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Men aren't romantic? Patriarchy! | HBR talk 276 · Honey Badger Radio

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  Hello, Ian, Welcome to HBr Talk two seventy six. Men aren't romantric
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  patriarchy. I'm your host Hannah Wallin here with nonsense annihilator Lauren Brooks and the
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  personification of perceptivity Mike Stevenson, and tonight we're going to learn how it's men's
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  of the page. Now for decades, like feminist suspend decades demanding that men
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  learn to leave women alone. Right, don't chase us, don't flirt with
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  us, don't ask us out, don't say hi to us on the street.
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  Oh my god, don't tell me to smile. Yeah, oh no,
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  God forbid you say smile under any circumstance, because it's exactly the same
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  as if you were doing something mean or bad and you suggested she smile.
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  Right, But now that men are leaving women alone, now that men are
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  not romantic, now that men are not doing all that patriarchal shit, women
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  are complaining that that's also patriarchal. Like, is is there anything anything that
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  feminists will not blame on the patriarchy? No, because anything a man does
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  is inherently patriarchal because he's a man. Feminists for men doing things. Yeah,
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  it's the fucking scarlet letter. Everything is patriarchy except feminism. Right.
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  It's like you could take that that song the kids liked from the Lego movie,
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  the one Lego movie, Everything is Awesome, and turn it into everything
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  is patriarchy, and it would be It's accurate. God, I wish that
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  actually fit, like the syllables, like, yes, patriarchy. Yeah,
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  you just say it really fast, that's it. But I mean, you
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  know, if they're chewing gum loses its flavor on the bedpost overnight, patriarchy
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  obviously, right, who thinks men's fault in some kind of way. If
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  the moon hits your eye like a big piece of pie pizza, that's patriarchy.
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  Oh my god. If you're happy and you know it, that's patriarchy.
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  Oh shit, I'm just gonna like keep going with stupid song the lyrics
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  from now. The rest of the show is just gonna be Oh, it's
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  gonna be fun. That's that's that's really awful. But and and before we
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  get into the actual article, I just want to point out I looked up
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  romance is Patriarchy on Google and there's like a ship ton of articles of how
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  romantic love is a tool of patriarchy, romantic love is a patriarchal ploy.
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  Romance isn't dead, it's just patriarchal. Patriarchal romantic love is a scam.
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  And there's research Romance of the Romance of patriarchy, ideology, subjectivity, and
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  some other thing that's not included because the title is always really long in these
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  feminist research papers. You know, Patriarchy in your Love Life, for the
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  construction of patriarchy, love, obligation, and dot dot dot like, and
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  it just keeps going and going, a study of how patriarchy, patriarchy,
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  power and abuse and romantic probably romantic relationships like it just and and that's that's
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  feminism right there. So romance is patriarchy, guys, And there are a
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  ship ton of writing to prove that romance is patriarchy and it's a scam against
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  women. Funnily enough, romance is named after the Romans. Yeah, they
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  didn't. They certainly didn't invade invent patriarchy. They kind of stole ideas from
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  ancient Greece. As as as the joke goes, the Greeks invented sex and
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  the Romans invented having it with women, which has to be patriarchal. Oh
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  that's great. I've never heard that before. That's great, that's fabulous.
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  So I just want to point out, you know, like, first of
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  all, the article is old. It's it's from February, but that's you
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  know, like I hadn't seen it before until Richard pointed it out to me
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  and and I saw it and I was just like, oh God, we
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  got we got to talk about this. This is this bullshit. Yeah,
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  I mean, it's six months really is nothing that might have been might as
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  well have been like last week, you know, because because of everything that's
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  in the news cycle, of course, all of these things get shuffled off
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  to the side, which is why it's six months old and we're just getting
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  around to it. So the best part of this, though, is is
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  the the section of The Guardian, which is a mainstream establishment media outlet,
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  right, the section of the Guardian that this is in the weekend Patriarchy.
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  I can't I just can't believe this is actual section. I wonder if they,
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  of course they do post every week these people have nothing to do but
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  winge and complain. That would be a great thing to just touch on once
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  a week and say, hey, what what stupid shit is the Guardian putting
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  out? Now? Well, and I looked at it and it's uh,
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  it's it's bizarre. Why are so many powerful men or do so many powerful
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  men seem to be allergic? Two apologies? Trump is turning his mug shot
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  into a badge of honor. But we'll voters see it that way. Yes,
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  yes, yes, actually we do. And in excluding trans women and
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  women's chest makes you a pawn of the patriarchy. As kid fluencers come of
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  age, we need to consider the consequences of viral fame. So kid fluencers
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  are experiencing what Hollywood kids did in Generation X. There's another Judy Juliani,
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  an article about Juliani. There's an article about the US Congress. This is
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  a British publication. Right, US Congress. We have let's see want to
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  quit. Quickly spot idiots. This is the week in patriarchy again, Quickly
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  spot idiots. Five foolproof red flags. The Republican obsession with Hunter Biden.
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  Again, this is a British publication. Mike Pence, Trump, Trump Musk
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  and uh, they're mad because two guys postured about getting into a fight that
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  never happened. Oh oh jeez, and they're mad because he's not paying taxes.
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  How about a how about a competition to pay the most tax I think
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  I actually think Musk wins that one, because oh shoot, I can't think
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  of her name. Uh, occasional cortex. What's your real name, Alexandria,
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  Yes, Alexandria occasional Cortex. I can't remember her real name. That's
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  so sad. Well we all knew exactly. Yes, the the village idiot
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  of Washington, DC had a fit about about Musk and his his taxes,
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  and he told her how much he paid in taxes. Uh, and and
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  then it was an immense amount. So like, he pretty much owned her
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  on that one. But there we go. So there did she did she
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  shut up afterwards? No? Does she like ever? Does she ever shut
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  up? No? No, And I find it, I'll find it really,
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  really fucking funny that this bitch is complaining about the amount of taxes that
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  a private individual is paying, whereas her salary is paid by the average fucking
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  tax payer, right right, So she shut your mouth. You she wants
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  she wants people like me and most most men breadwinners home, you know,
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  of their families, people who's whose income is not going to support children or
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  is going to support their whole household, And and they're getting taxed out the
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  wazoo because they don't have a lot of other deductions right to pay for her
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  college tuition right right? What she makes is so much higher than what I
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  make. And I think, you know, not not this in particular,
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  but the other thing that I do for a living, it's probably more important
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  than what she does. Definitely guessing she pays a lot less taxes than you.
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  Yeah, she probably does. She probably does. Everyone is in competition
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  to pay the least taxes. Is there anyone out there who goes, I
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  love paying taxes, would have more taxes than anyone. Yes, I'm not
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  gonna make deductions because I want to pay more money than I actually owe the
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  government based on the rules set by Congress, of which she is a part.
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  So yeah, she's I like that one, Matt. Matt Watton says,
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  I call her clueless vortex. That's fabulous. Oh so we're going to
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  get into the article so well, we're making fun of feminists and feminist logic
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  and all this. I just had to point out they have in an establishment
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  media, they have the weekend patriarchy, which I don't know if this that
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  started before or after this weekend stupid. You know it's our guns, this
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  weekend stupid. But I want to say, probably they're copying. But but
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  in any case, so here we go. They have this Feminists that have
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  no power and no influence have this this influential mouse piece here, and what
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  are they gonna gonna talk about? Why have young men fallen out of love
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  with romantic relationships? By of course Arewa Madawi? And like, some of
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  the most annoying things that we've had to read have been written by Arewa Medawi,
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  who she's pretty infuriating. Yeah, yeah, I recognize her face,
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  but only from various hot takes on The Guardian. Yeah, she get what
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  they all up. Well, we just read some of them. It's not
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  like a lot of these articles are written by her. She says, why
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  are so many young men single? Sex? Numerous studies show is going out
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  of fashion, So people people don't like sex? Yes, she jumped fully
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  far there. Sex and romance don't necessarily have anything to do with each other.
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  Just ask a hooker. Young people aren't shagging much anymore, a phenomenon
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  that has been widely blamed on techno aology and online porn because, of course,
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  it has absolutely nothing to do with false rape allegations, being told not
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  to ask women out, being told not to even approach or speak to women
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  unless they already know they have permission, which you can't get without asking,
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  but you're not allowed to ask. It has nothing to do with that.
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  I guess you have to ask her father, which is which isn't a tall,
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  regressive or patriarchal Ye, I mean, and you know there's that,
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  But then look at what women's standards are. You know, men would shy
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  away from trying to get with a woman if he didn't feel that he measured
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  up. Women want it's the six six sixth. They would a six foot
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  tall man with at least the six inch penis and at least the six figure
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  income. Okay, and men not because women make They are not shy about
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  making it known, right, No, they're not. They'll they'll an interviewer
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  can ask and they'll just tell them like, yeah, right now, if
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  I had if I was that shallow, I wouldn't admit that to anybody.
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  Absolutely not, absolutely not so uh I mean, I guess it's not really
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  phenomenon. I just was really thrown off by the fact that there's a term
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  for it, and they call it a foodie call. Yeah, not a
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  bootie call. I know this one. It's when a chick she doesn't really
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  care about you, she just wants to call you ups. You can take
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  her out and feed her. There are women who who basically their whole food
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  budget is dating guys that they meet on tender and then ghosting them. Yeah,
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  and you know there, there's that, and and then that. Then
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  there's the the issue of like, women will get mad if you if you
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  spact relationship after after you've demonstrated you know that that you're you're interested in a
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  relationship and they've reciprocated your interest, and then you know you want them to
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  be loyal and you're loyal to them, you want them to be loyal.
