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Carefully Reckless: I Love Your Girl · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio
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  Speaker 1: and the Black Effects, And.
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  Speaker 2: Just like that, we're back on the air.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome back to yet another podcast episode with your girl
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  Speaker 1: Jess Hilarious. What I'll be doing, I'll be fixing mess.
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  Speaker 1: And that's why the name of the podcast is called
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  Speaker 1: carefully Reckless. And look, I never explained that to nobody, right,
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  Speaker 1: so carefully reckless.
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  Speaker 2: I know y'all probably like, what the hell does that
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  Speaker 2: even mean?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, well, other than it being obvious, I'm reckless,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm still careful at the same time. And I
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  Speaker 1: got the name reckless from being a clap back queen.
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  Speaker 2: And being just with the mess.
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  Speaker 1: Early on in my career, before I rebranded my pound,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I was a little messing, so you know,
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  Speaker 1: I would say I was reckless, you know. But as
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  Speaker 1: time went on and I grew up in everything, I
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  Speaker 1: became very careful of things that I talked about, and
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  Speaker 1: then just going through controversy and all of that type
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  Speaker 1: of stuff and then just having the bounce back and
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  Speaker 1: be resilient and just rebrand myself.
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  Speaker 2: So that's why I like.
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  Speaker 1: To sugarcoat it by saying carefully reckless I'm not just
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  Speaker 1: reckless now, I'm carefully reckless. That's why I start using
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  Speaker 1: the words like allegedly when I'm reporting shit. You know,
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  Speaker 1: but we're gonna jump straight into it because i'd be
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  Speaker 1: fixing mess now.
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  Speaker 2: I guess it's just over for the voice memos and
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  Speaker 2: shit because y'all don't be sending me them no more.
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  Speaker 1: So that lets me know that more people than before
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  Speaker 1: is paying attention, and I love it. I got more
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  Speaker 1: listeners because people be trying to listen for y'all voice,
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  Speaker 1: and I love that, Thank you very much.
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  Speaker 2: Let's get right into it. H Now.
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  Speaker 1: I had a little shot y'all, so I'm on one
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  Speaker 1: of that. But we got these stories and we're gonna
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  Speaker 1: get right into it. Hold up, hold up, I said
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  Speaker 1: that three times and they start reading yet sure I please?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. I think I already read this.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, oh wait, this is the same damn girl, damn bitch,
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  Speaker 1: you got a problem every week.
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  Speaker 2: Shit. Okay, let me just scroll on down. I scrolled up.
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  Speaker 1: I fixed some mess a few weeks ago, Like, bitch,
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  Speaker 1: you need to take a vacation to go to the
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  Speaker 1: helm Dan where all right? Oh my god, Jess I
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  Speaker 1: have a dilemma. So I got this friend who unfortunately
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  Speaker 1: has a girlfriend, right, But this story isn't about him,
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  Speaker 1: it's about her. So when we first were introduced at
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  Speaker 1: his twenty first birthday party, I honestly thought she didn't
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  Speaker 1: like the fact that her boyfriend had a close female friend,
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  Speaker 1: which a lot of women have issues with for no reason.
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  Speaker 2: Huh, well, bit sh'd be for reasons.
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  Speaker 1: But I understand what you're saying, though, But her delivery
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  Speaker 1: and approach with me was just off. Okay, So your
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  Speaker 1: friends with this guy and his girlfriend has a problem
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  Speaker 1: with you.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. I just had a dissector real quick, all right.
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  Speaker 1: So for the listeners who didn't understand, I didn't understand either.
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  Speaker 2: Now we can move forward.
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  Speaker 1: Because you fucked this next sittings up so bad, I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna summarize what I think you mean. Okay, So this
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  Speaker 1: is what they wrote, because I just got to put
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  Speaker 1: you out there for this grammatical error. It says unlike
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  Speaker 1: when she was talking to everyone else, even the other women,
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  Speaker 1: and the difference between me and them is I'm gay, Jess. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: So she was talking to other women that she was
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  Speaker 1: actually probably cool with, but she got a problem with
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  Speaker 1: you and she shouldn't because you gay.
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  Speaker 2: It's what you're saying. Okay, got you? Now does she
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  Speaker 2: know you gay? But let's continue.
