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Shirt or No Shirt? That's America's Question · Podcast - Big 98.7

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  Speaker 1: We're dropping it like it's hot here on Big ninety
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  Speaker 1: eight point seven. We've got rom.
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  Speaker 2: Keep park open, all the pools open. I always hear
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  Speaker 2: music blasting from the Davies Pool. Yeah, it sounds like
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  Speaker 2: everyone's having a great summer here. And you know what,
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  Speaker 2: do not ruin a week's worth of our very short
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  Speaker 2: lived summer here in the FM area by forgetting sunscreen
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  Speaker 2: as you go celebrate your July fourth weekend. Okay, there
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  Speaker 2: is nothing worse on planet Earth than when you forget
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  Speaker 2: or miss a spot of sunscreen and basically your day's run.
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  Speaker 3: It is rare for me to ever get burned, because
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  Speaker 3: it's just the Cuban in me that keeps me from burning. However,
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  Speaker 3: just over the weekend, it was like really windy and
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  Speaker 3: I was out at a Wolfgang for their grand opening
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  Speaker 3: and the sun was beating down on my back. I
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  Speaker 3: was wearing a dress that had like a low back,
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  Speaker 3: and I did not put sunscreen there.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, and I didn't like burn all the way and
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  Speaker 4: peel or anything, but I definitely.
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  Speaker 3: Got home looking a little lobstreet my back and.
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  Speaker 4: I was like, oh, yeah, you gotta put on sunscreen girl.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: There was one time we were outside and I put
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  Speaker 2: sun and I actually did what you're supposed to do.
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  Speaker 2: I put sunscreen on the whole, you know, part of
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  Speaker 2: the body, YadA, YadA, YadA. But there was a part
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  Speaker 2: of my back. It was so funny because I could
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  Speaker 2: see it in the mirror and Corey was like, what
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  Speaker 2: the heck happened in my You know how when you
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  Speaker 2: try to reach the sunscreen with your hand over your
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  Speaker 2: shoulder to.
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  Speaker 1: Get as much of your back as possible.
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  Speaker 2: I literally had a burn mark that had like finger
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  Speaker 2: It looked like a hand because it was as far
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  Speaker 2: as my hand could reach backwards.
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  Speaker 4: Oh you had.
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  Speaker 3: Like a pale hand and then the red.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, totally accidental. That's so great, but it did look
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  Speaker 2: pretty funny. And if you have ever been sunburn and
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  Speaker 2: obviously there are worse places than not. You know, if
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  Speaker 2: I'm burned on like I don't know, like my calves
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  Speaker 2: maybe or my shins.
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  Speaker 1: That doesn't bother me that much.
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  Speaker 2: I think there's obviously a lot less like nerve endings
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  Speaker 2: or whatever and your shins, but there are some places
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  Speaker 2: that are worse than others. And we posted this on
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  Speaker 2: the Big ninety eight point seven Facebook page. Where is
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  Speaker 2: the worst place to forget to put sunscreen, and right
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  Speaker 2: off the bat, I want to give a big round
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  Speaker 2: of applause to Todd who said it at the beach,
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  Speaker 2: not what I was, not what I was going for,
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  Speaker 2: But he's got a point. That's that's a great place
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  Speaker 2: to not put on sunscreen, to not not put on sunscreen.
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  Speaker 2: All right, Angie, what about this the tops of your feet?
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  Speaker 2: Have you ever been burned on the top of your feet?
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  Speaker 5: No?
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  Speaker 3: I haven't. My kid's dad what We all went out
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  Speaker 3: to the water park and the next day, I mean
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  Speaker 3: just lobster feet and he couldn't put on his slides here,
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  Speaker 3: just forgot. Yeah, because you don't think about the tops
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  Speaker 3: of your feet.
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  Speaker 2: I guess I've had the tops of my feet burnt before.
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  Speaker 2: And it's like, unless you can really find some soft socks,
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  Speaker 2: it's basically chalked for walking around.
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  Speaker 4: For a Ofugh.
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  Speaker 3: I like that Julia put the part in your hair.
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  Speaker 3: This has happened to me, sure, and like I'm a
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  Speaker 3: side part kind of girl. Okay, I'm never giving into
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  Speaker 3: what gen Z says. But I did not put anything
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  Speaker 3: there and it was, I mean so burnt and flaky
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  Speaker 3: that then I had to switch to the middle part
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  Speaker 3: for a while, and Leon, I look bad with a
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  Speaker 3: middle part. My head looks like square shaped or something
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  Speaker 3: is not good. So yes, the part in your hair, Julia,
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  Speaker 3: that's important.