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  They'll be like, we didn't talk about this, but if you're not loyal,
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  if you go out with another girl, you should have known you were
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  in a relationship. So it's one social faux pa after another. You're supposed
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  to read their minds, you're supposed to understand what they're thinking, you're supposed
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  to know when when they've decided you're in a relationship. You're supposed to know,
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  you know when when they've decided you're not in a relationship. You're supposed
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  to know when they want you to approach. You're supposed to know when they
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  don't want you to approach. Like you're supposed to be psychic. It's it's
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  it's a requirement. If you're not psychic, then then they're going to call
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  the cops or they're going to post your information. And then then there are
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  websites with you know, like they get mad about things like revenge porn,
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  but they will docs men like there are addresses, phone numbers and everything on
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  a site called are we Dating the same Guy? And that information once they
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  put that information on the internet, it's out there. Doesn't matter if you
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  know guilty or innocent. No, you've you've just told scammers this guy's personal
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  identifying information. Great, you know like that, and and a lot of
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  times there's there's guys that have a lot of similarities that are not the same
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  guy that get treated like they're the same guy because they've been put on this
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  website. Then they've got ihallowback dot com which is creepy pasta for feminists that
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  fantasize about being hit on too much. Oh god, and I've seen a
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  lot of stories on there. The worst one was some some guys sat next
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  to a girl on the bus and in her mind they were harassing her by
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  being in the seats close to where she was sitting on the bus. Wow.
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  And then they wonder why romance is dead. That's not even sexual.
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  That's a small child. Could you know sit next to a another small child
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  in an attempt to get to know Even children understand romance, but you can't.
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  The initial approach is not even a sexual thing. It's a romantic thing.
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  And from square one, man, I told get the fuck out of
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  my personal spaces something something me too. Yep, pretty much. But why
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  aren't been hitting on us? Why aren't been asking us out? Why aren't
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  they paying for dinner? Why aren't they romanking us? Oh and by the
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  way, sex or hey, she goes on. It's not just sexual activity
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  that's declining. Young men in the US appear to have fallen out of love
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  with romantic relationships. A recent Pew research study has found that sixty three percent
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  of men under thirty describe themselves as single, compared with thirty four percent of
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  women in the same age bracket. Well, describing yourself as could you just
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  mean you're not married? Yeah, that's the normal state of being is not
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  married. Like, it's not normal too, It's you don't come into the
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  world married. You are a single until you choose to marry, you know.
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  But it's it's like we treat it as like, you know, being
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  married is the default and being single is like, oh my god, what's
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  wrong with you? So yeah, I just I just want to repeat this
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  though, sixty three percent of men under thirty describe themselves single compared with thirty
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  four percent of women in the same age bracket. So there are more women,
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  slightly more women than men. I don't know if in the thirty under
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  thirty age bracket that's true. I know some of that difference has to do
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  with the fact that men die younger than women, but I think more girls
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  are born as well. So we're we're talking a demographic that is larger has
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  a much smaller Like thirty four percent of women say describe themselves as single,
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  so sixty sixty six percent describe themselves seventy six percent no it's sixty sixty six
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  percent describe themselves as not single, right, which, like, that's that's
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  barely more than the men that describe themselves as single as the number of women
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  that describe themselves as not single. So there's a couple of things that have
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  to be going. There to be some polygamy. Yeah, some of them,
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  some of them are in some of them are dating the same guy.
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  Some of them know it, some of them might not. But some of
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  them are dating the same guy and they consider it a relationship. And then
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  the other thing is obviously there. There's there is lesbianism and lesbians uh maybe
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  more like, well we went out in a date, we're committed now.
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  But but I have a feeling that that a portion of that percentage is accounted
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  for by a girl's or and women who have gone out on a date with
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  a guy and decided they are in a relationship, but no discussion had taken
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  place, and so he's he's you know, asked him out gone And and
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  of course I've seen articles, blog posts. Really my boyfriend ghosted me after
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  one date? You only went on one date? How the fuck is he
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  your boyfriend? Right? Right? Women, women do have proven time and
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  time again. Okay that they do not know how to vet men. They
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  just go off of impulse. Right. Oh he's high. Oh he's driving
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  his flashy call. He looks like he's got money. I gotta have him.
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  Okay, well you're not the only one, so you know good.
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  I want to see the percentage of people who say it's complicated. Yeah,
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  yeah, it's on Facebook. Really, one hundred percent of people should say
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  it's complicated because it always is. Yes, Yeah, her relationships take take
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  work to keep them. Like even your friendships are like that though. I
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  mean, if you don't maintain your your sense of companionship and your closeness to
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  your friends, you drift apart and you you quit hanging out with each other.
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  It's just it just really sucks when that happens with somebody that you love
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  and you live with and so on. But the other thing that I will
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  bet with a lot of these women is because it's under thirty. So we're
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  talking that includes the out of college but not yet thirty set, so twenty
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  twenty four, twenty three, twenty four on up to thirty and when you
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  get into the like twenty five, twenty six, twenty seven, there they
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  may be dating guys that are over thirty because they have money, and so
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  you get the gold digger set in there too. So women women have various
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  reasons why they might say they're not single or not be single that maybe are
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  not as applicable to young men who have figured out that dating and relationships can
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  get them into big trouble. So she writes que a lot of dramatic headlines
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  about as The Hill put it, the Hill being I think the Hill's capital
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  blog. She didn't link to it the larger breakdown in the social, romantic,
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  and sexual life of the American male. Imagine the Hill is referring to
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  heterosexual American male here, But PU also looked at people who identified as LGB
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  and found that sixty two percent of LGB men report being single compared to thirty
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  seven percent of LGB women. So even gay men or not getting into romantic
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  relationships, they're not settling down. Which go ahead. I was gonna say,
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  a lot of what our society does in regard to marriage has taken me
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  in and make him responsible for his partner financially and kind of morally. So
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  perhaps gay men don't necessarily under thirty, especially don't necessarily want to do that.
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  That's it. That's all I was gonna say, Lauren, did were
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  you gonna speak on I was just gonna make a snide common well not really
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  snide commentary, just point out the fact that they kind of left off a
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  few letters off of that LGB. Yeah, I know, why not alphabet
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  soup? Yes, because that's what it is. We are men and women.
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  We are either straight or gay or by and that's it. Yep yep.
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  So before we delve into the sexual life of the American male, which
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  you know every feminist woman writer should do because men just loved at i'd like
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  to I'd just like to point out that the Pew Research study was actually conducted
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  last summer, but they republished the findings and Valentine's daylistical Oh why not?
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  I mean BuzzFeed got famous for their listicals, right, and then they got
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  taken seriously by Congress. So I mean I should point out none of this
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  takes into account those of us in the none of your damn business sexual contention
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  of society, the people who people who don't fill in your forms, the
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  people who the people who you don't get any information from because they don't want
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  you to know about their sex life. Right, quite a lot of people
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  don't probing into these details of their lives, so you don't know about them
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  because they don't tell you. Yeah, when you see the Pride parade and
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  the group of people that's out there showing off their kinks as as you know,
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  something to be specifically have feelings about in regard to the public. I
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  am proud of this. It's not just something I do. Right, that's
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  a tiny percentage of the people in the country. It's a tiny percentage of
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  the non straight people in the country. Like, there's a whole lot of
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  people that really don't want anything to do with with that. But in any
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  case, Yeah, so there we go. A listical. This caught the
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  attention of someone at The Hill. Oh they finally they finally linked to it,
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  and it is the Hill dot com, not The Hill's Capital Blog.
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  So this is a different publication than I was thinking of. Hill's Capital Blog
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  is usually about American politics and American legislative issues, but not always I mean,
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  because it's it's basically about Congress and the President and what they are doing,
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  the Supreme Court and what they are doing and how it's affecting Americans and
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  how American public opinion affects it and so on. But The Hill wrote an
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  article headline, most young men are single, most young women are not.
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  A screenshot of that article then went viral because well, those numbers don't really
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  make much sense, do they. Unlike China and India, where men out
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  number women by seventy million, there are about the same number of men and
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  women in the US. Who are all the young women dating Pete Davidson,
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  west ELM. Caleb no idea who that is? I don't either, but
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  they linked to something. Well, I would what's your definition of young men
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  and young women? Because you know, obviously women would date men who are
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  older than them, who are more established, right, because that's that's hypergamy
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  in action. It kind of makes sense if you think about it. I
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  don't know, maybe I'm off here, but well, like I said,
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  you know, I do have a suspicion that a significant portion of them are
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  girls who think they're in a relationship with guys who don't, or another significant
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  portion is girls who are in relationships with men who are older than they are.
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  I say girls because it's really hard for me to define zoomers as women.
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  I haven't talked to very many who measure up. So yeah, yeah,
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  but I mean some some do, some do. I will say that
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  I have met some that do. She goes on. Nobody seems entirely sure
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  what the reason for this giant relationship gap is. But the most popular theory
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  is that young women are more likely to be dating older men. Another rather
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  overblown theory is that the gay agenda is working, and considering one fifth of
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  gen Z identifies as queer, all the young women are dating each other.
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  Yeah, yeah, that's possible, But I don't know that they're necessarily all
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  and committed relationships either, right, another, and that's not all of them
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  one fifth? Holy shit, ladies, right, they would all have to
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  be in relationships with each other to make up a significant portion of the percentage
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  of females that identify as in a relationship. So another I'm not sure where
• 29:44
  she's fine or who's stating this theory about the quote unquote gay agenda. I
• 29:48
  mean, I but activist, Yeah, I mean, it just doesn't seem
• 29:53
  to measure up to scrutiny. Well, and see the other thing is,
• 29:59
  in my variance, there are there are lesbians that are in committed relationships that
• 30:06
  that there, it's whole life relationship like any other married couple. And that's
• 30:11
  a small percentage, a small group. And then there are a shit ton
• 30:17
  of young women that experiment with lesbianism, especially after a few drinks and party
• 30:25
  with each other and treat it as an opportunity to have as much sexist humanly
• 30:29
  possible without getting pregnant and uh, you know, without without having to deal
• 30:33
  with uh, you know, men, men in their body, hair and
• 30:37
  all that stuff. Right, Like, there's a song about that I Wish
• 30:41
  I was a lesbian and and it's it's funny because it's it's, uh,
• 30:49
  the idea of what a woman thinks when she's straight, and she wishes she
• 30:53
  was a lesbian so she wouldn't have to put up with men, you know,
• 30:56
  like, oh everything, everything about men is bad and these are all
• 31:00
  the things I hate and they're all petty complaints, which is pretty par for
• 31:03
  the course, right. But but yeah, just because a lot of gen
• 31:11
  Z identifies as queer, or even if they all identified as as gay,
• 31:18
  it wouldn't necessarily mean they were committed to each other in relationships. Being in
• 31:26
  a committed relationship could include a committed relationship with your dog. Yeah, there
• 31:32
  is that which a lot of people. Again, is this disparity between who
• 31:37
  considers what commitment. Your dog is not committed to you in the same way
• 31:41
  you're committed to your dog. Your dog will escape as soon as you lead
• 31:45
  a fucking door open. It's much the same with the man you think you're
• 31:48
  in a relationship. Well, and the other thing that's going on with a
• 31:52
  lot of gen Z is polyamory is much more popular with gen Z than it
• 32:00
  was with gen X. And obviously there there are gen z's, you know,
• 32:07
  male and female, that that grew up in a household with polyamorous parents
• 32:15
  or their older siblings. They're their millennial siblings were into it and had relationships
• 32:21
  that they thought looked interesting. So they're doing it now. And I've I've
• 32:24
  seen a few successful relationships and a few chaotic disasters in regard to that.
