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CAN MEN BE VULNERABLE? #donttelljake · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Up on relatables. I want to be able to provide.
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  Speaker 2: I want to be someone that gets looked to as
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  Speaker 2: someone that's done it and if I need something, I
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  Speaker 2: can get it from him. I want my wife to
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  Speaker 2: think like they're taken care of, and want my kids
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  Speaker 2: to feel safe.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't think there's no room for vulnerability in that.
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  Speaker 1: And I've never been completely vulnerable to a person ever before,
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  Speaker 1: like properly opened myself up to someone emotion wise. Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I couldn't hear those words, by the way, but that's
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  Speaker 1: the hardest thing ever. I'd finished quickly to finish, And like,
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  Speaker 1: you've got to make the conscious decision when your whole
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  Speaker 1: body's tongueing. No, yes, you know you like think of
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  Speaker 1: the future. Have you about day Jake? And one and two?
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  Speaker 1: Happy about day two? You relatable? The Relatables podcast is
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  Speaker 1: hosted by myself Whatdy Clark Mummy and my partner in crime,
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  Speaker 1: mister Jake Craig aka dad Y. And we're back back again,
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  Speaker 1: back for another episode. Thank you everybody for tuning in
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  Speaker 1: once again. How's it going about it? How's it going
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  Speaker 1: about it?
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  Speaker 2: Is?
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  Speaker 1: You know? I saw a new way we could potentially
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  Speaker 1: end the episode. I'll do it at the end, so
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  Speaker 1: stay tuned for that. I thought we lay last episode.
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  Speaker 2: We literally showed them how we were ending the episode.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, like the last, very last word. How many outros
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  Speaker 1: do we need? No, the very last word. It's not
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  Speaker 1: really an outro, but okay, it makes sense when you
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  Speaker 1: get to the very I know I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Here, I wait, oh wait, I'm excited to get to
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  Speaker 2: the end.
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  Speaker 1: Of the episode. But for now, let's argue. Let's let's
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  Speaker 1: argue this one, like Jake said before we started, could
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  Speaker 1: be taken out of context. Yes, yes, but if you
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  Speaker 1: know us, you know that we mean well, if you've
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  Speaker 1: listened to any episodes of Relatables, you know that usually
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  Speaker 1: one of us doesn't want to argue one of these points. Yeah, exactly.
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  Speaker 1: So today's argument is vulnerable or not or vulnerable or tough.
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  Speaker 1: And I want vulnerable, You want vulnerable? Like I could?
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  Speaker 1: I mean I could.
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  Speaker 2: I'm happy to try and argue tough like I can
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  Speaker 2: think of plenty of arguments.
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  Speaker 1: Why, Like I think my arguments would be better for vulnerable,
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  Speaker 1: but like, it's good to think in another way as well. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: starts to turn a gey in the brain. Okay, so
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  Speaker 1: I still haven't won. Is this three? I haven't won?
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  Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure you okay, Well, okay, so we've we've
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  Speaker 2: done three but only posted two because of the episode wee.
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  Speaker 1: And in that one you lost.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's crazy that you Okay, okay, maybe do you
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  Speaker 2: want to flip in.
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  Speaker 1: The last episode you go and theoretically it's fifty percent.
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  Speaker 1: When I listen back, I was like, obviously a fucking
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  Speaker 1: coin flip, it's fifty percent due. And I was like,
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  Speaker 1: you could win the next ten in a row. I
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  Speaker 1: just said, yeah, yeah, okay, call it in the air
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  Speaker 1: fifty percent. I'm gonna win. Baby. Tails never fails. Oh
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  Speaker 1: it's to the chair, it's tails, Yes, it's tales. No
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  Speaker 1: way want vulnerable baby. First one you've won, and now
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to win ten with that mindset team on women? Ah, okay,
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  Speaker 1: you want to start on me? I always think it's
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  Speaker 1: hard to start. It is very hard to start. We
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  Speaker 1: need a producer in here. We don't have a producer.
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  Speaker 2: It is like a keyword to start there to be
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  Speaker 2: like a boys, what do you think of boom?
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  Speaker 1: And then we would say I've got a way to start.
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  Speaker 1: I think, okay, I'm at a I'm at a season
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  Speaker 1: in my life where I think being vulnerable and open
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  Speaker 1: to all experiences emotional wise is making my life better.
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  Speaker 1: I'm happy for you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say I am in the opposite season.
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  Speaker 1: Why is that? Well? I find that staying the word
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  Speaker 1: I like to use is stoic.
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  Speaker 2: I find that there is a sort of manliness in
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  Speaker 2: figuring out what it is, or not really figuring out
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  Speaker 2: what it is, but figuring out like just how to
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  Speaker 2: do things on your own and opening up to one
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  Speaker 2: of opening up to people is not one of those
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  Speaker 2: things that I would classify as.
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  Speaker 1: So you think not being vulnerable means being independent.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I do, and I think that I don't want
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  Speaker 2: to burden people with my problems, right, you know?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: So what do you think with vulnerability? What do you
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  Speaker 2: find is like good about it?
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  Speaker 1: One of the biggest things about being vulnerable is being
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  Speaker 1: able to feel everything the highs, but that also comes
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  Speaker 1: with the lows. But when I do experience those things,
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  Speaker 1: they're so much better opposed to when I was younger.
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  Speaker 1: I've been like yourself, wanting to be independent, and when
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  Speaker 1: something good would happen to me, I wasn't able to
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  Speaker 1: fully be enveloped. I said, scenario or experience and be
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  Speaker 1: happy or if something bad happened, I suppose it's good
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  Speaker 1: because I wasn't sad, but it makes the highs and
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  Speaker 1: lows so much better. And I think that's what life's
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  Speaker 1: really about. Experiences.
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  Speaker 2: You just had here wasting time? What do you mean
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  Speaker 2: just had to waste and time? Have wasted time experiencing
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  Speaker 2: feelings doing all that? Ah, what are you doing sitting
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  Speaker 2: in bed twiddling your thumbs thinking what do I feel
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  Speaker 2: this way today?
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  Speaker 1: Get up?
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  Speaker 2: You fucking get to work? What are you talking about?
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  Speaker 1: Well? Well, I think the misconception is so vulnerability doesn't
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  Speaker 1: mean you need to have an answer, whereas I feel
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  Speaker 1: like toughness means you have to be good, and I
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  Speaker 1: feel like that's not good for your mental health. Whereas
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  Speaker 1: vulnerability is being open and there's no answer. You don't
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  Speaker 1: know how you're gonna feel. And I think that's what
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  Speaker 1: laugh's about. So what would you say if I said
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  Speaker 1: that being tough and driving.
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  Speaker 2: Yourself to be the best personally, I think that's the
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  Speaker 2: best way to go about it.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, so I'm not agreeing with you with you,
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  Speaker 1: but do you think there is a place for both mindsets.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes use the tough mindset and sometimes use the vulnerable
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  Speaker 1: mindset well vulnerable.
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  Speaker 2: A vulnerable mindset to me shows weakness, So someone like me,
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  Speaker 2: you've crossed the line further toxic because if someone's going
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  Speaker 2: to do it, it may as well be me, all right,
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  Speaker 2: Because here's what, so you know I want to I
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  Speaker 2: guess I want to be a self made man. I
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  Speaker 2: don't want to be built on the backs of anyone else.
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  Speaker 2: I want to be I want to have done it
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  Speaker 2: all of myself.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, actually, well puffrom the podcast together. I want
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  Speaker 1: to be a self made man. I want to do
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  Speaker 1: it all myself. I want to be able to provide.
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  Speaker 2: I want to be someone that gets looked to as
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  Speaker 2: someone that's done it and if I need something, I
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  Speaker 2: can get it from him. I want my wife to
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  Speaker 2: think like they're taken care of, and want my kids
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  Speaker 2: to feel safe.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't think there's no room for vulnerability in
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  Speaker 1: that question all the things you just said. I suppose
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  Speaker 1: the journey is very good, but when you get there,
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  Speaker 1: how are you going to feel not accomplished? You're not
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  Speaker 1: going to feel anything. I don't need to feel like
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  Speaker 1: you're going to keep going, keep having that grind and
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  Speaker 1: do it for me. You did it because you're selfish.
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  Speaker 1: I think that was good. Showed like both sides of
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  Speaker 1: two different mindsets that grind or die, all that feeling
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  Speaker 1: and emotion. I won't lie.
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  Speaker 2: I was really trying to think of, like I was
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  Speaker 2: trying to think of any Andrew tape video I'd send
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  Speaker 2: on TikTok, and I was like, what does he say?
