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Episode #174: Embracing Divine Timing: Setting Intentions When Time is Short · Tea Time w/Amie & Bev

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I welcome to tea time with Amy and Bev. Good morning, good morning,
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day, good afternoon. Whatever it is, good experience. It's an
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experience. Nonetheless, happy full blue super moon and several planets in retrograde right
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now. I'm telling you what people are having, some trials and tribulations going
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on. It makes sense though, I mean, even even I am too,
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even I'm going you know, yeah, I say it like, well,
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even I am, but no, But what I mean is we are
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all going through it, no matter what kind of a path we're on.
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We might have different experiences of going through it, and we have we see
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things a little bit differently, but we're all going through stuff. We're all
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moving through stuff this because the stuff can't you know, we just can't elevate.
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We can't raise our vibe into another space without it without dropping these layers.
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It's important and we don't need we don't want them anymore anyways. You
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don't realize it yet, but you don't want them. You don't want this
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crap anymore, right, And I mean, how are you going to get
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rid of it? Right? It's a it's a it's a person the person
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situation. You know, it's an experience to experience. There's no one way.
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There's like so many ways, and that's why it's so important for us
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to kind of branch out, gain new friends, new mentors, new teachers,
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and ask the universe for a teacher, like asking the universe please send
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me a teacher right now. From where I'm at right now, I want
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you to evolve, be specific, act like you're talking to the two year
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old version of yourself, and what what how would you how would you teach
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that two year old how to ask for things, how to request things for
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your benefit? And sometimes we just don't know what we would, what we
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meet, or what we want really, so at that time, it's maybe
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just happiness, it's maybe just more clarity. It's it's there. It's not
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definable by me for everybody else. It's only definable for myself. And sometimes
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that's not definable. I'm just saying sometimes it's not. Sometimes I have to
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really sit with myself and really ask where this stuff's coming from and releasing triggers.
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And I've been setting myself up a lot lately, just taking a deep
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breath, and it's like I'm releasing these triggers with grace and ease and that
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way. And I'm telling you, boom boom boom. If I start with
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a pen and paper, I've got these things that are coming forward. Doesn't
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mean I'm not going to be triggered by that anymore. I don't know,
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but I would say a lot of the stuff that I've been going through.
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When I start to get triggered, it's not I don't stay there very long,
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and I look at it differently. I'm asking why it's showing up from
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my experience, what can I learn from it? Because there's so many different
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aspects of that. Even during group we even talked about, you know,
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different aspects and it's like it's I find it fascinating because there's never one way.
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There's numerous ways. And the only way to explore that is with other
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people that are exploring it as well. Yep. And as a coach,
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I you know, I have a lot of tools, Like I have a
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lot of tools in my toolbox, depending on who I'm working with, what
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they're moving through, which one works for them. I'm in the same true
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for myself. What's gonna work for me right now? That's gonna be the
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easiest. I'm all about ease, and simplicity, and I'm yeah, I'm
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I don't like the hard path. I don't like the struggle and the push
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through. And I've lived that. I've lived that most of my life,
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and I'm like, no, we're I don't want to play that game no
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more because I know there's an easier and simpler way to play it with even
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a better outcome. And so it is important to no different modalities, healing
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modalities, releasing modalities, whatever. One time, I mean, I used
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to punch a pillow and screen. Today I can grab a pen and paper
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and write. So it's kind of what's going to work for you and with
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where you're at. So and give yourself some MEAs and grace about all of
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it. That's huge. It is not to be so hard on yourself.
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And that's what you're kind of conveying. I mean, not kind of conveying,
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that's what you're conveying, but it is, it's not to be so
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hard on ourselves. We're going through experiences and we have these tools, these
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patterns that we've learned from from a time that we got here on this earth,
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and we re result back to those a lot of times, and that's
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okay. But we don't spend as much time in it. And then after
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a while you get to be like, I'm just not doing this anymore.
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I don't like the way it feels. I don't like it. I just
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want to show up with integrity. I just want to show up with just
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with love. It's not it's not the rest of the stuff. It's not
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the rest of the stuff. And it's and I sit back and and I've
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been I don't want to. I guess I could say guilty of it,
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I suppose, but like judging others and talking about others and stuff, and
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I don't want to participate and that stuff. Do I find myself in that
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space Sometimes I do. I do, but then i'm But if we sit
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back and kind of listen to those that are talking around you, there's it's
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deeper than that. And when I say it's deeper than that, everything is
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deeper than I even feel like some of our conversations, not our conversation,
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but maybe some of the conversations we've been having in some spaces feel like they're
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kind of superficial because it's but in that space there's people that are working through
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things. To me, there's so much more deeper than a lot of these
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conversations that we're having, and that's when I find myself missing and because I'm
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like something just doesn't feel like I'm not connecting one hundred percent. You know,
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when we get those goose bumps, those are the freaking most amazing thing
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because it's like immediate gratification or letting you know that you're on the right path,
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that the information you just heard resonates with you, it resonants as truth.
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I mean, there's all these things, and if you're not experiencing all
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the time, which is what I've been questioning, then that means that there's
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not always truth being spoken. So it's it's getting into that space, you
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know. And I've had a if you some of these things are such a
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blip of feeling that I'll feel like, oh my god, I got it
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all figured out. Like I'll receive information and it's like it just made so
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much sense. I don't write it down, So what am I going to
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do? I'm gonna start writing it down so that way I can kind of
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kind of see if I can hook into that feeling, because that feeling is
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kind of I think what I'm looking for because I get it very, very
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seldom, but it's just kind of like, how can I feel more things
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like that? How can I have up more uplifting conversations? It's asking a
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universe, right, how can how can the conversations go deeper? How can
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we talk more about energy? How can we talk more about evolution? It's
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it's even more simple, but we still get complicated or get caught up in
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the complicated stuff for some reason, and then we try to analyze it from
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that complication instead of instead of stepping back and singing it. And it's more
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simple because I've I've done it. I've even done it with other people,
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and I've even been in conversations with other people that I just don't feel like
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they're going as deep. It's it's it's it's not as shallow as hey,
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how's your favorite sports team? What's the weather like? Then? Those aren't
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really shallow. Those are good icebreakers, right, They're not bad. It's
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just like when we say the ego, the ego needs to be embraced and
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loved and supported. It needs our attention and our guidance too. It's it's
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part of all of us. It's not something we want to lock up and
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close the door and never see it again. It's like, be thankful that
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we have this, but we can love and honor. It doesn't have to
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be from a space that that ego can come from. It can be it
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from a space of love completely. And then how does what does that look
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like? How does that feel like? I don't know, So I ask
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these questions. I'm asking questions. I'm asking deeper questions. But I want
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more out of my conversations, my relationships, and that means that I want
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more out of myself too. It's not that I'm saying, oh, that
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they're lacking or anything like that. It means that I want that active participation
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where we feel like we're totally connected, and then you walk out of that
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conversation and just feeling uplifted, lighter, and just feel like that you've got
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the world in your hand, because we really do. When so there's a
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lot you just covered and I'm making notes when you're in a diverse group where
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there's all levels of you know, where people are, so you and I
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can have super deep conversations. But when we're in a diverse group and there's
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people who don't understand spirituality or they don't understand the quantum physics or anything that,
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you know, the topics that we talk about. They're still in the
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presence of the conversation because they know they want something different or they want something
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deeper, but they're not sure what that is. And you don't know what
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you don't know, right, we don't know what we're looking for. We
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just know we're looking for something different, and when it shows up, it
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could show up like that. They just they show up in a group of
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people having those conversations that will at least plant seeds. They may not understand
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it in the moment. They might still be on their their defensive role still,
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you know, wearing that mask, still being a victim to their circumstances.
