Latest / Burning Brightly / 2. How to Make Space in Your Life for a Business
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- 0:29Welcome
- 0:30back.
- 0:30My
- 0:30friends.
- 0:31Can't
- 0:31wait
- 0:32for
- 0:32episode.
- 0:32Number
- 0:32two
- 0:32of
- 0:33burning
- 0:33brightly.
- 0:34Today,
- 0:34we're
- 0:35going
- 0:35to
- 0:35talk
- 0:35about
- 0:35making
- 0:35some
- 0:36space
- 0:36in
- 0:36our
- 0:37life
- 0:37for
- 0:37this
- 0:38new
- 0:38chapter.
- 0:39Of
- 0:40putting
- 0:40ourselves
- 0:40out
- 0:40there
- 0:41right
- 0:41now.
- 0:41One
- 0:42of
- 0:42the
- 0:42reasons
- 0:42you
- 0:42might
- 0:43be
- 0:43here
- 0:43listening
- 0:44to
- 0:44this
- 0:44podcast
- 0:44is
- 0:44because
- 0:45you've
- 0:45noticed
- 0:45from
- 0:45space
- 0:46opening
- 0:46up
- 0:47in
- 0:47your
- 0:47life,
- 0:47right?
- 0:48Maybe.
- 0:49You
- 0:49don't
- 0:49have
- 0:50as
- 0:50many
- 0:50kids
- 0:50at
- 0:50home.
- 0:51Maybe
- 0:51your
- 0:51kids
- 0:51just
- 0:51don't
- 0:52need
- 0:52you
- 0:52as
- 0:52much.
- 0:53Um,
- 0:53even
- 0:53just
- 0:54be
- 0:54emotional
- 0:55space,
- 0:55right?
- 0:55Maybe
- 0:55life
- 0:56is
- 0:56a
- 0:56little
- 0:56bit
- 0:56simpler
- 0:56now
- 0:57than
- 0:57it
- 0:57was
- 0:57before,
- 0:58or
- 0:58maybe
- 0:58it's
- 0:58more
- 0:58complicated,
- 0:59but
- 0:59your
- 0:59brain
- 1:00is
- 1:00operating
- 1:00a
- 1:00little
- 1:01bit
- 1:01better
- 1:01than
- 1:01it
- 1:01was
- 1:01during
- 1:01those
- 1:02hazy
- 1:02years
- 1:02of
- 1:02early
- 1:03motherhood.
- 1:03Right.
- 1:04could
- 1:04have
- 1:04some
- 1:04mental
- 1:05space
- 1:05opening
- 1:05up.
- 1:06Maybe
- 1:06like
- 1:06I
- 1:06said,
- 1:06physical
- 1:07space.
- 1:07If
- 1:07kids
- 1:07are
- 1:07moving
- 1:08out,
- 1:09Uh,
- 1:09your
- 1:09calendar.
- 1:10Just
- 1:10these
- 1:10new
- 1:11phases
- 1:11of
- 1:11motherhood.
- 1:12Tend
- 1:13to
- 1:13cause
- 1:13some
- 1:14introspection,
- 1:14right?
- 1:15We
- 1:15start
- 1:15to
- 1:15think
- 1:16about
- 1:16what
- 1:16this
- 1:17next
- 1:17phase
- 1:17of
- 1:17life
- 1:18is
- 1:18going
- 1:18to
- 1:18hold
- 1:18and
- 1:19what
- 1:19we
- 1:19want
- 1:19to
- 1:19put
- 1:20into
- 1:20the
- 1:20world.
- 1:21Especially
- 1:21when
- 1:22we're
- 1:22just
- 1:22not
- 1:22quite
- 1:22so
- 1:22busy
- 1:22anymore.
- 1:23If
- 1:23that's
- 1:24not,
- 1:24you,
- 1:24you
- 1:25might
- 1:25be
- 1:25feeling
- 1:26the
- 1:26call
- 1:26to
- 1:26burn
- 1:26a
- 1:26little
- 1:26bit
- 1:27brighter,
- 1:27but
- 1:28you're
- 1:28wondering
- 1:28how
- 1:29in
- 1:29the
- 1:29world
- 1:29you're
- 1:29going
- 1:29to
- 1:30fit
- 1:30anything
- 1:30else
- 1:31into
- 1:31your
- 1:31day.
- 1:32I
- 1:32so
- 1:33understand
- 1:33it
- 1:33relate
- 1:34to
- 1:34this
- 1:34one.
- 1:35I
- 1:35have
- 1:3510
- 1:35kids
- 1:35still
- 1:36at
- 1:36home.
- 1:37Uh,
- 1:37my
- 1:37is
- 1:37very
- 1:37full
- 1:38and
- 1:39yet.
- 1:39I
- 1:39need
- 1:40this.
- 1:40I
- 1:41need
- 1:41the
- 1:41things
- 1:41in
- 1:42my
- 1:42life
- 1:42that
- 1:42I
- 1:42use
- 1:42for
- 1:43my
- 1:43own
- 1:43personal
- 1:43growth
- 1:43and
- 1:43development.
- 1:44To
- 1:44become
- 1:45the
- 1:45best
- 1:45wife
- 1:46and
- 1:46mother
- 1:46that
- 1:46I
- 1:46can
- 1:47possibly
- 1:47be,
- 1:47but
- 1:47I
- 1:47do
- 1:48need
- 1:48to
- 1:48be
- 1:48very,
- 1:48very
- 1:49conscious
- 1:49of
- 1:49how
- 1:50to
- 1:50create.
- 1:51More
- 1:51space
- 1:52in
- 1:52my
- 1:52life
- 1:52for
- 1:53these,
- 1:53these
- 1:54me,
- 1:54it's
- 1:54my
- 1:54businesses.
- 1:55So
- 1:55regardless
- 1:56of
- 1:56which
- 1:56of
- 1:56these
- 1:56UI
- 1:57most
- 1:57identify
- 1:57with.
- 1:58There's
- 1:59a
- 1:59reason
- 1:59that
- 1:59this
- 1:59episode
- 1:59is
- 2:00number
- 2:00two.
- 2:00It's
- 2:00very
- 2:01important.
- 2:01And
- 2:01you're
- 2:01gonna
- 2:02want
- 2:02to
- 2:02pay
- 2:02attention
- 2:02today.
- 2:03As
- 2:03I
- 2:03teach
- 2:03you
- 2:04how
- 2:04to
- 2:04create
- 2:04the
- 2:05space
- 2:05necessary.
- 2:06To
- 2:06open
- 2:06yourself
- 2:06up
- 2:07for
- 2:07this
- 2:07calling
- 2:07that
- 2:07you're
- 2:07feeling
- 2:08right.
- 2:08Okay.
- 2:08So
- 2:09did
- 2:09you
- 2:09notice
- 2:09how
- 2:09I
- 2:09said
- 2:09that?
- 2:10I
- 2:10didn't
- 2:10say
- 2:10find
- 2:11the
- 2:11time.
- 2:11I
- 2:11said
- 2:12it
- 2:12create
- 2:12the
- 2:12time.
- 2:13This
- 2:13is
- 2:13a
- 2:13really
- 2:13important
- 2:14distinction.
- 2:15Our
- 2:15time,
- 2:16space
- 2:16and
- 2:16energy.
- 2:17I've
- 2:17noticed,
- 2:17tend
- 2:17to
- 2:18abhor
- 2:18vacuums,
- 2:19right.
- 2:19And
- 2:19when
- 2:20there
- 2:20is
- 2:20any
- 2:20open
- 2:21space,
- 2:21time
- 2:21or
- 2:22energy.
