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- 0:00You're looking to fix in your business with marketing and
- 0:03sales what is actually a delivery problem.
- 0:05Why does it feel like it's so hard for me to grow?
- 0:08It's so hard for me to scale. Every time I feel like I'm
- 0:11signing people, before I know it, six months later I'm right
- 0:14back at 0. If you could triple your
- 0:16business right now without doing any more marketing and sales
- 0:20than you currently are in this moment, is that something you'd
- 0:23be interested in? Let's be very clear that if you
- 0:25want to make 7 figures, it is not about 40 new clients from
- 0:29your market and sales from Instagram, from TikTok, from
- 0:32your podcast. It's not 40 new people every
- 0:34time, it's 40 contracts. Now that same marketing and
- 0:38sales has generated you this year $36,000 versus $12,000.
- 0:43Scaling comes from retention, not acquisition.
- 0:46Hello and welcome back to Ambitious.
- 0:48Today we are talking and diving into something that you have
- 0:51heard me say many times on this podcast, which is that scaling
- 0:55comes from retention, not acquisition.
- 0:57And this is actually something that was shared with me when I
- 1:00was in my own scaling journey from a coach of mine who shared
- 1:03this quote with me. And it really put into
- 1:06perspective ways that I had been looking at scaling wrong.
- 1:09A lot of people who talk to you about scaling your business are
- 1:12going to be endless conversations about marketing,
- 1:14sales, how to get more people in the front door.
- 1:18And the thing that I hear from people that I work with every
- 1:20single day is that they're kind of exhausted from the aspect of
- 1:25more marketing, more marketing, more marketing being the thing
- 1:28that's going to actually help them to grow their business.
- 1:31It feels like this never ending hamster wheel.
- 1:34And that often is going to be the experience that you have in
- 1:37your business until you actually take the time to understand how
- 1:42to improve your retention. And retention is something that
- 1:45I think a lot of people see as more of the actual service
- 1:49providing to a client. So if you think about a client
- 1:52that's inside of your agency, if you're thinking about a client
- 1:54inside of a consulting business or a consulting firm, if you're
- 1:58thinking about a client inside of your service, you're
- 2:00thinking, well, it's the onboarding.
- 2:02It's, you know, I just make sure they're more supported.
- 2:05But what a lot of people don't do is they don't look at the
- 2:08fact of how retention could actually be the hidden spot
- 2:12where a lot of your sales are waiting for you.
- 2:15And so today we're going to talk about a couple different things.
- 2:18I have, I will tell you a list of notes that I want to go
- 2:21through with you. Couple things we're going to
- 2:22cover why retention actually is one of the most important skills
- 2:26that you can have as a scaling business.
- 2:28I'm also going to breakdown of all the businesses that I have
- 2:31worked with, what some of the most common disconnects are that
- 2:34people are making that are often the reasons clients are coming
- 2:38in the front door and they're leaving at the back after one
- 2:41contract with you. We're also going to dive into
- 2:44what I kind of consider to be like the 12 month retention map.
- 2:47And basically what this means is it is a calendar, a structure
- 2:52for you to understand. And what I want you to do with
- 2:55this calendar is to assess where are my clients dropping off?
- 2:59Where are the months where I'm finding that they're getting
- 3:01disengaged, They're not coming to calls, they're taking slower
- 3:04to respond to me. And when those moments happen,
- 3:07knowing what that means about their experience and most
- 3:11importantly, what you should do. So we first need to kind of
- 3:15anchor with, OK, we know we obviously want to keep clients
- 3:18happy. We want to make sure clients are
- 3:19satisfied. But why do we care about this
- 3:22when it comes to scaling and when it comes to frankly the
- 3:26sales of the business? And so one of the things that I
- 3:37think is an important first place to start is that this is
- 3:40not a nice to do, OK? I have seen and overheard too
- 3:44many conversations of people who have said, well, you know,
- 3:48clients aren't, you know, super upset mid contract.
- 3:51They're not having quote UN quote fires.
- 3:54So as a result, they're not paying attention to retention.
- 3:57And it's one of the biggest alarms or red flags that I see
- 4:01within a business is the fact that they don't feel necessarily
- 4:05that retention is something that they need to be worried about.
- 4:08And so this is not, I want to be very clear, something that
- 4:11should be an optional thing for you to integrate in your
- 4:14business. If you don't see the retention
- 4:16of your clients, meaning the satisfaction of them, the
- 4:19results of them, and therefore the renewal or the upsell of
- 4:22those clients inside your ecosystem as a complete
- 4:26requirement in your business, it could very well be the reason
- 4:30that you're not seeing the results that you want.
- 4:32So first we need to understand that in order to acquire a new
- 4:37client, it on average cost five times more than if you had just
- 4:42kept the client that you had that already signed with you
- 4:45that's already been in your service in the first place.
- 4:48And that's because most people don't look at or give enough
- 4:52credit to what it took to generate that client inside of
- 4:57your program, inside your service.
- 4:59So it may have been, you know, for some businesses, it's they
- 5:02were posting on Instagram and then they were maybe having Adm
- 5:04conversation and then you maybe you had a sales call, maybe you
- 5:08created a proposal or a custom proposal.
- 5:11And with all of those pieces, those are hours and those hours
- 5:15mean cost. It could be a cost of a social
- 5:18media manager. It could be the cost for some
- 5:20people of having someone who manages your DMS.
- 5:24It could even be eventually for some scaling businesses, the
- 5:27cost of having a closer who does your sales calls.
- 5:30So this is not something that is as simple as Oh, well, it was
- 5:34just, you know, I post on Instagram all of that.
- 5:36Even if you're a team of one or two, especially in this day and
- 5:40age of AI, if you are somebody that feels like you are a lean
- 5:44mean team, even if you are, this is still cost that it took of
- 5:49your hours, which ultimately connects to your your money,
- 5:53your investment that you put into those.
- 5:55So when you think about, OK, well, I need to acquire a new
- 6:00customer. This is why I, I kind of have a
- 6:02bone to pick with the marketing and the sales gurus because
- 6:06marketing and sales, do not get me wrong, is one of the most
- 6:09important pieces of a business. You have to know how to market.
- 6:12You have to know how to sell. That's not something that I'm
- 6:14negotiating, but I think that we missed the mark on.
- 6:18But then what? Because a lot of the times the
- 6:21same people who are preaching marketing sales, marketing sales
- 6:25may inside their same offers, have people that do not stay
- 6:28past three or six months, which was the contract.
- 6:31And as soon as that contract's done, they're gone.
- 6:33So of course, we need to be like marketing sales, marketing sales
- 6:36when everybody's leaving. The goal is that if you can not
- 6:40only master marketing and sales, but you can also master
- 6:43attention, you will scale your business so much faster and
- 6:47frankly so much easier with so much less effort because you're
- 6:50not feeling like as soon as you sign someone, someone else is
- 6:53leaving. So what we see is that there's
- 6:57this kind of roller coaster we talk about in scaling, right?
- 7:00Sometimes we talk about it as the revenue roller coaster.
- 7:03We sometimes in other episodes have talked about the pattern of
- 7:07the push pause pattern. This all comes down to this,
- 7:10which is we feel like we get a lot of marketing sales.
- 7:14We have these new clients who sign and we're really excited
- 7:16about that. And then often times those
- 7:19people come into our service. We're starting to deliver to
- 7:21them in whatever it is you provide.
- 7:23And before we know it, we look and we go, Oh my God, these
- 7:27people are leaving. I need a new roster of 20
- 7:30people. I need a new roster of 40 or 50
- 7:32people. And it kind of feels like you
- 7:35just can't move the needle. You're like, every time I feel
- 7:38like I'm signing people, before I know it, six months later I'm
- 7:42right back at 0. And that feeling is a byproduct
- 7:46of lack of retention. It's a byproduct of the fact
- 7:49that people are not happy inside the offer, which is why they're
- 7:51not staying and they're going elsewhere.
