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Team Tay Lautner · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Betha.
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  Speaker 2: Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio and two times People's
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  Speaker 2: Choice Award winning podcast.
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  Speaker 3: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in, but it ain't just.
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  Speaker 4: Scrubbing in pad.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we got another podcaster herself here with us today.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, she's a podcaster. She is a philanthropist, she is
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  Speaker 3: a mental health advocate.
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  Speaker 4: She does it all, she really does it all.
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  Speaker 1: And we've had her here before, but we're so happy
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  Speaker 1: to have her back.
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  Speaker 5: Everyone. Welcome Tay Loudner.
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  Speaker 1: Did I say the name right, Louner Loutner, okay, because
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  Speaker 1: for a long time.
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  Speaker 2: Said no, yes, yes, okay, yeah it is Loutner.
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  Speaker 5: But you can, okay because I discriminate.
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  Speaker 1: I'll say Loutner and people be like it's Loutner and
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, but I was corrected on that.
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  Speaker 5: So you're here.
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  Speaker 1: Just set the record straight. You can say whatever you want,
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  Speaker 1: but the correct way is Loudner. Yes, okay, thank you,
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  Speaker 1: welcome back. Thanks, We're so happy to have you here.
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  Speaker 5: We were just talking about how when.
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  Speaker 1: You you were last year with Taylor, but we wanted
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  Speaker 1: to do you by yourself.
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  Speaker 5: It's just like we didn't need we didn't need a time.
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  Speaker 1: We didn't need Taylor with the full name.
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  Speaker 5: We just needed to take.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like there's been so much that has
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  Speaker 1: happened in your life since we saw you though. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you had both yours too, all of us. Really you
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  Speaker 1: had just gotten well married a few months before we
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  Speaker 1: talked to you. Yes, but it's been three years since
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  Speaker 1: you started your podcast, your foundation, because that was all
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  Speaker 1: kind of around the same time, right, Yeah, And I
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  Speaker 1: feel like y'all's podcast y'all have just crushed it. It's
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  Speaker 1: hard to I mean, podcasts, they were gone, they come
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  Speaker 1: and gone, And I think people the thing about podcasts is,
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  Speaker 1: at the end of the day, it's easy because you're
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  Speaker 1: just talking about things that you love and you're talking
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  Speaker 1: to people that you love and have interest in. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but it's harder in this I think it's harder than
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  Speaker 1: people realize to keep it going.
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  Speaker 5: Sure.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I always tell my friends because I've had multiple,
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  Speaker 2: multiple people come up to me and be like, I
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  Speaker 2: think I want to start a podcast, Like Okay, you've
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  Speaker 2: really got to think about it, Like, do you have
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  Speaker 2: more than like three weeks of content you can talk about?
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  Speaker 5: Because it's so fun and.
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  Speaker 2: There is like an ease to it, but also like
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  Speaker 2: it is. I didn't realize how like full time it is.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm like very hands on with like I'm giving
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  Speaker 2: like my editor, like I'm watching every episode, giving the cuts,
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  Speaker 2: giving the time stamps, like I'm very involved in every episode,
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  Speaker 2: which I love because it's like my child.
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  Speaker 5: But yeah, I love it.
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  Speaker 1: How does it work? Because y'all have had some guests.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, obviously you get really big guests in the
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  Speaker 1: sense of big and pop culture and like people that
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  Speaker 1: are relevant in terms of like TV shows and whatnot.
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  Speaker 1: But you've also had guests where you had more serious
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  Speaker 1: conversations like Stacy Chapin, who is than Chapin's mom and
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  Speaker 1: he was one of the victims from the University of Idaho,
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  Speaker 1: And those are really hard, heavy conversations.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, how do you do that?
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  Speaker 1: You know? I honestly don't know.
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  Speaker 2: And it's a like a form of journalism that I
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  Speaker 2: really never like thought I would do.
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  Speaker 1: In those episodes are truly my favorite.
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  Speaker 2: Uh. It really just starts with when we have those stories,
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  Speaker 2: like we had Chad Frankie on who's one of the
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  Speaker 2: Ruby Frankie's kids. We've had Gabby Petito's mom, on. So
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  Speaker 2: we've had like these really heavy episodes that are like
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  Speaker 2: are like real I call the episodes, but I just
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  Speaker 2: it's really important for me to provide the guest with
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  Speaker 2: the right questions so that they can share their story
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  Speaker 2: and are like number one thing is we always want
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  Speaker 2: people to feel like safe, like have a space, safe space,
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  Speaker 2: because you know, Taylor's been in the industry for a
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  Speaker 2: really long time and he has had word twisted and
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  Speaker 2: that's just like a very like common thing of they're
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  Speaker 2: gonna ask these questions and not these and that's a
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  Speaker 2: big thing.
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  Speaker 1: That we strive for.
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  Speaker 2: So I really just have wanted to provide people like
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  Speaker 2: that safe spaces to share their story to where they know,
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  Speaker 2: like I'm not just doing it for a clickbait, Like
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  Speaker 2: I actually genuinely think that these people like need like
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  Speaker 2: a platform to just amplify their story more. And it's
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  Speaker 2: been the most rewarding thing. It's been really cool. And
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  Speaker 2: also like Stacy, like I still text her, like we
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  Speaker 2: still keep in touch, and it's really cool, like with
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  Speaker 2: the closure of the case and stuff, being able to
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  Speaker 2: like talk with her, and I spent a decent amount
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  Speaker 2: of my summer up in Idaho and I actually had
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  Speaker 2: multiple people come up to me and just thank us
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  Speaker 2: for doing that episode. And I didn't really realize how
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  Speaker 2: much of an impact it had on the people of
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  Speaker 2: Idaho specifically, but I've had multiple people come up to
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  Speaker 2: me and like cry to me in the middle of
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  Speaker 2: a store base just from that episode. So it's just
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  Speaker 2: been like, it's really cool, Like I have chills thinking
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  Speaker 2: about it.
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  Speaker 1: Just the impact that me wanting to have this human.
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  Speaker 2: On because they have a really incredible stories like has
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  Speaker 2: become it's awesome.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I also think you're you're giving them a platform
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  Speaker 1: to keep their kids' stories alive and their lives, to
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  Speaker 1: keep saying their name and talking about them in a
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  Speaker 1: way that's not because obviously what happened to a lot
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  Speaker 1: of these people is the most traumatic thing that can happen,
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  Speaker 1: and you're giving them a space to talk about them
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  Speaker 1: in a way that keeps their spirit and who they
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  Speaker 1: are alive. And it's really beautiful. And I'm so impressed
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  Speaker 1: because you do. I mean, it's a flip from doing
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  Speaker 1: a normal podcast, like a culture podcast, so it's really impressive.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like, so the podcast Lemon's by Tay the Foundation,
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  Speaker 3: everything is geared towards mental health.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, so I wanted to ask.
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  Speaker 3: You just in general, generally speaking, how is your mental
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  Speaker 3: health right now?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah? I think it's in a great spot right now.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like I had a little bit of summer
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  Speaker 2: to rest in kind of reset myself. I'm definitely the
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  Speaker 2: type of person that is like just I go one
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  Speaker 2: hundred miles an hour, like all the time, and I
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  Speaker 2: don't stop.
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  Speaker 1: And my husband's very.
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  Speaker 2: Like, okay, like just take a moment, calm down, and
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  Speaker 2: he catches me before I'm like spiral d. Yeah, because
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  Speaker 2: bernot is definitely something that I experienced when I was nursing,
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  Speaker 2: so it's a little easier for me to catch it,
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  Speaker 2: but he definitely will help me catch it.
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  Speaker 1: But but yeah, what was the question?
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  Speaker 5: Well I forgot how was your mental health?
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  Speaker 1: I'm happy though, I'm like in such a fun place
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  Speaker 1: right now. I feel like we're.
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  Speaker 2: Entering like the time of year that is like my
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  Speaker 2: favorite too, So I'm like, yeah, I love fall.
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  Speaker 4: This is this is like your time to shine.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, this is like my time of year. What is it?
