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- 0:00Speaker 1: Good morning Usa yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
- 0:03Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
- 0:04Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo.
- 0:06Speaker 2: Yo yo yo Jess hilarious, Good morning, Charlamagne to God,
- 0:10Speaker 2: Peace to the plane.
- 0:10Speaker 3: It is Tuesday, Good morning. How we feel out there?
- 0:16Speaker 3: I feel blessed, black and holly favored. Happy to be
- 0:18Speaker 3: here another day to starve our beautiful listeners. What's happening?
- 0:21Speaker 2: That's right, it's Tuesday, and my second book, Real Life,
- 0:24Speaker 2: Real Family is out today.
- 0:26Speaker 4: Jame dj and v and Gia Casey.
- 0:31Speaker 5: That's right.
- 0:31Speaker 4: God, the raising Empowered Children.
- 0:34Speaker 2: That is right, and the gear will be joining us
- 0:36Speaker 2: this morning, so we'll get chap it up again. Well,
- 0:37Speaker 2: you guys will get to chap it up with Yah,
- 0:39Speaker 2: that's right. Ask questions all about the book and raising
- 0:42Speaker 2: our six kids. So the first one was a national bestseller.
- 0:45Speaker 2: So hopefully you guys are go out and support if
- 0:48Speaker 2: you thinking about having kids, having kids. It's a it's
- 0:51Speaker 2: a great instruction manual to help you out on your journey.
- 0:54Speaker 2: So hopefully you do pick it up.
- 0:56Speaker 3: And it's just good, you know, to watch people from
- 0:57Speaker 3: different coaches. Minnikan jamaikon just raising.
- 1:01Speaker 6: Because Chris already started reading Envy, but I'm not telling
- 1:04Speaker 6: you you'll you'll read Envy's Reach Charlamaine.
- 1:08Speaker 4: Well, it's more related.
- 1:09Speaker 7: No, it's not.
- 1:10Speaker 8: That's what that's That's what I felt like. I was like, Okay,
- 1:12Speaker 8: I get it.
- 1:13Speaker 2: IX, Yeah, I get it. I'm not Dominican, I'm black,
- 1:18Speaker 2: but anyone, it's a good.
- 1:19Speaker 3: Guy to read because you know you black, Jess, and
- 1:22Speaker 3: Chris is Dominicans, so you know you'll got to figure
- 1:24Speaker 3: it out, like how blended mixed relationship?
- 1:27Speaker 2: Why are you feeling, Jess? Yesterday was your son's birthday?
- 1:29Speaker 2: What you do for your birthday?
- 1:31Speaker 6: I'm officially the mom of a teenager, so that's thirteen
- 1:35Speaker 6: eighteen on the end of the age. Man is a lot, y'all, Ashton,
- 1:38Speaker 6: he had, you know, his home school now, so he
- 1:40Speaker 6: hasn't been able to get around his friends that he
- 1:44Speaker 6: hasn't seen in over a year.
- 1:45Speaker 8: And y'oll, he felt so good seeing him there. We
- 1:48Speaker 8: surprised him and took him to this place.
- 1:49Speaker 6: Called Savazon because he wanted to go to sky Zone
- 1:52Speaker 6: with Skysone stinks and I'm getting pretty tired of the place.
- 1:55Speaker 6: So Xavazon is another It's kind of like it's a
- 1:58Speaker 6: trampoline park, but it's.
- 1:59Speaker 8: They do zip lining, rock climbing.
- 2:02Speaker 9: Uh.
- 2:02Speaker 8: You ever see the not not X games, but you
- 2:05Speaker 8: know when the more Asian kids be one of them competitions.
- 2:07Speaker 5: Games, the ninja games.
- 2:09Speaker 8: Yes, they had like ninja.
- 2:11Speaker 10: Games type of stuff.
- 2:12Speaker 6: So we he spent like almost all day there. And
- 2:14Speaker 6: then he loves steak so we took him to a
- 2:16Speaker 6: steakhouse some and his friends. And now they upstairs in
- 2:18Speaker 6: my house. Brought some kids back with me, so that's good.
- 2:22Speaker 4: It's pretty quiet.
- 2:24Speaker 2: It's pretty quiet because I figured right now they'll be
- 2:26Speaker 2: playing all types of games.
- 2:27Speaker 8: Right, they just went to sleep at five, That sounds
- 2:30Speaker 8: about right. So they went to sleep at a good
- 2:32Speaker 8: time because now you all would hear them right now.
- 2:35Speaker 2: All right, well, let's get the show crack and we
- 2:36Speaker 2: got front page news. Today is Jackie Robinson Day.
- 2:39Speaker 8: Did you know that jockey robbers Jackey?
- 2:42Speaker 2: I said Jackie Robinson, I said jack jack Jackie Robinson
- 2:46Speaker 2: day will break down when.
- 2:47Speaker 4: We come Dominicans.
- 2:50Speaker 2: Yes, Jacky Jackie Robinson, Jackie Robinson, it's the Breakfast Club morning.
- 2:56Speaker 5: Everybody's d j n V.
- 2:59Speaker 2: Just hilarious. Lam I mean the guy we are the
- 3:00Speaker 2: Breakfast Club. Let's get in some front page news.
- 3:04Speaker 11: Now.
- 3:04Speaker 5: Last night was the w NBA Draft.
- 3:06Speaker 2: It took place at the Shed at Hudson Yards in
- 3:08Speaker 2: New York City, and the number one pick was the
- 3:11Speaker 2: Dallas Wings pick Page Buckers from yukon.
- 3:14Speaker 4: Page Buckets dropping the clues bonds with page Buckets.
- 3:18Speaker 5: So congratulations to her. What's up, Morgan, Yeah, that's page Becker.
- 3:22Speaker 10: Shout out to her.
- 3:23Speaker 8: She definitely is, you know, a vibe and you should
- 3:26Speaker 8: definitely get into her story because she is an advocate
- 3:29Speaker 8: for our people. Okay, can you tell me what her
- 3:31Speaker 8: last name is because all three of y'all said are wrong.
- 3:33Speaker 5: Bucker, it's Buckets.
- 3:37Speaker 4: Oh Buckets is her nickname Paige Buckets.
- 3:40Speaker 8: So she definitely do that. She definitely do The last
- 3:42Speaker 8: name is what but okay, so first up on front page. Yeah,
- 3:49Speaker 8: let's get into a little bit of more sports. Major
- 3:51Speaker 8: League Baseball is honoring the legacy of Jackie Robinson. Today
- 3:54Speaker 8: is Jackie Robinson Day, marking the anniversary of the day
- 3:57Speaker 8: that he broke baseball's color barrier.
- 3:59Speaker 12: Now.
- 3:59Speaker 8: Robinson debut with the Brooklyn Dodgers on April fifteenth, nineteen
- 4:02Speaker 8: forty seven.
- 4:03Speaker 10: Look not that long ago, y'all.
- 4:05Speaker 8: To honor the Hall of Famer, all players will wear
- 4:08Speaker 8: his iconic number forty two in Dodger blue. Players, managers, coaches,
- 4:12Speaker 8: and umpires will also wear a special forty two patch
- 4:15Speaker 8: on the side of their baseball caps. And we'll be
- 4:17Speaker 8: established Jackie Robinson Day in two thousand and four. So
- 4:20Speaker 8: shout out to Jackie Robinson.
- 4:22Speaker 3: Don't tell Trump is Jackie Robinson, that he might ask
- 4:25Speaker 3: why and then sign an executive order that no colors
- 4:27Speaker 3: can be recognized.
- 4:28Speaker 4: That's sure.
- 4:28Speaker 10: Oh no, look, Charlotte Magne, speaking of Trump, you was right, okay.
- 4:32Speaker 8: So despite saying he will respect the Supreme Court's decision,
- 4:37Speaker 8: President Trump and the White House is defending its decision
- 4:39Speaker 8: to deport Kilmar Abrego Garcia, a man from Maryland mistakenly
- 4:43Speaker 8: to deported to a prison in El Salvador. Now, speaking
- 4:46Speaker 8: from the Oval Office yesterday with the president of El Salvador,
- 4:49Speaker 8: Trump again said the courts do not dictate American foreign policy.
- 4:53Speaker 8: This comes as Trump met with El Salvador's president, Naive
- 4:56Speaker 8: Boo Kelly at the White House yesterday and said and
- 4:59Speaker 8: Boo Kelly also said he would not return Abrigo Garcia,
- 5:02Speaker 8: adding that they're not too fond of releasing terrorists and
- 5:04Speaker 8: that he's not going to smuggle someone back into the
- 5:06Speaker 8: US now. During their meeting at the White House, President
- 5:09Speaker 8: Trump spoke more about securing the border and their current
- 5:12Speaker 8: relationship between the US and Al Salvador.
- 5:14Speaker 10: Let's take a listen.
- 5:16Speaker 13: But what they've done to us, said the border.
- 5:19Speaker 4: Should never and can never be forgotten.
- 5:22Speaker 13: It's a sin what they did, and you are helping
- 5:25Speaker 13: us out.
- 5:27Speaker 8: So Boo Kelly was He said he was also honored
- 5:29Speaker 8: to be with Trump, adding that what is happening at
- 5:32Speaker 8: the US border in terms of stopping illegal immigration is remarkable,
- 5:35Speaker 8: but let's not forget. The DOJ has admitted that a
- 5:37Speaker 8: Brigo Garcia was not supposed to be sent to Al
- 5:40Speaker 8: Salvador because of an immigration judge's twenty nineteen order barring
- 5:44Speaker 8: him from being sent there now. Attorney General Pam Bondi
- 5:48Speaker 8: said there's evidence that the man is a gang member,
- 5:50Speaker 8: and Homeland Security Advisor Stephen Miller said that the administration
- 5:54Speaker 8: or it's not the administration's job to get him back
- 5:57Speaker 8: to the US.
- 5:57Speaker 10: Let's take a listen to their comments.
- 6:00Speaker 14: He was illegally in our country.
- 6:01Speaker 15: He had been illegally in our country, and in.
- 6:04Speaker 14: Twenty nineteen, two courts, an immigration court and an appellate
- 6:09Speaker 14: immigration court, ruled that he was a member of MS
- 6:12Speaker 14: thirteen and he was illegally in our country.
- 6:16Speaker 16: It's very irrogant, even for American media to suggest that
- 6:19Speaker 16: we would even tell El Salvador how to handle their
- 6:21Speaker 16: own citizens as a starting point.
- 6:23Speaker 13: Is this true?
- 6:24Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know, I'm not Is any of
- 6:25Speaker 4: that true?
- 6:26Speaker 8: Yeah, this is a this is well, this is where
- 6:29Speaker 8: we are right now, you know, as updates come every day.
- 6:33Speaker 8: But as for Abrigo Garcia moving forward, it's my understanding
- 6:36Speaker 8: that right now a Maryland Senator Chris van Holland has
- 6:39Speaker 8: requested a meeting with Bukelly to continue efforts to release
- 6:43Speaker 8: and return him back to the United States. But as
- 6:45Speaker 8: of right now, it seems like we are stalled in
- 6:47Speaker 8: regards to what was he what's happened?
- 6:49Speaker 7: Well?
- 6:50Speaker 4: Was he illegally in the country? Was he a member
- 6:52Speaker 4: of MS thirteen? I don't know.
- 6:54Speaker 8: There's I have not They have not furnished proof that
- 6:57Speaker 8: he is actually a member of MS thirteen. Now he
- 7:01Speaker 8: is a national of El Salvadors, or he is an
- 7:04Speaker 8: Ol Salvador and citizen. But he did have a right
- 7:07Speaker 8: to be here. A judge rule that he had a
- 7:09Speaker 8: right to be in the United States based on the
- 7:12Speaker 8: conditions of what's happening in Al Salvador.
- 7:14Speaker 4: So yeah, and so the Supreme Court, you.
- 7:17Speaker 3: Know, told him to told the administration to bring him
- 7:19Speaker 3: back in the administration to say, SMD, kiss my ass.
- 7:22Speaker 4: Pretty much, pretty much.
- 7:23Speaker 5: Yeah, I hope, I hope.
- 7:25Speaker 3: You all know we are in a post constitutional society then,
- 7:27Speaker 3: and if we're in a world where president can defight
- 7:29Speaker 3: the Supreme Court, then there are no checks and balances
- 7:31Speaker 3: and democracy as we know it is done.
- 7:34Speaker 12: Yeah.
- 7:35Speaker 10: Well, there, there you have it. That's your front page
- 7:37Speaker 10: news for six am. Seven am. We're gonna start with taxes.
- 7:40Speaker 10: Make sure y'all follow yall. Taxes is tax Day? All right?
- 7:42Speaker 2: All right, we'll get into that next next hour. Everybody else,
- 7:45Speaker 2: get it off your chest. Eight hundred five five one
- 7:47Speaker 2: oh five one. If you need to vent phone line
- 7:50Speaker 2: to wide open again, eight hundred five eight five one.
- 7:53Speaker 4: Get it off your chest. It's the Breakfast Club.
- 7:55Speaker 13: Good morning, the Breakfast Club. This is your time to
- 8:02Speaker 13: get it off your chest.
- 8:06Speaker 8: One.
- 8:06Speaker 13: We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.
- 8:10Speaker 7: Hello, who's that good morning? This is James calling from
- 8:13Speaker 7: North Carolina.
- 8:14Speaker 4: What's up, James? Get it off your chest?
- 8:15Speaker 12: Rob?
- 8:16Speaker 7: Yeah, recently I saw that bound pick on nearly with Nelly.
- 8:21Speaker 7: I actually felt kind of bad for them.
- 8:22Speaker 2: Man.
- 8:23Speaker 7: I used to laugh and stuff back in the day
- 8:25Speaker 7: when they first got caught with their lips saying things yep,
- 8:28Speaker 7: but they actually were caught up in the mix. You
- 8:33Speaker 7: know what I'm saying. They were dancers at first. You know,
- 8:36Speaker 7: some producers sees them, levels their look and thinks they
- 8:39Speaker 7: should be a group, and you know, and they wanted
- 8:41Speaker 7: to take singing lessons with vocal lessons and stuff, but
- 8:44Speaker 7: they never gave them the shot.
- 8:46Speaker 4: You know, it's crazy. I never watched that movie That
- 8:47Speaker 4: girl you know is true. I never watched it.
- 8:50Speaker 5: Yeah, it's pretty good here, I never seen it.
- 8:53Speaker 13: Definitely, that's pretty good.
- 8:55Speaker 4: Did you talk about record?
- 8:58Speaker 8: Yeah?
- 8:58Speaker 7: Yeah, this covers all everything. The guys that seen it
- 9:01Speaker 7: and everything.
- 9:01Speaker 12: I didn't know that.
- 9:03Speaker 7: It was a group out of Baltimore called New Marks
- 9:06Speaker 7: that wrote the runing part on that.
- 9:08Speaker 4: Yeah. Kevin Lous from Baltimore too. He wrote, Uh, he
- 9:11Speaker 4: wrote girl, you know, you know shoot.
- 9:12Speaker 7: Yeah, Yeah, that's a trip. Man, that's a trip than you.
- 9:16Speaker 4: James.
- 9:17Speaker 5: Hello, who's this?
- 9:19Speaker 17: It's a game from man from Ohio?
- 9:21Speaker 18: Kin?
- 9:21Speaker 4: What's up getting up on chests?
- 9:22Speaker 17: Bro?
- 9:23Speaker 13: Good morning?
- 9:24Speaker 17: Hey, I'm good morning.
- 9:25Speaker 12: You know.
- 9:25Speaker 7: I'm wondering why do missions exist? What?
- 9:28Speaker 4: Who missic?
- 9:29Speaker 17: Why do midgic mysic?
- 9:32Speaker 7: Why do they exist?
- 9:33Speaker 5: The small people exist? God is creative?
- 9:35Speaker 7: H man.
- 9:36Speaker 17: I'm so scared of them, like I used to used
- 9:39Speaker 17: to be a clan of him, like a little village.
- 9:41Speaker 17: I'm down the street from me and they they traveling.
- 9:44Speaker 3: Packed like a pack of wools, and them people was
- 9:47Speaker 3: not thinking about you right like now you're scared of them?
- 9:50Speaker 4: What do you think you're you?
- 9:52Speaker 10: Ma was dead.
- 9:53Speaker 17: I think I seen a couple of missions high off powder.
- 9:56Speaker 3: God damn, Now I pay to see that. Now, I
- 10:05Speaker 3: say I paid to see them on a little cocaine.
- 10:08Speaker 4: I would.
- 10:11Speaker 8: Do a little line.
- 10:12Speaker 4: It's a little bump.
- 10:13Speaker 17: All off myself. I got a seal midget and man,
- 10:18Speaker 17: if they traveling pack.
- 10:19Speaker 7: Down there there, well you need to go.
- 10:21Speaker 3: You need to go talk to somebody about that, because
- 10:24Speaker 3: they are not bothering nobody.
- 10:26Speaker 17: I'm talking to y'all about it.
- 10:28Speaker 4: Let me askin your.
- 10:28Speaker 3: Question was it the was it the mind? Was the
- 10:31Speaker 3: mind playing tricks on me video? When you saw Bushwick
- 10:33Speaker 3: Bill god Blefft the dead or which was it?
- 10:36Speaker 12: Was it?
- 10:36Speaker 4: Chunky?
- 10:37Speaker 12: Like?
- 10:37Speaker 7: What was it was?
- 10:40Speaker 17: It's like just imagine like a little just running around.
- 10:44Speaker 4: But Chunky is a dog damn.
- 10:48Speaker 12: Thing.
- 10:49Speaker 7: Bro Listen that crazy man.
- 10:52Speaker 10: What man said? Dogs midges the same thing and that.
- 10:57Speaker 7: It is.
- 10:59Speaker 4: It's called it's a Yeah, it's a phobia.
- 11:03Speaker 3: I can't pronounce it, but it's like it starts with
- 11:05Speaker 3: an A and it's the fear of little people are midgets.
- 11:09Speaker 17: Yeah, yeah, I'm definitely of them.
- 11:12Speaker 4: Okay, all right, brother, I have a good make.
- 11:14Speaker 7: Y'all laugh this morning.
- 11:15Speaker 17: Yes, say y'all have a good morning.
- 11:17Speaker 2: All right, get off your chest eight hundred five eight
- 11:19Speaker 2: five one oh five one. If you need to vent,
- 11:22Speaker 2: HiT's up now. It's the Breakfast Club.
- 11:23Speaker 13: Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
- 11:29Speaker 19: Ray right, Ray Yo, Charlamagne, Jasey, what up are we lost?
