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Servant Leadership | Episode #371 · Legacy Living with Dr. Gloria Burgess

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Hello, and welcome to today's show, Legacy Living, Make Your Life Count.
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I'm your host, Doctor Gloria Gloria Burgess, international leadership expert and trusted
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advisor. Welcome to Legacy Living, Make Your Life Count. I'm so delighted
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that you join me today. I have a very special guest with us today.
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Her name is Mary Bess Johnson. I hope you will be inspired by
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our conversation. Mary Bess is joining us today from her home in beautiful upstate
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South Carolina, where she lives with her husband, Chris. Mary Bess is
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an amazing person and most importantly, she is an inspiring woman of God.
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I can't wait for her to share her remarkable journey and story with you.
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In her own words, Mary Bess is on a journey, a journey of
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self growth. In twenty sixteen, she gave up retirement to join the John
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Maxwell team. At that time, her singular thought was all about helping others
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grow and fulfilling God's purpose for her own life. Now, Mary Bess has
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been helping individuals and organizations improve for decades, and she is passionate about encouraging
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and helping new team members on the John Maxwell team. There, she serves
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as a peer teaching partner and team leader on the President's Advisory Council. She
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says, this is the perfect way to live out my heart's desire to serve
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others. Mary Best not only enjoys serving on the John Maxwell team, she
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also enjoys being an entrepreneur, serving her clients, serving as a community volunteer,
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and offering humorous wisdom to her grandchildren, all seven of them. Today's
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topic is living a life of significance. Now that's a topic that is near
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and dear to my heart and I can't think of a better person, a
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better leader, a better human being to address this topic than Mary Bess.
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I met Mary Best several years ago when I was attending the International Maxwell Certification
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Conference in Orlando, Florida. When I met Mary Best, I just knew
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there was something very special about her. And when I had an opportunity to
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have a conversation with her, she spoke so passionately about her life, about
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her purpose. I mean, she was just glowing. So I can't wait
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to host this incredible, amazing and lovely human being, my friend, colleague
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and mentor, Mary Bess Johnson. Now, before I bring her on,
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I just want to take a moment to connect the dots between today's topic on
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living a life of significance and legacy living. Now, there are many ways
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that living a life of significance connects to legacy living, which you'll hear more
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about later. For now, just let me say that legacy living is a
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way of being, being, a way of living and moving through the world
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so that we make the conscious choice to be the difference we want to see
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in the world. We make that conscious choice right here and right now,
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not in some distant future way out there. Right. We make that conscious
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choice day in and day out, three sixty five, twenty four seven.
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Now, I'll say more about that later. Now, let me introduce you
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to my friend and colleague and mentor, Mary Bess. Hello, Mary Bess,
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I want to welcome you to my show and thank you so much for
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agreeing to be a guest. Could you just please say your name and where
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you're from for us. Yes, my name is Mary Bess Johnson and I
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live in Pendleton, South Carolina. It's in upstate Carolina. All right,
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excellent, Thank you and Mary Vess. I know that you have just a
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lot to share with us today, but I want to begin by asking you
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what does it mean to live in God's will for your life? For me,
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it means that I that I want to seek God's will for every move
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that I make and everything that I do, and knowing that I am just
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living to be the person that He intended me to be for one thing and
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to always Uh, it's not approval that I seek, No, no,
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it's not. It's just just just to be just to walk with the Lord
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and to be in his will. And because his will is perfect and his
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timing is perfect, and in as long as I am staying in that place,
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then it keeps the stress out and the strife and and everything that can
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that can you know, come from that that place of indecision or not knowing.
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There's so I find so much peace in knowing the Lord and having a
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personal relationship with Jesus. There's first of all, there's so much peace in
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that. And then because I want to live in God's will and being God's
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will, then it's just it's kind of like simple. I think sometimes we
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complicate it, but for me sometimes it's just like a simple thing. It's
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just like, hey, mayor Bess, you love the Lord, he loves
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you. Just walk with him. Yeah, and Mary bes it is simple.
