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Episode 45: Bikini and a Beanie · From My Planit to Yours...

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  SPEAKER_01: Hey guys, I'm Blizzard Planet.
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  SPEAKER_01: This is Self-Friendship Podcast, where playfulness meets societal reflection.
• 0:07
  SPEAKER_01: I wanna take a minute to let you guys know how much I love beanies.
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  SPEAKER_01: So I told my friend I brought a beanie to Bali with me just because I love beanies
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  SPEAKER_01: and I understand how humid it is and that it's not really a place to wear beanies.
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  SPEAKER_01: So I said, this week's Self-Friendship Podcast episode will be...
• 0:29
  SPEAKER_00: Bikini and a beanie.
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  SPEAKER_00: So bikini, meet beanie.
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  SPEAKER_02: But I also just got a haircut and I can't turn the fan on because it messes with the sound.
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  SPEAKER_02: So sweaty.
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  SPEAKER_02: Self-Friendship Podcast.
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  SPEAKER_02: I'm in.
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  SPEAKER_02: Hope you are.
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  SPEAKER_02: This will be fun.
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  SPEAKER_02: All right, let's get started.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: Lots of B's today.
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  SPEAKER_00: Blizzard.
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  SPEAKER_00: Beanie.
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  SPEAKER_00: Bikini.
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  SPEAKER_00: Bali.
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  SPEAKER_00: Beach.
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  SPEAKER_00: Lissy.
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  SPEAKER_00: Epic.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I'll just say it because I know you're thinking it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Boobs.
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  SPEAKER_01: However.
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  SPEAKER_01: On Planet Butter, if you've been keeping up, the word for boobs is chonkalonkas.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that's not a B, that's a C. All right, onward.
• 1:39
  SPEAKER_01: Again, I'm Blizzard Planet.
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  SPEAKER_01: This is Self-Renture Podcast, where playfulness meets societal reflection.
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  SPEAKER_01: Through the lens of self-friendship,
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  SPEAKER_01: embracing,
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  SPEAKER_01: understanding,
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  SPEAKER_01: and enjoying ourselves,
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  SPEAKER_01: I hopefully inspire you to critically think,
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  SPEAKER_01: creatively think,
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  SPEAKER_01: and optimistically approach life.
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  SPEAKER_01: Imagine this.
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  SPEAKER_01: You hopped on the band rocket,
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  SPEAKER_01: and now you're on Planet Butter,
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  SPEAKER_01: a world made of delicious,
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  SPEAKER_01: sparkly peanut butter.
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  SPEAKER_01: And an adorable disco ball of self-reflection is whirling around in her transforming convertible.
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  SPEAKER_01: Thanks for joining me in my 45th episode.
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  SPEAKER_01: I was just thinking.
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  SPEAKER_01: My first episode, I was recording on my sister's couch in New York City on a total whim.
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  SPEAKER_01: I think I titled it Intuitively Impulsive Introduction.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's cute.
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  SPEAKER_01: Check it out.
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  SPEAKER_01: Now we're at my villa in Bali overlooking the pool in a bikini and a beanie next to
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  SPEAKER_01: my book that wasn't yet published when I started this.
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  SPEAKER_01: So cool.
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  SPEAKER_01: A little gratitude.
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  SPEAKER_01: All right.
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  SPEAKER_01: Some of what I'll be sharing includes my answer to last week's question of the week,
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  SPEAKER_01: a note on upgrades,
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  SPEAKER_01: a note on willingness,
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  SPEAKER_01: the way we do the things we do,
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  SPEAKER_01: a note on AI,
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  SPEAKER_01: self-friendship article snippet,
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  SPEAKER_01: am I attracting or projecting this?
