Latest / The Gill Athletics Track and Field Connections Podcast / #277: Adrian Durant-Cornell University
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- 0:10Track and Field world Juvenile tuned in to our humble servant
- 0:14Mike Cunningham for another extraordinary message for Guild
- 0:18Athletics connections. All right, welcome back here to
- 0:25the Guild Athletics Connections Podcast.
- 0:27I feel like this one is going to be dense in a great way.
- 0:31So I'm actually going to go to like the quickest intro I've
- 0:33ever done. Help me welcome the head coach
- 0:35of Cornell University, the wise, the wonderful Mr. Adrian Durant.
- 0:38Adrian, how are you? I'm doing great.
- 0:41The wise, the wonderful. Thank you.
- 0:42Thank you for the introduction. You deserve that.
- 0:45You deserve thanks for having me.
- 0:46Happy to be here. This one.
- 0:49So this is going to be a lot of fun.
- 0:50I feel like the the best ones that that we get feedback on are
- 0:54the ones that are tangent filled.
- 0:56Like we tell stories here and we ask about here and things like
- 0:58that. I feel like just from the vibe
- 1:00of our pre interview I feel like this is going to be pretty good
- 1:03man I feel. Good.
- 1:04Don't encourage me to go on a tangent please.
- 1:07Well, OK, Speaking of tangents, we're we're going to, we're
- 1:09going to make sure we get this right off the bat here because I
- 1:11want to publicly chastise you for not doing this anymore and
- 1:15encourage you to do it. So this is not your first
- 1:18podcast. You actually you hosted your own
- 1:21podcast for a while. Tell me more about that.
- 1:24Yes, it was during the pandemic when all of us had a little
- 1:27extra time on our hands and and I thought it'd be, you know, I
- 1:31was going through this point where I I realized just for
- 1:34talking to people, the type of. Environment that we're in as
- 1:38coaches like we're in this just highly like motivational
- 1:41environment where that's what we do and our kids have access to
- 1:44that and it benefits them in a lot of ways but I realized that
- 1:48a lot of people don't have that a lot of people who don't play
- 1:51sports and they don't really get that as a part of their lives.
- 1:53Someone tell me, you know, set your goals, you can accomplish
- 1:56your goals you know, don't give up that's part of the process
- 1:59Failure is part of the process. They don't really get that on a
- 2:02day-to-day basis. And especially, you know, where
- 2:04I'm from, I'm from the Virgin Isles, a small place and, and
- 2:07was how I left there. And, and part of it is you have
- 2:10to know that something's possible, right?
- 2:12So I, I started the podcast so that some of these great Olympic
- 2:16medalists, you know, Lashinda Demas is on there and then
- 2:19Britney Reese and, and Lashawn Merritt and, you know, so they
- 2:23can tell their stories. And because when you hear every
- 2:26anyone who has a medal, anyone who's made to the Olympics,
- 2:28anyone who's you know, NCAA champion or accomplish anything,
- 2:32essentially they all. Is the same steps.
- 2:35You know, and you start seeing the common trends through
- 2:37everyone's the themes through everyone's stories.
- 2:40So I figured if there's a generation of kids who aren't
- 2:43sure what it takes to be successful and when things get
- 2:45hard, if they don't know that that's part of the process.
- 2:48If they don't know that you have to push through that, they don't
- 2:51know that that's how you become great.
- 2:52So all these people, if you listen, I.
- 2:54Have 34 interviews and if you listen to them, all of them go
- 2:57through this whole this this process.
- 2:59And you know, I call it, you know this.
- 3:01Four step process to success is what I I.
- 3:03Like to call it which you know, the first thing is, is declaring
- 3:07or setting your goal. You know, what is the goal I
- 3:10wanted to achieve? A lot of people just skip that.
- 3:12They don't even decide what their goal is.
- 3:14A lot of people were running track.
- 3:15They're like, I, I like to run, I want to run fast.
- 3:17But if you want to accomplish something great, what is your
- 3:20goal? You have to be.
- 3:21Able to say it, say it out loud, be embarrassed, just say it.
- 3:24So I found the first step is just deciding what this goal is.
- 3:28The second step is taking the the steps to actually achieve
- 3:32this goal, actually doing the things that it would take.
- 3:36And the third step would be suffer, suffer, endure, whatever
- 3:40you want to call it. But it's going to be a hard
- 3:42time. And I don't know how long it's
- 3:44going to last, but it's hard. And I can give you, I can cite
- 3:47plenty of examples of this that do plenty of different stories
- 3:50and maybe some of my own soon here, but suffer.
