Latest / Crime Stories with Nancy Grace / Killers Amongst Us: Jodi Arias Stabs Naked Lover Dead In Shower (episode 3)
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- 0:04Speaker 1: Hi, guys, Nancy Grace here, welcome back to Killers amongst Us,
- 0:08Speaker 1: a production of iHeart Media and Crime Online. You know,
- 0:13Speaker 1: we go through life and we meet so many people
- 0:17Speaker 1: along the way, people you pick up and leave behind,
- 0:22Speaker 1: or you pick up and carry with you for a while,
- 0:25Speaker 1: and it seems like it all in and out as
- 0:30Speaker 1: you go through life, and you really never know who
- 0:34Speaker 1: you're passing along the way, whose life is going to
- 0:39Speaker 1: intersect with yours, and what if any effect it may have. Well,
- 0:48Speaker 1: the same thing here Jody Arius and Travis Alexander's lives
- 0:55Speaker 1: intersect or should I say collided? Who would have ever
- 1:01Speaker 1: suspected Killers amongst Us? I mean, Ncy Grace, thanks for
- 1:09Speaker 1: being with us. With me is what a group of experts.
- 1:15Speaker 1: Alexis tos Chuck, Crime Online dot com investigative reporter, also
- 1:19Speaker 1: with Lead Stories dot Com. Joseph Scott Morgan, Professor Forensics,
- 1:23Speaker 1: Jacksonville State University, author of Blood Beneath My Feet on
- 1:28Speaker 1: Amazon Star, Poisonous Liaisons on the True Crime Network. Death
- 1:33Speaker 1: investigator Karen Stark, renowned psychologist joining us out of New York.
- 1:39Speaker 1: You can find her at Karen Stark dot com. Kirk
- 1:43Speaker 1: Nurmi legal commentator, cast member Radical Body Transformation Season three,
- 1:48Speaker 1: Amazon Prime, and more importantly, in My Mind, author of
- 1:53Speaker 1: Trapped with miss Arius. You can find him at Kirk
- 1:57Speaker 1: Nurmi dot com Special guests with Me. A very dear
- 2:02Speaker 1: friend of Travis Alexander's Chris Hughes, inspirational speaker, author of
- 2:08Speaker 1: an Amazon number one seller, Our Friend Travis, The Travis
- 2:12Speaker 1: Alexander's Story. You can find him on instat at the
- 2:16Speaker 1: Real C. S. Hughes. Guys, thank you for being with me.
- 2:23Speaker 1: And before we go forward, I just want to pause
- 2:26Speaker 1: a moment and think about Travis Alexander and how he
- 2:35Speaker 1: and jodi Arius have affected in some way all of
- 2:42Speaker 1: our lives. We left off with friends warning Travis Alexander
- 2:49Speaker 1: that Jodi Arius was not as she seemed, but he
- 2:54Speaker 1: was hooked or should I say they were hooked on
- 2:56Speaker 1: each other. It was like a drug. No matter how
- 3:00Speaker 1: many times you warned him, Chris, he would not break up. Yeah,
- 3:04Speaker 1: that was a weird thing. He I think what you
- 3:08Speaker 1: said was accurately hooked on each other. I mean at
- 3:11Speaker 1: her hooks and him. She wanted to be married so
- 3:13Speaker 1: bad and and play playhouse. And you know Travis was
- 3:19Speaker 1: had been living the Mormon lifestyle for a long time,
- 3:21Speaker 1: and then suddenly he's not living so Mormon anymore, you know,
- 3:25Speaker 1: with their rendezvous, and they couldn't give each other up. Unfortunately,
- 3:29Speaker 1: everything that Jodi Aris was doing was calculated toward marriage
- 3:35Speaker 1: with Travis Alexander. She found a catch and she was
- 3:39Speaker 1: not letting go much less throwing it back in the water.
- 3:42Speaker 1: That was not going to happen. Take a listen to
- 3:47Speaker 1: Aaron Dewey speaking to me. Aaron, you told me that
- 3:52Speaker 1: you lived with Travis during the time he dated Jodi Aris.