- 11:33Speaker 13: This is your time to get it off your chest.
- 11:35Speaker 7: I got an indoor pool.
- 11:37Speaker 13: We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.
- 11:39Speaker 20: Get on the phone right now here, tell you what
- 11:41Speaker 20: it is.
- 11:42Speaker 9: We live Hello who's this Orlando?
- 11:46Speaker 4: Tony from Orlando? Whatever, Tony, get it off your chest.
- 11:48Speaker 20: You get tired of Charlemagne always talking about Florida.
- 11:52Speaker 4: Man, New York Man, be on the news.
- 11:55Speaker 3: I'm not from New York. But if you, if you
- 11:57Speaker 3: actually listen, I say, the craziest people in America. We
- 12:00Speaker 3: know we live, yeah, but I say the craziest people
- 12:03Speaker 3: come from the Bronx and all of Florida. You know
- 12:05Speaker 3: the Bronx is in New York, right.
- 12:07Speaker 7: Don't come to New York.
- 12:08Speaker 10: Bro, We see I'm on news that.
- 12:13Speaker 4: Your phone is what I'm talking about.
- 12:15Speaker 7: Now.
- 12:15Speaker 4: Your phone is crazy. You got a Florida phone. It's
- 12:17Speaker 4: a goddamn fool, just like you.
- 12:19Speaker 5: Hello, who's this?
- 12:20Speaker 17: Hi, good morning.
- 12:21Speaker 7: My name's Nurse Live.
- 12:23Speaker 4: Hey, get it off your chest?
- 12:25Speaker 8: Right.
- 12:27Speaker 21: I just want to remind everybody to advocate for themselves
- 12:30Speaker 21: and drink your water, wash your hand.
- 12:33Speaker 20: There's so much stuff that we don't have control over,
- 12:35Speaker 20: but you have control over your personal home.
- 12:37Speaker 4: Oh I like that? Well, thank you, Bama.
- 12:40Speaker 20: No filling people prospered to you.
- 12:42Speaker 4: Guys.
- 12:42Speaker 8: Have a great thing.
- 12:43Speaker 4: You same to you. Hello, who's this?
- 12:46Speaker 7: What's up?
- 12:47Speaker 13: And this is page?
- 12:48Speaker 22: Oh?
- 12:48Speaker 5: I got doing from page Get it off your chest, brother.
- 12:51Speaker 9: Say just the first time talking to you.
- 12:53Speaker 12: What's up, jes what's that baby?
- 12:54Speaker 10: How you doing?
- 12:55Speaker 9: I'm fine, I'm fine.
- 12:56Speaker 7: I'm fine.
- 12:56Speaker 9: Charlomne to go out.
- 12:57Speaker 4: And do a homie peaz king, how you doing? Black man?
- 13:00Speaker 7: Brother?
- 13:00Speaker 20: Hey?
- 13:00Speaker 9: First off, real quick, I was just wanting to talk
- 13:02Speaker 9: about that deportation thing. Y'all make it at once. Stided,
- 13:05Speaker 9: it's not that the US didn't okay the boy to
- 13:08Speaker 9: come back. They okayed him to come back outside.
- 13:10Speaker 7: Of the door.
- 13:10Speaker 9: That dude that was with the president, he said, he's.
- 13:13Speaker 7: Not releasing them.
- 13:13Speaker 9: He was like, if there was any indication that he
- 13:16Speaker 9: was in a gang or whatever the case. He's like,
- 13:17Speaker 9: I'm not gonna let him potentially let him back out
- 13:19Speaker 9: of the street and send him back to the US.
- 13:21Speaker 9: It was like disrespectful for them. But he was like,
- 13:23Speaker 9: he ain't even thinking about lett him out.
- 13:25Speaker 7: So it's not on us.
- 13:26Speaker 9: We were supposed to provide him with a plane the
- 13:28Speaker 9: same way we shifted his ass over there to bring
- 13:30Speaker 9: him back, and that was that could be done.
- 13:32Speaker 7: But that'll south of the door. Be your president, Prime Minister.
- 13:35Speaker 9: He's like, nah, he ain't even letting men end the
- 13:37Speaker 9: pain in the idea. I don't know where the fight
- 13:39Speaker 9: goes from there.
- 13:40Speaker 3: That is that is, that is true, But you're lying.
- 13:43Speaker 3: Donald Trump absolutely positively said no. Yes, the guy from
- 13:49Speaker 3: out Salvador said that too, but Donald Trump actually said
- 13:52Speaker 3: no as well, what are you talking about?
- 13:54Speaker 9: Yeah, he said no, like he's not provided, he's not
- 13:56Speaker 9: sending a plane and bring his bring his assack.
- 13:58Speaker 4: Like the court granted it, bring him back.
- 14:00Speaker 9: All right, bet do it, how you do it? But
- 14:02Speaker 9: he Falbadorian ain't having He's like, nah, it ain't gonna happen.
- 14:07Speaker 3: That's you're you're not telling the story correctly, sir, Like
- 14:10Speaker 3: you're telling half of the truth.
- 14:11Speaker 4: And I don't understand why.
- 14:13Speaker 3: Like Trump literally gave the Supreme Court yesterday, well you
- 14:16Speaker 3: need to read again. Trump literally gave the Supreme Court
- 14:19Speaker 3: his middle finger. He's defining the Supreme Court.
- 14:21Speaker 9: And then one more thing to deal with the it's
- 14:24Speaker 9: the politics and all that.
- 14:25Speaker 10: Man.
- 14:26Speaker 9: I just want the people to know, this is big business, man.
- 14:28Speaker 7: This ain't for us. Man.
- 14:29Speaker 9: We just sit back and watch and just let this
- 14:31Speaker 9: thing happen. Because again, our ancestors gave the peat the
- 14:34Speaker 9: power and they hit it on us all over. So
- 14:36Speaker 9: it's not even our story. Let's just say play out
- 14:39Speaker 9: and everybody's just what you need to do for us.
- 14:41Speaker 9: That's what we need to focus on us.
- 14:43Speaker 2: And that's what I want to say now that I
- 14:44Speaker 2: agree with all right, political pundit from page thank you brother,
- 14:48Speaker 2: you got it, my brother, get it off your chest.
- 14:52Speaker 5: Eight hundred and five eight five one oh five one.
- 14:54Speaker 5: We got to let this, Laura comeing up.
- 14:55Speaker 23: Yes, so Blue Origin sent Gail King and Katie Perry
- 14:58Speaker 23: and all the girls of Space.
- 14:59Speaker 5: Yeah, and we thought it was all good.
- 15:01Speaker 15: They made it back home, they were safe.
- 15:02Speaker 23: But baby, it's some people upset a lot of people,
- 15:05Speaker 23: and I didn't know it was such an issue, but
- 15:07Speaker 23: over what them going to space, it's a whole thing.
- 15:11Speaker 15: I ain't never seen the girls fight like this.
- 15:12Speaker 4: You No, they pissed off about it.
- 15:14Speaker 2: Yes, talking about the money, the amount of money that
- 15:16Speaker 2: they spent, and that's not the environment. Yes, you're gonna
- 15:20Speaker 2: say the names of people that are upset.
- 15:21Speaker 5: Yes, you got we do when we come back.
- 15:24Speaker 4: It's the Breakfast Club.
- 15:25Speaker 13: Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
- 15:29Speaker 5: Warning everybody, it's DJ env just hilarious.
- 15:32Speaker 2: Charlamagne the God. We are the Breakfast Club. Let's get
- 15:35Speaker 2: to the latest with Lauren.
- 15:36Speaker 8: Lauren becoming the street fast.
- 15:39Speaker 4: She gets them from somebody that knows somebody detail.
- 15:43Speaker 15: I'm a home girl that knows a little bit about everything.
- 15:46Speaker 4: She'd be having the latest on the.
- 15:49Speaker 13: Latest with Lauren la Rosa.
- 15:51Speaker 11: Sometimes you have facts, sometimes you have details, sometimes you have.
- 15:53Speaker 4: A little bit of everything.
- 15:54Speaker 13: It's the last the Breakfast Club.
- 15:58Speaker 8: All right.
- 15:59Speaker 23: So yesterday we talked about Gail King, Katy Perry. There's
- 16:02Speaker 23: a ton of women that went up in space yesterday,
- 16:05Speaker 23: yel King, Ahabo, Amanda gwyn Sel, gel King, already, Carrie
- 16:12Speaker 23: and Flynn and Lauren Sanchez went up to space. Now
- 16:17Speaker 23: they were there for the total it all was about
- 16:19Speaker 23: eleven minutes. They went up, They circulated for a bit.
- 16:22Speaker 23: There's videos of them. You see them like floating and
- 16:25Speaker 23: allegedly Katy Perry sung while she was in the air
- 16:28Speaker 23: and they come back down and they hit the ground.
- 16:30Speaker 23: So when they hit the ground, we're seeing them, you know,
- 16:32Speaker 23: get out of the shuttle and everything's like yay, go,
- 16:35Speaker 23: y'all did it. And then all of a sudden online
- 16:38Speaker 23: the people not even after during it, the people just
- 16:41Speaker 23: started getting so.
- 16:42Speaker 4: Upset when did the online about something y'all.
- 16:46Speaker 23: Now, and y'all know, I'll be on Twitter and I'll
- 16:48Speaker 23: be seeing the upset and I'll be like, Okay, I
- 16:49Speaker 23: guess this. I was like, there's so much more to
- 16:52Speaker 23: be upset about, and their issue was there's so much
- 16:54Speaker 23: more we could be spending time and resources on. So
- 16:57Speaker 23: model Emily Rodakowski is one of the people she got
- 16:59Speaker 23: on and she posted a video let's say a listen.
- 17:02Speaker 8: That's space mission this morning.
- 17:04Speaker 22: That's an end time ship, Like this is beyond parody
- 17:06Speaker 22: thing that you care about mother Earth? And it's about
- 17:09Speaker 22: Mother Earth and you're going up in a spaceship that
- 17:12Speaker 22: is built and paid for by a company that's single
- 17:15Speaker 22: handedly destroying the planet. Got the state of the world,
- 17:18Speaker 22: and think about how many resources went into putting these
- 17:21Speaker 22: women into space for what?
- 17:23Speaker 12: For what?
- 17:23Speaker 10: What was the marketing there? And then to try to
- 17:25Speaker 10: make it like I'm disgusted.
- 17:27Speaker 13: Literally, I'm disgusting.
- 17:29Speaker 15: Yeah, And that was a lot of people's sentiment.
- 17:32Speaker 8: I know.
- 17:32Speaker 23: I saw Olivia moun a lot of people sentiments, a
- 17:34Speaker 23: lot of people sentiment. I saw Olivia Mon on Gin
- 17:37Speaker 23: and Friends yesterday and she said the same thing, like
- 17:40Speaker 23: it's disgusting. They're wasting resources, they're destroying our earth. They
- 17:43Speaker 23: should not be with like go Women is about and
- 17:46Speaker 23: I'm like, oh my god, was resources though they're talking about.
- 17:50Speaker 15: I guess like just.
- 17:51Speaker 4: Because it wasn't a government funded project.
- 17:54Speaker 15: I think that they're talking about the I don't know, basically.
- 17:59Speaker 10: Broke they you know what I mean?
- 18:01Speaker 8: They made they upset. They probably need some bread. It's
- 18:03Speaker 8: like yo, what like it was just stupid for people
- 18:07Speaker 8: to get upset.
- 18:08Speaker 6: The interesting thing that I saw, Wendy's had something to say. Yes,
- 18:12Speaker 6: the restaurant, Wendy's Katie Perry. They was like Katie Party
- 18:15Speaker 6: returns back from space, Wendy's going to Center at his
- 18:18Speaker 6: back when they ain't say Center is back, but they
- 18:20Speaker 6: said send her back up there.
- 18:22Speaker 3: Yes, but it wasn't publicly funded. From what I read,
- 18:25Speaker 3: it wasn't a commercial mission. It wasn't paid by taxpayer dollars. Like, so,
- 18:29Speaker 3: what's what's the issue?
- 18:30Speaker 4: I thought? I actually thought Jeff Bezos paid for That's
- 18:33Speaker 4: what I thought.
- 18:35Speaker 15: Yeah, I don't know who pays for how that works.
- 18:36Speaker 23: But I also did read too because people were so upset,
- 18:39Speaker 23: I wanted to know how, like is it really destroying
- 18:41Speaker 23: it as far as like the solution and stuff like that,
- 18:44Speaker 23: and they said today all of this stuff is sustainable
- 18:46Speaker 23: that he's been using.
- 18:48Speaker 2: I don't know, y'all, but those are the same people
- 18:50Speaker 2: that are mad at celebrities when they fly private. When
- 18:52Speaker 2: you know that we mad at Taylor Swift that we
- 18:54Speaker 2: made let the celebrities for flying private. It messes up
- 18:56Speaker 2: the community, messes up the world and all that other stuff.
- 18:58Speaker 2: But I mean, like you said, Sean, if they paid
- 19:00Speaker 2: it out their own pocket, I.
- 19:02Speaker 3: Mean that's from what I read. From what I read,
- 19:04Speaker 3: the government didn't fund that trip to space. It was
- 19:06Speaker 3: actually curated by Jeff Baso's fiance and it wasn't publicly funded.
- 19:10Speaker 3: So I don't know whose resources are they talking about.
- 19:13Speaker 3: Jeff Basios want to spend his own money on stuff
- 19:14Speaker 3: like that, I don't. For commercial space tourism, I don't care.
- 19:18Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 19:18Speaker 23: It says that the n S thirty one, which was
- 19:20Speaker 23: their flight, was paid for by individuals on board, as
- 19:22Speaker 23: well as Blue Origin itself, while the exact amount paid
- 19:24Speaker 23: by each individual was not publicly disclosed. You know, normally
- 19:28Speaker 23: when people bid for these seats, the highest big can
- 19:30Speaker 23: go for twenty eight million dollars, but it's not disclosed
- 19:32Speaker 23: how much they paid. The company also requires a refundable
- 19:35Speaker 23: deposit of one hundred and fifty thousand dollars, but their
- 19:38Speaker 23: process is not disclosed.
- 19:39Speaker 3: And Blue Origin has received government contracts before, but when
- 19:44Speaker 3: it comes to their commercial space tourism, it's separate from that, correct,
- 19:48Speaker 3: So this isn't publicly funded.
- 19:49Speaker 15: And y'all know this is our girl.
- 19:51Speaker 1: I saw.
- 19:52Speaker 23: The first person I saw actually on my timeline this
- 19:54Speaker 23: morning was a Senator Nina from Senator and Nina Turner.
- 19:57Speaker 23: She said, if Jeff Bezos can send kad Pair into space,
- 20:00Speaker 23: he can pay a wealth tax, so every American has
- 20:02Speaker 23: debt free health care.
- 20:04Speaker 4: Noah, I agree with that. We started.
- 20:05Speaker 23: That started a huge threat of conversation online as well.
- 20:10Speaker 23: But funny enough, you know when Gail went up into space,
- 20:12Speaker 23: y'all saw the video of her when she was walking
- 20:14Speaker 23: down bringing to Bill.
- 20:15Speaker 15: People was like, oh, Gail is regretting this.
- 20:17Speaker 4: So she looked real good dropping the Blues boss of Gael.
- 20:24Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 20:25Speaker 23: So Oprah was there to send her off and they
- 20:27Speaker 23: gave each other hug. This is the photo of her
- 20:30Speaker 23: looking a little bit nervous.
- 20:31Speaker 4: She said she looked nervous.
- 20:33Speaker 15: She says she was a bit nervous.
- 20:34Speaker 23: But let's take a listen to her response to her
- 20:36Speaker 23: going viral yesterday, hearing.
- 20:38Speaker 24: I have become a meme because my facial expressions when
- 20:41Speaker 24: I was walking on the bridge to get on the capsule.
- 20:43Speaker 24: I didn't realize that I was being photographed at that moment,
- 20:47Speaker 24: nor did I realize that my expression looked so terrified.
- 20:51Speaker 4: But I was.
- 20:51Speaker 18: I was.
- 20:52Speaker 8: I just thought, I'm just gonna go in and get
- 20:54Speaker 8: in my seat.
- 20:55Speaker 4: I'm gonna do this.
- 20:56Speaker 24: I knew I was always going to do it, all
- 20:57Speaker 24: though you were told that if you're wind to back out,
- 21:01Speaker 24: you have to do so before two minutes and thirty seconds.
- 21:04Speaker 3: You have to say.
- 21:05Speaker 10: I'm not going to fly.
- 21:07Speaker 15: Well, I knew I wasn't going to be that guy.
- 21:08Speaker 5: But getting on it was a little scary.
- 21:11Speaker 15: It was a little scary.
- 21:13Speaker 24: So you show that I was apprehensive. I tell you,
- 21:16Speaker 24: look at the picture when I got off the capsule.
- 21:18Speaker 24: That's the one that matters. That's the victory speech.
- 21:21Speaker 5: That's the one that matters.
- 21:23Speaker 10: I'm so glad to be back on earth.
- 21:24Speaker 8: Welcome home.
- 21:25Speaker 4: That's a new meaning down up.
- 21:28Speaker 15: Yes, Oh my god, yes, but it's just crazy for
- 21:32Speaker 15: you to say about Gail King.
- 21:34Speaker 6: But yeah, right, that's the lady who just said last week,
- 21:39Speaker 6: we're we're talking about what she said, Jane.
- 21:42Speaker 23: So when she got off the she got off the flight, Gail,
- 21:46Speaker 23: like everybody else, they were kissing the ground and they
- 21:48Speaker 23: were doing a ton of stuff.
- 21:49Speaker 4: She had she had a dirt in her hands hand.
- 21:52Speaker 15: You know, I think this is almost like thought.
- 21:54Speaker 3: I thought she was doing a celebratory tourture, not video.
- 22:00Speaker 3: Shep came, came off the spaceship and did a celebratory
- 22:04Speaker 3: twark dropping the.
- 22:05Speaker 4: Clues bumps and Gail can't go ahead.
- 22:06Speaker 2: Ye, And I don't think there's many people that wouldn't
- 22:08Speaker 2: have this type of face when they're going in the space.
- 22:10Speaker 2: I don't think there's anybody. Now you have this face
- 22:13Speaker 2: because you're scared. You're scared, and you're thinking about did
- 22:15Speaker 2: I poop?
- 22:16Speaker 4: Did I pee? Did I make sure I leave everything
- 22:17Speaker 4: for my family? Yes, you have this face.
