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The Pumpkin Patch · Second Date Update

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  Speaker 1: All right, you guys, are you ready for second date updates? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: let's do it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, We've got Ashley on the line from Windsor Locks.
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  Speaker 2: Ashley went on a great first date with a guy
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  Speaker 2: named Derek and wants to know why she's getting ghosted.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, Ashley, Hi, Hey.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to the show. I hope we can get you
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  Speaker 2: some answers. Tell us about this great first date you
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  Speaker 2: went on.
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  Speaker 3: Sure, his name is Derek, Okay, and we went to
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  Speaker 3: a brewery.
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  Speaker 4: Together, nice cue.
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  Speaker 3: It was good. We had beer, we talked the whole time,
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  Speaker 3: and then afterwards we went pumpkin picking too.
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  Speaker 1: Perfect time of year, Like you went to a pumpkin patch.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm so into like the fall, into pumpkin picking,
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  Speaker 3: into all the Halloween events, like I'm here for it.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, So it sounds like it was a great first date.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, absolutely. I had so much fun. And then afterwards,
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  Speaker 3: you know, I was being polite. I wanted to reach
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  Speaker 3: out to him to just thank him for such a
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  Speaker 3: good time.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I've just I've been ghosted.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: So that's you did reach out to him, you thanked
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  Speaker 2: him for the date, and he has not responded.
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  Speaker 1: Is that what's going on.
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  Speaker 3: That's pretty much it. Okay, it's the weirdest thing, like
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  Speaker 3: we had really the best time.
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  Speaker 5: Question question you mentioned doing fall things you guys didn't
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  Speaker 5: go on, like a haunted hay ride or anything, right,
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  Speaker 5: like did he get scared and like he's feeling a
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  Speaker 5: shame that you.
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  Speaker 3: Know, yeah, you go right, and no, it's nothing like that. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: literally just a pumpkin patch.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, less, all right, let's calm. I'm gonna put you
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  Speaker 2: on hold, Ashley. You're gonna be listening in. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 2: ask Derek just to be honest and tell us how
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  Speaker 2: he thought the date went, and then you can talk
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  Speaker 2: to him at any point.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, thank you.
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  Speaker 5: It sounds like a great sounds like a great first
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  Speaker 5: date to make I know, it sounds like so cute,
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  Speaker 5: like something I do with my friends.
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  Speaker 1: Oh maybe maybe that's the problem.
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  Speaker 5: It was too frenzy. He felt like he was one
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  Speaker 5: of the girls, like drinking beer. Instagram photos you know,
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  Speaker 5: could be.
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  Speaker 1: Hi, is Derek there?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Hey Derek, it's Courtney, Derek.
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  Speaker 1: It's Walmart chef. Hey Derek, it's Savannah.
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  Speaker 2: We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven. You're on
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  Speaker 2: the radio this morning, Derek.
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  Speaker 4: Oh boy, Okay, how's it going, guys?
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  Speaker 6: It's good I win something.
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  Speaker 2: Well, you won the chance to be on second date update.
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  Speaker 2: That's what you won this morning, Derek. Okay, so well
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  Speaker 2: obviously by that, by that sound, you know what it is.
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  Speaker 2: You went on somebody went on a first date with you,
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  Speaker 2: and now you're ghosting them. And I'm just gonna go
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  Speaker 2: straight up and say it. Ashley said she had a
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  Speaker 2: great date with you, brewery, pumpkin patch.
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  Speaker 1: She reached out to you, and you're ghosting her.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, what's the what's the reason?
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  Speaker 1: Why was the date not? She told us? What did
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  Speaker 1: she say? It was like the perfect date or the
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  Speaker 1: best date or a I don't know. Yeah, I wasn't listening.
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  Speaker 1: It was basically a really cute fall kind of date.
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  Speaker 1: It was like her was a dream date, a dream day.
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  Speaker 1: There it is.
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  Speaker 5: There you go, Jeff, Was it a dream date for you?
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  Speaker 6: No? I mean I planned it and I wanted it
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  Speaker 6: to be a good date, and I was hoping it would.
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  Speaker 6: But I I really should have probably I should have
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  Speaker 6: been more upfront and I should have just seen the.
