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SUBMISSION FOR KEEPS - CHASTITY, RESPECT AND WILD TIMES · CALL ME MISTRESS

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Hi, welcome to the latest episode of Call Me Mistress.
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I'm your Hostess, Mistress Mia, and today I have with me the one
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the only kinky Kylie. Hi so Kylie and I, we enjoyed
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our event last Friday night. We had a lot of fun.
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We did some fun exploration. Yeah, Kylie sucked a Dick while
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a guy was laying in a vac bed. I did and no one asked me to.
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I was just decided. You decided you were going to
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do. It and.
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I was like, yeah, when's she going to do it?
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When's she going to do it? And then she's like, yeah, me
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the Dick. Me the stand of a sad, like
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she's going to do it, she's thinking about it.
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I'm not going to say a word. Let's let her cook.
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So much love to Wes. Wes is fucking awesome.
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He is a sexy man. He does not think he's sexy.
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And that's what's even hotter about it.
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He's adorable. Yeah.
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So good old country boy gets in the back bed, fucking loves the
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back bed, and he is rock hard the whole time.
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Doesn't want to come. Kylie's like sitting on the
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floor. Yeah, I'm posting videos.
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Mind you, I'm posting the three little video clips that I have
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to loyal fans. OK.
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People need to go on there. It's Mistress Mia Ray.
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Go on fucking Loyal Fans, check out our shit and we're going to
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remind people things that we do on Loyal Fans are not things
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that we do in the dungeon. No, they're completely
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different. Completely different.
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These are things we do for recreational fun and to make a
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little side money on loyal fans. Yeah.
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and enjoy our craziness, our sexy time.
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Little sexy time. Our fun little sexy time.
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Interesting, right? And kinky with me because we
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can't get my kinky episodes to post anywhere else.
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Yeah, yeah. So funny thing is, we met this
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guy. He wrote me.
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He was like, Mr. Smea, I love your podcast.
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I will do anything for you. I love you.
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I said well come over, I have a friend who wants to suck Dick
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tonight so if you want to get your Dick sucked, come over and
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get your Dick sucked. And I ended up running into him
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and finally saw him without his face mask and it was so sweet
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and so nice. And we're flirting back and
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forth and he's a little older than what I go for.
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He's like a 30 something. Oh my gosh, so old guys.
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So old, I mean 30. I mean, you're pushing it there,
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aren't you? Really pushing it.
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With your cradle robbing. It was funny.
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It was so funny. So, OK, we're going to say this
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too. Barbie has always dated the
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hottest guys. She's really dated some hot
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guys. She's fucked a lot.
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She don't fuck ugly. It's great.
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And so one of her, her little ex flings that she used to have sex
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with this guy is sexy hot. Yeah, he's sexy hot.
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But what's really funny is her, her ex is, is like the nerdy
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version of him. That's funny.
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It's hilarious. And they were both at the party
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and they're both bisexual. And I think she got both of them
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to make out at the party. Nice.
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It was glorious, but I missed it.
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I was like, fuck. And I didn't get to say Barbie
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get fucked. Barbie got fucked like Barbie
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did. All these things happen.
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I was like, where the fuck was I?
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What's? Funny is Barbie started doing
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that stuff and I told you that Barbie was in there.
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I was like, yeah, Barbie's in there.
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She's she's having sex and and Evie and Charles are setting up
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the the fuck machine. And he just kind of kept sitting
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there on your phone, like you didn't believe me.
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I didn't. Literally, I was like, no, what?
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No, But I had gone in there earlier and it was really funny
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because I was like, OK, why are you all not fucking?
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We need to see something. So I was encouraging them to do
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this. Oh, we did.
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Yeah, you did. And I missed it.
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And then I said, I said at some point I was like commenting to
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her ex. I was like, well, you're
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bisexual. I said, why don't you suck a
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cock for us tonight? Let's watch.
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And he's like, oh, I'll do it for you.
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And I was like, now, now, now, now.
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You used to be Barbie's boyfriend.
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And no, I don't do that. And I'm trying to come up with
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reasons in my head. But then.
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But then I said. I'm trying to cover the reasons
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of why you shouldn't do this for me.
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Yes. And then I said, you know, I was
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dominating, you know, men when you were born.
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And he's like, what? He's like, how old are you?
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And I said, I'm 50. And he's like, no, I'm like,
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yeah, I am going to be 50 soon. Might as well just call me 50.
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But you know, I'm going to fucking embrace it.
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I'm just going to tell people all the time I'm 50.
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Fuck, yeah. I don't feel 50 at all.
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And they just really, they were very receptive to tell me that I
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didn't look it. So it was very nice of them to
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say that. So I keep up with that good skin
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care, carnivore diet and just going to keep doing my thing and
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getting smaller. So I just sent my GIMP some
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pictures, Kylie like erotic exotic extreme bondage and
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latex. And he sends me this this little
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meme. It looks like a shaved down tree
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and it pops up like a fucking erection.
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That's hilarious. It's great.
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So we're going to talk in this episode about gimps and Subs and
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all of the above in our past DS relationships.
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And we did last week, the episode that people really
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reached out to you, to me, about you and your terrible
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experiences with some horrible fucking people that do not know
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how to be good doms on any level.
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Yeah, yeah, I had a lot of people reach out.
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It was awful. They're like, I'm so sorry.
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Like your ex is a bitch. Yeah, that's why I said she
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deserves a special place in hell and I said she doesn't need to
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have. Yeah, she's lost her Dick
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privileges. Yes, forever.
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And Kylie's like, but Mia, she's bisexual.
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And I was like fuck her, she doesn't deserve a good cock.
