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Gary Owen Opens Up About His Divorce From Kenya Duke, Falling Out With His Kids, Healing + More · The Breakfast Club

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Speaker 1: Wait that answer in the morning Breakfast Club. Morning to
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Speaker 1: everybody is dch Envy Angela Yee Charlottage and the guy.
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Speaker 1: We are to breakfast Club. We got a special guest
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Speaker 1: in the building who's coming as himself today. What do
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Speaker 1: you mean remember last time he came a six nine.
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Speaker 1: That's a long time ago that he came with somebody
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Speaker 1: else before alone. But that was a long time ago,
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Speaker 1: and this last time we see him. No, it's not
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Speaker 1: just he had been up here at this once. Yeah, yeah, once,
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Speaker 1: old ladies and gentlemen, thank you. Man came. When did
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Speaker 1: I come last time? Married? I was getting married, get married?
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you were time. That was
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Speaker 1: a costume. That was a costume. That were you saying? Why? Kid?
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Speaker 1: We were going to say, ask how you were doing?
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Speaker 1: Was good? I was asking it before I got here,
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Speaker 1: Like how much longer are you here? I'm not absolutely
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Speaker 1: sure at the date, but they said fall so in
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Speaker 1: the aw sometimes I feel like you said that to
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Speaker 1: a black woman before in your life. Boy, but don't
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Speaker 1: have a date. I quit today. You know. They gotta
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Speaker 1: find replacements, so that takes a little time. I gotta
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Speaker 1: find my co host sot too much though, Yeah, in
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Speaker 1: order for us to throw that out there, we have
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Speaker 1: to announce it. I think it's better you just weren't here,
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Speaker 1: shut up, got a new show out, like like when
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Speaker 1: she got married, like nobody knew and it was just married. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Is that how you're going
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Speaker 1: to go about your life from that one? You know it?
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Speaker 1: What the hell happened? What? What do you okay? Let
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Speaker 1: they say what do you think happened? Well, according to
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Speaker 1: be to you last year, good job your wife at
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Speaker 1: the time, Ken your duke was slamming a woman she
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Speaker 1: believes to be your mistress. She said, you definitely know
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Speaker 1: who I am. You didn't care at Gary on Comedy
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Speaker 1: was is married and you don't seem the kid. He
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Speaker 1: still hasn't seen his kids, which is weird because you
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Speaker 1: are a baby mama. You read it like with it
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Speaker 1: at a time. That was the first was the fourth
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Speaker 1: thing that came out right, the first that was a
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Speaker 1: good one. Though. Know why because me and Duall and
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Speaker 1: Carlos Miller we always say black men don't cheat because
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Speaker 1: we don't. You know, so you was, you was out
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Speaker 1: here doing that and you know you've proven us right. No,
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Speaker 1: don't cheat. But and you spent a lot of money
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Speaker 1: too on the mistress. Because I saw that was part
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Speaker 1: of the story. What is did you cheat? Did you
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Speaker 1: have a mistress? Here's the thing. No good marriage ever
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Speaker 1: ended because of cheating. I'll put it that way. No
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Speaker 1: good marriage ever ended because of cheating. Bad marriages have,
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Speaker 1: but no good marriage. Now that's debatable. But that's a
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Speaker 1: great talking point, Gary, that's a good like that could
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Speaker 1: start a great conversation. But also, like I I left,
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Speaker 1: This whole narrative was like she left me because I
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Speaker 1: got caught cheating. Correct, I left. Really I filed first.
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Speaker 1: I made the phone call saying I don't want to
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Speaker 1: be divorced. I don't want to be married, so I
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Speaker 1: want to divorce. So when everything came out, I just
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Speaker 1: stayed quiet. But this whole narrative was I got caught
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Speaker 1: out there, she left me. That's not what happened. Okay,
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Speaker 1: I thought she filed for a divorce. No, I filed first,
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Speaker 1: she filed after me. What was it working? You just
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Speaker 1: you can get into all kinds of reasons, but the
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Speaker 1: end of the day is you're unhappy, and then you
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Speaker 1: you sit here and you stay in it for the
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Speaker 1: kids and everything else, and then you're like, God, I'm miserable.
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Speaker 1: And it's weird because you feel selfish for choosing your
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Speaker 1: own happiness. It's weird how that happens, because women always
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Speaker 1: say you're gonna be out there and you're gonna be
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Speaker 1: doing dirt and do this, do this? Leave? So what
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Speaker 1: I did, That's what I do. You try to make
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Speaker 1: it work at least we Yeah, a couple times, like
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Speaker 1: there was a I left a couple times we were
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Speaker 1: together twenty three years. There were a couple of times
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Speaker 1: that I left, but nobody knew. Wow. But this last time,
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Speaker 1: we're just like, I'm just just unhappy. So how is
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Speaker 1: it filming a show? The reality? Yeah? The reality said,
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Speaker 1: were you guys okay then? Or were you like, I'm
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Speaker 1: gonna try to stick it through? And we were. We
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Speaker 1: were in a good place during during the reality show,
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Speaker 1: but it was it was after that. I left once
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Speaker 1: after that, and then I left again. This last time,
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Speaker 1: I just went, I'm just I'm miserable. How should why
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Speaker 1: should we believe you? She said, you're a lying narcissist.
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Speaker 1: Gary isn't there to go to though? The narcissist part.
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Speaker 1: As soon as the guy leaves, he's a narcissist. A
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Speaker 1: narcissis would have made a comment, what do you mean
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Speaker 1: you said, I mean, come on now, but it's it's
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Speaker 1: that's that's always to go to the nurses. Um. The
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Speaker 1: one that got me that that you read it so
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Speaker 1: much about you, Like I was reading about myself, like Dany,
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Speaker 1: this dude's violent, and I was like, well, I'm reading
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Speaker 1: about myself the debat because I was. I was, I
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Speaker 1: was there, I was present. I liked being a dad.
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Speaker 1: I mean, there wasn't a time my kids never ruled
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Speaker 1: the bus, Like if I'm home, I'm taking him to
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Speaker 1: school picking them up, and if not home, she's doing ith,
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Speaker 1: going to practice, whether it was volleyball, basketball, going to games.
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Speaker 1: I didn't miss nothing. I didn't miss a birthday, you know.
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Speaker 1: I remember we think like a man too. July third,
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Speaker 1: twenty thirteen, and I caught we got off for like
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Speaker 1: five I got on the plane so I could make
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Speaker 1: sure I've made my daughter's birthday or eleventh birthday, to
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Speaker 1: make it back. I didn't go to sleep. Wow. I mean,
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Speaker 1: it's not like I deserve kudos for that. That's what
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Speaker 1: you're supposed to dad. Yeah, so I liked being a dad,
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Speaker 1: so now to be called a debbut one, you can't
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Speaker 1: be a debbut to adults. I've said that before, but
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Speaker 1: right now, like you can't be a debut. Okay they're grown. Okay, okay,
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Speaker 1: they're grown. Yeah you know, but um, it's also like
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Speaker 1: I haven't talked to him like a year and a
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Speaker 1: half or two kids. Yeah you haven't. Yeah, like I
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Speaker 1: just are mad at you. They're mad because I left
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Speaker 1: their mom though, so I left their mom. So what
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Speaker 1: so for people want to say, like what happened? Most marriages, right,
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Speaker 1: they don't work because of infidelity, money abuse, mental abuse.
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Speaker 1: So what was the reason why I didn't work? Why
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Speaker 1: couldn't y'all hold it together? What was the reason you
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Speaker 1: said you weren't happy? Why weren't you happy? Trump? I'm
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Speaker 1: just kidding for everything. No, I don't know that there's
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Speaker 1: a there's a lot of reasons. I mean, what's important
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Speaker 1: to me is like not to throw her to the
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Speaker 1: bus because I want my kids and her to still
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Speaker 1: have a good relationship and always have a good relationship.