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  Speaker 1: So I came to the conclusion she didn't like me
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  Speaker 1: because I was me, or because I was gay, and
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  Speaker 1: honestly I was fine with that.
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  Speaker 2: Damn. Wait a minute, bitch is your drug?
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  Speaker 1: God?
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  Speaker 2: Damn, let me read this again.
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  Speaker 1: So I came to the conclusion that she didn't like
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  Speaker 1: me because I was me, or because I was gay? Right, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I got you, I got you, okay, and honestly was
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  Speaker 1: fine with that. For months, we basically avoided each other,
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  Speaker 1: not really conversing, just high and by when she hung
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  Speaker 1: out with us all. Now about two months went by
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  Speaker 1: and we were all at our friend miss party. Everyone
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  Speaker 1: participated in Secret Santa, which was amazing, but my heart
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  Speaker 1: dropped when I realized who had me.
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  Speaker 2: It was her. Oh shit.
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  Speaker 1: She was pretty cool when she approached me this time
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  Speaker 1: and even apologized for being stand offish in the past. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: that's cool, me being me. I told her it was fine,
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  Speaker 1: and then she gave me my gift. I thanked her
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  Speaker 1: and walked off. So it's later that night and we
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  Speaker 1: were all drinking, just joining ourselves. I invited everyone out
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  Speaker 1: to smoke, but they complained it was cold, so I
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  Speaker 1: stepped outside alone, and two minutes later, here she goes,
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  Speaker 1: standing by the door, staring. It's just like a junkie motherfucker.
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  Speaker 1: I saw, I mean, and I wanted them too. But y'all,
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  Speaker 1: we don't give a fuck how cold it is outside,
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  Speaker 1: if it's raining, if it was going down snow, sleep hell,
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  Speaker 1: if we want to hit a bliky, were gonna hit
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  Speaker 1: that bliky, okay. I told her to come sit with
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  Speaker 1: me and hit the blunt, which she did, and we
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  Speaker 1: talked and talked and talked for what seemed like ten minutes,
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  Speaker 1: but it was really an hour. We had so much
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  Speaker 1: in common it felt like we were soulmates. Talking to
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  Speaker 1: her made me feel something I've never felt before.
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  Speaker 2: Dam be your.
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  Speaker 1: Feller, love bitch over a blunt and in ten minutes,
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  Speaker 1: well an hour hmm, And it was great.
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  Speaker 2: But I knew it was wrong. Ooh.
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  Speaker 1: I tried avoiding her after that, but it didn't work.
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  Speaker 1: Wait a minute, let me just finish reading this story.
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  Speaker 1: This shit is unraveling pretty quickly. Next time I knew
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  Speaker 1: I would see her was new Year's and I was right.
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  Speaker 1: As soon as I walked in, I greeted everyone and
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  Speaker 1: was suddenly pulled into the bathroom. Now, in my mind,
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  Speaker 1: I'm wondering how nobody's seen her and why does.
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  Speaker 2: She pull me on? It sounds a little rapy. Damn,
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  Speaker 2: she knows what's wrong.
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  Speaker 1: I can't do this to basically my brother, like that's crazy.
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  Speaker 1: But then she kissed me, and everything went out the window.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my, Literally after things started progressing and it was
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  Speaker 1: too much, to the point where my guilty conscience was
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  Speaker 1: screaming at me in my head. I honestly didn't know
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  Speaker 1: what to do. I know what's wrong, and I know
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  Speaker 1: I should tell him, but we've been friends literally since
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  Speaker 1: we were in diapers. Mmm.
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  Speaker 2: I just know it would crush him. Any advice, Nah,
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  Speaker 2: but you're your own with this one. I ain't gonna
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  Speaker 2: hold it. I don't know what to say. Nah, I
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  Speaker 2: got you. I ain't gonna leave you hanging board.
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  Speaker 1: Hold up, hold up, I know the shit getting good,
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  Speaker 1: But listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial.
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  Speaker 2: If you love me, you'll listen. Now. Look, I ain't
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  Speaker 2: gonna lie.
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  Speaker 1: We got wood, So look, that's gonna be the sound
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  Speaker 1: I make when we read a story that we've never
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  Speaker 1: gotten before.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all listen, we have never heard a story like this before. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: I like this. I ain't saying.
