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Reddit Updates That Will Leave You Speechless: The Most Unexpected Twists · The conspiracy

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  Speaker 1: Hello, beautiful! How are you doing today?
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  Speaker 1: so that's good. I swear Pete just moved. What the heck? Guys? Guys,
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  Speaker 1: I'm a little bit scared. I don't understand. Like, how
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  Speaker 1: could he just disappear like that? I don't- I don't...
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  Speaker 1: He's right behind me, isn't he? All right, hello, everybody,
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  Speaker 1: And today, we're just reading some more Reddit. Still out
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  Speaker 1: of breath from going down with Pete. I won, as
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  Speaker 1: per usual. But yeah, we're reading Reddit, so let's do it. Hey, you!
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  Speaker 1: Not you. Oh, what a good boy! Yeah, you! I've
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  Speaker 1: got some pretty exciting news. For those of you who
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  Speaker 1: It tastes so good. I was actually mind blown the
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  Speaker 1: In the meantime, I'm gonna crack that open and get
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  Speaker 1: myself a little Goodness, I don't understand how we did this.
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  Speaker 1: It tastes so freaking good. Rupert, you want some? Just kidding,
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  Speaker 2: Anyway.
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  Speaker 1: Before we get started, we need to put on my glasses, Jay.
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  Speaker 1: Run it. Get around because now it's Chris reads screens.
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  Speaker 1: All right, so first up we have, am I overreacting?
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  Speaker 1: New friends texts to husband while at work. My responses. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: so we have texts, but first let's read The Post.
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  Speaker 1: I apologize for the length of this. Never apologize for length, okay?
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  Speaker 1: Shut up. Anyway, I'm really trying to see if I'm
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  Speaker 1: tripping slash overreacting or if my read on this is correct.
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  Speaker 1: I'll tell you, I'll let you know because I know everything. Context, woman, 30s,
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  Speaker 1: single mom of five, works as an assistant at the
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  Speaker 1: school my 40 male husband teaches at. We've been together
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  Speaker 1: 11 years. He's been at the school for three. He
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  Speaker 1: showed me, 32 female, this text from her labeled first slide.
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  Speaker 1: We'll read that after. Saying that it seemed really definitely
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  Speaker 1: flirty and forward, and it made him uncomfortable, and what
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  Speaker 1: did I think? Okay, at least he's showing you, that's good.
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  Speaker 1: We love that. Green flag. There have been other comments.
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  Speaker 1: We've danced this dance before together, referencing their souls, we
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  Speaker 1: don't know, and actions, walking too close to him often,
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  Speaker 1: trying to time her departure with his so they can talk,
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  Speaker 1: suddenly volunteering for a camping field trip with him, even
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  Speaker 1: though it was inconvenient as for her, et cetera. This
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  Speaker 1: sounds like shit that I would do in high school,
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  Speaker 1: like maybe run into the crush, that I had when
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  Speaker 1: I was like 15, like timing it, right? This is odd,
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  Speaker 1: especially given he's married. For the record, I've had no
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  Speaker 1: negative interactions with her. I really liked, question mark, her,
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  Speaker 1: admired her way of speaking, love how she is with
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  Speaker 1: the children, including mine. We have a lot of similar
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  Speaker 1: interests and ways of parenting, et cetera. I have no
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  Speaker 1: reason to not like her or be inherently suspicious of her.
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  Speaker 1: He is the teacher of one of her children and
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  Speaker 1: she is the leader of the parent group for his class.
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  Speaker 1: They also work together in other capacities, but for most
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  Speaker 1: of most days, they're not around each other except in passing.
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  Speaker 1: I need to read the texts, but I can't really
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  Speaker 1: make an opinion just yet, okay? To me and to
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  Speaker 1: a few friends, her text to him reads very flirty.
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  Speaker 1: It came out of nowhere. Their other chat history is
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  Speaker 1: all school slash kid related stuff. Oh, it's a deleted text. No,
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  Speaker 1: he's showing you. I feel like there's not. I feel
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  Speaker 1: like there's not, especially if he's bringing it up. I
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  Speaker 1: really don't like his response because I feel like he
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  Speaker 1: threw my feelings out for her to munch on and
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  Speaker 1: didn't really make a clear boundary to stop, okay? And
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  Speaker 1: retracting my previous statement, we don't like that. It's like a, oh, sorry,
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  Speaker 1: I have a wife, or sorry, you know? the old
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  Speaker 1: hag back at home wouldn't like it type thing. We'll
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  Speaker 1: see what the texts say, but I don't know. You
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  Speaker 1: can see what I thought in the remaining pictures. Am
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  Speaker 1: I overreacting to him or to her? How do these
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  Speaker 1: messages read to you? Let's read the texts. It says, her.
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  Speaker 1: That look you keep giving me in passing is trouble.