- 3:55Speaker 1: What was that relationship? Why what did you observe? If anything?
- 3:59Speaker 1: You know, when they first met, Travis was on cloud nine.
- 4:02Speaker 1: Here was a very attractive young lady that he that
- 4:05Speaker 1: he had met at that convention in Las Vegas. They
- 4:07Speaker 1: shared a lot of similar interests, some similar passions, a
- 4:11Speaker 1: real drive and ambition in life, and so he thought
- 4:15Speaker 1: he had found the one. And at the beginning of
- 4:18Speaker 1: the relationship, everything seemed like it was going to go
- 4:21Speaker 1: perfectly and possibly go all the way. You know, things
- 4:24Speaker 1: deteriorated quickly. There were lots of trust issues and out
- 4:31Speaker 1: right there, why there, Aaron, let's not put perfume on
- 4:34Speaker 1: the pig. What do you mean by there were a
- 4:36Speaker 1: lot of trust issues. Well, you know, she's admitted in
- 4:40Speaker 1: some of her statements that she would go through his emails,
- 4:44Speaker 1: his social media accounts, his text messages. There was a
- 4:48Speaker 1: time when they were on vacation together and he was
- 4:52Speaker 1: a sleeper in the shower and a text message came
- 4:54Speaker 1: in from another girl, and she responded to that girl
- 4:57Speaker 1: as if she was Travis, telling her how happy that
- 5:03Speaker 1: he was to be with her and she's the best
- 5:04Speaker 1: thing that ever happened, in an attempt to scare the
- 5:07Speaker 1: scroll away from Travis. Okay, right there, Alexis. I want
- 5:12Speaker 1: to come to you for the facts behind that. But
- 5:15Speaker 1: just right there, Karen Stark, we're now a psychologist joining
- 5:19Speaker 1: us out of Manhattan going through somebody's text messages, their emails,
- 5:25Speaker 1: much less doing it on the sly when the person
- 5:28Speaker 1: is a sleeper in the shower. I mean, waiting for
- 5:31Speaker 1: that moment and then actually responding to someone as if
- 5:36Speaker 1: you are the owner of the phone. That's that's beyond
- 5:41Speaker 1: the pail, Karen, right there, not beyond the pail for
- 5:44Speaker 1: somebody who has an antisocial personality, Nancy, this is somebody
- 5:49Speaker 1: who has to have possession of the other person in dominance,
- 5:53Speaker 1: it's pathological possessive. Oh where he was, what he was doing?
- 5:58Speaker 1: And ted total in troll. Kirk Nermi, author of Trapped
- 6:03Speaker 1: with miss Arius on Amazon, Kirk, I think I told you.
- 6:08Speaker 1: By the time I was alone with David's laptop, my
- 6:11Speaker 1: now husband, and I thought, well, I guess i'd better
- 6:14Speaker 1: check his emails. I didn't really even have a curiosity,
- 6:17Speaker 1: but I thought, well, here's his email, let's open, and
- 6:19Speaker 1: I'm alone, I'll check it. I thought I was gonna die. Kirk.
- 6:24Speaker 1: It was so boring. No matter how much I looked,
- 6:26Speaker 1: I found nothing. It was all about business transactions. My
- 6:29Speaker 1: eyes were bleeding. I swore to never subject myself to
- 6:34Speaker 1: that again, and I have not. And I'm happy to
- 6:38Speaker 1: say that was over fifteen years ago that I dared
- 6:42Speaker 1: to look at his email. It was awful. My point is,
- 6:48Speaker 1: what right there you were quote Trapped with miss Arius?
- 6:52Speaker 1: Did you ever feel that she was second guessing everything
- 6:56Speaker 1: you said and not trusting what you had, what your
- 6:59Speaker 1: thoughts were, well, Karen said was exactly right about control.
