Latest / That KEVIN Show / A Powerful Conversation About Parenting and Faith
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- 0:03Speaker 1: Somewhere in the bowels of the city that never sleeps.
- 0:06Speaker 2: Kevin mccullough radio host with sailing.
- 0:08Speaker 1: Media is a man also not sleeping.
- 0:11Speaker 3: Syndicated radio talk show host kevin mccullough.
- 0:14Speaker 4: And that guy would like a word with you many
- 0:17Speaker 4: of you know him of course.
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- 0:25Speaker 5: Show Featuring the music of Dick Tunney and the Dream
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- 0:43Speaker 5: about the top headlines of the day and a perspective
- 0:47Speaker 5: that will give you some eternity to it. Plus, practical
- 0:51Speaker 5: tips for family life, spiritual life, and good.
- 0:55Speaker 1: Old regular life.
- 0:57Speaker 5: It's Kevin McCullough, Monday through Friday on That Kevin Show.
- 1:08Speaker 5: And now, from the Connors & Sullivan Broadcast Studios, the
- 1:12Speaker 5: man who is not what he wants to be, but
- 1:15Speaker 5: is way grateful that he's not who he used to be, here's.
- 1:24Speaker 1: Welcome aboard.
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- 2:08Speaker 4: It's also Friday. We're going to try to have some fun.
- 2:12Speaker 4: I've got some things I want to talk about that
- 2:14Speaker 4: I'm very excited about. on this day. My little songwriting
- 2:20Speaker 4: collective has come about with something that I want to
- 2:23Speaker 4: give you a little sneak peek of a little bit later.
- 2:26Speaker 4: But I got to tell you, last night I'm sitting
- 2:29Speaker 4: with the family. I'm looking at my phone, which is
- 2:31Speaker 4: probably not a good thing to do in the evenings.
- 2:34Speaker 4: And I just got really angry about something. I didn't
- 2:38Speaker 4: get annoyed. I didn't get politically irritated. I got really, truly, genuinely,
- 2:43Speaker 4: righteously angry. The Cut, which is a part of New
- 2:48Speaker 4: York Magazine, and I don't know how they got into
- 2:52Speaker 4: my social media feed, but evidently they are. But The
- 2:55Speaker 4: Cut published a piece this week called I Regret Having Children.
- 3:01Speaker 4: Three mothers explain why, given the chance to do it
- 3:04Speaker 4: over again, they probably wouldn't. And somewhere in all the
- 3:08Speaker 4: brave honesty and the therapeutic language and the celebration of
- 3:12Speaker 4: women finally saying the unsayable, I kept thinking about somebody
- 3:17Speaker 4: apparently too unimportant to make it into the headline. Their children.
- 3:21Speaker 4: They do know that they can read this someday, right?
- 3:24Speaker 4: One of these mothers has children who are six and three.
- 3:27Speaker 4: Another has a three-year-old son. A third one has a one-year-old.
- 3:32Speaker 4: They have names. They have lives. They love their mothers.
- 3:38Speaker 4: Regardless of whether their mothers love them or not, they
- 3:41Speaker 4: don't know any better. They are attached and love and
- 3:45Speaker 4: need their moms. And someday they're going to know how
- 3:48Speaker 4: to use Google or AI. And imagine the day when
- 3:53Speaker 4: they're 15, 18, 20, 26, 30 years old, and they
- 3:58Speaker 4: find the article. Imagine you being a teenager, sitting alone
- 4:03Speaker 4: in your bedroom and reading that mom told the world
- 4:07Speaker 4: she would have been happier if you had never existed.
- 4:10Speaker 4: Tell me again who's being liberated by this? I want
- 4:15Speaker 4: to be careful about something because it does matter. Some
- 4:17Speaker 4: of these women have suffered. There is postpartum depression here, anxiety,
- 4:22Speaker 4: a traumatic delivery in the stories, sleep deprivation, marital trouble.
- 4:26Speaker 4: One mother describes hallucinations. None of those things are funny.
- 4:32Speaker 4: And they aren't character defects. Women suffering through them need help.
- 4:37Speaker 4: They need husbands who show up. They need families who
- 4:40Speaker 4: rally around them, doctors who listen, and churches and communities
- 4:43Speaker 4: that who are willing to help them carry some weight.
- 4:46Speaker 4: Give them all of that. But somewhere along the way,
- 4:49Speaker 4: our culture made a very bizarre turn. We went from saying,
- 4:55Speaker 4: struggling mothers deserve help, to now saying, motherhood itself might
- 5:01Speaker 4: be the problem. And I'm sick of it. I'm sick
- 5:05Speaker 4: of children being discussed as the obstacle standing between adults
- 5:09Speaker 4: and their authenticity. I'm sick of pregnancy being treated as
- 5:14Speaker 4: a medical problem to be solved. I'm sick of babies
- 5:18Speaker 4: being reduced to economic calculations. I'm sick of hearing that
- 5:22Speaker 4: children destroy careers or freedom or bodies or relationships or
- 5:26Speaker 4: the planet. I'm especially sick of a culture that calls
- 5:30Speaker 4: virtually every adult desire and identity to be affirmed while
- 5:36Speaker 4: treating the most defenseless human beings among us as optional accessories.
- 5:43Speaker 4: whose value depends on whether they interfere with somebody's plans.
- 5:50Speaker 4: Arthur Brooks, the happiness researcher at Harvard, has talked about this.
- 5:56Speaker 4: And here's the interesting thing. He doesn't dispute the premise.
- 6:00Speaker 4: Here's what he said. Childless couples often report more day-to-day enjoyment.
- 6:05Speaker 4: Of course they do. They have more sleep. They eat
- 6:07Speaker 4: at more restaurants. They have more freedom. They finish sentences easier.
- 6:13Speaker 4: But Brooks makes a distinction that the cut completely missed.
- 6:18Speaker 4: Enjoyment isn't the same thing as meaning. Caring for children
- 6:24Speaker 4: can score surprisingly low when people are asked how happy
- 6:27Speaker 4: they are in the moment and extraordinarily high when asked
- 6:30Speaker 4: whether what they are doing has meaning to their life.
- 6:36Speaker 4: So there it is. Children cost you something. That's not
- 6:41Speaker 4: evidence that parenthood failed. That's part of what makes parenthood matter.
- 6:44Speaker 4: Their exhaustion is real. The sleepless nights are real. The
- 6:48Speaker 4: frustration is real. And nobody has to pretend otherwise. But friends,
- 6:55Speaker 4: a baby is utterly unimpressed with your resume. Couldn't care less.
- 7:01Speaker 4: That baby needs you. Completely. Completely. And being needed like
- 7:08Speaker 4: that does something to a human being that a life
- 7:11Speaker 4: optimized entirely around personal enjoyment never can. Brooks has the research.
- 7:19Speaker 4: I've lived it. My children didn't interrupt my life. They
- 7:23Speaker 4: changed what my life was all about. Was it wonderful
- 7:28Speaker 4: at every moment? Get out of here. There were nights
- 7:34Speaker 4: without sleep. Still are. Money worries, vomit, temper tantrums, emergency rooms,
- 7:41Speaker 4: school problems, days when I was exhausted and days when
- 7:43Speaker 4: I was undoubtedly not the father I should have been.
- 7:49Speaker 4: But welcome to parenthood. Nobody promised transcendence every Tuesday afternoon,
- 7:54Speaker 4: but here's what my children never owed me, an apology
- 7:57Speaker 4: for existing. That's the part of the cuts piece that
- 8:00Speaker 4: I can't shake. Adults are allowed complicated feelings. Mothers are
- 8:03Speaker 4: allowed to struggle. Fathers, too. People should be able to
- 8:06Speaker 4: tell a therapist things they've never told another living soul.
- 8:09Speaker 4: But publishing those thoughts for millions of strangers to consume
- 8:13Speaker 4: changes something. Now your child will consume them. And perhaps
- 8:18Speaker 4: that's where a magazine editor should ask a question beyond
- 8:21Speaker 4: whether the story is provocative enough to just generate clicks.
- 8:26Speaker 4: What happens to the children? Because kids hear more than
- 8:30Speaker 4: adults ever think they hear. They wonder whether they're wanted.
- 8:37Speaker 4: They wonder whether they're loved. They wonder whether mom would
- 8:40Speaker 4: be happier without them. Most good parents spend years trying
- 8:44Speaker 4: to make sure children never have to wonder about that.
- 8:48Speaker 4: But now, apparently, because we have to have 24-hour-a-day, you know,
- 8:55Speaker 4: just vulgar voyeurism into every aspect of life, we've apparently
- 8:59Speaker 4: decided putting the answer online is courageous.
- 9:02Speaker 7: Yes.
- 9:03Speaker 8: No.
- 9:05Speaker 4: Struggling mothers need compassion. They need help. But children need
- 9:09Speaker 4: something too. They need parents who understand that love is
- 9:12Speaker 4: frequently inconvenient. They need adults who are willing to sacrifice
- 9:16Speaker 4: for them. Some of the greatest things you'll ever do
- 9:19Speaker 4: will cost you something. Marriage, faith, aging parents, children. But
- 9:25Speaker 4: they're worth it. Every sleepless night is worth it. Every
- 9:29Speaker 4: changed plan, every dollar sacrificed because one day those little
- 9:33Speaker 4: people become adults and they'll remember who convinced them that
- 9:36Speaker 4: they were loved. But my friend, they can also read
- 9:40Speaker 4: what you wrote. Make sure those two stories match. Please.
- 9:47Speaker 4: It's too important. Kevin McCullough, stick around. Big Friday show.
- 9:50Speaker 4: Stay here.
- 10:06Speaker 8: Here he is from New York. That Kevin. Kevin McCullough.
- 10:19Speaker 4: It's Friday. Kevin McCullough, glad to have you with us.
- 10:22Speaker 4: And it's exciting for a lot of reasons. You might
- 10:26Speaker 4: be looking forward to the holiday.
- 10:28Speaker 9: I don't know.
- 10:28Speaker 4: Maybe you're thinking I've got like three days off after this,
- 10:30Speaker 4: whatever it is, but we're glad you're with us. Glad
- 10:33Speaker 4: you chose to spend some time with us. Dave Watson
- 10:36Speaker 4: is back with us for our final discussion on this
- 10:38Speaker 4: week-long look at Lamentations 3 and kind of what we've
- 10:44Speaker 4: put in the terminology of Old Testament Israel's version of 9-11. Really,
- 10:49Speaker 4: our 9-11 was probably their equivalent of August 15th. But, Dave,
- 10:54Speaker 4: there's lots of dates that stick in our head. December 7th, 1941. 9-11, 2001.