- 3:55And if you. Can just make it through that,
- 3:58then you achieve success. So you'll see that if you listen
- 4:02to. You know anyone who's who hasn't
- 4:03met, I'm sure if you tell their stories, if you listen to their
- 4:06stories. From the outside it.
- 4:07Always seems like everything is perfect and, you know, they're
- 4:10just blessed and lucky. No, they, they went through
- 4:12something. You don't become that without
- 4:15going through something and, and overcoming it.
- 4:17So I wanted to share that message to folks who don't hear
- 4:20it. And, and that was the purpose of
- 4:21the podcast. And since I had time on my hands
- 4:24during the pandemic, yeah. I went ahead.
- 4:27And did that and it was fun. But I got a little busy since
- 4:31school started. I just haven't got back into the
- 4:33swing of it yet. Goodness, you got back busy, you
- 4:36know, in that sense, like they got to get back to seasons and
- 4:39stuff. Yeah.
- 4:39So you did a style that's very much close to my heart.
- 4:45You were a long form interview style, right?
- 4:48So what was your average length with some of these amazing
- 4:50people? In 90 minutes, it's.
- 4:53You know, if you really want them to to be able to just tell
- 4:56their stories and not feel rushed and you know, and, and
- 4:59really get all the details and you know, they tell some of
- 5:02this, the funny parts and the sad parts and just get into it.
- 5:07It takes some time. So I found that, you know 90.
- 5:09Minutes. They can really just get into
- 5:12the their story and elaborate a little more.
- 5:15Unfortunately, you know, I found with the YouTube algorithm you
- 5:20have, you have to do clips, you know, you have to cut things up.
- 5:22And so I started. So I cut everything up at the
- 5:25clips at some point. But I do have the long form
- 5:27interviews, which to me that's the best format.
- 5:29You know, a lot of people liked it.
- 5:31I actually still, so it's still on YouTube, but it's on Spotify
- 5:35and actually every week I see that folks are still actually.
- 5:37Following it and. What's the name of it?
- 5:40The homestretch with Adrian Durant.
- 5:42All right, so you're listening to this podcast right now and
- 5:45you may be on Apple or you may be on the YouTube.
- 5:48We're on there as well. We're also on the Spotify if
- 5:49you're not on the Spotify go. And so same thing you're
- 5:53listening to right now. Search the The Homestretch by
- 5:55Adrian Durant because here's where I one of the things I love
- 5:59about podcasts, I love this about our show here and here
- 6:02with Adrian in the homestretch. Is it it's what they call
- 6:04Evergreen content, meaning you put it out there 10 years from
- 6:08now, it's still there. It's kind of what the internet's
- 6:10all about, right? So these amazing interviews with
- 6:12Lashinda, you mentioned Lashinda, Brittany Lashawn
- 6:15Merritt. Dwight Phillips, Yeah.
- 6:18Yeah, Dwight. Yeah.
- 6:18I mean, come on, These are amazing people.
- 6:20That means that 90 minutes of gold.
- 6:22It was gold back in 2020. Guess what?
- 6:24It's still gold right now in 2024, but it's not being public.
- 6:29You know, it's not published active, but it's still there.
- 6:31So you need to go back and look at the library.
- 6:32It's one of the things I work hard to hear.
- 6:34Adrian, you know, we're on episode 200 and 72180.
- 6:38We've got amazing coaches here. You know, I and I, I, I'm amiss
- 6:42sometimes. And I'm like, oh, you know, Mike
- 6:44Holloway, I think he was number 40 or maybe Brooks Johnson was
- 6:4740. And I'm like, man, there's
- 6:48people today that are coming into the Gill podcast world and
- 6:52they don't know dude, Episode 40, banger, episode 66, amazing.
- 6:57Episode 12, awesome. You know what I'm saying?
- 6:59Like I'm like, please go back. Just look in the library.
- 7:02I know it's a big library, but trust me, there are other
- 7:04amazing men and women back there that you want to listen to.
- 7:07Trust me, there's. Some legends in your catalogue.
- 7:09Legends. And now you're the newest
- 7:10legend. Search.
- 7:12Just get it started. Homestretch with Adrian Durant,
- 7:15because I, I'm 100% agreeing with you on the long format, the
- 7:2090 minutes, there's some amazing 20 minute, 30 minute podcast and
- 7:23those should be listened to as well.
- 7:25But to get the, to peel that onion, if you will, if you want
- 7:28to get past the surface, you bet you got to get past 30 minutes.