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  Speaker 4: Is it Halloween or what Thanksgiving or Christmas or all
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  Speaker 4: of it?
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  Speaker 5: I think all of it.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know I love Fall.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, we got married in Fall, so I'm just
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  Speaker 2: like like leaves turning like cozy fireplace cloudy.
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  Speaker 1: I also associate y'all with Halloween because the parties.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, I know Taylor's been really wanting to
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  Speaker 2: do another one party and I just don't.
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  Speaker 5: I just don't know if I can I can do
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  Speaker 5: it because it's a lot of work.
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  Speaker 1: It is a lot of work.
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  Speaker 2: And also the house that we used to have those
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  Speaker 2: parties in really like could fit like two hundred people,
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  Speaker 2: and now I don't. I don't want my house cannot
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  Speaker 2: fit that many people. But also I don't really want
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  Speaker 2: that many people in my house now.
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  Speaker 5: So now like I really love my home.
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  Speaker 2: Like that house was like Taylor's house before I were
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  Speaker 2: like together, so it was like man cave and it
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  Speaker 2: could do it.
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  Speaker 5: But now like I have like my sweet.
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  Speaker 1: Little home, and I'm like, I don't really want that
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  Speaker 1: many people in there.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, that house was the house.
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  Speaker 3: It was a.
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  Speaker 5: Huge I know it was. It was insane. It was
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  Speaker 5: way too big.
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  Speaker 1: I was gonna ask about you were talking about, So
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  Speaker 1: does is there something you do or like say where
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  Speaker 1: he goes hey time for a break, because like I
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  Speaker 1: feel like Haley, it's probably like I start picking fights
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  Speaker 1: and she's like, hey, you're at capacity, what's going on?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, and it like halts me.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's just when I'm like absent, like I
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  Speaker 2: could like lock myself in my office and just be
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  Speaker 2: on my computer like all day. So if I'm not
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  Speaker 2: like having a moment like a meal with Taylor or
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  Speaker 2: like we're not like sitting down watching football or watching
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  Speaker 2: whatever show we're watching, like, that's like our time to
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  Speaker 2: just like not be on the phones or on the
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  Speaker 2: computer and doing stuff. So it's probably that when I've
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  Speaker 2: been like running around like crazy and he's like, Hi,
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  Speaker 2: like where have you been.
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  Speaker 1: I'm here too, So I think it's that that makes sense.
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  Speaker 3: I knew that time every day, every day, all day,
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  Speaker 3: every day. At the end of the day, Yeah, how's
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  Speaker 3: your day. I want to know what you had for breakfast,
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  Speaker 3: what you ate for lunch, what clients you saw, what
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  Speaker 3: videos you saw on Instagram, Like I'm like catching me
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  Speaker 3: up on your day. Yeah, you know, like I'll spill
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  Speaker 3: everything and he just says, oh, that's good.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, really need more than that.
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  Speaker 1: Haley is a Tanya and she needs to recap and
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  Speaker 1: know everything too, And I'm like, oh, I didn't know this,
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  Speaker 1: not any I don't have any more details to give.
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  Speaker 5: This is just what it is. That's so funny.
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  Speaker 2: I know I see Taylor because like I work from
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  Speaker 2: home and he's home right now, and like we're just home,
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  Speaker 2: Like we're just home.
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  Speaker 5: Together all the time.
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  Speaker 4: And my dream.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm gonna go like take a work a
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  Speaker 2: class or whatever. He's like, oh, but lunch. I'm like, honey,
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  Speaker 2: we we This is what I love about him so much.
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  Speaker 5: I'm like we just had.
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  Speaker 1: We had the whole day and the whole week before.
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  Speaker 5: I need to like go leave the home.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like a leave the home person. Taylor could stay
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  Speaker 2: in the house for forever.
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  Speaker 5: He loves his time. I'm gonna stay in the house.
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  Speaker 4: Person.
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  Speaker 5: Haley's to leave the home person.
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  Speaker 3: I'm to say, in the house person, Robbie's to leave
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  Speaker 3: the house person.
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  Speaker 5: I need, I need, I need to leave.
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  Speaker 2: I love the house, but I just need to go,
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  Speaker 2: like to target and do a lap and then come
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  Speaker 2: back and I'm like fresh and ready to.
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  Speaker 5: Go, ready to sit. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Speaking of shows, you, I feel like I also think
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  Speaker 1: of you when I think of the summer.
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  Speaker 5: I turn pretty.
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  Speaker 2: I had that topic prepared because we have to talk about.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, the rage bait that she puts out.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's weird right now, because you've gone back and forth,
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  Speaker 1: You've gone back and forth.
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  Speaker 3: It's so apparent that this show is ske to make
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  Speaker 3: us all want Conrad. It is so unbelievably skewed in
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  Speaker 3: that direction when you really look.
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  Speaker 4: At the facts.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that she should just not be with either of them.
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  Speaker 3: Fair, I take that over the Conrad stands. Yeah, it's
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  Speaker 3: just like, it's so obvious. I know, it's exactly like
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  Speaker 3: the Edward Jacob thing. I know we're all meant to
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  Speaker 3: love Edward, but Jacob was the one.
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  Speaker 5: I think.
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  Speaker 2: I think the it's hard because I feel like the
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  Speaker 2: Twilight franchise made Jacob more likable than has made Jeremiah.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, yes, because in the books, I was so
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  Speaker 1: team Edward, but then in the movies of Twilight, I
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  Speaker 1: was like, wait, yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I'm team and my team Edward. It was the New Moon.
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  Speaker 1: It was when respectfully he took his shirt off.
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  Speaker 5: And had the hour. I get it, I get it, But.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, they I do feel like and I didn't read
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  Speaker 1: the summary term pretty books, so I don't know like
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  Speaker 1: how they made him look I need to I've read.
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  Speaker 2: I've read the first one. I want to read the
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  Speaker 2: last two to like see what how it is.
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  Speaker 3: Jeremiah always loved her. Conrad, on the other hand, like
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  Speaker 3: a pickle did.
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  Speaker 1: I just went back and started watching the first season though,
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  Speaker 1: and it does, yes, tell me, it does start.
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  Speaker 2: The first like inkling that someone like someone is. Belly
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  Speaker 2: and Conrad are standing at the end of the thing though,
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  Speaker 2: and Jeremiah shoots the fire work at them, and that's
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  Speaker 2: I feel like the first time he's like jealous, and
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  Speaker 2: then he's starting to like show, so then that makes
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  Speaker 2: me feel like it actually has been Conrad, though, I.
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  Speaker 5: Was like, I'm not she's not gonna like what I'm
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  Speaker 5: gonna say what I'm rewatching them.
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  Speaker 2: I actually did just rewatch the first season and like
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  Speaker 2: an entire day, and you're still Conrad.
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: I was torn the first two seasons, and then I
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  Speaker 2: realized this last season that I am Conrad.
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  Speaker 3: Because of the way that it was fixated, fixed to
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  Speaker 3: make you want them to end up together.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe I don't know, see I'm swaying her.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know. I don't think you are.
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  Speaker 4: I think I am come to my side day.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just excited for the movie.
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  Speaker 5: I mean too, but.
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  Speaker 3: Is carew predictable the Conrad girls, but that's what we want.
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  Speaker 2: We literally were like starving for this whole season and
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  Speaker 2: barely got fed the last like three episodes.
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  Speaker 4: So it's not what I wanted. So there's still time.
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  Speaker 4: There's still time.
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  Speaker 2: Can you imagine she literally makes the movie that she
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  Speaker 2: like leaves them at the altar?
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  Speaker 1: Suredy did that superdictable?
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  Speaker 5: I'm just leaving the altar.
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  Speaker 4: It's not rage bait. This is like legit.
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  Speaker 5: It's feeling.
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  Speaker 4: No.
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  Speaker 2: I feel that Taylor, I think feels the same way
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  Speaker 2: his team Jeremiah.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I mean yeah, he has been because it's like
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  Speaker 1: Jacob so he's were friends with Gavin, so he's like
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  Speaker 1: he's sinking by Gavin.
