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Breaking Boyfriend News with Aaron Nosler (Part 2) · Pursuit of Sassiness

• 0:02
  Speaker 1: Welcome back everyone, I'm here with Aaron again.
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  Speaker 2: Hello.
• 0:06
  Speaker 1: Hello. Hopefully you guys didn't miss episode one, but I'm
• 0:10
  Speaker 1: back for more because we have so much more to
• 0:12
  Speaker 1: talk about.
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  Speaker 2: Part two is going to be juicy.
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  Speaker 1: Very because it's like, we talked about how we met,
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  Speaker 1: but you know, a lot has happened ever since then,
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  Speaker 1: and I think we should dive into kind of the middle.
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  Speaker 1: So we talk about how we watched season one together,
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  Speaker 1: and right before season one aired, I found an apartment
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  Speaker 1: nearby and I moved all my stuff and it was
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  Speaker 1: just so amazing and like, what a new chapter to
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  Speaker 1: have my own space again after so many years.
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  Speaker 2: M hm. And honestly with Isabella, like, I don't think
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  Speaker 2: she minded having two houses. I think she was actually excited.
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  Speaker 2: From what I remember, She's like, oh, I have two
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  Speaker 2: houses with two sets of toys.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. As a parent, you kind of get nervous of
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  Speaker 1: like how a child is going to respond, and she
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  Speaker 1: took it very positive, very positive. And people told me
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  Speaker 1: that like the younger this happens as a child, the
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  Speaker 1: better because they just bounce right back and they don't
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  Speaker 1: know any better and then they learn what their new
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  Speaker 1: normal is. And to her, she was so young, and
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  Speaker 1: she was like, yeah, I have two beds and two
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  Speaker 1: toys and I get to be with mommy and daddy
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  Speaker 1: and I love that. You know, not much change for her.
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  Speaker 1: We were in the same neighborhood. We would walk to school,
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  Speaker 1: we would walk to her dad's house. So it was
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  Speaker 1: very sweet.
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  Speaker 2: How did you introduce us again? Because I remember coming
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  Speaker 2: over to your apartment. It was the first time that
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  Speaker 2: I was like being introduced to Isabella.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so for me as a mother, I wanted to
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  Speaker 1: make sure that it was the right time that I
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  Speaker 1: had known, like we were serious and I was in
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  Speaker 1: love with you, and and okay, this is when you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna meet my child. So you're gonna come in and
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  Speaker 1: you're going to hang out for like an hour or
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  Speaker 1: two and then you're gonna go home. And just we
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  Speaker 1: would do that slowly. So I remember you coming to
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  Speaker 1: my apartment and just like hanging out and we're like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna have a new friend. His name's Aaron. And
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  Speaker 1: I think that was honestly the best way for me
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  Speaker 1: and for my child. And she just instantly liked you,
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  Speaker 1: and actually she wanted to hang out with you more
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  Speaker 1: and more.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, we bonded really well. Our energy is so good together.
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  Speaker 1: When I moved out of the house, Jessein and I
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  Speaker 1: had a one conversation and we had a mutual understanding,
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  Speaker 1: and because he had told me, you know, you're never
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  Speaker 1: going to introduce a man to Isabella, and I was like, well,
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  Speaker 1: that's not the case. You know. Let's be real here
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  Speaker 1: and eventually I'll have a boyfriend, and when that time comes,
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  Speaker 1: I will inform you and if you want, you can
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  Speaker 1: meet him as well. And I want to do this
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  Speaker 1: the right way. I don't just want Isabella to meet
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  Speaker 1: a bunch of women or men or just like coming
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  Speaker 1: in out. It's like, once you're in a serious relationship,
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  Speaker 1: then that time comes. She's too young, you know, you
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  Speaker 1: don't want to just confuse her. And to me, that
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  Speaker 1: was just the best approach.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're like, trust me, I'm not trying to rush
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  Speaker 2: in introducing Isabella to somebody I'm not really planning on
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  Speaker 2: getting married to or very serious.
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  Speaker 1: Absolutely, yeah, because it only hurts my child if anything. Like,
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  Speaker 1: I'm thinking of her first before myself.
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  Speaker 2: So we put all this level of care and intentionality
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  Speaker 2: into how I'm going to meet Isabella or be introduced
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  Speaker 2: to Isabella.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so my mom actually came over to take care
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  Speaker 1: of Isabella. And then I get home and my mom's like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: Isabella kept talking about somebody. I'm like, what do you mean.