- 7:02Speaker 1: Miss Arius wants to have controls. She wants to have
- 7:04Speaker 1: dominance over a person. So one of the things I
- 7:07Speaker 1: experienced in my five and a half years, yes, Nancy,
- 7:10Speaker 1: five and a half years of being trapped with miss Arius,
- 7:14Speaker 1: was the constant phone calls, the constant need for control,
- 7:16Speaker 1: the constant monitoring, the constant desire for attention to make
- 7:21Speaker 1: sure that she was in control. I saw that for
- 7:23Speaker 1: five and a half years. Well, you know what, Travis
- 7:26Speaker 1: was really no match for that kind of single mindedness.
- 7:30Speaker 1: But listening to his friends, things slowly began to change.
- 7:35Speaker 1: Take a listen to our friends at crime online dot com.
- 7:39Speaker 1: It didn't take long for the relations to cool, partly
- 7:42Speaker 1: because of Travis Alexander's interest in other women. Here's picture
- 7:46Speaker 1: Perfect author Shanahoga. Jody went through his phone and discovered
- 7:50Speaker 1: these florty messages to other women, and she decided to
- 7:53Speaker 1: end the relationship at that point. But at the same time,
- 7:56Speaker 1: Travis was looking to end the relationship, and partly of
- 8:00Speaker 1: arius Is possessiveness. The couple did end the relationship, but
- 8:04Speaker 1: continued to be friends with benefits. You know that whole
- 8:08Speaker 1: friends with benefits that that sounds way off kilter. I mean,
- 8:12Speaker 1: you're supposed to be friends, but you're sleeping together. I
- 8:16Speaker 1: just don't see how that can ever work out in
- 8:18Speaker 1: any good way. Never a good ending there. So Alexis
- 8:23Speaker 1: terrescheck joining me crime online dot Com investigative reporter, Thanks
- 8:28Speaker 1: finally began to cool down. How well. Jody actually moved
- 8:33Speaker 1: about a thousand miles away from Travis. He was living
- 8:36Speaker 1: in Phenix, Arizona. She at this point had no jobs.
- 8:39Speaker 1: She wasn't living with him, she wasn't living with any
- 8:41Speaker 1: of our other ex boyfriends. She kind of had no options,
- 8:44Speaker 1: you know, she had no boyfriend, no jobs. So she
- 8:47Speaker 1: moved back home to Wayrika, California, which is kind of
- 8:50Speaker 1: right on the border of California and Organ It's very
- 8:53Speaker 1: northern California. You know, her family owned a restaurant, and
- 8:59Speaker 1: she moved back there. So they were not really in
- 9:03Speaker 1: contact in person, but they kept up. They're very spicy
- 9:10Speaker 1: sex phone sex conversations, which there are tons Yeah there,
- 9:15Speaker 1: as you say, spicy sex life through phone sex with me,
- 9:24Speaker 1: Alexis eschat crime online dot com and lead stories dot Com.
- 9:28Speaker 1: Alexis hold on, hold on, so they break up? Wait? Wait,
- 9:33Speaker 1: let me go to Chris, he's longtime friend of Travis.
- 9:36Speaker 1: Alexander's did he reveal to you that he and Jodie
- 9:40Speaker 1: have broken up. You know, it's also fuzzy to me.
- 9:42Speaker 1: And I mean I really in all the conversations I
- 9:46Speaker 1: had with Travis, I don't ever remember him telling me
- 9:49Speaker 1: he was with her. You know, hey, we're she's my
- 9:52Speaker 1: girlfriend now, you know, we're in a committed, loving relationship.
- 9:57Speaker 1: We never had that conversation, so there was there was
- 10:00Speaker 1: no conversation to be had on the back end, you know,
- 10:03Speaker 1: just to say, hey, we're update, we're broken up now.