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  Speaker 2: But no, I think this season was hard though, because
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  Speaker 2: Taylor hasn't watched the first two seasons. I think he
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  Speaker 2: watched the finale of the second season with me because
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  Speaker 2: I had like all my girlfriends over and we watched together,
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  Speaker 2: and he's just like he's one of the.
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  Speaker 1: Girls, so he wanted to be a part of the fun.
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  Speaker 2: And then he was like, what am I watching, but
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  Speaker 2: this whole last season he had to watch with me
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  Speaker 2: because I didn't have anyone with me, and he would
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  Speaker 2: go on like tangents, like after each episode for like eight.
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  Speaker 1: Minutes about yeah, just like how they wrote him.
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  Speaker 2: He's like, they make him so unlikable and blah blah blah,
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  Speaker 2: and so they do.
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  Speaker 3: But in the third season, Yeah, it's not till this
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  Speaker 3: last season, Robert, they did.
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  Speaker 5: There was a shift.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, for sure. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I also just don't think they had as much chemistry
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  Speaker 1: as Oh my god, I don't.
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  Speaker 4: I don't.
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  Speaker 5: You can't make that up. You either have a really
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  Speaker 5: great chemistry you don't.
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  Speaker 1: And I feel like Belli and Conrad had better chemistry.
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  Speaker 1: They were really good actors and had bad chemistry on purpose.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: Respectfully, we can agree to disagree, Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Well, one thing I was thinking about that we never
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  Speaker 1: talked about because it happened. It already had happened when
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  Speaker 1: you all came on the podcast, But what we saw
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  Speaker 1: about it was after the podcast, We're gonna take a
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  Speaker 1: break and come back.
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  Speaker 4: Away way, why what are you talking about?
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  Speaker 1: Wow? That left everyone in the room me at the
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  Speaker 1: edge of their seat literally, just like out of her chair.
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  Speaker 1: So after y'all came on the podcast, Uh Taylor Slush
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  Speaker 1: released a music video I can see You she did
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  Speaker 1: where Taylor was in this in the music video, and
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  Speaker 1: y'all kept that.
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  Speaker 5: We were just.
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  Speaker 1: Talking to y'all, looking at you in the eye, talking
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  Speaker 1: all things. Taylor stillft and no mention of it.
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  Speaker 6: Lockdown, no easter, not a nothing was hatched.
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  Speaker 5: How are your what are your thoughts on life of
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  Speaker 5: a showgirl? It you love it? Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: It's I mean I love a moodie Taylor album, but
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  Speaker 2: this one is just just happy.
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  Speaker 1: She's in love, but it's it's fun.
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  Speaker 2: I'm convinced that people that I know that don't like
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  Speaker 2: it aren't in love and aren't happy. Oh very small
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  Speaker 2: pooled my five girlfriends, and four out of the five
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  Speaker 2: of us are in relationships, and the one girlfriend that
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: doesn't like it is single.
• 16:07
  Speaker 5: Oh, she's just gonna say this back.
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: I was literally texting her this morning and I didn't
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: call her out on it, but I was being a
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: nice friend.
• 16:12
  Speaker 5: But she's gonna say this now. It's no.
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: I don't know if there's truth to that, but you
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: might be onto something, but it's just like it's happy
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: like I feel like it like reminds me of like
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: just a happy like Sabrina carving her rout, like she's
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: just happy she's in love. Like I think of my
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: Taylor and half the songs like it's just happy she's
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: in love.
• 16:33
  Speaker 4: That's an interesting take. Were you gonna do a little research.
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: Were you in Taylor friends before y'all uh like became
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: romantic or were y'all ever?
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: I mean not, well, in my brain we were friends,
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: not his brain, because his sister brought me over to
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: his house and she had told him that she was
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: bringing someone that she wanted to set him up with.
• 16:55
  Speaker 5: But I was just going as like a friend. She
• 16:57
  Speaker 5: didn't tell you. It was like a yeah.
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: So Taylor was like talking to me, and I was like, oh,
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: he's just like a really intentional talker and he was
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: actually just like trying to hit on me, but you know,
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: he's so nice, so he's like he was not whenever
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: I say tell the story, He's like, baby, make me
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: look like I have like no swagger like anything. I'm like, no,
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: I think that's hot. Like he like genuinely was just
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: talking to me. Wasn't trying to like get it.
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: With my girl the first five seconds of knowing me.
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: No, yeah, it's nice, refreshing, green flag all around, Yeah,
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: the greenest of flags.
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah. How is it working together? It's fun because okay,
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: but but in all honesty, be honest here, No, Hayley
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: will always be like like there's been talks of like, oh,
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: should we do something we're working together?
• 17:45
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and I'm just like, you know, I think that
• 17:49
  Speaker 5: we are.
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: Better not doing that, like just knowing, like thinking about
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: if we were to do like a podcast or something, yea,
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: that it would be hard if like, yeah, it's called
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: scrubbing out with not getting Haley. But I just think
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: about working like having to go, you know, having a
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: relationship and either bickering or getting to fight and then
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: having to sit down and be on and talking.
• 18:16
  Speaker 5: You know.
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: But have y'all have y'all run into that or I
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: feel like y'all are very just weird.
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: I mean for sure, like if you're we've been doing
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: the podcast for however long, and I'm of course we've
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: like disagreed or like someone thought something different than the other.
• 18:33
  Speaker 5: But no, I think it's really fun.
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: It's been cool because you know, Taylor's.
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: Like lived a whole He's lived a whole life before
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: me even knowing him, so it's really cool for me
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: to like learn from him too.
• 18:46
  Speaker 5: And he's so creative with stuff, so it's fun.
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: We're actually planning a we have we're filming with someone
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: tomorrow who we're really excited about, and we're filming the
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: like promo like teaser. We're filming a teaser radio to
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: tease who it is. So like when it comes to
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: stuff like that, it's interesting.
• 19:07
  Speaker 4: Yeah, who is this guest?
• 19:11
  Speaker 3: I don't know, but you're both excited and you're filming
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: it tomorrow.
• 19:18
  Speaker 5: Do they have the same name as you? No, No,
• 19:27
  Speaker 5: I can't. It's something exciting.
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: It's someone from Taylor's past, but we're filming that's the Again,
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: he's lived a life, so there's a lot of people
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: in his past that's true.
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: There's Oh yeah, that's so.
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: I do think about that because I feel like, what if, like,
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: have you have you ever got have you ever been
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: in a fight and then had to, like you have
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: work the next morning, you're working together and you just
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: have to kind of suck it up and do it.
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: We don't really like fight because I just don't.
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: It's because I don't speak, that's that's actually it's and
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: it's a problem I need to like address wren therapy,
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: So you just like internalize, yeah, in the sense of
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: like Taylor will express to me if he's upset or
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: something's going on, and I just say sorry, and I
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: can't like process. He's like, no, like I want to
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: hear like what you're feeling, and I'm like my brain
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: like tweaks out and I can't.
• 20:15
  Speaker 5: I know, I don't know.
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: No, I think that's Oh, I like I've had to
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: work on there so much. Yeah, I need time, and
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: Healey's like wants to resolve it right there. Yeah, but
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: I'm like I'm not ready and I I I guess
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: it's like an avoidant thing, like maybe avoidant attach it
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: like there's something from that part of my life where
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: I just shut down. And in my mind I've always
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: thought that being silent mean like keeping the peace, but
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: it really just lingers.
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah no, yeah, yeah, it's probably not. Probably it is
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: definitely way healthier to like talk about it in the moment, but.
• 20:52
  Speaker 5: You do have like if but I can't.
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: So yeah, we don't really find that's so crazy.
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: Actually, like I always I don't believe people when they
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: say that they don't fight.
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: I know, but we really don't ever, like.
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: Because like if somebody expresses something like you're saying, if
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: he expresses something, you just take it and you're like okay,
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: like you don't like fight back.
• 21:13
  Speaker 4: Oh wow, I should learn that.
