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...what do you mean my girlfriend can't go to your wedding...? · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: You've got questions, and we have four unqualified people to
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  Speaker 1: give you answers.
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  Speaker 2: It's John Jay and Rich. John Jay and Rich, Good morning, Christian.
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  Speaker 2: Thanks for holding what's going on?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah? So all right, dude, I'm literally sweating right now
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  Speaker 3: because I've kind of backed myself into like a probably
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  Speaker 3: the most awkward corner of all time. So, like, my
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  Speaker 3: cousin's wedding is in three weeks, and when the RSVP
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  Speaker 3: was due a few months ago, my girlfriend and I
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  Speaker 3: were in just like a really bad place. So I
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  Speaker 3: was I was counting down the days until we broke up.
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  Speaker 3: At that point, so I was convinced, like we were done.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't even put her as my plus one. I
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  Speaker 3: just checked the single box because I didn't want to
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  Speaker 3: deal with the ex drama, you know, and family photos
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  Speaker 3: all that stuff, you know how it is. And then
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  Speaker 3: things got a lot better. We actually stayed together. We're
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  Speaker 3: doing fantastic now. And she's been talking about this wedding
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  Speaker 3: for months. She even thought a dress, she's booked her
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  Speaker 3: hair appointment, and she just keeps reminding me about the date.
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  Speaker 3: I'm talking like twenty times at least, and I'm just
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  Speaker 3: nodding and smiling like an idiot because I just I
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  Speaker 3: didn't know how to tell her. But finally, you know,
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  Speaker 3: I just I had to come clean. And last night
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  Speaker 3: I told her and Torri she's on the list, and
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  Speaker 3: she's she's just losing it. She's just absolutely nuts about it.
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  Speaker 3: And she thinks I'm just forgetful or that I don't care.
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  Speaker 3: But the real reason is that I just I didn't
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  Speaker 3: think she'd be in my wife by now. So do
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  Speaker 3: I tell her the truth and risk you know, an
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  Speaker 3: neither digger of this massive fight? Or do I just
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  Speaker 3: like beg my cousin to let me pay for an
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  Speaker 3: extra plate or something that one?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, tell her?
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  Speaker 5: Don't I tell her true?
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  Speaker 2: I was I was hoping you didn't tell her and
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  Speaker 2: we were gonna be able to call her and tell her.
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  Speaker 2: Oh I know, But the fact that she already knows
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  Speaker 2: that she's not, so she just thinks she overlooked it.
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  Speaker 2: I would I thought we were going in bad place.
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  Speaker 1: Does she feel like you guys were in a bad
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  Speaker 1: place at that time? Would be something she would understand
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  Speaker 1: if you said that.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, it wasn't good. I mean, we am like
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  Speaker 3: I don't think like there's any way that she would
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  Speaker 3: not have known like we were just we were fighting
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  Speaker 3: all the time.
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  Speaker 1: It was still no because then you're double in the wrong.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like you didn't.
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  Speaker 1: Believe in us to make it. And you remember a
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  Speaker 1: couple of months ago. Remember a couple months ago we
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  Speaker 1: hating each other.
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  Speaker 2: Remember we hated each other and we were we thought,
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  Speaker 2: maybe we're gonna break up.
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  Speaker 1: I responded one.
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  Speaker 5: Because from her point of view, all you had to
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  Speaker 5: do is go, yes, plus one, I'm gonna take my
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  Speaker 5: girlfriend and we'll figure it all out. But the fact
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  Speaker 5: that you hated it so much that you didn't even
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  Speaker 5: want her to come to the wedding, that's not going
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  Speaker 5: to land. Well, so you called that cousin and you're like,
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  Speaker 5: I don't care what it costs for a plate. I
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  Speaker 5: am there for you. Well know it's your cousin. The
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  Speaker 5: good news is your cousin.
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  Speaker 2: So you could probably be like you know, and your
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  Speaker 2: cousin probably go, no problem, just add plus one problem.
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  Speaker 1: It's like a friend. Yeah, that's what I hope.
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  Speaker 3: But I'm going to pay for it, like I just
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  Speaker 3: I don't want to ruin we have. I mean, we
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  Speaker 3: got to the place and now we're here.
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  Speaker 1: And that's such a good investment.
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  Speaker 2: So what you do is also when you call your
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  Speaker 2: cousin and you ask, you said, here's the deal. You
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  Speaker 2: don't need to tell your girlfriend's name. But I'm bringing
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  Speaker 2: I didn't bring francine. Now we're back together, so don't stress.
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  Speaker 2: You could say I'm going to bring food. I'm going
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  Speaker 2: to bring a bottle of vodka in a backpack. So
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  Speaker 2: she's fine, she can eat on another table. And then
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  Speaker 2: you're and your cousin be like, bro, bro, it's cool,
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  Speaker 2: don't worry. I'll put a plus You got a plus one,
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  Speaker 2: no problem, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 3: I mean I got him a very nice gift already,
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  Speaker 3: so you know, like he'll be very happy with that.
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  Speaker 3: He'll be like, oh, you know, if he lets me
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  Speaker 3: do this, he'll think that, oh, he got the gift,
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  Speaker 3: but you know I already did that.
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  Speaker 1: Plus Or you don't go, you say, or I can't go.
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  Speaker 5: If you're the cousin, you kind of are hoping that
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  Speaker 5: the people that come are taken care of. Like she
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  Speaker 5: doesn't want you to be there single and board. He
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  Speaker 5: wants you to be there with your girl and you know,
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  Speaker 5: have a complete package there for the invite.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I just I know that, like it's it's it's
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  Speaker 3: at least two hundred bucks.
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  Speaker 1: More invest in your future.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not saying for me. I just lean for him,
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  Speaker 3: so you know, like I know, it's like a big deal.
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  Speaker 3: They've they've got a lot of people, and but you're right,
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  Speaker 3: You're right, I could just invest. I could just do it.
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  Speaker 3: That's that's what I was thinking.
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  Speaker 4: You probably should have worked all this out and never
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  Speaker 4: have told her. Yeah, but I'm just thinking, like she's
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  Speaker 4: gonna hold this over your head. Remember when you didn't
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  Speaker 4: invite me to your Cousin's Ready for life.
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  Speaker 5: She thought we were gonna break up before the wedding.
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  Speaker 3: No, that's that's a good point. I'll just, you know,
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  Speaker 3: let her think I was forgetful. I'll beg my cousin.
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  Speaker 1: You could also send her on a girls trip somewhere
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  Speaker 1: during the wedding. Oh, it's the same.
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  Speaker 2: I got to this trip to go wherever she's But honey,
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  Speaker 2: is when the wedding is you know one who cares
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  Speaker 2: go on the trip.
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  Speaker 3: Telling you she will not stop talking about this wedding.
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  Speaker 3: Hair appointment, She has a dressed. She spent a lot
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  Speaker 3: of money on a dress, already like this is yeah,
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  Speaker 3: all right, so much get her.
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  Speaker 1: In all right, bro, thanks for calling in man, Thank you,
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  Speaker 1: you got it.
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  Speaker 3: Appreciate you.
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  Speaker 1: Tough dilemma. It's John Jay and Rich