Latest / Miss Understood with Rachel Uchitel / Dr. Ryan Neinstein, Plastic Surgeon & Mommy Makeover Extraordinaire!
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- 1:27Speaker 1: with Dr. Ryan Neinstein. It is so good to be
- 1:30Speaker 1: in your office. You have such a beautiful office. Thank
- 1:32Speaker 1: you for having me.
- 1:33Speaker 2: Rachel, thank you so much for coming. This has been
- 1:36Speaker 2: on the schedule for a while. I've been really looking
- 1:38Speaker 2: forward to it. Yes.
- 1:39Speaker 1: Well, thank you for making time because I know you
- 1:41Speaker 1: have so many surgeries and you just came out of one.
- 1:43Speaker 1: So the first thing I wanted to ask you is
- 1:45Speaker 1: what made you decide to go into plastic surgery instead of, say,
- 1:48Speaker 1: being a cardiologist?
- 1:51Speaker 2: I always loved the pursuit of medicine when I was young.
- 1:55Speaker 2: and I was really into sports and really into science,
- 1:57Speaker 2: medicine seemed like a natural place to go. Something I
- 2:00Speaker 2: want to spend the rest of my life with. As
- 2:02Speaker 2: a grandchild of Holocaust survivors, I was always taught to
- 2:05Speaker 2: have a life of purpose. So I pursued medicine. Quickly
- 2:09Speaker 2: in medicine, I realized that normal medical stuff just wasn't
- 2:14Speaker 2: for me. I could not listen to a murmur if
- 2:17Speaker 2: I tried. I never really understood giving someone a pill
- 2:21Speaker 2: and then waiting to see what came up on lab report.
- 2:24Speaker 2: So surgery spoke to me immediately. I think I would
- 2:27Speaker 2: have been really happy with any type of surgery. I'd
- 2:30Speaker 2: love the process of operating and change, but plastic surgery specifically,
- 2:34Speaker 2: it's the only operation where people come to you when
- 2:37Speaker 2: nothing bad has happened to them and they want to
- 2:39Speaker 2: do better. So people who are committed to self-improvement, committed
- 2:43Speaker 2: to improving the quality of life, come see plastic surgeons.
- 2:46Speaker 2: Every other operation, something bad's happened, a disease, a trauma,
- 2:50Speaker 2: an infection, a tumor, You know, people are coming to us.
- 2:53Speaker 2: So I just find it super moving that people are
- 2:59Speaker 2: willing to do this to improve their life.
- 3:02Speaker 1: Right.
- 3:02Speaker 2: Which ups the empty for me.
- 3:04Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely. What a great answer. So you do not
- 3:08Speaker 1: do anything on the face. You do from the neck
- 3:10Speaker 1: and below, correct?
- 3:11Speaker 2: Correct.
- 3:11Speaker 1: Tell me what you specialize in.
- 3:13Speaker 2: So, you know, I try to keep the main thing,
- 3:17Speaker 2: the main thing. is the main thing. So if I
- 3:21Speaker 2: was going to a surgeon for something, I want them
- 3:24Speaker 2: doing whatever I want to be done every single day.
- 3:28Speaker 2: I want them thinking about the procedure all day, every day.
- 3:33Speaker 2: So that's how I've molded my career. So I stick
- 3:37Speaker 2: to breast and body. They work in harmony. When you're
- 3:40Speaker 2: doing breast surgery and body surgery, you want to be
- 3:42Speaker 2: doing them, you know, frequently doing them together at the
- 3:44Speaker 2: same time because you're trying to balance the proportions. You're
- 3:46Speaker 2: trying to optimize the body, optimize the torso, optimize the aesthetics.
- 3:51Speaker 2: And then in simple terms, it's like the psychology, I
- 3:54Speaker 2: think we were talking about it before, is a little
- 3:57Speaker 2: simplified in the sense that like flat tummy, perky boobs,
- 4:00Speaker 2: everyone's happy. But like, you know, it's really when you're
- 4:04Speaker 2: changing someone's face, no matter how great the operation is,
- 4:07Speaker 2: there's a little bit of the unknown when it comes
- 4:08Speaker 2: to the psychology of the change. Right, right.
- 4:11Speaker 1: So how often are people coming to you for first-time
- 4:14Speaker 1: surgeries and how often is it to redo something that
- 4:18Speaker 1: was done wrong?
- 4:19Speaker 2: So it's 60-40 in my practice, 60% primary operations, meaning
- 4:25Speaker 2: they haven't had surgery before. What's interesting is that many
- 4:28Speaker 2: of my patients have never had plastic surgery, which for
- 4:31Speaker 2: some reason people think, which is odd, but a lot
- 4:34Speaker 2: of my patients are moms. They've had a few children
- 4:37Speaker 2: and they take excellent care of themselves. They eat well,
- 4:41Speaker 2: they exercise and They've never thought about having surgery for vanity.
- 4:44Speaker 2: But after a few years, after the kids, they're staring
- 4:47Speaker 2: at themselves in the mirror and they're like, 10 years ago,
- 4:50Speaker 2: I was wearing a bikini and now I look like
- 4:52Speaker 2: this is ridiculous and I can't change it with diet
- 4:55Speaker 2: or exercise. I got to do something.
- 4:57Speaker 1: Right.
- 4:57Speaker 2: And that's, you know, kind of the sweet spot for us.
- 5:00Speaker 2: You know, the mommy makeover is kind of my go-to operation,
- 5:04Speaker 2: which to me just delivers the most quality of life
- 5:06Speaker 2: change for anyone. But the revision, sorry to interrupt you,
- 5:10Speaker 2: but the revision is about 40%. It's challenging. You know,
- 5:15Speaker 2: like my favorite President Kennedy says, we do the hard
- 5:17Speaker 2: things because they are hard and that's how you get great.
- 5:21Speaker 2: But that is, you know, a challenging operation because you're
- 5:24Speaker 2: taking someone who's, you know, damaged or some version of
- 5:28Speaker 2: damage and you're trying to not just make them whole,
- 5:29Speaker 2: but make them better.
- 5:31Speaker 1: So I know we're talking about how you specialize in
- 5:33Speaker 1: the neck down, but just talk to me for one
- 5:35Speaker 1: second about aging. Like what is it when people look
- 5:39Speaker 1: at themselves or other people that is so obvious about
- 5:43Speaker 1: the aging process? Is it the tone of the skin?
- 5:46Speaker 1: Is it the sagginess in the skin? What is it
- 5:48Speaker 1: that we all see that looks unattractive to ourselves?
- 5:51Speaker 2: Well, it's interesting because I hear the same thing all
- 5:54Speaker 2: the time from patients. And it's more of a feeling
- 5:58Speaker 2: than a look. And I can talk about exactly what
- 6:01Speaker 2: they're looking at. But I hear this from my patients.
- 6:04Speaker 2: I feel too good to look this old or I
- 6:07Speaker 2: feel too good to look this bad in their terms.
- 6:11Speaker 1: Right.
- 6:12Speaker 2: So I have two peaks of ages of patients who
- 6:14Speaker 2: come to see me. They're kind of mid-30s, early 40s.
- 6:16Speaker 2: These are people who just had their children and they're like,
- 6:19Speaker 2: I'm not living like this.
- 6:20Speaker 1: Period.
- 6:20Speaker 2: Full stop. Like fix my tummy, fix my breasts. Like
- 6:24Speaker 2: let's go. And then there's the second peak, which a
- 6:27Speaker 2: lot of people are surprised when half of my patients
- 6:29Speaker 2: are 50 plus. basically these are people who didn't have
- 6:32Speaker 2: surgery after their kids and they're around menopause and menopause
- 6:36Speaker 2: just exasperated or elevated exponentially what was happening before. And
- 6:41Speaker 2: they've just been, and they're like, they still feel amazing.
- 6:44Speaker 2: You know, they're 55, they're 60, they're 65. They travel,
- 6:48Speaker 2: they feel, you know, they're going to the theater, they're
- 6:50Speaker 2: going out, they're having an active lifestyle, but things have
- 6:53Speaker 2: just become, you know, beyond what they're going to, what they're,
- 6:57Speaker 2: what's acceptable to them for their lifestyle. Right. Most commonly,
- 7:00Speaker 2: it's stretched loose skin. We see a lot of thin
- 7:02Speaker 2: fit women in their mid-30s and in their mid-50s. The
- 7:06Speaker 2: thinner you are, the fitter you are. Pregnancy and age
- 7:09Speaker 2: are going to stretch the skin. People don't like having
- 7:13Speaker 2: the frame of a twin bed and the bedding of
- 7:16Speaker 2: a king. They want it matched, okay?
