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Stop Revving. Start Moving. · The Road Doc Podcast

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  Hello, welcome back to the Road Dog Podcast.
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  Today I am going to talk about something in depth that you
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  know, kind of works both in motorcycle world and real life.
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  So I would like to suggest you all to grab a cup of coffee, tea
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  or green tea or whatever beverage and make sure you are
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  in a quiet place. Sit down and make sure your mind
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  is focused because this is going to take a little bit more time
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  and in depth discussion. Definitely, I need to share my
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  thoughts on it. So yes, let us dive into it.
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  This episode called Stop Driving, Start moving.
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  I know by the title itself people will be like going crazy.
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  I will literally dissect everything so that even a layman
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  can understand these things. What I mean literal
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  interpretation of this biker analogy, Stop driving and start
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  moving, right? In terms of revving, Revving is
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  like when your motorcycle is making noise but kind of but it
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  is still in neutral or idle. No matter how loud or powerful
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  it sounds, it is not going anywhere.
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  You know, that is kind of what I mean in this context, revving
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  means which means you are just making noise and no progress.
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  And in terms of moving is when the bike is in the first gear,
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  clutch is released and you are committed to your journey,
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  action, progress and then the direction begins and that is I
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  called moving. You understand that, right?
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  Yeah, I will explain my concept of ravine in life and moving in
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  life in much, much more deeper in the sense of Indiana terms of
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  emotions, carrier work, fitness, health, relationships or let's
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  just say content creation or anything you want to do healing
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  from past. All these things I am going to
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  cover up later in the end. Before that, I would like to
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  give you a little bit of psychological layers to this so
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  that you can all correlate with your own personal lives.
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  Let us go psychological layers. Revving is like mental
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  masturbation. Yeah you heard it right Revving
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  is like mental masturbation. What I mean by that is you are
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  simulating effort, getting high of doing something right by the
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  thought itself. But it all dopamine without any
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  direction, you know, it is like you are just making so much of
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  noise and you have this plan, this goal that, this and
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  everything. But end of the day you are not
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  making any actions, zero actions.
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  So it's basically kind of you get the dopamine by just hitting
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  and setting high goals, high things and all this stuff, but
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  you are doing absolutely nothing.
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  That's one. That's why I say rubbing is like
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  mental masturbation and it will drop after you give certain
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  time, it will just fall off, it will just go down and you become
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  normal and nothing, no movement, nothing happens.
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  And you know everyone. I am pretty much sure most of
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  the people stuck here in this, they feel productive by setting
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  all these goals and everything, but they are actually stuck in
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  the loop of achieving it. They do not achieve anything
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  because their actions were absent.
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  That is what I mean to say that rubbing is a mental
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  masturbation. It is like, you know you are in
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  neutral and you are revving your acceleration and your bike is
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  making a lots of noise, good noise, but still noise, but your
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  bike is not moving, you are just still at the same spot.
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  And that is where 90% of population stuck because they
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  invest more in thinking rather than doing it.
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  Think through how many people are exactly in this moment right
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  now. Everybody has like big goals,
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  big dreams, big things and this is that.
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  But give yourself a little bit of more time and you will watch
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  yourself falling apart. So something like that.
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  See you understand right, 90% of people would not become
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  successful because of this simple psychological loop they
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  enter. They just already feel the
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  dopamine and everything by setting all these girls without
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  actions and then after few days it will just pass by in front of
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  your eyes. They will be like pretty normal
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  average life they will run on. This is what is happening.
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  I know I have talked with so many people.
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  I asked them why they did not achieve what they did not
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  achieve. And the only person we have to
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  blame is themselves and ourselves.
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  That's all. All other excuses are external
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  noise. That you are telling yourself
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  that achieving your goal is hard.
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  This that course, achieving dreams should be hard.
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  Suppose to be hard. It is suppose to be so
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  discomfortable to your current life.