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It's very simple because we're strong Christians, were very firm in our faith,
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and you know, sometimes people who are new to the faith, they
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really don't have a clue about what we're talking about. Yes, so can
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you just say a little bit more about what God's perfect timing is and being
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the person that God intended you to be? You know, Glory, I
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really appreciate that that you mentioned that, because I can remember many years ago
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if you had said those same words to me, I did wouldn't have a
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clue as to what you meant, not really, So until I really had
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started this personal relationship with Jesus, not just knowing about God, not just
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going to church, not all of that routine like I grew up doing.
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But when when it really got down to that real relationship and I realized that
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that God was just such a such a friend to me and that he had
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my best interests. Of course, you know I was. I'm created in
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his image. And even that's hard for some folks to understand, especially those
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who who maybe are new believers, and they're saying, how in the world
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can I be created in God's image? Well, you know what, because
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scripture tells us that, and that's how that's that's another part of the simplicity
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of it. But but for me, when when I have that love relationship
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that I feel with the Lord, I I just want it's like, well,
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let's see, I know, it's like parent child relationship. Maybe when
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the child and wants to please the parent. No, the child loves a
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parent. The child doesn't even have to think about whether they please the parent
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or not. I don't have to think about whether I please God or not.
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I love him, He loves me, and so staying close to him,
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I'm just so comfortable in knowing that, and then in staying in his
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will. Typically for me, if I'm getting out of God's will, oh
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I know it. I mean I'm going to start feeling really uncomfortable. And
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you know that's just that that Holy Spirit in me speaking to me. Yes.
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So you know, when you're in God's will because you're walking in joy,
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you're walking in peace, and when you get out of it, out
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of his well, you get something inside of you. Yeah, we're beside
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you. However that shows up for you, the Holy Spirit talking to you.
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Yeah, Yeah, very uncomfortable. It's just that it's that intuitive,
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that conviction that that I just know now that has developed over the years too.
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I mean that was not an instant thing with me, but I think
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just staying staying in God's word and even you know, music, any kind
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of praise, any kind of Christian music, from the old hymns that I've
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been singing all my life to contemporary Christian music, it's all. It all
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has saturated me through the years with God's word and the goodness and his girl
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Amen hallelujah. You know, I often think about where would we be without
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the Lord, and where would we be without his grace and mercy, And
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so knowing that you are walking with the Lord and listening and you know that
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He's ordering your steps is so significant. And we have been in the same
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organization, the John Maxwell Team, for a number of years. That's how
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we met. And I'm wondering, Mary Bess, if you could just share
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a little bit about what living a life of significance means to you. Well,
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first of all, I've got to tell the listening audience that Gloria was
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my table host when I attended my very first John Maxwell Team International Certification event,
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and that was in August of twenty sixteen, and so I met her
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that day and just absolutely loved her from day one. But the really wonderful
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thing that has been such a lesson to me is that we were doing our
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five minute table talk, and my five minutes went over. And so when
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the buzzer goes off, those of you are listening. When the buzzer goes
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off, you stop talking. Okay, So I stopped talking, And when
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everybody around the table finished with their table talk, the first thing Gloria said
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to me was, now, Mary, Bess, would you like to finish
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and tell us that last little piece of your story. Oh that meant so
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much to me, so very much, And that's just been that's a huge
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lesson to me, and listening and knowing that even with a time frame like
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that, at a time constraint, that we still have important things that we
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want to say, and for some of us, it just takes us longer
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to saying, oh, my goodness, but living a life of significance,
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oh yes, hey, I have as long as I can remember my whole
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life. Just wanted to just feel like I was making a difference and changing
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the world and this and that, and I kind of used to think of
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it in such broader terms until I joined the John Maxwell team in twenty sixteen.
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I came out of retirement. I had had a long, successful Mary
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Kay Cosmetics career and I had been retired for a number of years and started
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feeling that nudge. And what the nudge was was God saying, all right,
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all right, when I'm not done with you yet, you know,
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it doesn't matter. I'm hired. I've got more I want you to do.