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  Speaker 1: She's like she just kept telling me because I said, oh,
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  Speaker 1: what a beautiful braik. Did your dad learn how to
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  Speaker 1: do a brain? And she's like, oh no, my daddy's
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  Speaker 1: friend did my my did my brain? I'm like, what
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  Speaker 1: do you mean daddy's friend? And so I had immediately
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  Speaker 1: text Jesse and I'm like, hey, did you introduce somebody
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  Speaker 1: to our daughter. He's like no. I'm like, well, she
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  Speaker 1: said that somebody did her hair and he's like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: a friend came over. I'm like what friend. He's like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: just a girlfriend. I'm like what girlfriend? And so I
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  Speaker 1: kept pushing and he's like finally I realized that it
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  Speaker 1: was somebody that he was seeing. I'm like, you made
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  Speaker 1: the rule to not introduce couples and people, and you
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  Speaker 1: immediately introduce our daughter to somebody. And it's like, stop
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  Speaker 1: giving me rules and not listening to your own rules. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: I just learned that. You know, when you're trying to
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  Speaker 1: get divorced, it's just easy. To tell somebody what to do,
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  Speaker 1: but not follow that same rule, and then he wonders
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  Speaker 1: why I got so angry about it. I just thought,
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  Speaker 1: it's like, you just started seeing somebody a week ago,
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  Speaker 1: and my daughter's already hanging out with her, and if
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  Speaker 1: we hadn't had that conversation, maybe I would let it pass.
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  Speaker 1: But it was like his idea. So so we're in
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  Speaker 1: the apartment and then season one airs and I'm like, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I haven't seen it, let's watch it together. I get
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  Speaker 1: it a day before, and my heart is pounding because
• 5:26
  Speaker 1: I don't know what reality TV's like. I had mentioned
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  Speaker 1: I never watch reality TV shows.
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  Speaker 2: So we're drinking wine, sitting on the couch and they
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  Speaker 2: start introducing all the characters, right. They start, here's Britney's home,
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  Speaker 2: and here's her and Jackson, Kristen and Janet Jason, and
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  Speaker 2: then they introduce Michelle and Jesse Yes, And the first
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  Speaker 2: moment it's Michelle looking pretty annoyed and Jesse's like, hey,
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  Speaker 2: you want a glass of champagne and Michelle's like, it's
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  Speaker 2: ten in the morning. And I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: That was a very typical conversation in our daily household.
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  Speaker 1: It was just like, you know, priorities and that's what
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  Speaker 1: I think is so important. My priority wasn't to drink
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  Speaker 1: first thing in the morning after coffee. It was like,
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  Speaker 1: I'm a mother, that's job one. I am a real
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  Speaker 1: estate agent and we did this TV show. It's like
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  Speaker 1: I was in the pursuit of success and he was
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  Speaker 1: in the pursuit of laziness. It was just like that
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  Speaker 1: was that was what it was. And so watching back,
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  Speaker 1: I was like, you know, that wasn't just a moment,
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  Speaker 1: that was my daily life with him.
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  Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah, So I probably had this grin on my
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  Speaker 2: face like, oh, this is checking out. This is how
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  Speaker 2: she portrayed it, and she looks miserable. So Mike cool,
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  Speaker 2: and so yeah, I see your guys dynamic because it
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  Speaker 2: is not the best. And so for me like, okay, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I can see where you guys weren't good.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. I was rolling my eyes because it was like
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  Speaker 1: nothing new and that was just my life every single day.
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  Speaker 1: It was like groundhog Day with do you want Champagne?
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I don't want Champagne. I have to
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  Speaker 1: take care of a child.
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  Speaker 2: So then you guys are seeing a therapist or a
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  Speaker 2: life coach.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so weak. So we see a life coach because
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  Speaker 1: we had a mutual friend that I think they had
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  Speaker 1: a similar situation, and so he was highly recommended. And
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  Speaker 1: we had never done therapy an entire our entire relationship.
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  Speaker 1: I had never done my own personal.
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  Speaker 2: THEORPY in seven years, you guys.
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  Speaker 1: Never. He was against it, he never believed in it,
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  Speaker 1: and like, I didn't push it because I myself never
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  Speaker 1: did therapy and so I didn't realize how important that
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  Speaker 1: is to do throughout a marriage. I think, you know,
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  Speaker 1: having check ins and having to talk to somebody is
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  Speaker 1: very healthy and very good for you.
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  Speaker 2: So did this come after you sort of expressed to
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  Speaker 2: Jesse that you were very unhappy and that you were
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  Speaker 2: considering a divorce.