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  SPEAKER_01: consciously frivolous,
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  SPEAKER_01: a note on our bladder,
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  SPEAKER_01: a perspective dance with the Tesla truck,
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  SPEAKER_01: easy trust integration,
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  SPEAKER_01: and as always,
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  SPEAKER_01: a brand new question at the end for all of us to self-reflect and self-connect and
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  SPEAKER_01: email me,
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  SPEAKER_01: selffriendshippodcast at gmail.com.
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  SPEAKER_01: All right.
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  SPEAKER_01: My answer to last week's question of the week, which was,
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  SPEAKER_01: This week, try to catch yourself responding, I know, to something and sub affirmed for it.
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  SPEAKER_01: We're trying.
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  SPEAKER_01: Let me know how it goes.
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  SPEAKER_01: If you Google and the context,
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  SPEAKER_01: that is when you say,
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  SPEAKER_01: I know,
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  SPEAKER_01: in response to something,
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  SPEAKER_01: and then you say affirmed,
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  SPEAKER_01: just in case the English accent didn't click for you.
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  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_01: My friend, Heather, Heather Thrills, across the internet, look her up.
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  SPEAKER_01: Incredible boxing and yoga instructor.
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  SPEAKER_01: So we were bopping around the Palisades in Chippy,
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  SPEAKER_01: my darling little convertible and the transforming one in Planet Butter's coffee
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  SPEAKER_01: table lesson.
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  SPEAKER_01: And she gave me a heads up for a turn we wanted to make.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I said, I know.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I immediately followed it up, clarifying how I meant it.
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  SPEAKER_01: And that's when I realized.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's just not the phrase I want to use.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's when affirmed came to be.
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  SPEAKER_01: So every time she offered directions, I just said affirmed and we would giggle.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yay, giggling.
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  SPEAKER_01: All right.
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  SPEAKER_01: A note on upgrades.
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  SPEAKER_01: I've highlighted quite a bit about our willingness to upgrade,
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  SPEAKER_01: taking responsibility and embodying riskidence,
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  SPEAKER_01: a Blizzard dictionary term,
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  SPEAKER_01: towards what we want to
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  SPEAKER_01: Today,
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  SPEAKER_01: I want to offer the consideration that the more we give honesty to ourselves and to
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  SPEAKER_01: others about our current state of being,
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  SPEAKER_01: the more we will be able to receive in order to evolve.
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  SPEAKER_01: Be willing, give honesty, receive upgrades.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm sweating way too much.
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  SPEAKER_01: That was a fun, fun little go.
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  SPEAKER_01: Good introduction.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hang on, please.
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  SPEAKER_01: Hope I look good.
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  SPEAKER_01: I can't see the camera.
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  SPEAKER_01: All right.
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  SPEAKER_01: A note on willingness.
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  SPEAKER_01: Following that, I want to further focus on the term willingness.
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  Sorry.
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  SPEAKER_01: Again, willingness is taking responsibility and embodying riskidence, a Blizzard's blictionary term.
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  SPEAKER_00: The link to the sub stack is in the show notes.
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  SPEAKER_01: towards what we want, embodying risk-addedness towards what we want.
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  SPEAKER_01: And when we act with sincere willingness,
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  SPEAKER_01: disregarding what could be perceived as limitations and choosing to act in
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  SPEAKER_01: accordance with our best interests,
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  SPEAKER_01: we demonstrate trust in ourselves and the universe.
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  SPEAKER_01: This embodies our role in the universe,
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  SPEAKER_01: alignment,
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  SPEAKER_01: as I say,
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  SPEAKER_01: and progresses our infinitely expansive evolution.
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  SPEAKER_01: Now, the way we do the things we do.
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  SPEAKER_01: One of my favorite things about writing is that I always have loose intentions.
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  SPEAKER_01: I let it flow knowing my intentions and action will be enough to do what I set out to do and more.
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  SPEAKER_01: They say the way we do one thing is the way we do everything.
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  SPEAKER_01: True.
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  SPEAKER_01: I love to set an intention and flow.
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  SPEAKER_01: Flow dictates all in my world.
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  SPEAKER_01: planet butter.
