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Blame the Patriarchy Not Me Feat @ShyThugg (part one) · So Shameless

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  Speaker 1: If you know what I'm saying, so so shameous, if
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  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, so shameless, if you know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, sous, so shameless, so so so smous,
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  Speaker 1: If you know what I'm saying, so shamous, if you
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  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, so shameless, if you know what
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying, so shameless.
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  Speaker 2: If you know what I'm saying, if I can start,
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  Speaker 2: I have bad things, sister.
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  Speaker 3: I have a new ski.
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  Speaker 2: I have a newfound fear and anxiety. I developed it
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  Speaker 2: last night when I was up three o'clock in the
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  Speaker 2: morning doom strolling very bad.
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  Speaker 4: Mm.
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  Speaker 5: What did you.
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  Speaker 3: Little niggas?
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  Speaker 4: Whyans yo?
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  Speaker 2: I'm terrified of these niggas, bro Like I think that
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  Speaker 2: I'm I'm actually at the point when I'm scared of
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  Speaker 2: the youth.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not even gonna hold you. Them niggas as scary
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  Speaker 3: as hell.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, did you see.
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  Speaker 3: What they did at Brooklyn Bridge Park? That's nigga. I'm scared.
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  Speaker 3: I'm scared of whatever summer y'all about to have.
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  Speaker 2: I'm terrified for y'all, y'all New Yorkers.
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  Speaker 3: I'm terrified.
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  Speaker 2: These little niggas had one seventy degree day, they all
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  Speaker 2: had a.
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  Speaker 3: Link up at Brooklyn Bridge Park.
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  Speaker 2: It was like two hundred m niggas, I swear to god,
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  Speaker 2: cops come out of nowhere like they just they just running,
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  Speaker 2: They just all everywhere. Then then somebody got snuffed, and
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  Speaker 2: then like the brother of the kid that got snuffed
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  Speaker 2: like jumped in and it was like a big ass
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  Speaker 2: brawl and the cops just trying to break it up.
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  Speaker 2: They throwing shit at the cops, They throwing balls at
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  Speaker 2: the cops, all types of shit, Like it is actually terrifying.
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  Speaker 2: Like I had a conversation I said this on the
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  Speaker 2: show a while ago that before I met Drew, there
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  Speaker 2: was this cop nigga that I tried to talk to
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  Speaker 2: and we had a fundamental ethical differences, so it didn't
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  Speaker 2: work out.
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  Speaker 3: Like literally, we had.
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  Speaker 2: A conversation about the youth in New York and Brooklyn specifically,
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  Speaker 2: and he was a detective and he's just like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you know, we gotta like get down on crime, and
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  Speaker 2: we gotta start liking these niggas up because they're out
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  Speaker 2: of control and they doing this and they doing that.
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  Speaker 3: Da da da, And as an educator.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, no, what we need is we need more
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  Speaker 2: resources for kids. We need more things for kids to
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  Speaker 2: do after school. We need more mentorship and allyship for children,
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  Speaker 2: because at this point, if they don't have anywhere to
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  Speaker 2: go and they don't have anything to do, that's what
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  Speaker 2: gets them into the bullshit.
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  Speaker 3: We need to invest in education.
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  Speaker 2: And we literally had like a fundamental disagreement. And he
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  Speaker 2: was like, what you're saying is gonna take too long.
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  Speaker 2: And I said, yeah, it's not gonna happen overnight. But
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  Speaker 2: if you start investing in education from now, in four
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  Speaker 2: or five years, you're going to see gains. This conversation
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  Speaker 2: was now seven years ago, we went your route with
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  Speaker 2: your ball headed as a cop ass mayor from before. Now,
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  Speaker 2: look at these kids, they are literally running it's hundreds
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  Speaker 2: of them running around that ship.
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  Speaker 3: Is that ship is not terrifying, y'all?
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  Speaker 5: No, they had they of.
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  Speaker 3: Course they have their shaisties on.
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  Speaker 2: But then you also have to understand that this is
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  Speaker 2: a generation of kids that was not They don't have
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  Speaker 2: moral values, and they haven't really been raised by anybody.
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  Speaker 2: They've been raised by computers and internets and tablets and ship.
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  Speaker 2: So like back in the day and me, they was
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  Speaker 2: raised by me. You're a teacher, I am.
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  Speaker 4: You've been an educator for the better part of.
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  Speaker 2: Their entire life, of their entire I know these niggas.
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  Speaker 4: You you New York, have more contact with those y
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  Speaker 4: ns and get anybody else in.
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  Speaker 2: Here and guess what over the last it comes to
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  Speaker 2: when it comes to the children that I have cultivated,
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  Speaker 2: and take responsibility.
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  Speaker 4: For what you your influence on the.
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  Speaker 6: Children, on the youth as a whole do I as
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  Speaker 6: a teacher, principal, dean, the whole thing para the whole
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  Speaker 6: part of their upbringing?
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  Speaker 4: Do you take responsibility? You talk like them, You just
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  Speaker 4: like them, You are part of their culture. I never had.
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  Speaker 3: I see, I said, what you're doing here, and it's
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  Speaker 3: cute or whatever.
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  Speaker 2: However, Comma the difference is I am a type of
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  Speaker 2: person that if I come around any kid that I
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  Speaker 2: came in contact with, there's automatic respect that's given to
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  Speaker 2: me as an individual, But not in the masses because
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  Speaker 2: parents have not taught their children to respect people. They
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  Speaker 2: have taught people their children to respect individuals. So I
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  Speaker 2: get respect. Perfect example, I went up to the high
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  Speaker 2: school of uh my charter has one high school. I
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  Speaker 2: went up to the high school and I'm just standing
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  Speaker 2: in the whole way and I'm just talking. I'm talking
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  Speaker 2: to other leaders or whatever, and I'm running into my
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  Speaker 2: old students, and as soon as they see me, the
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  Speaker 2: ship that they know that I would have a problem
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  Speaker 2: with automatically started disappearing like niggas walking around with hoodies
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  Speaker 2: on headphones on Shistyes.
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  Speaker 3: They look at me like like, oh mister, oh right,
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  Speaker 3: what's up?
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  Speaker 2: Like, yeah, don't I don't. I talk to students. I
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  Speaker 2: talk to scholars. You don't look like a scholar right now.
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  Speaker 3: Don't speak to me.
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  Speaker 4: What's the difference between you and the other teachers that
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  Speaker 4: don't get that type of respect.
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  Speaker 3: I can't into that today.
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  Speaker 2: I can't answer that today because I could, but I'm
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  Speaker 2: on a slippery slope right now.
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  Speaker 4: When I was in school, I only related to teachers
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  Speaker 4: I felt understood me. It was It was a very
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  Speaker 4: it's a thin line, of course, but there was something
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  Speaker 4: there and the way you related energy something that and
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  Speaker 4: it's not black. It's not just yeah, there's something there.
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  Speaker 3: I can tell you what it is. It's high love
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  Speaker 3: and high accountability.
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  Speaker 2: And that's what I was talking to some leaders about
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  Speaker 2: this week, because they're like, oh, yeah, we tell them to,
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  Speaker 2: you know, like try to enforce the uniform mandate or whatever,
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  Speaker 2: and they don't listen and they start cursing you around
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  Speaker 2: and be like, fuck out of here. I'm not gonna
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  Speaker 2: do shit. I say, yo, watch this. It was a
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  Speaker 2: high school girl. She had on her school uniform but
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  Speaker 2: her belly button like she had it tied up. And
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  Speaker 2: I said, oh, my gosh, you are so pretty. And
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  Speaker 2: I said, am I looking at your belly button right now?
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  Speaker 2: I don't think that's school appropriate, do you? But you
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  Speaker 2: are beautiful? And she was like no, and she starts
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  Speaker 2: pulling it down. Yeah, because you don't have to be
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  Speaker 2: a dickhead. You don't have to be like take that off,
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  Speaker 2: do this, do that. I don't talk to children like
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  Speaker 2: that because at the end of the day, their children,
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  Speaker 2: their job is to push the envelope. You have to
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  Speaker 2: lead with love and high accountability. I want you to know, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I just told you to take off your hoodie and
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  Speaker 2: your headphones. But I just want you to know, in
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  Speaker 2: two seconds, if I see somebody else do I'm gonna
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  Speaker 2: say the same thing to him. So that's the accountability
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  Speaker 2: and it's love. One of my kids rolled up on
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  Speaker 2: me this nigga had on a hoodie, a shisty and
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  Speaker 2: a face mask and walked up to me to give
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  Speaker 2: me a hug.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, Yo, who know who is this? I
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  Speaker 3: didn't know who the fucking was.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, I'm gonna try to trauma y'all gotta chill.
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  Speaker 2: And he starts taking everything off and I said, Oh,
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  Speaker 2: that's my baby, that's my kid. This is the kid
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  Speaker 2: that I know.
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  Speaker 3: Now, how you doing.
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  Speaker 4: Think, Sean? I'm a direct this towards you, By the way, everybody,
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  Speaker 4: Welcome back to So Shameless. Last week was interesting. I
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  Speaker 4: will say that it's difficult. We're gonna keep working with it.
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  Speaker 4: We're trying to get it together.
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  Speaker 3: Mercuries and microbrades. It's not our fault.
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  Speaker 4: I'm fifty one years old, so don't expect me to
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  Speaker 4: understand that I'm working on it. We're working through it.
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  Speaker 4: But we have a guest, uh note, the notorious thug
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  Speaker 4: Okay shot Thug. She's in Brooklyn.
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  Speaker 5: Hi. Hello, you know what I'm saying with you again?
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  Speaker 4: Out here from Houston? What do they call it? We
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  Speaker 4: call New York the towns? What do y'all call y'all think?
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  Speaker 4: The times?
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  Speaker 5: Houston m hmmm.
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  Speaker 4: So y'all kind of the towns, but y'all want to
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  Speaker 4: because Atlanta's the A.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, M I'm sorry, I'm not even.
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  Speaker 4: I was raised a particular way. I would get back
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  Speaker 4: more into my introduction shot in a minute, but I
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  Speaker 4: was noticing. I was remarking the difference between kids today
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  Speaker 4: and when I was growing up, and every of course,
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  Speaker 4: everybody has different ways of raised. But I was raised
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  Speaker 4: more like if you don't, I'm going to kill you.
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  Speaker 5: That was.
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  Speaker 4: It was more like listen, fear. It was like even
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  Speaker 4: in a way she spoke to me around the house
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  Speaker 4: when I wasn't doing anything. It was a very strict like, boy,
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  Speaker 4: what you know what I'm saying, and it better be
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  Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying. It was all of those
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  Speaker 4: connotations and that ship you know whatever. I think it
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  Speaker 4: affected me, Shy, What was your upbringing like? Was it
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  Speaker 4: more like that or more like the love when people
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  Speaker 4: say they were raised with love?
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  Speaker 7: No no love, no.
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  Speaker 5: Love, wear no.
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  Speaker 7: It was very much do this because I said so
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  Speaker 7: very much, I'm not one of your little friends. That's
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  Speaker 7: the major difference between how we were raising how these kids.
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  Speaker 7: Everybody on the phone, they sent an Instagram reels to
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  Speaker 7: each other like they pattens. They're not parent kids, so
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  Speaker 7: they cool with each other. They saying what's up gang
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  Speaker 7: to one another, what's up?
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  Speaker 4: Gang?
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  Speaker 2: I have sat in meetings when I've had to tell
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  Speaker 2: kids to speak to their parents in a different way
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  Speaker 2: in front of me like dead ass, Like yo, like
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  Speaker 2: did you just brow your mom?