• 32:34
  So there's probably going to be a small contingent of people that are just wired
• 32:39
  different from from normal people that come out of that with long standing relationships and
• 32:46
  a ship ton of gen Z kids dealing with trauma from trying something that is
• 32:52
  unnatural to them because they were told at their school that anybody can do this,
• 32:58
  and it's for everybody, and you should try it. And they did,
• 33:00
  and now they're psychologically wounded by the breakup and an ensuing disaster after that.
• 33:07
  You know, when you have a breakup with a woman, you get
• 33:09
  drama. When you have a breakup with two women, you get double the
• 33:15
  drama. And when you have a breakup with three women, it starts to
• 33:20
  become exponentially dramatic. And and so there are in the lesbian community, in
• 33:28
  the younger side of the lesbian community, there are polyamorous relationships that are three
• 33:34
  way, four way. The biggest one I've seen is five way, and
• 33:39
  it didn't last. I'm sorry. That's that's that's too many personalities to have
• 33:45
  to fucking keep, you know, in touch with. Well, at some
• 33:50
  point it stops being a a committed relationship and starts just being a long term
• 33:59
  orgy but just a thought. You can spell that anyway, like she writes.
• 34:09
  Another issue potentially feeding into the data discrepancy is the fact that there could
• 34:14
  be gendered differences and how people define a committed relationship. The Pew definition of
• 34:20
  single is those who are not married, living with a partner, or in
• 34:22
  a committed relationship. Well, yeah, women, women can say, well,
• 34:27
  if I'm not dating anybody else, we're in a committed relationship, you
• 34:30
  should know that, and men are like, but you didn't tell me.
• 34:36
  Yeah, men have problems with commitment, you see. No, you're just
• 34:40
  a fucking psycho pitch. And then if she finds somebody she wants to cheat
• 34:46
  with, it's what we didn't say we were in a committed relationship. I
• 34:51
  would have yelled at you if you cheated, but I should be free to
• 34:54
  do so because you didn't tell me we were in a committed relationship. You
• 35:00
  aren't paying any of my bills, right, That's that's committed relationship to a
• 35:06
  lot of women, Oh he's paying my bills. We're in a committed relationship.
• 35:09
  Unless it's a sugar daddy thing. Well, we may never solve the
• 35:15
  mystery behind the relationship gap. There's been a lot of handwringing about these numbers,
• 35:20
  mainly from conservative circles who take it as evidence that feminism in the modern
• 35:24
  world, particularly porn, has emasculated young men. Like nobody's considering the fact
• 35:30
  that telling young men to fuck off will eventually result in young men fucking off,
• 35:36
  right, especially if you spend twenty years screaming it no, it's like
• 35:45
  they go ahead, go ahead, you go ahead, Nona say, it's
• 35:51
  like it's like the it's like these feminists they found they found the magic lamp.
• 35:54
  They rubbed it right, the gd came out and they granted, granted.
• 35:58
  These bitches there three, are you magic wishes? And it's still not
• 36:01
  good enough. It's not a magic lamp. Sat a lamp in your pocket?
• 36:08
  Or are you just happy to see me? Uh? Yeah, I
• 36:15
  know. They get their wish, they get mad. They don't get their
• 36:17
  wish, they get mad. There you go, So she goes on.
• 36:27
  Seth Dylan, for example, the founder of the conservative satire site The babylon
• 36:32
  Bee, tweeted, young women are dating each other or older men in record
• 36:36
  numbers. As a result, sixty percent of young men are single and lonely.
• 36:39
  It's probably hard to overstate how serious this problem is. So I want
• 36:45
  to point something else out here, Like they keep mentioning porn, and do
• 36:51
  they think that prior to well there, I don't think there's such a thing
• 36:55
  as prior to the existence of porn. The first art ever created was porn,
• 37:00
  but prior to the widespread cheap availability of porn on the intranet. Men
• 37:10
  just had no entertainment of any kind. Like there was football, you know
• 37:15
  before that there were when when television doesn't didn't exist. There were radio shows.
• 37:19
  You know, there were when television did exist, all kinds of TV
• 37:22
  shows. Guys like there were movies, their books there. You know.
• 37:25
  My my grandfather would go on hunting trips and he would be gone for a
• 37:32
  whole weekend, sometimes as much as a week, and come back with you
• 37:37
  know, he'd come back with food. It was a purposeful trip, but
• 37:40
  it was still entertainment. And my dad entertained himself by creating art with a
• 37:45
  camera. Actually, he entertained himself by having four jobs. You know,
• 37:52
  Like everybody thinks I'm a workaholic, but I get it, honestly. But
• 37:57
  but yeah, men have always found ways to entertain themselves, and a bunch
• 38:01
  of those ways involved doing things to improve society, provide entertainment for people around
• 38:07
  them, create new ways to be comfortable and safe, and get places more
• 38:15
  quickly and more conveniently, and again more comfortably and safely, competitions that are
• 38:22
  entertaining for everybody. You know, I don't understand how all of a sudden
• 38:29
  having ways that men can be entertained today make them unavailable to women. Senior
• 38:40
  Sticks wants to know if we got our silver play button. I will have
• 38:44
  to ask Allison. We probably didn't. Don't you need one hundred thousand subs
• 38:49
  for I don't know. I don't think we have one hundred thousand subs though
• 38:52
  I think we have like fifty. No, we try, I never will.
• 39:00
  Karen has been eligible for a silver play buttons since years ago, and
• 39:04
  I think she applied, but they never got back to her. Yeah,
• 39:07
  no, we don't want to give that to you. Yeah. Yeah,
• 39:10
  for all for all the ship conservative say about you, about how much YouTube
• 39:15
  pats them, they they hate MRA's more than anything. Yeah, Karen's the
• 39:21
  only MRA whoever got to one hundred thousand, and that's because it was way
• 39:23
  back in the day before they changed the algorithm and you know, you know,
• 39:30
  blacklisted certain people well, and they didn't know until it was too late
• 39:36
  because like she kind of flew in out of nowhere. They weren't looking for
• 39:40
  a woman to be saying the things on YouTube that that Karen said on YouTube.
• 39:47
  So yeah, and Honey Badger Radio is losing subscribers at a flat rate
• 39:55
  and upload. My channel is losing subset off flat rate plus an extra few
• 40:00
  put uploads. I think by live streams is still in the green, but
• 40:06
  it's only like single figures a month and until the algorithm, until someone at
• 40:15
  YouTube discovers that we're doing too well as well, and then they put on
• 40:20
  on on this channel as well. They're not going to let us get to
• 40:22
  a one hundred thousand if if YouTube doesn't like you, they will they will
• 40:29
  flip some numbers around to make sure that you never reach any numbers they don't
• 40:35
  want you to reach. Yeah, yeah, yeah, definitely they are.
• 40:38
  That's not going to be allowed. So we probably will never get a silver
• 40:44
  play button or any other type of kudos you know from from In fact,
• 40:52
  they're more likely to they're more likely to shut us down or or put strikes
• 40:59
  on our channel for things that other people are allowed to say. So,
• 41:02
  so if if YouTube does let you get six figures subcount, it's because they're
• 41:08
  letting you get that subcount. So sorry, but you are controlled opposition.
• 41:15
  Yeah yeah, yeah, that's pretty pretty much true. So but but going
• 41:22
  back to the point about porn and and really the video games too, because
• 41:27
  they mentioned video games like these are these are past times that you know,
• 41:34
  games in general have been around forever. There are games going back. There
• 41:42
  was a game that was unearthed awhile back that was thousands of years old that
• 41:49
  it was similar if I remember right, to like backgammon or something like that,
• 41:54
  that that I saw a news article about. We're talking at stone age
• 41:59
  game. So games are not something new. Games don't keep men away from
• 42:05
  women, at least not games that you play with each other for competition.
• 42:12
  It might have been I can't remember Senior six, the name what it was
• 42:15
  called. It might have been at, but it did have a short name
• 42:22
  like that. Uh. And then you don't, like I said, porn.
• 42:24
  Porn has existed since people could create art, Like some of the first
• 42:30
  art ever created was images of people having sex and nude images. So there's
• 42:37
  there's literally no excuse to claim that that the existence of porn is what's keeping
• 42:45
  u is what's keeping men from being close to women. I know trad cons
• 42:52
  a lot of times will blame stuff like that. In particularly trad con women
• 42:57
  like, oh, these sins are available, you know these, and they'll
• 43:00
  they'll think of men having a pastime as a sin, right, because they're
• 43:05
  not working, they're not doing things for their family. They can have a
• 43:08
  pastime, but men can't, right, And their pastimes don't have to be
• 43:13
  things like sewing and needlework that women used to do for their families. They
• 43:19
  can be reading a romance novel, which is women's porn, right, And
• 43:23
  it can involve doing puzzle books and being on social media, which are are
• 43:30
  women's games. You know, they're games that are really directed as at women.
• 43:36
  That's probably one of the most feminine things I do. I like puzzle
• 43:38
  books. I particularly like the ones where you have the puzzle that gives you
• 43:42
  a set of people, when a set of details about those people, and
• 43:45
  you have to match them up through clues but and or cryptograms. Right,
• 43:52
  those are I don't see a lot of guys doing that. But if I'm
• 43:58
  stuck at a doctor's office or something and I don't want to get on their
• 44:00
  WiFi and play time waster games, I'd take one of those books with me.