- 11:03Speaker 4: October the 7th. You just say these dates and they
- 11:07Speaker 4: immediately bring back to people's minds the idea that life
- 11:12Speaker 4: is unpredictable. And that the world has real evil and
- 11:17Speaker 4: that there really is a source of good. And we
- 11:20Speaker 4: we need to tap into that and and latch on
- 11:24Speaker 4: to he who is that source for everything that we've got,
- 11:28Speaker 4: because that's the only the only way out is through him.
- 11:31Speaker 4: And that's that's how we want to be. So what
- 11:34Speaker 4: have we looked at this week? Kind of kind of
- 11:35Speaker 4: bring this home for us.
- 11:37Speaker 10: Thanks so much again for having me, Kevin. It's been
- 11:39Speaker 10: a privilege, especially in the week coming.
- 11:41Speaker 11: Up to 9-11. We have, first of all, the.
- 11:46Speaker 10: Writer, Jeremiah, experiencing a relinquishing of hope, his circumstances, seeing
- 11:53Speaker 10: the city he loved, the temple he loved, and he
- 11:56Speaker 10: was a priest. His dad may very well have been
- 11:59Speaker 10: the high priest. So he's watching the temple that he
- 12:03Speaker 10: loved being ransacked and burnt down.
- 12:08Speaker 11: And he, for a moment, appears to lose.
- 12:11Speaker 10: Hope and say, God, you filled me with bitterness. And
- 12:16Speaker 10: we've talked about this before. You and I aren't going
- 12:18Speaker 10: anywhere tomorrow eating wormwood if we can avoid it. But,
- 12:22Speaker 10: you know, he's talking about that. But then he stops
- 12:25Speaker 10: himself and he makes a choice. He makes a choice
- 12:28Speaker 10: not to remember. his wanderings, not to remember his pain,
- 12:35Speaker 10: but to remember who God is. And when he talks
- 12:38Speaker 10: about who God is and the fact that he calls
- 12:42Speaker 10: to mind that God is one with steadfast love and
- 12:46Speaker 10: that love never ceases and that he's a God of
- 12:49Speaker 10: mercy and that mercy never fails and that it's new
- 12:53Speaker 10: every morning, great is thy faithfulness, his hope is is
- 12:57Speaker 10: restored and and and and that's the the last part
- 13:01Speaker 10: of what we talk he has confidence he is he
- 13:03Speaker 10: has surety he has a hope that is uh indeed
- 13:08Speaker 10: you know sure you know when we think of of
- 13:10Speaker 10: 9-11 and what you said is just so poignant we
- 13:13Speaker 10: we say these dates in in history and um We
- 13:18Speaker 10: can get caught up in the scar they caused. You know,
- 13:21Speaker 10: on my right hand, my index finger, I have a
- 13:24Speaker 10: scar from something happening to me in the fifth grade.
- 13:27Speaker 11: But, you know, it's healed.
- 13:29Speaker 10: And the thing to focus on is not necessarily that
- 13:32Speaker 10: there is a scar, although that's a good reminder, but
- 13:36Speaker 10: that there is healing.
- 13:38Speaker 11: And we know a God who brings healing even.
- 13:43Speaker 11: Very deep pain. Even, uh, 25 years later, I will
- 13:46Speaker 11: go to.
- 13:47Speaker 10: The nine 11 Memorial and, um, it's, it's, it's painful.
- 13:52Speaker 11: It's painful. Uh, it's painful.
- 13:55Speaker 10: And, but there is a God who brings healing, who
- 13:57Speaker 10: fills the hole that is in our heart.
- 14:00Speaker 4: Well, and our, our prayer is that we are able
- 14:04Speaker 4: to capture what Jeremiah is talking here. Um, for many
- 14:10Speaker 4: more things than just the memory of this one painful day,
- 14:13Speaker 4: we have pain all the time. There's things that we
- 14:15Speaker 4: walk through. There's things that someone's walking through right now.
- 14:18Speaker 4: That is every bit as cataclysmic as nine 11 was, uh,
- 14:21Speaker 4: to those who lost loved ones that day now. And
- 14:24Speaker 4: we don't know anything about this person or what they're
- 14:27Speaker 4: dealing with, but they are looking for that hope. They
- 14:29Speaker 4: are looking, uh, they are, they're, they're in desperation maybe
- 14:33Speaker 4: of the idea that maybe that hope doesn't exist. And
- 14:36Speaker 4: they need, they need those of us who know him, uh,
- 14:39Speaker 4: to be living this out so that we can be
- 14:41Speaker 4: the living witness that brings them there.
- 14:44Speaker 11: Absolutely, absolutely. And I think what you're saying is just
- 14:46Speaker 11: so true.
- 14:46Speaker 10: And not to trivialize 9-11 in any way, shape, or form,
- 14:52Speaker 10: but for many people, they have experiences that to them is,
- 14:58Speaker 10: you know, it's catastrophic. And where do you find hope
- 15:02Speaker 10: in that? Where do you turn in that? You know,
- 15:04Speaker 10: we've taught people to look to science. We've taught people
- 15:08Speaker 10: to look to politicians and political solutions. We've taught people
- 15:13Speaker 10: to even, you know, rely on friends and family. But
- 15:17Speaker 10: many times all of that, all of that is for
- 15:21Speaker 10: naught because there are no great, perfect, There is one
- 15:30Speaker 10: who is there for us.
- 15:31Speaker 11: There is one who knows what's going on in our hearts.
- 15:34Speaker 11: There is one who has the answers.
- 15:37Speaker 10: And that is the steadfast Lord that we know, that
- 15:40Speaker 10: we love, that we serve.
- 15:43Speaker 11: And, you know, it's important, as you said.
- 15:49Speaker 10: Such that people look at us in the middle of
- 15:51Speaker 10: our difficulties and we're able to give an answer for
- 15:55Speaker 10: the reason for the hope that is in us with
- 15:58Speaker 10: meekness and trembling. It's not us. It's the God we
- 16:02Speaker 10: cling to. It's the God we've run to. And we
- 16:05Speaker 10: know that his mercies are new every morning. We know
- 16:08Speaker 10: that he is faithful. We know that he loves us
- 16:11Speaker 10: with a steadfast love.
- 16:14Speaker 4: Well, and that's one of the reasons, um, It's kind
- 16:17Speaker 4: of interesting that this is all happening on the same day,
- 16:19Speaker 4: but my music group released a song at midnight last
- 16:24Speaker 4: night called Yesterday the Same, and it picks up on
- 16:26Speaker 4: that Hebrews passage and also Psalm 102, where it talks
- 16:30Speaker 4: about how God's love and faithfulness are the same yesterday
- 16:34Speaker 4: and today and tomorrow and forever. And the idea is
- 16:41Speaker 4: whether we acknowledge it or not, whether we are in
- 16:45Speaker 4: alignment with it or not. I talk a lot about
- 16:47Speaker 4: wanting to be in alignment with God's plan and his will.
- 16:50Speaker 4: I talk about that because it's easier than being in
- 16:52Speaker 4: opposition to his plan and his will. When we choose
- 16:56Speaker 4: to align ourselves with the one who made us, we
- 17:01Speaker 4: know that on a deeper level than any other experience
- 17:03Speaker 4: can give us. And I think that there's so many people, Dave,
- 17:06Speaker 4: this week that need that word of hope.
- 17:10Speaker 11: I 100 percent agree.
- 17:11Speaker 10: And if you're if you're listening today and you've you've
- 17:14Speaker 10: never taken that step of and we use terms that
- 17:18Speaker 10: people often don't understand, but giving your heart to the Lord.
- 17:23Speaker 10: recognizing that you and I struggle, we're separated from God
- 17:28Speaker 10: because of our sin, that God sent his son, God
- 17:32Speaker 10: in the flesh, Jesus, to die for that sin and
- 17:35Speaker 10: to rise again, that Jesus took our place and rose again.
- 17:40Speaker 10: And if you or anyone will open their heart to
- 17:44Speaker 10: what God has provided, if you will open your heart,
- 17:47Speaker 10: believe what he has done for you is true, and
- 17:51Speaker 10: then rely on that, trust in that. Take your faith
- 17:54Speaker 10: off of your sacraments or your religiosity or whatever your
- 18:00Speaker 10: faith is in and place it in God's provision for
- 18:04Speaker 10: our salvation.
- 18:05Speaker 11: Christ lives. and Christ alone.
- 18:08Speaker 10: Understanding that that comes out of God's steadfast love.
- 18:12Speaker 11: For you and I.
- 18:16Speaker 12: Will be different you will have hope it won't be
- 18:21Speaker 12: it won't be an easy life necessarily your problems won't
- 18:24Speaker 12: go away but like jeremiah uh you'll be able to
- 18:28Speaker 12: say the steadfast love of the lord never ceases mercies
- 18:33Speaker 12: never come to an end they're new every morning great
- 18:37Speaker 12: is your faithfulness.
- 18:39Speaker 4: And you can count on it you can take it
- 18:41Speaker 4: to the bank tomorrow and the day after um Jesus
- 18:45Speaker 4: is not changing. He's not leaving. Everyone else in life
- 18:49Speaker 4: might leave there. You might not even be able to
- 18:52Speaker 4: get your kitten to be loyal to you. Like, and
- 18:55Speaker 4: kittens are pretty loyal. I'm just saying this because we
- 18:57Speaker 4: have new kittens in the house, but it's like, we
- 19:00Speaker 4: don't have to worry about, about what Jesus has said.
- 19:05Speaker 4: And yeah, maybe it's sacraments and maybe it's religiosity, or
- 19:08Speaker 4: maybe it's just anger and frustration that you're holding onto
- 19:12Speaker 4: and blaming Jesus. God or other people for what you've experienced.
- 19:18Speaker 4: And maybe those are legitimate gripes and angers. But I
- 19:22Speaker 4: will tell you that God's big enough to handle it.
- 19:26Speaker 4: There is, there is no sin. There is no path.
- 19:29Speaker 4: There is no frustration. There is no desperation. There is
- 19:32Speaker 4: nothing that is too big that he can't overcome on
- 19:36Speaker 4: your behalf. And he has, and he wants you to
- 19:39Speaker 4: know his peace today. Dave Watson, real quickly, this Sunday,
- 19:44Speaker 4: what are you teaching on at Calvary Chapel Staten Island?
- 19:47Speaker 10: We'll be in the book of 1 John, chapter verse
- 19:51Speaker 10: 5 through 2 chapter to the second chapter the second
- 19:56Speaker 10: verse we're going to be talking about really the benefits
- 20:00Speaker 10: of our relationship with God and how to keep those
- 20:05Speaker 10: benefits going how to enjoy them every single day and.