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  Speaker 3: You don't even brow me? Be respectful?
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  Speaker 2: Like literally having to have parents come up from meeting,
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  Speaker 2: and then when the parents have to leave, I have
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  Speaker 2: to tell the kids, YO, say goodbody your mother, say
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  Speaker 2: goodbody your father. Tell them to have a good day,
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  Speaker 2: and sorry for inconveniencing them day because they had to
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  Speaker 2: come up here for this stupid ship. Like I have
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  Speaker 2: to tell this to children in front of their parents,
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  Speaker 2: and I'll just be like, hmmm, apple.
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  Speaker 4: And I noticed that, m I don't know if I
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  Speaker 4: want to go there.
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  Speaker 3: Take it to hell, go ahead the mothers.
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  Speaker 4: There was a there was a video that I saw.
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  Speaker 4: There was a video that I saw where a guy
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  Speaker 4: was like how the kids talk to their parents?
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  Speaker 2: Like okay, yah, yeah, that out your mouth, smack it
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  Speaker 2: right out your mouth.
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  Speaker 4: But I noticed that the kids, they don't talk to
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  Speaker 4: me like that. The girls don't talk to me like that,
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  Speaker 4: they talk to their moms like that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, of course, Well why is that?
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  Speaker 4: Because and the reason I asked that is because for
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  Speaker 4: the large part, these children are being raised in single
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  Speaker 4: home by the mom. So if they think they can
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  Speaker 4: get away with it there, why wouldn't that trance of
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  Speaker 4: the rest of your life.
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  Speaker 2: It's not even I don't think it's about single homes
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  Speaker 2: per se, because I can say, like thinking about Parker,
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  Speaker 2: the way Parker treats.
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  Speaker 3: Me and Drew is completely different. It's night and day.
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  Speaker 2: Even like the way that she, like I will say
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  Speaker 2: something and she'll say something back, but he'll say something.
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  Speaker 3: And she'll just fucking do it. It's something about the mom.
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  Speaker 2: I think that because the mom, especially at the early years,
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  Speaker 2: we're more like the nurturers. So like, yeah, we're the
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  Speaker 2: soft place to land, so you feel like you could
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  Speaker 2: play with me, and then when you realize that you
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  Speaker 2: can't play with me, you don't have no allies in
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  Speaker 2: this house, little nigga, Like I have to like tell
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  Speaker 2: her this all the time, like it's us versus you,
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  Speaker 2: Like I don't even care, Like I'm not your friend,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not your homie.
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  Speaker 3: None of that shit. Like I'm gonna be kid. You
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  Speaker 3: say that to her, I'm not even talking to her
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  Speaker 3: right now. I'm not even gonna hold you. I'm not
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  Speaker 3: speaking to her. I'm not speaking to speaking of She
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  Speaker 3: threw something at me yesterday.
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  Speaker 4: Blood. Wait wait, sometimes.
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  Speaker 3: It's all right. It was an air ring.
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  Speaker 2: You don't really it wasn't nothing, it wasn't nothing consequence
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  Speaker 2: to But it's like she would not throw something at Drew,
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  Speaker 2: so you I told her yesterday, I said, I think
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  Speaker 2: that you need to understand, like you don't really know
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  Speaker 2: your mother, like you know your mother as the nurturing
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  Speaker 2: like oh my god, my baby, and hug you and
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  Speaker 2: kiss up on you, and you know that sad of mother.
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  Speaker 2: Please don't make me have to be the real meat.
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  Speaker 3: And you got she I don't. She don't know me
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  Speaker 3: like that. She's she just got here.
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  Speaker 2: She a new nigga, Like you don't really know me,
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  Speaker 2: blood like years you know, you just got here. You
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  Speaker 2: don't know your mother in real life. And I'm I'm
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  Speaker 2: gonna take it to hell every time. I never violate
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  Speaker 2: like you in what world do you throw something at
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  Speaker 2: your mother because you got an attitude? I will tear
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  Speaker 2: this whole fucking house up. I would have never made
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  Speaker 2: it at the house exactly. But I'm not a I'm
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  Speaker 2: not a beater. Yeah, so that's the difference.
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  Speaker 5: A lot of parents aren't that shit.
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  Speaker 3: Don't feel the parent that that don't feel.
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  Speaker 4: You don't a gentle parent.
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  Speaker 2: No, No, I'm not a gentle parent. I'm an understanding parent.
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  Speaker 2: Whereas I opt to talk before I give consequences because
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  Speaker 2: I need to understand the rationale.
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  Speaker 4: Is it the parents, like we can say, all right,
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  Speaker 4: we know low income housing, middle class, we know how
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  Speaker 4: that kind of affects the upbringing of children, right, Is
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  Speaker 4: it the parents relationship with the child that kind of
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  Speaker 4: determines how they view the world.
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  Speaker 8: I think we got a different so this generation, and
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  Speaker 8: so I would say Generation X and the millennials that
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  Speaker 8: are raising the kids right now are a little bit
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  Speaker 8: younger in spirit than the older generation than our parents
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  Speaker 8: growing up. So I guess that makes us a little
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  Speaker 8: bit more relatable and they could talk to us a
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  Speaker 8: little bit different differently because I remember, like you know,
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  Speaker 8: I was raised with love. My parents were very progressive,
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  Speaker 8: but there was a clear distinct line that these were
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  Speaker 8: adults and not even just with my parents, my parents, friends,
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  Speaker 8: everybody we talk to, grown ups and elders.
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  Speaker 4: Back then was totally different. I still don't cuss in
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  Speaker 4: front of my parents, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 3: But that's real.
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  Speaker 8: So it's a certain level of respect and boundaries that
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  Speaker 8: existed that I don't think exists anymore. I don't know why,
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  Speaker 8: and I'm guessing maybe it's the relatability because we were
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  Speaker 8: just younger presenting.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's that, But I also it's these damn phones. Man,
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  Speaker 2: it's these damn phones.
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  Speaker 3: We gotta get through.
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  Speaker 4: We started getting off the phones too soon, we start getting.
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  Speaker 2: I think that what happened is a lot of parents nowadays,
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  Speaker 2: we're so busy and we have so many things that's
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  Speaker 2: going on that we have substituted real parenting with things
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  Speaker 2: to keep our kids distracted and occupied.
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  Speaker 3: Right, So I think that like for me.
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  Speaker 2: I noticed a clear shift in my kid early on,
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  Speaker 2: and I took her iPad for years, like for years,
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  Speaker 2: maybe like three years.
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  Speaker 3: She didn't have it.
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  Speaker 2: Like right now, I am in that season of making
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  Speaker 2: sure that I have to. I have to balance what
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  Speaker 2: you're watching and what you're ingesting because that also is
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  Speaker 2: part of it.
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  Speaker 3: And you around other kids that are iPad babies.
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  Speaker 2: And cell phone baby, like I know seven year olds
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  Speaker 2: with a cell phone, Like, y'all get the fuck out
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  Speaker 2: of here.
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  Speaker 3: Is it drugs? Why would a seven year old need
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  Speaker 3: one of these?
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  Speaker 2: I don't even need one of these, Like I can
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  Speaker 2: see the addictive properties that are happening in me as
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  Speaker 2: a grown ass woman. You're gonna get a shit to
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  Speaker 2: a child, Just give them crack.
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  Speaker 7: Things have changed though between out like you could comfortably
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  Speaker 7: leave a child at home by theyself back in the day.
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  Speaker 7: Don't open the door for nobody, don't answer the phone.
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  Speaker 7: You can't do it if these god damn kids now these.
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  Speaker 3: Niggas is kind of they they they're not. Yeah, they're not.
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  Speaker 2: They're not as a depth as it comes to where
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  Speaker 2: they should be cognitively at a certain age, because they
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  Speaker 2: only know the screen. And I'm I'm very cognizant, and
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  Speaker 2: I'm trying my best. I'm trying my best, but I'm
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  Speaker 2: also fighting an uphill battle. I'm fighting the battle of
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  Speaker 2: but everybody else but all of my friends have and
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  Speaker 2: all of my friends get to do and and I
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  Speaker 2: want to do a TikTok with you, Mommy and I
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  Speaker 2: want to I want to do videos on YouTube, but
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: you do video and I'm just like.
• 16:15
  Speaker 3: I hear you. But I also got degrees, shorty, like
• 16:18
  Speaker 3: I don't even know what you're talking about.
• 16:20
  Speaker 5: Were not on the same lovel were not.
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: I'm here and you're here like you got you gotta
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: matriculate some ship.
• 16:26
  Speaker 4: Are the adults too young? No? What is what if?
• 16:32
  Speaker 5: Speak?
• 16:32
  Speaker 4: Like Traum was saying. Back then, we knew what an
• 16:36
  Speaker 4: adult was. They presented themselves like an adult. They listened
• 16:38
  Speaker 4: to different music, they lived a different type of life,
• 16:41
  Speaker 4: which there wasn't a There was a clear separation between
• 16:43
  Speaker 4: them and us. Now we dressed the same.
• 16:46
  Speaker 5: You got on the damn everybody got on Lululemon.
• 16:50
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. The whole house got on.
• 16:52
  Speaker 4: You know what I mean, everybody's got on the same ship, sweatsuit.
• 16:58
  Speaker 4: Everybody's got to say the same and mac since everybody
• 17:00
  Speaker 4: got the same, right, we all listen to the same music.
• 17:06
  Speaker 4: You listening to summer, I'm listening to summer, you know
• 17:09
  Speaker 4: what I mean? Dad, Mom? Everybody listening to shit? Is
• 17:13
  Speaker 4: there a lack of respect? Now? Always showing a lack
• 17:16
  Speaker 4: of respect because they're not really able to see the
• 17:19
  Speaker 4: difference between where they at and where we're at because
• 17:23
  Speaker 4: of how we act socially.
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: I think that there's an argument to be made for that.
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: However, I think it's a scapegoat because regardless of me
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: and my mom, we used to listen to the same music.
• 17:36
  Speaker 4: To her music.
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: No no, no, no no.
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: When I say we used to listen to the same music,
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: like she would buy albums for us, like CDs for us.
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: When I was listening to Eminem, she was listening to Eminem.
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: When I was listening to jay Z, she was listening
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: to jay Z. Now mind you, she also had the
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: Araca body listen.
• 17:53
  Speaker 7: Yeah, and I loved it, right.
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: I'm blast.
• 18:02
  Speaker 4: I tried to.
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: Hold you like I used to really fuck with Eminem backing.
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: But you know the only thing she did not fuck
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: with she did not fuck with my white people music.
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: She hated it.
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: When I played my INSYNCT in my Britney Spears, she
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: was like, oh, turn his whack ship off. I'm like no,
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: but but yeah, that was really my ship back then.
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: But I think that there is I think that that's
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: a that's a cop out because it's not my fault
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: that I love the new music, but I also love
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: the old music. In my house, I'm playing everything and
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: I'm Caribbean, so I'm playing everything top to bottom.
• 18:37
  Speaker 4: What you think about that? Do you think that there's
• 18:39
  Speaker 4: needs to be a clearer separation between adult and child
• 18:43
  Speaker 4: because there's a lack of respect.
• 18:45
  Speaker 7: Yeah, but I don't think it's It's not the music though,
• 18:48
  Speaker 7: because you know, we did listen to the same stuff,
• 18:50
  Speaker 7: but I was also introduced to older stuff. It's the
• 18:54
  Speaker 7: it's diversify the kids, So I think that that makes
• 18:58
  Speaker 7: for a better upbringing, just being a little more broad
• 19:01
  Speaker 7: in your music, because yeah, I do know Sexy Red,
• 19:03
  Speaker 7: but I also was raised on Luther exactly and Anita
• 19:07
  Speaker 7: and you know stuff like that. These kids don't know Luther.