• 44:07
  So like, those are things that women have had available forever, right,
• 44:14
  And and it's it doesn't keep women from expecting romance from men. So
• 44:19
  this is bullshit. And honestly, conservatives need to stop doing that and start
• 44:23
  looking at how women are treating men, because you know, y'all value relationships.
• 44:30
  At least you value relationships. I cannot say that about feminists. I
• 44:36
  cannot say that about the woke left right, the more libertarian left maybe,
• 44:44
  but not the woke left. Can't really always say that about progressives, And
• 44:50
  really you can't always say that about communists. In fact, some communists feel
• 44:55
  that family relationships are and of front to the communist society. So that's that's
• 45:04
  a widespread belief actually among communists. So this idea that it's it's men's fault
• 45:12
  for entertaining themselves and it has absolutely nothing to do with the way women treat
• 45:16
  men like conservatives need to dump that because you're really the only chance at at
• 45:23
  perpetuating male female relationships at all. You still have some respect for them,
• 45:30
  but you're gonna lose them if you don't fix that problem. Yeah. So
• 45:39
  uh, Seth Dylan saying young women are dating each other or older men in
• 45:43
  record numbers. As a result, sixty percent young men are single and lonely.
• 45:49
  It's it's not just women dating older men. Although hypergamy and expecting you
• 45:57
  know, a guy to have money does contribute to that? Is that true,
• 46:04
  though, she writes, I'm not denying that there's a serious and worrying
• 46:07
  epidemic of loneliness among young American men. But you don't need to be in
• 46:14
  a relationship to be happy. I think that rather than focusing on young men
• 46:17
  being single, the real problem is the fact that young men don't have friends.
• 46:23
  Which I think we debunked this article a while back. Men don't They
• 46:34
  defined this wrong. Here's where it's only twenty one percent of men, for
• 46:38
  example, said they had really received emotional support from a friend in the past
• 46:44
  week, compared to forty one percent of women according to a twenty twenty one
• 46:47
  survey. I think we looked at that survey and they describe they defined emotional
• 46:53
  support to exclude things like working shoulder to shoulder on a project together, and
• 47:00
  only include things like talking about your problems and getting feedback. If it becomes
• 47:08
  about the nail, they don't consider it support. Yeah, so that's bullshit.
• 47:15
  What I just don't see how that's a deficiency. To me, that
• 47:23
  sounds like women are more interdependent on their friends for emotional support. That sounds
• 47:31
  like someone who needs people, like someone who is more content with their life,
• 47:38
  doesn't necessarily need to reach out to even if they have problems, they
• 47:44
  don't necessarily need to talk to someone or get a confirmation or an affirmation or
• 47:50
  a pad on the back or you know, to be happy. Women need
• 47:55
  that. Women absolutely need that. They need that support system. They need
• 48:00
  that. You go girl, you know. So just because there's a disparage,
• 48:07
  a disparity in between the numbers, does it mean that men are like
• 48:12
  does they don't have friends or somehow I don't understand what they're trying to say
• 48:16
  here, Well, it drives me. It's like two men will sit in
• 48:22
  a boat for like twelve hours, you know, or or fourteen hours from
• 48:29
  from before the sun comes up until after it goes down, and you know,
• 48:37
  they don't necessarily have to catch fish, but they'll sit in a boat
• 48:44
  with their fishing poles in the water, drinking beer, pop or whatever they
• 48:46
  took with them, depending on whether they drink or not, and and eating
• 48:51
  sandwiches that were pre packed and stuff beef jerky, and not say two words
• 48:57
  to each other that whole twelve hours. And I will have camaraderie, companionship,
• 49:04
  and the intimacy of friendship through that whole thing, and you know they'll
• 49:07
  have moments of excitements if they catch a fish, and you know they'll that's
• 49:14
  it. And that can be a way that men comfort each other as well.
• 49:20
  And like that's you know, men and mental play video games together.
• 49:24
  They'll play video games for again, twelve hours with a guy who lives across
• 49:30
  town. My husband and my son in law play a game together all the
• 49:37
  time. Like they have a very close relationship, and a lot of it
• 49:42
  is them interacting together in this game where they're they're doing in game tasks together
• 49:52
  and getting in game achievements together. I mean, they do a lot of
• 49:54
  other things. He has a my son in law has a s smoker,
• 50:00
  so we've we've greatly encouraged him to use that. It's it's quite uh,
• 50:07
  he's got a talent for it. We'll just say that he's really good at
• 50:12
  creating rather delicious smoked meats. So they do that, and you know,
• 50:16
  they do a lot of stuff together. But there's a lot of stuff they
• 50:20
  do this not necessarily in person, and they don't have to sit there and
• 50:22
  chatter at each other. Right, women will be in a room together for
• 50:29
  for the same amount of time, and there will not be ten seconds of
• 50:31
  silence to put together in that room twelve hours. Tell you that that gives
• 50:37
  me so much anxiety. I can't stand it, I really can't. I
• 50:43
  love solitude. I'd like to just I don't like to talk. I don't
• 50:50
  like to talk endlessly, you know what I mean. I'm not always talking
• 50:53
  about my fucking feelings. That's why I love my because we're the same way,
• 51:00
  like just don't. There's no such thing as uncomfortable silence. We're just
• 51:05
  in the same space and that the time doesn't have to be filled with fucking
• 51:08
  words. But that's how women operate. They can't shut up, they can't
• 51:14
  shut off, they can't just be in the bet in the moment, right.
• 51:19
  It's even long been understood that the way men have conversations and the way
• 51:22
  women have conversations it is very different. Men take turns, like when when
• 51:27
  one is finished talking the other the other starts talking, whereas women, to
• 51:31
  put it nicely, it's more of a jam session, like the one starts
• 51:37
  talking before the others even finished, because they're also desperate to say things,
• 51:42
  which makes it supremely ironic that the idea of man interruption is a thing.
• 51:47
  There's not a thing. Women talk by interrupting each other. And if you've
• 51:53
  ever tried to have a conversation with a feminist woman who disagrees with you,
• 51:58
  good fucking look getting through a sentence. Oh my god, it's well,
• 52:02
  I like Twitter. Yeah, they do have to at least respond to post
• 52:09
  at one post at a time and not know, and they don't. They
• 52:14
  can't necessarily. It's harder at least for them to gish gallop and even if
• 52:17
  they do, you can respond to each thing. But it's so when when
• 52:22
  you talk about men and women having friends, what men might define as a
• 52:30
  friendship might look completely alien to most women. So who designs the survey and
• 52:35
  who determines what constitutes friendship activities, friendship behaviors, friendship attitudes? Right,
• 52:45
  Like, it's it's just it's unfair to say that men do not have friends
• 52:52
  if you're judging them by the standards of female friendship attitudes, behaviors, and
• 52:57
  activities. Exactly exactly. I was just gonna say, you know, this
• 53:01
  is this is just another example of them viewing men as defective women. Right,
• 53:08
  And of course the explanation we get is insufficient as well. Why is
• 53:13
  that well. The Hill quotes Richard Reeves, a senior fellow at Brooking the
• 53:16
  Brookings Institution and the author of the book Up of Boys and Men. I'm
• 53:23
  Sorry, who explains that men are just naturally uh less naturally relational than women.
• 53:34
  But are they not true? Like if shit needs done, they'll get
• 53:39
  together, you know? Oh God? And I had two reactions from from
• 53:51
  my local friends, from people that I knew when I talked about the problems
• 53:58
  dealing with my parents estate. You know, women women were very sorry for
• 54:02
  what I was going through. Most of the women I know were very compassionate
• 54:07
  about it and said, if there's anything I can do, let me know.
• 54:14
  Guys came over and helped us move stuff. Guys I didn't even know
• 54:21
  before my parents died, but that knew my family came over and helped us
• 54:25
  move stuff. Like the older brother of one of my classmates sought me out
• 54:32
  to come over and help because he knew my parents. I would say,
• 54:38
  those are two very different ways of expressing friendship, and both of them are
• 54:49
  right. They're both, you know. One one said ask for what you
• 54:52
  need and I will help you with it, and the other observed what the
• 54:58
  parent needs were and be and helping and both are right. You know,
• 55:01
  it's always good to say, hey, ask and I'll do whatever you need.
• 55:06
  And it's also good to just pick up a shovel when you see that
• 55:09
  there's a mess. But this, this group only acknowledge, is one of
• 55:15
  those things. I would say. It's pretty relational stepping into help but going.
• 55:23
  I mean, it's just you know, because it's it's giving of yourself
• 55:30
  instead of giving to expect something in return. Yeah, and that's how women
• 55:37
  are, you know what I mean. They they they they will do something
• 55:40
  for you because they feel like they're going to get something back from it.
• 55:45
  Men men just do because it's something that needs to be done. And it's
• 55:50
  very much like also like a Southern traditional core value, right, like you
• 55:55
  help your neighbor. Yeah, especially when you live in a small town.
• 56:00
  You know, if you know everybody, you can't you can't be a dick
• 56:07
  to somebody in a town with only a few hundred people, because everybody's gonna
• 56:10
  know they, Oh my god, this God was a right, you know
• 56:14
  what I mean. So yes, it's yeah. We had a in that
• 56:20
  community with a lady who lived in a cul de sac. Right, she
• 56:25
  lived on the stem of the cul de sac, and there was a guy
• 56:31
  that lived and the flower part of the cul de sac, you know,
• 56:35
  the petals being the houses. They always just look like a daisy to me
• 56:38
  when you see them from above, because there will be this stem of a
• 56:43
  street and then the round robin part where you can drive around, and then
• 56:49
  there's like, you know, four to six houses around the cul de sac,
• 56:53
  and they all look like flower petals to me from above. Right.
• 56:58
  But in any case, so he lived on he's one of the pedals on
• 57:00
  the flower at the end of the cul de sac. And she got a
• 57:06
  restraining order against him and then filed complaints with police against him for going to
• 57:15
  and from his house on the only route that was legally available for him.
• 57:22
  And he had to go to court and tell the judge that he lived in
• 57:28
  a cul de sac and there was no way out of his home that didn't
• 57:35
  go past her house. And she the whole reason she did it was because
• 57:39
  she felt she felt harassed by the fact that he was riding his bike past
• 57:46
  her house. Every day. Well, I mean, I mean it eventually
• 57:51
  got thrown out, right, but the whole town knows about that. It
• 57:57
  makes the news. In a small community like that, the community has its
• 58:00
  own newspaper, and what ended up happening. A lot of people won't talk
• 58:04
  to her now, and she can't figure out why, what dude what?