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  Speaker 1: I think you're I didn't agree with anything I said.
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  Speaker 2: So Actually, the thing about a toxic argument is I
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  Speaker 2: feel like maybe it's always gonna win because you need
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  Speaker 2: to be stubborn in the belief of the toxicity.
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  Speaker 1: Have you ever been in an argument and then there's
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  Speaker 1: a certain point, like at the start you believed you
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  Speaker 1: were right, but then the more words that out of
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  Speaker 1: your mouth, you realize you're wrong, but you keep fighting.
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  Speaker 1: Double down. Yeah, you gotta double down. So it's like
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  Speaker 1: it defends who.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like with Beth I wouldn't double down there, but
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  Speaker 2: with Joanna sometimes I.
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  Speaker 1: Would quadriple down. If it was with Joanna, I don't
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  Speaker 1: even give get caught out realize I hope they don't notice.
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  Speaker 1: Start just like saying things about their character. You should
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  Speaker 1: have been like, where are you right now? Not successful?
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  Speaker 1: Look at me, I'm successful nine to five. But No,
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  Speaker 1: the vulnerability thing, I like being vulnerable. I'm getting a
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  Speaker 1: little more vulnerable lately in my life. I think there's
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  Speaker 1: definitely a time and a place where you should be vulnerable.
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  Speaker 1: And that is going to be a little bit of
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  Speaker 1: the essence of today's episode, a little bit vulnerability. We
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  Speaker 1: might get vulnerable and maybe not, Jake, Munno, you never.
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  Speaker 1: I'm excited for this one, Jake, and I'm nervous. Let
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  Speaker 1: me take you and ninety nine percent of the listeners
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  Speaker 1: on a journey who probably don't know what is going on,
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  Speaker 1: ninety nine because this involves some of the batties and
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  Speaker 1: they know the inside it's not really a joke, but
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  Speaker 1: the inside joke. Okay, So, probably about a year ago, Jake,
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  Speaker 1: myself and Harry from Blues and Greens dropped some hoodies
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  Speaker 1: and with that they were doing live streams to promote
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  Speaker 1: the hoodies. I don't know if I wasn't there because
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  Speaker 1: I was doing something or I also don't like live
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  Speaker 1: stream No, you just didn't want to be there. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I don't like live streams. And within that live stream,
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  Speaker 1: they started a little bit of a trend and we're
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  Speaker 1: talking shit behind my back, bold client, bold claim. But
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  Speaker 1: it wasn't really shit. They just had an inside joke
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  Speaker 1: that left me out. Felt like I was an outsider
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  Speaker 1: in the group of our friends, and they started the
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  Speaker 1: trend hashtag don't tell audio. It was a tough period
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  Speaker 1: in my life. Lives on by the way, so I
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  Speaker 1: was thinking, how can I get this man back? But
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  Speaker 1: in my own way? And this coming Friday, it would
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  Speaker 1: have already been when this episode comes out, is Jake's birthday.
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  Speaker 1: So I was I was thinking to myself, what should
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  Speaker 1: I get Jake for his birthday? And I was thinking, like,
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  Speaker 1: what can I buy him? We've been buying a few
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  Speaker 1: things on the business. I was like, I don't really
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  Speaker 1: want to buy him something that's like money monetary wise.
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  Speaker 1: Let's think of something real personal He's I think this
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  Speaker 1: is better than anything you could buy. Okay, so you
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  Speaker 1: didn't spend any I didn't spend any money. And normally
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  Speaker 1: you think this guy's cheaped out or whatever, but you're gonna,
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  Speaker 1: I reckon, this is going to be so worth it.
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  Speaker 1: Fucking So I put on my story any bad. He's listening,
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  Speaker 1: Please reply to this and help me out. And the
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  Speaker 1: response man in fucking sane. I was spending hour was
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  Speaker 1: replying to everyone. Wait, because I saw your story. You
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  Speaker 1: should have blocked me from it. By the way, I
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  Speaker 1: wanted you to know. You wanted me to know. You
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  Speaker 1: didn't know what I was talking about it. No, I
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  Speaker 1: know it.
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  Speaker 2: I saw the because it was not like a story
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  Speaker 2: with a question box. No, it was a story where
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  Speaker 2: they had like.
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  Speaker 1: Go in and fully reply and you got heat. That's
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  Speaker 1: what I wanted. I needed them to have a little
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  Speaker 1: bit of initiative so they would do what I wanted. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: And in that I asked if they could help me out,
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  Speaker 1: And this is for your birthday. And before I show you,
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  Speaker 1: I wanted it to be surprised and build the suspense.
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  Speaker 1: So I said hashtag don't tell Jake at the end
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  Speaker 1: of it, so what do you think this is? Well?
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  Speaker 1: Fuck still with my birthday? And he was getting annoyed.
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  Speaker 1: I know he was putting it on it. Don't tell
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  Speaker 1: Jake Narrow, I'll cry. What do I think it is like?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I would be very if it was just
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  Speaker 2: like a bunch of the baddies sending a video saying
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  Speaker 2: happy birthday each.
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  Speaker 1: Like it could be that. But also before I show you,
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to firstly thanks no. I wanted to thank
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  Speaker 1: all the baddies you interacted. And also I think talking
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  Speaker 1: about vulnerability you and I in this podcast, it's so
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  Speaker 1: easy to get caught up with numbers views and everyone
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  Speaker 1: wants to know, like one hundred thousand listens me is
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  Speaker 1: this much money? And it's so easy to detach yourself
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  Speaker 1: from every single person listening right now has a life
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  Speaker 1: and like is a person, and for us that's really
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  Speaker 1: hard to grasp just because it's like so hard to comprehend.
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  Speaker 1: And what I'm about to show you like really really
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  Speaker 1: made me happy of what we've built together and like
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  Speaker 1: sort of like emphasize how like I don't know, just happy,
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  Speaker 1: and I don't know I have another way to say it.
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  Speaker 1: I've lost the words, but I want to show you this.
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  Speaker 3: Wow.
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  Speaker 1: Fuck, I'm so scared. So I want to say happy birthday, Jake,
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  Speaker 1: Happy thirtieth birthday, and click the second latest video and
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  Speaker 1: it will play. And I also know this probably isn't
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  Speaker 1: the best listen, but this will make Jake happy, so
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  Speaker 1: I don't care it is it is.
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  Speaker 2: Happy birthday Jake and one and two.
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  Speaker 1: Happy birthday two you. Happy birthday Jake.
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  Speaker 3: Happy birthday, Jake, Well, Happy birthday, Jake. Have a birthday, Jake.
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  Speaker 2: Happy birthday, Jake.
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  Speaker 1: Had birthday, Jake, wishing all the mass from presum. Happy birthday,
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  Speaker 1: ja Happy birthday, Jake, Happy birthday, Happy birthday.
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  Speaker 3: Happy birthday, Jake.
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  Speaker 2: Happy birthday, Jake.
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  Speaker 1: I hope you have an amazing day and remember how
• 13:34
  Speaker 1: like you are to have Audie's a friend birthday.
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  Speaker 3: Happy birthday, Jake.
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  Speaker 1: Happy birthday, Jake, we love you. Happy birthday, Jake. Happy birthday, Jake,
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  Speaker 1: have a great one this year. Happy birthday, Jake.
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  Speaker 2: Happy birthday, Will Happy birthday Jake.
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  Speaker 1: To our favorite man who starts with a Jake except Jesus,
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  Speaker 1: of course, Happy birth Thoday. Happy birthday, Jake, have a birthday, Jake.
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  Speaker 3: Hope you have a lovely day and thanks for everything
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  Speaker 3: with the podcast.
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  Speaker 1: Happy birthday, Jake, readings from the Philippines. Happy birthday, Jake,
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  Speaker 1: Happy birthday, Happy birthday, Jake.
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  Speaker 3: Happy birthday, Jake.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you for giving us the relatables. I hope you
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  Speaker 1: have an awesome birthday.
• 14:22
  Speaker 2: Definitely birthday, Joke. Happy birthday, Happy birthday, ja Happy birthday, Jake.
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  Speaker 1: I hope you have an amazing day. Happy birthday, Jake.
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  Speaker 2: From me and Notice Yeah Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Happy birthday, Jake.
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  Speaker 3: Hope we have the best day ever surrounded by people
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  Speaker 3: that you love. I hope you really feel in love too, Hie.
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  Speaker 1: Happy birthday, Jake keeps laying bad, which you knew. The
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  Speaker 1: Happiest birthday Jake from New Zealand.