• 19:10
  Speaker 7: The kids don't even know Beyonce was part of a group, right,
• 19:14
  Speaker 7: And it's pissing me off.
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: I don't like talking to me. I don't like talking
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: to little niggas when it comes to music. It actually
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: really pisses me off. But I will say I think
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: that I've done a pretty okay job at diversifying Parker
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: at least because like one of her favorite songs is
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: Return of the.
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: Mac, and I didn't put home. That's her ship. That's
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: really her ship, like she whoa just like.
• 19:36
  Speaker 4: Taste my son's know or Michael Jackson.
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: It was so cute yesterday.
• 19:43
  Speaker 5: Yeah, that was exciting.
• 19:45
  Speaker 4: I do want to I have it. I don't know
• 19:47
  Speaker 4: should I say this?
• 19:48
  Speaker 9: Here we go?
• 19:50
  Speaker 4: What we were doing? Good?
• 19:51
  Speaker 5: Why don't get excited?
• 19:52
  Speaker 4: What?
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: Wow?
• 19:54
  Speaker 4: Bro?
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: Other than the fact that people.
• 19:58
  Speaker 4: People like, oh, you're such a good dad and such
• 20:01
  Speaker 4: and such, and I'm like, I could do way better
• 20:06
  Speaker 4: the amount of time that I take to hustle and
• 20:10
  Speaker 4: to work and to like, you know what I'm saying,
• 20:14
  Speaker 4: I'm not spending the amount of time that I like,
• 20:16
  Speaker 4: I could be having those type moments with them all
• 20:17
  Speaker 4: the time. They don't know they can't, especially autism kids.
• 20:21
  Speaker 4: And there's so many men period, there's parents out there.
• 20:26
  Speaker 4: I don't even say. Man, there's so many people who
• 20:28
  Speaker 4: are reluctant to let the world know they have autistic children.
• 20:36
  Speaker 4: And I get the response is like, yo, I can't
• 20:38
  Speaker 4: believe that you're like so open about it and.
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: You know, how do your babies?
• 20:45
  Speaker 4: But yeah, it's that's an episode that i'ma have to
• 20:51
  Speaker 4: do about being an autistic parent. You know what I'm saying,
• 20:53
  Speaker 4: but yeah, I just wish that I took yo having
• 20:56
  Speaker 4: that hustle mentality. It kind of sucks, it does it
• 20:59
  Speaker 4: kind of because you missed life. You're doing all of
• 21:02
  Speaker 4: this like I gotta get it. I gotta get it
• 21:04
  Speaker 4: and get it. And the whole time your friends is
• 21:06
  Speaker 4: having birthdays, your kids wanted to go over here, but
• 21:09
  Speaker 4: you're flying out, or you doing this, that and the other.
• 21:11
  Speaker 4: You missing all of all of these great moments. Shot
• 21:14
  Speaker 4: your content creator. Now I am what are the ups
• 21:18
  Speaker 4: and downs for you?
• 21:20
  Speaker 7: Burnout is the biggest down since I've really gotten into
• 21:25
  Speaker 7: it for real.
• 21:26
  Speaker 5: I don't know.
• 21:29
  Speaker 7: How to I haven't figured out how to balance the time,
• 21:32
  Speaker 7: like I talk damn there for a living now.
• 21:35
  Speaker 5: I don't won't talk no more.
• 21:36
  Speaker 4: I don't be wanting to talk.
• 21:38
  Speaker 5: But I'm the talker.
• 21:40
  Speaker 7: I'm chatty Patty, and it feels weird that I don't
• 21:43
  Speaker 7: want to talk as much anymore. So I'm trying to
• 21:45
  Speaker 7: figure out how to kind of balance and navigate through
• 21:49
  Speaker 7: that and a lot of people men. Men, you know,
• 21:55
  Speaker 7: somebody literally told me yesterday, no, turn the podcast off.
• 21:57
  Speaker 7: You're not gonna talk to me like we on the podcast.
• 22:00
  Speaker 5: Because I had a question. I asked a question. It
• 22:06
  Speaker 5: was a simple question.
• 22:10
  Speaker 4: No.
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: Actually, you know, I used to get the same thing
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: as being an educator, because with being an educator, like
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: I think that we are prone to just asking a
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: lot of questions, a lot of follow up.
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: Questions and make it make sense.
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: And I have had instances with men, particularly like you,
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: talking to me like I'm one of your students.
• 22:29
  Speaker 3: Nigga, I'm just asking you a follow up.
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: You said something stupid, and I'm really trying to put
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: the pieces today because if it was really, if I
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: really was on some teacher ship, I would pull out
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: my whiteboard and write out all the stupid shit you
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: just said and tell you to explain it. But I'm
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: trying to be nice. I'll be trying to be nice.
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: I just asked questions. I get in trouble all the
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: time for just asking questions.
• 22:50
  Speaker 5: Tell the you'll teach them.
• 22:54
  Speaker 4: You can tell yeah, yeah, the way she speaks.
• 22:59
  Speaker 7: No, not nearly. It's just there's a lot of in
• 23:02
  Speaker 7: depth explaining. And I can tell you have to do
• 23:05
  Speaker 7: it a lot, whether it be with kids. You gotta
• 23:08
  Speaker 7: deal with adults, suit, But I know you're doing it
• 23:10
  Speaker 7: with kids just I can do.
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you one thing. I'll tell you the truth.
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: I'll never tell you a lie. The way I have
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: to deal with adults. I want to teach again. I
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: would rather deal with children than deal with adults, because
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: adults are driving me fucking crazy. I ask stressed out
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: dealing with children.
• 23:33
  Speaker 8: My brother said the same thing when he became a principal.
• 23:35
  Speaker 8: I don't understand, bro, mister classroom, because now I don't
• 23:38
  Speaker 8: deal with the kids no more.
• 23:40
  Speaker 4: I gotta deal with the.
• 23:41
  Speaker 8: Stupid parents, he implied, and the staff. And it's not
• 23:48
  Speaker 8: even just the adults in.
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: General, adults in general.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: And it's like I have a lot of grace for children,
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: and I don't have a lot of grace, nor do
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: I have a lot of empathy for excuses when it
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: comes to adults, especially adults that have to impact children,
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: Like your decisions impact somebody else's education every day. So
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: if you're a selfish person, I don't have a shop.
• 24:10
  Speaker 5: You can't be selfish when you work with kids, especially man.
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: Listen, just keep me in your thoughts and prayers, y'all, canange?
• 24:18
  Speaker 4: Can I shift the scope of this convo since we
• 24:21
  Speaker 4: talk about selfishness, I have I have something I wanted
• 24:25
  Speaker 4: to discuss us with y'all to open up the show.
• 24:29
  Speaker 4: I don't think the ladies are gonna.
• 24:30
  Speaker 5: Like it, would you ask it? But I want this is.
• 24:34
  Speaker 4: What I want to make sure that we set the tone, the.
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: Tone of what foolishness or negative chaos, harbinger or chaos today.
• 24:47
  Speaker 10: If I put the seat up to urinate and then
• 24:51
  Speaker 10: put it down after I'm done at your request, that
• 24:54
  Speaker 10: is two seat repetitions per urine area. But this arrangement
• 24:58
  Speaker 10: means that if you go into the bathroom you can
• 25:01
  Speaker 10: just sit down and urinate and leave with zero seat repetitions.
• 25:05
  Speaker 4: Per urine area event.
• 25:07
  Speaker 10: Would it not then be a fair and equitable marriage
• 25:11
  Speaker 10: arrangement creating a scenario where we are both responsible for
• 25:14
  Speaker 10: only one seat repetition per urinary event.
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: And she's gone, thank you, thank you, thank you. I'm
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: so thank you for walking away.
• 25:23
  Speaker 3: System.
• 25:24
  Speaker 4: Are y'all brilliant?
• 25:27
  Speaker 11: I don't understand what's happening.
• 25:31
  Speaker 5: Lift the seat back up.
• 25:32
  Speaker 8: No, here's the thing. This is what I do, and
• 25:35
  Speaker 8: I just did this in your bathroom, Tahoe. Well, I
• 25:39
  Speaker 8: think it started that way, but ahead so Dodge used
• 25:41
  Speaker 8: the bathroom and so the seat was down right I
• 25:44
  Speaker 8: walked in there. I'm like, Tahoe is a man that
• 25:47
  Speaker 8: lives here by himself. The seat should be up. But
• 25:51
  Speaker 8: what I did I closed everything everything. Everybody got to
• 25:55
  Speaker 8: do some work. Everybody got to put some for who
• 25:58
  Speaker 8: you are?
• 26:00
  Speaker 4: So hard? What is it about the toilet? Women up?
• 26:05
  Speaker 8: So the way I justify it to avoid any discourse
• 26:09
  Speaker 8: is like, I do that so that nobody drops their
• 26:11
  Speaker 8: phone in the toilet, because that's happened to me. And
• 26:13
  Speaker 8: that's the way I explain it to my daughter's stuff,
• 26:15
  Speaker 8: which actually makes sense. But the real reason is everybody
• 26:18
  Speaker 8: got putting. We're doing the same work.
• 26:20
  Speaker 4: What would you do when you was paying was on
• 26:23
  Speaker 4: the phone? How you drop your phone like this?
• 26:27
  Speaker 8: It could have happened that ship never happened. Well, I
• 26:29
  Speaker 8: got a small bathroom my bedroom. It's small, so you
• 26:34
  Speaker 8: were in the bed and it just flipped into the
• 26:36
  Speaker 8: never walked into the bathroom on your phone like watching
• 26:40
  Speaker 8: the video or something. Dropped it like change trip. But
• 26:45
  Speaker 8: put the ship down and slide around.
• 26:48
  Speaker 4: Never mind anyway I put the top down to But
• 26:51
  Speaker 4: I also do it to fuck the house up. That's
• 26:55
  Speaker 4: what I do because somebody has to do some work here?
• 26:59
  Speaker 4: Why do What is it about the toilet that were
• 27:03
  Speaker 4: the one that thinks about it? Y'all don't think enough?
• 27:05
  Speaker 4: You fall in the toilet? You fall in? Have you
• 27:10
  Speaker 4: ever peed on the cover? You never did that? So
• 27:14
  Speaker 4: what is it about the ship being up that funcks
• 27:17
  Speaker 4: y'all up? So bad?
• 27:19
  Speaker 5: Normal? I'm used to be down ship? What's wrong the
• 27:27
  Speaker 5: regular way to have a toilet?
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: Don't let them bat you into this is a this
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: is as argument.
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: Don't don't let them.
• 27:40
  Speaker 4: There two of us here, we both have.
• 27:41
  Speaker 3: How many brains are here?
• 27:43
  Speaker 4: Though we both have rolls right around the house, around
• 27:46
  Speaker 4: with the family. Why is it that it just caters.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: Niggas bullet seat reps like this is? This is where
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: we are as a society.
• 27:55
  Speaker 4: But I don't understand.
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: Said, well, they said we got we gotta do equal
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: amount of work around here.
• 28:04
  Speaker 5: Equal the.
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: Y'all know, y'all are so fucking sassy, like the toilet
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: seat back up?
• 28:13
  Speaker 3: We want it now? Fight the power?
• 28:17
  Speaker 4: Is that?
• 28:18
  Speaker 3: Beat?
• 28:18
  Speaker 4: Please?