- 7:54So it also is not just about recurring revenue, OK, So this
- 7:59is not just about client comes in, pays $2000 and then because
- 8:04we're going to get this person to renew, they're going to have
- 8:06more months of $2000. It's not even just as simple as
- 8:10how can we continue to have the same payment that they're doing
- 8:13for longer. It's also about the fact of how
- 8:16do we get this person to not only pay, let's just say six
- 8:20months of 2000, but how do we then get them into an offer and
- 8:23maybe that's 3500 a month as the next roster and have them and
- 8:27not for two rounds, right? So maybe that's another year of
- 8:30a contract. It's not even just about keeping
- 8:32them the same amount, but also looking at how are you allowing
- 8:36and supporting and designing people to evolve inside of your
- 8:40ecosystem. And if you don't, it basically
- 8:44means that they naturally have an end time with you.
- 8:47They see their time, they see their journey as complete, and
- 8:51so as a result, they don't really see why they would
- 8:53continue because otherwise it just feels like they're spending
- 8:56more time in the thing that they just did.
- 8:58So also ensuring that you understand if we can increase
- 9:02the average overall revenue per person in your ecosystem, not
- 9:07just in repeating the same payments they've been doing, but
- 9:10potentially even increasing their payments.
- 9:12Again, this is another way for you to unlock scaling that has
- 9:15nothing to do with marketing and sales in the front end.
- 9:18Now I want to run the math for all you nerds like me because
- 9:22this is where I was breaking this down with a client actually
- 9:25the other day. And she was asking, can you
- 9:28please reverse engineer how we would get to 100 KA month in my
- 9:32business. And so we did this.
- 9:33We ran all the numbers and one of the things that we came to is
- 9:36that she probably at her 100K month would have about 40 people
- 9:41inside of her coaching program. And so when she saw the 40, she
- 9:46was like, whoa, like, that's 40 people.
- 9:48I have to make 40 new sales every single time.
- 9:52And I said, no, why would you make 40 new sales every single
- 9:56time? She said, well, where am I going
- 9:57to get the 40 from? And I said, the 40 is not going
- 10:00to be a byproduct of 40 new people.
- 10:04It's 40 sales, 40 contracts. So let's be very clear that if
- 10:08you want to make 7 figures, it is not about 40 new clients from
- 10:13your marketing and sales from Instagram, from TikTok, from
- 10:16your podcast. It's not 40 new people every
- 10:19time. It's 40 contracts.
- 10:21So this means that you could very well out of those 40, have
- 10:2520 of those people who were in the first round who are going to
- 10:28continue into the second round. So I saw this like instant face
- 10:32of like relief from her because the thought of like, Oh my God,
- 10:36like more grind on social of 40 and 40 and 40 and 40.
- 10:41Like, of course that would be exhausting because you feel like
- 10:43you're starting from scratch. So let's run the math.
- 10:46The client pays $2000 a month for six months.
- 10:49OK, So let's just assume that you have a service and I say
- 10:512000 because this is kind of the the run-of-the-mill, if you
- 10:54would, in the sense of investment.
- 10:56I have a lot of different people that I work with.
- 10:57It could be podcast editors, it could be social media or
- 11:00marketing agencies, coaches, consultants, all kinds of
- 11:04different models. And most people have some kind
- 11:07of coaching or consulting service or agency service that
- 11:12averages around $2000 a month. So let's just say that you have
- 11:15a client right now that's going to be paying you around 2000 a
- 11:18month and they're going to stay with you for a six month
- 11:20contract, OK, So it's $12,000. Now if you have crappy
- 11:24retention, which is how I'm going to put it, if you have
- 11:27crappy retention. And that typically means that
- 11:29that person after that is going to leave after the six months.
- 11:34So you have generated for that total all that marketing and
- 11:37sales effort. You have generated $12,000 from
- 11:41all of the marketing and sales you did.
- 11:43Now if they signed the first time with you and they signed
- 11:46two more times after that with you, this client that you
- 11:49originated from the same marketing and sales, but the
- 11:53difference being that you actually had good retention.
- 11:55Now that same marketing and sales has generated you this
- 11:58year $36,000 versus $12,000. So This is why we're so bullish
- 12:06on making sure with our clients, with people that I, you know,
- 12:10have audit conversations with or consultations with.
- 12:13I asked not only how many clients are you generating, but
- 12:16how many clients are you keeping?
- 12:17Because if you are the person right now who feels like, Oh my
- 12:22gosh, I signed someone and it's a 12K sale, IE six months for
- 12:262000, but they just go and then I need another person, another
- 12:29person. The reason you're feeling
- 12:30exhausted is not necessarily a by product of your marketing and
- 12:34sales. It could have nothing to do with
- 12:37your marketing and sales and it could have everything to do with
- 12:39your attention. So ask yourself this, if you
- 12:43could triple your business right now without doing any more
- 12:47marketing and sales than you currently are in this moment, is
- 12:51that something you'd be interested in?
- 12:53And if that's the case, the first thing that I would want
- 12:55you to focus on is diving into your retention to actually ask
- 12:59yourself, am I the person where someone is signing for six
- 13:02months and it means 2 KA month, so I'm $12,000?
- 13:06Or is that client seeing so much value, so much satisfaction, so
- 13:10much, so many results inside of my offer that I'm actually
- 13:14spending 36,000 this year with you.
- 13:17And if that's the case, that's really where the unlock for your
- 13:20growth is going to come from. So what we want to look at is
- 13:24that I kind of have this like leaky bucket analogy.
- 13:28If you know me, if you coach with me, you know that I'm, I'm
- 13:30somebody who loves a good analogy.
- 13:32And I see this with so many people, which is why I kind of
- 13:36came up with this, because there's this belief in scaling
- 13:40of more and more and more, right?
- 13:41It's got to be more marketing. It has to be more sales.
- 13:43And so the leaky bucket analogy is that when you are trying to
- 13:47push to grow in your business and you're like, OK, I'm going
- 13:50to really double down on marketing, I'm going to really
- 13:52double down on content. I'm going to really lean all in
- 13:55on X thing. When you do that and you're
- 13:58putting more in, I want you to picture literally you holding a
- 14:01bucket and you're pouring in water and you're like, I'm going
- 14:05to grow to X level. That's my goal.
- 14:07I've got my eyes on it, I'm set on it, we're doing it and you're
- 14:11focused. So you put in a lot of effort
- 14:13and you're busting your butt with hard work.
- 14:16But then what you realize is it feels like you're not getting
- 14:18ahead. And that is because your bucket
- 14:20that you are pouring that water into that hard work, those
- 14:24hours, the expenses, the team, maybe even you're leaning into
- 14:28AI. You're trying to find a ways to
- 14:30to get around it, to be able to, you know, produce even more and
- 14:34even less time. And then you look at your bucket
- 14:37and your bucket is not even close to as full as you'd want.
- 14:41And that is because we are trying to add when there is a
- 14:45massive hole within the thing that you are trying to
- 14:48replenish. And this is what happens with
- 14:51scaling businesses all the time. You're looking to fix in your
- 14:55business with marketing and sales what is actually a
- 14:58delivery problem. And So what I tell people is
- 15:01that this is not a you issue. This is the thing that is
- 15:04exciting about this. It's not a matter of, you know,
- 15:07something is wrong with you, something's wrong with your
- 15:09marketing. This is something that is
- 15:11really, you have holes in your bucket.
- 15:14So the exciting part when I find this in a business, regardless
- 15:17of what industry it's in, is that you actually say, OK, wow.
