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- 0:00I'm Stephanie.
- 0:00I'm Meredith.
- 0:01Welcome to This Is My Circus.
- 0:03How are you?
- 0:04I'm okay.
- 0:04I'm crazy.
- 0:07This is not a relaxing summer for me so far.
- 0:10I want to protest.
- 0:12this June is kicking my tail.
- 0:16football started for Jackson last week and it's a seven to 10 a.
- 0:20m.
- 0:20workout, which means he needs to be there by six 45.
- 0:25And I I'm he nor I are morning people.
- 0:28Neither one of us dig it.
- 0:31I mean, it's, I go and I take him and I get home and I start working.
- 0:34Since I work from home, I mean, that's fine.
- 0:36But then he also has basketball too.
- 0:39So he has basketball most days.
- 0:41This week it's been from like one to three, but last week it was from like two to four.
- 0:47I don't know, two to three.
- 0:49It's a lot of running around.
- 0:51And with him not being able to drive yet, It is just like, I take my lunch hour around when I can pick him up and drop him off.
- 0:58And I'm sure it was so much easier when he was at the middle school.
- 1:02And now it's all the way across.
- 1:03Exactly.
- 1:03Exactly.
- 1:04Well, and last year his practice, he did both, but his practice was right behind football practice.
- 1:10So they had like a 30 minute break.
- 1:12so last year he did football and there was like a 30 minute break and right into basketball, so I didn't have to do the picking up and coming in.
- 1:18Going and all the things.
- 1:20So Brian laughs every day because he's like, are you gonna make it?
- 1:23I'm like, I don't know.
- 1:24I'm exhausted.
- 1:26And then one day he, they had a basketball scrimmage and he did not go.
- 1:31He just chose to stay and do football.
- 1:34And but after that he went swimming with a friend and then after that he went to He helps coach at the middle school, the seventh or eighth grade now, I think.
- 1:45So he went to do that.
- 1:46And then he had another basketball practice that night.
- 1:49Now I was like, I'm not going to make it.
- 1:52This is, and it's just for the month of June.
- 1:55So it's just like two more weeks.
- 1:57Yeah, the little engine that could, like, I think I can.
- 2:00I think I can.
- 2:01Yes, yes, so, I feel just like a crazy person.
- 2:05You're just like an Uber at this point.
- 2:07Uh huh.
- 2:08Yeah, and still trying to get the gist of this new job and figure out all the things and whatever and then I you know I randomly get mad at Brian so for whatever reason today.
- 2:18What was I mad at him for today?
- 2:20Oh, oh, his parents cooked extra so he was like His mom called, which was so great.
- 2:26Like, Hey, we have extra, I think it was like pulled pork barbecue.
- 2:29You want to come pick some up?
- 2:30And he was like, I was like, yes, just go.
- 2:32Like, thank you.
- 2:33Yeah.
- 2:34And, on the way back, like something's spilt in his truck.
- 2:37And he's, that's why I was late today coming over here.
- 2:40Cause he was like, something's spilt and, ah, I don't know what it was.
- 2:45And just like drama.
- 2:48Anyway, how are you?
- 2:50Good.
- 2:50speaking of things spilling in the car, I was going to pick up my sister from the airport yesterday.
- 2:55,and my hands just felt like super dry.
- 2:57There was a little bottle of lotion in the car and I'm like, Oh, lotion.
- 2:59So.
- 3:00I'm like, okay, cool.
- 3:01And I go to open it.
- 3:02And I guess because it's in the hot car, when I tell you that thing, while I'm driving, I'm like on the road driving and it just splat.
- 3:12And I was like, Oh my gosh.
- 3:15So then I'm like trying to find tissues or napkins to like, Wipe all the lotion mess that's everywhere.
- 3:22It was like in my hair.
- 3:24Oh, no, sure.
- 3:26I was like, Oh my God.
- 3:27So, so did it turn into a hair wash day when it wasn't supposed to be here?
- 3:31I was just like, it was just wiping it out, you know, everything.
- 3:36And I was like, it was like seven 30 at night.
- 3:39It was the end of day.
- 3:40So I wasn't worried about it, but I was just like, are you kidding me?
- 3:43Yeah.
- 3:43Oh my gosh.
- 3:45Oh my gosh.
- 3:45Like lotion everywhere.
- 3:47And that's like hard to get off when it's on the glass and stuff.
- 3:50It's like just smears.
- 3:51Yeah, while you're driving and I'm like, Oh yeah.
- 3:55What else?
- 3:55Right.
- 3:55I was like, Lisa didn't get in my eyes.
- 3:58Very good.
- 3:59Very true.
- 3:59Very true.
- 4:00Do you wash your hair every day?
- 4:02no.
- 4:02Like I don't either.
- 4:03Maybe three times a week.
- 4:04Yeah.
- 4:04And even if that like in the summer I do more.
- 4:06Yeah.
- 4:07Well, if I go swimming and stuff, I'll wash my hair and stuff like that more.
- 4:11But, I don't go outside.
- 4:12No, I mean, for the most part, unless I'm just being Uber mom.
- 4:16Yeah.
- 4:17It's just, yeah, I'm just home.
- 4:19And that's it.
- 4:20When I work in the yard and stuff, obviously you can get all nasty and sweaty.
- 4:23It's different.
- 4:23But, but yeah.
- 4:25And then I try to plan my hair wash around like my events.
- 4:29And there's nothing that'll make me crazier than when my hair math is off.
- 4:35Or when the plans change and I'm like, Crap.
- 4:37They moved it two days out, so I should wash today, but it's not time to wash yet.
- 4:41Mm hmm.
- 4:41Hair math.
- 4:42Well, did you get a chance to read her book?
- 4:44I sure did.
- 4:45Twice.
- 4:46Twice.
- 4:47Well, I read it when it first came out and then I was listening.
- 4:50Well, I didn't read it.
- 4:51I listened to it.
- 4:52And then as I was listening to it, I'm like, I've listened to this before.
- 4:56It sounded familiar.
- 4:57Yeah.
- 4:58do you have the blurb?
- 4:59I do.
- 5:00Okay.
- 5:00It's called What Lies in the Woods by Kate Alice Marshall.
- 5:03Okay.
- 5:04Alright, naomi Shaw used to believe in magic.
- 5:0622 years ago, she and her two best friends, Cassidy and Olivia, spent the summer roaming the woods, imagining a world of ceremony and wonder.
- 5:14They called it the Goddess Games.
- 5:16The summer ended suddenly when Naomi was attacked.
- 5:18Miraculously, she survived her 17 stab wounds and lived to identify the man who had hurt her.
- 5:24The girl's testimony put away a serial killer wanted for murdering six women.
- 5:29They were heroes.
- 5:30And they were liars.
- 5:31For decades, the friends have kept a secret worth killing for, but now Olivia wants to tell and Naomi sets out to find out what really happened in the woods, no matter how dangerous the truth turns out to be.
- 5:42What did you think?
- 5:43I'll let you start.
- 5:44Okay.
- 5:44I liked the book.
- 5:45Me too.
- 5:46I liked it.
- 5:47It was good.
