Latest / Daily Bible Refresh / What If the Whole Goal of Every Conversation Was to Bring Out the Best? (Colossians 4:2-6)
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- 0:03Hello,
- 0:04my
- 0:04friend
- 0:04Dr.
- 0:04Brad
- 0:05Miller
- 0:05here
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- 0:06Daily
- 0:06Bible
- 0:07Refresh.
- 0:08This
- 0:08is
- 0:08your
- 0:08daily
- 0:09reading
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- 0:09the
- 0:09Bible
- 0:10from
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- 0:10progressive
- 0:11point
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- 0:11In
- 0:12a
- 0:12bit,
- 0:12I
- 0:12will
- 0:12read
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- 0:13New
- 0:13Testament
- 0:13lessons
- 0:14selected
- 0:14from
- 0:14the
- 0:15Revised
- 0:15Common
- 0:16Lectionary
- 0:17for
- 0:17this
- 0:18very
- 0:18day.
- 0:18The
- 0:19reading
- 0:19is
- 0:19understandable.
- 0:20I
- 0:20use
- 0:20the
- 0:20message
- 0:21version
- 0:22relatable.
- 0:22Please
- 0:23listen
- 0:23to
- 0:23the
- 0:23points
- 0:23to
- 0:24ponder
- 0:24and
- 0:24applicable
- 0:25with
- 0:26action
- 0:26steps
- 0:26you
- 0:27can
- 0:27take.
- 0:27We
- 0:28pray
- 0:28and
- 0:28are
- 0:29done
- 0:29in
- 0:29less
- 0:29than
- 0:2910
- 0:29minutes.
- 0:30It's
- 0:30all
- 0:30brought
- 0:31to
- 0:31you
- 0:31by
- 0:31voiceofgoddaily.com
- 0:33which
- 0:33is
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- 0:34home
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- 0:34your
- 0:34free
- 0:35personal
- 0:36Bible
- 0:36Study
- 0:36Guide,
- 0:37the
- 0:37ABC
- 0:391,
- 0:392,
- 0:403
- 0:41Bible
- 0:41Study
- 0:41Method.
- 0:42Please
- 0:42join
- 0:43me
- 0:43in
- 0:43my
- 0:43mission
- 0:43of
- 0:44getting
- 0:44the
- 0:44audible
- 0:44word
- 0:45of
- 0:45God
- 0:45into
- 0:46two
- 0:46millionaires
- 0:47a
- 0:47million
- 0:47people
- 0:48by
- 0:482028.
- 0:49You
- 0:49can
- 0:49help
- 0:50by
- 0:50saving
- 0:50and
- 0:51subscribing
- 0:51to
- 0:51the
- 0:52podcast
- 0:52and
- 0:52tagging
- 0:53your
- 0:53friends.
- 0:54Here's
- 0:54today's
- 0:55reading.
- 0:56Reading
- 0:56today
- 0:57from
- 0:57Colossians
- 0:584:2,
- 0:596
- 1:00from
- 1:00the
- 1:00Message
- 1:01Pray
- 1:01for
- 1:02open
- 1:02doors.
- 1:03Pray
- 1:03diligently.
- 1:05Stay
- 1:05alert
- 1:06with
- 1:06your
- 1:06eyes
- 1:07wide
- 1:07open
- 1:07in
- 1:07gratitude.
- 1:08Don't
- 1:09forget
- 1:09to
- 1:09pray
- 1:09for
- 1:09us
- 1:10that
- 1:11God
- 1:11will
- 1:11open
- 1:11doors
- 1:11for
- 1:12telling
- 1:12the
- 1:12mystery
- 1:12of
- 1:13Christ.
- 1:13Even
- 1:14while
- 1:14I'm
- 1:14locked
- 1:15up
- 1:15in
- 1:15jail,
- 1:16pray
- 1:16that
- 1:17every
- 1:17time
- 1:17I
- 1:17open
- 1:17my
- 1:17mouth,
- 1:18I'll
- 1:18be
- 1:18able
- 1:18to
- 1:18make
- 1:18Christ
- 1:19plain
- 1:19as
- 1:19day
- 1:19to
- 1:20them.
- 1:22Use
- 1:22your
- 1:22heads
- 1:22as
- 1:22you
- 1:22live
- 1:23and
- 1:23work
- 1:23among
- 1:23outsiders.