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  Speaker 1: Evil smiley face ellipses. We ride at dawn. You know
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  Speaker 1: what I mean? That's extremely, extremely flirty. I'd be suspicious
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  Speaker 1: of that. Husband. His answer. To be honest, I don't
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  Speaker 1: quite know the look. I had a headache all day
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  Speaker 1: and was drained beyond human reason, undoing the basement and
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  Speaker 1: scrubbing the floor and walls to kill a mold problem. Ellipses. Also,
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  Speaker 1: I can't engage with or reciprocate that energy. Just can't.
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  Speaker 1: My wife, wildly upset about it, which bleeds into every
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  Speaker 1: aspect of family life and ultimately affects the health of
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  Speaker 1: the kids. You're saying you can't engage? Why are you
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  Speaker 1: saying I won't engage? Words matter, Todd. You are a radiant, beautiful,
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  Speaker 1: regal human being. Stop it, Todd. You're being a. Right now,
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  Speaker 1: I need to focus on my mental and physical health,
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  Speaker 1: but when I'm done, we can talk later. My family's health,
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  Speaker 1: preparing mind, body, and soul for the next year and
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  Speaker 1: growing my art and music. Oh, brother, this guy stinks.
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  Speaker 1: Even if I was solo dolo, That would be the case.
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  Speaker 1: The fact that you said solo dello, you deserve a
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  Speaker 1: throat punch right now. I hope this doesn't make things
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  Speaker 1: weird at all. I just need clarity and focus at
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  Speaker 1: this intense energetic junction.
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  Speaker 2: What is the speaking?
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  Speaker 1: What is this? It's like chat GPT answer or something.
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  Speaker 1: Don't worry guys, there's more. So now I believe we're
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  Speaker 1: reading the.
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  Speaker 1: Wife's texts to her husband, okay? He sent a screenshot
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  Speaker 1: to her of the thing, which is good, of their conversation,
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  Speaker 1: that it's weird. Wife says, can't is not the same
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  Speaker 1: thing as I'm not interested. Clock it, okay? Clock it. Also,
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  Speaker 1: we do this here because that's yes in sign language.
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  Speaker 1: You basically outed me and put all the blame on
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  Speaker 1: me for not being able to reciprocate. Gross. Mm-hmm. You
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  Speaker 1: tell him. Him. What? Dude, what the? No. What are
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  Speaker 1: you calling your wife, dude? Dude, dude, that's another throw punch,
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  Speaker 1: all right? Right to the trachea. I said even I
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  Speaker 1: was solo, it would be the same. You said solo dolo,
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  Speaker 1: you piece of shit. Oh, now we have a, there
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  Speaker 1: was a voice note that starts with, I guess I
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  Speaker 1: would just like to know woman to woman and friend
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  Speaker 1: to friend something. We don't, we don't see what it says. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: me to her. Oh, okay. Okay. So we're getting, we're
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  Speaker 1: switching all sorts of texts right now. So this is
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  Speaker 1: wife to clearly flirtatious assistant. Like for real, did something
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  Speaker 1: give you the impression he was open to you? Or
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  Speaker 1: are you being snaky? Really calls your whole character into
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  Speaker 1: question for me. Goofy isn't the word that comes to
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  Speaker 1: mind for me. I look forward to hearing from you directly. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: so she must've said something like she's goofy or something
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  Speaker 1: for thinking this at some point. I wish we had more.
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  Speaker 1: We do. But I didn't see the above texts. All right,
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  Speaker 1: here we go. Her. Conflict usually needs a moment to breathe. Ellipses.
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  Speaker 1: I can see the way this form of communication affected you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry for that. It was super lighthearted and making
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  Speaker 1: fun of the way his eyes were super small as
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  Speaker 1: he was walking past. It was not my intention to
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  Speaker 1: do anything to hurt you or upset you. I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to be mindful not to joke with blank like that
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  Speaker 1: in the future. I can assure you I was never
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  Speaker 1: aiming to take anything from you or to inflame relationship tension.
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  Speaker 1: I respect that you have your feelings about it. That's
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  Speaker 1: pretty much all there is to it. I don't even
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  Speaker 1: think you're reading it. That text is, what do you
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  Speaker 1: mean his eyes were small? What are you talking about?
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  Speaker 1: You had the evil smiley face. There was nothing innocent
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  Speaker 1: about that. And an ellipsis, you bitch. Me or wife,
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  Speaker 1: you weren't flirting with him or you were? As I
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  Speaker 1: understand it, this isn't the first time. Oh my God.
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  Speaker 1: She says, did somebody tell you they interpreted something as
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  Speaker 1: flirting or is it something that you saw? Okay. She's
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  Speaker 1: just saying how stupid the wife is, basically. As I
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  Speaker 1: told him, sometimes my jokes get me in trouble. Whether
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  Speaker 1: it's for lack of understanding or what's behind them slash
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  Speaker 1: lack of clarification afterwards, if someone needed clarity, that's what
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  Speaker 1: asking is for. Maybe just learn how to talk to
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  Speaker 1: people appropriately, you. Take time to sit with the message.