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  Speaker 1: We ain't never say nothing like this in life. And
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  Speaker 1: ain't nobody ever to write me something like this. Nobody
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  Speaker 1: ever wrote me a story like this and asked me
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  Speaker 1: to fix they met so for one, Like I said,
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  Speaker 1: I appreciate you being honest and open enough to come
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  Speaker 1: out to me and tell me this shit, because this.
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  Speaker 2: Is a bold story.
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  Speaker 1: And I hope your friend do not listen to this shit. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: So here we are. I think the device starts with
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  Speaker 1: your friend. To be honest with you, Well, you know what,
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  Speaker 1: we gotta back that up because you engaged with the
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  Speaker 1: friend and it takes to the fucking tango. And when
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  Speaker 1: she snatched her ass into the bathroom, you should have
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  Speaker 1: jacked the up on the wall and said, look, bitch,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta chill. You date my brother. My brother sens diapers.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta relax, all right. I don't want to betray him,
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  Speaker 1: and you shouldn't want to be tram either. But steady,
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  Speaker 1: you hear trying to eat my pussy in the bathroom.
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  Speaker 2: Get your mind right, bitch, backhander, walk out.
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  Speaker 1: That's what you should have That was the scene, right,
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  Speaker 1: But you didn't. Y'all orally made love in the bathroom,
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  Speaker 1: like and I just meant tugging each other down.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't mean y'all went down on each other. And
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  Speaker 2: that's crazy.
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  Speaker 1: And then what you said is you knew it was wrong,
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  Speaker 1: but everything went out the fucking window when she kissed you.
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  Speaker 1: And you know what, This all starts with you inviting
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  Speaker 1: her outside to sit down over a blunt and y'all
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  Speaker 1: having a fucking conversation.
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  Speaker 2: But listen, this is also what I realized.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe she didn't like you because she liked you. If
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  Speaker 1: you get my drift, you get where I'm going. You
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  Speaker 1: remember back in the day when you was inn elementary school,
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  Speaker 1: when you would have like a bully, you know what
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  Speaker 1: I mean, And then later on you found out that
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  Speaker 1: person really liked you, And shit, that's exactly how I
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  Speaker 1: feel like this story is. I feel like she she
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  Speaker 1: didn't like you because she was intimidated by you. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: it was never about the boyfriend. Maybe she always knew
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  Speaker 1: you was gay. Maybe the boyfriend told her that you
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  Speaker 1: were gay, and maybe she was a little gay or bisexual,
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  Speaker 1: and she was like, damn, really that's what I want anyway,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So she been had her
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  Speaker 1: eye on you, obviously, and she just didn't know how
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  Speaker 1: you would approach the situation, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: She was trying to read the room, read the temperature
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  Speaker 1: of you. And yeah, when she realized how easy your
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  Speaker 1: ass was, she got you and you fell for the
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  Speaker 1: fucking bait. And you're a horrible friend for this shit.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to you now. We make mistakes
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  Speaker 1: as friends all the time, but baby girl, you was
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  Speaker 1: horrible for this shit because, like you said, if it's
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  Speaker 1: going through your mind that you're wrong in that moment,
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  Speaker 1: that something is actually happening that you know should not
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  Speaker 1: be happening, then you you're aware, you know it's not
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  Speaker 1: a mistake. That's what makes it purposeful, you know what
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying. Like you did this you on purpose. You
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  Speaker 1: did this shit with a purpose, and what was the purpose?
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  Speaker 1: But tell me what was the purpose? Like Carty said,
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  Speaker 1: what was that rainsing?
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  Speaker 2: What was the reason?
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  Speaker 1: You know how many fishing tocy and you are gay,
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  Speaker 1: so how many girls out there waiting the munch on
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  Speaker 1: you and you gonna fuck with your brother's girl on
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  Speaker 1: the side. Uh, both of y'all need y'all hitsmack period,
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  Speaker 1: all right. And I'm saying that to you out of
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  Speaker 1: love because I don't want you to get mad at me.
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  Speaker 2: But I tell it like it is, Boo.
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  Speaker 1: I don't always take the side of the person writing
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  Speaker 1: me the story, you know what I'm saying, because sometimes
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  Speaker 1: y'all be wrong.
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  Speaker 2: A lot of times y'all are not.