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Speaker 1: So it doesn't mean no good to like get into
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Speaker 1: what she did, you know, but you know, I just
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Speaker 1: do you feel that she's lashing out because her feelings
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Speaker 1: are hurt, without question, and I know that. Does that
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Speaker 1: make you feel bad that obviously she's destroyed over that.
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Speaker 1: You guy've been together for twenty three years, long time.
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Speaker 1: That's why I don't go in on her. I get it.
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Speaker 1: I heard it. I heard her. I broke up the
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Speaker 1: family dynamic and everything. But even when I called. I
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Speaker 1: remember when I called, I didn't I said, hey, I'm
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Speaker 1: just not happy. I'm gonna file. You didn't do face
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Speaker 1: to face. I tried it the first time. I tried
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Speaker 1: it face to face. Okay, I want not doing that again.
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Speaker 1: So this one's going over. Let's just say I'm not
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Speaker 1: doing that again. Okay. I was like, we just went
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Speaker 1: over the phone. So when I called her and we
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Speaker 1: were talking, we talked for like five hours, and I
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Speaker 1: thought we were going to keep it quiet. We would
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Speaker 1: just be like and even she said we were a
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Speaker 1: good example of a married couple. Let's show how people
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Speaker 1: can get divorced with dignity and everything. And I don't
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Speaker 1: know what happened. TMZ got ahold of it, and I
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Speaker 1: don't know, but you know, I I filed in Ohio.
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Speaker 1: We had two residences. We had one in Ohio, one
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Speaker 1: in California. I filed for divorce in Ohio. She filed
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Speaker 1: in California. So I when I found it, when I
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Speaker 1: saw a TMZ, my lawyer callings, like, we think of
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Speaker 1: process servers on the way trying to serve you, because
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Speaker 1: that's a big deal. Hey, getting served, that's the whole
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Speaker 1: story itself. Me on the run. Oh my god. We
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Speaker 1: didn't want in h I mean, you didn't want to
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Speaker 1: get No, I didn't want to divorce in California, Ohio.
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Speaker 1: She filed in California. You get a half. They take
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Speaker 1: half in California or something like that. On board. No,
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Speaker 1: it's in Ohio. I don't want to know, but you know,
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Speaker 1: the process server. When my lawyer called is like, dude,
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Speaker 1: because I remember I was in Naples, Florida. It was
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Speaker 1: a Friday night. I had two shows. I get off
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Speaker 1: stage and I'm like, ah shit, because I'm getting text
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Speaker 1: messages and everybody sent me the links to BT and
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Speaker 1: people and all that. I'm like this, how this happened?
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Speaker 1: My lawyer said, you got a show? Say yeah, she goes,
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Speaker 1: you got cancel it. I said, what he means? She
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Speaker 1: was word you're gonna get served. What's that. I didn't
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Speaker 1: know what a process server was. She was, no, you understand,
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Speaker 1: she goes, the process server serves you. Chances are the
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Speaker 1: divorce could go down in California. That happens, That's what
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Speaker 1: she said. California is fifty fifty state between she can
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Speaker 1: get half of everything for the rest of your life.
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Speaker 1: I said, say, lest this show's over hundred people that night,
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Speaker 1: lest a run. If you look at my social media,
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Speaker 1: I don't make a post for like three months. I
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Speaker 1: switched my sale number my cell carrier because I'd be
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Speaker 1: watching the first four d eight. They'd be pinging them
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Speaker 1: until they kissed the killers. How did they ever catch you? No,
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Speaker 1: I was on the run, bro, Now I'm just going
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Speaker 1: to really. I went to Maine for a week. I
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Speaker 1: had the Appleachian Trail on West Virginia. I went to Montana.
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Speaker 1: I went to North South because I mean it was
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Speaker 1: I was rainy, mall straight cash on me. I canceled
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Speaker 1: on my credit cards. I was on the run, bro.
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Speaker 1: They almost got me. Colardo Springs almost got me. Springs, No,
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Speaker 1: calrad Springs almost got me. The guy chased me. I said,
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Speaker 1: I'm the last special. I said, I turned into Morris
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Speaker 1: chestnup from Boys in the Hood. I'm just chasing me down.
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Speaker 1: He tried to throw the paper. Mars got caught. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: Mars got caught. No I didn't. You didn't have a
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Speaker 1: pre nup. Then we didn't have done. We got married.
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Speaker 1: I mean still, I'm just asking because people who are
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Speaker 1: getting married now there's talk about pre nups. Yeah, you
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Speaker 1: should get one. No I didn't get No. Does she
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Speaker 1: work yeah, I mean she flips houses and she had
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Speaker 1: the travel company and stuff. So people will say, is
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Speaker 1: that you know, she sacrificed raising the kids while you
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Speaker 1: had your career. She deserves We we sacrificed. We raised
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Speaker 1: the kids together, you know what I mean. But if
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Speaker 1: you were there, because you were on the road, you
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Speaker 1: would travel and do it. Shows people would say, well,
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Speaker 1: doesn't she deserve she deserves half. No, no, no, she don't.
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Speaker 1: Twenty three years. That's a long time I've been with
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Speaker 1: my wife. That's what I'm getting at. I'm not gonna
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Speaker 1: say nothing bad about her, but you don't know the
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Speaker 1: whole story. Okay, don't ken to them for a year
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Speaker 1: and kids, Yeah that sucks. That ain't gonna lie because
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Speaker 1: did you try to call them? Oh, I've done everything.
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Speaker 1: I've done everything I have. I've gone to Greensboro because
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Speaker 1: my daughter's a day and t knocked on her door.
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Speaker 1: She wouldn't answer. I just I tried to see her
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Speaker 1: the airport one time, try to catch her. Then you know,
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Speaker 1: it's just it is what I I don't know what
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Speaker 1: to do at this point because I'm like blocked on
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Speaker 1: social media. I've gone to every outlet to try to
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Speaker 1: get ahold of my daughter. I went to Venmo, I
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Speaker 1: went to WhatsApp, and every time I reach out it's
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Speaker 1: like then I'm blocked. So it's like dang when you
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Speaker 1: send money, no no, no no Venmo, just say hi. Oh,
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Speaker 1: don't say hid I know money attached to it? Dad? Okay,
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Speaker 1: what did that go back? Because yore yo were doing
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Speaker 1: this together, like y'o were getting a divorce together. You
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Speaker 1: said you had a five hour conversation. You told the
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Speaker 1: kids and then wanted to go left with the kids
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Speaker 1: because we didn't tell the kids we were gonna like
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Speaker 1: wait and like do it together. And they had to
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Speaker 1: hear the TMZ that I found out, and then I
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Speaker 1: had to I had to lie to my daughter one
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Speaker 1: time because the processor was coming and I didn't know,
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Speaker 1: and she was supposed to come to Baltimore after it
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Speaker 1: hit the fan, and I was like, come to Baltimore
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Speaker 1: and we sit down and we just have a weekend
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Speaker 1: together and we could talk. And then I couldn't because
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Speaker 1: I wasn't she wasn't served yet and I wasn't serve.
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Speaker 1: So I had to tell my daughter. I said, you
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Speaker 1: can't come, because if if she's with me and she
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Speaker 1: gets served, I'm served. So it got like loving war
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Speaker 1: type deal, and it sucked because I had the lighter
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Speaker 1: and be like I had came out. I came up
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Speaker 1: with some reason. I don't know if I'm going to
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Speaker 1: the show in Baltimore, but I still I flew or
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Speaker 1: to um Arizona to hang out with her cousin, because
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Speaker 1: like it's important to be with somebody this weekend. So
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Speaker 1: I said, go go hang out with your cousin Arizona.
