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Operate Beyond Fear & Unlock Rapid Expansion · Beyond Limits With Olivia Marie

• 0:02
  SPEAKER_00: Hello and welcome to the Live Well Podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm your host, Liv, Naturopath, turned seven-figure business owner and wealth activator who is obsessed with igniting your life and business from the inside up.
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  SPEAKER_00: Join us as we fuse groundbreaking strategies with the power of energetics and the wisdom of the nervous system to truly create a life and business that flows.
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  SPEAKER_00: Each episode, we will dive deep with no BS advice to create massive results while we explore the realms of growth and expansion in a way that honestly feels chill and relaxed.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you are looking for enlightening discussions and profound expansion, then you are in the right place.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is time to step into all that is possible.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hello.
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  SPEAKER_00: Today we are going to be talking about operating beyond fear so that you can unlock rapid expansion so that you can expand faster and easier than ever before.
• 1:08
  SPEAKER_00: Hello, Lily.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hello to everyone joining.
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  SPEAKER_00: Please say hello.
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  SPEAKER_00: If this is the first time you're seeing me, say hello.
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  SPEAKER_00: If this is not the first time you're seeing me, still say hello because I love seeing all of the familiar faces.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I really want to be diving into operating beyond fear because this is probably one of the number one things that I see hold women back when it comes to expanding to new levels, but also expanding to new levels with the ease in their system, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Feeling relaxed, feeling chill.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because you don't want to expand to new levels feeling overwhelmed or stressed or anxious.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like you're not about that.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're here to do it in a way that feels like ease, which means that we need to overcome fear.
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  SPEAKER_00: So what happens is that when we have fear, fear about something going wrong, the potential for something happening, but also it includes the fear of something happening potentially again.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if something's happened in the past and that we weren't quite a fan of it, we're then scared that it's going to happen again.
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  SPEAKER_00: Especially if we didn't achieve the result the first time, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: And so let's say you didn't make the money back that you wanted to, the launch didn't go as you wanted to, people didn't show up, you didn't make the money you wanted to, you didn't hit a milestone.
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  SPEAKER_00: That fear, right, gets embedded into your system, embedded into your nervous system, and then your nervous system is not going to allow you to expand because you don't want to feel that same fear again, that same disappointment that you did the first time, the same embarrassment or shame or upset or sadness or frustration.
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  SPEAKER_00: So your nervous system is just gonna be like, all right, we're not going to do that again.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's gonna make you fear that thing in order to protect you.
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  SPEAKER_00: But what happens is this is actually keeping you from receiving deeper results in your life and in your business.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because your nervous system has all of these stories, all of these things that it wrote, right, about what happened before, that then allows it to not evolve into that next level.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I want you to really think about all of these little fears that are coming up in your mind, yes, from what could potentially happen, but things that are also based on what happened before, where you have failed before or things didn't go according to plan, that now your nervous system is really trying to avoid.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because when your nervous system is going to try to avoid something from happening again, it's also gonna stop you from taking the action and making the decisions that are going to allow you to evolve in your life and in your business, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: It's gonna stop you from doing the things that will expand you in order to keep you where you're at.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I really want you to think about the way fear works in your system is like pressing the brake in the car, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: The brake pedal.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you're doing all of the right things in your life and in your business, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: You're you're posting your offers, you're I don't know, you're doing the mindset work, you're showing up online, you're selling, you're working on your message, you're doing all of these things, which is beautiful.
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  SPEAKER_00: All of these gas things, you're pushing the gas, pushing the gas, pushing the gas.
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  SPEAKER_00: But then all of this fear, right, that's in your subconscious, that's in your nervous system, is like pressing the gas.
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  SPEAKER_00: I mean, the brake.
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  SPEAKER_00: So we have part of you pressing the gas, which is fabulous, doing all these wonderful things, doing all the right things, but then your nervous system is pressing the brake because it's scared for you to actually get those results.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so what happens is what would happen if you pressed the gas and the brake at the same time in the car?
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  SPEAKER_00: The car is gonna go nowhere.
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  SPEAKER_00: Then you're gonna start seeing smoke.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's why you feel stuck.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's why you feel blocked.
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  SPEAKER_00: You are not stuck, you are not blocked, you are just in resistance.
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  SPEAKER_00: Why are you in resistance?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because of the fears that have been embedded into your nervous system, into your frequency, based on what's happened before, based on what you feel could potentially happen.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because at the end of the day, your brain is primal, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: It's it's here to keep you alive, it's here to keep you survive.
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  SPEAKER_00: If it believes that you won't, or that thing will happen again, the shame, the embarrassment, the disappointment, the failure, the fear of judgment, um, maybe someone will like shame you or you'll get hate online, like the fear of visibility, all of these little things.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your nervous isn't gonna be like, yeah, no, we're not, we're not gonna do that.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can try all the things you want, you can do all the right things, but we're not we're not gonna go anywhere.