- 5:47It was, you know, we tried to mix it up with our book list.
- 5:50So it still gives us the little bit of, of the genre we like, but it was definitely different with the, um, the finding the, I don't remember if you said it in there, but the finding the, the secret stuff in the woods and all this kind of stuff.
- 6:05So, I liked it.
- 6:07I'm trying to think there was nothing I didn't like about it.
- 6:10I was very surprised by lots, lots of it.
- 6:14All of my guesses.
- 6:15as I was reading and I was like, Oh yeah, this guy did this totally wrong.
- 6:19Yeah.
- 6:20And there was some things in there that I did not see coming at all., some of the relationships.
- 6:24Yeah, so and trigger warnings for, self harm, self inflicted, child could have been, yeah, they don't really go into it, but it's still mentioned.
- 6:35Right.
- 6:35Right.
- 6:35so I liked it and I I would I would have read it again.
- 6:40Yeah, I did have to read it I'll be honest a couple of times I had to start it a couple of times because I really have to get into something and Then I can like tune everything else out.
- 6:48Yeah But before I'm really into it, it's just like background.
- 6:53So I had to, I had to start it just a couple of times to make sure I had my people.
- 6:58Right.
- 6:58Yeah.
- 6:59I actually, even realizing that I had already listened to it, I was totally into it still.
- 7:05so it was an awesome, like round two for me.
- 7:08did you remember the ending?
- 7:09I just, so I, vaguely remembered what was going on.
- 7:14and then I was like, I think this is what it is.
- 7:17I kind of was putting it together as it was going, but not initially, you know, the first time I read it, no clue what was going to happen, but like totally surprised and 100 percent liked the book.
- 7:27It was really, really good.
- 7:29And again, listening the second time, sometimes you listen to something again and it's like, Oh yeah.
- 7:34Um, but no, like, Really?
- 7:36Okay.
- 7:36Good.
- 7:37Good.
- 7:37Um, and I missed, also there was a huge gap in time period of listening, but I was like picking up on stuff that I didn't the first time.
- 7:46Yeah.
- 7:47So loved it.
- 7:48I, okay.
- 7:50So you said that you did not guess the ending.
- 7:52No, neither did I.
- 7:54And.
- 7:54I didn't get the guess the ending like four times, right?
- 7:57I was going to say, as you know, they, uh, as the, the story unravels and you, you start going down a different path, you're like, what?
- 8:04Oh, and then it unravels it again.
- 8:05And you're like, yeah.
- 8:06So, yeah, I did not at all.
- 8:08So good.
- 8:10I do think, cause they go back and forth in time.
- 8:12Yes.
- 8:12and I thought it was really easy to keep track of that as well.
- 8:16Like it wasn't.
- 8:16Yeah.
- 8:16Super confusing.
- 8:17Yeah.
- 8:18Some of them that we have read and I can't pinpoint what they are, but it's, it's very difficult to know where are we?
- 8:26Um, and I can't put my finger on why it's easy and why it's not, but yeah, that was super easy for me to, to follow that.
- 8:36I thought.
- 8:37It was super interesting and like the, the character development of how the event affected each character.
- 8:43Yes.
- 8:43Even like outside characters.
- 8:45not just the three that Mm-Hmm.
- 8:47were in the woods of the time.
- 8:48Other people in the community Right.
- 8:49And family and stuff.
- 8:50Right.
- 8:51So I thought her, the author developing those characters around that trauma.
- 8:55Mm-Hmm.
- 8:55and then the kind of ripple effect.
- 8:58Mm-Hmm.
- 8:58of the community.
- 8:59Mm-Hmm.
- 8:59was.
- 9:01done so well.
- 9:02Okay.
- 9:03I did not pinpoint that.
- 9:05I don't disagree, but, I just, it, that didn't jump out to me.
- 9:09Like what was an example?
- 9:10Can you think of any example of what, like or of a character?
- 9:13Yeah.
- 9:14So, police officers the guy that, Made his career off of arresting, you know, right.
- 9:21Yeah.
- 9:21So he, this is gonna be a spoiler, spoiler alert.
- 9:26Hit that forward button a few times, folks.
- 9:27He was told about the serial killer.
- 9:31And then they thought, thought this is the guy.
- 9:33so he kind of wrapped himself up into this event.
- 9:39To make his career quote, unquote, make a career, and really, rolled with it.
- 9:43And then he made sure that Naomi, who was an outsider, she was just a pain in the butt to the whole town because, her dad's a drunk and like, whatever, like they were, you know, not the pillar of the right, they were from the wrong side of the track, so to speak.
- 9:55but then the entire town, rallied around Naomi as a survivor.
- 10:00Yeah.
- 10:01and I, I feel like it was kind of, implied that the police department really influenced a lot of this.
- 10:10So I think that the ripple effect of that, and then when she comes back into town and you know, she's brought into questioning and that same police officer yeah.
- 10:18Yeah.
- 10:19I see what you're saying.
- 10:20Yeah.
- 10:20That's interesting.
- 10:21I feel like this book now, of course, some.
- 10:24Parts of it or fantastical and, you know, whatever, but I feel like this could really happen.
- 10:28Yeah.
- 10:29just because probably where we live, we, you know, we're surrounded by woods, and there's always little kids exploring.
- 10:35I didn't want to explore.
- 10:36It was in the woods all the time.
- 10:38Yeah.
- 10:38He came back and he had a huge.
- 10:40Cut on his leg from barbed wire, because they were trying to get through something and I was like, can you tell me at first?
- 10:47Because he was like, oh, he didn't want to get in trouble.
- 10:49Yeah, I'll get a shot.
- 10:50Right.
- 10:52Right.
- 10:53But it felt like it could very much even like you were talking about the town and.
- 10:57I think of different situations that have happened in our little town, how the community has split sides or taken one side or the other, or totally back, you know, back and forth.
- 11:06I felt like it could really happen.
- 11:08also, the guy that got arrested, his family.
- 11:12And how that effect.
- 11:12Yes.
- 11:13You know, so I feel like this event had so much effect on so many outside people.
- 11:20Yeah, you're right.
- 11:22And things usually do.
- 11:23We just don't think about it like that.
- 11:25Like, if you're not, you know, directly involved, if you're one or two steps removed, a lot of times that gets forgotten about.
- 11:32Yeah.
- 11:33If you're, if you're not right up on top of the situation.
- 11:36So I thought it was cool that like she kind of hit on all the other, like the outside aspects and not just focused on the three girls, yeah.
- 11:43And I liked that she did that too, without bringing in so many pieces that you lose track of where we've been going.
- 11:49Right.
- 11:49Yeah.
- 11:49That was really well done.
- 11:50So going with that, um, seeing how the event shaped each girl so differently, right.
- 11:56and the effect on like their careers and the effect on their person situations.
- 12:02Yeah.
- 12:02Was done really well.
- 12:04Mm-Hmm.
- 12:05And I thought that was interesting in the moment because it's, another trigger warning for eating disorders.
- 12:11some people react and, and go through that path.
- 12:15And some people just, you know, what am I trying to think here?
