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- 0:00Hello and welcome to Resource Report, where we share with you important information about
- 0:25local nonprofits and resource organizations that support the community we share, produced
- 0:31by Pathways to Agency.
- 0:33I'm your host Rainmaker.
- 0:35Today features two food distribution groups working together to provide food and needed
- 0:41items for kids, houseless individuals, seniors, and the LGBTQ plus communities.
- 0:47I'm talking about Gabby's Kids of Gabby's Olympic Cards in Comics and Hugs QT.
- 0:55First we will hear about Gabby and a bit about how she got here and then later we will hear
- 1:00about how Hugs QT teamed up with this vibrant home place and the wonderful and safe community
- 1:06that they are providing of Marvel, DC, Dungeons and Dragons and more.
- 1:23Hi so I am here with Gabby at Olympic Cards in Comic and tell me about this business.
- 1:30What kind of place is this?
- 1:33It's a comic and game and hobby shop and we have an upstairs area that we use kind of
- 1:39as a de facto community center.
- 1:42That's so cool and we're sitting up in there right now and there's like one, two, three,
- 1:46four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, hello, hello, fourteen or so tables up here and people
- 1:52come up here and play role playing games, D&D board games, table top, all kinds of stuff
- 1:58and it's just really a great community.
- 2:00They hang out, yeah, and downstairs y'all are selling all the D&D books and comics.
- 2:06It's just really great.
- 2:07I love it.
- 2:08Me too as it happens.
- 2:09Yeah.
- 2:10Awesome.
- 2:11How long has this business been here?
- 2:13I've worked here for 35 years and I've owned it for 31.
- 2:16We've been in this location for about 18.
- 2:18Wow.
- 2:19So you're really, like, really centered in the community.
- 2:23I like to think so.
- 2:28Cool.
- 2:33Gabby's went through a few locations before finding its home here at 4230 Pacific Avenue
- 2:40Southeast in Lacey.
- 2:42I got my contracting license and still did it myself.
- 2:47I didn't, like, lay every piece of everything here.
- 2:50I hired people to do it the way a general contractor would, but there is not, I don't
- 2:55believe that there is any portion of this shop that I didn't have my hands or my feet
- 2:59or something in.
- 3:00I helped lay the foundation.
- 3:03I helped insulate the roof.
- 3:06I put these red beams up.
- 3:09Like I was up there with spud wrenches with my legs wrapped around all this stuff, putting
- 3:12them up.
- 3:13The braces you see, I did that.
- 3:16And the community really stepped up, too.
- 3:19They would come in and be like, Gabby, looks like she hasn't slept for three days.
- 3:23Is there anything we can do?
- 3:25I'm like, they'd come in and shovel dirt or they'd come in and straighten and sweep.
- 3:33My parents came in and they did all the gardening.
- 3:35My father helped level the backyard.
- 3:44The shop really was built by this community and the community moved the whole store over
- 3:48and then built it up.
- 3:50And the city of Lacey was a fantastic partner and advocate for building the store.
- 3:57I tried to only hire customers or families of customers.
- 4:04I tried to hire local people.
- 4:06And there's just, there's a lot of this community.
- 4:08There's a lot of love.
- 4:09There's a lot of blood, sweat, tears in the shop.
- 4:12You'll see where the kids have grown up.
- 4:15You'll see their tics on the wall.
- 4:17You'll see people where they sign on the beams that help me put the beams up.
- 4:23Their signature is places you can't see them because they helped put that stuff up.
- 4:28They signed it and now it's in the wall.
- 4:31It's a part of this store.
- 4:42Gabby was greatly influenced by her father whose traditional values leave a lasting legacy
- 4:47of family and commitment and honorability that grounds Gabby's customer and community
- 4:52service into the solid foundation we love today.
- 4:57Even though she had tough choices to make between her desire to become a teacher and
- 5:01her love of this shop where she started working as a teenager.
- 5:06One of the things he told me early on was that you could lose everything.
- 5:13You could have everything taken from you except your integrity and your education.
- 5:19Those are the two things that you're the only one who can give up.
- 5:23And I took that to heart.
- 5:24And he basically was like, if you give your word to something, you follow through.
- 5:29He was very old school in those like, like old school, like family is everything.
- 5:34You give your word.
- 5:35It means something.
- 5:36He was very old fashioned with those things.
- 5:38And he used to say, you know, my honor, he used to say, like, I guess my honor comes
- 5:46at a price, but it's not this or something like this.
- 5:48My honor is worth more than this $2.50.
- 5:52Whatever it is, he used to say it was something along those lines.
- 5:55But so yeah, so he taught me a lot just by living in the world, walk in his walk.
- 6:01And that's something that I definitely, I definitely try and do.
- 6:12Through the rough financial beginnings, regular customers supported and inspired Gabby to
- 6:17keep going, showing how deeply rooted in the community and fellowship this place really
- 6:22is and always has been.
- 6:26Early on, who would come in every Wednesday, which is when we'd get our shipment back
- 6:31in the days of cash on demand, he handed the UPS guy cash.
- 6:36And he would come in and ask what my bill was that week.
- 6:39And then he would do, oh, I magically all of a sudden he needed three boxes of magic
- 6:44cards, you know, like, oh, no, I just, I need these.
- 6:48Like it doesn't have anything to do with the fact that it is exactly how much you need
- 6:51to give your C of D. You know, I had a customer who overheard me talking about not being able
- 7:00to pay something significant.
- 7:03And he happened to get a bonus from Boeing and he just wanted to put money on account
- 7:09because he wasn't good at saving.
- 7:12So he just like, here's $2,000, just put it on account for me.
- 7:15I'll spend it up for the next few months.
- 7:18Okay.
- 7:19So you just happened to hear me and now you happen to have $2,000.
- 7:21But I mean, there was a lot of stuff like that where people would do whatever they needed
- 7:27to do to ensure that the store kept going.
