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352: Human Design, Money, Manifestation & Business - How They're All Connected · Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast

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  Nicole Laino: Welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, the show dedicated
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  to helping entrepreneurs use human design to shift from hustle to
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  flow without sacrificing results.
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  Come here to become an unshakeable human and build an unshakeable business
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  according to your human design.
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  I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
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  Hello, and welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, everybody.
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  I'm your host, Nicole Lano, and I'm very excited to be here with you today.
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  Talking about, I'm kind of making a little mashup here of topics because
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  I want to talk about human design.
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  I want to talk about money.
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  I want to talk about manifestation, and I want to talk about
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  your business and strategy.
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  And I want to talk about how they are all connected, how you can
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  honestly roll all of this up.
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  Into human design and I know that a lot of people have this question
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  where they're kind of like, well, can I use human design to my advantage?
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  I teach human design for business.
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  I specifically work mostly with entrepreneurs.
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  That's what my focus is.
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  So this is like my world.
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  This is what I live and breathe.
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  And people can get confused because they want to separate these things and
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  I think what's so interesting about human design is that if you're working
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  with your design, a lot of this stuff, or if you're working with it, I should
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  say the way that I work with it, which is with deconditioning really high up
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  on the list of things that we focus on, that if you're doing the work in
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  human design, then A lot of this other stuff will start to take care of itself.
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  A lot of your problems are going to go away.
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  So in this episode, I'm going to break down how money programs work and just
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  kind of the mindset around that and how manifestation and business strategy all
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  kind of come together, how human design brings them all together and how I look at
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  them from a really holistic point of view.
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  Rather than feeling like, because I think , what we do a lot of times is we'll, start
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  to piece these out where we will focus on our money mindset, and then we'll focus
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  on, we'll take a manifestation course, and then we'll get business strategy,
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  and we have all of these different ways, rather than looking at it and saying,
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  actually, it all rolls up into one thing.
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  So, and human design can help us bring all of that together.
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  And it doesn't feel crazy.
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  It feels like, Oh, it actually gives us a process to make it feel simpler.
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  So I want to break all of that down for you today in today's episode.
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  Okay.
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  Before I do, I want to call out that we are hosting the
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  authority accelerator masterclass.
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  This is my five day free masterclass that I am teaching.
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  I haven't taught it since 2024 and I have rewritten a lot of the
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  content since we did it last year.
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  I'm always revisiting this stuff.
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  Guys, I'm a manifesting generator.
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  If I do something too often the same way, I will get bored.
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  I am always evolving.
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  I am always changing.
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  And I always bring you the latest of the way that I'm reflecting on something,
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  or the latest way that I'm teaching it.
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  So this will be different.
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  I was saying to someone the other day, I'm like, I have, I do these
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  like mini rewrites sometimes to it.
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  And then about every other one, I kind of rewrite the whole thing
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  and really revisit it from scratch.
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  This is one of those.
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  I revisited it from scratch.
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  I really came at it from a different perspective and
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  tore the whole thing apart.
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  So if you've taken it before, if you've been with us before, come to this
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  one because you might very well get something very different out of this one.
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  You might, if that clicked for you, this might really drive
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  some points home for you.
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  So I'm super excited about it.
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  Yes.
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  Replays are available as always, always available.
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  Unless I say there are no replays for this thing, but there are replays.
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  You'll have access to all of that.
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  We'll email you lots of times to let you know about how
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  you can access those replays.
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  And like I said, it's totally free.
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  All you have to do to register is go over to Instagram, DM me
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  the word masterclass, and we'll register you right there in the DMs.
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  Or if you prefer to go to the website, you could do that.
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  You could go to NicoleLano.
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  com forward slash masterclass, and you can register right there on
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  the page and all done super simple.
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  Okay.
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  Let's dive into the episode, shall we?
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  So let's talk about, what all of these modalities have in common.
