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Colorado Man Booked for Killing and Burying Filipina Wife · Murder Files Unsealed

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Speaker 1: I want you to imagine something for a second, picture
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someone you talk to every single day, right, maybe a friend,
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maybe a family member, right, and then suddenly they just vanish.
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Speaker 2: He's completely gone, exactly.
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Speaker 1: I mean they leave behind this chilling silence, a disconnected phone,
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and just a whole community of people absolutely desperate for answers.
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Speaker 2: It's a terrifying thought, it really is.
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Speaker 1: And you know, in the United States, proving a murder
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happen when you are facing that kind of sudden void
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when there is literally no physical body. While it used
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to be considered basically legally impossible.
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Speaker 2: Oh absolutely. I mean for the longest time in our
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justice system, the body literally was the crime scene, right.
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Speaker 1: It was the alpha and the omega of the whole investigation.
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No body, well, you had no cause of death, no
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physical evidence, and ultimately you're just not getting a conviction.
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Speaker 2: But that is exactly what has changed so drastically. Yeah, today,
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the digital ghosts we leave behind are our Wi Fi
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ping's uncompleted nine to one one calls, GPS, location and histories.
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They have fundamentally rewritten all the rules.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, they really have, and that digital map is exactly
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what we are going to be navigating in today's deep dive.
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Speaker 2: It's a massive paradigm shift when someone vanishes without a
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trace today. You know, the physical world might refuse to
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give you an explanation, but the digital ecosystem, it rarely
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stays quiet.
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Speaker 1: So true, and we have an incredibly complex stack of
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source material in front of us today to prove exactly
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that we really do. We are looking at court records,
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police affidavits, extensive trial transcripts, and a lot of contemporary
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investigative reporting.
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Speaker 2: It's a lot to unpack.
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Speaker 1: It is. Our mission today is to pull all of
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this together to reconstruct the tragic, labyrinthine and truly landmark
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case of Gepsyamaga and Dane Klunji.
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Speaker 2: It really is a landmark case.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, we want to explore how a frantic missing person
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investigation in Colorado agonizingly evolved into this very rare legal phenomenon,
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a nobody homicide.
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Speaker 2: Conviction, which is just so incredibly hard to achieve.
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Speaker 1: Right looking at the intersection of modern digital forensics, the
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dark psychology of domestic abuse, and really importantly the systemic
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vulnerabilities faced by immigrant women.
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Speaker 2: And as we synthesize all this heavy material, you know
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it is crucial to remember that this deep dive isn't
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merely about constructing the timeline of a tragedy. We are
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looking closely at the why and the how.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm so thrilled you are here to serve as
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our analytical guide for this because the mechanics of this
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case are incredibly dense.
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Speaker 2: Well, thank you. You know. How does the justice system
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adapt when a perpetrator thinks they have committed the perfect
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untraceable crime. Why are certain populations specifically targeted for this
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kind of isolation? This case is just a profound lens
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for examining the mechanics of course of control.
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Speaker 1: Let's start by crossing oceans, because we really need to
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look at the anatomy of what has to be one
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of the highest stakes moves a human being can make.
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Speaker 2: The move from the Philippines exactly.
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Speaker 1: We need to begin with Jepsi AMaGA. She was born
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on November twenty five, nineteen ninety two, in the Philippines.
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Speaker 2: And the reporting gives us a very specific physical picture
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of her, which is actually essential context for understanding the
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power dynamics we're going to be discussing later.
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Speaker 1: Right, she was very petite. She stood about four feet
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eleven inches tall. Weighed roughly one hundred and ten pounds,
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and she had this distinctive brown mole on her upper lip.
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Speaker 2: Grounding her physical reality is so important here when you
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are looking at cases of extreme domestic violence, the physical
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disparity between the victim and the perpetrator is often this
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core component of the abuser's intimidation tactics.
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Speaker 1: Oh absolutely, it just.
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Speaker 2: Establishes an immediate, unspoken baseline of physical dominance.
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Speaker 1: Yeah. And like many young Filipino women, you know, seeking
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better economic opportunities, or maybe just looking for a relationship
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that spans beyond her local geography, Jepsy turned to the.
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Speaker 2: Internet, a very common path right.
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Speaker 1: She connected with a man named Dane Kalunji through an
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online debting site. Dane was living in Colorado Springs.
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Speaker 2: So they communicated online for a while, building this digital
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relationship across.
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Speaker 1: Continents until she made the monumental decision to just travel
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to the United States. In July of twenty seventeen, she
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moved her entire life to Colorado Springs to marry him.
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Speaker 2: Which is a transition that requires us to pause and
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deeply analyze the sociological concept of vulnerability here. Oh definitely,
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I mean she is leaving behind her culture, her immediate
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physical support system, her familiar geography. She is stepping into
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a completely new world where her primary tether to reality,
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her sponsor is a man she met on a screen.
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Speaker 1: It's terrifying when you think about it like that.