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  SPEAKER_01: What I find most interesting about the way we do one thing is the way we do
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  SPEAKER_01: everything is that while it's true,
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  SPEAKER_01: there are various dimensions to the way we do things.
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  SPEAKER_01: Humans are complex and we do approach different things differently.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yet,
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  SPEAKER_01: to some degree,
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  SPEAKER_01: the various ways we approach various things all show up in some form in all that we do,
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  SPEAKER_01: which is why
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  SPEAKER_01: The way we do one thing is the way we do everything.
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  SPEAKER_01: When we consider this in our self-friendship practice,
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  SPEAKER_01: especially when we're self-reflecting and self-connecting,
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  SPEAKER_01: we can begin to appreciate the nuances in the various dimensions of ourselves and
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  SPEAKER_01: which part of ourselves is leading in all that we do.
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  SPEAKER_01: Now, a note on AI.
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  SPEAKER_01: The way we use AI is a reflection of our self-friendship practice, of our capacity for expansiveness.
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  SPEAKER_01: Consider this.
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  SPEAKER_01: Do you view AI as an enhancement or a replacement?
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  SPEAKER_00: A very popular conversation.
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  SPEAKER_01: Think about it through the lens of self-friendship and let me know what you think.
• 7:45
  SPEAKER_01: selffriendshippodcast.gmail.com All right.
• 7:48
  SPEAKER_01: Now, a self-friendship article snippet titled,
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  SPEAKER_01: Am I attracting or projecting this?
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  SPEAKER_01: What we receive is what we attract because of what we project.
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  SPEAKER_01: How we perceive what we attract is yet another layer of our projections.
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  SPEAKER_01: The action we take in response is a reflection of our expansiveness.
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  SPEAKER_01: The skills required here is the practice of objectivity and action flexibility.
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  SPEAKER_01: When we can be objective,
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  SPEAKER_01: it means we can understand multiple perspectives,
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  SPEAKER_01: inviting us to recognize the part of ourselves that is attracting a situation and
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  SPEAKER_01: the part of ourselves projecting the situation.
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  SPEAKER_01: With this initial approach of objectivity in our self-reflection and self-connection,
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  SPEAKER_01: Prior to taking action, we create the position of empowerment within ourselves.
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  SPEAKER_01: The safest place to be.
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  SPEAKER_01: Empowered.
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  SPEAKER_01: Uncertain.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yet.
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  SPEAKER_01: Clarifity.
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  SPEAKER_01: A new Blizzard's dictionary term to be released this Sunday, October 13th, 2024.
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  SPEAKER_01: Read or listen to the rest on PlanetButter's sub stack.
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  SPEAKER_01: The link is in the show notes.
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  SPEAKER_01: Now a perspective dance with doing our best.
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  SPEAKER_01: Slow-mo is still mo.
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  SPEAKER_01: Domigo Ruiz Jr.
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  SPEAKER_01: offers us one of the four agreements to always do our best.
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  SPEAKER_01: The skill here is minding that our best will always be different.
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  SPEAKER_01: You know that.
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  SPEAKER_01: So this is just another a little sillier way to remember it.
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  SPEAKER_01: Slow-mo is still mo.
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  SPEAKER_01: Now a party of one.
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  SPEAKER_01: As a loving reminder, party of one means having fun with oneself or oneself as oneself.
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  SPEAKER_01: Anywhere, everywhere, no matter who's there.
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  SPEAKER_01: We become our party of one by consistently practicing self-friendship.
• 10:08
  SPEAKER_01: Each episode,
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  SPEAKER_01: I share little tidbits from my life that happened thanks to me showing up in the
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  SPEAKER_01: world as my party of one.
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  SPEAKER_01: turned the commercial plane's kitchen into my personal VIP lounge.
• 10:23
  SPEAKER_01: Talk about one flight closer to the Planet Butter jet.