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  Speaker 1: But sometimes, very seldomly y'all are the ones wrong.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 1: So you ask me, what did you what should you do?
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  Speaker 1: I said all that to say you should have a conversation.
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  Speaker 2: With the girlfriend. I understand because I want to know
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  Speaker 2: what do you want out of this shit?
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  Speaker 1: Like y'all need to figure out what the fuck y'all want,
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  Speaker 1: you know, and she needs to stop leaving main man
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  Speaker 1: or if she knows she really want pussy, you know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, if she knows she really want to
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  Speaker 1: dive deep into the cootie cat. My nigga, why is
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  Speaker 1: you dealing with a nigga that gotta thank thing that
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  Speaker 1: swang swang?
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  Speaker 2: You know what?
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying, if that's what you want, you want to
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  Speaker 1: split in the clit, then you don't need to be
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  Speaker 1: fucking with the dick.
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  Speaker 2: Yo.
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  Speaker 1: I'm clearly feeling the shot, but I'm feeling this episode too,
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  Speaker 1: So I want you to sit down and talk to
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  Speaker 1: your friend after talking to the girlfriend. And the reason
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  Speaker 1: why I think you and the girlfriend owe each other
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  Speaker 1: a conversation because y'all need to really decipher what it is, y'all. Y'all, Like, y'all,
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  Speaker 1: did you know what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 2: Like? What it is? Like?
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  Speaker 1: What was it was that just the moment? Is this
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  Speaker 1: something that y'all gonna be sneaking around doing? Have you
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  Speaker 1: thought about her since that shit happened? Is they're a
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  Speaker 1: lusting desire for her? You know what I'm saying, because
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  Speaker 1: obviously we know there's one for you on her side.
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  Speaker 2: You get what I'm saying. Like, but we can't control her.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. You can only control yourself.
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  Speaker 2: You can only control yourself, and your loyalty lies.
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  Speaker 1: With her boyfriend, your brother since diapersmember, I'm just repeating
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  Speaker 1: back to you what you told me. I'm just spitting
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  Speaker 1: it back at you. This is your brother since diapers buboo?
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  Speaker 1: Okay not, I don't heard of niggas doing this shit,
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  Speaker 1: betraying their mans and shit, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: But I ain't never heard of a stud doing and
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  Speaker 1: you may not be a stud, but something is telling
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  Speaker 1: me you are. My Gaitar senses is tingling, and I
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  Speaker 1: feel a patch of stud in your story, you know
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  Speaker 1: what I mean? And I just want you to be
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  Speaker 1: honest with yourself. Do you feel that's the last time
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  Speaker 1: you will ever get toungued down by that girl? Do
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  Speaker 1: you feel it's the last time that you will try
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  Speaker 1: to make a pass atter? Do you feel us the
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  Speaker 1: last time she would try to make a pass at you?
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  Speaker 1: Y'all need to figure out what it is, you know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And then, for the sake of your friend,
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  Speaker 1: if you really want your relationship, you need to shut
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  Speaker 1: that down. I think you need to tell a girl, look, shit,
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  Speaker 1: what we did.
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  Speaker 2: It was wrong. It was a fucking mistake.
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  Speaker 1: I thought you didn't like me at first, you know
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  Speaker 1: what I mean? So I was being nice when I
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  Speaker 1: invited you outside to smoke that blunt with me, and shit,
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  Speaker 1: and we talked and we realized we had more in
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  Speaker 1: common then you know we had realized or whatever.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I don't know if that
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  Speaker 2: was your.
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  Speaker 1: Goal from jump, you know what I'm saying, if he
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  Speaker 1: was plotting the whole time and shit, But like, yo,
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  Speaker 1: that's my brother, and I know we already didne kind
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  Speaker 1: of went there, because you ain't telling me if y'all
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  Speaker 1: slept together or not. But I'm just saying, like you
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  Speaker 1: can say, I know we kind of already went there,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm realizing this is not the road I want
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  Speaker 1: to go down because I don't want to lose my brother.
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  Speaker 1: And we're doing this behind his back, and I know
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  Speaker 1: what he won't what he don't know won't hurt him.
