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What was always in your parents' liquor cabinet when you were growing up? · Anele and the Club on 947

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  Speaker 1: Wake up with a bang.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, wake up! Anele and the club on 947. We
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  Speaker 2: have Viv who sent us a voicemail to 084-0000-947. Me
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  Speaker 2: and my partner recently broke up and we are currently
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  Speaker 2: having a debate on who gets the... And already you
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  Speaker 2: guys are guessing what the debate could be about. Definitely
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  Speaker 2: has to be the dog.
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  Speaker 3: The dog... That's definitely the dogs.
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  Speaker 4: So the debate is about probably, most probably about their pets.
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  Speaker 1: Pets.
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  Speaker 2: I really wish that was the debate because then we will...
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  Speaker 2: Then I would understand why we're even debating. It is
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  Speaker 2: not about that. Do you guys want to know what
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  Speaker 2: it's about?
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  Speaker 1: Please.
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  Speaker 5: Yep.
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  Speaker 3: Hi, Nelly in the club.
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  Speaker 6: I would please love your advice on something. Me and
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  Speaker 6: my partner recently broke up. And we are currently having
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  Speaker 6: a debate on who gets the TV as it was
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  Speaker 6: a purchase we made together. They are obviously arguing that
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  Speaker 6: they want to take the TV. But I do feel
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  Speaker 6: like my argument is much more valid because I am
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  Speaker 6: the one who is paying for the TV license.
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  Speaker 3: So please help me. What should I do?
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  Speaker 2: Her name is Viv, and this is currently what's rocking
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  Speaker 2: her world. And please do not roll your eyes and
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  Speaker 2: be like, come on, guys. If this is a problem
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  Speaker 2: in Viv's world, it's a problem in our.
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  Speaker 7: World, okay?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, and all of us have different things we're attached to.
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  Speaker 4: And the TV happens to be theirs, obviously. This is
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  Speaker 4: what they're sharing, right?
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  Speaker 8: Do we have questions, though? You cannot justify this. They
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  Speaker 8: should actually do us all a favor and stay together.
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  Speaker 8: None of us deserve to be exposed to either of
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  Speaker 8: them in future relationships.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, no, but you can tell her this yourself. Viv
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  Speaker 2: is on the line. Oh, Viv, let's tussle. Good morning, Viv.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to Anele and the Club.
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  Speaker 9: Good morning, Anele and the team.
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  Speaker 2: Morning, Viv. Okay, so everyone has a question here. Before
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  Speaker 2: we allow Johannesburg to start weighing in on this, there's
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  Speaker 2: a few questions that we need to ask.
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  Speaker 6: Okay.
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  Speaker 9: Yes.
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  Speaker 2: Who paid for the TV?
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  Speaker 9: Both of us.
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  Speaker 2: Equally split down the middle. How much was the TV,
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  Speaker 2: if I may ask?
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  Speaker 9: If I remember correctly, we bought it on special. It
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  Speaker 9: was like eight grand.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so that's four grand ahead.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah. We also got a soundbar with it.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, how much was the soundbar?
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  Speaker 9: It was included.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. Also, the thing is the person would have to
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  Speaker 2: take the TV with the soundbar. Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Where is the TV right now?
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  Speaker 9: It's in the living room.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, but whose house? Are you still with your partner?
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  Speaker 7: Yes, we are.
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  Speaker 9: We are still.
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  Speaker 2: You guys have broken up, but you're living together in
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  Speaker 2: separate rooms.
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  Speaker 9: Yes, that is correct. But we are making arrangements to move.
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  Speaker 4: Viv, I just have to say, I'm sorry that you
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  Speaker 4: guys broke up. Let's start there. But then, how recent
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  Speaker 4: is this?
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  Speaker 9: It happened about three months ago.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: You've been living together with a person you've broken up
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  Speaker 2: with for three months?
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  Speaker 5: Watching the same TV.
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  Speaker 9: We've been giving each other space.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, wonderful. I like that. I like that. Are you
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  Speaker 2: still splitting rent? I mean, I know we're fighting about
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  Speaker 2: the TV, but what about rent?
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, we are still splitting rent. And our lease only
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  Speaker 9: expires in six months.
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  Speaker 1: You got a lease for the next six months.
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  Speaker 4: So obviously one of you has then decided to stay
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  Speaker 4: and one is going to move out.
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  Speaker 1: Who's moving out?
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  Speaker 9: We're still debating on that as well.