- 7:18Speaker 1: It's a really good way to look at it.
- 7:20Speaker 2: Because otherwise, it just doesn't look right. It doesn't feel right,
- 7:23Speaker 2: especially if you put so much time and energy into
- 7:25Speaker 2: taking care of yourself.
- 7:26Speaker 1: Right, right. So do you think people have gotten over
- 7:29Speaker 1: the taboo a little bit of saying they got plastic surgery?
- 7:32Speaker 1: Because I know a lot of people don't like to
- 7:34Speaker 1: admit it or they deny having it when it's clear
- 7:38Speaker 1: that they have had it.
- 7:39Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't see that at all. It's just part
- 7:41Speaker 2: of people's lives now. I think sophisticated people recognize that
- 7:46Speaker 2: plastic surgery solves this very specific problem for them. And
- 7:48Speaker 2: that's a sophisticated patient. And that's the kind of person
- 7:51Speaker 2: we want in my practice.
- 7:53Speaker 3: The car is beautiful. Where did you end up going
- 7:56Speaker 3: for it?
- 7:56Speaker 4: This exclusive place that Dad has connections with. They have
- 7:59Speaker 4: more cars for more dealerships than like anywhere else.
- 8:02Speaker 3: You have to put me in touch. What's it called?
- 8:04Speaker 5: It's Dune ADL.
- 8:06Speaker 3: Where?
- 8:08Speaker 5: Dune ADL. There's an accent on the E.
- 8:12Speaker 3: Do you mean.
- 8:12Speaker 5: Yes, I got it on Dundale Cars.
- 8:14Speaker 4: Lift?
- 8:15Speaker 3: Please. You going past Kimmage?
- 8:17Speaker 2: Oh, Kimmage.
- 8:18Speaker 4: No.
- 8:19Speaker 5: Dundale Cars. You couldn't possibly go anywhere else.
- 8:23Speaker 2: These are people that, hey, I eat well. I exercise.
- 8:26Speaker 2: These women exercise a lot. These are not like walk
- 8:29Speaker 2: on the treadmill once a week. These are hardcore Pilates
- 8:33Speaker 2: weightlifting every day. And they want to make a sophisticated move. Okay,
- 8:37Speaker 2: I have twice the amount of skin on my stomach
- 8:40Speaker 2: as I need. I'm going to go to someone to
- 8:42Speaker 2: solve this problem. There's no taboo about that. They're using
- 8:46Speaker 2: plastic surgery as a tool as they would anything else
- 8:49Speaker 2: in their life. toolbox in life, whether that's their hair person,
- 8:53Speaker 2: a lawyer, an accountant, like anyone who's, I'm solving a problem. Literally,
- 8:57Speaker 2: you know, there's a journey that everyone goes on. They
- 9:00Speaker 2: have a frustration in their body. They try every other
- 9:03Speaker 2: possible means because why wouldn't you? Then they come see me.
- 9:07Speaker 2: I give them a solution to their frustration. We do
- 9:10Speaker 2: the operation and then they get the psychological benefit of
- 9:14Speaker 2: having their problem solved. Right, right.
- 9:16Speaker 1: So there's only so much that like a spray tan, eyelashes,
- 9:20Speaker 1: hair extensions, all that good clothes, good makeup can kind
- 9:24Speaker 1: of cover.
- 9:24Speaker 2: Well, I do like the term or the phrase, if
- 9:27Speaker 2: you can't tone it, tan it.
- 9:29Speaker 4: Yes.
- 9:29Speaker 1: Well, that's true. I love a good spray tan. Who doesn't?
- 9:32Speaker 2: Me too.
- 9:33Speaker 1: But you do, in your office, you do Botox, you
- 9:37Speaker 1: do filler, all that kind of stuff. What is the
- 9:39Speaker 1: difference about people coming and getting that filler before they
- 9:43Speaker 1: do plastic surgery? Because I know a lot of plastic
- 9:45Speaker 1: surgeons or So dermatologists now use filler to change people's noses,
- 9:51Speaker 1: to change the jawline, to even sculpt the butts. So
- 9:54Speaker 1: what's the difference?
- 9:56Speaker 2: So while we're pretty aggressive in our office in the
- 9:58Speaker 2: operating room, our injectable is almost like a maintenance package. Again,
- 10:04Speaker 2: a lot of our patients are very sophisticated consumers. They
- 10:06Speaker 2: know what they want. They want what they know. A
- 10:08Speaker 2: lot of them are looking for maintenance, Botox maintenance, fillers.
- 10:11Speaker 2: They love our office. They love our staff because they
- 10:13Speaker 2: had surgery here. So we offer that service with a
- 10:16Speaker 2: loyalty program. And they keep coming back. But we do
- 10:18Speaker 2: not see altered appearances. We do not do that. It's
- 10:21Speaker 2: very light dosing of the toxin for a natural look.
- 10:25Speaker 2: Some people like to be frozen. I personally like to
- 10:27Speaker 2: be frozen. I mean, I just like the feeling of it.
- 10:31Speaker 2: But in terms of the fillers, we are very conservative here.
- 10:36Speaker 2: And I think that taste has some regional differences. New York.
- 10:42Speaker 2: people are, you know, they're built for speed here. There's
- 10:44Speaker 2: not a lot of room on the street there. You know, it's,
- 10:46Speaker 2: it's smaller and it's tighter. You know, we don't see
- 10:49Speaker 2: the big lips, the big cheeks demands in our office.
- 10:52Speaker 1: Right.
- 10:52Speaker 2: We see more subtle, subtle, but you know, it was
- 10:56Speaker 2: just in Miami on the weekend. Nothing subtle about those looks. Right.
- 11:00Speaker 1: There's nothing subtle about Vegas, LA. But there's nothing wrong
- 11:02Speaker 1: with that.
- 11:03Speaker 2: Just, you have to know, you'd have to know your audience,
- 11:04Speaker 2: know your role, just like the restaurants and the clothing
- 11:06Speaker 2: are different in New York. They're in Miami and Vegas.
- 11:08Speaker 2: And like, it's all, it's all good. As long as you,
- 11:11Speaker 2: You want to make sure when you're going to a
- 11:13Speaker 2: plastic surgeon that your aesthetic interests match their aesthetic tendencies.
- 11:16Speaker 2: Because every surgeon is going to, no matter what they
- 11:18Speaker 2: tell you, like their brain is wired in a certain way.
- 11:21Speaker 2: And when you're in the operating room, people fall back
- 11:23Speaker 2: on their experience. They don't rise to the occasion. So
- 11:25Speaker 2: like whatever they're used to doing is what you're going
- 11:27Speaker 2: to get. Right, right.
- 11:28Speaker 1: So I have a question about, you know, beauty and wellness, magazines, stores,
- 11:34Speaker 1: you know, influencers talk about products and how well products work.
- 11:39Speaker 1: Is there an actual product that you think does work
- 11:42Speaker 1: or do you think that people need actual help with
- 11:45Speaker 1: surgery and Botox?
- 11:46Speaker 2: I know one thing in this life. Surgery works every time. Okay.
- 11:53Speaker 1: Right.
- 11:53Speaker 2: And immediately. If you have extra skin and you cut
- 11:56Speaker 2: it out, it's no longer there.
- 11:57Speaker 1: Right.
- 11:57Speaker 2: Okay. If you have stubborn fat and we suck it out,
- 12:00Speaker 2: it's no longer there. Everything else is a delay or
- 12:04Speaker 2: a toy or may work. But I'm not saying there's
- 12:07Speaker 2: anything bad with doing the non-surgical. I just, my brain
- 12:11Speaker 2: is wired to solve problems.
- 12:13Speaker 1: Right. Right. So, but do you think that, do you
- 12:16Speaker 1: believe in things like creams that are going to tighten
- 12:19Speaker 1: your skin?
- 12:20Speaker 5: No.
- 12:20Speaker 4: No.
- 12:21Speaker 1: Okay. Well, that's good to know. And what about creams?
- 12:24Speaker 2: But I like believe in the tooth fairy. Right.
- 12:26Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.
- 12:27Speaker 2: My son believes it's there.
- 12:28Speaker 1: Yeah. Do you believe that creams will help with making
- 12:32Speaker 1: your skin look younger?