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And you know, Gloria, that's that is humbling for me to say
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that. That is not an ego or an eye thing like, oh,
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I've got so much I could know. No, no, no, not.
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That is a very humbling thing to know that you have been used in
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some way or another in the past, that God has used you to influence
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others. And so when you know that there's still room for that, oh
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my goodness just stirred within me and I just knew something was like, oh,
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got to get back out there. So that's when I joined the team.
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And for me, living a life of significance is not about me.
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Although I am on the disc personality disc I'm an I personality and a d
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SO. But it's not about me. It's about the other person. And
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everywhere I go, I just want to add value to other people. I
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just want to smile, I want to put a joke. I want to
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do something that makes that person feel better, makes that person feel important.
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And it's not that I have to do big, huge things at all.
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But I know that, I know that, I know that one little ripple
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can just create an ocean of wave and change. Yes, and that if
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just one person is influenced by something that I have said or helped them with,
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oh that's that's that's wonderful. So it's it's just living living life to
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it's fullest. It doesn't matter my age. Does it matter that you know
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I'm old disturbed? Not really, No, you're not, But you know
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it, really that does not matter. All all ages. Children can live
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a life of significance. Children can have a positive influence. Yes, yes,
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I really believe that too, very best. And I know that you
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have added so much value to me personally and so much value to the people
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in your community. And I'm sure folks that I'm not even aware of.
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And so I wonder if you could tell us a little bit about your own
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journey with your self growth maybe with the John Maxwell team or beyond, and
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talk a little bit about your career journey as well. Yeah, the the
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self growth, really intentional self growth started gosh, you know, in the
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seventies, eighties, and I guess well, really probably more into the eighties
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when I read Stephen Covey's Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. That was one
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of the first things that really got got me going on self growth and thinking
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into other areas like that. I tell you, I've always kind of been
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been a deep thinker. I remember even as a as a teenager, you
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know, really just getting to thinking about all sorts of things that some people
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didn't have a clue to what I was talking about, but I could really
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get into some some thoughts. And I still I still am very much a
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deep thinker. I'm also very curious. So when when I was in my
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Mary Kay career, is when John Maxwell first came in alone he was doing
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leadership training for us with Mary Kay. Is when he was still at his
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church in San Diego, when he was still pastoring there back in the nineties,
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and I became very interested in everything he said. I joined the Tape
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of the Month club, you know, and I've got a blucket load of
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cassette tapes, but just really, really really loved him, and I used
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his leadership lessons every month that my sale I've had a sales meeting every single
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week for the Mary Kay Consultants, and once a month we had leadership night,
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and so I would have a leadership lesson. And mind you now,
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this is back in the late nineties, two thousand and I would present that
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leadership lesson in the my team would would participate in it. And then the
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actual John Maxwell team was started ten years ago in twenty eleven. So back
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in the day when I was following John, I didn't you know, there
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was no such thing as being certified. But I remember thinking it's so funny.
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You know, here I am in South Carolina. He's on the West
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coast in San Diego. And I can distinctly remember thinking, oh, I
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would love to work with John Maxwell, wow or for him, or you
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know. Then I said, but Mary Bess, you know he's on the
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West coast and you live in South Carolina and you're you're not you know,
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you're not twenty five and just charting off on a new job. So but
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that seed was planted Gloria. Absolutely, And so then the years went by,
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and in twenty sixteen I looked more into joining the team and so that
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that's when I decided to become certified and absolutely have just adored it. Well,
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it seems like you have been around a lot longer than four years,
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five years, four and a half years, whatever that is, five yeah,
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five in May. Yeah, yeah, I mean it seems like you
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are just one of the founding people and you know, no really yeah,
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yeah, you you add such value, like I said, not only to
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me, but to so many other people on the team, Mary Bess,
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you are just a giver. Well, thank you. And you know,
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it's funny when you say that, because I really hadn't thought about it.
