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410 temáticas del taller de matrimonios. · Reflexiones cristianas con José Ordóñez

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Odcast number four hundred and ten in our fourth marriage workshop. We' ll
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be talking about all the issues inherent in marriage. So far I' ve
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found forty- nine. Let me tell you some themes that we will work
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from 19 August to 23 every day, three hours, two in class and
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one more in counseling rooms. Above all, we will work on the first
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day on the Bible’ s proper concept of marriage. We are going to
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equate it with the modern concept and we are going to realize how society,
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little by little, has become detached from what is truly a marriage. We
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will also give you hold on to why the word of God if you describe
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the demon matril as it is, just as God decided to create it.
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And we will do a parallel in how society, throughout its history, generation
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after generation, has modified it as it believes today, marriage legislates it and
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is regulated by governments, the different institutions of the family. They who are
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there, in the Senate, in the House or in any other legislative body,
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are the ones who take out the rules, the laws on how a
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man and a woman should live. And clearly we will make the parallel and
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comparison of how we Christians, although we are subject to the current laws to
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the country that governs us our fundamental constitution is the word of God and from
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there we will draw what God says about it, the same as I believe
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it by regulation, because God does not create things without giving them a form
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of use, without regulating them, without guiding us about their use. So
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after we put the seed, we' ll go a little bit into the
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different problems that arise. How, for example, divorce is legal. I
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can separate what are the causes of divorce that the Bible names, because they
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do exist, and still divorce is recommended. I can remarry over there.
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On the fourth day we will be talking precisely about those second marriages of the
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couple' s children with whom I am joining or my own children. What
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I have from a previous relationship and usually ask me a lot of questions about
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it. How to govern, how to guide such families Today, where there
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are second marriages and castros, stepdaughters, stepparents, stepmothers, we will be
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talking in our fourth workshop for marriages about how important it is to understand the
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way my spouse opera. Yes, because my spouse, in my case my
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wife, has a gender singularity, that is, she behaves like a woman.
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To that you add that it has singularity of temperament, that is,
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it can be choleric, blood, phlegmatic, it can be melancholic. Anyway,
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then how a blood person marries a melancholy or a choleric with a phlegmatic.
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Those temperaments, united to the genre, make the personality and that personality
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is the one we receive at the altar and there the characteristics, the ways
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of being come together and to that we add the way dad and mom educated
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them. It is a compendium of characteristics that reach the altar. Sometimes those
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people who are hunting have a bunch of unresolved problems, they come from dysfunctional
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homes, they come with many drawbacks, with traits of their personality that have
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not yet improved, and they come together with another person who comes from an
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equal situation, with unsolved things, with problems, with inheritances, with malformations
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and mistakes. For example, a person becomes screamy of temper, easily irascible.
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It does come from parents who solved everything at the point of screams and
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that receives their spouse at the altar and, as we learn throughout the workshop,
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their problems and same problems cease to exist and now they are one'
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s own problems, one' s problems. We will only speak in addition
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to the law of falling in love, because generally opposing temperaments are attracted and
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on day two we will be talking about conflict. I have always debated and
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said that the conflict itself is not bad. That God Himself to form this
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world faced chaos. Second verse of the Bible already tells us that God was
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facing problems because the earth was chaos. But God spoke to chaos. They
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taught us wrong, they taught us that marital conflict is bad. That'
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s why, Mama, ever since we were little, she was telling us
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don' t fight. And then, when the first problems in marriage begin
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to appear, the spouses do not know what to do. Some get scared
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and aggressive and when they get aggressive, they cancel out the first person who
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can help their spouse. Some people don' t leave, they think they
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' ll fit in They should win that game. There are others who leave
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the matter like this and avoid conflict and discussion. And this is the worst
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of all problems. When you think about marriage, it' s me I
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' m gonna leave it that way I don' t pay any attention to
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it. I let her fight alone. I let him fight only in short
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bad ways to resolve a conflict. So we' re going to learn what
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to do when there' s a discussion, a conflict. How God resolved
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it by speaking, how we should speak at the time, when we are
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right in the face of a possible fight, the verses we should remember,
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the forms we should put into practice. Subjection to the holy spirit. We
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will talk about the bad way to resolve a conflict, such as not conjecturing.
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That' s bad in communication. I conjecture, I suppose, neither
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conjecture nor assumption in a discussion, because conjecture and supposition lead to division and
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separation. And this is a subject above all that concerns women a lot,
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don' t wait for your partner to guess, guess what I have of
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this color. There are many women who make that mistake. They want their
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husband to guess why they' re angry or because they' re sad.
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And sometimes we need a little bit of sincerity from you girls. We'
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ll be talking about it there in the fourth marriage workshop. Then, on
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day three, we' ll talk about infidelity, how to prevent it,
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how to pay hard consequences. But that, besides, if we have the
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opportunity to heal it properly, we will receive the rewards. Don' t
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forget, we have a whole course on infidelity with Jasmith. On this subject.