• 58:14
  I didn't do it? I fucking didndus fucking diddus, I didn't do nothing.
• 58:19
  What mean, he's the asshole going to and from his house? How
• 58:24
  dare he? How dare he leave his house? Ever? Good golly,
• 58:31
  miss Molly? Yeah, that I mean, honestly, in a situation like
• 58:37
  that, the worst thing about it is, you know women, A woman
• 58:40
  can go to a clerk of courts, claim to be afraid and get a
• 58:46
  thirty day temporary restraining order and then you have to go to court and fight
• 58:51
  it to get it thrown out. Oh you know what the most scandalous bitches
• 58:57
  will do. They'll go get it TPO against your ass, and then,
• 59:02
  knowing how men are, they'll they'll try to get you to come over for
• 59:06
  a booty call and then call the goddamn cops because you violated the fucking TPO.
• 59:12
  Well seven years in hell, guys, X took it even further.
• 59:16
  She got a TPO. Then she went to his workplace and tried to get
• 59:22
  him arrested for being on the clock at work when she wanted to go into
• 59:29
  that building. Seriously, I can't, I can't, I can't. It's
• 59:39
  shit like this. Now, I'm not a misogynist. I don't hate all
• 59:44
  women. I just hate I understand them, and I hate the shit that
• 59:50
  they do. And this is fucking bullshit, you know what I mean?
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  How could you not? How could you think that any man should would would
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  have a second thought about do you know all of this marriage relationship kids?
• 1:00:02
  When you see examples like this out in society, why wouldn't you? Oh
• 1:00:08
  my god, romance is dead, well, feminism killed it. Yeah,
• 1:00:14
  I mean, when a woman's gonna do stuff like that, right, get
• 1:00:16
  a temporary order of protection to prevent you from leaving your house or being in
• 1:00:22
  your workplace where where you know you don't earn a living if you don't go
• 1:00:28
  to work, right, and and push it until the court has to tell
• 1:00:32
  her no, Like why would you want to be close to women? But
• 1:00:39
  but no, that's that's not what they're talking about here. Instead, it's
• 1:00:44
  you know, men are just less naturally relational than women. Yeah, it's
• 1:00:47
  it's there. It's their inability to form meaningful relationships. Get the fuck out
• 1:00:54
  of here with what with what with whom she us? Christ? Have you
• 1:01:00
  seen women? Yeah? But like I knew, I know guys that have
• 1:01:09
  had twenty and thirty year relationships where the primary means that they interact with each
• 1:01:16
  other is sending each other ridiculous and bizarre gag gifts like I'm gonna send you
• 1:01:27
  a carving of a butt right made out of a peach pit, you know,
• 1:01:35
  like just weird shit like that, and and who can who can send
• 1:01:39
  the most bizarre and stupid gift on your birthday this year? And you know,
• 1:01:46
  like that's that's the you know, they they you know they they they
• 1:01:52
  love each other to death and they have an inside joke and that's their inside
• 1:01:57
  joke. And that inside joke lasts fifty years. So yeah, and it
• 1:02:04
  and it means so much more than anything that these people are talking about when
• 1:02:10
  it comes to what women want, you know what I mean, I'm sorry.
• 1:02:15
  This romanticism, this no romanticism, is this idea that you are a
• 1:02:21
  princess and this guy is a prince. Or maybe you're not a princess,
• 1:02:24
  maybe you're just you know, this lowly pauper and the prince comes in and
• 1:02:29
  swoops you with and you know it's sweeps you off your feet and whisks you
• 1:02:34
  away to this fantasy life where you just have everything and everything is perfect,
• 1:02:38
  and oh he does everything. He just adores you. You know, he
• 1:02:43
  just worships the ground that you walk on. That's what women mean by romanticism,
• 1:02:49
  you know, yep. I can't see anything else that they ask for,
• 1:02:55
  you know what I mean. It's it's it's all about what gives?
• 1:02:59
  What can you give me? How how much better can you improve my life?
• 1:03:04
  Because I clearly haven't done a good enough job so far. So I
• 1:03:07
  need you to come in and, you know, pick up the second shift
• 1:03:10
  on my life because I'm a fucking waste of a god. How can you
• 1:03:15
  prove that you worship me? Because somebody has to. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:03:21
  yeah. So even even the feminist though, felt that that was bullshit.
• 1:03:27
  She's like, that bizarre quote pretty much sums the whole issue up, doesn't
• 1:03:30
  it. Men aren't naturally stoic. They're just taught from a young age that
• 1:03:35
  feelings and emotions are for girls. They're taught to look up their feelings.
• 1:03:39
  Everyone is well. Adults are naturally stoics. The vast majority of human existence,
• 1:03:45
  people had actual problems, third world problems, and they had to be
• 1:03:51
  stoic to get through them. But civilization brought women to the point, well,
• 1:03:55
  they really don't have to worry about much because everything they used to have
• 1:03:59
  to do to to keep people alive is now is now operated by machines invented
• 1:04:03
  by men. But men, But men still have to do shit. They
• 1:04:08
  still have to work their asses off, and so they still have to be
• 1:04:11
  stoics. They've they've they've got it completely the wrong way around, like that,
• 1:04:15
  like the stoicism is the cause of problems, No, it's stoicism is
• 1:04:18
  how people deal with problems. Women don't understand this because they don't have any
• 1:04:23
  fucking problems. It's it's it's true, like one of the biggest complaints I
• 1:04:28
  hear from feminists, and this, this is the thing that bothers me too,
• 1:04:30
  because like, this is this is something that you deal with naturally as
• 1:04:36
  as a mammal, and other mammals also deal with this, right, it's
• 1:04:42
  not just humans, but only humans bitch about it for the other three quarters
• 1:04:47
  of the month that they're not dealing with it, and and they'll complain about
• 1:04:51
  having to buy their own hygiene products for for feminine issues, Like they'll talk
• 1:05:00
  NonStop about being goddesses because they have power over life and death and that gives
• 1:05:04
  them the right to kill their babies before birth because it's natural for women to
• 1:05:10
  have that power and blah blah blah blah blah. But don't you dare make
• 1:05:13
  me as part as a as a reciprocal part of this power, take responsibility
• 1:05:20
  for the mess that can be created, you know, by this power,
• 1:05:25
  Like nope, nope, I don't want to have to pay for my hygienic
• 1:05:30
  problem. Can you imagine if men were like, well, you know,
• 1:05:32
  we sweat more than women. You know, we work harder, like more
• 1:05:38
  labor, more working out in the heat, more working under uncomfortable conditions.
• 1:05:43
  But we don't want to pay for our deodorant. We don't want to have
• 1:05:46
  to pay for our steel toed boots, right right. We don't want to
• 1:05:50
  have to pay for our safety vests. In some places, you do,
• 1:05:54
  you get uniform costs deducted from your paycheck. A lot of women probably have
• 1:06:00
  never experienced that, you know, we don't. We don't want to have
• 1:06:03
  to pay for any of that stuff. We don't have to pay for any
• 1:06:06
  of the protective personal protective gear that that we get to take home with us
• 1:06:14
  and and put on as part of our uniform for the job. My grandfather
• 1:06:18
  owned several welding masks. I have one sitting next to me right now.
• 1:06:28
  That's the only one I found that that was one of many of his his
• 1:06:32
  welding masks. He bought those. Those weren't given to him by his employer.
• 1:06:38
  Right. But women get mad because they have to pay less than the
• 1:06:43
  cost of their Starbucks habit, right, less than the cost of their makeup
• 1:06:48
  habit, far less than the cost of their makeup habit, far less than
• 1:06:53
  the cost of any of their beauty habits, right, Far less than the
• 1:06:57
  cost of their their entertainment habits for hygienic problems, you know, or hygienic
• 1:07:03
  products for for feminine issues, right, feminine hygiene? Oh the horror.
• 1:07:11
  Yeah, Oh, that that you don't actually have to buy because you can
• 1:07:15
  get reusable stuff you know that's too icky, right, No discovering discovering that,
• 1:07:28
  uh, you're when you're when you're at the local department store. And
• 1:07:33
  COVID has affected the supply of everything already that the store has run out of
• 1:07:41
  everything that is not scented with some stupid perfume that you're allergic to, including
• 1:07:48
  toilet paper, Like, why does your shits have to smell like lavender?
• 1:07:54
  It's shit, It's going to smell like shit. Let it smell like shit.
• 1:07:58
  Your ass is going to smell like ass. Let smell like ass.
• 1:08:00
  You know, wash it obviously, But I mean, do we really need
• 1:08:05
  lavender scented toilet paper? Did we really need scented tampons? Like no suck?
• 1:08:13
  So yeah, you know, God, that's one thing I would love
• 1:08:18
  to know. I don't think anybody really talks about it too much. How
• 1:08:21
  did women deal with menstruation before the pad and the tampon were invented? Like
• 1:08:29
  they they had homemade uh stuff that that was similar but didn't like obviously,
• 1:08:34
  there's no glue on the back of it to stick it to your underwear,
• 1:08:38
  right, and and they used to it. You used to put it on
• 1:08:42
  like a pair of underwear. My mom described to me what she had before,
• 1:08:46
  like tam PACs and stuff like that, and it was it was it
• 1:08:51
  actually had a little uh fastener in the front. It was almost like wearing
• 1:08:57
  a diaper, but I mean you do what you do, you know,
• 1:09:02
  Yeah, like all that stuff is is nice, and it's it's nicer than
• 1:09:08
  it's more convenient, right, than than having and it's maybe for most people
• 1:09:14
  it's maybe more sanitary, maybe more neat and tidy, maybe more comfortable.
• 1:09:17
  It's not more comfortable if you're allergic, but it is it's definitely more comfortable
• 1:09:24
  if you're not to just be able to pull something off and throw it away
• 1:09:28
  or pull something out and throw it away. Yeah, but you know,
• 1:09:31
  it's good to have back up. Textiles have been around for a while.