- 20:10Speaker 4: If you can't get there in person listen online at
- 20:13Speaker 4: WMCA.com from anywhere around the world you can tune in
- 20:18Speaker 4: at what time exactly Dave?
- 20:20Speaker 10: 1130 Eastern Standard Time. We're on from 1130 to, believe
- 20:26Speaker 10: it or not, 1240. You get an hour and 10
- 20:30Speaker 10: minutes of us.
- 20:31Speaker 4: Well, and it's having been there and worshipped with Calvary
- 20:35Speaker 4: Chapel several times, I strongly, strongly encourage you to check
- 20:38Speaker 4: it out. Dave Watson, thank you so much.
- 20:40Speaker 11: Thank you so much, Kevin. God bless you. Have a
- 20:41Speaker 11: great rest of the week.
- 20:42Speaker 4: Same. Kevin McCullough coming right back.
- 20:44Speaker 8: From New York. Stick around for more of That Kevin.
- 21:08Speaker 8: Here he is, from New York, That Kevin. Kevin McCullough.
- 21:16Speaker 8: Welcome back to Times Square. It's Kevin McCullough, That Kevin Show.
- 21:20Speaker 8: You know, sometimes I put the headlines down and I
- 21:23Speaker 8: don't talk about the news for a couple of seconds
- 21:26Speaker 8: because sometimes there's more interesting things to talk about or
- 21:28Speaker 8: people to talk to.
- 21:30Speaker 4: My next guest fits that category. You may know her
- 21:32Speaker 4: as DJ... You may know her as the big sister
- 21:35Speaker 4: you always wanted. You may know her as someone who
- 21:38Speaker 4: was on Dancing with the Stars or is going to
- 21:40Speaker 4: be in Fox's next Special Forces outfit. But her name
- 21:43Speaker 4: is Candace Cameron Bure. And she has to be the
- 21:46Speaker 4: happiest person in America. Most days, if you just see
- 21:49Speaker 4: her smile, you're just thinking, how can she do that
- 21:51Speaker 4: all the time? Like there's something weird about that. Candace,
- 21:53Speaker 4: like knock it off. Give us a frown. At least
- 21:55Speaker 4: every now and then.
- 21:57Speaker 3: You're going to be known for something. A smile is
- 21:59Speaker 3: a pretty good thing.
- 21:59Speaker 4: That's not, well, there's many worse things. Let's put it
- 22:02Speaker 4: that way.
- 22:02Speaker 9: Okay.
- 22:03Speaker 4: I have, I have a little bit of an ax
- 22:04Speaker 4: to grind. Uh, Kirk's been on my show several times.
- 22:07Speaker 4: Your daughter.
- 22:08Speaker 1: Wonderful.
- 22:08Speaker 4: Has been on my show at least once. Um, you've
- 22:13Speaker 4: avoided me until now. Successfully. But if they were to
- 22:16Speaker 4: give me a clue as to something I shouldn't ask
- 22:18Speaker 4: you about, what would it have been?
- 22:20Speaker 3: There's nothing you could ask me that would bother me.
- 22:24Speaker 3: I've been asked everything.
- 22:25Speaker 4: Well, okay. There you go. Fair enough.
- 22:27Speaker 3: And I haven't been avoiding you. I don't know why
- 22:31Speaker 3: I haven't been on your show, but I'm going to
- 22:33Speaker 3: talk to my public.
- 22:34Speaker 4: I know why exactly. You've been making about 153 gazillion
- 22:38Speaker 4: Christmas movies over the years. And I'm pretty sure that
- 22:41Speaker 4: the math on that doesn't even fit the calendar, so
- 22:43Speaker 4: I don't even know how you do that. By the way,
- 22:45Speaker 4: I've been dying to ask you this. Are you familiar
- 22:48Speaker 4: with a group called the Holderness Family?
- 22:50Speaker 13: Yes.
- 22:50Speaker 4: Okay. Have you seen their spoofs of your Christmas movies?
- 22:54Speaker 3: I think I have.
- 22:56Speaker 11: Okay.
- 22:56Speaker 14: I think I have.
- 22:57Speaker 4: If you haven't, you have to go on their YouTube
- 22:59Speaker 4: channel and see it. It's classic, but I think you'll
- 23:01Speaker 4: appreciate it for all the right reasons. The reason you're
- 23:05Speaker 4: talking to us is you've got a brand new tour
- 23:06Speaker 4: that's about to kick off, and we're excited about it.
- 23:09Speaker 4: Last year you sold out, and I'm wondering what happened
- 23:14Speaker 4: in the room that made you think, hey, we need
- 23:16Speaker 4: to do this again and make deeper connections and that
- 23:20Speaker 4: sort of thing. What was the secret sauce last year?
- 23:23Speaker 3: I think it was just the gathering of a bunch
- 23:25Speaker 3: of really wonderful, great women that were eager to listen,
- 23:30Speaker 3: have fun. You know, it's an edifying night, but it's
- 23:34Speaker 3: a fun night. And I love connecting with people. It's
- 23:39Speaker 3: kind of why I'm taking a show on the road.
- 23:42Speaker 3: Everyone has seen me on television or they listen to
- 23:45Speaker 3: me on my podcast and, and it's, A lot of
- 23:49Speaker 3: you feel like you know me, but I don't really
- 23:51Speaker 3: get to know you guys being behind the camera. So
- 23:54Speaker 3: I wanted to take a show on the road. And
- 23:58Speaker 3: it's a little bit like my podcast live. And I
- 24:02Speaker 3: just love meeting people. And I love interacting with people.
- 24:05Speaker 3: So it's bringing people up on stage, talking to people,
- 24:09Speaker 3: getting to know and then sharing my heart, my faith.
- 24:12Speaker 3: But also I have my guest, Dr. Tabitha, we're going
- 24:16Speaker 3: to be talking about women's health and You know, I
- 24:18Speaker 3: turned 50 years old this year. So I just want
- 24:21Speaker 3: to learn all of the things that can better my
- 24:24Speaker 3: life and make me healthier and the things that have
- 24:27Speaker 3: worked and haven't worked. And that's what the whole night
- 24:29Speaker 3: is really about, just sharing.
- 24:31Speaker 4: That's cool. Well, my own bride has said she wants
- 24:33Speaker 4: to get to one of them if she can. So
- 24:36Speaker 4: we're going to see what we can do about that.
- 24:37Speaker 3: I hope she does.
- 24:38Speaker 4: You promised that audiences are in for something more, I
- 24:40Speaker 4: don't know, personal than the Candace they know on TV
- 24:44Speaker 4: or social media. How do you pull that off in
- 24:47Speaker 4: a two-hour large room setting?
- 24:49Speaker 3: Well, I don't know what was written exactly. I'm a
- 24:52Speaker 3: pretty open book, even on social media. What you see
- 24:56Speaker 3: is what you get. But it's really the connection. To me,
- 25:00Speaker 3: it's the connection with people that is making all the difference.
- 25:04Speaker 3: I loved doing the shows last year so much. I
- 25:06Speaker 3: did it as a trial. There were four cities that
- 25:09Speaker 3: we went to. I didn't know if I was going
- 25:11Speaker 3: to love bus life and how it would turn out.
- 25:14Speaker 3: But you know what? So many people showed up. We
- 25:17Speaker 3: had such a great time. So without a heartbeat, I
- 25:19Speaker 3: was like, let's extend the tour and hit some new cities.
- 25:24Speaker 3: So we're doing eight cities this year, starting September 9th
- 25:27Speaker 3: through September 19th and kind of taking a tour from Reading, Pennsylvania, Dayton, Ohio,
- 25:33Speaker 3: Pinley Park, kind of Chicago, Illinois, Minneapolis. We are in
- 25:38Speaker 3: Kansas City. We're in Missouri. In Grand Prairie, Texas and Austin, Texas.
- 25:44Speaker 4: You are covering some ground in 10 days.
- 25:47Speaker 7: I know.
- 25:48Speaker 4: Are you sure you can do all that on a bus?
- 25:50Speaker 4: Because that seems like especially the Minnesota Grand Prairie thing,
- 25:53Speaker 4: that seems a long way away.
- 25:54Speaker 3: Yeah, one of them is a pretty long drive.
- 25:56Speaker 4: Is there something about your story that you can tell
- 25:58Speaker 4: differently in that setting that you can't like that doesn't
- 26:03Speaker 4: come across through a camera or a screen?
- 26:06Speaker 3: I think you can, for me, there's definitely a vulnerability
- 26:10Speaker 3: when you're in front of people face to face. And
- 26:14Speaker 3: when you're hearing people, whether they're nodding or they're saying yes,
- 26:19Speaker 3: or they're clapping or they're oohing or aahing, whatever it is,
- 26:23Speaker 3: it's a whole different feeling for me that allows me
- 26:26Speaker 3: to be my most vulnerable self. that I don't get
- 26:29Speaker 3: when I'm just in front of a camera looking at
- 26:33Speaker 3: the camera on my computer, you know, on a Zoom call.
- 26:36Speaker 4: Do you sense that that vulnerability, and in essence, I'm
- 26:40Speaker 4: guessing that leads to maybe what we would think of
- 26:43Speaker 4: as authenticity, but do you think that that's missing in
- 26:46Speaker 4: women's lives today to the degree that they wish they
- 26:48Speaker 4: had more of it? Not because they're doing anything wrong,
- 26:52Speaker 4: but just because life has everybody going a thousand miles
- 26:55Speaker 4: an hour with their hair on fire.
- 26:56Speaker 3: Exactly. Community is so important. It's so important that we
- 27:02Speaker 3: connect with one another. And you're right, like life is very,
- 27:04Speaker 3: very busy and it's easy to lose that. And so
- 27:09Speaker 3: this is I mean, it's a it's a way to
- 27:13Speaker 3: have a connection and have a good night out. And,
- 27:17Speaker 3: you know, I think that the show in and of itself,
- 27:20Speaker 3: because I'm a woman of faith and it's rooted in faith.
- 27:23Speaker 3: that's the biggest difference in my life. Like I'm going
- 27:25Speaker 3: to share my heart, but you, I'm not going to
- 27:27Speaker 3: do put on a show without sharing the gospel. That's
- 27:32Speaker 3: just who I am. And, um, and I'm unashamed of everybody.
- 27:35Speaker 4: Listening and watching. That's actually how we're Christians live at
- 27:38Speaker 4: all the time. So I know it's crazy for you
- 27:41Speaker 4: to hear someone say that out loud, but it's like,
- 27:44Speaker 4: it's actually what we believe. So it's supposed to kind
- 27:46Speaker 4: of work that way.