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  Speaker 1: The level of audacity is through the roof. What else
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  Speaker 1: that is coming up for you is not between you
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  Speaker 1: and I, wife. Yes, blank, it is between you and I.
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  Speaker 1: What does that look you keep giving me in passing
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  Speaker 1: as trouble, this evil smiley face, have to do with
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  Speaker 1: someone's eyes being small? Thank you for asking this because
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  Speaker 1: it makes no sense. What is the meaning of the
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  Speaker 1: devil face? What is the trouble in the look? His
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  Speaker 1: perspective is he was stressed from our workload right now
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  Speaker 1: and your message reads flirty AF. Keep going, queen. Keep going.
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  Speaker 1: I'm on your side. He clearly stated earlier he had
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  Speaker 1: a headache all day because it's a joke. And she
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  Speaker 1: does the evil smiley face. Listen, I think she needs
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  Speaker 1: a punch through the throat as well, to be honest. Huh?
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  Speaker 1: What's the joke? What's the look? What's the trouble? Huh?
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  Speaker 1: She's just spitting it out like it's a damn rap. Huh?
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  Speaker 1: What's the joke? What's the look? What's the trouble? Where
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  Speaker 1: you at? What you doing? Stop talking to my husband, you. Look,
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  Speaker 1: it's obvious that you have your opinion on it. I'm
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  Speaker 1: sure what else you want me to say to you
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  Speaker 1: if you go back to the messages, everything is there.
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  Speaker 1: I said I won't joke like that anymore. I said,
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry that it affected you like that. Nothing is
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  Speaker 1: going on between me and blah. Nothing has ever gone
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  Speaker 1: on between us. Everybody knows that's your man. I'm asking
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  Speaker 1: you what your joke was supposed to mean. I'm asking
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  Speaker 1: you what the joke is. I'm asking you what your
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  Speaker 1: text meant because it just sounds flirty. Keep on pressing.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think anything has gone on between you because
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  Speaker 1: he isn't interested in you. Ha ha. I don't think
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  Speaker 1: you're being honest right now about the text message that
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  Speaker 1: you sent. I don't think so either. You said it
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  Speaker 1: was a joke about his small eyes, but what does
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  Speaker 1: that have to do with a devil face or a
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  Speaker 1: look being trouble? Question mark. Wife. As I said before,
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  Speaker 1: it was a harmless joke that was super goofy and impulsive.
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  Speaker 1: It looked like he was walking around trying to riz
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  Speaker 1: everybody up as the fifth graders would say. course you
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  Speaker 1: would use fifth grader language you child take it for
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  Speaker 1: face value or don't but as i stated there's nothing
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  Speaker 1: else to it this whole thing got blew up out
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  Speaker 1: of a bunch of nothing she doesn't even know how
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  Speaker 1: to talk i don't get the joke though what is
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  Speaker 1: it referencing how is the look he's giving you going
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  Speaker 1: to get you in trouble no i i honestly i
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  Speaker 1: know it sounds redundant but i like how she keeps
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  Speaker 1: on pressing because she's the other woman's not answering the
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  Speaker 1: question at all She's just like avoiding it. She's swerving.
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  Speaker 1: She's serpentining. You know what I mean? And what is
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  Speaker 1: the devil face about? I don't know what Riz everybody
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  Speaker 1: up means. To me, the text sounds like you interpreted
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  Speaker 1: him looking at you in a sexual way and you
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  Speaker 1: felt excited from it. That's exactly what it is. That's
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  Speaker 1: how it reads. You're not explaining it at all. So
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  Speaker 1: I don't really have a reason to believe something different.
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  Speaker 1: I'm explaining. It's literally face value. Goofy, impulsive joke. There
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  Speaker 1: isn't anything deeper in it. That's what I'm telling you.
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  Speaker 1: That's why there is no deeper explanation. And as we
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  Speaker 1: all know, when our fight or flight systems are triggered,
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  Speaker 1: we are going to place things where sometimes they are not.
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  Speaker 1: What are you talking about? The face value explanation is
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  Speaker 1: that it's a flirty text. That's how he read the
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  Speaker 1: text too, which is why he told me about it
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  Speaker 1: because it's weird as fuck. The only way it reads
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  Speaker 1: is flirty, and you haven't given any actual explanation otherwise.
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  Speaker 1: But you won't directly say it, maybe because it's embarrassing?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, but it's obviously flirty unless there's some
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  Speaker 1: other joke here. But, wife's name, this is exhausting and
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  Speaker 1: like literally there's nothing else to it. And as I said,
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  Speaker 1: you must have a specific thing you want me to say.