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Speaker 1: I got it, but I had that was that was
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Speaker 1: the one thing I lied about. I'm not sure you
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Speaker 1: can say you was ducking the process server. I don't
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Speaker 1: know what do you mean. I don't know if you
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Speaker 1: should get on the radio and it's already done. Though,
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Speaker 1: like that's done. Like we're we're in core right now.
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Speaker 1: We're going with the divorce is happening. Okay, Okay, it's not.
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Speaker 1: It's not final yet, but we're still hashing out stuff. No,
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Speaker 1: the process servers, they're unreal. They're unreal. Boogey man man,
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Speaker 1: you just make me scared of the process. But you
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Speaker 1: don't you don't know who it is and who wasn't.
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Speaker 1: Because I would never fly into a city I was
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Speaker 1: performing at because she kind of had a leg up
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Speaker 1: because my schedule's online. Right when I tell you I
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Speaker 1: stayed in the she's got served like this, she gets
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Speaker 1: this water. No, one time I was in I would
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Speaker 1: never fly into a city I was going to. So
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Speaker 1: one time I was in Baltimore. I flew into Pittsburgh
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Speaker 1: and drove to Baltimore and I stopped at like a
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Speaker 1: Bob Evans because I was in like an Amish country.
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Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm safe here. Also, one black dude walks in.
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Speaker 1: I go, what's he doing here? Dad? And he goes, yo,
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Speaker 1: carry I said, not today, not today. He came to me.
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Speaker 1: I'm throwing banana bread at the brother Grady chasing around.
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Speaker 1: Bob Evans said, bro stop chasing me. No, I don't know.
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Speaker 1: I ran away from him. I don't know. The other
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Speaker 1: white people in the restaurant gets scared when he starts
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Speaker 1: like what Yeah, They was like, what is going on? Dude?
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Speaker 1: I ain't that dude today. I'm like, you didn't scream
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Speaker 1: for help. I told my open I go start the car,
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Speaker 1: start the car. I got it in like duke boys. Ohio, Hio, okay, Ohio. Yeah.
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Speaker 1: It took took a lot, but we finally got she
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Speaker 1: got she got served before I did. And uh, you know,
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Speaker 1: it's just but what do you think is fair? Um?
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Speaker 1: I don't know. There's a lot of kids talk about
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Speaker 1: still because it's not final, but I mean, m I
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Speaker 1: don't want to want to say anything because it could
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Speaker 1: be using. So, you know, anyway, I think about twelve
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Speaker 1: dollars laughing. How did they catch her though? How did
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Speaker 1: they catch oh? Got her? We got her at a
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Speaker 1: Panera bread drive through. Stop paying somebody at the drive through.
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Speaker 1: It's like in the drive through games blocked in with
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Speaker 1: two cars and then the process servers like, let's go time,
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Speaker 1: And I was like, dude, this is not the born
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Speaker 1: identity he was with him had to be blue. No, no,
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Speaker 1: it was I didn't. Here's what happened. I hired a
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Speaker 1: process server and I paid twenty four seven surveillance. Like
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Speaker 1: would would not she would not come out the house.
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Speaker 1: She was like not coming out there like and the
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Speaker 1: process was like, she won't come out, nobel come out.
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Speaker 1: I said, act like you door dash. My son's always
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Speaker 1: ordering food. And then she was like. They was like
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Speaker 1: drop it at the door. Like we got the ring camera,
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Speaker 1: she goes, they just say drop it at the door.
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Speaker 1: I was like, dang it. So I had to hire
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Speaker 1: a different person, and me and her flew. We flew
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Speaker 1: in the Sacramento and so we don't want to fly
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Speaker 1: in to San Francisco, Oakland because we don't know she
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Speaker 1: got a lot of cousins in the bay. So we
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Speaker 1: went in the sack, got a rental car and drove
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Speaker 1: and I said, yo, she shops a lot and she
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Speaker 1: grocer shops a lot. I said. We pulled into a
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Speaker 1: safe way. She was pulling out. I said, no way,
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Speaker 1: and the processor was like, should get her now? I said, noah,
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Speaker 1: we can't. We can't block her in. We had a
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Speaker 1: follower like twenty minutes on the highway and I'm in
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Speaker 1: the back seat hiding because I didn't want to see
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Speaker 1: her in the passenger seats. Now I'm back and keep
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Speaker 1: ducking up and she goes. I think she knows this us,
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Speaker 1: like she has no clue. Come on, so we got her.
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Speaker 1: She went into Panera and she got blocked in and
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Speaker 1: then we got her. I hope you're telling the truth,
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Speaker 1: because man, if not, you are about the unleash of
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Speaker 1: black woman's going on your ass. I ain't saying nothing
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Speaker 1: bad about her, but you're saying something. You're talking period.
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Speaker 1: She's gonna have something to say, I know, but I'm
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Speaker 1: wondering why now. But I never said I'm not and
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Speaker 1: I won't say anything bad about it. This is just
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Speaker 1: what happened. Yeah, yeah, it happened like she got served
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Speaker 1: up Panera bread. I did file first. Nothing I said
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Speaker 1: didn't happen. But why why now, though, Like, why talk
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Speaker 1: about it now? Because it went quiet? It was quiet. Uh,
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Speaker 1: I don't know what. Everybody kept telling me, like you
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Speaker 1: should tell your side, and I'm honestly it's probably also
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Speaker 1: this is another effort for my kids to hear it. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: it's the road to you and Kenya being civil. Like
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Speaker 1: what do you think has to happen. I don't know.
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Speaker 1: I think the divorce has to become final first, and
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Speaker 1: then then we can start the healing process. Uh. But
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Speaker 1: right now it's like geez acaus other as. They can't
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Speaker 1: get you worried about her exposing your N word tape.
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Speaker 1: Oh god, that's ever happened? Nebraska. I'm an O House
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Speaker 1: state fan bro with your kids. So how do you like?
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Speaker 1: Because you're dad, so you gotta pay for ish? So
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Speaker 1: how does that work? Because you paid for college, paid
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Speaker 1: for this, paid for that. I'll be honest, I paid
17:20
Speaker 1: for the first year and a half at A and T.
17:22
Speaker 1: And then my daughter got really upset at me and
17:26
Speaker 1: she said, I don't want you paying anything else. Stop.
17:29
Speaker 1: But they really man man they mad man, Yeah yeah,
17:32
Speaker 1: And so I was just but like you know, we
17:34
Speaker 1: always talk about the betrayal part. The stuff that got
17:36
Speaker 1: me was like my circle, like I had to completely
17:40
Speaker 1: change it, like my my openers. They did some dirty
17:43
Speaker 1: stuff with the divorce, was like telling my kids stuff
17:46
Speaker 1: about me and things like that. And then my dad
17:48
Speaker 1: was the worst. My dad, Dad all that dad whole
17:51
Speaker 1: back bitch, Oh my dad did the bitch, bitch shit
17:56
Speaker 1: of bitches. You gotta ed us out probably right. No
17:58
Speaker 1: cousin this motherfucker. So when when a divorce hit the
18:04
Speaker 1: fan of the process of my dad kept calling, texting, man,
18:06
Speaker 1: call me, call me. I got your back, did it?
18:08
Speaker 1: And keep mind this is the dad that went around
18:10
Speaker 1: when I was growing up, and it kind of came
18:11
Speaker 1: back when I got in TV and movies. Weird how
18:13
Speaker 1: that happens this. So one of the weeks I was
18:17
Speaker 1: hiding out, I went to Sedona with um. This girl
18:21
Speaker 1: that I'm seeing right at this point, it's not missus
18:24
Speaker 1: side chick. This is June. We have been said. We
18:26
Speaker 1: had been separated since January. It hit the fan in
18:28
Speaker 1: March to them twenty one, that's that's who she was.