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  Speaker 2: One of the many things you're debating, but the TV
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  Speaker 2: is the contentious one for now.
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  Speaker 9: Yes.
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  Speaker 5: And Viv, you're saying that because you pay the TV license,
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  Speaker 5: you're entitled to the whole TV.
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  Speaker 9: Yes. I would obviously pay her the other half.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, okay.
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  Speaker 2: And I understand what's happening here because you guys got
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  Speaker 2: this really good deal on special and the chances of
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  Speaker 2: you coming into a TV deal like this again is slim.
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  Speaker 2: This is why both of you want it because it's
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  Speaker 2: a nice TV and it's the soundbar.
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  Speaker 4: Yes.
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  Speaker 9: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Who initiated the break-up?
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  Speaker 9: It was kind of a mutual decision.
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  Speaker 2: There's no such.
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  Speaker 4: Viv, we can hear how we're ending up in this
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  Speaker 4: situation by the TV because everything sounds so amicable.
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  Speaker 1: We're trying to be amicable about everything.
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  Speaker 2: They're both such nice people. Let me ask the question differently.
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  Speaker 8: So you both had realized you didn't want to be
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  Speaker 8: with each other anymore, but who was brave enough to
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  Speaker 8: start the conversation?
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  Speaker 9: I would say I started it and then my ex
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  Speaker 9: ended it.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, so you dumped her. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: What?
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  Speaker 2: It's complicated, guys. Why does this matter for the TV, guys?
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  Speaker 9: You know breakups are complicated.
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  Speaker 4: To Cindy's question, Viv, why does this matter for the TV?
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  Speaker 4: We need context.
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  Speaker 5: Why?
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  Speaker 2: We need context.
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  Speaker 4: Because this all informs how we move towards.
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  Speaker 1: Who gets the TV.
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  Speaker 2: Because I, this is not a foolproof plan, but I
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  Speaker 2: also believe that the person who did the dumping... It's okay.
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  Speaker 2: They have already moved on because by the time you initiated,
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  Speaker 2: you're halfway down the road to another person. So you
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  Speaker 2: don't deserve a TV. It's the one that is hurt
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  Speaker 2: that must stay with the TV because they need to
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  Speaker 2: watch a lot of Netflix, eat a lot of ice cream.
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  Speaker 9: Why?
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  Speaker 2: They can just watch me walk away.
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  Speaker 5: No, because then people will just lie and say, I'm hurt.
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  Speaker 5: I deserve the TV.
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  Speaker 2: No, the person who initiated the breakup does not deserve
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  Speaker 2: the TV. So Viv, I'm on your partner's side.
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  Speaker 3: This is so awkward.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, well, Yes.
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  Speaker 9: They were the one who said they can't do this
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  Speaker 9: anymore first.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, the TV is yours then.
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  Speaker 4: I'm on your side and I'll tell you why. Because
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  Speaker 4: a TV license is for life. That thing, it's impossible
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  Speaker 4: to get rid of it. You will get messages from
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  Speaker 4: the SABC for the next 30 years about that TV.
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  Speaker 4: So I believe if the TV license is in your name,
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  Speaker 4: that TV comes with you.
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  Speaker 2: But then your partner is going to go on and
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  Speaker 2: try to buy another TV and have to open another
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  Speaker 2: TV license.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, for themselves.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, but for themselves.
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  Speaker 1: Exactly.
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  Speaker 5: 100%.
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  Speaker 9: That's how I'm seeing this as well.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you.
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  Speaker 9: You want to take the TV and leave me paying
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  Speaker 9: the TV license with no TV?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: No, because you can still take your TV license and
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  Speaker 5: buy another TV. But I think you should just put
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  Speaker 5: it on Facebook Marketplace and then split it.
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  Speaker 9: That's also an option.
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  Speaker 2: Also, this is a case of if I can't have
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  Speaker 2: this TV, no one else can.
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  Speaker 9: Oh.
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  Speaker 5: Hmm.
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  Speaker 9: No, I don't think that would happen.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so ideally you guys would like to reach a
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  Speaker 2: resolution of who gets the TV.
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  Speaker 9: Yes, yes. I just wanted to know what you guys
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  Speaker 9: would think. But at the end of the day, what happens, happens.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sorry you're going through a breakup and I think
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  Speaker 2: whoever is the one who's the most hurt, in this instance,
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  Speaker 2: it sounds like it's you because you're the one. You
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  Speaker 2: say that she said she can't do this anymore. She
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  Speaker 2: doesn't deserve the TV. You do. That's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: I'm on your side. Let me know when we fight. Well,
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  Speaker 2: you've got six months to figure it out. Okay. Any
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  Speaker 2: other questions for Viv?