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  Speaker 1: But I don't want to betray my brother anymore than
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  Speaker 1: I already have. That's the conversation you have with her.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what her response will be. It could
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  Speaker 1: be one of two things. It could be it's probably
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  Speaker 1: more options it could be, but the main too. It
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  Speaker 1: could be either she understands and she goes to live
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  Speaker 1: happily ever after, which your brother says diapers, or she
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  Speaker 1: can say no, I want you. I just don't know
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  Speaker 1: how to tell him. You know what I mean, Like
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  Speaker 1: I don't. I'm bisexual. I'm attracted to you.
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  Speaker 2: I wanted you.
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  Speaker 1: I just didn't know like how to go about telling you.
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  Speaker 1: And I think about you all the time, what you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna do. Some tells me that she gonna take B B,
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  Speaker 1: you gonna take B and be like, all right, we'll
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  Speaker 1: fuck it.
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  Speaker 2: We wanna fuck right now. You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: But you shouldn't do that. If you value the relationship
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  Speaker 1: that you have with her. Man, if you had that
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  Speaker 1: conversation you go to, you tell him, be honest, be honest. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: if she ain't, you need to do it because y'all
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  Speaker 1: got the most history. Y'all been friends since diapers. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep on throwing it at you because I
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  Speaker 1: want you to feel bad about the shit you did,
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  Speaker 1: bad enough to not fuck with this girl again. If
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  Speaker 1: you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and.
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  Speaker 2: Then we'll be right back.
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  Speaker 1: And then good friendships are just hard to find, you know.
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  Speaker 1: I know it sounds like I'm joking a lot and
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  Speaker 1: playing a lot. Nah, that's the cosummego's talking. Baby, I'm
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  Speaker 1: dead ass serious. Like friends are very hard to find.
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  Speaker 2: And I.
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  Speaker 1: And it's very seldom that you hear somebody say, oh,
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  Speaker 1: we've been friends since diapers. You know, I'm not gonna
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  Speaker 1: say it's seldom that you hear that. But how many
• 13:45
  Speaker 1: of those connections are still connected? You know, most friendships
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  Speaker 1: these days, long long childhood friendships these days, they break
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  Speaker 1: up because people grow up, they go to there are
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  Speaker 1: separate ways people realize that they're not who they used
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  Speaker 1: to be, and some people can't grow another areas and
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  Speaker 1: you just never know, you know what I'm saying. So, like,
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  Speaker 1: good friendships, long lasting friendships are hard as fuck to find, guys.
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  Speaker 1: So I just I want you to really value that
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  Speaker 1: cause you do seem like you love your brother. Yeah
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  Speaker 1: you do, but that also was in front of your
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  Speaker 1: mind when you got pulled in that bathroom.
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  Speaker 2: That was like more so in the riview, you know
• 14:18
  Speaker 2: what I'm saying.
• 14:19
  Speaker 1: And so you know, yeah, you tried it as a friend,
• 14:22
  Speaker 1: You definitely did try try your mans or whatever. But
• 14:24
  Speaker 1: I think that's you owe him that explanation. You just
• 14:29
  Speaker 1: owe him that explanation. Now, I know a lot of
• 14:31
  Speaker 1: my listeners are like, well, shit, she don't need to
• 14:33
  Speaker 1: tell her friend if her and a girl then severed
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: ties like if they But it's gonna be awkward as
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: fuck because shorty sneaky, you know what I mean.
• 14:41
  Speaker 2: It obviously feels like shorty.
• 14:43
  Speaker 1: Sneaky anytime you being pulled and groped in the bathroom
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: and you're being fondled and spreading your legs open and
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: yanking your head your head back, and she giving you
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: passion monks and hickeys and shit, and she letting you
• 14:55
  Speaker 1: know she been wanted you, but she's just fucking your brother.
• 14:57
  Speaker 2: To get to you. You know what I mean.
• 15:00
  Speaker 1: Happen that just seems like a really hot, sexy scene.
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, something I might want to
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: see later.
• 15:04
  Speaker 2: You know what I mean. But I'm just gonna assume
• 15:07
  Speaker 2: that's what happened in the bathroom. You understand what I'm saying.
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: When you do that, all the loyalty goes out the window.
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: That's not shit that you want to do. Okay, So
• 15:16
  Speaker 1: I'm just letting you know, update me talk to the
• 15:19
  Speaker 1: girl and then talk to your friend, or just talk
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: to the girl, because now you know what, now that
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking about it, if y'all do have a conversation,
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: you and a girl, you want a girlfriend, right, have
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: a conversation and she and she say it was a
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: mistake because you know, I'm not giving her benefit of
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: the doubt, and I like to do that even though
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: even even though she don't deserve it, even when I
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: don't want.