18:30
Speaker 1: Probably ken you was probably talking about. She's upset, Yeah,
18:32
Speaker 1: yeah about her. So, um, we were in Sedona and
18:37
Speaker 1: we went to Grand Canyon and I took a picture
18:39
Speaker 1: and I sent it to like five six people in
18:42
Speaker 1: my inner circle that letting people know I'm okay, keeping
18:44
Speaker 1: people up there and where I was. My dad was
18:45
Speaker 1: part of that, right, So my dad, I go to Cincinnati,
18:50
Speaker 1: like in July fourth last year, I go to Red's
18:53
Speaker 1: game and I got a suite and I'm still nobody's
18:57
Speaker 1: been served. I'm still being careful, you know. So I
18:59
Speaker 1: had to get a sweet because I didn't want somebody
19:01
Speaker 1: be like, here's peanuts and papers, you know what I mean?
19:03
Speaker 1: So I, uh, my dad got win, got mad. Then
19:07
Speaker 1: I ain't take him to the Reds game. Sends me
19:09
Speaker 1: a voicemail, cusses me out and everything. This sends in
19:11
Speaker 1: a long tech so I don't include him and stuff.
19:13
Speaker 1: And he's come to expect this from me, And I'm going,
19:15
Speaker 1: is he mad about a Reds game? I called him
19:18
Speaker 1: and we've done this before. We cussed his other We
19:19
Speaker 1: got an argument, cussed him out, he cussed me out.
19:22
Speaker 1: I cussed him out. Hung up this bitch. That picture
19:26
Speaker 1: of me and the girl he sent it to my ex. Wow,
19:29
Speaker 1: then that's how she found out. That's where that all
19:31
Speaker 1: came from. Then he posted the picture I sent on
19:34
Speaker 1: his Facebook page with the middle finger EMOE in front
19:37
Speaker 1: of it. Then he posted a picture of my ex
19:39
Speaker 1: wife on his Facebook page and said, I got you
19:41
Speaker 1: back to this divorce. You've always been like a daughter
19:43
Speaker 1: to me. I respect him. He don't like black people
19:45
Speaker 1: to poor black women. Don't like this mugg is a Trump.
19:50
Speaker 1: He's a Trump or Sumper. Like I ain't saying he
19:52
Speaker 1: was at the Capitol. He's at the monument when they rushed.
19:54
Speaker 1: He made a trip. I think he just got cool
19:56
Speaker 1: feet the last minute. Who does that? Today's son though
20:02
Speaker 1: that you went around though, oh my god, man post
20:06
Speaker 1: and then to give her like the only thing you did.
20:09
Speaker 1: You didn't hurt me. You didn't hurt that girl. You
20:12
Speaker 1: hurt my ex, and you hurt my kids with that.
20:15
Speaker 1: You didn't hurt me, you know what I mean? Now
20:18
Speaker 1: he's now, he's he's you know, he's um. He's always
20:21
Speaker 1: posted up on his uh Facebook about what a good
20:23
Speaker 1: mom they got, stuff like that. I'm like this, you bit,
20:28
Speaker 1: can you get him some red tickets? You really don't
20:30
Speaker 1: feel it a baseball game? Keep on? Motherfucking never took
20:34
Speaker 1: me to a baseball game growing up. Now, now is
20:37
Speaker 1: the new woman black? A white dude? Don't worry about that.
20:40
Speaker 1: I need to know they're always gonna be black. Why
20:44
Speaker 1: why I was singing medic Claudia Jordan. I remember when
20:47
Speaker 1: things were hit in the fan and then she was
20:48
Speaker 1: blaming Claudia for something that was um. So when I
20:52
Speaker 1: when I called and said I wanted to divorce. You know,
20:54
Speaker 1: you're you're so worried that you're quote unquote path this
21:00
Speaker 1: is gonna catch up with you basically, right. And so
21:04
Speaker 1: that weekend before I was in Dallas and I use
21:08
Speaker 1: the same trainer every time I go to Dallas, and
21:10
Speaker 1: Claudie introduced me to the trainer. It's it's a female trainer.
21:13
Speaker 1: So I guess she went to the trainer's page and
21:17
Speaker 1: saw a picture of me and her that I didn't
21:20
Speaker 1: tell her I took that picture with the trainer. Keep mind,
21:23
Speaker 1: it's a public place, which took a picture, and she
21:25
Speaker 1: just I guess she took that and was like, I
21:28
Speaker 1: must I must be sleeping with that trainer in Dallas,
21:32
Speaker 1: which wasn't true. And Claudie introduced me to the trainer basically.
21:36
Speaker 1: So that's how Claudia got in the middle of But
21:38
Speaker 1: that didn't happen. That didn't happen. How was this process affected,
21:41
Speaker 1: just you mentally and emotionally, because it can't be easy.
21:44
Speaker 1: I know you laughing at I'll tell you what though,
21:46
Speaker 1: A lot a lot of people reached out, like a
21:48
Speaker 1: lot of dudes that have been through messy divorces in
21:50
Speaker 1: our business. You know, I don't. I'm not gonna name names,
21:52
Speaker 1: but I'll keep our conversations private. But a lot of
21:55
Speaker 1: a lot of people. Um but mentally it gets to
21:58
Speaker 1: you sometimes that you've be in the car and you
22:00
Speaker 1: just be like the wrong song comes over. So yeah,
22:04
Speaker 1: it gets taxing a time because you're alone and like
22:07
Speaker 1: I was there the whole time my kids grew up,
22:10
Speaker 1: you know, so it's like to be now to have
22:12
Speaker 1: no like contact with them. It's like, would you ever
22:16
Speaker 1: tell the kid of the real story? I know you
22:18
Speaker 1: said that you wouldn't would tell the whole story because
22:21
Speaker 1: you don't want to guess make her look bad. But
22:23
Speaker 1: it's not looking bad. It's just like I don't want
22:27
Speaker 1: it's it's not my place. Really, it's not my place
22:30
Speaker 1: to tell it. She could tell it if she wants to.
22:35
Speaker 1: Three I'm not you know. But here's the thing with
22:39
Speaker 1: with the divorce too. We always asked what the man did.
22:42
Speaker 1: We always do that every time the divorce the man
22:46
Speaker 1: had to do something. It's like this, We never like
22:48
Speaker 1: say look what what like if it's a bad marriage's
22:51
Speaker 1: bad mirror? Because when I called her and said I
22:52
Speaker 1: wanted the divorce and I said, Yo, I just I
22:56
Speaker 1: think you're gonna be happier. I'm gonna be happier. I said,
22:58
Speaker 1: I want you because she was say like I need
23:00
Speaker 1: this from me, this ory and this year, I said,
23:02
Speaker 1: and I couldn't give it to you anymore. I just couldn't.
23:03
Speaker 1: So I was like, I want you to be happy.
23:06
Speaker 1: I want you to find somebody else. And you know,
23:08
Speaker 1: there's no malicious intent on my part. I thought that's
23:12
Speaker 1: the route we was going. But but you get you know,
23:15
Speaker 1: I also knew that you know, she was. I think
23:20
Speaker 1: it's like, as a woman, you're like, what what didn't
23:22
Speaker 1: I do right? And he had to be doing something else,
23:25
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? But we never asked what
23:26
Speaker 1: the woman? Don't it? Love? And never anticipate that things
23:31
Speaker 1: were in this way? You know, just think about like
23:34
Speaker 1: the earlier days and you think things are forever and
23:37
Speaker 1: we just love each other, and then you never expect
23:40
Speaker 1: people to just be at war like this, yeah, which
23:44
Speaker 1: is the very one side of war. Come not really
23:46
Speaker 1: at war. I just want to get I want to
23:49
Speaker 1: I want to have a relationship with my kids again. Obviously,
23:51
Speaker 1: because like I had a show in Sacramento about a
23:53
Speaker 1: month ago and our oldest, my stepson, his aunts came
23:59
Speaker 1: to my show and I got worried. So his aunts
24:02
Speaker 1: on his real dad's side, you know, and I saw him.