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: There's pros and cons, right, I think to it. But
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: we're also like so I think because we have gone
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: through so much like mental health stuff each of us,
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: we've really learned to like communicate with the other. And
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: I think also like we when we first started dating,
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: we were like long distance. We speed dated for like
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: two weeks and then we did long distance for like
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: two and a half months. So I feel like we
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: got really good at talking.
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: So we were really good at communicating kind of from
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: the beginning.
• 21:48
  Speaker 5: And we both know.
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: I mean, we've been together for like eight years, so
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: I feel like I know, like if he's upset about something,
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: I know, like like maybe it's not actually what's going on,
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: it's something else happened, So I know, like that's what's
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: going on. If yeah, I'm sad or he knows if
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: I'm like being quiet, then I'm dealing with something. So
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: I think there's maybe like a level of that, but yeah,
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: I think we're also just like kind of very similar
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: in a lot of ways, so we kind of know
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: what the other is thinking.
• 22:16
  Speaker 4: Wow.
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: But I gotta learn to talk, and you would agree
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: with that.
• 22:21
  Speaker 5: It's so my therapist tomorrow.
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: I gotta learn to shut up because I just, I
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: just I wish I could do that.
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, if I I think I I think I could.
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: But then I feel like if I were to say,
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: like what I'm thinking, it wouldn't like come out right
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: because my brain just like it like fires off, and
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: I feel like I can't like formulate a thought. So
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: if I were to like try to say my thoughts, it.
• 22:46
  Speaker 4: Would be like a little jumble. Yeah.
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like it doesn't come out as in my head
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: what I want to say never comes out as eloquent
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: or like concise as I want it too. So then
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: she's like wait what, And then I'm like what, That's.
• 23:00
  Speaker 5: What I meant. I just I'll just shut up. It's
• 23:04
  Speaker 5: better if I don't talk.
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 23:05
  Speaker 5: I feel that.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: Have you had a guest on the podcast where you
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: had a I don't know impression of them and then
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: they came on and they like blew you away, either
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: change your impression, yeah, or change your impression. Oh yeah,
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: I definitely feel like I've had a few of those.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: Let me think, I.
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: Think the first person that that happened with, if I'm
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: like remembering correctly, would probably be Charlie Dimilio. We had
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: like the best time with her, and like, I feel
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: like she said a lot of very like profound things
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: and she's just like a young TikTok coming on I
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: don't know what to It was.
• 23:41
  Speaker 5: Like a really good conversation. We both like adored her.
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: I met her at an event and I was blown
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: away by how personable she was because I also think
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: you meet people and they might have a big personality
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: in front of the camera and like doing tiktoks because
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: they're comfortable in that like alone space with just their
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: phone and so I and she's young, so I didn't know, yeah,
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: if she'd just kind of be like awkward and shy,
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: and she was so warm and asked questions and I
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: was like so impressed by her.
• 24:10
  Speaker 5: Yeah, just like wow, she.
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: Is really I don't know, you meet people and you're
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: you're just kind of impressed with how they handle this
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: attention and fame and how it affects them. For sure,
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: and it was cool to see how like wonderful and personal.
• 24:25
  Speaker 5: She was.
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, what do you see for the future of the
• 24:28
  Speaker 3: podcast and the foundation? Oh maybe not even five years,
• 24:34
  Speaker 3: just like the next year, twenty twenty six.
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a really great question because I'm the type
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: of person that like wants to do, as I said,
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: everything like all at once.
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: And I don't know.
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: I mean, I just want to continue to have like
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: really intentional conversations. I think it's cool because I feel
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: like with our podcast we kind of have like a
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: cool level of like really heavy conversations and then like
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: the next week can be like a super light one
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: that's just like chatty and.
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: Talking about whatever is, you know, pop culture stuff.
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: So I feel like I want to continue to have
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: maybe more of those harder conversations because I think those
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: ones are the most impactful. Like for me, we just
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: filmed an episode that was the first of its kind
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: because we had an interpreter in the studio, and so
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: things like that I want to continue to do.
• 25:27
  Speaker 5: Obviously, I love your face so much. I love you.
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: Yes, we had an ASL interpreter in the studio, which
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: was really cool.
• 25:40
  Speaker 4: WHOA.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, So continue like having those like real conversations and
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: giving people that you know maybe don't aren't the same
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: as like you and I those platforms, which I think.
• 25:53
  Speaker 5: That's so and also so important.
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: And I also think that it can be very intimidating
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: stepping into something that you're not familiar with, Like obviously
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: having a conversation with someone and having an interpreter is
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: like not something that you're doing on a regular basis.
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: And to give someone a platform of coming on your podcast,
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: which is so huge and like reaches so many people,
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: I think is literally the goal of having a platform,
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: so like you're literally doing it, you know.
• 26:20
  Speaker 5: It's so fun.
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: I literally left that interview like on a high, Like
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: I was like bubbling, like bouncing around all day.
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: It is. It's just really cool.
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: So just things like that, like intentional conversations. And we
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: just had our mental health summit, our first ever one, and.
• 26:34
  Speaker 4: Yeah I saw that congratulations and.
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: It like the day literally like blew every single expectation
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: I had.
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: Like I'm still like in shock that we did that.
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: So I want to do that like in different states,
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: like across the country and like reach.
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: More people, just make people feel loved.
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: I think that's like obviously it's like mental health that
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: we talk about like real conversations. But I want people
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: to like not alone as cliche as it sounds, like, Yeah.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: I'm definitely like an EmPATH.
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: And I want to like hug everyone I see, So
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: like that's how I want people to feel after listening
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: to the podcast.
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: I also feel like what you do is you bring
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: people who have followings and platforms, and I think it's
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: important for people who follow them and have put them
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: on a certain pedestal of thinking, like, oh, they don't
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: deal with the same like obviously there's different struggles of
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: like that, Like, for instance, someone who has a big
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: platform and their careers TikTok or something, they might not
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: have the same like financial struggles as someone. But in
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: terms of mental health, it really encompasses every group of people.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: Like that's something that can connect people on so many
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: different levels and.
• 27:45
  Speaker 5: Like ways of life.
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: I feel like you it's a it's a something that
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: brings people together because people can be have as image
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: of someone and be like they don't have any problems,
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: they don't have the same problems I have. But when
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: it comes to mental health things like it connects people. Yeah,
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: so I think that's amazing that you're not only giving
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: a platform to the people that speak, but for other
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: people to connect with those people.
• 28:10
  Speaker 5: Cool.
• 28:11
  Speaker 3: When you're doing like when you did the Mental Health Summit,
• 28:13
  Speaker 3: when you're doing these things where you're engaging with people,
• 28:15
  Speaker 3: what do you find is the biggest thing that people
• 28:17
  Speaker 3: are struggling with? Like right now, ooh.
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: I would say, and this isn't something that I feel
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: like is said to me a lot, but I feel
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: like we're still really lacking community. I think that's the
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: biggest thing that I've learned from like COVID too, is
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: how much we need like human human interaction and actually
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: coming together for you know, a day to listen to
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: some people talk. And there was I there were so
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: many people just like meeting and mingling and learning about
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: each other. And I think having that interaction with people
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: and having like minded people together and just building that
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: community really helps you feel like not alone of them,
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: like reminds you like, oh, I'm struggling with my mental health,
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: and all these people here like they care about mental
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: health enough to come and listen to this too. So yeah,
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: I think that's probably the biggest thing is really like
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: having that form of community do you feel like.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: Being on our phones, like since you're you talk to
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: people about this and do these summits and this is
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: your foundation, But do you feel like obviously having phones
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: in social media, it's it does connect us, but I
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: also feel like there's just this like right, and I
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: don't know if it's because we're seeing people talk about it.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: It's like so accessible to hear people talk about their
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: mental health struggles, but it does feel like there's.
• 29:35
  Speaker 5: A common.
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: Like the timing of when we've seen an increase or
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: decrease in mental health. Yeah, and social media in like
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: COVID times, it feels like it was parallel in terms
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: of how they connected. Do you feel like that when
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: you're talking to people, Like the loneliness of because people
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: watch on their phone and they just scroll and they're not.