- 28:08Speaker 8: Here he is from New York, that Kevin, Kevin McCullough.
- 28:15Speaker 3: I'm not going to put on a show without sharing
- 28:19Speaker 3: the gospel. That's just who I am.
- 28:21Speaker 4: Candice.com backslash tour for the tour. Candice.com backslash tour, Candice.com.
- 28:28Speaker 4: You've always been one that's been a little on the
- 28:30Speaker 4: ambitious side. I don't even know how many Christmas movies
- 28:33Speaker 4: you've made, but I know it's a lot, but In
- 28:36Speaker 4: one night, you try to bring together faith, family, fitness,
- 28:40Speaker 4: and health. You only got two hours, Candice. How do
- 28:44Speaker 4: you bite off all of that?
- 28:46Speaker 14: Oh, we do it.
- 28:46Speaker 3: We pull it off. We have all the things, even
- 28:49Speaker 3: add nostalgia in there, too.
- 28:52Speaker 4: Do you think that you can talk about any one
- 28:54Speaker 4: of those things without touching on the others? I mean,
- 28:56Speaker 4: you've already kind of said that faith runs through everything,
- 28:58Speaker 4: but emotional health and health. I consider like rest and
- 29:03Speaker 4: getting enough sleep and some of those types of things
- 29:05Speaker 4: in that category, because if you live exhausted all the time,
- 29:09Speaker 4: you don't have any bandwidth for anybody else.
- 29:11Speaker 2: Right.
- 29:12Speaker 4: But like, you can't be spiritually who God has made
- 29:16Speaker 4: you to be if you're not physically caring for the
- 29:18Speaker 4: temple on some level. And then, you know, I'm 56
- 29:22Speaker 4: and I'm thinking about my fitness now in ways I
- 29:24Speaker 4: didn't for a long, long time. It's just, it's just
- 29:26Speaker 4: a different stage of life. I think it's very ambitious,
- 29:29Speaker 4: but I congratulate you on it.
- 29:31Speaker 3: Well, thanks. They're all tied together. My guest who is
- 29:35Speaker 3: there for all the shows, Dr. Tabitha, she's a triple
- 29:38Speaker 3: board certified doctor. and also moved into functional health coaching.
- 29:44Speaker 3: And she too is a Christian. So everything is synergetic
- 29:48Speaker 3: and that it's taking care of mind, body and soul.
- 29:52Speaker 3: So that's why all those conversations really do work and
- 29:55Speaker 3: can't work well without one, without the other.
- 29:58Speaker 4: Well, we talk about it sometimes. I do some specialty
- 30:02Speaker 4: niche hours in the show throughout the week. And we
- 30:04Speaker 4: do stuff on health weekly because I feel like a
- 30:08Speaker 4: Christian needs to be strong in that area in order
- 30:11Speaker 4: to be effective in the other areas. But we talk
- 30:13Speaker 4: about the triad a lot and the mind, body, and soul.
- 30:17Speaker 4: Like it's God made all those components of us. But
- 30:21Speaker 4: sometimes we think we're supposed to overfeed one to kind
- 30:24Speaker 4: of the starvation of the others. And I'm not sure
- 30:26Speaker 4: that that's what he ever intended.
- 30:28Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know either. So we've got some good experts.
- 30:32Speaker 4: That sounds like a lovely night. I'm sure every guy
- 30:35Speaker 4: listening tonight is going, oh, I wish we could be there. No,
- 30:38Speaker 4: this is for the ladies, guys. You just have to
- 30:40Speaker 4: give them that. Your new book.
- 30:42Speaker 3: You're welcome to come.
- 30:45Speaker 4: All right.
- 30:46Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 30:47Speaker 4: Your newest book is called Wild Hope. Wild Hope. You've
- 30:49Speaker 4: talked about this in your latest book. The culture uses
- 30:53Speaker 4: the word hope kind of casually. And I don't even
- 30:56Speaker 4: know if they really think about what they mean when
- 30:58Speaker 4: they say, you know, there's hope or have hope or whatever.
- 31:01Speaker 4: I think Christians approach it differently. Christian hope is supposed
- 31:05Speaker 4: to be able to help us survive disappointment, deal with
- 31:10Speaker 4: unanswered prayer, et cetera. I'm curious because I haven't read
- 31:13Speaker 4: the book, but what makes hope wild in your context?
- 31:17Speaker 4: What are you talking about there?
- 31:18Speaker 3: Oh, because God is mind blowing. And in the terms
- 31:24Speaker 3: that he's God, it's not, he provides a hope for
- 31:28Speaker 3: all of us that supersedes everything in life. And so
- 31:34Speaker 3: I feel like Hope is like oxygen. You can't really
- 31:38Speaker 3: live without it. It's what helps you take the next
- 31:42Speaker 3: step when circumstances are really difficult. Like we live to
- 31:46Speaker 3: have hope, but the true source of hope comes from Jesus.
- 31:51Speaker 3: And through the Holy Spirit who's been given to us,
- 31:53Speaker 3: there's so many great verses on hope in the Bible
- 31:57Speaker 3: that are the foundation. The foundation of it is that
- 32:01Speaker 3: it comes from God. And so this is a 30
- 32:04Speaker 3: day devotional that you can do that is also interactive
- 32:09Speaker 3: and spend 10 minutes a day walking through where God
- 32:14Speaker 3: shows us hope in our lives and the scripture that
- 32:17Speaker 3: supports it.
- 32:18Speaker 4: I appreciate that for sure. All right. Quick follow up
- 32:21Speaker 4: your next project. You're going to go be special forces
- 32:24Speaker 4: up for Fox. This is at the end of the month.
- 32:26Speaker 11: Yeah.
- 32:27Speaker 4: Are you excited? I worked with Stephen Baldwin for about
- 32:30Speaker 4: nine years, about a decade and a half ago. And
- 32:33Speaker 4: he was just in his part of his career where
- 32:35Speaker 4: he was doing all the reality stuff all the time.
- 32:38Speaker 4: And he he was showing me it's really hard work
- 32:40Speaker 4: behind the scenes. You got to get fit. You got
- 32:42Speaker 4: to do the stuff that you got to do. What's
- 32:44Speaker 4: the experience like for you? Because you've done dancing and
- 32:47Speaker 4: now you're doing this. I think you've maybe done another project.
- 32:49Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 32:50Speaker 4: What's it like?
- 32:51Speaker 3: Yeah, that's really it. I get asked to do all
- 32:53Speaker 3: the reality shows. I've pretty much said no to all
- 32:56Speaker 3: of them except Dancing with the Stars. And I did
- 32:59Speaker 3: one of the Masked Singer because I thought that was fun, too.
- 33:01Speaker 3: But this is the third one I've said yes to
- 33:05Speaker 3: in my life.
- 33:07Speaker 10: And.
- 33:07Speaker 3: Special Forces is the world's toughest challenge. You are training
- 33:12Speaker 3: with the Navy SEALs. And it is just a small
- 33:16Speaker 3: portion of what they do every single day. So I
- 33:18Speaker 3: kind of had two motives. One was to be able
- 33:22Speaker 3: to have this experience. I'm such a supporter of our
- 33:26Speaker 3: country and our military. I have such gratitude for all
- 33:30Speaker 3: the people that fight for us on a daily basis,
- 33:34Speaker 3: past and present. So to be able to have this experience...
- 33:37Speaker 3: and know some of the training that they go through
- 33:40Speaker 3: to protect us, that was like a yes for me.
- 33:44Speaker 3: And the other part is having turned 50 this year,
- 33:46Speaker 3: I am going into.
- 33:48Speaker 4: You keep saying that, but I know people are watching going,
- 33:50Speaker 4: that can't be true. Like, she doesn't look a day
- 33:53Speaker 4: over 28. Like, how's that even possible?
- 33:54Speaker 11: Well, thanks.
- 33:56Speaker 3: Thanks. I.
- 33:59Speaker 3: I live my life to the fullest and I feel
- 34:04Speaker 3: like I'm in the best shape of my life at 50.
- 34:06Speaker 3: I kind of kept up my fitness game a year
- 34:09Speaker 3: and a half ago because now is the time. I
- 34:13Speaker 3: want to set myself up in the best way so
- 34:15Speaker 3: that when I'm 70 or 80, if I get to
- 34:16Speaker 3: live to 90... You know that I can that I
- 34:20Speaker 3: can hang in there that I can open up the
- 34:22Speaker 3: peanut butter jar by myself. Like you want to be
- 34:25Speaker 3: able to do those things and get out of the chair.
- 34:27Speaker 3: So like I am or I've been working really hard
- 34:29Speaker 3: to set myself up for success for longevity. And so
- 34:32Speaker 3: I thought this is another great opportunity where I get
- 34:35Speaker 3: to go out and just see if I have what
- 34:37Speaker 3: it takes physically and mentally to And it has been
- 34:41Speaker 3: one of the greatest experiences of my life. Incredibly challenging,
- 34:46Speaker 3: which I knew it would be, but probably even harder
- 34:48Speaker 3: than I thought. And I knew it was going to
- 34:50Speaker 3: be really hard.
- 34:51Speaker 4: Is all the filming for that season completed? Have you
- 34:53Speaker 4: completed the show?
- 34:54Speaker 14: It is.
- 34:54Speaker 4: Okay. So then you've already exercised it. But I was
- 34:58Speaker 4: going to say, you know, a free trainer. It's a
- 35:00Speaker 4: huge thing these days. Big time. Candice Cameron Bure. You
- 35:03Speaker 4: want to know more, you go to Candice.com backslash tour
- 35:07Speaker 4: for the tour.
- 35:08Speaker 3: Candice.com.
- 35:09Speaker 4: Candice.com backslash tour. Candice.com. And don't get her confused for
- 35:14Speaker 4: the other Candice. We don't want to mess with that.
- 35:16Speaker 4: This is Candice. Can't be Candice.com backslash tour. Candice Cameron Bray.
- 35:21Speaker 4: Thanks for being with us.
- 35:22Speaker 3: Thanks, Kevin.
- 35:47Speaker 8: Stick around for more of That Kevin next. Serving it
- 36:01Speaker 8: up with a no-drink minimum. It's That Kevin Show.
- 36:09Speaker 4: Welcome back, it's that Kevin show. So glad to have
- 36:11Speaker 4: you with us and so excited because at midnight last night,
- 36:15Speaker 4: my little songwriting collective, which now has 36 people that
- 36:20Speaker 4: contribute to nearly everything that we do, musicians, writers, advisors, vocalists, etc.
- 36:28Speaker 4: We released the first song off of a new worship
- 36:30Speaker 4: project and it's based on Psalm 102 and Hebrews 13.