- 12:35Speaker 2: For sure. And, you know, I'm not the person to
- 12:37Speaker 2: ask for skincare because I'm the guy who just uses
- 12:39Speaker 2: whatever my wife has on the counter, probably using the
- 12:43Speaker 2: wrong thing in the wrong, you know, sequence. But I
- 12:47Speaker 2: have to believe that the science is there in skincare
- 12:50Speaker 2: for the face.
- 12:51Speaker 1: Right.
- 12:51Speaker 2: But in my mind, you know, I do like a
- 12:55Speaker 2: deep laser once a year with my friend, Paul Frank,
- 12:59Speaker 2: who's a dermatologist, because like I'd rather just do a
- 13:01Speaker 2: deep laser once a year than do skincare every day. Right.
- 13:04Speaker 2: So that's for me. It's probably the same as if
- 13:08Speaker 2: you have a really good skincare regimen versus just lasering
- 13:12Speaker 2: your face once a year.
- 13:13Speaker 1: So what are the trends you're seeing right now in
- 13:16Speaker 1: people coming into your office? You were telling me earlier
- 13:19Speaker 1: it's not so much big and bold. It's very subtle.
- 13:23Speaker 1: It's subtle, but it's complete.
- 13:25Speaker 2: The Mommy Maker Over procedure, which is the most common
- 13:29Speaker 2: procedure I do, has never been more in demand nationwide.
- 13:31Speaker 4: Okay.
- 13:32Speaker 2: Women are not accepting the physical changes to their bodies
- 13:36Speaker 2: from babies. It's like period, full stop. They are not
- 13:39Speaker 2: interested in living with deflated, droopy breasts, stretched, torn muscles,
- 13:44Speaker 2: and skin, you know, that's hanging off when they sit down.
- 13:46Speaker 3: Right.
- 13:47Speaker 2: If you are used to living this active lifestyle, traveling,
- 13:51Speaker 2: enjoying your body, enjoying clothes, you're not going to want
- 13:54Speaker 2: to do that when you're 32 years old for the next, however,
- 13:57Speaker 2: you know, many decades. Right. So... People are doing bigger operations.
- 14:02Speaker 2: It's conservative in the sense that they don't necessarily want
- 14:05Speaker 2: big implants, but they want things fixed. They want things
- 14:10Speaker 2: put back. If they remember, they always show me, look
- 14:14Speaker 2: what I looked like in college. Look what I looked
- 14:16Speaker 2: like before babies. And this is how I feel. Help
- 14:18Speaker 2: me look like that again because I can't do it
- 14:21Speaker 2: with diet and exercise. So the combined liposuction, tummy tuck,
- 14:26Speaker 2: muscle repair, breast surgery, that's the most common thing we do.
- 14:30Speaker 2: And that's what we're known for. The number two thing
- 14:34Speaker 2: we see is the explant. People want their big implants out.
- 14:39Speaker 3: Right.
- 14:40Speaker 1: And is that driven by celebrities making more of a,
- 14:45Speaker 1: you know, a statement on their Instagram, social media that
- 14:48Speaker 1: they're taking things out? And do you think that's affected
- 14:50Speaker 1: the trend?
- 14:50Speaker 2: No, I think it's the previous generation of plastic surgeons.
- 14:52Speaker 2: I think, you know, most of the patients that come
- 14:54Speaker 2: to see me or my breast specialist, Dr. Anna, who
- 14:57Speaker 2: works with me, You know, in the 90s, they saw
- 15:00Speaker 2: a surgeon somewhere and they got huge implants and they
- 15:02Speaker 2: had a great run with them. And now it's like
- 15:05Speaker 2: 30 years later, they're in their mid to late, you know, 50s,
- 15:09Speaker 2: early 60s. And like their life is just different. They're like,
- 15:12Speaker 2: I'm not the big boob girl anymore. I'm like the grandmother.
- 15:15Speaker 2: And like, you know, they're walking around.
- 15:18Speaker 3: The car is beautiful. Where did you end up going
- 15:21Speaker 3: for it?
- 15:21Speaker 4: This exclusive place that Dad has connections with. They have
- 15:24Speaker 4: more cars for more dealerships than, like, anywhere else.
- 15:27Speaker 3: You have to put me in touch. What's it called?
- 15:29Speaker 5: It's Dune-A-D-L.
- 15:31Speaker 3: Where? Dune-A-D-L.
- 15:34Speaker 5: There's an accent on the E.
- 15:37Speaker 3: Do you mean.
- 15:37Speaker 5: Yes, I got it on Dundale Cars.
- 15:39Speaker 2: Lift?
- 15:40Speaker 3: Please. Are you going past Kimmage?
- 15:42Speaker 1: Oh, Kimmage!
- 15:43Speaker 5: No. Dundale Cars. You couldn't possibly go anywhere else.
- 15:48Speaker 2: With these, you know, melons, and they're stretched, and it's
- 15:51Speaker 2: like a whole... thing and they're just like, let's downsize.
- 15:54Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 15:55Speaker 2: You know, they don't typically want to totally get rid
- 15:56Speaker 2: of them, but they want to downsize to something more
- 15:58Speaker 2: appropriate for the clothing they like, want to do a lift,
- 16:01Speaker 2: try to rejuvenate with a little bit of fat. That's
- 16:03Speaker 2: definitely the second most common trend. And five years ago,
- 16:09Speaker 2: seven years ago, never saw it. Wasn't a thing.
- 16:11Speaker 1: Right.
- 16:12Speaker 2: Now get these implants out, doc. Let's go. Let's get
- 16:14Speaker 2: me looking the way I feel.
- 16:17Speaker 1: Right.
- 16:17Speaker 2: And then the third is reversing BBLs.
- 16:20Speaker 1: A Brazilian butt lift.
- 16:21Speaker 2: Yeah. Yes.
- 16:22Speaker 1: Talk about that.
- 16:23Speaker 2: Too big, too wide, too inappropriate.
- 16:27Speaker 1: Okay.
- 16:27Speaker 2: And again, there are people who like that look and
- 16:29Speaker 2: there's nothing wrong with that, obviously. But there are a
- 16:32Speaker 2: lot of people who tried that look and they have
- 16:36Speaker 2: trouble walking down the street. You know, they can't find clothing.
- 16:39Speaker 2: They got, you know, tiny narrow waist and a big
- 16:43Speaker 2: wide butt. I mean, it's like looks, it's.
- 16:46Speaker 1: A different look. So we're reversing that. Talk to me
- 16:49Speaker 1: about how that is done. I mean, do they actually
- 16:52Speaker 1: take your ribs out or anything? How do you get
- 16:56Speaker 1: someone's waist that small?
- 16:57Speaker 2: Well, it's a combination. The waist gets small and the
- 16:59Speaker 2: butt gets big. So the differential gets pretty dramatic. So
- 17:04Speaker 2: these smaller people, they're having basically like all their fat
- 17:07Speaker 2: taken out of their abdomen and their waist and it's
- 17:09Speaker 2: all being put in their butt. And it's a look.
- 17:14Speaker 2: It's not for me. And there's a lot of people
- 17:16Speaker 2: who tried it and didn't like it. Right. That's why
- 17:19Speaker 2: I like timeless plastic surgery because it's not like getting
- 17:22Speaker 2: a haircut. It's not like trying new clothes. Like, if
- 17:24Speaker 2: you don't like it, it's a big deal. Yeah. And
- 17:27Speaker 2: especially the reverse BBLs. The skin has been stretched from
- 17:30Speaker 2: all that fat. So, like, it's a real problem shrinking
- 17:33Speaker 2: it down. It takes multiple sessions. They're always left with, like,
- 17:36Speaker 2: you know, a cellulite cobblestone bum, which nobody wants.
- 17:41Speaker 1: So, I've seen a lot of stuff on doctors' Instagrams
- 17:44Speaker 1: where they're doing filler in the butt. Do you think
- 17:47Speaker 1: that that works just as well to kind of lift
- 17:50Speaker 1: your butt?
- 17:50Speaker 2: A little. It's really, you know, the collagen stimulating, which
- 17:55Speaker 2: we do a lot for the very thin patients where
- 17:59Speaker 2: there's literally no fat. Right. Fat's always king. That's the
- 18:04Speaker 2: number one. But there's going to be patients who literally
- 18:06Speaker 2: have no fat and then we'll use that if they
- 18:08Speaker 2: want a little boost.
- 18:09Speaker 1: And how would you do a butt surgery if they're
- 18:12Speaker 1: not getting the injections? per se like is there what.