• 28:20
  Speaker 3: The four two bathrooms you broke, bitch? How about that?
• 28:23
  Speaker 5: Put a two bathrooms?
• 28:26
  Speaker 4: I canford.
• 28:28
  Speaker 5: Let's also not y'all sit down.
• 28:31
  Speaker 11: To y'all be sitting down.
• 28:32
  Speaker 5: Do y'all sit with the toilet seat?
• 28:34
  Speaker 4: Wait, y'all you sit down to pee? My brother, I
• 28:36
  Speaker 4: don't worry about it.
• 28:37
  Speaker 5: You don't ship, you not have I bet do you
• 28:43
  Speaker 5: do that with the seat up or down? Brother?
• 28:46
  Speaker 4: I do what I do as according to what I'm doing.
• 28:51
  Speaker 4: I'm smart. I can actually see like I don't understand
• 28:54
  Speaker 4: that dumb ship that y'all do. Do y'all be have
• 28:57
  Speaker 4: you fallen in?
• 28:58
  Speaker 5: All it took was one time.
• 29:02
  Speaker 4: For me to never do that.
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: Ship, I will turn this whole house upside down because
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: you ain't never been sleepy.
• 29:08
  Speaker 3: And then like it's the middle of the night, the
• 29:10
  Speaker 3: lights a quick, I know where my bathroom is.
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: Like, if I can navigate through my house, I should
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: be able to navigate through my house in darkness.
• 29:18
  Speaker 3: That's that. That is normal.
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: So if I go in the bathroom and I go
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: to pee because I have a midnight pe, you're telling
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: me I gotta turn on the light.
• 29:25
  Speaker 3: I gotta recalibrate my eyes.
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: I got to sit here, just ship, I'm not gonna
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: go back to sleep in the same amount of time. Yes,
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: why why would it.
• 29:35
  Speaker 3: Not be pitch black?
• 29:35
  Speaker 4: Windows? Windows?
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: And I don't have a window in my bathroom afford
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: a better bathroom?
• 29:41
  Speaker 3: Oh, out of me, it's crazy. Sorry, I'm so sorry.
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: The two bathrooms that I have and my ceiling window
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: apartment overlooking the New York City skyline.
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: No, I'm sorry. It does not have a window in
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: the bathroom.
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: But all of the Florida ceiling windows and my in
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: higher apartment are beautifully laid out.
• 30:02
  Speaker 4: So that the light from the moon can tell me
• 30:04
  Speaker 4: to afford you going. So do y'all think it's a
• 30:08
  Speaker 4: fair compromise that.
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: Discussing bathroomic That is not That is not a discussion
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: that needs to happen in my house.
• 30:17
  Speaker 4: So that's not a fair comfortble.
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: No, there is no nigga p the way the toilet
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: was when you got in, put it back the same
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: way it was when you left.
• 30:25
  Speaker 4: Do you do that?
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: Put it how you find it?
• 30:27
  Speaker 4: Absolutely, because you just went into my bathroom and what
• 30:30
  Speaker 4: and arrange it for you and did not do that?
• 30:32
  Speaker 5: And what the.
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: Top lid wasn't down when I went in there.
• 30:36
  Speaker 4: The top lid was down when you went in there,
• 30:39
  Speaker 4: and then you did not put it back down.
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: Surely didn't didn't notice? Well, how convenient live here?
• 30:48
  Speaker 4: Do we not see.
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: I'm the type of nigga I will open every cabinet
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: and leave everything open, and it's to before I leave.
• 30:54
  Speaker 4: And I don't give a right.
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: Why you give a fuck?
• 30:57
  Speaker 4: Now y'all be caring about it. I don't care, because
• 30:59
  Speaker 4: that's why. Let a nigga do that ship in your house.
• 31:01
  Speaker 4: Let a nigga walk out and leave your cabinets and.
• 31:05
  Speaker 5: Exactly where you found it, how you found it.
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: Hello, after watching the sixth Sense, I really have like
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: a deep disdain for cabinet doors being open like that
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: ship really fucks with me.
• 31:17
  Speaker 4: I do nothing for no reason. Right yesterday you tried
• 31:24
  Speaker 4: to jump side, but you don't understand. I'm brilliant, nigga.
• 31:29
  Speaker 4: I'm fucking brilliant, and I'm glad they said what they
• 31:31
  Speaker 4: said just now. I was expecting this.
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: I was expecting them put the gold put the gold
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: post in the U haul.
• 31:43
  Speaker 4: Them to give the men no care as to their
• 31:46
  Speaker 4: concerns about how what goes on around.
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: The house, about the repetition, just seats for this.
• 31:58
  Speaker 12: To be the laid bay go with the flow husband
• 32:01
  Speaker 12: who is actually the cousin of the good guy present
• 32:03
  Speaker 12: because of him that we talked about a few weeks ago.
• 32:05
  Speaker 12: Because women are told that this is the dream. We're
• 32:07
  Speaker 12: conditioned to believe that we're controlling, and men are conditioned
• 32:10
  Speaker 12: to see us as controlling, So this feels like a
• 32:12
  Speaker 12: natural segue in a relationship. He's chill, he's easy, he's
• 32:17
  Speaker 12: a let you decide, babe kind of guy, and you're
• 32:19
  Speaker 12: supposed to feel lucky. But here's what this actually ends
• 32:22
  Speaker 12: up looking like. For most women. It means that you
• 32:24
  Speaker 12: decide where you live, what the kids.
• 32:26
  Speaker 3: Do, what school they go to.
• 32:27
  Speaker 12: You decide holidays, budgets, dinner, You decide when to visit family.
• 32:31
  Speaker 12: You decide when something is wrong in the relationship and
• 32:33
  Speaker 12: needs to be addressed. Whereas he just goes with the flow,
• 32:36
  Speaker 12: which sounds peaceful until you realize.
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: That you are the flow.
• 32:39
  Speaker 12: You are the planner, the anticipator, the risk assessor. You
• 32:42
  Speaker 12: are learn hearing every possible outcome in your head. And
• 32:45
  Speaker 12: the shittiest part about that is that if something goes wrong,
• 32:48
  Speaker 12: if the vacation is stressful, if the budget's too tight,
• 32:51
  Speaker 12: if the schedule is too much, or the kids are
• 32:53
  Speaker 12: falling behind in school, he just gets to say, well,
• 32:55
  Speaker 12: I didn't care, I was fine with what I heard,
• 32:58
  Speaker 12: and of course you were because you want them having
• 33:00
  Speaker 12: to think about it. Because when you don't have an opinion,
• 33:03
  Speaker 12: you don't have responsibility. When you're easy going, you're never
• 33:06
  Speaker 12: held accountable. When you're just happy to help, you never
• 33:09
  Speaker 12: have to lead. And just like with the good guy
• 33:11
  Speaker 12: presenting husband, women end up exhausted, not because he's mean
• 33:15
  Speaker 12: or because he's abusive, but because he got to opt
• 33:18
  Speaker 12: out of the mental weight of being an adult.
• 33:22
  Speaker 3: What would you like for me to say to that?
• 33:24
  Speaker 4: Do you agree with this?
• 33:25
  Speaker 3: No?
• 33:27
  Speaker 4: Love that? Why not?
• 33:29
  Speaker 3: I just don't.
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: I think that there's a difference between easy going and
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: go with the flow and somebody that doesn't have a
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: motherfucking opinion at all.
• 33:36
  Speaker 4: And those are not mutually God, do you agree with this?
• 33:39
  Speaker 4: The mental weight of men just going with the flow fall?
• 33:43
  Speaker 4: And as a man, I would say, because y'all run
• 33:50
  Speaker 4: the house, you have all these specific things that y'all want.
• 33:53
  Speaker 4: Things need to go this way. Y'all never let shit go.
• 33:56
  Speaker 4: Even if I'm right, I feel wrong because your attitude
• 34:00
  Speaker 4: energy around the house changed because I didn't do it
• 34:04
  Speaker 4: your way. The oh you should have didn't you should
• 34:08
  Speaker 4: have done this, You should have did it like this.
• 34:09
  Speaker 4: I told you that. It just becomes like, yo, bro,
• 34:12
  Speaker 4: I didn't even care enough to go through this all
• 34:15
  Speaker 4: the time with you. You didn't like the goddamn curtains
• 34:17
  Speaker 4: I got you gotta change the curtains. I didn't like
• 34:19
  Speaker 4: the curtains. I told you, don't get the curtains. I
• 34:20
  Speaker 4: told you I want to tough the curtains. It's just like, yo,
• 34:22
  Speaker 4: come on, just do the curtains.
• 34:25
  Speaker 8: You said it in the beginning of the clip, like
• 34:27
  Speaker 8: if you're dealing with somebody that's controlling, you're gonna let
• 34:30
  Speaker 8: them control. Just I'm not trying to fight with you.
• 34:33
  Speaker 4: You know what I mean. You can't way more about
• 34:35
  Speaker 4: this shit. And so that's why when it comes to
• 34:37
  Speaker 4: the house stuff and the kids stuff, because.
• 34:41
  Speaker 3: Even Dodd said this, no opinion at all?
• 34:46
  Speaker 4: My opinion is yo, all right, you like that? All right,
• 34:48
  Speaker 4: let's do it. How can I help? How can how
• 34:50
  Speaker 4: can I be of service?
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: Opinion?
• 34:52
  Speaker 4: Well, go with the flow doesn't mean.
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: Absence of opinions exactly.
• 34:56
  Speaker 8: It just means like I will inject my opinion in
• 34:59
  Speaker 8: certain spots and things, but for the most part, we're
• 35:02
  Speaker 8: gonna let you control the flow. That doesn't mean that
• 35:07
  Speaker 8: the man is just sitting there.
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: Like okay, whatever that if y'all doing it because she
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: picked the wrong husband, talk about it.
• 35:15
  Speaker 3: Coin, that's it.
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: It doesn't make sense if there is no space for
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: you to have that type of cognitive burnout in your
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: relationship where you have a husband. That's so, I don't
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: know what the fuck is going on that he does
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: not see that you are in need, Like you need
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: to be able, Yeah, like that's discussion. You should be
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: able to step in into support. Like that does not
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: make sense to me. Like I could have a lot
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: of ideas tentatively, but you need to add your input
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: in here as well. Why is the whole cognitive load
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: of everything that happens in this family on my shoulders.
• 35:50
  Speaker 3: That's not a man that I would marry.
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: You chose a nigga because you thought that he was
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: nice and kind, but realized that he didn't come with
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: any substance, and now you're stuck in that.
• 35:59
  Speaker 3: You should vetted that out. I don't know what to
• 36:02
  Speaker 3: tell Shorty.
• 36:02
  Speaker 4: What I will say.
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: As crazy about a man that's opting out.
• 36:13
  Speaker 8: Why is he opting out? He's not necessarily opting out
• 36:17
  Speaker 8: that she started it by using the word controlling. So
• 36:20
  Speaker 8: can we give some type of you know, credit where
• 36:23
  Speaker 8: it's due. If the woman is controlling, that means the
• 36:26
  Speaker 8: man is opting for peace. He's not opting out of contributing.
• 36:30
  Speaker 8: He's like, I'm going to let her control the situation
• 36:33
  Speaker 8: because I don't care as much about whether the carpet
• 36:36
  Speaker 8: is gray or blue.
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: I love that, However, I'm kind of disgusted by it
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: because I don't want to be in proximity with a
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: man that cannot tell me when things.
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: Need to be done, like like you, I can.
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: I can be the type of person that is I
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: can be the type of person that has like big opinions,
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: but my man should also be able to tell me
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: like I relax, You've done enough, Like have a.