- 2:22And
- 2:22then
- 2:23I
- 2:23life
- 2:23just
- 2:23kind
- 2:23of
- 2:24expands
- 2:24to
- 2:24fill
- 2:25that
- 2:25space
- 2:25available,
- 2:26which
- 2:26means
- 2:26that
- 2:27the
- 2:27vast
- 2:28majority
- 2:28of
- 2:28us
- 2:28are
- 2:28not
- 2:29sitting
- 2:29around
- 2:29thinking,
- 2:29gosh,
- 2:30I
- 2:30just
- 2:30have
- 2:30so
- 2:30much
- 2:31extra
- 2:31time.
- 2:31I
- 2:31need
- 2:32to
- 2:32fill.
- 2:32It
- 2:32just
- 2:32doesn't
- 2:32happen.
- 2:33Whatever
- 2:33we
- 2:33have
- 2:34in
- 2:34our
- 2:34life
- 2:34just
- 2:34expands
- 2:35to
- 2:35fill
- 2:35that
- 2:35time
- 2:36that
- 2:36we
- 2:36have
- 2:36available
- 2:37to
- 2:37us.
- 2:38probably
- 2:38also
- 2:38noticed
- 2:38that
- 2:39this
- 2:39is
- 2:39why
- 2:39busy
- 2:40women
- 2:40tend
- 2:40to
- 2:40get
- 2:40so
- 2:41much
- 2:41done.
- 2:42Right.
- 2:42not
- 2:42because
- 2:43they've
- 2:43just
- 2:43dug
- 2:43through
- 2:43their
- 2:44couch
- 2:44cushions
- 2:44and
- 2:45found
- 2:45some
- 2:46time
- 2:46waiting
- 2:47there,
- 2:47like
- 2:47the
- 2:47loose
- 2:47change.
- 2:48Right.
- 2:48It's
- 2:48because
- 2:49they
- 2:49have
- 2:50created
- 2:50the
- 2:50time
- 2:51necessary
- 2:51and
- 2:51they
- 2:51have
- 2:52shrunk
- 2:52the
- 2:53tasks
- 2:53that
- 2:54are
- 2:54less
- 2:54important
- 2:54to
- 2:54them.
- 2:55So
- 2:55that
- 2:55they
- 2:55can
- 2:55have
- 2:56time
- 2:56for
- 2:56the
- 2:56things
- 2:56that
- 2:56matter
- 2:56most.
- 2:57The
- 2:57first
- 2:58step
- 2:58to
- 2:58this
- 2:58is
- 2:58to
- 2:58determine
- 2:59where
- 2:59this
- 3:00new
- 3:00calling
- 3:00or
- 3:00business
- 3:00is
- 3:01going
- 3:01to
- 3:01fit
- 3:01into
- 3:01your
- 3:02list
- 3:02of
- 3:02priorities.
- 3:02Because
- 3:02I
- 3:02know
- 3:03you
- 3:03already
- 3:03have
- 3:03that.
- 3:03I
- 3:04knew
- 3:04you
- 3:04already
- 3:04have
- 3:04a
- 3:04list
- 3:04of
- 3:04things
- 3:05that
- 3:05are
- 3:05really
- 3:05important
- 3:05to
- 3:05you.
- 3:06Probably
- 3:06things
- 3:06like
- 3:07your
- 3:07family,
- 3:07home
- 3:08management,
- 3:08maybe
- 3:09church
- 3:09obligations,
- 3:10and
- 3:10those
- 3:11are
- 3:11going
- 3:11to
- 3:11always
- 3:11need
- 3:12some
- 3:12of
- 3:12your
- 3:12time.
- 3:13But
- 3:13you
- 3:13need
- 3:14to
- 3:14determine
- 3:14where
- 3:14your
- 3:14business
- 3:15is
- 3:15going
- 3:15to
- 3:15fall
- 3:16on
- 3:16your
- 3:16list
- 3:16of
- 3:16to-dos
- 3:17so
- 3:17that
- 3:17it
- 3:17doesn't
- 3:17get
- 3:17shuffled
- 3:18all
- 3:18the
- 3:18way
- 3:18to
- 3:18the
- 3:18bottom
- 3:19of
- 3:19the
- 3:19list.
- 3:20I
- 3:20like
- 3:21to
- 3:21talk
- 3:21about
- 3:21my
- 3:22three
- 3:22main
- 3:22priorities
- 3:23as
- 3:23a
- 3:23three-legged
- 3:24stool,
- 3:24because
- 3:24I
- 3:24think
- 3:24that's
- 3:25just
- 3:25a
- 3:25really
- 3:25important
- 3:26visual.
- 3:27And
- 3:27it
- 3:27helps
- 3:27us
- 3:28realize
- 3:28that
- 3:29this
- 3:29is
- 3:29how
- 3:29we're
- 3:29going
- 3:29to
- 3:30balance
- 3:30our
- 3:30life
- 3:30to
- 3:30the
- 3:30best
- 3:30of
- 3:30our
- 3:31ability.
- 3:31The
- 3:32legs
- 3:32of
- 3:32my
- 3:32stool
- 3:33represent
- 3:33God
- 3:34or
- 3:34my
- 3:34faith,
- 3:35my
- 3:35family.
- 3:37And
- 3:37my
- 3:37business.
- 3:39for
- 3:39me,
- 3:39this
- 3:40balance
- 3:40means
- 3:40two
- 3:40things.
- 3:41It
- 3:41means
- 3:41number
- 3:42one,
- 3:42that
- 3:42my
- 3:42personal
- 3:42growth
- 3:43projects
- 3:43for
- 3:43me,
- 3:44my
- 3:44businesses
- 3:45get
- 3:45the
- 3:45airtime
- 3:46that
- 3:46they
- 3:46deserve,
- 3:46right.
- 3:47That
- 3:47I'm
- 3:47actually
- 3:47putting
- 3:47the
- 3:47time
- 3:48into
- 3:48them
- 3:49that
- 3:49I
- 3:49want
- 3:49to,
- 3:50but
- 3:50it
- 3:50also
- 3:51ensures
- 3:51that
- 3:51I
- 3:51don't
- 3:51become
- 3:52this
- 3:52cranky
- 3:52workaholic
- 3:53that
- 3:53never
- 3:54spends
- 3:54time
- 3:54with
- 3:54her
- 3:54family
- 3:55or
- 3:55never
- 3:55develops
- 3:55her
- 3:56faith
- 3:56because.
- 3:57She
- 3:57just
- 3:58loves
- 3:58business
- 3:58so
- 3:58much.
- 3:59Right?
- 3:59So
- 3:59just
- 3:59this
- 4:00constant
- 4:00checking,
- 4:01of
- 4:01all
- 4:01of
- 4:01these
- 4:01priorities
- 4:02to
- 4:02make
- 4:02sure
- 4:02that
- 4:02they're
- 4:02as
- 4:03balanced
- 4:03as
- 4:03possible.
- 4:05Now
- 4:05I
- 4:05personally
- 4:05highly
- 4:06recommend
- 4:06these
- 4:06three
- 4:06priorities.
- 4:07They
- 4:07have
- 4:07served
- 4:07me
- 4:07well,
- 4:08my
- 4:08entire
- 4:08adult
- 4:09life.
- 4:09Yours
- 4:10might
- 4:10look
- 4:11a
- 4:11little
- 4:11bit
- 4:11different
- 4:11and
- 4:11that's
- 4:12totally
- 4:12okay.
- 4:13But.
- 4:14Just
- 4:14make
- 4:14sure
- 4:15that
- 4:15stepping
- 4:15into
- 4:15this
- 4:15new
- 4:15phase
- 4:16is
- 4:16one
- 4:17of
- 4:17them.