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But the plant, the seeds are being planted just by being in the
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group and having hearing the conversation. They may not even participate in the conversation,
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but they just hearing it and it starts to open them up into new
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information, new knowledge, us sharing our wisdom, right, and it not
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necessarily us, but whatever group they end up with or whoever they end up
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connecting to. And so as you were talking, what came to my mind
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is those what we're saying is shallow conversations, just talking about the sports,
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talking about the weather. How are you, I'm good? How about you?
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I'm good too. You know, it's like there's there's it's nothing there.
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I call it a surfacing conversation, and there's nothing to me, there's
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nothing there but that too, to me seems like it's just programming because that's
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what we've been around. This is how you communicy and like you said,
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it's a nice breaker, yep, I get that. Does it ever go
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any deeper than that? Though? You know, it typically goes from from
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like sports and whether to talking about other people, just like you were saying,
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and then how is everybody else doing and what's going on in their life?
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So it's the desire of wanting something more, something deeper, and like
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you said, ask the questions, ask for the teachers to show up,
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Ask for those people to show up where you can have more, maybe deeper
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or more meaningful conversations. And it's not going to be with everybody that's in
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your life, like it just isn't. And it takes some effort on your
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part to first of all, ask for the for these people to show up
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with meaning. When I say ask, I'm talking about you know, spiritual
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alignment, talking to your angels or God or whoever to bring these people into
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your experience. So you have to ask and be willing to either listen and
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be open or participate in the conversation and be curious. I find that.
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I mean I used to do it too, that when I showed up in
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a defensive mode, I wasn't hearing everything that was being said. I wasn't
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ingesting the information and knowledge and wisdom that was being presented to me because I
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had my own ideologies, right, I have my own way of thinking,
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and this is the way it is, and it can't possibly be like that.
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And it's just like loading a dishwasher. How many thousands of ways is
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there a load of dishwasher? But you know what, in the household,
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it needs to be done my way because this is the way that closes me
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off to creativity. It closes me off to anything that could be available to
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me that feels even better than what the way I've been doing it or or
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seeing it. So we got to allow ourselves to be open to conversations.
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True, but it's also that the when you get into groups like that,
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it's just like everything else we've talked about like the world's a menu, right,
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we get to sample things and try it, and it's like, what,
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oh, what could have made that taste better? What could have made
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that conversation better? What could have made that more gratifying for everybody? It's
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it's like, it's just an opportunity to say, oh, well, I
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can see it growing in this direction. I can't. I could see it.
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I could add certain things ingredients to it, that's gonna make it taste
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this way. But if I add these other just simple ingredients, it's going
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to taste amazing and great just by itself without having to be too much.
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So it's just it's that's been that's helped me to kind of ask when I'm
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you know, looking, ask what I'm really looking for. And right now
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it's just baby steps, right because right now I'm just at the beginning stages
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of the of what does that look like, how does that feel? What
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do I want from it? How can it be more important or more guided
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or more connected? Because I feel like all of us connect, can connect,
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But it's just getting into that connection, into that in a space like
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that, and it's also not taking on the energies of the people that are
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around you. And I say that for myself because a lot of times I
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have done that, because that's been my way of picking up on people's energy.
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But I can do it. It's been a little bit willy nilly,
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So without with it, it's kind of like not being controlled and not saying
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that you have to control it. But I have not set my intentions for
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those things. So setting my attention and for those things and seeing how it
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shows up, I'm being open for however it shows up, whatever it looks
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like. Because just because I have an idea of what I think I might
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like more doesn't necessarily mean that's what I'm gonna like more. And that doesn't
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necessarily mean that's the end all be all. That's where it stops, no,
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because we're constantly growing, so there's a constant evolution that never really stops.
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When it stops, you know that I'm piecing out and I'm about to
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leave this planet, but I'll be in the physic or the non physical,
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what we wouldn't call the non physical, even though it's right here. We
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talk about these places like there's some place you have to go visit when it's
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it's all right here, it's just a matter of what did I was listening
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to a gul Maryann Kennedy this morning, and she's talking about, you know,
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she's talking about spirit and she's talking about how we can connect with spirit,
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and she's just talking about filling everything out and having a better idea about
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things. And it's really I think that's very important. We don't stop and
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like how many times, how many people are out there that sit and think
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of I mean, I could even use my loved one, right, I
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could use my mom, Jim, I could use Freeman, I could use
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people that are alive, not alive, but really just say their name,
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close your eyes, and then experience whatever you experience, whatever it is.