- 15:21Like we're looking at this business, great brand, great
- 15:24marketing, great sales. And we know that because you've
- 15:26generated them in the past of your ideal clients, they're
- 15:29sending out the packages you want to be offering.
- 15:32In that regard, everything's fantastic.
- 15:35But then we look at the other side and we say, yeah, but like,
- 15:37why does it feel like it's so hard for me to grow?
- 15:39It's so hard for me to scale? And that's why I tell people,
- 15:42you have a whole problem. You have holes in your bucket.
- 15:46So like, your water is not your issue.
- 15:49You having tons of water. You have a hose of water
- 15:51happening with your marketing and sales.
- 15:54But because you have a whole problem, the feeling that you're
- 15:57getting as an experience from this is remaining and
- 16:00sustaining. And so until we fix that, no
- 16:03matter how much water you put in, it isn't going to change the
- 16:07experience of your business. And so that's why we want to
- 16:10dive into it. So with this, I want to actually
- 16:13break down things that you can be aware of.
- 16:15OK, So what I love about coaching is that I find the
- 16:19essence of coaching is someone being able to come in and
- 16:22actually see your blind spots, Someone being able to come in
- 16:25and say, OK, I see we're doing here, here, here.
- 16:28But here's what I see in this scenario.
- 16:31And I love this part of coaching because it's what makes me
- 16:34realize that two people can have what they perceive to be the
- 16:38same reality. So it could be that you're like,
- 16:40I feel like my offer is good. I feel like our service is good.
- 16:43I feel like our onboarding is good.
- 16:45And then somebody else comes in and they pick it apart and they
- 16:49go, well, what about this and what about that?
- 16:51And this has this impact. And have you ever considered X?
- 16:54And it's in those moments in my business that I go, Oh my God,
- 16:57like, how did I not, how did I not see that?
- 16:59How was I not aware of that? And This is why I want to unpack
- 17:04some of the mistakes that I see in general when it comes to
- 17:07things that are influencing negative retention or people not
- 17:11staying inside your world. And that's because when this has
- 17:15been someone coming outside into my business, this is so helpful.
- 17:19It's often why breaking the 4th wall here, you will see, I talk
- 17:23about mistakes a lot in a lot of the episodes.
- 17:25And that's because it's the fastest way for you to audit
- 17:28your own business right now and to say, OK, do I have that?
- 17:32Is that something that I'm doing?
- 17:34Is that something? Oh my gosh, I do do that and to
- 17:37be able to pinpoint it and then go take action on it quickly.
- 17:40So let's get into some of the actual pieces when it comes to
- 17:44your retention that can actually really be detrimental to people
- 17:48staying inside your world. One of them, Oh my goodness, is
- 17:53probably one of the most easy to discover, most impactful and
- 17:59significant to retention is on boarding.
- 18:03And I'm not talking just about like your contract, your welcome
- 18:07e-mail that you send to people. It's so much deeper than that.
- 18:11And I think so many people believe that that is onboarding
- 18:14in a nutshell and it's not onboarding.
- 18:17And it was really interesting when I kind of, I'm a nerd, look
- 18:19for data on this. And it was saying, research
- 18:23shows that 87% of clients who have a positive onboarding
- 18:27experience remain inside that offer well after six months,
- 18:32while nearly 50% of new clients drop within the 1st 90 days when
- 18:37the onboarding is weak. So let's just, let's just
- 18:41summarize that, OK? 87% of clients with a positive
- 18:45onboarding experience will surpass or well surpass 6 months
- 18:49with you, IE they will be retained inside your experience
- 18:52and offer. However, 50% of people who go
- 18:56through bad onboarding will typically drop off either an
- 19:00engagement or flat out as a contract if the onboarding is
- 19:05weak. So 50% of people will drop off
- 19:07mentally, emotionally, or contractually in the 1st 90 days
- 19:11if you have that onboarding. And so some things I want to
- 19:15kind of echo between, you know, the moment someone signs and
- 19:20when they're inside your offer, this is such like, I, I
- 19:24genuinely, I want you to think about me just like holding your
- 19:26shoulders right now being like, focus on this because the
- 19:30onboarding is so, so, so, so crucial in so many different
- 19:34ways. I'm going to kind of brain dump
- 19:35a couple pieces. The onboarding number one sets
- 19:38the agenda of expectations. And I hear this a lot that
- 19:42people will say, people come in and they just kind of they're
- 19:45getting ahead of themselves. They're asking questions of
- 19:48stuff I haven't gotten to yet. They're expecting results
- 19:51quicker than they should be. There's people coming in with
- 19:54preconceived expectations around an offer service.
- 19:57And one of the first questions that I ask people is I say, did
- 19:59you tell them what to expect? And they're like, what do you
- 20:03mean? And I'm like.
- 20:05Like what did you tell them as to what they should expect for
- 20:07results? What should they expect in the
- 20:09sense of their role in this relationship?
- 20:11What should they expect in the sense of timeline of feedback?
- 20:14What should they expect when it comes to how much time they're
- 20:17going to need each week to be able to, you know, fulfill the
- 20:20service and to participate inside of it?
- 20:22Did you actually answer those questions in advance of them
- 20:27having them? And often times I hear no.
- 20:31And I'm like, OK, so if you know that these are things that
- 20:35people care about, that they struggle with or that they're
- 20:37ruminating on, wouldn't it make sense that we are going to
- 20:40proactively address these within your onboarding so that we're
- 20:44not waiting for this person to have this aha moment?
- 20:46Especially if we know this is a pattern inside of your offer.
- 20:50We're not going to wait for someone to have this moment.
- 20:53We're going to know this is coming because many people have
- 20:56had this and we're going to pre address it in advance.
- 21:00And so one of the things I see is that there isn't a clear
- 21:03understanding of expectations, not only of results, but of
- 21:06their responsibilities and most importantly of your
- 21:09responsibilities. What I tell people is your
- 21:13client, the new client that you're working with is a direct
- 21:18byproduct. Their response, their messages,
- 21:21their questions are a direct byproduct of how you LED them.
- 21:25So if you've LED them poorly, they will look and feel lost,
- 21:29which is why it's seeming like they're coming to you with tons
- 21:32of stuff because in fact, they are overwhelmed.
- 21:34They have tons of questions they didn't get answered.
- 21:37They have lots of concerns that you haven't pre addressed and
- 21:41they don't know any better. So when I go through onboarding,
- 21:44one of the first things is expectation.
- 21:47Two, I think it's also important to set values and beliefs, not
- 21:52instructions. So also anchoring in that people
- 21:56often times get bought into an identity of who they need to be
- 22:01in a service versus the actions that you want them to take,
- 22:05right. So one of the things might be,
- 22:09you know, a great kind of quote is inside of our stuff is we say
- 22:13run to me, not from me. Can you promise that you were
- 22:15the kind of person who is a run to me, not from me?
- 22:18Which basically means that in an in an event where you feel like
- 22:22you're super overwhelmed, you don't know what to do, you're
- 22:24really lost. You feel like you need help.
- 22:26You are not going to be the isolated person sitting in your
- 22:31room on Zoom trying to DIY this. You are going to be the person
- 22:35who raises your hand, who asks for help and has no shame in
- 22:39doing so. Is that something that you can
- 22:41commit to doing or to being? And what it means is that I have
- 22:46now indirectly helped to plant a seed in training this person
- 22:51that this is not the identity you have here.
- 22:54You don't have the identity here of woe is me, I'm going to hide
- 22:57in the corner. And if I'm navigating or
- 23:00struggling with something, I'm not going to say anything.
- 23:02Instead, you want to create a culture of I'm struggling with
- 23:04this, I'm navigating this. Nothing is too negative, nothing
- 23:08is too overwhelming. Nothing is an overshare.