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Speaker 2: It is when you look at the mechanics of international
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spousal visas. The foreign partner is structurally dependent on the
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American citizen, their legal status, their housing, their ability to work.
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It is all initially funneled through that one relationship.
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Speaker 1: And the material we have paints a very very grim
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picture of what happened after that tether was secured in Colorado.
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Friends later described their marriage as explicitly toxic.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, there're word. It comes up a lot in the sources.
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Speaker 1: It does. And the marriage lasted less than two years.
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Court records show that their divorce was officially finalized in
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January of twenty nineteen. But, and this is where the
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timeline completely scrambles my brain. Even after going through that
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whole arduous legal process of getting a divorce in January,
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they bafflingly moved back in together in early March of
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twenty nineteen.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, back to an apartment on Eastlea South.
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Speaker 1: Street exactly all the while her real lifeline, her true tether,
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was her mother, Margie and Maga, who lived in Hong.
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Speaker 2: Kong, and she maintained constant daily contact with her through Facebook.
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Speaker 1: Messenger, Yes, every single day.
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Speaker 2: What's fascinating here is the sheer density of the psychological
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manipulation at play. You have a woman dealing with intense
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geographic and cultural isolation. When we talk about course of control,
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we are talking about a strategy that some abusers use
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to completely dominate their victims. It is not just about
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physical viole. It's about the microscopic regulation of everyday behavior,
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isolation from family, and stripping away a person's independence.
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Speaker 1: Okay, let's unpack this because I have to push back
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on the living situation for a second. You're good. I
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understand the statistics of abuse and coercive control. I really do.
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But practically speaking, she was divorced, who was the paperwork
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was signed, the legal marriage was severed in January. What
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is the psychological lever he is pulling to get her
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to move back into an apartment with him just two
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months later. It's a great question because to a lot
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of people listening, going back to the source of the
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toxicity defies all logical sense. I mean, uprooting your life
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for an online connection across the globe is like jumping
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out of a plane and hoping the person on the
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ground actually packed your parachute. That's a really good analogy, right,
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But then to realize the parachute is faulty, to actually
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manage to cut the cords and get away, why put
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the faulty parachute back on?
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Speaker 2: Well, it defines logic if you're operating from a baseline
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of safety, financial stability, and local community support. But you
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have to look at something called the sunk cost fallacy
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combined with trauma bonding.
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Speaker 1: Okay, break that down for me.
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Speaker 2: When your entire world has been curated by one person
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in a foreign country, the terrifying familiarity of the abuser
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can sometimes feel more manageable than the vast, unsupported unknown
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of trying to survive completely alone, like the devil you
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know exactly. I mean, where does she rent an apartment
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without a long US credit history? How does she navigate
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this social landscape alone?
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Speaker 1: That makes a lot of sense.
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Speaker 2: And abusers often use a period of separation to feign remorse,
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you know, making sweeping promises a change, or they leverage
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the victim's financial instability to just draw them right back
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in the cycle of leaving and returning. Isn't a sign
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of weakness, it is a documented, almost neurological pattern intostic abuse.
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Speaker 1: Wow, So it creates this massive pressure cooker. You have
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this volatile mix of deep geographic isolation, a cyclical trauma bond,
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and a situation where her primary support system is halfway
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across the world, only accessible through a Facebook chat window.
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Speaker 2: It's incredibly precarious, and that.
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Speaker 1: Pressure cooker inevitably reached a catastrophic boiling point.
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Speaker 2: Yes on the night of March twenty, twenty nineteen.
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Speaker 1: Let's examine the mechanics of that night, because this is
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where the void opens up. Based on the arrest affidavit's
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filed by the Colorado Springs Police, the catalyst for the
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events of March twenty centered on a deeply explosive combination
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of jealousy and rage. Right, Jepsy had been seeing a
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soldier stationed at nearby Fort Carson, and they had an
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ongoing sexual relationship. So when Jepsy return home on the
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evening of March twenty, a massive argument erupted between her.
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Speaker 2: And Dane, And we have to remember the blurred boundaries here.
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I mean they are legally divorced but living together.
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Speaker 1: Right, which is just a recipe for disaster.
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Speaker 2: Absolutely, this sense of possession and control that Dane felt
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over her was being directly threatened by her autonomy and
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her relationship with someone else. Abusers view their partners not
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as independent equals, but as extensions of themselves. Wow. Yeah,
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So when that extension shows agency, the abuser's response is
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often a violent reassertion of control, and.
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Speaker 1: That reassertion escalated into a lethal physical act.
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Speaker 2: He strangled her, yes he did.
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Speaker 1: Now, before we get into the chilling aftermath of that act,
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there is a piece of digital forensics that we have
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to focus on.
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Speaker 2: The nine one one call.
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Speaker 1: Exactly according to the cell phone data presented later in court,
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a nine one one call was placed from Gepsy's phone
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around ten thirty pm that night, right, but it was
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immediately hung up. The connection was terminated before a dispatcher
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could even speak to anyone, and that aborted call was
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the absolute last documented activity from her device.
