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Soarin’ High · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Tilly and Tanya rap an iHeartRadio podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Hello, everybody, we are scrubbing in. She's getting her dingle.
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  Speaker 3: Scrub a dova, scrub a deva scrub a deva scrub
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  Speaker 3: a dub dumb.
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  Speaker 2: That one was not so good. I was gonna say
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  Speaker 2: that didn't have a known tune to make Straight from
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  Speaker 2: your dome, Straight from the Dome. I can't believe no
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  Speaker 2: one's asked why why I'm not wearing a shirt today?
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  Speaker 4: You are wearing a sh.
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  Speaker 2: Right. I can't tell you said anything.
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  Speaker 5: My gosh, that was the most dad joke.
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  Speaker 6: I know.
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  Speaker 2: It's so dad that Mark didn't even get in. I'm wow,
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  Speaker 2: you are wearing a shirt today.
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  Speaker 5: I was like, I'm confused. Is it like the national
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  Speaker 5: no shirt Day?
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  Speaker 2: Anywaysgifica Saidnyboy didn't pick that up. Yeah, I have camel.
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  Speaker 2: It's really cute, though. I'm gonna need one of those people.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: How you doing, did good? How you doing? Yeah? Yeah? Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Do you have a RESTful weekend?
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  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, rest recharge. Let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 3: Tell me about the circle of life. The circle of life.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, rest is so important.
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  Speaker 3: It is such a crucial element to our lives that
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  Speaker 3: we do not allow ourselves to do. Often, don't say
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  Speaker 3: we collectively as a we everybody's hustling and bustling, don't
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  Speaker 3: you agree.
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  Speaker 2: We Our society encourages and promotes the hustle and bustle
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  Speaker 2: more than it promotes rest.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but even when you have kids, you can't really
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  Speaker 3: stop the hustle bustle.
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  Speaker 5: It just goes. The train just goes, you know, right.
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  Speaker 3: So yeah, I when I hit my nine hours and
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  Speaker 3: I get full rem on my or ring, It's like
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  Speaker 3: I'm a new person and I'm in my follicular phase,
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  Speaker 3: which means I'm like riding high like I am. I'm
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  Speaker 3: like California is soaring and I am on my way
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  Speaker 3: up to that top of that peak.
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  Speaker 2: I love California story.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know it's not called that anymore. Well it's
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  Speaker 1: actually never called.
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  Speaker 2: That, but soaring over California. But now but they go
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  Speaker 2: they went.
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  Speaker 7: Back east, they go back periodically. Right now, it is
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  Speaker 7: soaring over the world.
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  Speaker 2: They go back that fast.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, it's a bummer especially or something. Yeah with the
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  Speaker 7: bendy Eiffel Tower, you know.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I like I like soaring over California better we're
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  Speaker 2: talking about a ride at Disneyland. By the way, the simulation,
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  Speaker 2: you know, it doesn't.
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  Speaker 3: Need to be in California, it could be any incorporated
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  Speaker 3: into any you're high, yeah, yeah, sore and high. Sorry,
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  Speaker 3: iangent your local roller coaster, yeah, your regional the exactly.
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  Speaker 5: Imagine that on its way up.
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  Speaker 2: And so that's where you are right now. Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 2: post So you got a total of like twenty seven
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  Speaker 2: hours of sleep.
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  Speaker 5: Glorious, twenty percent plus a ram each night.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, is that the goal twenty percent?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, yeah, oh yeah, that's is great news. You
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  Speaker 2: did wedding planning, oh my gosh, so much what seemed
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  Speaker 2: to be a very long family meeting unless you were
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  Speaker 2: just posting, oh so long.
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  Speaker 3: The whole weekend was a family meeting. It was glorious.
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  Speaker 3: But I will say I am so over hearing football
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  Speaker 3: all day on Sunday, Like I just like, I'm I
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  Speaker 3: need to get out of the house, is what I've realized.
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  Speaker 5: So that'll be on my to do this next weekend.
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  Speaker 2: I wonder if there's a way where he can have
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  Speaker 2: it on and then there's like music playing in the house,
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  Speaker 2: so it's like he's watching but you're not having to
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  Speaker 2: hear it because Hailey likes having We've gotten to the
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  Speaker 2: point where like sometimes if there's a game on, we'll
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  Speaker 2: put it on just as like background for playing games
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  Speaker 2: or something I love. I grew up. It's very nostalgic
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  Speaker 2: to me to have a game playing, right, But I'm
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  Speaker 2: not sitting on the couch watching all weekend. It's more
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  Speaker 2: like background noise if we're cooking or playing a game,
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  Speaker 2: whatever it is. But Haley can't stand the like them
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  Speaker 2: talking back and forth. She's like, oh, the men are like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: and now he threw it. This barn doesn't get it.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm like, oh, if it's just on a low
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  Speaker 2: setting or we have music playing, it's kind of like
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  Speaker 2: visually you can watch what's going on. It's just it's
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  Speaker 2: worth an effort. It's worth an efforts.
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  Speaker 5: It's worth a toss out. It's the float, the idea.
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  Speaker 2: Bye. Yeah, you just won't be able to play like
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  Speaker 2: your repeat offenders over and over again like that, like
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  Speaker 2: you tend to do. Right.
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  Speaker 5: How was your weekend?
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  Speaker 2: My weekend was good. We went to what did I
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  Speaker 2: do for this weekend?
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  Speaker 5: So if you think back, yesterday was Sunday, yes and
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  Speaker 5: in the day before.
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  Speaker 2: It was Saturday and Friday, Yeah, yeah, yeah, I just
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  Speaker 2: can't remember what happened Friday. Yesterday. I went to church,
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  Speaker 2: which I don't I haven't been to church, I think
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  Speaker 2: since Haley took me to that church which I talked
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  Speaker 2: about podcast and that was like two years ago. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it's been a minute. Which did you go to? I
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  Speaker 2: went to this one called New Abbey because I've heard
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  Speaker 2: of it. Keana was singing worship like she was singing
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  Speaker 2: worship and so she had invited me, and so was
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  Speaker 2: my first time. And I've never I'm not like anti
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  Speaker 2: church at all. I just I think going through my
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  Speaker 2: journey of kind of deconstructing and then reconstructing my faith,
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  Speaker 2: it's just always been like A hadn't found one. It
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  Speaker 2: kind of takes effort to find one that you really like.
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  Speaker 2: So when she invited me, I was like, oh, I
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  Speaker 2: can go see her singing, so if it's a church
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  Speaker 2: that I like. And it was so great. It felt
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  Speaker 2: so good to be there and like be in that
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  Speaker 2: environment and always does. And then we went and had lunch,
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  Speaker 2: and then I went on a long walk with Phoebe
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  Speaker 2: and then I started I felt like I was going down.
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  Speaker 2: I felt like I was getting sick. Oh no, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: but I feel fine today.
