to do is go into the bathroom and
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: like you have your little oils that you put down there,
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: and like, if you're not in the mood, maybe venture
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: onto porn hub and just look up something you're into.
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: Maybe a nice woman giving another woman a massage. Yeah.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: Once I put the oil like onto the cookie, I'm
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: pretty much read to go. Yeah. I think that's what
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: you need to do, is scheduling sex and romantic No.
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: I think sometimes you have to do that if you're
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: in a if you're in a partnership with like your husband.
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: I was talking to a sex expert and he said,
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: for play in couples, starts. It can start days in advance.
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: Start the morning of your woman is like making coffee
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: and he comes up and like rubs the bum like
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: something as simple as like that. Yeah, as a touch
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: where you know it on, it's on going down. See.
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: I don't know what it's like to be in a partnership.
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: For Oh, it was doctor Ian Kerner and we had
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: him on an unlikely affair with me and Amber. Okay,
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: but when you're in like a long running partnership, like
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: things get in the way kids work. You're exhausted, you're cooking,
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: you're cleaning, like the whole thing just sounds exhausting. And
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: I think at that point, like, mentally you have to
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: be connected to your person, right, Because I have a
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: friend who she and her husband were fucking like jack
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: rabbits and then he came home one day and ended
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: the marriage, said I want a divorce, and they continued
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: fucking like jack rabbits. For him, it was just sex.
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: Obviously for her, she was emotionally connected. So sex essentially
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: means nothing, right, Yeah, means everything and nothing at the
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: same time. So I think scheduling sex just to get
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: it over with, I think you need to talk to
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: a therapist. But knowing you and your partner are mentally
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: connected and then scheduling the sex, I just think that
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: that's called life. That happens.
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and especially if you have like a family and stuff.
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: Sometimes you schedule like a date night and get sexy
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: and I will say something else that gets me in
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: the mood is like putting on a sexy piece of
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: lingerie just for myself.
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: Even I'm like totally, it just makes me feel hot.
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: I know. I always I think back in the day.
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: I used to think that lingerie was for him, and
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: as I've gotten older, I realized that lingerie is actually
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: for me. Yeah, it's for the girl. Just knowing that
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: I have something like lacy and sexy on underneath whatever
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: I'm wearing. I love It's my I love it.
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: I love a little matching, like lacey bra and underwear
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: when I go out and I'm just like, thank somebody
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: better take me home tonight, because right I'm looking good
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: under here.
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: I need speaking of, I need to order some new
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: Lune dry for my trip next week.
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: There's a lot of good places to order from. Yeah,
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: you're gonna have a heyday. Can I tell you something
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: that happened at jeff Lewis really quickly? Yeah. So I
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: had done my delegates and they were just sitting in
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: like a laundry basket ready to be put away. And
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: so it was like lace underwear, lace bras, lace shirts.
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: And so I'm at jeff Lewis, I go to the
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: bathroom without a bag, go back into the studio, and
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: an assistant pops his head in and goes, did you
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: drop something in the hall? And I'm like, I don't
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: think so I didn't take anything to the bathroom. He's like,
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: there's something out here. What was it? My fucking lace
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: thong just laying in the center of the room, and
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: I was like, could you imagine if it was come
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: from it was probably stuck to my shirt. Oh my god.
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: I was like, what if it had like my good minute, Yeah,
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: discharge healthy juicy lady baby. Could you imagine? Oh my god.
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I need to be more careful, Like, yeah,
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: what if I one day was like I'm just gonna
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: like I don't have time to get ready, Like I'll
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: just wear what I wore yesterday and I have some
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: fucking ugh. Yeah, then I'm mortified. I don't embarrass easily
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: that that would mortify you. I think I would be
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: a little bit embarrassed. Yeah, I think I honestly think
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: nothing can embarrass me. After shitting myself. I really feel
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: like I can tell anyone anything and anything can happen
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: to me, and I'll be like, well, I shit myself
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: on a plane next to a stranger I made out
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: with before, So I'm fine, there's no getting worse than that.
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: I think you're okay with it, though, because he still
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: continues to call you. I think he might be a freak, Sally.
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: I think about this probably more often than I should.
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: And I truly think he knows you shit yourself and
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: he's into it. No, I truly think.
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: I think so he's like trying to take me to
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: the Bahamas at the end of this month.
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm ghosted up, dude, I'm ghosted up. Does
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: ghosts have many friends that are like tall? I don't know.
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: I gotta be honest, Sally. My roster is not exciting
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: me anymore.
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: Okay, well let's find you. Let's find you a friend
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: of ghosts and then we can all hang out.
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: Like I'm needing a little bit more. Yeah, you know,
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: because the roster as you get older. And I am
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: a firm believer if you can have multiple hoe phases
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: because no one factors in that most marriages don't work out,
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: so you need a whole phase before you get married,
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: in a whole phase after the fact. Yeah, I've had
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: like seventeen I'm cool with it. H But as you
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: get older, your roster is not just sex, like you
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: actually have to enjoy their time. You don't have time
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: connected to them. Yeah, but you agree that, like I
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: have to enjoy being around you. I'm now getting to
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: the point where I'm like, I don't I don't need
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: to be around you. Yeah.
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: And do you do you consider people on your if
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: you're just talking to someone, you're not fucking them, do
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: you consider that to be on your roster for the attention,
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: like emotional attention.
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: Oh I've never thought about No, I don't if you
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: oh you do? Yeah, I mean because there's I mean,
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: well not anymore. But there was guys before Ghosts. There
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: was on my roster that I had never slept with before.