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  Speaker 7: No, no?
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  Speaker 2: Press conference is done? Okay, wonderful. 011-8838-947-084-0000947. Can you weigh
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  Speaker 2: in on this one? Who should get the TV? Also,
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  Speaker 2: you can comment on our investigative journalism. Do you feel
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  Speaker 2: that we ask all the questions that you yourself in
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  Speaker 2: your car, in your office, at the gym, you would
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  Speaker 2: have wanted to ask Viv?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, because we have Viv's number.
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  Speaker 4: So we can, if there's a good question we think
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  Speaker 4: we've missed that you've brought up, we can get hold
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  Speaker 4: of Viv again.
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  Speaker 2: Can Viv get her ex on the phone?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, they're still sharing an apartment. You see, this
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  Speaker 1: is my thing, because there's always two sides to a story.
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  Speaker 2: No, but Viv sounds like she's sincere.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Mm-mm.
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  Speaker 2: That sounds sincere. Allegedly. Okay.
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  Speaker 5: 084-00-00947.
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  Speaker 2: Give us the voice notes there. We need your running commentary.
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  Speaker 2: We need your statements. We need your questions.
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  Speaker 4: You've always said this. There is no new problem in
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  Speaker 4: the world. So I'm sure someone has had to make
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  Speaker 4: this exact decision. How did you guys make it?
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  Speaker 3: Hi, Nelly and the club.
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  Speaker 6: I would please love your advice on something. Me and
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  Speaker 6: my partner recently broke up and we are currently... having
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  Speaker 6: a debate on who gets the TV, as it was
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  Speaker 6: a purchase we made together. They are obviously arguing that
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  Speaker 6: they want to.
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  Speaker 3: Take the TV.
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  Speaker 6: But I do feel like my argument is much more
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  Speaker 6: valid because I am the one who is paying for
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  Speaker 6: the TV license.
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  Speaker 3: So please help me. What should I do?
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  Speaker 7: Simple solution.
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  Speaker 2: They must just sell the TV, split the money, and
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  Speaker 2: then they top up. They buy themselves new TVs each.
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  Speaker 7: Oh, Viv, no, really.
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  Speaker 6: Move on, girl.
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  Speaker 3: Viv has the TV license.
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  Speaker 2: You can't keep a TV without a TV license. The
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  Speaker 2: TV belongs to Viv. Can I buy this TV and
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  Speaker 2: soundbar for 5K?
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  Speaker 8: What size TV is it?
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  Speaker 7: I can split the money.
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  Speaker 8: It's very easy.
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  Speaker 2: Rock, paper, scissors. End of the story.
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  Speaker 1: Best out of three. Winner takes it all. Wow, guys.
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  Speaker 2: Remind us to never get advice from you guys again.
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  Speaker 7: Jeepers.
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  Speaker 2: Because if it was, if they paid eight grand for it, right,
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  Speaker 2: they can't sell it. for the same amount of money.
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  Speaker 1: No, that five grand offer is a good offer for this.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but then it's two and a half each.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, then you're going to have to, and obviously you
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  Speaker 4: won't get it at the same price. You're going to add.
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  Speaker 2: Randeline, you in Westbury. What do you think?
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  Speaker 3: Hi, Neil in the club.
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  Speaker 9: How are you?
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  Speaker 2: We're good.
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  Speaker 7: How are you?
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  Speaker 2: Do you speak from experience?
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  Speaker 6: Tell us.
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  Speaker 9: I broke up with one of my exes.
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  Speaker 8: And when you're done, you.
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  Speaker 9: Just want to leave and get rid of this person.
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  Speaker 9: Even if you're leaving your clothes, your shoes, and you're
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  Speaker 9: just leaving with what you have on your.
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  Speaker 7: Back, you're gone.
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  Speaker 1: But Randeline.
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  Speaker 9: So they love each other.
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  Speaker 4: The question, Randeline, is are you still paying for a
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  Speaker 4: TV license for.
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  Speaker 1: A TV you don't own?
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  Speaker 2: If I want to get out, it's fine.
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  Speaker 9: I'll pay for it.
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  Speaker 2: Because the thing about a TV license, Wendeline, you can't
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  Speaker 2: pay it off. It is just something that follows you forever.