- 7:31During the pandemic, Gabby's teacher side came out as she doubled down on her commitment
- 7:41to keep the community together.
- 7:45Being able to start opening up, being able to juggle the needs of the community's mental
- 7:51health and the needs of the community's physical health has been very challenging.
- 7:57Because I miss all of those kids while they were gone.
- 8:01We wrote letters to them.
- 8:03We sent them coloring pages.
- 8:04They would send them back.
- 8:05Like we did everything we could to keep our community.
- 8:09I did Zoom classes where like I read stories and like we tried to do everything we could
- 8:16to stay connected with all the kids.
- 8:27How and when did Gabby's kids get started?
- 8:30So Robert Quate runs Thurston County Food Bank.
- 8:35Kelly Wilson runs All Kids Win, which originally was called Homeless Backpacks.
- 8:41So Robert Coit had asked if we could be a location to give out food bags.
- 8:48And we thought, is that true?
- 8:50Yeah, we have room.
- 8:51And then I was like, hey, wait, we have a cafe now.
- 8:55We could do hot meals and then they could take the stuff.
- 8:58So they could come in and they could sit and they could have a meal.
- 9:02And we chose to do the meals like family style.
- 9:04So like we'd bring, what you want to call it, like oatmeal and fresh fruit and yogurt,
- 9:12stuff like that.
- 9:13And then the family would sit.
- 9:14The parents would like serve their kids and get all the stuff and sit down and have this
- 9:18meal in the morning.
- 9:19And then they'd eat all food.
- 9:23And that's kind of where Gabby's kids started.
- 9:26We started working with Kelly Wilson at Homeless Backpacks and then this thing happened where
- 9:36our community, where I like would put a post and say, hey, if anyone needs this stuff,
- 9:43let me know.
- 9:44We have this for you.
- 9:45There's no reason to be embarrassed.
- 9:46There's no reason to be ashamed.
- 9:47You're part of our community.
- 9:49We want to help you.
- 9:50We want to do it with dignity.
- 9:52We want your kids to feel like it's a big special event and not supposed to be shamed
- 9:56up.
- 9:57And then the community started saying, well, here's money.
- 10:00Here's food.
- 10:01I went to Costco when I bought this thing and I went and did this other thing.
- 10:05So what ended up happening was the word got out to help more people and then the community
- 10:10gave me more stuff and then we got more people and then the community gave me more stuff.
- 10:14And then like it turned into, well, if you're doing this other thing, school's about to
- 10:19start, can I donate all this stuff for school supplies?
- 10:23And so we'd be like, yeah, sure.
- 10:24That sounds great.
- 10:26And then we put a post out like, hey, we have school supplies.
- 10:29And then everybody would be like, here, have school supplies so that you can help everyone.
- 10:32And then there'd be one.
- 10:33And so it just became this giant thing where people would just donate all of this stuff.
- 10:40And then people started donating money.
- 10:43And when it was like five, 10 bucks, it was pretty easy to manage.
- 10:46At the point that someone handed me a thousand dollar check, I was like, okay, we need to
- 10:51have a charity.
- 10:52We have to do something so that I can be transparent with this money and I can show people where
- 10:57this money is going and we can be held accountable and all of this stuff.
- 11:02And it just, it just grew and grew and grew.
- 11:06And we built a little tiny house in the back and followed an outreach center and like the
- 11:15community helped me pay for that.
- 11:17And then now we have a storage container so we can store stuff so we can actually take
- 11:21donations in year round.
- 11:24And so it just, it just became this thing that the community saw a need for.
- 11:33And so there was both a need and this want to help.
- 11:37In Hawaiian, laulima means many hands.
- 11:40And so, you know, many hands make light work.
- 11:44That's what happens.
- 11:48And so it just, it just became this thing.
- 11:52And even now we have, you know, we have volunteers that come in and they make food bags and we
- 11:57have, we call them our care packages for our travelers.
- 12:00That's what we call our underhoused folks that are out in the community that just come
- 12:06up to the door.
- 12:07We have a little area right here by the tour and they come in and they get bags of food
- 12:10or socks or hand warmers or tents or all kinds of stuff that they need.
- 12:18Because people donate stuff and people donate money and trust me to use it for whatever
- 12:23the need is in the community the most.
- 12:26I think one of the things that I like most about Gabby's kids is that there is a phenomenal
- 12:34amount of need in our community.
- 12:36Because it can be heartbreaking to see how much need is there.
- 12:43But because the community has come together and felt this need, because the community
- 12:47trusts me to do what's best and trust me to make those decisions, we can also be a
- 12:55tertiary resource, I guess, for like Safe Glace, Family Support Center, and Interfaith
- 13:03and Stonewall Youth and all this other stuff where we have these marginalized people that
- 13:09need stuff in a moment.
- 13:11We also make bedpads for foster kids so if they get removed from an emergency situation,
- 13:16they have a backpack of stuff for themselves and their stuff isn't in garbage bags.
- 13:21So because there's so much oversight by me, we can make emergency things happen.
- 13:28And sometimes at any number of our shelters, I say we need this and we don't have time
- 13:35for bureaucracy.
- 13:38In so much as the community has built the store, this is their home, this is their store.
- 13:44There's a lot of ownership if you talk to people in this community, there's a lot of
- 13:48ownership about the store.
- 13:50Kids that are ostracized, kids that are made fun of at school are celebrated here.
- 13:57And that's so important to me.
- 14:01I don't always say, because sometimes I can hurt someone's feelings, but like, I have
- 14:07jokingly been known to say like, they may be freaks and geeks, but they're my freaks
- 14:12and geeks.
- 14:13But without the staff, without the family that we have created here at Ripley Nessie,
- 14:17they are what bring the energy in, they are what bring a lot of the light in.
- 14:22A lot of them just make my life easier.
- 14:26Welcome back to Resource Report.
- 14:28Let's hear more from Gabby.