- 4:17Right?
- 4:18will
- 4:18likely
- 4:18be.
- 4:19A
- 4:19big
- 4:20transition
- 4:20for
- 4:20some
- 4:21of
- 4:21you
- 4:21too
- 4:22many
- 4:22of
- 4:22us
- 4:22spend
- 4:22years
- 4:23and
- 4:23years
- 4:23and
- 4:23years
- 4:24making
- 4:24our
- 4:24family
- 4:25our
- 4:25number
- 4:25one
- 4:25priority.
- 4:26Our
- 4:26faith
- 4:27also
- 4:27a
- 4:27top
- 4:28priority,
- 4:28and
- 4:28then
- 4:29just
- 4:29kind
- 4:29of
- 4:29picking
- 4:30up
- 4:30the
- 4:30pieces
- 4:31of
- 4:31whatever
- 4:31scraps
- 4:31of
- 4:31time
- 4:32are
- 4:32left
- 4:32for
- 4:32ourself.
- 4:33When
- 4:33we
- 4:34prioritize
- 4:35our
- 4:35own
- 4:35personal
- 4:35development
- 4:36meant
- 4:36as
- 4:36important
- 4:37as
- 4:37our
- 4:37family
- 4:38and
- 4:38our
- 4:38faith.
- 4:39Sometimes
- 4:40it
- 4:40requires
- 4:40some
- 4:40adjusting,
- 4:41but
- 4:41I
- 4:41promise
- 4:42that
- 4:42in
- 4:42the
- 4:42long
- 4:42run,
- 4:42it's
- 4:43going
- 4:43to
- 4:43be
- 4:43a
- 4:43beautiful,
- 4:44beautiful
- 4:44thing.
- 4:45So
- 4:45you
- 4:45might
- 4:45wanna
- 4:46start
- 4:46small.
- 4:46You
- 4:46might
- 4:46want
- 4:47to
- 4:47just
- 4:47start.
- 4:48By
- 4:48adding
- 4:48in
- 4:49some
- 4:49of
- 4:49these
- 4:49personal
- 4:49development.
- 4:50Uh,
- 4:50growth
- 4:50activities.
- 4:52As
- 4:52you
- 4:52see.
- 4:53Possible,
- 4:54right?
- 4:54Like
- 4:54once
- 4:54a
- 4:54week,
- 4:55you're
- 4:55gonna
- 4:55start
- 4:55doing
- 4:55something
- 4:55for
- 4:56yourself.
- 4:56Uh,
- 4:56once
- 4:57every
- 4:57other
- 4:58week,
- 4:58you're
- 4:58going
- 4:58to
- 4:58start.
- 4:59Taking
- 4:59a
- 4:59class
- 5:00or,
- 5:00or
- 5:00developing
- 5:00some
- 5:01talent
- 5:01in
- 5:01one
- 5:01way
- 5:01or
- 5:01another,
- 5:02but
- 5:02start
- 5:02slow,
- 5:03but
- 5:03acknowledge
- 5:03that
- 5:03this
- 5:04is
- 5:04going
- 5:04to
- 5:04need
- 5:05to
- 5:05be
- 5:05one
- 5:05of
- 5:05your
- 5:05main
- 5:06pillars.
- 5:07Okay.
- 5:08Now
- 5:08I
- 5:08want
- 5:08to
- 5:08stop
- 5:08and
- 5:08just
- 5:09talk
- 5:09about
- 5:09business
- 5:09for
- 5:09one
- 5:10second.
- 5:10We're
- 5:10still
- 5:10early
- 5:10on
- 5:11in
- 5:11this
- 5:11podcast
- 5:11and
- 5:11I
- 5:11want
- 5:11to
- 5:11get
- 5:12something
- 5:12really
- 5:12clear.
- 5:13I
- 5:14know
- 5:14that
- 5:14the
- 5:14word
- 5:14business
- 5:15can
- 5:15sound
- 5:15scary,
- 5:16especially
- 5:16if
- 5:16you've
- 5:16been
- 5:17a
- 5:17stay-at-home
- 5:17mom,
- 5:17your
- 5:18entire
- 5:18adult
- 5:19life,
- 5:19or
- 5:19most
- 5:19of
- 5:19it.
- 5:19Right.
- 5:20But
- 5:20there
- 5:21are
- 5:21many,
- 5:21many
- 5:22ways
- 5:22to
- 5:22build
- 5:22a
- 5:22business.
- 5:23I
- 5:23have
- 5:23chosen
- 5:24for
- 5:24my
- 5:24personal
- 5:25growth
- 5:25and
- 5:25mission
- 5:26phase
- 5:26of
- 5:26my
- 5:26life.
- 5:27To
- 5:27look
- 5:27like
- 5:28building.
- 5:29Multiple
- 5:29businesses.
- 5:31Business.
- 5:32Does
- 5:33not
- 5:33have
- 5:33to
- 5:33be
- 5:34overwhelming
- 5:34and
- 5:34scary.
- 5:34There
- 5:35are
- 5:35many,
- 5:35many
- 5:35ways
- 5:36to
- 5:36build
- 5:36one.
- 5:36Okay.
- 5:36So
- 5:37for
- 5:37example,
- 5:37many
- 5:38of
- 5:38us
- 5:38here
- 5:38have
- 5:38people
- 5:39going
- 5:39to
- 5:39get
- 5:40an
- 5:40advanced
- 5:40degree
- 5:40and
- 5:41MBA,
- 5:41right?
- 5:41Some
- 5:41sort
- 5:42of
- 5:42business
- 5:42degree.
- 5:43It
- 5:43can
- 5:43mean
- 5:44making
- 5:44this
- 5:44detailed
- 5:45business
- 5:45plan
- 5:46and
- 5:46then
- 5:46getting
- 5:46partners
- 5:47and
- 5:47then
- 5:47getting
- 5:47investors
- 5:48and
- 5:48launching
- 5:49this
- 5:49big,
- 5:49huge
- 5:49thing.
- 5:50It
- 5:50does
- 5:51not
- 5:51have
- 5:51to
- 5:51look
- 5:52anything
- 5:52like
- 5:53that.
- 5:53I
- 5:53think
- 5:53very
- 5:54often
- 5:54when
- 5:54I
- 5:54talk
- 5:54to
- 5:54women
- 5:55about
- 5:55business,
- 5:55they
- 5:55get
- 5:56really
- 5:56scared
- 5:56because
- 5:56they
- 5:57just
- 5:57think
- 5:57I
- 5:57am
- 5:58not
- 5:58prepared
- 5:58for
- 5:58that.
- 5:58I
- 5:58don't
- 5:58have
- 5:59all
- 5:59this
- 5:59capital
- 5:59to
- 6:00invest.
- 6:00I
- 6:00don't
- 6:00have
- 6:00all
- 6:00this
- 6:00time
- 6:01to
- 6:01invest.
- 6:01Business
- 6:02can
- 6:03also
- 6:03look
- 6:03like
- 6:04a
- 6:04roadside
- 6:04lemonade
- 6:05stand.
- 6:06That
- 6:06is
- 6:06a
- 6:06business.
- 6:07Okay.
- 6:07All
- 6:08a
- 6:08business
- 6:08is,
- 6:09is
- 6:09exchanging
- 6:09knowledge
- 6:10or
- 6:10products
- 6:11for
- 6:11value
- 6:12in
- 6:12the
- 6:12form
- 6:12of
- 6:13money,
- 6:13right?
- 6:13also
- 6:14mean
- 6:14making
- 6:15your
- 6:15favorite
- 6:15homemade
- 6:16jewelry
- 6:16and
- 6:16selling
- 6:17it
- 6:17on
- 6:17Etsy.