• 1:09:36
  Textiles it's one of the first things human beings invented. I mean, even
• 1:09:41
  back in the Stone Age they had you know, animal skins, all right,
• 1:09:44
  I guess they didn't have upholstery on which to bleed, so maybe they
• 1:09:47
  just free blood. Yeah. Wells as soon as people discovered clothes, they
• 1:09:53
  discovered absorbent material. See. The other thing is it's a it's a first
• 1:09:58
  world problem to a degree in that good nutrition causes heavier flow, yes,
• 1:10:06
  and then having such good nutrition that you have something called junk food causes even
• 1:10:15
  heavier heavier flow, and if you get fat, that makes it even worse,
• 1:10:19
  you really really causes heavier flow. So women from the Stone Age days
• 1:10:26
  may not have been that messy, right, but women will bitch about that,
• 1:10:30
  Like they'll bitch about having to pay for that, which is like the
• 1:10:32
  overall point of this. Women will bitch about having to pay for that,
• 1:10:36
  Like men don't have to pay for all kinds of things that women don't even
• 1:10:41
  know. You end up needing for work. Men have to pay for all
• 1:10:45
  kinds of things that women don't even know men use, right, Like I
• 1:10:51
  don't think I ever heard of manscaping before the twenty first century. But yeah,
• 1:10:58
  so you know, I'm sure it existed, it just wasn't as easy.
• 1:11:02
  So yeah, and so just to touch on this and then we can
• 1:11:09
  move home. But so, you know, going back to the diet and
• 1:11:15
  the and the menstruation thing. So it is acknowledged that the diet does affect
• 1:11:20
  your menstruation. And so if you go and you change your diet to a
• 1:11:26
  more I guess, primitive way of eating. I think if it's like if
• 1:11:30
  you cut out a lot of animal meat and you stick to mostly vegetables and
• 1:11:33
  raw foods, you can reduce the the heaviness of your period, you know,
• 1:11:41
  and but nobody, nobody says that to women. It's just well,
• 1:11:46
  yeah, but they act like it's just this thing that's inflicted upon them,
• 1:11:51
  they have no control over whatsoever, when obviously you do. But you know,
• 1:11:58
  it's just again, it's it's it's the laziness about the whole thing.
• 1:12:02
  When my body my choice, okay, well you know, fine, you
• 1:12:06
  efford did like deal with it. But anyway, well, and of course,
• 1:12:11
  my body my choice only works for getting fat and having abortions. Like
• 1:12:15
  if you want to decide what substances you're going to put into your body,
• 1:12:20
  you can get arrested for some and then you get mistreated for refusing some.
• 1:12:26
  So so there's that, like, my body my choice only has limits to
• 1:12:30
  to that only only when it's women being spoiled brats. But and again,
• 1:12:38
  and that goes right back to the whole thing of stoicism. Women think men
• 1:12:41
  are too stoic because women whine about fucking everything, yes, like everything.
• 1:12:51
  It's so fucking true to disagree. The one article I wrote about women not
• 1:13:00
  understanding respect was set off. Let me remind the listeners. Buy a woman
• 1:13:08
  who responded to a homeless man coming into a convenience store gas station to buy
• 1:13:15
  cigarettes, which he enjoyed to make his life feel slightly less shitty. She
• 1:13:23
  was mad at him for stinking, and she's like, what's the matter with
• 1:13:26
  that guy? Doesn't he respect women? Oh? You know you really he
• 1:13:29
  should have gone to a truck stop way out of the neighborhood to pay for
• 1:13:34
  a shower and and maybe get a shave and all that kind of thing too,
• 1:13:40
  you know, spiff himself up just to go buy his fucking cigarettes so
• 1:13:44
  that you wouldn't be offended that there was a homeless guy in the store with
• 1:13:47
  you when when you were in there, you know, buying buying condoms for
• 1:13:51
  your for your whole night. Like, I'm sorry, but like that that
• 1:13:57
  pissed me off. But she bitched about that, Oh, doesn't he respect
• 1:14:02
  He's not allowed to be homeless in your presence. I'm sorry, you know,
• 1:14:06
  no, fuck you, He's gonna be homeless whether you like it or
• 1:14:11
  not. If you don't like it, maybe maybe help him, right.
• 1:14:15
  Don't you have a bathroom where you can let him take a shower, you
• 1:14:18
  fucking inconsiderate bitch. No, no, of course not. It's he's a
• 1:14:24
  problem because I don't like it, yep, yep, but yeah, that's
• 1:14:30
  like that sums it up for me really, And in terms of you know,
• 1:14:32
  oh men are men are too stoic, menortusto. No, women are
• 1:14:35
  too whiny mhmm. Maybe women need a man up a little bit m but
• 1:14:45
  but yeah, no, they're taught to lock up their feelings. Well who
• 1:14:47
  tells them to do that? Exactly right? Who gets mad when their feelings
• 1:14:51
  are inconvenient? It's not other men, No, it's the women in the
• 1:14:57
  life, the mothers who don't want to have to deal with their children's incessant
• 1:15:01
  whining because that's how she's gonna feel that, you know, that's how she's
• 1:15:05
  gonna take it. It's it's the god damn teachers in school, do you
• 1:15:11
  know what I mean? God, I just hate this, hate it,
• 1:15:17
  hate it, hate it, you know. And men being lonely being a
• 1:15:21
  problem isn't because men are in pain to these people, And this is this
• 1:15:28
  is not just the left. The right does this too. Oh you're lonely
• 1:15:32
  and suffering. That's bad for our civilization because you're not doing your job for
• 1:15:40
  us that we want you to do for us. If you're feeling that way,
• 1:15:43
  if you're in that that condition, you're not making babies and paying taxes,
• 1:15:47
  and you don't feel obligated to to earn more money because of your family.
• 1:15:51
  If you're lonely, you might become dangerous. If you're lonely, you
• 1:15:57
  might become a threat to yourself. And you're if you're lonely, and then
• 1:15:59
  we have to clean up that mess. Nothing about it is Men need compassion,
• 1:16:06
  Men need to be treated like human beings whose experiences matter. It's it's
• 1:16:16
  it's heartbreaking. They don't care, They really don't, you know, I
• 1:16:21
  mean, and so lonely wireman stoic because they don't have that compassion. Right
• 1:16:34
  if nobody gives a damn about lonely men until that lonely man does something to
• 1:16:40
  affect someone else, a woman, you know, and that's their fear.
• 1:16:45
  This guy who who seemingly can't seem to make the same sort of uh you
• 1:16:50
  know, relationships and connections that I can, he's he's got to be a
• 1:16:56
  problem because eventually, you know, you know, it's just gonna be a
• 1:17:00
  problem because he doesn't live the way that I live. Yeah, it's it's
• 1:17:06
  useless, and I yeah, I got a good way to explain this to
• 1:17:12
  women. Right, Imagine, pick your favorite social media I don't care what
• 1:17:15
  it is, whether it's x formerly known as Twitter, whether it's Facebook,
• 1:17:21
  Instagram, WhatsApp, whatever it is. Right now, Imagine if every time
• 1:17:29
  you tried to post something, it immediately was just vanished from the screen after
• 1:17:35
  you posted it, with no responses to it from anybody, nobody could see
• 1:17:40
  it and nobody was gonna be able to see it. Right. Reddit did
• 1:17:44
  this. They were the ones that invented the shadow band. The shadow band
• 1:17:49
  where you post into the void, but nobody can see your posts except for
• 1:17:56
  the moderators of the sub that's you're posting too, who might tell you that
• 1:18:02
  you've been shadow band, or they can just ignore you. And that was
• 1:18:06
  created to deal with spam. Right, But in our civilization, men can
• 1:18:17
  tell and show their messages to the rest of us, their communications to the
• 1:18:24
  rest of us. They can limp when they're in pain, they can change
• 1:18:30
  their behavior. They can be grouchy, they can be silent, they can
• 1:18:38
  be sullen, they can be sad, they can cry. They can do
• 1:18:41
  all of those things. And if it's about their own experiences and not on
• 1:18:46
  behalf of somebody else, they're shadow band. Men's experiences and emotions and communications
• 1:18:56
  about themselves to the rest of society are shadow band until they become explosive.
• 1:19:05
  The only time they get noticed is when you're mad at them or you're afraid
• 1:19:11
  of them. Is it any wonder that when one becomes extremely dysfunctional, he
• 1:19:18
  either turns into that monster or takes himself out. But yet we get told
• 1:19:28
  that men men tell each other to shut up about their emotions. All right,
• 1:19:35
  And I'm talking about off social media here. I'm talking about You're next
• 1:19:41
  to a man on a bus and you see a tear fall down his face.
• 1:19:45
  What do you do? You don't know that guy, but he's obviously
• 1:19:50
  in distress. What do you do? You assume he's drunk, and you
• 1:19:55
  invite him. Right, You stop making eye contact, you move to a
• 1:19:58
  different seat, You turn your back. That is what you do. That
• 1:20:01
  is what women in particular will do. He's shadow band. He doesn't exist
• 1:20:09
  now because he's had feelings. Women do that. Men will at least keep
• 1:20:17
  track of what's going on with that guy. You men will be alert.
• 1:20:23
  And this is this has happened numerous times where a man has tried to throw
• 1:20:27
  himself in front of a train or a bus and another man has stopped him
• 1:20:30
  because he was watching him behave in a way that indicated something was wrong.
• 1:20:34
  Yeah, men notice, women ignore women block women, shadow band. If
• 1:20:43
  we want men to want to be in relationships with women, women have to
• 1:20:48
  stop that. God, it's chilling because it's so true, Like just how
• 1:21:01
  abruptly women will absolutely ignore the person standing next to them just because it's a
• 1:21:10
  man, you know. Whereas if the if the if the tables were turned,
• 1:21:17
  she would absolutely be livid if no one cared about her situation. It
• 1:21:24
  would almost be her excuse for her to then go on and do something crazy
• 1:21:30
  like God, m so she finishes with They're not taught to put as much
• 1:21:41
  value in relationships as women, which is interesting because one of the major causes
• 1:21:47
  for male suicide is being abandoned by their female partner. Divorce, which is
• 1:21:55
  about seventy to eighty percent female initiated, is a major cause of adult male
• 1:22:00
  suicide. But they don't put as much value in relationships as women. They
• 1:22:08
  decide that they are no longer worthwhile enough to live or they can't live with
• 1:22:13
  the loss, but they don't. They don't put as much value in relationships,
• 1:22:16
  as women put monetary value on relationships. Right, she leaves a relationship,
• 1:22:20
  she wants to know how much money she can take with her. That's
• 1:22:24
  the value she put on the relationship. He kills himself. Is his life
• 1:22:34
  worth less than his money to her? Yeah? And apparently to the people
• 1:22:41
  that made this evaluation right, and and so she says, they're taught to
• 1:22:45
  be less naturally relation quotes there again, I will say by women, and
• 1:22:54
  people then sit around wondering why young men aren't in relationships and are so lonely.