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Ever ever, never again, never ever again.
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Like the Taylor Swift song? Never, ever, ever getting back
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together. One day we're going to get sued
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for some artists. I'm telling you, that's great.
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You're just singing karaoke. You're doing it acapella.
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You're good. And she don't know.
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No one knows. We're not talking about that
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anyway, so. For the episode, we did a
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starstruck We're over here trying to figure out which
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celebrities we'd fuck. Oh.
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God, that was great. Yeah.
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And you know, after everything, I was like, Oh my God, I forgot
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Jake Gyllenhaal. Oh my God.
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Yeah, you didn't even mention him.
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I. Didn't mention Jake Gyllenhaal
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but I just saw him in a preview to a new movie that he's going
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to be in and I saw him. I was like fuck.
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And then the day after we did that episode, we've seen that
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trailer with Dakota Johnson in it.
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Yes, I was like, hey, look at that.
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Oh, you hit the mic, you bitch, you bitch, Kylie, shame on you.
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But anyway, I just said you just sit still.
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Jake Gyllenhaal. My God, all I keep thinking
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about him is getting bent over at fucking Brokeback Mountain.
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Did you ever You looked at me? You haven't seen that fucking
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movie, have you? No.
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Motherfucker. God damn it, Kylie, you OK?
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That is your fucking project tonight, you bitch.
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You're fucking gay and you have not seen motherfucking Brokeback
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Mountain. No, I've never seen it.
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Oh. My God, Heath Ledger.
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He fucking Ledger. What?
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You're still looking at me funny.
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God, what the fuck? He played Joker.
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Mrs. Marvel. I love Marvel movies.
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That's DC. Yeah, DC sucking my dicky.
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Heath Ledger played the Joker and he, it was right after that
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movie he died. He was on medication.
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He got through that movie. He was incredible in that movie.
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Anyway, he played in Brokeback Mountain.
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Heath Ledger met Jake Gyllenhaal and they were Cowboys and they
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would go on ranges, prairies. They were employees of this
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company and they would round up cattle.
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That was their job. OK, cool, but it would require
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them staying overnight in Brokeback Mountain because it
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was, you know, miles and miles upon miles doing this.
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So they would camp out for, you know, 2-3 nights doing all this.
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Well, they realized at some point they had a chemistry and
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Heath Ledger is married in the movie.
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Jake Gyllenhaal is not married yet at this point, but he
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connects with with Heath Ledger and the two of them and it's
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like Jake Gyllenhaal is the bitch and he gets fucked.
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It is so I love that movie. It is so good.
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And like I said, my mother, I know where I get this whole love
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and bisexual man. My mother is a fucking freak for
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my guys loves it. She won't tell me that, but when
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I hear the music to Brokeback Mountain and I go in there, she
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says, oh, and look what's on tonight.
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Oh, Brokeback Mountain, one of my favorites.
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I was like, don't ruin this movie for me.
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She loves that movie. That's great.
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It's great, but I'm not gonna ruin it for you.
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But this movie, you're gonna really love it because Anne
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Hathaway shows her full on tits. And you love Anne Hathaway.
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I love it. Yeah, my girl loves fucking Anne
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Hathaway, and I said it's because of her eyes she has.
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These so alluring. Oh, they're.
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Puppy dog eyes. Amazing.
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Yeah, Oh my God, Kylie is already creamy in our pants, you
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fucking freak. Anyway, watch the fucking movie
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tonight and then tomorrow when you come back you're going to
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tell us about the movie and how much you fucking loved it.
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OK OK, now another movie you can watch.
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Liv and I talked about this movie oh so long ago and we both
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watched it. She told me to watch it.
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I started watching it. Pissed off my GIMP.
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He was like fuck that. Anyway, he didn't see the end
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but he was starting to get a little pissy jealous in the
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movie. I was like what the fuck?
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But you need to watch. It's called Baby girl.
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Just watch it. OK.
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So Brokeback Mountain first and foremost, then if you have time,
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baby girl. OK, OK.
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All right, just so we clarify this, now we're going to talk
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about ADS relationship and dynamics in a positive light.
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The positive ones, the positive. Ones.
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Yes, darling. No more.
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Tears for this no? People, go listen.
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Exactly. Well, as you all know that we
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went to Mia's Munch and Mcguire's met this very, very
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nice gentleman that sat between Bree and Kylie that night.
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And I was obviously on the other side of Bree and we had great
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conversation. We had spoke, him and I, we had
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spoke twice before that and we immediately hit it off.
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There was just a fun, flirty kind of connection.
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And are you cold? Are you feeling nipply?
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I think you're a little cold Kylie Kylie, kinky, cold Kylie
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today. He's just sitting still though,
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I know. You should cuddle on the floor
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with the dogs and just bring over the microphone.
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Yeah, this feels so good surrounded by puppies.
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I have laid on their bed with them before.
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I know they're so I that is a Sealy posturepedic mattress for
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dogs. It's amazing.
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It's amazing. They love it.
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It's so great. They're so fucking spoiled, OK?
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They're like pillows. They're like my.
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Animals get real food, like they get kibble and then they get
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like, like chicken and I mean, they eat better than I do.
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They're eating Peppers and I'm I'm in the morning cutting up
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carrots and shit for these animals.
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Right? Telling Needle.
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Exactly. You do your duty, bitch.
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I do. You do.
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My job These are some well taken care of animals.
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You know it's funny, like you need a Dom so bad and yet your
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animals are dominating you. Look, I don't have a woman to do
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it, so my animals are just demanding things.
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They are. They're keeping me alive.
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They're like, now bitch, you're going to do this shit whether
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you like it or not because we need substances.