- 18:16Speaker 2: Do i do a lot of what we call a
- 18:18Speaker 2: thin or skinny bbl or baby bbl got it a
- 18:21Speaker 2: lot of the moms i'm doing mommy makeovers on want
- 18:25Speaker 2: fat transfer to their butt but they want like a
- 18:27Speaker 2: perky athletic butt that looks good in you know leggings.
- 18:30Speaker 1: Not right that's what i want yeah i mean who
- 18:32Speaker 1: doesn't yeah so the procedure for that is their own fat.
- 18:37Speaker 2: We're using their own fat and in terms of the
- 18:39Speaker 2: volume i'm using you know like a watt like can
- 18:42Speaker 2: of Coke worth of fat versus, like, four big gulps
- 18:45Speaker 2: worth of fat.
- 18:45Speaker 1: Right.
- 18:46Speaker 2: And, you know, when you purify it and use it
- 18:48Speaker 2: in a controlled, you know, finesse way, you get a
- 18:51Speaker 2: nice perky bum.
- 18:53Speaker 1: And does it last?
- 18:54Speaker 2: Yeah. Wow. Yeah. Like, 60%, 70% of what we inject stays, but, like,
- 18:59Speaker 2: then that's your fat. Like, that's not going anywhere.
- 19:01Speaker 1: See, that to me is amazing.
- 19:02Speaker 2: And a lot of thin BBLs, athletic BBLs, we do
- 19:05Speaker 2: a lot, a lot of people who exercise a lot,
- 19:08Speaker 2: and they can get very thin, but they– can't do
- 19:12Speaker 2: anything to their bum so we are really you know
- 19:14Speaker 2: i i always joke like i can get fat at
- 19:17Speaker 2: anybody um so a lot of surgeons refer me like
- 19:22Speaker 2: thinner active women and like you know i always.
- 19:25Speaker 1: Find the fat right nice okay well that's what i
- 19:28Speaker 1: want in my next life um well we can work.
- 19:32Speaker 2: On it yeah i'll check my schedule yeah.
- 19:34Speaker 1: You can check check out my butt tell me what
- 19:36Speaker 1: i need um So what about people that, okay, so
- 19:39Speaker 1: a big thing right now is in social media, for example,
- 19:42Speaker 1: all the filters and how it changes either their bodies,
- 19:45Speaker 1: their face, whatever it is. Do people come into your
- 19:47Speaker 1: office and say, I want to look like this?
- 19:50Speaker 2: Like the, no, people always come in with their inspiration
- 19:53Speaker 2: pictures and everyone uses similar pictures. And it's always like
- 19:57Speaker 2: some 19 year old Brazilian model. And like, you know,
- 20:00Speaker 2: talking to like, um, 57 year old mom of four
- 20:05Speaker 2: from New Jersey. And you don't listen. I always say,
- 20:07Speaker 2: I agree. Like, I want to look like that too.
- 20:10Speaker 2: Everyone wants to look like this. It lets me orient.
- 20:12Speaker 2: I really don't think they have a distorted version of
- 20:14Speaker 2: reality when they show me wish picks. Cause like it's
- 20:17Speaker 2: a wish pick. They like people are more realistic and
- 20:21Speaker 2: sophisticated than I think maybe surgeons give them credit. They
- 20:25Speaker 2: know they're not going to go and look like a
- 20:26Speaker 2: 19 year old, but they're like, they just want you
- 20:28Speaker 2: to know what they want. Right. And then I say,
- 20:30Speaker 2: I'm going to do the best I can with your
- 20:32Speaker 2: body and I'm going to take you as far as
- 20:34Speaker 2: I can. And then we're going to get you on
- 20:35Speaker 2: the workout program and.
- 20:36Speaker 1: Then you're going to take Right. So you help them
- 20:39Speaker 1: with their realistic expectations of how that you can apply
- 20:42Speaker 1: that picture to them to make them look the best
- 20:45Speaker 1: that they can.
- 20:45Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.
- 20:46Speaker 1: Have you ever said no to a patient about something?
- 20:50Speaker 2: Yeah, I say no all the time and it's not
- 20:52Speaker 2: a negative or derogatory thing. Typically, it's not the right
- 20:56Speaker 2: time in someone's life. Like a lot of people in
- 20:59Speaker 2: the midst of a divorce turmoil, not a good time
- 21:02Speaker 2: to have plastic surgery. Like you don't want to have
- 21:04Speaker 2: background like intense emotional stuff going on. Hmm. you want
- 21:07Speaker 2: to settle because surgery, any form of surgery can kind
- 21:11Speaker 2: of spark, unleash whatever is happening. So you don't need
- 21:15Speaker 2: to like escalate that.
- 21:16Speaker 1: So you want stability.
- 21:18Speaker 2: And the other thing is when someone wants to operate,
- 21:20Speaker 2: and I understand this all the time, and this is
- 21:22Speaker 2: something that we see all the time. People are like,
- 21:24Speaker 2: I just want a little lipo, but their skin's hanging
- 21:27Speaker 2: down to their knee. And they're like, you need a
- 21:29Speaker 2: tummy tuck. And they're like, but I don't want a
- 21:30Speaker 2: tummy tuck. I'm like, I understand you don't want it,
- 21:32Speaker 2: but you need it.
- 21:33Speaker 1: Right.
- 21:34Speaker 2: Um, So a lot of times we're saying no because
- 21:36Speaker 2: the goals don't match the operation they're willing to have.
- 21:41Speaker 2: And it's always better to not do an operation than
- 21:43Speaker 2: do the wrong operation.
- 21:45Speaker 1: When people are looking for a plastic surgeon, what are
- 21:47Speaker 1: the questions they should be asking or what kind of
- 21:50Speaker 1: doctor should they be looking for?
- 21:51Speaker 2: Well, I think like this is a marriage. Like we
- 21:54Speaker 2: do big surgery. Like we are with you for like
- 21:57Speaker 2: basically life.
- 21:58Speaker 1: Okay.
- 21:58Speaker 2: There is a connection here. When you're meeting a surgeon,
- 22:02Speaker 2: it's almost like you're marrying into their whole family as well.
- 22:05Speaker 2: You need to get to know the staff. You need
- 22:06Speaker 2: to get to know the facility. Like you have to
- 22:08Speaker 2: walk in and be like, this is a place where
- 22:10Speaker 2: I want to be operated on. If it's in the
- 22:11Speaker 2: basement somewhere, like probably don't want to have surgery there.
- 22:14Speaker 2: If they have a tiny little operating room, you probably
- 22:16Speaker 2: don't want to have surgery there. They don't have a
- 22:18Speaker 2: big dedicated team that's like cohesive and everyone's smiling. Like,
- 22:24Speaker 2: within 30 seconds of walking into an office, I know
- 22:26Speaker 2: whether or not I want to be there. It's got
- 22:28Speaker 2: to be clean. It's got to smell good. They've got
- 22:30Speaker 2: to have the right music. The people at the front
- 22:31Speaker 2: desk need to be smiling. Everyone's got to want to
- 22:33Speaker 2: be there. That's number one. Number two, the surgeon's got
- 22:36Speaker 2: to do what you want every day. Not once a week.
- 22:41Speaker 2: Not once a month. Not, you know, it's like, you want.
- 22:44Speaker 3: The car is beautiful. Where did you end up going
- 22:47Speaker 3: for it?
- 22:48Speaker 5: This exclusive place that Dad has connections with?
- 22:50Speaker 4: They have more cars for more dealerships than, like, anywhere else.
- 22:53Speaker 3: You have to put me in touch. What's it called?
- 22:55Speaker 5: It's Dune-A-D-L.
- 22:57Speaker 3: Where?
- 22:59Speaker 5: Dune-A-D-L. There's an accent on the E.
- 23:03Speaker 3: Do you mean.
- 23:04Speaker 5: Yes, I got it on Done Deal Cars.
- 23:05Speaker 4: Lyft?
- 23:06Speaker 5: Please.
- 23:06Speaker 3: Are you going past Kimmage?
- 23:08Speaker 4: Oh, Kimmage.
- 23:09Speaker 2: No.
- 23:11Speaker 5: Done Deal Cars. You couldn't possibly go anywhere else.
- 23:13Speaker 2: Breast surgery? Go to someone who does breast surgery every
- 23:16Speaker 2: single day. You want a tummy tuck? Just go to
- 23:18Speaker 2: someone who does a tummy tuck every day. Right. Because
- 23:21Speaker 2: there is nothing that substitutes purposeful passion towards a singular outcome. Nothing.