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  Speaker 1: We hadn't done therapy then, No, not the very first
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  Speaker 1: time around, but this but once we started filming and
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  Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, a lot is happening. Let's start
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  Speaker 1: therapy now. I'm gonna call him my life coach. And
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  Speaker 1: he actually opened my eyes in a lot of ways.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like people ask me, was it the show
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  Speaker 1: that pushed you? And I was like, actually, it was
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  Speaker 1: kind of my life coach because he would ask me
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  Speaker 1: so many I would have one on ones and then
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  Speaker 1: after I would do group sessions with Jesse, and I
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  Speaker 1: just was learning so much about myself and what was
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  Speaker 1: important to me and what were my values and like
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  Speaker 1: what did I want in life? And he was just
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  Speaker 1: like making me open my eyes and he's like wait,
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  Speaker 1: So you know, he would always ask me like why
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  Speaker 1: are you in this marriage? And my only response was
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  Speaker 1: really like, I have a child. So that's why he's like, well,
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  Speaker 1: it's not good for your child if she doesn't see
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  Speaker 1: love and everything else that goes on to it. So
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  Speaker 1: you're actually damaging your child instead of like doing the
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  Speaker 1: right thing. And so he really opened my eyes in
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  Speaker 1: so many ways, and I thank him for that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought it was quite funny when Jesse said,
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  Speaker 2: you know, I'm trying to show affection and then I
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  Speaker 2: don't get anything back, so I give.
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  Speaker 1: Up and he yeah, nothing was genuine. And that was
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  Speaker 1: exactly what his name was, Scott. Like Scott would tell
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  Speaker 1: him all the time, like, don't do things to expect
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  Speaker 1: something like do it because you want to do it.
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  Speaker 1: And it was very obvious that everything was forced and
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  Speaker 1: he didn't want to give me a compliment. He didn't
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  Speaker 1: want to do all of these simple things that it
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  Speaker 1: takes to be in a real relationship.
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  Speaker 2: And I mean I saw it between my mom and
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  Speaker 2: my stepdad. They you know, I saw this kind of dynamic.
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  Speaker 2: I saw what worked and didn't work. I saw what
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  Speaker 2: happens when you get so comfortable that you stop saying
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  Speaker 2: thank you for meals and you stop kissing each other
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  Speaker 2: every day, and when you know, my stepdad would run
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  Speaker 2: away to work and kind of prefer to be there.
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  Speaker 2: And you know, something similar was going on with Jesse,
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  Speaker 2: where he would sort of escape and you guys just
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  Speaker 2: didn't have that affection anymore. And so to me, all
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  Speaker 2: this looked the way that I was hoping or thought
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  Speaker 2: it would look so as far as.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think that happens so much in marriages.
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  Speaker 1: It's like after a period of time or after so long,
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  Speaker 1: you just like your expectations are so low. But I
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  Speaker 1: don't believe that you should stop giving each other compliments
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  Speaker 1: or thinking one another or trying in a relationship.
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  Speaker 2: You like so beautiful today, by the way, Oh thank you.
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  Speaker 2: So let's get into the rumors. So I'm sitting there
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  Speaker 2: watching these episodes together, there's going to be all these
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  Speaker 2: things that are coming from either nothing or coming from something,
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  Speaker 2: and I'm you know, then we talk about certain things.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I had no idea that like they'll take the
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  Speaker 1: littlest things and like my friends will completely twist or
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  Speaker 1: lie or exaggerate or like make nothing out of something.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so it was sort of a mini evolution. Get
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  Speaker 2: I get to become closer with everybody on the cast, right,
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  Speaker 2: all your friends, I get to become closer with them,
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  Speaker 2: get to learn more about them, and you know, learning
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  Speaker 2: more about you. And then we would have certain conversations
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  Speaker 2: about like Okay, well what happened here? So they're saying
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  Speaker 2: this about this famous director, rumors that you had some
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  Speaker 2: some thing with this director, and all the guys are
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  Speaker 2: trying to figure out what were you doing with him?
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  Speaker 2: You know, why were you with him?
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  Speaker 1: By the way, they would have this Boy's Chat. I
• 12:24
  Speaker 1: don't know who's in it. It's like twenty guys, and
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  Speaker 1: I hated the thing. I will say that was one
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  Speaker 1: of the things that I had a major problem with
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  Speaker 1: because it's like constantly being on the boy's Chat and
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  Speaker 1: like imagine just twenty people all day long, just texting
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  Speaker 1: and texting about random and stupid shit like this boy's
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  Speaker 1: chat was not beneficial.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean there's been some some rumors and stuff
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  Speaker 2: that's come from that. So this is one of those
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  Speaker 2: that I talk to you about. I said, so, who
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  Speaker 2: is the director? What is this story? And you explain
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  Speaker 2: to me in detail what had happened. So what happened
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  Speaker 2: that day? Who is the famous director?
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  Speaker 1: We all want to know the famous director. I meet
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  Speaker 1: so many people, and I say that time and time
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  Speaker 1: again because it really is part of the work that
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  Speaker 1: I do. It's like, in order to you know, sell
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  Speaker 1: these type of houses, you have to know who these
• 13:30
  Speaker 1: people are and you have to create friendships and relationships
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  Speaker 1: to have these clients. So you know, I've emphasized that
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  Speaker 1: because that is part of.