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  SPEAKER_00: Which means when you take and dissolve that fear, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: You take your foot off the brake, you propel forward.
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  SPEAKER_00: It means that everything that you're doing in your business, in your life to try to grow, evolve, and expand actually works better, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because those people who are able to grow at rapid rates, who you see that keep quantum leaping over and over and over again, it's because they do not have fear embedded in their system, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: It's because that fear is not pressing the brake pedal and they're able to keep evolving and evolving and evolving.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because if we were to actually look at it, right, fear really keeps your view narrow.
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  SPEAKER_00: When you have fear, you can you tend to only see the fear.
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  SPEAKER_00: We've all felt that fear before, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: When you feel the fear of the thing, you can't see anything else.
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  SPEAKER_00: All you see is the fear, which means you can't also see the things that are going to expand you, which doesn't really serve you when you're like growing a business.
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  SPEAKER_00: It doesn't serve you when you're launching your offers, it doesn't serve you when you're raising your prices, it doesn't serve you when you are pivoting, you know, in your business, it doesn't serve you when you're learning new skill sets, it doesn't serve you when you're trailblazing or innovating, like none of these things.
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  SPEAKER_00: Why?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because the fear is gonna jump in that this is not gonna work, no one's gonna sign up.
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  SPEAKER_00: What if no one size up?
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  SPEAKER_00: What if only X number of people sign up?
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  SPEAKER_00: What if I don't make that amount of money?
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  SPEAKER_00: What if it doesn't come back?
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  SPEAKER_00: What if I get judged?
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  SPEAKER_00: What if, you know, the fear, what if someone doesn't agree with me?
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  SPEAKER_00: What if I get hate for doing this?
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  SPEAKER_00: What if I go, you know, all of these things?
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  SPEAKER_00: Does that serve you when running a business?
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  SPEAKER_00: No.
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  SPEAKER_00: So when you become someone, right, who dissolves all of those fears, you're able to grow so much faster.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this is a big missing piece that I see a lot of people miss when it comes to growing their companies, being able to evolve beyond fear because then you're able to take more like risks, but also you don't operate in fear because when the fear comes up, right, it doesn't feel good in your body, it doesn't feel good in your nervous system.
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  SPEAKER_00: Notice what your default response is.
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  SPEAKER_00: When we feel fear, it's usually, oh, I gotta dissolve that fear.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't want to feel the fear, so let me do something to make that fear go away.
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  SPEAKER_00: Which means that you are then taking action from fear.
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  SPEAKER_00: Any action that is taken from fear, what do you get more of?
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  SPEAKER_00: Fear.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because you didn't take that action from an expansive place, you took it from fear, which means all of the wonderful things you're doing, though they are quote unquote the right things and they are good things, they are laced in fear, which means you're not gonna get the result that you want from doing those things.
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  SPEAKER_00: So let's say you feel fear, you know, around money, making more money, so you post more offers, you do more things in order to make more money, those actions are not gonna have the result that you want because they were laced in fear.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I really want you to see how this is A, stopping you from getting like deeper results in your business, but B, how it really doesn't serve you to be someone who's operating in fear and how it's really showing up in all these little micro ways throughout your day.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because it's not just like the big things, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: It's all the small ways that you're operating and taking action from fear that is then keeping you from expanding, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: There's a very different frequency when you take action from fear than when you take action from excitement.
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  SPEAKER_00: Two completely different things.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Those people who dissolve those fears then don't feel that pressure, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because you can't sustain your income from fear, from pressure.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's gonna be very hard to do it, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: You can't learn those new skill sets because you're gonna be scared of what if I fail.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're not gonna try new things in your business, you're not gonna innovate because you're gonna look to what worked before so that you don't fail again.
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  SPEAKER_00: Remember, the nervous system will always try to keep you at the status quo, at what it knows.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you've been operating in fear for a while, fear is actually more comfortable.
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  SPEAKER_00: I can't tell you how many women I've worked with where they're like, I don't feel fear anymore.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is weird.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we actually have to like expand their nervous system to like where it's normal not to feel fear anymore.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because if you've been living in a lot of fear and taking action from fear, it's actually more comfortable for you to exist in that state.
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  SPEAKER_00: So your nervous system will keep you operating in that versus operating in like the peace, the calm, the expansion.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this is why this work is so important.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because fear will put the break on all of the gas, all of the wonderful things that you're doing.
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  SPEAKER_00: Fear becomes the undercurrent in your frequency.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it directly impacts all the actions that you take, and it doesn't serve you to get into that next level.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I really want you to think about where you've been operating under this fear, where you've seen that be, the undercurrent and how you show up in how you show up online, in your business, in your offers, in every little thing that you do.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you were to notice how much you're pressing like the brake, you would see that like you're not stuck in the great thing.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like I said, when you take that off the brake, you propel forward.
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  SPEAKER_00: Which is also great because all of the wonderful gas that you've put in, this is where people like quantum leap, and this is why this work is so powerful.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because as soon as you remove the brake, all of that wonderful gas that you've put in slingshots you forward.