- 23:28Speaker 2: You cannot. It is impossible to do excellent surgery. And
- 23:34Speaker 2: the ocean between good and great is vast. So if
- 23:37Speaker 2: you want a 7 out of 10, you can go
- 23:39Speaker 2: to somebody who does it once in a while. But
- 23:41Speaker 2: I played a win, and I'm going for the 10
- 23:43Speaker 2: out of 10. Every time. Okay. It just, that's the
- 23:46Speaker 2: way I'm wired. Like, why wouldn't you want to have
- 23:48Speaker 2: the best outcome possible on the planet every single time? Yeah.
- 23:53Speaker 2: I think the personality is going to match with the doctor.
- 23:56Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 23:56Speaker 1: You have to have chemistry, but I think about.
- 23:59Speaker 2: The same thing. Like you're going to be talking to
- 24:00Speaker 2: this person basically for years about your body. You're going
- 24:04Speaker 2: to be with them naked a lot. Okay. Like you
- 24:07Speaker 2: better be comfortable. Like you should have similar interests, morals, ethics, like,
- 24:12Speaker 2: Because you guys are in it forever.
- 24:15Speaker 1: I think that's really important what you said before, too, though,
- 24:18Speaker 1: that you should go to a surgeon who specializes in
- 24:20Speaker 1: the one thing that you want. Because, I mean, I've
- 24:23Speaker 1: been to plastic surgeons plenty of times, and they mostly
- 24:25Speaker 1: do general surgery. They do everything. They do face. They
- 24:28Speaker 1: do nose. They do boobs. They do labia surgery. They
- 24:31Speaker 1: do everything.
- 24:32Speaker 2: I chose, because I'm so committed to mastering something, I
- 24:35Speaker 2: chose to live and work in a city that has
- 24:37Speaker 2: high density that allows me to do that. Mm-hmm. If
- 24:40Speaker 2: you live in Wichita, Kansas, as your plastic surgeon, you
- 24:42Speaker 2: probably need to do it all because there's just not
- 24:45Speaker 2: enough people. Yeah. But that's the meant that surgeon chose
- 24:48Speaker 2: that mentality and that patient should match that. And they
- 24:51Speaker 2: probably get a really good outcome. Right. But there's just
- 24:54Speaker 2: a difference. Like I said, the difference between good and
- 24:56Speaker 2: great might be small, but it's so meaningful, powerful and significant.
- 25:01Speaker 1: Right. So when you're walking down the street or interacting
- 25:04Speaker 1: with people, is it hard for you not to judge
- 25:08Speaker 1: them as a doctor and say, I could fix that?
- 25:10Speaker 1: You don't do that?
- 25:12Speaker 2: It's just not a thing in my life.
- 25:14Speaker 1: Interesting.
- 25:15Speaker 2: No, when I'm with talking to someone, I'm trying to
- 25:18Speaker 2: absorb knowledge.
- 25:19Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.
- 25:20Speaker 2: Like, I always want to be the dumbest guy in
- 25:22Speaker 2: the room. I always want to ask one more question
- 25:24Speaker 2: than everyone else, be a little more curious. That's why,
- 25:27Speaker 2: you know, I read two to three books a week. Mm-hmm.
- 25:29Speaker 2: Anytime I'm around people, I'm trying to get information, like learn.
- 25:32Speaker 2: What are these guys? What secret do you know about
- 25:35Speaker 2: life that I don't know? Right.
- 25:36Speaker 1: That's interesting.
- 25:36Speaker 2: I'm not going the other way. Yeah. Yeah. You know,
- 25:39Speaker 2: God gave me, you know, two ears, one mouth. So
- 25:42Speaker 2: I should listen twice as much as I speak.
- 25:45Speaker 1: So, but how often are people coming up to you
- 25:48Speaker 1: and saying, what do you think of my butt? What
- 25:49Speaker 1: do you think of my boobs?
- 25:50Speaker 2: Not as much as people think. And I, you know.
- 25:55Speaker 2: Like if you're at a restaurant, like someone, it's awkward. So,
- 26:00Speaker 2: and it's inappropriate. I'll say like, you look amazing, but
- 26:02Speaker 2: if you want to talk about it, call the office.
- 26:03Speaker 1: Right. Exactly. Okay.
- 26:06Speaker 2: You don't want to be the guy like, let's go
- 26:07Speaker 2: to the bathroom and take a look under the hood. Right.
- 26:09Speaker 1: That's not, you know. Of course not. It might get
- 26:13Speaker 1: you more clients though, not that you need it. If
- 26:17Speaker 1: you could get your hands on one celebrity to do
- 26:21Speaker 1: something to, do you have somebody in mind?
- 26:25Speaker 2: That's a good one. You know, I'd like to get
- 26:29Speaker 2: Betty Boop in Reverse or BBL.
- 26:33Speaker 1: But she's known for that. People love her for that.
- 26:36Speaker 2: Yeah, but, you know, I could see her, like, walking
- 26:39Speaker 2: the runway in a couture, you know, outfit. Okay.
- 26:43Speaker 1: But, like, you know, somebody that is popular today. A
- 26:46Speaker 1: real person. Yeah, it's a real person.
- 26:49Speaker 2: You know, I don't have anyone that I wish I
- 26:51Speaker 2: could operate on and each and every person, celebrity, mom,
- 26:57Speaker 2: hedge fund, lawyer, doctor, whoever, each and every patient's just,
- 27:00Speaker 2: you know, I'm grateful for each and every person. So
- 27:03Speaker 2: I don't have any, I just want to, I want to,
- 27:06Speaker 2: my dream is to just continue operating on people, you know,
- 27:08Speaker 2: that are looking for the same things as me.
- 27:12Speaker 1: Right. To look their best.
- 27:13Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 27:14Speaker 1: With what they have. Is there a certain celebrity that
- 27:17Speaker 1: people come in most often as their wish pick that
- 27:22Speaker 1: they want to look like?
- 27:23Speaker 2: It's interesting because for now, it's really– because basically everyone,
- 27:28Speaker 2: I guess, is a celebrity on social media. Yep. There's
- 27:32Speaker 2: no consistency because if they're just searching bikini body, it's
- 27:37Speaker 2: not like it comes up Cindy Crawford anymore.
- 27:39Speaker 1: Right.
- 27:40Speaker 2: Or whoever the hot models were. It's just like literally–
- 27:44Speaker 2: a hundred million girls in bikinis.
- 27:46Speaker 1: Right.
- 27:47Speaker 2: So it's just whoever, it's just everyone. Like literally everyone's
- 27:51Speaker 2: an inspo.
- 27:52Speaker 1: Interesting.
- 27:52Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 27:53Speaker 1: Um, now talk to me about how you run your office.
- 27:57Speaker 1: Sometimes you're working late at night on weekends. Um, tell
- 28:01Speaker 1: us about like, give us some inside scoop about like, I,
- 28:05Speaker 1: not the people that come to you, not the celebrities,
- 28:07Speaker 1: but how they get treated by you. So they're not
- 28:09Speaker 1: seen by the public.
- 28:10Speaker 2: Well, the most important thing that I, if I, In life,
- 28:15Speaker 2: if you want to be a surgeon, you need a team.
- 28:18Speaker 2: And if you want a team, you've got to figure
- 28:20Speaker 2: out how to be a leader. And if you want
- 28:21Speaker 2: to be a leader, you've got to learn. So you've
- 28:22Speaker 2: got to have mentors. You've got to read the books.
- 28:24Speaker 2: You've got to find people that's going to help you.
- 28:27Speaker 2: And the number one thing that I have found is
- 28:30Speaker 2: first understand before you seek to be understood. So you
- 28:34Speaker 2: have to get to know everyone that's working for you.
- 28:36Speaker 2: Get to know your teammates. Get to know what motivates them.
- 28:39Speaker 2: Make sure everyone's morals and ethics are aligned. That leads
- 28:42Speaker 2: to having like a code of ethics. We have like
- 28:45Speaker 2: four values that all people who work here, they have
- 28:48Speaker 2: to live it like it's their, you know, it is
- 28:51Speaker 2: their creed. They have to pursue expertise. So whatever they're doing, nurse,
- 28:55Speaker 2: front desk, patient coordinator, anesthesiologist, you have to pursue expertise
- 28:59Speaker 2: at all times. You have to be a lifelong learner.
- 29:01Speaker 2: You know, we have a monthly book club. We are
- 29:04Speaker 2: always sending people to conferences all around the world. You have,
- 29:07Speaker 2: there's never, you know, it never ends the search for knowledge.