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: About it now, like you keep up like we keep
• 29:59
  Speaker 3: we oh, okay, we keep up with you.
• 30:04
  Speaker 4: You keep up with us all on social media.
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: So it's like I haven't picked up the phone and
• 30:07
  Speaker 3: called you in like years, but I know everything that's
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: going on, and I feel like it tricks our mind
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: and thinking that we've like socialized with people and we're
• 30:16
  Speaker 3: keeping up with people by like watching their Instagram, watching
• 30:19
  Speaker 3: their social media whatever, but we're not actually having that
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: human interaction, do you know what I mean. So it's
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: like weird because you're still keeping up with your friends
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: and stuff, but you're really not doing like the work
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: of it of picking up the phone and like how
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: was your day. You're like, oh, I'm just like watching
• 30:35
  Speaker 3: your story, so I know what you did today, but
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: I don't know, you know what I mean. It's this
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: weird thing because I too, like all day yesterday I
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: was on my phone. I was just on my phone
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: and I didn't see a single person. I know this
• 30:47
  Speaker 3: thing yesterday whatever, the day before, and I still feel
• 30:50
  Speaker 3: like I had like a full social day because I
• 30:53
  Speaker 3: watched my phone the whole day.
• 30:54
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: No, I definitely think there's I mean, there's even studies.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: I don't want to butche of them.
• 30:58
  Speaker 5: So I'm not going to give the number.
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: But doctor Ayman talks about all the time, like the
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: if you give a child a phone or like a
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: tablet before the age of thirteen, their risks for their
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: suicide risks, Like it goes through.
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: The roof, like it's just the risk for suicide, depression,
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: all of the stuff.
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: So I think there's definitely pros to social media into
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: the phones, into all of the stuff, because I think
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: you can definitely and take you know, I feel like
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: I learn a lot, I mean, wellness and stuff from
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: my phone, but recipes. Yes, there definitely needs to be
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: like a like a limit. Like when when the Summer
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: I Turned Pretty premiere came out, all my girlfriends we
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: were like, no one's looking at any form of social
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: media today. We're not having the finale spoiled because we
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: all got together at the end of the night and
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: watched it and we were all like, oh my gosh,
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: I went the whole day not looking at our phones
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: and it was literally like the best thing like it.
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: I just the next day I was like, I don't
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: really need to look at my phone, so it's crazy.
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: And I actually was thinking about this because I saw
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: on TikTok it was like showing old school like commercials
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: like when we were kids, of like the different like
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: the rainbow painting like brushes, or like just like little
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: like what is it called, like the little I'm baking
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: on the name when you like.
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: Bake the yes.
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: And things like that, like you don't ever see commercials
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: for toys like that for kids to like go and
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: draw or to like blow these bubbles that stick together and.
• 32:29
  Speaker 5: Like things like that. You don't see that anything.
• 32:31
  Speaker 4: I know when I was twelve, like I was still
• 32:33
  Speaker 4: playing with my dolls.
• 32:34
  Speaker 5: Absolutely, you walk in a prop top.
• 32:37
  Speaker 3: Down the street, you know what I mean? Like in
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: my Berry's class. I swear with a berries the other
• 32:41
  Speaker 3: day and there was a twelve year.
• 32:42
  Speaker 4: Old running next to me.
• 32:42
  Speaker 5: I was like, this is actually like I think we're
• 32:44
  Speaker 5: gonna have.
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: I think we're gonna have a big swing, Like I
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: think when our generation is having kids, I think it's
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: gonna be like like Kylie Kelsey talks about how she
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: wants to have which I love this idea. It's like
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: a communal phone, Like there's a cell phone.
• 32:58
  Speaker 4: In bits, yeah, in the kitchen, kid Yeah, and they can.
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: Like the kid like the girls will be able to
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: use it in the kitchen, but like they can't like
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: bring it up to bed with them.
• 33:05
  Speaker 4: They can't, like it's like their home phone.
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but they can like still like go on it
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: and use it, but it stays in the kit Like
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: I just think that's I feel like that's the swing
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: like we're about to have because yeah, when I think
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: about like having kids, like I want them to like
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: be self sufficient and like, I mean I was an
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: only child, so I really had to like make up
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: stuff in my brain to like keep myself busy.
• 33:26
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: So, and I feel like that has kind of morphed
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: into why I love being creative and why I love
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: like doing stuff.
• 33:34
  Speaker 5: So I think we're going to have a.
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: Big shift to where the technology use is going to
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: go down. Well, I've seen people talk about how, especially
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: our age range everyone there's this sense of nostalgia that
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: no other like no one else seems to have.
• 33:49
  Speaker 3: But the millennials have this like thank you Becca, you
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: say it loud, say.
• 33:54
  Speaker 4: Proud, but we have it.
• 33:56
  Speaker 5: We have nostalgia.
• 33:58
  Speaker 4: Yeah yeah.
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: But like like you remember going through magazines I don't
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: even know, like encircling or the items you wanted, like
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: you wanted to get something like the.
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: Book Fair like whatever, that's what I'm on the name
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: of it, but like the book my mom to like
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: give me five bucks to like by freaking coloring magazine
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: like Eraser.
• 34:19
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 34:19
  Speaker 3: Literally, I feel like everyone, like especially gen Z poo
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: poos millennials, and I'm like, uh, they're making a double
• 34:26
  Speaker 3: Wars product to the Jonas Brothers are back and Twilight's
• 34:30
  Speaker 3: back in theaters.
• 34:31
  Speaker 5: So I keep forgetting that they're doing that. Oh yeah,
• 34:34
  Speaker 5: are y'all going to that?
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: Well, y'all should, Yes, you should do it. You should
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: host like a yes viewing take over theater?
• 34:43
  Speaker 4: Can you do that? I don't even know anything.
• 34:45
  Speaker 5: I feel like they can make it happen.
• 34:46
  Speaker 4: Yeah, totally should.
• 34:49
  Speaker 5: It's like a movie a night. Is that what it is?
• 34:51
  Speaker 4: You know, Tay, we don't know the details.
• 34:59
  Speaker 5: My mom actually asked you that. I was driving the
• 35:01
  Speaker 5: other day.
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, I don't know.
• 35:03
  Speaker 5: I kind of thought it already happened.
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: But no, but I'm sure there's like it'll be I
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: actually don't know.
• 35:08
  Speaker 5: Sam.
• 35:09
  Speaker 4: Are you listening? Sam could look it up.
• 35:11
  Speaker 6: Yes, it's a movie a night, one one per night,
• 35:15
  Speaker 6: one movie per night.
• 35:16
  Speaker 4: What day is it? Certain days starting the twenty ninth
• 35:19
  Speaker 4: of October?
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: October? Yes, theaters on the thirtieth.
• 35:24
  Speaker 4: Okay, okay.
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: So this is another thing that a lot of gen
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: z or like, I've seen people talking about the Midnight
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: Show going to a midnight showing of the Twilight movies
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: about no one, No one could get back those moments just.
• 35:53
  Speaker 5: No, I was like camp out.
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: I literally camped out for the twilet movies.
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: I would go to my movie theater and I would
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: like watch all the like they would like replay the
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: movie prior and so like by the fifth movie, I
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: was there all day because they were playing every single
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: movie before you.
• 36:07
  Speaker 5: No, like the fact that you're married.
• 36:11
  Speaker 4: Crazy, it will get old.
• 36:13
  Speaker 5: No, that's story. It's so funny.
• 36:15
  Speaker 4: It's very Travis Kelce.
• 36:18
  Speaker 5: It is.
• 36:18
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it is adjacent.
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, although I was team Edwards, don't really. Yeah, I
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: haven't met him, but funny enough. When I was flying
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: to visit Taylor when we first started.
• 36:30
  Speaker 5: Dating, he was filming a show in London.
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: I flew out to visit him and Rob was on
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: my plane.
• 36:39
  Speaker 4: Rob, sorry, we've stood up.