- 14:39And there was some issues with some of our LGBTQ community feeling safe being downtown.
- 14:47And so they came to me and said, well, we could do this thing.
- 14:50And originally started out as a, we're going to do it once a month.
- 14:56And then we moved it to doing it once a week.
- 15:01And so anytime, during any part, people can come in and get food, the baskets.
- 15:08Anyone can get food anytime.
- 15:10OK.
- 15:11But on Tuesdays from, it's like 12 to four ish.
- 15:15Four?
- 15:16Yeah.
- 15:17It's more so LGBTQ knows.
- 15:19This is when we can all go and get our stuff at the same time, hang out, build a community,
- 15:25things like that.
- 15:34So I see on a couple of tables over here, some canned goods, peanut butter, canned
- 15:40fruits, packaged bread rolls, stuff like that.
- 15:45So people can just come and take what they need.
- 15:48I see it all organized by type.
- 15:51So we basically, so San Francisco Street Bakery delivers us bread every week or we go and
- 15:58pick up bread, but they donate bread every week.
- 15:59And then every Tuesday I go or one of us goes to the grocery store and gets fresh veggies
- 16:07and things like that.
- 16:10And then we have protein in the freezer so they can come and pick.
- 16:14We have two tables and you can basically pick five things off each table.
- 16:18So those are the more expensive, like chicken, tofu, cheese, stuff like that.
- 16:26Whereas this other stuff is more food stable, but you still get some.
- 16:32So like a lot of times we'll put celery, potatoes, cheese, butter, chicken.
- 16:39And then so they get that and then they can get like on the other table, they can get
- 16:44rice and noodles and things like that to kind of make it so they can get through the whole
- 16:48week by using substitutes and fresh stuff and canned stuff so they can kind of have
- 16:54good stuff all week.
- 16:55Oh, that's wonderful.
- 16:56And it's so cool that y'all are offering perishable items as well.
- 17:01Yeah.
- 17:02Well, that was one of the things when they came to us was, hey, we'd really like to have
- 17:06fresh fruit, fresh vegetables, fresh proteins, bread without mold, you know, things like
- 17:13that.
- 17:14And so it just kind of grew from there.
- 17:17And so every week on Tuesdays, we get the fresh stuff or we have frozen stuff too sometimes,
- 17:22because that's easier for some people and the frozen food is so fresh, but frozen.
- 17:28And so it keeps that stuff at a higher, you can hold on to it longer than fresh fruit.
- 17:34Right.
- 17:35Right.
- 17:36But it's like canned.
- 17:37Yeah.
- 17:38And the perishable items, y'all have like a refrigeration or yeah.
- 17:43And so our cafe, it's called Admiral Snap Bar.
- 17:46Our cafe, all the money from the cafe goes into Gabby's Kids.
- 17:52And someone donated us the fridge and freezer for Gabby's Kids so that we can keep perishables
- 17:57in there.
- 17:58That's so cool.
- 17:59But perishables bought once a week is better than just putting them all in there and then
- 18:02getting it any time.
- 18:04Definitely.
- 18:05Definitely.
- 18:06And so what the cafe is, it's like located like in the center up here.
- 18:12Yeah.
- 18:13Not much to it, but it does the job.
- 18:16Nice.
- 18:17People can get snacks and things when they're gaming up here and stuff.
- 18:20That's so wonderful.
- 18:23Because who doesn't want snacks when they're gaming?
- 18:25Right.
- 18:26I love it.
- 18:28We probably go through 40 food boxes a week.
- 18:33And so while that adds up, we also are very lucky that we have a community that says,
- 18:39here's money, just do whatever, you know, do whatever you need to do to help the community.
- 18:45And so with that, I buy like right now we have a bunch of jackets coming in that I ordered
- 18:50because people donated.
- 18:51You know, someone donated a thousand dollars.
- 18:53Oh my goodness.
- 18:54That's $20 a jacket that I can find on sale.
- 18:57That's a lot of jackets.
- 18:58It is.
- 18:59That's fancy jackets right there.
- 19:00That is.
- 19:01On this table behind you, I see some clothes lined up.
- 19:05Are those for donation also?
- 19:07Okay.
- 19:08And they still have their price tags on this.
- 19:21This is Keely.
- 19:22She's your first paid administrative assistant.
- 19:25Paid administrative assistant.
- 19:26So she does all the things I can't do because I have to run a shop.
- 19:29Oh, what are some of those things that you do?
- 19:34I just, here I support the food pantry.
- 19:38I'm helping sort out bunches of donations that came in during the holidays.
- 19:42I answer emails, help pay utility bills or help people who are asking for help in whatever
- 19:48Gabby tells me to do.
- 19:49Cool.
- 19:50Yeah.
- 19:51I saw you back here folding these clothes.
- 19:52Yeah.
- 19:53Yeah.
- 19:54So these are hoping to get the, our back outreach center and stuff set up in such a way that
- 19:59Keely can be back there from 12 to five every day, says someone.
- 20:02And come and be more specific.
- 20:04Like I need a tent.
- 20:05I need a sleeping bag.
- 20:06I need a blouse and things like that.
- 20:07And we have a little house that's our outreach center.
- 20:10And then we have a connex that has all our stuff in it.
- 20:12Oh, I would love to go out there and see it.
- 20:14Yeah.
- 20:15Can I go down and see that little place?
- 20:17Can you do that?
- 20:18Yeah.
- 20:19I need to grab my jacket.
- 20:20About two months ago.
- 20:23Oh yeah.
- 20:26I'm kind of, I'm new-ish.
- 20:29Okay.
- 20:30And it's very, very part time.
- 20:33Okay.
- 20:35And I came, I've known Gabby for years.
- 20:39Yeah.
- 20:40And then I am though, I've been the homeless response program manager for the county.
- 20:44Oh, really?
- 20:45Yeah.
- 20:46And then I also ran a young youth and young adult shelter.