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  That is when the upgrade actually happens.
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  And let us move on to the next part.
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  Movement requires discomfort. You will stall less when you
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  accept you will be awkward in the beginning.
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  Like a biker learning clutch control.
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  You have to face your own friction zones, anxiety,
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  uncertainty and fear. And you know while learning the
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  motorcycle in the beginning of your days you will 100% stall.
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  In the beginning you will have that issue with letting go of
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  the clutch at the right accelerations and right moments
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  and all those stuff. We all been there, we all done
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  that, we all learned and aced in real life, isn't it?
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  And that's how we learn motorcycle.
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  But there are people after stalling few times they will
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  stop and they feel already low and they feel this is not
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  working and all those stuff and they give up so quick.
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  And this is what happens even with bites or in life when you
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  have already set your goals, things and everything and you do
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  not make moves accordingly and actions aligning to your goals.
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  After trying few times you will 100% stall and stuck there
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  forever. I will give my own example so
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  that you can understand. I actually created YouTube and
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  all these things you know somewhere around 2023-2024 I
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  guess if I am not wrong. I had that plan since then.
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  But guess what? I didn't start till 2025.
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  Let's just be honest, because because of so many reasons, I
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  did not prioritize. I did not.
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  I thought about like, come on, this might be not my cup of tea,
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  this unnecessary noise I made. And then one day I just thought
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  like, what is stopping me from doing what I want to do in life?
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  I am in my 20s and if I don't even try it now then when I am
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  going to try anyways? What will happen in worst case
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  scenario? May be I will fail in this
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  podcasting, YouTube or this social media things or that's
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  it. Or in other ways, what if I
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  succeed in gaining good loyal follower base that my content is
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  gonna be useful for someone in future and stuff like that.
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  Then I have changed my perspective a little bit.
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  Because when I posted my podcasts and YouTube videos,
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  just like the testing ones and everything, and guess what?
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  Even in the earliest videos or earliest episodes of the
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  podcasts, I already got the traction of international
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  audience. That's when I realized someone
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  from a different country who even does not know me, believed
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  in me already, wanted to listen to me, watch my stuff, videos
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  and things to learn something out of it.
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  I was like, this is great. There are people who definitely
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  needs some sorts of suggestions and directions for sure and they
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  are valuing my presence in some way.
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  And I was surprised to see may be my current environment is not
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  that supportive or my current environment is completely
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  different from what I am thinking at this moment point of
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  time. My thoughts are like up in the
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  10th floor and my current environment is trying to drag me
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  to the ground floor. Kind of a situation I am facing
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  right now. But still I am posting every
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  week, YouTube video and podcast every week.
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  I am trying to do something. I am going with the actions and
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  doing it and uploading it and then posting it rather than just
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  thinking what someone will think, what other person will
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  think what this guy will think that all that is unnecessary
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  noise. It is like revving motorcycle in
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  neutral. I what I did was I just pulled
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  my clutch shifted into gear one and then posted all the stuff in
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  YouTube and then moved on to podcast and then Instagram stuff
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  and all the social medias I am trying to cover.
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  And guess what, so far in my experience, even though I do not
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  literally make anything financially or good customer
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  guest base at this point, a follower base, let us say, but
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  there are loyal people that I am observing that people are
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  consistently coming back and watching my videos and listening
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  to my podcast sincerely. I mean, I don't know who they
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  are, but I am very thankful for them.
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  They are valuing what I am trying to say, which is amazing.
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  I mean, they are amazing. I have to thank them.
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  Like, it just keeps me like there are people in this world
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  who values a good content rather than, you know, unnecessary
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  noise like, you know, from the day one.
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  And if you open our eyes and turn on the Instagram or
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  YouTube, you know what kind of content and everything these
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  days is fully occupied with. We all know that unnecessary
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  noise revolving all around stupid things, sexuality and you
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  know, negativity and all this stuff that is making more noise
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  these days. I observed and at some point I
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  felt like why is this? If this is what all our minds is
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  going to observe and nurture it in their heads, Oh my God, we
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  are creating a dangerous society or dangerous community in future
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  which is absolutely walking towards destruction.