• 37:01
  Speaker 3: Seat, like just like what do you you scared of me?
• 37:06
  Speaker 3: Like what the fuck are we talking about? I cannot
• 37:07
  Speaker 3: be with a man that scared me. Son, I can't.
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: I don't care what I say, what comes out of
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: his mouth. You're if you're the man, you should be
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: able like all right, I got this, have a seat, Okay,
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna sit the fuck down and be cute.
• 37:18
  Speaker 5: Women just be wanting to sit down sometimes I just
• 37:20
  Speaker 5: want to.
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: Sit down sometimes because if you don't make the decisions
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: and the man don't make any decisions, then nothing fucking happens.
• 37:27
  Speaker 8: I empathize with the decision fatigue, that's the thing, But
• 37:31
  Speaker 8: I also understand that both parties got to take some accountability.
• 37:35
  Speaker 8: The woman can't be like, oh, the man should interject
• 37:38
  Speaker 8: and take some of this load off me. Take some
• 37:40
  Speaker 8: accountability for why we got here, why you have this decision.
• 37:43
  Speaker 3: Fatigue, because y'all both chose the wrong people?
• 37:48
  Speaker 4: What else? So divorce is the option?
• 37:52
  Speaker 5: Damn.
• 37:53
  Speaker 3: I didn't say that. I just said you chose.
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: If you chose the wrong person, you're gonna have to
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: stick with that, My boy, like you see.
• 37:59
  Speaker 4: It through other ways to work it out, other than
• 38:01
  Speaker 4: choosing somebody.
• 38:02
  Speaker 7: Telling the game man puts, man, pull in him, make
• 38:08
  Speaker 7: a decid.
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: Help, help. I can't believe that.
• 38:16
  Speaker 4: No matter what that man does, it's not good enough.
• 38:19
  Speaker 4: The woman is gonna find is the violin in the
• 38:21
  Speaker 4: back she's just yes, yes.
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: I used to have that for my students, the world
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: smallst violin. I used to play when they didn't have
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: their home.
• 38:32
  Speaker 4: Getting nothing off. Yeah, nasty. If they do not want
• 38:37
  Speaker 4: to be half of the community. They just gotta have
• 38:39
  Speaker 4: some ship to complain about him.
• 38:41
  Speaker 7: I heard that about the woman being controlling, not belittling
• 38:46
  Speaker 7: your opinion, or not giving you the space to have
• 38:48
  Speaker 7: an opinion.
• 38:49
  Speaker 5: Y'all complain. Y'all both complained.
• 38:50
  Speaker 4: We didn't complain. We did not complain.
• 38:52
  Speaker 5: You make an observation.
• 38:54
  Speaker 8: Acknowledge that the same way the young lady in the
• 38:56
  Speaker 8: clip did. We acknowledged that that's the case, and we
• 38:59
  Speaker 8: chose peace, and we're not gonna fight with you.
• 39:01
  Speaker 3: But choosing pieces?
• 39:06
  Speaker 5: Crazy?
• 39:08
  Speaker 4: Do I not realize how much men choose peace to
• 39:11
  Speaker 4: be in a happy relationships.
• 39:13
  Speaker 7: Okay, I don't want to debate, I don't want to
• 39:15
  Speaker 7: rebuttal I don't want.
• 39:16
  Speaker 4: To have a great example.
• 39:18
  Speaker 3: Tell me an example.
• 39:19
  Speaker 8: Hypothetical based on a true story.
• 39:25
  Speaker 3: Okay, today we're doing it all day.
• 39:29
  Speaker 4: Let's go.
• 39:29
  Speaker 8: You're in the crib. You got some plumbing issues. Some
• 39:33
  Speaker 8: things are going awry. It needs to be fixed. If
• 39:37
  Speaker 8: I call my guy and he comes in and doesn't
• 39:40
  Speaker 8: fix it properly, I'm never going to hear the end
• 39:43
  Speaker 8: of it.
• 39:44
  Speaker 4: Right, Oh my god, you right.
• 39:49
  Speaker 8: So you call your person the same thing happens. I'm
• 39:53
  Speaker 8: not gonna give you no ship about it. Sometimes I
• 39:56
  Speaker 8: will be like, you know what I'd rather you call
• 39:58
  Speaker 8: your person because is if it works out great, it's
• 40:02
  Speaker 8: a thankless situation. But if it works out bad, it's good.
• 40:06
  Speaker 8: It opens it up to so much criticism unwarranted. Sometimes
• 40:11
  Speaker 8: for the sake of peace, let's just go over your route.
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry. I'm sorry for whoever's experience.
• 40:18
  Speaker 4: Right, Like anybody dating a Virgo has going through this,
• 40:22
  Speaker 4: and y'all know it well.
• 40:23
  Speaker 2: I'd have never dated a Virgo woman or a Virgo
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: period or man.
• 40:28
  Speaker 3: Therefore, I don't know this experience to.
• 40:31
  Speaker 4: People having less sex in January.
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: I just think that I don't I don't know why
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: that is a lot of people's experience. Like I think
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: that when you're in a relationship or you're in a partnership,
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: there comes compromise. You cannot control every aspect of everything.
• 40:50
  Speaker 2: Everybody has to have their own lane. And the reason
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: why I don't empathize or understand this experience because if
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: my husband starts doing something, I'm not gonna follow bigger
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: you already started, that's your task. I'm gonna go find
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: something else to do. Like if he starts cleaning up
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: the kitchen. I'm not about to go in the kitchen
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: and clean up behind. It's a grown up. He's cleaning
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: the kitchen. I'm either gonna sit the fuck down or
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna find something else to do. So I don't
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: know this experience like no matter what it is, it
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: don't take two people to make the same decision. Even
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: when we first moved in together, we split the house up.
• 41:22
  Speaker 2: I said, I'm doing the bedroom. You got the living room.
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: I'll do the dining room.
• 41:26
  Speaker 3: You got the kitchen.
• 41:28
  Speaker 2: Yes, because we gotta do all of that.
• 41:34
  Speaker 3: Yes, what did he decorating that?
• 41:36
  Speaker 4: Okay, okay, you got it. You want the bedroom.
• 41:40
  Speaker 6: Cool because he's an artist, but you think he paints.
• 41:44
  Speaker 6: He does all types of creative things. Of course, I'm
• 41:49
  Speaker 6: doing the bedroom. Yes, you do the hallway.
• 41:56
  Speaker 4: And he said, okay.
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: Because us first of all, want two things. Number One,
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: I spend more time in the bedroom. He'll spend more
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: time in the liberalom. He watches TV mortal. I don't
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: watch TV. He got this big ass screens. I would
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: have never bought a TV that big. I exactly, you
• 42:14
  Speaker 2: don't have to do. He bought the biggest couch I
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: have ever seen in my life what I bought that.
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: Of course that's not my This is not my thing.
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: And if he would have been like, no, babe, let
• 42:24
  Speaker 2: me do the living room and you do, I mean,
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: let me do the bedroom and you do living room.
• 42:27
  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna say no.
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, if we're moving
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: in together, we both have to have equal say in
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: what this place looks like.
• 42:33
  Speaker 3: I can't have this bitch looking like a bachelorette pad.
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna say here and buy pink, pink, couch,
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: pink and everything. You know, I can't do that because
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: that is what is necessary when you're making decisions together.
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: So it doesn't matter. If I led the charge of
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: what room I wanted to do, he still had equal
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: say in the whole entire apartment. There is nothing that
• 42:54
  Speaker 2: I bought or that he bought that we did not
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: say you like this, you like this cool? Yes, went
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: through hundreds of coffee tables, because that is what compromise
• 43:02
  Speaker 2: looks like. Like. I don't know what y'all talking about,
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: but go ahead. I told him to decorate the whole way. Well,
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: my whole way.
• 43:08
  Speaker 4: Look like whatever. You my whole way look like whatever.
• 43:12
  Speaker 3: What is my whole way look.
• 43:13
  Speaker 4: Like, friend, it looks like and more here in the
• 43:16
  Speaker 4: room over here, I don't know.
• 43:18
  Speaker 3: You don't know because you have been in my house,
• 43:20
  Speaker 3: but you're still talking. Okay, bad friend.
• 43:23
  Speaker 5: No visit, no visits, several invites.
• 43:26
  Speaker 3: No visit.
• 43:28
  Speaker 4: What do men say?
• 43:30
  Speaker 5: You got it?
• 43:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I know I got that on.
• 43:35
  Speaker 5: The riot?
• 43:36
  Speaker 6: And then say, okay, let's say that like this, right,
• 43:39
  Speaker 6: because y'all do.
• 43:42
  Speaker 4: Understand this if we change the conversation. Y'all know, we
• 43:45
  Speaker 4: don't like peace, We don't like chaos or arguing. And
• 43:50
  Speaker 4: you want a man that doesn't like arguing. You've said
• 43:52
  Speaker 4: this several timesolutely. I don't don't want a man to
• 43:55
  Speaker 4: have too many feelings. You don't want a man to
• 43:57
  Speaker 4: have too many complaints. You want a man to let
• 43:59
  Speaker 4: you be, you do your thing until you want him
• 44:02
  Speaker 4: to step up, until you want him to step up.
• 44:05
  Speaker 3: So what does he do until he needs to step up?
• 44:07
  Speaker 4: He waits until you need him to step up. That's
• 44:12
  Speaker 4: what men do.
• 44:13
  Speaker 5: Wait what are you doing as you wait? Are you
• 44:18
  Speaker 5: sitting there twiddling your ship?
• 44:20
  Speaker 3: What are you doing?
• 44:23
  Speaker 4: Back? And motherfucker, what are you doing?
• 44:28
  Speaker 5: Part of the strategy, y'all play a call of duty.
• 44:32
  Speaker 4: Let's be real, how much of those things that she said,
• 44:35
  Speaker 4: as far as the kids' schedule, whatever's going on around
• 44:39
  Speaker 4: the house, do you really want your man to take
• 44:41
  Speaker 4: from you? Shy, not you, not you, not you? How
• 44:44
  Speaker 4: much of those things do you want?
• 44:45
  Speaker 7: Realistically, I would niggas don't even know what the he
• 44:48
  Speaker 7: is allergic to, don't even know the kid can't even
• 44:52
  Speaker 7: get no penicil like I would. I would love for
• 44:54
  Speaker 7: you to do that, though, I would love for you
• 44:56
  Speaker 7: to know, be active, be involved, dude, it ain't It's
• 45:01
  Speaker 7: not the old days.
• 45:02
  Speaker 5: Bro.
• 45:02
  Speaker 7: Niggas don't just go out and they still tow boots
• 45:04
  Speaker 7: and bring home, bake and give a check and as.
• 45:06
  Speaker 5: No nigga puts some input in his house.
• 45:09
  Speaker 7: From the way it looked to Hewes ran, So these
• 45:11
  Speaker 7: kids up in this motherfucker, they're running.
• 45:13
  Speaker 5: Me rugged help.
• 45:15
  Speaker 4: I feel like I try to do that with mine.
• 45:17
  Speaker 4: But overall, so I'll be like, yo, we need better touts.
• 45:21
  Speaker 4: You know what, I probably spent what well? I probably
• 45:26
  Speaker 4: I probably buy that she would want so she might
• 45:32
  Speaker 4: live more like a I want to say, frugal, but
• 45:35
  Speaker 4: she's not gonna just like go buy three hundred dollars
• 45:38
  Speaker 4: towels like, she's not gonna she's She's like, I'm not
• 45:41
  Speaker 4: spending that. But if we go, if she goes with
• 45:44
  Speaker 4: me to say home goods or whatever, they don't have
• 45:46
  Speaker 4: to underd doll toe. But if say it was home
• 45:48
  Speaker 4: goods and I'm like, do you like these, She's like yeah,
• 45:51
  Speaker 4: but I just buy them for her. So that's how
• 45:55
  Speaker 4: I contribute. I go above and beyond. But still her choice.