- 22:20Speaker 6: What I would be thinking about is how it took
- 22:22Speaker 6: eight well not much to bring two people that got
- 22:24Speaker 6: stuck up there back.
- 22:25Speaker 10: But y'all went up there and what like a couple
- 22:27Speaker 10: of minutes.
- 22:28Speaker 4: But y'all it be so dramatic.
- 22:30Speaker 13: Did I pee?
- 22:31Speaker 4: Did I pooped everything that my family has? Leave it everything?
- 22:36Speaker 5: That's what you're thinking, Like what else would you be thinking?
- 22:38Speaker 2: Yes, that's what you're thinking. I went scott diving and
- 22:41Speaker 2: I thought the same thing. I had this same face on.
- 22:43Speaker 2: Did I leave everything for my kids? Did I write
- 22:45Speaker 2: everything right that I pee that I pop?
- 22:46Speaker 3: Yes, because you're nervous as ishue or if you're gonna die,
- 22:48Speaker 3: do no matter if you pee the poop right right?
- 22:50Speaker 4: That's the point.
- 22:51Speaker 5: No, because if you have to go to the bathroom
- 22:53Speaker 5: on your way up, you did no planning on dying.
- 22:55Speaker 10: What's the point.
- 22:55Speaker 2: But no, it's not just about dying. If you're in
- 22:58Speaker 2: a rocket ship going the space, there is no from
- 23:00Speaker 2: so you got to just hold you playing on. I'm
- 23:02Speaker 2: not playing on just in case, in case we would.
- 23:06Speaker 15: Say there is no bathroom, like we thought.
- 23:08Speaker 8: You'd just excuse me, excuse me, go to bath I
- 23:13Speaker 8: do want to know why went these people?
- 23:15Speaker 10: That's that's I know.
- 23:16Speaker 23: And they straight at her to they they got the
- 23:18Speaker 23: screenshot of her face. They said, can we send her back?
- 23:20Speaker 8: And send her back like she something?
- 23:23Speaker 3: Yeah, she must have said something. About some fast food
- 23:25Speaker 3: when she landed or something. That's some other fast food.
- 23:29Speaker 15: I don't know. I didn't see that, but that cray.
- 23:32Speaker 4: People love to see celebrities and wealthy people miserable.
- 23:35Speaker 3: Yes, and and and even if they were to do
- 23:38Speaker 3: some type of charity, they would get criticized for that.
- 23:41Speaker 4: Right, they didn't give enough. Why did they give it
- 23:43Speaker 4: to that charity? So you damn if you do your
- 23:44Speaker 4: damn if you don't. Yeah, well, congratulates those ladies. There's
- 23:49Speaker 4: no pictures, though they have pictures from them in face videos.
- 23:54Speaker 23: There's video of them when they come down, because after
- 23:56Speaker 23: a certain point you parachute and you just hit the ground.
- 23:58Speaker 8: They're like, they're like yelling.
- 24:02Speaker 7: His videos.
- 24:02Speaker 8: I ain't seen no pictures, but they got videos.
- 24:04Speaker 2: I'll show you all right, Well that is the latest
- 24:06Speaker 2: with Laura. Now when we come back, we got front
- 24:08Speaker 2: page news. So don't go anywhere. It's to breakfast Lugal morning.
- 24:11Speaker 2: You're checking out the breakfast club.
- 24:14Speaker 5: Everybody is DJ NV just hilarious, Charlamagne the guy.
- 24:18Speaker 2: We are to breakfast club. Let's get back in some
- 24:20Speaker 2: front page news with Morgans.
- 24:22Speaker 8: Yeah, NV, I know you like to start with sports,
- 24:24Speaker 8: but let's start with some sports at the White House.
- 24:27Speaker 8: So President's Trump honored the Ohio State buck Guys at
- 24:29Speaker 8: the White House yesterday for winning the National Championship, and JD. Vance,
- 24:34Speaker 8: the Vice President, dropped the championship trophy after the ceremony.
- 24:38Speaker 10: I cannot believe it. That's that c is circulating online.
- 24:41Speaker 10: Did y'all see it?
- 24:43Speaker 3: I did see the trophy looking very unmanly, well for
- 24:46Speaker 3: for an administration that I like to talk about people
- 24:49Speaker 3: being so manly.
- 24:50Speaker 4: Boy, you didn't look manly at all.
- 24:51Speaker 5: Definitely did not lift that thing for anything.
- 24:54Speaker 8: So Trump highlighted the buck Eyes path to the title
- 24:56Speaker 8: and said that he expects to see quarterback Will Howard
- 24:58Speaker 8: play in the NFL for you now.
- 25:00Speaker 10: Vice President JD.
- 25:01Speaker 8: Vance, who is from Ohio, joked that he asked the
- 25:04Speaker 8: President if he could skip the inauguration to attend the
- 25:07Speaker 8: National Championship.
- 25:09Speaker 10: Let's sack a listen to those comments at the ceremony.
- 25:12Speaker 18: This was a historic year in college football. Standing together today,
- 25:15Speaker 18: these men in the first college think of that, are
- 25:18Speaker 18: the first college football players in history who can proudly
- 25:22Speaker 18: call themselves twelve team playoff championship, the first ones.
- 25:26Speaker 16: That's right, I asked the President on January the twenty
- 25:29Speaker 16: They said, Sir, would you mind if I skipped that
- 25:32Speaker 16: final inaugural ball to go to the Ohio State National
- 25:34Speaker 16: Championship game? And the President said no, but we'll have
- 25:37Speaker 16: him at the White House.
- 25:38Speaker 7: So here we are.
- 25:39Speaker 10: Yeah, So there they are.
- 25:40Speaker 8: Ohio State defeated a Notre Dame to claim its first
- 25:44Speaker 8: title since twenty fourteen, so congratulations to them. New York
- 25:49Speaker 8: Mayor Eric Adams he visited the dr on Monday to
- 25:51Speaker 8: pay your respects to those who died during last week's
- 25:55Speaker 8: night club roof collapse. Now Mayor Adams visited the site
- 25:58Speaker 8: of the tragedy, flanked by members of staff and Dominican officials,
- 26:02Speaker 8: offering his support to the victims and their families. Let's
- 26:06Speaker 8: take a listen to New York City Mayor Eric Adams
- 26:08Speaker 8: and his comments.
- 26:09Speaker 4: Your brother from America is here to be with you
- 26:11Speaker 4: during this time.
- 26:12Speaker 2: During crises and tragedies, Families pray, Families lift each other up,
- 26:17Speaker 2: family hug each other.
- 26:19Speaker 4: My visit today is my hug, so it.
- 26:21Speaker 10: Also comes as New York's.
- 26:24Speaker 8: Of course, you guys are where New York has a
- 26:26Speaker 8: large Dominican population, and they remain in morning following the
- 26:29Speaker 8: April seventh incident. Now New York Governor Kathy Hopel was
- 26:32Speaker 8: also in the city on Monday, delivering remarks out of
- 26:35Speaker 8: vigil in the Bronx for the victims. So that is
- 26:38Speaker 8: a tragic, tragic story. But I will continue to keep
- 26:41Speaker 8: you updated as that story develops.
- 26:43Speaker 10: And of course, today y'all is tax day. Have you
- 26:46Speaker 10: filed your taxes? Have you filed your taxes?
- 26:48Speaker 8: Taxes are due to day, and if you haven't even
- 26:51Speaker 8: started or you're not done yet, there is still hope.
- 26:53Speaker 10: If you're in a crunch, you need to file for
- 26:55Speaker 10: an extension.
- 26:56Speaker 8: The key thing to keep in mind is to file
- 26:58Speaker 8: your extension today, but you will give you at least
- 27:01Speaker 8: six months. So taxpayers impacted by natural disasters, which we
- 27:04Speaker 8: know there have been a lot of in the last year.
- 27:08Speaker 8: In twelve states have automatic tax extensions to file and
- 27:12Speaker 8: pay their twenty twenty four taxes. Now, some extensions only
- 27:14Speaker 8: apply to certain areas within those states that were actually
- 27:17Speaker 8: impacted by storms or fires.
- 27:19Speaker 5: You know what have you?
- 27:21Speaker 10: If you file for an extension, you need to file.
- 27:24Speaker 8: You need a form a form forty eight sixty eight
- 27:27Speaker 8: on IRS dot gov. That's forty eight sixty eight on
- 27:29Speaker 8: IRS dot gov, which gives you an automatic extension for
- 27:33Speaker 8: six months.
- 27:34Speaker 10: So just don't not not file, Okay, don't do just
- 27:37Speaker 10: just don't do that.
- 27:39Speaker 3: You flay with DIRS if you want to listen, you
- 27:42Speaker 3: ain't got a file, but DIARYSS will find you.
- 27:44Speaker 13: That's right.
- 27:44Speaker 4: You can run, but you cannot hip.
- 27:46Speaker 10: And don't forget they've given away. The agency is working
- 27:49Speaker 10: with immigration too, so you know, just keep that in
- 27:51Speaker 10: mind as well. It's something to keep in mind. But
- 27:53Speaker 10: I'm not gonna get too much into that. That's your
- 27:55Speaker 10: front page news.
- 27:56Speaker 8: Y'all can follow me on socials at Morgan Media and
- 27:59Speaker 8: for warn the news coverage followed Black Information Network and
- 28:03Speaker 8: download the free iHeartRadio app.
- 28:04Speaker 10: Visit us at vii nnews dot com.
- 28:07Speaker 4: See y'all all right, thank you.
- 28:09Speaker 2: Now, when we come back, my lovely beautiful wife will
- 28:12Speaker 2: be joining us this morning. Our new book, Real Life,
- 28:14Speaker 2: Real Family is in stores today and we're gonna talk
- 28:17Speaker 2: about it.
- 28:18Speaker 4: We'll do it when we come back. It's the Breakfast Club.
- 28:19Speaker 13: Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
- 28:24Speaker 4: Yeah, David's wanting to show to Breakfast Club. Charlamagne and
- 28:27Speaker 4: God Lauren l Ross is here, Jess Hilarious is here.
- 28:32Speaker 4: Who's feeling in for Envy? Laura l Roose is feeling in?
- 28:34Speaker 13: Forby?
- 28:34Speaker 4: Is it me filling in? He's here? I'm here, she's
- 28:37Speaker 4: feeling in?
- 28:38Speaker 10: Yeah.
- 28:38Speaker 3: Yeah, he's a guest today though, because his new book
- 28:41Speaker 3: Real Life, Real Family with the Queen of the House.
- 28:44Speaker 4: Yeah, Casey is out right now. How are you feeling here?
- 28:47Speaker 25: Both by being given the opportunity to write a book
- 28:51Speaker 25: about something that is the most important thing to me,
- 28:54Speaker 25: the thing I'm the most passionate about, the thing that
- 28:57Speaker 25: brings me the most joy, family, parenting, my household, our home.
- 29:03Speaker 25: So yes, I'm very humbled.
- 29:05Speaker 10: This is the second book. Yes, it's amazing.
- 29:07Speaker 8: You know what, let's just rewind it back for those
- 29:09Speaker 8: who don't know who is the Ksey Crew? Where did
- 29:14Speaker 8: that name come from? How did y'all get started?
- 29:16Speaker 5: Do you remember the carew Yes, our last name?
- 29:19Speaker 4: What do you mean?
- 29:19Speaker 12: No?
- 29:20Speaker 25: No, no, But do you remember how we came up
- 29:21Speaker 25: with the name?
- 29:22Speaker 4: Come up with the name.
- 29:23Speaker 25: We were doing our first podcast, and it was before
- 29:26Speaker 25: we were doing like the audio version of the video version.
- 29:29Speaker 25: It was just the audio version, and we started the
- 29:31Speaker 25: podcast without a name and we sat there and we
- 29:35Speaker 25: kind of was coming up with like different names, and
- 29:38Speaker 25: one of us said, well, how about the k C crew.
- 29:40Speaker 25: You know, our last name is Casey. We have a
- 29:41Speaker 25: whole crew of kids, a whole gaggle. What about the
- 29:44Speaker 25: k C crew. And then people you know, DMed us
- 29:47Speaker 25: and emailed and whatnot, and they said, yeah, we love
- 29:49Speaker 25: that name. We love that name. So we decided to
- 29:51Speaker 25: call ourselves the k C Crew.
- 29:52Speaker 4: Amazing that's where it came out.
- 29:55Speaker 23: And whenever you post on social you always hashtag the
- 29:58Speaker 23: k C Crew. Yes, and he does his well. But
- 30:00Speaker 23: one of the things that you guys do really good
- 30:02Speaker 23: from the podcast to bringing it online is you pay
- 30:05Speaker 23: attention to the comments and the Responseski. Yeah, and you
- 30:09Speaker 23: guys bring them into the podcast, but you also reflect
- 30:11Speaker 23: on them on social media. So I want to read
- 30:13Speaker 23: one of the posts that we pulled, and I thought
- 30:17Speaker 23: that this was great. You inspired me. This is someone
- 30:19Speaker 23: commenting to you guys. You inspired me. I wish all
- 30:21Speaker 23: parents had this level of intention, planning and vibe. Truth is,
- 30:25Speaker 23: most parents, moms are stressed, overworked by trying to make
- 30:29Speaker 23: ends meet, in harboring trauma. Therefore, it's passed down to
- 30:32Speaker 23: the children. You've passed down light and love. Because of
- 30:35Speaker 23: that and because of what you are, high five to
- 30:37Speaker 23: all of the parents doing their best, and you use
- 30:39Speaker 23: that as a moment to talk about like, no, it
- 30:42Speaker 23: get a little crazy over here, but oh yeah, but
- 30:44Speaker 23: it's important because when you if you've ever been around
- 30:46Speaker 23: your family, it is a lot of love and a
- 30:47Speaker 23: lot of light.
- 30:48Speaker 15: But I'm sure on the inside things get crazy.
- 30:50Speaker 25: Well, you know, that's a big misconception. People assume that
- 30:54Speaker 25: because you love a certain lifestyle or because you've earned
- 30:57Speaker 25: a certain financial status, that you don't have the same
- 31:01Speaker 25: problems that they have, you know. So that comment really
- 31:05Speaker 25: really stood out to me because she spoke on the
- 31:09Speaker 25: troubles and the trauma and the word trauma that she used,
- 31:12Speaker 25: and Rashan will speak on the word trauma sometimes he
- 31:14Speaker 25: feels as though it's a word that's overused, but it's
- 31:17Speaker 25: a word that represents something that so many people endure.
- 31:22Speaker 25: The difference now is that we have words to identify
- 31:26Speaker 25: how we feel and what we go through and it's articulated.
- 31:30Speaker 25: Because when our feelings and our experiences are articulated, then
- 31:34Speaker 25: you're able to communicate. People are able to understand you.
- 31:38Speaker 25: You're able to understand other people. You're able to have
- 31:40Speaker 25: empathy and compassion for other people because now we're all
- 31:43Speaker 25: speaking a universal language. Like the word triggered, like the
- 31:47Speaker 25: word trauma, like the word gas. You know, these are
- 31:51Speaker 25: things that some may think are overused now, but yes,
- 31:55Speaker 25: but there is value there. There is value there because
- 31:58Speaker 25: now we can see each each other, we understand each other.
- 32:02Speaker 3: When you're trying to create a safe space, you know,
- 32:04Speaker 3: how is it to venture into an unsafe space like
- 32:06Speaker 3: the comments, especially when somebody looks on the air every day,
- 32:09Speaker 3: you know, I mean, you have an opinion about every day.
- 32:12Speaker 25: So I read every single comment.
- 32:18Speaker 15: I interact.
- 32:20Speaker 25: It started when I had a lower follower account. It
- 32:24Speaker 25: started because I always felt that if someone follows me,
- 32:29Speaker 25: that's an investment. In a small investment, maybe, but it's
- 32:32Speaker 25: an investment that they put into me. And they're looking
- 32:37Speaker 25: at my content content, they're looking at my pictures, and
- 32:40Speaker 25: you left a comment, I want to respond back to you.
- 32:42Speaker 25: I used to respond to almost every comment, you know,
- 32:45Speaker 25: But then when my followers went up, I wasn't really
- 32:48Speaker 25: able to do that, and that was something that you know,
- 32:51Speaker 25: I had to take that on the chin, I wasn't
- 32:52Speaker 25: able to, but it's a sign of respect. And you said,
- 32:56Speaker 25: why do I do that to myself? Because I'm strong
- 32:59Speaker 25: enough to do that. I'm strong enough to do that.
- 33:01Speaker 25: The comments don't if they are negative, and I have
- 33:05Speaker 25: to say I don't receive a lot of negative comments, thankfully,
- 33:07Speaker 25: thank God. But if they are negative, I look at
- 33:11Speaker 25: it as insight. I might ask myself, why might someone
- 33:14Speaker 25: have that perspective to me? It feeds my mental because
- 33:17Speaker 25: I'm a thinker. I'm a deep thinker. I'm all over things.
- 33:20Speaker 25: I love to understand people. So for me, the comments
- 33:24Speaker 25: are food and they also bring me happiness when they're good.
- 33:27Speaker 25: It lets you know that you're reaching someone whatever it
- 33:31Speaker 25: is that you're putting out, because it's in the sense
- 33:33Speaker 25: of sharing. There's a lot of things that I don't share,
- 33:35Speaker 25: so if I choose to share and it's well received,
- 33:38Speaker 25: then that's a good feeling. I think that's why a
- 33:40Speaker 25: lot of people are on or part of the reason
- 33:41Speaker 25: why a lot of people are on social media. You
- 33:43Speaker 25: know what I mean, and I'm strong enough to do so,
- 33:46Speaker 25: and that's because of the way that I was raised.
- 33:49Speaker 25: I was raised to be a very strong and resilient woman.
- 33:55Speaker 25: It comes directly from my parents. I'm fortunate in the
- 33:58Speaker 25: sense that I can look back and identify things about
- 34:02Speaker 25: the way that I was raised that created the individual,
- 34:06Speaker 25: the woman, the mother, the wife that I am, and
- 34:10Speaker 25: it's for me. It's a very beautiful thing. Both of
- 34:12Speaker 25: my parents are no longer here, so to be able
- 34:15Speaker 25: to say, wow, when my mother did this every single day,
- 34:19Speaker 25: or when she took me here once a week, or
- 34:21Speaker 25: when she said this to me, and those compliments, and
- 34:25Speaker 25: that the way that she fed me and she fed
- 34:27Speaker 25: my soul, and the joy that I experienced and the
- 34:30Speaker 25: amount of fun that I had as a kid, like
- 34:32Speaker 25: I loved my life. And it's not because we were wealthy.