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  Speaker 2: My job strength too.
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  Speaker 1: It is my strength. There's things that I can't do,
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  Speaker 1: and my strength is to get is to lead, generate.
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  Speaker 1: And so I did live across the street from Chateau
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  Speaker 1: MArmand so I would go there often, and many celebrities
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  Speaker 1: go there, and I've I've befriended a ton of people.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so this day was such a casual day.
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  Speaker 1: That oh, super casual. Okay, So I'm going to answer
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  Speaker 1: the question. The director was Quentin Tarantino.
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  Speaker 2: It was you know he hangs out at Sheddau all
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  Speaker 2: the time, Oh.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, all the time, whenever he needs to work. That's
• 14:19
  Speaker 1: where he works from. And so one day I was
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: hanging out there and he's actually sitting next to me,
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  Speaker 1: and I don't really quite know who he is, but
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  Speaker 1: I see that everybody's looking at him and wanting to
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  Speaker 1: talk to him, and I'm not paying any attention.
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  Speaker 2: And your girlfriends were there with you before, Jesse was
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  Speaker 2: at the house before.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so that is. So that day was kind
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: of a Sunday and I'm hanging out with my girls
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  Speaker 1: and one of my best friends wasn't feeling well, so
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  Speaker 1: they had left. So I'm kind of there by myself
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  Speaker 1: at the time, and that's when I see Quentin next
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  Speaker 1: to me, and so people are like paying attention to him,
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  Speaker 1: trying to say hi to him, and I'm not I'm
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  Speaker 1: just mining my own business because.
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  Speaker 2: You've actually never seen a Quentin Tarantina film.
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  Speaker 1: So just the other yeah, I had never seen. I'm
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  Speaker 1: really bad, Like why I meet so many people and
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I have no idea.
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  Speaker 2: In my head He's the godfather of film.
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  Speaker 1: Well now I know, yeah, I didn't know at the time.
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  Speaker 1: Thirty minutes later, somehow we start having a conversation because
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  Speaker 1: he's literally next to me, and we had a great
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: conversation and I started talking about real estate and he
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: started I actually had a really cool listing nearby, and
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: I was like, Hey, if you ever need a movie,
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: you should totally do your movie at this house. And
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: I explained why he wanted to see pictures, and it
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: was just like very good back and forth. He told
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: me about the first time he bought his house and
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: like what it was like becoming a famous a famous director,
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  Speaker 1: while like you know, he was living in an apartment
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  Speaker 1: in West Hollywood and how the evolution came. So it
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: was like, great conversation.
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  Speaker 2: This is rare. It's you and Quentin Tarantina locked in.
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  Speaker 2: You guys are now ordering Margarita's hanging out at Chateau,
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  Speaker 2: and there's these fans that are continuing to walk up
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  Speaker 2: to him and saying, hey, can I get an autograph
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  Speaker 2: or can I get a picture? But you, you and
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  Speaker 2: him are in your own conversation exactly.
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  Speaker 1: And so I had actually text Jesse because he's at
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: the house with Isabella, and I'm like, hey, I'm hanging
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  Speaker 1: out with Quentin Tarantino. So I'm like, come down if
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: you have time. So he comes down that day with Isabella,
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  Speaker 1: and I introduced it immediately and I'm like, here's this
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  Speaker 1: is my husband, this is my daughter. Quentin actually has
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: a child similar age in Isabella. So we just start
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: talking about children and Jesse hangs out with us for
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  Speaker 1: a couple minutes and then Jesse's like, Okay, why don't
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  Speaker 1: you go home with Isabella.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, He's like, it's my time now.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, He's like like he wanted, Yeah, he wanted to
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: hang out. He wanted to have fun, he wanted like
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: to have his moment. I'm like, no, you hang out
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  Speaker 1: with Isabella, Like, this is my moment, Like this is
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: my lead, This is like my day and I take
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  Speaker 1: care of our child every day.
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  Speaker 2: You guys had the agreement that this was your day
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  Speaker 2: to hang out with your girlfriends and bound out by
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: the pool at Chatteau.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and you know, Jesse's the opposite of me. He
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: wanted to be an actor, so he knew exactly who
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  Speaker 1: Quinton was and he wanted.
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  Speaker 2: He was trying to get into a.
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: Movie, absolutely, I'm sure. So he was like, can I
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: can I hang out here, and I'm like no, and
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: he actually got mad, like I want to be here.
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  Speaker 1: You go home with our daughter. I'm like, no, you
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: go home with our daughter. And he's like fine.