• 46:00
  Speaker 4: Does that make sense? Because you keep squinting your eyes.
• 46:05
  Speaker 5: I'm sorry, get to get the mic in the audience.
• 46:10
  Speaker 4: How is that game? You wanted my wallet? She has
• 46:15
  Speaker 4: my wallet. I'm just saying it makes it easier when
• 46:19
  Speaker 4: she's not gonna do that. She's not gonna do that.
• 46:22
  Speaker 4: You do you have a man? Person in the audience,
• 46:25
  Speaker 4: do you have a man? You do not have a man,
• 46:30
  Speaker 4: So you have not You are not thinking about combined finances?
• 46:35
  Speaker 4: What's it called when ship?
• 46:38
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 46:38
  Speaker 4: Like, yo, you're not You're not going to spend his
• 46:40
  Speaker 4: money previously because that's your money.
• 46:43
  Speaker 5: I want to spend Red's money. I don't want to
• 46:45
  Speaker 5: spend mine.
• 46:45
  Speaker 7: I get that, but my thing is like spend mine
• 46:48
  Speaker 7: when I can spend.
• 46:49
  Speaker 3: There's certain things that I just.
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: That I would hate for my husband to ask me, like, like,
• 46:57
  Speaker 2: we need towers in the house. You gonna wait and
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: ask me what, Nigga, go buy the fucking towels.
• 47:02
  Speaker 3: Bro Go get some towels.
• 47:04
  Speaker 5: You can never have too many. I'm gonna go out
• 47:06
  Speaker 5: and get some.
• 47:07
  Speaker 3: Exactly like if I.
• 47:09
  Speaker 2: Mentioned like, yo, I think we need a new blanket,
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: like this blank this douve cover is getting on my nerves.
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: I want to come in the house and there be
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: a new duvet cover. But don't be a dickhead and
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: buy a fucking iridescent douvet cover. And you know the
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: bedroom is navy blue and motherfucking gray, like like, just
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: make it make sense.
• 47:26
  Speaker 4: This is what I'll be talking about. Remember when I
• 47:28
  Speaker 4: be talking about how she be on wife, you be
• 47:30
  Speaker 4: on everybody else side. She know how I give it
• 47:33
  Speaker 4: up in the crib and look how blank nowhere to
• 47:36
  Speaker 4: be found. Anything else? She's in the comments and she's
• 47:40
  Speaker 4: right there.
• 47:41
  Speaker 3: Anything else she's in the comments like now you didn't
• 47:44
  Speaker 3: do that. Now you know we knew we had two bottles?
• 47:47
  Speaker 3: Anything else?
• 47:52
  Speaker 4: Say what I do? I think I don't recall.
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: I think that I think that the person that has
• 48:02
  Speaker 2: the more organizational skills sometimes take take the heavy load
• 48:07
  Speaker 2: of doing a lot of the house upkeep. Like I'm
• 48:10
  Speaker 2: the one that has all of the important things that
• 48:13
  Speaker 2: we need on subscription for the house, because these are
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: the things that I'm thinking about at the top of mind,
• 48:18
  Speaker 2: so you don't have to think about the minutia.
• 48:20
  Speaker 3: But if you do see an issue in the house, please.
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: Don't wait to talk to me about it, like because
• 48:26
  Speaker 2: then because yo, it's like I'm the project manager, Like
• 48:30
  Speaker 2: we don't live here together.
• 48:31
  Speaker 8: I love that because for me, it's not about gender roles.
• 48:33
  Speaker 8: It's about what are you good at versus what I'm
• 48:35
  Speaker 8: might defer to you for the design stuff. I'm creative,
• 48:39
  Speaker 8: but you can design the hell out of its way
• 48:41
  Speaker 8: better than me, so I'll let you make all the
• 48:43
  Speaker 8: decisions winners regarding that.
• 48:45
  Speaker 2: Right, And then when I ask you for your input,
• 48:47
  Speaker 2: don't be stupid and be like, well, whatever you want, ben,
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: because I might stack you and then it's like, oh,
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: that's abusive, that's not nice. But it's also like, I
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: ask you for input in the house that you equally
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: live in, So why the fuck would you not have
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: an opinion?
• 48:59
  Speaker 8: An opinion asked. I don't need to like tell you,
• 49:02
  Speaker 8: oh yeah, you need to buy this.
• 49:04
  Speaker 5: You don't need to have your full hand.
• 49:05
  Speaker 4: Inspect, respect your vision.
• 49:08
  Speaker 3: I love that.
• 49:09
  Speaker 5: Okay, it's cool.
• 49:10
  Speaker 3: Respect.
• 49:11
  Speaker 2: Respect What you got to say? Yes, nothing, I got nothing,
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: You got nothing to say. You was lemonade and white
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: zinfidel last week. I didn't let that ship go.
• 49:21
  Speaker 11: What I had. I had a prickly pair of bleaning
• 49:25
  Speaker 11: last night.
• 49:25
  Speaker 5: To feeling aboutneath.
• 49:27
  Speaker 13: What a prickly pair that actually slaps the same friend?
• 49:38
  Speaker 3: I love it, I don't like it.
• 49:41
  Speaker 4: His vibes is too girly.
• 49:43
  Speaker 3: That's crazy to say about your watch your mouth. That's
• 49:46
  Speaker 3: your family.
• 49:48
  Speaker 4: You ordered that, you set it out your mouth, and
• 49:49
  Speaker 4: I gotta watch mine.
• 49:50
  Speaker 5: You had a pair, Actually.
• 49:53
  Speaker 4: Let me get the prickly pair.
• 49:54
  Speaker 7: Yeah, that you gotta feel about you don't feel about?
• 49:59
  Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't know about the vibes. They are so
• 50:02
  Speaker 8: I'm a drinker, but I wouldn't say it. I point
• 50:04
  Speaker 8: to it on.
• 50:05
  Speaker 5: You wouldn't refer to your one.
• 50:08
  Speaker 3: I like you put this in the rocks. Don't put
• 50:11
  Speaker 3: it in. Don't put it in a flute.
• 50:12
  Speaker 5: No flute for me.
• 50:14
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. Drinking out of my teeny glasses. Ship.
• 50:17
  Speaker 4: I'm good, bro, Bro, what's wrong with? What's wrong with?
• 50:20
  Speaker 3: That's wrong is wrongs love him? Hello, gangsters, wake it
• 50:25
  Speaker 3: up that what.
• 50:26
  Speaker 4: I said, things just ain't the same for gangsters.
• 50:29
  Speaker 3: What is your.
• 50:32
  Speaker 11: Fucking forty? They got on the rocks, Hold on the rocks.
• 50:41
  Speaker 2: Used to brown you with your love, not a love.
• 50:49
  Speaker 3: It was was it was the butters.
• 50:51
  Speaker 4: Yeah, there's certain things. Certain joke to get off. Lugs
• 50:55
  Speaker 4: is for Harlem.
• 50:56
  Speaker 3: Niggas and flex and queens niggas.
• 50:59
  Speaker 4: We're wearing them for real.
• 51:01
  Speaker 3: Nah, they moors. They wasn't even really wearing.
• 51:04
  Speaker 2: They was wearing Moors and them a CGS, a CG boots.
• 51:09
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yesterday Fast I had a couple of pets. He
• 51:15
  Speaker 4: was in hollow.
• 51:17
  Speaker 3: I have nothing to say. I have so much to clean,
• 51:21
  Speaker 3: all right, what's your goal?
• 51:24
  Speaker 4: When I was drinking, I would say Duchet and Pineapple
• 51:28
  Speaker 4: or some ship like that.
• 51:29
  Speaker 3: What if they didn't have douce crystal?
• 51:32
  Speaker 4: Old fashion styles, funny old fashion, I'll do. I'll do
• 51:40
  Speaker 4: a honey margarita.
• 51:41
  Speaker 3: Mm hmm.
• 51:42
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.
• 51:43
  Speaker 3: I like dark with a little bit of sweets on it.
• 51:46
  Speaker 8: It depends on the situation, old fashion or sometimes just
• 51:49
  Speaker 8: bourbon on the rocks, or sometimes I'll do mescal. I
• 51:54
  Speaker 8: like smoking, just started drinking tequila, but I like smoky drinks,
• 51:57
  Speaker 8: so I'll do a Messican.
• 51:58
  Speaker 2: I think it's so cute, Like how so many mainly
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: so many men love like old fashions and Manhattan.
• 52:06
  Speaker 4: That's it. Sound it's because you have female taste buds. No, first,
• 52:10
  Speaker 4: you like sweet ass.
• 52:12
  Speaker 11: First, my man, my main drink is apple april spreads.
• 52:16
  Speaker 4: First of all, that's not.
• 52:19
  Speaker 8: See there's the time and place on Sunday afternoons, seventy
• 52:22
  Speaker 8: five degrees outside.
• 52:23
  Speaker 4: I'll drink that. Try. I drink that all year round.
• 52:27
  Speaker 8: Drinks that I don't do Apo or Orsa is good
• 52:30
  Speaker 8: to so you drink.
• 52:33
  Speaker 5: Orange, drink gentleman back. Then drink like.
• 52:39
  Speaker 11: Spread blini at night though, or at a brunch at
• 52:43
  Speaker 11: night when I go on dates, that's what I get.
• 52:44
  Speaker 4: Really yeah, I drink French seventy that work, or at
• 52:50
  Speaker 4: least give you the like really long nice tea.
• 52:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, a long island nice team, Like order.
• 52:56
  Speaker 5: A long island on me. That's a sleep Yeah, you
• 53:01
  Speaker 5: feel asleep, I believe with you know. Yeah, we had
• 53:06
  Speaker 5: to ride with the windows down, the ships out.
• 53:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's very disgusting.
• 53:11
  Speaker 4: Did he have one.
• 53:14
  Speaker 5: Which made it even worse?
• 53:15
  Speaker 4: You know, one Long Island.
• 53:17
  Speaker 3: He was done done because he performed at home.
• 53:21
  Speaker 5: Hello, thank you so much.
• 53:26
  Speaker 4: Said could performed when he got home.
• 53:28
  Speaker 5: Performed from sleep. Was dead. He was going dead.
• 53:32
  Speaker 3: No, that's crazy.
• 53:33
  Speaker 5: I was pissed. I ain't gonna lie A Long.
• 53:35
  Speaker 3: Island on the date is nasty work.
• 53:37
  Speaker 2: I really might judge you because I'm think that you're
• 53:39
  Speaker 2: uncouth and uncultured.
• 53:41
  Speaker 4: Well done steak type bars hmm.
• 53:43
  Speaker 2: Well done, steak god. Salomon type vibe has the same thing.
• 53:50
  Speaker 4: That's the trifector right there, Salmon, Well done, steak Long
• 53:54
  Speaker 4: Island team. You gotta know when you're out there.
• 53:58
  Speaker 3: Definitely, I'm terrified.
• 53:59
  Speaker 5: Hos you murderer?
• 54:00
  Speaker 2: At this point you might as just put on the
• 54:02
  Speaker 2: Black Air Forces at this point in the ball jacket,
• 54:04
  Speaker 2: I'm terrified.
• 54:06
  Speaker 3: I'm scared of a nigga. I would order some ship
• 54:07
  Speaker 3: like that.