- 34:35Speaker 7: We were not.
- 34:35Speaker 25: We were a middle class family. I'm from Brooklyn, from
- 34:38Speaker 25: East Flatbush. We weren't raised, you know, like I'm from
- 34:41Speaker 25: an urban area. And it's not It had nothing to
- 34:44Speaker 25: do with money. It had nothing to do with wealth.
- 34:48Speaker 25: It had everything to do with what my parents poured
- 34:51Speaker 25: into my home and the love that I felt. And
- 34:55Speaker 25: that is what we put into writing this book. There's
- 34:59Speaker 25: a lot of books that we ca you know, so
- 35:01Speaker 25: many ideas came. Oh because real life for love was
- 35:03Speaker 25: a huge success. It was a national bestseller. So it's
- 35:06Speaker 25: I go, you can write a book about this. We said,
- 35:08Speaker 25: we want to write a book about family. It's what
- 35:10Speaker 25: we know best. It's what we know best. We've had
- 35:13Speaker 25: so many ups, so many downs, so many wins, so
- 35:16Speaker 25: many losses, so many things that we thought we were
- 35:19Speaker 25: doing right that we weren't. That we had to regroup
- 35:22Speaker 25: and make sure that we were balanced, you know, as
- 35:25Speaker 25: as a married couple. Because when we didn't agree, it's
- 35:28Speaker 25: like my way is better, know what my way is better?
- 35:30Speaker 25: And this, you know, we had to come to a
- 35:32Speaker 25: meeting of the minds.
- 35:33Speaker 10: Yeah, you know what I mean.
- 35:34Speaker 25: So our relationship, you know, the relationship grew, you know,
- 35:38Speaker 25: because we had to learn how to see eye to
- 35:41Speaker 25: eye as parents. So there was just there was many
- 35:43Speaker 25: many ups and downs, and we wanted to pour that
- 35:46Speaker 25: all into a book.
- 35:47Speaker 11: You know.
- 35:47Speaker 25: We wanted to let everyone know like it's really that
- 35:50Speaker 25: village mentality. It's really that like we are a community,
- 35:54Speaker 25: especially our black community because I'm black.
- 35:58Speaker 26: Yes, yeah, yeah, for the record, for the record, Spanish, but.
- 36:13Speaker 25: I know that you're well aware because you speak to
- 36:16Speaker 25: things of this nature often. But our history is being
- 36:20Speaker 25: erased in schools, and it's being stripped away silently in society.
- 36:27Speaker 25: So the foundation starts in our homes. We have to
- 36:32Speaker 25: teach children how to identify themselves. We have to teach
- 36:37Speaker 25: children that sense of belonging and they have to understand
- 36:42Speaker 25: that they come from something meaningful. And if you leave
- 36:46Speaker 25: it up to society to teach them that, you're going
- 36:48Speaker 25: to wind up with children that are lost, that are overlooked,
- 36:52Speaker 25: that don't know how to identify themselves, that get taken
- 36:55Speaker 25: advantage of, and that are susceptible to what society wants
- 37:00Speaker 25: for them. So for us, our core, our nucleus, our foundation,
- 37:05Speaker 25: our home supersedes anything else in this world. We put
- 37:09Speaker 25: our family first.
- 37:11Speaker 2: When we come back, we have more we Gia Casey
- 37:13Speaker 2: our book, Real Life, Real Family is in stores right now,
- 37:17Speaker 2: a guide to raising empowered children.
- 37:19Speaker 4: We'll be back in minutes. It's the Breakfast Club.
- 37:21Speaker 5: Good morning, Jesse Larian Charlamage, the God we are the
- 37:26Speaker 5: Breakfast Weblor Barosa is here as well as we're kicking
- 37:29Speaker 5: it with.
- 37:30Speaker 2: Gia Casey. Our new book, Real Life, Real Family is
- 37:33Speaker 2: out today. You can pick it up at Amazon, Barnes
- 37:36Speaker 2: and Nobles all audible, Jess, would.
- 37:38Speaker 8: You say that you and and we have two different
- 37:42Speaker 8: parenting styles? Absolutely the more lenient parent. Who was the
- 37:45Speaker 8: more lenient parent?
- 37:47Speaker 4: It depends what it is like.
- 37:49Speaker 2: You know, everybody knows my dad is retired police officer,
- 37:52Speaker 2: ex military, so I'm disciplined. I was the yellow the
- 37:55Speaker 2: screamer because I said so, Gea is a lot different,
- 38:00Speaker 2: like seven hours, like she wants to know why.
- 38:03Speaker 10: Yeah, how did you feel that she likes to break down?
- 38:06Speaker 4: Yeah, you don't get it.
- 38:07Speaker 8: You're gonna get it by the end of the right.
- 38:10Speaker 26: Exactly.
- 38:11Speaker 2: So you got to think, really think before you speak
- 38:13Speaker 2: to up because she's like, all right, explain that, like
- 38:15Speaker 2: I just said it just because no, no, no, explain it.
- 38:18Speaker 2: But so I'm more like, because I said so, She's
- 38:21Speaker 2: more like, well, you can't go to the mall because
- 38:23Speaker 2: of this, because this could happen. Explain your parents extole
- 38:26Speaker 2: mine is my dad was like no, and you didn't
- 38:28Speaker 2: ask why, it just it was what it was you
- 38:31Speaker 2: just figured out later.
- 38:32Speaker 4: Is a little different. I prefer the explanation.
- 38:34Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 38:35Speaker 25: So that's how my parents were with me. I knew
- 38:37Speaker 25: that my parents were invested in me living a happy,
- 38:43Speaker 25: fulfilled and fun life, and we didn't go lightly on
- 38:46Speaker 25: the fun And because I knew that at D and
- 38:50Speaker 25: my parents never said no just for the sake of
- 38:53Speaker 25: saying no. Because parents are overworked and they are stressed,
- 38:56Speaker 25: and the last thing they want to hear when they
- 38:58Speaker 25: walk through the door is mommy, can you take me here?
- 39:01Speaker 5: Can you buy me this?
- 39:02Speaker 26: Can we watch this together?
- 39:03Speaker 25: Can we go like flow down?
- 39:05Speaker 12: No?
- 39:06Speaker 25: And sometimes you say no, you don't even know why
- 39:07Speaker 25: you're saying no. That's not a good parenting technique. You
- 39:12Speaker 25: really have to take a moment. You have to take
- 39:14Speaker 25: a beat. We all have to take a beat to
- 39:16Speaker 25: listen to our children and be patient. And because I
- 39:20Speaker 25: knew that my parents were invested in me that way,
- 39:22Speaker 25: I knew that when they said no, there was a
- 39:24Speaker 25: good reason.
- 39:25Speaker 4: How do you make sure you not you're raising the
- 39:27Speaker 4: kids out of love and not fear them.
- 39:29Speaker 25: That's such a good question. It comes with the explanations.
- 39:33Speaker 26: Do you know what I mean?
- 39:34Speaker 25: I don't tell them you can't do this and you
- 39:36Speaker 25: can't do that? Why because I said so? Let me
- 39:39Speaker 25: explain to you why. You know, sometimes we'll watch the
- 39:42Speaker 25: news together, you know, when they're at an appropriate age
- 39:45Speaker 25: at about nine years old, you know. I think that
- 39:47Speaker 25: they're mature enough to ingest certain things. So what I
- 39:50Speaker 25: do is I would record it on my DVR and
- 39:53Speaker 25: then cherry pick different stories that I think that are appropriate,
- 39:56Speaker 25: that speak to the protective measures that we take on them,
- 40:00Speaker 25: you know what I mean. So it's like, if I
- 40:02Speaker 25: see a child abduction that's not too traumatic, I might
- 40:06Speaker 25: save that and then show it to a child that's
- 40:09Speaker 25: old enough.
- 40:09Speaker 7: You know.
- 40:09Speaker 25: I did it with Madison, I did it with Logan,
- 40:12Speaker 25: and I find that they take that into their adult
- 40:15Speaker 25: lives and they're very, very like. Madison walks around like
- 40:19Speaker 25: a police officer. She has a boyfriend. His name is Andrew,
- 40:22Speaker 25: and when they go into a restaurant, she's the one
- 40:24Speaker 25: that sits facing the door. She feels like the protective
- 40:28Speaker 25: force in that relationship because her head is always on swivel,
- 40:32Speaker 25: you know what I mean. She could tell you a
- 40:34Speaker 25: car that was driving six cars ahead, you know, and
- 40:38Speaker 25: she's always paying attention to license plates. When she was young,
- 40:42Speaker 25: I used to go through like in case you get
- 40:45Speaker 25: kidnapped scenarios because it's the type of information that can
- 40:49Speaker 25: save a life. Girls are being taken. So if you
- 40:54Speaker 25: have a young girl, it is very proactive to educate
- 40:58Speaker 25: them about the realities and the tricks and the cons
- 41:02Speaker 25: that people. You know, because even me, as proactive as
- 41:05Speaker 25: I try to be, that whole technique, with a baby
- 41:07Speaker 25: crying outside your house, I would I would be inclined
- 41:11Speaker 25: to open the door if I hear a baby crying
- 41:14Speaker 25: and someone that sounds like a mother yelling and screaming
- 41:16Speaker 25: outside the house. I am that type of person, but
- 41:19Speaker 25: not me, But now I am I am. I would
- 41:27Speaker 25: my heart, with my ie would be inclined to open
- 41:29Speaker 25: that door. But now with all the knowledge and some
- 41:32Speaker 25: of the good things about social media is that so
- 41:35Speaker 25: much knowledge is being spread, so now we're consuming good
- 41:39Speaker 25: information as well. So I heard that, I'm like, wow,
- 41:42Speaker 25: that's absolutely right. It jogs your thinking. It makes you say, oh,
- 41:46Speaker 25: wait a minute. I do have to put myself first,
- 41:49Speaker 25: even if someone else, a stranger, seems to be in need.
- 41:52Speaker 25: I have to prioritize myself, my home, my family. So
- 41:56Speaker 25: you know, it's it's important to spread information and to
- 41:59Speaker 25: teach your kids, even though it may be a little scary,
- 42:01Speaker 25: but you do have to do it in a way
- 42:03Speaker 25: where it doesn't incite fear.
- 42:05Speaker 8: How y'all pick and choose.
- 42:06Speaker 15: What do y'all like, What y'all decide to be transparent about?
- 42:08Speaker 15: Like it's just so much.
- 42:09Speaker 23: Your kids are getting older and they're like, you know,
- 42:11Speaker 23: like they're wanting to walk by themselves with their friends.
- 42:14Speaker 2: If it was up to me, I'm transparent with everything.
- 42:16Speaker 2: Right has to hold back a lot, like for instance,
- 42:19Speaker 2: like with Logan. Right, Logan when he was in high
- 42:21Speaker 2: school used to get picked on all the time. But
- 42:23Speaker 2: he used to get picked on. Guess for what reason?
- 42:26Speaker 5: No, because because Charlamagne.
- 42:29Speaker 4: Yes, yes, so.
- 42:32Speaker 2: When you gave me the ask, that's why he gave
- 42:39Speaker 2: me the buck cake when he gave me not much better.
- 42:43Speaker 2: You know, I'm not about to He.
- 42:53Speaker 4: Used to be getting made fun of me because of that.
- 42:54Speaker 2: So but the reason I'm so transparent is there's so
- 42:57Speaker 2: many families and people dealing with the same things but
- 43:00Speaker 2: never want to talk about it.
- 43:01Speaker 4: Scared too.
- 43:02Speaker 2: So that's why I talked about the orgasm thing in
- 43:04Speaker 2: the first book. That's why in this in the.
- 43:06Speaker 5: Second book, we talk about you know, the time lag
- 43:09Speaker 5: thing from the first.
- 43:12Speaker 7: No, every.
- 43:17Speaker 5: You want to do right, No, even.
- 43:21Speaker 2: Like in this book we talk about the time that that, Uh,
- 43:24Speaker 2: Logan found a bloody condom at one of his friend's.
- 43:27Speaker 5: House, so he can't, but he's comfortable.
- 43:30Speaker 4: Why you're looking at that it wasn't mine. He's like,
- 43:34Speaker 4: oh he found the bloody.
- 43:38Speaker 5: Right, it wasn't our house.
- 43:40Speaker 25: Right, friends house, and and he was like maybe nine
- 43:45Speaker 25: years old, nine years old.
- 43:47Speaker 4: He's about nine years old when he was comfortable enough to.
- 43:49Speaker 25: Keep he was in the basement and the little boy
- 43:52Speaker 25: had an older brother.
- 43:54Speaker 2: Yeahs, so she had That's when we had the sex
- 44:03Speaker 2: talk and had to have the sex talk with Logan
- 44:06Speaker 2: and Madison.
- 44:07Speaker 5: What kind of sex talk though, It wasn't a back
- 44:10Speaker 5: door sex.
- 44:10Speaker 7: Talk that they just.
- 44:17Speaker 10: They got a full blown sex talk.
- 44:20Speaker 25: They had to understand because if you leave it back.
- 44:24Speaker 4: That's what I'm really trying to figure out. Why was
- 44:27Speaker 4: the condon bloody?
- 44:27Speaker 8: I'm really when somebody ran red, like yeah, somebody, but open.
- 44:38Speaker 15: Somebody ran it would be like a first time thing.
- 44:40Speaker 25: Yeah yeah, but no, they at that point I found
- 44:43Speaker 25: that they were old enough and mature enough, and you're
- 44:46Speaker 25: they're encountering things now, these conversations are being had amongst
- 44:50Speaker 25: their peers, and I knew that if I didn't set
- 44:53Speaker 25: them straight that they were going to be absorbing all
- 44:56Speaker 25: of this wrong information and wrong idea. So I told
- 45:01Speaker 25: them sex feels good. It's a pleasureful experience. God made
- 45:05Speaker 25: us that way because God wants us to reproduce. He
- 45:09Speaker 25: wants us to create offspring. So he made it something
- 45:12Speaker 25: that we would enjoy. But it's meant for someone that
- 45:15Speaker 25: you love, and that's the reason why. So they're like, oh, okay,
- 45:20Speaker 25: so what is it.
- 45:21Speaker 10: Like and what did you say?
- 45:24Speaker 25: Okay, if I'm being honest, I told them that there
- 45:27Speaker 25: is a penis and there is a vagina.
- 45:29Speaker 27: And my son Logan was like, so like this. I
- 45:37Speaker 27: was like, yeah, something like that. I said, you know,
- 45:40Speaker 27: some people look at it as a negative thing. No, no, no,
- 45:44Speaker 27: he really didn't know. He really didn't.
- 45:47Speaker 4: He really didn't.
- 45:48Speaker 25: Even like my eleven year old son right now, he
- 45:51Speaker 25: does not know. So when they asked me questions that
- 45:53Speaker 25: I don't want them to know about. And he's older
- 45:56Speaker 25: than Logan was. But now with I have a better
- 45:59Speaker 25: grip on his friends and a grip on what he's
- 46:02Speaker 25: exposed to on his phone and whatnot in Parameter's boundaries,
- 46:05Speaker 25: so I'm really abreast of what he knows and what
- 46:08Speaker 25: he doesn't and our lines of communication are way better.
- 46:12Speaker 2: Yeah, we have more with Gia Casey when we come back.
- 46:15Speaker 2: Our new book, Real Life, Real Family is out today.
- 46:18Speaker 2: It's a Guy to Raise It, empowered children and it's
- 46:20Speaker 2: the Breakfast Club the War.
- 46:21Speaker 5: Bring Everybody's dj n V, Jesse, Hilarry and Charlamagne to God.
- 46:25Speaker 2: We are the Breakfast Club. Long LaRosa is here as
- 46:28Speaker 2: well as we're kicking it with Gia Casey. Our new book,
- 46:32Speaker 2: Real Life, Real Family is out today. You can pick
- 46:34Speaker 2: it up at Amazon, Bonds and Nobles or Audible.
- 46:37Speaker 6: Jess, you have six kids, So is there anything that
- 46:41Speaker 6: you felt like in the beginning got itt know and
- 46:44Speaker 6: until y'all got to that six kid.
- 46:46Speaker 25: Of course, yeah, like what were some of the I'll
- 46:49Speaker 25: give you a next example, But you didn't know.
- 46:51Speaker 8: You just was like man Rashan winging this like I'll.
- 46:53Speaker 25: Give you, I'll give you an example. So one of
- 46:56Speaker 25: the fails. And this was something that we disagreed on.
- 46:58Speaker 25: So it was the explaining everything to the kids. I
- 47:03Speaker 25: have the patience to do it. And he really is
- 47:05Speaker 25: a because I said so type of guy and it
- 47:08Speaker 25: worked beautifully with Madison, but with Logan from a young age.
- 47:12Speaker 25: I would explain everything to him, and he's a mama's.
- 47:14Speaker 13: Boy times thirty, you know what I mean.
- 47:17Speaker 25: Like, we're very, very close. But it kind of went
- 47:21Speaker 25: wrong with him because what we found was that we
- 47:24Speaker 25: created an environment where he felt that he was entitled
- 47:28Speaker 25: to an explanation, and he felt as though because we
- 47:33Speaker 25: gave him too safe of a space that he could
- 47:36Speaker 25: challenge me, and he can challenge a decision that I made.
- 47:41Speaker 25: So we had to dial that back too, and then
- 47:46Speaker 25: we had to teach boundaries and let him know his place.
- 47:50Speaker 25: So that was a fail in a sense. And Rashalmud
- 47:54Speaker 25: always look at me like, see I told you, Like
- 47:56Speaker 25: see I told you, because.
- 47:57Speaker 4: He's the guy. Because now I got to go discipline
- 47:59Speaker 4: that me and Logan get into it. Now you can't
- 48:02Speaker 4: beat Logan because Logan.
- 48:05Speaker 2: So now I got a discipline Logan and then me
- 48:07Speaker 2: and Logan get into it. But one thing about Logan
- 48:09Speaker 2: and all of our kids, which is the craziest thing,
- 48:11Speaker 2: is they're very forgiven. Like with Logan, I have to
- 48:14Speaker 2: get sometimes so disrespectful for him to understand, and the
- 48:16Speaker 2: next day he's like, hey Dad, what's up? And I'm like,
- 48:18Speaker 2: hey Dad, what's up. But that's how he is, and
- 48:20Speaker 2: he just has conversations. But we have those conversations and
- 48:22Speaker 2: we understand and we talk. But he's he's the one
- 48:25Speaker 2: that just like his mom.