- 20:49Okay.
- 20:50And for five years before that.
- 20:51Oh, what was that place?
- 20:53Rosie's Place.
- 20:54Rosie's Place.
- 20:55You hadn't heard of that?
- 20:56Yeah.
- 20:57Oh, and you were running that.
- 20:58Yeah.
- 20:59I was running that for about five and a half years.
- 21:00You've got some big experience under your belt.
- 21:01Yeah.
- 21:02And now you're doing this at a little comic shop.
- 21:04That's so cool.
- 21:05Yep.
- 21:06Yep.
- 21:07At our jet.
- 21:08I ended my time with the county last yesterday.
- 21:09Oh, so I go back to your nerd roots.
- 21:12I do.
- 21:13I had, I needed to be doing something that was direct and really aligned with my values
- 21:19and where I could kind of just, you know, march to my own drum.
- 21:23Absolutely.
- 21:24Which is really hard to do when you're working for the government.
- 21:26Yeah.
- 21:27But I, I love working with the population of people experiencing homelessness and people
- 21:31who are food insecure, just like mutual aid with each other is such a really ever more
- 21:38important now than ever before.
- 21:41Oh, absolutely.
- 21:42I love this group.
- 21:43I love just being around them because this is just, they are just volunteering and they
- 21:47are just like caring for each other and making sure that people can eat good, healthy food.
- 21:51And of course with Gabby, Gabby's big old heart, just like giving them the space and
- 21:57the funds to help them do it just warms my heart.
- 22:00It keeps me going.
- 22:01It's such a healing environment.
- 22:03It has.
- 22:04I, my girlfriend died in 2016 and I'd come here because I am a big, big old nerd.
- 22:11I come here a lot, but that time of grieving I spent, I would just find myself here and
- 22:16I would just like wander through the aisles and look at things and I talked to Gabby and
- 22:20Oh, I'm getting teary.
- 22:22And it just became this safe place and it's a safe place for a lot of people.
- 22:28And it's a place where people come to grieve, I think, and feel like, or just come to, even
- 22:34if they're sad or they're lost.
- 22:37I see that and I know that I've been that.
- 22:39So it's pretty, it's pretty important.
- 22:40Yeah.
- 22:41I have my own roots in fandom society.
- 22:45I'm from, I'm usually from New Orleans, Louisiana.
- 22:49And my aunt was on the con committee for the very first full con in New Orleans in the
- 22:5370s.
- 22:54Yeah.
- 22:55I was the first con kid.
- 22:56Yeah.
- 22:57And my first community was the local science fiction convention community.
- 23:03And that fandom was just what you describe it, what this place is.
- 23:08It was the same thing.
- 23:10We all came together and it was just like a good healing environment for me to grow
- 23:15up in.
- 23:16Yeah.
- 23:17So I really get it.
- 23:19Yeah.
- 23:20I love it.
- 23:21Yeah.
- 23:22And this also the people who donate are wild.
- 23:23They just, people donate so much to this charity cause in my opinion, nerds are either very,
- 23:29very, very low income or have a very high, and they're generous and they very love this
- 23:33place.
- 23:34So this is the little hut that the Outward Setter.
- 23:45Yeah.
- 23:46We're out here in the parking lot and the very back of the parking lot.
- 23:49It's around the corner from the trees right next to the dumpsters.
- 23:55And we've got, it's one of those, you go get those little outdoor sheds and it's converted.
- 24:03There's a little sign that says, Gatties Kids, G-A-B-I apostrophe S, Kids Outreach Center.
- 24:10It's so cute.
- 24:11And there's, oh, we're outside.
- 24:12Oh, yeah, upstairs.
- 24:13So these are, these two cones, this one is just the store.
- 24:16That's just like back stock for the store.
- 24:19Oh, we've got some, what are those called?
- 24:22Train cargo.
- 24:23And like cargo containers.
- 24:24Cargo containers that shipping containers on that go on trains.
- 24:29There's two of them, a short one and a long one.
- 24:32And that's your back stock.
- 24:34Yeah.
- 24:35That's the store back stock.
- 24:36And then this is Gabby's Kids.
- 24:37And so this is filled with donations.
- 24:39Okay.
- 24:40And it is a short one.
- 24:42Arrr, it's just a little bit of a mess because when the big event happens in December, it's
- 24:47just like all hands on deck.
- 24:49Yeah.
- 24:50And then it's a 12 to 14 to 16 hour day, depending on how many people come through.
- 24:55And I would like we're not shuttering the doors until every child who needs a gift gets
- 25:00a gift.
- 25:01Oh, what is that?
- 25:02So that's that what event is that in December you're talking about?
- 25:05There's like an annual event where Gabby used to from if I don't know if I'm going to get
- 25:10this right.
- 25:11So we'll have to fact check, fact check with Gabby.
- 25:13But in the past, there was an adoptive family kind of.
- 25:15Okay.
- 25:16So she also has the adoptive family, but she also has this event that happens in the middle
- 25:22of December where you can come in and you get four items per child, something to wear,
- 25:29something, something you want, something you need, something to wear and something to read.
- 25:34So everyone gets something.
- 25:36Everybody gets something that they need.
- 25:38Everybody gets a book.
- 25:39Everybody gets something that they need to wear.
- 25:42And so families will come through and it's a huge room filled with donations, toys, like
- 25:47really good stuff.
- 25:50And this year we did it at a dance studio.
- 25:52And so my first year in this position, I volunteered last year, but this year I was also volunteered
- 25:57this year, but it was I was there was like 12, 14 hours.
- 26:00I was there.
- 26:01But I think Gabby got maybe two hours of sleep in 36 hours before the event.
- 26:07And we served over 1500 kids for to get things for the holidays or things that they needed.
- 26:15And so when all of that is over, we had to get everything out that same night.
- 26:19And so it just kind of went through it in there.
- 26:23We're sorting it right now.