• 54:08
  Speaker 4: Should what's another drink that would give you that?
• 54:11
  Speaker 5: Okay?
• 54:12
  Speaker 7: The first time it was I was a little younger.
• 54:14
  Speaker 7: The first time a man ordered a margarita in front
• 54:16
  Speaker 7: of me. This is during my I was drinking like
• 54:19
  Speaker 7: a man. I was drinking Hennisy and coke and s
• 54:22
  Speaker 7: a margarita.
• 54:23
  Speaker 4: I was like.
• 54:26
  Speaker 7: A little you know, it's giving. I feel like he
• 54:30
  Speaker 7: would say it's giving with the margarine.
• 54:37
  Speaker 3: No, this is not a strapping the co o.
• 54:41
  Speaker 4: No, you know drink. He's drinking margarita and she's drinking
• 54:45
  Speaker 4: a honny.
• 54:45
  Speaker 5: I gave it up. I gave it up. He gave me.
• 54:50
  Speaker 4: Though.
• 54:50
  Speaker 3: I do because I don't like getting drunk no more.
• 54:53
  Speaker 4: I know I still got to drive. I gotta take
• 54:55
  Speaker 4: care of this one.
• 54:57
  Speaker 2: You know what else is I don't like. I don't
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: don't like a man. I don't like a man that
• 55:04
  Speaker 2: will order a beer first. It gives I don't like
• 55:10
  Speaker 2: it gives poor vibes, Like I feel like a beer,
• 55:12
  Speaker 2: Like if you're going out for dinner and drinks and whatever,
• 55:14
  Speaker 2: beer that's supposed to be that last drink of the night,
• 55:17
  Speaker 2: Like you can start off with a beer, like you're
• 55:19
  Speaker 2: gonna start off with the seven dollar thing.
• 55:20
  Speaker 7: Onlo Like.
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: If we're having a beer garden, cool but just like
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: a regular dinner, and you like, can I get a corona?
• 55:37
  Speaker 5: Bitch?
• 55:41
  Speaker 4: That's horrible beer.
• 55:45
  Speaker 5: I think about the bread beer breath.
• 55:46
  Speaker 2: Is and don't get me wrong, I love a good
• 55:48
  Speaker 2: beer like, but not not at a dinner date like
• 55:51
  Speaker 2: we gotta have.
• 55:53
  Speaker 4: The wings, Yo, great convo. What I realized that you've
• 56:02
  Speaker 4: been right the whole time.
• 56:06
  Speaker 2: I think, Drew, make sure y'all clicked that. Because what a.
• 56:13
  Speaker 4: Man did something around me towards a woman that I
• 56:18
  Speaker 4: had to ask him what was that about? What? What? What?
• 56:23
  Speaker 4: I've known a nigga for man long and I've never
• 56:27
  Speaker 4: seen nothing like this. And I asked him and he
• 56:29
  Speaker 4: just left, and I was I was thoroughly embarrassed by
• 56:34
  Speaker 4: the behavior.
• 56:35
  Speaker 3: So I was like, you know, I'm serious, what happened?
• 56:37
  Speaker 4: What did you?
• 56:38
  Speaker 3: What made you do this?
• 56:40
  Speaker 4: And he laughed, And so I realized, your experience with
• 56:48
  Speaker 4: men is completely different than my experience with.
• 56:54
  Speaker 5: It's very discussing, ya don't know.
• 56:58
  Speaker 4: Tucked me up, bro, because niggas will have this whole
• 57:01
  Speaker 4: colde around each other. We know we can't move certain ways.
• 57:04
  Speaker 4: We gotta stay up like it ye, And then with
• 57:06
  Speaker 4: the woman that they dealing with a completely different type
• 57:09
  Speaker 4: of niggas scaring the iron like that.
• 57:14
  Speaker 8: Goddamn was gonna say, like you ever hear like your
• 57:18
  Speaker 8: homegirl or chick, tell you something about your man did
• 57:22
  Speaker 8: or said.
• 57:22
  Speaker 4: I like that. Niggas like that that.
• 57:25
  Speaker 5: He wouldn't do no ship like that.
• 57:26
  Speaker 4: He would.
• 57:27
  Speaker 2: Now I don't even know his name. WHI y'all call
• 57:29
  Speaker 2: purple shirt. No, not my man, purple shirt. He got
• 57:31
  Speaker 2: the crazy rebounds.
• 57:32
  Speaker 3: He would never do that.
• 57:35
  Speaker 4: What niggas aren't nasty, bro that you'll have experienced from
• 57:39
  Speaker 4: men that we would not know they do.
• 57:42
  Speaker 2: Oh, I got one, I got one right, This happened
• 57:46
  Speaker 2: a long time ago, eons ago. Niggas be dangerously horny,
• 57:53
  Speaker 2: like dangerously horny, like to the point that they will
• 57:58
  Speaker 2: just like hit you up mid day and say some
• 58:01
  Speaker 2: off the wall shit that in they head, like, yeah.
• 58:03
  Speaker 3: I'm really gettle with this one.
• 58:05
  Speaker 2: And this is like it's it's so nasty and it's
• 58:08
  Speaker 2: so cringey. But I'm the type of bitch like, if
• 58:10
  Speaker 2: you say something a little bit too crazy to me
• 58:12
  Speaker 2: mid day, I'm gonna say something back that's gonna fuck
• 58:15
  Speaker 2: up the whole trajectory of the conversation. So you say
• 58:18
  Speaker 2: something like, damn you look mad good on that Instagram person,
• 58:21
  Speaker 2: I want to and i'ma write you back like, oh, thank.
• 58:24
  Speaker 3: You so much.
• 58:25
  Speaker 2: So, how's your mom doing? She she was at the hospital.
• 58:27
  Speaker 3: She's good.
• 58:28
  Speaker 2: Now, Like I'm that type of friends, Like I'm gonna
• 58:29
  Speaker 2: derail the whole conversation because I want.
• 58:32
  Speaker 3: You to understand I don't even play with you like that.
• 58:35
  Speaker 2: But when I say niggas are dangerously horny, I had
• 58:39
  Speaker 2: a person hypothetically send me a video hypothetically of them
• 58:43
  Speaker 2: beaten off, and.
• 58:44
  Speaker 3: I was so disgusted. I was so disgusted.
• 58:49
  Speaker 2: I was so disgusted not only by the video but
• 58:52
  Speaker 2: by the length of the video, in everything that was
• 58:54
  Speaker 2: in the video.
• 58:55
  Speaker 3: That wasn't really there. I was like, did you just
• 58:57
  Speaker 3: send me a gift? I didn't think that.
• 59:00
  Speaker 5: He liked that it was. It was lengthy. It was
• 59:02
  Speaker 5: like a four minute video. I don't have it.
• 59:08
  Speaker 4: Why you got that face? Like you don't like eruption videos?
• 59:11
  Speaker 7: Not unsolicity in the state of Texas, unsolicited motherfuckers do
• 59:18
  Speaker 7: it though they will they see you might see my cleavage.
• 59:21
  Speaker 5: I don't little boom a dig pic in the d M.
• 59:24
  Speaker 2: But you know what's more disgusting in the dick pic.
• 59:26
  Speaker 2: There's there's two things that's more discussing than an unprovoked
• 59:30
  Speaker 2: dick pic as she dick and a little dick. You
• 59:33
  Speaker 2: could have kept all that ship to yourself.
• 59:38
  Speaker 3: The double.
• 59:41
  Speaker 4: Tells me about a nigga I know. My homegirl tells
• 59:44
  Speaker 4: me about a nigga I know, and said she blocked
• 59:47
  Speaker 4: him because he called on on face time and then
• 59:50
  Speaker 4: she realized that he was jerking off on FaceTime.
• 59:53
  Speaker 3: I believe it.
• 59:57
  Speaker 6: All.
• 59:58
  Speaker 4: I believe it, nigga. It's out there and the nigga
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 4: is sitting here on the phone with Shorty and then.
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 3: Shows her put it in the chat right now.
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 5: I just like, yo, what how they right there? They don't.
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 2: I came in with my dick in my hand. That's
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 2: how you about to go in the bookings very mystic?
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 4: What is that? What's that? What's that play? Has it
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 4: ever worked?
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 3: List like to try to look nasty?
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 5: They like they love to try.
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 4: Do y'all know women that will work for that? What
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 4: do you know women? We all know women or there's levels.
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 4: Do y'all know women that that play would work.
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 3: For just a random facetimed dick jerking just that they're.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 4: Talking or whatever. No woman, you don't know any woman
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 4: that would work for.
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 2: And wait, because you have to think it's levels to this, right,
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 2: So you're talking about unsolicited. We're not sexty nothing like,
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 2: there's no warm up to this car. We not doing nothing.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 2: And you were having the sick You just backed out.
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 2: You just jerking off a dick back out on FaceTime.
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 5: I don't know anybody in the land.
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 4: They did not have that.
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 5: On jail. You're in the slammer, you're going down. Why
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 5: the would you do that?
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 7: Because and I can't even say, now, what if I
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 7: put this roast beef on FaceTime?
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 5: You don't like it?
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 4: Now? What if I put because we have different standards, are.
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 5: They gonna They're gonna with it.
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 4: They're gonna probably what he was looking for.
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 2: I'm not like, you don't even know what I'm at,
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 2: Like did you even did you even ask me where
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 2: I was if I was in an appropriate spot?
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 3: Like you just backing out dick on the cam like
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 3: having an asthma?
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 11: I'm getting groceries right now.
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 3: Ain't no way signing, Ain't no motherfucking way. Niggas are disgusted.
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 2: I don't think y'all understand how disgusting and dangerously horning
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 2: niggas on women's clying.
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 8: It's probably worked before somebody he has.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 4: I know women right now, if I want to call
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 4: them like that, they'd be like, bring it over.
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 3: Here, just drawing like nothing, like.
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 4: You ain't do nothing that's different because of my status
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 4: or whatever. I'm pretty sure.
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 5: My platform.
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 8: And he's a sex symbol. He's like method man, Like damn,
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 8: you know he's one of those guys.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 3: You a good ass friend.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 11: Trauma Niggas called him Method made my man.
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 4: That's my man right there.
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 3: You see what you did, your sex symbol.
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 4: We're not even related me and that man you over
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 4: there just hatingim and we related. Bro, I'm never calling
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 4: you method man. I love you. Call me Dezel two
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 4: weeks ago. You didn't call me Dejael Washington.
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 5: No nigga, what are you crazy? He said? I never
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 5: said no ship like the You know we record here, right,
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 5: you know this is recorded?
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 11: When did I say that?
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 4: All right? Yo, Christine, you were here, she did this?
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 4: You go did this nigga? Yes? Or no? You know
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 4: this nigga fake Denzel Washington in here?
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 3: She said yes.
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 4: Look damn his best friend.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 5: By the way, it's given.
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 4: Remember, but he was hating when I said that.
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 11: Okay, okay, okay, I remember.
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 4: But what I'm saying is I'm pretty sure because I
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 4: have a large following. There are women that if I
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 4: was to call doing that, they'd be like, yes, bring
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 4: that over here. But you also shot you too. You could.
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 4: You could throw your roast beef and a random nigga
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 4: laughing at your cage, laughing at the y Happy Hour
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 4: for a minute, and and he'd be like, yes, bring
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 4: it over here.
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 5: Niggas be I don't know, I'm funny, but niggas just
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 5: be laughing and Won's mask. I'm gonna do whatever.
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 4: What the hell is The Yappy Hour, by the way.
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 5: A show for the certified yepps.