24:04
Speaker 1: They was at the meet and greet and I was like,
24:06
Speaker 1: oh no, I didn't know what was coming at me.
24:09
Speaker 1: And I looked at him and they walked up on
24:11
Speaker 1: the stage and I said, are you mad at me?
24:13
Speaker 1: And they said no, we can never even matter. You
24:14
Speaker 1: took care of our Emelio like, so they acknowledge like, oh,
24:18
Speaker 1: through all whatever whatever, like you know, they was like
24:21
Speaker 1: they saw the bigger picture, like, oh, you basically raised
24:25
Speaker 1: the kid that wasn't yours, you know what I mean?
24:27
Speaker 1: And now he's he's he's cool. President society during that time,
24:30
Speaker 1: how did you make money because you were on the road,
24:33
Speaker 1: you weren't doing shows, you were hiding and ducking. But
24:36
Speaker 1: you still have two mortgages you still have to pay
24:38
Speaker 1: for King. How did you keep the money coming in? Yeah,
24:41
Speaker 1: we still have those numbers. No, I was, I was
24:43
Speaker 1: still on on the road. I was just careful. Now
24:46
Speaker 1: I would tell the clubs, I call it clubs A look,
24:48
Speaker 1: I ain't been served. I need secur like we would
24:50
Speaker 1: have security like in the front, almost like plants, like
24:53
Speaker 1: undercover cops. I said, I need I need one of
24:55
Speaker 1: your security guys in the front. If anybody gets up,
24:59
Speaker 1: they cannot come towards the stage. Baltimore had like a
25:02
Speaker 1: plastic hockey thing around it, the Baltimore County Like I
25:05
Speaker 1: felt like I was playing for the Rangers. You were
25:07
Speaker 1: preparing for comedians getting attacked long before you'repelling Chris. Yeah. Yeah,
25:11
Speaker 1: because there was one time, one time in Baltimore. Uh,
25:14
Speaker 1: somebody tried to give my opener a Manila envelope because yeah,
25:18
Speaker 1: I got this show in Pittsburgh for Gary. I was like,
25:19
Speaker 1: that's not how we do things. And he came in
25:21
Speaker 1: the back and he's like, yo, this guy said, you
25:23
Speaker 1: can't accept anything. You just gets in the lobby pumping
25:27
Speaker 1: his social media everything. I said, you can't accept nothing.
25:29
Speaker 1: Because you accept something, I could be served. So that
25:32
Speaker 1: could have been another instance. I don't know, you don't
25:34
Speaker 1: know who's a problem to them. Dude's a trick and
25:36
Speaker 1: that could do. In Karlo Springs, he almost got me
25:38
Speaker 1: bro almost. But ahead, now go ahead. The portrayal parts
25:42
Speaker 1: the worst. Why do you keep saying portrayal, Like what
25:45
Speaker 1: are my dudes man, like people your opening comedians, they
25:50
Speaker 1: just they dirty. Man, that's dirty. You don't tell like,
25:56
Speaker 1: no matter what happens, you don't ever go to some
25:58
Speaker 1: dude's family and talk about especially do put money in
26:01
Speaker 1: your pocket so to to to go to my kids
26:04
Speaker 1: and everything and talk shit about me. I'm like and
26:07
Speaker 1: telling them stuff like why would you tell them that?
26:10
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? So, I just how you
26:12
Speaker 1: hold you Your youngest she's twenty, she's a she's at
26:16
Speaker 1: A and T in Greensburg. You missed the twenty first
26:19
Speaker 1: birthday of the other ones you those those those monumental. Yeah,
26:23
Speaker 1: I never missed the birthday. And then he's last. I
26:25
Speaker 1: missed the last two for both geez, and I'm hoping
26:28
Speaker 1: that that gets better. Yeah. So that's why when Charlman
26:31
Speaker 1: said why you coming on, I go, well, eventually I
26:33
Speaker 1: was gonna have to talk anyways. I mean, you don't
26:35
Speaker 1: have to, but eventually, you know you gotta. You gotta
26:38
Speaker 1: dress elphin in the room. I did in my special
26:40
Speaker 1: little bit. I was going to ask you that how
26:41
Speaker 1: does this play into your stand up? Now? I've heard
26:44
Speaker 1: when Marlon Wayne was up here, he said anything can
26:46
Speaker 1: be funny. But how do you turn this into material
26:49
Speaker 1: at all? Oh no, it's funny, Like you can turn funny.
26:52
Speaker 1: You don't have you don't have to. You don't have
26:54
Speaker 1: to make it about her and what she did and
26:56
Speaker 1: make her to be some evil person. But you can
26:58
Speaker 1: make anything funny. I kind addressed in my last special
27:01
Speaker 1: a little bit. But the new one, I'll hopefully it'll
27:05
Speaker 1: be final by them and then I could just talk
27:07
Speaker 1: and it's not even about her, It's about me. What
27:10
Speaker 1: was I feeling, what was I going through? Why did
27:12
Speaker 1: I do what I did, and where I'm at now
27:15
Speaker 1: with with with my life. Are you nervous about your
27:18
Speaker 1: black fan base, especially women black women? Nah, they're good,
27:21
Speaker 1: they're rocking with you. Yeah, because when it was funny too,
27:23
Speaker 1: I was some city and I was in my hotel
27:26
Speaker 1: for like eight days straight, and you're just reading the
27:28
Speaker 1: internet and you're just like you go crazy, but there's
27:32
Speaker 1: nothing else to do, Like you're like, you're just in
27:34
Speaker 1: your room and I can only watch so much TV,
27:37
Speaker 1: so you just you're And it's funny because the blog
27:40
Speaker 1: sites that I read I keep popping up. I go, ah,
27:42
Speaker 1: wake up, like again something else. So it starts the
27:45
Speaker 1: best with your psyche a little bit, and then um,
27:49
Speaker 1: somebody called me and made sense that. They said, your
27:52
Speaker 1: talent is not going to allow you to go broke.
27:55
Speaker 1: They said that to me, and I said, I need
27:56
Speaker 1: to hear that. And then I was in a I
27:58
Speaker 1: was on stage when the first time I got on
27:59
Speaker 1: stage after shit hit the fan, and this lady in
28:02
Speaker 1: the back, I'm like forty five minutes in my act.
28:03
Speaker 1: She goes, I love your little cheat masks and I go,
28:06
Speaker 1: you don't know, how about I need to hear that,
28:08
Speaker 1: not that word. But she's like, we don't care. What
28:12
Speaker 1: did you cheat? Gary? That's the thing everybody wants to
28:14
Speaker 1: know that I won't can you don't let us know?
28:17
Speaker 1: Since you don't want to tell, she'll let us. Yeah. Yeah,
28:23
Speaker 1: but if you did, you did. If you did you did,
28:26
Speaker 1: you know you did. But you know, I'm I'm going
28:30
Speaker 1: back when you if you're just so unhappy in a marriage,
28:34
Speaker 1: you're just like, I can't keep I can't keep doing this. Yeah,
28:38
Speaker 1: And it's bad as a as a dude, because you're
28:40
Speaker 1: in there for the kids, You're trying to be there
28:42
Speaker 1: for him, but then you're just like, I can't do it. Anymore.