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  Speaker 1: You can try to shit talk all you want- Where's
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  Speaker 1: the shit talk? She just wants an explanation. But that's
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  Speaker 1: not where this is going to go. And if you're
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  Speaker 1: confident that your relationship is good with him, then you
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  Speaker 1: can trust that there's no other joke that he's not
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  Speaker 1: telling you about ellipses. Like I already apologized to you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm giving you the explanation that exists. So aside from
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  Speaker 1: me pulling out of the clouds a false explanation, there
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  Speaker 1: is seriously nothing else to say. And I would appreciate
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  Speaker 1: you just sitting with that for a moment. Dude, talk
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  Speaker 1: about beating a dead horse. Holy shit. I think you
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  Speaker 1: read into it properly. I think she's just getting very
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  Speaker 1: defensive and weird and, you know, not the sharpest tool
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  Speaker 1: in the shed, I don't think. Glad she's not teaching
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  Speaker 1: the kids, at least. Yeah, I'm glad your husband said
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  Speaker 1: something about it. Don't love how he said it, but
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  Speaker 1: maybe he's just a dumb man. This does happen sometimes.
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  Speaker 1: Hopefully he learns from it. But I don't like how
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  Speaker 1: he answered it either, but at least he told you, so.
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  Speaker 1: But I don't think you're overreacting. I think this is
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  Speaker 1: extremely odd. Makes me uncomfortable a lot. I think there
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  Speaker 1: might be a little update. Update. I express myself fully
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  Speaker 1: and plainly. He said he would talk with her in
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  Speaker 1: person and fully draw the line. He refused to tell
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  Speaker 1: me what was said in the conversation, though. He doesn't
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  Speaker 1: agree that his response left a door open. He thinks
• 14:27
  Speaker 1: me calling her a snake is too quickly judgmental. And
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  Speaker 1: he refused to block her even on social media accounts. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Double throw punch. We don't like Todd. You know, he was,
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  Speaker 1: he was moving up and then he fell down. He
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: fell down the stairs. I think you need, you need
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  Speaker 1: some couples counseling probably. And he needs to make more
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: of an effort to cut, to draw that line. Like,
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: I don't know why following her on social media would
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  Speaker 1: be a thing like blocking entirely. I mean, yeah. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like it makes sense in this case. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. This all makes me very uncomfortable. I don't
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  Speaker 1: like it. Let's see what the comments say though. First
• 15:00
  Speaker 1: comment says, stop trying to have a rational conversation with
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  Speaker 1: this lady, block her and have your husband block her too. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but he didn't. Another comment says this right here, cut
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  Speaker 1: all communication with her, both of you.
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  Speaker 2: Yep.
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  Speaker 1: That's another note. She might be enjoying pissing off the
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  Speaker 1: wife because it's her incredible validation. Like if she's a
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  Speaker 1: threat to another woman, then she's hot and she has
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  Speaker 1: a shot at stealing the husband. That's a hundred percent
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  Speaker 1: what I think. You know, you just can read. You
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  Speaker 1: can read women pretty easily. Like other women can read
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  Speaker 1: women in these types of situations pretty plainly, I feel like.
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  Speaker 1: And this is pretty obvious, you know. Another comment says,
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  Speaker 1: why do they speak like their only socialization for the
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: past nine years has been with a therapist? Yeah, that's true.
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  Speaker 1: It's so annoying with like therapy talk. When somebody is
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: talking down to you with therapy talk. My God, this
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: was exhausting to read. It was. So another comment says,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know why he's calling her radiant, beautiful, regal
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  Speaker 1: human being in response to a weird-ass text she sent. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: You know what? Let's come back to that. What the
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  Speaker 1: absolute shit? Like, what was that? If I read that,
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  Speaker 1: if I read my significant other saying that, somebody else
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  Speaker 1: like that who just sent a text like that bye
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  Speaker 1: see you never and I mean all the comments agree
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  Speaker 1: it's just super weird I feel like the minimum would
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: be to block her and everything to not I mean
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  Speaker 1: you don't know if he's not going to talk to
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  Speaker 1: her or anything I don't know uh everybody said no
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  Speaker 1: not overreacting um and I agree I agree what do
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  Speaker 1: you guys think let's move on All right, next up
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  Speaker 1: we have, am I the scallywag for questioning my engagement
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: after my fiance got mad at me for drinking while pregnant? Quotation,
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: so you weren't pregnant, I hope. Or if you didn't know,
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  Speaker 1: that's a whole other thing. Let's just get into it though.
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: Sorry if this is long. I just need opinions. I
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: can't tell if I'm being dramatic about this. Okay, so I,
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: 22 female, recently got engaged to my fiance, 23 male.
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: We are both still living at home to save money
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: to eventually get our own place. I still live with
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: my parents, but I stay at his place most nights
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: because it's closer to work and just easier. Responsible.
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: Love that.
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: Okay. So this New Year's Eve, we were at his
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: parents' house with family and a few friends. Nothing crazy,
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: just a normal family get together. His aunt was passing
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: out champagne to everyone and asked me if I wanted some.
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: But before I could even respond, my fiance reached out
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: and took the glass. I kind of thought it was weird,
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: but I just ignored it because he can be oblivious sometimes.