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Speaker 2: That hung up nine one one call is just a
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devastating piece of evidence, it really is. It is a
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micro moment where survival was almost reached. It shifts the
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entire narrative from a sudden, unforeseen accident to a conscious,
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desperate struggle for survival.
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Speaker 1: Because it shows she knew she was in trouble exactly.
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Speaker 2: It tells law enforcement that Gepsy recognized the lethal data
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she was in, She attempted to initiate a rescue protocol,
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and she was physically overpowered before the connection could be completed.
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Speaker 1: The way Dane Coolinji later described that physical overpowering is deeply,
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deeply disturbing.
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Speaker 2: It's chilling.
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Speaker 1: We have direct quotes from his recorded confessions, and the
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language he uses is horrifying. He claimed he grabbed her
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during the argument, initially intending only to silence her, right,
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He said, quote, I was just trying to like literally
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stop the words from coming out of her mouth for
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a second. And then I realized that I did that
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for more than a second.
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: He went on to say, it looked like I did
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some damage, and I freaked out, and it looked like
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she was suffering. He described placing her on the floor,
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watching her take residual breaths, and then simply stated that
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he quote just regretted.
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Speaker 2: That if you analyze the psychology of that language. You
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see a masterclass in minimization totally. Even when confessing to
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a brutal murder, perpetrators consistently reframe their actions to minimize
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their own culpability.
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Speaker 1: Because they can't face what they actually did exactly.
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Speaker 2: Saying literally, stop the words from coming out of her
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mouth is the ultimate expression of coercive control. He isn't
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just stopping her from breathing. He is stopping her from
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speaking her truth, from arguing back, from existing as an independent.
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Speaker 1: Voice, and phrasing a murder as it looked like I
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did some damage. I mean that sounds like someone talking
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about backing into a mailbox with a pickup truck, not
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ending a human life.
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Speaker 2: Right. It is a terrifying cognitive dissonance. He uses clinical, detached,
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almost passive language to describe what is actually one of
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the most brutal, intimate, and prolonged acts of physical violence imaginable. Yeah,
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we really need to be clear about the biological reality
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of strangulation. It is not instantaneous.
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Speaker 1: It takes time.
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Speaker 2: It requires sustained, focused physical effort to overcome the victim's
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survival instincts, to compress the arteries and deprive the brain
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of oxygen right. By framing it as an accident of duration,
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saying I did that from more than a second, he
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is attempting to psychologically distance himself from the deliberate, sustained
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reality of what his hands were actually doing, and.
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Speaker 1: The reality of what he did next requires a level
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of compartmentalization that just makes my blood run coal.
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Speaker 2: It's hard to even comprehend.
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Speaker 1: After realizing she was dead, he didn't call the police.
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He placed Jepsy's body in the trunk of his car. Yeah,
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and the next morning he engaged in a routine that
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is almost impossible to fathom. He woke up, he took
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us on to school, He drove to his job, he
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worked a full shift, and then, only after clocking out,
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he drove his car with his murdered ex wife in
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the trunk into the remote mountains of Teller County near Florissant,
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drove down some back roads, dug a clandestine grave, and
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buried her.
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Speaker 2: The psychology of the morning after routine is heavily studied
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in criminology. Actually proceeding with a normal routine is a
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classic method of deflecting suspicion.
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Speaker 1: But it is deeply unsettling to imagine a man with
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a body in his trunk sitting in a school drop offline.
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It really is clocking in for a normal shift, buying
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a coffee, chatting with a cohor about the weather, all
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while holding onto this monstrous reality. It really highlights the
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banality of evil.
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Speaker 2: It highlights a highly calculated focus on self preservation. I mean,
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in the immediate aftermath of a deeply violent event, his
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priority seamlessly shifted to logistics and.
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Speaker 1: Alibi building, just survival mode for himself.
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Speaker 2: Right if he had fled immediately or failed to show
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up for work, it would have instantly raised red flags.
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By performing normalcy, he bought himself crucial time to figure
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out his disposal strategy.
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Speaker 1: He bought himself a lot of time. That chillingly ordinary
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mourning routine was a mask. But when a person simply
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vanishes from the earth and the perpetrator performs perfectly normally
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the next day, how does the justice system even begin
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to prove a murder took place?
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Speaker 2: It's incredibly difficult.
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Speaker 1: This brings us to the grueling investigation phase, the echo
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chamber of Jepsy's absence.
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Speaker 2: This is where the legal concept of corpus delikti the
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body of the crime becomes the central obstacle.
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Speaker 1: Right, So the missing person phase officially began when Gepsy's
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friends and family realized they just couldn't reach her. Her mother, Margie,
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hadn't heard from her since March twenty, which obviously broke
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their pattern of daily contact.
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Speaker 2: Which is a huge red flag.
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Speaker 1: Oh absolutely so, on April four, twenty nineteen, the Colorado
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Springs Police departments Homicide and Assault Unit formally opened an investigation.