- 6:18It
- 6:18can
- 6:18be
- 6:18very,
- 6:19very,
- 6:19very
- 6:19simple.
- 6:19And
- 6:20I
- 6:20highly
- 6:20recommend
- 6:21you
- 6:21start
- 6:21a
- 6:21business
- 6:22very
- 6:22simply.
- 6:23If
- 6:23that's
- 6:23what
- 6:23you
- 6:23want
- 6:23to
- 6:23do.
- 6:25But
- 6:25on
- 6:25this
- 6:25podcast,
- 6:26I
- 6:26just
- 6:26want
- 6:26to
- 6:26warn
- 6:27you.
- 6:27I'm
- 6:27going
- 6:27to
- 6:27talk
- 6:28predominantly
- 6:28about
- 6:29business
- 6:29as
- 6:29a
- 6:29way
- 6:30of
- 6:30putting
- 6:30yourself
- 6:31out
- 6:31into
- 6:31the
- 6:31world
- 6:31and
- 6:31answering
- 6:32this
- 6:32call
- 6:32that
- 6:32you're
- 6:32feeling.
- 6:33For
- 6:33for
- 6:34a
- 6:34couple
- 6:34of
- 6:34reasons.
- 6:34And
- 6:34another
- 6:35episode,
- 6:35we'll
- 6:35talk
- 6:36about
- 6:36that.
- 6:38that
- 6:38it
- 6:38doesn't
- 6:38necessarily
- 6:39mean
- 6:39you
- 6:39need
- 6:39to
- 6:39charge
- 6:39for
- 6:40your
- 6:40talents
- 6:40and
- 6:40expertise.
- 6:41Non-profits
- 6:41are
- 6:42an
- 6:42amazing
- 6:42way
- 6:42to
- 6:43answer
- 6:43this
- 6:43call
- 6:43as
- 6:43well,
- 6:44but
- 6:44I
- 6:44just
- 6:44want
- 6:44you
- 6:44to
- 6:44not
- 6:45get
- 6:45scared
- 6:45off
- 6:45when
- 6:46I
- 6:46talk
- 6:46business.
- 6:47Um,
- 6:47the
- 6:47best
- 6:47word
- 6:48I
- 6:48have.
- 6:48To
- 6:49use,
- 6:49to
- 6:49talk
- 6:50about
- 6:50sharing
- 6:50our
- 6:50talents
- 6:51and
- 6:51expertise
- 6:51with
- 6:51the
- 6:52world
- 6:52in
- 6:52exchange
- 6:53for
- 6:53some
- 6:53money,
- 6:53right.
- 6:53share
- 6:54your
- 6:54light
- 6:54and
- 6:54God's
- 6:55light.
- 6:55With
- 6:56the
- 6:56world
- 6:56and
- 6:57help
- 6:57support
- 6:57yourself
- 6:57in
- 6:57the
- 6:57process.
- 6:58It's
- 6:58amazing.
- 6:59Um,
- 6:59little
- 6:59caveat
- 7:00for
- 7:00not
- 7:00getting
- 7:00freaked
- 7:00out
- 7:00about
- 7:01the
- 7:01business
- 7:01word.
- 7:01Okay.
- 7:03At
- 7:03the
- 7:03beginning
- 7:03of
- 7:03this
- 7:03episode,
- 7:04I
- 7:04mentioned
- 7:04that
- 7:04there
- 7:05are
- 7:05different
- 7:05kinds
- 7:05of,
- 7:06of
- 7:06space
- 7:06we
- 7:06might
- 7:06have
- 7:07to
- 7:07make,
- 7:07right.
- 7:07Or
- 7:08a
- 7:08one
- 7:08could
- 7:08be
- 7:09space
- 7:09within
- 7:09your
- 7:10energy.
- 7:10Space
- 7:11in
- 7:11your
- 7:11time.
- 7:12A
- 7:12space
- 7:12in
- 7:12your
- 7:12priorities.
- 7:14in
- 7:14your
- 7:14emotional
- 7:14or
- 7:15mental
- 7:15health.
- 7:15Right.
- 7:16now
- 7:16I
- 7:16want
- 7:16to
- 7:16talk
- 7:16predominantly
- 7:17about
- 7:17time
- 7:18because
- 7:18that's
- 7:18what
- 7:18I
- 7:18feel
- 7:19like
- 7:19a
- 7:19lot
- 7:19of
- 7:19moms
- 7:20have
- 7:20some
- 7:20scarcity
- 7:21around
- 7:21is,
- 7:21oh,
- 7:21there's
- 7:21just
- 7:22never
- 7:22enough
- 7:22time.
- 7:22I'm
- 7:22so
- 7:23busy.
- 7:24Side
- 7:24note.
- 7:25I
- 7:25highly
- 7:26recommend
- 7:26you
- 7:27eliminate
- 7:27the
- 7:27word
- 7:28busy
- 7:28out
- 7:28of
- 7:28your
- 7:28vocabulary
- 7:29because
- 7:29it
- 7:29has
- 7:30a
- 7:30lot
- 7:30of
- 7:31negative
- 7:31connotations
- 7:32for
- 7:32me.
- 7:32It
- 7:32has
- 7:33this
- 7:33connotation
- 7:33of
- 7:33just
- 7:34hustling
- 7:34everywhere.
- 7:35Running
- 7:36around
- 7:36like
- 7:36a
- 7:36crazy
- 7:36person.
- 7:37And
- 7:37not
- 7:37consciously
- 7:38choosing
- 7:39where.
- 7:40And
- 7:40how
- 7:40I
- 7:40want
- 7:41to
- 7:41spend
- 7:41my
- 7:41time.
- 7:42So
- 7:42I
- 7:42prefer
- 7:42to
- 7:42say
- 7:43that
- 7:43my
- 7:43life
- 7:43is
- 7:43full
- 7:44because
- 7:44it
- 7:44is,
- 7:45but
- 7:45it
- 7:45is
- 7:45full
- 7:45of
- 7:46things
- 7:46that
- 7:46I
- 7:46have
- 7:46consciously
- 7:47chosen.
- 7:48I
- 7:48do
- 7:48not
- 7:48spend
- 7:48more
- 7:49than
- 7:49a
- 7:49few
- 7:49minutes
- 7:50here
- 7:50and
- 7:50there
- 7:50doing
- 7:51things
- 7:51that
- 7:51I
- 7:51really
- 7:51dislike
- 7:52or
- 7:52do
- 7:52not
- 7:53think
- 7:53that
- 7:53there's
- 7:53a.
- 7:53Uh,
- 7:54large
- 7:54purpose
- 7:54for,
- 7:55right.
- 7:55looking
- 7:56at
- 7:56how
- 7:56we
- 7:56spend
- 7:56our
- 7:56time
- 7:57is
- 7:57going
- 7:57to
- 7:57be
- 7:57really,
- 7:57really
- 7:58valuable
- 7:58as
- 7:59we
- 7:59are
- 7:59going
- 7:59to
- 7:59open
- 8:00our
- 8:00lives
- 8:00up
- 8:00to
- 8:00something
- 8:01more.
- 8:02Okay.
- 8:02So
- 8:02there's
- 8:03three
- 8:03main
- 8:03types
- 8:04of
- 8:04time.
- 8:05That
- 8:05we're
- 8:05going
- 8:06to
- 8:06have
- 8:06to
- 8:06create
- 8:06for
- 8:06ourselves.
- 8:07You're
- 8:07gonna
- 8:08want
- 8:08to
- 8:08carve
- 8:08out
- 8:08time
- 8:09for
- 8:09education.