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It may be nothing at all, or maybe the beginning of something. You
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might pick up a vibration in your heart area or your root chapper, but
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you're not really sure what it is. It just as an opportunity to ask
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more questions because we're learning how to navigate from an energetic standpoint. Now,
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we're not learning to navigate anymore from these other senses, you know. But
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I think that these other our senses are very important because I think they can
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all work so well together. But this mary Anne says, you know,
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for her, she was always naturally pulling in all the claires. So she
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was the Claire cognizant, Claire sentiant, Claire buoyant. She all the things,
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She would use them all. And she says that, you know,
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sometimes people will come up and they'll only be strong in one or two of
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them, but that just means they're strong in them, and so they just
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build the strength up in the other one. She said, there's absolutely no
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reason that we can't use all those claires. It's natural for us. It's
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just learning how to embody that. It's learning how to create those muscles for
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that. And it's not really a muscle, but it's it is like,
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it's keep creating that connection and it's that feeling part. And a lot of
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us have shut ourselves off because we don't want to feel things. We don't
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want to hurt. We don't want to When we shut ourselves off from the
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hurting, we're shutting ourselves off from the exhilaration. We're setting ourselves off from
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the love of being surprised about stuff. I've had a few surprises recently,
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and they're so simple, not even ever could have set them up or anything,
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and it's like it is totally perfect, Like it's just perfect, and
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it's so exciting. It's I get giddy about it when I have those moments
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because I haven't always had those moments, and I haven't always allowed myself to
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feel those moments. So now I'm in that space of feeling. And then
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if you're not in a space of feeling, then maybe you won't pick up
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too much. If you sit there and try to pull any thing of someone
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else's name or see their face, maybe you won't pick up as much because
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maybe there's some things to some barricades that we've created to break down those walls,
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right so that we don't have to have them down, or not even
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break them down, just to kind of shine the light on them, and
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you realize they're not even they're transparent, you're not even really there. They're
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all false. They're just something that made us. It was a false sense
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of security. That's all that it was. And that's okay because sometimes we
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need that false sense of security. I'm not saying it's a bad thing,
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but I'm just saying it's a timing thing in a lot of ways, because
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it's it's divine timing. It's when we're ready, when we're ready to do
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the work. When we're ready. And when I say work, it doesn't
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mean I'm not staying out there with a shovel and the rake. And sometimes
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it is, because sometimes it is that's a distraction enough for you to receive
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the information to come into your mind, especially when you're a doer, when
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you're out there doing for everybody else and you're not receiving allowing yourself to receive
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from anybody else. Sometimes those tasks that you're doing information films in. Pay
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attention to it, see what it tells you, ask questions. I listened
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to that same one this morning too, to say, you know which one's
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when he has talked about Maryanne Kennedy, Oh oh, I've been listening.
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So I listened to her from are you talking about next level soul? I
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am so thankful for him, I mean, I honestly him, Alex,
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thank you, because so many times that I don't go looking for these things
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and it shows up and I'm like, oh, okay, well I'll go
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check it out. And she is freaking phenomenal. I absolutely I haven't listened
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to her do any readings for anybody but I've watched some of her. She
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does like a ghost show, which I like because again we're back to feeling
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and everything right that what was the other one? There's the the detective that
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has her name is Amy, and she's a psychic medium that she comes along
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with him on well, they come along with each other on places. They
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would do walk throughs on homes, picking up energy because people are having problems
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with energies or entities, different things that are going on. And she'll go
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walk through and I would pick up all kinds of sensations. Now I wouldn't
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pick up exactly what she was feeling. But my suit is a little bit
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different. I use my suit a little bit different because we're not all going
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to do it the same way. But someone else gives you an idea how
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you can do it, so you can practice and see what shows up for
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yourself. Don't get stuck in the ideas that you have to do it exactly
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the same way somebody else does. It's just an opportunity to see a difference.
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But she's got one where she has she has students that she's teaching,
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and then she's in Canada. She goes to places that are haunted, and
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then where she's never even been there before, or I would say not haunted
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so much, but where there's been activity, a lot of activity. So
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she's gone to those places and she'll bring her students along too. That she
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walks through to brand New's face to her. So she's writing down pages.
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These people are walking through the One girl says that she wrote down three pages
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of information that she had received from the house and it was so funny.
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It's I say, it's funny, but it's Sissy's little things. So I
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pick up when she's walking into a pantry, she's like, I get like
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there's something like a hiding over here. And I had already picked up on
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a little boy. I don't know six to they're saying eight to twelve.
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But it's like that again, it's just a reference range, right, My
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reference range might be Okay, my brother was this age at that time because
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I was older, so different things. But I could see like a little
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boy with blonde hair reminded me of my brother, but my brother had dark
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hair, so you didn't have the blonde hair. So it's just we have
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all these tools that are around us to play, and it's like I asked
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for a teacher, and then this is another teacher. It showed up for
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me. It doesn't mean that the teacher is going to show up knocking on
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my door to for me to let them in or showing up in my office.
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Now I'm not saying that it can happen, but I'm just saying I
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asked for a teacher, and then this person showed up. I love the
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way she articulates. I love the way she communicates. I love how she's
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positive, she's very matter of fact, she's neutral, she's I don't know,
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she just says a lot of stuff that really resonates with me. And
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she's been doing it for a little while. And she didn't start off with
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knowing how to do all this stuff immediately. It just didn't work that way.
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Yeah, so it was awesome. Yeah, I just I as soon
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as you said that, I'm like, oh, I listened to that this
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morning too, And then here we are wearing the same color palette again.
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Just tagether that's all that's true. Yeah. So when I when I earlier
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in my life, I had the gut feelings, which is claire sentience,
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which I didn't know that until my thirties. But anyway, I had that
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gut feeling and at the time it wasn't a very positive experience ever, and
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I had to learn what it was. I had to learn how to utilize
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it. And in the meantime, I'm also learning about the other Claire's claire
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cognizance, clairvoyance, just like I've talked about. And the more I worked
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on my strongest claire, my strongest intuitive ability or my strongest psychic ability,
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the more I got and tune with that, the more the other ones opened
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up. And so I mean, I feel like, well, we're all
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we all we are all intuitive because we're all energetic beings and that's our that's
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our guidance system. And I think we talked about this last week. We're
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all I feel we're all mediums as well. We can tap into spirit energy
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and do that too, like get those messages. I mean, if you're
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we're telling you, you know, be in alignment with your source, with
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your higher self, with spirit, with love, and that's bringing in information
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to me. That's being a medium also. So we all have that ability
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and it's all readily available to us. And you know, you talked about
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those people who are doers and they're they're always busy, always active, they're
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we're not making room or space. Again, speaking from experience, we're not
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making space to utilize the information that's readily available to them. And a lot
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of times, I'm going to say probably ten out of ten times, it's
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because they're in some kind of mode of proving themselves worthy, proving themselves of
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deserving, trying to still get the love and acceptance of their their you know
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dad, where they didn't have a good connection when when they were a child,
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and he was harsh or wasn't available emotionally, and he's probably even not
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even on the planet anymore. But we're still in that idea that I still
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have to prove myself so I can be loved and loved and accepted. So
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you know, those are those are layers of healing to take, to give
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attention to so that you can make space to be to take a breath or
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intentionally breathe. I mean you're breathing if you're in the physical body, but
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intentionally breathing, deep breathing to bring yourself present in the physical body. The
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doers also ignore the body flat out. Oh I got stuff, you knows,
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I'm just gonna keep going. Oh my ankle sprained. I'm gonna I'm
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gonna find a way to keep going because I still need Like, I know,
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somebody just recently a couple of weeks ago, had knee replacement and she's
24:30
wanting to be up and going in like three days. Well, there's physical
24:36
therapy and there's things you gotta do to kind of, you know, get
24:38
used to this new apparatus that's in your body. And but she's a doer,
24:45
and she's she's had a strained relationship with her dad, who has transition.