- 23:10Everything is welcome. And when I plant the identity
- 23:15and the belief system in onboarding, it means that what
- 23:19that person's doing by saying yes is when someone adopts A
- 23:24belief, there's a variety of behaviors that they also will
- 23:28adopt. So like if I say, are you
- 23:31committed to being a healthy person versus are you committed
- 23:36to going for a walk? OK, the walk is the action.
- 23:40Being committed to being a healthy person is very different
- 23:43because it means that in that day you have this identity, this
- 23:47anchor. I'm a health, healthy person,
- 23:49which means maybe it's the walk I'm trying to decide on.
- 23:51I'm a healthy person. Do I go for the soda versus the
- 23:54water? I'm a healthy person.
- 23:56Do I go for the sugar versus the salad?
- 24:01I'm a healthy person, right? So we're using our brain is
- 24:04using the anchor of who we are, not what we're faced with a
- 24:08decision of when it comes to the action.
- 24:11And so that's what I find has helped so much with onboarding
- 24:14is to ask, are you telling people what to do or in your
- 24:18onboarding, are you telling them who to be?
- 24:20And if you can tell people and guide them, invite them on who
- 24:24to be inside of your offer, they will do the things that they
- 24:28need to do. And that's because the actions
- 24:31you're asking them to take correspond with the identity
- 24:33that you've asked them to adopt. So when it comes to onboarding,
- 24:39there is the expectations aspect, there is integrating
- 24:41beliefs. There is also pre handling.
- 24:45And I'm going to have a little Segway here.
- 24:47If you have not watched George's episode, which is all about
- 24:51customer journey, he talks about his Apple framework.
- 24:54It's app PPP, no APPLE. If you have not watched that
- 25:01podcast, I highly recommend going and listening to George
- 25:04Bryant with AT George Bryant and I's podcast with the Apple
- 25:08Framework. That framework is something that
- 25:11I have integrated into every single section of my business.
- 25:14He gives it away all for free on that podcast.
- 25:17And with that, it breaks down these steps in detail.
- 25:20But one of the things that he talks about in that episode is
- 25:23that you need to pre handle things.
- 25:25So a lot of times our reactiveness as a service
- 25:28provider to someone having a question or someone having, you
- 25:33know, an inquiry and we're like, Oh my gosh, how is this person
- 25:35asking this? Or why don't they already know
- 25:37that? Isn't that common sense?
- 25:39I hear people get frustrated and you might find that you get
- 25:42frustrated people with asking you questions and you're like, I
- 25:45haven't gotten to that yet, right?
- 25:46You know, I'm getting there. That's that's the next step.
- 25:48Or they're getting ahead of themselves.
- 25:50One of the steps that he talks about is pre handling.
- 25:53And so I want you to ask yourself what are like just
- 25:56right now think of maybe three things that you know, your ideal
- 26:00client. Every time you sign a new
- 26:02client, they're usually like, well, when am I going to get
- 26:05this report or when's the next step or when do we book a call?
- 26:07So why don't you just take a second right now think about
- 26:10what are three things that your audience typically has questions
- 26:16about frustrations about when they're working with you.
- 26:20Now just take a second. Think of those three.
- 26:22OK, so mine might be like booking of one-on-one calls.
- 26:26So like, how do I get the one-on-one calls booked in 2A?
- 26:29Common question is what module should I watch?
- 26:32Like should I watch them all? Should I watch them a certain
- 26:34order? Can I watch anything?
- 26:35Should I wait? Is a common question that I, I
- 26:37always get. And then I would say third is a
- 26:41common question, which is, you know, how fast should I expect
- 26:43to see momentum? How do I know when to evaluate
- 26:46the situation to know if I should change my strategy or
- 26:49not? So imagine me knowing that those
- 26:52three exist and never addressing them or you knowing the three
- 26:56that you're thinking of and knowing that those are
- 26:59questions, concerns or curiosities they have and not
- 27:02addressing them. So what ends up happening is
- 27:05that you will end up with the same person asking every single
- 27:07time they join your offer. So what I want you to ask now is
- 27:11OK, in the onboarding, where do I address those 3 concerns ahead
- 27:14of them experience them. So if someone's like how fast
- 27:18can I get results? It might be have video and
- 27:21you're on board and it says, hey, so let's talk a little bit
- 27:23about the timeline and what you should expect as to how you
- 27:27audit your success inside of this experience or inside of
- 27:30this program, right? If it's modules, hey, you're
- 27:33probably an eager Beaver and you are so excited to be here.
- 27:36So you want to just dive into information and I want you to
- 27:38actually not do that. And here's why.
- 27:40So I can actually plant things in my onboarding that pre handle
- 27:45to Georgia's framework, which is one of the keys in the Apple
- 27:49framework to pre handle. Pre handling basically means
- 27:53that when we pre address something before someone
- 27:55experiences it, it builds trust on the contrast.
- 27:58If something happens or they have a curiosity or question and
- 28:02they feel like they can't find what they're looking for or
- 28:03nobody has addressed this, it means that they feel alone, they
- 28:07feel isolated and they feel like something's wrong.
- 28:10So onboarding is truthfully one of the most simple ways to be
- 28:15able to get ahead of the concerns that your ideal client
- 28:20may have. And so this is a place where if
- 28:23you are having problems inside of your offer, you're having
- 28:26questions, overwhelm, frustrations, brain dump what
- 28:29those are. And then what I want you to do
- 28:31is literally have that on one monitor and or one side and have
- 28:34that on the other side and say, do I feel like the biggest
- 28:37concerns, questions, overwhelm or curiosity that people have is
- 28:42actively being addressed inside of my forward facing onboarding?
- 28:45If not, that is your first piece of homework.
- 28:48OK, Now the second piece that is a, a big theme I see is what I
- 28:54consider to be the silence between the sessions.
- 28:58And this, I want to be very clear is something that's not
- 29:01intentional. I think this is often times
- 29:04unintentional by people, but it is something that really does
- 29:08weaken a client experience. So when you first onboard a
- 29:11client, think how excited you are, right?
- 29:13You're like, OK, great. This is a new person in my
- 29:15service, new person in my offer. You're like getting back to them
- 29:18super quickly. You want to make sure that
- 29:20they're, you know, really satisfied that they're very
- 29:22excited. They have everything that they
- 29:24need and you're really on top of it.
- 29:27And then what ends up happening is after you've worked with that
- 29:30client, sometimes people get comfortable and they get
- 29:33comfortable in taking a little bit longer to reply.
- 29:36They get comfortable in taking a little longer to get resources
- 29:40to that person. They end up finding themselves
- 29:44getting into this level of comfort, this kind of automatic
- 29:47way of doing things that ultimately makes the client feel
- 29:51like their experience used to be here, Now their experience is
- 29:55here and they can't quite figure out why that is.
- 29:59And so they just label it as I'm just satisfied or this person
- 30:03just isn't the way that they used to be within our service.
- 30:06So this can mean less check insurance in between your calls.
- 30:11It could also be less accountability for people in
- 30:15between sessions to kind of say, hey, we haven't heard from you
- 30:17want to check in to see how you're doing.
- 30:19And if you find that people are very silent in between sessions
- 30:25or your services, it is a red flag.
- 30:28And now I, I want to kind of add a little caveat to this.
- 30:31This does not mean that you should assume that someone needs
- 30:35to be messaging you all the time.
- 30:37It's more a matter of do you guys have a consistent cadence
- 30:40of communication? If someone kind of feels like
- 30:43they're nowhere to be found in a service or they're nowhere to be
- 30:46found inside of your offer, in the sense of you're like, they
- 30:50don't come to calls, they don't answer messages, they're not
- 30:52there. They take forever to answer my
- 30:54emails. This can actually be a really
- 30:57big sign of churn, which is the fact that people are potentially
- 31:01prepping to leave your experience because they're not
- 31:03engaged anymore, so you need to keep them engaged.