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  Money mindset, manifestation, business strategy.
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  I'm throwing in something else that we tend to invest in, right?
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  We invest in all of these things.
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  Networking, I would put kind of as like a sub category of business
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  strategy, because that's like the masterminds and things that we do.
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  Cause we want to make these connections, right?
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  So what do all of these.
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  of these modalities, all of these things have in common, they have one
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  thing in common, all of them, and it's your energy determines the level
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  of success that you have with it.
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  It's you.
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  You are the common denominator.
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  You are the operator of all of these things.
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  Your money mindset comes from your past, it comes from the way you think, it
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  comes from what's in your body as far as a money program that you have, right?
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  So let's talk about, I'm going to break each one of these down.
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  can't say that I'm going to be super linear where it's going to be like
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  one thing, two things, three things.
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  They're going to be totally siloed.
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  They are interconnected.
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  So I'm probably going to speak about them.
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  I'm going to talk about one and another piece is going to come into
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  it because that's how this works.
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  If you try to make it where it's like, we're only going to work on this thing,
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  then you're probably missing something.
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  Then you're probably going to have a problem somewhere along the line where
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  you're going to have to go back to one of the other pieces of this little
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  framework, the rest of this model that we have going on here, right?
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  So, but I'm going to do my best for simplicity sake and to make
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  this easy for you to follow.
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  Cause I do try to make these podcast episodes simple enough that you
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  can follow along and you're like, I get what she's talking about.
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  I get that point.
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  I work hard at trying to make this, really impactful for everybody.
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  So this should be no exception.
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  So let's talk about money and the pursuit of money.
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  Most of the time when I ask people what their desires are, they tell me
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  that they want to be financially free.
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  That that's usually at the top of their list.
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  I want to make this amount of money and we're in business.
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  Like I work with business people.
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  So it's normal for that to be the number one desire on people's, on people's lists.
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  Right?
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  I want to make money.
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  You should want to make money in your business.
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  If you don't, then that's something that you want to look at right away
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  and say, why don't I want money?
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  What am I, what am I doing this for if I don't want it to be successful materially?
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  Um, because why would we work if there isn't some reward, right?
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  Even though I love the work that I do, I wouldn't do it quite like I do it, you
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  know, I wouldn't be selling and be talking about lots of different things, you know?
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  so you're doing it to be successful, then you want it to be successful, right?
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  That's the desire.
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  And when we approach how can I make more money, we tend to go
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  to strategy to help us with this.
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  We tend to say like, okay, what tangible tactical thing do I need
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  in order to make money come to me?
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  So I'm going to hire a funnel expert, or I'm going to hire a copywriter to get
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  me the people who are going to like be attracted to my website and, and I can
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  explain what I do in different ways.
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  There can be lots of ways with strategy that we go and we try to get money.
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  I'm going to do this thing and then I'll get the money.
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  Now, Jim Fortin is where I first heard this from, but I've heard it from lots
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  of people since, so I don't know where the originator is, but I'll tell you, Jim
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  Fortin is where I heard this first from.
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  So I'm going to give him the credit for this.
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  That the framework is not, , to do it and then get it.
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  It's not, you know, I think we think we're going to do the thing and
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  then we're going to have the money and then we're going to be happy.
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  Do have be is the model that most of us are working under.
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  But what he taught me was that no, it's actually, it's be do have when you're
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  being the wealthy version of yourself.
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  When you're energetically there, then you will be able
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  to do the things that you want.
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  And then you will have what it is that you've been going after.
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  So you'll have the money after you're being who you are meant to be.
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  You're being the person who has the money, then you will get the money.
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  You'll be able to do the things that those wealthy people do,
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  and then you will have the money.
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  And we often reverse this because that is the way to come at it from
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  a more 3D standpoint is to say, well, I got to do all of this stuff,
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  I got to do all of this stuff.
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  And then what happens?
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  We aren't able to do the things that we want to do.