- 29:10Speaker 2: Because I always want inertia moving forward. And then we
- 29:14Speaker 2: get into the harsher ones. You have to really be
- 29:17Speaker 2: good at accepting feedback if you want to work here.
- 29:21Speaker 2: Criticism is the key. In a positive way, in the
- 29:25Speaker 2: sense that we are always checking each other, balancing each other,
- 29:28Speaker 2: like letting... Hey, when you do this, that doesn't work
- 29:31Speaker 2: with patients. We send out a lot of surveys. We're
- 29:33Speaker 2: always constantly evaluating. Everyone checks their ego at the door here.
- 29:37Speaker 2: And then we, and we generously share our knowledge. But for,
- 29:40Speaker 2: so once you have a team of people that are,
- 29:42Speaker 2: you know, coordinated in harmony, passionate, it's all about the
- 29:46Speaker 2: patient care. And for us, you know, like our favorite
- 29:49Speaker 2: book in the office, Danny Meyer setting the table, it's hospitality.
- 29:53Speaker 2: We're trying to create a unique experience, a unique surgical experience.
- 29:57Speaker 2: As you see, our patients go from surgery in our,
- 29:59Speaker 2: you know, fancy wheelchair over to the plaza. They have
- 30:03Speaker 2: a luxurious stay with a private duty nurse. The doctors,
- 30:07Speaker 2: the nurses go visit our patients.
- 30:09Speaker 3: The car is beautiful. Where did you end up going
- 30:12Speaker 3: for it?
- 30:13Speaker 4: This exclusive place that Dad has connections with. They have
- 30:15Speaker 4: more cars for more dealerships than like anywhere else.
- 30:18Speaker 3: You have to put me in touch. What's it called?
- 30:20Speaker 5: It's Dunaidial.
- 30:22Speaker 3: Where?
- 30:24Speaker 5: Dunaidial. There's an accent on the E.
- 30:28Speaker 3: Do you mean.
- 30:29Speaker 5: Yes, I got it on Done Deal Cars. Lyft, please.
- 30:32Speaker 3: You're going past Kimmage.
- 30:33Speaker 2: Oh, Kimmage.
- 30:34Speaker 1: No.
- 30:36Speaker 5: Done Deal Cars. You couldn't possibly go anywhere else.
- 30:39Speaker 2: We create an environment and experience that's memorable. We're always
- 30:45Speaker 2: trying to, like, catch something about someone, whether or not
- 30:47Speaker 2: they have a wedding coming up or they have a
- 30:49Speaker 2: personal accomplishment. We're always trying to connect with them with gifts.
- 30:53Speaker 2: Trying to really establish deep, meaningful relationships with our people.
- 30:56Speaker 4: Right.
- 30:57Speaker 2: The reason for that is simple. We love the people
- 30:59Speaker 2: we work with. So why wouldn't we want to have deep,
- 31:01Speaker 2: meaningful relationships? And second of all, that they, you know,
- 31:05Speaker 2: in a quadratic way, exponentially quadratic way, grow our business.
- 31:10Speaker 2: We're 100 percent word of mouth.
- 31:12Speaker 1: Right. That's interesting.
- 31:14Speaker 2: Yeah. And social media is like it's different in what
- 31:17Speaker 2: people think. People hear my name, Dr. Anna's name, Dr.
- 31:20Speaker 2: Chris's name. And then they follow on social media and then,
- 31:24Speaker 2: you know, that's like, they're like dating you one way.
- 31:26Speaker 2: Like they're going to get to know your personality. What
- 31:28Speaker 2: do you do every day? Like a lot of patients
- 31:31Speaker 2: find a lot of comfort knowing like I'm a nerd.
- 31:35Speaker 2: I go to bed super early. I get up, you know,
- 31:39Speaker 2: at like four, four 15 every day. I'm reading, I'm
- 31:42Speaker 2: in the gym. I'm like, I'm disciplined as everything to me,
- 31:45Speaker 2: you know, good work in the operating room. It's everything
- 31:48Speaker 2: what you're doing outside of the operating room, you know,
- 31:51Speaker 2: People know. I'm basically working, working out or with my family.
- 31:55Speaker 2: And a lot of people like that in their surgeon.
- 31:57Speaker 5: I would.
- 31:57Speaker 1: Yeah, I would too. I mean, having great values and
- 32:00Speaker 1: not being a party boy would be my two things
- 32:03Speaker 1: that I would be looking for.
- 32:03Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't work. Yeah.
- 32:05Speaker 1: I would not like to see you out late at
- 32:07Speaker 1: night at a bottle service club.
- 32:10Speaker 2: You know, we talk about it in the office. It's
- 32:11Speaker 2: like being a professional athlete. Like when you're in the
- 32:14Speaker 2: operating room, it's physical and mental. And you need to
- 32:16Speaker 2: be prepared physically and mentally. That means nutrition, rest. your reading,
- 32:21Speaker 2: your exercise, like you're good to go.
- 32:24Speaker 1: But it's so interesting that you're bringing that up because
- 32:26Speaker 1: I feel like on social media a lot, you see
- 32:28Speaker 1: a lot of these very well-known plastic surgeons showing their
- 32:34Speaker 1: life in a very flashy way.
- 32:35Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. It's not me. Yeah.
- 32:37Speaker 1: But don't you, I mean, maybe it makes them more
- 32:40Speaker 1: popular and famous. They get more likes, they get more views,
- 32:42Speaker 1: and maybe they get a lot of requests for patients.
- 32:44Speaker 1: I don't know if it actually translates into a real patient,
- 32:47Speaker 1: but I think that some people think it's, good to
- 32:51Speaker 1: be seen in a flashy way.
- 32:53Speaker 2: Right? Yeah. I don't know.
- 32:56Speaker 1: But you know what I mean? Like, have you seen
- 32:58Speaker 1: those Instagram feeds?
- 32:59Speaker 2: Yeah. I think there's always people who want to show
- 33:01Speaker 2: a certain portray a certain type of lifestyle and who
- 33:04Speaker 2: knows what really the reason is. Right. I don't know
- 33:07Speaker 2: if it's, and by the way, if that's them authentically,
- 33:09Speaker 2: then that's probably what they should show because people should
- 33:11Speaker 2: know that, you know, this is that kind of person. Right.
- 33:15Speaker 2: Like maybe you're that kind of person that'll work out great.
- 33:17Speaker 2: But if you're a family oriented person, and you're not party-oriented, then, like,
- 33:23Speaker 2: you're my kind of person. Right, right.
- 33:25Speaker 1: So you're going back to the fact.
- 33:27Speaker 2: But that doesn't mean, like, you know, me and my
- 33:29Speaker 2: wife and my kids travel to nice places, but a
- 33:31Speaker 2: lot of times we're going to the same places that
- 33:33Speaker 2: our patients go.
- 33:34Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 33:34Speaker 2: But there's a difference between sharing your life and portraying
- 33:38Speaker 2: a certain, you know, level of whatever you want to
- 33:42Speaker 2: call it in terms of flashiness.
- 33:44Speaker 1: Flashiness, yeah. And it goes back to what you were
- 33:46Speaker 1: saying about the chemistry you have with the patient is
- 33:49Speaker 1: very important. Um, are there any procedures that you would
- 33:52Speaker 1: talk people out of, not necessarily in your office, but
- 33:54Speaker 1: for our listeners? Like, are there procedures that you think
- 33:57Speaker 1: are not good for somebody to fall into like the
- 33:59Speaker 1: Brazilian butt lift or whatever? That's too big.
- 34:01Speaker 2: I think the Brazilian butt lift is a good operation when,
- 34:03Speaker 2: when the aesthetic goals of the patient and the doctors
- 34:06Speaker 2: are in line. Um, but our implants is something that
- 34:10Speaker 2: very few surgeons on the planet can do consistently and safely. Um,
- 34:16Speaker 2: because of the nature of where they live, they're close
- 34:18Speaker 2: to stuff that's not always so clean. Um, so I
- 34:22Speaker 2: think that's a high risk procedure. What do you think?
- 34:24Speaker 2: There are surgeons who can do it, but like you
- 34:26Speaker 2: can count them on one hand.
- 34:28Speaker 1: What do you think of the people that travel to
- 34:30Speaker 1: Mexico or Russia or wherever they're going to get these?
- 34:33Speaker 2: So I'd be impressed if they got into Russia these days.
- 34:35Speaker 1: But they did.