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  Speaker 5: How do we feel now? Your neck all day?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, well that was a choice. I didn't invite you
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  Speaker 2: in there. That was a forced upon me and yourself. Yeah, true,
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  Speaker 2: but I feel good. I took some oil over Regano
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  Speaker 2: wellness formula from from Whole Foods. Feeling great. Okay, I
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  Speaker 2: have a me. My immune system is built from strong
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  Speaker 2: an ox.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, the Fronco sure yea sponsored by Ford.
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  Speaker 2: So yeah, that's what I did. And then I feel
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  Speaker 2: like I did something Saturday and I can't remember what
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  Speaker 2: it was. What was it? I literally don't Oh no,
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  Speaker 2: we didn't do anything. We just played games.
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  Speaker 4: What games?
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  Speaker 2: We played? Code Names. That's our favorite game.
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  Speaker 4: I think I've played that. It's so fun, fun.
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  Speaker 2: It's so fun. And then okay, so there's this app
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  Speaker 2: I guess if you play Wordle. You know this. I
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  Speaker 2: just recently got into playing Wordle, which is like three
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  Speaker 2: years lay, but I love it. I played every day.
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  Speaker 2: And then there's this other game on the New York
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  Speaker 2: Times app that's called Connections, and I realized I love
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  Speaker 2: that game and it's kind of like Code Names, like
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  Speaker 2: it's the same concept of trying to.
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  Speaker 1: Play code names. I can from it now. It's very fun.
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  Speaker 1: But I've played Connections for since it started.
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  Speaker 2: I love Connections, by the way.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like to brag, but in a couple of days,
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  Speaker 1: I'm doing my thousandth wordle wow wow, thank you very much.
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  Speaker 2: Well, now there's this cute little thing because I've just
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  Speaker 2: always done it by myself, like i never have invited
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  Speaker 2: Haley and because I'm like, maybe she doesn't want to
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  Speaker 2: do this, so she now we do it together. So
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  Speaker 2: if she's are we going to do our wordle and Connections?
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  Speaker 2: And are many crosswords?
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  Speaker 7: So it's so little Alison, did I do this every
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  Speaker 7: night in bed together?
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  Speaker 2: That nothing makes me happier than being on the.
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  Speaker 4: Same we we do.
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  Speaker 7: Uh we kind of react out loud as we're playing
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  Speaker 7: the games, but then during the mini you need complete
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  Speaker 7: focus because it's timed. Yes, so we do this thing
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  Speaker 7: outside of kill me. I'm saying this on the bob Bit,
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  Speaker 7: She'll say, I'm doing the mini. Silence is golden, Like,
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  Speaker 7: shut up, I'm trying to focus here.
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  Speaker 4: My record on the mini is six seconds.
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  Speaker 5: I literally have no idea what.
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  Speaker 4: You're talking six seconds I did it.
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  Speaker 1: My record for a long time was eight and then
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  Speaker 1: I got to six six seconds. No, the mini crosswords
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  Speaker 1: what it's the New York Times puzzles?
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  Speaker 2: But I don't know it. You should do you and
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  Speaker 2: Robbie would love to do this.
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  Speaker 5: That's word every day.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you should do it with him. It's really fun.
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  Speaker 2: It's really good and fast.
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  Speaker 4: Everybody does connections too, and you could do that.
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  Speaker 2: With him probably. That's really fun.
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  Speaker 7: Strands is very fun too. I'm big into strand.
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  Speaker 2: Introduce her to Strands.
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  Speaker 4: I don't like it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's that's our new Wow, we're just getting
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  Speaker 2: younger and younger. What time of day do you do
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  Speaker 2: the puzzles at night? Okay, like as we're getting to bed.
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  Speaker 7: Me too, and everyone else i've met says they do
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  Speaker 7: it first thing in the morning so it doesn't get spoiled,
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  Speaker 7: and also like to wake their brain up. But I
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  Speaker 7: look forward to it all day. It's like when I
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  Speaker 7: look forward to the most.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't think I follow anyone that
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  Speaker 2: spoils this.
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  Speaker 5: From I don't.
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  Speaker 7: I don't either. Really cool people better talk about sports
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  Speaker 7: and stuff.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, well it was it was nice to be
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  Speaker 2: home I'm going to Louisiana to see my nephews play
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  Speaker 2: football then their football games next week.
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  Speaker 4: Fun.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so they all so, they're they're age range is
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  Speaker 2: fifteen to he'll be eight eight. Yeah, fifteen to eight, okay,
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  Speaker 2: And they all play football and I've never They've all
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  Speaker 2: played football for years, like flag football and stuff. But
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  Speaker 2: my oldest nephew is in like high school football now.
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  Speaker 2: So now that they're all playing, I was like, I'm
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  Speaker 2: just going to go and spend the you know, four
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  Speaker 2: days watching.
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  Speaker 1: Can I tell you something at high school fotball? What
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  Speaker 1: I love high school football? And here's why it is
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  Speaker 1: frozen in time. If you're at a high school football
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  Speaker 1: game and I've played this game and it's really fun,
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  Speaker 1: you sit there and you try to think of any
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  Speaker 1: reason it's not It could It couldn't be the nineties.
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  Speaker 1: It couldn't be the eighties. It couldn't be the seventies.
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  Speaker 1: It's exactly the same. The scoreboards have not been upgraded.
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  Speaker 1: The feels the same, The whistle the refs are using
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  Speaker 1: the same. Is it still their thrown of the black?
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  Speaker 1: You still don't understand the announcer. It still sounds like
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  Speaker 1: crowd the marching band. The only difference I could find is,
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  Speaker 1: of course everyone in the crowd is staring at these
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  Speaker 1: black rectangles in their poems, and the music the band's
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  Speaker 1: playing is often from this decade or a recent decade.
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  Speaker 1: Other than that, this moment could be the fifties, it
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  Speaker 1: could be any decade. And that's what I love about
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  Speaker 1: high school football.
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  Speaker 2: That's so true. I haven't been to a high school
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  Speaker 2: football game, and I would say since maybe I was.
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  Speaker 1: I hadn till my daughter's got to the high school.
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  Speaker 1: Then I was there, Oh bless you, and then I
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  Speaker 1: was like, wow, this is completely unchanged. It's fascinating.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to take note of that.
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  Speaker 1: But how many things in the world right now are unchanged?
• 10:35
  Speaker 1: Let me tell you toasters ketchup.
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  Speaker 4: That's a good one.
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  Speaker 2: Ketchup, like you know, like the packet style, like the
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  Speaker 2: little you know. True, but my mom said she was like,
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  Speaker 2: I was really fascinated because all the high school girls
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  Speaker 2: had the exact same out fit on. She was I
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  Speaker 2: literally thought it was a uniform that they were all in.
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  Speaker 2: What were they wearing just like the like the tennis
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  Speaker 2: skirt with like a little T shirt, you know, just
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  Speaker 2: like a very tiktokie like, and I said, well, it's
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  Speaker 2: different now with social media because they see what other
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  Speaker 2: people are wearing, so then they go, well, I want
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  Speaker 2: to wear that, so then they put that on. So
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  Speaker 2: she was like, there was no, Yeah, there's just they
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  Speaker 2: were all on the same thing, to the point where
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  Speaker 2: I thought it was a uniform.