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: But but you like hang out and talk face time, text,
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: and I just get the attention from them. Yeah, I
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: think that. Actually, that's a very good question, and I
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: would say, I mean I haven't had that before. Yeah,
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: but I would count that. Yeah, I think I do
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: count that because you could easily call them and be like,
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: I think it's that time they're part of the roster. Yeah, yeah,
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: I mean second doesn't play, he's still on the roster.
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: There was one guy that I went when I went
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: to Miami, and he texted me the other day and
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: he was like, so I listened to your podcast. Oh no, yeah,
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, what'd you think and he was.
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: Like, I just need some time.
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: And I was like, excuse me when we jump to
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: dating first of all, and like, go take your time.
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: I'm not waiting for you, Like I don't know what
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: you're He was like so annoyed.
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: Did we say about him? I didn't say anything.
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: Well, I said that I didn't go home with him
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: in Montalk because I actually like could see myself liking
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: this guy. And then I saw him in Miami and
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: it was after like I had seen ghosts in Miami.
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: And he was like, I don't like the fact that
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: you like hung out with a guy for two days
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: and then like went on a date with me.
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: And I was like booh, like get over it. Oh
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: did that really just deeply affect you? He was if
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: you would never do that, but come on.
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: And then he was like, well, I just he was like,
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: I'm not mad at you. I'm like, okay, well you
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: don't have a reason to be, but like I'm just
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: not used to, you know, things being so public.
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: And I was like, hey, that I get They're not
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: I get it, but they're not.
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: No one knows, no one knows, no one knows your name,
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: no one every no one knows he was like, well,
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: I just have never like had someone just tell me
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: what they're up to, like so bluntly.
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: And I was like, well, I wasn't telling you. I
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: was telling the podcast like I was telling my friends. Okay,
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: like my listeners is for the girls, okay, sign of
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: everyone I start talking to, I'm like the number one rule, like,
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: please don't watch the show. Please don't listen to any
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: of my podcasts because you if you're a great guy,
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: you're ending up on the podcast. If you're a bad guy,
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: you're ending up on the podcast.
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: And so I mean I asked him not to listen,
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: and he did anyways, which is annoying to me.
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: You're allowed to do whatever you want because single you
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: he didn't. It would be one thing if he were
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: in his feelings, because like maybe he flew you out
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: and put you up. Yeah, no he didn't, I think
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: said I said to him.
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: I was like, look like, I'm single doing my thing
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: until I get wiped up.
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: And when I get wiped up, I'm not gonna be
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: doing it anymore. So sorry, which is what's happening right now,
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: which is what's happening, and you snoozey lose could have been.
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: I agree with you could, but really could it have?
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: Because now you weren't doing You're locked down emotionally, mentally, spiritually,
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: like ghost is giving you every single thing that you need, everything, homes, sex,
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: Where do I find one blue?
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: But Sally, there's something that you're doing that is giving off.
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: This is a like, yes, he's amazing, right, but there's
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: something that you're doing that is attracting that type of man.
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: Clearly what I'm doing And I thought I did all
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: the work to be like you know what I think
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: I'm but I continue to attract the same type of situation. Listen,
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: that was me until this guy. But did you would
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: you vocalize like I want a guy who is there
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: for me in every capacity? Like did you say those
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: were things you wanted? I think I need to start
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: putting into the atmosphere because I'm a firm believer that
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: the universe listens to you. And I keep saying I
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: don't want this right now, but it's like I need
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: to start saying I do want this, Like it doesn't
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: mean you want it tomorrow, but like I do want
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: that in life. So I'm going to start vocalizing what
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: I want more manifest yes, because I'm so into talking
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: about what I don't want right now.
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't need to be like and I feel
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: like I'm a really good manifestor okay, from like early
• 40:50
  Speaker 2: on in my I don't know why, but I feel
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: like sometimes I feel like I have like manifesting powers
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: because whenever I manifested The Bachelor, because a lot like
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: I applied for The Bachelor when I was twenty one
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: and then I ended up getting on it after I
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: cancel my wedding at twenty six, and it was just
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: like kind of wild, and then I wanted to go
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: home and that they you know, they cancel all the
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: phones in the hotel and stuff, and I dreamed that
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: because all I wanted to do was talk to my mom,
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: and I dreamed that the hotel phone was working.
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: It was two o'clock in the morning.
• 41:24
  Speaker 2: I pick up the phone, called my mom's number and
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: it worked, and my mom was like, I've got to
• 41:28
  Speaker 2: come home. Like the news article is like it's bad,
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: like you need to come home. So that's like when
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: I came home, and then I manifested like kind of
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: southern charm, I would think, or just like being on
• 41:40
  Speaker 2: another show and that happened, and then now I'm like
• 41:43
  Speaker 2: manifesting this man and he's here.
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: Wow.
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I manifested my my medical job. I feel
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: like I watched Gray's Anatomy every day of my life
• 41:52
  Speaker 2: and I was like, I need to be doing what
• 41:54
  Speaker 2: they're doing.
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: You could like truly like I vision what It wasn't
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: like I want them. It was like it became your
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: whole being, Like you could feel yourself in those positions.
• 42:05
  Speaker 2: Anything that I've like vocalized and I've thought about and
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: I like want in life like I've I've really gotten okay,
• 42:11
  Speaker 2: and it's like struggled to get a man and I
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: feel like that's finally happening.
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: Okay, I'm manifesting all of that too.
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: You gotta speak positive thoughts to yourself instead of like
• 42:20
  Speaker 2: I don't want this, I don't want this. You gotta
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: start saying like I want this, I want this, I
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: want this and thinking about it every day.
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: Okay, done and done. Done A great way to end
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: the episode. You guys, Thank you for listening to another
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: episode of Sex Unlocked. We're gonna catch you again next week.
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: Love you guys. Bye,