- 7:31You want to get a little deeper, you better get past 60 minutes.
- 7:33You want to get deeper, you better get past 90.
- 7:35And so I love that you did that and I love that you went for
- 7:38that style. You know for sure.
- 7:40You know, you started listening to them like I think it was.
- 7:42Lashinda, who was Lashinda who was telling me there was a point
- 7:45where, you know, it got hard and her mom was there just on her
- 7:50making sure she, you know, get up the hill, whatever, whatever.
- 7:52And I started hearing that that was another common thing.
- 7:56Everybody had somebody. I didn't.
- 7:59I I hadn't heard. Of one person who just did it
- 8:01completely alone. Everybody had somebody who
- 8:03supported them through this journey in some way, somebody
- 8:06who believed in them, somebody who, you know, who really just
- 8:09helped them in any way that they could maybe encouragement,
- 8:13whatever it was, everyone had that person.
- 8:15So I like that. Like if, if that's not a known
- 8:19message, then I I like everyone to to see that because you could
- 8:22be that for somebody. I could just I could be that
- 8:25person who believes in your dream and supports you.
- 8:28And when you're discouraged, I encourage you and I motivate you
- 8:32so that you can accomplish something great.
- 8:33And we. We need that because we're we're
- 8:35just human. So no one's a machine.
- 8:38Don't think that these folks are just doing these great things.
- 8:40That's why when they accomplish things, what are they doing?
- 8:42They're thanking everybody, right?
- 8:44They, they, they had a whole system.
- 8:45They had people behind them who? Believe so.
- 8:48You know, I, I just think that's an important message because no
- 8:51one really talks about that. That's right.
- 8:53That's right. And if you know, if we can't
- 8:55hear it or see it, it's hard for the next person to become it.
- 8:57So I know. Yeah, I think it's.
- 9:00How do I know? How does the high schooler, you
- 9:02know, know what it takes to become great?
- 9:05I mean, we everyone figure, you know, the great ones figure it
- 9:08out. But I think more people can.
- 9:11And like there are a lot of people, we see people with tons
- 9:13of potential. You know, I'll correct that a
- 9:14little bit actually. So you said the great ones
- 9:17figured out. I think we see the great ones
- 9:19that figured out. How many great ones do we never
- 9:22see? Because they don't.
- 9:22They didn't know. They didn't know.
- 9:24That's what I'm getting. Exactly like the potential,
- 9:26right? Like we and we see people with
- 9:28potential who you're like, man, why doesn't this person really
- 9:31try? Because they don't really think
- 9:32it's possible. Right.
- 9:33And they don't want to be disappointed.
- 9:35That's right, that's right. I love it.
- 9:37Well, my admonishment, which is really my encouragement, is for
- 9:41you and for you guys and gals that are listening.
- 9:43I am a big believer that more track coaches need to be on more
- 9:49podcasts, by the way. So, you know, there's other
- 9:51podcasts out there and introduce yourself to be on the show,
- 9:54create your own podcast, write books, write articles.
- 10:00We are not surprised when we hear about Nick Saban.
- 10:03Nick Saban writing a book that's like, oh, of course he's a big
- 10:05football coach. We we should know his leadership
- 10:07principles or whatever. I used this example earlier in
- 10:11our prerecord. Where's Curtis Frye's book and
- 10:14that man leadership just exudes out of him.
- 10:16I'd love to know more about his journey and have other
- 10:19generations of future track coaches.
- 10:21Not even track coaches, coaches that that we would learn a
- 10:24basketball coach would be a better leader if they heard
- 10:27Curtis's story, in my opinion. I'm gonna go ahead.
- 10:31I'll jump in there and. Say I do have an interview with
- 10:33Coach Fry. And you should.
- 10:35Check it out. It's, you know, I mean talking
- 10:37about. Burning crosses on the yard.
- 10:39Yeah, I can't imagine, Can't imagine.
- 10:44I wanted to point that out first.
- 10:45I love what you did and you're gonna come back to, and I'm just
- 10:48gonna predict the future you're gonna come back to in some form
- 10:50or fashion. Tyree Price is doing a lot of
- 10:52some of these similar things as well.
- 10:53I just love that and bless that stuff.
- 10:55And I, I don't think there can be enough media around track
- 10:59coaches. So I'm always going to encourage
- 11:02that. So I appreciate you doing that.
- 11:0434 episodes, that's better than 0 because I can't tell you how
- 11:07many people you know, I, I teach people how to create podcasts.