- 26:24Okay.
- 26:25And then this is also full of donations.
- 26:26So not even usable space, the little building is.
- 26:29Yeah.
- 26:30And so I'm going to be this week and ongoing like moving things into the conic.
- 26:34So we're trying to make sense of it, but it's also like we have to take it upstairs, you
- 26:39know, so it just takes time.
- 26:41I'm only here usually Tuesdays and I'll be here Tuesdays and Thursdays for only a couple
- 26:45of hours.
- 26:46So it's, you know, limited labor.
- 26:48May I get your name one more time?
- 26:50Sure.
- 26:51My name is Keely.
- 26:52Yeah.
- 26:53So walking back inside now, it's a little silly.
- 26:56Yeah.
- 27:04For Gabby's kids, do you have any volunteer opportunities?
- 27:07I mean, what kind of people can come and help us?
- 27:10Thank you.
- 27:11But people can come on circles.
- 27:13People can come and make food bags, things like that.
- 27:16So yeah.
- 27:17Okay.
- 27:18They just need to email this email and let me know why they want to do it, how many hours
- 27:23they needed if it's for a school project or center.
- 27:25Oh, oh cool.
- 27:26That's a good option.
- 27:27School project.
- 27:28Yeah.
- 27:29And that's Gabby's kids.
- 27:30SP at Gmail.
- 27:33Awesome.
- 27:36Erica is one of our fine helpers that does all kinds of stuff, which goes and gets the
- 27:50food and just kind of, she's just all around awesome.
- 27:53Hi.
- 27:54My name is Erica and I am one of volunteers here at the Hugs Queer and Trans Food Country.
- 28:00What's it called again?
- 28:02The Hugs Queer and Trans.
- 28:03We shorten it to Hugs QT.
- 28:05You know, it's fun, but the QT is for queer and trans.
- 28:08Oh, okay.
- 28:09Does Hugs stand for anything?
- 28:10No.
- 28:11No, just Hugs.
- 28:12H-U-G-S.
- 28:13H-U-G-S.
- 28:14Yep.
- 28:15Yep.
- 28:16Oh, I love it.
- 28:17Okay.
- 28:18So what have you got to tell me about this?
- 28:20First, that primarily to raise awareness of its existence, we definitely would like to
- 28:25grow both in terms of meeting people's resource needs and also the way we are running this.
- 28:34It's kind of become a community event as well.
- 28:37There's a lot of people hanging out, having socialization and playing games while we run
- 28:42this.
- 28:43And we think that's a really big, important part of things as well, especially with everything
- 28:49going on in the world right now.
- 28:50It's very easy to feel isolated.
- 28:52And here's a place where it's a pretty low cost, low risk place to come and have some
- 29:00interactions with other queer and trans people.
- 29:03That's awesome.
- 29:04Yeah.
- 29:05That's awesome.
- 29:06So clarify where Hugs begins and Natty's kids begins.
- 29:13Like where's, and then you have the crossover.
- 29:17So where are they separate and where do they come together?
- 29:20You clarify that.
- 29:21Sure.
- 29:22Because I was like, oh, there's the feed distribution that Gaddy's does, but now we're talking about
- 29:27another organization working with Gaddy's.
- 29:29Yeah, there really is a large amount of separation.
- 29:33Really the intersection of these is Gabby and Olympic Cards and Comics.
- 29:39So yeah, once a lot of us were here with this food pantry and spending time in this space
- 29:44and realizing how much else that Gabby and these other programs contribute to, it's just,
- 29:53it's an obvious thing to do to start to help out with those as well.
- 29:57So really there's nothing formal.
- 29:59It's just there is a lot of crossover in the people who participate and volunteer with
- 30:03our food pantry, very much people who also are interested in helping out anybody who
- 30:08needs resources really.
- 30:10And so given some time and effort to some of those other programs that are run out of
- 30:15here is very much worth doing.
- 30:17And that's, I guess, the extent of the intersection between the organizations.
- 30:22So what it sounds like is you guys with, with Hugs, HugsQT, yeah, with HugsQT, we're already
- 30:33formulated and getting together and starting and existing, but a lot of y'all hang out
- 30:39here also.
- 30:40Like you said.
- 30:41And then we're like, oh, Gabby's is doing this thing and it's like what we're doing.
- 30:48Let's all work together in this space.
- 30:51So that's what happened.
- 30:52Yep.
- 30:53Oh, cool.
- 30:54I get it now.
- 30:55All right.
- 30:56Yeah, just sharing effort is really what it all boils down to.
- 30:59Yeah.
- 31:00And sharing effort in programs that are helping people who need resources get resources.
- 31:06So a really wonderful thing to share effort around.
- 31:09Definitely.
- 31:10Yep.
- 31:11All right.
- 31:12Okay.
- 31:13And I just wanted to clarify the people that you mentioned from Heart, you mentioned Heart
- 31:28Spark Press and Gender Justice League.
- 31:31Right.
- 31:32Yeah.
- 31:33And it sounded like there were people from those groups that started Hugs Food Pantry
- 31:37during the pandemic.
- 31:39And it looks like they're funders.
- 31:41Did they fund hugs?
- 31:43That incarnation they did.
- 31:45The current incarnation is not funded via those organizations.
- 31:49It's generosity from the Gabby's Kids program.
- 31:52And then also we are self-donating from our own community as well.
- 31:59Just that's not being achieved through...
- 32:05There's no specific Heart Spark Press or Gender Justice League.
- 32:08We have people donating.
- 32:09Right.
- 32:10But there were people that originally from those organizations that did start, did help
- 32:16to start.
- 32:17Correct.
- 32:18Yeah.
- 32:19Version one, which was during the beginning of the pandemic, that is where a lot of this
- 32:21initially got kicked off.
- 32:23Okay, cool.
- 32:26Yeah.
- 32:31So it's just interesting how different organizations connect with one another.