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  Speaker 2: I hope you have an amazing day.
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  Speaker 3: Happy birthday, Jake. Happy birthday, Jake. Hey Jake, Happy birthday.
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  Speaker 2: Hope you have a great day and love the podcast.
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  Speaker 1: Hey Jake, Happy birthday from me and my dog. I
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  Speaker 1: hope it's a great day and you have a wonderful year.
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  Speaker 1: Stay bad.
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  Speaker 2: Happy birthday, Jake. Good birthday, Jake.
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  Speaker 1: We love you.
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  Speaker 2: Happy birthday, Jake.
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  Speaker 1: If you have the best day ever.
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  Speaker 3: Happy birthday, Cheek. Happy birthday Jake. Happy birthday, Jake.
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  Speaker 2: I hope you have an amazing day.
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: I love your Guys' podcast. I listened to it all
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: the time. Happy birthday, Jay, Happy birthday, Jake.
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  Speaker 3: Have birthday, Jake. Celebrating you and amazing person you are.
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  Speaker 1: Sending you a lot of love on your speechiday. Happy birthday, Jake, Hoorday,
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  Speaker 1: Happy birthday, Jake, have the best day. Hope you got
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  Speaker 1: lots of caddles from Henry. I'm off to work in
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  Speaker 1: your hoodie. Let's go.
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  Speaker 3: Hi.
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  Speaker 1: Happy birthday, Happy birthday. Thank you so much. That's so
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  Speaker 1: fucking cool. Oh so thank you everybody, And happy birthday
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  Speaker 1: from myself and all the baddies listening. That is so cool.
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  Speaker 1: Holy shit, how did it feel? So? Like my jaw
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  Speaker 1: hurts because I was smiling the whole time. When I
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  Speaker 1: was editing it, I was like I couldn't stop smiling either.
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  Speaker 1: That's so many, Yeah, I know how many was it?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. That was like the forty or fifty,
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  Speaker 1: maybe sixty, but there's more too. So I want to
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  Speaker 1: say sorry to everyone who didn't make the cut. You
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  Speaker 1: didn't get anything, You didn't get it in time for
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  Speaker 1: me to edit. Oh yeah, it was all about timing.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, that is thank you so much.
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  Speaker 1: I had like another fifty or sixty more like it
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  Speaker 1: went wild and like I can't wipe the smile off
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  Speaker 1: my face ev and like you know, do you know
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  Speaker 1: what I mean? With all the people who listening are
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  Speaker 1: like individual lives and putting a face that who's listening
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  Speaker 1: is so cool? Yeah, yeah, that is wow, mate, I
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  Speaker 1: told you was better than money.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's way better than money.
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  Speaker 1: What No, many and that amount of people have never
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  Speaker 1: said happy birthday. I was thinking that too. That is
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  Speaker 1: fucking crazy. I was when I was also adding it,
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  Speaker 1: I was thinking, like, we've been talking about a lot
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  Speaker 1: about losing our friends and they all say happy birthday.
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  Speaker 1: Still when I was like, the community we've started to
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  Speaker 1: build with the baddies and it's only going up from here,
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  Speaker 1: and like the sense of belonging, like it's just amazing, right,
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  Speaker 1: thank you?
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  Speaker 2: That is so fucking sare so we need to do
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  Speaker 2: a live show or something, or like a meet and greet, they're.
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  Speaker 1: Still like a free live show or like just recuperate
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  Speaker 1: our money. It's crazy.
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: Actually, what I heard is if you were to do
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: something for free, it's less likely people come because if
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: they were to like just like order a free ticket
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: online when it gets to the day, because it was
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: like they're not losing any money.
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there's kind of like I was gonna go, but
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: let's just a cost price then whatever.
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I wouldn't want to make any money from
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: one yeah, ship, maybe if we did a live show,
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: would anyone come.
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: Comment if you want us do a live show and
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: we need like what place can you fill out like
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: three hundred people? Three hundred? Yeah, I feel like that.
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: I would think of like fifty. I feel like maybe
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: a hundred hundred hundred. I feel like one hundred's a minimum. Yeah,
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: I mean hundred people. Hype it up if you want
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: to see it. Two nervous boys going off on today. Yeah,
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: you know what it would be.
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: The first live show would just be like, we need
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: to lose money on it because we need to pay
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: you guys to come because it's not going to be good.
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: Now. The start will be Jake singing translucent, I reckon,
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: we do live renditions. We have to do live rendition.
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: We need to go.
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: Actually to so we'll shooting gigs are come in here.
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: We should try maybe just get tickets to their live
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: show to see what they do. We're we're not the
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: same type of show with them, like they're like all comedy. Yeah,
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: so it would be different, but I'm sure they don't
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: do like what's on YouTube.
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: They actually just posted a live show on YouTube like
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: this week, watch it just out of interest then yeah,
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: it could be. And that podcast the Girls Bathroom, they
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: come in here to do live shows as well.
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: Whenever we should go to that too, that that would
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: probably be more like what ours would be like because
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: it would be a lot of females.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: If you guys like The Girl's Bathroom. It's good to know. Well, shit,
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: that's fucking queer, good mood. So happy early birthday man,
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: thank you.
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: Well, yeah, it's when this comes out late early right now.
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: Alrighty, Jake, I don't know if I just saw little
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: tear come out of your eye within.
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: The first thirty seconds, it was sinking in and it
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: was like, you know, the maybe I guess it.
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: Was like welling up. I think it was a dear
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: of joy and then like yeah, it like went away
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: after a while. But oh yeah, that was fucking so good.
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: So we are trying to be advocates for embracing vulnerability. Yes,
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: so I wanted to talk about the last time I
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: was vulnerable, Okay, And like, obviously we'reable vulnerable day to day.
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: It's kind of hard word. After we keep saying vulnerable,
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: a vulnerable we're both stuffed that whole time, you know
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: what we're talking about. But we obviously experienced vulnerability day
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: to day in certain scenarios, but like, the last time
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: I consciously made the decision to be completely vulnerable was
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: the time I started talking to my girlfriend, Like initially, ah,
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: and I've never been completely vulnerable to a person ever before,
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: like properly opened myself up to someone emotion wise, right.
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: Interesting, So that was like and so like you were
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: saying though, because so obviously day to day, I don't know,
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: you might just like do it, but you won't make
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: like an active, active decision to be vulnerable. No, So
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: while you were talking to her, was there there was
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: obviously a point in time where you were like, oh, well,
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: it's like I need to know if I want to
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: do this, Like I'm mean an erring.
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: There was definitely a switch. Yeah. And prior to meeting
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: my girlfriend Cassie, every other person I've talk to, I've
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: listened to that little voice in the back of my
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: head where I was like, nah, I won't open up.
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah nah. But something was different with Cassie, and I'll
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: put it down to love or the connection. And I
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: was like, I think I want to open up to
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: this woman. And I did it, and it was one
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: of the best decisions I've ever had in my life. Fuck, man,
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: do you think it had jerking?
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: It was because you guys couldn't when you first started talking,
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: you couldn't see each other. Mm So we were like
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: we were like, fuck, what else am I gonna talk?
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: Am I going to talk about?
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: I'm joking. I think it just honestly came down to
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: the right person.
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: At what point in time do you reckon you were
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: sitting there, like, because was there ever a point in
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: time where you thought like, oh, like I'm going to stop.
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: Talking to her or nah? Nah. There wasn't a point
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: in time where I was thinking like I should stop
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: talking to her. I just had that like do you
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: know when you're talking to someone new, like in the
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: talking stages, and there's that mental battle of like do
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: I want to be alone? Do I want to keep
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: talking to her? Yeah? Do I want to like make
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: the commitment? Like everyone has that that's related? Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: And there's a lot, It is a lot, yeah yeah,
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: yeah yah yeah. And for some reason something just made
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: sense to open up emotionally and let her into my life. Yeah,
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: and like I've never let anyone in like that before, yeah,
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: which was like a good decision looking back at it, Fuck, man,
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: what about you? What about me? Then? Well, I've got
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: to say, I guess when I was started.
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: Talking to Beth, it would have been a time where
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: I'm the same decisions would have been made, I remember,
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: but I don't remember having any sort of mental battle
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: with it.
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: You know that switch. I talked about how I'd never
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: opened up to anyone before. Yeah, you've had girlfriends previously,
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: I've had Yeah for two. Do you reckon your switch
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: turns like my switch has a lot of grease on it.