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: literal red flag, okay? I ended up just going to
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: the kitchen and pouring myself a drink. When I got
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: back to the living room, he immediately noticed my drink
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: and asked pretty loudly, is that alcohol? I said, yes.
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: He started getting really upset. He said he couldn't believe
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: I would do that, that he thought I was more
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: responsible and I was being reckless. I was obviously confused
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: and asked him what he's talking about. He said something like,
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: you're really going to mess things up before they even start.
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: You're going to hurt the baby. Hey, are you pregnant?
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: The room went quiet and I was so embarrassed. I
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: was thinking he must be drunk or something. I asked him,
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: what baby? Okay. All right. He said he knew I
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: was pregnant and that he'd been trying to do the
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: right thing. He said he found a pregnancy test in
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: the bathroom weeks ago. Oh, this is messy. And that's
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: why he's been watching what I eat and drink and
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: why he proposed. We need to communicate, okay? I know
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: you think you're being the responsible person by just assuming
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: something and then thinking you have to get married to
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: somebody because, but like, what are we doing? Let's talk
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: to each other. He said he was stepping up. Then
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: he said he didn't know if he had made a mistake,
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: if this was the kind of mother I was going
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: to be. Okay, so he really thinks you're pregnant right now.
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: I was literally so shocked and humiliated. I told him
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: I'm not pregnant, but he just told me I don't
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: need to lie. I'm not pregnant, in brackets. I ended
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: up leaving and coming to my parents' house that night
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: I haven't been to his place since. He keeps trying
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: to reach her to talk to me about it, but
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: I'm not ready. Where is this pregnancy test from? Is
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: this another woman? I'm scared. That brings us to last night.
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: My fiance's mom messaged me and asked me to come
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: over and talk. She says relationships take effort and I
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: shouldn't ruin my relationship over a little misunderstanding. I don't
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: know what to do. I love my fiance, but I
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: can't stop thinking if he never thought I was pregnant,
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: would he have even proposed to me? I'm really rethinking
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: the whole relationship. Am I the scallywag? Oh my goodness.
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: That's crazy. I'm just so curious about the test. Okay,
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: there is an update. So a bunch of comments are
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: asking about the pregnancy test my fiance found. Thank you, comment.
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: I don't know why I didn't even question that when
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: he said it. I think it was just shock. Fair enough.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: I've never taken a pregnancy test at his house, so
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: I don't know if he saw something and thought it
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: was a test or if he's being crazy and making
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: it up. What? I just messaged his mom back and
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: I'm going to go over there to talk and figure
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: out what I want to do. I do really like
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: his family and still love my fiance or boyfriend. I
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: don't know what to call him now. He's never really
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: done things to make me worry before. So I want
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: to at least listen before I throw everything away. I
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: posted the recent update to Redditor updates. Oh, there's another update. Okay,
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: everybody shut up. I'm going to read it. Yesterday, I
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: went over to my boyfriend's house. It's a boyfriend now,
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: not a fiance. And it did not go as expected.
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: I honestly don't even know what I was expecting. But
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: after reading some of your comments about whose test it was,
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: or if it was even a pregnancy test, I had
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: to find out. My boyfriend was really happy to see
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: me when I got there. I don't think his mom
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: told him I was coming. He seemed really genuine and
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: kept apologizing. His mom asked us to sit down and
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: she started crying saying she doesn't want to ruin our
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: relationship and she loves both of us and wants the
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: best for us. Then she shows us a sonogram. So
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: the mom is pregnant. I was right in my speculation.
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: It was his mom's test. Literally all of this stupid
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: drama because my boyfriend is an idiot. He said he
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: didn't think his mom could get pregnant anymore because she's
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: in her forties. Dude, just dip out. This guy's so dumb.
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: So the only other possibility was for it to be mine,
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: but he didn't want to ask me so I could
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: tell him myself. I love surprising people. So honestly, that
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: does make sense. But like it had been weeks. He
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: could have said something after all that time, for sure.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: His mom said she didn't say anything at the party
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: because she didn't know what she was going to do
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: yet and didn't want everyone at the party finding out.
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: But it still bothers me that she let me take
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: the embarrassment instead. Yeah, again, mother-in-law, future mother-in-law, maybe not,
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: I don't know, sucks. Or at least tell us after
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: in private instead of letting us not talk for over
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: a week. Who are these people? I do kind of
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: feel bad now that my boyfriend really thought I was
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: pregnant and thought I wasn't taking it seriously. I talked
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: to him about the engagement and if he meant what
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: he said about stepping up. He said he already had
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: the ring for a while, but was waiting for the
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: right time. And when he saw the test, he thought
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: of it as a sign and got excited thinking of
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: us as a little family. Hopefully, you know, they're young.
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: This was a really good learning experience. Don't like how
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: controlling and non-communicative he was personally, but he could grow.
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: He says he only said what he said at the
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: party in the heat of the moment, thinking I was
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: someone who would risk our baby like that. And he
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: didn't actually mean it. I think I believe him. As
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: of now, we aren't engaged anymore, but we are still together.