24:51
She's had a strange, difficult relationship with her husband, who's still here
24:56
but they're separated. They're living in separate how houses. But she's constantly trying
25:03
to prove herself and and outdo not I wouldn't say consciously outdoing everybody, but
25:08
over committing herself and and and just always in that mode. And I'm like,
25:15
you know this you're having surgery is an opportunity for you to sit and
25:21
be and breathe and read and journal and do all the things right that we
25:26
talk about. And then, you know, I had that conversation and she's
25:32
like, oh, yeah, I could do it. And then next thing
25:33
I hear from a third party is, oh, she's wanting to be ready
25:38
and going and like three days after surgery. And I can provide the tools,
25:45
I can have the conversations, but it can't make anybody do anything.
25:48
So just recognize that within yourself as I you know, speak to the audience
25:55
of are you a doer? And what is the reason then for wanting to
26:02
stay in that space of proving yourself because there's no way to prove yourself too
26:08
but you and you really don't need to do that because you're already loved and
26:12
accepted by source, because it's already within you. And when we can embrace
26:18
that, it really eases up a lot of stuff. I get the judgment,
26:22
the criticism, the perfectionism, the fixer, the people pleaser, all
26:26
the stuff like it. It kind of it's like a huge weighted blanket that's
26:33
taken off. I mean, just then you can really take a deep breath,
26:37
right and just go out. It feels so much better. It feels
26:44
like it comes off in layers a lot of times, and of course it
26:47
depends on how deep this stuff is, right, Like how because we add
26:52
layers on top of layers on top of layers from the very beginning, and
26:55
that's just been oh okay, well that seemed to work. Well let's keep
26:57
doing that. And when I say that seemed to work, it really wasn't
27:00
the optimal. It wasn't what was really wasn't once you really wanted how you
27:06
wanted to turn out, it might be acceptable, it might be okay,
27:08
but it's like, it's not really what you want, but it was it
27:14
was what was needed at that moment. Yeah, just to even just give
27:18
a little shift in energy or a little release. Yes, but it wasn't
27:23
the thing, but it was enough to get your attention. Yeah. Well,
27:30
hey, I sometimes get into that busy mode too, and I think
27:33
that I've got all this time to do all these things and try to include
27:37
everybody in. And I find it interesting because you know, sometimes sometimes people
27:44
could get very irritated by your schedule, and mine's kind of lacksadaisical in a
27:49
lot of ways. It's not very structured. So it's like I'll go and
27:52
i'll go to the gym and I'll do these things, and the gym might
27:56
take a lot longer than I expected because you go in and it's not about
27:59
just me. When I go into the gym because it's like there's people that
28:02
want to come up and talk to me, and I'm like, okay,
28:04
So you know, even on the way out the door, I've got three
28:07
or four people that are stopping me to say something, which is great.
28:10
I'm not saying anything bad about that. But when you're like wanting to get
28:12
home or you've got someone else, you know, you've just got time frames
28:15
that you want to have things done in, it's like I can't I can't
28:18
continue going in that path because that's a distraction. That's old stuff, that
28:23
is old behaviors, controlling, like all the stuff. But it's then at
28:30
the end of the day, did I get to spend the time with whoever
28:33
I was with the way that I wanted to, or did I feel like
28:36
it was rushed? And that was one of the things yesterday I thought I
28:40
felt like I was being rushed. I'm like, I've got all the time
28:41
in the world as soon as I could hit that point, and how did
28:45
I know because I was paying attention. I didn't like the way it feels.
28:48
I don't like the way it feels, and it's like I've got plenty
28:51
of time because no matter how much time I spend with my grandkids. It's
28:53
going to be a lot of time. It's going to be enough time,
28:56
it's going to be more time. So I'm always putting that out there.
29:00
But I noticed it yesterday and I'm getting over there and it's like, God,
29:03
dang, and I'm late again. How could it be late? Because
29:06
I run into town and do it, take a shower, and then from
29:07
the shower, I'll go to the gym, and from the gym, I'll
29:11
have to go stop at the store and go get to gas or go get
29:12
all these little things that have to be done at one time. And then
29:15
of course I live outside of town, right, that's my choice. It's
29:21
it's refigure. I lose probably about an hour a day. I could say
29:23
that differently. You could say I gain about an hour of day because I
29:27
have an opportunity to sit and I do. I'll either sit with myself in
29:30
my mind, I might I don't. I rarely ever listened to music unless
29:34
my baby says, listen to music, and I'll be like, okay,
29:37
I'll fit on some because I don't ever listen to anything, or I'll be
29:41
listening to podcasts for sure. But it's just honoring that space. So it's
29:45
again, it's the same thing that I just said. It's really how am
29:48
I looking at things? Am I looking at it as a waste of time?
29:51
Because that's what my grandson said something. Oh Granma, I know,
29:53
I gotta hurry up because we're wasting time. I said, wait, are
29:56
we? Are we hanging out together right now? Yeah? Okay, then
29:59
we're not wa some time. It doesn't matter if we're going to the store,
30:02
it doesn't matter if we're driving, it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter
30:03
what we're doing, because we've got that time together right now. And that's
30:08
the thing we've We've been trained to be so looking into the future and trained
30:14
to be in the past because I realized when my mom, when my mom's
30:21
second husband had left because he had old child support, my mom had a
30:26
nervous breakdown. So from that moment on, there was a template for me
30:32
I could accept. I could choose it or not choose it. But I
30:36
think in some ways I choosed it or chose it. And then I even
30:38
put myself into a space where I was pushing myself even harder, or pushing
30:42
people away even harder, because I didn't want to go through what my mom
30:45
went through. So then you don't ever allow anyone that close proximity to yourself.