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: And I literally looked across the plane and I was
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: like this, you can't make this up. I'm literally flying
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: to go visit my new boyfriend who was in this
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: franchise that I've been obsessed with my whole life, and
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: the character I was actually obsessed with is not on
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: the plane as I'm going.
• 37:00
  Speaker 5: And Taylor was like, you should said hi to him?
• 37:01
  Speaker 5: Like what am I going to say? Hey, Rob?
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: I'm going to visit your old co star here, and
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: he would have been like, I would have been tackled
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: by security.
• 37:08
  Speaker 3: Or yeah, yeah, there's really no like easy way into that.
• 37:12
  Speaker 5: How long have you all been dating at that point? No,
• 37:14
  Speaker 5: we've it's a couple of months.
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah, your story is just it's surely incredible.
• 37:21
  Speaker 4: It's so good.
• 37:22
  Speaker 5: But I love what.
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: I was actually talking to Haley about you today because
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: she was like, oh's on who's coming on the podcast?
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: I was like hey, and she was like, she's so
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: amazing and like what she has done because she has
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: like said, like, obviously y'all are together, but you've been
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: able to separate, like have your own career and name,
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: even though the name is the same. You have your
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: own name, like that is your thing. And I think
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: it's amazing because I don't know, I don't know that
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: I would would be like I don't know that I
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: would separate myself and be able to be so like
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: have my own thing. And it's I think it's impressive
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: what you've done because you I think of you now
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: as together but also a separate.
• 38:05
  Speaker 5: In Yeah, yeah, that's it.
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I know it's funny because I I'm like such
• 38:10
  Speaker 2: a like go getter, and I want to like be
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: my own person, and obviously, like being a wife is
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: my like literal favorite thing in this entire world, so
• 38:19
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't ever change that. But it is funny that
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: I'm like trying to like be my own person and
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: I literally have the exact same name as my husband.
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: Like it's sometimes I lay in about it and I'm like,
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: this is so fun Like do you understand.
• 38:31
  Speaker 3: How much I love, Like I wish I had the
• 38:33
  Speaker 3: same name as my husband, Like I I envy that
• 38:36
  Speaker 3: so much.
• 38:36
  Speaker 4: I think it's the cutest thing.
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: Ever.
• 38:38
  Speaker 4: I'm like, I wish we'd the same name.
• 38:40
  Speaker 5: You mean change? You're doing your name change? So you
• 38:42
  Speaker 5: could you could.
• 38:43
  Speaker 3: Change through the hustle bustle to change my name. I
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: bet you don't have to go through this.
• 38:48
  Speaker 5: It's a lot.
• 38:48
  Speaker 3: It's to change your last name, right, yeah, I'm changing
• 38:51
  Speaker 3: my full name.
• 38:52
  Speaker 4: Do I to go to court? I like file a thing.
• 38:55
  Speaker 3: I had to put a I have a ad in
• 38:57
  Speaker 3: the newspaper right now, basically like saying if I even
• 39:00
  Speaker 3: he wants to protest my name, change to call the courts.
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: Like it's so you could have changed it to Robbie
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: r O b B I E.
• 39:07
  Speaker 4: Oh, like a different spelling of it. Yeah, I know, shoot,
• 39:12
  Speaker 4: I could have.
• 39:14
  Speaker 5: That's funny. It cracks me up. Yeah, it's so cute.
• 39:17
  Speaker 5: It's a great story. It's just too much, do you
• 39:21
  Speaker 5: I know, we to.
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: I don't like asking about kids, but you mentioned one day,
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: so I feel like it's a safe space of asking
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: if that is something you'll are wanting in your future
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: for sure.
• 39:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I've wanted to again, I'm an only child,
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: so I've always wanted to be a mom and that's
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: like been my goal for my life. But yeah, I
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: think that day will come sooner than later. That's excited
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: way yeah, because I'm.
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: As an only as an only child, do you want multiple?
• 39:51
  Speaker 5: Do you want a lot? Or do you are you
• 39:52
  Speaker 5: like let's go one at a time.
• 39:54
  Speaker 4: See.
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: I used to want five kids because I was like
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: I really wanted a big family, and now I'm like
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: it changed once. It actually changed once I met Taylor
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: because I used to like want to be married young.
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: I wanted to like start having a family young and
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: like all of that, and then when I met Taylor,
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I actually am like really content
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: with where I'm at.
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: That's just like how you know you're like in the
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: right relationship.
• 40:19
  Speaker 5: But then in nursing.
• 40:20
  Speaker 2: School, I saw when I was doing my rotations, I
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: saw a vaginal birth for the first time.
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: And I went home.
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: I said, Hunt, I can't have a child until I
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: forget what that looked like, because it was there's a
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: reason our heads are placed up here and not down there. No,
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: this angle is a lot better than the receiving angle.
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: No, so you're still remembering it.
• 40:43
  Speaker 5: It's almost gone.
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: Now.
• 40:44
  Speaker 2: My best friend just had a baby and she's a
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: labor and delivery nurse, so if she literally does that
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: for her career.
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: Then I can.
• 40:50
  Speaker 5: I can. Yeah, birth one.
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: Now it's gone, and I'm like, I'm ready to make
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: that next up.
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but do you know what I always think, like,
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: how many people have multiple kids?
• 41:02
  Speaker 5: They've done it once?
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: If it was that bad or if your brain didn't
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: forget about it, not this many people would do it again.
• 41:10
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: No, that's exactly what my best friend was like, because
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: I've always said I wanted to see section because I
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: was like, you can just make the time you go in,
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: they cut you up, and they take the baby, You're
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: all done. But that's so I've always said I want
• 41:22
  Speaker 2: to see section and she was like on the fence
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: about it.
• 41:25
  Speaker 5: And now after having her own child.
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: She was like, Okay, you can do the sea section.
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: I'll allow it.
• 41:29
  Speaker 5: But she was like I literally like she was like,
• 41:32
  Speaker 5: I do it ten times over. I know, I know.
• 41:37
  Speaker 5: I guess we'll find.
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: Out like the baby is Tay Junior Taylor.
• 41:46
  Speaker 5: I gotta do something funny with that, Yeah you do.
• 41:50
  Speaker 4: I don't know roll lot yet or like reverse Taylor
• 41:56
  Speaker 4: like legit.
• 41:58
  Speaker 5: I don't know if they would like that name.
• 42:00
  Speaker 4: Yeah, ro yet whatever, there's something there.
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: Okay, you should just announce it like as a joke.
• 42:09
  Speaker 5: I do like the name.
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: And then tejjte yeah.
• 42:17
  Speaker 5: I had to What is the future for podcast?
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: Do you have any dream Who's your dream guests to
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: have on the podcast?
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: I have a lot. The one that I like love
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: to say is Matthew McConaughey because I'm just like obsessed
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: with him.
• 42:34
  Speaker 4: That's a good one.
• 42:35
  Speaker 5: But I don't know.
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: I feel like I have like a few people, but
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: I think him probably he's need to get someone from
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: the summer turned pretty.
• 42:45
  Speaker 5: On the podcast to wait, how have it not happened? Schedules?
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, because I feel like they would absolutely do it.
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like you've met album like like
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: you're all so sweet too.
• 42:56
  Speaker 4: Schedules are tough.
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: Schedules are really hard. Yeah, That's what I've really learned
• 43:02
  Speaker 2: since having this. It's actually been really cool to like
• 43:04
  Speaker 2: be on this other side of the podcast because like normally, like, oh,
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: like booking, like on the booking side, like we like schedule,
• 43:13
  Speaker 2: Like I'm in the emails and I'm like scheduling everyone.
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: So it's like cool to see like the other side
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: of the industry because you don't really oh right outside yeah,
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: necessarily from like our position.
• 43:24
  Speaker 5: What do you ever just reach out? Like when? Because
• 43:27
  Speaker 5: I feel like you probably have a.
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: Lot of people on your phone, so you could just
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: well to call her up, but you could just text
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: and be like, hey, would you want to come on
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: the podcast or do you have do you go through
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: like the professional?