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Yes, well, we need to find you an actual female Dom who is
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actually knowledgeable in the lifestyle, who plays safe, who
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is considerate on a lot of levels.
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That's what you need. You need to have some.
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I honestly think you need a couple who is maybe a little
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older than you. Nothing.
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Nothing in their 50s by any means.
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No mom and daddy situation. But you need someone.
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Don't you roll your eyes at me, bitch.
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I'm talking about a fun couple that's sexy, maybe in their
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early 30s, you know, maybe 40 tops.
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But you need some fun. Is my. 60s and 70s just.
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Gross. Look, not all of us like younger
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people, Mia. Gross.
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Why is that? Gross.
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I don't know. I just, I see some people that
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come to different events and things that I've come across and
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they're like 60-70 and I'm like, oh God.
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I've met some 70 year old men that look pretty fine, not gonna
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lie. OK.
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I agree with you there. I do agree with you on that.
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Now I will say women, when they get the 60s, they're not as they
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start, you know, but men, 70s, I've seen quite a few men in
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their 70s that are good looking. OK, I think all women are
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beautiful until they die. All of them are gorgeous.
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But you know, around 60s when they start getting a little, you
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start seeing their age. Men, you don't really start
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seeing their age. They get closer to 80.
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Well, we used to have this one guy, Big Dick Tom.
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Yeah, I've heard stories. Yeah.
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Have I shown you pictures? Yeah.
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I mean pictures of them. Glorious fucking cop.
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And you know, he was in the 70s, didn't look like it.
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And he would fuck like the Energizer Bunny and all my
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friends who fucked him all fucking tapped out, all of them.
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And so here we are. At this point, I'm going to tell
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you about my good experiences back up.
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So anyway, so John Doe. We met him and we had a great
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time. OK, just cute count all.
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Right. So anyway, so we had this really
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good connection and honestly, this man is super nice.
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He's super sweet. He thought I was a lot younger
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than him and I was like, you realize we're the same age.
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He's like, no, no, we're not. So I told him, I said, look, I
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said if you're going to be my sub, you have to understand a
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lot of things. And that is you have to take
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care of yourself. I want to see a lot of
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self-care. I want you going back to the
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gym. I want you making your hair look
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as good as it can look. I want you doing skin care.
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I want you doing all of these necessary, essential things that
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is going to make you look good, sexy, and younger.
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That's what I want. I like young guys.
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I like eye candy. I mean, you already know, my
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GIMP is 32, my Sissy is 28. And I'm, I'm happy to take on
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young men all day long who want to be my Subs.
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And then then of course, I have little Justin and he's still
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young. He's in his early 30s.
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And so this new sub, I just told him we've talked about things
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that we're going to be doing that kind of thing now, before
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all of this, before we got into the nitty gritty about me being
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his owner, before any of this. When we met at Mcguire's that
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night, two days later, he sent me, he sent me the link to the
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chastity. He went, he bought a chastity,
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he put a lock on it. He has a code.
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I can add time, I can delete time, I can do all these things.
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I can lock the law. So there's so many factors in
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all of this. And I just told him I'm I like,
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I accepted it immediately. I was like, fuck yes, control a
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man's Dick. I'm all about it.
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Great, perfect. You control a man's Dick, you
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control his world. You just do.
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You control the way he thinks about things.
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All the above. And right now I'm having issues
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with my little Sissy bitch because he masturbates every
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night. I know how he is and he's like,
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I don't see the problem. I'm masturbating to you.
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And I was like, the problem is, little bitch, you need your
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fucking chastity on so you can be submissive mentally.
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Because when he's mentally submissive, like one time he
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actually went four days without jacking his little Dick.
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And what does he do? He sends me a message that says
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I want to hurt for you. Those are the words I want to
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fucking hear. So I then go, and I've been very
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transparent as always. I you know, I tell the world my
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life and I said, look, I've got a GIMP sub, I got a Sissy sub,
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I've got a puppy sub. And now I'm at this point where
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I have a new caged sub. And I told him I said, look,
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when I was a little girl, I was very isolated.
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My siblings were much older than me.
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We a lot of times lived away from the city.
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I didn't have a lot of friends that could just come see me.
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And so playing with my dolls, I always had these dolls and I
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would dress them up and I would role play with them and I would
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do all these things with them and then I would put them back
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on the shelf. This is this is me at 6789.
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Yeah, those developmental ages. It's developmental ages.
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Exactly. And so I would develop these
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relationships with them in the back stories and all these
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things, and then I would put them back on the shelf when I
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was done playing with them. And I would pick and choose.
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I would say, oh, this was my special doll today and I would
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do all these things with it. And I kid you not, I did not
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have this epiphany until about 3-4 months ago.
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When I'm dressing up my Sissy, I'm taking these intricate
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things and dressing him up more intricately every single time.
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And I was like, Oh my God, I see what I'm doing.
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He's your baby, He's your doll. He's my doll and this was like
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my game. It's the same principle.
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It's paying attention to every detail.
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It's doing the specific plug, mask, breath play toys, It's the
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bondage bag, the belts, the row, every little detail.
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And then I put a catheter on him as a sticky catheter.
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What's it called? It's like a glove catheter.
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Basically. You go on, you know you don't.
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It's not an insertable. I OK my mind's at a blank right
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now because I'm thinking about doing all these things.
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Getting horny over here. Oh.
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My God, yeah. So I was texting my Sissy the
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other day, the other night, and it was one of those moments, you
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know, before bed and we're texting back and forth and I'm
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having that moment. And I was like, yeah, I said
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I've ordered you a few new things.