- 8:10Growing
- 8:10yourself
- 8:11mentally.
- 8:12Time
- 8:13for
- 8:13work
- 8:13for
- 8:13actually
- 8:14creating
- 8:15something
- 8:16of
- 8:16value.
- 8:17And
- 8:17time
- 8:17for
- 8:18quiet.
- 8:18And
- 8:19I'll
- 8:19just
- 8:19briefly
- 8:19explain
- 8:19each
- 8:20one
- 8:20of
- 8:20these,
- 8:20because
- 8:20I
- 8:20think
- 8:21they're
- 8:21each
- 8:21social
- 8:21so
- 8:22important.
- 8:22So
- 8:23So
- 8:23first
- 8:23off
- 8:24the
- 8:24time
- 8:24for
- 8:24education
- 8:25and
- 8:25for
- 8:26work
- 8:26are
- 8:26both
- 8:27pretty
- 8:27self-explanatory
- 8:28right.
- 8:28You're
- 8:28going
- 8:28to
- 8:28need
- 8:29to
- 8:29learn
- 8:29about
- 8:30this
- 8:30new
- 8:30sphere
- 8:30of
- 8:30influence,
- 8:31right?
- 8:31So
- 8:31let's
- 8:32So
- 8:32let's
- 8:32take
- 8:32the
- 8:32example
- 8:33of
- 8:33jewelry-making.
- 8:33You
- 8:34might
- 8:34need
- 8:34to
- 8:34carve
- 8:35out
- 8:35some
- 8:35education
- 8:36time
- 8:36to
- 8:37take
- 8:37a
- 8:37class
- 8:38once
- 8:38a
- 8:38week
- 8:38to
- 8:38learn
- 8:39about.
- 8:39Creating
- 8:40jewelry
- 8:40with
- 8:41polymer
- 8:41clay.
- 8:42Or
- 8:42how
- 8:42to
- 8:43best
- 8:43fashion
- 8:44chains
- 8:44that
- 8:44won't
- 8:44fall
- 8:45apart.
- 8:45Any
- 8:45number
- 8:46of
- 8:46things
- 8:46it
- 8:46could
- 8:46be
- 8:46to
- 8:47develop
- 8:47your
- 8:47business
- 8:47savvy,
- 8:48right?
- 8:48Let's
- 8:48say
- 8:48you're
- 8:48making
- 8:48your
- 8:49jewelry
- 8:49and
- 8:49you
- 8:49really
- 8:49want
- 8:49to
- 8:49sell
- 8:50it
- 8:50somewhere
- 8:51online.
- 8:51You
- 8:51want
- 8:52to
- 8:52learn
- 8:52about
- 8:52building
- 8:52a
- 8:52website
- 8:53or
- 8:53about
- 8:54the
- 8:54best
- 8:54way
- 8:54to
- 8:54fulfill
- 8:55these
- 8:55products,
- 8:55the
- 8:55best
- 8:56packaging
- 8:56to
- 8:56use,
- 8:57right?
- 8:57just
- 8:57filling
- 8:57your
- 8:58mind
- 8:58with
- 8:58concepts
- 8:59that
- 8:59are
- 8:59going
- 8:59to
- 8:59be
- 8:59necessary
- 9:00to
- 9:01take
- 9:01you
- 9:01along
- 9:01this
- 9:01path
- 9:02of,
- 9:02of
- 9:02self
- 9:03growth,
- 9:03right?
- 9:04The
- 9:04time
- 9:04for
- 9:04work,
- 9:05obviously
- 9:05back
- 9:06to
- 9:06this
- 9:06example
- 9:06is
- 9:07to
- 9:07create
- 9:07the
- 9:07jewelry,
- 9:07to
- 9:08go
- 9:08create
- 9:08the
- 9:08value.
- 9:09Now,
- 9:09if
- 9:10at
- 9:10the
- 9:10beginning
- 9:10you
- 9:10don't
- 9:11have
- 9:11a
- 9:11lot
- 9:11of
- 9:11skill
- 9:11in
- 9:11this
- 9:12that's
- 9:12okay.
- 9:13It
- 9:13can
- 9:13simply
- 9:13be
- 9:14time
- 9:14to
- 9:14collect.
- 9:14Uh,
- 9:15supplies.
- 9:16It
- 9:16can
- 9:16be
- 9:16time
- 9:17to
- 9:17mess
- 9:17around
- 9:18a
- 9:18little
- 9:18bit.
- 9:18Maybe
- 9:18it's
- 9:19something
- 9:19artistic
- 9:19and
- 9:19you
- 9:20just
- 9:20need
- 9:20some
- 9:20practice
- 9:20sketching,
- 9:21or
- 9:21maybe
- 9:22it's
- 9:22something.
- 9:22Putting
- 9:22some
- 9:23knowledge
- 9:23out
- 9:23into
- 9:23the
- 9:23world
- 9:24and
- 9:24you
- 9:24just
- 9:24need
- 9:24to
- 9:24start
- 9:24doing
- 9:24that
- 9:25for
- 9:25free
- 9:25creating
- 9:26some
- 9:26blog
- 9:26posts
- 9:26or
- 9:27sharing
- 9:28your
- 9:28knowledge
- 9:28with
- 9:28friends
- 9:28and
- 9:28getting
- 9:29feedback.
- 9:29Right?
- 9:29So
- 9:29going
- 9:30to
- 9:30be
- 9:30the
- 9:30actual
- 9:30creation
- 9:31of
- 9:31what
- 9:32you
- 9:32have
- 9:32a
- 9:32value.
- 9:33for
- 9:33me
- 9:33personally,
- 9:34I
- 9:34think
- 9:34the
- 9:34time
- 9:35for
- 9:35quiet
- 9:36is
- 9:36going
- 9:36to
- 9:36be
- 9:37the
- 9:37most
- 9:38revolutionary.
- 9:38So
- 9:39quiet
- 9:40and
- 9:40rest
- 9:41are
- 9:41when
- 9:41our
- 9:42physical
- 9:42bodies.
- 9:43Take
- 9:44what
- 9:44they
- 9:44need
- 9:45to
- 9:45repair
- 9:45and
- 9:46rejuvenate
- 9:46ourselves.
- 9:46Right?
- 9:47Isn't
- 9:47it
- 9:47a
- 9:47miracle
- 9:48that
- 9:48we
- 9:48have
- 9:48to
- 9:48sleep
- 9:48for
- 9:49like
- 9:49eight
- 9:49hours
- 9:50a
- 9:50night.
- 9:51In
- 9:51order
- 9:51to
- 9:51be
- 9:52able
- 9:52to
- 9:52function.
- 9:52Normally
- 9:52I
- 9:53think
- 9:53it's
- 9:53one
- 9:53of
- 9:53the
- 9:54greatest
- 9:54mercies
- 9:55that
- 9:55God
- 9:55has
- 9:55given
- 9:55us
- 9:56is
- 9:56the
- 9:56opportunity
- 9:57to
- 9:57sleep
- 9:57almost
- 9:57as
- 9:58long
- 9:58as
- 9:58we
- 9:58are
- 9:58awake
- 9:59in
- 9:59order
- 9:59to
- 9:59repair
- 10:00our
- 10:00bodies
- 10:01and
- 10:01rest.
- 10:02So
- 10:02our
- 10:02minds
- 10:03need
- 10:03to
- 10:03do
- 10:03this
- 10:04as
- 10:04well.
- 10:04And
- 10:04when
- 10:04our
- 10:04minds
- 10:05rest
- 10:05it's
- 10:05actually,
- 10:06when
- 10:06connections
- 10:06are
- 10:07made,
- 10:07how
- 10:07many
- 10:07times
- 10:07have
- 10:07you
- 10:08laid
- 10:08down?