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Yes, we can talk because we are experiencing this painful trauma of our
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marriage and we were able to go out to vanty, so we have enough
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knowledge to be able to guide you if you are going through a situation of
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infidelity. If they have been unfaithful to you, if you have been unfaithful,
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what should be done. We' ll also talk about your partner having
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a past. You can' t ignore the way she was educated, the
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way she was formed, the culture from which she comes, for example,
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We' ll talk about the men who grew up seeing that the house government
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was the mother and then they find it too hard to assume the role of
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ruler in their own house. We will also talk about men who are still
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in water under the influence of their mother and how women suffer. We'
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ll talk about how to solve this problem. We will also talk, even
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entering very deep into what is done with the extended family, that is,
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when we have problems with the brothers- in- law, with the sister
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- in- laws, what verses of God' s word teach us about
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independence. And we' ll talk about how important it is to have a
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house and a house, a lady, a lady for the house, a
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house for the lady. There we will dig a little deeper into how your
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spouse brings the keys to many doors that will open in your life. Listen
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there are doors that only a husband opens, just as there are doors that
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only a wife opens. Parents, the economy, the culture, the teachers,
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our own knowledge do not open them to us. There are things that
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God put in your way, in your life that are inherent for a husband
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to believe. Do not forget them more than anyone else, but you are
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one with that person. We will also talk about the economy of marriage,
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how we should even make a budget, what to do in order to meet
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all the economic needs and there the factor of faith. It is important to
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give priority to things that have priority. And we will talk about the order
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that God has established in marriage for purchases for the different challenges, for the
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way we have to educate children and something very important, that every financial budget
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must also have an item that gives the couple the opportunity to go to the
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movies, take a vacation a weekend. Finally, we will talk about all
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the aspects that have to do with the economy. Above all, these questions
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will come out to us as who should pay and who should solve all the
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economic aspects in a family. We' ll be talking about the empty nest.
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You' ve heard of the empty nest. Yes, that says that
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when children leave home, they leave a huge void in the life of man
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and woman. And of course that happens and it is an invention of modern
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psychology, because when a marriage has not been built in the convenient way.
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Obviously, there will be silence, sadness when the children have been the center
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of marriage and not marriage itself, as they leave the house empty enough.
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It seems that the projects of life were finished because all the projects were around
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the children. And we' ll talk about this, half- life.
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Half of life is when the children leave and when the couple is left alone.
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And we will show biblically how the Bible is designing a marriage so that
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when the children leave, the best time in our marriage begins. And on
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the fifth day we will be talking about sexuality, sexuality in God' s
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way, what is allowed and what is not allowed. Many questions flourish there,
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those questions that are uncomfortable and ask them to the shepherd or that suddenly
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the word of God does not speak them explicitly. We' ll talk about
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men' s sexual mechanics, women' s sexual mechanics, how women connect
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everything with everything, that is, sex, they connect it with all the
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other activities of their daily lives. We' ll talk about how to rescue
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romanticism, that which was forgotten. We will also talk about how to break
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the routine of how dangerous it is for many people to use sex as a
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weapon of conflict. I mean, when my partner doesn' t agree to
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my pretensions, because I shut down that channel of communication and I don'
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t allow him to have sex. Go right now to José Ordoñez Cristiano com
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and there you find all the information, all the topics and remember that before
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August 2 we have a special price. The regular price is seventy- seven
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dollars, but before August 2 is only fifty dollars. On Monday, August
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19th, at seven o' clock at night, we' ll start with
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the first class. It' ll be two hours, and we' ll
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do it the rest of the week. The third hour will be to open
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our counseling rooms, which are the counseling rooms that once we finish the class
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of that day by purchase order. I mean, the first one who bought
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the ticket. You' re the first to ask and you' ll have
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time to say. Look at Joseph with my wife We have this question.
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We have this downside. What do you think we should do and in a
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reasonable time, I will be advising the problem of that couple, especially every
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day it was the same mechanics, two hours of class and then counseling in
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our rooms. Well, this podcast was about to stimulate a little bit.
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That desire to participate in this fourth heritage workshop that we will transmit through Zoom
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the digital platform, so you can connect from anywhere in the world. This
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is important for our friends from Europe, Australia, other latitudes where we have
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other different times you say at seven o' clock in the night Colombian time
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are like two o' clock in the morning, three o' clock in
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the morning in Spain. What do we do? Don' t worry because
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we' re going to send you a link so that you measure the class
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of that day, on your schedule, on the schedule you estimate, it
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' s convenient, even if there are some people who connect from Europe live.
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In the description of this podcast you can also find the link that leads
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you directly to all the information. Now, yes, I want you to
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have a nice day and God always give you the opportunity to protect your family,
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your marriage has always stopped under the principles of God' s word,
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God bless you