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  Speaker 1: They that's alarming any because they rebel against uniforms, and
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  Speaker 1: yet they all kind of flock to their own uniforms.
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  Speaker 2: I wore uniforms, and I loved having a uniform.
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  Speaker 4: Interesting.
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  Speaker 2: I loved it. I loved it was never a thought
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  Speaker 2: that I had to think about what I was gonna wear. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: just set out for me. But I did have to
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  Speaker 2: battle getting my skirt a little shorter than the rules were. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: which was fun. Yeah, mom, come on, just like half
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  Speaker 2: an inch more.
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  Speaker 5: I would always roll my skirt when I got out
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  Speaker 5: of the corner, but.
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  Speaker 2: Everyone would get in trouble whatever, and you roll it
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  Speaker 2: back down.
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  Speaker 3: It's they come with a credit card, didn't Mine always
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  Speaker 3: had to be a credit card above.
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  Speaker 2: The knee our fingertips.
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  Speaker 5: Oh yeah, mine was a credit card above the knee.
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  Speaker 4: Getting paid for your skirt leg.
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  Speaker 5: No, no, no, now, that would be an interesting school.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so that was not it. Did you all have
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  Speaker 2: any interesting things happen over the weekend?
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  Speaker 7: I went, I was in New York last week because
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  Speaker 7: I wasn't here, I was so jealous. It was so
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  Speaker 7: much fun. I was with Uh, well, I was there
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  Speaker 7: for work. But when we uh, when we weren't at work,
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  Speaker 7: Alson came with me. We did something every night we
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  Speaker 7: were We were in New York for a week and
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  Speaker 7: we saw O Mary, this incredible play. Uh that's by Uh.
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  Speaker 7: It's so so funny and if you're in New York,
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  Speaker 7: you should see Oh Mary.
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  Speaker 2: Uh.
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  Speaker 7: We went to the Jimmy Fallon Haunted House. We went
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  Speaker 7: to this like Pumpkin Maze thing in upstate New York.
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  Speaker 7: We went to uh Sleepy Hall. We seen Sleeping Hall
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  Speaker 7: of for a couple of days, went on the cemetery tour.
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  Speaker 4: And uh.
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  Speaker 7: Then we went to the second largest mall in America.
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  Speaker 7: And I was talking to Mark actually while we were
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  Speaker 7: driving to the airport, and I went to the American
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  Speaker 7: Dream Mall in New Jersey and had a great time.
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  Speaker 7: And that's that's what we did last week.
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  Speaker 2: Is it second to mall of America?
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  Speaker 7: Here's the thing. Wikipedia says that American Dream Mall is
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  Speaker 7: the biggest, but then the American Dream Mall's website says
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  Speaker 7: the Mall of America is the biggest by a million
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  Speaker 7: square feet, like a significant margin. So I posted ratic.
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  Speaker 7: A lot of people say Mall of America is bigger. Whatever,
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  Speaker 7: you know, American Dream is pretty big.
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  Speaker 2: A million square feet, yeah, four.
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  Speaker 7: Million square feet from all of America. I believe American
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  Speaker 7: Dream is three million. They have three theme parks inside
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  Speaker 7: that mall.
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  Speaker 1: It's amazing that malls are dying like crazy, but yet
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  Speaker 1: these two malls seem to be the ecosystems.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, we went to Minnesota, went for a family trip
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  Speaker 2: to go to Mall of America.
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  Speaker 7: Oh my god, I'm so jealous.
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  Speaker 4: How was it?
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  Speaker 2: It's good? I mean, And then I went. I went
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  Speaker 2: the first time I flew out to visit Haley on tour.
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  Speaker 2: When I surprised her we went to Mall of America.
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  Speaker 2: I won her I want a basketball from shooting a basketball,
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  Speaker 2: she was like, she you know, when you see someone
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  Speaker 2: they have like hard eyes like she had when I
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  Speaker 2: made the shot, it was like a hard eye emoji.
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  Speaker 7: How good?
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  Speaker 2: Wow? And then we rode the roller coaster inside the mall,
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  Speaker 2: which I couldn't compute that I was on a roller
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  Speaker 2: coaster in the mall. That was kind of weird.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's like how the roller coasters are in Vegas.
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  Speaker 3: Like in Circus Circus, there's there's like those. It's not
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  Speaker 3: a theme park.
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  Speaker 2: Is it a theme park?
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  Speaker 3: I'm not really sure, but it's in circus Circus. You're
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  Speaker 3: in a ride, but you're in like a casino.
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  Speaker 4: It's weird, weird circus circus.
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  Speaker 7: That's my tradition. At the iHeart festivals, I always do
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  Speaker 7: the New York New York roller Coaster. Another one that's
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  Speaker 7: so fine and so scary because it's a casino, not
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  Speaker 7: a theme park, and they don't know how to maintain
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  Speaker 7: that thing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, scary. Gambling, gambling your life, Mark, How is the
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  Speaker 2: oldest daughter in college going?
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  Speaker 1: I'm better better the first few weeks with a little rocky,
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  Speaker 1: but things are going better now. She has joined a sorority.
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: Tany actually gave her some good console sorority life. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: she's an Alpha coy Omega whatever that o to go?
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  Speaker 6: Do you know?
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  Speaker 2: I was, I was a legacy and I for Alpha
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  Speaker 2: ca Omega and I was Sickmacapa. It was. It was drama.
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  Speaker 4: Gosh, yeah, wow, So what does that mean? Your mom
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  Speaker 4: was alpha?
• 15:11
  Speaker 2: My all my aunts and my mom, oh my god,
• 15:14
  Speaker 2: and my cousin.
• 15:15
  Speaker 4: What a rebel.
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: I didn't even realize. I was just like, well, my
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: friends are going to so I'm going to sick Ma Kappa. Yeah,
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: it was a thing.
• 15:25
  Speaker 4: So she did that. That's fun.
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: She also joined an a cappella group, so that's fun.
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: So she's got her social circles kind of lined up.
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: Her classes are set because it takes you weeks because
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: you're on waiting lifts and all that has to kind
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: of play out.
• 15:34
  Speaker 4: And it did. And we're going down this weekend for
• 15:36
  Speaker 4: parents weekend.
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.
• 15:38
  Speaker 7: What's the name of the a cappella group?
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: Uh, Daughters of Triton. They're the Tritons. They're the Daughters
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: of Tried and the Dots for short.
• 15:46
  Speaker 4: So it's cute. Some of them are cuter, some names
• 15:48
  Speaker 4: are cute than others. But they all have the cute
• 15:49
  Speaker 4: little names. Love it. Yeah.
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: And then my other daughter, on Friday nights, we go
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: out to pizza places and rate them. Do you think
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: we do like a TikTok or something. She's too embarrassed
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: to do that, so we just kind of do it.
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: And I tell you it's so genius.
• 16:03
  Speaker 4: I thought it'd be cute, like a daddy daughter piece
• 16:05
  Speaker 4: of Yeah, I don't think you already have the girl.