- 31:07And so there is this perception when I talk to people that, oh,
- 31:11they're just silent because they don't need anything.
- 31:14They're silent because they're good.
- 31:16And they see it as they're silent because it's just like
- 31:19they're indifferent, like they're fine.
- 31:20They don't need anything. And I often tell people that's
- 31:24not the case. The reason that they're silent
- 31:26is not because necessarily they're happy.
- 31:30There are a lot of people right now in this moment, potentially
- 31:33even you who have clients right now that are very silent in your
- 31:37service. And you take that to
- 31:38automatically mean, oh, they're happy.
- 31:41They're they're great in the service.
- 31:42We've been working with them forever.
- 31:44They don't need us. When was the last time that you
- 31:46checked in with those long term clients, with those clients that
- 31:50are silent, that don't ask too much of you?
- 31:53And when was the last time that you actually checked in and
- 31:55said, hey, I just kind of want to check in, see how you're
- 31:57doing. See, you know, just obviously
- 31:59been working together for a long time.
- 32:01How are you liking the service? You know, is there anything that
- 32:03you feel that could be done better that you'd like more of
- 32:06just kind of want to do a little pulse check to see how you're
- 32:08feeling about everything. When was the last time that you
- 32:10did that? And why haven't you checked in
- 32:14with somebody if they are silent?
- 32:17Silence does not necessarily always mean things are good.
- 32:21OK, so let's not assume that anybody who is in the silent
- 32:26bucket is somebody who's automatically just totally fine
- 32:30in the service. They're great, they don't need
- 32:31anything. It could very well be that they
- 32:34are silently struggling. They just aren't letting you
- 32:36know and they're basically waiting at the clock till the
- 32:38end of your service. So if somebody does not have a
- 32:42clear road map with you, if somebody doesn't have, you know,
- 32:46wins with you, if they're not having and being acknowledged,
- 32:49if there's not a connection in a relationship, even, it basically
- 32:53means that they're sitting in silent doubt.
- 32:57And silent doubt is what ultimately leads to clients
- 33:01cancelling. And if you have ever felt that
- 33:03you've been blindsided by a client leaving, like you're
- 33:06like, I thought they'd stay forever.
- 33:08I feel like they've been with me forever.
- 33:09Like they were like a, an OG client.
- 33:12I just feel like I never could have foreseen them leaving.
- 33:16And then one day they just left. Yeah.
- 33:18I would ask these pieces, how many of these did you check in
- 33:22on? How many of these did you follow
- 33:23up on? And is it possible that the
- 33:27reason that they left is because we got a little too comfortable,
- 33:31we got a little bit too assuming of the fact that they were happy
- 33:35clients instead of actually getting curious to confirm that
- 33:38they were in fact happy clients. So silence between sessions is a
- 33:43big, a big issue because often times when you're scaling, you
- 33:47have lots of clients. Or again, if we have retention,
- 33:50you have clients that maybe are working with you for two or
- 33:53three rounds. I have clients that I've been
- 33:54working with for years at a time that have never taken a break.
- 33:58And I have to make sure that I am supporting them in the same
- 34:00way now that I did when they first kicked off.
- 34:03And so this is a really important thing to ask yourself
- 34:06about your own experience with clients.
- 34:09The other thing is the renewal conversation.
- 34:11And this is something I think that even when people have great
- 34:15service and they have great delivery, you have to recognize
- 34:19that every time that somebody renews inside of your world,
- 34:22you're asking them the same kind of way for as you were at the
- 34:26beginning for a new investment. And one of the things I want to
- 34:30warn you about is we don't want an assumption that we don't need
- 34:34to do anything to onboard someone to another round because
- 34:38it is still an investment. It still is a step that you're
- 34:41asking that person to take. It's a new six months.
- 34:44It's a new 12 months. And So what I recommend is
- 34:47making sure, which is why the onboarding is important, that
- 34:50you also paint the picture of the journey.
- 34:53So if you paint the picture of your experience of your journey
- 34:58as OK, great. You're, you sign with me for six
- 35:01months, right, You often are going to have that person
- 35:04looking as my six months are complete.
- 35:06Whereas you can say, listen on average I work with most clients
- 35:09that I'm working with right now for typically about a year and a
- 35:12half to two years. But we ultimately do 6 month
- 35:15contracts to kind of reset every six months as to the vision of
- 35:19how we want to leverage the next 6, right.
- 35:22So what that does is it says, yes, the six month contract, but
- 35:25the vision of really where we can take you or where we can get
- 35:28you in your outcome is going to ultimately happen big picture in
- 35:33the next year, year and a half of X amount of and this is just
- 35:36for a six month offer. It doesn't have to be that long
- 35:38for you, but this paints the picture of where they can go and
- 35:42they it doesn't make it about the contract and about the fact
- 35:45that, you know, as soon as this timer goes off, you're free to
- 35:48go kind of thing. Technically, contractually they
- 35:51are, but it paints the picture that the North Star is not at
- 35:54that six months. It's actually at a year or a
- 35:56year and a half. So we want to make sure in
- 36:00onboarding that we're painting that picture of where can they
- 36:03go, right? I talk about this even in our
- 36:05own program, which is the reason you're here is not just to
- 36:09collect a module, download a worksheet and be like, hey,
- 36:12cool, check. I'm moving on.
- 36:14The experience of getting clarity around scaling is
- 36:19something that compounds, which means once you have the clarity
- 36:23you need, let's say to get to A30K month, great, now you need
- 36:26a new road map to get to the 70 K month.
- 36:28Then you need a new road map to get to the 110 K month.
- 36:31Then you need a new road map to get to 150 K months.
- 36:34Like this is a different progression.
- 36:36What you work on to generate your first couple sales is not
- 36:39the same thing as going to seven figures.
- 36:42So yes, there's a lot of very similar, similar principles, but
- 36:45there's always going to be something new to focus on
- 36:48because you have a new stage of growth that you're trying to get
- 36:50to. So when you paint that picture,
- 36:53someone can see the vision, they can see where they're going
- 36:56versus just assuming I'm signing for six months and I'm ready to
- 36:59go. I also see people leave the
- 37:01renewal conversation way, way, way too long inside their
- 37:07service. And that is because often times
- 37:10we have this either assumption people will renew assumption
- 37:14that we don't really need to, to sell them on anything because
- 37:17like they already experienced our service, they know if they
- 37:19want to work with me or not. It's not that actually at all.
- 37:23It's about the fact that they are investing again.
- 37:25So we need a new setting of expectations as to what that
- 37:28vision looks like. And you also should be
- 37:31proactively addressing this conversation, not at the time
- 37:34when the contract is finished. And so I'll tell you a story
- 37:37actually of a client that I have right now.
- 37:38I have a private client that I've been working with and we
- 37:41are coming up toward the end of our our six months.
- 37:44And I was actually sharing with a team member that I really
- 37:46appreciate the way that she has approached the conversation and
- 37:50the structure and the kind of pivot point that we're at
- 37:54because we have a six, we have 6 month contracts.
- 37:56So as I said, private clients, I've been working with some of
- 37:58them for multiple years in a row.
- 38:00Again, always still in six month contracts.
- 38:02And this client was her first time working with me in private.
- 38:05And I said to her, hey, your six months is coming up in about a
- 38:08month. So for me, I always have that
- 38:10conversation 30 days before the person's due to be done.
- 38:14And I said, listen, you know, here's kind of what the next
- 38:17steps would look like. So the first thing I do is I
- 38:20recap everything that we've done.