28:45
Speaker 1: He was already emotionally mentally disconnected, completely checked out, completely,
28:49
Speaker 1: like he was just like your roommates. And I was like,
28:53
Speaker 1: I can't. I just can't do it anymore. Now. Did
28:55
Speaker 1: I think it would be this bad with the kids? No,
28:59
Speaker 1: that I think it would be bad this bad with her? Yes,
29:02
Speaker 1: I was. I was mentally prepared for her last out
29:04
Speaker 1: because you're kind of blowing up the spot a little bit.
29:07
Speaker 1: You know, you're coming in going I don't want to
29:08
Speaker 1: be married anymore. And I think I can't speak for her,
29:11
Speaker 1: but I think women are like, oh, why wasn't I
29:13
Speaker 1: good enough? You know what I mean? Ye to figure
29:15
Speaker 1: out like what the kids like? He was there. So
29:17
Speaker 1: the fact that you with your daughter, like, can you
29:19
Speaker 1: imagine your daughter not talking to you ever again? Yeah,
29:21
Speaker 1: because that's your daughter. Your daughter probably hates how you
29:23
Speaker 1: did mom, And but what you still would talk to
29:25
Speaker 1: you because she still would want to get both sides,
29:27
Speaker 1: She still want to have a conversation, She still would
29:28
Speaker 1: want to have that relationship. Yeah, but she don't want
29:30
Speaker 1: to hear that even if even if what you say
29:32
Speaker 1: it makes perfect sense, like you're emotionally mentally disconnected, but kid,
29:36
Speaker 1: nobody still wants to hear that, you know what I mean,
29:38
Speaker 1: like still working out with mom? Yeah, because you want
29:40
Speaker 1: you want to you know, and I and you know,
29:42
Speaker 1: and my daughter's eyes and my son's eyes. It's like
29:45
Speaker 1: you did her wrong. You know? How could you do
29:47
Speaker 1: that to her? Blah blah blah. I'm just going can we?
29:49
Speaker 1: And my thing is to sit on my kids. I
29:51
Speaker 1: don't want to talk. I want to listen. I want
29:54
Speaker 1: to hear how they felt when it happened. How do
29:56
Speaker 1: you feel about me now? And then we could? I
29:59
Speaker 1: think it would really hurt them the most. Probably it's
30:01
Speaker 1: finding out through TMZ. Yeah. That's because you go to
30:05
Speaker 1: school with your classmates and then all of a sudden
30:07
Speaker 1: it's bang, and it's like and it got it got
30:09
Speaker 1: dropped on like Friday night, Like I'm sure my daughter
30:11
Speaker 1: was out with her friends and stuff like that. My
30:13
Speaker 1: son I was just like this, oh Friday night, not
30:16
Speaker 1: like Tuesday morning. Do you think you sabotaged the marriage
30:20
Speaker 1: on purpose because you was ready to be out? So
30:21
Speaker 1: it's like, you know what catch me? I don't care, uh,
30:25
Speaker 1: I mean there's there's some validity to that. I don't
30:28
Speaker 1: think that was my mindset. I just think it was
30:31
Speaker 1: more like I just I couldn't. I just couldn't do
30:34
Speaker 1: it anymore. And I think with with her with me
30:37
Speaker 1: filing first, her betrayal was, how so you planned this?
30:42
Speaker 1: That's that was her thing, Like you planned this, you
30:44
Speaker 1: went and got a lawyer, and you had you've been
30:47
Speaker 1: you've been like leaving me on and you knew this
30:49
Speaker 1: was coming. But I was like, in my mind, I
30:52
Speaker 1: was like I had to do that. That's how divorce works.
30:55
Speaker 1: You get to lawyer, you got to protect yourself, and
30:57
Speaker 1: then you call and you hope, you know, work it out.
31:00
Speaker 1: But because it was, it was odd when it was
31:03
Speaker 1: like you're reading all these people going, I'm glad she
31:05
Speaker 1: left that dusty white devil, you know what I mean.
31:07
Speaker 1: I was like this, she didn't know, you know I
31:10
Speaker 1: left first. You're not denying you're a dusty white devil
31:16
Speaker 1: the key word. Okay, it's true, man, damn man. So
31:24
Speaker 1: you don't think, y'all that would be even cool again?
31:26
Speaker 1: I do. One day I can laugh about like my
31:31
Speaker 1: part in the divorce, I can own it with her.
31:33
Speaker 1: I'll keep that between us and everything, but also her
31:36
Speaker 1: part in it, like I eventually I'll be able to
31:40
Speaker 1: laugh about it. I know, I know I'm not really
31:41
Speaker 1: malicious like that. I'm not. I don't have malicious bones
31:44
Speaker 1: in my body to like, except for my dad, So listen,
31:46
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not saying she did. But if she
31:49
Speaker 1: did cheat on you, was it get back for what
31:51
Speaker 1: you was doing? M hmm. Because the male legal is
31:56
Speaker 1: very fragile, we can dish you, we can't take it
31:58
Speaker 1: unless you're unless you're emotionally checked out. Unless you're emotionally
32:02
Speaker 1: checked out, then I think that's like you. And this
32:05
Speaker 1: is one thing too. If if you're with a woman
32:07
Speaker 1: and even the thought of her cheating doesn't affect you, yeah,
32:10
Speaker 1: you should probably get out. I agree with you. You
32:11
Speaker 1: should probably get out like it. It wouldn't have like
32:14
Speaker 1: if she would have came to me at the point
32:15
Speaker 1: when I filed, If she would have came in be like,
32:18
Speaker 1: well I'm seeing somebody else. I would have been like good, Yeah,
32:22
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like good, Yeah, that way
32:24
Speaker 1: you're you. You can focus your energy on him and
32:28
Speaker 1: move on. Hopefully he's the right guy for you. People
32:30
Speaker 1: don't discuss that enough. What you're talking about just being
32:32
Speaker 1: emotionally disconnected because it's always like like named all those things,
32:36
Speaker 1: early abuse and cheating it sometimes things just run his course.
32:39
Speaker 1: And there wasn't none of that. There was no mental
32:42
Speaker 1: physical abuse with me and her or the kids. None
32:45
Speaker 1: of that ever happened. Like it just it just didn't.
32:50
Speaker 1: We did a while back and then but this time
32:54
Speaker 1: therapy would have been just spinning the wheels. Like I
32:57
Speaker 1: knew I was out. I knew it, and I just
33:00
Speaker 1: and the thing was, I stayed in it longer than
33:02
Speaker 1: I should have for the kids, and I didn't want
33:05
Speaker 1: to hurt nobody. So you're just staying in it and
33:08
Speaker 1: you're coming home going, man, I don't want to be here.
33:11
Speaker 1: I don't want to be here. And we had, you know,
33:15
Speaker 1: we just was like I just didn't want to be there.
33:16
Speaker 1: That bad thing is, even with your kids, they're never
33:18
Speaker 1: gonna like your new relationship, regardless of how great the
33:22
Speaker 1: woman is, they're never gonna like it because they're always
33:24
Speaker 1: going to look at that as a disrespect your mom.
33:26
Speaker 1: That's gonna be a tough thing to Yeah, it could be,
33:28
Speaker 1: but how does she feel about and another black woman too? Yeah,
33:32
Speaker 1: I promise you if it was another race, it probably
33:33
Speaker 1: would have been a little she took it a little different.
33:35
Speaker 1: Really think. I don't think so. I think it'd been worse. Yeah, don't.
33:38
Speaker 1: If he would have left, Let's say he would have left,
33:39
Speaker 1: and he would have left with a white woman, and
33:41
Speaker 1: they posted a white woman. It makes sense. Dusty white devil,
33:44
Speaker 1: dusty white devil, and think about that. Yeah, that's what
33:46
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Like this, But how is a new woman
33:52
Speaker 1: dealing with it? How is she dealing with everything? Because
33:54
Speaker 1: I'm keeping everything. I'm not about to go there. And
33:58
Speaker 1: why would you trust her? Though? Who a new woman?