• 16:08
  Speaker 2: The scrubbers will be like, oh, yeah, it could be fun.
• 16:12
  Speaker 4: But she didn't mind it. But we still do it
• 16:14
  Speaker 4: in our notes app. It's a funny tradition we have
• 16:16
  Speaker 4: and then may get ice cream and go to Tifa
• 16:18
  Speaker 4: and get ice cream and play games. That's so fun,
• 16:20
  Speaker 4: And I started, nobody wants this and it's great. It's
• 16:23
  Speaker 4: really good.
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: I message her, trying to ask her to come. No,
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: I didn't. I just said I sent like a really
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: nice message, like I've been a fan for song. It's
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: so fun to see you. Like if she respond no,
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: I don't even think she saw it. But if she does,
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: happen to open it one.
• 16:37
  Speaker 5: Day she's like, we just need the scene and then
• 16:40
  Speaker 5: just get in there.
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: What's the scene so that she saw it?
• 16:44
  Speaker 5: Would you come on our podcast? We would love to
• 16:46
  Speaker 5: have you on our podcast. Your story is very similar to.
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: My podcast co hosts. I would love for you to come. Yeah, discuss,
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: but we did invite her on.
• 16:59
  Speaker 4: Let me tell you thing you talking about you're talking
• 17:02
  Speaker 4: about a.
• 17:03
  Speaker 3: Let me tell you a life lesson I learned many
• 17:06
  Speaker 3: many years ago. Someone's no today could be a yes tomorrow.
• 17:12
  Speaker 3: Just because it's a no today does not mean it's
• 17:14
  Speaker 3: a no.
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: Maybe for season two she'll be she'll maybe we have
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: so we'll have time to'll work on that.
• 17:20
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, so I'm not I'm not. I
• 17:24
  Speaker 5: might be down, but we're not out.
• 17:26
  Speaker 6: No.
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: No, Well, I did want to discuss there was a
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: recent breakup in Bachelor Nation and abroad. There was, but
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: we'll talk about it right when we come back with this,
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: all right.
• 17:56
  Speaker 3: I crossed the line in my relationship this weekend that
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: I wasn't sure I wanted to discussed.
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: But I will discuss. Yeah, before we talk about the
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: breakup that has happened, I want to talk about something
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: that that that hasn't broken you and Robbie yet. No,
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: it has not.
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: But it was a boundary that I never wanted to
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: cross that unfortunately had to get cross this weekend.
• 18:15
  Speaker 6: And so.
• 18:20
  Speaker 3: I'm constipated like all the time the weekend, just like chronically,
• 18:27
  Speaker 3: like I don't use the restroom every single day like
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: most people. Most people go multiple times a day. I don't,
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: so it's very exciting when I do. So the other day,
• 18:37
  Speaker 3: I was excited. I did what I had to do,
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: and that is the one time that the toilet did
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: not flush. So let me tell you something about your girl, Tanya.
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: She knows her way around a plunger.
• 18:49
  Speaker 5: I am a modern woman. I have plunged for decades
• 18:52
  Speaker 5: on my own.
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: I know how to use it.
• 18:54
  Speaker 3: I have like a really good technique, like I've always like,
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: I just know how to use a plunger. I never
• 18:58
  Speaker 3: asked him to plunge anything ever, because I can do
• 19:01
  Speaker 3: it up myself, right, So I'm like doing it. And
• 19:04
  Speaker 3: when I tell you, I was doing it for like
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: twenty five minutes, I was getting sore.
• 19:08
  Speaker 5: I was like sweating. I was like it's not working.
• 19:11
  Speaker 3: I'm not getting the angle, like something's just like not happening.
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: And I'm like panicking because I'm just like I have
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: to do this. And then I was like, uh, we
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: just had the plumber come out the day before because
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: we had something stuck in our garbage disposal literally the
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: day before, and I like peek over and I'm like baby,
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: we might need to call Benny to come back. And
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: he was like, we're not calling Benny because to plunge
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: the toilet like I'm going to go up there. And
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: I was like no, no, oh, you gave up and
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: went downstairs. I had to give up because I was sweating.
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: It was like twenty five minutes and me like working
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: at it, and I was like I can't do it anymore.
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: I can't do it and I can't leave it. Yeah,
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: so how to let him do it he needs to
• 19:51
  Speaker 3: do yeah, And he just did it and didn't even
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: like comment nothing in two seconds?
• 19:57
  Speaker 5: Do we know that relief within two seconds?
• 20:02
  Speaker 4: And I was just like, what did you do differently?
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Did you ask him about his technique? And I
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: watched it.
• 20:07
  Speaker 3: Oh, it was a plunge, but he does like a
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: multiple plunge like I plunge it and then I let it.
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: No, you do little yeah, little like just in I
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: appreciate that my touch the microphone gros. Yeah.
• 20:28
  Speaker 5: So that happened the wedding Solon Yeah, and uh, we'll
• 20:35
  Speaker 5: never talk about it again.
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: It's so funny because when stuff like that happens with
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: Haley and I, she's like, I don't want to talk
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: about that never happened, anything that's like mildly embarrassing. She's like,
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: I don't want to rehash it, but I love giggling
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: at stuff like that and rehashing it. So it's really
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: a complicated dynamic between us because I'm like, remember when,
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: and she's like, oh, we are not discussing that.
• 21:02
  Speaker 4: Are you the designated plunger in your relationship?
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: I would prefer not to ever do have to plunge anything.
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: She's done, agreed, everybody should plunge on the row.
• 21:13
  Speaker 5: Take it upon ourselves to please try.
• 21:16
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: If she's tried and is like I can't get it,
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: she she also like, will do everything to make sure
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: I never.
• 21:25
  Speaker 6: Have to do that.
• 21:27
  Speaker 5: I did everything that I could possibly do.
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: Like I'm telling you.
• 21:31
  Speaker 5: I was sweating.
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: I was taking off my clothes because I was like
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: so hot and like stressed, and like meanwhile, he's just
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: like working on the website, like our wedding website, and
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: I'm sitting here like I know, I'm like, God, I
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: love you.
• 21:45
  Speaker 4: I hope he puts something on the website about that moment.
• 21:47
  Speaker 5: No, never, we are never discussing that.
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: No never. Yeah, I'll even plunge the toilet for you forever.
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: I'm so mad when if, y'all, do you have an
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: issue if if he says love you instead of I
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: love you?
• 22:02
  Speaker 5: Oh yeah, oh really?
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Like you say something like you're like I love you.
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: You can just be like love you, question Mark, No
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: over text is one thing. But I'm saying, if you're
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: like in the house and you're leaving, it's like love you.
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: Oh he would never Wow, I never you would never
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: dare you would never dare?
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: Why? Well, because I guess it's a scrubber. Rode in
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: and asked, do you think that saying love you to
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: your significant other has the same meaning as I love you?