- 48:26Speaker 3: I love that you have a family mission state. Yes,
- 48:30Speaker 3: what is the mission statement? And tell people the importance
- 48:32Speaker 3: of that.
- 48:32Speaker 4: Well, just so we know. We don't have it on
- 48:34Speaker 4: our wall and then make the kids read it when
- 48:35Speaker 4: they walk in the house. It's statement.
- 48:37Speaker 5: It's not like that.
- 48:39Speaker 2: So our mission statement is just something that we, you know,
- 48:42Speaker 2: as a family, we all live by, right, And I'll
- 48:44Speaker 2: read some of them. And the reason is is we
- 48:46Speaker 2: are a close unit. Right, So if you see us together,
- 48:49Speaker 2: we're all always out together. You see me the other
- 48:51Speaker 2: day with Jackson, You've seen me before and Charlamande seen before.
- 48:54Speaker 2: So the mission statement is we are a unit, right.
- 48:56Speaker 2: We all ride together like we are really a unit,
- 48:58Speaker 2: a unit. I'm an only child, so I'm heavy into
- 49:01Speaker 2: taking care of each other. We respect each other, of course,
- 49:04Speaker 2: simple like we make sure that you know, we respect
- 49:07Speaker 2: each other's feeling.
- 49:07Speaker 4: We always have each other's backs. That's one thing that
- 49:09Speaker 4: we always do.
- 49:10Speaker 2: And it you know, sometimes when we have conversations up here,
- 49:13Speaker 2: I always talk about my kids, so when they see
- 49:14Speaker 2: stuff on social media at times I have to stop
- 49:17Speaker 2: them because they will go in especially Logan Logan, Oh yeah.
- 49:22Speaker 4: We always love.
- 49:23Speaker 5: Uplift each other and pointing out the good in one another.
- 49:25Speaker 4: Right.
- 49:25Speaker 2: We see that more especially with our girls in dance
- 49:27Speaker 2: because they compete against each other a lot, so when
- 49:30Speaker 2: they do, we have to make sure that regardless of
- 49:32Speaker 2: what happens. Like a couple of weeks ago, London lost
- 49:34Speaker 2: and we thought London got jerked. So I told, you know,
- 49:37Speaker 2: I had a conversation with Brooklyn, and Brooklyn was like that,
- 49:39Speaker 2: don't worry, I'm gonna get first and second four And
- 49:41Speaker 2: she went out there and busted.
- 49:42Speaker 5: At the first and second.
- 49:43Speaker 25: She got first place and second again.
- 49:45Speaker 2: You know, gave the first place to her sister because
- 49:47Speaker 2: that's what it was. We represent each other at all times.
- 49:49Speaker 2: That's how it always is. So we always tell our
- 49:52Speaker 2: kids if we're not there, you make sure that those
- 49:54Speaker 2: parents come back and say, oh my gosh, she was
- 49:56Speaker 2: such a pleasure. He was polite, He was this even
- 49:58Speaker 2: with Jackson at the game. You know, Jackson said thank
- 50:01Speaker 2: you a million one time, so you said hello million
- 50:03Speaker 2: one times. You because that's what he's taught to do.
- 50:05Speaker 4: That you show respect with that.
- 50:08Speaker 25: My goal for my kids is that when they leave
- 50:10Speaker 25: our house, I want everyone that they come in contact
- 50:14Speaker 25: with to know that they're well loved. What we teach
- 50:17Speaker 25: you inside this house you exemplify outside of this house.
- 50:21Speaker 25: And these are things that a lot of parents don't
- 50:23Speaker 25: put into perspective when raising children, because what do we
- 50:26Speaker 25: usually do. We take, like, you know, an idea, and
- 50:28Speaker 25: we throw it up against the wall.
- 50:29Speaker 26: We see if it sticks or not.
- 50:31Speaker 8: You know what I mean?
- 50:31Speaker 25: Oh that worked, Oh that didn't.
- 50:33Speaker 15: Okay.
- 50:34Speaker 25: But a lot of people don't have something tangible that
- 50:37Speaker 25: they can go back to and be like, this is
- 50:39Speaker 25: a way to create a foundation, This is a way
- 50:42Speaker 25: to create a structure. And because we had so many
- 50:45Speaker 25: ups and downs, we were able to do that and
- 50:48Speaker 25: put it in one place.
- 50:50Speaker 5: And I think the biggest story I now you hate
- 50:51Speaker 5: want to tell a story was Jackson.
- 50:52Speaker 7: Right.
- 50:52Speaker 5: So we had a parent teachers night a couple of
- 50:54Speaker 5: weeks ago.
- 50:55Speaker 4: Oh, and a teacher came up to me teach it.
- 50:57Speaker 4: I had no idea.
- 50:58Speaker 5: You know, he was a stem night stem night.
- 51:00Speaker 2: So he walks up to me, he was like, are
- 51:01Speaker 2: you Jackson's dad, and I'm like, yeah, what A teacher
- 51:03Speaker 2: usually asked that bs right. So I'm like, oh, hey,
- 51:05Speaker 2: we go what did Jackson do? And he was like,
- 51:07Speaker 2: I just want to tell you. You know, Jackson did
- 51:08Speaker 2: something that no child adult has done in my life.
- 51:12Speaker 2: The other day, I'm walking down the hall and Jackson
- 51:13Speaker 2: comes running up to me and he goes, you.
- 51:15Speaker 13: Know, are you okay?
- 51:16Speaker 4: And the teacher was like, what do you mean.
- 51:17Speaker 5: He was like, you just don't look as happy as
- 51:19Speaker 5: usually do.
- 51:19Speaker 4: Are you are right?
- 51:20Speaker 2: Is anything bothering you? Would you like to have a
- 51:21Speaker 2: conversation with me and just talk it through. He's like, now,
- 51:29Speaker 2: you just don't seem as happy as you do, but
- 51:30Speaker 2: don't let things stretch you out. Just pray on it
- 51:33Speaker 2: and tomorrow be better, right, and if you need to talk.
- 51:35Speaker 4: To me, come talk to me.
- 51:35Speaker 2: And he said Jackson ran off and he was like,
- 51:37Speaker 2: I've never had an adult or a child ever do
- 51:39Speaker 2: that to me. So he was like, whatever you're doing
- 51:41Speaker 2: at home, continue that, and you know, I mean that
- 51:43Speaker 2: just shows.
- 51:44Speaker 4: What the kids are learning at home is worth everything.
- 51:46Speaker 4: So you need to report that teacher too. He don't
- 51:48Speaker 4: need to be in the school.
- 51:54Speaker 5: Like you got some time, such a beautiful.
- 52:03Speaker 25: Fam Thank you, thank you you know.
- 52:10Speaker 2: Have you, thank you for pulling up And for everybody else,
- 52:13Speaker 2: we just want to add this last part. We actually
- 52:14Speaker 2: wrote it with somebody that helped us out.
- 52:16Speaker 5: With terms and helped us with different phrases and helped
- 52:18Speaker 5: us with made sure that we were actually doing the
- 52:20Speaker 5: right thing when it came to raising our kids.
- 52:22Speaker 25: Yes, so we wrote it alongside a psychologist because yes,
- 52:27Speaker 25: because we wanted to make sure that our outlooks were
- 52:32Speaker 25: were on the level that I would want to put
- 52:35Speaker 25: it out to the public. I wanted the psychological research
- 52:39Speaker 25: and quarterbacking behind the way that we parent to pretty
- 52:43Speaker 25: much put a stamp on it, to know that what
- 52:46Speaker 25: we're doing not just from our personal experience driven point
- 52:49Speaker 25: of view is sound, but from a psychological point of
- 52:52Speaker 25: view is also sound. I wanted to make sure that
- 52:54Speaker 25: alongside the truth and the transparency and the experience that
- 52:58Speaker 25: we had that back to the book as well. I
- 53:01Speaker 25: wanted that level of value in the book as well.
- 53:04Speaker 25: So and also, you know, if you have a child
- 53:06Speaker 25: with anxiety, add ADHD, other setbacks, other disabilities, you know
- 53:12Speaker 25: we speak to you in this book as well. Because
- 53:14Speaker 25: those people are very like they don't have that many resources.
- 53:17Speaker 25: This book is for anyone who is a parent, a
- 53:19Speaker 25: single parent, a parent that.
- 53:21Speaker 5: Is married, maybe about to have kids in next.
- 53:24Speaker 25: Time, someone that wants to have a child.
- 53:27Speaker 10: Wow, you.
- 53:31Speaker 25: Look over, thank you, It's it's It's it's forever. It's
- 53:34Speaker 25: a very relatable book and there's a lot of exercises
- 53:37Speaker 25: in the book. We kind of also created it in
- 53:38Speaker 25: like a workbook style, so there's a lot of reflections.
- 53:41Speaker 25: There's a lot of places in there for you to
- 53:43Speaker 25: answer questions so you can kind of analyze yourself and
- 53:46Speaker 25: understand your own point of view in a way of
- 53:48Speaker 25: like articulation, where if you haven't really thought about certain things,
- 53:51Speaker 25: it'll jog you to think about things. And even if
- 53:54Speaker 25: you don't do don't take our take, it encourages you
- 53:57Speaker 25: and helps you to come up with your own takes
- 53:59Speaker 25: on parenting so you have real family.
- 54:03Speaker 4: The Casey Crew, the Breakfast Club, drop on the clothes
- 54:06Speaker 4: bomb for a while, Gonna give us some new music.
- 54:08Speaker 15: Man you ask new music, Yeah, I don't know the
- 54:11Speaker 15: exact names and stuff, but he has something. He has
- 54:13Speaker 15: something on.
- 54:13Speaker 3: Make sure you go get DJ envying gear Casey's new book,
- 54:17Speaker 3: Real Life, Real Family, A Guide to Raising Empowered Children.
- 54:21Speaker 8: I don't know why.
- 54:23Speaker 4: And he just told everybody that he gave me the
- 54:26Speaker 4: ass and that I did not. Sagg I said, you
- 54:29Speaker 4: gave me the ass?
- 54:30Speaker 3: Whoa First of all, I would never be a bottom exactly.
- 54:36Speaker 15: The girls do say you get bottom.
- 54:38Speaker 4: Give is one thing. Being is another.
- 54:44Speaker 5: Let's get to the latest with Lauren wan becoming a
- 54:47Speaker 5: straight fast. She gets them somebody that knows somebody detail.
- 54:52Speaker 15: I'm a long girl that knows a little bit about everything.
- 54:55Speaker 4: She'd be having the latest on you, the.
- 54:59Speaker 11: Latest with Sometimes you have fact, sometimes you have details,
- 55:02Speaker 11: sometimes you have a little bit every time.
- 55:04Speaker 13: It's the leader on the Breakfast Club.
- 55:08Speaker 23: So speaking of DJ Mvy and Gia in Real Life,
- 55:11Speaker 23: Real Family A Guide to Raise it Empowered Children. Uh,
- 55:15Speaker 23: the envy, You and Gia were on Mandy's podcasts, many podcasts.
- 55:19Speaker 4: That's right, decisions decisions, Yes, go Jack.
- 55:28Speaker 23: So you guys sat down with them and you talked
- 55:29Speaker 23: a lot about your family, your relationship, your love.
- 55:32Speaker 15: But for some reason you went back to the Oregon.
- 55:35Speaker 5: I didn't go back.
- 55:36Speaker 4: I didn't go back.
- 55:38Speaker 15: How did do you want to explain how you ended
- 55:40Speaker 15: up there.
- 55:40Speaker 4: I don't know how we ended.
- 55:41Speaker 3: Tell me what you're talking about. First law for those
- 55:44Speaker 3: who haven't read the first book, and tell them what happened.
- 55:47Speaker 23: So for those who have not read dj Mvy's first book,
- 55:50Speaker 23: he talks about in the book not being able to
- 55:52Speaker 23: make his wife Gia orgasm for how long Envy?
- 55:56Speaker 4: Ten years? A whole, decade, a whole.
- 56:00Speaker 15: You have a child older than ten years old.
- 56:02Speaker 2: That's not true. It's it's out of but I don't know.
- 56:05Speaker 2: But go ahead, why is it not true when you
- 56:07Speaker 2: said it?
- 56:08Speaker 4: Ahead?
- 56:08Speaker 23: Please, we have audio of MB explained NB and GI
- 56:12Speaker 23: explaining how that story was twisted.
- 56:15Speaker 15: Let's take a listen to the.
- 56:16Speaker 6: Twisted What's something you told in either book that you
- 56:19Speaker 6: were like, I can't believe we just gave this up.
- 56:23Speaker 5: The first one, I don't care.
- 56:23Speaker 4: But the first one is the orgasm thing.
- 56:25Speaker 8: Oh, that you never made her orgasm is crazy.
- 56:28Speaker 26: Not never up until a certain point.
- 56:30Speaker 8: She's crazy that you said you stayed because girls, my
- 56:33Speaker 8: mouth was good.
- 56:34Speaker 5: It's just my game for clarification.
- 56:38Speaker 10: Up to a certain point.
- 56:39Speaker 25: I wasn't regularly having orgasms through intercourse, other I was
- 56:43Speaker 25: having orgasms in other ways.
- 56:44Speaker 8: Which is That's not what I thought.
- 56:47Speaker 15: That's not what I because that's not how the media
- 56:49Speaker 15: is spunished.
- 56:50Speaker 4: I had anyone read the book, they would understand.
- 56:56Speaker 26: It's not that I was this long suffering.
- 56:58Speaker 5: Wife hashtag poor Gilla though.
- 57:01Speaker 3: Forgive Yeah no, if that wasn't a whole decade, ten years,
- 57:11Speaker 3: three thousand, six hundred and fifty days.
- 57:13Speaker 5: I like, you know, I have a book.
- 57:16Speaker 15: It down for envy.
- 57:17Speaker 2: He'd be doing that and talks about that, talks about
- 57:19Speaker 2: our family and kids, and that's the clip you pull her.
- 57:22Speaker 23: Yes, because I really don't understand why you went back here,
- 57:25Speaker 23: and we had to explained how you got to the kids.
- 57:26Speaker 4: Are almost didting decisions? Decisions?
- 57:30Speaker 23: Another thing that another thing that I thought was interesting
- 57:34Speaker 23: from this conversation.
- 57:35Speaker 15: I've never heard this side of it.
- 57:36Speaker 23: Gia actually explained that she feels like it was actually
- 57:40Speaker 23: her that was a part of the non orgasm problem.
- 57:42Speaker 15: Let's take a listen.
- 57:44Speaker 25: Through vaginal penetration every single time I get busy. Now,
- 57:49Speaker 25: it's didn't get busy, It had nothing to do with it.
- 57:53Speaker 5: So, which is the about men entering the sexual space?
- 57:56Speaker 13: Right?
- 57:57Speaker 5: There's nobody to talk who never sat down to your point?
- 58:00Speaker 10: What what do most guys do?
- 58:02Speaker 5: They watched Point and when you watch Point or you see.
- 58:05Speaker 4: Is bang bang bang bang book, right, So you start trying.
- 58:08Speaker 2: To do that, you realize there was no sensuality, You
- 58:11Speaker 2: realize there was no touch. You realize it's a movie.
- 58:14Speaker 25: That's a very very small part of it. So the
- 58:16Speaker 25: problem was the problem was me, and I was too
- 58:20Speaker 25: young to understand your body, my body. So when I
- 58:25Speaker 25: was in that role, it was about me performing for
- 58:29Speaker 25: my boyfriend, me performing for my husband. So I was
- 58:33Speaker 25: in so much of a pleasure mode that I neglected myself.
- 58:38Speaker 2: Mmm.
- 58:39Speaker 10: You know what, though I ain't gonna hold you that,
- 58:41Speaker 10: you know I was.
- 58:42Speaker 6: I thought she was making excuses for little envy, uh
- 58:45Speaker 6: you know before But you know that is actually something
- 58:47Speaker 6: very true because honestly, I didn't have an orgasm until
- 58:50Speaker 6: later on.
- 58:51Speaker 8: Either, like, and I didn't know what was happening. I
- 58:53Speaker 8: didn't know what was you know what I'm saying. So
- 58:54Speaker 8: I do understand. But she, y'all should have said that
- 58:56Speaker 8: in the first book, exactly said that in.
- 58:58Speaker 5: The first book.
- 58:59Speaker 2: But Charlemagne only took a certain part out and been
- 59:02Speaker 2: going with this part for the last five years.
- 59:04Speaker 3: Real life real orgasm, A guy having an empowered for
- 59:09Speaker 3: a gasm.
- 59:10Speaker 13: Out to date.
- 59:11Speaker 2: Oh my godess, there's so much you could have took
- 59:13Speaker 2: from the book, so many things that we talked about
- 59:15Speaker 2: the kids.
- 59:15Speaker 13: But that's where you wanted to go.
- 59:16Speaker 4: Okay.
- 59:17Speaker 23: I wanted you to know, as a media personality, you
- 59:20Speaker 23: should know how to not say certain things.
- 59:22Speaker 15: You said, my pen game. You had to get your
- 59:24Speaker 15: pen game right? My pen pen? Oh you said pen?
- 59:27Speaker 15: I get busy?
- 59:27Speaker 23: Now is the quote you want people to leave with
- 59:30Speaker 23: from this interviews?
- 59:31Speaker 5: What y'all took?
- 59:33Speaker 3: Well, you know, I can't wait for real life update
- 59:35Speaker 3: on his ten years of not giving his wife an orgasm.
- 59:38Speaker 4: I get busy now. I can't wait for real life
- 59:42Speaker 4: real wigs to come out. Becau.
- 59:43Speaker 8: We're gonna have some conversations, real life real wigs.
- 59:46Speaker 26: You heard them.
- 59:47Speaker 15: Just it's cool. You know what I'm gonna do to
- 59:50Speaker 15: help fund that book? There is another go fun me.
- 59:53Speaker 23: I saw it surfaced online this morning, hashtags still poor Gia.
- 59:56Speaker 4: Oh my goodness, you'll better not doing a dollar. This
- 59:59Speaker 4: thing's twenty.
- 1:00:00Speaker 15: Four thousand dollars?
- 1:00:01Speaker 4: Is the goal?
- 1:00:01Speaker 15: You've been together twenty four years?
- 1:00:02Speaker 12: Right?
- 1:00:03Speaker 4: Thirty one years?
- 1:00:04Speaker 15: Thirty one.