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  Speaker 2: And as someone who normally has pretty short hair, I
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  Speaker 2: buzz it all the time. I that is one place
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  Speaker 2: I would always remember because I knew, Hey, we're playing
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  Speaker 2: with fire if we don't get some literally, we are
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  Speaker 2: playing with fire if we don't get some sunscreen up here.
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  Speaker 2: And then I like this one because this is another
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  Speaker 2: one you don't think about. But when they hurt, there's
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  Speaker 2: no relief from it. You know, if your stomach hurts, right,
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  Speaker 2: you can lay on your back, if your back birds
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  Speaker 2: lay in your stomach.
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  Speaker 1: There's kind of a way to get a little relief.
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  Speaker 2: Ramona said, on your ears or like the tips of
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  Speaker 2: your ears. Sandra said that as well. There is nothing
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  Speaker 2: you can do for that. No, there's no position you
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  Speaker 2: can really lay in that doesn't hurt.
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  Speaker 3: True, Yeah, because you go to bed and then what
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  Speaker 3: you're just your ears are on fires.
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  Speaker 4: Like it's bad.
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  Speaker 1: Unless you can sleep, like sitting completely up.
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  Speaker 3: No, there's nothing you can remember to put on sunscreen
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  Speaker 3: on your ears. I use this spray sunscreen on my boys. Like,
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, turn around and I spray their ears.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. I like that one. Well, there's your bigg reminder.
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  Speaker 2: If your PSA headed into America's two hundred and fiftieth birthday, here,
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  Speaker 2: get the sunscreen on and make sure you reapply. And
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  Speaker 2: you can't say Big ninety eight point seven didn't tell
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  Speaker 2: you so celebrating life's little victories. Every morning we practice
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  Speaker 2: gratitude on Big ninety eight points seven.
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  Speaker 1: If I could, I would keep this feeling in a
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  Speaker 1: basket job busted out whenever was someone's acting hard. Share
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  Speaker 1: your little victories with us at seven kids, Kids.
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  Speaker 6: I also needed to win.
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  Speaker 2: That day, all right, Angie, do you have a little
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  Speaker 2: victory to get our day started today?
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  Speaker 6: Yes?
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  Speaker 3: Sometimes the little victory is that knowledge is power. So
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  Speaker 3: yesterday I was at starfire Works at the fair Grounds
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  Speaker 3: and I was hanging out with Pixie and she was
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  Speaker 3: helping me out with all the things I needed for
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  Speaker 3: Star Firework time. But she bestowed upon me some knowledge
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  Speaker 3: that I'm going to I mean, I'm going to put
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  Speaker 3: into practice. Almost immediately, we were talking about peanut butter
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  Speaker 3: flavored alcohol and.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, now I know the kind of conversation with You're okay,
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  Speaker 2: I'm now I'm really paying attention.
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  Speaker 3: I was saying. I was saying, like, oh, I really
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  Speaker 3: I like peanut butter whiskey, but whiskey is kind of
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  Speaker 3: like a no go for me, Like I don't feel
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  Speaker 3: great after I drink whiskey is just not my thing,
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  Speaker 3: even though I love peanut butter whiskey. And then she
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  Speaker 3: says to me, well, have you ever had peanut butter tequila?
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  Speaker 3: And I didn't know that peanut butter tequila existed. And
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  Speaker 3: I I'm a tequila girl that I'm fine, I don't
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  Speaker 3: get hungover. I'm a delight and so I decided to delight.
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  Speaker 3: You've been with me when I drink tea? Oh, I know,
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  Speaker 3: And I don't know if delight is no. I'm just kidding,
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  Speaker 3: my gosh, kid, I'm just kidding.
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  Speaker 4: During birthday month, how dary.
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  Speaker 3: But she told me about peanut butter tequila, and then
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  Speaker 3: she showed me which brand she likes, Chicka Cheetah, I
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  Speaker 3: think is what it's called. And I'm excited because I'm
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  Speaker 3: absolutely going to get some peanut butter flavored tequila for
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  Speaker 3: my birthday coming up on Friday.
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  Speaker 1: I'm wonderful. That's at victory.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, so thanks, Pixie appreciates you. What about you, Gabe?
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  Speaker 4: What's your little victory?
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  Speaker 1: I like knowledge's power. I wanna I'm gonna borrow that
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  Speaker 1: or what'd you say?
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  Speaker 6: No?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, knowledge is power.
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  Speaker 1: I kind of like that.
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  Speaker 2: My little victory today is I do believe baby G
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  Speaker 2: is thinking at some point of entering the universe. Now,
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  Speaker 2: my wife has never been pregnant, and I think any
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  Speaker 2: I would like to guess any lady who has been
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  Speaker 2: pregnant and they're about at that point. You know, anytime
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  Speaker 2: there's any slight uncomfortability or slight something or slight change
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  Speaker 2: in this, you're like, oh my god, is this the time?