- 38:21So I recap results we've generated, I recap momentum,
- 38:24we've created things that we've accomplished, projects we've
- 38:27completed. I go back and I look through,
- 38:29OK, here's all the things we've done.
- 38:30You know, in the contrast, I know that your next big goal or
- 38:34milestone is X. And so with that being said,
- 38:36here's kind of the attack plan of how I see that unfolding.
- 38:39This is the approach that I see as to how we would go about
- 38:42doing that. And that basically becomes the
- 38:46recap of the last six months and the reset of the new six months.
- 38:49And this is something I do for all clients, even the clients
- 38:54that I've been working with for multiple years.
- 38:56I don't assume because they're, you know, some of my OG clients
- 38:59that they're going to be with me forever regardless of what I do.
- 39:03I respect the fact that they're making a very big investment.
- 39:07And so as a result, out of that, I want to say, OK, great.
- 39:09Here's what this looks like. So renewal conversations need to
- 39:13be handled with care, preparing for how you're going to take
- 39:17that new vision with this person.
- 39:19What does that look like? Are you recapping the wins and
- 39:22the achievements you've created for them in the last round?
- 39:24Did they even experience wins and momentum in the last round?
- 39:27What do you see as to why this is a smart next step for them as
- 39:31to where they want to go with their goal, whatever that goal
- 39:35may be? And how are you proactively
- 39:39addressing this relationship and this next step?
- 39:43Or are you waiting for the client to bring it up?
- 39:45Because if that's the case, you're missing out on tons of
- 39:48opportunity to not only have better relationships and better
- 39:51dynamics with your clients, but you're also missing out on tons
- 39:54of opportunity to generate more sales as well.
- 39:57So we know that the onboarding is so crucial to setting the
- 40:02frame of the entire thing. The meat of the service is going
- 40:06to come through feedback and also the communication
- 40:09day-to-day and looking at how is our.
- 40:13Communication and again, communication doesn't have to be
- 40:16you on calls. It doesn't have to be you on
- 40:17Slack even it could be looms that you send reports, you
- 40:20provide audits, you you leverage automations of reports being
- 40:25sent. A lot of smart ways you can do
- 40:26this, but it helps a client know that you're thinking of them,
- 40:29their results and their experience all the time.
- 40:32And then third is also the renewal to say, do you have a
- 40:36formal dialed intentional off boarding process or is it kind
- 40:40of whipped together and last minute you're thinking of
- 40:42something? If so, that's a portion that you
- 40:45also want to dial in. So we know that retention
- 40:49actually does have a cycle. OK, So retention is not
- 40:52necessarily random. So like if you have one client
- 40:55that is like leaving and this person's trying to leave the
- 40:58offer, this person's not happy. Often times these are not
- 41:01random. They do typically take like a
- 41:03cycle kind of to them. And there actually is a 12 month
- 41:07map of when people drop off and kind of what that means.
- 41:11So I have this visual in front of me.
- 41:13I was, I'm going to try to memorize this, but I just could
- 41:15not memorize it. So month one, why is someone
- 41:18going to leave? The root cause of why someone
- 41:20leaves in month one is all going to come down to the fact that
- 41:23they have buyer's remorse. So if someone leaves in month
- 41:27one of your service or offer, it is because you set this
- 41:30beautiful picture in your marketing, this beautiful
- 41:33picture in the front of your storefront.
- 41:35And when they got in, they're like, this is not what I thought
- 41:39I was buying. This is not what I was expecting
- 41:41based on what the marketing was. So if someone leaves a month
- 41:44one, it's often because there's a big disconnect between the
- 41:47marketing and where what they actually got when the product
- 41:50came. So like, I don't know if you've
- 41:51ever bought anything off of Amazon and then it gets to your
- 41:54house. You're like, well, I was not
- 41:55expecting this, right? Like that kind of experience is
- 41:58the same thing that can happen with your offer.
- 42:01People ultimately are end up in this place where they go, OK,
- 42:05well, I wasn't expecting that. And that's where the disconnect
- 42:09comes and it instantly loses trust.
- 42:11So it can be, you know, buyer's remorse of the disconnect
- 42:14between marketing and the offer. It can also be a very clear,
- 42:18like unclear expectations. So again, they feel lost.
- 42:21They feel overwhelmed and lost. It's the last thing you want for
- 42:24anyone who's joining a new offer.
- 42:25You want to pre set up the expectations as clearly and
- 42:28specifically as you can. And the other thing, which is an
- 42:31obvious one is if there's no early wins.
- 42:33So the wins, by the way, do not need to be like, you know, safe
- 42:37for myself. They don't even have to be
- 42:39sometimes they are, but they don't have to be financial.
- 42:41It doesn't have to be. You come into working with me
- 42:44and within two days you're a multi millionaire, right?
- 42:47Like that's not the expectation, but there should be an
- 42:50expectation of clarity. There should be an expectation
- 42:53of momentum. Like I had a private client
- 42:56intensive the other day, which is like a 5 hour virtual
- 43:00session. And this client was like, I have
- 43:03been literally struggling with this thing you taught me for I'm
- 43:07not even kidding. Like the last year, like I had,
- 43:10I had no idea. It was something I was trying to
- 43:12put into words and I was so massively struggling with and I
- 43:16couldn't figure out what to do or like what I needed to shift.
- 43:20And this just brought it all together.
- 43:21So it's also making sure that the momentum doesn't have to be
- 43:26something that is like so boxed in that's black and white.
- 43:29Think about what would provide that person relief, What would
- 43:31provide them clarity, momentum and aha moment that they've been
- 43:36struggling with? How do we get them relief of
- 43:38something that was previously a problem?
- 43:41So at the beginning in month one, your risk of drop off is
- 43:44very, very, very high. So this is a make it or break it
- 43:48period for people long term and for people short term.
- 43:50Staying in your offer now months two and three, I would say that
- 43:53your level of risk for drop off is still very high.
- 43:57It's not super, super high, but I would say it's still in the
- 43:59high ish bucket. So I literally think about these
- 44:01in like the Green Zone, the yellow zone and the red zone,
- 44:04almost like a traffic light. And this is still in the red
- 44:07zone similar to month 1. So month two and three, the
- 44:10thing that's going to really bottleneck people is slow
- 44:12progress. So if they feel like there is
- 44:14actually such a thing as a honeymoon phase and an offer.
- 44:16So when someone comes in, they're really excited, they're
- 44:19like, OK, like new information, you know, new team potentially
- 44:23coming in to help, new resources, new insights.
- 44:26They're like really soaking up the newness.
- 44:29And then this moment comes where we go, oh, okay, well, the
- 44:34newness has worn off and the reality is here.
- 44:37And so the honeymoon phase fades away.
- 44:39And so when the honeymoon phase fades away, in your offer, you
- 44:43have to ask what's going to be lying beneath it, which is will
- 44:46they see the clarity? Will they see the momentum?
- 44:49Will they actually identify? OK, yeah, You know, like, I'm
- 44:53not as high, high energy as when I first started, but I see what
- 44:56can be done here. I see the momentum, I see the
- 44:58potential, I see the resources. If that's the case, then we're
- 45:02in a good place. If they don't see that, that's a
- 45:05whole other can of worms that needs to be addressed, which
- 45:08again goes back to the delivery. Now month four to five I would
- 45:12say are less intense in the sense of drop off again,
- 45:16mentally, emotionally or physically leaving the program.
- 45:19Because this is usually a point where if you've gotten someone
- 45:22to month four or five, they're usually one of two ways.
- 45:25They already know that they're like this.
- 45:26I love this offer, I love this service and I want to stay.