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: I told him we really need to work harder on
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: communication if we want to make our relationship last. A
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: lot of comments were saying he's a red flag and stuff,
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: and I can see where you're coming from, but this
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: was really the only time he's been like that. I
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: think his intentions were sweet but came off wrong. Also,
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: a lot of people saying we are too young to
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: get married, but my parents got married young and are
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: still together. So I think it depends. If we do
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: not get engaged again, I told him to actually wait
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: until he's ready and not when he thinks he needs to.
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: That's okay. That's fine. I don't think you're doomed. I
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: think he needs, again, a little more seasoning. The mom,
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: you know, she feels bad. She shouldn't have waited so long.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: I feel like this can be remedied and everybody can
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: grow from this. I don't think it's like a complete
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: leave him. type situation. You know, you can be young
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: and dumb and stuff. But he's got to learn. He's
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: got to learn to not be controlling like that because
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: that was weird. I didn't like that at all. I
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: still don't really like him, but whatever. You know, it's
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: not my life. Let's see what the comments say. First
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: comment says, y'all need to experience living without your parents
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: before you move in together. You don't want to be
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: his substitute mom. Agreed. Yep, in this day and age,
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: housing is so expensive, but if possible, everyone should live
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: alone or with roommates before they get married. I, you know,
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: and everybody's different or whatever. I always think that's a
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: really good idea. You really don't know somebody until you
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: live with them for like at least over six months,
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: I think personally. But sometimes it can work out, you know?
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: Another comment said, good luck. You're both really young and
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: your boyfriend is impulsive, proposed because he thought you were pregnant.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: He's got a lot of growing up to do. Yeah,
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: that's what I think. And that's okay. They can stay
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: together and they can grow together and everything. That's fine.
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: That's fine. And I hope they do. I think we
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: have time for one more little cheeky Reddit. Let's move on.
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: Let me know what you guys think. All right, last
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: but not least, and sounds scary a little bit. Am
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: I the scallywag for running away to give birth? And
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: other quotations. So, troll away because my husband follows my mane. Sorry,
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: I know that's probably just a spelling error, but now
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: I'm assuming... You're Irish. I, 23, and just kidding, I
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: won't do that. I, 23 female, and my husband, 25 male,
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: have been together for four years, married for two, and
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: we are expecting our first child. Congratulations. My relationship with
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: my mother-in-law was never amazing, but before this, she always
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: kept to herself, and so did I. And for the record,
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: my relationship with my husband's father and brother was always
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: really good. When I got pregnant, I told my husband
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: that I wanted to keep it a secret for at
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: least the three-month mark, because my own mother miscarried five
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: times in between my and my younger siblings. So I
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: thought that this fact could affect my and my pregnancy.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: And because I remember the heartbreak of my mom losing
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: all those babies. I didn't want our families to feel it.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: He totally agreed and even said it would be our
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: cool little secret. I respect that. Okay, cool. Two days
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: after I told him, I got a text from my
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: mother-in-law saying that she knew it was a girl and
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: that it was selfish of me to keep the news
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: of our baby girl secret. away from her and her family.
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: So we're dealing with the monster in law. Got it.
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: Just for the record, I was around four weeks pregnant
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: at this point. So I had no idea about the
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: sex myself. So I don't know where that came from.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: Just her being crazy, mostly. I confronted my husband to
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: what he replied, you were not expecting me to hide
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: this from my mom, right? She deserves to know it's
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: my child too. I was furious and didn't talk with
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: him for around a week after this. Needless to say
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: that in the week after this incident, everyone already knew
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: I was pregnant and people were even mad at me
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: for wanting privacy on this. Why does everybody suddenly get
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: so entitled to other people's children when somebody gets pregnant?
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: You best believe if I am ever with child, nobody
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: is going to know, okay? Nobody's gonna, it's just gonna
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: slowly start cropping into my face closer and closer. as
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: the weeks go by. But no, seriously, I want no
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: part in that. I hate all the online criticism of women.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: I mean, they can post whatever they want with their
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: pregnancy journeys and all that kind of stuff, but people
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: are brutal. And family in general is just so entitled
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: and it's like, Well, I think this and you shouldn't
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: name them because of that. And you should be doing
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: this and you should be shut up. Shut up. Are
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: you growing life? No, shut up. It makes me so
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: mad and I haven't even experienced. So for all you
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: mamas out there, I got your back. Okay. Then the
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: harassment from the mother-in-law started at around four months. Me
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: and my husband went to visit my family and left
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: my mother-in-law responsible for watering the plants. When we came back,
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: a whole nursery was made. All pink with the name
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: Olga Bertha. Oh brother, dude, Olga Bertha. Sorry to any
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: Olga's out there, but come on. This woman's like evil.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: I know she thinks she's good, but she's evil. She's
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: like that, she's like a leech. She just wants to
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: take every experience and just have it for herself. I'm
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: scared to where this is going. Keep in mind that
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: I had no idea about the gender still. And of
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: course this was an extreme privacy violation. I had a
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: harsh conversation with her. She cried and my husband then
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: has mad because I was mean to his mom. So
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: you're married to a little beta bitch boy. Hate that
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: for you. Just leave. What are we doing?