- 11:10How many people come to me saying they want to start a
- 11:12podcast and we go through the whole, you know, it's pretty
- 11:13simple actually, but we go through the whole thing and then
- 11:15they never start because I want it to be perfect.
- 11:18I need the perfect microphone. I need the what?
- 11:20Whatever. All these things.
- 11:21And it's like, yeah, guess what? That's that's zero production.
- 11:23Nothing actually got out. That's like saying I want to be,
- 11:25I wanted a track runner. Never sit in the track.
- 11:27You got to get. Off the track, Yeah.
- 11:29I wanted to feel like I got past that phase.
- 11:31Like, it's like, whatever it is, like, most people don't even
- 11:33start it. So I wanted to start it.
- 11:34It's like, well, most people don't get past 10 episodes.
- 11:36I was like, all right, we I have to at least get, you know, hey,
- 11:40a little catalogue here. You will get better.
- 11:42In fact, right now when you're listening to this, so this is
- 11:47episode 200 and something, whatever, eighty, 7080,
- 11:49something like that. If you go, if you went back and
- 11:52listened to episode #1 you'd be like, oh God, he's terrible.
- 11:56All right. But I, but I'm not afraid of it.
- 11:58And So what I'm doing right now, we're actually because the 1st
- 12:0010 people that were guests on the show had to show some real
- 12:05guts. So this is before COVID.
- 12:06So no air quotes. No one was doing a podcast.
- 12:09Actually, I always got a shout out.
- 12:10Joe Frontier throws coach up in Wisconsin.
- 12:13He's the, he's the OGI. Think he's got like 600
- 12:15episodes. He's been doing this before we
- 12:16were born. Yeah.
- 12:18So I I always hesitate. I don't want to get too big of
- 12:20an ego and say, well, I was the first, you know, I was the
- 12:24originator into COVID. We'll say, but I want people,
- 12:28those first ten people took a chance on me.
- 12:30I was like, Hey, I'm I'm going to do a podcast.
- 12:32You know, this 2000 people like what?
- 12:34I don't even really know what a podcast is.
- 12:35What you talking about, Mike? Oh, and by the way, I'm going to
- 12:38interview about you. Oh, you know, it's a little, you
- 12:40know, I don't really like talking about myself.
- 12:41Oh, and by the way, we're going to go an hour and a half like
- 12:45you got to really trust me to do that.
- 12:47So we're rerunning as bonus episodes on Thursday.
- 12:50So our original content comes out on Mondays on Thursdays for
- 12:5310 weeks in a row. We're running episodes
- 12:55123469910. The OG series, we're calling it
- 12:58the OG series just to give love back to what they are.
- 13:01I didn't remaster it. Some of the audio is still
- 13:03absolutely atrocious and I'm a little embarrassed, but I'm also
- 13:06like, well, that led me to today in what we're what we're doing
- 13:09now. So, so don't be afraid it, it,
- 13:12it, it's going to look the first time you stepped on a track, it
- 13:14looked bad, I'm assuming, and you got a lot better.
- 13:17Get out there and get it done off my soapbox.
- 13:19OK, Adrian, let's get into you because again, we're going to
- 13:24have a lot of these. I just, I just feel like you're
- 13:27still spoken. This is this is your podcast and
- 13:30I'm just the the guest, I guess here.
- 13:33Where does let's get to your origin story here somewhere
- 13:37Assume it. Well, I do know you're an
- 13:39athlete somewhere. Track had to start and you
- 13:42mentioned you're from the virgin Iowa, which I didn't.
- 13:44I didn't know that. Where does track start for you?
- 13:48So track started for me in second grade on Saint Croix.
- 13:53For those of you who don't know, Saint Croix's one of the US
- 13:55Virgin Islands right next to Puerto Rico.
- 14:00And I was one of those kids who had a ton of energy.
- 14:02You know, I, I was bouncing off the walls all the time.
- 14:07I was raised by my mom on Saint Croix and my grandmother and
- 14:11they didn't know what to do with me.
- 14:13And it was like to the point where?
- 14:16They were just waiting for whatever age kids are allowed to
- 14:19play sports, waiting for me to hit that age.
- 14:21So the youngest possible thing. So I was in like gymnastics and
- 14:25then I was in martial arts and then, you know, at some point I
- 14:28could be in flag football, soccer and 2nd grade was track.
- 14:34And you know, I guess that was the one that just stuck.
- 14:37You know, it was, well, it definitely solved the energy
- 14:40problem. You know, my mom sent me to
- 14:42practice, come home exhausted so I wouldn't drive her nuts.