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  Speaker 9: That is so true.
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  Speaker 8: But I don't mind paying for the rest of my
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  Speaker 8: life as long as I got rid of that.
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  Speaker 9: Nasty ex of mine.
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  Speaker 2: So if you want to get out, you are out.
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  Speaker 4: So you're saying they still love each other and that
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  Speaker 4: couples therapy is cheaper than a new TV?
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  Speaker 9: Yes.
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  Speaker 7: That team is staying on that stand and that lease
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  Speaker 7: is going to be extended.
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  Speaker 2: Randeline, the reason I'm inclined to believe what you're saying
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  Speaker 2: is that they broke up three months ago. They are
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  Speaker 2: still in the same house. And they are going to
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  Speaker 2: be in there for another six months.
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  Speaker 4: But that could just be circumstances. So like because of circumstances,
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  Speaker 4: they can't just move out.
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  Speaker 1: They can't. Maybe financially just can't walk away. Frankie, I promise.
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  Speaker 7: If you want to get out, you'll leave without that TV.
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  Speaker 2: And you will literally go back home or go stay
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  Speaker 2: at a friend's place until the.
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  Speaker 5: Something.
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  Speaker 9: I'll live on the street as long as I am gone.
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  Speaker 7: Wow.
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  Speaker 9: No.
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't.
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  Speaker 2: She's laughing, so I'm crying. Yeah, okay. Randeline's just chucked
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  Speaker 2: another little spanner into the works, yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Verve.
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  Speaker 2: Are you still in love with your ex-partner? Present live-in partner.
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  Speaker 1: Good question to ask. Maybe we should get Viv back
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  Speaker 1: on the line.
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  Speaker 2: Frankie's literally taking notes, by the way. All the additional questions.
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  Speaker 2: Here's the voice note from Viv.
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  Speaker 6: Hi, Nelly in the club. I would please love your
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  Speaker 6: advice on something. Me and my partner recently broke up
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  Speaker 6: and we are currently having a debate on who gets
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  Speaker 6: the TV. As it was a purchase we made together.
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  Speaker 6: They are obviously arguing that they want to take the TV.
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  Speaker 6: But I do feel like my argument is much more
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  Speaker 6: valid because I am the one who is paying for
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  Speaker 6: the TV license.
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  Speaker 3: So please help me. What should I do? Huh.
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  Speaker 2: What's your solution around this one? Because also they bought
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  Speaker 2: the TV on special. It was eight grand. It came
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  Speaker 2: with the soundbar. If they split it down the middle
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  Speaker 2: now and they sell it on Facebook market, like Cindy says,
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  Speaker 2: they could probably get five grand, six at the most
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  Speaker 2: for it.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Look, the one way of doing this is maybe one
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  Speaker 4: takes the soundbar, one takes the TV. Because then at
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  Speaker 4: least I can listen to my music.
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  Speaker 2: But even that's going to cause a debate because I
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  Speaker 2: think the TV is the prize, not necessarily the soundbar.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Do you know what I'm saying? It's like, oh, you
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  Speaker 2: take the fork, I take the knife.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Hi, Nele in the club.
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  Speaker 6: I would please love your advice on something. Me and
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  Speaker 6: my partner recently broke up and we are currently having
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  Speaker 6: a debate on who gets the TV as it was
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  Speaker 6: a purchase we made together. They are obviously arguing that
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  Speaker 6: they want to take the TV. But I do feel
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  Speaker 6: like my argument is much more valid because I am
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  Speaker 6: the one who is paying for the TV licence.
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  Speaker 3: So please help me. What should I do?
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  Speaker 2: This is so much easier.
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  Speaker 1: Just don't get involved. Just stay single.
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  Speaker 8: It's much better than fighting other TV and licenses and y'all.
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  Speaker 6: She probably paid her partner's half already by paying the
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  Speaker 6: TV license.
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  Speaker 3: It's her TV. She must just keep it.
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  Speaker 2: I think I'm with Cindy on this one. Just sell
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  Speaker 2: the TV and then split the amount that you make
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  Speaker 2: in half and then you can save up for a
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  Speaker 2: brand new TV of your own.
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  Speaker 7: Our suggestion is whoever's taking the TV, take the TV and.
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  Speaker 8: The other one just doesn't pay one month's rent and
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  Speaker 8: buy your own TV.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, okay.