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But it could be that because John Maxwell and his teachings and books, readings,
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everything have been such a big part of my life that when I transitioned
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into the being a team member, that I just brought a lot of that
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with me. I mean, because really, even when you think about I've
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talked to Mark Cole about it before, and you know, he's been with
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John for twenty years something and he remembers those days that he and John would
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go to the Mary Kay training, so he was going with him then,
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so he remembers all of that. I don't know, maybe if that didn't,
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I just felt so at home, so very much at home. Yeah,
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yeah, well, you know, I remember when I joined, I'm
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one of the founding partners that you know, and it just felt like I
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found my people like mind at people but totally different than me, and I
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brought a lot of things along from my early exposure to John Maxwell as well.
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So maybe that's it. I don't know, yeah, but I but
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I so appreciate you saying that, you know, I I'll always be one
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who will, you know, raise my hand and say, you know,
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send me, I'll go, I'll do or whatever. I'd love to help.
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But I always want my humility. I want to be humble about it.
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Always that I have the confidence to raise my hand and say send me,
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I'll go. I'll try, And I do want to, but I
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do want to do it in a humble way. So I certainly wouldn't want
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to be you know, I wouldn't want it to be perceived as oh,
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you know, you're just busting in and trying to be part of the No.
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I just I'm just feeling home. Well, thank you for saying that,
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though, Oh, yes, You're so welcome. So Mary Best,
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I know that sometimes many people start the year with a particular word that influences
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them, that guides them, that grounds them in whatever way. And I'm
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wondering, do you have a word for your year? Oh, I'm so
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glad you asked. Actually, I chose this word for twenty twenty. And
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it was towards the end of twenty nineteen that I was thinking on it.
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And I think I was on a call with Mark Cole one day actually,
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and he was talking about it too. So I really, for the last
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two or three years, I've had this sense of urgency about wanting to really
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really want to live a life of significance and to just do whatever I could.
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I'm sure that age has something to do with it, for Heaven's sake,
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you know, but never the less, I've had that sense of urgency.
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So I was. I was sitting there the day thinking through it that
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that day and I wrote down the word now, hm. And you know,
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commonly, like with with Nike or whoever it is, you know,
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do it now, But it it wasn't quite that for me, and I
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kept looking at it or had written it out in ow and I looked at
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it and I went, oh, my goodness, not over with m hmm
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mercy. Yeah, And I I felt this confirmation and this peace of that
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is exactly what I had been feeling. It's not over with, and it
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had That word has motivated me. So so it's my word for this year
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too as well. So what it really means to me is exactly what it
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says here. Here we go back to simplicity. I just love to see
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things simply and to not complicate things. And so now to me that means
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not over with. It's it's not over with. That's basically right it.
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And so you say, what's not over with? Well, the fact that
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I want to live a life of significance that's not over with, m or
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whatever I'm wanting to achieve. Uh, it's not over with. So really
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I can apply that to to anything. It gives. It gives me a
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sense of like another moment, another chance, And it could be literally that
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I you know, I died a night and so but even still I want
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to live up until I take my last breath with that feeling of it's not
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over with, and it's you know, it's it's not a driven thing at
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all. It's not like I strive for this. It's just it's just how
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I feel. But I had not quite been able to put my my finger
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on what all what all I've been chewing on for the last two or three
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years. But but you know, the Lord just gave me that word.
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And then when I when I looked not over with, I went, that
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is exactly That's exactly how I feel. So I just believe that we all
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can have that attitude, whether we choose to or not. It helps me.
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Yes, And so you you talked about significance, you talked about the
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urgency to live your life, and you also talked about humility. And I'm
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wondering, so not over with to me says that God has his hand on
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you, that he has more for you. And in my way of thinking,
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you know, it's not your business to know what that is. You
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know, just just pay attention and walk and walk. Yes, He'll He'll
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keep ordering yourself. Right. I often think of it with with your your
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John, your sweet husband, as a as a maestro conductor. I just
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every time I think about God ordering my steps, I see him well,
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even sometimes in the black tux orchestrating our steps. Yes, oh my,
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I'll never think of God the same way. I know. I know,
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what can you imagine? Oh gosh, but I do, I really do.
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I couldn't tell you how many times I thought, you know, when
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I think about God orchestrating our steps, and I think about your John.