30:51
It's just it's not allowed. But it's recognizing that. And when I
30:53
recognize that, it's like, no, that's not true anymore. And it's
30:56
it's just was that simple, Oh no, that's not mine. This isn't
31:00
mine. That that was someone else's tools. And that's where we gain our
31:03
information anyways, from someone else's tools. But we don't have we gosh,
31:07
we got all this information with inside of ourselves. And the thing is we've
31:11
got this natural gauge inside of ourselves that lets us know this feels good,
31:15
this doesn't feel good. There's so much I know. It's just it's always
31:25
loaded stuff, you know, it's just always loaded. It's great. So
31:29
I would I go back to conversations, you know, being you know,
31:33
people coming out. But the very first thing that came to my head when
31:37
you start saying that, I was like, yeah, and that's why you
31:41
know, like kind of famous or popular people build their own gyms at their
31:45
home because they just wouldn't get anything done right, So and it yeah,
31:52
and it's maybe it's a it's an opportunity to practice boundaries. You know,
32:00
I'd love to stand here and chat with you, but I got some commitments.
32:02
I gotta go, right, Maybe it's that moment you're gonna add value
32:07
to somebody's life. Maybe it's being you know, delayed by conversation, you're
32:15
gonna miss out on an accident. I mean, we don't know. And
32:17
it's really just how how you're gonna perceive it and how you're gonna move through
32:24
those experiences, you know, going forward. And don't I remember what else
32:34
I was gonna say, But I was just like I thought boundaries. Boundaries
32:37
came up and I thought, oh, that might be good something to bring
32:40
up. Yeah, it is kind of good, and I don't know how,
32:45
but like you presented all the reasons why I don't just walk away,
32:49
right, You presented all the reasons like I listen, guys, I gotta
32:52
really go because even for my clients, I'll take the time with them,
32:54
I'll take that time. But it's funny that you're bringing up because we just
32:58
talked about it recently that I had a client that came in and she showed
33:01
up twelve minutes late, you know, said she was on her way at
33:05
eleven twenty eight and then tried to tell me that, oh it was in
33:07
my calendar at eleven thirty eight, which is great. Maybe it was,
33:10
maybe it wasn't, doesn't matter right, but it's just learning boundaries. And
33:14
then the massage was over, and then the person's requesting additional services and it's
33:17
like, well, I'm sorry, your time's up, and those services were
33:21
provided already prior to and then becoming an argument. It's like, it's not
33:24
even worth an argument. It was never because it was never about that.
33:28
It was about having the boundaries. It's about honoring my space of my time.
33:30
And again it's about how did I feel right? How did I fill
33:34
in that moment? Was I feeling good or was I feeling bad? Because
33:37
in the past, if someone would have said, oh, I would do
33:39
the massage, like let's say that they had upper body issues, so we
33:43
focused on upper body, and they would stay at the end, could you
33:45
rub my foot? Could you rub my feet? And it's like I've already
33:49
you know, squeeze this time frame. And not everybody knows that because they
33:52
don't do massage, just like a lot of people don't know the ob nurses
33:54
and stuff like help assist and hold a person's leg and whenever, depending on
33:58
whatever side they're on, how they're straining their body. There's things that you
34:01
wouldn't know unless you travel along with that person. Right, So there's a
34:04
lot of stuff that's going on that we just don't know the full details about.
34:08
But it's also at that space for me was just to honor myself and
34:12
it is boundaries because I've allowed this. I have allowed this and that's okay
34:16
because it's not saying that, oh, this person's bad. She's showing up
34:20
for a reason. This is her job right now, her job to find
34:22
out does Ben want to have more clarification on what her boundaries are? Does
34:27
bev want to have an idea what how what her clientele looks like. It's
34:31
not a punishment. It's not like, oh God, I did something wrong
34:35
and I'm going to be punished right now. I don't know what I did
34:37
to deserve this. So it's like here we are right for my past life,
34:39
I don't know. But it doesn't have to be about all that stuff.
34:43
I can just be so simple and just about feeling things. And it's
34:45
like, if you feel like you're being taken taken for granted, or I
34:52
don't know another word for using for that righteous minute's not popping in my head.
34:55
But if you feel like if you feel like that, it's not if
34:59
it doesn't feel right to you, and don't do it like honor yourself.
35:01
And I stopped because I started to proceed with this additional body part and I
35:05
was like, I'm sorry, I've already done this and your visage time is
35:08
up. And it's just that simple. It's just that simple. It doesn't
35:13
have to be from a defensive place. It doesn't have to be it's neutral.
35:16
I'm I'm honoring myself because I have other engagements. Is that. I
35:22
think that's what we had talked about, you know, other engagements. It
35:23
doesn't I don't have to go into details. And that's something that's important too,
35:28
to remind yourself you don't have because I because, like the kid,
35:30
right, I'm getting in trouble and I had to freaking tell them every single
35:34
thing I did well. I went to I got into town at this time,
35:37
and I took a shower, and then I went to to jam and
35:37
I left there right into a store right out and got some lottery tickets.
35:42
I ran over and got bibby and I came straight home. Did I need
35:45
gas? Yeah, but I didn't get it. So here we are.
35:47
Hopefully I'll make it to town. It's this whole process, right, you
35:52
get caught up in all this other stuff and instead of really recognizing how you
35:54
feel, and then I can set up myself for time. So like today,
35:59
I know that I have to be at a certain place at a certain
36:00
time because I'm meeting up with people, because I want to be done with,
36:04
you know, certain things by a certain time so I can go on
36:07
to the next thing. So I'm kind of organizing in my time just a
36:09
little bit, a little bit more structure, even though it's like a day
36:13
off. But I want to make sure the grandkids are only young once.
36:17
I'm only this person once in this physical shell, so I'm going to have
36:23
fun. And also bringing that up when I say physical, that even takes
36:28
me back to not taking care of the body, right when you were saying
36:30
that, we get so busy, we're so distracted because we can't deal with
36:35
whatever is inside of here, whatever that may look like inside of your body
36:39
that you you just try to avoid it anyway you can by keeping as busy
36:44
as you possibly can and then not taking care of your body, right,
36:47
And here I was going to a jam powerlifting bodybuilders status, you know,
36:52
for plus hours a week, plus my workouts, plus the family, plus
36:57
the yard, plus the house, you know, all these things, all
36:59
these things. I don't even have an ounce of energy for all that stuff
37:01
anymore. Because it's why, because I was people pleasing, because I was
37:05
distracted, because I was running away from all my problems because I didn't know
37:07
how to deal with them. And that's okay at that time. I'm here,
37:12
though, and I'm looking at the stuff now, and it's so much
37:15
easier on me. Instead of carrying all those worries and stress and anger and
37:20
hate and just everything everything you can think of. It no longer is necessary
37:23
any longer. I don't have to carry it anymore. So that's free.