- 36:37Speaker 4: that the God who loves us today is unchanging. He's yesterday,
- 36:42Speaker 4: the same today, tomorrow, forever.
- 36:44Speaker 15: We wrote a.
- 36:46Speaker 4: Little song about it. It was something like this.
- 36:55Speaker 9: The valleys know, the rivers dance, the oceans answer. Every
- 37:02Speaker 9: living thing was made to show.
- 37:06Speaker 16: The birds awaken every morning.
- 37:10Speaker 9: The stars keep watch throughout the night.
- 37:16Speaker 14: There's your glory.
- 37:18Speaker 1: Everything.
- 37:19Speaker 15: Jesus.
- 37:51Speaker 9: Worship Christ the King Worship Christ the King Even stones
- 38:11Speaker 9: would shout your praises If our voices should grow still
- 38:19Speaker 9: Creature knows its maker. Growing to galaxies beyond our sight.
- 38:35Speaker 9: All creation finds its purpose.
- 38:39Speaker 15: Lifting up the Lord of light.
- 38:43Speaker 14: Every heart declare.
- 38:47Speaker 6: It.
- 38:48Speaker 9: Every voice proclaim. Jesus, you are worthy. Yesterday the same.
- 39:01Speaker 9: Earth keeps singing.
- 39:10Speaker 15: Like the heavens ring Everything with breath.
- 39:20Speaker 9: Alive Worship Christ the King If we are silent The
- 39:23Speaker 9: rocks will cry If we don't praise you Creation will rise.
- 39:33Speaker 17: No other savior. No other name. No one is worthy forever.
- 40:11Speaker 9: Worship Christ the King. Worship Christ the King.
- 40:23Speaker 4: Yesterday, the same. We just released that at midnight last night.
- 40:27Speaker 4: And the vocals there of Allison Taylor and Jay Lorman.
- 40:30Speaker 4: Words and music by yours truly. And we're just super excited.
- 40:34Speaker 4: We'll see you next time.
- 40:42Speaker 15: Ten, three, eight.
- 40:48Speaker 1: Somewhere in the bowels of the city that never sleeps.
- 40:51Speaker 2: Kevin McCullough, radio host with Salem Media.
- 40:54Speaker 1: Is a man also not sleeping.
- 40:56Speaker 8: Syndicated radio talk show host, Kevin McCullough.
- 40:59Speaker 1: And that guy would like a word with you. Many
- 41:02Speaker 1: of you know him.
- 41:04Speaker 11: Of course that Kevin show is going to be great.
- 41:06Speaker 1: The only thing that could.
- 41:07Speaker 4: Be greater, of course, would be that Donald show.
- 41:09Speaker 3: But we don't have that, so we have that Kevin show.
- 41:12Speaker 5: Featuring the music of Dick Tunney and the Dream in
- 41:15Speaker 5: Color Orchestra. Straight ahead, everything you need to know about
- 41:29Speaker 5: the top headlines of the day and a perspective that
- 41:32Speaker 5: will give you some eternity to it, plus practical tips
- 41:36Speaker 5: for family life, spiritual life, and.
- 41:40Speaker 4: Good old regular life.
- 41:42Speaker 5: It's Kevin McCullough, Monday through Friday, on That Kevin Show.
- 41:53Speaker 5: And now, from the Connors & Sullivan Broadcast Studios, the
- 41:57Speaker 5: man who is not what he wants to be, but
- 42:00Speaker 5: is way grateful that he's not who he used to.
- 42:03Speaker 1: Be, here's The Kevin!
- 42:04Speaker 13: Welcome back to Times Square, Kevin McCullough, That Kevin Show,
- 42:12Speaker 13: the brand new ThatKevinShow.com, go check it out.
- 42:15Speaker 4: Just launched a couple of days ago, and so thankful
- 42:18Speaker 4: for my Salem crew and all the ways they improved
- 42:20Speaker 4: that and have made it so much more user friendly.
- 42:23Speaker 4: And it's really a beautiful site. You got to go
- 42:24Speaker 4: check it out. That Kevin show.com. I'm also very grateful
- 42:27Speaker 4: for the opportunity to talk to people that are trying
- 42:30Speaker 4: to make a difference in the world around us. And
- 42:32Speaker 4: Erica Donald's on a couple of different levels, uh, is
- 42:35Speaker 4: always trying to do that first. She's a mom trying
- 42:37Speaker 4: to be a good influence on kids that, uh, God
- 42:40Speaker 4: has given her to steward. But beyond that, her passion
- 42:43Speaker 4: to work with, um, educational processes across the country. And
- 42:48Speaker 4: to really make a difference in that regard is something
- 42:50Speaker 4: that we're really grateful. She is the founder of the
- 42:54Speaker 4: Education Freedom Foundation, and she's also the chairman of Optima Ed.
- 42:58Speaker 4: And she rejoins us here. I'm hoping that she will
- 43:00Speaker 4: be the next first lady of Florida. Erica, great to
- 43:03Speaker 4: see you. Thanks for coming on board.
- 43:05Speaker 14: Thanks so much for having me, Kevin. It's always good
- 43:07Speaker 14: to talk to you.
- 43:08Speaker 4: Recently, the Wall Street Journal highlighted some stuff about parents'
- 43:12Speaker 4: rights in the coming school year. And I think it's
- 43:14Speaker 4: always good to do a refresher, particularly now that school
- 43:17Speaker 4: is pretty much back in session across the country. I
- 43:19Speaker 4: guess there's a handful of places that may still start
- 43:22Speaker 4: after Labor Day, but ours is already back. And I
- 43:25Speaker 4: know people that have had theirs back for almost a
- 43:27Speaker 4: month now. So it's like, whatever. But in public school
- 43:31Speaker 4: in particular, We saw, particularly in Maryland a couple of
- 43:35Speaker 4: years ago, a school district try to really shut out
- 43:38Speaker 4: parents from having specific rights about what their kids were
- 43:42Speaker 4: exposed to and how they were allowed to participate or
- 43:46Speaker 4: not participate in that. Can we do a little refresher
- 43:49Speaker 4: on what parents should be thinking about at this point
- 43:52Speaker 4: in the school season?
- 43:53Speaker 18: Yeah, it's crazy sometimes to think about, you know, 10
- 43:56Speaker 18: years ago, what parents thought their rights were versus what
- 44:00Speaker 18: was taken away in that amount of time. Schools were
- 44:03Speaker 18: keeping secrets from parents when they were socially transitioning children
- 44:07Speaker 18: and sometimes even medically transitioning children away from their assigned gender.
- 44:12Speaker 18: They were presenting to them controversial material that parents didn't want,
- 44:18Speaker 18: whether that was about radical gender ideology or left wing causes.
- 44:24Speaker 18: And the Supreme Court had to step in and say, no, no,
- 44:27Speaker 18: parents do have a right to opt their children out
- 44:30Speaker 18: if it is a controversial subject that is against their
- 44:33Speaker 18: religion or in what we believe against their value system
- 44:37Speaker 18: at home.
- 44:38Speaker 14: It doesn't necessarily even have to be a religious belief.
- 44:41Speaker 18: So we want to make sure that parents know they
- 44:44Speaker 18: have the right to not only see the materials, to
- 44:48Speaker 18: know what's going on with their children in school, to
- 44:51Speaker 18: have the transparency of what's within their student records, if
- 44:54Speaker 18: that has to do with their children's health. And they
- 44:56Speaker 18: need to exert that authority when it comes to whether
- 44:59Speaker 18: it's a public school or a private school. Parents need
- 45:02Speaker 18: to know their rights and be able to activate them.
- 45:05Speaker 4: Well, and I think in the private school scenario, you've
- 45:07Speaker 4: got the obviously like 10,000 bully club that you can
- 45:11Speaker 4: hold over their head. I'll pull my kid out and
- 45:13Speaker 4: take away their tuition. But public school plays kind of
- 45:18Speaker 4: below the belt these days. I mean, they punch down
- 45:22Speaker 4: a lot of times on parents that they think are
- 45:24Speaker 4: just too dumb to know anything. really what the rules are.
- 45:27Speaker 17: Yes.
- 45:28Speaker 14: And we saw that.
- 45:29Speaker 18: I saw it when I was a school board member
- 45:30Speaker 18: and even before then, where the public school system does
- 45:34Speaker 18: not feel the need to be as responsive to parent
- 45:37Speaker 18: concerns because they have a monopoly and a captured audience. Parents,
- 45:42Speaker 18: by threat of law, must send their children starting at
- 45:45Speaker 18: the age of six in most states to to a
- 45:48Speaker 18: school for seven hours a day that may not comport
- 45:53Speaker 18: with their value system at home. And in addition to that,
- 45:56Speaker 18: because of that threat of law and because of that monopoly,
- 45:59Speaker 18: the school has this captured audience where at times union
- 46:04Speaker 18: members and union influences are pushing down left-wing ideology in
- 46:09Speaker 18: these classrooms and parents feel trapped and unable to do
- 46:12Speaker 18: anything about it if they even know what's going on.
- 46:15Speaker 4: Yeah. Well, and I think that what happened You mentioned
- 46:19Speaker 4: the last 10 years, but I think this little thing
- 46:21Speaker 4: called COVID and at-home learning through the virtual Zooms, I think,
- 46:26Speaker 4: opened a lot of parents' eyes. But we're starting to
- 46:29Speaker 4: move out of that cycle pretty firmly now. have parents
- 46:34Speaker 4: stayed awake from your perspective or are we in danger
- 46:37Speaker 4: of kind of falling back to sleep again?
- 46:38Speaker 14: Parents are awake. They can't unsee what they saw during COVID.
- 46:42Speaker 18: That is why homeschooling has doubled since COVID in the
- 46:47Speaker 18: past five years. And another 7%, so homeschooling right now
- 46:51Speaker 18: is at 7% of the population. Another 7% say that
- 46:55Speaker 18: they would homeschool if they had the capability to. Microschools
- 47:00Speaker 18: are the fastest growing segment.
- 47:02Speaker 14: Of of in-person education.
- 47:04Speaker 18: You see states like Florida, Arizona, Arkansas, and now Texas
- 47:09Speaker 18: with the largest day one school choice program in history
- 47:13Speaker 18: of the country. Every legislative session that happens every year,
- 47:17Speaker 18: school choice is expanded across this nation. And now we
- 47:20Speaker 18: have the federal tax credit scholarship starting in 2027.
- 47:24Speaker 14: This cannot be undone.
- 47:26Speaker 18: Districts are losing students and in a massive way across
- 47:30Speaker 18: the country, whether these families have school choice or not.
- 47:34Speaker 18: So parents are awake. It's not going backwards. It's going forwards.