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: I was gonna say, do you think your switch like
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: turns on and off easier or do you think you
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: don't open up as much in previous relationships? Ah, that's
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: a good question.
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: I feel like maybe well, in previous relationships, I would say, not.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: That they weren't serious. I don't know if it was
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: that like, I don't know if it was.
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: That they weren't serious, or if it was that maybe
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: just young, I don't know, it was weird like in
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: previous relationships, I would say, Okay, last time I was.
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: Vulnerable was probably when I was vulnerable with myself.
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: And then I guess also, like Beth included but maybe
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: when I made like the full on decision where I thought, oh, yeah,
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: I want to take the leap and live with Beth.
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: I'd never lived with a girl friend before. I don't
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: live with it yet, I was going to say, but
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: we made a conscious decision to do that.
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: So yeah, and we have a time of when, like
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: her leases up where she is now is when we'll
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: start looking because she'll go month to month from then
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: and then find a place. And yeah, she's the first
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: person where I've thought like, yeah, actually I want to
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: do it and not be scared because I had a
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: girlfriend once where we were together for long enough where
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: it could have been a thing, but I just was
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: like young, and it was like and I was like, nah,
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: I gotta fucking go travel on and so okay, basically
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: the thought I have now with Beth is like if
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: I was to go traveling for.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: A long time, we'll best will come. Yeah. But when
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: I was a little younger, I was.
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: Like, I want to go travel for a long time,
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: like with Oddie, so you can't come.
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: It's like terrible to say out loud, but like you
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: know what I mean, Yeah, you're finding And it was
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: more of like.
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: Just like thinking like, no, why would I do that.
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: It's like I'm too young to like not have experiences
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: with our friends. But yeah, I mean plenty of people
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: probably do it from a young age, so I'd say maybe, yeah,
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: last time I was vulnerable when I was like, yeah.
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: You've obviously mad sured, But do you reckon? You know
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: how you had that toxic mindset and the argument at
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: the start do you reckon? When we're young, we have
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: that mindset a lot more about being independent and we've
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: got to figure out everything ourselves, and when we do
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: figure ourselves out, that's when we're able to be vulnerable. Yeah.
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: When I was young, I thought there was a right
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: way to do everything. Yeah.
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: Same, Yeah, and then when you get out even just
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: like I'm only a few years older now, and you
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: figure out obviously, like every every single way you do
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: something is the right way to do something because it's
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: your life. But at the time, I was like, no,
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: the right way to do it is like it's like, look,
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: I've got a girlfriend. Now, I'd love that girlfriend, but
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: the right way to do it is that I need
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: to go travel with my I need to be the
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: go alone or I need to go with a friend.
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: What everyone says you need to do that. Yeah, I
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: know everyone that's done that says you need to do it.
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: But what about the people that haven't done it. I
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: just haven't spoken to them. When we're young, we're so
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: like easily compromised.
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: Oh but me, yeah wait, I was I want I
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: don't know, I could watch a YouTube video.
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: I could watch a YouTube video and want to change
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: my career. Literally, I reckon that is so like my
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: fucking When.
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: I was like eighteen, I was like halfway through my
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: carpentry apprenticeship, and I knew and I was not liking it.
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: And I just I used to love watching YouTube. That
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: was like my little just you know, happy place or whatever.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: As a lot of young people, I still like watching YouTube. Yeah,
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: and I just, for some reason up on my trending
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: page became this real estate guy. I started making vlogs,
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: and for him, it was obviously just to sell more
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: real estate, but he would just do a vlog every
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: now and then. I like, what it's like to be
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: a real estate agent, what I do? How much I
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: worried all this stuff, and I just I would just
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: watch all this guy's real estate agent flogs. I was
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: like dude, I want to have a crack at real.
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: Legit. I got fucking inforced by YouTube. I still have
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: to catch myself out now, Like even with comments, someone
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: will say, oh that was shit or like something like that,
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: and then I rethink our whole Yeah that's like literally,
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: but I have the like mental capacity to catch myself out.
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: But previously, when I was younger, old have been like
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: maybe I am shit.
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: Like what, no, fuck, I fully agree with you nice
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: scary stuff, I will. I refuse to read the social
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: media comments for that reason. Yeah, and we very recently started.
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: For what you're gonna say, I refuse to read full stuff.
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: I just fuck. I don't know what it is like.
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: I just refuse to read so the social media comments
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: for that exact reason, because.
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: Is this bad at that I've given you the job
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: of replying to YouTube? No? No, no YouTube. I don't mind.
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I actually don't mind because we get all all
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: the comments on YouTube.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: I reply to.
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: YouTube comments and they're all like quite nice, and I
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: don't want to let anything go in my head. But
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: it's like I would much prefer to see a comment
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: like loved this episode and I just say thanks, love
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: youa like instead of seeing someone go like just like
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: pick apart every little thing that I did. Like, you know,
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: when we when we record an episode per se, or
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: let's say an artist writes a song. I watched the
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: Vechy documentary. I watched it too. We'll talk about that
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: in a second. Okay, so let's we'll use us for example,
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: we record an episode that we're like, oh, we were
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: like thee where we recorded songs.
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we hope you translation and caught in my thoughts.
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we loved that episode because we would work into
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: the songs. Yeah, we got to listen to them. We
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: were all tough that we actually wrote a song. They're
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: like some of the worst performing episodes. Yeah, and we
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: were like, well fuck, like yeah, and if they did well,
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: what's the bet we would have written two more by now?
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean. It's so funny. I wanted
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: to talk to you about this off the podcast about
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: a vach how fuck.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: It, let's talk about the past. It's so good, it's
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: it's so sad, it's depressing as fuck.
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: But what you just brought up I wanted to bring
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: up off the pot and it was that I wanted
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: to create something that makes us feel something yeah, and
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: makes the people listening feel something, feel something, which is
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: like the songs, like we made that because we felt
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: love for what we were doing exactly. Yeah. And then
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: I think that's such a better way to make content.
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: And that's why his songs are so good, because he
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: made his feelings come out through his songs and he
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: made people feel the same way he was feeling. And
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: that's what I want to do with this like content.
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: And the last six months we've talked about being lost
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: and like we're doing things for like views and money,
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: and other people were saying this is what you had
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: to do, yeah, and like we weren't doing it because
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: this is what we love. Yeah.
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: No, we all the advice we were getting, we were like, fuck,
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: well we probably need to take it, yeah, even though
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: it's like our gut's telling us, nah, that wouldn't be
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: that fun, yeah, exactly.
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: There must be times in places in this world where
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: advice where it isn't what it feels good in your gut,
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: is good.
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: But I don't know.
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: I'm I'm going to live by go with your guy
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: one hundred percent, but I mean you try to put
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: the vechi thing on the other night and she just goes, oh,
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: like I heard that's good, exact same thing out of
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: that's really good, and I go, oh, sick a looking
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: sickt And I didn't realize, Man, I remember his songs,
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: I remember when he died.
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: I actually remember that the news had lights time out
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: of when he died. I didn't realize, dude, little warning.
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: I didn't realize that he like properly killed himself. Mate,
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: he fucking apparently he did it with a shot of glass.
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: It was wine bottle. Oh yeah, we looked it up.
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: Fucking insane, So so I thought it was a drug over.
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: It must get homann or some shit.
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, And it like really was really sad and
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: a little bit confronting, and like his career was so
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: amazing and he just didn't have a good group of
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: friends around him. There's the scene, so everyone in that documentary,
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: I had a bad vibe about really every single one.
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: His best friend, his other friend.
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: The best friend that like laughed like that guy was Sus.
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: His manager, His manager was Sus.
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: Okay, his manager was Sus even though everyone said he wasn't. Yeah,
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: and then what about that dude that like was kind
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: of just sitting on the lamps like this, talking like this,
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: like he was on drugs and he couldn't really speak.
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: I was like, this guy, apparently they're like best friends,
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: and I was just like, the vibe you get from
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: a Vicy's voice in this whole thing compared to everyone
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: else's is like and what a VICH was saying, he's
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: like doesn't match the vibe.
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: No, not at all. But my takeaway from it was
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: like he was like the top of the pyramid and
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: then just like petered down and everyone was like using
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: him to the best of their ability because he was
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: so skilled.
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: But it seemed like to me at the point where
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: he finally was like because they had an intervention with him,
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: Like it wasn't like an Elvis thing, where so like
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: with Elvis and shit, he was on drugs to keep
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: him going, and so was a VICH.
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: His name is Tim, and so it was Tim.
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: Whereas the ELK with Elvis, all of his management, even
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: his family and stuff like that, they wanted that to
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: keep going because of how much money he was making
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: and how much he was making there.