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So I really do believe that. Of course, as the years go by,
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I can look back now and see, Oh my goodness, how things
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unfolded. You know, it's turned into this, and then this happened,
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and this happened, and that. An encouragement from me on that to listeners
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would be just to trust and like Gloria just said, take that one foot
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in front of the other and keep stepping forward. As you step forward,
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when you take enough steps, you're going to be able to look back and
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see how things are unfolding. Absolutely, And I know when I'm in the
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middle of something it sometimes doesn't make sense, but when I look back,
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it looks like a straight line. Oh yeah, yes, exactly. So
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Mary Bes, can you talk to us a little bit about you know,
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I just know, just a teemy little bit of the kinds of things that
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you're doing in your community and how you're helping women, and can you just
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talk to us a little bit about that as well? As I see you
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as a very I'm going to say creative and generative person. If you could
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talk to us a little bit about your creativity, your interests, and again
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how that's flowing out of you and into the community as well. Oh my
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goodness. Well, I've always been very, as I said earlier, very
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curious. I love to learn new things. I love to try new things.
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I am pretty much a risk taker with something. So you know,
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when I was sixty nine years old, I did a tandem jump skydive and
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I loved it and that was so and I wouldn't Yeah, I would not
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mind doing it again at all. But so I'm interested in things like that.
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I am very creative. I'm creative as far as stitching and anything like
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that, or I'm resourceful. I can think of odd ways to fix something
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maybe you know, to make it do or whatever. And as far as
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in the community here, I will know one thing that I did that's interesting
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to me that I have been involved in the past. I am not right
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here in this community. We've moved here four years ago, but for a
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number of years where I lived before, I was involved in a quilt program
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at our church, Prayers for squares for squares for prayer. I can't remember
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which way, but we we would make quilts and just lap quilts and give
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those two folks who were really going through a hard time. And so that
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program was very meaningful to me. And because I did know how to sew
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and stitch and all that, I could do that kind of thing. But
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even when I when I don't know, I'll take a stab at it to
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learn. You know, I'm always want to say, hey, I don't
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know, but I'll find out, or I don't know how to do that,
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but I'll figure it out. Anybody taking a tandem jump at sixty nine
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is willing to learn. I'm just saying, you think I know, it
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isn't the truth. To me, that just seems like you know, okay,
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well everybody does that, but I guess not really, it's not everybody.
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Oh my goodness. So I'm always just I look for ways of doing
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something really in a fun way to I do. I love to laugh and
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I love to have fun. As far as what I'm doing here in the
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community with women, for one thing is I'm involved with a really beautiful nonprofit
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organization here who offers a hand up and not a handout. And so their
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clients who come to them have the opportunity to take classes at their center,
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which are all volunteers. So they can take classes in money management, anger
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management, diet, nutrition, parenting, basic skills, real anything, just
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anything. And when they take the course, the class and show up and
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do it, they can earn dream dollars and then they can take those dream
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dollars and they go to one of the resell stores you know, it'd be
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like habitats resell that sort of situation, and they can purchase goods because most
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of these people are very very low income. And also one thing that was
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really so much fun at Christmas, they have this huge Santa Shop program.
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So all year long businesses all of the area donate Christmas s gipts, brand
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new toys and things for the Santa Shop. It's really a very large amount
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of stuff, and so the people can go shop in the Santa Shop when
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they earn the dream dollars. They got to earn them, yeah, not
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cool, and then what they do is they provide them ways to earn.
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So I've been doing classes ZIM classes with them now since about October, and
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we still have one going right now. But I love to do that,
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and you know, it's just it's volunteer, absolutely volunteer. Now I do
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have a financial relationship with them too, because I've done a lot of their
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leadership training and within their staff. It's a pretty large organization, but that
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that's how I serve here. I'm involved in our church, love that,
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and in the community here. I'm a board member of the Pendleton Historical Society
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Foundation. It's been around a lot of history here where I live, and
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I'm excited about to get it. Involved with a program at Colemson University which
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is right here at Professor Thomas. Ronda Thomas has started a number of years
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back, slowly but surely she's making headway on it, and it's called the
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name of the program is called my Name. She has learned when she came
35:14
to Clemson to be a professor that many back in the late eighteen hundreds,
35:21
most of the people who built Clemson University were African Americans who were the children
35:28
of slaves or they were in prison and they were allowed to help build and
35:35
so many many of them have been when they died, they were buried here
35:40
and she has been discovering their grave sites. So she absolutely has a full
35:50
blown program going down. It actually is hiring someone to head it up.