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 4: Introduce your properly. So I went to rewanted them to
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 4: know who you are and what it is you do.
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 7: Well, you know, I'm a nice lady Christfield. Actually I'm
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 7: the host of the Yappy Hour show, new episodes every Friday.
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 7: It's really just getting to know people through their music,
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 7: movies and TV taste, okay, and we do it over
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 7: a little cocktails. So it's like this and yep, I
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 7: love that this and yep means and we just it
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 7: gets out of here.
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 4: Got mouth too, so you know she gets hell, what
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 4: is it.
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 5: What do you mean by that?
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 4: It opens wide?
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 3: How would you know?
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 4: You laugh?
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 7: It's given a narrow for really?
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 3: Why?
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 4: Why? Why? That's crazy? You know why? It is negative?
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 4: And look at that?
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 7: Yes, I don't call You can't call a mouth or
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 7: a puss wide or back.
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 5: That's not nice either.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 4: You can call a mouth mouth and back two different words,
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 4: wide mouth and wide back.
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 5: They both mean.
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 4: Is it mean? Why? Back is mean? Yes? All right?
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 7: A lovely why.
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 4: As as far as back?
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 7: Why is nuts on a woman's anatomy in general? Because
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 7: what the hell we need?
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 4: As?
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 5: Why what do we need? As I ain't.
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 4: Got no spread of widespread spread of what ass?
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 5: I don't have that either. Where we go from.
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 4: Wait a minute, Just because you don't have ASS don't
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 4: mean that your spread can't be nice. I've seen something.
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 4: What I'm saying, Compare it from ass to spread? Why
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 4: you can have no ass and bend over and that
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 4: thing just young mileage? Right?
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  Speaker 9: Yes, the illusions, the illusion ass illusion asses. We had
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  Speaker 9: one on five five five five got ten more minutes.
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  Speaker 4: By the way, this is two segments. Show In the
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  Speaker 4: first segment, yes, right shot thug s h y T
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  Speaker 4: h U g G. Please follow her. She is hilarious,
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  Speaker 4: like actually hilarious, also beautiful. Her set is amazing. It's
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  Speaker 4: her own set. I don't think I've ever seen anybody
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  Speaker 4: with your set. Is was that built for you?
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  Speaker 5: No? I wish it was ship.
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  Speaker 4: I've never seen that set.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, people in there on the couch on the blue velvet.
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  Speaker 5: But it's really cute. It is plush, so everybody come
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  Speaker 5: in and feel comfortable. They had a cocktail.
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  Speaker 4: Are you into music that much? Like? What made you do?
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 4: Like that type of show?
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  Speaker 5: I love music.
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  Speaker 7: I wake up like people be like, oh I need
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  Speaker 7: like a few moments to fuck that cut the music on.
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  Speaker 7: As soon as you wake up, it starts to set
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  Speaker 7: the tone and start. And I listened to music all
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 7: the way till it's time to.
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  Speaker 4: Go to What type of music are you into? Like?
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  Speaker 4: What's your hot your favorite genre?
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 5: Favorite rap?
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 4: What type of Houston rap? I got you.
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 3: Waking up to? Slim Thug that's crazy?
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  Speaker 5: Really just depends on the mood I'm in. Is real
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  Speaker 5: because I start, I'll start.
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  Speaker 4: With it's slim Thug embarrassing.
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  Speaker 5: Hello, why would you say that?
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  Speaker 4: Why you go there?
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  Speaker 5: Ain't embarrassment to me? He's not a representation to me,
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  Speaker 5: I think.
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  Speaker 4: It's a lot of.
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  Speaker 3: Talking here.
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  Speaker 4: It's just a cruestion.
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  Speaker 5: He is but a man. This is outrageous ship like
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  Speaker 5: most men. He's a little man.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, That's what I like to hear because I've seen him.
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  Speaker 4: There's a lot of our feelings, celebrit Britties, people that
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 4: we've you know, idolized over our lifetime, and then we
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  Speaker 4: see them on Twitter or Instagram and you're like, what
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  Speaker 4: the fuck.
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  Speaker 7: When celebrities lost the loure. Yeah, they're not taking the
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 7: approaching them.
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  Speaker 2: He's still fine though, That's all it really matters. Just
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 2: let him be cute inside.
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  Speaker 3: He was a poor man.
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  Speaker 4: Mine's begging for sex? What he was on poor mind's bag?
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  Speaker 4: I was like slim broke, crazy and b Well, it's
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 4: just I just always felt like he was super cool,
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 4: got all the women.
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  Speaker 2: And then I see him on there like a begging
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  Speaker 2: is insane. This is what I was just stop, they
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 2: gotta stop?
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  Speaker 4: Did you not see that? I am? I Lion? Am
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 4: I wrong?
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  Speaker 3: I get him some milk bro yesterday, Lion starving for
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 3: sex from who.
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 5: From.
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 4: Anybody that would give it? Because they both fire. Lex Andre,
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 4: I've been around lex d and was like either one of.
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  Speaker 14: Y'all, which one fire, but damn on the mics, and
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 14: he kept doing it.
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  Speaker 7: He felt he should be more entitled to what the
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 7: women because of his because of who I am, because
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 7: of what I got.
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  Speaker 3: You gave that the allure. I didn't know nothing about this.
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 3: It's like, let me no.
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  Speaker 4: Come on, entitlement trump. Have you ever had dealt with
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 4: entitlement from a woman? Sure? Absolutely, in what ways, like
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 4: a woman that you're not dating or whatever. However, I
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 4: can't think of a great example.
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 8: The best exempi I got is like a woman, I
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 8: can't even say we were dating. We were kind of
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 8: interested in each other. Went out to eat and she
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 8: invited her friends along to come eat, just to get.
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  Speaker 4: A free meal, you know what I mean. And I
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 4: was like, you know, it was just strange.
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  Speaker 7: Damn a whole meal, not even just cocktails the girls,
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  Speaker 7: and that's disgusting.
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 8: As the man in the situation, of course, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 8: pay for it. But I felt the ways like nobody
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 8: reached for their pocket.
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  Speaker 3: Because if you wore ugly bitches, I'm gonna be double time.
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  Speaker 8: They were all cute, they were all good company.
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  Speaker 3: What do you mean, we fucking all of y'all coming
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 3: back to.
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  Speaker 4: Why did y'all think they come here like that? Why
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 4: did y'all think that this was cool? Nigga said, no,
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 4: I'm not. Yes, you just so you must have this
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 4: must be a gift gies.
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 5: They're good at it. It'd be working.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, they got away with him, like you said before
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  Speaker 7: that they have gotten away with it.
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 4: Before, my bug. If he was like, no, I'm not paying?
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 4: Is he cheap? Does he look crazy at the table?
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 2: Look, he looked a little crazy. But but I would
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 2: have justified crazy.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, I think it would have been justified. But I
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 8: think I handled it right. I paid for it.
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 4: But it was the one and done. Did you beat
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 4: so you paid? What was the point of this? Is
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 4: what men's problem is. We really, y'all niggas need to
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 4: stop caring about how y'all look. Yo, funk that. Here's me,
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 4: I invited you, here's you. Good night, ladies, y'all have
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 4: a great night and go about your business and don't
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 4: call Shorty no more. You're supposed to have standards. You
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 4: know why y'all saying that he looked crazy for that?
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 3: No, I said crazy, but justified?
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 4: You say crazy. That's that crazy.
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 2: That's a little crazy, bro. It's a little penny pension
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 2: like you're not. It's not supposed to hurt you that bad. Yeah,
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 2: it's it's the presentation of it.
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 3: That's dusty.
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  Speaker 5: You don't have.
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  Speaker 4: You don't have a mike. I don't know.
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  Speaker 5: If you didn't know, doesn't to show up like that?
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 7: Absolutely right, it's yes, fire water through gratuity.
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 3: Yes, Yes, it's dusty. It's dusty all around.
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 4: So do y'all think I did the right thing by
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 4: paying it?
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 7: But then talking, I would have blocked at the table
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 7: as we sat, as we broke bridge.
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 3: I would have blocked at the table.
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 7: If you see this, lady, you shouldn't have brought you.
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 4: So tell me where I'm being broken because obviously you
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 4: know I like spending money, no problem, but.
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 3: You've done worse.
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 4: Plus maybe, But in this situation, why did I owe
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 4: them that meal in order to cut them off?
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 3: You don't like?
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 4: What did I do that? I have to show my
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 4: character right now? No, there's other parts that I can
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 4: show you.
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 3: A yes, and but then I think that.
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 5: It's different.
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 3: No, I'm gonna say it. Why I'm gonna say it.
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 2: It gives a little petty and a little bitchy if
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 2: you if you're it gives a little petty, especially if
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 2: you got I can understand. If you don't have it,
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 2: then that's like like I get that. But if you
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 2: have it and you know it's not going to set
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 2: you back, it gives a little like retaliatory, a little bitchy,
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 2: a little bit like tit for tat. I think it's
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 2: more appropriate and it's more masculine to be like, I
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 2: got that, I got this for you broke bitches.
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 3: You're blocked and I'm out.
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 4: I have five kids.
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 5: Is that what you have?
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 4: I don't care if I got it or not. Kids,
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 4: I don't care if I got time. I ain't really
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 4: have it. This was that makes it. Yeah, that makes
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 4: it different if I got it or not. This day
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 4: bread like what am I doing out here? Just wild?
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  Speaker 7: No, I get you was gonna take the lady out,
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 7: and she was gonna be like perhaps and for the
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 7: lady perhaps saying perhaps not.
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 4: They didn't have no what exactly? No mics? What what is?
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 4: What is? Yall? What's the debates? But that's very bitch
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 4: Why y'all making it seem as if y'all could get
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 4: away with certain sh because as a woman, the history
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 4: of the patriot. You heard me fighting patriarchy on the
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 4: other show this week. I don't think it's cool. No,
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 4: one way or the other.
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 5: It's not. But unfortunately it's just the name.
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 3: We can't hear y'all. So when we when it's come up,
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 3: is going on.
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 4: Able to in the mics? Well, I asked him, I asked,
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 4: you should have came closer, closer yesterday.
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 3: I didn't want to come to baby.
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  Speaker 7: We ain't got that much to say.
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 4: Well, they said it's seeing titlement. What they're saying is
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 4: it's seeing titlement. If it was a woman, he couldn't
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 4: just pull up with three niggas. Off. I told you
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 4: come over, I want to give you some pussy, and
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 4: you show up with three niggas.
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 5: R mean some coach.
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 3: That's crazy.
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 5: First of all, I'm.
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 3: Mad together, yo, baby, come over, I give you. He
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 3: can't just show up with three niggas like that ship.
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 3: Is you trying to set me up? Nigga? I would
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 3: be out, I would.
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 5: Making me nervous.
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 3: Right, that is a safety concern, Like I'm out of here.
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 3: Actually get the fuck.
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 5: Out of here.
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 3: We actually three grown men, y'all can afford this.
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 4: We're actually gonna end right here. Yesterday what time we
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 4: at one going on fifteen? All right? I just mentioned
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 4: safety and one of my followers actually brought that up
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 4: in a post about the way men move. We're gonna
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 4: get back to that the part two. Lets see a
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 4: few days over the Patreon Ya Wakers shot where can
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 4: they find you?
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 7: Before we go The Yappy Hour on YouTube Yappy Hour Show,
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 7: I'm the School on Instagram or just shot with two.
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  Speaker 4: G's everywhere double g periods. Yeah good, don't want to
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 4: keep going. Anybody want drinks, Anybody wants vibes. It's the
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 4: middle of a Sunday afternoon.
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 3: Drinks sound like