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  Speaker 2: And then you sit and wait fifteen days before the
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  Speaker 2: thing arrives. But I think we're getting pretty close.
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  Speaker 1: I like that.
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  Speaker 2: I think that I'm fairly close, which I'm very very
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  Speaker 2: excited about, obviously, and I'm kind of now just sort
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  Speaker 2: of holding onto my phone all day.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I wonder if you're going to have Maybe baby
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  Speaker 3: G will be born on my birthday and we'll be
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  Speaker 3: birthday twinsies, maybe the next day, and baby G will
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  Speaker 3: be a fourth of July. Baby Yeah, But I mean,
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  Speaker 3: either way, she's going to be a cancer, and I
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  Speaker 3: love that for her.
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  Speaker 2: I can't decide if I would really really hate for
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  Speaker 2: her to share your birthday or if I'd love it.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I would always throw a party for her always.
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  Speaker 2: I guess you two could party together while everyone else
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  Speaker 2: is celebrating July fourth.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, there we go.
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  Speaker 1: I actually I.
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  Speaker 2: Want someone to have your birthday with you. I hope
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  Speaker 2: she's born on the third. Oh yeah, that would be wonderful.
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  Speaker 3: That'd be a great victory.
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  Speaker 2: And we here at Big ninety eight point seven, we
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  Speaker 2: just want to wish you, obviously a happy fourth of
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  Speaker 2: July week, but we also want to wish you a
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  Speaker 2: happy seven oh one day today.
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  Speaker 1: Happy seven oh one day. It's the one.
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  Speaker 2: Day of the year when our area code gets more
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  Speaker 2: attention than our weather, which honestly is saying something. If
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  Speaker 2: you don't know what seven oh one means, well, welcome
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  Speaker 2: to North Dakota. We'll teach you how to survive the winter.
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  Speaker 1: Later.
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  Speaker 2: Today, we celebrate waving at people we don't know, apologizing
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  Speaker 2: when someone bumps into us, and measuring distance with oh,
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  Speaker 2: it's about an hour, hour and a half away.
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  Speaker 1: It's the only state where a traffic jam might.
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  Speaker 2: Be caused by a combine and where we're going to
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  Speaker 2: the lake requires enough gear to survive a week long expedition.
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  Speaker 2: So here's the seven oh one day, the one holiday
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  Speaker 2: we're saying. I'm from North Dakota and specifically the FM
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  Speaker 2: area is finally the coolest thing you'll say all year.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, loves it.
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  Speaker 2: Congratulations our very own Fargo, North Dakota day. If you
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  Speaker 2: have a seven to oh one area code, it is
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  Speaker 2: kind of cool. All that works out.
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  Speaker 3: I haven't changed my phone numbers, so now I'm feeling sad. However,
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  Speaker 3: I feel like by association, that's right, Mikey has a
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  Speaker 3: seven oh one number.
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  Speaker 1: There you go. You know what's funny. I do not
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  Speaker 1: have a seven oh one number either.
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  Speaker 4: How this day is not for use.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, these days aren't for us, for me.
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  Speaker 3: For us, no, because I'm I'm like with a man
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  Speaker 3: who's a seven oh one.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I know a man with a seven oh one number?
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  Speaker 1: Does that count? All right?
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  Speaker 4: Accounts? All right?
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  Speaker 1: Now? I found this.
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  Speaker 2: Story and it got me thinking of all the things
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  Speaker 2: I tried to do to make money as I got
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  Speaker 2: into the business spirits when I was younger, but kids
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  Speaker 2: in Michigan may soon be able to run lemonade stands
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  Speaker 2: without permits or licensing fees.
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  Speaker 4: I'm sorry, don't.
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  Speaker 3: All kids run lemonade stands without those things?
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  Speaker 1: I would like to guess like ninety nine percent.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. A bill passed the state House unanimously that would
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  Speaker 2: let miners sell lemonade and other non alcoholic drinks on
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  Speaker 2: private property as long as they make less than five
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  Speaker 2: thousand dollars a year.
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  Speaker 1: The proposal came after some.
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  Speaker 2: Kids we're told they'd have to pay a recurring permit
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  Speaker 2: fees just to sell lemonade.
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  Speaker 3: You know what, it was some karen that went up
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  Speaker 3: to the lemonade stand and ruined it and reported it.
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  Speaker 3: And now this is where we are. Let the kids
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  Speaker 3: sell the lemonade.