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He doesn't want to get his ear pierced right at this moment
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because he's still in the real world.
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Yeah. If people see that he's a
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country boy, his parents, his family are going to be like,
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what the fuck are you doing with pierced ears?
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So I'm like, you know what, I'm going to get you clip on
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earrings. I've bought him gloves.
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I've gotten him the gloves that have no hands so they're like
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the hands free gloves. I've gotten him Lacy pink gloves
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with matching Lacy pink socks. They have.
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Fingerless gloves. They have fingerless gloves.
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OK. And then there's one type of
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glove where it's AV and it comes down and it has a band right
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around the 3rd, so it covers the whole arm.
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And then you could put another glove over it.
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Yeah. So all these things I'm doing in
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layers of intricate detail and I'm thinking, Oh my God, this is
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what I used to do with my dog. It was like, whoa, mind blown.
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Because self reflection is such a big thing and you don't
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realize you're doing certain things and do you sit back?
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And I always say I look at other people because other people ask
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me, well, why do I do this? Why do I do that?
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And I said, well, I can tell you da, da, da, da, da.
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But anyway, so these were the things I was doing for my Sissy.
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And I was talking to him. But my new sub, the cage sub, I
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kept adding time onto his chastity device and more and
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more he was like, holy shit, it's just day after day after
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day. I'm adding more time.
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And he's like, holy shit, yeah. He, he was like, wow, you're
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really getting into this, aren't you?
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And I said, you obviously wanted me to do this.
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You want to be owned. You want these things.
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And so a few days after he had the chassis on Sunday, we did a
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session on Tuesday for the very first time Tuesday.
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I left him speechless. I put him on the Gurney.
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I tied him up. I wrapped him in cellophane and
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then roped him up. He couldn't fucking move on the
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Gurney. I put a collar on him.
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I blindfolded him. I did all these little things
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and as I was doing them, I would say things like, oh, I'm not
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done yet. I have another rope.
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Oh, not done yet, I have to get the other belt.
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And so he could not contain himself.
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I'm surprised, honestly, that Cage stayed on.
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I'm surprised it didn't pop the fuck off, really and truly.
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So I was doing this with him and I did the scene and I pulled out
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my massager. And I like to tease people with
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a massager. Like, I start off at their feet,
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How sensitive are their feet? And then I, like, compress
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around their knee, like really feel on their knee and get in
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the joints. I'm like, yeah.
21:55
And so I, I do these things that they don't expect anything to
21:59
happen. They don't, they just don't know
22:01
what I'm going to do because they're blindfolded.
22:03
It's their first experience. And it was his first ever
22:06
submissive experience. Oh, wow.
22:08
I mean, tell me that's not pressure, Right.
22:11
But I've done it so many times that I was great for doing it.
22:15
I was, I knew what I was doing. I never plan ahead, but I knew
22:19
that one thing we were going to do was extreme bondage.
22:21
And that's what we do. So as I was doing the extreme
22:24
bondage with him, I used the cage to my advantage.
22:28
I put the massager on the cage and within seconds he came.
22:32
It was done. And I was like, oh, look at
22:36
that, you weren't supposed to come.
22:38
Why did you do that? He's like, I totally lost
22:41
control. I didn't know I was going to do
22:43
that. I didn't know what was
22:43
happening. I honestly didn't know what you
22:45
were doing. I don't know why I did that.
22:48
I didn't know. I he's freaking out.
22:51
He I said it's OK, It's all right.
22:54
He didn't have control over it. It's OK.
22:56
I said you couldn't have done anything.
22:58
You're here laying helplessly. Yeah.
23:00
What could you have done? I said as if you could resist.
23:03
Right. So after that, I let him lay
23:09
there for a few minutes. I'm like, calm down, we're going
23:13
to untie you. And that's the thing, when I tie
23:15
someone, I let them feel the the rope and I take my time with it.
23:19
He feels it. He feels it running across his
23:21
body and he knows what I'm doing, but he can't see what I'm
23:25
doing right. It is a mind fuck, really is
23:28
because you don't know how far I'm going to take it.
23:30
You don't know how much you're going to be tied up.
23:33
Yeah. I mean, I could put several
23:35
strands of rope on there if I wanted to.
23:37
I used three. That's what he needed.
23:40
So after that, I then went and I I took his collar off, took his
23:46
cuffs off, and we sat and talked and then I had him get on the
23:49
floor and I had him rub my feet. And after everything, we talked
23:53
later on that night. And he's still speechless.
23:56
He, you know, I told him I said, you know, take as much time as
23:59
you need. Think about it.
24:00
And so he tells me he's like, you know, after everything
24:05
you've done, the best place I felt was sitting on the floor in
24:09
front of you on my knees. You know this.
24:12
Oh. Yeah, that's the best place to
24:13
be. You know that feeling, right?
24:15
It's. Amazing.
24:15
It's amazing. But we have this romance of DS.
24:19
Yeah, it is a seduction. It is.
24:21
So much of it is so mental. And it's like when you have
24:25
something with someone like that, it's because you match
24:29
them mentally. Yeah, I've had people that I
24:31
mean that I've played with here recently that I have no romantic
24:34
connection with, but that I connect with only emotional of
24:36
DS like it, you know, very much so.
24:38
Very much. I think that's another reason to
24:41
just throwing that out there with that certain past someone
24:44
that she is so fucking smart and you're so smart and it's like
24:47
that. I know, I know this, but again,
24:50
you have to remember if you're too much alike and you both want
24:53
the same things to be submissive, it goes back to it's
24:56
not going to work. OK, now here's my thing.
24:59
You know how I feel about my Sissy and my gap.