- 1:24Don't
- 1:24miss
- 1:24a
- 1:25trick.
- 1:26Make
- 1:26the
- 1:26most
- 1:26of
- 1:26every
- 1:27opportunity.
- 1:28Be
- 1:28gracious
- 1:29in
- 1:29your
- 1:29speech.
- 1:30The
- 1:30goal
- 1:30is,
- 1:31is
- 1:31to
- 1:31bring
- 1:31up
- 1:32the
- 1:32best
- 1:32in
- 1:32others
- 1:32in
- 1:33a
- 1:33conversation.
- 1:34Not
- 1:34pull
- 1:34them
- 1:35down,
- 1:35not
- 1:35cut
- 1:35them
- 1:36out.
- 1:38Well,
- 1:38that
- 1:38ends
- 1:39the
- 1:39reading.
- 1:40So
- 1:40just.
- 1:40Let's
- 1:41just
- 1:41take
- 1:41a
- 1:41moment
- 1:41to
- 1:41reflect
- 1:42on
- 1:42the
- 1:42Scripture.
- 1:43I'm
- 1:44glad.
- 1:44I'm
- 1:44glad
- 1:44you're
- 1:45here
- 1:45today.
- 1:46Um,
- 1:47I've
- 1:47been
- 1:47thinking
- 1:47a
- 1:47lot
- 1:48about
- 1:48conversations
- 1:48here
- 1:49recently,
- 1:49the
- 1:49kind
- 1:49that
- 1:50actually
- 1:50leave
- 1:50people
- 1:50feeling
- 1:51more
- 1:51whole
- 1:52than
- 1:53when
- 1:53they
- 1:53started.
- 1:54And
- 1:54this
- 1:54short,
- 1:55little,
- 1:55short
- 1:55little
- 1:56passage
- 1:56we're
- 1:56looking
- 1:56at
- 1:56today
- 1:57lands
- 1:57right
- 1:57in
- 1:57the
- 1:57middle
- 1:58of
- 1:58that
- 1:58territory.
- 1:59Just
- 1:59six
- 2:00verses,
- 2:01six
- 2:02short
- 2:02passages,
- 2:03but
- 2:03packed.
- 2:04Let's
- 2:04dig
- 2:04into
- 2:05two
- 2:05things
- 2:05that
- 2:05really
- 2:05grab
- 2:06me
- 2:06here.
- 2:08The
- 2:08first
- 2:08point
- 2:09to
- 2:09ponder
- 2:09is
- 2:09this.
- 2:10Eyes
- 2:11wide
- 2:11open
- 2:11in
- 2:11gratitude.
- 2:13It's
- 2:13right
- 2:13there
- 2:13in
- 2:13verse
- 2:13two
- 2:14of
- 2:14this
- 2:14very
- 2:14beautiful
- 2:15phrase
- 2:15I
- 2:15haven't
- 2:16been
- 2:16able
- 2:16to
- 2:16shake.
- 2:17It
- 2:17simply
- 2:17says,
- 2:18stay
- 2:18alert
- 2:19with
- 2:19your
- 2:19eyes
- 2:19wide
- 2:20open
- 2:20in
- 2:20gratitude.
- 2:21Now
- 2:22for
- 2:23a
- 2:23lot
- 2:23of
- 2:23prayerful
- 2:23teaching.
- 2:24I
- 2:24grew
- 2:24up
- 2:24with
- 2:25frame
- 2:25prayer
- 2:25as
- 2:25kind
- 2:26of
- 2:26a
- 2:26spiritual
- 2:27escape
- 2:27hatch.
- 2:28You
- 2:28know,
- 2:28close
- 2:28your
- 2:29eyes,
- 2:29turn
- 2:29out
- 2:29the
- 2:29world,
- 2:30focus
- 2:30someplace
- 2:31else,
- 2:32and
- 2:33look.
- 2:33I
- 2:33get
- 2:33the
- 2:33value
- 2:33of
- 2:34stillness.
- 2:35But
- 2:35Paul
- 2:35is
- 2:35writing
- 2:35this
- 2:36from
- 2:36a
- 2:36jail
- 2:36cell.
- 2:37He's
- 2:38not
- 2:38asking
- 2:38for
- 2:38an
- 2:38escape.