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  Speaker 2: See, this doesn't give me karen vibe. I don't think. No, no,
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  Speaker 2: this gives me like a chat or a brad or something. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: No, this gives me just some U.
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  Speaker 2: I'll use the word tool This gives me just some
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  Speaker 2: toolbag vibe who didn't like some kid hanging out next
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  Speaker 2: to his house or something sell lemonade.
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  Speaker 3: Well, you know what, I'm glad that the bill is
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  Speaker 3: passing or has passed or whatever. Let the kids sell lemonade.
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  Speaker 3: Did you sell lemonade when you were a kid? What
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  Speaker 3: were you doing to try to make money?
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  Speaker 1: As I'll tell you what.
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  Speaker 2: When I was a kid, I would do anything, but
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  Speaker 2: the bravest thing I ever did I ever tried doing,
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  Speaker 2: which you could never do in twenty twenty six anymore.
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  Speaker 2: But this was back in the nineties. All right, kids,
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  Speaker 2: different time, Do not do this.
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  Speaker 4: It was the nineties.
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  Speaker 1: But when I was a kid and wanted money, I
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  Speaker 1: would do all kinds of things.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I've tried to cut grass or yeah, snowbloat,
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  Speaker 2: not snowboell, but shovel shovel, yeah, right, shovel driveways. The
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  Speaker 2: bravest thing I would ever do, though, was like nine
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  Speaker 2: ten years old. I would just bike to houses in
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  Speaker 2: my neighborhood that look like they needed things cleaned up
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  Speaker 2: around their house, and I would just knock on the
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  Speaker 2: door and be like, hey, do you want me to
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  Speaker 2: clean this part of the yard for five to ten dollars?
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  Speaker 4: Did this work? I would feel immediately judged and say.
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  Speaker 2: No, yeah, you got some nine year old think in
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  Speaker 2: your yard looks like junk, you know. But bravest thing
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  Speaker 2: I ever did, and once in a while, so I'm
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  Speaker 2: gonna be like, actually, yeah, could you like take all
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  Speaker 2: these sticks and throw them in this section so I
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  Speaker 2: can burn them or cut them or whatever. So occasionally
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  Speaker 2: someone would say, yeah, what.
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  Speaker 3: Was your money making scheme when you were a kid?
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  Speaker 3: Seven oh one two way one nine eight seven?
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  Speaker 4: Let us know? Was it a lemonade stand?
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  Speaker 2: Like?
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  Speaker 4: What what other things I know that I.
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  Speaker 3: Saw in South Fargo. I'm a sucker for a lemonade.
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  Speaker 1: Stack, take my money.
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  Speaker 3: Saw a hot Coco stand. I saw hot Coco. It
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  Speaker 3: was like kids selling hot chocolate. Oh yeah, it's South
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  Speaker 3: far Gone. I was like, yep, immediately take my money.
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  Speaker 3: And then they add, you know, then there's the brownies
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  Speaker 3: and the cookies they add to that.
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  Speaker 4: They'd be raking in some dough and you know what,
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  Speaker 4: they deserve it.
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  Speaker 3: When I was young, I was I'm of the Mary
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  Speaker 3: Kate and Ashley Detective series.
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  Speaker 4: Sure, and so me and the neighborhood Games.
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  Speaker 3: We made a flyer and we pitched that we would
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  Speaker 3: solve any neighborhood crime.
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  Speaker 1: I loved this idea. Let me tell you, we made
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  Speaker 1: no money, oh zero.
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  Speaker 3: There were no neighborhood crimes that they were gonna, you know,
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  Speaker 3: trust a fourth grader to solve.
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  Speaker 4: So that didn't work out. I should have jumped on
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  Speaker 4: the lemonade.
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  Speaker 1: Route, Yeah, don't. I don't hate that.
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  Speaker 2: I also I remember when I was young trying to
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  Speaker 2: sell lemonade, right, and if someone didn't have like change, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I would just give them the lemonade for free. I
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  Speaker 2: wasn't a great business man at that point. But strangely enough,
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  Speaker 2: it's the reverse. I've seen this girl selling lemonade by
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  Speaker 2: the softball fields over by Davies in South Fargo, and
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  Speaker 2: I was on a walk with Corey and our dog,
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  Speaker 2: and I was like, oh, we should buy subleminade or whatever.
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  Speaker 2: Of course I only had a ten dollars bill. She
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  Speaker 2: took me for the whole ten. I just say, you
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  Speaker 2: can just keep it. We do have Emily on the phone. Emily,
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  Speaker 2: did you ever have a you know, childhood money making scheme.