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: I almost wish you did let him Jesse hang out
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: with him, because then we could have swapped the rumor
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  Speaker 2: and say Jesse and Quintin had a little thing going on.
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: That would have been best.
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  Speaker 1: So to this day, he's a friend of mine. I
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: actually emailed him here and there. I even told him
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: about our podcast here. So maybe one day I'll have
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  Speaker 1: him have him on if he has time or if
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: he's around. But he's a great friend. He's a great person,
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: has a lovely wife and child, and that's.
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: It, all right. So I'm watching I'm watching the episode
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: you got all the guys in the pool, Jesse's there.
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: They're bringing up that you hang out with these celebrities
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: and that you hung out with this famous director, and
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: Jesse's like allowing them to sort of create this rumor
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: around it, because Jesse's almost antagonizing it. He's almost instigating that, Yeah,
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: maybe there's something that happened.
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: I honestly don't even know, like how that became such
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: a thing because I'm sure Jesse sent a group text
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: to the boys and then suddenly Jacksay's like, what is
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: Michelle doing hanging out? Like it just became something that
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: was nothing.
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: He pushed these sort of things even though he knew
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: well what the truth was and you know what was
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: really going on exactly, kind of putting you in a
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: place right to make it look bad.
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and he shouldn't have done that because all I
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: was doing was benefiting us in our family and working hard.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: Something I kind of want to mention because I thought
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: it was quite funny about season one Danny always talking about,
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: like what is your love language? And I think it
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: was Jackson what was like, what's a love language? And
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: I think it's kind of important. Sometimes it's silly to
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: some people, but it's like we all have our love languages,
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: and I think it's important to know what yours is,
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: but also what your partner is and like having to
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: make that change or like realize that it is important.
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: Yep. So we're talking about these famous five love languages.
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Mine is hands down, physical touch. I need
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: to be like you need to hold my hand, you
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: need to hug me and kiss me on the lips.
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: That's all I need in my life. I don't need gifts.
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: I don't There's so much I don't need, but I
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: need that physical.
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: Touch and where that leads to it's is great. So
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: quality time. I think we spend a lot of quality
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: time to together. And you know, we were actually always
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: doing things for one another, like self, Leslie, I'm always
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: making sure you've eaten dinner or you have lunch, and
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: vice versa. You're doing that for me too. Did you
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: need me to help you with this? Or do you
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: need me to walk Kilo?
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: And that's what I like about us. It's not you
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: doing everything, it's not me doing everything. There is like
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: a very healthy balance partners, partners, Yes, we are partners.
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: Getting through season one, getting through watching season one together,
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: there's a lot of ups and downs as far as
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: you know, rumors and how your portrayed and how other
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: people are portrayed, and then the you know, yeah, I mean.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: I get asked that all the time, like how what
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: did you think of season one as a show? I
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: think it was great.
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: I think it ended like a like a movie, like
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: it ended really really strong, and it was.
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: It was a great first season. It was a great
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: first season, really great. I think like if you looked
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: at it just in terms of me as an individual,
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: it does not show anything about me. It did not
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: show what I was going through. It did not show,
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: you know, me dealing with my mom's situation, which was huge.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: It did just it just there was only so much
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: that could show because there's so many people, and I
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: just felt like it was very false and like who
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: I was.
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: You had a lot going on. You were in the
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: middle of divorce and trying to figure out what's best
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: for you and your child. You are handling the news
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: that your mom has stage four cancer and that you
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: guys were going through treatments and things weren't really improving.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: And yeah, things were not improving my mom. I mean,
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: first thing is, we didn't even know where what kind
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: of cancer it was, so it took a while to
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: figure out what it was, and multiple surgeries and scans
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: and so many things.
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: And you and I have gone through some of the
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: most challenging things that anybody would ever go through in
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: a actual a short period of time. I actually lost
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: my dad at the end of twenty twenty three, and
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: it was very different to how you lost your mom.
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: It was suddenly it was and I was with you
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: that night.
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: We went to a Christmas party and I got the
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: news from my brother who called me from Thailand. And
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: you and I were just walking out the door at
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: this Christmas party at the Belmont and I pick up
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: the phone. I'm like, oh, this is weird. Why is
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: my brother calling me? And my dad had had a
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: heart attack And I was on the phone while my
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: dad gave his last breath and he passed away. And
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: so that ended twenty twenty three. Then, you know, it
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: was just the beginning of you and Jesse really like
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: going through all this crazyness and drama with the divorce
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: and then your mom, and.
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: It was just like one after the other, and it
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: is pretty crazy that like we're together and we're happy
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: because we had so many things against us and we
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: were just like our relationship was good, like other than
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: you and my daughter, everything else was just going to shit,
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: But you guys were just like my stability, my happiness,
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: and that really like I knew from then that I
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: was like, this is going to be a good relationship
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: because if we're starting strong going through all this shit,
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: like it's only going to get easier.