- 1:00:04Speaker 4: Oh, shoot, we've been married twenty four.
- 1:00:06Speaker 23: We gave her twenty four because the length of the
- 1:00:08Speaker 23: marriage is what we're trying to compensate.
- 1:00:10Speaker 13: The point of the goal.
- 1:00:10Speaker 4: Fund me again.
- 1:00:11Speaker 15: She they and be said the dad created them early
- 1:00:13Speaker 15: on so she could use the money to go get pleasure.
- 1:00:16Speaker 10: Damn.
- 1:00:16Speaker 8: So I say, it's still pooring pleasure you get every
- 1:00:20Speaker 8: time we continue on.
- 1:00:21Speaker 4: Please, that's in the book, that no dad book, that's
- 1:00:24Speaker 4: not in the books.
- 1:00:24Speaker 5: You mean to go get pleasure? That's not I don't
- 1:00:26Speaker 5: know if you talk your wife raising money, she's not
- 1:00:28Speaker 5: raising no money, man joking.
- 1:00:30Speaker 10: People don't believe you.
- 1:00:32Speaker 4: To go get pleasure from who?
- 1:00:33Speaker 7: What?
- 1:00:34Speaker 4: What is what Lauren just talking about on this riding.
- 1:00:37Speaker 23: Please make sure you guys go get real life, real family,
- 1:00:39Speaker 23: a guid to raise empowered children and understand your pen game.
- 1:00:42Speaker 4: Well, raise the father who raising the father in that house.
- 1:00:45Speaker 4: That's what I need, logan. You're raising the father who're
- 1:00:48Speaker 4: raising the daddy in that house? And we check your
- 1:00:51Speaker 4: phone book is out now, and so is that not?
- 1:00:54Speaker 15: Where did they grab the book from?
- 1:00:55Speaker 2: And they can get it from Balls and Nobles anywhere
- 1:00:57Speaker 2: on Amazon. Who y'all really created to go fund me man,
- 1:01:02Speaker 2: take that down. You know who put you know what
- 1:01:05Speaker 2: support Gear's journey to relief hashtags still pull.
- 1:01:09Speaker 4: Yeah, Oh my goodness, you know what.
- 1:01:11Speaker 23: Go grab the book, do y'all'll you'll know, y'all some
- 1:01:14Speaker 23: of my favorite married couples and engaged couples. Yes, I
- 1:01:16Speaker 23: love hearing y'all talking about your relationships.
- 1:01:19Speaker 8: Thanks, mate, So you know what not to doe.
- 1:01:22Speaker 3: She ain't never got to worry about it. Oh, don't
- 1:01:25Speaker 3: even worry about it. She'll never be in that situation.
- 1:01:28Speaker 8: You know what?
- 1:01:28Speaker 10: Was crazy?
- 1:01:29Speaker 8: Y'all gonna be real shocked when y'all see a man
- 1:01:31Speaker 8: come up there for her.
- 1:01:32Speaker 4: That's we are.
- 1:01:37Speaker 3: When that guy get down on his knees and pull
- 1:01:39Speaker 3: a ring out of Lauren Wig and she didn't even
- 1:01:42Speaker 3: know what it was, I'm gonna be shot.
- 1:01:44Speaker 4: I'm just like, Wow. I just hope I'm allowed to
- 1:01:46Speaker 4: see it. I hope by ninety nine, and I hope
- 1:01:48Speaker 4: I'm allowed to be sure you want to do this? Sorry,
- 1:01:52Speaker 4: Oh ma'am are you sure?
- 1:01:53Speaker 8: Or ma'am or ma'am listen, it's going to happen. It's
- 1:01:57Speaker 8: gonna happen, period.
- 1:01:59Speaker 13: All right.
- 1:01:59Speaker 5: Well, that was the latest with Lauren. I guess all right,
- 1:02:01Speaker 5: Charlamage here, you give me a donkey too.
- 1:02:03Speaker 3: We need a man named Edgar Verdusco. I don't know
- 1:02:06Speaker 3: if that's how he pronounced his last name, but he
- 1:02:07Speaker 3: needs to come to the front of the congregation. We
- 1:02:09Speaker 3: would like to have a word with him. He does
- 1:02:10Speaker 3: not care about other humans on this planet, and he's
- 1:02:13Speaker 3: the reason why I hate humans. We'll discuss, all right.
- 1:02:16Speaker 4: We'll get to that next. It's the Breakfast Club.
- 1:02:17Speaker 13: Good morning, you're checking out the Breakfast Club.
- 1:02:20Speaker 5: I was donkey up today, man, Damn he hogged.
- 1:02:26Speaker 13: It's time the donkey of the j I mean trying
- 1:02:29Speaker 13: to be donkey today.
- 1:02:30Speaker 8: No more.
- 1:02:30Speaker 4: They should be harassed by what they already did. I'm
- 1:02:33Speaker 4: not making these people do these.
- 1:02:34Speaker 15: Days called donkey of the day, and it really caught
- 1:02:37Speaker 15: me off guard. Damn Charlomagne, who got the donkey.
- 1:02:40Speaker 26: Of the day today?
- 1:02:42Speaker 4: Will jess hilarious?
- 1:02:43Speaker 3: Donkey today for Tuesday, April fifteenth goes to a thirty
- 1:02:46Speaker 3: four year old former police officer named Edgar Verdusco. He
- 1:02:50Speaker 3: used to be a police officer for the Los Angeles
- 1:02:52Speaker 3: Police Department and he is the latest example of why
- 1:02:55Speaker 3: I simply hate humans.
- 1:02:56Speaker 4: I've come to the conclusion that what annoys me about.
- 1:02:58Speaker 3: Life the most is people, which is crange because the
- 1:03:01Speaker 3: thing I love most about life is people.
- 1:03:05Speaker 4: But I like considerate people.
- 1:03:06Speaker 3: Okay, we had mel Robbins up here yesterday and she
- 1:03:08Speaker 3: was speaking to how emotionally disconnected some people are from
- 1:03:11Speaker 3: the actual human experience, and this story is just another
- 1:03:15Speaker 3: example of that. Edgar on Friday pled guilty to three
- 1:03:18Speaker 3: counts of murder. Okay, this man killed a mother, of
- 1:03:21Speaker 3: father and a teenage son. Would you like to know
- 1:03:23Speaker 3: how it happened. Let's go to ABC seven Eye with
- 1:03:25Speaker 3: his news for the report.
- 1:03:25Speaker 1: Police, a former LAPD officer is heading to prison after
- 1:03:29Speaker 1: pleading guilty to murder in a fiery DUI crash. Thirty
- 1:03:32Speaker 1: four year old Edgar Verdusco faces fifteen years to life
- 1:03:36Speaker 1: for killing three people on the six OZ five Freeway
- 1:03:38Speaker 1: and twenty seventeen. The off duty police officer was driving
- 1:03:42Speaker 1: one hundred and fifty miles an hour while under the
- 1:03:44Speaker 1: influence of alcohol when he hit two vehicles. One of
- 1:03:47Speaker 1: them plowed into the center divider and burst into flames,
- 1:03:50Speaker 1: killing Marabelle and Mario Davalla and their nineteen year old
- 1:03:53Speaker 1: son Oscar, who was a student at UC Riverside for DUSCO,
- 1:03:56Speaker 1: is due back in court in July for sentencing rest
- 1:03:59Speaker 1: in peace.
- 1:03:59Speaker 3: Today, that family man dead because of somebody else's negligence. Edgar,
- 1:04:03Speaker 3: you have to get the book thrown at you. Okay,
- 1:04:05Speaker 3: put him under the prison. You're a police officer, so
- 1:04:08Speaker 3: you know the law. You knew drinking and driving, the speeding,
- 1:04:11Speaker 3: the reckless driving, vehicular homicide. You know the law and
- 1:04:14Speaker 3: you know what all that carries. Plus your job is
- 1:04:17Speaker 3: to protect and serve. You did none of that, so
- 1:04:20Speaker 3: your penalty has to be harsh.
- 1:04:22Speaker 4: Okay.
- 1:04:22Speaker 3: And I'm taking in this story and it makes me
- 1:04:24Speaker 3: feel why did God give us free will? Okay, I'm
- 1:04:28Speaker 3: glad God gave it to us. But free will is
- 1:04:30Speaker 3: like a baked potato. Okay, it needs toppings to really
- 1:04:33Speaker 3: elevate it. Okay, you can eat a big potato plane.
- 1:04:36Speaker 3: But when you put butter on it, or sour cream,
- 1:04:39Speaker 3: or chives or salt or pepper. Some people like cheese.
- 1:04:42Speaker 3: I'm lactose in tolerance, so I don't do that. Some
- 1:04:44Speaker 3: people like chili on it, green onions. I've seen broccoli
- 1:04:47Speaker 3: on big potatoes. My point is free will, and free
- 1:04:50Speaker 3: will alone is not enough, Okay. In order to maximize
- 1:04:53Speaker 3: free will, you need self awareness. You need to pay
- 1:04:56Speaker 3: attention to the present moment. You need to manage your
- 1:04:58Speaker 3: emotional state. You need to be of good case.
- 1:05:00Speaker 4: And you don't need to be on drugs and alcohol
- 1:05:02Speaker 4: because those things caused you to make poor choices with
- 1:05:05Speaker 4: that free will. And what does your uncle Shall always.
- 1:05:07Speaker 3: Tell you on this damn radio, Destiny is not a
- 1:05:10Speaker 3: matter of chance, It's a matter of choice. This guy,
- 1:05:13Speaker 3: Edgar exercised his free will to make a poor choice.
- 1:05:16Speaker 4: And this is why I don't like humans.
- 1:05:20Speaker 3: When mel Robbins was here talking about people who leave
- 1:05:22Speaker 3: the bathroom disgusting, it hit me because that's one of
- 1:05:24Speaker 3: my pet peeves. I hate when I walk in the
- 1:05:25Speaker 3: bathroom and see somebody else's dodo in the toilet. Even worse,
- 1:05:29Speaker 3: when you see that they left the toilet lining on
- 1:05:31Speaker 3: the seat, It's like, what type of rush are you in?
- 1:05:33Speaker 4: Don't you know other people have to use this bathroom.
- 1:05:36Speaker 4: I feel the same way about drunk driving.
- 1:05:39Speaker 3: Okay, now you're talking to a person who almost killed
- 1:05:41Speaker 3: himself drunk driving.
- 1:05:42Speaker 4: When I was a young lad, so I'm speaking from experience.
- 1:05:45Speaker 4: I was selfish. I wasn't thinking about anybody but myself.
- 1:05:48Speaker 3: I had zero regard for other people's lives in that moment,
- 1:05:51Speaker 3: and thank God, my dumb ass you know when I wrecked,
- 1:05:53Speaker 3: didn't kill myself or anyone else. For more on that story,
- 1:05:57Speaker 3: go to Amazon and purchase my first book, Black Privilege, Opportunity.
- 1:06:00Speaker 3: He comes to those who created available everywhere you buy books. Now,
- 1:06:02Speaker 3: I hate people, Okay, This man Edgar posted a video
- 1:06:06Speaker 3: on social media with the hashtag Oh, that's the part
- 1:06:09Speaker 3: of the story I left up. This man Edgar posted
- 1:06:13Speaker 3: a video on social media with the hashtag don't drink
- 1:06:19Speaker 3: and drive, and then shortly after gotten his card, drunk
- 1:06:24Speaker 3: and killed three people.
- 1:06:26Speaker 4: I repeat, this man Edgar posted a.
- 1:06:29Speaker 3: Video on social media with the hashtag don't drink and drive,
- 1:06:34Speaker 3: and then shortly after killed three people drunk driving.
- 1:06:37Speaker 4: This goes back to what I said.
- 1:06:38Speaker 3: About self awareness, paying attention to the present moment. God,
- 1:06:41Speaker 3: God literally told Edgar what to do, and he did
- 1:06:46Speaker 3: the opposite. We have all these conversations about signs, look
- 1:06:49Speaker 3: for signs. God put it in his head, in his
- 1:06:52Speaker 3: heart so much that he shared with social.
- 1:06:55Speaker 4: Media a message that he ignored. Don't drink and drive, Edgar.
- 1:07:02Speaker 4: That was for you in that moment. It doesn't get
- 1:07:05Speaker 4: much clearer in that gang, but you can see.
- 1:07:07Speaker 3: It because you are a human being that is so
- 1:07:09Speaker 3: disconnected from the interconnection to the human experience. I don't
- 1:07:12Speaker 3: care if you drinking and driving or leaving a public
- 1:07:15Speaker 3: bathroom filthy. When you do those things, you are simply
- 1:07:19Speaker 3: not thinking about other people. But don't listen to me though, Okay,
- 1:07:23Speaker 3: I just stopped being a sociopath about a decade ago.
- 1:07:25Speaker 4: Mel Robbins explains it way better than me.
- 1:07:29Speaker 28: When you go into a public bathroom, two things. I
- 1:07:31Speaker 28: always leave the space better than when I found it.
- 1:07:35Speaker 28: If somebody destroys the seat, peas all over it and
- 1:07:37Speaker 28: then they leave, that is a human being that is
- 1:07:41Speaker 28: so disconnected ooh, from the interconnection of the human experience.
- 1:07:47Speaker 28: You are leaving that for another person, and so making
- 1:07:51Speaker 28: sure that you don't leave your mess for another person,
- 1:07:54Speaker 28: making sure that you just kind of wipe down the counter.
- 1:07:55Speaker 28: And then here's the second thing. If there is a
- 1:07:57Speaker 28: human being cleaning that bathroom, please look in the ai
- 1:08:00Speaker 28: and say thank you all the time, all the time,
- 1:08:02Speaker 28: like that, right, there is a simple thing that will
- 1:08:07Speaker 28: make you start to shake out of that woe is
- 1:08:10Speaker 28: me or that stress or that overwhelm. Let them know
- 1:08:14Speaker 28: you appreciate and see what they're doing.
- 1:08:16Speaker 8: Like you know, I can't let you.
- 1:08:18Speaker 10: I'm gonna cry.
- 1:08:19Speaker 28: People are just walking around disconnected and the power of
- 1:08:24Speaker 28: starting to be the one that wakes people up. These
- 1:08:28Speaker 28: relationships matter because they make you feel human again.
- 1:08:33Speaker 3: The moral of the story is get connected to the
- 1:08:36Speaker 3: interconnection of the human experience.
- 1:08:39Speaker 4: You're not on this earth alone. Please let rem Ma
- 1:08:42Speaker 4: give Edgar Ford Dusk the biggest he huh hee ha
- 1:08:46Speaker 4: he ha, You stupid mother, Are you dumb?
- 1:08:51Speaker 2: All right, well, thank you for that donkey today, Yes, ma'am,
- 1:08:54Speaker 2: all right now when we come back eight hundreds, just
- 1:08:56Speaker 2: ignore it, just ignore it, just ignore it.
- 1:08:58Speaker 5: Dis ignore it. He's fantasized right now.
- 1:09:01Speaker 13: Ignore it.
- 1:09:02Speaker 2: Eight hundred five eight five one on five won. My book,
- 1:09:05Speaker 2: Real Life, Real Family is out today. Gea was just
- 1:09:08Speaker 2: joined the breakfast club. What about forty five minutes ago,
- 1:09:11Speaker 2: and we were talking about how we raised our kids,
- 1:09:13Speaker 2: and this is how the conversation went.
- 1:09:15Speaker 8: Would you say that you and and we have two
- 1:09:19Speaker 8: different parenting styles? Absolutely the more lenient.
- 1:09:22Speaker 2: It depends what it is. I'm disciplined. I was the
- 1:09:24Speaker 2: yell of the screamer because I said so, gear is
- 1:09:27Speaker 2: a lot different. She wants to know why, Yeah, did
- 1:09:30Speaker 2: you feel that?
- 1:09:31Speaker 4: But I she likes to break down. Yeah, you don't
- 1:09:33Speaker 4: get it.
- 1:09:34Speaker 8: You're gonna get it by the end of the right
- 1:09:36Speaker 8: words exactly.
- 1:09:38Speaker 2: So you gotta think, really think before you speak to
- 1:09:40Speaker 2: up because she's like, all right, explain that, like I
- 1:09:42Speaker 2: just said it, just because no, no, no, explain this.
- 1:09:44Speaker 2: But so I'm more like, because I said so, she's
- 1:09:48Speaker 2: more like, well, you can't go to the more because
- 1:09:50Speaker 2: of this, because this could happen. Explain your parenting style.
- 1:09:53Speaker 2: Mine is my dad was like no, and you didn't
- 1:09:55Speaker 2: ask why, it just it was what it was. You
- 1:09:57Speaker 2: just figured out later.
- 1:09:58Speaker 4: Gar is a little different the explanation.
- 1:10:01Speaker 25: Yeah, so that's how my parents were with me. I
- 1:10:04Speaker 25: knew that my parents never said no just for the
- 1:10:06Speaker 25: sake of saying no, because parents are overworked and they
- 1:10:09Speaker 25: are stressed. You really have to take a moment. You
- 1:10:12Speaker 25: have to take a beat. We all have to take
- 1:10:14Speaker 25: a beat to listen to our children and be patient.
- 1:10:17Speaker 25: And because I knew that my parents were invested in
- 1:10:20Speaker 25: me that way. I knew that when they said no,
- 1:10:23Speaker 25: there was a good reason.
- 1:10:24Speaker 2: So we're asking eight hundred five eight five one oh
- 1:10:28Speaker 2: five one. How does your parenting style different from your partners?
- 1:10:31Speaker 22: Yeah?
- 1:10:31Speaker 3: I mean explanations are good. That's how you learn, not
- 1:10:33Speaker 3: just in parenting, like even just as a couple. For example,
- 1:10:36Speaker 3: if you say to your wife, did you orgasm and
- 1:10:38Speaker 3: she says no, you know she should explain to you
- 1:10:40Speaker 3: why she didn't so you can make her the next time.
- 1:10:42Speaker 2: Right, So the question is eight hundred five eight five
- 1:10:45Speaker 2: one oh five one. How does your parent iss style
- 1:10:48Speaker 2: different from your partners?
- 1:10:49Speaker 5: Like Jess.
- 1:10:50Speaker 2: I'm sure you and Chris is your parent are different
- 1:10:52Speaker 2: or even you Enrome. So when we come back, we'll
- 1:10:56Speaker 2: find out, you know, how it differs and which one works?
- 1:10:59Speaker 2: You say, I just ignore Charla.
- 1:11:00Speaker 3: Made yes like yesterday for the birthdays. I'm sure y'all
- 1:11:03Speaker 3: did two different things.