25:02
But if they were dominant towards me, it wouldn't work.
25:05
Mia, don't do dominant. Yeah.
25:07
Mia does not want to be submissive.
25:08
Yeah, I just don't. It doesn't work.
25:10
And so it would it be like asking you, hey, you need to
25:13
just dominate, be dominant all the time, Kylie, dominate her.
25:17
That's what she wants. You see what I'm saying?
25:20
But in this situation that I'm in with this new individual, it
25:24
is it is such a refreshing relationship because we connect
25:31
a lot of ways. We agree with so many things.
25:34
You know, he kept saying last night, he's like, you know, I'm
25:37
just kind of waiting for us to, like, have some type of
25:39
disagreement about this DS dynamic, but there hasn't been
25:43
one. Yeah, it's great.
25:46
So he wore the chassis 10 days. But on the 9th day, it was one
25:51
of those moments where, like I said, he had moved.
25:54
He had packed, moved two days. He was rushing around, moved
25:59
into his new house, all these things he drove in the rain on
26:02
his motorcycle. He was frustrated, aggravated.
26:05
And by 10:00 that night, he had it.
26:07
Like, he had absolutely had it. And I had told him, I said,
26:12
look, take a breath, It's OK. He was just like, you know, it
26:16
was just a burden today. It was in the way and make
26:18
things difficult. It was blah, blah, blah, blah,
26:20
blah, blah. And I said, you know, you're
26:21
being a little bratty. And he's like, I didn't think I
26:23
was being bratty. I thought, I'm just stating
26:25
facts. And I'm like, not quite.
26:29
I said, but I tell you what, let's call it a night.
26:33
He's like, yeah, I better shut up before I say anything I'm
26:35
going to regret. I said, yeah, that's a good
26:37
idea. But smart.
26:39
Yeah. So we ended it that night.
26:43
So then I went back and the next morning he wrote me something
26:47
and he's like, you know, I just thought I was stating fact.
26:50
He's like, I didn't think I was being bratty.
26:52
So I, I thought about it for a moment and I said, you know,
26:55
it's always best to really clarify with someone in ADS
27:00
relationship because a sub always wants to know what they
27:04
did wrong. If you're reprimanding them on
27:06
some level, they need to know, they need to know that level of
27:10
correction as to why they, you feel the way that you felt about
27:13
the situation, right? And I certainly didn't want to
27:15
leave him in the dark and I didn't want to leave him in the
27:17
dark for any length of time for him to be frustrated or
27:22
aggravated. So I wrote him and I'd really
27:24
like to find this message just so I can kind of tell you
27:27
exactly what I said. And this is what I said to him.
27:31
I said good morning, dear sub. So a few things that came off
27:35
bratty is when you said, quote UN quote, let's put a belt on
27:38
you and see where your focus changes.
27:40
And I thought, little bitch, how dare you tell Mister Smea about
27:47
wearing a chassis device because I will fuck a bitch up for even
27:51
suggesting that. But anyway, I didn't say that
27:52
part. I'm just thinking this.
27:54
Yeah, right. As then you made references and
27:57
several responses as it being a hassle, quote UN quote, or
28:01
dealing with it, quote UN quote. But there's only one person who
28:05
initiated this burden little sub, and that's you.
28:09
So I can call you bratty. And no, you're not being easy.
28:12
And I don't compare you to another sub, nor do I compare my
28:16
Sissy or my GIMP or my puppy to you.
28:18
You're your own person, so just be you.
28:21
The last three days have been difficult on you, but like you
28:23
said, the storm is coming to a close.
28:26
Now there's just unpacking, enjoying your new house.
28:29
Submission is not always supposed to be easy.
28:31
Some things in this journey will be challenging, but you can do
28:34
it. I know it's not easy to wear the
28:36
cage. I know it's a sacrifice, I know
28:38
it can be a struggle, but it has its purpose.
28:41
Just breathe and go ahead. Order the new cuff set that I've
28:45
chosen and I think the red will suit you.
28:48
I think you'll feel more complete when you have them on
28:50
in your sleep because he made reference after this that he
28:55
wanted to sleep in in his cuffs. And then I told him you can be
28:58
constantly reminded of your new owner.
29:00
Enjoy your day. So he writes me back.
29:03
He says wow. First off, thank you for all
29:05
these words and a meaningful response.
29:08
Second, I didn't even recall typing any of that so no excuse.
29:13
Thank you for pointing it out. Looking forward to talking later
29:16
when you have the time tonight. Appreciate you very much.
29:21
And that's the thing. There's a level of appreciation.
29:23
I know he's making the sacrifice.
29:25
I know why he's doing it because he wants to feel submissive.
29:29
Yeah. And he wants to feel this
29:30
connection even more so being submissive.
29:33
So then he said, I'm starting to really enjoy that greeting from
29:36
you. When I call him a little sub,
29:38
he's less frustrated and he's having fun at work now.
29:41
So I was like, oh, look, he's really starting to joy himself.
29:46
That's good. It is.
29:47
It's great. You know, he's new to town.
29:48
He's experiencing things for the first time.
29:52
And like I said, we really communicate very well together.
29:56
The one thing, and this was one of the the bigger points that I
29:58
wanted to point out in this episode, he said, I'm always
30:02
wondering if I can do my job and still be in chastity or being a
30:05
submissive to you. The sub in me feels like he
30:09
doesn't know if he can really do his full job.
30:11
He said he had an an incident with a employee that kind of got
30:16
out of line with him and kind of yelled at him.
30:19
And so he immediately went into his Mantone and he said, he said
30:24
I told her exactly how it was and that was me.