- 10:06Speaker 1: But the only thing that he ever did say to
- 10:08Speaker 1: me is he would complain. He would complain about her,
- 10:12Speaker 1: you know, little things here and there. He never told
- 10:15Speaker 1: me about the big things, because if he told me
- 10:17Speaker 1: about the big things, like like slashing his tires and
- 10:22Speaker 1: stealing things from his house, you know, I would have
- 10:25Speaker 1: been like, you know, I told you, did I tell you?
- 10:28Speaker 1: Didn't I tell you she was nuts? So he wouldn't.
- 10:30Speaker 1: He would never tell me about the big like really
- 10:33Speaker 1: violating psychotic things that she was doing. And I had
- 10:37Speaker 1: to find out about much much of this after the fact. Unfortunately, Well,
- 10:41Speaker 1: you're absolutely right, Chris Hughes take a listener friends at
- 10:44Speaker 1: ABC's twenty twenties. I absolutely know that she was stalking
- 10:48Speaker 1: him many times, just like when she went in through
- 10:50Speaker 1: the back door when he was, you know, kissing another
- 10:53Speaker 1: girl and his cow. She mean, she's spying on him,
- 10:56Speaker 1: That's what's really happening there. She slashed his tires, she
- 10:59Speaker 1: broke into his email account, she hack into his Facebook page,
- 11:02Speaker 1: she broke into his house and stole his journals. She
- 11:06Speaker 1: read his diary. She just stood these crazy stalking behaviors. Okay,
- 11:11Speaker 1: whoa wait, it's just like drinking from the fire hydrant.
- 11:14Speaker 1: There's just so much here you can't drink it all
- 11:17Speaker 1: in at once. Alexis to rest Chuck speaking of her
- 11:21Speaker 1: showing up after they're broken up. Okay, so they break up,
- 11:25Speaker 1: she shows up at his home. What a coinkie dink
- 11:29Speaker 1: that it's when he has a date with another woman.
- 11:31Speaker 1: Now you know, she was hacking into his email and
- 11:34Speaker 1: text his phone message. She knew they had a date,
- 11:39Speaker 1: and so she was hanging around stalking out his you know,
- 11:44Speaker 1: really watching. Could have been arrested, could have been arrested
- 11:47Speaker 1: for being like a peeping tom, for trust passing, and
- 11:49Speaker 1: can you imagine you've got a date you don't really
- 11:53Speaker 1: know the person, and you're potentially sharing your first kiss
- 11:56Speaker 1: on the sofa, and then out of the corner of
- 11:58Speaker 1: your eye you see Jodi Aris his head up behind
- 12:00Speaker 1: the bushes. And this terrified not only Travis, but all
- 12:03Speaker 1: his roommates were really afraid of her. And then he
- 12:07Speaker 1: gets up one morning and his tires are splashed his
- 12:10Speaker 1: new car, and they immediately there's not even a question
- 12:14Speaker 1: anyone's mind. They're not thinking, oh, this is maybe some
- 12:17Speaker 1: teenage pranksters in neighborhood. Nope, everybody knew it was Jodi Arius.
- 12:21Speaker 1: There wasn't a share. What it's the phrase an ounce
- 12:25Speaker 1: of doubts, a shred of doubt, shred head, Oh thank you? Yeah? Yeah.