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Speaker 2: And when detectives inevitably interviewed Dane, he had a very
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convenient alibi ready to go.
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Speaker 1: He claimed that after their fight on the night of
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March twenty, Gepsy simply walked out of the apartment between
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eleven PM and midnight. He suggested she went to visit
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friends in Chicago or maybe even traveled back to the Philippines.
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And crucially, he told police she left without her idea
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and without her cell phone, which is.
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Speaker 2: An immediate, glaring contradiction for any.
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Speaker 1: Investigator, right because who does that?
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Speaker 2: In the modern era, people do not embark on international
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or cross country travel without their phone or their identification.
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That single detail tells law enforcement that the narrative being
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presented is fundamentally flawed totally. However, knowing a suspect is
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lying and actually proving to a jury that a murder
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occurred are two vastly different legal burdens.
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Speaker 1: Especially because shortly after giving the statement, Dane relocated.
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Speaker 2: He ran.
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Speaker 1: He moved away from Colorado Springs, first going to San
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Diego and later to New Mexico. He put physical distance
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between himself and the jurisdiction of the investigation.
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Speaker 2: But while he was running, the community was stepping up
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in a massive way.
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Speaker 1: Yes, Jepsey's mother was incredibly vocal. She pleaded publicly for answers,
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telling reporters, I just want to know if she's still
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alive or dead.
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Speaker 2: Heartbreaking, She sought a.
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Speaker 1: Visa to travel to the United States to search for
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her daughter, and the Filipino American community in Colorado Springs
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rallied behind her. They organized search parties, they kept the
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story in the local news. Philippine diplomatic representatives even got
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involved to apply pressure.
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Speaker 2: The power of that community mobilization cannot be of stated.
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Speaker 1: No, it can't.
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Speaker 2: In cases involving marginalized individuals or immigrants whose immediate families
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are thousands of miles away, there is a very real
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systemic risk that the victim can become just another cold case.
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Statistics just lost in the system exactly. Bureaucracies have limited
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resources in cases without physical crime scenes easily fall to
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the bottom of the pile, but the relentless pressure from
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the Filipino American community force the system to keep Jepsy's
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name on the whiteboard.
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Speaker 1: Put yourself in the shoes of the detectives working this
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case for a second. You have all the circumstantial evidence
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pointing directly at one person. You know his alibi defies logic. Yeah,
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you have suspicious cell phone records showing that hung up
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nine to one call. You have witness statements confirming a
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toxic history. But without a physical crime scene, your hands
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are completely tied.
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Speaker 2: It's incredibly frustrating for law enforcement.
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Speaker 1: I like to think of circumstantial evidence in a nobody
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case using a specific analogy. A case with a physical
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body is like a heavy eye chain. If one link breaks,
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the whole case might fall apart, but it's generally very solid.
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But a circumstantial nobody case is like a wire cable.
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It's made of hundreds of tiny weak threads, a cell
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ping here, a lie to a coworker there a hung
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up call.
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Speaker 2: Individually, they don't hold up exactly.
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Speaker 1: Individually, those threads snap easily under cross examination, but woven
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together they have to be strong enough to hold a
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life sentence, and at this point in twenty nineteen, the
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detectives just didn't have enough threads woven together to make
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an arrest.
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Speaker 2: That is a perfect way to visualize it. Right, Without
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a body, you have to prove two incredibly difficult things
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simultaneously beyond a reasonable doubt, which are first that the
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victim is actually dead and not just voluntarily missing and
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living off the grid. Second, that the defendant is the
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one who caused that death. When the defense's position is
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simply she walked out the door, the lack of a
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body seems to actually support their claim.
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Speaker 1: And because of that immense legal burden, the case stalled
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for two in full years. Gepsy's family lived in absolute limbo.
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It would take a shocking psychological unraveling to finally break
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the case wide open.
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Speaker 2: This is where the internal psychological pressure of the perpetrator
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becomes the primary engine of the investigation.
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Speaker 1: The tipping point arrived in March of twenty twenty one,
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and how it happened is almost hard to believe. Dane
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Colingia reached out to his first wife, a woman named
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Elaine Klingji right. He told her he was going to
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be in Colorado Springs, and he asked if she wanted
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to meet up for lunch. And during that lunch meeting,
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out of nowhere, Dane inexplicably confessed to Elaine that he
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had killed Gepsy.
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Speaker 2: This raises an important question, probably one of the most
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fascinating psychological questions of this entire case. Why on Earth
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do killers confess to ex partners.
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Speaker 1: Here's where it gets really interesting, because that is exactly
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what I want to know. Why would you confess a
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murder to your ex wife? Did he think share trauma
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equated to loyalty? Did he think she was somehow bound
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by some twisted code of silence?
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Speaker 2: It reveals a toxic cocktail of arrogance, narcissism, and a
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fundamental misunderstanding of the people he's abused. Oh totally. Perpetrators
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who have exerted coercive control over a partner in the
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past often maintain an arrogant delusion that their control.
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Speaker 1: Is permanent, like they still own them.