• 10:27
  SPEAKER_01: If you follow Planet Butter's Instagram, you know what I'm talking about.
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  SPEAKER_01: New dimensions of truth are the key to manifesting.
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  SPEAKER_01: Keep watching.
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  SPEAKER_01: I know I am.
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  SPEAKER_01: So this happened after the dude next to me was just absolutely hammered.
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  SPEAKER_01: He even, he ordered me a shot of whiskey when I asked for tea.
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  SPEAKER_01: And then he took it because I wasn't, I don't want that.
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  SPEAKER_01: It was a lot.
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  SPEAKER_01: He also, he showed up smelling like alcohol.
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  SPEAKER_01: And then he had a tall boy in his hand, ordered wine.
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  SPEAKER_01: And we were in the back of the plane.
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  SPEAKER_01: This is why I'm getting my Planet Butter Jet.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_01: all right so my point here is he was absolutely hammered and so i was like all
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  SPEAKER_01: right i can make this funny entertainment for myself of course as per my party of
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  SPEAKER_01: one and i did then when he passed out he started saying some weird shit in his
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  SPEAKER_01: sleep and would randomly tap my shoulder to try to talk to me so i had enough
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  SPEAKER_01: boundaries, the first core method of self-friendship.
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  SPEAKER_01: So I escaped the corner window seat, though I love the window seat.
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  SPEAKER_01: And while it was an entirely full flight, I couldn't switch seats.
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  SPEAKER_01: So the flight attendants had me hang in the kitchen sitting on these giant metal boxes.
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  SPEAKER_01: And we were eating all the snacks and drinking all the tea.
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  SPEAKER_01: We, me, it was just me.
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  SPEAKER_01: I was eating the snacks that they don't really hand out, which is cool.
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  SPEAKER_01: Like I got a banana.
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  SPEAKER_01: I've never had that before.
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  SPEAKER_01: Oh, boy.
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  SPEAKER_01: and drinking lots of tea.
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  SPEAKER_01: It was really nice.
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  SPEAKER_01: And they were all really friendly.
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  SPEAKER_01: And we all joked that it became the VIP lounge.
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  SPEAKER_01: So,
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  SPEAKER_01: and actually one of the flight attendants started that joke,
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  SPEAKER_01: which made my planet better jet more true because it's not when other people affirm it.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's just like magic.
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  SPEAKER_01: Listen to the Singer Rich episode.
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  SPEAKER_01: I don't remember the number, but it says Singer Rich in the title.
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  SPEAKER_01: You'll understand more about what I'm talking about in terms of manifestation and
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  SPEAKER_01: other people fueling it.
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  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_01: Now a note on critical thinking.
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  SPEAKER_01: Part of my whole thing here is encouraging critical and creative thinking.
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  SPEAKER_01: So I want to remind everyone that we also need to do this about our own thoughts.
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  SPEAKER_01: Sometimes we have intrusive thoughts or thoughts that occur to us because we heard
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  SPEAKER_01: someone else say something somewhere sometime.
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  SPEAKER_01: Our subconscious works like that.
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  SPEAKER_01: So to check ourselves by critically thinking about our own thoughts is imperative
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  SPEAKER_01: to our self-friendship practice.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, consciously frivolous, a new Planet Butter phrase.
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  SPEAKER_01: Rather than frivolous, let's consider it the willingness to spend.
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  SPEAKER_01: Bend your mind, spend your time wisely.
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  SPEAKER_01: Consciously frivolous is to invest time and money in our self-friendship practice.
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  SPEAKER_01: That is, invest in our most expansive selves.
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  SPEAKER_01: In regard to spending money, investing money, like everything, it's energy.
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  SPEAKER_01: The uni is only capable of balance.
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  SPEAKER_01: With investing in ourselves, we're sending giving money externally to enhance us internally.
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  SPEAKER_01: Giving is receiving.
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  SPEAKER_01: In receiving internal fuel...