- 32:36Yeah.
- 32:37Yeah.
- 32:38Do you connect with any other organizations?
- 32:39Does Hugs connect with any other organizations?
- 32:42Not currently, but that definitely...
- 32:44Other than the charities that Gabby runs.
- 32:48The Gabby's Kids.
- 32:49Yeah, definitely.
- 32:50We like to cross support.
- 32:55I think it's really good.
- 32:58So we're still kind of, I wouldn't say infancy, but we're still pretty fresh.
- 33:02We just got started right around election time, actually.
- 33:04So...
- 33:05Last November.
- 33:06Yeah, this last November.
- 33:08And so, yeah, we don't yet have really any codified partnerships or anything like that.
- 33:14But in general, that sort of networking and the community to community interactions and
- 33:20strengthening I think is really awesome.
- 33:22So if anybody is hearing this and wants to reach out along those lines, absolutely very
- 33:27open to that.
- 33:28Yeah, fabulous.
- 33:29Like, what would be the best method to get in touch with you for that?
- 33:35So we do have...
- 33:36We have a registration form, but it's just quick and dirty.
- 33:41So I can give you a URL that people could get to, to either register for resources or
- 33:47to register if they want to either donate or volunteer.
- 33:52But it was really put together very utilitarian, not so much of a comment or communication
- 33:59channel.
- 34:00So we'll have to get something better for that.
- 34:02Otherwise, I can give you that URL.
- 34:04Yeah, I read.
- 34:05That was something I was going to also ask is how can people connect for donating, volunteering,
- 34:12or whatever.
- 34:13Yeah.
- 34:14So for anybody who has needs or would like to volunteer or would like to donate, then
- 34:19what I have would be great.
- 34:21I can give you a fired URL for electronic copy of the flower and not...
- 34:36So okay, anybody who is interested in registering either for resources, to volunteer time or
- 34:43to donate resources is welcome to head over to our Google form at bit.ly slash QTPantry.
- 34:51That's B-I-T dot L-Y slash Q-T-P-A-N-T-R-Y.
- 34:57Awesome.
- 35:01Thank you so much.
- 35:02That's fabulous.
- 35:03Yeah.
- 35:16I guess I've been helping with the pantry since the pantry started, I guess.
- 35:23I just know that back in like 2020 with the Hugs food pantry, and I learned a lot of the
- 35:30stuff through there.
- 35:32But we usually help look for stuff to bring out and we set everything out, just set up
- 35:38bags and stuff to make sure the deliveries go smoothly.
- 35:43And I don't really do the delivery side this time around, but I mainly do the in-person
- 35:47stuff.
- 35:48But we also do a lot of community building.
- 35:52We have a trans gaming hour and things like that for people to just hang out.
- 35:56And that's kind of why we like doing it at Gabby's because it's more than just a pantry.
- 36:01It's also just a welcoming space for queer and trans people like to come and hang out,
- 36:07gather resources, network with each other, play games and just have a good time.
- 36:11Oh, that sounds awesome.
- 36:13Yeah.
- 36:14So if somebody wanted to get in on volunteering.
- 36:17Yeah.
- 36:18Anybody who's willing to volunteer can show up and we'll talk things through, kind of
- 36:25tell you what we're looking for.
- 36:27We're always going to need drivers and things like that, because especially as deliveries
- 36:31start coming in more and more and we're seeing a rise in those, it would be great to have
- 36:37more people on that.
- 36:38And obviously, even if you want to volunteer your time in quotations by just coming in
- 36:43and playing games and hanging out and making the space more lively, because, you know,
- 36:48it's not just food, it's community.
- 36:49It's what we're trying to help disperse.
- 36:53Creating the community environment.
- 36:54That's so awesome.
- 36:55Do you want to share your name?
- 36:57Oh, I'm Goblin.
- 36:58Hi.
- 36:59Nice to meet you.
- 37:00And you said that there was an hour.
- 37:02So it's not like an hour for a sec.
- 37:04That's just metaphorically speaking.
- 37:06What we do, we're working on having times for us to like just get together, play games
- 37:11and step online and just like create like a good...
- 37:17Not limit it to just Tuesday.
- 37:19Yeah, that way you can, because I know I'm playing games all week where I'm not doing
- 37:23this or I'm not at work and, you know, playing with randos online is not always fun.
- 37:30So just gaming with friends is what we're trying to do.
- 37:34Yeah.
- 37:35Are there specific times for that when y'all need up?
- 37:37We're just labeled out yet.
- 37:40The person who's working on setting that up recently did like a little scheduling quiz
- 37:45for us, but we're still working on that.
- 37:47So we don't have official time for it yet, but we're getting there.
- 37:50Any sort of registration or reaching out to volunteer would be the URL that...
- 37:55Yeah, either in person or the Google form that has been given.
- 38:00The first stop for anybody who wants to initiate.
- 38:02Okay, cool.
- 38:03Cool.
- 38:04Cool.
- 38:05Anybody else have something to share?
- 38:06Do you want to talk about lengthy art sharing?
- 38:08Yeah.
- 38:09So one thing that we're looking to do more often, that was kind of my responsibility,
- 38:14but it's a little bit of a struggle because of the current state of affairs of things.
- 38:20But we do art shares and we're trying to work on doing skill sharing here.
- 38:26So we can have art share for people to just come in, show off, whatever they're working
- 38:30on, just kind of promote those sorts of things.
- 38:35Promote that creativity because art, especially in our current environment that we see ourselves
- 38:41in is a very vital part of not just keeping our erasure away, but also just mental health.
- 38:49And on another side, we're trying to do a skill share, which is like practical skills.
- 38:56So things like sewing or, you know, like different like foraging guides and things like that
- 39:02to be dispersed and talked about, you know, maybe in like a little session during the
- 39:06pantry time in order to help that because dispersing free information is one of the
- 39:12best things that we can do to fight capitalism.