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry.
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: I know that's easy to say, but this was just
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: the beginning of the harassment. She was sending me articles
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: every day about the bad effects of working out during pregnancy,
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: criticizing what I had for each meal, started crying because
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: I want to exclusively breastfeed. She literally said, feeding my
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: baby is a critical bonding moment. You're stealing that from me.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: The rage inside me right now. I don't even have
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: a child and I'm so mad right now. They're not
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: wanting visitors for one month and then the delivery room.
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: The way I would cut this person off. The way
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: I just leave.
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: And you're running away and I hope you actually run
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: away because that was in the title. To sum it up,
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: she wanted to be there. I said, no, I only
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: wanted my husband there. She seemed a little hurt, but
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: never talked about that again until my husband was showering
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: and a message from her popped up. We had a
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: lunch date on that day, so I assumed it was
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: for the location and opened it. just to find hundreds
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: of messages of their plan on how she would get
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: in the delivery room when I was too tired to
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: argue to see her baby being born. I am going
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: to throat punch this woman and this man. So many
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: throat punches, just... I cried a lot when I was alone,
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: not going to lie to you guys, but then I
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: made peace with it. On that Monday, I told him
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: I was going to spend some days with my parents,
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: and if something happened, I would tell him. I drove
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: from North Carolina to Florida, where my family is, got
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: into labor, gave birth with my mom and my two
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: sisters in the room to a healthy baby boy without
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: my husband's knowledge. And that's how it was meant to be. Now...
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: To the present. My son is now two weeks old
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: and I finally told my husband what I did. Wait, what?
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: You didn't tell your husband immediately? That's a bit weird.
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: I mean, I get it. Like, I mean, he just
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: being a total. You know what? No, he deserves it.
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: But man, that's his kid too and he didn't know.
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know what's right here. He's
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: driving down here and yelled at me for giving birth
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: without telling him and for not including him on the
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: birth certificate or name choice. Honestly, good for you. And
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: keep saying that he and his mom will sue me.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: Am I the asshole for running away to give birth?
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm. Listen, the amount of balls it took to do that,
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: holy shit. You put your foot down. and then you
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: gave birth and you were just like, I'm not going
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: to tell him. Just for like legal reasons, that's what
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: makes me scared. I'm just like, oh, I think he,
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: I don't know how that works, but I kind of
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: love you for it. He's just lying to you constantly
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: and making plans behind your back and telling his mom
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: things like he's enmeshed with his mother. Like go breastfeed
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: off your mom, you douche. You know, you know what?
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: I'm on your side. We have an edit, or a
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: couple edits, it looks like. It says, it seems to
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: be a lot of comments about the name in the nursery.
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: Olga Bertha was no, was written. But close enough, Olga
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: is the fake version of my mother-in-law name and Bertha
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: of my mother-in-law's mother. Oh, I see. Okay, so she...
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: used her name and the mother-in-law's mother's name. Narcissistic psychopath
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: she is, okay? About the two weeks of not telling him,
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: we were not on good terms, just texting, so it
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: was not hard to hide, honestly. Honestly, he was ready
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: to just blindside you after you gave birth, after you
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: went through the most horrific slash beautiful thing that you
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: could ever go through, he was going to blindside you
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: with a woman you hate. Like, that's an evil man.
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: Evil man and evil woman. But, guys... hold on to
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: your panties, we have another update, so let's buckle up, alright?
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: Some people ask me for an update, and I'm here
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: for it. The last 48 hours were the most insane
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: I've ever had, honestly. So, to go back where we
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: left off. My husband arrived yesterday afternoon. Can you guess
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: who also came? Yeah, his mom! Nothing I was already expecting,
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: but it's always surprising, I guess. When her car pulled up,
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: my mother-in-law was the first to come out. They both
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: got in. My child was in my bedroom, in my
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: parents' house, with my sister and mother, and in the
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: living room, my brothers, dad, me, and them. The first
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: thing that came out of her mouth was, quit the bullshit,
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: my baby is a girl, right? I said that my baby...
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: is a male. My family confirmed. My mother-in-law's face completely changed.
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: She started crying, saying that this one was meant to
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: be a girl. What the heck? This woman is insane.