- 2:39He's
- 2:40asking
- 2:40for
- 2:40open
- 2:40doors.
- 2:41He's
- 2:42asking
- 2:42for
- 2:42alertness,
- 2:43he
- 2:43is
- 2:43asking
- 2:44to
- 2:44stay
- 2:44present
- 2:44enough
- 2:45to
- 2:46recognize
- 2:46what
- 2:46God
- 2:47is
- 2:47doing
- 2:47right
- 2:47in
- 2:48front
- 2:48of
- 2:48him.
- 2:49That
- 2:49is
- 2:49eyes
- 2:50wide
- 2:50open
- 2:50in
- 2:51gratitude.
- 2:52And
- 2:52that's
- 2:53a
- 2:53different
- 2:53kind
- 2:53of
- 2:54posture.
- 2:55My
- 2:56wife
- 2:56and
- 2:56I
- 2:56love
- 2:56to
- 2:56hike
- 2:57and,
- 2:58and
- 2:58you
- 2:58know,
- 2:58we
- 2:59love
- 2:59to
- 2:59go
- 2:59on
- 3:00wooded
- 3:00trails
- 3:00at
- 3:00state
- 3:01parks
- 3:01and
- 3:01national
- 3:01parks.
- 3:03And
- 3:04that's
- 3:04one
- 3:05thing
- 3:05that
- 3:05kind
- 3:05of
- 3:06our
- 3:06happy
- 3:06place.
- 3:07And
- 3:08hiking
- 3:08is
- 3:08something
- 3:09simple.
- 3:09People
- 3:09who
- 3:10miss
- 3:10everything
- 3:10beautiful,
- 3:11the
- 3:11ones
- 3:12staring
- 3:12at
- 3:12their
- 3:12feet
- 3:12their
- 3:13whole
- 3:13time,
- 3:13you
- 3:13got
- 3:13to
- 3:13look
- 3:13up
- 3:14and
- 3:14look
- 3:14around
- 3:15the
- 3:15deer,
- 3:16the
- 3:16waterfall,
- 3:16the
- 3:17leaves,
- 3:17the
- 3:17trees,
- 3:18the
- 3:18light
- 3:18breaking
- 3:19through
- 3:19the
- 3:19tree
- 3:19canopy.
- 3:20And
- 3:21you
- 3:21only
- 3:21catch
- 3:21that
- 3:21kind
- 3:22of
- 3:22stuff
- 3:22if
- 3:22you're
- 3:22looking
- 3:23for
- 3:23it.
- 3:24A
- 3:24progressive
- 3:24reading
- 3:25of
- 3:25this
- 3:25text
- 3:25suggests
- 3:26that
- 3:27prayer
- 3:27isn't
- 3:27primarily
- 3:28about
- 3:28getting
- 3:28God
- 3:28to
- 3:29act
- 3:29on
- 3:29our
- 3:29own
- 3:29agenda.
- 3:30It's
- 3:30about
- 3:31turning
- 3:31our
- 3:31own
- 3:31awareness
- 3:32to
- 3:32where
- 3:32grace
- 3:32is
- 3:33already
- 3:33moving.
- 3:34Gratitude
- 3:35is
- 3:35the
- 3:35lens,
- 3:36our
- 3:37alertness
- 3:37is
- 3:37the
- 3:38posture.
- 3:39And
- 3:39when
- 3:39we
- 3:39pray,
- 3:39that
- 3:40way
- 3:40we
- 3:40stop
- 3:40missing
- 3:41out
- 3:41on
- 3:41things.
- 3:43In
- 3:43my
- 3:43cancer
- 3:44related
- 3:44podcast,
- 3:44I
- 3:44talk
- 3:45regularly
- 3:45with
- 3:45people
- 3:45who
- 3:46walking
- 3:47through
- 3:47hard
- 3:47seasons
- 3:48in
- 3:48life,
- 3:49things
- 3:50that
- 3:50life
- 3:51puts
- 3:51at
- 3:51them.
- 3:52And
- 3:52I'll
- 3:52tell
- 3:52you,
- 3:52the
- 3:53ones
- 3:53who
- 3:53find
- 3:53any
- 3:53measure
- 3:54of
- 3:54peace
- 3:54tend
- 3:55to
- 3:55be
- 3:55the
- 3:55ones
- 3:55who
- 3:55have
- 3:56learned
- 3:56to
- 3:56stay
- 3:56alert
- 3:57to
- 3:57small
- 3:58good
- 3:58things,
- 3:58even
- 3:59inside
- 3:59brutal
- 3:59circumstances.