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  And this is where that strategy piece, you know, we tend to put that way up
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  front when we start our businesses.
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  Okay, what strategy do I need?
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  But I'm guessing if you listen to this show and you're interested in human
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  design, that hasn't worked for you.
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  Consistently, right?
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  You haven't been able to get strategy where you've been able to operate that
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  strategy cleanly over and over and over again and just have wild success with it.
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  And there's two reasons for that.
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  One, it can be that you're not ready to operate that strategy at the
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  level that it needs to be operated to get the result that you want.
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  Or sometimes it's just that you've used it for a while and then the world changes and
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  you have to change the strategy and you're not in a place where you can adapt, right?
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  So then what do we do when we have trouble with money and strategy isn't
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  working, then a lot of times we go and we're like, I gotta have money mindset
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  issues, and I have a lot of people that come to me with money, mindset issues.
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  I had them too, but the old way to deal with that is to go straight to the brain.
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  Mindset.
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  That's where I started.
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  I am an NLP practitioner, which is neuro, linguistic programming.
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  It's the way we talk to ourselves, it's the way our brains process information,
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  it's how it stores it, and it's the practice of being able to undo some
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  of that damage by rewiring our brain.
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  That's what, you know, NLP is kind of famous for.
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  And shifting, reframing, that is an NLP technique.
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  that people are usually pretty familiar with.
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  So mindset is the old way.
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  I, believe in NLP.
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  And I believe that that is work that does work.
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  But it's not everything.
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  It's the old way.
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  The old way is to go straight to the brain.
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  And that's why a lot of people stay stuck with money mindset.
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  Here's what I love about human design.
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  We take the power away from the mind all together.
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  All together.
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  it starts with thoughts.
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  I don't want to say that I don't ever deal with thoughts.
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  Of course we do.
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  That's the conscious choices that we can be making throughout the day.
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  I stop my clients all the time when I tell, you know, when I catch them
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  saying things like, I can't do this.
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  And they give me excuse after excuse or something.
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  I call them out on that.
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  I'm like, first of all, I want to change your language.
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  And I want you to hear the way that you are messaging this to yourself.
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  The way that you are thinking about this, you've already put a roadblock
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  in front of you and you've kind of decided that this isn't going to work.
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  And if you've decided that, then you're going to have a really hard uphill battle.
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  So let's change that right off the bat, but then we always
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  want to go a level deeper.
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  We want to get into the emotions of why you feel the way that you feel.
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  Now, this is where we can start to, human design is teaching
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  us to do this all the time.
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  Human design, first of all, the way that I teach it with EFT, which is tapping
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  emotional freedom technique is tapping the way that I teach it is I decondition.
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  because mindset is the old way, deconditioning is the new way
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  is to decondition yourself.
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  You're not just rewriting your thoughts.
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  We are processing the trauma and the emotion.
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  That you have not processed throughout your life, which is causing the
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  problems that you're experiencing.
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  Now, I'm still talking about money, but I'm also going to now I'm going
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  to throw in manifestation here.
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  Because a lot of us will then take energy courses and clearings and doing all this
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  stuff and take a manifestation course.
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  All valid.
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  But the manifestation course, what's it doing?
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  How we manifest is with our feelings.
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  so human design gives me this beautiful map where I can look at people and I
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  can see where they might be holding stuff that doesn't serve them.
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  It gives us places to dig.
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  It gives us places to say, I think that this is maybe where you're stuck.
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  So emotional authorities, they're battling their wave all the time.
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  So they just have to learn to clear their emotions and work with their emotions
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  in a different way, or they're going to be tossed by the waves constantly.
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  So it gives me a framework for understanding what their problem may be.
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  What I see with emotional authorities in particular, they will just,
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  have these cycles of just insanity, you know, it starts off with that.
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  It's an emotional frequency that is unstable and it's not one that
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  they're choosing and that is going to mess with their level of being
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  able to manifest what they want.
