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- 0:02Speaker 1: Hi, guys, Welcome to an episode of Legally Brunette. I
- 0:04Speaker 1: will be your host today, Emily Simpson with my husband's sidekick.
- 0:09Speaker 1: Whatever you are, what are you?
- 0:11Speaker 2: I'm Shane.
- 0:12Speaker 1: Shane's just Shane. Today we're going to be talking about
- 0:16Speaker 1: and this was a recommendation from you guys, which I
- 0:17Speaker 1: truly truly appreciate. It is called the shooting at Hawthorne Hill,
- 0:22Speaker 1: and I had not heard of it until you guys
- 0:24Speaker 1: had DM me a few times and told me that
- 0:26Speaker 1: we should discuss it. So we're going to discuss it.
- 0:30Speaker 1: And actually I'm really happy that I started watching it
- 0:33Speaker 1: and that we're going to discuss it because I kind
- 0:37Speaker 1: of when I was growing up, we had horses, and
- 0:40Speaker 1: I've ridden yourssage and so you know, I have a
- 0:42Speaker 1: little insight into this horse world that we're about to
- 0:47Speaker 1: delve into. Shane equestrian, the equestrian world. It's called drissage though,
- 0:51Speaker 1: that's the type, that's the style of writing horseworld, Horseworld,
- 0:55Speaker 1: equestrian world. And Shane knows a little because when we
- 0:58Speaker 1: first got married.
- 0:59Speaker 2: I I know that I know nothing about.
- 1:01Speaker 1: Horses, but I had horses.
- 1:03Speaker 3: I know that I don't know how to ride one,
- 1:05Speaker 3: and I know that they're very expensive.
- 1:07Speaker 1: Yes, he does know that. What do they say the
- 1:09Speaker 1: cheapest thing about buying a horse is buying a horse.
- 1:11Speaker 3: Now the chief thing about owning a horse is buying
- 1:14Speaker 3: a horse, right And your dad told me that after
- 1:16Speaker 3: we bought a horse.
- 1:17Speaker 1: Right anyway, all right, So Lauren Kannarak is the one
- 1:21Speaker 1: of the main characters in this and she was a
- 1:24Speaker 1: dressage rider. Let's just talk a little bit about dressage.
- 1:27Speaker 1: If someone doesn't know, it is a style of riding.
- 1:31Speaker 1: They when you watch the Olympics and they have riding
- 1:34Speaker 1: equestrian in the Olympics, it's dressage and it's actually a
- 1:39Speaker 1: form of it dates back thousands of years. It was
- 1:43Speaker 1: when they trained horses to fight during battles. So horses
- 1:47Speaker 1: learned that.
- 1:48Speaker 3: I would never guess that by looking at a horse
- 1:50Speaker 3: in drisage.
- 1:51Speaker 1: Well, they talk, they they train horses. This all comes
- 1:55Speaker 1: from during battles when you would have horses in battle
- 1:59Speaker 1: and the horses would learn how to, you know, like
- 2:02Speaker 1: rear up to protect their rider, or they would learn
- 2:04Speaker 1: how to sidestep to.
- 2:05Speaker 3: This is the more like basically you had more control
- 2:08Speaker 3: over your horse's actions and maneuvers. And then you could
- 2:12Speaker 3: use it for anything you needed, right, Yeah.
- 2:14Speaker 1: But I mean originally it was to train horses how
- 2:17Speaker 1: to protect riders during it.
- 2:18Speaker 3: But now it's about dressing a certain way and looking proper. Yes,
- 2:23Speaker 3: but it still was a posture on the horse.
- 2:25Speaker 1: Yeah, but what they do in the Olympics is very
- 2:27Speaker 1: very advanced. It's very very difficult, and there's a very
- 2:29Speaker 1: very small percentage of people that can actually get to that.
- 2:31Speaker 2: But that's what I would agree with that.
- 2:33Speaker 1: So Lauren Kannerak is a drissage rider who was shot
- 2:36Speaker 1: twice in the chest by her trainer, who was an
- 2:39Speaker 1: Olympic equestrian named Michael Barrisone. This was during a confrontation
- 2:43Speaker 1: at his New Jersey equestrian farm in August of twenty nineteen.
- 2:48Speaker 1: So you know, I actually did not hear about this
- 2:50Speaker 1: when it occurred. It was it was pretty recent. But anyway,
- 2:55Speaker 1: did you have you ever heard of the story before? No?
- 2:58Speaker 1: The two had developed a string an increasingly hostile relationship
- 3:03Speaker 1: after Lauren began training with him in twenty eighteen, with
- 3:06Speaker 1: both sides accusing each other of conflict and harassment. Lauren
- 3:11Speaker 1: survived after an emergency surgery and several days in a coma.
- 3:14Speaker 1: Michael was arrested in charged with attempted murder, with his
- 3:18Speaker 1: trial resulting in a very surprising outcome. I was surprised
- 3:21Speaker 1: by the outcome. Their story is documented and the Netflix's
- 3:25Speaker 1: untold the shooting at Hawthorne Hill. I thought it was
- 3:28Speaker 1: really interesting because well, first of all, he's interviewed in
- 3:32Speaker 1: the documentary, so you can guess the outcome. He's not
- 3:35Speaker 1: being interviewed from prison.
- 3:37Speaker 2: So well, I don't know.
- 3:38Speaker 3: Sometimes they have those shows where you don't know if
- 3:40Speaker 3: they are aren't, and then like at the end, it
- 3:42Speaker 3: kind of reveals that they're actually in an all and I.
- 3:46Speaker 1: Kept thinking, Okay, maybe he's just dressed really nice and
- 3:49Speaker 1: his hair looks good and it looks like he's in
- 3:52Speaker 1: a living room, but maybe maybe he's not. But anyway,
- 3:55Speaker 1: well we'll get to that. We'll get to that. That
- 3:57Speaker 1: is the ending, all right. So Lauren Canteract is an
- 4:00Speaker 1: adult amateur trissage writer and she begins training with Olympic
- 4:03Speaker 1: equestrian Michael Barrison at his New Jersey farm called Hawthorne Hill.
- 4:08Speaker 1: Her father pays approximately five thousand per month for training
- 4:11Speaker 1: and horse boarding.
- 4:12Speaker 2: I believe in the father, how old is she.
- 4:15Speaker 1: She's an adult. Here's the thing. Let me just tell
- 4:17Speaker 1: you this. Let's just break this down. As soon as
- 4:19Speaker 1: they start interviewing this woman, I disliked her immediately. I
- 4:23Speaker 1: don't know how anyone else out there feels. I actually
- 4:25Speaker 1: got on Reddit to see if I was the only
- 4:27Speaker 1: one that was like completely put off by this woman
- 4:30Speaker 1: and her personality, and I wasn't.
- 4:32Speaker 3: Oh, but you were probably the quickest to be turned
- 4:35Speaker 3: off by her personality.
- 4:36Speaker 2: I don't know. I tell you, Okay, why do you
- 4:39Speaker 2: not like her?