35:55
And I am on the tap to a volunteer in the program. So that's
36:02
something else is really near and dear to my heart right here in the back
36:07
door. Yes. And then my husband, Oh my goodness, oh I
36:13
love, Oh my goodness, my husband. Yeah. And we have seven
36:16
grandchildren with three daughters and seven grandchildren. Mm hmm. Mercy, Well,
36:22
you know you I want to be like you when I grew up. I
36:27
mean you are so involved and so engaged and you find places you know,
36:32
not only that's a right fit for you, I mean God places you there,
36:37
but you also find a way to pour just to pour blessings into into
36:44
so many people. And you know, the people that we impact, like
36:47
right in front of us, they're gonna share and they're gonna share and they're
36:51
gonna share it and it just keeps on rippling out. So I mean,
36:53
your your footprint, your fingerprint, your impress is just remarkable, very best.
37:01
You know, glory. One time, many many years ago, I
37:07
heard in a message one day the person said something like I don't want I
37:14
don't want to stand before God when I die. I don't want to stand
37:17
before God and hear the words, oh, welcome home, my child,
37:27
good and faithful servant. Oh, but I had so much more I wanted
37:30
you to do. Yeah, and you know that's almost got of like negative
37:39
motivation, but not really, not really, because that hit home with me.
37:47
Yeah, I do have We do have responsibility on this earth. Yes,
37:55
we do, not only responsibility for ourselves and our families, but to
38:04
serve others. Yes. So I have a question for you. I know
38:09
you've talked a lot about the work that you have done on your intentional growth
38:13
and your career with Mary Kay. Were you ever a teacher in your life
38:17
but beyond like teaching your kids, which is a huge responsibility. Yeah.
38:22
I mean, that's interesting that you asked me that. And it's really strange
38:28
because yesterday I was thinking something made me think about I remember years ago when
38:38
people would say to me, now, are you a school teacher? And
38:44
I would say no, because I was in the corporate I was working in
38:46
the corporate world when I'm joined Mary Kay in nineteen ninety one. I mean,
38:52
yeah, I was doing that and had been in that area for many,
38:58
many years, and really just joined mary Kay to and relieve some stress
39:07
on my job and just have some fun and make a little extra money.
39:10
Hey, that was fun. And so that was back in nineteen ninety one,
39:15
and I quit my job a year and a half later to pursue Mary
39:19
Kay full time. So it did turn into a full time career for me.