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: We we definitely go either either Taylor and I will
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: like DM someone or we'll go through the professional because
• 43:46
  Speaker 2: we don't, like I never want someone to like feel
• 43:50
  Speaker 2: like uncomfortable for like, but just put someone in awkward
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: position if that's not something they're wanting to do right now,
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: then I don't want them to like feel like they
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: have to answer that, So I rather like go through
• 44:01
  Speaker 2: their team and their team can say it, and of course,
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: like we don't carr either way, but I would rather
• 44:05
  Speaker 2: not like put someone in that position.
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah right, I don't want to be the middleman. Yeah,
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: just keep it professional. Yeah, okay. So Matthew McConaughey, I
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: feel like we'll be seeing a teaser for Matthew McConaughey
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: coming on The Squeeze soon one day, or.
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: Like Mark Wahlberg, I'm also obsessed with him. It's so random.
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: I feel like that's those are like my two answers
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: I always give, and that's a very random.
• 44:27
  Speaker 5: Well.
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: I love Matthew McConaughey, but Mark Wahlberg does random.
• 44:32
  Speaker 4: Yeah, just because I feel like he like.
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: Whatever energy high he has.
• 44:38
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you're right, You're like so right.
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: So Sude has like he's done four am, has worked out,
• 44:44
  Speaker 2: had breakfast, golf, eighteen holes. Like it's just he's he's
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: certainly done the whole day by eight thirty am.
• 44:50
  Speaker 4: What is it?
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: I that's why I want to talk to him, But
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 44:53
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm with you on that. I always find that fascinating.
• 44:56
  Speaker 5: Let's I explain that the people understand it.
• 44:58
  Speaker 2: But like he's just like he's just grinding every day
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: and it's like so happy about it.
• 45:03
  Speaker 4: Yeah, he's a grinder.
• 45:04
  Speaker 5: I didn't know I know about him.
• 45:06
  Speaker 3: No, people who have endless energy so fascinating. Like my
• 45:10
  Speaker 3: acupuncturist always ask every time I come in for acupuncture,
• 45:13
  Speaker 3: how's your energy been?
• 45:14
  Speaker 4: I'm like, low, I mean every.
• 45:16
  Speaker 3: Day, like I'm tired every day, Like what do you
• 45:17
  Speaker 3: want from me? And that's like does anybody ever say
• 45:20
  Speaker 3: that they like have a lot of energy? And she's
• 45:22
  Speaker 3: like yeah, actually, And I'm like I need to meet
• 45:24
  Speaker 3: these people.
• 45:26
  Speaker 5: What are well?
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: Like what are the things that you do for like
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: if you're noticing that you're feeling like off mental health wise,
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: what are the things that you do to like check
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: back in, like tune beck in.
• 45:36
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: Recently I've really been into working out again. I feel
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: like I took a really long time like not wanting
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: to work out. In the past few weeks, I've been
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: like obsessed with it, just any like any bar, yoga,
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: going outside, walking, like literally anything. I've been loving that.
• 45:56
  Speaker 2: I love simple things like if I'm anxious during the day,
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: I'll go outside and literally like lay on the cement
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: in my backyard and just like lay in the sun
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: for like ten minutes and like get like the blood
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: flowing a little bit, get a little sweaty, and it
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: like is the best thing.
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: Whoa, It's literally the easiest thing we've never done. That
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: we go and just like we'll go stand on our
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: in our yard in the front and with our feet
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: in the grass if we're feeling both feeling like off. Yeah,
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: trend of like touching grass, Like it's a funny trend,
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: but it's like it's it's.
• 46:29
  Speaker 5: Actually exactly true.
• 46:31
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: No, I think those are the biggest things.
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: I think, making sure I'm taking time off my phone, Yeah,
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: spending time with Taylor the dogs. I love cleaning, so
• 46:42
  Speaker 2: like that's a good little I need to clean whenever
• 46:45
  Speaker 2: I'm like flustered.
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I did that more because I always feel so
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: much better once I do it. But like getting to
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: the point of doing it takes everything in me.
• 46:55
  Speaker 3: They always say, like, if you're feeling like you have
• 46:59
  Speaker 3: a walck going on your head, if you just like
• 47:00
  Speaker 3: organize your whatever, like your drawer, you know how you
• 47:04
  Speaker 3: always have like that junk dwarf. You organize it, it
• 47:07
  Speaker 3: like does so much for your mental health, and I'm
• 47:09
  Speaker 3: like I can attest to that.
• 47:10
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, very much.
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: Do you have any places that you've traveled to that
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: you're like, this is like my safe space and somewhere
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: that I want to go when I'm overwhelmed. I mean definitely,
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: they're just like a little far.
• 47:24
  Speaker 5: I know you spend time in You'll spend time.
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: In Idaho, right, yeah, And I know people like always
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: talk about how beautiful it is up there.
• 47:32
  Speaker 5: Yeah, what are the far places?
• 47:33
  Speaker 2: I well, one of my favorite places ever. I love London,
• 47:37
  Speaker 2: but but it's a whole farmhouse.
• 47:40
  Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I've heard it's amazing. It's a dream. It is.
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: It's a dream, but it's a track obviously to get
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: over there.
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: But it just feels so disconnected from world.
• 47:51
  Speaker 2: So I feel like it's a really nice I love
• 47:54
  Speaker 2: like Montacido, Santa Barbara area too, like anywhere up there.
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's super super sweet.
• 48:00
  Speaker 5: You Like, I love.
• 48:01
  Speaker 2: Nature, so whether that's like an ocean or a mountain,
• 48:04
  Speaker 2: and I can just leave my phone somewhere and sit
• 48:06
  Speaker 2: and have a coffee and like look at a view.
• 48:08
  Speaker 5: I'm so content.
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like you do a really good job
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: documenting things Because I associate you with like going to
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: I always think about like you going too, like beautiful places.
• 48:17
  Speaker 5: Oh right, yeah.
• 48:18
  Speaker 4: That's a nice association.
• 48:21
  Speaker 3: Wait, I just had a Oh this is so so random,
• 48:24
  Speaker 3: so random, and I don't know, I feel like I
• 48:28
  Speaker 3: just got married, But I don't know why.
• 48:29
  Speaker 4: I'm so maybe because you're getting married.
• 48:32
  Speaker 3: I've been thinking about weddings a lot, and like thinking
• 48:34
  Speaker 3: about like what I would do. Is there anything if
• 48:36
  Speaker 3: you could go back and do anything differently from your wedding?
• 48:40
  Speaker 3: Is there anything you would do different or would you
• 48:41
  Speaker 3: keep it all the same?
• 48:43
  Speaker 4: Um?
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: Literally, the only thing I would change is I would
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: change into my second look sooner, sooner, because I missed
• 48:53
  Speaker 2: the first forty five minutes of the dance floor and
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: that's like, that's where.
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: I meant to be, is the dance for that's where
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: my heart belongs.
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I missed the first like forty five minutes
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: to an hour of it, and so I was really
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: sad about that.
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: So when did you can you? Because she had a
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: thing about this too.
• 49:10
  Speaker 4: Wait, I'm so sad I didn't do it earlier.
• 49:12
  Speaker 5: When do you do it earlier?
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: Though, like when when did you do it versus when
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: you could have done it earlier?
• 49:17
  Speaker 2: I did it after like once. I guess once, like
• 49:21
  Speaker 2: dinner was like about to wrap.
• 49:23
  Speaker 5: Maybe so they did it.
• 49:24
  Speaker 2: I know, I'm trying to think it was like after
• 49:26
  Speaker 2: the speeches and everything is.
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: When I so you did like first dance, speeches, dinner
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: and then changed? Yeah? Wait when did we do our
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: first dance?
• 49:35
  Speaker 5: Oh wait?
• 49:36
  Speaker 4: Wait?
• 49:38
  Speaker 5: So we did our first dance outside?
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: This is really good.
• 49:41
  Speaker 5: This is really good for me.
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: What do I feel like?
• 49:47
  Speaker 5: We did our first nance and then we went inside?
• 49:50
  Speaker 5: I could be wrong.