- 34:37Speaker 2: I got it. Yeah. I think there are, It's funny,
- 34:41Speaker 2: I get this question a lot. There's excellent surgeons in
- 34:43Speaker 2: every country in the world. You can name a country
- 34:45Speaker 2: and I'll tell you someone who's amazing there. And there
- 34:48Speaker 2: are shady people in every place. As you go into
- 34:54Speaker 2: other countries like Mexico or South America, there's a little
- 34:59Speaker 2: less regulation. So there's more chance of having some places
- 35:03Speaker 2: that are not going to be up to the same
- 35:05Speaker 2: standards as us. But I can assure you, There are moral, ethical,
- 35:09Speaker 2: fantastic surgeons in each and every country in the world.
- 35:13Speaker 1: But do you believe that people get what they pay for?
- 35:15Speaker 1: I mean, you know, something might be valued at $ 20, 000 here,
- 35:18Speaker 1: and if they go to Mexico, they're only spending $ 4, 000.
- 35:20Speaker 2: Well, what's interesting is the surgeons I would refer them to,
- 35:23Speaker 2: the price is the same.
- 35:24Speaker 1: Right. But what do you think about people traveling just
- 35:27Speaker 1: to get a better price? Do you believe they get
- 35:29Speaker 1: what they pay for?
- 35:29Speaker 2: You know, I understand, obviously, in a paternalistic way, I'd
- 35:33Speaker 2: say you should save up until you can do it safely.
- 35:35Speaker 4: Mm-hmm.
- 35:36Speaker 2: But that's not my life. And I can't tell people
- 35:39Speaker 2: what to do. And I understand. They're like, I need
- 35:41Speaker 2: this or they think they need it. Right. And, you know,
- 35:46Speaker 2: they have a budget and they seek out. But, yeah,
- 35:50Speaker 2: caveat emptor. Right. Buyer beware.
- 35:53Speaker 1: Right, right. I've seen recently on your Instagram you did
- 35:57Speaker 1: look like a complete skin lift. Yeah. Unbelievable. Talk about
- 36:01Speaker 1: that procedure.
- 36:02Speaker 2: Yes. I, you know, we love doing every operation is great,
- 36:05Speaker 2: but you see a lot of these patients that have
- 36:07Speaker 2: lost a lot of weight. I think this, we did
- 36:09Speaker 2: it yesterday. She went from 350 pounds to 140 pounds.
- 36:12Speaker 2: I mean, that is.
- 36:13Speaker 3: Wow.
- 36:13Speaker 2: She lost like a few people.
- 36:15Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 36:16Speaker 2: And when you have that, those people are so dedicated,
- 36:18Speaker 2: so committed. They're fantastic to work with. And we, we went,
- 36:21Speaker 2: you know, 360 around the world, took all the skin
- 36:24Speaker 2: off her torso.
- 36:25Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.
- 36:25Speaker 2: So we want to, we're trying to help align her
- 36:28Speaker 2: mentally with, you know, what she sees. She feels good.
- 36:32Speaker 2: like a thin active woman, but she doesn't recognize who
- 36:35Speaker 2: she sees in the mirror.
- 36:36Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 36:36Speaker 2: So I saw her this morning and I think she's
- 36:38Speaker 2: starting to recognize herself.
- 36:39Speaker 1: Wow. That's amazing.
- 36:41Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 36:41Speaker 1: And what's the recovery time on something like that?
- 36:43Speaker 2: Oh, that's a big one. That's a good, like two
- 36:45Speaker 2: weeks off work and it's going to take, you know,
- 36:47Speaker 2: six to eight weeks to feel like a human again
- 36:49Speaker 2: or a normal.
- 36:50Speaker 1: And is she in so much pain?
- 36:51Speaker 4: No.
- 36:52Speaker 2: It's not so much pain, but like, you know, we
- 36:54Speaker 2: pushed her front back left and right. Yeah. Yeah.
- 36:57Speaker 1: And what are the scars like?
- 36:59Speaker 2: They fade. I mean, our techniques in the scar cream,
- 37:02Speaker 2: I mean, the scars fade. We put them in, you know,
- 37:04Speaker 2: hidden areas. Right. Covered in most underwear and bikinis.
- 37:08Speaker 1: Amazing.
- 37:09Speaker 2: They fade.
- 37:10Speaker 1: And talk about the boob jobs these days in terms
- 37:13Speaker 1: of the scars, because I know in my day when,
- 37:16Speaker 1: you know, you go from a bigger size to a
- 37:18Speaker 1: smaller size and you're getting a a boob lift, you
- 37:22Speaker 1: have to get a bunch of scars sometimes. What are
- 37:24Speaker 1: the new methods?
- 37:25Speaker 2: Nothing's really, I mean, nothing's really changed in terms of
- 37:28Speaker 2: the lifting. No one's created a way to like lift
- 37:31Speaker 2: breasts without scars. Just like no one's made a tummy
- 37:33Speaker 2: tuck that doesn't involve a scar.
- 37:35Speaker 1: Got it.
- 37:36Speaker 2: One thing I can tell you is when people get
- 37:37Speaker 2: the shape they want, whether it's the tummy or the breast,
- 37:39Speaker 2: nobody cares about scars. Right. But everyone cares about the
- 37:41Speaker 2: shape when they don't get it.
- 37:43Speaker 1: Right.
- 37:43Speaker 2: Every single patient complains, it doesn't look good. But you
- 37:46Speaker 2: don't have a scar. Yeah, but it doesn't look good.
- 37:49Speaker 2: Nobody says this looks so good. I wish I didn't.
- 37:52Speaker 2: And they wish they could go back and get rid
- 37:54Speaker 2: of the scar. Nobody cares. Yeah. You got to get,
- 37:56Speaker 2: you get the results and you take care of the scars.
- 37:58Speaker 2: Nobody cares.
- 37:59Speaker 1: Are you getting men as clients?
- 38:01Speaker 2: Yeah, we have a good number of men.
- 38:02Speaker 1: Dr.
- 38:03Speaker 2: Funderburg works for me, kind of specializes in men.
- 38:05Speaker 1: Okay. And what kind of treatments are they coming in for?
- 38:08Speaker 2: You know, they like, Lipo of their neck, number one.
- 38:11Speaker 2: Man boobs, number two. Abdomen, waist, you know, that tire,
- 38:16Speaker 2: that lower abdomen, that flank area, number three. And most
- 38:19Speaker 2: of the time they're doing one, two, and three in
- 38:22Speaker 2: one shot.
- 38:22Speaker 1: Interesting.
- 38:23Speaker 2: And again, these are the same type, you know, these
- 38:26Speaker 2: are very successful A-type go-getters who just know the limits
- 38:32Speaker 2: of their body.
- 38:33Speaker 3: Mm-hmm.
- 38:34Speaker 1: So, all right, for the people that are listening, if
- 38:36Speaker 1: they are thinking to themselves, okay, I want all this
- 38:38Speaker 1: stuff done from the neck down, you know, what is
- 38:42Speaker 1: probably the one thing you would suggest that would help
- 38:45Speaker 1: them feel and look younger? Is it the boobs? Is
- 38:47Speaker 1: it the life affection?
- 38:48Speaker 2: Well, I think, you know, someone has to say, like,
- 38:50Speaker 2: I'm the kind of person who wants the best out
- 38:52Speaker 2: of life. I'm the kind of person... who wants to
- 38:55Speaker 2: maximize potential. I'm also the kind of person who's willing
- 38:57Speaker 2: to invest in myself. And then you got to look
- 39:01Speaker 2: at your life. What's the biggest frustration point? A lot
- 39:05Speaker 2: of people tell me, you know, in the summer, they
- 39:07Speaker 2: can't wear sleeveless dresses. It's their arms. They don't like,
- 39:12Speaker 2: you know, every time they go out for dinner, I
- 39:15Speaker 2: hear this all the time. They have to hold in
- 39:16Speaker 2: their tummy after babies because the muscles are separated and
- 39:19Speaker 2: the skin's hanging out and they have to wear all
- 39:20Speaker 2: these contraptions. These things actually impact every moment of their life.
- 39:24Speaker 2: They're like, I literally hold my breath all day because
- 39:27Speaker 2: I hate my stomach. Okay, let's fix that.
- 39:29Speaker 4: Interesting.
- 39:31Speaker 2: Know thyself. Yes.
- 39:33Speaker 1: That's right.
- 39:34Speaker 2: And everyone's different.
- 39:35Speaker 1: Okay. And then would you have one piece of advice
- 39:37Speaker 1: for people? that want a quick fix maybe not getting
- 39:40Speaker 1: plastic surgery is it a laser is it just drinking
- 39:43Speaker 1: water like what can help people look a little bit
- 39:46Speaker 1: younger i mean.