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: And if she knew I would give her another boy,
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: she wouldn't have been so nice to me. This woman
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: is the devil, and so is your husband. For context,
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: my husband has one brother only, and he is already
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: done having kids. He has three boys. I told her,
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: To go f * * * herself. This child is mine,
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: not hers, and surely didn't have a baby so she
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: could fulfill her wired desires. She was about to raise
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: her voice, but my brother stopped her and told her
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: that it wouldn't be accepted in this house and asked
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  Speaker 1: her to leave and wait for my husband in the car. Yee! Yes,
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  Speaker 1: after she found out the gender, she didn't even ask
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  Speaker 1: to see him. What a piece of shit. She left
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  Speaker 1: giving me dirty looks, but left. My husband looked at
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  Speaker 1: me and asked me how I could rob this moment
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  Speaker 1: from him. As you can imagine, I replied with the
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  Speaker 1: plan they had. He turned pale. And then I think
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  Speaker 1: it all clicked together in his little brain. He started
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  Speaker 1: apologizing and saying that it was just to shush his
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: mom and that he would never actually do it. But
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: after being pressured, his speech changed to, but I'm also
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: going through a lot in the delivery room. I need support. Oh, brother, dude.
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  Speaker 1: My whole family started laughing in his face. He got
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  Speaker 1: angry and demanded to know my son's name and see him.
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  Speaker 1: I told him the name and allowed him to see
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  Speaker 1: him from afar. He asked to hold him and I declined.
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: After this, I talked alone with him and told him
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  Speaker 1: that I wanted a divorce. He cried, pleaded, and asked
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  Speaker 1: for another chance. I told him my decision was final
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  Speaker 1: and that he didn't have to financially support my child,
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  Speaker 1: but that our marriage was over. I asked him to
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  Speaker 1: come around the next day so we can discuss this better.
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  Speaker 1: Then he came, his eyes were puffy, I'm guessing from crying,
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  Speaker 1: And he and his mom came here, looked at my
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  Speaker 1: husband and said out loud that he should give me
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  Speaker 1: the divorce and forget about the kid since it was
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  Speaker 1: a boy. He should find a woman that could give
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  Speaker 1: him a girl. Finally, I saw that dude get a
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  Speaker 1: little bit of a backbone and he told her to
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  Speaker 1: get out, that she already ruined this enough. She yelled
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  Speaker 1: as expected and left. He cried and told me he
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  Speaker 1: finally understood the kind of harm his mom was making
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  Speaker 1: to our family and told me... that if I needed
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  Speaker 1: him to go and see with her to save our marriage,
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  Speaker 1: he would, or no contact. Now you're saying that? It's
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  Speaker 1: too little too late, sonny boy. I told him that
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  Speaker 1: I needed time to think. I told him to give
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  Speaker 1: me some days. He is returning to no contact, and
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: in about a week, he will come down again so
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: we can talk. Now I know what he did was horrible,
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  Speaker 1: but being a single mom at 23 is not ideal.
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  Speaker 1: And whether I like it or not, I still feel
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: something for this man. Any opinions and recommendations are welcome.
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  Speaker 1: You stood on business. I mean, I guess if he's
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: going to go no contact with her and he's actually
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: going to make that step, I mean, I guess you
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: could give it a go, get some therapy while you're
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: at it. There's ways to work on it, I'm sure.
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  Speaker 1: But I feel like I just want you to, I
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  Speaker 1: just want you to stay with your family. But I
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  Speaker 1: understand at the same time, you know, I understand. But just,
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  Speaker 1: just like keep that in the back of your head.
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: Keep all of this in the back of your head.
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  Speaker 1: And if he waivers at all, cut that shit off.
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: Let's see what comment said. First comment says, if you
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  Speaker 1: decide to give him another chance, please do not move
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  Speaker 1: back to where he lives. If you go back and
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: establish residency there, he can keep you from going back
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  Speaker 1: to your parents' house with the baby later on. Right now,
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: since you gave birth in Florida, that's your baby's home state.
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  Speaker 1: Stay there. You did a good job of protecting yourself
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  Speaker 1: and your baby. Mother-in-law is a horrible person, not the asshole.
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  Speaker 1: He gave you no choice. I'm sorry this is how
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: your postpartum period has turned out to be. You and
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: your baby deserve better. Absolutely agree. Yeah, that's such a
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: good point not to go back there because then you're
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: just isolated again and anything can happen and then you're stuck.
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: You just need to be with your family. Another comment says,
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: by the way, do these people not realize that it's
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: the sperm that determines the sex? No woman is going
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: to give him a girl. He's the one that determines gender. Yeah, true.
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: Comment under that says, yeah, my mother-in-law doesn't know. I
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  Speaker 1: told her that months ago before I even knew the
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: gender of my own baby. Her husband only gave her boys,
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: and so far, both her kids only had boys themselves,
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: but she doesn't get it. What a, just a mean, evil,
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: witchy bitch. I don't like that woman at all. I hope,
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: I hope her pillow is forever steaming hot. And I
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: hope her coffee is always lukewarm. I hope her water
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: always tastes like metal. I hope all her clothes are
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: always a bit itchy. And I hope her TV never works.
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: Let me know what you guys think. Does anybody else
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  Speaker 1: have monster laws out there? Do you have any stories
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  Speaker 1: you can tell me in the comments? I always read
• 36:02
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