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  SPEAKER_00: So chances are you're not gonna just creep forward, you are going to slingshot forward because of all that beautiful momentum you did create from doing the quote unquote right things.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, what I want to add on to this is that every time, right, you dip into fear, we kind of like lose that momentum again.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I want you to also think about it like when you're in a car in the gas and then the brake comes on, fear, whoop, and it's like this stop-start energy.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's kind of like nauseating.
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  SPEAKER_00: Have you ever been in like a car or like someone driving and it's like stop-start because they can't push like the gas and the brake smoothly?
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  SPEAKER_00: That same jolted energy is showing up in your business as well.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, the last thing I want to add on to this that I really notice is that it's not only the fear that it could go wrong, or the fear that it's not gonna work, or potentially the fear that's going to happen again from anything that quote unquote didn't work in the first place.
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  SPEAKER_00: Remember, a big part of it is the fear of something happening again if you didn't get the results that you wanted the first time, whether that was a result from an investment, results from you know doing something in your business, from a launch, from this, from that.
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  SPEAKER_00: But it is also the fear that it's going to go away.
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  SPEAKER_00: I cannot tell you how many women I've worked with who start making a lot of money who then live in the fear that it's all going to go away.
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  SPEAKER_00: And they feel that pressure to maintain high numbers, they feel that pressure to keep hitting the 40, 50, 100, 150k months.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because that shoe drop is gonna feel like.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it's like they built all this wonderful stuff, but they're still in fear that the shoe is going to drop.
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  SPEAKER_00: That still creates pressure in your system, that still holds you back.
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  unknown: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So these are the three areas of fear that you really need to start operating beyond.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's the fear of what could happen, the fear based on what happened before, and the fear that it could all go away.
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  SPEAKER_00: Once you start operating beyond these, right, once we dissolve these in your nervous system, propel forward.
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  SPEAKER_00: You no longer put the brake on all these points in your business, and then everything you do works so much better.
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  SPEAKER_00: There is no strategy that can outwork this.
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  SPEAKER_00: There is no amount of you know, automations or funnels or this that can outwork fear embedded in your nervous system.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your nervous system runs 95% of the show.
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  unknown: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Your subconscious, your nervous system, 95%.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you're not working with the 95%, think about the level of results that are available to you and when you start working with the 95% that rules the show versus just the 5%.
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  SPEAKER_00: The 5% is like the automations, the many chat, the content, the messaging, the reels, the this, that wonderful stuff, all required.
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  SPEAKER_00: You'll never see me say that it's not required.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is.
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  SPEAKER_00: But that behind it, that 95% is your subconscious and your nervous system.
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  SPEAKER_00: Imagine everything working way better than it does now.
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  SPEAKER_00: When you operate beyond these types of fears, when your brain is able to be expanded so that when it perceives the world, it doesn't see fear, fear, fear, fear, fear.
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  SPEAKER_00: And instead it knows exactly what to do, when to do it, and operates in certainty.
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  SPEAKER_00: It no longer has any doubts.
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  SPEAKER_00: Watch the magic and miracles absolutely pour in.
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  SPEAKER_00: And also watch how your experience of life and business gets to be so much different.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because we all know it's very different to be making, you know, money, stressed, anxious, overwhelmed, feeling pressure, and making money, feeling ease in your system, feeling relaxed, feeling chill, two very different frequencies.
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  SPEAKER_00: And let me guess which one you would rather experience.
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  SPEAKER_00: So that being said, I cannot wait for safety to kick off in a couple weeks.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is my signature program where we rewire your nervous system to dissolve that fear that is holding you back, that is making you feel blocked, stuck, putting the brake pedal on.
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  SPEAKER_00: We take that off so you can soar to new levels of life and business faster and easier than ever before.
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  SPEAKER_00: I take you through my rapid rewire technique.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is simple, it is efficient, and it's going to change the way you operate in your business.
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  SPEAKER_00: So get ready to operate on an entire new level.
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  SPEAKER_00: Comment safely below, I will send you the details.
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  SPEAKER_00: And get ready to enter a whole new realm.
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  SPEAKER_00: Where you're no longer held back by fear.
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  SPEAKER_00: When you step into all that you came here to experience.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when you get massive more results from the things you're actually doing, you'll probably end up doing less.
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  SPEAKER_00: And your experience of your life and your business gets to be filled with joy and bliss.
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  SPEAKER_00: And you say goodbye to pressure, goodbye to having to do more, goodbye to fears and doubts.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it just feels like a giant exhale to your nervous system.
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  SPEAKER_00: Alright, I love you so much.
• 17:29
  SPEAKER_00: If you have any questions about safety or you want to just get immersed in everything that I do, then you can join the Glow membership as well.
• 17:36
  SPEAKER_00: You can ask me any questions about that or send me a DM, and I will speak to you very soon.