34:01
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? Why would you trust her
34:03
Speaker 1: to keep things quiet? You don't have a baby on
34:05
Speaker 1: the way, do you know? I don't have a No,
34:07
Speaker 1: I don't have tens. I'm just kidding. I'm saying, why
34:11
Speaker 1: would you trust her? Let's look, man, let's focus on right,
34:17
Speaker 1: let's focus in the past. Let's foke on this white
34:22
Speaker 1: devil trustiest? Oh man, I just want to I guess yeah,
34:28
Speaker 1: because he was like, why would you come on and
34:29
Speaker 1: say it? Now? I go, I guess. I figured this
34:32
Speaker 1: was the right platform, and I knew coming on here
34:35
Speaker 1: like I could really say my piece without being so emotionally. Um,
34:40
Speaker 1: how do you call it? Separate? At this point, like
34:43
Speaker 1: I can just speak on the facts and not be like, well,
34:47
Speaker 1: this is what she was doing and this is how
34:48
Speaker 1: she was feeling. I can't speak on that. I just
34:50
Speaker 1: tell my part. I left, I wasn't happy. I own
34:54
Speaker 1: what I did between us. She knows, and I don't
34:57
Speaker 1: have to and I don't have to bring up dirt
34:59
Speaker 1: on her, talk bad about her. It's pointless, doesn't help.
35:02
Speaker 1: It's just another thing for the blogs to talk about.
35:06
Speaker 1: We actually have Kenya and the would you like to
35:07
Speaker 1: talk to you mother? We do have that thing called
35:13
Speaker 1: what's that thing called? What's it called that? Fair? Fair
35:16
Speaker 1: air trade? You know when somebody comes up and tells
35:19
Speaker 1: their side. So free she wants to come up. We
35:22
Speaker 1: had to feel free, look feel free, and she can
35:26
Speaker 1: air whatever she wants about me. You know, that's on her.
35:30
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that. I'm not. I don't think she would,
35:33
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, I don't think she was.
35:34
Speaker 1: You got Instagram, Well you're still part of the well dud,
35:37
Speaker 1: She's she's going in so much like man, it was
35:40
Speaker 1: like getting that, It was like it was like getting
35:42
Speaker 1: a fight with freaking Tyson Fury she's coming. Did you
35:46
Speaker 1: ever hit her? And like be like could you? I never? Never? Never, no, no, no.
35:56
Speaker 1: But here's and it sucks because it is loving. More
35:58
Speaker 1: like I am literally follow in the advice of my
36:01
Speaker 1: legal team attorney where they said you can't reach out
36:04
Speaker 1: because it comes up in court. Yeah, anything you do
36:08
Speaker 1: comes up in court. So I'm like, they said you,
36:10
Speaker 1: I know it sucks, but you have stocked communication with
36:13
Speaker 1: her kids. Oh my gosh, April or May last year
36:20
Speaker 1: twenty one, Like she's text a couple of times and
36:24
Speaker 1: stuff like that, but as far as me responding, it's
36:27
Speaker 1: been a while, just because I'm once the divorce is final,
36:31
Speaker 1: what I hope is like then I can call her anybody.
36:35
Speaker 1: Let's sit down and if you got to yell at me,
36:37
Speaker 1: yell at me and get it off your chest, just
36:39
Speaker 1: calling it in a reason being because you know who
36:40
Speaker 1: the real winners as your attorneys. But he can't attorney
36:44
Speaker 1: and her attorney are caking off. Yeah, that's whatever they
36:47
Speaker 1: gotta do. They Oh my goodness that I would have
36:49
Speaker 1: hate to see that build. But I've seen how they
36:51
Speaker 1: do it in court. I see how they take your
36:54
Speaker 1: words or something you do and just completely twitch you like,
36:57
Speaker 1: that's that's not what happened. That's that was a Joe
37:00
Speaker 1: I said on stage or things like that, like God
37:03
Speaker 1: and every every every dime you spend. They're bringing up
37:07
Speaker 1: like they they got upset. I went to the super Bowl.
37:09
Speaker 1: I mean waiting the Bengals my whole life to go
37:11
Speaker 1: to super Bowl. And they were like, hey, what dude,
37:14
Speaker 1: Like I'm like, I'm tricking off my money on the
37:17
Speaker 1: super Bowl. They didn't know I made money on the
37:19
Speaker 1: super Bowl because I bought uh Dwayne Wade and Gab
37:23
Speaker 1: got the suite at so Far Susan Bengals went, they
37:26
Speaker 1: couldn't go. I bought the tickets off Duwayne. He said
37:29
Speaker 1: how many you want? I said eight, give me all eight?
37:32
Speaker 1: About all eight at costs for him, So he didn't
37:35
Speaker 1: make no money and lose money. I just based paid
37:37
Speaker 1: for him, so I was able to and I and
37:38
Speaker 1: I that's what I wanted. I want to take my
37:40
Speaker 1: kids to the super Bowl. That's when I flew to
37:43
Speaker 1: Greensboro and try to see my daughter. It was Saturday,
37:46
Speaker 1: Super Bowl Sunday, and I knocked and she wouldn't answer,
37:48
Speaker 1: and I was like, I was trying to get her like,
37:49
Speaker 1: come on, I got a plane go and she wouldn't go.
37:52
Speaker 1: And then, uh so I took some other people, but
37:55
Speaker 1: I sold the unused tickets and made made money off
37:59
Speaker 1: the super Basically it is Dwayne and Wade know this
38:02
Speaker 1: what that you made money off his tickets? The boy, Yeah,
38:05
Speaker 1: y'all bought off you know what I mean. But as
38:06
Speaker 1: a friend, he was like, but I took. I took
38:10
Speaker 1: people in Dwayne's crew as a thank you, like the
38:13
Speaker 1: you know, you know Sean, I don't know if you
38:14
Speaker 1: get no Chantelle Shantell's and yeah, I took Seantell because
38:19
Speaker 1: she's the one that helped facilitate the deal between me
38:21
Speaker 1: and Dwayne everything, Chante, Roxy, Terry Chantelle. Yeah, so I
38:26
Speaker 1: took Yeah. Yeah, So I told her, I said, I said, dude,
38:29
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you two tickets because you helped seal
38:32
Speaker 1: the deal and my kids wasn't going now, so I
38:34
Speaker 1: just she went and everything. So it was like I
38:36
Speaker 1: made money off Super Bowl. It wasn't like I went
38:38
Speaker 1: and and and tricked off. I actually made money off
38:41
Speaker 1: those you ret flirting with Windy Williams and like str show.
38:45
Speaker 1: Well I did not, Yes, she did, asked me out.
38:48
Speaker 1: I didn't. Oh, yeah, she did ask you. You went
38:52
Speaker 1: out with her? Right? You went out with her? Right?
38:53
Speaker 1: I met in a public place. That's going out. Still, No,
38:57
Speaker 1: when you catch er home and two and from that's
39:01
Speaker 1: not that's going out. No, you was outside public place.
39:04
Speaker 1: I thought it was gonna be with a group. So
39:07
Speaker 1: I did not go on a date. I'm not going out, Gary,
39:11
Speaker 1: did not? She she publicly asked you out on television.
39:13
Speaker 1: Then you met her later that day at a restaurant.
39:17
Speaker 1: That's going out. Gary. That's my thing with this is
39:20
Speaker 1: why wouldn't I? Why wouldn't I if someone like her
39:24
Speaker 1: and you don't even think of as a mogul, but
39:25
Speaker 1: she is. She she rolled the dice on her radio
39:28
Speaker 1: show and got her own talk show, and everyone's like
39:32
Speaker 1: you crazy, you making cake on your radio show and
39:34
Speaker 1: it worked out. So why wouldn't I get a chance
39:37
Speaker 1: to go one on one? And just like, how did
39:39
Speaker 1: that work? How'd you do that? Like I'd be stupid?