37:28
But I was busy taking care of my body. I wasn't. You know.
37:31
If you think about bodybuilders a diet, they're like a certain amount of
37:36
calories. They're forcing calories all day long for the size. You're spiking your
37:40
insulin levels. It's not exactly healthy for your body. And then if you're
37:44
going to compete, now, you're dehydrating yourself, like all these things are
37:46
against your body, just trying to see how far you can push it,
37:50
and it's like you don't hear the conversations of ooh, I learned how to
37:52
push it by I eat three meals a day, or I just have protein
37:57
like this, or without being so traumatizing to the body. It's funny because
38:00
that back then was my distraction, and then I had to come up with
38:05
a different reason why I was going to the gym because I didn't have those
38:07
distractions anymore. I wasn't running for anything. I didn't have to hide at
38:10
the gym for a couple hours a day. Now I go to the gym
38:14
because I enjoyed going to the gym for a couple hours a day. But
38:17
it's just recognizing, right again, we're going back to how does it feel
38:21
when you're doing the things that you're doing or you're having the experiences you're having,
38:23
because they're just experiences. They're just experiences, so you can figure out
38:28
what you would rather have more of. Yeah, it's just an experience until
38:32
you add your story to it. I think that's that's I cracked myself up
38:39
because I'm like, Wow, what kind of story did I add to that?
38:44
To make me angry when it was just it just was it would and
38:50
it was my interpretation, my perception I brought. I brought the package into
38:55
the experience to make it what it was by my point, right, Yeah,
39:01
I love you had shared with me the term ask holes. Oh and
39:12
when I think about as you were talking, you know, about your time
39:15
and all that and getting interrupted by people and wanting to talk to you.
39:17
And you know what I was thinking about is you know, periodically I'll have
39:27
that too. People will interact with me with conversation, asking for valuable information
39:35
which I provide, and then they do nothing with it. So after you
39:40
know, a couple, I'm I catch on pretty quick now. So once
39:46
I know I've had that conversation one or two times, I don't have that
39:51
conversation anymore. I'm like, you know what, I have a I'll send
39:55
you my calendar link and you can schedule possession with me, right, Because
40:04
it adds more value when they're paying something, because then they listen. Now
40:08
they're invested. So so those of you who are listening to this, that
40:15
might sound harsh, but I know it's true for myself. The more I've
40:17
paid for something, the more I've invested myself into it, and it is
40:24
it's kind of frustrating from it's kind of frustrating from my my position to have
40:39
somebody keep coming to me with the same story or the same stuff over and
40:45
over and over for free and not doing anything different. And so after a
40:53
while that is exhausting energetically, that's exhausting to me. And and so that's
40:59
my badre. I'm just like, it's time to schedule an appointment and pay
41:07
some money for my time and my service. And then guilt came up.
41:16
That you know, when you're setting when you're beginning to set boundaries, sometimes
41:22
you can feel guilty and bev you're froze. I don't know if it's you
41:29
or me. So so when we're learning to set boundaries, that can drum
41:37
up guilt. And here's the same nobody can make you feel guilty, right,
41:44
It's to me, guilt is associated to people pleasing. So if you're
41:50
wanting, you know, you're providing a service and you're massaging me, and
41:53
then I'm like, oh, while I was late and you've provided your service,
42:00
but I want more, so could you just you know, massage me
42:02
a little longer because you know this hurts or that hurts, and you're wanting
42:08
to please me or wanting to make sure I leave feeling better than when I
42:14
showed up, and you give into that. That's the guilt, right,
42:17
that's the guilt showing up saying I gotta do this. Well, then afterwards
42:22
then there's resentment and then it starts escalating into anger. And it's just it's
42:27
the snowball effect that when we don't set boundaries, it just it doesn't feel
42:36
good at all. And we all know it because we've all done it.
42:40
And there's there's somebody in my life who his presence has been requested. Alrighty,
42:59
then it kind of was going on and off, so I wasn't sure.
43:04
Okay, So anyway, his presence, somebody in my life, his
43:10
presence is being requested for some events and he's really not wanting to go,
43:16
and the people involved or you know, pressure pressure quote unquote pressuring him,
43:25
and now he's feeling guilty because he's saying no. I'm like, listen,
43:30
nobody can make you feel guilty about your decision. It's your choice. He's
43:34
like, well, what do you mean? I said? If you say
43:37
no, then be okay with your answer of no. If you say yes,
43:40
be okay with your answer of yes. That's it. There's nothing more.
43:49
So it was an interesting reaction from him. But I know I've been
43:58
there. I've been the people pleaser. I've been then no boundaries. I've
44:00
been the give give give, I've been the feel guilty about stuff. So
44:06
I get it and I understand it all. I'm always say all, but
44:09
I understand what I've been through my perception of it. And it's interesting.
44:15
Just like with any energy, when you get into that energy, you get
44:16
more of it to feel right. So when you get into that guilt energy,
44:20
next thing, you know, anything that has ever made you feel guilty
44:22
in your life starts to show up, and then you start building more of
44:24
a craft Beast order story. I mean, I really That's how a lot
44:28
of it's happening. And so like at the beginning of the conversations, I
44:31
was saying that I want deeper conversations, right, which we're having deeper conversations,
44:36
and then I'm realizing I don't have to set my day on the calendar
44:39
and have it organized step by step, but I can set my intentions for
44:45
the day and be like I'm going to have a great day today and I'm
44:50
going to get back home around this time, or honor around you know,
44:53
or however you want to look at it. But it's an opportunity to create
44:57
it the way you want to. Instead, I feel like you're a them
45:00
to it, or that it's just whatever happened. It's you know, like
45:04
I said earlier, willy nilly, you just never know what's going to happen
45:06
for one moment's next. And I've liked that. I've liked that way to
45:10
be in that space a lot of times. But at the same time,
45:14
that's that space can give you so much freedom, But when you have other
45:16
people that are relying on you or anything else that kind of disrupts that,
45:20
it's then you're like pushing yourself and now you're into a routine, an old
45:23
pattern that you're in being in a hurry, right. I was it.