- 1:11:04Speaker 12: Right?
- 1:11:05Speaker 8: No? No, No, Rome had actually work So Rome had
- 1:11:07Speaker 8: them last week? Got you?
- 1:11:09Speaker 10: Yeah, then he came.
- 1:11:09Speaker 2: So that is the question, and what impact does it
- 1:11:12Speaker 2: have on your child? Eight hundred five eight five one
- 1:11:14Speaker 2: oh five one. You want to kiss me? I can
- 1:11:16Speaker 2: tell I could tell are you talking to just like that,
- 1:11:18Speaker 2: I'm talking to you.
- 1:11:21Speaker 10: I don't even like them.
- 1:11:22Speaker 13: The Breakfast Club. It's topic time.
- 1:11:38Speaker 2: Eight hundred and five eight five one five one to
- 1:11:40Speaker 2: join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club.
- 1:11:44Speaker 5: Morning everybody. It's DJ Envy, Jess, Hilarious, Charlamage to God.
- 1:11:48Speaker 2: We are the Breakfast Club. Now, if you're just joining us,
- 1:11:51Speaker 2: my new book, Real Life, Real Family is out today.
- 1:11:54Speaker 2: You could pick it up at Barnes and Nobles, Apple,
- 1:11:56Speaker 2: I said, Apple, Amazon, or wherever you buy your books.
- 1:11:59Speaker 2: Is available on audible as well. Now, if you just
- 1:12:02Speaker 2: join us. Geared just left and we were talking about
- 1:12:04Speaker 2: our different parenting style. So we're asking eight hundred and
- 1:12:07Speaker 2: five eight five one on five to one, how is
- 1:12:09Speaker 2: your parenting style different from your partners?
- 1:12:11Speaker 4: Is Gear talking about it?
- 1:12:13Speaker 8: Would you say that you and and we have two
- 1:12:16Speaker 8: different parenting styles? Absolutely, the more lenient.
- 1:12:19Speaker 2: It depends what it is. I'm disciplined. I was the
- 1:12:22Speaker 2: yell of the screamer because I said, so, Gear is
- 1:12:24Speaker 2: a lot different.
- 1:12:26Speaker 13: She wants to know why.
- 1:12:27Speaker 8: Yeah, did you feel that she likes to break down? Yeah,
- 1:12:31Speaker 8: you don't get it. You're gonna get it by the
- 1:12:32Speaker 8: end of the right.
- 1:12:35Speaker 26: Exactly.
- 1:12:35Speaker 2: So you got to think, really think before you speak
- 1:12:37Speaker 2: to us, because she's like, all right, explain that like
- 1:12:39Speaker 2: I just said it just.
- 1:12:40Speaker 4: Because no, no, no, explain this now.
- 1:12:42Speaker 2: You know I came from you know, my dad is
- 1:12:45Speaker 2: retired police officer, so his his way was always his
- 1:12:48Speaker 2: way or the highway.
- 1:12:48Speaker 4: That's how he raised me.
- 1:12:50Speaker 2: Gear is more patient and it works for us because
- 1:12:53Speaker 2: it's kind of like good cop, bad cop. We play
- 1:12:55Speaker 2: off each other, which is great. So now how do
- 1:12:57Speaker 2: you en Rome parent and you and Chris parent? Do
- 1:12:59Speaker 2: your parents the same or different or I I no, me.
- 1:13:02Speaker 8: My parents thing is different from both of them. So
- 1:13:05Speaker 8: i'm'a start with Rome first.
- 1:13:06Speaker 4: Rome he is.
- 1:13:09Speaker 6: He Rome started off thinking everything was cute, like he
- 1:13:13Speaker 6: loved cause Ash was his first born and he was young.
- 1:13:16Speaker 8: We were young, so Rome was just happy to have
- 1:13:19Speaker 8: uh a little boy. He ain't thinking everything Ash did
- 1:13:22Speaker 8: was cute, talk back all of that until he got older.
- 1:13:25Speaker 8: Then Rome ain't like that, so he he's a verbal disciplinarian.
- 1:13:30Speaker 18: Me.
- 1:13:30Speaker 8: I always been like my mother. My mother was always
- 1:13:34Speaker 8: the she was not leaning at all. She was always
- 1:13:37Speaker 8: the disciplinarian parent.
- 1:13:38Speaker 10: I was like that.
- 1:13:39Speaker 6: I'm like that too, but Chris showed me and Rome
- 1:13:43Speaker 6: a difference. And he didn't have no kids when we met,
- 1:13:45Speaker 6: Like he showed he implemented structure in the household.
- 1:13:49Speaker 8: Like Ash has chores every day he wake up, he
- 1:13:52Speaker 8: he we shouldn't have to tell him to wash the
- 1:13:53Speaker 8: dishes from the night before. Yeh, take out the trash,
- 1:13:56Speaker 8: clean his room, sweep down the steps, make sure that
- 1:13:59Speaker 8: you know your dog is wal your dog is fitted.
- 1:14:01Speaker 8: Is your dog. I was doing on all of that
- 1:14:03Speaker 8: before him, I mean for him, before Chris had came
- 1:14:06Speaker 8: into the picture. And now is Ash opens doors for me.
- 1:14:10Speaker 8: He he practiced his manners much more, you know what
- 1:14:13Speaker 8: I mean?
- 1:14:13Speaker 5: Like so is Chris.
- 1:14:15Speaker 8: Chris definitely made a big difference.
- 1:14:17Speaker 4: And for sure, And what about you, shelaman.
- 1:14:20Speaker 3: I don't mean I don't know what my parents and
- 1:14:22Speaker 3: style is. You know what I'm saying. I got four daughters. Uh,
- 1:14:25Speaker 3: and these new kids different because these new kids because
- 1:14:28Speaker 3: they're just not they don't they're not afraid of us
- 1:14:30Speaker 3: like they don't have Like you know, I had a
- 1:14:31Speaker 3: healthy fear of my mother and father.
- 1:14:33Speaker 4: Because of the whippings. You know what I'm saying.
- 1:14:35Speaker 3: Man Like I don't with my kids so they listen
- 1:14:39Speaker 3: to us when they want to. If we get on
- 1:14:40Speaker 3: they ass don't get me wrong, but it takes a lot.
- 1:14:43Speaker 3: And I'm not one of them. I don't think me
- 1:14:45Speaker 3: all my wife with those gentle parents where it's's like,
- 1:14:47Speaker 3: what's run is that you know we we will comfort
- 1:14:50Speaker 3: them and you know when we see, you know, certain
- 1:14:53Speaker 3: emotions coming, we understand that. Okay, there's something else going
- 1:14:56Speaker 3: on here. But you know we not them pushover parents.
- 1:15:00Speaker 3: I know them push over parents.
- 1:15:01Speaker 10: You are certainly a pushover parent.
- 1:15:03Speaker 8: Your wife is not, but you are. Don't go to
- 1:15:06Speaker 8: be walking all over tappy use that's true.
- 1:15:08Speaker 5: But I'm a daddy.
- 1:15:09Speaker 3: I don't know what I don't know what to do,
- 1:15:10Speaker 3: and then I yell and then apologize because I feel
- 1:15:13Speaker 3: bad for yelling at the hell.
- 1:15:14Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying like, I don't.
- 1:15:15Speaker 8: I don't.
- 1:15:15Speaker 4: I don't know what my parents' style is, but I
- 1:15:17Speaker 4: won't say this.
- 1:15:18Speaker 3: The reality is as long as whatever your parents and
- 1:15:20Speaker 3: style is is rooted in love, that's all that matters.
- 1:15:24Speaker 13: Well, let's go to the phone line. So we got
- 1:15:26Speaker 13: Jay on the line.
- 1:15:26Speaker 4: Jay, good morning, Hey, good morning, how you guys doing good?
- 1:15:29Speaker 4: We're talking about parenting style.
- 1:15:32Speaker 7: Brother.
- 1:15:32Speaker 12: All Right, So growing up, I didn't hear a lot
- 1:15:34Speaker 12: of I loved you. I knew that they loved me,
- 1:15:37Speaker 12: but I didn't hear a lot of it. So my
- 1:15:40Speaker 12: parenting style is I guess the fuller opposite. Where I
- 1:15:45Speaker 12: tell them, I show them. I overload them with I
- 1:15:50Speaker 12: love you. Yeah, and I got a twenty three year
- 1:15:53Speaker 12: old son, a sixteen year old and nine year old daughters,
- 1:15:57Speaker 12: and I hear it back from them, so it's amazing.
- 1:16:01Speaker 4: Yeah I agree with that. Yeah, yeah, me too.
- 1:16:04Speaker 12: I'm dating somebody who I do love, but her parenting
- 1:16:10Speaker 12: style is where the kid talk back a lot, and
- 1:16:15Speaker 12: because I'm not their father, I try, and you know,
- 1:16:18Speaker 12: I play the background. I try and reinforce what she
- 1:16:21Speaker 12: said to them, but it eats at me so much.
- 1:16:24Speaker 12: So I don't know how to How would you guys
- 1:16:26Speaker 12: navigate handling somebody else's kids with their parents and style.
- 1:16:32Speaker 3: That ain't your business until you marry that woman and
- 1:16:34Speaker 3: then they become your step kids. At this point, that's
- 1:16:36Speaker 3: really not your that's not your business. And like you said,
- 1:16:39Speaker 3: you can't really parent somebody else's kids. You kind of
- 1:16:41Speaker 3: got to do it through her, you know, if you
- 1:16:43Speaker 3: feel like they're being disrespectful. I think you have to
- 1:16:44Speaker 3: have that conversation just just in that situation.
- 1:16:48Speaker 8: Yeah, absolutely, if you if you live with your girlfriend,
- 1:16:52Speaker 8: it is different. It is different because you know, I'm
- 1:16:54Speaker 8: not about to let nobody kid disrespect me.
- 1:16:57Speaker 10: You know what I'm saying.
- 1:16:57Speaker 8: If you live there, I mean.
- 1:16:59Speaker 5: If you do you there with them?
- 1:17:01Speaker 7: No, No, I don't.
- 1:17:02Speaker 4: I don't.
- 1:17:04Speaker 7: I don't live there.
- 1:17:04Speaker 12: But to this point, for the year, I haven't really
- 1:17:09Speaker 12: asserted myself because, like I said, if not my plate,
- 1:17:13Speaker 12: But it's so hard to just stan back and hear
- 1:17:16Speaker 12: the level of disrespect from those kids.
- 1:17:18Speaker 6: Yeah, you definitely got to sit down and have a
- 1:17:20Speaker 6: conversation with her, actually, because if she's going to allow it,
- 1:17:23Speaker 6: it ain't really nothing that you can do.
- 1:17:25Speaker 12: How old are the kids, Well, her kids are the
- 1:17:29Speaker 12: fourteen year old girl and an eleven year old boy.
- 1:17:33Speaker 12: And I'm telling you, like it may sound like an
- 1:17:36Speaker 12: over exaggeration, but they they talk.
- 1:17:40Speaker 8: Oh no, I definitely understand it all the time.
- 1:17:43Speaker 10: Hell yeah, I get it.
- 1:17:44Speaker 6: But if you're not about to marry your mom or
- 1:17:46Speaker 6: be and marry their mom, or be in the house
- 1:17:48Speaker 6: with them, it ain't really nothing that you can do.
- 1:17:51Speaker 6: That's effective. You know today, mom step.
- 1:17:54Speaker 4: In them little Kidsay, they're want to get their daddy
- 1:17:57Speaker 4: didn't want you to get run.
- 1:17:58Speaker 5: Hey yo, Hello, who's that?
- 1:18:00Speaker 21: This is Kia from Brooklyn.
- 1:18:02Speaker 5: Hey kid, good morning. We're talking about different parents and skills.
- 1:18:05Speaker 4: Talk to us styles. I should say.
- 1:18:07Speaker 21: So my husband was raised on survival. I was raised
- 1:18:12Speaker 21: on love, so that transfers into our parents and stuffs.
- 1:18:15Speaker 21: He's more like, man, you guys just figure it out.
- 1:18:19Speaker 21: Me is like, okay, let's have a conversation. Let's process
- 1:18:22Speaker 21: why you feel mad, why you feel sad. So our
- 1:18:25Speaker 21: boys are six and fourtune and a fourteen year old,
- 1:18:28Speaker 21: he just like bottles it up.
- 1:18:31Speaker 20: I'm like, talk to me.
- 1:18:32Speaker 21: That is like not hoop you all right?
- 1:18:36Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what I was.
- 1:18:38Speaker 2: I was like that too at first because my dad
- 1:18:40Speaker 2: is like that, you know. I mean my dad was,
- 1:18:41Speaker 2: you know, man up, figure it out. My mom is,
- 1:18:43Speaker 2: you know, was more of the loving person. But I
- 1:18:45Speaker 2: realize every kid is different and that man up thing
- 1:18:49Speaker 2: it doesn't do anything, but I think hurts your kids
- 1:18:51Speaker 2: later on in life, Like if there's a problem, if
- 1:18:53Speaker 2: there's an issue and they need to cry or they
- 1:18:55Speaker 2: need to let their emotions or feelers go.
- 1:18:57Speaker 5: I think you should allow that safe place for them
- 1:18:59Speaker 5: to do that.
- 1:19:00Speaker 4: How you gonna tell a little boy to man up
- 1:19:01Speaker 4: and he don't even know what a man is yet?
- 1:19:02Speaker 4: That's right? Yeah, yeah, I do.
- 1:19:04Speaker 6: I do think though that that's a good balance for
- 1:19:07Speaker 6: the household though, you know what I mean, because even
- 1:19:10Speaker 6: though he was raised on survival, there are still advantages
- 1:19:13Speaker 6: to that, Like he can teach the kids, like you
- 1:19:16Speaker 6: know what I'm saying, Like you're the nurturer, that he's
- 1:19:18Speaker 6: the more right, more so the survival you know those
- 1:19:22Speaker 6: as things they need those too.
- 1:19:24Speaker 8: Yeah, so it's a good balance.
- 1:19:26Speaker 2: Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. If
- 1:19:28Speaker 2: you're just joining us, we're talking about different parenting styles. Now,
- 1:19:32Speaker 2: my book came out today, Real Life, Real Family. You
- 1:19:35Speaker 2: could pick it up anyway you buy books, Amazon or Audible,
- 1:19:38Speaker 2: and we're asking, how is your parenting style different from
- 1:19:41Speaker 2: your partners?
- 1:19:41Speaker 4: Let's discuss and how does this affect your kids? Just
- 1:19:43Speaker 4: the breakfast club?
- 1:19:44Speaker 13: Good morning, the breakfast club. Let's say, if y'all talking
- 1:19:53Speaker 13: about it, you know we talking about it.
- 1:19:56Speaker 3: It's topic times called eight hundred five eight five one
- 1:19:59Speaker 3: five one To join into the discussion with the Breakfast.
- 1:20:01Speaker 2: Club Morning everybody is DJ Envy just hilarious, Charlamagne the
- 1:20:07Speaker 2: gud We are the Breakfast Club.
- 1:20:08Speaker 5: If you're just joining us, Yeah, my wife was here earlier.
- 1:20:11Speaker 2: We were talking about our new book, Real Life, Real
- 1:20:13Speaker 2: Family and talking about our different parenting styles.
- 1:20:16Speaker 8: Listening, would you say that you and and we have
- 1:20:20Speaker 8: two different parenting styles? Absolutely, the more lenient.
- 1:20:23Speaker 2: It depends what it is. I'm disciplined. I was the
- 1:20:26Speaker 2: yell of the screamer because I said, so Ge is
- 1:20:28Speaker 2: a lot different.
- 1:20:30Speaker 5: She wants to know why.
- 1:20:31Speaker 4: Yeah, how did you feel that she likes.
- 1:20:33Speaker 8: To break down?
- 1:20:34Speaker 4: Yeah, you don't get it.
- 1:20:35Speaker 8: You're gonna get it by the end of the right
- 1:20:38Speaker 8: words exactly.
- 1:20:39Speaker 2: So you got to think, really think before you speak
- 1:20:41Speaker 2: to us, because she's like, all right, explain that, like
- 1:20:43Speaker 2: I just said it, just because no, no, no, explain this.
- 1:20:46Speaker 2: So we're asking eight hundred five eight five one oh
- 1:20:49Speaker 2: five to one, how do you parent your kids?
- 1:20:51Speaker 4: Do you and your spouse? So you and your partner
- 1:20:53Speaker 4: have different parenting styles? How does it affect your kids?
- 1:20:55Speaker 13: Hello?
- 1:20:55Speaker 5: Who's this?
- 1:20:58Speaker 4: What's up?
- 1:20:59Speaker 7: Brother?
- 1:20:59Speaker 4: Talk to us about you different parent the styles?
- 1:21:01Speaker 7: Well, see, I was.
- 1:21:02Speaker 19: Raised by all women, so it wasn't no male voice
- 1:21:04Speaker 19: in the house though, so but my kids get to
- 1:21:07Speaker 19: hear my voice all the time. I remember my mom
- 1:21:10Speaker 19: used to punish us by taking us over my other
- 1:21:13Speaker 19: house and making this cleaner house up, and I didn't
- 1:21:16Speaker 19: understand it. I hated that out in sleep. It ain't
- 1:21:19Speaker 19: my house, but we gotta clean this house up. And
- 1:21:22Speaker 19: it went on and I figured it out that was
- 1:21:25Speaker 19: our punishment. And me and my brother talk about that now, like,
- 1:21:28Speaker 19: remember what Mama used to take a little cleaner house up.
- 1:21:32Speaker 19: And I used to always say, I ain't cleaning up.
- 1:21:34Speaker 19: And then you didn't want that broomstick on you with
- 1:21:36Speaker 19: my uncle, you know, because he had come through. But
- 1:21:39Speaker 19: it tells with the way you were brought up. I
- 1:21:41Speaker 19: was trying to mimit that. But I don't do all
- 1:21:43Speaker 19: that because I do a lot of cleaning in my house.
- 1:21:45Speaker 19: My kids tend to listen to me, but I don't.
- 1:21:48Speaker 19: I don't like the way they wash dishes, sweet floors,
- 1:21:51Speaker 19: clean the bathroom, so I have to go up behind them.
- 1:21:53Speaker 13: You do it with your aunt.
- 1:21:54Speaker 10: House always dirty though that's.
- 1:21:58Speaker 7: Couldn't always dirty.