- 45:29Now. You also though, may have people
- 45:31who kind of do the thing of like quiet quitting where like
- 45:36they're kind of mentally starting to pare back.
- 45:38So again, less participation, maybe less communication, not as
- 45:41present as they once were. And that is because the novelty
- 45:46of the offer wore off. And sometimes in month 4:00 and
- 45:495:00, because time has passed, someone can feel almost like a
- 45:53plateau feeling. They feel like they're they're
- 45:55stuck at this this place, like they're kind of just they're
- 45:59stagnant. They're sitting, they're not
- 46:00feeling necessarily momentum and they're not feeling yeah, that
- 46:04they're moving the needle. They just kind of feel like
- 46:06they're just there. And that plateau feeling is
- 46:09often what leads people to leave the offer.
- 46:11It feels like it's not bad, but it's not incredible or it's not
- 46:15super good. And so as a result, I'm
- 46:18indifferent. So as I'm as a result of that,
- 46:20I'm going to go. So month four and five, you will
- 46:24sometimes even see in month 4 when again that communication
- 46:27slows down. Maybe they're less engaged.
- 46:30What ends up happening is they're kind of prepping for the
- 46:31exit on month 6. If you have a six month offer or
- 46:34if you have a four month offer, they're like, yeah, I'm not
- 46:36going to renew. I don't hate this offer.
- 46:38I just am not like stoked by it. I feel like I'm good.
- 46:40They're just like indifferent. They're ready to go.
- 46:43Now month 6 is very high. So again, think back into the
- 46:46red zone and that is because it usually especially if a six
- 46:50month offer becomes a decision point.
- 46:52So like for me, the six months is a very important factor for a
- 46:55lot of our clients to say, OK, when someone's thinking about
- 46:58renewing with us, they look back at the last six months.
- 47:01They look back at calls they've had, the things they're
- 47:04learning, the things that they're integrating.
- 47:06And they ask themselves, do I feel like I've gotten what I
- 47:11wanted out of the last six months?
- 47:12And do I feel like even if I didn't achieve everything that I
- 47:15wanted? Because like, let's say you want
- 47:17to like blow up as a podcast, you want to blow up your offer
- 47:19and you want to do all these things.
- 47:21Maybe they hit let's just say like 8 out of 10 of the things
- 47:24on their list. And they look back and they say,
- 47:26OK, do I feel like my expectations coming in and what
- 47:31I've been given or what's been provided to me are generally
- 47:34speaking in correlation with each other?
- 47:37If so, then OK, great. That means that the the
- 47:41expectation I had matches what I got.
- 47:43I kind of am excited to see what that next phase would look like.
- 47:46And if people have concerns, you should also open that
- 47:50conversation with people at the six months to say, OK, great.
- 47:53What are those concerns? Because I actually had another
- 47:56quick story. I had a client came to me the
- 47:58other day and she said, you know, there was these clients
- 48:01who they're feeling really stressed.
- 48:03Her clients were feeling really stressed about the investment
- 48:05and they were having some trouble.
- 48:07She's in marketing space, and they were thinking about, hey,
- 48:10like, we're thinking about cutting outside, cutting outside
- 48:12the offer, like we're thinking about leaving.
- 48:14And she was like, I really don't think it's the right choice for
- 48:15them. And I said, The thing is, it's
- 48:17not about the money. It's not about like, oh, just,
- 48:20you know, the investment. Yes, they may be going through
- 48:23financial trouble, but the thing that they're actually assessing
- 48:25is that they don't feel clear on how more time in this is going
- 48:30to help them to get to where they want to go.
- 48:31So the real thing that you need to overcome is being able to
- 48:36communicate how spending more time with you in this offer is
- 48:39actually one of the things they need to do.
- 48:41It is the thing that they need to be focusing on and here's
- 48:43why. So that's something that we
- 48:45talked about and she salvage a client that was paying her, you
- 48:48know, multiple thousands of dollars every single month.
- 48:52And just because the client had again a resetting of
- 48:55expectations around what had they had been thinking through
- 48:58and what they were going through mindset wise.
- 49:00So again, six months is a very pivotal time.
- 49:03Now, if you have a year long program, months 7 to 9 also
- 49:06again are not as it's kind of like you'll see the month 4 to 5
- 49:10and the month 7 to 9 are not as intense when it comes to drop
- 49:14off risk. And that's because typically,
- 49:16again, if someone's going to be having that six month check in,
- 49:207 to 9 is kind of like right after that's happened.
- 49:23So usually they had a resetting of expectations.
- 49:26They sometimes still can feel a little bit fatigued, so they can
- 49:29feel a little bit like Groundhog's Day.
- 49:31So sometimes in an offer service, they get comfortable.
- 49:34It kind of feels like you're doing the same thing all the
- 49:36time. There's no fresh energy, there's
- 49:38no fresh clarity. And yeah, they just feel like a
- 49:41a lack of energy. Generally speaking overall that
- 49:44can happen definitely between 7:00 and 9:00.
- 49:47And when we think about a year long program, there's you know,
- 49:5111:50, which I would say is like the end of a one year, A1 year
- 49:55program is a or a one year offer is a pretty significant timeline
- 49:59for somebody. Because again, usually what do
- 50:02we know happens at the top of each year, we re evaluate our
- 50:05goals, we re evaluate our success, we re evaluate what
- 50:08we're working on. And so there is this either pre
- 50:13anxiety of renewing. So like even for me when I've
- 50:16had, you know, experiences with some like consultants, even
- 50:20where I felt like I didn't know where we were going to go next.
- 50:23And it was once I got that resetting where I was like, oh,
- 50:26perfect. Yeah, I would definitely would
- 50:27be happy to renew versus, you know, being with somebody who,
- 50:31yeah, you feel like you're not clear.
- 50:33And then you're like, I'm signing another 6 or 12 month
- 50:35contract, but I don't really know what that's going to look
- 50:37like. Then that's something that you
- 50:39again, can get kind of like pre anxious about because you're
- 50:41like, I don't know if I should do this.
- 50:43I kind of like it, but I don't know if I want another 12
- 50:44months. So again, comes back to his
- 50:46expectations and you also that contract ending.
- 50:51If you do have a contract ending, you want to be sure to
- 50:55to say, OK, like how is this contract ending?
- 50:57Meaning do I feel like I'm leaving this relationship with
- 51:01clarity, with completion, with support of that person and
- 51:04knowing that they are making the right decision?
- 51:07Or do I feel like they're kind of leaving, but we don't
- 51:10actually both feel like this is a good idea for them.
- 51:12That is something that you want to think through because if you
- 51:15feel like more often than not you're having people leaving,
- 51:19but you don't actually think it's the right next step for
- 51:21them or you don't believe it's what's correct, and that's a
- 51:24common practice. It actually says something about
- 51:26the delivery, which is clients aren't leaving because the
- 51:29relationship's truly done here and you both believe that to be
- 51:32true. The clients are leaving because
- 51:35they're not happy. So that's really where we go
- 51:38into, OK, great. How can we go back to those core
- 51:41mistakes and make sure to fill up some of those gaps?
- 51:43So I'm going to ask you a couple questions that I want you to
- 51:46think about as I list them off. Just take a second to reflect on
- 51:49each one. And these are going to help to
- 51:51be a little bit of a reflection about your individual retention.
- 51:54So one of the questions we're going to start with is
- 51:56onboarding. So do do you feel that your
- 51:59client knows exactly what to expect in the next 136 and 12
- 52:05months with you if your offer is that long?
- 52:07OK, You could also say if your offer is 6 months, you could say
- 52:11do they know what to expect in the first month, month 3 and
- 52:14month 6? You're just going to kind of
- 52:15chapter it into sections. So does your client know exactly
- 52:18what to expect in the phases of your offer?