- 12:17Their traits, their personality traits, those were magnified or diminished because of this trauma.
- 12:23And like I said, the eating disorders or, just other traits that they.
- 12:29developed because of this was, crazy.
- 12:32Yeah.
- 12:32And I mean, that makes you wonder if, if this had not happened, would they have had these other.
- 12:38And Naomi hit that at the end of the book, if this didn't happen, would the town, the town would never have embraced her.
- 12:44She would never have gotten out of the town.
- 12:46She would have her career.
- 12:47Right.
- 12:48So, that was hit on too.
- 12:49Like, like this, like, what ifs, you know?
- 12:52so I guess mental health aspect of it, the whole, you know, Like you said, the what if aspect of it was fascinating to me.
- 12:59It was to me too.
- 13:00And they touched on just a little bit, some relationships between some of the main characters.
- 13:05And I thought that was interesting and kind of a little real too.
- 13:09Yeah.
- 13:10the jealousy of, you know, who's better friends, right.
- 13:14And it's, it's three good friends.
- 13:16My mom used to always say it's tough when there's three.
- 13:19you know, you go to an amusement park and it only holds two people, you know, that kind of thing.
- 13:23Yeah.
- 13:23And it definitely touches on, on that a lot.
- 13:26made me grateful to have a boy.
- 13:29Same.
- 13:30We say that I think every week but boys I think have a lot of like weird dynamics to a friendship groups Not as bad as girls.
- 13:37I don't think but I think they go through those phases of I mean just like girls do insecurities of you know, yes Yeah, and I think boys and they both go through it.
- 13:47It's just called something different and each one like for boys It's like the alpha thing where they're trying to figure out where they are and the girls.
- 13:54It's Basically just bitchiness.
- 13:57You know what I mean?
- 13:58But that's, it's so funny that it's called, in one it's almost respected, in the other one it's like she's mean.
- 14:05But anyway, yeah, all the things that they go through as little ones.
- 14:10The only other note that I had was What about Ethan?
- 14:15Oh my gosh.
- 14:16Yeah.
- 14:17Don't see it coming.
- 14:18No.
- 14:19So Ethan was a podcaster.
- 14:20Yes.
- 14:20In the book.
- 14:21Yes.
- 14:22I thought that was funny.
- 14:23Yeah, I did too.
- 14:24I was kind of giggling.
- 14:25You know, but, um, I thought like that twist was bananas.
- 14:31Me too.
- 14:31So, I thought it was going to go way different, even as it was like revealed, like his, you know, part of his connections was tough.
- 14:38Yeah.
- 14:38but very, yeah.
- 14:41Huge twist.
- 14:42Very much so.
- 14:43And what's so funny about that is the book still would have been good without that twist, but that just made you, yeah.
- 14:51Yeah.
- 14:52So yeah, I loved, All the twists in it.
- 14:55I love not knowing.
- 14:56Mm hmm.
- 14:57And again, the character development was awesome.
- 14:59And just explaining like all the different aspects of this little town.
- 15:03Yeah.
- 15:04I really just enjoyed the book.
- 15:05As much as we like these books, the past few years, I wonder if I would like them even more if I was actually reading them because I enjoy listening to them.
- 15:15But you know, when you read a book, sometimes it's just that much better.
- 15:18I can't sit down and read a book though.
- 15:20I know.
- 15:21I've been trying to read the same book at night, like for 3 weeks and I get like 2 pages in and I just, you know, lose track.
- 15:29I'm so used to doing three, four different things at a time that I like to sit down.
- 15:34Actually, when I sit in like the sauna blanket, yeah, I read a book.
- 15:37Like I'll read a physical book.
- 15:39Okay.
- 15:39But that's the only time.
- 15:40That's it.
- 15:40Yeah.
- 15:42Um, so what would you give this one?
- 15:44I would high.
- 15:45Another high?
- 15:46Yeah.
- 15:47Nine.
- 15:48Yeah.
- 15:48Yeah.
- 15:49Agreed.
- 15:49I'd give it something high.
- 15:50And I'm glad because I don't think I'm going to like next week's book.
- 15:53I started it.
- 15:54Did you?
- 15:54Is it So it's called the Hacienda.
- 15:58Yes, and I was reading the blurb about it And let me just let me just tell you from hoopla what it says Mexican Gothic meets Rebecca in this debut spiritual supernatural suspense novel Set in the aftermath of the Mexican War of Independence Can we skip it?
- 16:20I don't, I, I, I can't get through the first chapter.
- 16:23Great.
- 16:23So I have another book I think we should read.
- 16:25Okay.
- 16:25It's called All Good People Here by Ashley Flowers, who's a podcaster.
- 16:29Yes.
- 16:29Okay.
- 16:29I know her.
- 16:30Okay, so she does Crime Junkie.
- 16:32Yes.
- 16:32And Something else.
- 16:33I The Deck, that's what else she does.
- 16:35Have you ever listened to that one?
- 16:37It's um, I can't really get into it.
- 16:39It doesn't have Brit in it, so it's not like a lot of conversation.
- 16:43Well, obviously it's just her, so there's not like back and forth conversation, yeah.
- 16:48She had a lot of drama too.
- 16:50Oh yeah, with her podcast?
- 16:51Yeah, I know, I remember that, like, they were trying to, like, Boycott her.
- 16:55Yeah, I thought you said boink, like boink on her, not boycott.
- 17:01Do you, remember in football, the Super Bowl and it was the double doink, when it like bounced off the, the hills twice?
- 17:09No.
- 17:10The field goal thingies?
- 17:12Uh uh.
- 17:12The post, that's what they're called, post.
- 17:16And it like bounced And then like I did like a flip and then bounced again.
- 17:19This really happened?
- 17:20Yeah, uh, and it was called the double doink.
- 17:23No, all I can think of is the butt fumble.
- 17:26Yeah.
- 17:28We are, we are good at this.
- 17:29Oh gosh.
- 17:30So next time we'll do All Good People Here by Ashley Flowers.
- 17:32Yes.
- 17:33And forget the Hacienda.
- 17:34Yeah.
- 17:35Okay.
- 17:36Sorry.
- 17:36I'm in with that.
- 17:37Okay.
- 17:38Yeah.
- 17:39So I, okay.
- 17:40Scrolling.
- 17:40Cause you know, like I can't fall asleep at night and like, I just scroll on Tik TOK.
- 17:44I should probably read so I get tired, but then I'm like, my mind is so all over the place.
- 17:49So I came across and like true crime is like my Tik TOK friend.
- 17:54Um, have you heard about the Brandon Raspberry case?
- 17:57It was in Texas.
- 17:59Alright, so January 18th, 2022, this dude, Brandon, 32 years old, was found deceased in an RV at the Lazy J RV park.
- 18:12RV park in Nixon, Texas.
- 18:14Okay.
- 18:15It was a single gunshot wound to the head.
- 18:19And for the past two years, no leads, no nothing.
- 18:22They have no clue.
- 18:23And it wasn't self inflicted?
- 18:24No, no, no, no.
- 18:25And there was a one, I guess, shot that was, went off on the, in the couch.