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  Speaker 7: I had a little pipe sitting business, and wherever my
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  Speaker 7: neighbors went on vacation, I would feed their cac so
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  Speaker 7: I would walk their dogs and collect their mail. And
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  Speaker 7: it made me feel so grown up because people actually
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  Speaker 7: trusted me with their houses.
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  Speaker 1: That's actually really good. If I could redo it.
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  Speaker 2: If I was back to being eight nine, ten years old,
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  Speaker 2: i'd have found people with like small dogs and been
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  Speaker 2: a dog walker.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I would have failed at that. That wouldn't have
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  Speaker 4: been my jam.
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  Speaker 2: Seven oh one two, eight zero one nine eight seven
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  Speaker 2: When you were really young? Was there anything you tried
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  Speaker 2: to do to earn a little extra money?
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  Speaker 1: Is am I the problem?
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  Speaker 6: It's me?
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  Speaker 4: Hi on the problem.
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  Speaker 3: It's me.
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  Speaker 5: We'll hear one side of the story and with your
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  Speaker 5: help probably decide if it's right or if maybe you're
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  Speaker 5: the problem. That's right, I am the problem on Big
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  Speaker 5: ninety eight point seven.
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  Speaker 3: Is Amy overreacting or is she valid in this situation?
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  Speaker 4: Hi, gab and ANNG. My name is Amy.
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  Speaker 3: I've got bachelorette party drama and I need your guys advice.
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  Speaker 3: I'm a bride'smaid, but not the maid of honor, so
• 15:34
  Speaker 3: I didn't plan the bachelorette but I found out the
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  Speaker 3: restaurant we're going to is the one my ex works at,
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  Speaker 3: and things ended the literal worst way it could. I'm
• 15:43
  Speaker 3: not proud of it, but there was some infidelity on
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  Speaker 3: my part and it was an explosive breakup. Last summer,
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  Speaker 3: I told the maid of honor. I don't feel comfortable
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  Speaker 3: and could we change the location? But she says the
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  Speaker 3: plans are set and she knows the bride loves that place.
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  Speaker 3: Should I tell the bride what's going on or leave
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  Speaker 3: her out of it? Do you think I'm being problematic?
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  Speaker 3: I just want to avoid any tension, and I'm sure
• 16:06
  Speaker 3: he wouldn't want to see me there, Amy, And I
• 16:10
  Speaker 3: say this with all kindness and love in my heart.
• 16:14
  Speaker 3: This ain't about you, okay. If it isn't the consequences
• 16:20
  Speaker 3: of your own actions, listen.
• 16:24
  Speaker 4: This bachelor party's not about you.
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: It's about the bride. If that's a restaurant that the
• 16:27
  Speaker 3: bride loves like, you're going to the restaurant.
• 16:30
  Speaker 4: You're going to the restaurant.
• 16:31
  Speaker 3: Who's to even say that your ex is gonna be
• 16:33
  Speaker 3: working that day? And even if they aren't like what,
• 16:36
  Speaker 3: he don't say anything. I'm sure if he sees you
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: walk in, he's not gonna say I want that table,
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: I want to serve that table.
• 16:44
  Speaker 4: That would be crazy work.
• 16:46
  Speaker 3: If he doesn't want to see you, he's gonna make
• 16:48
  Speaker 3: sure that he's not seeing you, even if you show up.
• 16:51
  Speaker 4: Do not bring the bride into this absolutely.
• 16:54
  Speaker 3: Not, and you're just gonna have to like bite the
• 16:56
  Speaker 3: bullet girl like that, or you don't go, but then
• 16:59
  Speaker 3: that makes you a horrible bride made So I think, Amy,
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry, but you are the problem here.
• 17:07
  Speaker 4: What do you think, Gabe?
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: I would suggest, if it is that big of an issue,
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: then you don't go. You know, just how we say
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: some things aren't for you. Yeah, you know, maybe maybe
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: this bachelorette party or this portion of the bachelorette party
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: is in for you. Maybe you go, you know, get
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: your nails done while people do this, or you go
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: run some errands or I don't know if this is
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: a multiple day thing, but if you miss this little
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: chunk of bachelorette party, if it is that big of
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: a deal and that traumatic to skip this part and
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: then explain afterwards why you didn't go to miss bride
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: and then it'll all be good.
• 17:43
  Speaker 4: I still think you should just go. What do you think?
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: Seven oh one two, eight oh one nine eight seven
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: text us call us.
• 17:50
  Speaker 4: We also have this up on the Big.
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: Ninety eight point seven Facebook page. Amy wants to know
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: she's the problem because she's part of a bridal party.