- 4:41Speaker 1: I just immediate. I don't know. I feel like when
- 4:43Speaker 1: you listen to someone, or you watch someone, or you
- 4:45Speaker 1: have a conversation with someone, you immediately judge them and
- 4:48Speaker 1: you get a sense of whether you like the person
- 4:50Speaker 1: or not. The minute she starts talking, I was like,
- 4:52Speaker 1: I cannot stand this woman. I think that she I didn't,
- 4:56Speaker 1: I just she sounded. She talks about how people call
- 4:59Speaker 1: her entire titled, but she's not entitled. Meanwhile, her dad,
- 5:03Speaker 1: even though she's an adult, is also being interviewed talking
- 5:06Speaker 1: about how he pays for her to have her three horses.
- 5:09Speaker 3: She's entitled because he's paying for it. If she's demanding
- 5:12Speaker 3: it insisting on it and thinking that she's well.
- 5:15Speaker 2: They also titled.
- 5:15Speaker 1: Well they're interviewing her, but they also show clips of
- 5:18Speaker 1: her and her boyfriend is also came with her to
- 5:20Speaker 1: stay while she's training her horses and riding every day,
- 5:24Speaker 1: and she's just bossing the boyfriend around.
- 5:27Speaker 2: Rob Get this.
- 5:28Speaker 1: Pick this up for me. What are you doing? Rob?
- 5:30Speaker 1: Get that? Where's the bridle? I mean it's They were
- 5:32Speaker 1: smart to show the all the clips of her being
- 5:37Speaker 1: demanding and difficult and anyway, so her father pays approximately
- 5:41Speaker 1: five thousand a month for training and horse boarding, which,
- 5:44Speaker 1: by the way, I did not think was that expensive.
- 5:47Speaker 1: I believe she has three horses there.
- 5:49Speaker 2: Well, oh it's for lessons and boarding.
- 5:53Speaker 1: I guess the five thousand is just for her training
- 5:55Speaker 1: and for the boarding of the horses. Then she gets
- 5:56Speaker 1: to live there for free. So let's go to early
- 5:59Speaker 1: of two thousand nineteen. Lauren and Michael's relationship starts to deteriorate.
- 6:05Speaker 1: Lauren reportedly becomes frustrated about limited direct training time with Michael.
- 6:10Speaker 1: So Michael Barrison is the main guy, right, He's the
- 6:13Speaker 1: one that's the Olympic rider, He's the one that is
- 6:16Speaker 1: the name. But he also has some trainers that are
- 6:18Speaker 1: below him. Why. I know, he has a girlfriend named
- 6:21Speaker 1: Mary Haskins Gray, and then he also has another employee
- 6:26Speaker 1: and those two are also trainers too. So I think
- 6:29Speaker 1: what he does is he can sell the pitch that
- 6:31Speaker 1: you're training with an Olympic trainer, right, But then I'm
- 6:34Speaker 1: sure you know the majority of the time you're training
- 6:37Speaker 1: with people that are kind of below him.
- 6:40Speaker 2: So that's sort of like a lawyer right there on
- 6:43Speaker 2: the billboard and you call them and then they have
- 6:46Speaker 2: people at work for them.
- 6:47Speaker 1: Sweet James. Yeah, Like, if you ever called Sweet James,
- 6:49Speaker 1: he's not going to pick up the phone. No, he's
- 6:51Speaker 1: not going to answer be like hello.
- 6:52Speaker 3: Probably not, But that doesn't discredit the firm. Now, if
- 6:56Speaker 3: he's successful, and it's his integrity that he's now passing
- 7:00Speaker 3: on to other people. So if this trainer is now,
- 7:04Speaker 3: you know, guiding these mentees, I don't know if they
- 7:07Speaker 3: are or whatever right on how to train, and it's
- 7:10Speaker 3: kind of through him, then it's the same thing.
- 7:13Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 7:22Speaker 1: So Lauren and Michael's employee and his girlfriend at the time,
- 7:27Speaker 1: Mary Haskins Gray, do not get along. So Lauren doesn't
- 7:30Speaker 1: get along with Michael's girlfriend, which causes even more attention.
- 7:35Speaker 2: Which also says something right, Well.
- 7:37Speaker 1: I just I think as far as I'm concerned, I'll
- 7:39Speaker 1: tell you since as soon as she opened her mouth,
- 7:43Speaker 1: I don't think she gets along with anyone. So then
- 7:47Speaker 1: Lauren begins posting frequently on social media about Michael and
- 7:51Speaker 1: his staff. It's they show. I mean they show at
- 7:55Speaker 1: the end kind of in the trial. There were thousands
- 7:58Speaker 1: and thousands of pages of her posts. This isn't like
- 8:00Speaker 1: she just just degrading him, talking badly about him, talking
- 8:05Speaker 1: about going to war with him. I mean, she's insane.
- 8:09Speaker 2: She's crazy with her trainer.
- 8:11Speaker 1: Yes, with her trainer, so I don't know she used.
- 8:14Speaker 2: Then she continues to use her trainer.
- 8:17Speaker 1: Yes, This is the part that makes no sense to me.
- 8:18Speaker 1: So I don't know the exact timeline, but it seems
- 8:21Speaker 1: like pretty early on in this, in this contract, or
- 8:23Speaker 1: however long she's going to be there, she starts getting
- 8:26Speaker 1: really irritated. There was also some tension with a horse
- 8:29Speaker 1: because Michael Barrisone had a very very expensive horse, like
- 8:33Speaker 1: a Grand Prix horse that he rode in the Olympics.
- 8:36Speaker 1: So you're talking about I don't know what the horse
- 8:37Speaker 1: is worth, but I mean.
- 8:38Speaker 2: A lot of money.
- 8:40Speaker 1: I guess he allowed Lauren to ride the horse one
- 8:43Speaker 1: time or something during a lesson, and then she was
- 8:46Speaker 1: like then she was like, this horse is mine, this
- 8:48Speaker 1: horse should be mine, and right, and then there's like
- 8:53Speaker 1: some stalking as far as the horse is concerned. He
- 8:56Speaker 1: he talks about how she would ride the horse when
- 8:58Speaker 1: she wasn't allowed to ride the horse, and I felt like,
- 9:01Speaker 1: not only what the girlfriend was their attention, but there
- 9:03Speaker 1: was tension building with this very expensive Grand Prix horse
- 9:06Speaker 1: that she's.
- 9:07Speaker 2: With anyone at this place.
- 9:08Speaker 1: No, that's what I'm saying. I'm telling you I was
- 9:10Speaker 1: not wrong. And my initial my initial thoughts and perception
- 9:15Speaker 1: of her as soon as she started talking.
- 9:17Speaker 2: Yeah, how many people we think say that when they
- 9:18Speaker 2: watch your confessionals.
- 9:19Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know.
- 9:22Speaker 2: The second I saw her, I knew.
- 9:25Speaker 1: Thank you for the support. So Lauren begins posting frequently
- 9:29Speaker 1: on social media about Michael and his staff. A July
- 9:32Speaker 1: twenty fifth, twenty nineteen posts stated it's about time to
- 9:36Speaker 1: possibly go to war. Anyone who repeatedly kicks a resting
- 9:40Speaker 1: beast will eventually wake her up.
- 9:42Speaker 2: She's the beast she's the beast.