- 18:29Okay.
- 18:30So the dude was on his bed and then there was also just like a random gunshot to the couch.
- 18:34So yeah.
- 18:36Cops, no clue what's going on.
- 18:38Fast forward to April 12th of this year.
- 18:41Authorities received a call from the local school principal who reported a 10 year old male had threatened to assault and kill another student on the bus the previous day that they called the police after conducting a threat assessment on the student, they contacted, the police to conduct further investigation.
- 18:59And the deputy was dispatched to the school.
- 19:00Okay.
- 19:01When police got to the school, the school then told him that the kid said he shot and killed a man two years ago.
- 19:08The kid said that he was visiting his grandfather at the RV park, took a weapon out of the glove box of his grandfather's truck, went into raspberry's RV while he was sleeping, discharged the weapon.
- 19:20So he would have been eight years old.
- 19:22Seven.
- 19:23Okay.
- 19:24It was a week before his eighth birthday.
- 19:25Okay.
- 19:26Discharge the weapon one time, leaving a single Gunshot wound to the head and then discharged another bullet into the couch.
- 19:32None of that, I guess, was released into like That was like one of those facts they held up.
- 19:36And returned the weapon to the truck.
- 19:41Oh my gosh! So, because of the child's age and Texas Penal Code, It states that a child does not have criminal culpability until they reach the age of 10.
- 19:55So this kid supposedly didn't tell, any of the adults in his life, like grandpa, father, nothing, like just went around with this, he unalive somebody for the last two years.
- 20:09Oh my gosh.
- 20:11And then threatened to unalive a student on the bus.
- 20:18He cannot be held accountable for his first unaliving.
- 20:25Because of his age.
- 20:26Can they do anything?
- 20:29No.
- 20:29Well, so they're, they're holding them accountable now.
- 20:32Like they're doing all these assessments and whatever now because of the threat to the student on the bus.
- 20:39So then like my mind goes sideways, right?
- 20:42Like, What if grandpa did it?
- 20:45But they know that the law says that he can't be held accountable.
- 20:50Um, so grandfather also pawned the gun and they got, they found the gun and they did connect the dots.
- 21:00Yeah.
- 21:00Everything, all the evidence.
- 21:01When did that happen?
- 21:02Do you know?
- 21:02they didn't say in the article that I read.
- 21:04but cause then I went like searching.
- 21:06Oh yeah.
- 21:07Googled.
- 21:07Well, okay.
- 21:08So was there a connection between this kid and the.
- 21:13No.
- 21:14And so the police said, you know, were you upset with this guy?
- 21:16He said, no, I've never seen him a day in my life.
- 21:19Just walked into his RV and decided to try this.
- 21:24Yeah.
- 21:25I find this really, really hard to believe.
- 21:29And I am like, okay, so if this is true, I mean, this is what really, like that's terrifying.
- 21:33That is terrifying that this kid walked around with this.
- 21:38For two years.
- 21:39Mm hmm.
- 21:40Well, there's a lot of it this year.
- 21:41There's terrifying that the kid had access to that and Apparently knew enough to use it and only had it fire one shot.
- 21:50Yeah, like that good of a so I Have you ever shot a gun?
- 21:54no, so I have but I want to it's been a long time since I have but I have and It's not an easy thing, like the kick, especially like the first time you do it.
- 22:06It's like, you know, you feel you're, you don't, you don't know how to stand like the, the prep for the kickback and stuff for a seven year old to not have.
- 22:16See Brandon taught Dylan, like, you know, we did have plenty and like, so we wanted him to go, yeah, say, sure.
- 22:23Absolutely.
- 22:24Yes.
- 22:24So, at, A young age, Brandon didn't teach Dylan how to handle things, but everything was locked up in safes.
- 22:31There was absolutely no access to anything.
- 22:34Same.
- 22:35Yeah.
- 22:35Same at our house right now.
- 22:36Yep.
- 22:37So, yeah, but for that, that aim, the aim and just the, the.
- 22:45Like I said, the not being bruised.
- 22:48I'm assuming this kid doesn't have a lot of supervision because if Jackson would have done that when he was that age, I would think he would have had bruises or soreness.
- 22:56Yeah.
- 22:57I mean, I think it was just like a, I didn't want to just a nine millimeter or something like that, like a smaller weapon.
- 23:02Yeah.
- 23:02cause it was in the glove box.
- 23:03Yeah.
- 23:04but still like, I don't know.
- 23:06It's me like for it to, to one shot.
- 23:09Right.
- 23:10I don't know.
- 23:10The whole thing's just weird.
- 23:11Like the whole thing is creepy and weird.
- 23:14If he did it, it's, it's, it's weird and terrible.
- 23:17And if he didn't, it's weird and terrible.
- 23:19Like, yeah.
- 23:20I just saw that.
- 23:21I'm like, God, it's like the weirdest, that is crazy.
- 23:23And that happened in Texas.
- 23:24So now, the man that was unalived, his family is trying to get the law changed.
- 23:30yeah.
- 23:32That some kind of accountability would have been able to obviously not in this case because it would be moving forward right but That some kind of accountability would have been able to be given to yeah somebody Yeah crazy And and he was only in that rv park for four days.
- 23:49He was there like on a job I came in was gonna do his stuff and leave back up.
- 23:55Wow.
- 23:56So that's terrifying and then the threat of on the school bus like right thing like is is horrible.
- 24:03Well for everybody.
- 24:04Yes I am I'm glad that when that threat was made on the bus that they took that seriously and however that News got back to them whether it was the parent called and said this happened or whatever I'm glad that was taken seriously and not brushed off like kids are stupid kids.
- 24:21Yeah a lot of it happens like that, I think.
- 24:24Um, wow, that's crazy.
- 24:26I know.
- 24:27Two years.
- 24:29That, what's scary about that, too, is kids can't keep secrets.
- 24:34So if that really happened, I mean, I'm glad that this child is getting, Assessed.
- 24:41Book calls.
- 24:43Yeah.
- 24:44If that, if that really happened that way, that child's got some major things going on.
- 24:49Yeah to put it mildly.
- 24:50Yeah.
- 24:51Wow.
- 24:52There's your, OMG for the day.
- 24:54Yeah.
- 24:55Among other layers.
- 24:59Oh my goodness.
- 25:00That's crazy.
- 25:02The fact that that popped up in your feed.
- 25:04That's probably just because we're such a searching of the mic and milk.
- 25:08Whatever.
- 25:08Miller.
- 25:09Speaking of.
- 25:10Oh yeah.
- 25:13That was a good segue.
- 25:14It was if I could have said it correctly.
- 25:16Have you seen any of the updates?
- 25:18No, because I've been too exhausted for all this driving I'm having to do.
- 25:22What?
- 25:23Well, my 2 a.
- 25:24m.
- 25:24updates.
- 25:26so I guess, the internet did their thing on the internet.
- 25:29And so the fisherman that was like the witness, or not witness, but like spoke to the police said he heard crying and then the gunshot.
- 25:36And he was one of the main people right away is somehow.
- 25:42Related to JP.
- 25:43Shut up.