- 4:01That
- 4:01isn't
- 4:02toxic
- 4:02positivity.
- 4:03That's
- 4:03exactly
- 4:03what
- 4:04Paul
- 4:04means.
- 4:05My
- 4:05eyes
- 4:05wide
- 4:06open
- 4:07in
- 4:07gratitude.
- 4:09Here's
- 4:09your
- 4:09second
- 4:10point
- 4:10to
- 4:10ponder.
- 4:11Gracious
- 4:12speech
- 4:12is
- 4:12not
- 4:13soft.
- 4:13It's
- 4:13the
- 4:13point.
- 4:15Now
- 4:15here's
- 4:15where
- 4:16this
- 4:16passage
- 4:16gets
- 4:16interesting.
- 4:18Verse
- 4:186
- 4:18says
- 4:19the
- 4:19golden
- 4:19conversation
- 4:20is
- 4:20to
- 4:21bring
- 4:21out
- 4:21the
- 4:22best
- 4:22in
- 4:22others,
- 4:23not
- 4:23pull
- 4:23them
- 4:23down,
- 4:24not
- 4:24cut
- 4:24them
- 4:25out.
- 4:26So
- 4:26look
- 4:26at
- 4:26our
- 4:27cultural
- 4:27moments
- 4:27we're
- 4:28in
- 4:28right
- 4:28now
- 4:29and
- 4:29listen
- 4:30and
- 4:30learn
- 4:30from
- 4:31what's
- 4:31going
- 4:31on
- 4:31around
- 4:31us.
- 4:33One
- 4:34of
- 4:34the
- 4:34things
- 4:34I
- 4:34love
- 4:34to
- 4:34do
- 4:34is
- 4:35follow
- 4:35my
- 4:35Pacers
- 4:36and
- 4:36fever
- 4:36and
- 4:36Colts,
- 4:37Indiana,
- 4:38Hoosiers.
- 4:39But
- 4:39even
- 4:40sports
- 4:40commentary
- 4:41has
- 4:41become
- 4:41a
- 4:42blood
- 4:42sport
- 4:42online.
- 4:43Lots
- 4:44of
- 4:44vicious
- 4:44stuff,
- 4:45lots
- 4:45of
- 4:45it.
- 4:46Our
- 4:46default
- 4:46communication
- 4:47posture
- 4:48is
- 4:48is
- 4:48competitive.
- 4:49We
- 4:50argue
- 4:50to
- 4:50win,
- 4:51we
- 4:51post
- 4:52to
- 4:52score
- 4:52points,
- 4:52we
- 4:53debate
- 4:53to
- 4:53dominate.
- 4:55And
- 4:55that
- 4:55is
- 4:56that
- 4:56bleeds
- 4:57in
- 4:57the
- 4:57families,
- 4:57churches,
- 4:58cultures,
- 4:58dinner
- 4:59tables
- 4:59everywhere.
- 5:00And
- 5:00Paul's
- 5:01counter
- 5:01proposal
- 5:02is
- 5:02striking.
- 5:03The
- 5:03goal
- 5:03isn't
- 5:04to
- 5:04be
- 5:04right.
- 5:04The
- 5:04goal
- 5:05isn't
- 5:05to
- 5:05win.
- 5:05The
- 5:05goal
- 5:05is
- 5:06to
- 5:06bring
- 5:06up
- 5:06the
- 5:06best
- 5:07in
- 5:07the
- 5:08person
- 5:08across
- 5:09from
- 5:09you.
- 5:10And
- 5:10that's
- 5:10a
- 5:11profound
- 5:11relational,
- 5:12deeply
- 5:12Jesus
- 5:13shaped
- 5:13vision
- 5:14of
- 5:14what
- 5:15words
- 5:15are
- 5:15for.
