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Emotional Chaos After a Breakup? How God Brings Peace & Clarity · Girl, Date the Good Guy ™ | Healing After Heartbreak & A Toxic Relationship

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  Like, ooh, come on, sister, some of you need more clarity. You need to hear
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  more clearly. And I need you to hear me when I say this.
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  The only way to hear more clearly is to get rid of the chaos,
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  the toxicity, the negative things around you, the negative self-talk you keep
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  repeating, all of that. It's noise.
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  And it's distracting you from hearing your Father in heaven.
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  Because He wants to speak to you. He has so much He wants to say to you.
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  But you cannot hear Him when there is chaos all around you.
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  And I know this. Because that leap of faith for me last year, that was God.
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  That was absolutely God bringing order to my chaos.
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  But hear me. I had to be a participant in that order.
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  And unfortunately, God had to force me out of my chaos.
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  And sometimes He will do that to get us to where He needs us to be. Happy New Year, sis.
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  Welcome back to the show. It is 2026, a brand new year, a fresh start,
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  and I really believe we are about to see the goodness of God in our lives.
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  I'm so excited, like generally excited, because I don't know everything God
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  has in store, but I do know He is faithful.
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  This year, I'm opening up a new weekly space called Girl Behind the Mic,
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  And this is just me right here.
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  My heart, no armor on, just truth.
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  Because there's a part of my story I don't always know how to share.
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  And I want you to hear that side of me. I want you to know that side of me.
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  There are things God speaks to me sometimes that I don't need to polish.
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  I just need to talk to you about them. We need some aha moments this year.
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  God is so ready to restore. He is a God of restoration.
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  Last year, when I took that leap of faith, that was the year I said,
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  okay, God, I fully surrender. I'm letting you lead now.
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  And I didn't know how to get out of my chaos.
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  I didn't. I just kept praying and praying and praying. And finally,
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  he's like, okay, you ready?
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  Everything fell apart in my life. And he said, okay, I want you to jump.
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  And I did exactly what he told me to do.
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  I'm telling you, like, wow, he's just been bringing order to my chaos.
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  And I'm telling you guys, it has been amazing. So let this be a wake-up call for you. Jump.
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  If God is saying, jump, jump, girl, jump, and don't look back because he's really
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  just trying to take you to somewhere amazing.
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  So this space is Holy Spirit filled.
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  That's what girl behind the mic is. It's where I allow the Holy Spirit to flow,
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  to speak truth, to tell my story, whatever prophetic message I may have,
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  whatever God has put on my heart to share with you.
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  And honestly, I'm tired of perfectionism.
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  I'm tired of holding back. I'm tired of feeling like I have to arrive before
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  I speak. That's not real life.
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  We're all ever learning. There is no moment where you're just like,
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  yep, I'm there. That doesn't exist.
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  You learn, you grow, you mess up. You learn the hard way, you get up,
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  you change, you grow again.
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  That's life. None of us are perfect.
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  But let me remind you of this. God is a God of restoration.
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  He is a God of healing. He wants to redeem your story. He wants to redeem you.
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  And that deep, lasting work, It can only be done through the Father.
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  So welcome to Girl Behind the Mic. I'll be releasing these on Fridays.
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  I'm going to do my best to keep them weekly. I even picked up a full-time job
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  to support this podcast, to give it my heart, to build it, to grow it into what God wants it to be.
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  And trust me, I've got a lot of ideas.
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  This year is going to be so, so much fun. So let me tell you something gently.
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  Healing hurts because you're touching places that mattered.
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  Healing doesn't always look pretty. There are messy middles, really messy middles.
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  So let God bring order to your chaos, whether that chaos is toxic relationships,
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  negative self-talk, unhealthy cycles you keep repeating.
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  Whatever it is, it's time, sis.
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  Draw near to him. Read his word. Pray.
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  Put him first. And I mean that. He's serious about that part.
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  Because when you put him first, he shows you the way out.
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  He shows you how to heal. He shows you how to step into what he has for you.
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  He is not a God that he should lie. I know firsthand.
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  All the leaps of faith, all the obedience.
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  There were things I had to lay down. There was pain.
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  But it led to healing, to clarity, to discernment. And yes, to healthy God-led love.
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  You cannot step into healthy love if you are still broken and have chaos around
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  you. I love you so much to actually tell you the truth.
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  So hear me when I say this. This is your year.
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  Your year to clean up the chaos with God. Your year to let him lay a solid foundation.
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  Your year to rise to the next level. Welcome to 2026.
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  This is going to be one of your best years. You can trust God in this season.
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  He's teaching you. He's growing you. He's calling you higher.
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  I love you, sis. And until next time, girl, date the good guy.