- 1:22:00Speaker 19: Wasn't about that being dirty because it's like like I
- 1:22:02Speaker 19: just told you, I don't like the way my kids
- 1:22:05Speaker 19: washed thish, so I go behind them right right right,
- 1:22:09Speaker 19: Like you at a restaurant and you got some water
- 1:22:11Speaker 19: spots on the spoon or the not but or not
- 1:22:14Speaker 19: it's not dirty at water stam, But you would be
- 1:22:17Speaker 19: like many I use plastic silverware, or I don't need
- 1:22:20Speaker 19: it at all.
- 1:22:21Speaker 4: I get it. I'll say this.
- 1:22:23Speaker 3: I think that all of us are better parents than
- 1:22:26Speaker 3: our parents were, simply because we don't beat our kids.
- 1:22:29Speaker 4: Well, I ain't got me brought up. How old are you?
- 1:22:36Speaker 7: My mama probably put me three times.
- 1:22:38Speaker 4: Oh no old out here, I'm forty four.
- 1:22:42Speaker 25: Now.
- 1:22:42Speaker 4: It was green lights.
- 1:22:44Speaker 7: Get't no beaten.
- 1:22:45Speaker 3: No, it was green lights from the whole community and
- 1:22:47Speaker 3: who I was from. Everybody had permission to put hands
- 1:22:49Speaker 3: on you. Now, my parents, my parents never beat me.
- 1:22:52Speaker 2: Even the principals. Nah, my parents never beat me. I
- 1:22:54Speaker 2: got yoked up a lot, and the principal was able
- 1:22:55Speaker 2: to yok you up. But I got yoked up, but
- 1:22:57Speaker 2: I was never beat.
- 1:22:58Speaker 3: I got to be with an extension called my daddy
- 1:22:59Speaker 3: beat me in this for it one time and maybe
- 1:23:01Speaker 3: go take a bath.
- 1:23:01Speaker 4: That's abuse, sir.
- 1:23:02Speaker 3: I have to have to go pick my own switch.
- 1:23:03Speaker 3: I could tell with c the NBU and grew up
- 1:23:05Speaker 3: in the country. No you needed that though, you actually
- 1:23:07Speaker 3: you needed to pick your own switch.
- 1:23:09Speaker 13: No I didn't.
- 1:23:09Speaker 4: Yes, sir, Hello, who's this Hi?
- 1:23:11Speaker 20: It's Christina.
- 1:23:12Speaker 2: Hey, Christina, good morning. We're talking about different parenting styles
- 1:23:16Speaker 2: this morning.
- 1:23:17Speaker 19: So the thing is is me and my husband.
- 1:23:19Speaker 20: And together for twenty four years. We have two kids,
- 1:23:23Speaker 20: one twenty two, one fifteen, both boys, but their personalities
- 1:23:27Speaker 20: are totally different, so we deal with it differently.
- 1:23:29Speaker 19: Our oldest son goes with the flow.
- 1:23:32Speaker 20: He listened to whatever we told him. Mom and dad
- 1:23:35Speaker 20: is everything. The youngest one, we call them the great debater.
- 1:23:38Speaker 20: This kid will break down everything, wants.
- 1:23:40Speaker 3: To know why this?
- 1:23:41Speaker 7: Why that?
- 1:23:42Speaker 5: I got one of those yep, Oh my.
- 1:23:44Speaker 20: Gosh, it's so aggravating. So we just accordingly two there
- 1:23:49Speaker 20: to their personalities.
- 1:23:50Speaker 9: And my husband is a virgo like you and b
- 1:23:53Speaker 9: so I think y'all.
- 1:23:54Speaker 20: Peers and styles kind of a life.
- 1:23:56Speaker 9: You don't have a lot of tolerance.
- 1:23:57Speaker 20: Like listen, this is what we're doing period.
- 1:24:00Speaker 2: That is that is my my oldest boy, Logan. He
- 1:24:03Speaker 2: is the one that likes to He likes to debate
- 1:24:05Speaker 2: all the time, and I get to a point I
- 1:24:07Speaker 2: get frustrated. I'm like, because I said, so, that's.
- 1:24:09Speaker 3: Just And then he slams your punk ass, loading the
- 1:24:13Speaker 3: man in the house with all the muscles. Helgan Logan say,
- 1:24:19Speaker 3: I only debate my equals everybody else, I teach, grab
- 1:24:23Speaker 3: his daddy and slam his ass.
- 1:24:24Speaker 9: I'm not trying.
- 1:24:24Speaker 4: I'm not debating with you. I'm teaching.
- 1:24:26Speaker 12: You.
- 1:24:26Speaker 5: Get Logan in trouble.
- 1:24:29Speaker 13: Do noth right.
- 1:24:29Speaker 4: You get himself in trouble.
- 1:24:32Speaker 17: They put on him just.
- 1:24:36Speaker 4: But thank you Christina.
- 1:24:38Speaker 19: Book and congratulations, thank you so much.
- 1:24:41Speaker 2: Real Life for Family is the name of the book.
- 1:24:44Speaker 2: You can pick it up on Audible or get it
- 1:24:46Speaker 2: on Amazon. It's all about raising kids and we talk about,
- 1:24:49Speaker 2: you know, different ways and different parenting styles. And we
- 1:24:51Speaker 2: actually have like a little work book section where you
- 1:24:53Speaker 2: could write the different things, and we asked questions just
- 1:24:55Speaker 2: to talk about parenting styles and things like that.
- 1:24:57Speaker 3: And you know, I remember asking my mom when I
- 1:24:59Speaker 3: have my I'm just like, you know what what advice?
- 1:25:01Speaker 3: And she just literally just said just love her. And
- 1:25:04Speaker 3: that's literally how I move, Like, you know, you just
- 1:25:06Speaker 3: gotta love your kids, And I like what the young
- 1:25:08Speaker 3: lady said earlier. She was like her uh, her husband
- 1:25:11Speaker 3: raised raised their kids out of surviv He was raised
- 1:25:13Speaker 3: off survival, correct. And I always say my daddy raised
- 1:25:16Speaker 3: me out of fear and not love, not saying he
- 1:25:19Speaker 3: didn't love me. He was just afraid that I was
- 1:25:21Speaker 3: gonna make all of the same mistakes that he made.
- 1:25:23Speaker 3: So a lot of that anxiety and just fear of
- 1:25:26Speaker 3: life he bought into parenting me.
- 1:25:28Speaker 4: You can't do that with your children. You just gotta
- 1:25:30Speaker 4: love your kids. Like you can't raise them out of fear.
- 1:25:32Speaker 4: You gotta raise them.
- 1:25:33Speaker 13: Out of love.
- 1:25:33Speaker 2: But back then, I mean you definitely. I mean they've
- 1:25:35Speaker 2: seen things that we didn't see. It's from an era
- 1:25:37Speaker 2: that we just see. My dad, you know, like I
- 1:25:38Speaker 2: tell everybody, was the tired police officer, so he was
- 1:25:40Speaker 2: in the streets and seeing that, and he didn't want
- 1:25:42Speaker 2: me to get me connected to the streets, so they
- 1:25:44Speaker 2: raised off a little bit of fair.
- 1:25:45Speaker 4: It's worse now, yeah, I really do.
- 1:25:48Speaker 3: I think it's worse now, man the only but I
- 1:25:51Speaker 3: maintain we better parents than our parents because we don't
- 1:25:54Speaker 3: beat our kids.
- 1:25:55Speaker 4: I don't beat my pops will never beat me. Just
- 1:25:58Speaker 4: on that hand here right now, I.
- 1:26:01Speaker 8: Got beat They getting beat here?
- 1:26:03Speaker 4: What's time? All right? All right, now we got the
- 1:26:09Speaker 4: latest with Lauren coming up.
- 1:26:10Speaker 23: We were talking about Tyrad Banks is casting for The
- 1:26:13Speaker 23: Bodyguard or she wished she could and guess what she's casting?
- 1:26:16Speaker 4: Tell us, oh boy, all right, but.
- 1:26:20Speaker 5: First of all, why is Tyler doing a All right,
- 1:26:22Speaker 5: we'll get to it next.
- 1:26:23Speaker 4: It's the Breakfast Lub, Good morning, good morning.
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- 1:26:29Speaker 5: We are the Breakfast Club. Let's get to the latest
- 1:26:31Speaker 5: with Lauren.
- 1:26:32Speaker 4: Lauren be coming a straight fast. She gets them from
- 1:26:35Speaker 4: somebody that knows somebody detail.
- 1:26:38Speaker 15: I'm a homegirl that knows a little bit about everything.
- 1:26:41Speaker 4: She'd be having the latest on this.
- 1:26:44Speaker 17: Law.
- 1:26:44Speaker 13: The latest with Lauren la Rosa.
- 1:26:46Speaker 4: Sometimes you have.
- 1:26:47Speaker 11: Facts, sometimes you have details. Sometimes you have a little
- 1:26:49Speaker 11: bit of everything on the Breakfast Club.
- 1:26:54Speaker 23: Okay, so The Bodyguard, a remake is coming, you know,
- 1:26:57Speaker 23: the iconic movie with Kevin Costner and Whitney Houston, and
- 1:27:01Speaker 23: Tyra Banks is jumping in the conversation of who she
- 1:27:03Speaker 23: thinks she would repriseed Whitney Houston's role. Now, if y'all
- 1:27:06Speaker 23: had to cast it. Who would you guys think alone?
- 1:27:10Speaker 10: Yeah, I just hate that.
- 1:27:12Speaker 8: It's so they keep trying to Redoce stuff, like a
- 1:27:14Speaker 8: nobody know original thoughts. Why we keep trying to remake
- 1:27:19Speaker 8: movies that's already great.
- 1:27:20Speaker 4: I concur But if they were I would say, probably Beyonce.
- 1:27:24Speaker 2: You're crazy because somebody that would need a bodyguard that
- 1:27:27Speaker 2: can sing, that's a global superstar.
- 1:27:29Speaker 4: Yeah, why not? Who else?
- 1:27:30Speaker 15: Well, Tyra Banks said movie it could be a non famous.
- 1:27:41Speaker 5: Because Whitney played one another famous celebrity and famous singer.
- 1:27:46Speaker 15: Well, Tyler Banks said that it should be Taylor Swifts.
- 1:27:49Speaker 24: The Bodyguard, one of the most iconic romantic movies of
- 1:27:53Speaker 24: all time.
- 1:27:53Speaker 8: Are rebuddist in the works, A remakers in the works.
- 1:27:56Speaker 15: Like so beyond excited that movie?
- 1:27:59Speaker 4: Yes is Yes, who could play the Whitney Houston character
- 1:28:03Speaker 4: Taylor Swift?
- 1:28:06Speaker 29: I think Taylor Swift because business and commerce art and
- 1:28:10Speaker 29: you know she would freaking sell like crazy, right, But okay,
- 1:28:13Speaker 29: I'm just being I'm a black girl. It was Whitney's
- 1:28:15Speaker 29: as a black girl. Yes, what if we flipped it
- 1:28:19Speaker 29: and it was Taylor Swift? Yes, and yourself DRIs Elba, Right.
- 1:28:27Speaker 10: That's the good gentrified version. I do like you do,
- 1:28:30Speaker 10: like you throw a little bleach.
- 1:28:31Speaker 4: On the movie.
- 1:28:32Speaker 3: I like it, but it would it be a worldwide
- 1:28:34Speaker 3: hit like that though, because a lot of these countries
- 1:28:36Speaker 3: don't like interracial relationships.
- 1:28:39Speaker 15: It would be a kid right now.
- 1:28:40Speaker 4: I don't know. I guess it would be. Don't think
- 1:28:42Speaker 4: the worldwide hit. I don't freak.
- 1:28:45Speaker 10: But it doesn't need to be a remake.
- 1:28:46Speaker 8: It can just be another type of movie, you know
- 1:28:48Speaker 8: what I'm saying, because when yeah, like I spent off
- 1:28:51Speaker 8: because you could, because that's the thing. When you put
- 1:28:53Speaker 8: remake on it, that's when you let people down because
- 1:28:55Speaker 8: people are constantly comparing it to original before it. So
- 1:29:00Speaker 8: it's like, nah, just make it a whole nother movie.
- 1:29:02Speaker 6: Now to hear her actually say do the flip or
- 1:29:06Speaker 6: whatever that that is cool because the half interests Alba
- 1:29:08Speaker 6: as the bodyguard to a tailor swift with somebody you
- 1:29:12Speaker 6: know off that statue that that might be a good
- 1:29:14Speaker 6: movie if it was a spin off, just with the storyline.
- 1:29:18Speaker 6: B I see you lost me because I don't know Taylor,
- 1:29:22Speaker 6: and you know what I'm saying, When.
- 1:29:23Speaker 2: We get from Whitney to I don't think it could
- 1:29:24Speaker 2: be a spinoff. I think you just got to do
- 1:29:26Speaker 2: a new renditional.
- 1:29:27Speaker 3: And you need somebody who can really sing. I mean,
- 1:29:29Speaker 3: that's what the in the original Bodyguard. Whitney was an
- 1:29:32Speaker 3: actress and a singer in the movie, and that soundtrack
- 1:29:36Speaker 3: sold a lot of that movie.
- 1:29:39Speaker 4: That's what I think Beyonce would be.
- 1:29:40Speaker 5: But Tailor Swift wil do it too, like so many
- 1:29:42Speaker 5: people too active.
- 1:29:44Speaker 4: She was beautiful.
- 1:29:45Speaker 8: There was like I'm not saying is not beautiful, but
- 1:29:47Speaker 8: it's like.
- 1:29:48Speaker 10: You know, you see what I'm saying.
- 1:29:50Speaker 26: I know what you mean.
- 1:29:50Speaker 23: There was a certain type of like attraction between the
- 1:29:53Speaker 23: two of them on screen, and it was so soft
- 1:29:55Speaker 23: and sexy. And again, I don't know Taylor can deliver that.
- 1:29:57Speaker 3: Also, y'all sleeping on the fact that it was Whitney
- 1:30:02Speaker 3: and Kevin Costs was a huge star back then.
- 1:30:05Speaker 4: You need a huge star. Now you say, you yeah,
- 1:30:08Speaker 4: we're not we're not on Kevin Costner level.
- 1:30:11Speaker 15: Well we're flipping. It got to be a black man
- 1:30:14Speaker 15: who would.
- 1:30:14Speaker 4: Be to be Michael B. Jordan. He's not.
- 1:30:18Speaker 10: He's still not as old as you know what I'm saying.
- 1:30:20Speaker 4: It's not.
- 1:30:21Speaker 15: It's not like four black actors that Hollywood used with
- 1:30:24Speaker 15: just the.
- 1:30:25Speaker 4: Original idea, come up with some new ideas. Man, you
- 1:30:28Speaker 4: don't need to need a Bodyguard remake. The Bodyguard slap
- 1:30:31Speaker 4: like that.
- 1:30:33Speaker 15: I don't I don't want them to touch it. But yes,
- 1:30:35Speaker 15: that movie is like absolutely.
- 1:30:37Speaker 4: The soundtrack was Phenom.
- 1:30:38Speaker 15: Soundtrack was amazing.
- 1:30:40Speaker 4: Always love you. You know it would run to you.
- 1:30:43Speaker 4: I have nothing. The soundtrack was by It. I don't
- 1:30:46Speaker 4: remember the movie.
- 1:30:47Speaker 10: That movie was amazing. You need to watch it.
- 1:30:50Speaker 23: The studio which released, which is going to be releasing
- 1:30:53Speaker 23: the remake, has set Taylor Swiss aristory director Sam Rinch
- 1:30:57Speaker 23: to help get this together and script and all that
- 1:31:00Speaker 23: other stuff.
- 1:31:00Speaker 15: So maybe that's why she brought tell the Swift into it.
- 1:31:02Speaker 23: I don't know where Taylor Swift came from, but I
- 1:31:04Speaker 23: think we should leave it where attacked security guard.
- 1:31:07Speaker 30: They don't have to be guard security voice and all
- 1:31:12Speaker 30: you hear is no then what we would all agree, Okay.
- 1:31:18Speaker 10: Not concierge though.
- 1:31:22Speaker 12: So.
- 1:31:22Speaker 23: In other news, off Set is now happy for Cardi
- 1:31:25Speaker 23: B that she is moving on with Stefan Diggs. Uh So,
- 1:31:28Speaker 23: Cardi B and Stephan Diggs were out in New York recently,
- 1:31:31Speaker 23: and there's a video of Cardi b dancing on Stephan
- 1:31:33Speaker 23: and having a good time, and a fan commented and said,
- 1:31:36Speaker 23: off Set is somewhere punching the air. Offset came back
- 1:31:39Speaker 23: and responded to the fan and said, I'm happy for
- 1:31:41Speaker 23: her with two exclamation points.
- 1:31:43Speaker 5: So please why how did he even see it?
- 1:31:47Speaker 7: Lord?
- 1:31:47Speaker 4: How did he see that?
- 1:31:48Speaker 8: See somebody say that they didn't tag him?
- 1:31:52Speaker 15: They didn't before, didn't tag it.
- 1:31:55Speaker 10: He not happy for he just didn't.
- 1:31:57Speaker 6: Didn't they comment to each other like make some subliminal
- 1:32:00Speaker 6: type of Lauren, did you see that Stephan Diggs that
- 1:32:02Speaker 6: posted a picture and his capture was buddy doing all that,
- 1:32:05Speaker 6: doing all that talking or whatever. He still ain't gonna
- 1:32:08Speaker 6: do nothing. And then I think Offset that tweet is
- 1:32:10Speaker 6: something that was like I'm laughing or something like that.
- 1:32:13Speaker 6: He posted a photo of himself Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 1:32:15Speaker 10: With no shirt on. Yeah something, he was laughing.
- 1:32:18Speaker 4: So I did see that.
- 1:32:19Speaker 10: I mean, no, he not really happy.
- 1:32:23Speaker 6: It's like I would love to look unbothered as well,
- 1:32:28Speaker 6: both of them.
- 1:32:30Speaker 5: I didn't give him damn before.
- 1:32:31Speaker 8: I don't give a damn now.
- 1:32:34Speaker 23: Well neither. I don't know what to say, like, I mean,
- 1:32:37Speaker 23: it's it, he commented. I wouldn't been talking about if
- 1:32:39Speaker 23: he in comment. Glad he's in a happy place.
- 1:32:42Speaker 10: Celebrity people want to talk about it.
- 1:32:43Speaker 15: Yeah, well that's it for the latest.
- 1:32:45Speaker 2: That's the latest with Lauren. All right, thank you, Lauren
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