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: And she says she argues all the time with her
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: husband that by saying love you to me, it's a
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: blanket statement. Where he says I love you, he is
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: saying he himself loves me. Call me crazy, but I
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: feel like there's a difference some one of your opinion.
• 22:41
  Speaker 4: I think she has a point. I think I use
• 22:44
  Speaker 4: love you for like people here love you.
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: I love you.
• 22:49
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I love you is a different level.
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: I would never say I love you to Easton, even
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: though I do, I wouldn't say it because it's weird interesting.
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: I don't see a difference between Like, I don't hear those.
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: I think if it was written out, I would be
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: like I love you, Yeah, I would do that. But
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: saying it, I don't have a difference. But if she
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: ever says love, yeah, and I'm like, I'm sorry, excuse me, Leah,
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: are we that's Crusty's what's going on?
• 23:15
  Speaker 6: Love?
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah? She's like I didn't say that. I'm like, yeah
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: you did.
• 23:18
  Speaker 7: I've been hit with a U two. That's great.
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: I do you two when I'm mad? Just so. Then
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: she replies and she's like, are you okay? I'm like, actually,
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: funny you should ask you know? Love?
• 23:32
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: No, you two is that's worse.
• 23:37
  Speaker 7: That was another pressure.
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that was my mother.
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: Although you talk when she's trying to do those that
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: six second mini crossword, you're gonna get that you too.
• 23:49
  Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, silence is golden.
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: So Cat and Jason have broken up. We didn't even
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: have want to talk about it.
• 23:58
  Speaker 5: I know, we couldn't even get mom looking up. I
• 24:02
  Speaker 5: was upset about that.
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: Actually, you know, I have to say I really appreciated
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: just the direct video that she put out that was like, raw,
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: we broke up. I don't want to talk about it.
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: I just wanted you to know.
• 24:14
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: I was taking notes because I thought if I ever
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: need to address something.
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: But it's respectful because she's like you you you watching,
• 24:23
  Speaker 3: I've been watching my relationship. I've plastered it all over,
• 24:26
  Speaker 3: so you're invested, you're involved, and I'm going to be
• 24:28
  Speaker 3: straight up and honest with you.
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: I respect it. That's what I'm saying. No one does that, No,
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: there's no no, no.
• 24:33
  Speaker 5: No, no, everybody else does.
• 24:34
  Speaker 3: Like the subliminal like subtweets of the quotes of the
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: heartbreaks breakthrough.
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, it's like something you do, totally do.
• 24:44
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: No, I just feel like I really appreciated the direct
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: even though people always want more, it's like, well, what happened?
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: We deserve to know what happened? No, you don't, but
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: I liked it that. It was like I wanted to
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: tell you.
• 24:57
  Speaker 3: I do also find it interesting and I could be
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: wrong as to now, but last time I checked, she
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: had scrubbed her page clean of him, and he did
• 25:06
  Speaker 3: not scrub his page clean of her.
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: What does that mean in your perspective? What does that
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: mean from your perspective? She was hurt, like he initiated
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: the breakout.
• 25:17
  Speaker 5: I don't know, but she was hurt.
• 25:20
  Speaker 4: You said that. That was what Jason said was it
• 25:22
  Speaker 4: was amicable.
• 25:23
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: It sounds like it was amicable for him, right, Maybe
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: not for her because that's based on the statement and
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: the scrubbing.
• 25:29
  Speaker 4: It sounds to me like she's a little ticked ticked.
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: Well without getting like not obviously we don't know then,
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: we don't know what happened. But she has a daughter.
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: She lives in Florida, and she probably if her ex
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: lives in Florida, the father of her child, she probably
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: isn't able to leave. So it's probably kind of came
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: down to are you will you moved to Florida? And
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: maybe he was like I can't do that, right. I
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: don't know, but I mean I saw people talking about that.
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: I'm like, well, that makes to little sense because it
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: is complicated when there's a child involved that has another
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: parent and you're kind of you know, yeah, you have
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: to stay there.
• 26:05
  Speaker 5: Yeah, but I guess wouldn't you know that going into it,
• 26:10
  Speaker 5: But maybe.
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: Before it got more serious than it was, it was like, hey,
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: after trying this and doing the distance and seeing if
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: it could work. I don't know if it's going to
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: so maybe there was an amicable element to it, but
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: again we don't know anything that's.
• 26:24
  Speaker 5: Especially spec elation.
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: Well I call it investigative work truly, because I noticed
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: the scrub, I noticed the non scrub.
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: Okay, So Tinks posted a video today and she was like,
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: just so you know, going into like this fall, if
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: you're date dating and out single dating in this world,
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: you don't have like you don't get a prize for
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: being the calm, cool, collected girl. Like there's not a
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: man that you're gonna date that at the end of
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: you being chill and waiting for him to like get
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: his stuff together, that's gonna be Like you were so patient.
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: I really appreciate you doing that. So she was like,
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: just go Ferrel, be crazy, be the crazy girl that
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: you need to be. And I don't know if I
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: like that advice. I know, but I was thinking about
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: I have friends that are in the dating world, and
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: I was with someone the other day and it was
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: the guy wasn't making a move, but he was. He
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: asked her out, but then he didn't make the plan
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: to ask her out, like to to go out, you know,
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: it's like, right, roll, let's hang out this weekend. And
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: then the girl's just waiting to be like, oh is
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: he going to give me a day? Is he giving
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: me a time? And I'm like, dang, like it's getting
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: rough out there. Well, you know what, they say, another one,
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: here we go.
• 27:39
  Speaker 5: If it's the right person, Shoot, what is it?
• 27:43
  Speaker 6: No?
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: I know it home on, I'm looking out, I know
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: it off the best piece of dating advice. If they
• 27:50
  Speaker 3: like you, you'll know, If they don't, you'll be confused.
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: But someone at the table with us goes, this is
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: his standard of how he's pursuing you before y'all are
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: even in a relationship. Then what will the standard be
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: once you're in the relationship? And I was like wow.
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: And then this other girl was dating hanging out with
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: this guy and he was like, I'm not ready to
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: be in a relationship, but they were still hooking up.
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: And this the woman who gave the good advice again,
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: she goes, why are you still She was like, what
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: do you want? And she goes, well, I want to
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: be in a relationship, and she goes, well, but he
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: told you, then why are you hanging out with someone
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: who doesn't want to be in a relationship. But she
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: goes because I really really like him, and she goes,
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: but do you like yourself more? And I was like,
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: you should be a dating coach.
• 28:40
  Speaker 4: Huh you what is it that Becker just said that
• 28:45
  Speaker 4: makes you think you should be a data coach?
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: Because I think I could give advice like that. Okay, No,
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: I think you would be able to give advice. I
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: don't know that it's advice that you yourself have taken
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: or would take. Please please, please please. I would live
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: talk on your friends. I would literally be like, do
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: not respond, do not do this, and then you go
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: to like Rikel or someone that would be like, well,
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: if it's meant to be, you would never come to
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: me because I was never giving you the advice you
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: wanted to do.