- 9:43Speaker 1: Another post from Lauren stated, I am not responsible for
- 9:46Speaker 1: anything my other personalities do when I am threatened. I'm
- 9:49Speaker 1: telling you this is just a small sample.
- 9:52Speaker 3: That's interesting. That's an interesting defense. Yeah, that was not me,
- 9:55Speaker 3: your honor, that was my other personality. You don't have
- 9:59Speaker 3: jurisdiction over him.
- 10:00Speaker 1: Michael claims that her posts on social media were threatening
- 10:04Speaker 1: and contributed to stress and fear. So then we get
- 10:08Speaker 1: to about mid twenty nineteen. First of all, how awkward
- 10:11Speaker 1: is this. She lives at his property on site and
- 10:15Speaker 1: she's training, but while she's training, she's posting, Yeah, defamatory,
- 10:23Speaker 1: threatening type of posts about everyone at this barn.
- 10:27Speaker 3: It's like all this time at night when you're in
- 10:29Speaker 3: bed and I'm still upwake and then I get like
- 10:32Speaker 3: little dings of like you know, like you send me
- 10:35Speaker 3: a little cute videos. But he would get dings of
- 10:38Speaker 3: the other person in the other room bashing him, right,
- 10:41Speaker 3: So that's that's all.
- 10:43Speaker 2: That's where it was going.
- 10:43Speaker 1: Okay, I never know when you starts telling personal stories,
- 10:47Speaker 1: I started to get a little nervous.
- 10:49Speaker 2: Well that says something, isn't it.
- 10:51Speaker 1: So now we're to mid twenty nineteen, everything is starting
- 10:54Speaker 1: to escalate. Both parties are accusing each other of harassment
- 10:57Speaker 1: and bullying. Allegedly, Michael is threatening to blackball Lauren from
- 11:02Speaker 1: the sport. I don't know he makes. She claims that
- 11:05Speaker 1: he makes some type of comment about how like he's
- 11:11Speaker 1: been he's, you know, an Olympic writer and he's very well,
- 11:14Speaker 1: you know, within this this society, and that he could you.
- 11:17Speaker 3: Know, probably well probably say look at her Twitter account,
- 11:22Speaker 3: look at all the posts. She says, don't deal with her.
- 11:25Speaker 3: That's probably enough. How long has this relationship been going on, you.
- 11:29Speaker 1: Know, I don't know. They don't give specifics. Well, first
- 11:31Speaker 1: of all, I don't know how long the original contract was.
- 11:33Speaker 1: I don't know what the contract was with.
- 11:34Speaker 2: The dad about until the end whenever this crime occurs.
- 11:37Speaker 1: I believe that she was there about a year, but
- 11:40Speaker 1: there were multiple This is the part I also don't understand,
- 11:43Speaker 1: and we'll get to this a little bit more. But
- 11:45Speaker 1: he ends up calling the police on her multiple times,
- 11:47Speaker 1: and the police keeps saying it's a civil situation, not
- 11:51Speaker 1: a criminal one, basically like you all need to figure
- 11:55Speaker 1: this out yourself.
- 11:56Speaker 2: Yeah, being mean as a civil situation.
- 11:59Speaker 1: So the part that I don't understand is why he
- 12:01Speaker 1: did not just ask give her thirty days notice.
- 12:04Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 12:05Speaker 3: That's why I was gonna say. I wonder if, like
- 12:06Speaker 3: the eviction laws are tough, or maybe he needed the money.
- 12:09Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't I didn't understand that he they allude
- 12:12Speaker 1: later to like his attorneys sending they call it fake.
- 12:17Speaker 3: I mean, you have this crazy lady and you're supposed
- 12:19Speaker 3: to be victor and her horses. Yeah, I mean that
- 12:22Speaker 3: can't be easy.
- 12:24Speaker 1: So Lauren starts to report Michael to Safe Sport, which
- 12:28Speaker 1: is an independent, nonprofit organization created by Congress to prevent emotional, physical,
- 12:33Speaker 1: and sexual abuse in the US Olympic and Paralympic movement.
- 12:37Speaker 1: Police are called multiple times by Michael and the days
- 12:39Speaker 1: leading up to this incident, and they claim there's nothing
- 12:42Speaker 1: that they can do to help him. Lauren also contacts
- 12:45Speaker 1: emergency services at least once. So you've got Michael calling
- 12:49Speaker 1: the police and the police coming, and then you've got
- 12:52Speaker 1: Lauren calling this organization called Safe Sport to.
- 12:55Speaker 2: Call the police force. She's annoying me.
- 12:57Speaker 1: I mean, she's like, well, I think he makes claims
- 12:59Speaker 1: that I didn't understand this part either, But he makes
- 13:02Speaker 1: some claim that at nighttime he kept calling her a
- 13:05Speaker 1: ninja and saying that like at night she was like
- 13:07Speaker 1: up in the trees. And I didn't understand that he
- 13:10Speaker 1: kept saying at nighttime, she's in the trees and she's
- 13:14Speaker 1: a ninja. So I don't know, but she's so nutty
- 13:17Speaker 1: that I thought, maybe weird.
- 13:18Speaker 3: Is that, like he's in his bedrooment out the window
- 13:20Speaker 3: he sees her in a tree.
- 13:22Speaker 1: I don't know. I was like, is that an analogy
- 13:24Speaker 1: to something? Or is she literally dressed like a ninja,
- 13:27Speaker 1: like stalking in.
- 13:28Speaker 2: The tree dressed or not? That's impressive, right.
- 13:32Speaker 1: Well, she also secretly recorded a lot of his conversations
- 13:36Speaker 1: that he was having with his employees within the office
- 13:38Speaker 1: at the barn.
- 13:39Speaker 2: How did she do that?
- 13:40Speaker 1: She slipped some recording device into his office in the
- 13:43Speaker 1: barn and was recording a lot of his conversations.
- 13:46Speaker 3: I think she might be in violation of her rental agreement.
- 13:50Speaker 3: You would think so any civil rights right.
- 13:54Speaker 1: So then in August seventh of two we get to
- 13:57Speaker 1: twenty nineteen, we get to the shooting incident. First of all,
- 14:00Speaker 1: I believe what escalates the shooting incident is so remember
- 14:04Speaker 1: how Lauren called safe Sport and she was like making
- 14:08Speaker 1: accusations against Michael that he was bullying her or whatever.
- 14:11Speaker 1: And then she talks about how when she called safe Sport,
- 14:14Speaker 1: they were asking if there were any miners on the property.
- 14:17Speaker 1: She doesn't say what she said. But when this incident occurs,
- 14:21Speaker 1: the catalyst really is that CPS shows up at the
- 14:24Speaker 1: barn because Michael then she on the property. Yes, because
- 14:29Speaker 1: Michael's girlfriend that works for him, that's another writer and
- 14:32Speaker 1: also a trainer at the barn, has children. They lived
- 14:38Speaker 1: there as well, so obviously that'd right, so exactly, So obviously,
- 14:46Speaker 1: when Lauren is having these conversations with safe Sport, she
- 14:49Speaker 1: says in her interview that they were asking if there
- 14:52Speaker 1: were miners on the property. I doubt that's the way
- 14:54Speaker 1: the conversation went. I'm sure Lauren called and said there's
- 14:59Speaker 1: miners on the property, and who knows what allegations she made. Anyway,
- 15:04Speaker 1: CPS ends up showing up at the barn in order
- 15:08Speaker 1: to interview Mary about the kids. And so CPS goes
- 15:13Speaker 1: into the office with Mary and at this point I
- 15:16Speaker 1: think Michael's like losing his mind with this woman because
- 15:20Speaker 1: now he has he's it's escalated beyond all the social
- 15:25Speaker 1: media bowling at the barn. What should he do?