- 12:32Speaker 1: And what about that Chris Hughes, he never told you
- 12:35Speaker 1: that he suspected Jody Arius of slitting his tires. Towards
- 12:38Speaker 1: the very end he did because it was I mean,
- 12:41Speaker 1: it had gotten out, you know, we were all talking
- 12:43Speaker 1: about it, because it happens twice. It didn't just happen
- 12:46Speaker 1: one time. It happened twice, and it was on his
- 12:49Speaker 1: BMW and anybody's ever owned a VMW, those tires are about,
- 12:52Speaker 1: you know, three to five hundred dollars each and it
- 12:54Speaker 1: was a big It was devastating, you know, financially, he
- 12:57Speaker 1: wasn't in a good spot. And here's the cycle passing
- 13:00Speaker 1: his tires. And I remember the second time, he didn't
- 13:03Speaker 1: even know what he's gonna do. He was so distraught financially,
- 13:07Speaker 1: you know what he couldn't pay for. He couldn't pay
- 13:10Speaker 1: for another tire. It's like, how many times do you
- 13:12Speaker 1: have to do this with this woman? Wow? So did
- 13:15Speaker 1: he ever talk to you about when she kind of
- 13:17Speaker 1: like rose up in the window while he was kissing
- 13:21Speaker 1: his new date. No, he wouldn't, dare He never brought
- 13:26Speaker 1: that up. Well, speaking of stalking steaking out, The two
- 13:32Speaker 1: were technically broken up, but one thing seemed to hold
- 13:37Speaker 1: them together a hot sex life. Listen, you are either
- 13:42Speaker 1: in the bath. Oh, when we took a bath together,
- 13:49Speaker 1: that was that was s real anest. I mean maybe
- 13:54Speaker 1: he candle lights the bubbles. If you were amazing? You
- 14:00Speaker 1: made me seriously, you made me feel like a godden.
- 14:04Speaker 1: I wasn't saying you were like worshiping me, but you were.
- 14:08Speaker 1: You made me feel like I was the most freaking
- 14:12Speaker 1: beautiful woman on the whole planet. Right, I so felt
- 14:17Speaker 1: like I was a goddess and so aside from all
- 14:21Speaker 1: those form susy feelings, but like it was, it was
- 14:24Speaker 1: so sexy and I'm so hot and oh gosh, I
- 14:31Speaker 1: don't know, that's a lot of hard where the curity
- 14:34Speaker 1: pop were, ri kids, you were hot, a beauty woman.
- 14:39Speaker 1: You are seriously hearing about because I touched yourself. Yeah,
- 14:46Speaker 1: I'm already right, I just started. I'm gonna tell you
- 14:53Speaker 1: to as treat it. What's that, I'm gonna tell you
- 14:59Speaker 1: to a treat Oh my gosh, that is so debasing. Okay,
- 15:09Speaker 1: So that's just a tiny tidbit of the fantasy life
- 15:15Speaker 1: and the phone sex life that Arius was serving up,
- 15:20Speaker 1: and Travis Alexander fell for it, and yes he went
- 15:25Speaker 1: along with it. Yes he continued to have sex with
- 15:28Speaker 1: Jody Arius. I mean, I wonder if he had any
- 15:34Speaker 1: idea that he was being manipulated by sex all along.
- 15:38Speaker 1: I mean, Karen Stark, this is the oldest story in
- 15:42Speaker 1: the book. It certainly is dancy, and you know we're
- 15:49Speaker 1: talking about it. We're listening to the voice of somebody
- 15:52Speaker 1: who was really manipulated by her, and that is not
- 15:58Speaker 1: a difficult thing to do when dealing with someone who's
- 16:01Speaker 1: a psychopath. Because she comes up. Listen to her, she's giggling,
- 16:06Speaker 1: you know, like, Oh, I'm a little embarrassed to be
- 16:08Speaker 1: saying this, but it's hot and it can be very
- 16:13Speaker 1: enticing to someone who doesn't realize that they're dealing with
- 16:17Speaker 1: a machine, a person who is devoided guilt and empathy
- 16:23Speaker 1: and who is very, very dangerous. And you know, I
- 16:26Speaker 1: want to go now for the first time to death Investigator,
- 16:29Speaker 1: Professor Forensics, Jacksonville State University, Joseph Scott, Morgan, Joe Scott.
- 16:35Speaker 1: The sex aspect of their relationship after the breakup is
- 16:42Speaker 1: very critical because from what I have seen, and this
- 16:46Speaker 1: is anecdotal on my part, when you have a sex
- 16:51Speaker 1: fueled attack, the crime scene is crazy. Yeah, You're absolutely right.
- 16:58Speaker 1: It's it turns in a lot of these that I've
- 17:02Speaker 1: seen over the years turned into just absolute bloodbath too.