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Speaker 2: Yes, they believe that the psychological hold they once had
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over an ex spouse will ensure their ongoing silence and
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complicity forever. That is wild. Furthermore, the sheer weight of
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carrying a secret like a murder for two years is
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psychologically corrosive. He needed to unburden himself, and he chose
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an audience he likely viewed as safe and subservient, severely
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underestimating her moral compass.
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Speaker 1: Well. His arrogance was his downfall. Because Eline did not
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stay quiet. She went straight to the Colorado Springs Police
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Department and reported the confession.
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Speaker 2: A god she did right.
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Speaker 1: Detectives immediately saw their window. They arranged for Elane to
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participate in a wiretapped phone call with Dane on April third,
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twenty twenty one. Now Colorado a one party consent state
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for recording conversations, meaning as long as Elane consented, the
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recording was perfectly legal. And during this call, Dane didn't
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just confirm the murder. He gave them the horrifying mechanics.
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He walked her through the strangulation. He detailed the morning
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routine with his son. He told her about driving the
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Teller County and digging a whole quote as deep as
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I could.
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Speaker 2: A wiretap like this is the holy grail for a
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cold case investigator, I bet, because he isn't just offering
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a blanket I did it. He is providing specific proprietary
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details that only the killer would know, the depth of
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the whole, the geographic location, the timeline.
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Speaker 1: But the most revealing part of that wire tap isn't
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the logistics, is it. It is the psychological haunt he
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reveals to her.
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Speaker 2: No, it's not the logistics at all.
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Speaker 1: It's the quote about her eyes on the tape. He says, Yeah,
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that's the part I think about still looking at her eyes.
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Speaker 2: You know that statement is devastating for a defense team
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because it shows intent, because it confirms the intimate, upclose
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nature of the violence. Strangulation is arguably the most personal,
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proximate way to kill someone. His admission that he has
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still haunted by looking into her eyes proves the intense,
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sustained visual and physical focus he maintained during the act.
21:15
It absolutely destroys any narrative that this was a blind,
21:18
chaotic accident where he didn't know what he was doing.
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Speaker 1: And while speaking with police, Elaine revealed something else that
21:24
completely recontextualized Dane's behavioral profile.
21:27
Speaker 2: Yeah, this was huge.
21:28
Speaker 1: She disclosed that Dane had previously strangled her on multiple
21:31
occasions during their marriage. Other witnesses, including a relative of Jepsies,
21:36
later corroborated this pattern of behavior.
21:38
Speaker 2: Which is a monumental detail from a sociological and investigative
21:42
standpoint so well. In the empirical study of domestic violence,
21:46
non fatal strangulation is recognized as one of the most
21:48
significant statistical predictors of future homicide. Wow, if a partner
21:53
strangles you, your risk of being murdered by that partner
21:56
in the future increases exponentially. It is an act that
21:59
community Kate's ultimate terrifying power.
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Speaker 1: It's a huge red flag.
22:03
Speaker 2: The fact that he had a documented history of this
22:06
specific mechanism of violence demonstrates a clear, entrenched methodology of
22:11
abusive control.
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Speaker 1: So armed with this recorded confession, the documented history of abuse,
22:17
and the compiled digital and circumstantial evidence from the past
22:20
two years, the police finally had their wire cable worven
22:24
tightly enough.
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Speaker 2: Yes, they did.
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Speaker 1: On June sixteenth, twenty twenty one, authorities arrested Dane Colomji,
22:31
who was in his late thirties at the time. As
22:33
he was attempting to enter Kirtland Air Force Base in Albuquerque,
22:36
New Mexico. After his arrest, he was brought into an
22:39
interrogation room by Detective Mike Lee, and the mechanics of
22:43
this interrogation are fascinating. Initially, Dane was somewhat cooperative.
22:47
Speaker 2: He even tried to help investigators narrow down the search
22:50
area and tell her county right.
22:51
Speaker 1: They did, But the moment Detective Lee slid the cell
22:53
phone location data across the table objective digital evidence, placing
22:57
him at specific locations, Dane invoked his Fifth Amendment rights
23:01
and the interview was.
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Speaker 2: Over, which tells you everything about his interrogation strategy. He
23:04
was engaging in a cat and mouse.
23:06
Speaker 1: Game, trying to play the good guy.
23:07
Speaker 2: Exactly by offering to help find the body, he was
23:11
likely trying to manage the narrative, perhaps attempting to paint
23:15
himself as a remorseful, cooperative guy who just made a
23:19
tragic mistake. It's a way to maintain control of the
23:22
flow of information.
23:24
Speaker 1: But the data ruined that right the.
23:26
Speaker 2: Moment objective digital evidence was introduced, data that he could
23:30
not manipulate or charm his way out of he realized
23:33
his narrative control was broken and he shut down.
23:35
Speaker 1: So securing a detailed recorded confession feels like a definitive victory,
23:40
But getting an abuser to admit guilt on tape in
23:43
a casual conversation with an ex wife is one thing.