- 15:29Speaker 2: Kill her?
- 15:33Speaker 3: I was being sarcastic. He clearly should not kill her.
- 15:37Speaker 1: Well, clearly he should not, but it is a crime.
- 15:40Speaker 1: So August seventh of twenty nineteen is the actual shooting incident.
- 15:45Speaker 1: Michael confronts Lauren and Rob at the farmhouse they're staying
- 15:47Speaker 1: at on his property. I remember I told you they're
- 15:49Speaker 1: staying in the farmhouse, but it's a ways from the bar.
- 15:52Speaker 2: We're in New Jersey.
- 15:53Speaker 1: We're at this beautiful training equestrian facility in your wife
- 16:00Speaker 1: to do white swap in Neutrak to this place.
- 16:02Speaker 2: Maybe because you were in a place that's a horse, yes.
- 16:05Speaker 1: But it was not a training facility, a questrian training facility.
- 16:10Speaker 2: There was one horses.
- 16:11Speaker 1: No, there was a horse in the backyard, and some
- 16:13Speaker 1: pigs and no one pig, and a lot of chickens
- 16:17Speaker 1: and a lot and some goats.
- 16:19Speaker 2: And drive him crazy.
- 16:21Speaker 1: Well, he didn't shoot me while I was there. I
- 16:25Speaker 1: was only there a week, so there was no incidents.
- 16:27Speaker 1: But I don't know if I could if I stayed
- 16:29Speaker 1: a full year, I don't know. You probably it probably
- 16:31Speaker 1: would have been an incident.
- 16:32Speaker 2: A different story.
- 16:35Speaker 1: So Michael confronts Lauren and Rob at the farmhouse, and
- 16:38Speaker 1: remember what his state of mind is. CPS has shown up.
- 16:41Speaker 1: There's allegations of some type of something. He's been dealing
- 16:46Speaker 1: with this woman. She's been posting NonStop on social media.
- 16:50Speaker 1: He's armed with a nine millimeter handgun that belonged to
- 16:53Speaker 1: a friend of his who was visiting at the time.
- 16:55Speaker 1: There was another woman there I believe her name.
- 16:57Speaker 2: Was Ruth, and she was a writer. She a visitor.
- 17:00Speaker 1: Well here he says during his interview that he knew
- 17:03Speaker 1: Ruth always had a nine millimeter handgun. And he says
- 17:07Speaker 1: that he asks.
- 17:07Speaker 2: Ruth, do you have that nine mill for writing lessons?
- 17:10Speaker 1: And has her Yeah, she brings her nine holding gun,
- 17:13Speaker 1: has a pink gun. Also, this is trissage. She writes
- 17:17Speaker 1: trissage at this bar. And her name's Ruth, who's a
- 17:18Speaker 1: older lady. He claims in the interview that he knew
- 17:22Speaker 1: Ruth has a nine millimeter that she always carries on
- 17:24Speaker 1: her And he said, do you have your gun and
- 17:26Speaker 1: she said yes, I guess she always keeps it in
- 17:27Speaker 1: her car. And he said, no, don't keep it in
- 17:30Speaker 1: your car. You need to put it in the safe
- 17:31Speaker 1: in his office.
- 17:32Speaker 2: Yeah, you need to let me hold it.
- 17:34Speaker 1: Yeah, So she takes the gun out of her car
- 17:36Speaker 1: puts it in his safe in his office. So, I
- 17:40Speaker 1: don't know what you want to do with that fact,
- 17:42Speaker 1: if that's premeditation, whatever you want to think.
- 17:44Speaker 2: Of course it is.
- 17:45Speaker 3: Maybe how long has she been going there with her
- 17:48Speaker 3: pink gun? And he never once said put it in
- 17:50Speaker 3: the safe.
- 17:51Speaker 1: Right, but this time he asked her to put it
- 17:53Speaker 1: in the safe. So that's the gun that he uses.
- 17:55Speaker 1: So he's armed with a nine millimeter handgun that belonged
- 17:58Speaker 1: to his friend. Lauren Canterac is shot twice in the chest.
- 18:03Speaker 1: Her boyfriend Rob is shot once, so he shoots both
- 18:06Speaker 1: of them. He shoots her twice in the chest and Rob.
- 18:09Speaker 1: Despite her injuries, Lauren manages to call nine one one.
- 18:14Speaker 1: Police arrive and find Lauren critically injured on the ground
- 18:18Speaker 1: and Rob is actually on top. I don't know. He
- 18:22Speaker 1: must have shot Rob somewhere. That didn't do much because
- 18:25Speaker 1: Rob is the one that's restraining him. He actually manages
- 18:29Speaker 1: struggle with him, get him down to the ground. He's
- 18:31Speaker 1: like laying on top of him, and then the gun
- 18:33Speaker 1: is laying.
- 18:34Speaker 3: Near Michael wrestling match, and then she goes and calls
- 18:38Speaker 3: nine one one.
- 18:38Speaker 1: Well, she's laying on the ground, so she must have
- 18:40Speaker 1: just had her phone. Yeah, she rob the boyfriend and
- 18:45Speaker 1: manages to get on top of Michael and wrestle him
- 18:51Speaker 1: down and hold him down, pin him down. And then
- 18:53Speaker 1: the gun's laying on the ground.
- 18:54Speaker 2: The pink gun.
- 18:55Speaker 1: The pink gun. Yes. So police arrive and find Lauren
- 18:58Speaker 1: critically injured on the ground, rob restraining Michael barrisone and
- 19:01Speaker 1: the gun is laying near Michael's hand. August of twenty nineteen,
- 19:07Speaker 1: We're still here. Lauren is rushed to the hospital and
- 19:09Speaker 1: undergoes emergency surgery. She remains in critical condition and is
- 19:13Speaker 1: placed in a coma for four days. She ends up
- 19:16Speaker 1: surviving the shooting, even though she was shot in the chest.
- 19:20Speaker 1: That's pretty amazing to get shot in the chest. I
- 19:22Speaker 1: don't know how far away he was when he shot her.
- 19:24Speaker 1: I don't know if he was six feet back or
- 19:27Speaker 1: three feet back, or you know, like point blank, like
- 19:30Speaker 1: right up to her. I don't know the details of that.
- 19:33Speaker 1: I feel like they didn't really go into that, but
- 19:35Speaker 1: they do show a body cam footage of when the
- 19:38Speaker 1: police arrived.
- 19:39Speaker 2: And as it look like when they arrived.