- 17:06Speaker 1: Chris Hugh's a long time friend of Travis Alexander's. Chris,
- 17:09Speaker 1: did you have any idea? I mean, did Travis tell
- 17:13Speaker 1: you he was still seeing Jody Arius for sex? True,
- 17:18Speaker 1: they weren't really getting back together, but they were still
- 17:21Speaker 1: seeing each other. Yeah, he didn't mention it. I mean
- 17:25Speaker 1: the timeline of all of this gets, you know, gets
- 17:27Speaker 1: fuzzy after all these years. But I do remember that
- 17:30Speaker 1: they were continuing to take trips together. You know, I
- 17:34Speaker 1: would either see online or or would hear about them
- 17:39Speaker 1: taking trips. But no, he just didn't talk about it,
- 17:43Speaker 1: you know, I mean after that experience in my house
- 17:45Speaker 1: and I told him she's not welcome here and sky
- 17:48Speaker 1: kicked her out of our house and told her what
- 17:50Speaker 1: she really thought about her. Unfortunately, Travis kind of took
- 17:54Speaker 1: that whole relationship underground. We just didn't talk about her
- 17:57Speaker 1: because he knew exactly how I felt about her. So
- 18:00Speaker 1: he certainly didn't tell you he was hooking it. Definitely
- 18:02Speaker 1: didn't tell me that too. Alexi's to rest check joining
- 18:04Speaker 1: me crime online dot com, Alexis, how was Jody Area
- 18:10Speaker 1: is still seeing Travis Alexander. I mean, she lives a
- 18:13Speaker 1: whole state away. They she would drive down and meet him,
- 18:18Speaker 1: and they would meet up. They would have their secret
- 18:20Speaker 1: remnevis and in fact, he even told her that he
- 18:24Speaker 1: was going to take her on a trip that he
- 18:26Speaker 1: was going kind of he was going on a business
- 18:28Speaker 1: trip where he was it was a reward for the
- 18:31Speaker 1: highest sellers, and he was going to take Jody on
- 18:33Speaker 1: this trip to Kanco in Mexico with him, so even
- 18:36Speaker 1: but this is what he told her. Now is that
- 18:38Speaker 1: the same trip he ended up planning to take another woman. Yep,
- 18:42Speaker 1: changed his mind after things went they you know, they
- 18:45Speaker 1: had kept up their phone sex, they saw each other.
- 18:49Speaker 1: She would drive down there secretly. But then he told
- 18:51Speaker 1: her I'm not taking you anymore. I'm going to take
- 18:53Speaker 1: another woman. And her response was to drive all the
- 18:59Speaker 1: way I guess across the desert to get to him
- 19:03Speaker 1: and have a day of marathon sex to convince him
- 19:08Speaker 1: to take her instead of the other day. Karen Stark,
- 19:16Speaker 1: you're the shrink, and boy do we need a shrink
- 19:19Speaker 1: right now. If a guy told me, hey, you know,
- 19:21Speaker 1: I promise I was going to take it to can Kom,
- 19:24Speaker 1: but I decided to take somebody else, I would never
- 19:28Speaker 1: call him text him again, and no matter how I
- 19:31Speaker 1: felt about it, and it might kill me to cut
- 19:34Speaker 1: it off, that would be it. I sure as they
- 19:37Speaker 1: wouldn't drive across a desert to get to him for
- 19:41Speaker 1: a day of marathon sex to convince him otherwise, I mean,
- 19:45Speaker 1: who wants him for Pete's sake? But that's not the
- 19:48Speaker 1: way she saw it. Karen Stark, No, she didn't, because
- 19:52Speaker 1: you're talking about yourself man to the irrational person, and
- 19:55Speaker 1: you're not talking although she wasn't irrational. You're talking her
- 20:00Speaker 1: again about that possessiveness, that pathological possessiveness. She had to
- 20:05Speaker 1: have him. It had nothing to do with love or caring.