- 5:16A
- 5:16progressive
- 5:17theological
- 5:18lens
- 5:18pushes
- 5:18us
- 5:19to
- 5:19ask
- 5:19what
- 5:19if
- 5:20the
- 5:20measure
- 5:20of
- 5:20how
- 5:21well
- 5:21we
- 5:21communicated
- 5:22isn't
- 5:22whether
- 5:22we
- 5:23were
- 5:23right,
- 5:24but
- 5:24whether
- 5:24a
- 5:24person
- 5:24we
- 5:25talked
- 5:25to
- 5:25walked
- 5:25away
- 5:25feeling
- 5:26more,
- 5:27feeling
- 5:27more,
- 5:27being
- 5:28seen
- 5:28more,
- 5:28more
- 5:28valued
- 5:29and
- 5:29more
- 5:29capable
- 5:29of
- 5:30flourishing.
- 5:31My
- 5:31wife
- 5:32and
- 5:32I
- 5:32have
- 5:32been
- 5:32married
- 5:32for
- 5:3234
- 5:33years.
- 5:33We
- 5:33have
- 5:34three
- 5:34great
- 5:35adult
- 5:35children,
- 5:36two
- 5:36granddaughters
- 5:37and
- 5:38I
- 5:39love
- 5:39to
- 5:39embarrass
- 5:39my
- 5:40granddaughters
- 5:40in
- 5:40public
- 5:41and
- 5:41but
- 5:41dad
- 5:42jokes
- 5:42and
- 5:42makes
- 5:42every
- 5:43mix
- 5:43them
- 5:43groan
- 5:44and
- 5:45but
- 5:46but
- 5:46across
- 5:46all
- 5:47those
- 5:47years
- 5:47of
- 5:47relationships,
- 5:48the
- 5:48conversations
- 5:48I
- 5:48regret
- 5:49most
- 5:49are
- 5:50the
- 5:50ones
- 5:50where
- 5:50I
- 5:50chose
- 5:50being
- 5:51right
- 5:51over
- 5:52being
- 5:52gracious.
- 5:53You
- 5:53know,
- 5:54kind
- 5:54of
- 5:54the
- 5:54one
- 5:54upmanship.
- 5:55I
- 5:55don't
- 5:55like
- 5:55that
- 5:56the
- 5:56ones
- 5:56I
- 5:57treasure,
- 5:57every
- 5:57single
- 5:58one
- 5:58of
- 5:58them
- 5:58left
- 5:58the
- 5:58other
- 5:59person
- 5:59feeling
- 6:00like
- 6:00they
- 6:00actually
- 6:00mattered
- 6:01and
- 6:02vice
- 6:02versa.
- 6:02When
- 6:03someone
- 6:03made
- 6:03me
- 6:03feel
- 6:03better,
- 6:04made
- 6:05me
- 6:05feel
- 6:05valued
- 6:05as
- 6:05well.
- 6:06That's
- 6:06what's
- 6:07really
- 6:08valued.
- 6:09That
- 6:09is
- 6:09the
- 6:09goal.
- 6:10Bring
- 6:10out
- 6:10the
- 6:11Best.
- 6:12So
- 6:12here's
- 6:12your
- 6:13action
- 6:13step.
- 6:14Before
- 6:14you
- 6:14enter
- 6:15any
- 6:15significant
- 6:15casual
- 6:16or
- 6:17any
- 6:17significant
- 6:17conversation
- 6:19this
- 6:19week,
- 6:19whether
- 6:19it's
- 6:20a
- 6:20hard
- 6:20one,
- 6:20a
- 6:20casual
- 6:20one,
- 6:21or
- 6:21even
- 6:21a
- 6:22comment
- 6:22section
- 6:23online,
- 6:24ask
- 6:24yourself
- 6:24one
- 6:25question
- 6:25first.
- 6:26How
- 6:26can
- 6:27I
- 6:27bring
- 6:27out
- 6:27the
- 6:27best
- 6:27in
- 6:28this
- 6:28person
- 6:28right
- 6:28now?
- 6:29Not
- 6:30when,
- 6:30not
- 6:30correct,
- 6:31not
- 6:31convince,
- 6:32just
- 6:32bring
- 6:32out
- 6:33the
- 6:33best.
- 6:34We're
- 6:34going
- 6:35to
- 6:35come
- 6:35back
- 6:35and
- 6:35have
- 6:35a
- 6:35prayer
- 6:36here
- 6:36in
- 6:36just
- 6:36a
- 6:36moment,
- 6:37but
- 6:37I
- 6:37want
- 6:37you
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