• 29:18
  Speaker 3: I could cherry pick my best friends, like to a tea,
• 29:21
  Speaker 3: because I would know exactly what each one of them
• 29:24
  Speaker 3: would tell me to do in every situation. So whatever
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: I wanted to do, I would go to that friend.
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 29:29
  Speaker 5: Raquel was always the one that was like, you guys
• 29:33
  Speaker 5: are meant to be together. If it's meant to be,
• 29:36
  Speaker 5: it'll be.
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: Don't play these games like that was Raquel's path every
• 29:41
  Speaker 3: single time.
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I was like, don't text him, don't respond.
• 29:45
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I play these games.
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: Play the games. I was just like, he ended it,
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: so move on, love you, Robbie. Got it all work out.
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: I thought you didn't listen to me. Okay, So ten
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: must handsome men in the world according to science.
• 30:02
  Speaker 4: It was a sore spot because I didn't make the list.
• 30:04
  Speaker 4: Oh well, little bit, we're.
• 30:05
  Speaker 7: Probably eleven and twelve.
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: I was gonna say if they had done fifteen, yeah,
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: but they only did ten for this round, so I.
• 30:13
  Speaker 5: Don't even know all ten of these met.
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah. We have a photo reference though. Yeah. It's a
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: facial cosmetic surgeon, Doctor Julian Dulci da Silva used the
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: Greek golden ratio of beauty to determine the most ten
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: handsome men in the world. I'm just curious if we
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: agree on these. Okay, We're going to start with Aaron
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: Taylor Johnson. He was do you know this person?
• 30:37
  Speaker 5: At literally in life?
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: He was in Kick Ass Avengers, Age of Ultron Bullet Train.
• 30:43
  Speaker 7: He was in Fall Guy recently.
• 30:47
  Speaker 4: Half a Fall Guy. I love it.
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: He didn't like it either.
• 30:50
  Speaker 7: Wow, Oh my god, I'm team fall Guy over here.
• 30:53
  Speaker 7: He's the movie star that he's the bad guy. Oh yeah,
• 30:58
  Speaker 7: his son double yea.
• 31:00
  Speaker 5: Literally never seen him in my life, Like he does
• 31:02
  Speaker 5: kind of look like Ryan Gstly.
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: No, I don't agree with this. He's handsome, but I'm
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: not like in the world. No, I meant a no
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: for me. Okay, Lucien loves count great name.
• 31:14
  Speaker 4: I never heard of him, but.
• 31:17
  Speaker 5: This is the guy from Emily in Paris, and he is.
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: Fine. He is very handsome on this. Yeah, I get
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: his structure and face. I get it. Yeah, so I
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: would say, okay, agreed, very handsome Paul mescal He's in
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: Normal People and Gladiator too.
• 31:34
  Speaker 4: We're gonna put these up on Instagram so we can
• 31:36
  Speaker 4: play a long way.
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: Crystals to me, he's giving me nick.
• 31:40
  Speaker 5: By al Vibes.
• 31:42
  Speaker 7: This picture is interesting. Can I know Sam put this together?
• 31:45
  Speaker 7: And I know Sam is a big Paul mescalfan, and
• 31:47
  Speaker 7: I don't think this is a great picture of him.
• 31:48
  Speaker 7: I think it's also like.
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: A trend with the gen Z guys that they kind
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: of don't Not only do they not shave, they also
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: don't tend to their facial hair at all. They always
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: look like they just got out of bed.
• 31:57
  Speaker 4: And I'm not a big fan of it. I don't.
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: I don't know because it looks like they smell like sleep.
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: Nothing worse I know, and to tell me I'm wrong.
• 32:07
  Speaker 5: No, Paul, Paul looks like he has a nice cent,
• 32:11
  Speaker 5: well normally but in this photo.
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: But I think he's really I think he's really handsome.
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: I haven't studied his face enough or seen anything that
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: he's in to really know if I agree or disagree.
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: Do you have an opinion on this?
• 32:26
  Speaker 5: Uh, it's gonna be a it's gonna be.
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: It's gonna be May fifty fifty on him.
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, so it's not a guess, it's not a
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: Next we have Robert Pattinson. Well, agree, interesting, chiseled god? Interesting?
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: Not quite god? Was it Greek God?
• 32:47
  Speaker 4: I get disagree?
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I disagree. I was never I was never like one.
• 32:53
  Speaker 4: Und I get it with him. I get it. He's bad.
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: I get it.
• 32:57
  Speaker 4: You don't get cast as Batman if you're if you're
• 32:59
  Speaker 4: a schlub, you know, I don't think.
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: He's a slub. I'm saying, most handsome men in the world. Okay.
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: Next we have Jack Loudon from Dunkirk. Mary, Queen of Scott.
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: Never seen him before in my life. No, I don't agree. No, okay,
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: I'm looking at other pictures of Paul mescal and he's handsome.
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: He's handsome. The ne have an accent too, helps it? Yeah.
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: George Clooney, yes, listen, I can't remember what it was
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: what I was watching, but it was young George Clooney. Wow.
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: I like old George me too. But I'm just saying, like,
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: you see him, you see him older and you know,
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: like he's so handsome, but you see him younger and
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: you're like, wow, what a vision.
• 33:42
  Speaker 5: So this is where the list really ramps up for me.
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: Oh it ramps up here. Yeah, yeah, I agree. Nicholas Holt,
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: oh yeah, from X Men and Mad Max in the Favorite.
• 33:51
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yes, yes, yes, uh he has pretty eyes.
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: I don't know him. What's him? Used to date Jennifer Lawrence?
• 34:02
  Speaker 4: I think probably from X Men. Maybe they met our
• 34:05
  Speaker 4: next man, this next one.
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: I really agree with Charles Melton from Riverdale in May December.
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: So stunning, gorgeous man, gorgeous.
• 34:16
  Speaker 5: Gorgeous to his first concert?
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: What was his first concert? Wow? They would have been
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: a beautiful couple. It's not too late. I mean she's
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: kind of dating.
• 34:30
  Speaker 5: Yeah, well, I'm just saying no, no ring ring, nothing.
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: I'm just kidding. I don't believe that Adris Elba very
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: handsome has been people's sexiest man alive.
• 34:44
  Speaker 4: And that accent is just a knee buckler.
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: He's just like, yeah, he's got it.
• 34:50
  Speaker 5: Commanding.
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's got a command commanding, commander in chief, if
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: you will, yes. And then the last one is Shaw
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: Shaw Root Khan, known as the King of Bollywood, one
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: of the most iconic and successful actors in Indian cinema.
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: I don't know him, so I'm only looking at a
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: photo of him. I'll tell you that great hair it's
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: giving me dreamy handsome. But again, I would say I
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: have I have others that could fill this list, such
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: as Brad Pitt. Like young Brad Pitt is the most
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: beautiful man you think. So when he when they opened
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: the door, when he guest starred on Friends, they opened
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: the door and he's standing there. It catches my breath
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: every time. Oh my gosh, Haley and I both I
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: feel comfortable saying that because of Haley she loves them.
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: Matt Bomber perfect face, yea perfect face.