- 20:09Speaker 1: He could not be with someone else, and so in
- 20:12Speaker 1: a way, it was a challenge for her. She drove
- 20:15Speaker 1: across the desert. She was going to do any kind
- 20:18Speaker 1: of sexual act or a thing that you could possibly
- 20:21Speaker 1: do to get this guy to stay connected to her.
- 20:25Speaker 1: Because this was a challenge and a game. It had
- 20:29Speaker 1: nothing to do with feeling. It's almost like, let me
- 20:31Speaker 1: out a Kurt Narmy. You've spent more time with Arias
- 20:33Speaker 1: than any of us have. It's almost like an addiction.
- 20:37Speaker 1: I'm like any contact with your target, if you're a
- 20:41Speaker 1: stalker with your love object, any contact, if it's a
- 20:46Speaker 1: phone call, if it's a text, if you force yourself
- 20:50Speaker 1: on them by driving across the desert to be with them,
- 20:53Speaker 1: whether they're expecting you or not, it is like a
- 20:56Speaker 1: hit of crack or a hit of heroine. It palms
- 21:00Speaker 1: you down for a little while at least until you
- 21:04Speaker 1: need another hit. Did you get a peak of that
- 21:08Speaker 1: part of Jody Airis's personality? Oh, unfortunately I got more
- 21:12Speaker 1: than a peak, Nancy, And you bet, I mean that
- 21:14Speaker 1: is exactly it. The need to control has to be
- 21:17Speaker 1: satiated over and over again. And I certainly remember when
- 21:21Speaker 1: I tried to get away from her in April of
- 21:24Speaker 1: excuse me, in January of twenty eleven, when I was
- 21:26Speaker 1: going to leave the Public Defender's office. She did absolutely
- 21:30Speaker 1: everything she could. She got the judge to appoint lawyers
- 21:34Speaker 1: on her behalf, to do everything, she could, call me
- 21:37Speaker 1: as many times as a day she could with her
- 21:39Speaker 1: different arguments of why I should remain as her lawyer
- 21:42Speaker 1: when I was trying to get off. So she did
- 21:44Speaker 1: everything she could to keep that control, to keep that possessiveness,
- 21:49Speaker 1: and ultimately, you know, she was successful. Sadly, you know,
- 21:54Speaker 1: Kurt Nrmy, you kind of dodged my question when I
- 21:57Speaker 1: asked you this before. But I think she flirted with you.
- 22:01Speaker 1: I think she used her sexuality. And you don't have
- 22:03Speaker 1: to go tell me about how happy you are in
- 22:05Speaker 1: your marriage and all that. I know that that's nothing
- 22:08Speaker 1: to do with her flirting with you and trying to
- 22:11Speaker 1: control you with a sexual aspect. Well, look, Dancy, I
- 22:15Speaker 1: don't just so you know. We saw it in the court, right,
- 22:19Speaker 1: so you can pretend it it and happen what I
- 22:21Speaker 1: believe you are, my lion eyes. It was something, as
- 22:25Speaker 1: I said, I always said, she tried right in the beginning.
- 22:27Speaker 1: It doesn't go very far. And as Karen would probably say,
- 22:31Speaker 1: as someone like miss Arius learns how to control someone
- 22:35Speaker 1: or learns the best buttons to push as they move along,
- 22:38Speaker 1: and soon she learned that those buttons weren't available to
- 22:41Speaker 1: just tried another button, like your ethical duty to stick
- 22:44Speaker 1: with her, and it would put her in a disadvantage. Okay, okay,
- 22:49Speaker 1: but just so you know, I know that the flirting happened.
- 22:52Speaker 1: So as much as you want to deny it, I
- 22:55Speaker 1: saw what I saw, all right. Okay, you say, you
- 22:58Speaker 1: say potato, I say potato, but have it your way.