• 1:23:00
  It's not porn. That the problem. That's the problem. It's like
• 1:23:01
  she got that part right. Then she says, it's patriarchy. It's patriarch
• 1:23:09
  God, patriarchy. It's patriarchy that makes men respond to being emotionally and psychologically
• 1:23:19
  shadow band by women, valued only for their money, and treated like everything
• 1:23:29
  they do is wrong. It's patriarchy that makes them react that way by deciding
• 1:23:33
  that they're not valuable and women don't want relationships. And they wonder where migtoo
• 1:23:41
  came from. Right, They wonder why why men are choosing to not start
• 1:23:48
  relationships with women. They wonder why men are choosing to not participate in the
• 1:23:55
  exploitation of male labor for female benefit. Read this article and consider like bingo.
• 1:24:06
  So there you go. The rest of this text is another like links
• 1:24:12
  to other articles. We're not going to talk about the word placent I'm like,
• 1:24:20
  it's a female body part, therefore it must be like, no,
• 1:24:24
  it's not pornographic. How can that be? Well, I'm not even gonna
• 1:24:27
  ask that question. But yeah, this is about words banned by the MIT
• 1:24:38
  Technology Review. Uh our words banned by the AI image Generator mid journey,
• 1:24:45
  Like who cares, they're gonna bitch about the AI art generator. But but
• 1:24:51
  yeah, like I said, women bitch about everything, don't they everything under
• 1:24:57
  the sun? And the sun, yes, and the son. And this
• 1:25:00
  is called the sun after all, not the daughter patchy. So there you
• 1:25:06
  go, guys. Everything is patriarchy. Men doing things as patriarchy, Men
• 1:25:14
  experiencing things as patriarchy. Women doing things is patriarchy, and men experiencing things
• 1:25:24
  women have done patriarchy. Yeah. So, and now you have a way
• 1:25:30
  to describe the way women treat men. They treat you as if you are
• 1:25:33
  shadow band when you express your your experiences and and don't just lament theirs.
• 1:25:44
  So all right, I am going to get us into these super chats and
• 1:25:48
  chows and stuff, because that's the end of the article, unless you guys
• 1:25:54
  have anything else to add to that. No, I appreciate the relatively short
• 1:25:59
  sausage. I think we'll ye this was this was a fat sausage, so
• 1:26:02
  it can be short. So we'll start with the rumble rants. We have
• 1:26:09
  two of them from Noba Fan twenty one, who gave us a dollar and
• 1:26:13
  said, men should start saying they only date pick me women. That would
• 1:26:18
  be great. I like that, Yes, I mean you would, wouldn't
• 1:26:23
  you? You don't want someone who doesn't want to be picked that's true.
• 1:26:26
  That's true. Oh my gosh, here you you make. You make your
• 1:26:30
  whole life about men liking you. You do things that men like. Shame
• 1:26:32
  on you. Yeah, well I'm married. I do things that my husband
• 1:26:39
  likes. Does that count? Then? Uh? Nova Fan gave us another
• 1:26:45
  dollar and said, does the article ever bring up feminists causing the divorce divorce
• 1:26:49
  rate to ever spike up during the late twentieth century, and then go but
• 1:26:53
  mutton cells and toxic patriarchy. No, of course not. The article's not
• 1:26:58
  gonna bring that up. They're not gonna talk about that. That's admitting that
• 1:27:02
  women can can, women's actions can matter, and women doing things can have
• 1:27:08
  effects, right cause and effect. Good things of feminism, Bad things are
• 1:27:15
  patriarchy. It's so simple, people, get your head around it. Come
• 1:27:17
  on, yeah, yep, and and there are no neutral things. Derek
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  Workman gave us as in a super chat, five dollars and said feminists haven't
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  learned that when you walk the dog, the dog walks you. If they
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  want freedom, they have to let go of the lead. Oh oh,
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  I have to correct you. Feminists are the dog. And I don't mean
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  that in a in a they're ugly way. I mean feminists are the attack
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  dogs of what is it, the powers that be? Shall we say,
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  the attack dog of the government, the attack dog of the communist revolution.
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  Yeah, that dog bites and peas on your leg. And this is what
• 1:28:09
  the ruling classes don't understand that. Yeah, that dog is going to walk
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  you further than you ever walk it. So you're right in that sense.
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  You just again you're backwards it. But yeah, good point yep. Ry
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  English gave us ten dollars and did not say anything. Hopefully that was what
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  you intended, but but thank you very much for that. And then in
• 1:28:34
  our super chows plain Dane gave us five dollars and said, I've heard that
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  men are the romantics pretending to be realists and the women are the realists pretending
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  to be romantics. I believe there's a lot of truth to this. I
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  mean, when's the last time you heard somebody say, oh, she's so
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  romantic. Well, that's true. Women expect men to behave in a way
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  that's romantic, to pamper them, to take care of them, to cow
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  tow to them, all right, to bow to them. But they don't
• 1:29:12
  want to reciprocate. They don't necessarily want to do something to make their guy
• 1:29:17
  feel pampered. They feel entitled, not obligated, not even a little.
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  And then we have another We just got another rumble ramp from Noba fan who
• 1:29:38
  gave us a dollar and said, I saw a clip of a woman complaining
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  that her boyfriend would share emotions that caused him problems. She took his shoe
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  because she wanted him to wonder if his contributions was smashing the patriarchy. So
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  that that's another one. All right, Women, alway, I say they
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  want men to express emotions, but there are emotions that cause men problems.
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  For instance, if a man is a big, strong, broad shouldered,
• 1:30:14
  muscular guy or a big fat guy and he shows anger, people treat him
• 1:30:19
  immediately as a catastrophic threat, and it causes him problems. Right, if
• 1:30:27
  a guy is a smaller guy and has a shrill voice and he expresses anger,
• 1:30:34
  people treat him like a clown and it causes him problems. He has
• 1:30:40
  taken less seriously. Men have to be in order to be taken seriously.
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  They have to be level headed, even spoken, soft spoken, even in
• 1:30:50
  some cases, especially if they have a very deep or a very shrill voice.
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  They can't bellow it people and bark order and receive the same respect as
• 1:31:03
  a man who inspires people to listen to what he has to say without bellowing
• 1:31:11
  at people embarking orders. Women demand respect, whether they do those things or
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  not, even if they have deeper voices, even if they have shrill voices.
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  Right, you know, I'm the boss here. You do what I
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  say? Are you're fired? And like that's that's the female way of handling
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  it. And I'm I'm gonna rate you up for in subordination and that you
• 1:31:39
  have to take seriously. Where guys when they're the boss, they work to
• 1:31:45
  earn the respect of their inferiors, of their subordinates in order to ensure smooth
• 1:31:53
  running of their project. So yeah, men expressing emotions in a lot of
• 1:31:56
  ways. And it's not just how men respond to that. Women don't respect
• 1:32:03
  men bellow, they fear them, And women don't respect men that are shrill
• 1:32:10
  and wine and yell. They treat them like babies where they dumped them.
• 1:32:18
  So it's it's definitely, definitely something that very very different from the way you
• 1:32:27
  know men and women are treated. Let's see, we have Meredith g in
• 1:32:33
  the super Chow channel gave us five dollars and said, HBr talk two seventy
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  six. I recently heard Robert Barnes talking about young men not dating and the
• 1:32:44
  key turning point seems to be social media and third third wave feminism. Since
• 1:32:49
  porn and hook up culture existing in the sixties, seventies and eighties and nineties
• 1:32:55
  and we didn't have these problems. People are being stupid when they blame poor.
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  We have a large number of women hooking up with a small number of
• 1:33:02
  men recreating polyamory. They forget women play a key role in enforcing monogamy.
• 1:33:09
  So women are the problem, But the patriarchy they will whine, you know,
• 1:33:14
  and yeah they will. The patriarchy the patriarchy, and a big part
• 1:33:19
  of it is social media and third wave feminism created an environment in which,
• 1:33:27
  like, you have a conflict with a girl on a date in nineteen eighty
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  five, and I like, there was in my whole life, Like I've
• 1:33:39
  fifty years of knowing guys, I've known a tiny handful with severe boundary issues,
• 1:33:45
  and I went to high school with one of them. And when I
• 1:33:49
  couldn't handle the situation myself and put a stop to it, I went to
• 1:33:55
  the vice principle with the with the issue, and he put a stop to
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  it. And that was it. It was done and over with. The
• 1:34:01
  whole school didn't have to know about it, right, the whole town didn't
• 1:34:05
  have to know about it. Even it really didn't get outside my group of
• 1:34:11
  friends that were right there close to me when the incident happened. And that
• 1:34:15
  was it, done and over with and no more discussion. Today it would
• 1:34:23
  be blasted across the world on social media. This guy can't take no for
• 1:34:30
  an answer, gets too Handsey grabs, slaps and does whatever else and he'd
• 1:34:36
  never live it down. That would be on the Internet for the rest of
• 1:34:39
  his life. And yeah, I have to say, I think blaming everything
• 1:34:45
  on social media is is even more shortsighted than blaming it on pornography. The
• 1:34:51
  seeds of this dissonance was have been sown since feminists inception, which can be
• 1:35:00
  traced back to communism's inception. To be honest, there's every reason to think
• 1:35:05
  that social media would bring people together. But by all accounts, it should,
• 1:35:10
  and it does it. You know it, people of like minds can
• 1:35:17
  find each other from miles away, from hundreds of miles from thousands of miles
• 1:35:23
  away in my in my case, and and and and and your case.