• 18:05
  Speaker 3: The bachelorette a set. She's a bridesmaid, not the maid
• 18:08
  Speaker 3: of honor. The maid of Honor made the plans. Amy
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: found out the restaurant that they're going to is where
• 18:14
  Speaker 3: her ex works and it was a really bad breakup,
• 18:17
  Speaker 3: so she wants them to change the location. Maid of
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: Honor said no, the bride really likes that restaurant, like,
• 18:24
  Speaker 3: deal with it. And so Amy wants to know. Should
• 18:28
  Speaker 3: I go to the bride about this? What should I do?
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: Because I don't want to go to the restaurant because
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: my ex work's there.
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: Can I share nick real quick? Because there's a lot
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: a lot of ladies chiming in here this morning. Yeah,
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: which is wonderful, But this is the most dude response
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: we're gonna get. Oh gosh, a lot of ladies with
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: awesome advice that we'll get to. But can the dude
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: advice is hilarious to me. Suck it up, Buttercup, you cheated,
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: and I guess this would be your karma.
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: That's it. That's the end of it. Okay, I fuck
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: it up. That's what I actually agree with that.
• 19:04
  Speaker 4: I agree with that though, like, well, well, well if.
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: It isn't the consequences of your own actions, I think
• 19:11
  Speaker 3: you just go. It's not about you, It's about the bride.
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: I will say this, Elena texted us. Let the maid
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: of honor know you won't attend if she doesn't change
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: the location. If you're a bride'smaid, the bride will want
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: you there, so the maid of honor can cater to
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: your request. It's just a restaurant and can't be the
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: only place the bride likes. I'm not gonna lie. I
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: didn't think we would have anybody on Amy's side, but Amy,
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: you just found a friend in Elena. Elena thinks you
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: should give the maid of honor an ultimatum.
• 19:48
  Speaker 4: Could but at least like leave the bride out of it.
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true. Actually, I'm gonna try to spin zone
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: this in my own brain.
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: Here.
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: What you do is but an ultimatum on the maid
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: of honor. It never gets back to the bride. And
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: now the maid of honor is the reason you're not
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: at this part of the function. Perfect, we just spin
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: zone this whole thing.
• 20:14
  Speaker 4: We're playing a game of stay toxic.
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: Is that that's not what I really think she should?
• 20:20
  Speaker 4: Jewel said on Facebook.
• 20:21
  Speaker 3: Don't make it drama, go and just eat with the
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: bridle party, that's what I think. So because it's not
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: about her, it's about the bride, and if the bride
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: likes that restaurant.
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, A majority of people are chiming in saying, hey,
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: you just got to kind of take this one on
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: the chin, right, you just gotta suck it up, get
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: through it. The day is not about you. You're gonna
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: be hanging out with a bunch of ladies, all right,
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: You're gonna be having fun. There's no reason to even
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: pay attention to your ex who is there. But I
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: do not hate this from Michelle. Now, I don't know
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: if I could do this, but she did say that,
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: you know, unless you're blocked what you might be, you
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: could reach out to X and just be like, hey,
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: here's this situation.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: This wasn't my idea. I'm going to be here.
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: I just want can we ignore each other completely and
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: at the very least he's not caught off guard that
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: you're walking on in But even then, you know at
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: that you still should just ignore each other completely.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: I that is a move, though not bad advice, it's
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: not terrible.
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but all of these things are saying still go
• 21:24
  Speaker 3: still go to the bachelorette amy unless you want to
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: go with Elena's advice and give an ultimatum to.
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: The maid of honor. And well, I do want to
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: end with this. This was so funny because at the
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: beginning of this whole scenario I had laughed and explained
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: to Angie, why is it always something with bachelor? It
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: always there's always something. And maybe it's because you know,
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: that's the exciting slash drama part of the bachelorette party.
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: I never hear about the fun, the places you went,
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: the restaurants. I never hear that part of the story first.
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: I always hear the drama part. Fair enough, right, Well,
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: Julia texted us. Thank you, Julia, she said, I just
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: laughed because I just got back from a bachelorette party
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: trip where one girl didn't show up last minute and
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: didn't tell anyone leading up that she wasn't coming.
• 22:13
  Speaker 7: Wow.
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: As always, so it's.
• 22:15
  Speaker 4: Always the thing.
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: But that's part of bachelorette lore.
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: I think officially, you know, we're kind of on Baby
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: G watch. Yes, Baby G at some point this month
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: soon will enter this world. And before we get into
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: what I want to get into right now, I want
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: to just say a deep sincere apology to a lot
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: of dudes out there. What Because I have asked ladies, hey,
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: what advice would you have for me to be a supportive, present,
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: not annoying partner in the delivery room? And I can't
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: help but feel there are a lot of hubbies and
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: boyfriends who are sort of kind of getting put on
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: blasts without getting put on blasts. Oh why else would
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: you bring up don't breed too loud if you haven't
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: experienced that before?