23:46
Actually convincing twelve skeptical jurors to put him away for
23:49
life without a physical body to prove a murder even
23:51
took place, is a completely different battlefield. That really is
23:54
that brings us to the courtroom crucible where the battle
23:56
lines were drawn between deliberate intent and impulsive reaction.
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Speaker 2: The trial is where the theoretical legal hurdles of a
24:04
nobody case become very real, very tangible obstacles that prosecutors
24:08
have to overcome.
24:09
Speaker 1: The trial took place in February of twenty twenty three.
24:13
The prosecution laid out there a massive, circumstantial cable. They
24:16
played the wiretapped phone call, They showed the interrogation video.
24:20
They put a lane on the stand, They brought everything,
24:23
They mapped out the digital forensics, the hung up nine
24:26
to one one call, and his bizarre behavior. The next day,
24:30
the charges were severe first degree murder and tampering with
24:34
a deceased human body.
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Speaker 2: We need to explain the specific legal threshold here because
24:38
it's so important.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, please do.
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Speaker 2: In Colorado, first degree murder requires men's reality, a state
24:43
of mind, specifically deliberation and intent. The distinction between first
24:49
degree and second degree murder is the crux of the
24:52
entire legal battle in this courtroom.
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Speaker 1: Because the prosecution is arguing that this was not a
24:56
spontaneous crime of passion exactly.
24:58
Speaker 2: They are arguing that he thought about it, He intended
25:01
to cause death, and he executed that intention.
25:03
Speaker 1: And the defense pushed back aggressively on that exact point.
25:07
The defense attorneys argued two main theories. First, they floated
25:11
the idea that the confession was either coerced or entirely false,
25:15
suggesting Dane had told family members he might confess to
25:18
something he didn't do just to quote protect.
25:20
Speaker 2: Others, which is a bold strategy, right.
25:23
Speaker 1: But their alternative argument, their fallback position, was that even
25:27
if the jury believed he committed the act, the violence
25:30
described in the confession was an impulsive, split second reaction
25:34
during a heated argument, not a premeditated, deliberate killing. They
25:38
were pushing for a lesser charge of second degree murder, and.
25:41
Speaker 2: Dane himself did not take the stand correct, No, he
25:44
did not. We have to look at the mechanics of
25:46
this defense strategy, impartially because questioning the reliability of confessions
25:51
is a standard and valid legal maneuver. Oh absolutely, false
25:54
confessions do happen in our justice system, often under intense
25:57
psychological pressure. However, the prosecution countered this defense by focusing
26:03
precisely on the physiological realities of the act described. How
26:07
do you prove deliberation without a body? You use the
26:10
biology of strangulation, As we discussed. Strangling someone to death
26:14
takes minutes, right, It's not quick. The brain is slowly
26:17
deprived of oxygen, the victim fights back, the body goes
26:20
through distress. From a legal standpoint, prosecutors effectively argue that
26:26
during those agonizing minutes, the perpetrator has ample time to
26:30
reflect on their actions, to realize the lethal consequences, and
26:33
to make the conscious choice to stop.
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Speaker 1: And he didn't stop.
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Speaker 2: The failure stop, the sustained physical effort required to overcome
26:41
a human being's survival instincts legally defeats the defense's argument
26:45
of a split second impulsive act. The time it takes
26:48
to strangle someone is the time it takes to deliberate.
26:51
Speaker 1: That is such a crucial distinction. It's hard to imagine
26:54
a defense attorney trying to unring the bell of that
26:56
wire tap, trying to confuse a jury that a detail
27:00
recorded confession where the suspect explicitly talks about looking into
27:04
the victim's eyes while she suffers is somehow false or
27:07
just an impulsive oops. I mean, it's like trying to
27:09
convince someone hurricane was just a gentle breeze is an
27:11
almost impossible task, especially when that confession includes logistical details
27:17
about driving to a remote mountain to hide a body.
27:19
Speaker 2: And the jury ultimately agreed with the prosecution's interpretation.
27:23
Speaker 1: Of the facts they did. After roughly seven hours of
27:26
deliberation over a long weekend, the jury returned a guilty
27:30
verdict on both counts, first degree murder and tampering with
27:34
a deceased human body.
27:35
Speaker 2: Wow.
27:36
Speaker 1: Because it was a first degree murder condiction, Colorado law
27:40
mandates a very specific, inescapable punishment life in prison without
27:45
the possibility of parole, plus a concurrent ten year term
27:48
for the tampering charge.
27:50
Speaker 2: The speed of that verdict is telling. Honestly, seven hours
27:53
for a complex Nobody murder trial indicates that the jury
27:57
found the combination of the digital evidence, the timeline, and
28:00
the recorded confession to be overwhelmingly persuasive. The circumstantial cable
28:04
held strong.