- 23:03Speaker 1: So here we see her driving across the desert for
- 23:07Speaker 1: this day of marathon sex to convince Travis Alexander that
- 23:13Speaker 1: he should take her to Cancaune and not him. Chris,
- 23:17Speaker 1: he's a long time friend of Travis. Did you know
- 23:19Speaker 1: there was a cancaine business trip coming out. Absolutely. Yeah,
- 23:23Speaker 1: Travis and I were supposed to go together. We had
- 23:27Speaker 1: been planning it for a long time. He never mentioned
- 23:30Speaker 1: to me that he was going to take Jody Washington say,
- 23:34Speaker 1: he never mentioned. I don't remember it at this point.
- 23:37Speaker 1: If he did say he was going to be taking Jody.
- 23:40Speaker 1: But these things you qualify, you know, and then it's
- 23:43Speaker 1: several months I mean, maybe even six months more that
- 23:46Speaker 1: you have to wait before you before you actually take
- 23:49Speaker 1: the trip. And so the last I don't know, maybe
- 23:53Speaker 1: the last month of Travis's life, he had this major scheme.
- 23:57Speaker 1: You know, he had this plan. He was so excited
- 24:00Speaker 1: about it because he was dating, well, he was interested
- 24:03Speaker 1: in a new this new woman. She was not really
- 24:07Speaker 1: interested in him. She just was more about friendship. But
- 24:11Speaker 1: he had this whole plan about you know, hey, if
- 24:13Speaker 1: if if she sees me in my element and sees
- 24:16Speaker 1: me with all of my colleagues and how I am
- 24:19Speaker 1: with you guys, and how I am with your kids,
- 24:22Speaker 1: you know, maybe she'll see a different side of me
- 24:25Speaker 1: and start to like me, you know, in a romantic way.
- 24:28Speaker 1: So he was putting his whole thing together, and yeah,
- 24:32Speaker 1: we were we were supposed to be on that trip together.
- 24:34Speaker 1: So on the eve of the trip, Jody Arius literally
- 24:38Speaker 1: crosses the desert to convince Travis Alexander that she was
- 24:43Speaker 1: the best one to go with him to King Kun.
- 24:48Speaker 1: Take a listen to Zach Billings speaking to me that day.
- 24:54Speaker 1: I remember I was actually watching a movie with my
- 24:59Speaker 1: girlfriend the time or my wife now, and I remember
- 25:05Speaker 1: getting knock on my door and Travis's friends came came
- 25:10Speaker 1: to the door and they said, have you seen Travis?
- 25:13Speaker 1: And I said, well, no, I haven't seen Travis. He's
- 25:16Speaker 1: supposed to be in Cancoon or out on vacation right now.
- 25:19Speaker 1: And they said, yes, he is, but he's supposed to
- 25:21Speaker 1: be here with me with Mimi. And so I said, well,
- 25:25Speaker 1: have you checked his bedroom? And that was my first thought.
- 25:29Speaker 1: So they said, well, no, we have in the doors locked.
- 25:31Speaker 1: And I said, I think he keeps a spare set
- 25:32Speaker 1: of keys downstairs. So I went downstairs and I searched
- 25:36Speaker 1: for him and grabbed a few sets of keys, and
- 25:38Speaker 1: came back upstairs and tried a few different sets of keys,
- 25:40Speaker 1: and one of them happened to be his bedroom key,
- 25:43Speaker 1: And as soon as the door was opened, my heart
- 25:47Speaker 1: just sank on the right hand side. I did end
- 25:51Speaker 1: up seeing a pool of blood and looked down the
- 25:56Speaker 1: hallway and saw just bloods true throughout the hallway, and
- 26:02Speaker 1: my heart just sank. I ended up going into the
- 26:06Speaker 1: closet um that's adjacent to the hallway and it opens
- 26:10Speaker 1: up to the bed bathroom as well, and that's when
- 26:13Speaker 1: I saw his body. And I came back out and
- 26:14Speaker 1: I just told everybody he's dead. Called called nine one,
- 26:17Speaker 1: what happens next? Nancy Grace signing off and killers abovest
- 26:23Speaker 1: Us good Bathrond