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Boundaries Aren't Meant to Control Anyone

One of the biggest mistakes I see parents making when it comes to boundaries is when they make a boundary hoping that it will change their teen's behavior.

Anytime you are hoping to change your teen's behavior, that is more of a manual or manipulation than it is a boundary.

Boundaries aren't meant to control anyone, especially not the other person.

It is important to remember that you cannot control anyone other than yourself.

Any effort made to control your teenager is an example of your focus being on things outside of your…

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