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  Speaker 2: That's a solution. V, you're in Sunning Hill. Morning, morning, guys.
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  Speaker 9: How are you?
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  Speaker 2: We are fantastic. How are you?
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  Speaker 9: I'm good, thank you. Guys, when you're done, you're done.
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  Speaker 2: There's no need for petty fights.
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  Speaker 9: You will leave those.
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  Speaker 2: Things behind and you will move on.
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  Speaker 9: I've been there. Just let go. I had to buy
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  Speaker 9: things with this person.
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  Speaker 7: We agreed.
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  Speaker 9: You're buying a TV. You're buying a couch or washing machine, fridge.
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  Speaker 9: We split the stuff like that. Came the time when
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  Speaker 9: I had to leave. I asked for what I had bought.
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  Speaker 3: He refused.
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  Speaker 9: Took him to civil. He used the marriage card because
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  Speaker 9: he had paid Lobola. And I was like, you know what?
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  Speaker 9: For my peace, let me just let him be and
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  Speaker 9: keep the stuff.
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  Speaker 2: The worst part, he had a lot more.
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  Speaker 9: To lose if I wanted to continue with the divorce
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  Speaker 9: case that he was claiming. But then I was like,
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  Speaker 9: you know what? I'm not about that life.
• 16:06
  Speaker 2: Because wait, so you believe, and it probably was the truth,
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: that he wanted to keep you in a fight because
• 16:13
  Speaker 2: he just wanted to keep you around to frustrate you.
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: And you were just like, dude, I'm done. Don't love
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: you no more. I want to be out of here.
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: I want to break free.
• 16:19
  Speaker 9: Yes, exactly. But guess what? He still found ways to
• 16:22
  Speaker 9: frustrate me to this day. This is like four years
• 16:24
  Speaker 9: later now.
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: Did you guys have kids?
• 16:26
  Speaker 9: Did the child involve?
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 16:29
  Speaker 9: So now I'm going in an article of court. Now
• 16:32
  Speaker 9: he wants to take the child away from me. And
• 16:35
  Speaker 9: I'm just like, my guy.
• 16:37
  Speaker 7: Oh, man.
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: Do you guys both live in Johannesburg?
• 16:40
  Speaker 9: Yes. Unfortunately, we literally live eight minutes apart.
• 16:45
  Speaker 4: For the kid, obviously, so that you can co-parent.
• 16:48
  Speaker 9: I didn't want to take the child out from that school.
• 16:51
  Speaker 9: And so I was like, you know what? I'll stick
• 16:54
  Speaker 9: around in the area for the sake of the child.
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: And I really thought, you know what?
• 16:58
  Speaker 9: It was a mutual agreement for us to separate because
• 17:00
  Speaker 9: we were just not working out. Little did I know.
• 17:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 17:04
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: No, but he just wanted to keep you around to
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: frustrate you. And what are the type of things that
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: he got away with?
• 17:11
  Speaker 9: So I had bought the lounge sets, basically. The entire
• 17:14
  Speaker 9: lounge sets, couch, dining table, TV, coffee table. And he
• 17:19
  Speaker 9: had bought the washing machine and the fridge. So it
• 17:23
  Speaker 9: was like an equal contribution.
• 17:25
  Speaker 8: I left everything.
• 17:26
  Speaker 9: I started from scratch. Walked into an empty apartment, started
• 17:31
  Speaker 9: from scratch.
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: Is he good with his finances?
• 17:36
  Speaker 9: It's so good.
• 17:36
  Speaker 7: You have no idea.
• 17:37
  Speaker 9: When I say he had a lot more to lose
• 17:39
  Speaker 9: if I had gone with a divorce. This person owns property,
• 17:43
  Speaker 9: drives a three times better car than I do. But
• 17:46
  Speaker 9: then I was like, you know what? I don't want
• 17:48
  Speaker 9: to go through this with him.
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's just not a nice person.
• 17:51
  Speaker 9: Now I'm just hoping that since they said on the 31st,
• 17:54
  Speaker 9: all the customary marriages that wasn't registered is going to
• 17:57
  Speaker 9: be dissolved and nullified. I hope that's the case.
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: Then you can just walk away scot-free without having to
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: deal with him again.
• 18:04
  Speaker 6: Yes.
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: Well, good luck, my angel. And yeah, thank you for
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: this insight. So what you're saying to Viv is, bruh,
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: just leave the TV and leave there for your own
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: peace of mind. It is a small price. Your peace
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: is an expensive thing.