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: H Yeah, Yeah, listen, I will say, as a woman
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: who has delivered two babies in her life, we are
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: not the most rational during that process. So we do
• 23:29
  Speaker 3: be getting mad at things that in normal life ridiculous.
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: But during labor.
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: Life, absolutely that's a whole different thing.
• 23:37
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 23:38
  Speaker 3: Absolutely, Like it's fair for us to be upset at
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: these things. And that's why you need to know this information, Gabe. Yeah,
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: whatever advice you have for Gabe for how he should
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: be behaving in the delivery room, let us know seven
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: oh one two eight oho one nine eight seven. We
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: also have this up on the Big ninety eight point
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: seven Facebook page. I was going through some of these
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: answers and these ladies are.
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: Correct well, angie like you just said. We had Crystal
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: W who said, don't be mad if she calls you
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: choice words, not saying I did that with like the
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: face palm emoji, face palm emoji.
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: Okay, Crystal, I feel you all right.
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: Like, for example, Andrea said, do not in all caps
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: tell her how uncomfortable the chairs are.
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: Andrea, was your hubby having a bad time on the chairs?
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: Is that one I'm learning here today?
• 24:27
  Speaker 4: Bruh, you better don't you could?
• 24:29
  Speaker 3: The most uncomfortable you you'll ever be won't even compare.
• 24:34
  Speaker 4: To what Corey is feeling. So don't you dare mention it?
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: You know what I love to is there are so
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: many do notots in all caps and all caps, yes, Morgan,
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: do not say how tired you are at any point.
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: Did something happen where someone was feeling tired that day?
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: Amanda said, do not give her advice. I almost throat
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: punched my husband.
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: Wow, okay, so for sure that's confirmation your husband did
• 25:03
  Speaker 3: the wrong thing.
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: Could you imagine just like, oh well, what if you
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: just did this?
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: Like I could quite literally imagine you saying that, Gabe,
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: like the role of the words rolled off your tongue,
• 25:14
  Speaker 3: so easy. Right now, I will say, Brianna, she said,
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: advocate for her if she doesn't want visitors, etc. Be
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: the one to set those boundaries. Absolutely, this is super important.
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: I know that a lot of these are very funny,
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: but yeah, Mom does not want to have to be
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: dealing with any external things.
• 25:31
  Speaker 4: She doesn't feel like it.
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: You are gonna have to be the decision maker and
• 25:36
  Speaker 3: you have to voice that for her because she's gonna
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: be contractions, tired, feeling in all kinds of ways, because
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: she's literally trying to push a baby out of her body.
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: And so you have to be the one to set
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: those boundaries.
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what.
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: If there was anyone designed to use their voice it,
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: it's your boy.
• 25:55
  Speaker 5: Here.
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: Now, I will say, I give a big shout out
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: to Tyler. This actually was from a fello dad or
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: a dad here. He said, Hey, bring your own pillow
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: from a fellow dad who had to sleep on the
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: couch in the birthing. Sweet, that is good advice. Get
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: yourself at least a pillow for your own little head.
• 26:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and then he didn't complain about how uncomfortable he was.
• 26:12
  Speaker 4: He did it right, all right.
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: I have two more for you here and there are
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: a ton of great ones, and I know I'm kind
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: of going through the funny ones, but there it does
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: end on a very very positive one here. But Rebecca says,
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: don't breed too loud, do not eat in the room,
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: do not bring coffee in the room, do not sit
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: and stare at your phone even if you are bored,
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: be present. That one does go longer. Yeah, don't breed
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: too loud does make me laugh.
• 26:34
  Speaker 4: That's true. You better watch that. Watch your breath again.
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: What if I got one of the whistlers in my nose?
• 26:40
  Speaker 4: Now, I guess you go outside?
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, sir.
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: And then finally, Kayla, I think really summed up the
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: best advice because for every mom going into labor or
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: in labor, there's gonna be different needs and wants and
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: things like that. Kayla did say, just be whatever type
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: of support, Just be whatever type of supportive it works
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: for her. Everyone's support needs are different. After baby is born,
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: Let her sleep, that is probably the most important.
• 27:06
  Speaker 4: Yeah, let her sleep.
• 27:08
  Speaker 3: Let her sleep, and when she wakes up, you better
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: have her favorite meal ready for her to consume.
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: Right. Well, I do appreciate all the advice.
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: I really do want to be a supportive teammate in
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: this endeavor, and I'm only about point one percent of
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: the team, so I want to contribute my point one percent.