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we didn't argue for a very very long time.
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: And I remember our very first argument that we did have.
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: You're actually like, hey, I got an idea. Let me call.
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: Scott my Oh yeah, So one thing I learned from
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: my last relationship. I mentioned like we didn't do therapy,
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: and so Aaron and I had been together for a
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: long time and then I think we got in like
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: such a huge fight and I threw it out there.
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: I'm like, how would you feel about doing a therapy
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: session together? And I thought that was and you loved
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: the idea, and it was like the most amazing thing
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: I had ever experienced. I was like, wait, why don't
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: more couples do this? Like when you're first dating or
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: you're first in a relationship, like and you get in
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: such a big argument, sometimes you need that middle person
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: to like explain both sides. And that was just like
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: an eye opener, Like wow, like we don't talk about
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: this in society, but I I think we should do
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: therapy in the beginning, even before you get married, especially
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: before you get married.
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know, I felt like we just like
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: knit that in the butt because we got Scott involved
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: very quickly, and we got on a call, and I
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: loved it because he really agreed with everything that I
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: was saying. And you know, I was totally right, not
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: just kidding.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: No.
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: And Scott has yeah, become become a partner in our
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: in our lives as well.
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: So yeah, so we we are a normal couple. We
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: definitely fight here and there. We're good at not bickering,
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: you know, day to day, but like we get into
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: arguments and whenever it is a big argument, we do
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: have a life coach, and I think it helps the
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: both of us grow and see the other point of view.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: And I just feel like we're like, okay, let's move
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: forward and you know, not resent each other.
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: And I try really hard like the other Like the
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: other day, I said, hey, remember how I wasn't paying
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: attention to your feelings. Well, I don't want to be
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: in that situation again.
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: Like I want Oh yeah, I kept saying, like, you're
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: not listening to me, Yeah.
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: You're not paying attention to my feelings. Yes, And then
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: the other day you were doing something and you weren't
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: paying attention to my feelings.
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: You threw it back at me, yeah, and.
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: I said, look, let's let's take our feelings as respectfully,
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: you know, so you have to listen to me, and
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: I want that to be that sort of like aha
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: moment where we can come away and they let's first
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: respect each other's feelings and kind of figure out the
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: details from there absolutely without trying to defend ourselves.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: And that can be hard at times because it's like
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: in the moment when you're fighting, you want to be
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: stubborn and like you think your way is the only way,
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: and you know, if you can learn from me, I
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: would highly suggest having somebody a life coach at their
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: pissed or you know, somebody to talk to.
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: But it does take either you or me in that
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: moment when things are heated to be the calm one
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: and to be the one that's like, hey, let's step
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: back and pay attention to feelings and just look at
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: this from you know, a bird's eye view and say
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: what's actually going on? Like that one time when you
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: didn't get sauce on my in and out burger and.
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: You will, that was a fight we've ever ever been in.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: I was like I was doing something nice. I'm like,
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: would you like in and out? And I grabbed you
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: in and out? And then as soon as.
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: They gave it to you were like, where's the sauce?
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: Where's the sauce. I'm like, I don't know. I asked
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: for a song, so.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: If you didn't ask me for you said, I didn't
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: say sauce. I'm like, they all come with sauce.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: We actually started fighting. We're like, are we fighting about
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: an in and out burger right now?
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: And then I realized you did everything you could and
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: it was the lady at in and Out who really
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: messed up, but you were really oh yeah, I snapped
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: about defending yourself that it wasn't your fault, and I'm like, oh.
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: I snapped, of course I did. I'm like, I'm trying
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: to be a good girlfriend. And then you're not appreciating that.
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: Oh hell no.
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: So finally I had to say, hold on a minute.
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: We are at a level ten and we're talking about
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: in and Out, so let's just chill. And then I
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: could see you you were still really heated, and I said, look,
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: you you did an amazing like, thank you so much
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: for getting this trying your best. The lady's the one
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: that messed up. It's not your fault.
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: And if we hadn't done that, and it's as silly
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: as it sounds, if we hadn't done that life coach,
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: that lesson from the last time, then that fight would
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: have probably continued on. It was just because we had
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: learned from the path.
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, I did start laughing that we were arguing
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: about in and out in the middle of the argument.
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: Okay, so let's talk about I had asked Instagram like,
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: what do you want to know about Aaron and I?
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: And I got a lot of the same questions how
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: did you meet? Which we explained in part one. I
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: think this one's a funny one. What are your pet
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: peeves about each other? What do you not like about me?
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: I think I have an idea of what you don't
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: like about me.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: Oh, I can tell you what I don't like about you?
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: Is it the dreams?