- 25:45Yeah.
- 25:45Come on.
- 25:46I feel like he's related to the whole town.
- 25:48Well, I don't know if it's true or not.
- 25:49And this is totally TikTok.
- 25:53I don't know how true it is.
- 25:55But, said that his family is part of like the Masons.
- 26:00Okay.
- 26:01Which they're normally good dudes, right?
- 26:03I don't know anything about it.
- 26:04I haven't Well, I know a couple of people that are and they do but like powerful like like Yeah, their reach goes far as I think more of what okay like for cover ups like Like it could the the reach of the Yeah, powerful people.
- 26:20I gotcha.
- 26:20okay Let me take that back the ones that I know the information that they've given me is they do You Charity things and that.
- 26:28So I really don't know.
- 26:30I'm not a grand poobah.
- 26:35Is there something we need to discuss?
- 26:38so I really don't know a lot about it either.
- 26:40I, and I just, that today like popped up again, it's a creator on, on TikTok.
- 26:46Right.
- 26:46I don't know if you're here or not, but his family, I mean, like, he does seem to be slipperier than a, I don't know.
- 26:53Greased pig.
- 26:54Slime.
- 26:55Slippery than slime.
- 26:58We are really good at this, this thing.
- 27:00This thing is gonna blow up for real.
- 27:02he actually has made his own TikTok account now, JP.
- 27:05Has he?
- 27:06To Dispel all of the rumors and he was going to take down one rumor a day and do you follow him?
- 27:11No, I don't want either but I want to know all the things well all the other creators like share his stuff and they'll do the do it and you know, he's like classic like abusive dirtball but Oh, so the fisherman guy back to him.
- 27:29Yeah, so supposedly he's related They found like some obituary of a mutual family member and I guess they were both Listed in that obituary as like relatives or whatever and they are now because like he has a super distinct voice the fisherman dude and They broke down the 9 1 1 call and they think they can hear him They think he was in the background of the 9 1 1 call which You Is also said to be possibly AI generated.
- 27:56So who knows?
- 27:57I don't know.
- 27:58This is just what the people are saying on Tik TOK.
- 28:00and Tik TOK seems to like find anything and everything about anyone.
- 28:05But give them all the cases, all the unsolved mysteries.
- 28:08Tik TOK will get it done.
- 28:11Oh, so this was another thing that people are going crazy over is that in one of the surveillance videos, in the beginning of the day, she was wearing her necklace.
- 28:20Next surveillance video, she had changed, like taken off her work clothes and her necklace was not on.
- 28:25Oh, JP was wearing the necklace in an interview like a day or two later.
- 28:32Okay.
- 28:32That's very ballsy.
- 28:34And so he did an interview with a TikToker, like that's like super true crime, whatever on TikTok.
- 28:40And the TikToker asked him about it.
- 28:44And he said that the police gave it to him the next, the day after she.
- 28:49was found.
- 28:50and then I'm like, I know that they immediately said it was self inflicted, but is none of that is evidence?
- 28:57she wasn't wearing it in the video.
- 29:00So the police should have even had it ready to give to him.
- 29:03Yeah.
- 29:05Yeah.
- 29:05That's.
- 29:08And if he, okay, let's throw this out there.
- 29:12She was in the first video wearing the necklace.
- 29:14He sees her.
- 29:15And he gets the necklace from her.
- 29:17And then she goes and does the, the other thing where she's on surveillance.
- 29:22For him to wear that?
- 29:24This guy sounds cojones.
- 29:26That's crazy.
- 29:27Yeah.
- 29:28He thinks he's above everything.
- 29:29Yeah.
- 29:30Oh yeah.
- 29:31He's untouchable in his head.
- 29:32But he's been, like, he's been abusing people.
- 29:34He's been, do you know he had her on lithium?
- 29:37Like, because he was trying to get that.
- 29:38What?
- 29:38Yeah.
- 29:39So he had her, like, institutionalized, like, twice, I think.
- 29:43No, lithium was something that was still given anymore though.
- 29:46That's what Britney Spears was on while she was locked up every one of her family members, everybody said, he has been like building this case.
- 29:54Like she's been crazy this whole time.
- 29:56Like she was not, but he was trying to build this case.
- 29:59He kept bringing her to the hospital saying she needs to be locked up.
- 30:02She needs to be locked up.
- 30:03She's crazy.
- 30:05he almost like, um, Munchhausen.
- 30:07Yeah, by property.
- 30:10Yeah, but, in his sermons, they're showing video clips of his sermons and, he asked the church to pray for her to hit rock bottom.
- 30:18That doesn't sound like what you want to pray for, for somebody.
- 30:22Yeah, he's awful.
- 30:23He's an awful, awful person.
- 30:25Oh, and then I like right before when you walked in I showed you so his ex wife who He cheated on with Micah.
- 30:32Mm hmm they look so similar when you showed me that like I was speechless I thought it was like a before and after like this is when they first started dating and this is But no, two totally different people.
- 30:43Yeah.
- 30:43Both dark hair, like very similar.
- 30:45skin tones.
- 30:46Yes.
- 30:47I mean, it's everything.
- 30:47They're coloring.
- 30:48They could have been family.
- 30:49Oh yeah.
- 30:49Easily.
- 30:50Recording just got released, Micah calling the ex wife, asking the ex wife for advice or help on how to leave him, like the easiest way possible or who she used as an attorney asking her for help, I don't know if you know this or not, but did he leave the first wife to be with Micah?
- 31:07Is that how she?
- 31:09Really sure.
- 31:09Okay.
- 31:09Yeah.
- 31:10Because I'm thinking like that's kind of the only way that she would have been able to get away is just like go, go to this other girl.
- 31:17Oh my goodness, this case just keeps getting wilder and wilder.
- 31:21And the family I think is suing JP right now, Micah's family.
- 31:24he's now counter suing them and is trying to get all his legal fees paid by Micah's family.
- 31:29For like slander or something?
- 31:30I don't know, I don't know exactly what it was, but.
- 31:33Yeah, he's, he's not a good guy.
- 31:35No.
- 31:36and I think this is killing him because he's like, classic narcissist.
- 31:40Oh, yeah, whatever.
- 31:41I mean, like all of the things.
- 31:42Yeah.
- 31:42And so for him not to be seen as poor me, like the victim and for all of this to be coming out, all of these weird, like things that like weird, um, kinks.
- 31:57Yeah.
- 31:58And not that I'm king shaming, whatever you want to do as an adult, as long as everybody's willing, that's where, that's where, that's where it was, it's not okay is because it wasn't consensual and he was forcing things on.
- 32:09Right.
- 32:10Well, and he probably, because of his narcissistic attitude, he probably does not want people to know certain things about him, especially being a pastor.
- 32:20So for all this stuff, is he still in the pulpit?
- 32:23Pastoring, do you know?
- 32:24I, I think, yeah.
- 32:27Yeah, like he's got like it's like a like a cult almost it feels like it's got like that feel you know what I mean yeah, the people that are with him are with him.
- 32:35They are rat or die He like banned people from the church when he had said that she he wanted her to hit rock bottom and people had Like some people had an issue with that and voice that Buddha the man of the church.