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: But with with a VICH, they actually had an intervention
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: with him of like no, no, no, we want It
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: wasn't a money thing.
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: It wasn't amazing, so I don't think it was a
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: full money thing. But like, for instance, he one of
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: the best scenes in the show is like, so I
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: didn't realize how big he was.
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: Man, he fucking was. I didn't realize how much he
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: blew up out of nowhere.
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: He was like eighteen and then like his his fame,
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: he's eighteen to twenty nine. He died when he was
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: twenty nine, yeah, or something like that. So for ten years,
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: it's not a long, very long time. So like from
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: eighteen he was nobody.
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and to go up he was the biggest in
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: the world. Barck Obama said his name listening to like
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: one of his songs. Yeah, that's crazy.
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: They've got like fucking Tiesto in there, and they've got
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: David Gadder. Yeah, and David Gadder's in there doing like well.
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: When he showed me this album, I knew the world.
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: Was going to change. He just saw things in a
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: different way than anybody musically, and it was mane. He
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: was so talented in the way like we're able to
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: see how his brains sort of thought, and then the
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: music that came out of it, like because he created
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: when they were showing the live like recordings of singing
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: all the songs like hey.
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: Brother, insane and so if each he doesn't like he's
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: not a lyricist, he admits he's like, I don't play instruments.
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: I don't know how to write songs.
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: But when I get like the right beat and stuff
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: from the computer stuff, and then when someone he's like,
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: I know the melody, I want something sang in. And
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: every single person that was like a massive, massive star
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: was like, I've never met anyone that has melody like him. Yeah,
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: I've never met a single person that can that can
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: get a melody out of me like ag and.
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: The way he made those other people sound yes, because
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: like you hear the live versions of them singing like
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: this is okay, nothing special. Then you hear the song
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: and you're like, how the fuck did he do that?
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: It's fucking brilliant.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: You hear that bloke singing live, you're like, this is
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: so mid And then you hear the song, You're like,
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: this is one of the best songs I've heard my life. Mate,
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: It's crazy.
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: Where it got me though, was like, so he blew
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: up started obviously, he was like in clubs and then
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: bigger clubs, and then in like amphitheaters and then big
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: outdoor amphitheaters, and he was doing shows them all these people.
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: And then he was like headlining ultra like massive like
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: DM festivals, and.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: So he was.
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: He starts going on about how he's like, I was
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: living the dream to what everyone else looking in thought, right,
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: And he was like, and I was living my dream
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: as well, and he's just like, but I just was.
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: He's like, I've never done it for the money, and
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: I just wasn't happy.
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: And the thing that.
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: Stuck with me the most was when he goes, he goes,
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: I've never done it for the money. As soon as
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: I could get a cab anywhere I wanted without worrying
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: about it. Is when I was like happy with the
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: amount of freedom I had, and I was like, and
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: now you can fly hen fly in private jets and shit.
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: That resonated with me so much as well, because it's
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: so easy, like anybody listening to get caught up in
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: how much money you can earn in certain jobs, and
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: like especially for us as well, because it's such a
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: it's a bit of a similar industry what we're in.
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: Just like how you earn money is with like yeah,
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: Brandel's views whatever views listen, same, same sort of stuff.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: And when he said that too, and I was like wow,
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: like that's such a good takeaway message, like as soon
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: as we're able to live off doing this, like I
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: don't care about like a man and a Lamborghini, Like
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: I just want to be able to live and do
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: this day.
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's fucking crazy. Like you can tell he is experience.
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: He experienced what a lot of people experience where it's
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: like and and I obviously like we're not at that level,
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: but I just I would like I want to catch
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: it before we get there.
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: And it's like.
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: He was saying yes to a lot of things he
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: wouldn't have wanted to say yes too, because he thought
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: that's what he had to do. So it's like whenever
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: we do have a moment of like do we really
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: align with this brand or do weah, it's like I
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: would much prefer to just like be like no, I
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: don't care how much money it is, Like I don't
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: want to just like do something that's going to make
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: me feel like shit just because they've thrown a big
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: fucking paycheck in your face.
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: And like he said, don't lose yourself. What do you
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: say that?
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: He said something He said something about like there's like
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: an art in staying true to yourself or I have
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: no idea, but he basically is just like no matter what,
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: just be you trying to say that.
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: I think like the best role model Weekend Lookout is
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: Hamish and Andy. I was thinking about Hamy Shandy while
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: I was watching this, because we've talked to them, like
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: we talked to Andy once, yeah, and like we consume
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: all their content and they really they're one of the
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: biggest like duos in Australia. Yeah, and they would have
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: had the decision to make like to go like global
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: and take it to America and become like a list celebrities.
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: They were at that stage where they could have done it,
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: and they stayed true to himself and said, now we
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: learned it. We earn enough money and we do what
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: we want and we do what we love, Like why
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: don't we just keep doing that in Australia and like
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: have the sickest life ever. It's fucking crazy, Like they
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: caught themselves out at that point Whereout is rising the
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: fame and it's so smart, like they've been offered more
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: money for the even just like the podcast they do
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: now yeah, and they're like nah, just with yeah, like
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: we have a good system and it makes me right.
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: Now cut yourself out, cut yourself out. And I mean
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: to be fair, you and I actually aren't too bad.
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: Like I think we were open about it on the
• 35:56
  Speaker 2: podcast when you Talk and we had chats with distribution networks. Yeah,
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: and like they offer you, some of them off you
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: a minimum guarantee and it's kind of nice to see
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: that where you're like, oh, then you know exactly how
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: much minimum.
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're going to get every month, and you kind
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: of like, oh, that'd be nice. But we just kind
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: of were like, oh, there's something of artwork and doing
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: it yourself, isn't it. Yeah, we're still an independent podcast,
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: and we made that decision because we actually love doing it.
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: Like with those networks, you hand off certain jobs and
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: like recording and editing and everything like that, and like
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: it's good maybe in the long run when we want
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: to have kids and family and we need money, but
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: we don't need money. We just need enough to live,
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: pay rent, pay for the pay the bills, and then
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: we're happy. So we're like fuck it. Let's just stay
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: independent and have fun and enjoy I suppose the process
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: of being vulnerable taking it back around circle is like
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: I feel like we're enjoying the process and like being
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: happy having the hustle. Oh yeah, no, And I'm so
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: appreciative of it.
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been trying to be a lot more appreciative
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: of it, appreciative of it lately. Like our biggest issue is, like,
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: I don't know, losing an episode.
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think it's good to like catch yourself
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: out when you're like, because it's so easy to get
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: stuck in that hustle, that mindset of being so tough.
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: And also that documentary was really good and like there's
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: so many good takeaways.
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: Very very sad though, yeah, very sad. I knew what
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: was coming, still sad. I just didn't know how it happened.
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, Yeah I knew.
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: I yeah, you can tell when they were leading up
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: to it. I just didn't think that when that guy
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: goes so he flew to Oman and that was the
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: last time I ever spoke to him.
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I was like, did you want to cry? No,
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: Cassi did? Did she know? Dude?
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: I could have they when they were showing the video
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: of the big massive funeral they had in that stadium.
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: I couldn't have gone to that. I couldn't have gone to that.
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: There was they just had videos of people's faces crying. Yeah. No,
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: so sadly, okay, I.
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: Brought something to the table for this episode, mate, and
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: I saw one comment talking about I thought we talking
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: about comments that we were talking about earlier. I saw
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: one comment a couple months ago. He said somewhere, what
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: do you guys want to see in the episodes? And
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: one person said bring back Reddit segments.
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: This is going to be Jake for like the next
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: couple weeks. So I saw one comment say no more.
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: I saw don't take advantage of this guy. I don't
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: take advantage of him.
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: I'm a hamster read it is my wheel, okay, but
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: I did find a good one. So I found it
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: was the question on Reddit was people who let their
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: intrusive thoughts win?
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: What did you do?
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: And there was some good a couple of good ones,
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: and then I've got three of my own okay that
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: I remember doing just when I was younger. So people
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: who let their intrusive thoughts win? What did you do?
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: This guy said, I didn't pull out. Now I have
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: a kid. I did not see that coming. Oh yeah,
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: that is an intrusive thought. I know we only have
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: ten percent listeners, but my god, is that related? Yeah?
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I don't know. I mean every now and then,
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: like I gotta say, like I reckon. Girls would probably
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: be like maybe he's about to say, like I'm about
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: to finish, and.
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: She'll go fuck it, just do it in me. Oh.