30:27
But all the while I'm still thinking, I have this chastity
30:30
on and I'm submissive to you, so how can I do that?
30:34
He's like, at any rate, probably sealing the cuffs on my own by
30:38
sharing this. But these little details, it's
30:41
nice to know I can still be who I am, but I can still be your
30:44
little sub. He says, ma'am, that the tight
30:46
little cage just keeps getting tighter.
30:48
So I told him, I said, trust me, we'll go slow, it'll be OK.
30:53
And I said these two worlds of yours, they're completely
30:56
separate. They won't get mixed.
30:58
So he felt great about that. But he told me initially he
31:01
wasn't sure whether or not he could still be this dominant
31:04
person that he always is versus that versus the sub for me.
31:08
Yeah. So Kylie, explain your
31:11
perspective and all of this and you being submissive.
31:15
I know you don't have a dominant role at.
31:17
Work. No, I don't.
31:18
I I am kind of submissive both in every and pretty much in
31:22
every aspect of my life. I just kind of do what's
31:25
expected of me with friends within DS, relationships, within
31:28
romantic relationships, work, all of that.
31:31
Not a dominant person in really any aspect.
31:34
Not the person that you're gonna come to with problems.
31:37
I'm the person you're gonna that's gonna fix the problems
31:39
behind the scenes and you're like, oh, that got fixed and I'm
31:41
not gonna take any credit for it and just be like, yeah, started
31:44
working and just walk away. I can sometimes do like manager
31:48
positions when I need to, like one of my managers gone and
31:51
things like that. But I'm more of just a worker
31:53
bee. I just kind of follow the
31:54
guidelines and do it. And I'm like that pretty much
31:56
with everyone. Not a very.
31:58
A lot of people, what you see is you see they're dominant in work
32:01
or they're dominant at home or they're dominant in both.
32:03
I'm I'm more of a submissive all the time, through and through,
32:08
through and through. I get it.
32:10
I get it because I told you I'm a dominant through and through.
32:13
I can't be submissive. Yeah, and that.
32:15
It's not in me. Yeah, I'm not.
32:17
I'm just not a dominant person. I'd rather just do as I'm told.
32:20
I feel like when people tune into the episode, they they need
32:25
to get some type of epiphany, they need to have some type of
32:29
of lesson or a learned aspect of DS of the BDSM relationship.
32:35
And I think that what people need to understand is there so
32:39
many people that want to call themselves Doms, like your
32:42
terrible experiences, that what they're not getting is this, I
32:47
will say this much that a former sub of mine said, you know, Mia,
32:51
you were one of the best Doms when it comes to communication
32:56
and working with someone and being patient, understanding.
33:00
And so for people to not really see that and value that being
33:04
your Subs, then they're the problem.
33:06
Yeah. Right.
33:08
And so I think that's what you have to do.
33:13
I think that as I told, as I told this new person, this Cage
33:17
sub is that we have to talk about everything.
33:21
I want to hear his thoughts daily.
33:23
I want to know where his mind is.
33:25
I want to know his headspace. And that night that he was
33:28
frustrated and everything I just told him, you know, just take a
33:30
deep breath, everything will be OK.
33:32
And So what did I do Day 10? He got through it and I released
33:36
his cage that following night. So last night I told him, I said
33:39
tonight is your last night with the cage and I'm going to turn
33:44
off the lock for you by the time you get up.
33:46
And so it was turned off by 4:00 AM, and that way he could get
33:50
up, have a fresh shower, blah, blah, blah.
33:53
But it was really cute because it was very sweet.
33:55
It's endearing. When I say cute, I'm not saying
33:59
that in a condescending tone by any means because again, I
34:03
really value him. I value any person that wants to
34:07
be as submissive to me. Yeah.
34:09
And I think that's what your other doms totally fucking
34:11
missed. They never hit the mark on that.
34:14
They never valued you. Someone told you you have value,
34:18
but he never said you were valuable to him.
34:20
Valuable as a sub. It was like you were possession
34:24
more than a person. Yeah.
34:26
And I see that with even some of my friends.
34:29
They really they don't. They don't look at a sub as an
34:33
equal. Yeah.
34:35
A sub is still an equal. Yeah.
34:37
But they just choose to be submissive because that's who
34:42
they are. It's not that they're less than
34:45
in any way. They're still you Treat them
34:49
with respect and dignity and kindness like you would anybody,
34:52
right? Don't expect them to bow down to
34:54
you. So I'm going to read the sweet
34:56
text message that I got from him.
34:59
And I thought, oh, how neat is that?
35:01
That's so sweet. He said to me, I, I messaged him
35:05
this morning and I said how's my uncaged sub this morning?
35:11
He said too much to type right now but it's been a good day.
35:15
It feels like mentally it's still on the head is flipping
35:20
against clothes and that's wild and weird.
35:22
It feels good, you trusted me and cared for me, but I still
35:26
want you to control me, Mistress.
35:28
Love that. You love that, right?
35:30
So sweet. That is so sweet.
35:33
That's what I'm saying. That's what it's about.
35:35
So I. What I've noticed with
35:37
yourselves is they're all very like, you know, caring and kind.
35:41
They see the sweet things and you know, they'll be fussy for a
35:44
minute, but then they go right back to that like, oh, I just
35:46
want to do this for you. I'm fussy.
35:49
I'm a fussy little bitch When I can't get what I want, I have a
35:53
fussy little bitch. I'm I'm a brat.
35:55
I will rage bait your ass. I like it's been, it has been an
36:00
entire ass month since my ass has been beat properly and I'm
36:02
just like, man, I'm going to start rage baiting people until
36:05
they hit me like this. You know, I do that with doms,
36:10
like people that actually play with, it's been too long.