• 35:43
  Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, May he's the guy that was at Matthew Dude,
• 35:51
  Speaker 6: what's the guy that was?
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: Uh? Sam? Who is the guy that was at epic
• 35:56
  Speaker 2: Epic con that everyone went crazy for that we could
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: hear he's on more.
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: Yes, And if I may, Justin Hartley from This is
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: Us and Tracker, that's the face I would like to have.
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: Oh wow, okay, face I would like to have.
• 36:15
  Speaker 4: A face would be Justin Hartley's face.
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: Wow.
• 36:19
  Speaker 7: I have the women from the same study.
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: Yes, we don't want to objectify woman.
• 36:28
  Speaker 7: There's a few people we haven't heard of it. Just
• 36:29
  Speaker 7: to run down the top, Judy Comber is number one.
• 36:32
  Speaker 7: I don't know who that is, but jo Jody Comer,
• 36:36
  Speaker 7: Ki Zinda Yeah, Fellah, Yeah, Ariana Grande, Taylor Swift, Jordan Dunn,
• 36:46
  Speaker 7: Jordan Done.
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: I thought that was a guy.
• 36:50
  Speaker 7: Uh, I'll get you that person's in the phone in
• 36:53
  Speaker 7: a second. But Kim Kardashian Yeah, and then these last
• 36:56
  Speaker 7: two Deepica Paduke Cone and Ho Young Jung.
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: I know who that is? She from? She from what's
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: the show on Netflix where people would step on the
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: the one hundred challenge or whatever? Oh oh oh oh
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: oh a good game. So is that her from squid Game.
• 37:16
  Speaker 7: She is a Korean model and she was the Squad Game.
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: Yes, yes, she's so beautiful. That's to Hailey West for
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: Halloween a few years ago. Oh yeah, what are you
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: going to be for? You need to tell me, Haley
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: Kyokos and all on that list at this but I
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: don't know yet. What are you all going to be?
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: I don't know are you all going to address up
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: with the kids? You a should do like a fun
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: like they're past that. Oh can't be told what to be? Right,
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: I mean, it's just like they want to do their
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: own thing. They do their own thing.
• 37:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, Well who might do Ryan and Banna
• 37:52
  Speaker 3: Ryan Seacresbana Fortune.
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: I love that that'd be. So what if he did
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: like spray painted his hair like blondish, blondish, not blonde,
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: but blondish, light brown. Ryan Seacrest is like light brown here, right,
• 38:10
  Speaker 2: it's darker these days, darker. It's like giving Robbie. Honestly,
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: I think he could if he just lightened it a
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: little bit. I feel like you could look just like him. Yeah,
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: so we'll see. That's fun. Yeah, no plans though for Halloween.
• 38:26
  Speaker 4: Sorry to hear that, Yeah, sorry to hear that.
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: On that note, so we have a listener submitted fun
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: activity for us to do. It's not really a game,
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: but it's a fun activity.
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: Okay, should we do it when we come back?
• 38:41
  Speaker 4: I think that'd be great.
• 38:42
  Speaker 2: Great, all right, we're back, So Mark, do you have
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: a fun activity?
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: I heard from a wonderful listener name Jessica Dobbs. Is
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: her name, Jessica Dobbs. Not a great time to have
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: last name Dobbs. I'll bet it from the news a lot. Anyway,
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: I've been away a listener since Becca came out. I
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: was such a fan of hers while she was on
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor, but having only followed her on Insta from there,
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: I was so surprised when she came out. So I
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: came to the podcast to continue to support her and
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: get caught up with her life. And from there I
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: binged the podcast and immediately became fast friends with Tanya,
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: Mark and Easton too. It was so fun listening from
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: the beginning, knowing in real time that you all had
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: found your people along the way. I rooted for Tanya
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: with every date, knowing soon as you would find her
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: red star who she was head over her heels in
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: love with and with Becca. I felt in on the
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: secret with the gang, having already known she was dating Haley.
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: I applaud you all for your use of pronouns. I
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: only ever heard one slip up, and I was listening
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: really hard for them.
• 39:51
  Speaker 4: Oh wow.
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: I'm in the Fort Worth, Texas area, and here it
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: is fair season, and no one does it better.
• 39:56
  Speaker 4: Than the Texas State Fair.
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: We're known for having one of the biggest and best
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: state fairs in the country, and one of the obviously
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: obvious reasons where tend the fair is the yummy and
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: greasy fair food. Every year there are a new creation,
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: some delicious, some strange.
• 40:07
  Speaker 4: For us to try.
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: Given Becca and Easton's love of fair food, I thought
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: it would be fun to play Smash or Pass Texas
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: State Fair Food Edition. I've selected a few, but most
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: of these were award winners from this year. Let's see
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: which weird and tasty things y'all be willing to try,
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: only for Tanya to eat the entire thing after claiming
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: never to eat any of it.
• 40:26
  Speaker 4: For you over to Becca, please, that is for you.
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: Look what she did.
• 40:30
  Speaker 4: She made a whole power point here. Oh so I
• 40:32
  Speaker 4: give one to Easton too. You kise.
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: We have a whole power pot.
• 40:38
  Speaker 4: Yeah, a whole PowerPoint from Jessica, And thank you Jessica.
• 40:40
  Speaker 4: This is so sweet.
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: So the first item the Russo's cotton candy bacon on
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: a stick. It's a thick, twelve inch piece of bacon,
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: cooked to perfection with a cotton candy glaze on top.
• 40:52
  Speaker 5: Disgusting.
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: Here's the thing. I'm not a huge thick I'm not
• 40:59
  Speaker 2: a huge bacon gets thick. I think it's long.
• 41:03
  Speaker 4: She says, thick.
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: Twelve inches long though, is long and thick? Yeah, long
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: and thick, So that that would throw me off right
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: off the bat. But I think the taste would be
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: delicious because cotton candy is basically just sugar, fluffy sugar,
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: so it'd basically be like a maple syrupy bacon, which
• 41:21
  Speaker 2: I think tastes really good. So of course I would
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: try it.
• 41:24
  Speaker 4: Smash Tanya like pass to aggressive past then.
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: But then I'd be like, oh my god, it tastes
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: so good, and she goes, well, let me let me
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: tell you. I don't even like bacon. Oh what about
• 41:36
  Speaker 2: turkey bacon? That would be a story.
• 41:39
  Speaker 7: I would smash it so fast, so fast. This is innovation.
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: This is brilliant hot chicken pancake poppers. It is Nashville
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: hot chicken and pimento cheese rolled into a ball, dunked
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: and pancake batter, fried top with Servacha honey and Nashville
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: hot powdered sugar.
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: No, no, that's where you lost me. Racha honey.
• 41:57
  Speaker 4: Oh it's so good. That's the best part.
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: I used it am every day. It had me.
• 42:02
  Speaker 5: This one had me and then it lost me.
• 42:05
  Speaker 2: With no honey, it'd be a pass. Okay, I'm going
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: smash for sure.
• 42:08
  Speaker 4: Easty, I do pass. Really Yeah.