39:42
Speaker 1: We always say like you should always people doing better
39:45
Speaker 1: than you're not better than you. But people have done
39:46
Speaker 1: stuff that you haven't done in your world, like picked
39:49
Speaker 1: their brain, would stuff. So it was one No, there
39:54
Speaker 1: was other people around though, in the restaurant when there
39:58
Speaker 1: was other people sitting with her about your your wife
40:01
Speaker 1: was mad about that though we ex wife was mad
40:02
Speaker 1: about that. I don't know, I don't think so nothing
40:04
Speaker 1: happened there. She vented it. She was on Instagram. She
40:07
Speaker 1: I think she was more upset of what I said
40:09
Speaker 1: on the end of Wendy, you know what I mean.
40:11
Speaker 1: So it's it sucks, But how much longer you think
40:15
Speaker 1: this is going to go on in court before you
40:17
Speaker 1: finalize things? Well, we got media, Well we finally greed
40:20
Speaker 1: the mediation, so that's coming up, and then if we don't,
40:24
Speaker 1: if that don't work out, we go to we go
40:27
Speaker 1: to trial in October. So hopefully for the end of
40:29
Speaker 1: the year it'll be over with mediation. Is a good sign, though,
40:31
Speaker 1: I hope, because that's all I want. Just let's just
40:33
Speaker 1: be fair, let's just move on, because we can't get
40:35
Speaker 1: this time back. And because I was looking forward to
40:39
Speaker 1: going to Auntie's home coming, you know what I mean,
40:41
Speaker 1: You can still go. It'll be awkward, you know what
40:44
Speaker 1: I mean, Like, definitely be awkward because you'd be there
40:46
Speaker 1: by yourself, your daughter walk right by you, not speak
40:48
Speaker 1: right for the love your children makes perfect sense to me.
40:50
Speaker 1: So what's that fighting for the love your children makes
40:52
Speaker 1: perfect snaps to me. Yeah. Man, that's the weird part
40:55
Speaker 1: because I didn't have the examples. I didn't have, like
40:57
Speaker 1: my dad went around and then my stepdad was kind
41:00
Speaker 1: of a dick. So it was just like I ain't
41:01
Speaker 1: had the examples. So as when you become a dad,
41:04
Speaker 1: like I didn't know what to do, but I knew
41:06
Speaker 1: what not to do, So there was no you ain't this.
41:09
Speaker 1: I always made sure I uplifted my kids and spoke
41:13
Speaker 1: highly of them. They did. Then you know, Sun got
41:16
Speaker 1: cut from the team. All right, let's let's go practice.
41:19
Speaker 1: Stuff like that, Like I would have coached all his
41:21
Speaker 1: sports teams if I was in town a lot because
41:23
Speaker 1: the commedity we're leaving. Yeah, but there was like you know,
41:26
Speaker 1: when I came home, I never missed a practice, never
41:29
Speaker 1: missed a game, none of that stuff, Like if I
41:32
Speaker 1: could make a game, Like there was times like I
41:34
Speaker 1: had a show, uh and I if I could make
41:36
Speaker 1: it back to Cincinnati for the game, I'd fly back
41:39
Speaker 1: and to make it back to my show that I
41:41
Speaker 1: was in DC. I remember one time they I direct
41:44
Speaker 1: flights I had to get back since he went to
41:46
Speaker 1: his game and flew back to make my show just
41:49
Speaker 1: because I wanted to see his game. I enjoyed it
41:51
Speaker 1: like I enjoyed going to their stuff, the recitals and everything.
41:55
Speaker 1: So that's that's what sucks. Well, I'm really hoping this
41:58
Speaker 1: all works out soon for you a little. Now, I'm
42:00
Speaker 1: about to sit back and watch the rebuttal rebuttals are
42:02
Speaker 1: gonna be amazing this interview. Huh rebuttal from I didn't
42:06
Speaker 1: say nothing bad and you are on tour right that
42:10
Speaker 1: we outside to outside tour? Yeah, that's coming. We started
42:13
Speaker 1: late September, y'all making like three dollars a show nowhere
42:17
Speaker 1: on that so good? Yeah, yeah, so you know I'm
42:21
Speaker 1: just doing it. I'm charring. Man, Gary, We appreciate you
42:26
Speaker 1: for she's here. This is the most unfunniest interview I've
42:30
Speaker 1: done here. I thought it was hilarious. I'n't finding highly music.
42:36
Speaker 1: Who's your mouth? Rushmore comedy guy? Me all four faces?
42:41
Speaker 1: All four Why would I think somebody's funnier in me?
42:45
Speaker 1: Say funny? What me in the nineties and me in
42:52
Speaker 1: the two thousand and twenties? All versions of meh single
42:55
Speaker 1: Gary four got married, Gary married, Gary, I'm happily married,
42:59
Speaker 1: and Gary divorce. Those are my four favorite comedians. You
43:02
Speaker 1: know what I mean? What do you think I was
43:03
Speaker 1: gonna say the normal? I was gonna say the normal. Yeah, Dave, Eddie,
43:07
Speaker 1: go Chris the normal Mount Rushmore. Can we get a
43:12
Speaker 1: different statue? Are they the goats? Are they? I don't know?
43:17
Speaker 1: You tell me the subjective? To me, Chris and Chris
43:20
Speaker 1: is definitely one of the goats. I mean, Dave's a
43:21
Speaker 1: goat dependent. I think Chris is a stand uple goat.
43:24
Speaker 1: Dave is a TV stand uple goat. Um, yeah, Chris
43:31
Speaker 1: and Dave, Eddie, Yeah, I put Eddie, I mean yeah.
43:34
Speaker 1: Eddie was the first time stand up special albas actually Raw.
43:37
Speaker 1: When I was a kid, I wasn't delirious. Which one
43:38
Speaker 1: was the first one? Delirious? Clius was delirious, just Red
43:42
Speaker 1: the red Altfa was the blue out my dad let
43:44
Speaker 1: me see delirious. When I was a kid, Raw was
43:46
Speaker 1: the first time a girl hit on me and and
43:48
Speaker 1: French kissed me in between um two arcade machines. After
43:53
Speaker 1: Raw went and saw Raw and the theater was empty,
43:55
Speaker 1: and we said we were hiding from other people when
43:57
Speaker 1: and saw another movie and like the girls like three
43:59
Speaker 1: years older, and all of a sudden you I was like,
44:01
Speaker 1: oh three times. That's that's why I remember. I don't
44:04
Speaker 1: remember any any jo can raw. I do remember getting
44:07
Speaker 1: tongued down. Yeah, yeah, I got Calling on my mole
44:09
Speaker 1: Rushmore Carlin's man, but I was, I was so I
44:13
Speaker 1: didn't you know in the Calling To doc that came
44:15
Speaker 1: out this year. I need for you. What about the doc?
44:17
Speaker 1: Is a good, a phenomenal any from Ohio. I don't
44:20
Speaker 1: remember Rushmore. We got some we got some base out
44:23
Speaker 1: of Ohio. Bro, Yeah, Dave, Dave is not on your
44:26
Speaker 1: from Ohio to Cincinnati boys, Wow, get it, Steve Harvey
44:31
Speaker 1: seen Hall. We got some monsters coming out of Ohio. Seriously,
44:36
Speaker 1: Gary Owen, mm yeah, okay, don't you don't do you
44:46
Speaker 1: want to come on here? This is stupid. You know what?
44:48
Speaker 1: De lete this whole interview. I'm going back. It's the
44:54
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Good morning,