36:13
I'm just like, I'm just going to start rage baiting you until you
36:15
hit the fuck out of me. Like this is what we're going to
36:16
do. We're just going to keep rage
36:17
baiting. We're going to keep being fussy.
36:19
Like I'm not, I'm not like them, like yourself.
36:21
They're so sweet and they're so nice and they use all this
36:23
kindness to get what they want. And I'm like, no, I'm just going
36:25
to piss her off until she gives me what I want.
36:27
But you know why they do that? It's because they learn from me
36:31
and how I talk to them. Yeah, When I met my GIMP years
36:35
ago, like he didn't see his parents affectionate.
36:39
He didn't see any of that. And so, you know, he wanted to
36:42
wait for marriage. And it just so happened the
36:44
first night we met, we had sex. We did a whole BDSM scene, but
36:48
we still had amazing sex that night.
36:52
And we were married less than nine months later.
36:55
But it's because I've always treated him with love and
36:59
respect and kindness. Yeah.
37:01
And I've never, never devalued him.
37:04
I've never looked down on him. Even before we were married,
37:07
even when he was just my sub, it was never like that.
37:09
And even to this day, he'll still call me Mistress.
37:12
He'll still do these things that a good sub should do.
37:15
Yeah. And all day long, he'll he'll
37:17
message me. I love you more than anything.
37:20
You're the best thing that ever happened to me and I hear that
37:24
from my Sissy. You were the best thing that's
37:26
ever happened to me. You are the absolute best person
37:29
I know. You are my best friend.
37:31
All these things and it's because again, I value them.
37:34
I want to nurture them. I still, you know, love them.
37:37
I want to care for them. I want to do all these things
37:39
for them and that is what you deserve.
37:42
That is why in time someone, I say God, God will send you that
37:49
perfect person. You know, I'm not trying to get
37:52
religious. I'm just saying fate, fate will
37:57
happen and you will meet that perfect person.
38:00
And like I said, I just see you with a couple.
38:02
Charles and I both say this because I think I think you need
38:06
kind of both dynamics. I really do.
38:08
I think you kind of need that Ying and Yang, and you need to
38:11
be that little bitch in between the Ying and Yang.
38:15
Trying to get me sandwiched over here, yes.
38:17
You need you need to be the stuffing in the Oreo cookie.
38:21
God, wouldn't it be great to have like an interracial couple?
38:26
OK, question on this. I got to ask this.
38:29
OK, did you see my hot fucking friend at the munch?
38:34
Him and his wife, they came over the table to say goodbye because
38:38
they were going to go to the roundup.
38:40
He is buff and cut, tattoos so fucking hot.
38:44
And then his wife is plump, big, beautiful eyes.
38:49
She's like a big Anne Hathaway. She's a big girl, beautiful
38:52
couple. I did not see them.
38:56
OK, I'm going to see because I know she's a little by, but
39:00
they're both by and they both want cock.
39:03
They really do. But I'm just going to see if
39:05
they're going to dabble in a little.
39:06
Kylie, I'm telling you, he is fucking hot.
39:11
He is all beefcake man meat. He is.
39:14
He is so sexy hot. I want to fuck him.
39:18
I want to fuck him and I want to watch him suck cock.
39:20
That's what I want. God bless.
39:24
I'd be fucking riding this Dick and be like hey, yay, yay, yay.
39:27
And I'm sharing this Dick. Your second Dick.
39:32
Yeah, that's what I'm doing. Oh my God.
39:36
Fuck. Kylie, let me tell you, one
39:39
night I've had as many as 12 guys in one night.
39:43
It was fucking glorious. It was about 6 hours of fun, I
39:47
kid you not, because we're all taking turns.
39:49
We're going back and forth. There was massage, there was
39:51
fucking oil. There was deep throating,
39:54
thrusting, bumping, grinding. I had my fluffer, you know, just
39:59
sucking Dick. Those, Oh my God, those were the
40:03
fucking days. But my point of this is.
40:11
Take a minute. I just had a me a flashback.
40:14
Oh God. I used to take this one guy and
40:23
I say date in the sense that we would fuck all the time and then
40:27
we'd I'd find other sex partners, other men to fuck all
40:30
the time. I didn't want any of the women.
40:32
I didn't want to share. I didn't.
40:34
I'm greedy. I'm greedy like that.
40:36
But this one guy, Adam, I used to see him all the time,
40:39
tattoos, young, hot. I think he was 21 at the time,
40:44
20/20/21. And I was, you know, 2930 at the
40:48
time, 10 years older than him, whatever.
40:50
But before, obviously, I met my husband and Adam and I did three
40:55
ways. We did four ways.
40:58
One night we were fucking and it was 7 dudes.
41:01
And it was, I mean, two hands being used, mouths getting
41:08
fucked at the same time. It was too much concentration.
41:11
Oh my God, no, you don't have to concentrate.
41:14
You, you just have. No, you don't listen to me.
41:16
The only reason why you would concentrate is because you want
41:19
to strive for perfection. But you don't have to.
41:23
You don't have to carry the load.
41:25
No, listen, you just have to suck that cock.
41:28
That's all you got to do. You got to work your hands like
41:30
you're milking. Because you got to do it
41:32
perfect. Because you got to make sure the
41:34
ones in your mouth is doing it right.
41:35
You got to make sure the ones in your hands aren't getting hurt.
41:37
And you got to make sure that the person who's fucking you is
41:39
actually paying attention. And you can't.
41:40
You can't just. Kylie, you're missing out,
41:45
girlfriend. Listen, if anyone wants to have
41:48
a good fucking gangbang with Kylie, I'm ready.