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: I couldn't hear those words, by the way, but that's
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: the hardest thing. I'd finished quickly to finish, and like,
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: you've got to make the conscious decision when your whole
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: body's tonguing. No, yeah, you know you're like, think of
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: the future. Sometimes you're like, I wouldn't mind a little bit.
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: I've never thought of that. Fuck people who let their
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: intrusive thoughts win. What did you do?
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: Two days after I turned eighteen, I got a tattoo
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: below my hip that says, in quotes, eat me.
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: Oh oh god, I shouldn't have let that one win.
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: Shouldn't have let that win.
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that was a mental battle. You've lost, eat me.
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: That's crazy.
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: After my husband cheated, I grilled some of his football memorabilia.
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: Don't worry, the grill was unharmed. I took his phone
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: out of his pocket, texted his girlfriend as him told
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: her to quit her job.
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: She did? What that? Maybe I don't think that's an
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: intrusive thought. It that's called revenge? Yeah? I think this
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: is just called revenge.
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: Is it taking it too far to tell the person
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: that he was cheating with to quit their job as
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: him to.
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: Be like, I'm gonna come take care of you, like
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: I'm leaving my wife. I think I'm all for Like
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: I would kind of feel good. Oh yeah, you would
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: feel good. I feel more for like life takes revenge
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: rather than you taking revenge. Yeah, like that'll get what's theirs?
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: I mean? Yeah? True?
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: I mean but if I can, if I can speed
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: that up. People who let their intrusive thoughts win, What
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: did you do? I was left alone for a couple
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: of minutes in a friend's house and I licked one
• 40:59
  Speaker 2: of those pink salt lamps.
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: It was exactly like I was hoping, And I know
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: I won't be able to buy one for myself now.
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: I always one of the pink salt they like.
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: It's just like a full block assault with a light.
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: In it and the salt like sweats, Yeah, saying that's
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: kind of cool. I always, I was gonna say, I
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: always have the intrusive thought of synism in like a
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: friend's house or something that leave me in their bedroom
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: or something. I'm like, I feel like I need to
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: go for their draws or something to stop. No way, obviously,
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: never do it. Joanna, you better not high stuff.
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: Kidding, kidding, she doesn't listen to this, But I have
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: gone into Juanna's room once and stolen some coat hangers
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: and I was like, drawers open.
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: I don't even know what's in my drawer right. Oh,
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: my dad's of accumulation.
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: My dad might be coming to stay here tomorrow for
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: two nights because he has to do something at his
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: like local hospital before it gets transferred up to Queensland.
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: And he and I'm gonna let him stay in my
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: bed because he has like a bad back.
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: And see Pa breathing sun. Does he ever think we should? Yeah?
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: And so I'm going to sleep on the lounge. When
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: your dad is a sleepover. He has like his bag
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: of clothes and he has his sneep asleep avery machine.
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: He takes it overseas really he takes it. He took
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: it camping once. That's how's your power? Had to bring
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: a battery? That's such an it is such at least
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: he uses.
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: He gets a good sleep, brings that everywhere, and so
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: I'm going to sleep on the lounge.
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: But the last thing I want is my dad leaned over.
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: He just goes through my drawers. Oh yeah, yeah, the
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: moving it. Yeah, okay, should leave a little note and
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: be like dad, don't in case, I should get a hold.
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: Actually get a bit of cardboard and cut it to
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: the perfect size of the open drawer and just ride
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: in text.
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: He thought you'd look to block everything. Lost my trust,
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: get out? Okay. People who let their intrusive thoughts me in.
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: What did you do?
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: Not my intrusive thought? But when I was a kid,
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: my friend and I were sitting in a sauna when
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: he said, what would happen if I piss on the
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: hot rocks? And it turns out it just makes the
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: entire complex smell like burnt piss.
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: I would have known that and immediately gets you bare.
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: That is so dumb. That is the dumberest whenever.
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: This.
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: Okay, people who let their intrusive thoughts win what did
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: you do last? One? From Reddit?
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: I snorted a packet of chicken noodle seasoning in high school.
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: One time I've had that intrusive thought, lost the use
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: of a nostril for a week. Everything smelled like chicken
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: soup as well. That's kind of a win, to be fair.
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: Your smell is like more than half of your taste,
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: is it not? You could eat anything. I've told you
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: my story. When I'm in year six, I was gonna
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: say off that I have a Sherbet story.
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Really.
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: One time in year seven I had a friend over
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: for a sleepover and he was about to leave, and
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: for some reason we decided to snort Sherbet.
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: Straws I did in year six.
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so we decided to snort Sherbert straws. We
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: both got got the flu. Yeah, we both got sick
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: as fire.
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: Remember I got a mad running yeah yeah yeah yeah.
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: Fucked us up. Sorry, fucked us up now thinking about it. Okay,
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: I have.
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: Three personal ones, girl, Okay, it's my own personal intrusive
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: thoughts and win.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: I let these win.
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: One time, I think I've told this before a while ago.
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: One time I was home.
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: Sick from school and my mom took me to a
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: bakery and to get me something to eat.
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: And I was sick with the flu.
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: She brought me in and she was like, don't touch anything,
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: and she's ordering and I turned around and in Canada,
• 44:32
  Speaker 2: like you when you get a coffee, it's just a
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: black coffee. You turn around and you do what You
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: mix everything over on another bench. And I look over
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: at that bench and there was a cup of straws
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: and I was like that.
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: I was like, I have to and.
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: I just want to like this, and I picked up
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: every single Oh my god, my mom turns around, she goes,
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: what are you doing? And she had to pick up
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: the fucking couple of straws, take it over and be like,
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. My son has a flu and he
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: just touched all of your straws.
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: Oh my god. What a good mom. Yeah, so good
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: thing she didn't like to spread the flu. I was
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: a parent of let's get out. Okay. This is another
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: intrusive thought that I.
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: Had when when I was younger again, I was living
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: in Canada. I scratched my name into my mum's car
• 45:09
  Speaker 2: with my fingernails. No, you did it because I wanted
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: to see if it would work. Oh, and I got caught.
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: And the way I got caught was like I didn't
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: get caught in the act. But I remember my stepdad.
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: He comes in and he calls my name and he's like, Jake,
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: come here. And I didn't know I was in trouble.
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: And he takes me out to the garage and he
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: goes on. He looks out, he points out it and
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: he goes, did you do that? And I was like no.
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: He was like, yes you did, Jake, Jake, I wrote
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: my name. No, yes you did. He's like, yes you did.
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: And I was like no.
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: He's like and I was like, I just want to
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: see if it works or whatever, and he goes, it's
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: gonna take some real elbow grease to get that out.
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: Today I found out what elber grease was. Ah, it
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: was a weird He taught me something.
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll tell you one thing didn't get it out.
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: This one's fucked. This last one's fucked. Okay.
• 45:52
  Speaker 2: I was in I would have been like thirteen, and
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: so if I'm thirteen, my younger brother would have been
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: four or yeah, I think it would have been about four.
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: So we were walking, we were on a little holiday
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: somewhere and we were going for a walk to a
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: cafe and my dad was in front of me, my
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: little brother was next to me, and I was behind him.
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: And my little brother starts to walk along this like
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: garden bed little thing to balance walking line. For some reason,
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: I thought it would be a good idea to kick
• 46:22
  Speaker 2: out his back foot and he just ate shit, bro
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: and he just literally and I was just like, I
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: did it and I.
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: Didn't even like.
• 46:30
  Speaker 2: The intrusive thought took over, like a demon took over
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: my body, and I kicked out his back foot. He falls,
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: he trips over, gets a cut, and my dad's like,
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: what the fuck did you do that for?
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: And I was like, I actually don't know. I think
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: I've done something similar. I was like, I actually have
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: no idea. I just had to see if it would work.
• 46:45
  Speaker 2: It was the intrusive thought that legit, I don't I
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: actually don't know what overcame me that day.
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: I think the only one I can think of off
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: the top of my head, which is like reoccurring. He's like,
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: is that hot? And I know it's hot? And I
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: touched anyway then, but my finger like two many noodles,
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: like the hot water is it hot? And obviously? Yeah, water,
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: I do it with that. I do it with my oats.
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: This morning, I was like, that's hot, but I'll be fine.
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah my tongue. I always do it with the fucking
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: air fryer. Yeah, so what I go to pick something
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: out of it? Same like, I don't want to get
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: a parent hold obviously it's been two hundred degrees for
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: past twelve and so long. And then you're like, is
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: that hot? Obviously?