- 32:48His church is in Myrtle Beach, right?
- 32:49I'm going in a few weeks.
- 32:50I'm gonna go see his church.
- 32:51Are you?
- 32:52Why not?
- 32:53Don't join the cult.
- 32:54I'm not.
- 32:55I am not.
- 32:56I'm not, good cult material.
- 32:59Yeah.
- 32:59I don't think that I would be easily swept up.
- 33:01I'm gonna have to come save you.
- 33:03Well, I mean if you want to come to the beach, come on.
- 33:04I don't think I'd be easily put into a cult though.
- 33:07Like I don't think.
- 33:09I'm too, too lazy and tired right now to do much of anything.
- 33:12I don't think I would be a good cult person either.
- 33:19I think you're too, too much of an ass.
- 33:23Oh, no, no, no, no, no.
- 33:25I think you just, um, you like to research things.
- 33:27Yeah.
- 33:28And I don't think of somebody, political.
- 33:30I think if somebody came up and they were like, Hey, you should, you should join our cult because of this.
- 33:34You wouldn't be like, okay.
- 33:35You'd be like, actually, let me be the cult leader.
- 33:41Maybe I'm more, maybe I am at a cult now.
- 33:43Maybe this is our goal.
- 33:44Yeah, no, I don't think I would be good.
- 33:48No material.
- 33:49No.
- 33:50For a cult.
- 33:51No, I don't, I don't think I'm, uh.
- 33:52They, they wouldn't love me.
- 33:55I just don't think I'd be a target.
- 33:56I'd be like the one that would be like locked in like the basement until I fly.
- 34:00I mean, I'd be there for like 400 years, like, making the little etches in the, the little marks.
- 34:05Have I ever told you about some of Jackson's friends that got kicked out of Carowinds?
- 34:09Oh, Dylan did.
- 34:10Yeah, Dylan did.
- 34:11And he got a Carowinds show.
- 34:12Yeah, well, he got put in the security office.
- 34:14I call it Kerwin's jail.
- 34:16Well, I didn't know if there was like really, I don't know, like there's like jails on cruises.
- 34:20Like I didn't know if there was like, there might be, I don't know, but I call it Kerwin's jail.
- 34:24I'm like, were you making little hash marks for every hour that went by that you were in care?
- 34:31supposedly the girl that one of his friends was with, Some other boys were being inappropriate and he kind of, they didn't get in a fight, but he was posturing for a fight I think was the words.
- 34:42So they just kicked him all out and banned him.
- 34:45Is it for a year?
- 34:46Five.
- 34:47Oh wow.
- 34:48For real.
- 34:49Wow.
- 34:50Yeah.
- 34:50Was Dylan just for a year?
- 34:51Just for one year.
- 34:52I think it's up now.
- 34:54Does he have any desire to go back?
- 34:55No.
- 34:58he could care less.
- 34:59Yeah.
- 35:00especially too, like, when they can drive and they can go somewhere else and they, you know what I mean?
- 35:05It's not that special.
- 35:06No.
- 35:06Yeah.
- 35:06No.
- 35:07Yeah.
- 35:07wow.
- 35:08Well, I don't know how we went down that rabbit hole, but.
- 35:11Yeah, I don't either.
- 35:11Oh, cause I'm, oh, we were talking about the ticks on the, on the walk.
- 35:14Yeah.
- 35:15Did you know that there's, there's jails on cruise ships?
- 35:18I had heard that.
- 35:19I've never seen one on any of the cruises I've been on.
- 35:21I have never seen one on anything, thank goodness.
- 35:25But, I did know somebody that got in cruise jail.
- 35:28Yes.
- 35:30Why did they get in cruise jail?
- 35:31For fighting.
- 35:31Fighting.
- 35:33but.
- 35:33People don't play with that.
- 35:34No, no, no, no.
- 35:35And I just want to go have fun.
- 35:37Like, there's nothing to be fighting.
- 35:38Right.
- 35:38But yeah, it's a legit thing.
- 35:41It looks like a slammer.
- 35:43I, I, yeah, I, I don't know the specifics.
- 35:46I'm sure it's different on every boat, maybe.
- 35:49I need to look up a picture of Cruz jail now.
- 35:51but that would be horrible.
- 35:52He's paid all that money to go to jail.
- 35:55Um, well, you want to do it.
- 35:56Am I?
- 35:57Okay.
- 35:58Yeah.
- 35:59Cause our segment last week didn't feel like it was, it was working.
- 36:02Right.
- 36:03We're not, are you saying that we're not good at advice?
- 36:06I think we are, but I don't think the people are ready for what we have to say.
- 36:13Okay.
- 36:14So.
- 36:15Am I the a hole for not giving my neighbor's soccer ball back after he threw it onto my third floor apartment balcony, which he kicks against the side of the apartment all day?
- 36:25A little No.
- 36:28Sorry.
- 36:29A little context.
- 36:30I live on the third floor of an apartment building and the family below me has a little boy who loves to kick his soccer ball around all day.
- 36:38All capitals.
- 36:40He kicks it against the side of the building, against the inside.
- 36:44Walls of his apartment slams it into the ceiling my floor and throws it onto the roof This isn't just loud shakes my entire apartment I work the night shift and this makes it impossible for me to sleep by chance He kicked a soccer ball onto my balcony and I just haven't given it back It's been two days and he has been knocking on my door continuously for those two days He knocked, in parentheses it says beat, on my door for two hours straight today, and at least once every hour after that.
- 37:15The thing is, I can sleep through someone knocking on my door, I can't sleep through my apartment shaking.
- 37:20I was finally able to sleep a full eight hours today, and I really don't want to go, I really don't want that to go away.
- 37:27Am I the a hole?
- 37:29No.
- 37:29I don't think so because we had a basketball hoop that was right outside.
- 37:36That was not our hoop.
- 37:37That was like right outside of our bedroom window and all of the neighborhood kids gathered there.
- 37:42That was the one that they went to.
- 37:44It was just like the open basket and it was like right outside of our bedroom window.
- 37:47Yeah.
- 37:47So if you tried to take a nap.
- 37:49It didn't matter what time of day like nobody could be out there all day and that's when they would come and the basketball started.
- 37:55We had a similar situation where our neighbors in our previous house, they had dogs outside that and you know, I love, we've talked about how much we both love dogs, barked all night long.
- 38:06And no, I don't think they are either.
- 38:08You have to be respectful of people and especially when you're in an apartment environment.
- 38:12Mm hmm.
- 38:13Yeah.
- 38:14I wonder how old the kid is.
- 38:16Is he four?
- 38:17Or is he 17?
- 38:18No, I think he's like, oh, like, probably like 12.
- 38:20Yeah.
- 38:20I think, I don't remember exactly what it said in the, the comments.
- 38:23'cause like he was like responding to people in the comments.
- 38:25Okay.
- 38:26so yeah, I don't think he is either.
- 38:29I don't Or she, whoever.
- 38:31Yeah, I don't think they are either.
- 38:32I think that.
- 38:34Maybe this will teach the child.