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  They're going to manifest a lot of chaos into their lives because of the
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  emotional frequency that they are in.
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  So we have to take care of that.
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  And we do that with the way that I decondition people and the way that
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  I approach that work because it isn't about answering questions with
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  human design like people think it is.
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  It's not like that with, you know, I think that we think that with
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  manifestation, if somebody just told me how to do the thing, then I would
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  be wealthy beyond my wildest dreams.
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  No, it's a practice of being able to emotionally and energetically connect
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  with what you want versus connecting with what you don't want, which is
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  usually our default worry, anger.
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  Fear, all of that stuff and human design can tell us where we might
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  have fear and what that fear might be.
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  There's something beautiful that happens when you start to notice
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  that too is it starts to dissolve a bit when I say, well, you have these
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  fears that are consistent for you.
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  Do you notice these coming up?
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  Yes, okay.
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  Now I have tools that I'll take people through of here's how I
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  want you to overcome these fears.
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  I'd like you to tap on this.
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  I'd like you to do this breath work.
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  I have tools that I've created specifically to overcome certain things.
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  And with the chart,
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  I can use it as a map to find out which tools do you really need.
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  I start to notice your behavior and then I can direct you through the chart
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  and through seeing what you're doing.
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  To the right thing.
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  So we're, we're coming in with a scalpel and we're able to start to really hone in
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  on what the root cause of the problem is.
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  Because what happens is when we're trying to manifest something really, really
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  great, really amazing in our life, but we have so much fear or we are so afraid
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  of something, we're protecting ourselves.
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  We're actually protecting ourselves from the thing that we want.
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  So we have to go into the thing that scares us, and that's a process.
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  And when you're in the human design process, that's daily life.
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  You start to notice your behavior in a different way.
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  And what I think is the beautiful thing about this, want to also
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  just say your frequency, your vibration, your vibe, your energy.
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  is confidence, right?
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  If you are in just like, I've got this energy is what I call it.
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  I've got this energy is just such unshakable confidence.
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  And that comes from having no other frequency, like fear, like anger, like
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  frustration, like, all of those not self themes that we have bitterness.
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  Those are going to be the big ones based on your type.
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  To not have those frequencies coming in to hijack the work that
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  you're doing on the outside world.
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  They are operating underneath.
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  And they will make you feel less confident.
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  They will make you feel ungrounded.
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  You will not be unshakable.
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  The circumstances of your life will start to pull you in
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  directions not of your choosing.
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  And you'll wonder why things aren't working.
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  I'm doing all the things, but none of it's working.
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  But when you believe in yourself and your worthiness, that's when you raise
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  your frequency, that's magnetism.
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  When we talk about magnetism with human design, it's because we are systematically
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  clearing your frequency of anything that doesn't belong there, anything that's
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  not serving, clearing that trauma, and you are usually not judging yourself.
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  Wow.
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  I always say the human design I think is the greatest tool for learning
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  how to love the shit out of yourself, unapologetically, and loving yourself
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  for who you truly are, right?
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  Because you can so clearly see and feel what your actual worth
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  is and what you're here for.
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  Not what the world told you to value and then seeing thinking about how you
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  feel you measure up to those standards.
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  That's the old way.
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  I see it time and time again with my clients that when they start to dig into
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  their chart and they get really curious about their stuff, a lot of times it
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  starts out with people looking at the chart and being like, I wish I had this,
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  I wish I didn't have that, this sucks.
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  And then over time, as they start to learn how to work with it,
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  they're like, Oh no, that's me.
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  I think a beautiful thing about that is to see that your
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  shadows are gifts in disguise.
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  Your shadows are gifts in disguise, and if you learn to work with them,
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  you can learn to hang out in your gifts far more than you do your shadows.
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  And when you do that, you will be able to manifest.
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  Because manifestation really is just being so energetically aligned with what
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  you want, that you're able to take action as well to meet the universe halfway.