- 19:42Speaker 1: Well when they arrived, they kind of pull him over
- 19:45Speaker 1: to the side and he's just kind of sitting on
- 19:47Speaker 1: the ground, and you know, he's all disheveled. And it
- 19:50Speaker 1: showed her just in the hospital with tubes and everything.
- 19:54Speaker 2: And so did she go back to posting once she
- 19:56Speaker 2: woke up?
- 19:57Speaker 1: Yeah, she probably probably did, so sit I had a.
- 20:02Speaker 2: Post about you thought I was crazy? It's him.
- 20:06Speaker 1: So we're still in August of twenty nineteen, and Michael
- 20:10Speaker 1: is arrested the day after the shooting. He is charged
- 20:13Speaker 1: with two counts of first degree attempted murder and weapons related.
- 20:18Speaker 2: Charges, namely handling a pink gun.
- 20:21Speaker 1: Handling a pink gun. Michael remains in jail for over
- 20:26Speaker 1: two years while he awaits trial.
- 20:28Speaker 2: Dude, that sucks.
- 20:29Speaker 1: This is twenty nineteen.
- 20:32Speaker 3: She drove him so crazy and he made the wrong choice.
- 20:35Speaker 3: I'm not defending that at all, that she drove him
- 20:37Speaker 3: so crazy and he put up with it and then
- 20:39Speaker 3: he just lost it and now his whole life has
- 20:44Speaker 3: pivoted for the worst. I mean, that guy's never gonna
- 20:49Speaker 3: be Olympics again.
- 20:50Speaker 2: For one.
- 20:51Speaker 3: I mean, not really, but I mean he's never gonna
- 20:53Speaker 3: be able to participate in it in any way. I mean,
- 20:56Speaker 3: his whole life has changed because ladies see what women
- 20:59Speaker 3: can do.
- 21:01Speaker 2: They can.
- 21:04Speaker 3: Literally Yeah, I mean I in no way am I
- 21:06Speaker 3: defending his actions, but he had so many choices kick
- 21:11Speaker 3: her out, cut her off.
- 21:13Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I do not shoot.
- 21:15Speaker 1: Her shooter, you know, I do, remember, I do believe.
- 21:18Speaker 1: In her interviews, she did say that the reason why
- 21:21Speaker 1: she was not leaving the property was because she had
- 21:23Speaker 1: three horses there, and that he had done that. Michael
- 21:28Speaker 1: had contacted other equestrian barns or other people within the
- 21:33Speaker 1: industry and blacklisted her so that there wasn't anywhere she
- 21:36Speaker 1: could take her horse.
- 21:37Speaker 2: I was dumb of him because he was stuck with her.
- 21:39Speaker 1: Well, I don't know if I believe that if.
- 21:42Speaker 2: He had done that, that would have been Actually, that's
- 21:44Speaker 2: so stupid. He wouldn't have done that. He would have
- 21:46Speaker 2: sold this lady. He would have been like, oh she's great, yeah,
- 21:49Speaker 2: right in a month, take her right.
- 21:51Speaker 1: So, I don't know if I believe that. I believe
- 21:53Speaker 1: that was an excuse that she used as to why
- 21:56Speaker 1: she wasn't.
- 21:56Speaker 3: Almost like he bullied her, right like that he wanted
- 21:59Speaker 3: me he and he's trapping me and he's bullying me.
- 22:02Speaker 1: Well, I think she enjoyed driving this man to just
- 22:06Speaker 1: the point of insanity, and she knew she did, and
- 22:08Speaker 1: she knew she was doing it. Well, I think she
- 22:11Speaker 1: is very entitled. Like we talked about earlier, I think
- 22:14Speaker 1: that she wanted to be there. I think she felt
- 22:16Speaker 1: like she needed and her horses were, you know, spectacular,
- 22:22Speaker 1: and she was going to be an Olympic rider and
- 22:24Speaker 1: this is the way she was going to do it,
- 22:25Speaker 1: and she was going to bully her way through it.
- 22:28Speaker 1: And she didn't want to leave because I'm telling you,
- 22:30Speaker 1: if that was me and I had three horses, I
- 22:31Speaker 1: would figure out what to do with my horses. I
- 22:33Speaker 1: would You could figure it out. And she has a
- 22:35Speaker 1: dad who's monetarily supporting her lifestyle in her goal.
- 22:39Speaker 2: She stayed for a reason, right.
- 22:41Speaker 1: Because I think she enjoyed bullying him. I think she
- 22:44Speaker 1: took joy out of driving this man too of insanity.
- 22:51Speaker 2: Well, you don't know the JP Morgan case, do you?
- 22:53Speaker 1: No?
- 22:53Speaker 2: You don't know that JP Morgan lady.
- 22:55Speaker 1: No.
- 22:55Speaker 3: Last week she uh, well, she had a like an
- 23:00Speaker 3: assistant of some kind.
- 23:00Speaker 2: I don't know his title.
- 23:02Speaker 3: I think she was pretty high up and she had
- 23:04Speaker 3: a male assistant, and he's alleged that she's been harassing him,
- 23:10Speaker 3: abusing him in the workplace, like.
- 23:12Speaker 2: Sexually or just but yes, yeah, like very much.
- 23:16Speaker 3: Like these detailed accounts of what she's doing to him
- 23:20Speaker 3: and the comments she makes to him. You read it
- 23:23Speaker 3: and you're just like jaw dropping. So and then it
- 23:26Speaker 3: turned out it was fake.
- 23:28Speaker 2: He made it all up.
- 23:29Speaker 3: Well, at least that's the story that's going around now. Yeah,
- 23:31Speaker 3: and he's there's because I think the texts and things
- 23:33Speaker 3: have been uncovered to show that it's faked. And he's
- 23:36Speaker 3: been trying to harass do it to other people anyway,
- 23:39Speaker 3: but this one was real. Yes, this is a lady
- 23:43Speaker 3: that really did harass him. Yes, absolutely, because it's unusual
- 23:48Speaker 3: for this one. It'd be more likely that he would
- 23:52Speaker 3: be dominant, exercising dominance over her right and bullying her
- 23:57Speaker 3: and pushing her around, right, and being the one in
- 24:01Speaker 3: control because one, he's the trainer also.
- 24:04Speaker 1: And he's an Olympic trainer and it's his property right.
- 24:14Speaker 1: So the trial lasts approximately three weeks. Michael hires. He
- 24:19Speaker 1: doesn't go with the public defender. He hires a very
- 24:22Speaker 1: well known, expensive defense.
- 24:24Speaker 2: Attorney, again showing the father had money.
- 24:27Speaker 1: No, I'm talking about Michael.
- 24:28Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, that's right.
- 24:29Speaker 1: His name is Michael.
- 24:30Speaker 2: He's good. Good for Michael, Yes, good for Michael.
- 24:33Speaker 1: Michael claims he does not remember the shooting, and his
- 24:36Speaker 1: defense argues that he was temporarily insane at the time
- 24:39Speaker 1: of the incident. So that's what the defense goes with.
- 24:42Speaker 1: They're going with he probably was. They're going with insanity.
- 24:45Speaker 1: And I don't remember what this drove him. I don't
- 24:48Speaker 1: remember what the statistic was. I think they said it
- 24:50Speaker 1: during the documentary, but something like less than one percent
- 24:55Speaker 1: of cases actually end up where that works like the
- 24:59Speaker 1: like the the defense of insanity is actually I've talked
- 25:04Speaker 1: about this sport the Battered Woman syndrome.