- 38:36I think he needs to take the ball and have a conversation with the parents.
- 38:39But the parent is probably gonna be like, he can do whatever he wants to do.
- 38:42Yeah, I pay to live here too.
- 38:43Right.
- 38:43Okay.
- 38:44Yeah, parents are not receptive to any criticism.
- 38:46There's gotta be a better place though for this to happen.
- 38:49Yeah.
- 38:50So, I don't think they are.
- 38:51I don't think so either.
- 38:53I am like.
- 38:54Get your sleep boo.
- 38:55Get your sleep.
- 38:58I threatened so many times to like move the basketball hoop to a different place.
- 39:02Look, yeah, absolutely.
- 39:06And then like, I mean, Dylan would do it too, but Dylan would be out there all, you know, all the time.
- 39:09Yeah.
- 39:09Um, so like, I can't yell at any of the kids because my kid was doing the same stupid stuff.
- 39:14Yeah.
- 39:14No, and it wasn't even stupid.
- 39:15They were playing and they were outside and I shouldn't be 100 percent happy that kids were being kids.
- 39:20So I sound, I sound like the a hole right now.
- 39:23But.
- 39:23Let us know if you think Steph's it.
- 39:27But, like, it was, it just seemed like, it was like every single time you tried to lay down.
- 39:31Yeah.
- 39:31Just to like, if you had a headache, if you wanted to take a nap.
- 39:34Oh, sure.
- 39:35It was like.
- 39:35It's your house, you can do whatever you want to do.
- 39:36Yeah.
- 39:37Okay.
- 39:37I agree.
- 39:38It was really 1 of the comments in the thread was that, You had similar situation, the.
- 39:44Ball that would go into the guy's yard.
- 39:46The kid would open the gate, come get his stuff, leave the gate open and his dogs would get out.
- 39:52And so the guy went to talk to the mom.
- 39:54The mom was like, my kid didn't do that.
- 39:57Like the typical, you know, whatever.
- 40:00So he buys a lock for the gate.
- 40:02Ball goes over the fence.
- 40:04Kid can't get in because there's a lock.
- 40:06He said he went and brought the ball inside, stabbed the ball.
- 40:12Mom comes knocking on the door later that day and was like, I need my kid's ball.
- 40:16It went over your fence.
- 40:17And he's like, Oh, there's no ball back there.
- 40:18Sorry.
- 40:19She's like, it went over the fence.
- 40:20And he's like, well, just like your kid didn't open my gate, go to my backyard and my dog's got out.
- 40:26Um, I don't have your ball.
- 40:27And he shut the door.
- 40:32Oh my gosh.
- 40:33That's pretty funny.
- 40:33Yeah.
- 40:34So she probably can see it like right on top of the garbage like oh yeah deflated.
- 40:38Yes.
- 40:38Yes, like sad looking up right there.
- 40:40That's funny.
- 40:42So I did say one more.
- 40:43So, am I the AL for calling the police because my neighbors were being loud.
- 40:47Is this the neighbor episode.
- 40:49I guess so.
- 40:50Okay.
- 40:52I didn't even put that together.
- 40:53I'm really quick.
- 40:54I just like, did like, random screenshots and I'm like, Oh, well, you can't, you can't get anything past me.
- 41:00Okay.
- 41:01Well, this is another apartment complex too.
- 41:04Um, all in.
- 41:07Remind me to tell you my like, when we.
- 41:10Move to Tennessee story.
- 41:11Okay, crazy.
- 41:12am I the a hole?
- 41:14Oh, my college story too.
- 41:15Our college neighbors, oh my god, in the house we lived in.
- 41:18Oh, now you're having trauma flashbacks.
- 41:20Oh my goodness.
- 41:21Okay, we'll talk about that when we're done with this.
- 41:23Okay.
- 41:23Am I the a hole for calling the police because my neighbors were being loud?
- 41:27No.
- 41:27I live in an apartment complex with about 10 to 12 story buildings.
- 41:31I live on the third floor.
- 41:32Three days ago, drunk men were really loud outside my building.
- 41:36They were singing and yelling.
- 41:37It was almost 2 a.
- 41:38m.
- 41:38I'm 21 years old, work full time, study full time.
- 41:41It's exam season currently, so I was really irritated that they woke me up.
- 41:46And I was also irritated that they weren't shutting up.
- 41:49I can hear, I could hear my other neighbors asking them to keep quiet, but they weren't shutting up.
- 41:54So I called the police, the police came, and I guess things escalated because they arrested one man.
- 42:02The next day I could see Facebook posts in my neighborhood group and surprisingly, the rude and mad comments were directed at a person who called the police.
- 42:10Me, lol.
- 42:12I figured out that it was someone's birthday.
- 42:14Just so you have a better understanding, I'm translating one post from that group.
- 42:19When the dogs are barking and howling all night long, you don't seem to be bothered, and you are mad over sounds of fun and happiness.
- 42:25People are so unfair.
- 42:27May God bless you with many loud birthdays.
- 42:30George.
- 42:32Okay.
- 42:34Today a woman came to my door visibly upset.
- 42:36I couldn't see her through the peephole.
- 42:38I didn't open the door.
- 42:39She somehow figured out who called the police and I figured she's the wife of the man who got arrested.
- 42:44She was calling me names saying that I wouldn't be at home forever and I'll get my share of fairness.
- 42:51Kind of sounds like a threat if you ask me.
- 42:53Am I the a hole for calling the police?
- 42:55Should I apologize?
- 42:57No.
- 42:58I don't think so either.
- 42:59Was it on a weekend?
- 43:00Was it like a Monday?
- 43:01I won't know what day of the week it was.
- 43:03but they were asked several times by other apartment people to be quiet or to like But even if it is Saturday morning at 2 a.
- 43:12m., it's still not okay to, in my opinion, in a public space where there is like an insinuated quiet time, to be disrespectful and loud.
- 43:23And And here's my thing too.
- 43:27that's, you know, a lot of times when things escalate, you know, it's late at night, people are drunk.
- 43:32There could have been fights or whatever.
- 43:34So no, get everybody back in their house.
- 43:37Sorry, Get everybody back in their house and call it a night.
- 43:41Yeah.
- 43:42I'm torn because Mm-Hmm, it sounds like they're in a college town, which.
- 43:47Is more known to have these types of things.
- 43:50Yes.
- 43:50so it's almost like, I don't know, but let me tell you my college story because this was bananas.
- 43:58So we lived in 1 of those big, like, you know, like those big old Victorian houses that they make into apartments.
- 44:03Oh, yeah.
- 44:03So, me and Brandon had like a little studio, room in this house.
- 44:07And this is my first time living away from home.
- 44:10And every couple of nights a week, like we hear them like screaming across all and they had a baby, like a little baby.
- 44:17Okay.
- 44:17Um, Maybe like one and a half, two, maybe, over there.
- 44:22And you hear them screaming, babies crying, and I'm like, oh my god.
- 44:26Like, what am I doing?
- 44:29Right.
- 44:29Right.
- 44:31It's like two, two thirty in the morning, and they get home, I guess, from whatever bar.