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: Oh? My god? So when I wake up, I would like,
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: in a perfect world, some silence before I have a
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: cup of coffee.
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: You wake up slow.
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: I wake up slow. It's like I get out of
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: bed slow, make my coffee, don't talk to anybody.
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: And you I'm like a nine when I wake up.
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: You're a ten. When you wake up and you're full
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: of energy, you like literally jump out of bed. And
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: then you start telling me your dreams and you just
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: start like yapping, and I'm like barely opening my eye.
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: So that is my pet, Peeve. I love you and
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: I appreciate all your energy, but I'm like, take it
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: down a notch for a couple minutes.
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: Sometimes these dreams are so complex and so interesting. At
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: two dreams in one night, I know you told me
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: in dream and in dream number two, I got a
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: text from me in dream number one.
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want to hear that first thing.
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: When I wake up, I'm like, what does that mean? Baby?
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: I'm like, it doesn't mean anything. It's a dream. There
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: is the reason it's a dream. I can have like
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: the craziest dreams of all time, and I wake up
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: and I'll never say a word about it. I feel
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: like a lot of people are like that, No, you.
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: Know, yeah, Michelle, you think that you said it the
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: other night, like only guys talk about dreams.
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: I thought it's a guy thing.
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: I don't think it's a guy thing. I think it's
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: a person on a person thing. I'm going to ask
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: my girl talk about dreams, and some people don't.
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: I don't know because I've never heard my girlfriends be like,
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: let me tell you about my dream last night.
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: Oh man, I've had I've had some dreams that. Yeah,
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: I have to talk about dreams.
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: Okay, we answered this. What is your love language? What
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: are your zodiac signs?
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: So my pet peeve about you?
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, sorry, sorry I jumped the gun because I forgot.
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: I thought you don't have any.
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: Right just kidding. That's pretty true, except you know you
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: love getting real cozy before you sleep, but you sleep
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: in full pjs, like full sleeve like.
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I want to be compy. Yes, you want
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: me to wear lingerie for bed?
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: What do you mean? I want you to wear nothing
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: to bed?
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: Okay, that's not happening. I'm a cold person, so I
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: like to be cozy and I love long sleeves and
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: my socks and my pants. Who cares? Can be sexy
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: at other times, so I don't have to be like
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: cute during while I'm sleepy. It's like the one time
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: I don't.
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: Have to is like, doesn't have to be sexy all
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: the time, But you are sexy by not trying to
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: be sexy all the time.
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: Okay, I'll take that. So you want me to look
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: cute for bed? How about if I look cute and
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: then when I'm ready to sleep, then I put on
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: my pants.
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: No, just go in with less. Okay, all right, So
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: let's talk about zodiac because we're very opposite.
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: I'm a Libra and I'm a Scorpio, and I feel
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: like I'm a true Scorpio because anytime I've ever googled
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: it and read about it, I'm like, oh, that's me,
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: that's me. That's me, like very intense from what I know,
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: very tense, like very hard to read, very deep. Hate
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: small talk, like if I'm talking to you, I don't
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: want to like you know, we're never going to talk again. No,
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: I want to have like deep, meaningful conversation. I hate
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: the whole like elevator chat.
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: So one thing I think is very obvious, very obvious
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: difference between us is the way we make decisions. And
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: so I'm a hardcore Libra and I will weigh both
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: options back and forth, and I'll put myself in the
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: shoes of option one and then go completely to the
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: opposite direction and say, okay, what if I did option two?
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, And then once you decide, then you kind
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: of like lean back and I'm like it's so.
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: Then I'll decide and then I'll play with that. I'll
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: be that for a while, and then I'll go back
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: and say, well, what if this. I'm very diplomatic in
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: that sense. I'm going back and forth. I'm weighing. It's
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: a Libra scale, and I'm going back and forth both
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: sides of the brain, and I'm going.
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: Back and sting. Oh my god, I can't even imagine.
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: I'm like black and white.
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: You ask me a feeling and you just make a
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: black and white decision.
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, a feeling, a gut feeling like one way or
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: the other, and that's it. You move on in life.
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: But I will say that sometimes I rely on you
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: for a decision making, and sometimes you rely on me
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: after I've gone through emotions and going back and forth,
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: and you'll just say, hey, just let me know when
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: you decide.
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're definitely Libra. But I think we do. We're
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: a good match for one another. And I just saw
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: one more question. It was actually from Janet. She said,
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: the most romantic thing you've done for each other, And
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: I can instantly remember our first Valentines together. So one
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: of my favorite shows of all time is Downton Abbey.
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: I love it so.
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: Much and you know, gotten me to love it too.