- 47:38Speaker 18: The system and the bureaucracy needs to wake up and
- 47:42Speaker 18: start meeting the needs of children and families and expand
- 47:45Speaker 18: school choice as much as possible.
- 47:47Speaker 4: Well, increasingly, the schools are moving to Chromebooks for the kids.
- 47:52Speaker 4: And there's a lot of stuff that is done through
- 47:54Speaker 4: portals and online access. Should parents... be demanding accounts for–
- 48:02Speaker 4: because in our situation, our kids all do have accounts,
- 48:06Speaker 4: but we have access to all their accounts. We can
- 48:08Speaker 4: see every assignment that's assigned. We can see all of
- 48:11Speaker 4: the materials that they are– and it's a public school.
- 48:14Speaker 4: It's pretty amazing that we have that level of just
- 48:16Speaker 4: instant access and transparency. But I don't know that parents
- 48:22Speaker 4: not thinking about these things would naturally know that they
- 48:25Speaker 4: should be.
- 48:26Speaker 14: Absolutely.
- 48:27Speaker 18: If your child has a login to any, whether it's
- 48:30Speaker 18: a portal or an application, you should be able to
- 48:33Speaker 18: log in and see exactly what your children see. Whether
- 48:37Speaker 18: that means you have access to their account or a
- 48:39Speaker 18: parent account that mirrors the child's account. That is important.
- 48:44Speaker 18: absolutely full stop must happen. If I had students in
- 48:48Speaker 18: schools that were using that type of technology, I would
- 48:51Speaker 18: demand my child cannot use a piece of technology that
- 48:55Speaker 18: I cannot log in and access, especially with artificial intelligence.
- 49:00Speaker 18: And you know, I am a proponent of some of
- 49:03Speaker 18: the tools that are really being effective in helping students
- 49:05Speaker 18: learn phonics and math and grammar. However, There must be
- 49:11Speaker 18: transparency for parents when it comes to these generative tools,
- 49:16Speaker 18: because what each child is.
- 49:18Speaker 14: Seeing could be different. It's not one size fits all.
- 49:22Speaker 18: That's a good thing when it comes to personalized education.
- 49:25Speaker 18: Not great if parents don't have direct access to those portals.
- 49:28Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 49:29Speaker 4: Well, we appreciate everything that you're doing. And I'm suspecting
- 49:33Speaker 4: that if when because I'm assuming it's an if when
- 49:36Speaker 4: not if if but if when you are the first
- 49:38Speaker 4: lady of Florida. that there will be even a greater
- 49:41Speaker 4: emphasis in that state on a lot of these things
- 49:44Speaker 4: pushing forward, not to mention your great work with charter
- 49:46Speaker 4: schools and how you're still encouraging people to investigate getting
- 49:50Speaker 4: those going. By the way, friends, if you want to
- 49:52Speaker 4: know more about that, Erica's organization has figured out the
- 49:56Speaker 4: whole system. They've got like the cheat sheet on how
- 49:58Speaker 4: to do it. And if people want information on that, Erica,
- 50:02Speaker 4: where do they where they contacted?
- 50:03Speaker 18: It's the Education Freedom Foundation at YourEdFreedom.org. And we can
- 50:08Speaker 18: help start charter schools, private schools, micro schools, homeschool co-ops,
- 50:12Speaker 18: any type of education program that you want to start.
- 50:15Speaker 18: We can help with YourEdFreedom.org. And it is completely free.
- 50:20Speaker 4: YourEdFreedom.org. YourEdFreedom.org. Go and do that. All right. Erica, always
- 50:27Speaker 4: appreciate it. Thanks for all that you're doing.
- 50:29Speaker 14: Thanks, Kevin.
- 50:30Speaker 4: You got it. Kevin McCullough coming right back from Times
- 50:32Speaker 4: Square in New York. Don't go away.
- 50:53Speaker 8: Here he is, from New York, That Kevin, Kevin McCullough.
- 51:00Speaker 4: Welcome back, Kevin McCullough, glad to have you with us.
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- 52:02Speaker 7: Yeah, you know, I mean, Kevin, I've been there. I've seen,
- 52:04Speaker 7: you know, people sing. They've danced. You know, I think
- 52:07Speaker 7: of a woman in the Middle East, Miriam, who just
- 52:09Speaker 7: stood there clutching the Bible that will tell her about
- 52:11Speaker 7: the God who loves her. And then to have them
- 52:14Speaker 7: read their very first scripture. Kevin, that's one thing that
- 52:16Speaker 7: we do. When we travel, we have friends that fund
- 52:19Speaker 7: those trips. But we say, listen, now that you've got
- 52:21Speaker 7: a Bible open and we want to hear you read,
- 52:24Speaker 7: you know, your favorite scripture, if you have one. Let's
- 52:28Speaker 7: hear you in your own native language read that scripture.
- 52:30Speaker 7: A lot of times I have to have somebody translate.
- 52:33Speaker 7: But Kevin, to be in that room in that moment
- 52:35Speaker 7: when somebody who has waited, you know, like the story
- 52:38Speaker 7: we just mentioned, waited 20 years, right, for a Bible,
- 52:41Speaker 7: finally has the precious word of God in their hands.
- 52:44Speaker 7: And then to hear them read that. It's pretty special.
- 52:46Speaker 7: And I'm so grateful that we get to join with
- 52:49Speaker 7: listeners of that Kevin show to kind of take a
- 52:51Speaker 7: break from the headlines of the day, if you will,
- 52:53Speaker 7: and be reminded that one of the big headlines is what?
- 52:56Speaker 7: God's at work in his world through his word. And again,
- 52:58Speaker 7: for $ 5 a Bible, you get to be a part
- 53:00Speaker 7: of this. Let me say thanks to Linda of Dallas, Texas,
- 53:04Speaker 7: listening today. She said, I'm in for 20 Bibles. Keith
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- 53:18Speaker 7: And that's how we get there. About 20% of the
- 53:20Speaker 7: need met. We want to do this for just north
- 53:22Speaker 7: of 10,000 that we know by name at Bible League.
- 53:24Speaker 7: We need to do it by the end of September.
- 53:28Speaker 7: But Kevin, you and I have the opportunity today really
- 53:31Speaker 7: to make much of our God. This is His work
- 53:33Speaker 7: in His world, but also to invite listeners to be
- 53:37Speaker 7: a part of this at $ 5 a Bible. You know,
- 53:40Speaker 7: it's not enough to feel empathy. It's simple to feel empathy.
- 53:43Speaker 7: When you hear of hardships and suffering, Christians being persecuted
- 53:47Speaker 7: because they bear the name of Christ or being forced
- 53:50Speaker 7: out of their native countries into refugee camps, like the
- 53:54Speaker 7: story I'll share next, it's easy to feel empathy for Christians.
- 53:58Speaker 7: But to take that a step further is what we're
- 54:01Speaker 7: praying happens today and that we can fill the need for, again,
- 54:05Speaker 7: just north of 10,000 Bibles needed around the world. I
- 54:09Speaker 7: want to take you to Malawi, Africa. The story may
- 54:11Speaker 7: sound familiar. I've shared this before. I do this in
- 54:14Speaker 7: this hour by way of an update. And Kevin, Africa
- 54:17Speaker 7: has the highest number of refugees in the world. There's
- 54:20Speaker 7: about 50 million people displaced from their countries, likely to
- 54:24Speaker 7: never return, right? And they end up in camps like
- 54:27Speaker 7: the Zalika refugee camp in Malawi. There's about 60,000 people
- 54:32Speaker 7: packed into a place made for about 10,000 There's a
- 54:35Speaker 7: terrible stench in this place because there's poor sanitation. People
- 54:39Speaker 7: get sick. They die. There's people groups that absolutely hate
- 54:43Speaker 7: each other. They've got them mixed into this place. There
- 54:45Speaker 7: have been assaults, rapes, even murders. I saw a documentary
- 54:49Speaker 7: on this. I think it was BBC that did this
- 54:51Speaker 7: not too long ago. And it showed the chaos that
- 54:54Speaker 7: defines the Zalika refugee camp, right? But there was a pastor,
- 54:58Speaker 7: a group of pastors in that area that said, you know,
- 55:00Speaker 7: we've got to take the hope of the gospel into
- 55:02Speaker 7: this place. They began to work with Bible League. And Kevin,
- 55:05Speaker 7: without any charge, we've made available Bible studies, our Project
- 55:10Speaker 7: Phillips study. We give a name and a face to
- 55:12Speaker 7: our global ministry, our strategy, and that is a weekly
- 55:15Speaker 7: Bible study. People gather maybe one-on-one to begin, and then
- 55:19Speaker 7: they're pulled into a group study. There may be 20
- 55:21Speaker 7: or 40 people gathering at a time, again, to explore
- 55:25Speaker 7: who is Jesus? How is He both God and man?
- 55:27Speaker 7: What's it mean to die to self and to put
- 55:29Speaker 7: on Christ in the day-to-day? So, This group began to
- 55:32Speaker 7: work with us. We provided Bible studies in Karundi, Swahili,
- 55:36Speaker 7: and French, three of the most prominent languages spoken in
- 55:39Speaker 7: the Zalika refugee camp. Kevin, there have been 50 Bible
- 55:43Speaker 7: studies started, some of those exclusive to men, some exclusive
- 55:46Speaker 7: to women, normally about 40 in number. I can tell
- 55:50Speaker 7: you today, by the grace of God and the gumption
- 55:52Speaker 7: of these local churches going in and dealing with the
- 55:56Speaker 7: chaos of the Zalika refugee camp, what I reported before
- 55:59Speaker 7: was about 1,000 people have said yes to Jesus, but
- 56:03Speaker 7: the gospel continues to roll forward. And what I'm telling
- 56:06Speaker 7: you today is there's another 500 believers who have come
- 56:10Speaker 7: to Christ in the last few months. Yeah, praise God
- 56:13Speaker 7: for that, right? But one of the pastors, one of
- 56:15Speaker 7: our partners, a dear man by the name of Greer,
- 56:17Speaker 7: I've met him, Kevin, has this simple request on behalf
- 56:21Speaker 7: of the children that they're serving in the Zalika refugee camp.
- 56:26Speaker 16: Into our church we have more than 100 children, but
- 56:29Speaker 16: because of lack of materials, other children really they want
- 56:34Speaker 16: to be taught. Unfortunately, there are no more books or materials.
- 56:39Speaker 16: So we are going to ask Bible League International if
- 56:43Speaker 16: it can be possible to send us most of materials
- 56:47Speaker 16: which can be helpful to our children. Thanks so much
- 56:51Speaker 16: and God bless you.
- 56:53Speaker 7: Yeah, a humble request. Kevin, notice what he's not praying for.