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: A lot has been made of my outfit that and
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: by a lot, I mean I've made a lot of
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: my outfit that I'll be wearing tomorrow here in Big
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: ninety eight point seven Studios to celebrate a the love
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: of the United States that I have and to be
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: annoy Angie.
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: I said that I don't believe in overalls as a
• 27:50
  Speaker 3: fashion statement.
• 27:51
  Speaker 4: I think they have their function.
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: You have your painting pairworking, if you're pregnant, if you're
• 27:57
  Speaker 3: on the farm. But in terms of fashion, overalls ain't
• 28:00
  Speaker 3: it for me. So naturally, Gabe is Gabe, and so.
• 28:05
  Speaker 6: He ordered why else I was talking in the middle
• 28:09
  Speaker 6: of the break, Ye ordered himself some American flag overalls
• 28:14
  Speaker 6: and he did post this on the Big ninety eight
• 28:16
  Speaker 6: points on Facebook page if you want to see the ridiculousness.
• 28:20
  Speaker 3: But more importantly, tomorrow, which is when I am celebrating
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: my birthday a little bit early because we've got big
• 28:28
  Speaker 3: Happy Hour unhinged.
• 28:30
  Speaker 4: Since I'm gonna be there, might as well celebrate.
• 28:32
  Speaker 3: But Gabe said, I'm actually gonna come into work to
• 28:35
  Speaker 3: upset you wearing these overalls. And while I can't stop
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: you from doing it, I do want you to come in.
• 28:44
  Speaker 3: If you're gonna commit to the bit, commit to the bit.
• 28:46
  Speaker 3: I want you to come in wearing those overalls. I
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: think it should be San's shirt.
• 28:51
  Speaker 4: I don't think that you should be wearing chands.
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, sands sa n s. It means without
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: without just say you know, I don't know what that is, Okay,
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry, without a shirt. I think that if you're
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: gonna be wearing the overalls, you gotta do it how
• 29:06
  Speaker 3: you did on the big ninety eight points I have
• 29:08
  Speaker 3: on Facebook page.
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: No shirt, I'm down you will do that. Yeah, I
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: might have to double check with HR.
• 29:15
  Speaker 3: But no, it's for a bit. I'm sure that they're
• 29:17
  Speaker 3: done with that. My thing is shouldn't isn't it better
• 29:21
  Speaker 3: to what is it? Beg forgiveness than ask permission?
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: One thousand percent? Let's how I've operated my entire life,
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: all right.
• 29:27
  Speaker 3: So this will be no different tomorrow, Gabe. If you're
• 29:30
  Speaker 3: gonna come in here with these ridiculous overalls, then I
• 29:34
  Speaker 3: want full commitment and you better not be wearing a
• 29:36
  Speaker 3: shirt that sounds so weird.
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: I think what we should do is maybe leave it
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: up to you who was hanging out with us here
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: this morning on Big ninety eight point seven.
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: What do you think?
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: Do I commit all the way and come in shirtless
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: with these overalls? Maybe spray the armpit hairs red, white,
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: and blue?
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: Really go all the w yes, I don't know. I
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: don't want to do that.
• 29:59
  Speaker 3: Okay, we're I'm gonna put up a pole on the
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: Big ninety eight point seven Instagram at Big nine eight
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: seven FM. I'm gonna put up the pole. Does Gabe
• 30:09
  Speaker 3: come into work tomorrow in his patriotic overalls.
• 30:13
  Speaker 4: Without a shirt on?
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll leave it up to you.
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: Or do I need to wear like a white tea
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: or a blue tea or a red tea under or
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: something along those lines. And I do want to make
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: my case a little bit, ladies. I will let you
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: know this is true. I did do fifty push ups yesterday,
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: so I might be looking pretty good in those overalls.
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: I need some good starting off the day with something good.
• 30:41
  Speaker 5: This is Gabe's good news on Big ninety eight point seven.
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: As America celebrates its two hundred and fiftieth birthday. This year,
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: my native homeland, Minnesota, is taking the opportunity to celebrate
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: something else, and that's its own incredible story. Minnesota is
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: launching a series of history filled road trips, community events,
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: and celebrations that highlight the people, places and moments that
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: helped shape our country. It's a reminder that history isn't
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: just found, you know, in Washington, d c. Or in
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: the thirteen original colonies. It's right here in our own backyard.
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: Whether it's a small town museum, a historic landmark, or
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: a family tradition that's been passed down for generations. This
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: is a chance to appreciate where we've come from and
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: the communities that continue to make this great play a
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: great place to call home. And my favorite quote, I
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: always end the show at this, Every single day, broken crayons,
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: they still color, And the world is full of nice people.
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: If you can't find one, you gotta be one.