- 25:06Speaker 3: It was the Burning House, the Burning Bed with Farafaucet.
- 25:11Speaker 3: You don't remember that movie, No, it's like straight to
- 25:13Speaker 3: TV movie. Yeah, pharafacet based on a true story though,
- 25:17Speaker 3: that she was living with an abusive male. I don't
- 25:20Speaker 3: remember if it was the father of her children or not,
- 25:22Speaker 3: but she had several children and he was so abusive
- 25:25Speaker 3: towards her she couldn't get out of the situation right,
- 25:27Speaker 3: because he would kill her and he would trap her
- 25:29Speaker 3: and all these things that she waited for him to
- 25:32Speaker 3: come home drunk, and then she poured and he passed
- 25:35Speaker 3: out in bed, and then she poured gasoline all around
- 25:38Speaker 3: him and set it on fire and grabbed the children
- 25:41Speaker 3: and left, and then she she was the I believe,
- 25:44Speaker 3: the first case where it was battered Windham syndrome defense
- 25:48Speaker 3: battered woman just yeah, syndrome defense, where it's it's the
- 25:52Speaker 3: only way out. The only way for me to survive
- 25:55Speaker 3: with my children was to kill him, like that was
- 25:57Speaker 3: my only hope for survival.
- 25:59Speaker 1: So what was the outcome?
- 26:01Speaker 2: What was success for her? And I don't remember. I
- 26:03Speaker 2: know it's evolved since then.
- 26:06Speaker 1: She must have had well established documentation.
- 26:09Speaker 3: Of all of these, I think, so yeah, I mean
- 26:11Speaker 3: I have to go back and relive the story and watch.
- 26:14Speaker 1: It in all But okay, so that's his defense is temporary.
- 26:16Speaker 2: Inside far of faucet.
- 26:17Speaker 1: Okay, back to Michael barrisone. He is now on trial
- 26:22Speaker 1: and the defense is claiming temporary insanity. At the time
- 26:26Speaker 1: of the incident, it sounded like that temporary Well, it's
- 26:29Speaker 1: basically the argument that he's not normally inside.
- 26:32Speaker 3: Now it's like, I'm insane during this moment, so they'll
- 26:36Speaker 3: hold me accountable.
- 26:37Speaker 2: But I'm fine. Now, well he wasn't.
- 26:39Speaker 1: Here's the thing, and this is I really honestly didn't
- 26:41Speaker 1: understand this part. So if anyone has any further information
- 26:45Speaker 1: or any other thoughts on this, let me know, because
- 26:48Speaker 1: I'm on what. So he pleads temporary insanity. They show
- 26:53Speaker 1: the court, they show the trial. He shows up at
- 26:58Speaker 1: the trial looking like a dranged lunatic. I don't know
- 27:02Speaker 1: if his defense attorney told yeah.
- 27:04Speaker 2: Yeah he did. Isn't that what they do?
- 27:06Speaker 3: Like They're like, oh, like if it's a female killer, right,
- 27:09Speaker 3: They're like, put your put these reading glasses on, put
- 27:12Speaker 3: your hair in a bun. Right, we're a little you know,
- 27:15Speaker 3: collared shirt and button it all the way up, right.
- 27:17Speaker 2: So they told him, look like a look like you're insane.
- 27:20Speaker 1: Okay. So but the thing is the defense is temporary insanity.
- 27:24Speaker 2: That's why I don't like it.
- 27:25Speaker 1: So it's temporary insanity, meaning that he was only insane
- 27:28Speaker 1: in that moment that she drove him to insanity, and
- 27:32Speaker 1: of course he was insane, he's not responsible for his
- 27:34Speaker 1: actions because he was temporarily insane. When he shot her. Then,
- 27:39Speaker 1: you know, two years later, because he's in jail, right,
- 27:42Speaker 1: he's waiting.
- 27:42Speaker 2: His trial, still looks insane.
- 27:45Speaker 1: Yeah, so I'm saying, two years later he shows up
- 27:47Speaker 1: for trial and he looks like a deranged lunatic.
- 27:50Speaker 3: Well, because if he was in a three piece suit
- 27:52Speaker 3: and all clean cut, it wouldn't have worked.
- 27:54Speaker 1: Okay, So he let me just tell you what he
- 27:55Speaker 1: looks like. So he shows up in court. His hair
- 27:59Speaker 1: is long and disheveled, his eyes are like wide open,
- 28:04Speaker 1: and he's like shaking. He's you know, and he like
- 28:09Speaker 1: looks like he doesn't know where he is, and his
- 28:10Speaker 1: like shirts kind of disheveled. And this is what he
- 28:12Speaker 1: looks like the entire time. Like it was very theatrically.
- 28:16Speaker 1: It was very theatrical.
- 28:17Speaker 2: What she look like?
- 28:18Speaker 1: She looks like the same entitled what.
- 28:21Speaker 2: Does she look like? Normally?
- 28:23Speaker 1: Well, are you asking me if she's a true I'm asking.
- 28:25Speaker 3: You to judge her, yes, judge her appearance or describe
- 28:28Speaker 3: her appearance.
- 28:29Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, she's young. I don't know
- 28:32Speaker 1: how old she she looks like she's probably in her thirties,
- 28:34Speaker 1: and she's blonde. And I would say she's.
- 28:36Speaker 2: Okay, she's yeah, there's nothing unique about it.
- 28:39Speaker 1: It's hard for me because her personality is so horrific.
- 28:42Speaker 1: It's hard for me to get past that, to get
- 28:44Speaker 1: past that. Yes, all right, So Michael appears to be
- 28:47Speaker 1: mentally unstable at the time of his trial.
- 28:49Speaker 3: How do you look when he wasn't temporarily insane? I mean,
- 28:52Speaker 3: did he look like a put together man? Okay, well
- 28:54Speaker 3: in the doses, so in.
- 28:56Speaker 1: The documentary they're interviewing him, and he looks he's a
- 29:00Speaker 1: he's a handsome man.
- 29:01Speaker 2: He's put together together. He has a button down on it, intelligent.
- 29:04Speaker 1: Yeah, he speaks well, he's you know, his hair's nice,
- 29:08Speaker 1: he has a nice outfit on. He looks not insane
- 29:13Speaker 1: at least not. No, he's temporarily insane. Apparently the temporary
- 29:18Speaker 1: insanity only lasted for the shooting and then the trial.
- 29:22Speaker 2: I'm afraid you're going to learn from this.
- 29:24Speaker 3: You're just going to plead temporary insanity like every day.
- 29:27Speaker 1: Yeah, So Michael appears to be mentally unstable at the
- 29:30Speaker 1: time of his trial. Many people believe it was an
- 29:32Speaker 1: elaborate performance. You know, obviously his defense attorney. I mean,
- 29:36Speaker 1: he has a very expensive high power defense attorney. I
- 29:40Speaker 1: would assume it was at his direction that he said, Look,
- 29:42Speaker 1: if we're going for a temporary insanity and we want
- 29:45Speaker 1: the jury to buy that you are temporarily insane, you
- 29:49Speaker 1: need to look insane in court, like for the jury
- 29:52Speaker 1: to buy it, they have to look at you and
- 29:55Speaker 1: think you're nuts. And so he shows up to court
- 29:58Speaker 1: and he looks he looks nuts.