28:05
Speaker 1: The sentencing hearing was incredibly emotional. Judge Jessica Kurtis addressed
28:09
the court instead of Jepsy, quote, she had value and
28:12
she had worth, and this was entirely senseless. A written
28:14
statement from Jepsy's mother, Margie, was also read aloud in
28:18
the courtroom. She wrote, I can't forgive this. I hope
28:21
you realize what you did to my family, what you
28:24
did to Jepsy. Are you happy now? Losing her is
28:27
like cutting my right hand.
28:29
Speaker 2: Margie's statement perfectly encapsulates the raw, unending agony of the survivors.
28:34
The court can dispense legal justice, it can hand down
28:37
a life's sentence, but it cannot repair the fundamental amputation
28:41
that the family has suffered.
28:42
Speaker 1: While the gavel came down heavily on Dane Kalunji in
28:45
that courtroom, Gepsy's story points to a much larger systemic
28:48
crisis occurring far outside those walls. This isn't just an
28:52
isolated tragedy. It is part of a broader tapestry of
28:55
vulnerability that affects thousands of immigrant women. It really is,
28:59
and we have to examine the architecture of that isolation.
29:02
Speaker 2: If we connect this to the bigger picture, we see
29:04
a deeply distressing sociological pattern. It is a pattern of
29:09
abuse that exploits the very bureaucratic and legal systems designed
29:12
to bring people together.
29:14
Speaker 1: The contemporary reporting highlights insights from Philippine Honorary Consul Donald Levine,
29:19
who is based in Colorado. She noted that her office
29:22
regularly receives calls from young Filipino women reporting domestic violence,
29:27
and a significant demographic pattern emerges. Many of them are
29:30
married to older American men they met online. The factors
29:34
that create this extreme vulnerability in international matchmaking are very specific.
29:39
It's a combination of language barriers, precarious immigration status, deep
29:44
geographic isolation from their natural family support networks, and cultural
29:48
expectations regarding marriage, duty and shame.
29:51
Speaker 2: Abusers are incredibly adept at weaponizing bureaucracy. What do you mean, Well,
29:56
when you enter a foreign country on espousal visa, your
29:59
legal status is intimately tied to your partner. If you
30:02
don't speak the language fluently. Your spouse becomes your translator
30:06
and your gatekeeper to the outside world. Right if you
30:09
don't have independent access to a bank account or a
30:11
local social network. Leaving an abusive situation doesn't just mean
30:15
ending a relationship. It means risking deportation, homelessness, and total destitution.
30:21
Speaker 1: It's just total reliance exactly.
30:24
Speaker 2: The abuser controls the victim's entire reality, and when that
30:28
control is absolute, the danger of lethal violence skyrockets if
30:32
the victim attempts to assert any autonomy.
30:35
Speaker 1: And Jepsy's case is tragically not unique in that region.
30:38
The reporting mentions a chillingly parallel case in Colorado involving
30:42
a woman named Russell Russelstino.
30:44
Speaker 2: Yeah, that case was very similar.
30:45
Speaker 1: She was a twenty seven year old Filipina whose husband,
30:48
Joseph Garza, was tried for her murder in Fort Lupton. Now,
30:52
that specific trial ended in a deadlock jury and a mistrial,
30:56
but the recurring theme is undeniable.
30:58
Speaker 2: It's a clear pattern.
30:59
Speaker 1: It has prompted urgent calls for greater outreach from both
31:02
Philippine diplomatic posts and local domestic violence service providers to
31:06
create accessible safety nets.
31:08
Speaker 2: It is a critical reminder that while international matchmaking can
31:11
certainly result in healthy, loving relationships, the inherent power imbalances
31:16
in the process require robust, easily accessible support systems that
31:21
don't rely on the American spouse for access.
31:23
Speaker 1: So what does this all mean for you listening to
31:26
this right now? How do we apply this knowledge?
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Speaker 2: Good question.
31:29
Speaker 1: It means we need to be vigilant about the architecture
31:31
of isolation in our own communities. This case is a
31:34
tragic study and how quickly a domestic dispute fueled by
31:38
control and isolation can escalate into irreversible violence. We all
31:43
have a responsibility to recognize.
31:45
Speaker 2: These signs absolutely.
31:46
Speaker 1: Do you know someone who seems entirely cut off from
31:49
their family, someone whose partner dictates their movements, controls their finances,
31:54
or monitors their communication. If you or someone you know
31:57
as experiencing abuse, please do not remain silent out of
32:00
fear or a belief that you are trapped by your
32:02
immigration status.
32:03
Speaker 2: There is help out there.
32:04
Speaker 1: There are resources available that specialize in these exact complexities.
32:09
The National Domestic Violence Hotline is available two forty seven
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at one eight hundred seven nine nine seven two three three.
32:15
There are emergency programs that can help navigate the intersection
32:18
of domestic violence and immigration safety.
32:20
Speaker 2: It is paramount that actionable information reaches the people who
32:23
need it. The architecture of isolation can be dismantled, but
32:27
it requires both the courage of the victim to reach
32:29
out and the readiness of the community to recognize the
32:32
signs and respond effectively.