- 10:09At
- 10:09night
- 10:09and
- 10:10all
- 10:10of
- 10:10a
- 10:10sudden
- 10:10had
- 10:10all
- 10:11these
- 10:11ideas
- 10:11start
- 10:11popping
- 10:12up
- 10:12because
- 10:12your
- 10:12brain,
- 10:12all
- 10:12of
- 10:12a
- 10:13sudden
- 10:13has
- 10:13all
- 10:14of
- 10:14the
- 10:14chaos
- 10:14of
- 10:14the
- 10:14day
- 10:15die
- 10:15down.
- 10:16And
- 10:16those
- 10:16neural
- 10:17pathways
- 10:17can
- 10:17just
- 10:18start
- 10:18zinging
- 10:18off
- 10:19and
- 10:19firing
- 10:19and
- 10:19making
- 10:20all
- 10:20these
- 10:20connections.
- 10:20And
- 10:20so
- 10:20I
- 10:21very
- 10:21often
- 10:21keep
- 10:21a
- 10:21notebook
- 10:22by
- 10:22my
- 10:22bed
- 10:22because
- 10:23it's
- 10:23that
- 10:24rest
- 10:24time
- 10:24when
- 10:24I
- 10:24come
- 10:25up
- 10:25with
- 10:25some
- 10:25really
- 10:25great
- 10:25ideas.
- 10:27But.
- 10:27But
- 10:27besides
- 10:28just
- 10:28the
- 10:28day-to-day
- 10:29rest,
- 10:29I
- 10:29found
- 10:30that
- 10:30I
- 10:30actually
- 10:30have
- 10:30to
- 10:30carve
- 10:31out
- 10:31purposeful
- 10:32rest
- 10:32and
- 10:32quiet
- 10:32time
- 10:33for
- 10:33myself.
- 10:33To
- 10:34do
- 10:34some
- 10:34big
- 10:34picture
- 10:35thinking
- 10:36of
- 10:36this
- 10:36aspect
- 10:36of
- 10:36my
- 10:36life,
- 10:37this
- 10:37putting
- 10:38myself
- 10:38out
- 10:38into
- 10:38the
- 10:38world.
- 10:39I've
- 10:39noticed
- 10:40that
- 10:40I
- 10:40make
- 10:40some
- 10:40amazing.
- 10:42Goals
- 10:42and
- 10:43dream
- 10:43up
- 10:43some
- 10:43brilliant
- 10:44dreams
- 10:44when
- 10:44I
- 10:44am
- 10:45on
- 10:45plane
- 10:46rides.
- 10:46Right.
- 10:47reading
- 10:47a
- 10:47book
- 10:47for
- 10:47a
- 10:47half
- 10:47an
- 10:47hour,
- 10:48an
- 10:48hour,
- 10:48I
- 10:48get
- 10:48a
- 10:48little
- 10:48bit
- 10:48bored
- 10:49and
- 10:49I
- 10:49just
- 10:49start
- 10:50to
- 10:50think,
- 10:50and
- 10:51it
- 10:51has
- 10:51this
- 10:51combination
- 10:52of
- 10:52really
- 10:53great
- 10:53factors.
- 10:53Right?
- 10:53You're
- 10:53stuck
- 10:54in
- 10:54one
- 10:54place.
- 10:54You
- 10:55can't
- 10:55move.
- 10:55It's
- 10:56re
- 10:56relatively
- 10:56quiet
- 10:57with
- 10:57some
- 10:57white
- 10:58noise,
- 10:58right?
- 10:58have
- 10:59time
- 10:59plus
- 10:59no
- 11:00guilt
- 11:00to
- 11:00be
- 11:00doing
- 11:00anything
- 11:01else.
- 11:01Right.
- 11:01When
- 11:01I,
- 11:01when
- 11:01I
- 11:01try
- 11:02to
- 11:02carve
- 11:02out
- 11:02time
- 11:02to
- 11:03be
- 11:03quiet
- 11:03here
- 11:03at
- 11:03home,
- 11:04I
- 11:04just
- 11:04think,
- 11:04oh,
- 11:04I
- 11:04should
- 11:04be
- 11:04putting
- 11:05laundry.
- 11:05In
- 11:06the
- 11:06washer.
- 11:06Oh,
- 11:07I
- 11:07should
- 11:07be
- 11:07cleaning
- 11:08the
- 11:08baseboards,
- 11:08whatever
- 11:09a
- 11:09million
- 11:09things
- 11:09are
- 11:09running
- 11:09through
- 11:09my
- 11:10mind
- 11:10on
- 11:10a
- 11:10plane.
- 11:10None
- 11:11of
- 11:11that
- 11:11is
- 11:11an
- 11:11option.
- 11:12Just
- 11:12sitting
- 11:12there
- 11:12and
- 11:13thinking.
- 11:13So
- 11:14if
- 11:14you
- 11:14can,
- 11:14I
- 11:14mean,
- 11:15you're,
- 11:15you're
- 11:15totally.
- 11:16Invited
- 11:17to
- 11:17hop
- 11:17on
- 11:17a
- 11:18plane
- 11:18every
- 11:18month
- 11:18to
- 11:18get
- 11:19your
- 11:19quiet
- 11:19rest
- 11:20and
- 11:20relaxation,
- 11:20to
- 11:20just
- 11:21allow
- 11:21your
- 11:21brain
- 11:22to
- 11:22process
- 11:23things.
- 11:23But
- 11:23it's
- 11:23probably
- 11:23more
- 11:24likely
- 11:24that
- 11:24you're
- 11:24going
- 11:24to
- 11:24need
- 11:24to
- 11:24carve
- 11:25that
- 11:25out
- 11:25into
- 11:25your
- 11:25regular,
- 11:26your
- 11:26lifestyle.
- 11:27So
- 11:27that
- 11:28could
- 11:28look
- 11:28like
- 11:28going
- 11:29to
- 11:29the
- 11:29library
- 11:29for
- 11:29an
- 11:29afternoon.
- 11:30Maybe
- 11:30you
- 11:30could
- 11:30make
- 11:31a
- 11:31deal
- 11:31with
- 11:31your
- 11:31husband
- 11:31where
- 11:32every
- 11:32third
- 11:32Saturday
- 11:32you
- 11:33go
- 11:33to
- 11:33the
- 11:33library
- 11:34and
- 11:34you
- 11:34just
- 11:34brainstorm.
- 11:35And
- 11:35you
- 11:35come
- 11:36up
- 11:36with
- 11:36goals
- 11:36and
- 11:36dreams
- 11:37and
- 11:37ideas,
- 11:38um,
- 11:38maybe.
- 11:39Your
- 11:39husband
- 11:39takes
- 11:39the
- 11:40kids
- 11:40to
- 11:40the
- 11:40park
- 11:40for
- 11:41an
- 11:41afternoon
- 11:41or
- 11:41out
- 11:41to
- 11:42eat.
- 11:42And
- 11:42you're
- 11:42able
- 11:43to
- 11:43have
- 11:43some
- 11:43quiet
- 11:43time
- 11:43at
- 11:43home.
- 11:44I
- 11:44do
- 11:44recommend
- 11:45though
- 11:45that
- 11:45you
- 11:45go
- 11:45to
- 11:46a
- 11:46place
- 11:46where
- 11:46there's
- 11:46nothing
- 11:47else
- 11:47to
- 11:47do,
- 11:47which
- 11:47is
- 11:47why
- 11:47I
- 11:48recommend
- 11:48the
- 11:48library
- 11:48or
- 11:49maybe
- 11:49a
- 11:49friend's
- 11:49empty
- 11:50house,
- 11:50or
- 11:50even
- 11:51just
- 11:51going
- 11:51to
- 11:51the
- 11:51park
- 11:51yourself.