45:29
I've always had since since I hit the road, driving first day down the
45:32
road, I was in a hurry always because that's why I learned. I
45:36
had that was that's why I learned from the environment. So it's just do
45:42
I have to continue going down that path? I don't. It's my choice,
45:45
so it's my choice to stay in that doesn't feel good. No,
45:49
it doesn't feel good. Why would I stay in it? I don't know.
45:51
Why do we do a lot of things that we do because we were
45:52
trained that way? But it doesn't have to be that way. How are
45:55
you going to find out? Start paying attention to your energies. How do
45:59
you feel you're doing certain things? And then really, I'm not saying that
46:01
they're time you feel bad about something, don't do but check in with yourself.
46:05
Why do I feel bad about this? Why does this seem like it's
46:08
Why does this feel like it's so heavy when it shouldn't feel that way.
46:12
Well, then I've got to go deeper with it myself and figure out what's
46:14
going on withinside of me that's creating these feelings, because this is an old
46:17
pattern and it's in a huge opportunity right then to take a look at it.
46:22
I've heard other people say, you know, they got triggered by something,
46:28
Maybe it was about war, So I could use that example. The
46:30
guy was being triggered about war because he's really totally against it and things it's
46:32
worthflows and blah blah blah blah. But he said, like he said before,
46:36
we've talked too. It's becoming neutral about it so we don't have an
46:38
emotion in one way or the other, so we can actually truly see it
46:42
for what it really is or how it can benefit people, because there is
46:45
a way that these things can benefit people from where they're at right now.
46:50
It may not be from where you're at or where I'm at. When we're
46:52
listening to our conversations and the people that were entertaining or having our experience because
46:59
those that were bringing around as we have them in our experience for a reason,
47:01
because we've been asking. We want deeper conversations, we want we want
47:07
bigger understandings, we want the guidance. And it's not something we don't have
47:14
to go always go out and pay for it or buy it. But it's
47:15
a give and take. It's an ebb and flow with whoever you're with.
47:19
So I've got to show up the best of me. If I'm wanting the
47:21
best of everybody that I'm that I'm meeting up with, and this doesn't mean
47:25
that I'm going to get the best, well that's not even true because even
47:29
on the worst times, it's still our best. When we're if you're struggling,
47:31
you're going through your loss and you're grieving and everything else. When you
47:35
show up that day, that's your best. That's your best. You can
47:38
only give yourself credit for what you can do, what you're capable of doing
47:42
in that moment, and honoring this ulf when you're tired. It kind of
47:46
goes along with the whole conversation we've had, even all the way back.
47:50
It's just really listening to ourselves and listening to the body and giving it the
47:53
opportunity for the rest. I was the person if you got sick or got
47:57
a cold or anything, I was at the gym, working that much harder
48:00
to get rid of it because I thought that was the way. But I
48:02
will tell you a lot of times it did actually work out very well for
48:05
me, or at least I got past Phil and sorry for myself or whatever.
48:07
Maybe that put me more into the moment. There's a million ways to
48:10
break it down. I wasn't present and all those times, honestly, I
48:15
was just showing up in life Willie Milly, So I couldn't tell you exactly
48:19
how I was feeling because I never stopped to check and see how was I
48:22
feeling. I didn't have time for that. Yeah, that's something that we
48:27
all, we all could do better with. When you're talking about your time,
48:32
one of the mantras that I have had for quite a while is I
48:37
have all the time space and energy I need to complete my task today or
48:42
complete the tasks that need my attention today, or something along those lines.
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And you know, when I keep my focus on that, it every single
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time, it's like magic, just like I have all I have, all
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the time space and energy I need, and it's just amazing. And it's
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just taking. When you say that, it's just you're just taking the time
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to say that mantra every day, to acknowledge it, to witness it,
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to fill it for that moment, and then it sets your intention for the
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day, right, I mean, is that how I'm asking? I guess
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I'm like, right, right, Amy, is that really how it works?
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Now? What do you mean? Right? Yeah, it would be
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an intention. It would not I would say, I said, mantra intention
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Probably to me, it feels better word. So I'll look at my stuff
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like my to do list and my appointments and for the day, and sometimes
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I'm just like, oh my gosh, so much, so much, right,
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and my old pattern is to go into overwhelm. And when you go
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into overwhelm, me shut down and then you don't do anything. You're gonna
49:51
find every distraction possible, like the dishes need to be done in the laundry,
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and there's a whole nother list that you're going to attend to other than
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what the important stuff is. So yeah, so setting the intention. I
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have all the time, space and energy I need to complete or give attention
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to the tasks that need to be completed today. You know something along those
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lines, and yeah, which is awesome. I mean anything like along that
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way, even before you ever get out of bed, while you're still layer
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in comfort of your bed, just to be in that space kind of setting
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the intentions because I do wake up sometimes with like I stepped in some ship
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during the nighttime. I don't know what happens when I wake up that way,
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but I can acknowledge it, and it's like, I'm not going to
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stay in that space. I'm not hanging out in that room. Maybe I
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need to open up the I mean visually, I can just see myself opening
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up the blinds, letting some sun light in and changing the way the energy
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fills in this space. But it really is setting our intentions, but it's
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really being present. That means you have to be present throughout your day.
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You can't just be in the past in the future because they don't exist anyways.
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They don't exist, Like we've came up with these with these words passed
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in future, but they don't exist. All we have is right now.
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That's it is it. It blows. It blows my mind because that's I
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heard that so many years ago, and it's like I don't think I was
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getting it right then, but it's like it really, there is nothing else.
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All my lifetimes, if you want to call it lifetimes, are all.
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It's all now, all of it's right now. There is no there's
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no separation, there's no time separation. On another aspect of me is having
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another experience for the greater good of all. So go ahead when you're I
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just want to hit on this because it just triggered I'm like, oh,
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this is a good conversation. So so actually, there is no future we
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have right now. I'm not I'm not going to talk about the past,
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but we have right now. We hope that there's the next moment. Right
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Most people who want to stay in the physical body. So when you're worried
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about the future, those are the intentions you're setting for your future. I
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heard it said. I mean that that just landed in me, but I've
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heard it said in a way that when you worry about the future, you're
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praying for something you don't want to happen. So if we just simplify and
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say, when you are in that space of worry about and worry and anxiety
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has to do with futuristic stuff, you're actually setting your intentions for that from
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that space of anxiety and worry, and then you wonder why your life is
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shit. You just keep perpetuating in the you know, the same stuff,
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same scenarios, same experiences, same conversations, and nothing's getting better and things
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are getting worse while you set those intentions. You set those intentions yesterday,
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last week, three months ago, and nothing's getting better. Set new intentions.