• 18:18
  Speaker 4: Yeah, look, I'm going to say it's never just about
• 18:20
  Speaker 4: the TV, is it? That's the problem.
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: Is it Gerard or is it Gerard?
• 18:27
  Speaker 7: It's Gerard. Good morning, Anele and the club.
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: Morning, Gerard.
• 18:32
  Speaker 7: How are you guys doing today?
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: Nosy, as always. We're a bunch of nosy parkers, I'll
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: tell you that much. Serhat, how are you doing today?
• 18:41
  Speaker 7: I'm great, thank you.
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: You know, you sound so cheerful and so full of
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: joy that I don't know what you could bring to
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: this conversation. So now I'm all ears.
• 18:52
  Speaker 7: Anelis, so 13 years, 14 years ago, I went through
• 18:55
  Speaker 7: a breakup.
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: And....
• 18:59
  Speaker 7: It was quite a bad breakup. But fortunately, I had
• 19:03
  Speaker 7: like six months that I detached emotionally. So when he said, okay,
• 19:10
  Speaker 7: it's done. We're going to split up. I was like, great.
• 19:13
  Speaker 7: We bought a house together. I said, I refuse to move.
• 19:19
  Speaker 7: Whatever we brought into the relationship, we keep. And the
• 19:25
  Speaker 7: rest of the stuff you can take. On the day
• 19:28
  Speaker 7: that he moved out, my staff arrived, and I literally
• 19:34
  Speaker 7: had to tell him, move your fridge, my fridge is
• 19:36
  Speaker 7: coming in.
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: Wow.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: But you guys split everything 50-50?
• 19:41
  Speaker 7: Well, like I said, whatever we brought into the relationship,
• 19:46
  Speaker 7: each one kept his own, Okay. And the rest of
• 19:49
  Speaker 7: the stuff he had to take.
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: And just for interest sake, when he then moved his
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: fridge and he moved out, did he move out with
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: the contents of the fridge? Or did you guys also
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: go into the fridge and be like, that's my jam,
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: that's my peanut butter. You know, that's my tomato.
• 20:03
  Speaker 4: Auntie Mari's jam is mine now.
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, do you know what I'm saying? Did you guys
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: split the contents?
• 20:08
  Speaker 7: Exactly like that. Wow.
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: Okay, so you said he moved out. Therefore, did you
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: buy him out of the house?
• 20:16
  Speaker 7: I did that. He came with a proposal to say, well,
• 20:20
  Speaker 7: I paid so much towards the house. And I said,
• 20:23
  Speaker 7: you know what? No one lives for free. You're paying
• 20:27
  Speaker 7: rent here. So I will pay you out the interest
• 20:31
  Speaker 7: that we paid over the years on the house.
• 20:34
  Speaker 9: Wow. Wow.
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: And are you still in that house?
• 20:39
  Speaker 7: No, I met someone else a couple of years later.
• 20:44
  Speaker 7: and I sold that house. Ah, you see.
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: Because also now you're still walking around in the house
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: that you shared with your partner, so it must be
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: a little bit triggering.
• 20:55
  Speaker 7: Yeah, luckily, like I said, I had six months to
• 21:00
  Speaker 7: emotionally detach, so I was pretty good.
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: Okay. So what are you saying to Viv? Must she
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: just let the TV go?
• 21:09
  Speaker 7: I think so. I mean, if there are.
• 21:14
  Speaker 7: Like battling over a TV, she's just going to have
• 21:18
  Speaker 7: bad memories every time she looks at that TV.
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: In any case. Yes. Yeah, okay.
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: A small price to pay for your piece. Just let
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: the TV go over.
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: The city, the country, the world at large has spoken,
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: my angel. Just let the TV go. In fact, just
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: split the money.
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, or sell it.
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so don't fight to keep it.
• 21:43
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: Don't fight to keep.
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: It, yeah.
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: Like, just be like, okay, let's sell it. Failing, which
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: doesn't sell it, and you guys go half-half, just say,
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: take the TV and then make up for it in
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: another thing. Because I'm pretty sure there are other things
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: that you guys both own.
• 21:55
  Speaker 9: Yeah. Right? Yeah.
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: And you're like, okay, fine, I'll take the lounge shoot,
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: you take the TV. And that's on word.
• 22:01
  Speaker 9: Take it back now.
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: Back to making your morning.
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: In LA and the club.
• 22:06
  Speaker 9: I love this show.
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: On 947.