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Stop Chasing! How to Attract Your Twin Flame Faster · Twin Flame Guides

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  OK, so this is the question we got from you guys.
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  Hi, Stephen. Julia, So I saw your latest
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  video about how you can attract union faster, and it was a
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  channelled message from Metatron.
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  So it was about envisioning how life would be if you are back in
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  reunion with your twin. It does contradict the
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  surrendering or letting, letting go of the outcome.
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  So how to handle this contradiction?
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  Can you maybe handle this question in a poster video?
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  Yeah, I think it's a really, really good question because
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  it's easy to misinterpret this. We've read about other twin twin
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  guides who have been advising their followers to go and meet
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  their twin. It's a controversial thing
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  because on the one hand, you want to in some way be in
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  contact with them. You know, you want to talk to
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  them and like have an open channel of communication.
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  But at the same time, you don't want to, like you don't want to
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  harass them because that's just going to push them away even
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  further. You know, if you're in
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  separation in the running stage or whatever, that's for a reason
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  because they need to, you need to one or both of you needs to
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  heal and do work on yourself in some way.
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  So if you then like try and force it, I think it's just it's
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  just going to push them away even further.
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  So what we recommend is yes, visualise being back into
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  reunion or if you've never met them, visualise A presence that
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  your twin flame and you being in happy reunion, but don't try to
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  reach out to them like trying to meet them.
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  Yeah, because you've got to consider there's a, there's a
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  few things, right. So firstly, they might not be
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  your twin flame. That's a possibility.
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  So in in that case you don't want to like try and harass them
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  and force. Anything.
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  Be a stalker. Be a stalker.
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  Yeah, because they might not be your twin flame.
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  And secondly, if they are, then you are in the separation stage
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  for a reason. You need to do work on yourself
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  because they might not be your twin flame.
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  That is a possibility. Don't fixate specifically on one
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  person and like become obsessive over them.
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  I think instead just visualise a happy reunion with your twin
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  fame. Be open to the idea that that
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  might be a, with some with not this person with somebody else.
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  And B, it might take a while, you know, like it might take a
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  few months, maybe even years, depending on how much work you
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  need to do. And yeah, so fix, don't fixate
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  on the person, but at the same time, don't just stop thinking
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  about them. You know you.
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  Need to visualise something? Yeah, it's very natural that you
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  you that you obsess and think about your twin flame.
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  Of course it's the other part of your soul.
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  You're going to to think about them a lot.
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  That is very natural and that nothing you should be worried
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  about. But don't, don't stalk your twin
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  flame. Give them some space.
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  I mean, sure, we we had a bit of contact in the separation phase.
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  Yeah, yeah. It wasn't just complete, you
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  know, blind like we. Still talked.
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  Yeah, we still talked. We still texted.
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  But like, if they're saying they need space, like give them
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  space, Yeah. Be very respectful of your twin
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  flames boundaries. Yeah, yeah.
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  I think that's, that's really important advice because like,
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  yeah, we in our separation phase, we, we were talking, but
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  we weren't showing up at each other's gyms.
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  You know, we weren't like randomly turning up at work.
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  And you know, because I feel like that would have pushed,
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  that would have pushed us away. From Oh yeah.
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  Yeah, because we needed time during that during that period
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  to be alone and be like working ourselves.
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  Yeah. To heal, To heal.
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  Yeah. Yeah.
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  So give you twins space to heal. OK.
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  Continue doing your inner work, right.
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  That's the most important thing. Yeah.
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  Because especially as chasers, chasers might feel inclined to,
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  to contact them and try to get them back.
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  But you have to realise that it's, it's an inside job
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  reunion, right? Reuniting with the twin in the
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  first goal. It's just a byproduct of that.
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  Don't stalk your twin. Don't stalk your twin, yeah?