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  Speaker 4: Red flags, you know, along the way.
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  Speaker 6: She was she was pretty rude to the staff and
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  Speaker 6: short with them.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, at the brewery or the pumpkin patch.
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  Speaker 6: At the brewery, Yeah, And I think it's a it's
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  Speaker 6: a really a not not a great sign when you
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  Speaker 6: see someone rude to service workers. And uh, that was
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  Speaker 6: that was not great. She just complained about just everything.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, complained about the beer.
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  Speaker 6: You know, nothing was good enough for her. And we
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  Speaker 6: went to the pumpkin patch and I swear to God,
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  Speaker 6: no pumpkin was good enough for her. It's like she
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  Speaker 6: would literally just go down the line picking up, looking
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  Speaker 6: at each pumpkin.
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  Speaker 4: Saying nope, nope, nope. You know, she was so perfectionist.
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  Speaker 4: She actually she got so annoyed she like threw a
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  Speaker 4: pumpkin out of anger, like a little one.
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  Speaker 1: So on a date, she actually threw a pumpkin.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I picked it up and like threw it across
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  Speaker 6: like the thing. It was. I was like, She's like,
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  Speaker 6: this one the stem is too long, this one of
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  Speaker 6: the stems too effing short.
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  Speaker 2: You know.
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  Speaker 6: I was like, it just was not I wanted it
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  Speaker 6: to be fun, but okay, it was it really wasn't.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna put but she's listening in Ashley, did you
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  Speaker 2: throw a pumpkin like out of anger?
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  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, look like if something feels uncomfortable for
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  Speaker 3: me or if I don't like the service, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 3: say it like. I was polite the whole time. I
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  Speaker 3: know I am a perfectionist. Okay, I'm not gonna deny that,
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  Speaker 3: but there's no reason for somebody not to.
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  Speaker 6: Call me back.
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  Speaker 3: I was very friendly to you, Derek. I didn't do
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  Speaker 3: anything wrong.
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  Speaker 4: No, you you you were, you were friendly to me.
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  Speaker 6: It's just that you know, you say you were polite
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  Speaker 6: to the stem and everything. It's like, it's not what
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  Speaker 6: you say, it's how you say it sometimes. And you
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  Speaker 6: were you were very short with people, generally speaking, anyone
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  Speaker 6: in your field division.
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  Speaker 4: That wasn't me. I mean, you were, you were, you
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  Speaker 4: were nice enough with me, but.
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  Speaker 6: It was just very very much a turn off and
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  Speaker 6: nothing everything was It was a comment, a complaint the pumpkins.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, my god, pick a pumpkin.
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  Speaker 6: I truly, Oh my god, it was I don't know,
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  Speaker 6: it was just not my speed.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 4: I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm so I can't even believe that this
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  Speaker 3: is happening right now. I didn't even I didn't even
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  Speaker 3: like what you were wearing on the date. I should
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  Speaker 3: have told you that.
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  Speaker 6: Oh, probably the only thing that she didn't make a
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  Speaker 6: comment about was my outfit. Probably it would have been
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  Speaker 6: the only thing she didn't have a complaint about until now.
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  Speaker 4: There you go.
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  Speaker 1: Here's the deal, Ashley.
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  Speaker 2: You now you know, and I mean you may not
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  Speaker 2: agree with them, but Derek, basically I says that you
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  Speaker 2: were rude to the staff. He should have saw the
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  Speaker 2: red flag. Nothing was good enough. All you do is complain, Ashley.
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  Speaker 2: You think it's just your perfectionists. You want what you want.
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  Speaker 2: I got it.
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  Speaker 1: Hold on, don't forget the airborne pumpkin.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, and you tossed and you through a pumpkin that
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  Speaker 5: poor Gord had to die for no reason.
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  Speaker 1: All right, well, listen, guys, it's okay. Listen. We got
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  Speaker 1: to the bottom of it.
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  Speaker 3: Now.
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  Speaker 1: At least you've got answers and you know what's going on.
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  Speaker 1: So I listen. I wish you guys the best out there, and.
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  Speaker 2: Keep us posted on on your dating journeys.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you, guys.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, Oh my god, are you kidding me?
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  Speaker 4: Oh my god.