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  So that is why I felt somewhere I want to share my thoughts
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  because no, no, no, we should not allow only this negativity
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  and stuff. And we need to make sure that
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  people are aware of there are good things, there are good
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  stuff. Even though it feels difficult,
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  we can still able to do it and it is more even purposeful and
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  delightful experience once we get through it.
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  And people are choosing all the negative things because they
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  look easier on the outside and they look good, they look
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  comfortable. But trust me guys, comfort kills
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  everything, almost everything. I am telling you right now, by
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  the time I am recording all these things, I am telling you I
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  am in a different life that where everything is against me.
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  Literally. I can say the world is against
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  me while doing this stuff, even recording this podcast and
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  everything, but I am still doing it.
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  That's the thing that's going to separate me from others in the
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  future because deep down I know what I am doing will definitely
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  help all the young generation people and everybody to just
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  focus on good things rather than focusing on easiest negative
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  things. You know what they are.
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  I just do not want to go deep dive into those negative things
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  and stuff. But yes, I am a doctor and yes,
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  I am a rider, yet I am still going through tough times in
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  real life. And believe me when I say that I
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  am waking up every day, I am hitting the gym, I am doing
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  everything that is necessary to do for myself.
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  No matter how bad my situation is, I am still putting it in
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  actions. Just trust me on that.
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  There will be one day I am going to talk about these things in
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  detail, but I do not think this is the time yet.
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  So yeah, let me also discuss about noise versus traction.
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  Revving is kind of a noise. It gets everyone's attention but
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  does not create momentum. That is what most people does
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  it. I will give you an example.
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  You know, people now very focused on posting in Instagram
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  or in social media apps and everyone like if you are, we
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  don't like to mention, I don't like to mention any gender here.
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  But yes of course you know in their own ways they are trying
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  to get seeking attention from outside of their people or you
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  know, outside world gaining some validation and nothing.
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  I mean see if you are posting a picture or a video or something
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  that's to purely gain someone's attention and you provide no
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  value. It doesn't make sense.
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  They will just watch and things like you are just a clown here,
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  one more clown and then they will move on with life.
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  You will not create any impact in future.
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  You are just a passing cloud and if you are deliberately wants to
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  be a passing cloud then that's totally fine.
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  I don't care about all these things, but at what cost?
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  You have to keep that in mind because you just doing it for
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  some external validation, which means which already tells that
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  you don't believe in yourself. You don't have enough guts to
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  say I am the best I can do it. I do not need anyone's
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  validation or anything. If someone gives an good input
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  to change my life in a good direction, that is a whole
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  different thing. But if you are just posting
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  pictures and this and that for justice, gaining some attention
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  and through your you know through like showing of your
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  body and stuff like that, which already tells a lot about you
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  that you do not have a self-confidence, you do not have
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  a gut to listen to, you do not have gut to face the truth and
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  you are trying to mask everything for temporary
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  happiness. So that is why I called moving
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  is like attraction. Its is kind of very silent when
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  you are building it. But trust me, it builds legacy
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  in a long run, that is. That's what people should
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  prefer. That's what I think, because you
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  cannot build so much in noise. You can only build and create
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  everything in silence. That's what I believe in.
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  That's what I am doing. Like everything I am doing right
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  now, I am doing it all alone. There is no support from
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  everybody. There is no support even from my
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  close friends. There is no support.
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  Everybody is like come on bro, this is waste of time.
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  Who is going to listen to this? Come on bro, who is going to
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  watch your videos? Come on bro.
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  And I am like dude, I am a doctor.
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  I have seen some stuff while working and I am also a writer.
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  I have seen both the world's, I know the world of medical field,
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  I know the world of motorcycle field.