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: Well, typically when you enter the reception, isn't that when
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: you do your first dance. Our first dance was outside
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: of our way.
• 49:59
  Speaker 2: There was like we had this piano outside that had
• 50:02
  Speaker 2: we have a lot of like musically talented friends. So
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: our friend like played the piano and sang our first
• 50:09
  Speaker 2: stand song.
• 50:10
  Speaker 5: And have you talked about what song that was? What
• 50:12
  Speaker 5: was your first Yeah?
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: It was Lifetime by Jessin Bieber.
• 50:16
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I love that.
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it was Lifetime.
• 50:21
  Speaker 5: No, it was it.
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: It was one of those songs they are guys, you know,
• 50:26
  Speaker 2: I'm like upseessed with my husband.
• 50:27
  Speaker 5: I forget these little details. So I'm just happy about
• 50:30
  Speaker 5: this Lifetime.
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: I know, I know.
• 50:33
  Speaker 2: It's it's confusing because I know he also sang our
• 50:36
  Speaker 2: friend Aiden also sang Heaven's Knife, which was the song
• 50:39
  Speaker 2: that I walked down the aisle to. And it's also
• 50:41
  Speaker 2: the song Taylor proposed to me too, Like you know,
• 50:43
  Speaker 2: I love that song. So our friend Aiden recorded it
• 50:47
  Speaker 2: and then Taylor played it while he was proposing, And
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: that was also the song that I walked on.
• 50:51
  Speaker 5: The aisle too.
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: It was lifetime.
• 50:53
  Speaker 5: Wow, I have to fact check this out.
• 50:56
  Speaker 2: I'm like second guessing myself because he has another sweet
• 50:58
  Speaker 2: song about Haley.
• 51:02
  Speaker 5: Look, I think it's too much but much. I think
• 51:07
  Speaker 5: it was lifetime. It was thank you quick Google searchain,
• 51:11
  Speaker 5: we got it. Thank you. Yeah, I guess I need
• 51:15
  Speaker 5: to rewatch my wedding.
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: Time to day till in the anniversary coming up that
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: you can rewatch. Y'all can have a night and watch
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: the video.
• 51:24
  Speaker 5: Yeah, we're definitely. E'scared to see this clip and he's
• 51:26
  Speaker 5: gonna be like, bro, what is wrong with you?
• 51:30
  Speaker 4: It's very funny because I think, like what anniversary would be?
• 51:34
  Speaker 3: This is our third third? If I asked Robby and
• 51:36
  Speaker 3: our third wedding anniversary. If he doesn't remember our first dance.
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: I think he'll remember it was He'll remember it was
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: blocked in was everywhere in the wedding.
• 51:48
  Speaker 5: Wait, what are the have y'all done? The anniversary things?
• 51:51
  Speaker 5: Like every year there's a what.
• 51:53
  Speaker 4: Is the gift that you like?
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: The traditional gifts like the first one's paper, second one
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: is florals. I think I don't know he skipped the
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: floor on what's the third? You can really you can
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: impress them with the third. The third one is a
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: leather you.
• 52:11
  Speaker 5: Could get she loves leathers. This is good.
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: This could get and you could be like, why Ohana,
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: I was thinking.
• 52:23
  Speaker 4: My mind went to like leather lingerie, she's crunching up
• 52:31
  Speaker 4: cow girl.
• 52:33
  Speaker 5: Yeah. I was literally like a cute little wallet. He
• 52:38
  Speaker 5: loves the smell of leather, so he like loves.
• 52:40
  Speaker 2: Even better All Saints, all Saints jacket.
• 52:44
  Speaker 5: That'd because.
• 52:47
  Speaker 2: My mind always goes because this could be this could
• 52:51
  Speaker 2: be dirty dirty.
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well you could impress them and be like, I
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: don't know if you know, but every anniversary has a
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: theme and this year's leather, which which I direction you go,
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: I'll report back.
• 53:04
  Speaker 3: Where would you even find naughty and nice. Oh my gosh,
• 53:06
  Speaker 3: a leather like crotches panty.
• 53:09
  Speaker 4: I can find one right now.
• 53:10
  Speaker 5: In her drawer.
• 53:11
  Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, you don't think I have one, You are mistaken.
• 53:16
  Speaker 4: I can find you one right now.
• 53:18
  Speaker 5: I just did.
• 53:18
  Speaker 2: My girlfriend just got married in for her bachelorette we
• 53:22
  Speaker 2: all like got her lingerie and then she like modeled
• 53:24
  Speaker 2: it for us.
• 53:25
  Speaker 5: It was the cutest thing.
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: But I was like, I could literally never do that
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: for my girl.
• 53:29
  Speaker 5: I would never. I could never. Yeah that's a lot.
• 53:34
  Speaker 5: Let me see on Amazon.
• 53:37
  Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, I just because it was the easiest thing. Okay,
• 53:45
  Speaker 4: I'm just trying to give you inspiration.
• 53:47
  Speaker 5: That didn't look croutchless to me.
• 53:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you want to see crotches, Oh you can this
• 53:52
  Speaker 3: little situation.
• 53:53
  Speaker 4: Wow, that looks like feather. Not really.
• 53:56
  Speaker 5: Look, I don't know if I'm bad enough.
• 53:58
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just saying the world, the world is your oyster.
• 54:01
  Speaker 4: Oh wow?
• 54:02
  Speaker 5: Is that?
• 54:02
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 54:02
  Speaker 5: I don't know.
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: She would absolutely do a lingerie modeling, even with Crotchla's fancy.
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: She would have no problem doing that. For I did
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: her boudoir shoe. I I did that for my girlfriend,
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: and I was literally.
• 54:15
  Speaker 4: Crap, you have the photos.
• 54:17
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I called Taylor. I was like, I was just
• 54:19
  Speaker 5: creative director. It's fine, just like girls are weird, but like.
• 54:23
  Speaker 4: It's so true.
• 54:24
  Speaker 3: I was looking to hire somebody to do it, and
• 54:25
  Speaker 3: I was like, I'm going to pay thousands of dollars
• 54:28
  Speaker 3: and it's quite uncomfortable to be around, like in my
• 54:31
  Speaker 3: crossles panties in front of a stranger.
• 54:33
  Speaker 4: Why not. Becca takes amazing photos.
• 54:36
  Speaker 5: Really take them on my canon G seven X. Oh yeah,
• 54:40
  Speaker 5: I did, like polaroids.
• 54:42
  Speaker 2: So we need a thing where you like go up
• 54:43
  Speaker 2: to him at the wedding and like show him the photo.
• 54:46
  Speaker 5: Oh you seen that trend?
• 54:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that that's what That's what we did for.
• 54:52
  Speaker 5: It's funny.
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: Well, I just want to say thank you for using
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: your outing of the house today to come and talk
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: to us.
• 55:00
  Speaker 5: Yeah, we love you. I love what you do.
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: I love your podcast, I love your foundation, I love you,
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: I love your husband. I think y'all are wonderful.
• 55:08
  Speaker 3: And we support everything and anything that you guys do.
• 55:11
  Speaker 5: Yeah, thank you for coming on.
• 55:13
  Speaker 4: Can you plug where everybody can watch listen all the things.
• 55:16
  Speaker 5: Yeah, the Squeeze podcasts.
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: We're at the Squeeze on Instagram.
• 55:20
  Speaker 2: If you look up the Squeeze podcast on YouTube, on Spotify,
• 55:24
  Speaker 2: wherever you get your.
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: Podcast, and where can they follow you. I'm just at
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: tail ouner.
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: I'm missus tail outner on TikTok because someone has tail
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: louner and they won't give it to me unless I
• 55:35
  Speaker 2: pay them.
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: So we're missus tail outner even more of a just
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: a flex like, oh yeah, you know you don't want
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: me to have my name, let me add a little.
• 55:42
  Speaker 5: M rs yeah.
• 55:45
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 55:45
  Speaker 5: Thank you guys, thank you so much, thank you for
• 55:48
  Speaker 5: We love you.
• 55:49
  Speaker 4: We love you.
• 55:50
  Speaker 5: Bye bye