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: I do you watch it and you liked it, and
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: I love everything about it, the way they dress, the era,
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: the old cars, and so that's part one. And then
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: I love to dance, which is something that I feel
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: like we don't get to do nowadays, Like there's not
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: a lot of places that you can go to like
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: listen to great music and dance, Like I'm not trying
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: to go to a club. I want to go to, like,
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: I don't know, a concert with music like old school.
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: And so for first Valentines, he was like, what time
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: is it? And then I just heard this like old
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: school car drive by.
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: Well before that, I told you just dress, oh yeah,
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: nineteen twenties and you'll see the rest later. Yeah.
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: He didn't say anything else. So I actually ended up
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: wearing like a really clapper dress, clapper dress with like the.
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: Long pearls and the headband.
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: I did the whole thing, not knowing where I was
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: going or what I was doing. I'm like, all right,
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: you want me to be nineteen. What year is it?
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: Nineteen twenty, nineteen twenties.
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: Here I am out of the room.
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: Wearing a top hat I got a cane. I got
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: like a penguin jacket with the long tails, sweet suit,
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: mm hmm. And then I've got this pocket watch and
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: then I look at the pocket watch, what.
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: Time is it? And I just hear this like random
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: beep outside and I go out and I'm like, it
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: almost feels like midnight in Paris when it's midnight and
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: the car comes by, and.
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: I'm like exactly what I was trying to replicate.
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: Yes, and that's my favorite movie. Thank you, Oh my god,
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: that was so.
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: Nineteen twenty nine for Model A or something like that.
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: I hired this car picks us up to take us
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: to a supper club called Cicada Club downtown, La.
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah. So we had to drive in this car that
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: hasn't been driven in so many years, and we have
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: to drive downtown, which is like thirty minutes away, and
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: he takes me to this amazing place where we have
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: like fine dining, and then it's followed by music, swing
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: and swing dancing. So swing music, and Aaron used to
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: be a swing dancer when he was a little boy,
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: which I love. So we were I've never swung. How
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: do you say that swung? I've never swing danced in
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: my life before, I guess, and we had the best
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: time ever, Like didn't matter who was watching us. I
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: didn't know how to dance like that, but like we
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: were just Yes, I got rid of them, thank you.
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: I had a great partner. So that was honestly so amazing.
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: I'm like, so much effort was put into it, and
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: it was like all the little things that I would
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: want that never happens. So that was my most romantic
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: thing that you've ever done for me.
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: So Christmas, the first Christmas that we spent together, we
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: went to Santa Barbara before we started spinning Christmas, I
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: think with my family. No, you went down to your
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: families and then you came back up and spent Christmas
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: with me my family. But before that, you and I
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: went to a little steak cane Santa Barbara. Yeah, and
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: I got a nice hotel on the water, and we
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: brought gifts and you brought me a anniversary pack.
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: Oh you had mentioned how like the story about how
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: you had this wine with.
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: The best wine I've ever had in my life.
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: With your stepdad. Was a Frank family in a specific.
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: Year, so two thousand and five Frank family cab.
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was just like you remember that moment and
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: that experience. So I wanted to make sure that I
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: got that for you, which was not easy to find,
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: but I was pretty proud of myself for finding it.
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because I credit that wine as the wine that
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: made me fall in love with wine. And you had
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: called frank Family Vineyards and asked if they had any
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: two thousand and fives left in their reserve vault or whatnot,
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: and then you ended up getting me this really cool
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: decorative box Frank Family with the logo on it and
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: there was three bottles of two thousand and five Frank
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: Family in.
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: There, and it was three things. And then the frame.
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: There was a frame with a picture the last picture
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: I ever took with my dad.
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: And no, that's good. I cry all the time when
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: I ever whenever somebody mentions my mom.
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so that was so nice and so meaningful, and
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: we have that hung up at the house and yeah,
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: so that was one of the sweetest things you've ever
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: done for me.
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: What was the A little caviar to top it off?
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, of caviar.
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: So yeah, we've had some very special moments. So I
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: think you know, after hearing our story and everything, we've
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: gone through so far in such a short amount of time,
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: like can show people like you can find love again
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: after divorce and there's always somebody out there for you
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: that will treat you right and love you for who
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: you are and appreciate that. And I hope that people can.
• 40:16
  Speaker 2: See that and that you can fall in love with
• 40:18
  Speaker 2: one with one of your best friends, just like all
• 40:21
  Speaker 2: those rom coms that you love to watch.
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: I love chick flicks, all right, So thank you for
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: being here. I think you'll come in and out quite
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: a bit, and I look forward to the near future.
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: And season two is coming out soon April fifteenth, and oh,
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: I feel like there will be a lot to.
• 40:40
  Speaker 2: Say, a lot to talk about in our Pursuit of Sassiness.
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: And you'll get why I called it Pursuit of sassiness
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: once the show airs, I promise