- 11:52Because
- 11:52if
- 11:52there's
- 11:53anything
- 11:53else
- 11:54that
- 11:54can
- 11:54be
- 11:54done,
- 11:55it's
- 11:55so
- 11:55much
- 11:55easier
- 11:56to
- 11:56go
- 11:56check
- 11:57something
- 11:57off
- 11:57your
- 11:57list
- 11:57than
- 11:58it
- 11:58is
- 11:58to
- 11:58do
- 11:58this
- 11:58big
- 11:59picture
- 11:59thinking.
- 12:00Okay.
- 12:00Super,
- 12:01super
- 12:01important.
- 12:02Okay.
- 12:02So
- 12:02at
- 12:02this
- 12:02point,
- 12:03I
- 12:03want
- 12:03to
- 12:03challenge
- 12:03you.
- 12:03This
- 12:04is
- 12:04this
- 12:04week's
- 12:04challenge.
- 12:04Okay.
- 12:04I
- 12:05don't
- 12:05know
- 12:05if
- 12:05I'm
- 12:05gonna
- 12:05do
- 12:05this
- 12:05every
- 12:05week,
- 12:05but
- 12:06I
- 12:06kind
- 12:06of
- 12:06like
- 12:06giving
- 12:06you
- 12:06a
- 12:06challenge
- 12:07every
- 12:07now
- 12:07and
- 12:07again,
- 12:07and
- 12:08that
- 12:08is
- 12:08to
- 12:08carve
- 12:08some
- 12:09time
- 12:09out
- 12:09in
- 12:09your
- 12:09schedule
- 12:10for
- 12:11this
- 12:12next
- 12:12phase
- 12:12of
- 12:12your
- 12:13life.
- 12:13if
- 12:13you're
- 12:13new
- 12:13to
- 12:13this,
- 12:14like
- 12:14I
- 12:14said
- 12:14before,
- 12:14it
- 12:14might
- 12:15be
- 12:15a
- 12:15little
- 12:15bit
- 12:15of
- 12:15a
- 12:15challenge.
- 12:16A
- 12:16learning
- 12:17curve
- 12:17to
- 12:17be
- 12:18able
- 12:18to
- 12:18carve
- 12:18out
- 12:18time
- 12:18for
- 12:18all
- 12:19three
- 12:19of
- 12:19those
- 12:19things.
- 12:20Every
- 12:20single
- 12:20week
- 12:20that
- 12:21the
- 12:21education.
- 12:22The
- 12:22work
- 12:23and
- 12:23the
- 12:23quiet
- 12:24time
- 12:24where
- 12:24you
- 12:24can
- 12:25reflect
- 12:25and
- 12:26do
- 12:26some
- 12:26big
- 12:26picture
- 12:27thinking.
- 12:27But
- 12:28if
- 12:28the
- 12:28case,
- 12:28just
- 12:28pick
- 12:29one,
- 12:29pick
- 12:29one
- 12:29this
- 12:30week
- 12:30and
- 12:30do
- 12:30a
- 12:31different
- 12:31one
- 12:31next
- 12:31week
- 12:32and
- 12:32then
- 12:32a
- 12:32different
- 12:32one
- 12:32the
- 12:32week
- 12:32after
- 12:33that.
- 12:33And
- 12:33then
- 12:33slowly
- 12:34learn
- 12:34to
- 12:34incorporate
- 12:35all
- 12:35three
- 12:35each
- 12:36week.
- 12:36Okay.
- 12:37It
- 12:37can
- 12:37be
- 12:37really
- 12:37helpful
- 12:37if
- 12:38you
- 12:38schedule
- 12:39these,
- 12:39um,
- 12:39something
- 12:40that's
- 12:40outside
- 12:40of
- 12:41your
- 12:41control,
- 12:41right?
- 12:41Like,
- 12:41Like
- 12:42registering
- 12:42for
- 12:42a
- 12:42class
- 12:43register
- 12:43for
- 12:43a
- 12:43class.
- 12:44You
- 12:44know,
- 12:44you're
- 12:45probably
- 12:45going
- 12:45to
- 12:45show
- 12:45up
- 12:45there
- 12:46at
- 12:465:00
- 12:46PM
- 12:46every
- 12:47Thursday,
- 12:47because
- 12:47it's
- 12:48on
- 12:48your
- 12:48calendar,
- 12:48you've
- 12:48paid
- 12:49money
- 12:49for
- 12:49it,
- 12:49whatever.
- 12:50But
- 12:50even
- 12:50if
- 12:50you
- 12:50can't
- 12:51do
- 12:51that,
- 12:51I
- 12:51put
- 12:52it
- 12:52on
- 12:52your
- 12:52calendar
- 12:52and
- 12:53honor
- 12:53it,
- 12:53honor
- 12:54this
- 12:55new,
- 12:56brilliant
- 12:56creature
- 12:57that
- 12:57you're
- 12:57creating.
- 12:58Of
- 12:58Imagine
- 12:59yourself
- 12:59in
- 12:59a
- 12:59Chrysalis,
- 13:00right?
- 13:00And
- 13:00just
- 13:00becoming
- 13:01this
- 13:01new
- 13:02phase
- 13:02of
- 13:02amazing
- 13:03mother
- 13:03and
- 13:04woman
- 13:04to
- 13:04put
- 13:05your
- 13:05talents
- 13:05and
- 13:05skills
- 13:06out
- 13:06into
- 13:06the
- 13:06world.
- 13:06And
- 13:06it's
- 13:07going
- 13:07to
- 13:07take
- 13:07some
- 13:07time
- 13:07and
- 13:07some
- 13:08growing
- 13:08pains.
- 13:09But
- 13:09honor
- 13:10that
- 13:10and
- 13:10respect
- 13:11that
- 13:11time
- 13:11that
- 13:11you've
- 13:12carved
- 13:12out
- 13:12for
- 13:12yourself.
- 13:13Finally,
- 13:14another
- 13:14thing
- 13:14to
- 13:14watch
- 13:14out
- 13:15for
- 13:15is
- 13:15opportunities
- 13:16for
- 13:16growth.
- 13:17Okay.
- 13:18So
- 13:18as
- 13:18soon
- 13:18as
- 13:18you
- 13:18start
- 13:19putting
- 13:19yourself
- 13:19out
- 13:19there
- 13:19a
- 13:19little
- 13:20bit,
- 13:20you're
- 13:20going
- 13:20to
- 13:21start
- 13:21seeing
- 13:21ways
- 13:22in
- 13:22which
- 13:22you
- 13:22can
- 13:22stretch
- 13:22and
- 13:23grow
- 13:23yourself.
- 13:23This
- 13:24might
- 13:24look
- 13:25like.
- 13:26More
- 13:26opportunities
- 13:26to
- 13:27learn
- 13:27maybe
- 13:28a
- 13:28conference
- 13:29you
- 13:29could
- 13:29go
- 13:29to
- 13:29maybe
- 13:30a
- 13:30mentor
- 13:30or
- 13:30a
- 13:30coach.
- 13:31You
- 13:31could
- 13:31hire
- 13:32maybe
- 13:33a
- 13:33networking
- 13:33event.
- 13:34You
- 13:34could
- 13:34attend,
- 13:35um,
- 13:35number
- 13:35of
- 13:36things.
- 13:36They're
- 13:36going
- 13:36to
- 13:36start
- 13:36popping
- 13:37up
- 13:37on
- 13:37your
- 13:37radar.