32:34
Speaker 1: Community advocates are fighting every day for systemic change to
32:37
protect vulnerable immigrants, and in Jepsy's case, the legal system
32:42
ultimately provided accountability, but for her family, a massive, agonizing
32:47
piece of the puzzle remains missing in the dirt of
32:49
Teller County. It does we have to talk about the
32:52
unending search and the legal legacy this case leaves behind because.
32:55
Speaker 2: The conclusion of the trial is absolutely not the conclusion
32:59
of the story.
32:59
Speaker 1: No, it's not. Even As recently as twenty twenty five,
33:02
the Colorado Springs Police and the FBI have conducted renewed
33:06
ground searches in the remote Teller County Mountains based on
33:09
what they call credible leads.
33:11
Speaker 2: Wow.
33:12
Speaker 1: And when you think about the mechanics of searching for
33:14
remains in the rocky mountains using cadaver dogs, ground penetrating
33:18
radar navigating brutal topology based on a killer's vague recollection
33:22
from years ago. It is a monumental task. It's like
33:25
looking Vernila in a haystack, literally, But the recovery of
33:28
Jepsy's remains is still an open, active investigative priority. The
33:33
authorities haven't given up, and her family certainly hasn't given up.
33:36
Speaker 2: From a historical and investigative standpoint, this case leaves several
33:40
critical lessons let's hear them. First, it demonstrates the absolute
33:44
dog persistence of cold case investigators. They kept this case
33:48
alive and utilized digital forensics when the easily could have
33:52
shelved it as an unsolvable missing person report.
33:55
Speaker 1: So true.
33:56
Speaker 2: Second, it highlights the absolute necessity of civilian quads operation.
34:01
If Elane Klungi had decided to keep that confession to herself,
34:04
Dan Klungi would likely still be walking free today. Her
34:08
willingness to navigate the danger of wearing a wire was
34:11
the lynchpin of the entire prosecution.
34:13
Speaker 1: Without her, there's no case exactly.
34:15
Speaker 2: And Third, it reinforces the immense legal precedent that American
34:19
courts do not require a physical body to prove a
34:21
homicide when you have a detailed confession that aligns with
34:25
circumstantial facts and digital timelines, a jury can and will convict.
34:29
Speaker 1: It is a profound legal closure paired with a total
34:32
devastating lack of physical closure. Jepsy was just twenty six
34:36
years old when she disappeared. She left the Philippines full
34:38
of hope for a new life, and her physical trace
34:41
is still hidden out there in the mountains. Margiamaga still
34:44
desperately wants to return her daughter to the Philippines for
34:46
a proper, dignified burial. The trauma lingers even after the
34:50
prison cell is locked.
34:52
Speaker 2: Psychologists refer to this as ambiguous loss. It is a
34:56
unique kind of grief that defies closure because the physical
34:59
reality of death is unconfirmed. The legal system can assign guilt,
35:04
it can lock away the perpetrator, but it cannot manufacture
35:07
piece for aggrieving mother.
35:10
Speaker 1: It really can't. Well. Thank you for walking through this
35:12
incredibly intense, intricate deep dive with me.
35:15
Speaker 2: Thank you for having me.
35:16
Speaker 1: And to you the listener, thank you for joining us
35:18
as we navigated the heavy realities of this case, from
35:21
the systemic, vulnerableiguities of international matchmaking to the chilling psychology
35:26
of a nobody murder investigation.
35:28
Speaker 2: It's a lot to process.
35:29
Speaker 1: Before we wrap up, I want to leave you with
35:31
one final thought to mullover, building entirely on the mechanics
35:34
of the digital forensics we discussed today. We talked about
35:37
how phone records, messaging history that final hung up nine
35:41
to one one call, and GPS location data helped reconstruct
35:45
the timeline even without a physical body. Think about the
35:49
profound permanence of our digital ghosts for a second.
35:52
Speaker 2: It's eerie.
35:53
Speaker 1: It is even when a killer goes to great horrific
35:57
lengths to completely erase a physical body from the earth,
36:00
burying it deep in the remote mountains, our digital footprint
36:04
remains behind to testify on our behalf right. It pinged
36:07
off towers, It recorded the abrupt end of a desperate call.
36:11
It tracked the killer's movements. Could it be that the
36:14
very Internet technology that initially made Jepsy vulnerable to an
36:18
online predator across the globe became the exact same force
36:21
that ultimately ensured she could not simply be erased without
36:24
a trace.
36:25
Speaker 2: That is a fascinating way to look at it.
36:27
Speaker 1: Her phone data, her digital echoes, became the unsilenceable witness
36:31
in the courtroom. So remember that scenario we imagine at.
36:33
Speaker 2: The very beginning, the empty room waiting for a text.
36:36
Speaker 1: Yeah, staring at a blank screen, waiting for a text
36:39
that never comes. The silence may seem absolute, but in
36:41
the modern digital age, the silence itself is data. The
36:45
absence leaves a mark. Stay insanely curious, keep looking for
36:48
the connections, and keep diving deep