- 30:00Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I overdid it though it.
- 30:02Speaker 1: Sounds like I thought it looked strange. But then I
- 30:06Speaker 1: also understand. I understand that if he did show up
- 30:11Speaker 1: looking well put together, with like you said, an expensive
- 30:14Speaker 1: suit and his hair cut, looking like a normal a
- 30:18Speaker 1: normal guy, you know, a well kept, well dressed man's,
- 30:23Speaker 1: then it's hard for the jury to picture him as insane.
- 30:28Speaker 1: So he gave them the visual that they needed. So
- 30:32Speaker 1: the prosecution centered on the argument that Michael was sane, deliberate,
- 30:36Speaker 1: and acting with clear intent to kill. Again, I'm sure
- 30:39Speaker 1: you know. We talked about the gun. We talked about
- 30:41Speaker 1: how he asked Ruth to take the gun out of
- 30:42Speaker 1: the car and put it in the safe. He knew
- 30:44Speaker 1: where the gun was, he got the gun. He also
- 30:47Speaker 1: it was along like I said, from where the gun
- 30:49Speaker 1: was at the barn and a right, there's a lot
- 30:52Speaker 1: of time. There's a cooling off period. Right, that's a
- 30:55Speaker 1: time for you to have a gun in hand and
- 30:57Speaker 1: then travel to where she is located. And at no
- 31:00Speaker 1: point in time did he say, you know what, I
- 31:04Speaker 1: probably shouldn't shoot this woman. This isn't the way to
- 31:07Speaker 1: solve it. But he didn't. Twenty twenty two, the verdict
- 31:11Speaker 1: comes out. The jury deliberates for four days.
- 31:14Speaker 2: Wait, how long is he in jail now this whole time.
- 31:17Speaker 1: Well, he was in jail. It was two years, over
- 31:19Speaker 1: two years, so they.
- 31:20Speaker 2: Didn't release him. He didn't get out on bail or anything.
- 31:23Speaker 1: No, he was in jail for over two years awaiting trial,
- 31:26Speaker 1: so he was never released on bail.
- 31:28Speaker 2: Oh, well, then maybe he did look like that because
- 31:30Speaker 2: he was in jail for two years.
- 31:31Speaker 1: Well he wasn't jail for two all. I know.
- 31:33Speaker 2: What I'm saying. Maybe, yeah, but you're saying is insanity.
- 31:36Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I guess jail could do that to you.
- 31:39Speaker 3: If I was in jail, I probably my hair would
- 31:41Speaker 3: probably be a mess, Yeah, because.
- 31:43Speaker 1: You wouldn't get your big gulps and you're you're in
- 31:47Speaker 1: and out, so you would be a mess.
- 31:48Speaker 3: I wouldn't have you telling me you need a haircut
- 31:50Speaker 3: right every day exactly.
- 31:53Speaker 1: The jury deliberates for four days and Michael is found
- 31:56Speaker 1: not guilty by reason of insanity.
- 31:59Speaker 3: Wow, that that verdict is insane, right, horror.
- 32:05Speaker 1: Here's here's what the I play work. Yeah, here's the thing. Yeah,
- 32:10Speaker 1: I no matter what my disdain is for Lauren, the
- 32:14Speaker 1: jury got it wrong. You cannot well.
- 32:18Speaker 3: Yeah, so he has no punishment of any kind. He
- 32:22Speaker 3: is Scott free.
- 32:23Speaker 1: Well, because he's found not guilty by reason of insanity.
- 32:27Speaker 1: Michael is committed to a psychiatric hospital immediately after the verdict. However,
- 32:31Speaker 1: he remained under psychiatric care for one year before being
- 32:35Speaker 1: deemed mentally stable and released back into the pologic So
- 32:39Speaker 1: in November of twenty twenty three, he was released from
- 32:42Speaker 1: the psychiatric hospitalities back to his regular life.
- 32:46Speaker 3: He'll never have a regular life, Yeah, I mean would
- 32:49Speaker 3: you would you want to train with him?
- 32:51Speaker 1: No?
- 32:51Speaker 2: Because you might say the wrong thing, right, and then
- 32:54Speaker 2: he will well shoot you.
- 32:55Speaker 1: I think a lot of people at the barn and
- 32:57Speaker 1: a lot of people in that equestrian of a Yeah,
- 33:00Speaker 1: because I believe when they showed the trial and they
- 33:02Speaker 1: showed the verdict. There were a lot of people that
- 33:04Speaker 1: were very supportive of him. I think they had known him,
- 33:07Speaker 1: they'd known who he was. I think they really did
- 33:10Speaker 1: believe that she was so awful that she pushed him
- 33:14Speaker 1: to that point that normally would have never happened.
- 33:17Speaker 2: Well, she was doing it online right now.
- 33:19Speaker 1: However, you know, I don't know. I still am under
- 33:24Speaker 1: I'm still under the belief that even though she was
- 33:26Speaker 1: awful and horrible, and I believe she harassed him and
- 33:29Speaker 1: she did terrible things to him, and she was a
- 33:31Speaker 1: bully and she was awful, you can't the jury got
- 33:34Speaker 1: it wrong. I mean he should have been there should
- 33:36Speaker 1: have been some type of punitive something punitive for him.
- 33:40Speaker 1: You cannot. You can't pick up a gun and shoot
- 33:44Speaker 1: someone on you.
- 33:45Speaker 3: You might do it again if you're temporarily insane, which
- 33:48Speaker 3: I don't know how I acgreate that is right. But
- 33:51Speaker 3: let's say someone is temporarily insane, Well, then they can
- 33:56Speaker 3: become insane again and shoot someone again, right, or someone
- 34:00Speaker 3: in the face and they fall down and crack their head.
- 34:03Speaker 1: Right. So on December fifteenth of twenty twenty five, Michael
- 34:06Speaker 1: Barrisone's status and the US Center for Safe Sports database
- 34:10Speaker 1: was updated to permanently ineligible because of sexual harassment, emotional misconduct,
- 34:16Speaker 1: and violating the US Equestrian Federation policies and bylaws. Lauren
- 34:22Speaker 1: Cannarak continues riding horses and remains involved in the sport.
- 34:26Speaker 1: She also is still in a relationship with Rob Goodwin.
- 34:29Speaker 1: So Michael Barrison's no longer eligible to participate in the Olympics.
- 34:35Speaker 1: He can't ride in the Olympics anymore.
- 34:36Speaker 3: That's an Olympic thing, right, right, Wait a minute. Does
- 34:39Speaker 3: he have a clean record?
- 34:40Speaker 2: Then?
- 34:41Speaker 3: No, he has something on his record, right to miss
- 34:43Speaker 3: that part. No, he doesn't, not even the handling of
- 34:47Speaker 3: firearms or nothing.
- 34:49Speaker 2: He had no felonies of any kind on his record.