- 56:56Speaker 7: He's not praying for a change in circumstances for those
- 56:59Speaker 7: that find themselves in that camp. You know, many for them,
- 57:03Speaker 7: you know, their futures are uncertain. I can think of
- 57:05Speaker 7: a woman by the name of Miriam. Her husband died
- 57:07Speaker 7: in that camp, leaving her a widow with three children,
- 57:10Speaker 7: ages three, five and seven. No one knows really what
- 57:14Speaker 7: her future is, where she'll end up. She's a native
- 57:18Speaker 7: of Burundi, Africa. But what she's praying for today is what?
- 57:21Speaker 7: It's the precious word of God is in the Karundi language.
- 57:24Speaker 7: She's a new believer. She's among those in the second
- 57:27Speaker 7: wave of 500 that have said yes to Jesus. Kevin,
- 57:31Speaker 7: I don't always wake up, wonder what is God doing
- 57:33Speaker 7: in this, you know, refugee camp half a world away
- 57:35Speaker 7: in Malawi, Africa. But he is not forgotten. And from
- 57:38Speaker 7: wherever he has you listening today, you get to be
- 57:41Speaker 7: a part of this at only five dollars a Bible.
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- 59:02Speaker 4: that's not where it ends. Because when someone becomes a
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- 59:16Speaker 4: the refugee camp in Malawi, the Zalika refugee camp, someone goes, hey,
- 59:22Speaker 4: why are you being different now? Why are you living
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- 1:01:55Speaker 8: From New York, that Kevin, Kevin McCullough.
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- 1:02:19Speaker 4: You know, if you own a business, you know this,
- 1:02:22Speaker 4: you're familiar with this cycle, right? You've got revenue that's
- 1:02:27Speaker 4: coming in, but it's too many days away, and you've
- 1:02:31Speaker 4: got some bills that need to be paid now. And
- 1:02:35Speaker 4: whether you're in production, whether you're in real estate, farming,
- 1:02:40Speaker 4: there's all kinds of industries where you run into cycles
- 1:02:43Speaker 4: like that. Infrequently, they may be, but sometimes you really
- 1:02:48Speaker 4: need help. And you need business solutions, whether it be
- 1:02:52Speaker 4: SBA or short-term term access, whatever you need. And you
- 1:02:56Speaker 4: need to be able to trust people that you work
- 1:02:58Speaker 4: with to know that you're understanding what you're taking out
- 1:03:03Speaker 4: and so forth. So what do you do when you're
- 1:03:05Speaker 4: in that situation? You got payroll, you got vendors, you
- 1:03:08Speaker 4: got unexpected expenses, and they don't always cooperate with the
- 1:03:11Speaker 4: revenue calendar.
- 1:03:13Speaker 11: Okay.
- 1:03:14Speaker 4: It's called a timing gap. It's not a solvency gap.
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- 1:03:45Speaker 4: like many small business owners, occasionally need help in making
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- 1:04:03Speaker 4: about small businesses these days?
- 1:04:05Speaker 6: Great, great to be here, Kevin. Thank you for having
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- 1:04:12Speaker 6: it's the reason why this is a multi-billion dollar industry
- 1:04:15Speaker 6: is Small businesses have always struggled with the need for cashflow,
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- 1:04:42Speaker 6: so what we do is we work with businesses, business
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- 1:05:20Speaker 4: I can hear people in the back of my head, Tony, saying, OK,
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- 1:05:48Speaker 4: this process and kind of how you structure what mock
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- 1:05:53Speaker 11: A hundred percent.
- 1:05:54Speaker 6: So I always said that when money is your product,
- 1:05:56Speaker 6: it just leaves room for a lot of bad behavior
- 1:05:58Speaker 6: out there. It's an industry that isn't as regulated as
- 1:06:02Speaker 6: the personal sector, personal lending sector. So we hear a
- 1:06:05Speaker 6: lot of clients saying, hey, I've been promised things from
- 1:06:07Speaker 6: another company, from a broker, and oftentimes just to get
- 1:06:10Speaker 6: me into a transaction that I didn't want to be in.
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- 1:08:31Speaker 4: Kevin McCullough coming right back. It's that Kevin show.
- 1:08:55Speaker 8: From New York that Kevin Kevin McCullough back.
- 1:09:01Speaker 4: Kevin mckella it is the friday edition and as i
- 1:09:04Speaker 4: you know mentioned in the monologue early in the show
- 1:09:07Speaker 4: um i really got irritated last night when the uh
- 1:09:11Speaker 4: the cut.com which is a part of i think new
- 1:09:14Speaker 4: york magazine um and for some reason they are in
- 1:09:17Speaker 4: my They are in my Instagram feed. So whatever it is,
- 1:09:21Speaker 4: I must have liked something that they had in there
- 1:09:23Speaker 4: once or read it or something. And so now I
- 1:09:25Speaker 4: get their articles fed to my feed. But the title
- 1:09:29Speaker 4: of it was I Regret Having My Children. And I
- 1:09:33Speaker 4: didn't read the full article. I read the part that
- 1:09:35Speaker 4: was above the free paywall portion. But what I read
- 1:09:40Speaker 4: churned my stomach. And as I went deeper into what
- 1:09:44Speaker 4: the stories were about and talked to more people, it
- 1:09:48Speaker 4: didn't sit well. Bethany Mandel was one of those that
- 1:09:51Speaker 4: I reached out to last night. Bethany, because first of all,
- 1:09:55Speaker 4: it's a weird time to publish a piece like this,
- 1:09:58Speaker 4: given that we can't seem to even have clarity on
- 1:10:01Speaker 4: the Lindsay Clancy trial, which is literally a mom who said,
- 1:10:05Speaker 4: I regret having kids to the degree that she killed them.
- 1:10:07Speaker 4: And it's like, do we really need this? Like, Even
- 1:10:12Speaker 4: if there are moms who feel this way and who
- 1:10:14Speaker 4: feel very overwhelmed, I want to be compassionate about what
- 1:10:18Speaker 4: pregnancy does to a woman. My blessed bride has had three,
- 1:10:22Speaker 4: and she did not have the easiest of times after delivery.
- 1:10:25Speaker 4: And for a good while, life gets really hard, excruciating,
- 1:10:28Speaker 4: in fact. But I feel like that the meaning that
- 1:10:33Speaker 4: is recovered through being parents and through raising kids kind
- 1:10:36Speaker 4: of sometimes disappears. outpaces the convenience of it. And I
- 1:10:41Speaker 4: think that as a society, we are just losing sight
- 1:10:43Speaker 4: of that altogether. Am I completely out to lunch here?
- 1:10:47Speaker 2: You are not even close to, you're in the same ballpark.
- 1:10:52Speaker 2: So you probably have New York Mag in your feed
- 1:10:55Speaker 2: because you've rage commented on something.
- 1:10:58Speaker 11: Else of theirs.
- 1:10:59Speaker 2: Because this is all they produce is this anti-natalist, anti-kid, anti-family,
- 1:11:05Speaker 2: anti-tradition rage bait. And this is something that they've published
- 1:11:10Speaker 2: a million times. And this is actually the perfect time
- 1:11:14Speaker 2: for them to post something like this because Lindsay Clancy
- 1:11:18Speaker 2: is the end result of their ideology.
- 1:11:22Speaker 4: She's the cover girl for their cause.
- 1:11:24Speaker 3: Yes, 100 percent.
- 1:11:25Speaker 2: And what's creepy is from their perspective. women should not
- 1:11:31Speaker 2: have children it holds us back it makes us crazy
- 1:11:34Speaker 2: and we can't be held responsible for what we do
- 1:11:37Speaker 2: at the end of it and so yes she probably
- 1:11:41Speaker 2: you know shouldn't have done this but you know who
- 1:11:44Speaker 2: among us who among us that's that's their response to
- 1:11:47Speaker 2: lindsey clancy they throw up their hands and say who
- 1:11:49Speaker 2: among us and the rest of us normies out here
- 1:11:52Speaker 2: are like um me i i've never wanted to.
- 1:11:58Speaker 7: I'm good.
- 1:11:59Speaker 11: I've never felt that way.
- 1:12:00Speaker 16: Yeah.
- 1:12:00Speaker 4: And I don't want to give, I don't want to
- 1:12:02Speaker 4: let the cut off the hook by focusing on Lindsay
- 1:12:05Speaker 4: because we've covered her in detail. Here's, here's the problem
- 1:12:08Speaker 4: that I have with it. Even if you can do
- 1:12:12Speaker 4: a case study and find three or four women that
- 1:12:14Speaker 4: all kind of fall in the same category of having
- 1:12:16Speaker 4: regrets about being mother and the, and the, the cover
- 1:12:19Speaker 4: girl that they use, the actual cover girl in this story, um,
- 1:12:23Speaker 4: she and her husband have only two kids. Um, and
- 1:12:27Speaker 4: it's all about their lack of being able to just
- 1:12:29Speaker 4: go swimming whenever they want to, or going off to
- 1:12:32Speaker 4: some trip whenever they want to at, with their kids
- 1:12:34Speaker 4: at three months and like a year and a half
- 1:12:36Speaker 4: or something like that. And I'm kind of like, you
- 1:12:41Speaker 4: haven't even begun to understand the point of what it
- 1:12:43Speaker 4: was to become a parent. But I ran across this
- 1:12:46Speaker 4: thing from Arthur Brooks, who I also follow on social media.
- 1:12:49Speaker 4: And he's a really interesting read. I don't know anything
- 1:12:51Speaker 4: about his faith perspective, but, But what he says about
- 1:12:54Speaker 4: marriage is really always, always, to me, seems spot on.
- 1:12:59Speaker 4: And he has a thing about being a parent. And
- 1:13:01Speaker 4: he says there's kind of three cycles to this, where
- 1:13:05Speaker 4: in the early stages, is it convenient? Is it satisfying?
- 1:13:08Speaker 4: Is it meaningful? And if you study your years of parenting,
- 1:13:11Speaker 4: you go through different cycles of that. I think it's
- 1:13:13Speaker 4: especially unhelpful to have this type of stuff being published
- 1:13:17Speaker 4: out there when what they really need are some solutions
- 1:13:20Speaker 4: as to how to survive it.
- 1:13:21Speaker 2: Yeah, no, but these are people who don't want solutions.
- 1:13:24Speaker 2: These are people who want to feel good about their
- 1:13:25Speaker 2: decision not to have children. They're fishing for excuses and
- 1:13:31Speaker 2: they love people like this who say, I regret, because
- 1:13:33Speaker 2: then it makes them feel like they won't regret not
- 1:13:37Speaker 2: having kids. The market for this is not really parents.