- 13:37As
- 13:38soon
- 13:38as
- 13:38you
- 13:38put
- 13:38yourself
- 13:39into
- 13:39this
- 13:39position
- 13:39of
- 13:40growing
- 13:40right.
- 13:41Be
- 13:41aware
- 13:41that
- 13:41they're
- 13:42going
- 13:42to
- 13:42probably
- 13:43feel
- 13:44one,
- 13:44if
- 13:44not
- 13:45all
- 13:45of
- 13:45these
- 13:46three
- 13:46emotions,
- 13:46when
- 13:46you
- 13:46start
- 13:47thinking
- 13:47about
- 13:47these.
- 13:47They're
- 13:48going
- 13:48to
- 13:48feel
- 13:48uncomfortable.
- 13:49And
- 13:49they're
- 13:49going
- 13:50to
- 13:50feel
- 13:50a
- 13:50little
- 13:51bit
- 13:51scary,
- 13:51maybe
- 13:51very
- 13:52scary.
- 13:53And
- 13:53they're
- 13:53going
- 13:53to
- 13:53feel
- 13:53unfamiliar.
- 13:54But
- 13:55this
- 13:55is
- 13:55totally
- 13:56normal.
- 13:57Think
- 13:57about
- 13:57the
- 13:57first
- 13:58time
- 13:58you
- 13:58did
- 13:58anything
- 13:59physically
- 13:59that
- 14:00you
- 14:00had
- 14:00never
- 14:00done.
- 14:00It
- 14:00was
- 14:00a
- 14:00little
- 14:01bit
- 14:01scary.
- 14:01Like
- 14:02have
- 14:02you
- 14:02ever
- 14:02gone
- 14:02downhill
- 14:03skiing
- 14:04or
- 14:04done
- 14:04rollerblading
- 14:05or,
- 14:06uh,
- 14:06ridden
- 14:06motorcycle?
- 14:07You
- 14:07probably
- 14:08fell
- 14:08a
- 14:08combination
- 14:08of
- 14:08those
- 14:09three
- 14:09things,
- 14:09right?
- 14:09Unfamiliar,
- 14:10uncomfortable
- 14:11and
- 14:11scary,
- 14:12but
- 14:12also
- 14:13exhilarating
- 14:13and
- 14:14exciting,
- 14:14right?
- 14:15That
- 14:15is
- 14:15what
- 14:16this
- 14:16new
- 14:16chapter
- 14:16is
- 14:16going
- 14:17to
- 14:17be
- 14:17full
- 14:17of
- 14:18full
- 14:18of
- 14:18some
- 14:18discomfort
- 14:19and
- 14:19some
- 14:19negative
- 14:19emotion.
- 14:20Just
- 14:20acknowledge
- 14:21that
- 14:21this
- 14:21is
- 14:21not
- 14:22a
- 14:22warning
- 14:23sign
- 14:23that
- 14:23you're
- 14:23doing
- 14:23something
- 14:24wrong.
- 14:24It
- 14:24is
- 14:25indeed
- 14:25indicator
- 14:26of
- 14:26growth.
- 14:27Every
- 14:27time
- 14:27we
- 14:28stretch
- 14:28ourselves,
- 14:28we
- 14:29get
- 14:29a
- 14:29little
- 14:29bit
- 14:29uncomfortable,
- 14:30but
- 14:30welcoming
- 14:31in.
- 14:32And
- 14:32you
- 14:32don't
- 14:32have
- 14:32to
- 14:32jump
- 14:33into
- 14:33it
- 14:33with
- 14:33both
- 14:33feet.
- 14:34You
- 14:34can
- 14:34just
- 14:34dabble
- 14:34in
- 14:34a
- 14:35little
- 14:35bit.
- 14:35You
- 14:35can
- 14:35just
- 14:35think,
- 14:35you
- 14:35know
- 14:36what,
- 14:36this
- 14:36month,
- 14:37maybe
- 14:37I'm
- 14:37not
- 14:37ready
- 14:37to
- 14:37go
- 14:38to
- 14:38a
- 14:38networking
- 14:38event
- 14:38with
- 14:39a
- 14:39bunch
- 14:39of
- 14:39other
- 14:39professionals,
- 14:40but
- 14:40maybe
- 14:41I'm
- 14:41open
- 14:41to
- 14:41taking
- 14:42this
- 14:42class
- 14:42in
- 14:42the
- 14:42privacy
- 14:43of
- 14:43my
- 14:43own
- 14:43home
- 14:43in
- 14:43front
- 14:44of
- 14:44my
- 14:44computer.
- 14:44Right.
- 14:45Or
- 14:45maybe
- 14:45I
- 14:45have
- 14:45the
- 14:45courage
- 14:46to
- 14:46hire
- 14:46a
- 14:46coach
- 14:46who
- 14:46can
- 14:47talk
- 14:47me
- 14:47through
- 14:47some
- 14:48of
- 14:48these
- 14:48fears
- 14:48and
- 14:48some
- 14:49of
- 14:49this
- 14:49discomfort,
- 14:50whatever
- 14:50it
- 14:50is.
- 14:51Try
- 14:51something
- 14:52open
- 14:52yourself
- 14:53up
- 14:53to
- 14:53these
- 14:53opportunities
- 14:54for
- 14:54growing.
- 14:54Okay.
- 14:55Lean
- 14:55in.
- 14:56Take
- 14:56that
- 14:57space
- 14:57for
- 14:57yourself.
- 14:58Honor.
- 14:58This
- 14:58new.
- 14:59Chapter
- 15:00for
- 15:00yourself
- 15:01and
- 15:01embrace
- 15:01it.
- 15:01It's
- 15:01going
- 15:02to
- 15:02be
- 15:02so
- 15:03much
- 15:03fun.
- 15:04Also,
- 15:05don't
- 15:05forget
- 15:05to
- 15:05pay
- 15:05attention
- 15:06to
- 15:06the
- 15:06stories
- 15:06you're
- 15:06telling
- 15:06yourself.
- 15:07These
- 15:07will
- 15:08come
- 15:08up.
- 15:08Your
- 15:08survival
- 15:09brain
- 15:09will
- 15:09start
- 15:09saying,
- 15:10stop
- 15:10doing
- 15:10this.
- 15:11It's
- 15:11uncomfortable.
- 15:11It
- 15:12feels
- 15:12bad.
- 15:12Don't
- 15:12you
- 15:13remember?
- 15:13You're
- 15:13not
- 15:13artistic.
- 15:14Don't
- 15:14you
- 15:14remember?
- 15:14You
- 15:15don't
- 15:15know
- 15:15anything
- 15:15about
- 15:15business?
- 15:16Listen
- 15:16to
- 15:16those
- 15:17and
- 15:17then
- 15:18respond
- 15:18to
- 15:18your
- 15:18brain.
- 15:18It's
- 15:19okay.
- 15:19I
- 15:19don't
- 15:19have
- 15:19to
- 15:20be
- 15:20good
- 15:20at
- 15:20anything
- 15:20yet.
- 15:21I'm
- 15:21just
- 15:21trying
- 15:21something
- 15:22new.
- 15:22And
- 15:23then
- 15:23finally
- 15:23just
- 15:23be
- 15:23prepared
- 15:24for
- 15:24this
- 15:24amazing
- 15:25life
- 15:26that
- 15:26God
- 15:26is
- 15:26going
- 15:26to
- 15:26help
- 15:26you
- 15:26create.
- 15:27Okay
- 15:27friends.
- 15:28I
- 15:28will
- 15:28talk
- 15:28to
- 15:28you
- 15:28next
- 15:28week.
- 15:29Take
- 15:29care.