• 42:10
  Speaker 7: The the pancake in the pimino cheese is giving me paws.
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: I would need a lactate, but I would I would
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: be happy to try that. Baby strawberry popped tart begneful.
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: It's a begnet and a waffle topped with strawberry filling,
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: a sweet vanilla icing drizzle, whipped cream, and sprinkles.
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: My mouth is watering.
• 42:32
  Speaker 4: Smash this smash away hot cheetos.
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: No, No, I haven't. I don't need to hear anymore.
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: Half a hot dog and half mozzarella cheese battered with
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: wheat and rice flour coated with Panco bread crumbs and
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: deep fried, then.
• 42:52
  Speaker 4: Coated with spicy mao and hot Cheetos crumbs. Where do
• 42:56
  Speaker 4: I sign up?
• 42:57
  Speaker 7: Smash smash, smash half.
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: I don't even like flaming ho chios.
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: Why would I want it wrapped in a hot dog
• 43:04
  Speaker 3: fry with Panco chips?
• 43:07
  Speaker 4: All right?
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: This is the Laze Potato chip drink. It's a drink
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: mixture including mango, a blend of citrus juice, is a
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: fiery kick of hot honeyjlapenu and syrup and strawberry drizzle,
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: smoothed over with a layer of cool sweet foam, and
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: then topped with lais sweet and spicy honey potato chips.
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: I try it. I like all those things. It's not
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: like a stomach ache. But I would smash.
• 43:30
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 43:30
  Speaker 5: I wouldn't smash, but I would sip sip.
• 43:32
  Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I would smash too. There's so few of
• 43:35
  Speaker 7: these drinks are like non alcoholic tea. These create wacky drinks.
• 43:38
  Speaker 4: You know, So this would be my first pass. I'm
• 43:40
  Speaker 4: not interested in any of this.
• 43:41
  Speaker 7: Wow.
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: Mexican street corn pizza charred crusted pizza topped with chipotlammeo,
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: yellow corn chili powder, cilantro and cotia.
• 43:50
  Speaker 2: Cheese smashed, but no cilantro.
• 43:54
  Speaker 7: Cilantro is rough for me too, smash extra cilantro smash.
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: I'd smash too extra cheese.
• 44:00
  Speaker 4: This is called the Nephew. I don't know why it's
• 44:02
  Speaker 4: called that, but it's funny.
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: It's a warm glazed donut topped with brisket, gooey mozzarella cheese,
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: a drizzle of honey, and a sprinkle of powdered sugar.
• 44:13
  Speaker 2: Smash sash why.
• 44:18
  Speaker 3: I don't know what Brisket with gooey mozzarella in my
• 44:21
  Speaker 3: donuts with sprinkled sugar.
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: Great bar cookie butter nachos, fried flour tortilla chips with
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: a blend of cinnamon sugar, topped with homemade cookie buttered cheesecake,
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: filling dollups of homemade cream cheese, icing and a drizzle
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: of gooey caramel sauce, and sprinkled with crushed bisc off cookies.
• 44:43
  Speaker 4: Hell yeah, yes, smash smash with doll I'm gonna eat that.
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: Churro crumbled cheesecake is a New York style cheesecake with
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: Belgian milk chocolate rolled in a layer of crushed churi crumbles.
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: Drizzled with douche de lache sauce and topped with powdered
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: sugar and chiro bites on top.
• 45:00
  Speaker 4: That looks great.
• 45:02
  Speaker 5: That's Texas, Texas.
• 45:05
  Speaker 4: There. Here you go, Telly, this is a great one
• 45:07
  Speaker 4: for you. Fat bacon pickle fries, dud.
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: Slippers of dill pickles, battered and fried dufted in the
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: spicy ranch pepper seasoning, topped with a blend of caeso,
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: thick cut and maple, caramelized bacon chunks, sour cream, holipanos,
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: and chives.
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: I wake up every day looking for something like this,
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: Like this, I'll smash, but I'm again not a huge
• 45:33
  Speaker 2: bacon person, but I would definitely take.
• 45:35
  Speaker 7: Smashing this smash And then isn't it sweet?
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: She even put like a little bibliography page. So this
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: is an assignment for school. Smasha, you are the best.
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: Thank you for listening and binging the podcast and sending
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: us this and I love it. There's been so many
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: great questions for Dear Bonia. By the way, on the
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: topic of Dear Bania, somebody complain on the on the
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: but which I think was legit. Why is it Banya?
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: That's one letter for Becca and four letters for Tanya,
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: it should at least be sorry.
• 46:09
  Speaker 3: Becca's first, So it's like, I would be fine if
• 46:12
  Speaker 3: it was Teca. Dear Teca, fine by me anyway, I.
• 46:17
  Speaker 4: Thought that was an interesting point. Somebody made you know, our.
• 46:24
  Speaker 2: Code for a long time was Becca. My name is
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: first in the title of the podcast. I make sacrifices
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: where I need to. All right, Banya has the most flow.
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: Fine with Teca.
• 46:38
  Speaker 4: Is better. It was sitting little thought thoughts, starters, starters
• 46:43
  Speaker 4: and stuff like that. That's great, that's wonderful. And Jessica
• 46:45
  Speaker 4: kind of took her to a whole new level. And
• 46:47
  Speaker 4: we love it. We appreciate it.
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: Thank you, We love you, guys, love you. And with
• 46:51
  Speaker 2: that note, we do have a Thursday episode. And it's
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: not Dear Bonyati is not, it's dear Teca. No, it's
• 46:59
  Speaker 2: talk to Tech. It's not and we're not it's neither.
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: It won't be just us. Yeah, let's let's give it
• 47:07
  Speaker 2: a tease.
• 47:08
  Speaker 5: I don't want to tease if it's like, because you
• 47:10
  Speaker 5: never know, someone might get sick.
• 47:14
  Speaker 2: Take it out. Fine. So yeah, this Thursday, we are
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: having Jenna Johnson Enjoey Grass a day on the podcast
• 47:21
  Speaker 2: to scrib in. I'm so excited to talk to him.
• 47:23
  Speaker 2: I think he's so cute and I can't wait to
• 47:25
  Speaker 2: talk to her. I think she's like one of the
• 47:28
  Speaker 2: best ever on Dancing with the Stars.
• 47:30
  Speaker 5: I actually tried to set him up before he was
• 47:32
  Speaker 5: the Bachelor.
• 47:33
  Speaker 3: I tried to set him set him up with a
• 47:34
  Speaker 3: friend of mine because I saw him at the Jennah's
• 47:36
  Speaker 3: Brothers compert.
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: It was literally the day before he started filming. It
• 47:39
  Speaker 2: didn't work. It didn't work. Yeah, and he and Kelsey
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: are like one of my favorite couples ever from the battle.
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: So everything that's meant to be is well, we'll be
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: So we're talking to them on Thursday. So we'll be
• 47:49
  Speaker 2: back with the Thursday episode with them, and I hope
• 47:51
  Speaker 2: you have a great week. We love you. Bye.