- 1:13:42Speaker 2: It's people who are on the fence who, I'm just
- 1:13:45Speaker 2: going to be honest, are lazy people. I'm not saying
- 1:13:48Speaker 2: they're that every person who is child-free is lazy, far
- 1:13:50Speaker 2: from it. I think there's a lot of people out
- 1:13:52Speaker 2: there who should not have children. Lindsay Clancy is a
- 1:13:54Speaker 2: case in point. But there's a lot of people who
- 1:13:57Speaker 2: are thinking about it, but like, God, that seems like
- 1:14:00Speaker 2: a lot of work. These are the people for whom
- 1:14:02Speaker 2: this kind of piece is written. And it's really sad
- 1:14:05Speaker 2: because they have been raised all through their lives to
- 1:14:08Speaker 2: avoid hard things. team a week into the soccer season
- 1:14:16Speaker 2: and they're missing out on that on that end product
- 1:14:19Speaker 2: that is so worthwhile yeah you just have like I'm
- 1:14:23Speaker 2: not a fan of the baby years I'm not a
- 1:14:24Speaker 2: fan of even the early toddler years but like I
- 1:14:28Speaker 2: can say on the end of like my oldest is
- 1:14:30Speaker 2: almost 13 I love 13 I love 11 I love
- 1:14:34Speaker 2: 7 I love 9 I love 3 I love 5
- 1:14:37Speaker 2: it's amazing but it it does require a front end effort.
- 1:14:42Speaker 4: Yeah No, you're going to lock it down for at
- 1:14:45Speaker 4: least a couple of years until those biggest hurdles are covered.
- 1:14:49Speaker 4: And hopefully you have– this is why we need two-parent households.
- 1:14:53Speaker 4: Hopefully you have a father in the house that is
- 1:14:56Speaker 4: lending some help as well. Though my bride said last night, look–
- 1:15:00Speaker 4: You go out and make all the money. I'm fine
- 1:15:02Speaker 4: with that. I will take care of them. I just
- 1:15:04Speaker 4: don't want to have to worry about paying the bills.
- 1:15:07Speaker 4: And that's not every woman's approach, but I understand it.
- 1:15:11Speaker 4: But even in all the work, we still want to
- 1:15:14Speaker 4: come back and help and do what we can when
- 1:15:16Speaker 4: we're able to. Yeah, for sure. I just think that
- 1:15:19Speaker 4: I just think that nothing in society is served by
- 1:15:22Speaker 4: by endlessly navel gazing and saying, oh, what if my
- 1:15:26Speaker 4: life had not had these kids? And to say it
- 1:15:28Speaker 4: out loud and to put it into print. And here's
- 1:15:30Speaker 4: the thing that really will be my final thought. someday
- 1:15:34Speaker 4: these kids are going to read what their mom said
- 1:15:36Speaker 4: because the Internet lives forever. And how would you like, Bethany,
- 1:15:40Speaker 4: to be 15, 18, 19 years old, starting out in
- 1:15:42Speaker 4: the world, going out, trying to figure out what it was,
- 1:15:44Speaker 4: and you come across a story that your mom said, man,
- 1:15:47Speaker 4: I wish we hadn't had you.
- 1:15:49Speaker 8: Yep, yep.
- 1:15:50Speaker 2: No, and these are the same parents who are going
- 1:15:52Speaker 2: to throw up their hands and say, oh, well, what
- 1:15:54Speaker 2: could have happened?
- 1:15:55Speaker 8: Teenagers are hard.
- 1:15:56Speaker 11: Teenagers are awful.
- 1:15:57Speaker 2: Of course, you know, all kids go off the reservation and,
- 1:16:01Speaker 2: you know, become dry. Like, no, your child's byproduct is
- 1:16:06Speaker 2: a direct result of what you're putting into it. And,
- 1:16:08Speaker 2: you know, this is what you've done to them. People
- 1:16:11Speaker 2: see kids. We see this on social media, how people
- 1:16:14Speaker 2: talk about their children. They see them as property instead
- 1:16:16Speaker 2: of human beings who, you're right, will grow up one
- 1:16:19Speaker 2: day and see what their parents have posted about them.
- 1:16:21Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just hideous. Anyway, I'm glad to have resources
- 1:16:25Speaker 4: like you, Bethany, for my listeners. Thank you for being here.
- 1:16:27Speaker 11: Thank you.
- 1:16:28Speaker 4: Kevin McCullough coming right back.
- 1:16:32Speaker 8: Stick around for more of That Kevin.
- 1:16:35Speaker 11: Next.
- 1:16:47Speaker 8: Serving it up with a no-drink minnow. It's that Kevin
- 1:16:51Speaker 8: Mac show. Every heart declare it.
- 1:16:54Speaker 15: Every voice proclaim.
- 1:17:02Speaker 12: Jesus, you are world.
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- 1:17:25Speaker 4: All right, so glad you're with us. Final few minutes
- 1:17:28Speaker 4: of the full show today. Kevin McCullough saying thank you.
- 1:17:31Speaker 4: That is yesterday the same. I debuted it last hour.
- 1:17:34Speaker 4: So if you didn't get the full song, go back
- 1:17:37Speaker 4: and listen. Or just go over to Spotify where it
- 1:17:39Speaker 4: debuted at midnight last night. And we're grateful. We didn't
- 1:17:43Speaker 4: put any real big marketing push behind it or anything
- 1:17:46Speaker 4: because this is the one song we wrote that we
- 1:17:49Speaker 4: just want to give back to God. And it's been
- 1:17:53Speaker 4: one of the biggest labors of love that we've done.
- 1:17:55Speaker 4: And yet that is the stuff that I think that
- 1:17:58Speaker 4: we're going to sing in heaven. Every heart declare it.
- 1:18:02Speaker 4: Every voice proclaim, Jesus, you are worthy yesterday the same
- 1:18:07Speaker 4: as you were the day before that and the day
- 1:18:08Speaker 4: before that and the day before that. You've always been faithful.
- 1:18:13Speaker 4: You've always loved us. So we decided as the group
- 1:18:18Speaker 4: that we're going to do a few things with this song.
- 1:18:20Speaker 4: First of all, We're not going to keep any of
- 1:18:23Speaker 4: the proceeds of the song at all. We're going to
- 1:18:25Speaker 4: give them all away. We also are going to make
- 1:18:29Speaker 4: available at no cost the lyric sheet, the chord chart,
- 1:18:34Speaker 4: and we're working on a variety of alternative productions of
- 1:18:38Speaker 4: the song. So, for instance, this is going to blow
- 1:18:41Speaker 4: Lady Tanika's mind, and I hope she's not stuck with
- 1:18:44Speaker 4: any of the administrative part of this. She won't be.
- 1:18:47Speaker 4: We have people for that. But here's the thing. We're
- 1:18:50Speaker 4: going to do a choral version. If your church is
- 1:18:53Speaker 4: more traditional or high church in its approach, we've written
- 1:18:59Speaker 4: and orchestrated a choral version of this. There's a singer-songwriter version,
- 1:19:03Speaker 4: which doesn't have all of the bells and whistles and
- 1:19:06Speaker 4: reverb and all the other stuff that's in that version.
- 1:19:09Speaker 4: That's kind of the radio version, the regular version. There's
- 1:19:12Speaker 4: an instrumental version. We've done an acapella version. We've got
- 1:19:15Speaker 4: various degrees of differences, but really designed for a wide
- 1:19:20Speaker 4: range of styles because we don't want the words to
- 1:19:23Speaker 4: go unsung. So we've got the charts. We've got the
- 1:19:27Speaker 4: lyric sheets and We've got all the different versions, and
- 1:19:30Speaker 4: we will make them available to any person who writes us.
- 1:19:34Speaker 4: You don't have to be part of your worship team
- 1:19:35Speaker 4: at your church. You could get it and forward it
- 1:19:38Speaker 4: to your worship team. That would be fine. Or you
- 1:19:40Speaker 4: could have them write and receive it as well. But
- 1:19:43Speaker 4: if you would like a copy of the worship leading
- 1:19:46Speaker 4: kit for Yesterday the Same, and it is going to
- 1:19:49Speaker 4: be a kit. There's going to be a bunch of
- 1:19:51Speaker 4: stuff in there. Just send us an email to thatkevinshow
- 1:19:55Speaker 4: at gmail.com and put yesterday.com. in the subject line yesterday
- 1:20:02Speaker 4: in the subject. It's the song is called yesterday. The same.
- 1:20:04Speaker 4: So put yesterday in the subject line, uh, and then
- 1:20:08Speaker 4: make sure you give us your info in the body
- 1:20:10Speaker 4: of the email. And we'll send you that. We'll send
- 1:20:12Speaker 4: you the kit. Um, it'll have probably four or five
- 1:20:15Speaker 4: different versions of the song, plus the lyric sheets, plus
- 1:20:18Speaker 4: the chord charts, uh, plus everything that, uh, we're even
- 1:20:22Speaker 4: going to put it up on, um, uh, on, on Moises,
- 1:20:25Speaker 4: which is the musical app that Charlie Puth uses, uh,
- 1:20:28Speaker 4: We're going to make the stems available. So if you
- 1:20:30Speaker 4: want to sing it as a vocalist and take Allie
- 1:20:34Speaker 4: and Jay's parts out and just sing with the instrumentation,
- 1:20:38Speaker 4: we're going to make that available as well. That link
- 1:20:40Speaker 4: will be in there. Our goal long-term is just to
- 1:20:44Speaker 4: see the church sing this song, to help every person
- 1:20:47Speaker 4: in the church know that their heart should declare, that
- 1:20:50Speaker 4: their voice should proclaim, that Jesus is worthy. That's the purpose.
- 1:20:55Speaker 4: That's the goal. That's what it's all about. So thatkevinshow
- 1:20:58Speaker 4: at gmail.com. Put yesterday in the subject line, and we'll
- 1:21:01Speaker 4: be glad to send it to you. Yesterday in the
- 1:21:04Speaker 4: subject line. Send it to thatkevinshow.com. Kevin McCullough, very glad
- 1:21:08Speaker 4: to have you with us. Next week, we broadcast live
- 1:21:11Speaker 4: from the Sing Conference in Nashville with Keith and Kristen
- 1:21:14Speaker 4: Getty on Tuesday and Wednesday, and all of their speakers
- 1:21:17Speaker 4: and musicians that are on the stage there. Looking forward
- 1:21:20Speaker 4: to that. And I hope you have a great Labor
- 1:21:22Speaker 4: Day holiday, and we'll see you from Nashville on Tuesday.
- 1:21:26Speaker 4: Take care.
- 1:21:30Speaker 3: Thank you.