- 39:14Yeah.
- 39:15Okay, and that's like what I'm doing here is making sure that your information gets
- 39:20shared with the broader community.
- 39:22So you understand here?
- 39:23Absolutely.
- 39:24I'm on the same page about information sharing.
- 39:28That's why the zine is free.
- 39:30Information should be free.
- 39:34Yeah.
- 39:37Honestly, I feel like one of our biggest hurdles has been getting the word out to people because
- 39:46we had some flyers that were made for us.
- 39:50But I don't know where those, I don't know if anyone ended up printing those out or anything
- 39:58or distributing them, but we do have.
- 40:02And it's, you know, it's just been, it's been tough to get the word out to people because mostly it's just through word of mouth and just sending people the Google forms link through Discord and such.
- 40:15And so thank you for doing this.
- 40:16It's, it'll definitely help get more people to our services.
- 40:22That's the plan.
- 40:23I didn't get your name.
- 40:26Do you want to give your name?
- 40:27Yeah, sure.
- 40:28My name's Edward.
- 40:29I'm just a kind of volunteer here.
- 40:31I'm just here to help out.
- 40:32Awesome.
- 40:33Who's winning?
- 40:35Nobody so far.
- 40:37Nobody.
- 40:38I've got some vampires.
- 40:41We've got some mobsters over here.
- 40:42Yeah.
- 40:43We've got goblins and we got pirates.
- 40:45Oh, I like pirates.
- 40:47I've got one piece on my hat.
- 40:49Nice.
- 40:50Now y'all are playing Magic the Gathering.
- 40:53What kind of decks have y'all got?
- 40:56So Peach is borrowing one of Goblin's decks.
- 41:01Admiral Brass likes to steal stuff from other flayers and cheat out stuff out of the graveyard.
- 41:10My guy is kind of just, you know, put vampires on the field and then if they die, they turn
- 41:16into stronger vampires.
- 41:20My deck is the Reviteers pre-con.
- 41:24It's unmodified and its whole goal is that it wants to have a bunch of big creatures
- 41:29that it pays for less because the commander lets them do what's called Blitz, which is
- 41:34they don't have the battlefield, they have haste and then at the end of the turn I sacrifice
- 41:39them and draw a card.
- 41:53Anything else that you want to share?
- 41:57Yes.
- 41:59So it's worth pointing out that we are definitely organizing and structuring things physically
- 42:07here so that people who do want to come and have the community or want to come and pick
- 42:12up food can do so in a politically safe space.
- 42:17A lot of effort and planning goes into that and while nowhere can be perfectly safe, that
- 42:26is really one of our top priorities for setting this whole situation up.
- 42:32That is also worth making sure people know.
- 42:34Oh absolutely, that's important to know.
- 42:37Y'all did have some, when y'all were in the pandemic time in 2020, y'all did have some
- 42:55donations from the Thurston County Food Bank.
- 42:59The Thurston County Food Bank provided some food for y'all in 2020?
- 43:03Yeah, they, yep, again I was not there during that time so I'm only going off second hand
- 43:10for information for you here, but yeah they provided food boxes which the Helx food pantry
- 43:17redistributed to people who were not able to go down to the bank.
- 43:20I think it was a lot of that.
- 43:21If I'm not mistaken, Olympia shut down the buses for a period of time there so that rendered
- 43:28a lot of our community unable to get to the Thurston County Food Bank.
- 43:32So that I think was a big motivation for a lot of what that original version was trying
- 43:39to achieve.
- 43:40And then also since we're talking about the original version, I forgot, there was also,
- 43:45and there may have been several, but there was also funding via some community grants
- 43:49for that first version which that is not the case now.
- 43:52Now this is strictly our own community donating and then generosity of Gabby and the Gabby's
- 43:58Kids program.
- 43:59Yeah, and then y'all are also growing your food too.
- 44:03We have plants too this year.
- 44:04This is going to be our first summer where we're really intense about that.
- 44:07So but yeah, we, a lot of the collective is very interested in producing rather than by
- 44:17what resources we're distributing.
- 44:19So yep, we are definitely working on that.
- 44:21Yeah, and that's one of the volunteer opportunities too.
- 44:25You said something about the y'all are renting spaces for community garden, you said?
- 44:31Yeah, it's not a very organized and I don't mean that to sound the way it sounds, as I
- 44:36say that, that's with intention.
- 44:39Really in any organizing overhead is going into food distribution day.
- 44:43The growing of the food right now is kind of not organized beyond stating goals of what
- 44:50we're looking to acquire and then letting individuals self-organize how they want to
- 44:55meet those goals.
- 44:56So from that structure, we've got several people and groups of people who have, you
- 45:04know, they're a bed in their yard or like I have rented a couple of community beds.
- 45:08Some other people have rented community beds.
- 45:10It's very distributed and collective.
- 45:13And yeah, so really anybody who wants to volunteer that way would definitely want to reach out
- 45:20to us.
- 45:21But then again, the real emphasis here is that's a low overhead planning situation.
- 45:28It's really people doing what works for them in terms of growing.
- 45:32So cool.
- 45:34And that's only one way to volunteer.
- 45:36Tell them about the other ways to volunteer.
- 45:38Yeah.
- 45:39So the one that I'll always promote first is deliveries.
- 45:44So we have transportation challenges or ailments, et cetera.
- 46:03So we do do deliveries, but we're very limited by how many volunteers we have to drive and
- 46:10run.
- 46:11So that's a priority.
- 46:16And then I'll also throw out with that to anybody who would like to help out with that
- 46:19but doesn't drive.
- 46:21We do do hearings because we have people who have physical ailments that allow them to
- 46:26still drive, but maybe they can't go up and down stairs.
- 46:29So anybody who wants to help delivery but doesn't have a license still should consider
- 46:35reaching out because we can pair them up as a runner with somebody who was a driver.
- 46:38Boy, a sweet combo.