• 47:23
  Speaker 2: And then your mom's like, oh would you do? It's
• 47:24
  Speaker 2: like nothing, Oh, man, I reckon. I've got to have
• 47:27
  Speaker 2: more intrusive thoughts that I've let win.
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: But I just same. I can one.
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: Maybe we should try and think of a few. What
• 47:33
  Speaker 2: what's everyone's intrusive thoughts they've let win? We should make
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: that an ig question one day. I could be or
• 47:37
  Speaker 2: comment below this is here, comment below what intrusive thoughts?
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: Read them so you'll get excited reading it.
• 47:43
  Speaker 2: So YouTube, I'll read Spotify audio reads. We'll both bring
• 47:46
  Speaker 2: our own intrusive list of intrusive thoughts to the episode.
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: I like that. I like that a lot, Bodie.
• 47:56
  Speaker 2: I have to give credit where credit is due, all right.
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: A couple months ago. Odie comes to me, says, got
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: a coach. Yeah. I was like, fuck ship, Like I'm
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: doing a cut. I want to get as like as
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: actually cut as I've.
• 48:10
  Speaker 2: Ever been, Like I want to be as ripped as
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: I've ever been.
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: And I like, hadn't. I just like was like, obviously
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: that's sweet, Like you know, I believe in you. Yeah.
• 48:18
  Speaker 2: Cool, And just like every now and then, I don't know,
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: just like I haven't asked how it's going. I think
• 48:24
  Speaker 2: I've asked, like what's the training, Like it's different, you
• 48:26
  Speaker 2: like the training like you're doing your videos. I watched
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: your videos, like, wait, if anyone here has any sort
• 48:32
  Speaker 2: of connecting to men's health, Like, what the fuck are
• 48:34
  Speaker 2: you doing?
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah? They did get me on the front cover. Such
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: a bullshit. Yeah, hit us up, us up, hit up and.
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: On the front. The first actual progress photo I saw
• 48:47
  Speaker 2: was yesterday on your story.
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: And bro, what the fuck? Thanks man?
• 48:50
  Speaker 2: Put it up for you.
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: You edit this. I'm gonna make kids more editing. Put
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: it up on the screen. I could do that. He's
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: fucking good. How do you feel, thanks man? Yeah, you
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: should feel good. I actually bringing it back to like
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: vulnerability and enjoying the process. It's really really hard to
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: enjoy the process of losing weight. Fair yeah, fair. Also
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: because I see myself every single day. You obviously you
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: don't see me every single day with my shirt off.
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: I hope not. Anyway, I know where you live. But when.
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: Because my coach sent me that photo before he posted
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: it that I shared his reshared his story, I was like,
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: oh shit, I have been doing some work.
• 49:28
  Speaker 2: It's fucking night and day.
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah. And it's in the same bathroom, the same lighting
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: and everything. There was no tricks played. It's so it's crazy. Yeah.
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: It's almost five kilos down in six weeks. That's insane.
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: And it looks like it's only fat being lost, yeah,
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: which is really really good. It's a little shorter in
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: the second one. Mate. The fat makes you look bigger
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: than mate, looks bigger than I am, bigger everywhere. Yeah yeah, yeah,
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: but thank you very much. Man. I'm I want to
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: say I'm enjoying the process. I'm enjoying the results. Yes,
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: the process is very very hard. The good thing about that.
• 50:01
  Speaker 2: Is is it pro feels good that you stick in
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: to it.
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. And after that photo and
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: like you and a couple other people swiped up saying
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: you look great and stuff like. It's obviously motivated me
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: even more. And my goal to get on the front
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: cover of Men's Health is actually motivating me a lot,
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: because sometimes I'm thinking, like, fuck, this last week that
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: just went by, I was struggling with my diet. Like
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: the first five weeks, I was cheering, I was motivated.
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: This last week I was like, fuck, I just want
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: to eat that really? Yeah, like like an all time low.
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: I'm talking my coach. I don't know if it's it's
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: appropriate to telling you my libido's gone way down. Ah,
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: well you know why? Yeah, yeah, I know why. I
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: was thinking, like is there anything you could do, like
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: foods like fat white or something. I don't know. It's
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: like your a little prescription for something. I no, no,
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: don't you have you got something? Is is that what
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: those eyes we before? But this last week I had
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: like an all time shift. I think in like food,
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: I've been struggling your bodies, like I need food. And
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: then really my libido. Normally I'm quite high on the
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: old libido scale, and this week I was like, I
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: just I'm no horny at all, like ever, wow, which
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: is like very unusual for me, even like when I'm
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: with my girlfriend, I'm always I'm like, well I know
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: why obviously, yeah yah, yeah yeah, And I'm like, well,
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: this is a bit weird. She annoyed or is she
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: kind of like she probably don't even notice, be honest.
• 51:18
  Speaker 2: So funny funny, Well, I mean that is something that
• 51:20
  Speaker 2: comes with it.
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: But I was also going to say, I was going
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: to say, this is one of my videos that I've
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: been posting on TikTok and Instagram. But obviously everyone doesn't
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: have to have the goal of to lose weight or
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: anything like that, but everyone wants to be the healthiest
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: version of themselves. And the best tip and take away
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: from this I've been doing and I've done it before
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: and you do it is tracking your food. I think
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: a lot of people listening right now I probably have
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: never tracked food before. And you don't know the protein, fats, carbs,
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: and calories within said food that you're eating. And you
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: don't not necessarily have a goal. We have to have
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: a goal to lose weight or game weight or anything
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: like that. But just I'm saying, like, by a scale
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: for a day or two, this track what you eat
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: and you'll realize, oh shit, this is doing this to me,
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: or shit, this is doing this to me, And it's
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: such a help little like trick to having your brain
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: and your second guess eating the peanut butter with like
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: layering it on your toast rather than having vegemint.
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, such an Australian thing. Yeah, I fucking blew Joanna's
• 52:10
  Speaker 2: mind last night. She's getting into exactly what you're saying
• 52:13
  Speaker 2: right now because my whole a.
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: Lot of people don't know it and we take it
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: for granted.
• 52:16
  Speaker 2: It's yeah, I was, I've thought it was crazy, right.
• 52:19
  Speaker 2: So I've been weighing all my stuff purely just like
• 52:23
  Speaker 2: I don't have any goal because my first goal of
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: the year is to fall in love with the gym again,
• 52:26
  Speaker 2: and so part of that process, I was like, I'm
• 52:28
  Speaker 2: going to eat the same thing every day. I'm just
• 52:29
  Speaker 2: going to make sure I know what i'm having. I
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: want to have just really protein's my main thing and
• 52:33
  Speaker 2: calorie I guess. But Joanna started to track her. She
• 52:36
  Speaker 2: wants to have you having like one hundred and twenty
• 52:38
  Speaker 2: grams of protein a day, and I was like, that's
• 52:39
  Speaker 2: a good goal. So she was tracking her like She's like,
• 52:42
  Speaker 2: how do I get to be more protein blah blah blah.
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: And then she's talking about She's like, I love fruit,
• 52:46
  Speaker 2: but it's just and I know there's no calories in it.
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: And she was putting grapes into a container and I
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: was like no calories.
• 52:53
  Speaker 2: I was like, funny, you say that. Look strawberries, Yes,
• 52:56
  Speaker 2: barely any calories. Like I was named it and I
• 52:58
  Speaker 2: was like, grapes, stranda, I'm sorry that the high.
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: She was like, no way.
• 53:01
  Speaker 2: I was like yeah, like it's not a huge amount,
• 53:04
  Speaker 2: Like one hundred grams of grapes is like seventy calories,
• 53:06
  Speaker 2: but just compared to other things, like in terms of volume,
• 53:08
  Speaker 2: mango is pretty hard to Yeah, and she and she
• 53:10
  Speaker 2: brought she was like no way, And she weighed out
• 53:12
  Speaker 2: one hundred grams of grapes and she's like it's like
• 53:14
  Speaker 2: ten fucking greats.
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: She was pissed, and I was like yeah, yeah. Like
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: once you weigh out like a bag of shapes or
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: a bag of chips, you're like, oh shit, that's like
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: a third of my or fourth of my calorie intake
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: in just these bag of chips I'm eating. Like you're
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: like oh shit, and you second guess it way out
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: of serving of cereal.
• 53:28
  Speaker 2: Oh, cereal is terrible, A lot of cereal, A lot
• 53:30
  Speaker 2: of servings of cereal that the serving size is thirty grams.
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's nothing. Some of these companies serving sizes. They
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: are having a laugh. Oh. I wanted to finish on
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: because I've been posting videos on like TikTok and Instagram.