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  SPEAKER_01: and skills, we're able to give more of ourselves to the world.
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  SPEAKER_01: We're able to give ourselves because there's more of ourselves to give because we
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  SPEAKER_00: invested in expanding ourselves.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, my friend's self-friendship.
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  SPEAKER_01: I was with my friend the other day and she said something I didn't quite hear.
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  SPEAKER_01: So I said, what?
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  SPEAKER_01: And she said, oh, I'm talking to myself.
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  SPEAKER_01: And my whole heartedly sincere response was, oh, good.
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  SPEAKER_01: Maybe it was just in the moment.
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  SPEAKER_01: You might've had to be there, but like self-friendship, obviously.
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  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_01: A note on bladder.
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  SPEAKER_01: Holding in our pee?
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  SPEAKER_01: is telling our body on a very subconscious level that we are okay with depriving
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  SPEAKER_01: ourselves of our most basic needs.
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  SPEAKER_01: Think about that and practice going to the bathroom as soon as you have to.
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  SPEAKER_01: It'll also encourage a stronger mind-body connection.
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  SPEAKER_01: Think about that.
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  SPEAKER_01: We're literally potty trained.
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  SPEAKER_01: Like you are conditioned to deprive your body of your basic needs.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because when we're little tiny babies, we just let it flow whenever you gotta go.
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  SPEAKER_01: And then you're told, don't do that, society.
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  SPEAKER_01: Now, a perspective dance with the Tesla truck.
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  SPEAKER_01: I've been in other countries for only six months, seven months now.
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  SPEAKER_01: Well, I was, yeah, okay.
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  SPEAKER_01: Six months, we'll say.
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  SPEAKER_01: And in my month-long trip,
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  SPEAKER_01: there we go,
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  SPEAKER_01: on my month-long trip to the States just now,
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  SPEAKER_01: I've heard so many people talk shit about this new Tesla truck for being ugly,
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  SPEAKER_01: douchey,
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  SPEAKER_01: and all other negative things.
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  SPEAKER_01: Can we all just take a step back and not judge it for a second and just look at it
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  SPEAKER_01: as the crazy technology fun that it is?
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  SPEAKER_01: It's like so cool that humans created this.
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  SPEAKER_01: Not to mention there are cars driving around with no humans in it.
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  SPEAKER_01: That is wild.
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  SPEAKER_01: Why are we judging these things when we can be appreciating the creativity that went into it?
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  SPEAKER_01: Okay, now an easy trust integration.
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  SPEAKER_01: Integration is half the effort of our self-friendship practice.
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  SPEAKER_01: The other half is self-reflecting and self-connecting.
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  SPEAKER_01: We can demonstrate our trust in ourselves and the universe by integrating this
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  SPEAKER_01: little phrase when we miss a turn driving.
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  SPEAKER_01: say immediately, I wasn't meant to make that turn, or that wasn't my turn.
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  SPEAKER_01: That'll fuel the subconscious mind to believe and trust in what is meant for us in all areas of life.
• 17:06
  SPEAKER_01: More kisses.
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  SPEAKER_01: Oh, that's funny.
• 17:08
  SPEAKER_01: Now a perspective dance with kissing.
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  SPEAKER_01: Let's bring back the word smooch.
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  SPEAKER_01: I don't know if it left, but
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  SPEAKER_01: I want to put this platform to good use and remind everyone of smooching.
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  SPEAKER_00: Smooch.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's just like so fun.
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  SPEAKER_00: Smoochies.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yay.
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  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_01: Now a note on vocal cords.
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  SPEAKER_01: The same way pheromones are relevant to romantic relationships, I imagine our vocal cords are the same.
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  SPEAKER_01: If you don't know,
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  SPEAKER_01: pheromones are chemical signals that animals,
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  SPEAKER_01: including humans,
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  SPEAKER_01: release into the environment to communicate with others of their species.