- 46:41Yeah, for sure.
- 46:43And let's see, other volunteer opportunities.
- 46:46There was something about packing.
- 46:48Yep.
- 46:49So during our community event from 12 to 4, like that's and you know, that's worth calling
- 46:55out as a volunteer opportunity to is just participate with community.
- 47:00And nobody even needs to register for that.
- 47:02I just need to show up and we'll be here.
- 47:04But yeah, around three o'clock, whoever is around generally starts working together to
- 47:08pack up all of the deliveryers.
- 47:10So that's another thing that can be done.
- 47:13Also, you know, it's probably best to stop in and participate in the community first.
- 47:19But for anybody who's done that, there's also things like if somebody was interested in
- 47:24doing skill shares or art sharing, any sort of those things, people are welcome to do
- 47:30as well.
- 47:31And just come up and go even hang out.
- 47:33Yes, absolutely.
- 47:34Yeah, that's holding the community space is what it's called there, right?
- 47:38Absolutely.
- 47:39Cool.
- 47:40Yeah.
- 47:41And right now you all have a Google form that's used for the volunteering as well as the other
- 47:56other things and you know what you need.
- 48:00Yeah, right now the that Google form handles everything from registering to receive resources
- 48:07to donating resources to volunteering.
- 48:10I am currently working on like more robust registration system that's going to be a full
- 48:15website with a web app and that allow us to have it organized a little better and also
- 48:20have more information for the public as well than what we can squeeze into a Google form.
- 48:27That sounds awesome.
- 48:28Yeah.
- 48:29What's that website going to look like?
- 48:31It's primarily just going to be a registration form still, but there'll be space as well
- 48:35for bulletins or links to you know, you had mentioned earlier a link to this interview
- 48:41that probably be a useful thing to be there.
- 48:43Other contact information.
- 48:45Yeah.
- 48:47Give us a lot of control over we really can have whatever we want there at that point.
- 48:51But primarily, it's just going to be a registration form.
- 48:56And on the Google form, and I imagine it'll be on the website as well that the list of
- 49:01food and other items.
- 49:06It's like you can mark off what you brined or how does that work?
- 49:10So current and it will work largely the same even the moment move past the forum.
- 49:15But yeah, currently people are selecting what choice proteins they want.
- 49:19And there's also a spot for them to let us know of any dietary restrictions that's like
- 49:23critically important.
- 49:25So both of those will be in the new system as well.
- 49:29So in the new system, we're gonna add another section.
- 49:32So right now we only have one protein choice.
- 49:35We're going to set it up.
- 49:36So you there'll be two sections, one for preferred proteins and one for acceptable proteins is
- 49:41so that if we just don't have exactly Oh, that's a good.
- 49:45That's great.
- 49:46Yeah, there's been a couple of days where we didn't have the right stock to meet everybody's
- 49:49choices.
- 49:50So that'll allow us to kind of cushion through some of that.
- 49:52So that's awesome.
- 50:04Also I wanted to clarify the reason why this got started was because that some of the community
- 50:13members in the LGBTQ family were feeling not safe at the community, the Thurston County
- 50:19Food Bank, and I just wanted to have clarification around that and were any steps taken to address
- 50:26that?
- 50:27Yeah, I cannot say because I don't know the details of whatever situation was happening
- 50:32back then.
- 50:33I know that it was whatever was going on was around 2019.
- 50:37I know that that somebody did reach out to the Thurston County Food Bank and I believe
- 50:46to the degree that they were able to that whatever corrective measures were needed were
- 50:51put in place.
- 50:52But you know, just like us, they're all volunteer.
- 50:56So there's only so much control that can be exercised over volunteer staff.
- 51:01And I think some people the fact that this is trans and queer organized and run is something
- 51:10that gives a lot of people comfort in how they're going to be treated in the space.
- 51:15So really what I'm trying to do here is really say that to my knowledge, the Thurston County
- 51:21Food Bank has taken care of whatever issues were highlighted at that time, which was several
- 51:28years ago now.
- 51:30But nonetheless, a lot of us are really big into buy us for us.
- 51:34So for sure.
- 51:36Okay, thank you for that.
- 51:39Yeah.
- 51:56And what just to make sure what is the best way to what are the different ways to reach
- 52:01out to on the contact form on the Google form?
- 52:05There's email, text, signal and discord.
- 52:07Is that still accurate?
- 52:09So that's not so that is in that form.
- 52:12And it is currently accurate what that contact information for is actually for people registering
- 52:17not to contact us.
- 52:19So those are the platforms we're currently willing to communicate with keep on.
- 52:25We are going to move with the new system that I was describing earlier to it will be limited
- 52:30to email.
- 52:32This is going to simplify a lot of the overhead for us now that we're growing.
- 52:36We send out notifications and stuff like that when deliveries are done.
- 52:39We occasionally do polling and things like that have everything in a single communications
- 52:44channel is going to help us out on a lot.
- 52:47Make it simpler.
- 52:48And y'all don't have currently a social media.
- 52:53Not anything that I would commit to because of the volunteer nature of it.
- 52:56I work on it when I have the time.
- 52:58But I do think that within the month or so, I would be switching over.
- 53:01I'm getting pretty close with it.
- 53:03But yeah, like I said, it really boils down to my availability to work on it.
- 53:09Yeah, awesome.
- 53:10When you have that up and running or like right before that, give me a heads up and
- 53:14I can post that on my Facebook.
- 53:16Oh, for sure.
- 53:17Yeah, thank you.
- 53:18Everybody will know.
- 53:19So all right.
- 53:20So thank you so much, Erica.
- 53:23That's right.
- 53:26Erica Winsong.
- 53:27Yeah.
- 53:28Okay.
- 53:29Thank you.
- 53:43You can check out the current Google form for hugs QT pantry at bit.ly slash QT pantry
- 53:54and swing by Gabby's for fun food books and games.
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