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  I know how both things works and I think I am the most eligible
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  person to talk about both worlds correlating to everything.
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  Because right now I see guys are making a lots of mistakes with
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  their choices, specially when it comes to motorcycling, riding
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  and all those stuff. And some people are losing life
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  because they do not have anyone to guide them.
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  Tell them this is wrong or you are going in a wrong path.
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  You need to wear helmet. That is why I felt like yes, I
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  need to speak it out now. People need to listen why it is
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  very, very important, because they do not know the downsides
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  of it and they do not know how it can change their life in a
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  snap of a finger. Just like that, your life will
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  change upside down. And trust me, I have seen this,
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  I have been there. I looked at the patients.
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  I have have enough experience to say that your life is going to
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  change in very, very bad ways if you really do not take necessary
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  actions or if you do not make good choices.
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  So that is the reason why I felt like let us stop revving and
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  start moving. See, when you are moving in
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  motorcycle, your motorcycle would not make that lots of
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  noise. Now.
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  It will just make a necessary cute noise and then it will move
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  smoothly and you would not even listen that noise at all.
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  That is how it was going to be smooth.
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  When you are moving, even in life, when you are building
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  something, when you are growing in life, it is gonna be silent,
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  it is gonna be in the momentum, it is gonna be at peace and
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  definitely it is gonna be uncomfortable while moving on.
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  But trust me in at in life, at every point of life you will
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  feel like let us just say like this, you are in first gear, you
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  reach certain limit in the first gear and then guess what you
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  will do? You will upgrade to 2nd gear.
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  That is what will happen in life too.
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  Same way. And then after sometime you will
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  upgrade to gear 345 and then finally you reach 6 and then
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  unlimited potential from there till certain point, right.
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  So all these things happens only in momentum.
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  You need to move, you have to move, you have to do it.
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  You have to show efforts in actions, not just in thinking.
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  Thinking is really good, but without actions, nothing.
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  You will just stall there and you will just stay wherever you
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  were. That's why I tell movement is
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  never massive at first, but it is consistent.
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  We need to focus on consistency rather than perfection.
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  I mean, we know in our friend groups or in our people there
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  are perfectness overthinkers. You also seen this kind of
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  people like I will do it tomorrow, I will do it next day.
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  I will do it next week. But they will never do it.
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  Yeah. So yes, absolutely.
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  So how it will work in real life is like simply identify where
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  you are having, right? Like for example, are you
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  talking more than you are doing? Are you buying tools but not
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  using them? Are you journaling healing but
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  not stepping out of toxic cycles?
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  You need to sit down with yourself and do a self check in
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  all major domains of your life. That is mandatory.
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  Now. I am going to talk about
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  emotional aspects, career or work, fitness or health,
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  relationships, content creation, healing from past.
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  I will compare this in rubbing in life versus moving in life.
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  How it feels, how it actually supposed to be.
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  Let's go with healing from past. Let's just say revving in life
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  looks like you keep on dwelling into the past, journaling with
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  no change, romanticizing the old pain, all these things you are
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  just in still in the revving stage.
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  How you can move on in life is closure instead of dwelling.
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  You have took enough time to analyze it and process it.
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  Now it is time to accept and step into new environments.
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  That is when your life starts moving forward or else you will
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  be still stuck in your past. I know you people can analyze,
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  correlate into your life so that you will understand where you
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  stay in your life whether in revving part of life or moving
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  part of life. Let us also talk about content
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  creation. This is for me, right?
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  And all other creators out there and everybody else, writers and
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  who are in content creation zone, they can correlate with
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  this. They are like brainstorming
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  ideas, endlessly talking about being a creator base that and
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  that's it. That's all they do.
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  They do not actually hit the record button, start editing,
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  uploading when even if it is imperfect, they look for perfect
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  audio byte or video byte or something.
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  I call it creator block. They just keep them means in the
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  loop of perfectionism and they do not produce anything.