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: To do it, I still have to do it because
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: I don't know her. You know what I mean.
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: It could have been a spread, a moment thing you
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: didn't tell me, if y'all were both intoxicated or.
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: Not or whatever. You know, because the liquor can alter how.
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: You feeling and your mood and you know, your desires
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: and shit temporarily. So you know, if you sit down
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: and you talk to her and she says that was
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: a mistake, you know, I totally agree with you.
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: I don't know what came over me. You know, it
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: was just something that happened, and it'll never happen again. Then, Okay,
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: I could see you not saying anything. But I just
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: don't like the idea of him being in the dark.
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: I don't like it because I hate when us women
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: are in the dark, when gods sneak around, and I
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: know the saying what we don't know won't hurt us.
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: But man, I don't know.
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: Man, I don't know the fact that I know this
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: and I know that he don't know I'm hurt.
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. It just says something about
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: your character, you know what I'm saying.
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: I'm not calling you a bad person because I can't
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: judge you off of this one situation. I can't judge
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: you off of this experience that you're writing me about,
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: you know, But I just want you to just look deeper,
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: look deeper within yourself and speak to that like really,
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: be like, man, I really, I really did this shit,
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, and feel bad enough to
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: not fuck with her again, you know what I'm saying.
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: But if you can't, if you can't do that, then
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: you definitely have to have a conversation with him. I mean,
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm definitely open to you not talking to him
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: if y'all, if you and the girl both agreed that
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: it was a horrible fucking mistake that will never be
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: made again, you know what I'm saying.
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: Which was very intentional by the way.
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: Motherfucker's always slept that mistake shit when it get caught,
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: you know, or when they're about to get caught, or
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: when they feel bad for doing something.
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: But you didn't feel bad, you know what I'm saying.
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: We always doing the douce ski in the bathroom, y'all,
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: y'all didn't. Y'all didn't feel bad, you know. And honestly,
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: Shorty smart because that's the only place that he wouldn't
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: have caught.
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: Y'all, because he can't come in a woman's bathroom. You
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: know I'm saying.
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: I could have been in there for hours and hours
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: and hours like money long, and he would have never caught, y'all.
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: He would have never caught, y'all. So Shorty is serial sneaky, you.
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: Again, I don't know. I'm not calling her a bad person.
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: I'm not calling you a bad person. But if she
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: knows she wants some pussy, she don't need to lead
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: that man on, okay, And you don't need to.
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: Keep lying to yourself.
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: If you want Shorty, go get her. You're just gonna
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: have to deal with your friend. But if you don't
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: want Shorty, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna force you
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: sitting down with your friend. If y'all both agreed that
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: it was a mistake on each other's part. You know
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, on both of y'all parts, both of
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: y'all accounts, you know what I'm saying, because one is
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: not wronger than the other. No, she was wrong for
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: initiating and you were wrong for engaging. And that's just
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: what it is, right, So update me, update me, baby,
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: update me.
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: And I love that. I love that we had a
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: story that we have never had before.
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: I know, and this is no discredit to anybody else,
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: like with stories similar to others that you know that
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: we try to fix the mess of every week, but
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: it's and we, I mean me and Taylor because Taylor
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: is not here today because she's busy.
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: But I wanted to take this one by myself.
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, man, like I I damn, I just fucked my
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: thought up.
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: I forgot. It's crazy. I'm not even pregnant no more,
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: and I.
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: Still be having pregnancy brain, I still be like forgetting,
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: Like mid sentence, what the fuck I'm gonna say, I
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: don't know how long that takes until that goes away,
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: but that that happens, and there's no, no, it's not
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: because of the shots.
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: So don't judge me.
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: Judge your mother, And just like that, we've come to
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: get another carefully.
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: Reckless episode with your girl Jesselari. It's again.
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: Taylor is out to die because she has real work
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: to do, y'all, all right, so she ain't got time
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: to be reading y'all problems, all right. But her friends
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: got the worst problem, so we like to hear from
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: them sometimes and fix their mess.
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: But y'all cath us next week on.
• 19:21
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