- 52:21OK, do you feel that you often times are able to create a fast
- 52:26win in the first two weeks of working with you?
- 52:29Now again, this does not mean that you have to make them
- 52:32overnight a multi millionaire. You don't have to overnight make
- 52:36them go viral overnight blow up their their SEO.
- 52:40It's not that, it's to say how do I produce a win.
- 52:42As I said, clarity and momentum can be just as much a win as the
- 52:46overall achievement is. So how can I produce a win?
- 52:49And do I produce wins in the first two weeks right now?
- 52:52And do I feel that I give a very clear road map of what my
- 52:55clients are going to be doing with me in the 1st 90 days of
- 52:58working together? OK, so that's your on boarding.
- 53:01Just a quick pulse check, yes or no?
- 53:04Do we have those timestamps of the phases of it?
- 53:07Do we feel like we create momentum in the first two weeks
- 53:09and do we really have a road map of the next 90 days together
- 53:13inside of a service? Does a client feel clear on
- 53:16those? If not, that gives you some
- 53:18things to think about when it comes to your onboarding. 2 Can
- 53:21you see how far clients have actually come?
- 53:26So do you have a metric to monitor how they're doing inside
- 53:30the offer? Do you have a way to analyze and
- 53:32stay on top of how good they are within your your results or
- 53:36within your offer based off what you said the result should be,
- 53:40are you tracking and celebrating milestones or are you just
- 53:43simply delivering a service? So this is where you know the
- 53:47client may or may not track their results or their outcomes
- 53:51or their success inside your service, But you can say, hey,
- 53:55did you know that we increased the accounts reached by X much?
- 53:58Did you know that you actually have doubled your inquiries in
- 54:00the last three months? Whatever it may be, it doesn't
- 54:03have to be this massive one thing.
- 54:06It can be planting those little momentum pieces and sharing with
- 54:09people, this is a win. This is a win and saying to
- 54:13someone, hey, this is how you've been doing.
- 54:16Look at this versus the thing that they might have their eyes
- 54:19on, communication. So the question becomes if
- 54:21someone has a call or service or a deliverable from you, what
- 54:25happens in between? So when you provide somebody
- 54:28like a call or you give them feedback or you provide their
- 54:32social media captions or when you, you know, provide their
- 54:35their edited videos, what happens next?
- 54:37What is that next step that somebody should take?
- 54:41What's the next step of what's the natural piece for
- 54:43communication? What is your communication
- 54:45between or are you silent and is there a system or touch points
- 54:50with your clients? Do you have a structure that you
- 54:53use whether it's fancy or not to monitor your clients and make
- 54:58sure that nobody falls through the cracks, OK?
- 55:01Also, do you have a structured conversation at the halfway
- 55:05point of your offer to re energize the relationship and re
- 55:09establish the goals with your clients?
- 55:13OK. And do you proactively position
- 55:15the next step at the time of onboarding and before the
- 55:18contract ends or are you typically waiting and hope that
- 55:21they ask about renewing? So these are really important
- 55:26things to ask because even as I'm asking these, you might be
- 55:29like, I don't know the road map or no, I don't really have a, a
- 55:32tracking system for their results or no, I feel like I
- 55:37don't really talk to them. And if they don't need anything,
- 55:39we don't message them. I want you to just take a second
- 55:41and think about maybe what were like 3 of the ones that landed
- 55:44for you that you say, no, I don't really think I have that.
- 55:48OK, So what were three of those that you're like, I'm going to
- 55:52chew on that. I want you just to take a
- 55:54second, whether it's even on your notes as you're listening
- 55:56to this. It could be on a piece of paper
- 55:58if you're working anywhere to just say what are three things
- 56:02that I can do with those questions to improve my
- 56:05retention? So ideas could be, do you need
- 56:08to have more of a clear road map of the structure of what happens
- 56:11in your offer based on the timeline of how long they're
- 56:13with you? Is there something you could do
- 56:16to create a better win in the first two weeks of someone
- 56:18working with you? Do you have a clear road map of
- 56:21what their first little small Sprint of working with you looks
- 56:24like? So for me, it might be the first
- 56:2590 days. Do I create a resource so
- 56:30clients can see the progression of their results with me?
- 56:34Do I have a reminder to track their milestones or celebrate
- 56:39them or acknowledge them more often?
- 56:41Do I have a way to structure communication to make sure no
- 56:45one falls through the cracks and that if they go silent, we have
- 56:48a system to pick up on it? Do I have 1/2 point check in at
- 56:53the point of our service to see how they're feeling and how
- 56:55they're doing? Do I have a proactive renewal
- 56:59process for the time of off boarding?
- 57:02And this is what I want you to think.
- 57:05Three of those. If you're like, I don't, that's
- 57:08what I want you to focus on. The reason I say 3 is you do
- 57:11not, I want to be very clear, you do not want to take this
- 57:13entire list and be like, I'm going to go focus for the next
- 57:15week on my retention. Because if you focus on all of
- 57:18these, you're not going to achieve anything.
- 57:20The objective is to look at what are three things that I can dial
- 57:25in that maybe you even are already doing, but you're not
- 57:27doing well. So maybe you have a road map,
- 57:30but it's not really dialed. Maybe you have milestones, but
- 57:34the system of how they present to clients is not really that
- 57:36great. Take pieces and ingredients that
- 57:38you already have and refine them.
- 57:41Don't look to use this as a huge homework list for you to OK,
- 57:44great. I'm going to, you know, really
- 57:45fix up my retention. It's something that you can dial
- 57:49in these little pieces. And I can guarantee you by doing
- 57:52that, your clients will already have a better experience because
- 57:57they're things you already have access to.
- 57:58You can make 10 times better with a tweak right now than
- 58:02starting from scratch on something new that you don't
- 58:04even have integrated yet. So remember, scaling comes from
- 58:08retention, not acquisition. And that is that keeping clients
- 58:12is more important and most important in a scaling business
- 58:16in comparison to just more marketing, more sales.
- 58:18If you are sick and tired of being on the marketing and sales
- 58:21hamster wheel and feeling like you have to live non-stop in
- 58:25copy and video editing and filming and social media and
- 58:28you're like, it's just this never ending roller coaster of
- 58:31social and marketing all the time.
- 58:34If you feel like that is exhausting, I want you to know
- 58:37that you can unlock a whole other level of sales within your
- 58:41business inside of your current client base right now.
- 58:44If you can dial in some of these pieces.
- 58:46So I hope today was helpful for you as always, if you have any
- 58:49questions, if you feel like you're trying to figure out
- 58:52maybe what one of these principles might look like for
- 58:54your business, maybe you're an agency, you could be a coach, a
- 58:58consultant with your offer and you're trying to figure out how
- 59:02this looks for you, shoot me a message.
- 59:03I want you to know that my DMS are always open for two things.
- 59:06If you have questions about something that you're listening
- 59:09to and what it looks like for you, reach out.
- 59:11I would be happy to give you my thoughts as to how we could
- 59:13apply this. And two, I would also say just
- 59:15downloads. One of the things that I know is
- 59:18huge in seeing momentum, both business and personally, is to
- 59:22be witnessed in transformation, which is to have a insight, to
- 59:26have an aha moment and to share that with somebody, to be able
- 59:30to be seen in it, to acknowledge this is happening.
- 59:33And I'm doing this thing to commit to yourself to doing it.
- 59:35So also, if you want to shoot me a message in the DMS and just
- 59:38say, hey, I listened to the retention episode and I've
- 59:40decided that as a result, I'm going to go integrate XI.
- 59:43Would love to hear from you, any comments, any questions you
- 59:46have. My DMS are always open.
- 59:47With that being said, we will see you on next week's episode.
- 59:51And, as always, stay ambitious.