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: I've been looking at the algorithm a lot. Yeah, and
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: also obviously a big part of our business. The podcast
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: is TikTok and what's been happening is the ban bro
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: in America. Yeah, the TikTok ban. I fucking We were
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: talking about it heaps leading up to it.
• 53:55
  Speaker 2: We didn't talk about it on here, and I kept
• 53:57
  Speaker 2: on saying I think it's gonna go through, and ad
• 53:59
  Speaker 2: he kept on saying, no, I believe it when I
• 54:02
  Speaker 2: see it.
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: And it went through. Yeah, And so last night it
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: went through and I sent it to Jake and I
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: was like, oh, damn it. I was actually I didn't
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: say you were right, but I was like, oh damn it,
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: It's happened. And then twelve hours audio is I believed
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: in Trump? Yeah, because I've saw seen so many videos
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: because Trump's marketing strategy was the up. He won like
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: by like ninety percent in people aged like eighteen and
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: twenty four. Yeah, And I was like, and he said
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: there was a video of him saying I love TikTok
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: because his son's like part of his marketing plan and
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: he's like twenty four or some shit. Yeah, And I
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: was like, Trump loves TikTok. It's not going anywhere. And
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: then twelve hours later, after getting a band, Trump said
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: something about like everyone knows the're right to fucking do whatever.
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: And then it's back and I'm like, I knew we
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: had the power. I fucking woke up this morning. I
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: saw a video from Alex Earl.
• 54:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and she's like, I was on hick Why did
• 54:47
  Speaker 2: I cry a couple of days ago?
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: If I'm just back. It stressed me out. TikTok's like
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: sixty percent fucking American. I know, actual kind stressed me
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: out as well. I'm not gonna lie downloaded red note
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: in process the video as soon as it went because
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: it was ever gonna happen and I wasn't stressing at all.
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: And then I saw the band.
• 54:58
  Speaker 2: I actually had liked a couple funny videos about the band.
• 55:01
  Speaker 2: This is from Chris Olsen. He said, this whole thing
• 55:03
  Speaker 2: feels like when you're dramatically saying goodbye to someone on
• 55:05
  Speaker 2: the street and then you realize you both have to walk.
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: The same direction. It's like in the supermarket, and then
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: you've both gone down the same eye. Yeah, you say
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: hi in the first and you keep on crossing part.
• 55:15
  Speaker 2: And then there was another one and it was Paramount
• 55:18
  Speaker 2: Pictures fucking posted this on TikTok, and it was and
• 55:20
  Speaker 2: there's that yeah, and you know the scene in wul
• 55:22
  Speaker 2: for Wall Street where he's supposed to be quitting his
• 55:24
  Speaker 2: job because they find out what he's doing is illegal,
• 55:26
  Speaker 2: but if he quits, it's all good. And he goes,
• 55:27
  Speaker 2: everyone's like, thinking's about to get up and announce it
• 55:29
  Speaker 2: he's quitting, and he goes, I'm.
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: Not fucking leading.
• 55:32
  Speaker 2: They've just got TikTok over to me, like I'm not
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: fucking leaving.
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: I never thought it was ever going to happen too,
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: because TikTok in America is the number one amount of users,
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: has like one hundred and eleven million users. I think
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: it's one hundred and fifty and the amount of people
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: and businesses that rely on TikTok in America. I was like,
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: their economy is going to plummet if they ban like,
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: and I know America's all about fucking money fat Like,
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: I'm like, there's no way they could logically do this.
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: There is a conspiracy. What is it? I wanted to
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: bring this up.
• 55:59
  Speaker 2: Okay, So the whole thing with the band, right was
• 56:03
  Speaker 2: America is saying it's it's it's a national security issue
• 56:06
  Speaker 2: about China because China owns TikTok. Right, So they were like,
• 56:11
  Speaker 2: TikTok can stay if you sell it to us. They're like,
• 56:14
  Speaker 2: no Elon Musk probably I think offered to buy it.
• 56:17
  Speaker 2: Mister Beast is like, TikTok, sell it to me, we
• 56:21
  Speaker 2: can keep it here. So he's like doing that, right,
• 56:24
  Speaker 2: there's a conspiracy that fucking Zuckerberg bought it.
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: Oh really, I didn't tell anyone.
• 56:30
  Speaker 2: No, So no, I don't like Facebook's gone down here.
• 56:33
  Speaker 2: I don't want to okay here quickly, we're nearly done here.
• 56:38
  Speaker 2: So the government people it's like a full insider trading conspiracy.
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 56:43
  Speaker 2: The government is like, nah, we don't want TikTok. But
• 56:46
  Speaker 2: all the people in government that can make this decision,
• 56:48
  Speaker 2: they're all big stakeholders in Meta, which is Facebook, right,
• 56:52
  Speaker 2: and they're like, sell TikTok to us, and well, you
• 56:56
  Speaker 2: can have it here. And now there's this whole conspiracy
• 56:58
  Speaker 2: because people in the US the day before the band,
• 57:02
  Speaker 2: we're getting these things coming up on their Facebook. They'd
• 57:04
  Speaker 2: go into Facebook, and Facebook had this thing of like
• 57:06
  Speaker 2: link your Facebook to your TikTok so people can discover you.
• 57:09
  Speaker 2: And they're like, why the fuck would Facebook do this
• 57:11
  Speaker 2: now when they know it's going to get banned?
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: This is sus.
• 57:13
  Speaker 2: And then some people keep coming across this TikTok Facebook
• 57:17
  Speaker 2: account that has three hundred and something thousand followers and
• 57:19
  Speaker 2: it's already verified, which is crazy, by the way, because
• 57:21
  Speaker 2: we aren't even fucking verified, but we're doing it for years, right,
• 57:25
  Speaker 2: Facebook verified already unless they're paying for.
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: It, I don't know.
• 57:27
  Speaker 2: But basically now, also, the guy that owns TikTok, that
• 57:32
  Speaker 2: shoe guy from Singapore, he used to have he has
• 57:36
  Speaker 2: an account and it used to say TikTok ceo taken
• 57:39
  Speaker 2: out of his account.
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: Oh it's gone, it's gone, right, So.
• 57:42
  Speaker 2: There's this whole conspiracy that all the fucking shareholders in
• 57:45
  Speaker 2: Meta were like zuck In.
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: You go purchase it and they're going to slowly letter
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: from by about part of metaw or some share Facebook.
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: I know it's probably not, but it feels like he's
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: dead in my life.
• 57:55
  Speaker 2: Facebook's dead from our Facebook label about it.
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: Other than Facebook is good two things Facebook groups and
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: buying shit marketplace marketplace and like anything for like renting
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: or like community groups. Anything to do with a group
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: is really good. And Villa's fucking like anything to do
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: with like buying shit and like building a community great,
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: but like the actual like looking for videos and stuff.
• 58:23
  Speaker 2: Okay, guys, thank you very much for coming along with
• 58:26
  Speaker 2: This would be the first week we're going to call
• 58:27
  Speaker 2: one of you wonderful listeners, one of you baddies, one
• 58:30
  Speaker 2: of the baddies, if you wanted to be, If you
• 58:32
  Speaker 2: would like to be part of the list of baddies.
• 58:35
  Speaker 2: It gets a phone call from us to sign off
• 58:36
  Speaker 2: the episode. The link will be in the description of
• 58:38
  Speaker 2: this episode.
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: Yes it will, and when I get around you, it'll
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: be on the link in Instagram bio. But not yet.
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: So let's call Brittany and I was going to sign
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: off the episode.
• 58:50
  Speaker 3: Hello Britney speaking.
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: Hi Brittany, it's already and Jake from the Relatables, how
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: are you going? I am going great that you picked up. Yes,
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: we have a little bit of a faiver. Could you
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: please sign off our episode in whichever way you see fit.
• 59:05
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, no pressure or anything. Oh my god, no,
• 59:15
  Speaker 3: now I'm stressed.
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: It's easy. We're bad at it as well. No pressure
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: at all, no wrong answers.
• 59:23
  Speaker 3: Okay, thanks for listening. Tune in next time for more
• 59:29
  Speaker 3: great advice and some toxic behaviors.
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: Are Thank you, Brittany. Thanks Brittany, I have a great day.
• 59:36
  Speaker 3: You're welcome you too.
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: Bye. Oh that was good. That was actually good. And
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: the suspense we said it at the start. Oh yeah,
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: thank you everybody for listening. And someone said it in
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: your video. Stay bad