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  That great things start happening to you.
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  Quantum leaps that everybody talks about.
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  They are a result of energetic alignment towards something, which
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  is just such unshakable belief that what you want is yours already.
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  That then nothing in the physical world gets in your way of pursuing that.
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  that I want you to think about this, think about anything that, you've held back on.
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  a podcast, launching a podcast, or putting out posts on social media,
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  launching anything that you have on your list that you want to do, that
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  sometimes you have trouble doing.
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  Recognize that some of that is either the fear of success that you have.
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  If I write the book, maybe I'm really going to get, make it big.
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  And there's part of you that's not ready for that.
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  The other side of this is that you are so afraid that it won't
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  work that you protect yourself.
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  If you had such unshakable belief where you were not afraid of the success,
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  that you had expanded yourself enough to be able to welcome in that level
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  of success, Or you cleared out all the fears and all of the, energy in you
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  that is keeping you from taking action, then you would be able to move without
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  problem in the direction of your dreams.
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  This is what human design trains you to do.
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  It trains you to one, let your dreams really be yours.
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  You'll notice you'll stop caring about some things as much as you did before.
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  You might have other things that you choose that feel right,
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  and you're going to have other opportunities start to come to you.
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  But it also just allows you, without judgment, to curiously look at
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  yourself to know what to look out for.
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  What are the gremlins hiding in your closet?
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  And how do you look out for those?
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  And it gives you tools, the way that I teach it, it gives you really deep
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  tools so that they don't come back.
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  So I, I'm partial to the way that I approach this work and the deconditioning
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  work, because it's both clearing out all of your old stuff and expanding
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  you to take on more, to receive more.
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  So when you sign up for that mastermind, or you go to that event, that you
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  walk in, like you own the place, like everybody there is lucky to talk to you.
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  So that is power and that is all what I'm going to be teaching
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  in the Authority Accelerator.
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  I'm going to break down the whole process of how you blend
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  energy, human design and strategy.
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  Deconditioning is going to be much more front and center in
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  this Authority Accelerator.
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  Because it's honestly, it's what gets people results
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  and I need y'all to hear it.
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  So you're going to hear me kind of break this down in a different way.
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  I'm going to take you through my process of how I get people results inside my
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  business by design mentorship, with the work that I do, my private clients,
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  all the people that I work with.
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  How do we get results with human design?
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  What does that really look like?
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  And we actually have some really exciting new ways to work with me.
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  There's so much that's going to happen.
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  So if you want to come to that masterclass and learn all of this, all you have
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  to do to register is go to Instagram.
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  I'm at Nicole Lano Official.
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  If you don't know already, please follow me and come over, send me a DM just
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  with the word masterclass and we'll register you right there in the DMs.
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  You don't even have to go to another link.
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  But if you prefer the website, you could do that too.
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  NicoleLano.
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  com forward slash masterclass.
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  Register you right there on the site and you'll be good to go.
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  You'll get some emails from us.
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  All that stuff.
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  We'll be reminding you of when everything is.
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  And you even get invited to some calls and things like that with me.
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  It's going to be really fun.
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  I hope to see you there.
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  It is the most value packed thing that we do here for free outside of this show.
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  So I would be very excited if you joined us.
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  Remember.
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  In order to have an unshakable business, you must first become an unshakable human.
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  So thanks for letting us help you become unshakable with human design, everybody.
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  We will see you next time.
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  Bye.
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  If you love this episode and you're a fan of the show, please show
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  us the love on iTunes, Spotify, or wherever you're listening to
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  the show and leave us a review.
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  And if you'd like to connect with other entrepreneurs on their human
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  design journey, join our free Facebook community, Human Design for Entrepreneurs.
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  Go to nicolelaino.
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  me forward slash podcast links to join the group, book a human
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  design reading with me, or access our free human design resources.
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  We'll see you there.