- 44:37I don't know whose mom it was, one of the adults mom, I guess, was there watching the kid screaming.
- 44:43I mean, like, there was so much, it was bananas.
- 44:46And, so I'm, like, looking at, like, we were both, like, sitting up, like, oh, my God.
- 44:49Right.
- 44:50This is crazy.
- 44:50I'm like, should I go over there?
- 44:51Right.
- 44:52Like, I should, watch the kid.
- 44:53I felt so bad that this kid was over there.
- 44:56And then we hear, Well, you're a crackhead.
- 44:59And like the girl's like, who got me to do it?
- 45:01Like, Oh no.
- 45:03So then I look outside and I'm like, Oh my God.
- 45:05Like, what should we do?
- 45:06Like, this is not like my norm.
- 45:08Right.
- 45:09Um, and.
- 45:11I look outside, the police are coming up and they're like, can you open the door?
- 45:14Because it was, you know, like, they had to have the code or whatever.
- 45:17Whoever called the cost went down because I was, I was like, looking out the window.
- 45:21Yeah.
- 45:22And they're like, can you open the door, but somebody was already on there to open the door and, we hear them like yelling, the cops are like trying to calm everything down across the hall.
- 45:30And then we see the guy leaving, girl runs out, lays on the lawn, like spread eagle, and she's like, come back to me.
- 45:42Oh my gosh.
- 45:44After she, and he had been fighting, right?
- 45:47It was the craziest, the craziest night.
- 45:54Ever.
- 45:55And they, I think got kicked out a week or two later because they moved out.
- 45:58But it was so bananas.
- 46:00That is crazy.
- 46:02That is crazy.
- 46:03So it wasn't, like, quite as tame as this.
- 46:06Right.
- 46:06It sounds like, but your story should have been in here in the Yeah.
- 46:10We did not call the police.
- 46:11I was just like, oh my gosh, should I go see if they want help with the baby?
- 46:14Yeah.
- 46:14Because I felt so bad for the baby.
- 46:16For the baby.
- 46:16And then, yeah, in that environment, crying and fussy and all the things.
- 46:20And then, so when Graduate college, Brandon eventually takes a job in Tennessee.
- 46:26We moved to Tennessee and we get a townhouse.
- 46:28And so this lady lived next door with her two children and we weren't even there a couple of days.
- 46:39She knocks on the door and asks if I could watch her kids.
- 46:41No, doesn't know me.
- 46:44Now I got that.
- 46:45And I'm like, she's like, I just got around, like she did it or whatever.
- 46:48And I was like, um, and then like, she's like, thanks.
- 46:52And she leaves.
- 46:53And I'm like, okay.
- 46:55So.
- 46:56That's the start.
- 46:57Like this is like day, like two or three.
- 46:59So we were there, I don't know, like a year and a half maybe, at the same townhouse and she lived next door the whole time.
- 47:06So it was the neighbors from, you know, where, so she was in no judgment, but she was like an ex stripper, like recovering addict or whatever, like the whole nine yards.
- 47:18And She would just like send the kids over.
- 47:24Are you kidding me?
- 47:25To get milk, to get whatever.
- 47:27And I'm like, they would just walk in.
- 47:30Like I had to start like locking all of my doors, like at all times.
- 47:33Cause like these kids would just walk in.
- 47:34That was just their second home.
- 47:36No, it was just my mom sent me over.
- 47:38Oh, oh, so their store.
- 47:40these kids were little, four and like seven, or like four and like six, I mean, like, young.
- 47:44She would send, like, there was a gas station, kind of like next to our, like, our complex.
- 47:49She would, let them go walk there by themselves and, get a donut or whatever, little, like tiny little people.
- 47:57that is insane.
- 47:58Yeah.
- 47:59So then the kid, one kid like played the drums.
- 48:03No.
- 48:04All hours.
- 48:07How long were you in the townhouse?
- 48:09I think a year and a half.
- 48:10And then we got our house.
- 48:11but Brandon had to get up for work at like four in the morning, like 11 o'clock at night.
- 48:16These kids would be like on a school night, like playing the drums.
- 48:19So, I would, cause I'm, I am the a hole.
- 48:23I can be.
- 48:24if first thing in the morning, I cause I would get up and make Brandon like lunch or breakfast or whatever.
- 48:28So I would turn all the speakers towards their apartment or their walls and blast music at four o'clock in the morning.
- 48:37Just to be like, here it is.
- 48:40She would hold her, Bible studies and stuff at her house.
- 48:43And they would be like, Speaking in tongues and like, like yelling.
- 48:47Oh, and I was like, it scared the hell out of me.
- 48:51I'm like, Oh my God, like what is happening?
- 48:54What is going on over there?
- 48:56Yeah.
- 48:57So I thought you were going to say that, like, okay.
- 49:00So a couple of days in the kids can't, you know, you watch the kids, like it was going to turn into like, they were staying at your house constantly kind of thing.
- 49:06No, but like Brandon, like they would like, try to like, take movies and stuff you know, DVDs and whatever were.
- 49:13Still, I think.
- 49:14Right.
- 49:14Brandon's like, oh, we should switch out some of the DVDs.
- 49:18And the teacher not to send our kids over.
- 49:21It's crazy.
- 49:21Sometimes people just have no respect.
- 49:24I know.
- 49:24For anybody else's place.
- 49:26Yeah, I was not sad to move.
- 49:29So those are my nightmare neighbor stories.
- 49:31Those are pretty terrible.
- 49:33Yeah, actually, I mean, hilarious number the first one and terrible.
- 49:38Yeah.
- 49:39Well, what do you think about this person?
- 49:42Do you think they are with that with the birthday celebration, George?
- 49:47Thumbs up, they think you are.
- 49:49Um, I don't know.
- 49:50I'm like, on the fence because if it's a college town and they're all like 21 like, or turning 21 if it wasn't like an every night thing, if it was just a one time, if it was a one time thing, But if it's a reoccurring theme with the same people, then yes, I could see that.
- 50:07I agree with you.
- 50:08I was going to be a strict, I don't care, 2am is 2am, I don't care who you are, but you're right.
- 50:13If it's a one time thing, even if it is a random day of the week, like by the time I would get my nerve up to call the police, I think, and be like, is this really a deal or am I just blowing this out of proportion?
- 50:24It would be over.
- 50:25And then how did, The wife find out who called.
- 50:28I don't know.
- 50:29That's, that's weird to me.
- 50:30Yeah.
- 50:31I thought stuff when you reported it as anonymous.
- 50:33I don't know.
- 50:34I don't know.
- 50:35I've never called the cops on anybody.
- 50:37No.
- 50:37So I don't know.
- 50:38Other than like if I've seen an accident.
- 50:40I have called the cops before on people driving erratically and crazy.
- 50:44I do call about that sometimes.
- 50:46Yeah.
- 50:46And Brian gets mad almost like, why are you calling?
- 50:50I'm like, cause we're going to pass them in five minutes and they're going to be flipped upside down.
- 50:54Okay.
- 50:55So we're not going to do the Hacienda next week.
- 50:58We're going to do the, All the good people here.
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