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  They just wait for perfect time. Perfect thing, perfect.
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  Guess there is no such thing as perfect.
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  There is only now you do it and produce it.
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  That is it. There is no perfect timing,
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  there is no such thing. And I know most of the creators
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  who are really good or who wants to start doing this and all
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  those stuff, they just end up wasting their time on
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  unnecessary things. Nobody knows how things works.
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  We just need to keep our effort and actions and doing it make
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  the changes. Let's just say I am just
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  thinking about everything endlessly and endlessly and
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  endlessly. But I am not hitting any record
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  button or editing anything. Nothing.
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  I am just trying to be perfectionist.
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  Guess what I would have not even produced single video till so
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  far in YouTube or single episode of my podcast so far and nothing
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  will be start moving in. I know I am not perfect.
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  I am trying to do better every single day.
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  That's all I am trying to do. And along the way, I am going to
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  learn about all these things, necessary changes I need to make
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  and all those things I will make in life as well as whatever I am
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  doing, that's for sure. But doing, I am still doing it
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  no matter what. That's a win in life.
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  That's what I feel. I know even though it's very
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  small and very consistent, very beginning and no support,
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  nothing, all these things fade away once I continue to do it.
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  Once I am on the consistency track rather than running after
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  numbers or views or ways that are everything, Everything will
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  comes slowly because that is how progress is going to be.
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  It is not instant viral or instant famous or no it that is
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  not see, look at this guys. Do not fall for this trap.
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  There is no such thing as instant viral or instant thing.
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  If you someone luckily get that and I am pretty much sure you
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  will fall down super fast then you think because you do not
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  have any basement for your thing, you just got lucky or you
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  just got the traction whatever. But in the long run, you would
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  not even be in the competition or you would not be in that
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  circle. So keep that in mind.
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  Don't fall for this instant stuff because they will give you
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  instant dopamine and instant feeling of you succeeded in life
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  but now you will fall back. Whatever you are doing, you will
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  just they will just break into million pieces soon.
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  So I follow long run strategies rather than this short run
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  strategies for myself. That's what I prefer anyways.
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  Let's talk about career or work. It's like revving in life.
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  Looks like, you know, you watch tutorials, start updating your
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  resume, talking about girls and dreams and stuff like that.
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  But you will not apply for jobs or do anything.
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  You will just keep on watching those tutorials, updating your
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  resume. You will just keep on talking
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  about your dreams and goals. And there is no action that you
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  do not apply actually for jobs or you do not actually get
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  anything from watching those tutorials or all these things
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  basically keep you in driving in life feels like you are doing
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  some productive work. But in reality, after doing all
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  that, you need to apply for jobs.
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  You need to apply or build your own brand or launch your own
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  projects or do it, do it. Not just, I know we need to talk
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  about it, but after sometime you need to start somewhere, even
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  though it is not perfect, you need to start and that is where
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  99% people will fail because they will wait for the right
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  movement. There is no such thing.
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  I am telling you, you will never start if you are in such, if you
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  are in your work, do not wait until you make perfect resume.
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  Whatever you have right now is good enough.
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  Just apply for it. You did your best.
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  And this is the thing. Do not overdo anything because
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  like we all in this loophole of you know, perfectionism and all
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  those stuff, I get it, but do not overdo is you do your thing
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  and once it is done, it is time to execute it.
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  It is time to plan it into actions.
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  That is what is more important. And let us talk about health and
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  fitness guys, this is going to be so funny because I have seen
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  it with my own eyes as well. It is like revving in life how
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  it looks, you know buying the gym clouds, scrolling fitness
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  reels, like buying everything that is necessary for the gym.
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  And then finally they will say I will start on next week, I will
• 33:28
  start next month, I will start somewhere else.