39:22
But that's funny that you ask about teaching. I don't know what it
39:24
is, but I do like I do like to teach. I mean,
39:32
yeah, I mean, and that's that's one of the things I like about
39:38
training in leadership. Yeah, is the teaching part of it? Well,
39:44
you're very good at it, And so maybe the trick is not thinking about
39:47
yourself as a teacher. Yeah, no, No, that's weird. I
39:55
love teachers. I think they have the most wonderful job on the pl and
40:00
we don't give them nearly enough, no credit and respect. So I just
40:06
think the world of teachers very best. We are just about at the end
40:08
of our conversation this day, which is a shame, because I would love
40:13
to just keep listening to you and learning from you. Is there anything that
40:16
you wished I would have asked you that I haven't asked you m not that
40:23
I can think of right now, not at all. As far as things
40:28
that are coming up. My plate is full with family and my business and
40:36
my volunteer time and then Global Youth Initiative. It's and you know your listeners
40:44
might not, but you know that I absolutely love your book. Pass it
40:51
on. And that's another thing. You know that that book means so much
40:57
to me. There's there's just it just strikes my heart. It just hits
41:06
my heart. And I think because I grew up in the South in that
41:12
era, and I knew then when I was a little girl, I knew
41:17
it was wrong, but I didn't know why. But I just knew it
41:22
was wrong. When I'm in the department store when the water fountains were in
41:30
two different places, I just didn't get it, and I just knew in
41:36
my heart that it was it was, it was wrong. And so your
41:42
book has just it's meant so much to me. I'll tell you what,
41:45
Laurie. It's given me an opportunity to express what I just expressed to you
41:52
to someone that I don't know, to be able to share the book with
41:59
them, read the story to them, and then to be able to to
42:06
just share how much it means to me and how import it I think it
42:12
is. So I think, yeah, that's that's one thing before we haven't
42:19
talked about. And I know that's about you and your bullet, but still
42:22
it's it's our story. Yes, it is our story. It is Mary
42:29
Bess. I'm really glad you brought it up. I did not want to
42:30
bring it up because this is about you, and you know, I also
42:35
just want to thank you because you have been such a powerful ambassador for this
42:42
book and and you know, not only about the book, it's really about
42:46
I'm hoping, you know, somebody listening will hear that it's our story.
42:52
Is it is not my story? It is our story? Right, yes?
42:57
And sometime we keep saying this, but sometimes you know, and maybe
43:02
this podcast is a vehicle for it. I don't know we can talk about
43:07
it, but I would love to just have a deeper conversation with you about
43:09
the our story. Piece of it is our story, yes, and this
43:15
is a story that our nation and I'm going to say the world is involved
43:17
in right now, right now in a way that we really have not been
43:23
together in this conversation before. You know what I mean, and it's so
43:29
important. So thanks for all that you do and all that you are,
43:32
and thank you again for bringing it up. I appreciate it. Oh yeah,
43:37
I'm glad that I did bring it up. It's interesting that I don't
43:42
know that I've articulated it that way before even in my mind. Just stand
43:47
by what I said about our story. But I'm just telling you, Gloria,
43:52
I can just I'm five years old and I'm in the department store in
43:59
Anderson South, and I'm looking up at that the two water fountains, one
44:04
that says white and one that says colored, and I'm going, no,
44:08
what, No, my neighbor. I play with my neighbor. Yes,
44:15
she's a beautiful little brown skinned girl. I live out in the country.
44:21
And so it is our story. Yeah it is. Yeah, yeah,
44:28
all right, my friend. Well, thank you again. Thank you if
44:31
you are and do, and thank you for just pouring life and you know,
44:37
giving life giving words. You know, they're like oxygen for people,
44:40
and we need we need that oxygen. I'm so I'm so grateful and I'm
44:45
so humble to have been invited to just chat with you. Of course,
44:50
you and I could talk till the cows came in. I know we could
44:59
Mmm. So uplifting, so inspiring, so many pearls of wisdom. I
45:07
feel so blessed to know Mary Best Johnson. Clearly she is a leader's leader.
45:14
She makes a difference in her own life and in the lives of so
45:19
many others, in her own family and throughout the world, in her work
45:23
as a leader, as a certified John Maxwell coach, as a grandmother,
45:28
and as a community servant. To learn more about Marybest and her work,
45:35
you can go to her website, and that's www dot Marybest Johnson dot com.
45:43
Www dot Marybest, m A R Y B E. S. S.
45:49
Johnson, j O h N S O N dot com. Now,
45:54
if you are just joining us, I'm doctor Gloria and this is Legacy Living.
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Make your Life Count. We just heard from my very special guest,
46:07
Mary Bes Johnson, entrepreneur, JMT coach and inspiring community servant. If you
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46:59
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47:04
know what, we are the ones, Yes, we are. We are
47:08
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47:14
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47:19
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47:22
might not step up. In fact, they might not even know you're there
47:28
waiting for them to do something for you. But you can be the one.
47:32
In fact, can I just tell you something, You are the one.
47:37
You are the one who can make a difference in your own life so
47:43
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47:50
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47:54
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49:50
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49:54
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50:00
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