- 14:47And I was, I was pretty good. You know, I was pretty fast.
- 14:50I wasn't great at the other sports like basketball.
- 14:53I wasn't that good. I was pretty good at soccer.
- 14:57I played soccer for a long time. I played into high school before
- 15:00I made a choice to just go full time track, but you know, track
- 15:06like you just have to run. So it was fun Every when I was
- 15:08in school, I wanted to be the fastest and we used to just race
- 15:11and I could brag about that. I, you know, just a little sign.
- 15:14I do think that's important. You know, when I, you know, I'm
- 15:17a men's head coach and when I think about, you know, boys and
- 15:20development, I think a lot of times we've missed that.
- 15:23For me, track was something that I gained competence in and then
- 15:29that helped me build confidence. And so I think boys need that
- 15:33like you need something that you can try.
- 15:35And I and I had, I did not have a lot of patience.
- 15:39And so I credit that to my mom. She made sure that I didn't give
- 15:42up instantly because I, I would just try something and I was
- 15:45like, I'm not great at this. So I wouldn't want to stop.
- 15:48And she would say, no, stick with it.
- 15:50And so I would, I would just stick with stuff.
- 15:53This might be a little Side Story.
- 15:54She bought me a Pogo stick once and I had a lot of energy.
- 16:00You know, I couldn't I couldn't really use it at first and then
- 16:03at some point she's like, you know, just practice and I would
- 16:05get to the point where I would just like be counting to 1000.
- 16:08You know, I'll have the jump rope on the Pogo stick and and
- 16:12it was a it was a little rusty. So it would just make this
- 16:14really, you know, this, this this obnoxious out yes, that's
- 16:19that boy. My mom was like like if I had a
- 16:22run, she would tell the story like it was just driving her
- 16:24crazy. She's.
- 16:25Like there's a mistake. I should have figured out
- 16:26something. That was a mistake.
- 16:27It was a mistake, but. The point was I practiced it, I
- 16:31got good at it and I gained confidence.
- 16:32So I think that's important. And that worked for me.
- 16:35And it, you know, once I was able to win my first couple of
- 16:39ribbons at these small track meets.
- 16:42And I was when I was able to leave the island for the first
- 16:44time and visit the British Virgin Islands for small track
- 16:47meets and see their, you know, how their money was different,
- 16:50how their, how they spoke differently, like how the
- 16:52culture was different, the food was different.
- 16:55And it kind of sparked my, what I currently have is this love
- 16:59for travel. And so that was it.
- 17:02You know, it my first, that was it.
- 17:04I was like, wow, I want to do this.
- 17:05And I don't know who put the Olympics in my head, but I
- 17:09started going around saying, you know, I want to be an Olympic
- 17:11in. And you know, I have all these
- 17:13little articles from like the Saint Croix Daily News and Saint
- 17:16Croix Avis where it's like, you know, me with my little ribbons,
- 17:19like Adrian Durant, 12 year old wants to be an Olympian.
- 17:23So that became my thing. That became my thing.
- 17:25That was the part of my identity.
- 17:27And I was I was, you know, I want to be the fastest guy on
- 17:30the Virgin Islands. What at that age?
- 17:32We, I love learning about like I know how American culture grows
- 17:36up with track and field. A couple weeks ago we had Elaine
- 17:40Francicon who grew up in Granada and it was interesting to hear
- 17:42about what the culture of track and field was in Granada.
- 17:45What, what's the in Saint Croix? What's the culture of track and
- 17:49field? Is that a big sport There is,
- 17:52you know, in Granada, he mentioned like cricket was a big
- 17:54deal. Talk to us about what the
- 17:56culture when you're growing up in track is.
- 17:57Is it cool to be in track, or are you really supposed to be a
- 17:59soccer player or something? No, we're, we're pretty
- 18:02Americanized in the sense that, you know, being the US Virgin
- 18:05Islands. So basketball still is, is king.
- 18:08I mean, Tim Duncan is from Saint Croix.
- 18:10We've had a lot of yeah, we have a lot of great basketball
- 18:13players that come out of our small, our small territory.
- 18:15So basketball is king. You know, football isn't really
- 18:20a thing. Soccer.
- 18:21Is I was wondering if football. Yeah, yeah.
- 18:24No, no, you know it. It isn't a thing in the Virgin
- 18:26Islands. And soccer is is.