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  Rather what should be doing you should workout, fixing your
• 33:39
  diet, tracking your progress. This really helps moving in life
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  and I know 90% of people will stuck at the buying in gym
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  clothes and good outfits and there is different nature right
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  now. I found out that people buy
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  those gym clothes to look cute rather than using it for working
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  out because they spend a lot of time in front of camera just
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  pretending they worked out a lot rather than actually working
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  out. Yeah, I have seen it.
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  And if you are one of them, keep that phone down, keep that
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  camera down, go to the gym and workout and let us talk about
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  emotions. Revving in life looks like
• 34:32
  talking about how you feel, planning, overthinking, venting,
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  all these things. Good not fine, but after certain
• 34:42
  time you need to start healing, processing that this is life,
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  everything happens even though there sometimes there would not
• 34:52
  be any logical reasons and you need to heal.
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  Letting go and acting on how to come through this situations.
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  I mean, trust me, I am also going through a lot of stuff in
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  my life as well, but give it the time it requires and then once
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  you feel like enough is enough, then just move on, which I did
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  pretty much in all aspects of my life.
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  That is what I do. Because if you keep on dwelling
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  in that, you will be in that revving in life.
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  You will be in that loophole and rather than accepting it, it is
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  what it is. This is what happened and I have
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  nothing to do with it. So I am going to move on and
• 35:47
  continue with my life. Then guess what?
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  The magic will start happening. Your life feels much better
• 35:52
  again. You will be at a good state of
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  mind. You can focus now.
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  You can do so many good things for yourself.
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  And all these things happens only when you decide to say to
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  yourself enough is enough at some point.
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  So yeah. And the final one is
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  relationships, of course. Now this is a kind of a little
• 36:22
  bit typical point for everyone because specially living in life
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  in this looks like, you know, running about problems, seeking
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  external validations, rechecking tags and everything rather than
• 36:43
  moving in life looks like this communicating clearly, setting
• 36:49
  boundaries if necessary, walking away or building stronger bonds,
• 36:57
  looking for solutions rather than just dwelling and dwelling
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  and dwelling. And that is why most of the
• 37:05
  relationships fail because they keep revving, staying in the
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  revving in life part, not moving in life part.
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  You can stay there for a while revving in life but if you stay
• 37:19
  there for a long then you will be in that loop.
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  And trust me it will take days to years for anybody to come out
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  of anything like the points I have mentioned like towards
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  emotions, carrier work, fitness, health, relationships,
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  contagivations or healing from past or anything else.
• 37:38
  If you keep a revving in that in these aspects of life more than
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  certain point of time you will end up there.
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  It is like bike still in neutral.
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  You analyze it and then says enough is enough at some point
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  then your life is moving forward.
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  So yes I hope this you guys understand what I am trying to
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  say. That is why I started the title
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  stating the title stop revving and start moving.
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  Its is actually makes more sense in life for everyone.
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  So revving actually makes you feel alive, I get that.
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  But moving makes you become alive.
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  There is a very very thin line I hope with my with sharing my
• 38:42
  thoughts and everything. I hope I gave you a valuable
• 38:45
  insight so that you can sit with yourself in silence and analyze
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  your life and hopefully you all people will start moving rather
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  than revving in your life. So until then, take care.
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  I will see you in the I mean, not see you.
• 39:08
  You will listen back in next episode coming Saturday, 6:00 PM
• 39:16
  sharp. Available on all major
• 39:19
  platforms, Spotify, Apple Podcasts and sorry, Amazon Music
• 39:29
  and Audible as well at the moment.
• 39:32
  So you can look for it. The Road Dog podcast and you can
• 39:40
  enjoy it and also add your comments.
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  I would like to get inputs from you whether it's helping you or
• 39:49
  not in somewhere or another. Thank you so much for listening.
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  And this is the Promukun. I'll see you next week or you
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  will hear from my ME next week anyways, right Smart guys?
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  Peace both in life and motorcycle as well.
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  Got it. Yeah.
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  Peace. Bye.