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  SPEAKER_01: Between humans,
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  SPEAKER_01: especially in romantic relationships,
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  SPEAKER_01: they can enhance feelings of connection and compatibility,
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  SPEAKER_01: predominantly through our sense of smell.
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  SPEAKER_01: So, vocal cords...
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  SPEAKER_01: I figure someone's voice will enhance feelings of connection and compatibility
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  SPEAKER_01: through our sense of physical touch.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because our voice is a vibration, so we physically sense it.
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  SPEAKER_01: And if we don't like the sensation of someone's voice,
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  SPEAKER_00: how could we possibly form a romantic connection with them?
• 18:28
  SPEAKER_00: Now, a perspective dance with our network.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's become popular to say that we're a product of the five people we surround
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  SPEAKER_01: ourselves with,
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  SPEAKER_01: or whatever the number is,
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  SPEAKER_01: or that our network is our network.
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  SPEAKER_01: I want to give a little love to the nuance of most time.
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  SPEAKER_01: There's still incredible value in investing time with an eclectic mix of people of
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  SPEAKER_01: all backgrounds,
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  SPEAKER_01: socioeconomic status,
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  SPEAKER_01: different perspectives.
• 18:57
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, don't spend the majority of your time with people who you wouldn't want to be like.
• 19:04
  SPEAKER_01: But humans are multidimensional and there's value in investing a little bit of time
• 19:09
  SPEAKER_01: with a lot of different people.
• 19:11
  SPEAKER_01: Self-reflect and self-connect a little bit on each mirror, each person.
• 19:18
  SPEAKER_01: Improve what you want in yourself.
• 19:21
  SPEAKER_01: Keep what you like and release what you don't.
• 19:26
  SPEAKER_01: And now, a perspective dance with absurd.
• 19:31
  SPEAKER_01: I want the term absurd to have a positive connotation.
• 19:35
  SPEAKER_01: I use it with positive intent.
• 19:37
  SPEAKER_01: It feels good to say.
• 19:38
  SPEAKER_01: It's fun.
• 19:38
  SPEAKER_01: It's easy to make sound dramatic.
• 19:41
  SPEAKER_00: Like, this pizza is absurd.
• 19:44
  SPEAKER_00: See?
• 19:46
  SPEAKER_00: Yum.
• 19:47
  SPEAKER_00: Pizza.
• 19:48
  SPEAKER_00: Cool.
• 19:48
  Okay.
• 19:50
  SPEAKER_01: Now, grateful for gratitude.
• 19:53
  SPEAKER_01: When I got to Bali again, I was so grateful to be back and to be here again.
• 19:58
  SPEAKER_01: And then I thought to myself, wow, I'm so grateful.
• 20:02
  SPEAKER_01: I never took this for granted.
• 20:03
  SPEAKER_01: And I saw value in that.
• 20:05
  SPEAKER_01: So I'm sharing it.
• 20:07
  SPEAKER_01: Make of it what you will.
• 20:10
  SPEAKER_01: Now, a perspective dance with commitment issues.
• 20:14
  SPEAKER_01: I've offered a perspective dance on this previously,
• 20:17
  SPEAKER_01: saying that the commitment might be to freedom and flexibility.
• 20:22
  SPEAKER_01: Today,
• 20:23
  SPEAKER_01: I want to bug you again and offer that we're actually always committed to whatever
• 20:30
  SPEAKER_01: it is we are doing.
• 20:33
  SPEAKER_01: So oftentimes,
• 20:33
  SPEAKER_01: this topic is related to healthy commitments,
• 20:36
  SPEAKER_01: referencing people's inability to commit to something long term.
• 20:40
  SPEAKER_01: But not committing to something long-term is a commitment in and of itself.
• 20:46
  SPEAKER_01: Committing to not opening up,
• 20:48
  SPEAKER_01: committing to being a contracted version of oneself,
• 20:52
  SPEAKER_01: committing to staying attached to whatever current patterns one has.
• 20:58
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