- 34:53Speaker 1: Now, the only thing was that he was that they
- 34:56Speaker 1: talked about was that he was found not guilty by
- 34:58Speaker 1: reason of insanity. So he was found not guilty for all.
- 35:01Speaker 3: Okay, Well, my question is what did they base banning
- 35:05Speaker 3: him from the Olympics on it? Because it might be like, oh,
- 35:07Speaker 3: you have a felony, and anyone if a violent felony
- 35:09Speaker 3: camp be on you know, like that, But in this case,
- 35:11Speaker 3: what is it?
- 35:12Speaker 1: After the trial, what happened was there were two other
- 35:15Speaker 1: miners like females that came forward and said that he
- 35:17Speaker 1: had sexually harassed them, and he ends up banned from
- 35:20Speaker 1: the sport because of that. But I think there was
- 35:22Speaker 1: a lot.
- 35:22Speaker 3: Of people but highlighted because he was in the media
- 35:26Speaker 3: and stuff that made those those girls come out.
- 35:28Speaker 1: Well, A lot of people think it was at the
- 35:29Speaker 1: direction of Lauren too, that she possibly was that as well,
- 35:33Speaker 1: because I think there were a lot of people in
- 35:35Speaker 1: the industry and the equestrian world that knew him and
- 35:37Speaker 1: knew him for many years that thought that that was
- 35:40Speaker 1: never something that he would have done, and it seemed
- 35:43Speaker 1: I don't know, it's suspect right that all the.
- 35:44Speaker 3: Same she might have she might have glorified something, right,
- 35:47Speaker 3: they said, oh, yeah, he he did asked me on
- 35:50Speaker 3: a date once, and then she just pushed it in
- 35:52Speaker 3: that direction and got report it right.
- 35:54Speaker 1: So that's I assume that. I'm sure he's appealing that decision.
- 35:58Speaker 1: I'm sure there's some type of appeals process, So I
- 36:02Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know how I feel about it.
- 36:04Speaker 1: I feel like, on one hand, I'm I'm sad for
- 36:07Speaker 1: this man because I think she just harassed him.
- 36:10Speaker 3: To know aw, it's sad for someone doesn't mean what
- 36:12Speaker 3: they did was right. She'll say right, I do.
- 36:14Speaker 1: I feel badly for him. I feel badly that he's
- 36:17Speaker 1: banned from the sport that he is the top end.
- 36:23Speaker 1: I feel horrible that he had to endure this woman
- 36:26Speaker 1: and her her her bullying and harassment and all the
- 36:30Speaker 1: things she did and all the things she posted, you know,
- 36:32Speaker 1: And as someone that's in the public eye, you know,
- 36:36Speaker 1: you couldn't have a thick skin for so long, but
- 36:39Speaker 1: it does get to you. I mean, there's so much
- 36:41Speaker 1: that you can take, and there are times when it's overwhelming,
- 36:45Speaker 1: you know, especially you know you can and Shane says
- 36:48Speaker 1: it to me all the time. You know, what do
- 36:49Speaker 1: you care that Judy and Oklahoma said something you know
- 36:53Speaker 1: nasty about you? But it ends up when there's so
- 36:54Speaker 1: many Judies in Oklahoma, I think.
- 36:57Speaker 3: You know, it's like if a tree falls in the
- 36:59Speaker 3: forest and no one's there to hear, it doesn't make
- 37:01Speaker 3: a sound kind of thing. So it's like, if you
- 37:03Speaker 3: don't read it, it doesn't exist, right, but you insist on reading.
- 37:06Speaker 2: It, so it exists.
- 37:06Speaker 3: I really don't, well, do you know Two weeks ago,
- 37:09Speaker 3: Memory storage Wars I know you've seen that.
- 37:12Speaker 1: I saw someone.
- 37:13Speaker 2: Yeah, I guy Darryl Sheets.
- 37:14Speaker 3: He committed suicide because he had been bullied online for
- 37:18Speaker 3: so long. People were I don't know if people, someone
- 37:21Speaker 3: at least was taking his name, using his identity, claiming
- 37:25Speaker 3: you know, I don't know, like sexual things and whatever.
- 37:29Speaker 3: And a lot of his co workers and colleagues from
- 37:33Speaker 3: the show and elsewhere were saying that he had been
- 37:35Speaker 3: complaining about it for years, that someone's like, you know,
- 37:39Speaker 3: attacking him right directly and indirectly, and it drove him
- 37:43Speaker 3: to the point of, you know.
- 37:45Speaker 2: He shot himself.
- 37:45Speaker 1: That's awful.
- 37:46Speaker 3: I mean a sixty seven. He had two young, relatively
- 37:49Speaker 3: young boys. They weren't minors, but young. He was like
- 37:52Speaker 3: a family Everyone described him as a family man. All
- 37:54Speaker 3: he cared about with his boys and his wife. Like
- 37:56Speaker 3: he didn't really do much more than that. And but
- 38:01Speaker 3: he couldn't take it anymore, even communicating with everyone, and
- 38:04Speaker 3: they probably sympathize with him, and let reminded him that no,
- 38:08Speaker 3: you're legit, like you're okay, like you're loved. This doesn't
- 38:13Speaker 3: define you. I'm sure they said all these things. It
- 38:15Speaker 3: didn't matter.
- 38:16Speaker 2: He took his own life.
- 38:17Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why you have to be really careful. This
- 38:20Speaker 1: is my PSA for this episode. We're going to end it.
- 38:23Speaker 1: But a lot of people out there use social media
- 38:25Speaker 1: as a way to attack people. And at the end
- 38:27Speaker 1: of the day, we're all just humans and moms and
- 38:29Speaker 1: dads and we're all just trying to do the best
- 38:30Speaker 1: we can. And you know, it really is it really
- 38:34Speaker 1: is difficult sometimes when you have a lot of people
- 38:37Speaker 1: attacking you just because they see something on TV.
- 38:40Speaker 2: And it's hard and it's not a license to attack, right.
- 38:43Speaker 2: I know.
- 38:44Speaker 3: I always say you can't judge what you see on
- 38:46Speaker 3: the show, because that's the whole point of the show.
- 38:47Speaker 3: You watch it, you'm an opinion, you agree, disagree, you know,
- 38:51Speaker 3: learn something, you know, whatever it is. But then when
- 38:54Speaker 3: they start going personal, now they're just like, you're a
- 38:56Speaker 3: horrible human being. Right in this case, they Darrel Sheets,
- 38:59Speaker 3: they took his identity and they use it and they
- 39:01Speaker 3: abuse it and they mock him, and it's like it's
- 39:04Speaker 3: not a free for all.
- 39:05Speaker 1: Right, all right, Well, thank you again for the recommendation.
- 39:08Speaker 1: I thought this was a really interesting story. And again,
- 39:11Speaker 1: if you want to watch it, it's on Netflix and
- 39:13Speaker 1: it's called The shooting at Hawthorne Hill. If you have
- 39:16Speaker 1: any thoughts or you know any more information on it,
- 39:18Speaker 1: please DM me. I always like to hear your thoughts
- 39:21Speaker 1: on the cases we talk about. Again, thank you so
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- 39:36Speaker 2: Thank you,