- 39:47Speaker 2: Honestly the number one thing that i've found in my
- 39:49Speaker 2: life is sleep if you can get a good night's
- 39:52Speaker 2: sleep everything is a lot better okay yeah and that's
- 39:55Speaker 2: something that's tangible that everyone can work on right when
- 39:57Speaker 2: you go home don't watch you know two hours of
- 40:00Speaker 2: netflix mindlessly turn the tv off go to bed right Right.
- 40:04Speaker 1: Because you will just feel refreshed and look refreshed.
- 40:06Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 40:06Speaker 2: You know, the mindlessness. I mean, everyone watches TV, but
- 40:08Speaker 2: like watch a little less, sleep a little more, rest,
- 40:12Speaker 2: you know, let the brain recharge. Okay.
- 40:14Speaker 1: I like that advice.
- 40:15Speaker 2: All right.
- 40:15Speaker 1: Where do you see plastic surgery going in the future?
- 40:18Speaker 2: I think it's going more and more mainstream offices like mine,
- 40:22Speaker 2: bigger infrastructure, more services, more layers, you know, just an
- 40:27Speaker 2: overall elevated experience. I think Plastic surgery is not going
- 40:32Speaker 2: to be the mom and pop pizza shop, you know,
- 40:35Speaker 2: that it used to be where every doctor had their
- 40:37Speaker 2: own little office. Patients want the bells and whistles. You
- 40:40Speaker 2: see my operating rooms. You see our facilities. Why would
- 40:43Speaker 2: you not want, you know, the newest, most innovative, everything,
- 40:49Speaker 2: you know, designed for their experience? Also, we're constantly evolving. Mm-hmm.
- 40:54Speaker 2: You know, those offices, you know, that still have the
- 40:56Speaker 2: furniture from the 80s and the Time magazine for man
- 40:59Speaker 2: of the year with Richard Nixon on it. You know,
- 41:01Speaker 2: it's not people move quickly.
- 41:04Speaker 1: Right.
- 41:05Speaker 2: They want innovation, comfort and everything up to date. So
- 41:08Speaker 2: you're going to see bigger practices, more doctors under the
- 41:11Speaker 2: same roof.
- 41:13Speaker 1: What I think is amazing about your office and for
- 41:15Speaker 1: people that, you know, are just listening as opposed to
- 41:18Speaker 1: watching is. you operate in your same office. You don't
- 41:21Speaker 1: have to go to a hospital. It's really convenient. People
- 41:24Speaker 1: walk in. It's beautiful here. You get treated really well
- 41:27Speaker 1: at the front. You get walked right in and you
- 41:29Speaker 1: go right into the operating room.
- 41:31Speaker 2: We usually have a consult first.
- 41:32Speaker 3: Okay, yes.
- 41:34Speaker 1: But I think for people that have not had plastic
- 41:37Speaker 1: surgery before or are hesitant to go visit a doctor
- 41:39Speaker 1: because they're nervous, it's like a one-stop shop. You don't
- 41:42Speaker 1: have to.
- 41:42Speaker 2: You have more control if you care about your safety
- 41:46Speaker 2: in your own house. Meaning... We design this place with engineers.
- 41:50Speaker 2: We design this place with consultants. What's the safest, best
- 41:53Speaker 2: way I can build an operating room? Let's do that.
- 41:55Speaker 2: And then we built two. I always have two anesthesiologists.
- 41:58Speaker 2: You know, it's like having a plane. I like two
- 41:59Speaker 2: pilots around. I have a dedicated team every day in
- 42:03Speaker 2: both operating rooms. I have handpicked from the hospitals. They're
- 42:05Speaker 2: the best of the best working together with a common
- 42:10Speaker 2: goal of not just getting, you know, the best possible
- 42:13Speaker 2: surgical outcomes, but the safest. We have someone who's full
- 42:15Speaker 2: time on infection control. We have someone who's full time
- 42:18Speaker 2: dedicated to cleaning instruments. We have someone who's full time
- 42:21Speaker 2: dedicated to cleaning the operating room day and then someone
- 42:24Speaker 2: at night. I mean, it's 24 seven, but that's, you know,
- 42:28Speaker 2: do everything the way we would want it. The hospitals
- 42:32Speaker 2: are great. They're important, but you know, you don't want
- 42:34Speaker 2: to walk. You don't want to have your tummy tuck
- 42:36Speaker 2: in a room where they just did like a hemorrhoid
- 42:38Speaker 2: or a brain operation and like, team doesn't really know,
- 42:42Speaker 2: you know, everyone knows here what everything is and they
- 42:46Speaker 2: have the same goal.
- 42:47Speaker 1: Right. Right. How hard is it to get an appointment
- 42:49Speaker 1: with you right now?
- 42:51Speaker 2: Um, we're booking consultancy in September, but, uh, which is
- 42:55Speaker 2: a few months away, but my associates, you can see
- 42:58Speaker 2: sooner who are amazing. Um, and we always find a way.
- 43:04Speaker 1: Right. tell people where they can find you, where they
- 43:07Speaker 1: can reach out to you, how to look at your work.
- 43:10Speaker 2: We are located in the greatest city in the world
- 43:13Speaker 2: at 4 West 58th on top of Bergdorf on the
- 43:15Speaker 2: 12th floor. It's where the dreams are made overlooking Central Park.
- 43:19Speaker 2: You can find us online at natsyplasticsurgery.com. You can follow
- 43:23Speaker 2: me at Dr. Neinstein or give us a call 212-249-0949. Okay.
- 43:27Speaker 1: They're right across the street from the plaza. You guys
- 43:31Speaker 1: can come do a little shopping, do a little, eating
- 43:35Speaker 1: and have a really nice consult.
- 43:36Speaker 2: And you're... We help people. We have a personal shopper
- 43:39Speaker 2: at Bergdorf's for our patients.
- 43:40Speaker 1: Oh.
- 43:40Speaker 2: And we also help with dinner reservations. We have someone who.
- 43:42Speaker 1: Can help with that. Amazing. So you have a concierge business.
- 43:44Speaker 2: Exactly.
- 43:45Speaker 1: Oh, talk to me about some of the procedures that
- 43:47Speaker 1: I'm going to get right now. I think I'm going
- 43:48Speaker 1: to do a little filler, Botox, maybe a laser.
- 43:51Speaker 2: Oh, you're getting the Uptown Tune-Up right now.
- 43:54Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 43:54Speaker 1: I can't wait. So I'm going to go from 48
- 43:56Speaker 1: to what? Like 35 years old or something?
- 43:58Speaker 2: Yeah, somewhere about that.
- 43:59Speaker 4: No, no.
- 43:59Speaker 2: We're just going to make the best version of you
- 44:01Speaker 2: the Uptown Tune-Up.
- 44:02Speaker 1: Just.
- 44:03Speaker 2: A little bit of, you know, a spritz of everything.
- 44:05Speaker 1: Okay.
- 44:06Speaker 2: And, you know, it's a little glow up because everyone
- 44:09Speaker 2: deserves one.
- 44:09Speaker 1: Of course. To give somebody a little confidence.
- 44:12Speaker 2: As they say.
- 44:12Speaker 1: To get me on Bumble maybe.
- 44:14Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 44:14Speaker 1: So I'm going to take some new photos of myself after. Exactly.
- 44:17Speaker 1: That'll be great. Okay. Well, thank you so much for
- 44:19Speaker 1: your time.
- 44:19Speaker 2: You're very welcome.
- 44:19Speaker 1: I appreciate it.
- 44:20Speaker 2: You got it.
- 44:30Speaker 3: The car is beautiful. Where did you end up going
- 44:33Speaker 3: for it?
- 44:33Speaker 4: This exclusive place that Dad has connections with. They have
- 44:36Speaker 4: more cars for more dealerships than like anywhere else.
- 44:39Speaker 3: You have to put me in touch.
- 44:40Speaker 5: What's it called? It's Dunaidial.
- 44:43Speaker 3: Where?
- 44:45Speaker 5: Dunaidial. There's an accent on the E.
- 44:49Speaker 3: Do you mean.
- 44:49Speaker 5: Yes, I got it on Dundale Cars.
- 44:51Speaker 2: Lift?
- 44:52Speaker 3: Please. Are you going past Kimmage?
- 44:54Speaker 2: Oh, Kimmage.
- 44:55Speaker 3: No.
- 44:56Speaker 5: Dundale Cars. You couldn't possibly go anywhere else.