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It's pretty simple. Set new intentions. I have all the time,
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space and energy I need. That's an intention. I'm gonna have an amazing
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day. That's an intention. Money flows to me from multiple streams, that's
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an intention. Those feel a lot better to me than than thinking of you
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know how crappy life is and what if that happens? And what if that
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happens? And oh my gosh, what if what if they don't pay the
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child support? What if I lose my job? Like, none of that
53:38
feels good. That's just like I agree, thank you Universe for a beautiful
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day. Another one? Right's right? For all the blessings and miracles you
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are bringing to me today, Yeah, I will take them very much.
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Yeah. It help me to see each and every single one of them,
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like right, and to recognize and witness them as the miracles they are because
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we don't recognize a lot of that stuff. And then also today, what
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can I create? And if you start with that, every single day you're
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creating every single day we are because we're creating all the time. But where
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are you creating from? You? Are you creating from the grief and the
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anger and the like you were just talking about all the stuff that we don't
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want more of? Or are we creating from a space of magical mystical that's
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woo woo stuff. I mean it can sound woo woo, but I don't
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care or can you? I mean, along that same ground, are you
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creating stuff that makes you feel good. Are you creating things that are fulfilling?
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Are you? Are you walking through your day and just smiling and smiling
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at all those around you. That's awesome because no matter how they're showing up,
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how are you showing up? That's what's the most important, because the
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way that we show up is what brings us what we're going to have right
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now, right now, right now, that's how we're showing up. It's
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not it's not something that's out of our reach. It's not something that's in
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the future. It's all right now. And when we start getting into the
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right now stuff, everything feels differently. It takes For me, it's quite
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the practice, and I am like just a I'm like an infant as far
55:20
as that goes, because I'm learning a lot of stuff. I really do
55:22
feel like that, because I feel like that there's so many different layers to
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it that I'm just touching on the edges of it and having an understanding because
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I'm trying to understand something through my old template and it's and sometimes just letting
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go of all that stuff because you can't it just doesn't line up right.
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We were talking about over the weekend living in this box and we just don't
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line up in the box anymore. We can't. I can't fit in the
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box. I just the box can't hold this. It's it's just it doesn't
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exist. It's like that whole thing about the walls we put up around ourselves.
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It's false, it's not even real. Get the magnifying or not a
55:58
magnifying glass, olan you very well. How about a microscope and like zoom
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in on that, like whatever, a number of times you have to zoom
56:06
in on it, soup tori. You're actually seeing through it as just particles.
56:09
It's not even one solid piece. So we just get caught up and
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stuff. That's all. And it's just recognizing there's so much easier ways out
56:19
there, and the easiest way for everything is not even doing anything, but
56:22
just being just being in that space of noticing things. How does my body
56:28
feel right now? When you're driving by somebody, you can feel their energy.
56:31
How does the person feel next to me? Send them some streams of
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grace, send them prayers. We've just got all these opportunities and opportunities for
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play all around us, all day long, all the time, and I
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haven't been utilizing it all the time. But I'm going to I am,
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I'm starting right now. Oh wait, that's all we have is right now.
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It's like it, that's all you have now, So I already started
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it, already started. There we are awesome conversation and I'd love it.
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I love that we come here each week and have these deeper conversations. I
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hope that more people are engaging in deeper conversations with whatever that means to you
57:17
and shifting the energy from being less in a space of what doesn't feel good
57:27
and more in a space of what does feel good, because that's what's really
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going to lift collective consciousness and make your days a whole lot brighter and better
57:36
and more fun more enjoyable. I think that's what we all desire. But
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we all got to do our part. We all got to do We got
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to do the practice or the healing or whatever whatever that looks like for each
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of us, and know that there is a light at the end of the
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tunnel. It is possible to have a joyful life, but set your intentions
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right, have self awareness of what you're thinking about, what you're feeling about,
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and what you're talking about, because that all contributes to your future moments.
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And your intentions. So any last words from you, my dear,
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Yeah, no longer drop the judgments. Drop the judgments, because even the
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person that you think that's wasting their whole life and is doing drugs and doing
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all these things is out there having an experience just like you. It may
58:32
not be exactly the way you see it, but they're having an experience and
58:37
it's not good or bad. It's an experience. So remember that it's just
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an experience. We could like go off on a whole other conversation for another
58:45
hour about you know, these people who have these intense addictions and they're there's
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in what we view as struggling or not having a good life. Maybe that's
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what they came into this life to do. Maybe that was their learning experience.
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I got goosebumps. Yeah, but we've created that box, right,
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society created box, and we need to put them in the box. They
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need to fit in the box or they're not or they're judged and criticized.
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But we don't know their spirit's journey. We don't know what they came here
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to do to learn to accomplish from a spiritual standpoint, And so as Bev
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said, we can send streams of grace. We can say prayers, we
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can imagine them surrounded by love, and that whatever they are here to experience,
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may it be for the highest and greatest good of all aimmen, because
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it's their experienced. That's right, became an experience, and that's it.
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That is it. I heard that recently, and I think that was by
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the same that Mary and as well met Maryann Kennedy. She was talking about
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it, and it's like she said it in a way that it totally resonated
1:00:07
because I believe I have believed that, but I didn't have any way of
1:00:09
putting it out there. And now I've got someone else that believes the same
1:00:13
thing I do. I guess I don't know, but it was she was
1:00:15
running along parallels with a lot of stuff that I do believe because it's yeah,
1:00:19
Otherwise, otherwise it feels like that there's a loss, right, there
1:00:22
wasn't a game, and there's always a game. There's always a game from
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us being here because we learn how to do and bet do and be better
1:00:29
in our next life, or the way we show up for people when we're
1:00:32
a guide on the other side, or whatever, however, whatever you want
1:00:36
to look at it however you want to see it that we have such many
1:00:38
opportunities. It's right, ample opportunities, and you will the physical body just
1:00:45
saying yep, we'll make so make it magical, right, make it fun,
1:00:52
set those good intentions. All right, my friends, thank you so
1:00:57
much for hanging out with us. Tea time with Amien bed before. To
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be sure to share us with your acquaintances, your family and friends, even
1:01:05
the people you don't like, because somebody's going to get something out of this
1:01:09
and we'll see you next. Sorry, that's funny. Stare with everybody,
1:01:14
even those people who you don't like. There's nothing you don't like them,
1:01:17
you just don't resonate with them at this time. They're will to say that
1:01:21
way. All right, By friends, we'll see you bye,