41:51
We're making content. We can film this motherfucker.
41:56
Let's do this shit. Kylie needs to get fucked.
42:01
OK, Go to our loyal fans. I'm just saying.
42:03
But go back to the DS dynamic and we're going to wrap this
42:06
episode up. But I'm saying to you as a Dom,
42:09
you owe to your partner, to your sub, You owe them your respect.
42:15
They deserve dignity, respect, love and kindness.
42:18
Yeah, and even if you're not in love, even if you're not in a
42:21
involved in a romantic relationship, you can still be
42:25
the person they need. And it could be an amazing
42:28
friendship. It can be a beautiful
42:30
relationship, but it's communication, it's trust, it's
42:34
honesty, it's being transparent. And it's just being that perfect
42:39
person that they need. And so as I was telling my new
42:42
Cage sub, I said I want you to be absolutely happy and all that
42:47
you do. So if there's any point in time,
42:51
and I have told this to my GIMP, and I've said this to my Sissy
42:55
now, Justin will never leave me. Justin, I love you, my little
42:59
puppy. But my thing of it is, I've said
43:02
to all of them, if you ever get tired of me, if you ever want
43:05
more, if you ever want anything else, I got to say it.
43:08
Just tell me that you want something else.
43:11
I'll respect that and you can move forward in your life.
43:13
And if that means without me, it means without me.
43:15
It's OK. I'll love them forever, but if
43:18
I'm not making them happy, then there's no point.
43:20
Like I said, there's a special place in hell for the people you
43:23
have been with and. All of them, just just some.
43:26
No, no, just the assholes. The assholes that have
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mistreated your and taken advantage of your of your
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submission because that's not what you do with the submissive
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at all. And I think it's cute when I get
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these little emails from guys on fat and they're like 20 and 23.
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I'm a dumb. I'm like, oh, motherfucker,
43:44
that's so cute. They need to have like on fat
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life. They need to have that option.
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They need to have like preteen BDSM Dom, like beginning stage
43:57
is done, yeah. Yeah.
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Beginning intermediate. Yeah, Yeah, There you go.
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There you go. Oh these little boys.
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Anyway on that and women do too. I've seen women on there 2021.
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I'm a dumb bitch. Sit your ass down.
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Punk. They're going to start
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somewhere, though. They're going to start to.
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You they do, but why are they doing it?
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Are they doing it for Fendom? Are they doing it for the money?
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What are they doing it for? Are they doing it for a scam?
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And see what they do. Honestly, I don't see a 20 or 21
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year old girl being a lifestyle Dom.
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Yeah, living as a lifestyle Dom, I don't see that at all.
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I really don't, because even when I was 2021, yeah, I had a
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dominant personality. But could I have seen myself
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knowing my sexual orientation at the same time being a Dom,
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feeling as if I could be dominant the whole time?
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No, because it was still points where I was with dominant men
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engaging in sex at 2122, thinking, oh, this is great, not
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really knowing. So I think you're just too
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fucking young to know when you're bad.
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Yeah, you. Got to figure it out.
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You do. You figured it out early.
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I learned very early. You did really early.
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I learned at 1716. I figured it out very young.
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Yeah, because you weren't fucking exposed to that.
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Very young. Very young.
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So exciting, isn't it? That's okay, it means I grow up
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faster. I you know, I might be a baby,
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but I'm experienced 1. Very true, very true.
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I didn't come into the lifestyle like I didn't come into this
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community that I'm in now as a newbie.
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Yeah, you know, I had experiences under my belt.
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I knew what I was doing. Not not completely.
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I mean, I'm still ignorant to a lot of shit, but you know, I had
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experience under my belt. And This is why we've talked
45:36
about it several times, is that you have still gotten to the
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point where you've chosen the wrong doms.
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You've given too much to them, and for what?
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Because you trust them and you loved some of them.
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Yeah. So I think people need to learn
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from those experiences. They need to understand that you
45:54
can't just trust everyone. What I really noticed when your
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past relationships and what you talked about in that previous
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episode was so many of them were so fucking manipulative, using
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words to twist it to their narrative in such a negative
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condescension towards you. Yeah.
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That all you wanted to do was please and be like, oh, God, you
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know, like, how can I please you and make you happy?
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And then what do they do? Fucking rip you, tear you and,
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you know, throw you to the side like you're nothing.
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It's awful. God, I didn't mean it's, like,
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touch that, but you know what I'm saying?
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Yeah. I got what you're.
46:27
Saying it's horrible. And I mean, I have such empathy
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for you because I would never treat someone like that.
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I told you all, the worst story that I ever did to anyone was
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that asshole client that came in and he was like, oh, I can
46:42
escape anything, even handcuffs. I'm like, then why are you here,
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Houdini? And then I stuck Wendy, AKA, you
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know, Warren's foot in his mouth, a 60 year old man's foot
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in his mouth while he's blindfolded.
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That was the worst thing I've ever done.
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That was the worst thing. But I've never taken advantage
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of anyone in the dungeon in such a negative way that I would hurt
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them. OK, so I will tell you though,
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on our next episode, I fucked a bitch up in the dungeon the
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other day and he asked for it. I only did it because that's
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what he wanted. That was it.
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And I say anymore so you can watch the next episode.
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I'll talk about it then. Well, I won't watch it.
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I'll hear it, yes. OK, whatever Kylie.
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But anyway, you want to check out Kinky Kylie, check her out
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on Loyal fans, Mistress Mia Ray and until then, Kylie.
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Thank you for joining us. This has been the latest episode
47:42
of Call Me Mistress.