Episode 11: Why Does She Hold on to Every Argument
You made up weeks ago. So why is the old fight back on the table the moment a new one starts?
Rav Chaim Friedlander brings the Gemara in Niddah: a man is easily appeased and a woman is not, because each was created from something different. Adam came from the soft earth; Chava was built from bone. Rabbi Klapper explains what that means in a real home. The intellect can admit a mistake and move on, but emotions don't settle so fast, and an old hurt can be woken by the smallest trigger. So when she brings up the last fight, don't answer with "Why are you bringing that up? We finished with…
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