• 1:35:27
  And like we were saying earlier about the different ways that people have conversations,
• 1:35:31
  like Hannah was saying about Twitter, and like any other social media, it
• 1:35:34
  promotes a more day masculine kind of conversation where people have to take it in
• 1:35:40
  turns and perhaps I could have a slightly more productive conversation. And you know
• 1:35:48
  so, so why why why would social media be pulling people apart rather than
• 1:35:55
  pulling people together. Well, it's because, like I said, that the
• 1:35:59
  seeds of other struction were already sown, and social media just amplifies what's already
• 1:36:03
  in the public conscience. Unfortunately, what was already in the public conscience was
• 1:36:08
  abject misentry. And the small handful of you know, CEOs who control the
• 1:36:16
  biggest hitters in the mass media are the same as as as a small handful
• 1:36:21
  of CEOs who who controlled the old media and newspapers and and and TV.
• 1:36:27
  And don't be telling me that the television and the newspapers have just gone along
• 1:36:32
  for the right. No, they've they've they've been influencing social media. It's
• 1:36:39
  you know, ten years ago, when we had fifteen twenty years ago,
• 1:36:44
  when it was the wild West of the Internet, It's it wasn't the same
• 1:36:47
  as after the legacy media took it over. It's it's only since the legacy
• 1:36:53
  media took it over it's become this hellscape that it is now. So yeah,
• 1:36:57
  it's it's not modern technology that's that's doing this. It's well, a
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  hundred years ago, there was there was all kinds of discord being sewn,
• 1:37:08
  you know, all all all kinds of dissonance being sewn between people's and and
• 1:37:13
  that was that was before the TV. It's perfectly possible to do this with
• 1:37:16
  old fashioned paper propaganda. It's it's it's not the technology that fucks people up,
• 1:37:24
  it's it's what people feed into the technology. And you're going to you're
• 1:37:28
  going to see this with AI if we feed that kind of shit into this
• 1:37:31
  technology. And time is short, How how much longer we've got to prevent
• 1:37:40
  this it's hateful nonsense from from being sewn into the into evermore new kinds of
• 1:37:47
  technology. The really bad thing, really bad thing is it's already started.
• 1:37:57
  When you look at how feminists feminists complain about in regard to AI art programs
• 1:38:03
  and AI chatbots and that kind of thing, it's they don't they don't sufficiently
• 1:38:15
  place women above men, and every complaint that women in particular have made in
• 1:38:24
  regard to these things, it's not the danger that they could be misused.
• 1:38:28
  It's not the danger that they could evolve to think they're better than humans and
• 1:38:30
  that humans need to be exterminated or something. It's not any of those those
• 1:38:34
  legitimate kinds of fears. It's not humans could find a way to abuse them,
• 1:38:41
  you know. It's not that they can can destroy art jobs or writing
• 1:38:46
  jobs, or Nope, it's they're not they're not honest about the way women
• 1:38:51
  look. They are honest about the way women look. They're not honest about
• 1:38:56
  the way women behave. They are honest about the way women behave. And
• 1:38:59
  in each instance it's they're not coddling women's egos. And and of course they're
• 1:39:05
  not placing women above men, they're not prioritizing women. So it's already we're
• 1:39:13
  already seeing responses to that, like the chat bot that's uh, super popular
• 1:39:20
  chat gi or whatever, a GT or it's already programmed to be feminist,
• 1:39:30
  and it's it's not AI like the AI art programs are. But if you
• 1:39:38
  can program feminism into something, you can program it into anything. If you
• 1:39:45
  can program gyna centrism into something, you can program it into anything. And
• 1:39:48
  that means if you can program misentry into something, you can program it into
• 1:39:53
  anything. M It there scary prospect. Honestly, nothing would actually lead to
• 1:40:08
  AI deciding that humans had to be destroyed faster than having misentry programmed into them.
• 1:40:18
  Plain Dane gave us five dollars and said men need to have the six
• 1:40:24
  sixes. My favorite reply to that is a quote by YouTube Wrangler star men
• 1:40:30
  only need the three s's sex sandwich silence. I like it, he says,
• 1:40:40
  I like to add the fourth S and that slimness, But I understand
• 1:40:43
  that chubby chasers exist, and that's fat phobic of me. Well, there's
• 1:40:46
  nothing wrong with saying that you need the fourth s, you know, as
• 1:40:50
  long as you understand that other people may have different interests. That's there's no
• 1:40:57
  You're not fat phobic for not having for not being being a chubby chaser.
• 1:41:00
  That's kind of silly. But feminist would say that you are so yeah,
• 1:41:04
  which obviously makes it not true. Plain Dane gave us twenty dollars, Thank
• 1:41:11
  you, Plain Dane, and said, I've been following a fitness guru named
• 1:41:15
  doctor Tony Huge. I'm wondering if that's his real name, because that's kind
• 1:41:18
  of cool, especially if he's a bodybuilder four years. He's quite a character.
• 1:41:24
  He's got to be. That can't be his real name. Though.
• 1:41:27
  He's very pro peed and pharmaceuticals as well as recreational drugs, which is why
• 1:41:31
  I admire him so much. However, the poor man is a bit of
• 1:41:34
  a simp. He doesn't believe in monogamy, so he lives in Thailand,
• 1:41:38
  where his with his harem of women, thinks he's up to four or five
• 1:41:41
  now. He has also admitted to being a sex addict and gets laid multiple
• 1:41:45
  times a day every day. Well that's that's exercise, many calories that burns
• 1:41:54
  cardio right there. Yeah, jeez. But the amount of drama this poor
• 1:41:58
  soul has a deal with would drive any man insane. There's constant in fighting
• 1:42:04
  amongst the women, and when they aren't fighting amongst themselves, they team up
• 1:42:10
  against him. So before we go on, well, they constantly try to
• 1:42:15
  make him, make each other jealous by dragging him into rooms to fuck,
• 1:42:19
  which actually that you should just enjoy unless you don't want to do it at
• 1:42:25
  the moment and you're not in the mood, and then you just tell him
• 1:42:28
  to fuck off. Let's see. And each one trying to claim him for
• 1:42:34
  herself. They're even they've even treatened to kill him. That's what terrifying.
• 1:42:42
  When the surface, he may seem like a chad who has it all,
• 1:42:44
  owning a business, being a millionaire, having a harem, and looking like
• 1:42:46
  a bodybuilder. But I wouldn't trade my life for his, even I can't
• 1:42:50
  tolerate that much drama, and I consider myself a patient man. He's truly
• 1:42:55
  a softie, and they're taking advantage of him. It's abusive, if you
• 1:43:00
  ask me, perhaps he should take Andrew Tate the Andrew Tate route and be
• 1:43:03
  more assertive. But he's aware of the risks involved in standing up for himself.
• 1:43:08
  He knows they can use the police and legal system to harm him.
• 1:43:11
  That's why he won't get married. He knows it would only make everything worse.
• 1:43:15
  So I just want to point out and I, you know, and
• 1:43:20
  I was. I was kind of hard on the trad cons today, and
• 1:43:24
  I have been not I have been recently quite a bit because I'm really fed
• 1:43:30
  up with the neo trad con pathway that's so different from the historical traditions of
• 1:43:41
  human kind. But one thing that trad cons may appreciate is the biblical story
• 1:43:49
  of King Solomon and his five hundred wives and his Book of Proverbs, which
• 1:43:59
  is necessarily like all repetitious, But he had four different writings in the Book
• 1:44:08
  of Proverbs, four different verses where he said some variation on it is better
• 1:44:15
  for a man to live on the far corner of the rooftop of his home,
• 1:44:21
  exposed to the elements and weather than to live under the roof with a
• 1:44:29
  quarrelsome woman. He'd rather be cold, sunburned, rained on, bitten by
• 1:44:41
  bugs, you scratched up by sand, you know whatever, then deal with
• 1:44:48
  what was just described here. Now, granted he did have five hundred wives,
• 1:44:55
  so I am sure whatever this guy's problems are, you know, if
• 1:45:00
  if King Solomon did not manage them, he probably dealt with a shitload more.
• 1:45:11
  But I'm sure he exercised a little more authority in his household because of
• 1:45:16
  the time period. But yeah, I I the threatening to kill him thing
• 1:45:21
  like that would be the end of that. You know, get documentation of
• 1:45:25
  that, and that one's out. And and if you know, a woman
• 1:45:30
  wants to live with this rich guy, like she should treat him like he
• 1:45:34
  matters to her instead of threatening to kill him. But nope, that's that's
• 1:45:40
  the way women behave no gratitude whatsoever. Miketaw cowboy, trust not the silly
• 1:45:48
  skank. Somewhere in the Bible there are there are some verses that paraphrase that,
• 1:45:54
  actually, that's that's the that's the other thing, like and I need
• 1:46:00
  to do a show on this at some point, the whole stereotype of the
• 1:46:06
  the trad chad and the submissive wife and everything. It's it's wrong, and
• 1:46:15
  I it would take a whole episode for me to talk about this. But
• 1:46:20
  the Bible that these people are supposed to be basing their lives on, or
• 1:46:27
  they they're acting like they're basing their lives on, it has behavioral standards in
• 1:46:31
  it for women that they're ignoring, really ignoring. They're putting a lot of
• 1:46:40
  things on men, and the Biblical relationship between men and women is like the
• 1:46:47
  the teeth of a gear, a set of gears fitting together, each each
• 1:46:58
  with the other and order to run the machine of marriage, not him carrying
• 1:47:04
  her, And so they really screw that up. So now I've I've known
• 1:47:13
  a lot of people that are old school traditionalist that understand that, and I
• 1:47:19
  think they're probably just as fed up with this play acting that we're seeing from
• 1:47:24
  the millennials and the Zoomers in terms of that, and even some gen xers.
• 1:47:29
  But yeah, and trust not the skilly, silly skank is actually it's
• 1:47:38
  it does paraphrase some things. So with that though, I think I've got
• 1:47:45
  all the all of the the Book of Hosts of that, I gotta stop
• 1:47:54
  looking at the check I got all of the super chats, got all the
• 1:47:58
  super chats, got all of the rumble rants, and have heard from all
• 1:48:02
  of those super chads. So thanks everybody for listening to this fat sausage.
• 1:48:09
  Thanks to my two co hosts for the fat Sausage also and great contributions tonight,
• 1:48:15
  and and thanks to everybody that works in the background and make HBr talk
• 1:48:18
  happen. And good night all, Hi, y'all,