- 18:28You know, somewhat, but I would say basketball is is the thing
- 18:31and track is, I mean, it's it's fairly popular, but I wouldn't
- 18:36say it's a huge sport now. We've had some very successful,
- 18:39you know. Virgin Islanders on the on the
- 18:42elite level and track and field. So like I said, our our little.
- 18:45Territory is able to produce some some stars here and there
- 18:48in different sports, but it's similar to America.
- 18:51So how did you as you're going through assuming there's whether
- 18:55you call it high school or not, there's something in high
- 18:56school, you know, 14 to 18 year old age period and you're doing
- 19:00track and you're getting better. When did the idea or how did the
- 19:05idea of whether it's coming to the mainland for college or
- 19:09what, what was the thought of like, well, how do I continue
- 19:11this on? If I want to be an Olympian, I
- 19:13got to continue on. How did that come around?
- 19:16So it was towards the end of elementary school, I went to
- 19:19Saint Mary's Catholic School on Saint Croix.
- 19:21It's kindergarten, 8th grade. And, and so that's where, you
- 19:26know, I would get my little, they would have recess and I
- 19:29would stand up in front and they would say, you know, Adrian
- 19:31Duran, I get my little ribbon. So I was really getting like,
- 19:34OK, this is something that I, I want to keep doing because, you
- 19:37know, you start getting a little bit popular from it.
- 19:41So, and so my mother, she worked at one of the local high schools
- 19:46and, and she just got the idea that staying on Saint Croix
- 19:49would limit my opportunities, which it would have.
- 19:52And so she had spoke to her, her first cousin, my Uncle Jerry,
- 19:56and decided I would, you know, ship off to New Jersey and, and
- 20:02seek some greater opportunity to see if I could pursue this
- 20:04Olympic dream. For high school.
- 20:07Yes, so I left Saint Croix after 8th.
- 20:10So I left Saint Croix after 8th grade.
- 20:12OK, so, so crazy how little parallel.
- 20:16I assume this may be a better assumption.
- 20:18Do you know Elaine Franzique? Yeah.
- 20:20OK, so a little because you know, he he went for not not
- 20:23high school. But I mean, I don't like, I
- 20:25don't, yeah. I don't know who I'm.
- 20:25Talking about, right? Yeah, we've accounted each other
- 20:28many times over. The years great dude you need to
- 20:30find him he's in South Carolina now by the way you needed to
- 20:33great dude. You guys would link up very
- 20:34well, but he went from Granada to New Jersey as well not for
- 20:38high for college Essex Community College and my question is
- 20:40always you know I'm from Alabama and I live in Illinois and it's
- 20:43freezing here. How does a kid and this you
- 20:46really a kid? This is 8th 9th grade, so
- 20:48you're. You know, it was terrible.
- 20:49Yeah, how how do you survive? I I barely survive.
- 20:52It's terrible, yeah. Yeah, no, it was.
- 20:54The transition was rough. I had no idea, you know, And on
- 20:58Saint Croix, the coldest it would ever get is 70°.
- 21:01It's the coldest. In the heart of winter, so.
- 21:05We, you know, it does not get cold and moving in North Jersey
- 21:09where you're going to, you're going to get snow.
- 21:11It's a huge transition and and a little bit of a culture shock.
- 21:14I'm moving in North Jersey, Teaneck High.
- 21:16School, you know, it's like. It's, it's, I don't want to say
- 21:21it's a very urban area because the school is, is very mixed
- 21:24when it comes to demographics, but it's a tough place if you're
- 21:28coming from another country and trying to find and trying to
- 21:32feel belonging and find a group to be a part of.
- 21:35It was, it was, you know, it was very cliquish, just like any
- 21:40high school. And I, I didn't really have
- 21:42that. I didn't really know anybody
- 21:43and, and have anyone to associate with.
- 21:45So it was, it was a tough transition for me.
- 21:48Didn't have, you know, clothing for the winter and definitely
- 21:51didn't have cool. Clothing.
- 21:52So I was a little bit of AI don't want to.
- 21:56I was not a loner. I would say just in the
- 21:59beginning I didn't. Have any friends?
- 22:01And it was a tough transition, but.
- 22:03And you're a track star, so you can't even, like, prove how cool
- 22:05you are on the track in the fall because it's not there.
- 22:08This is not well, you know, well, this is where having a
- 22:11little bit of an ego comes in. So I, I was this little guy from
- 22:15the islands. No one knew me, but I knew, you
- 22:18know, I was always a good student.
- 22:19So I could be in class, in school, the classes, that was
- 22:23kind of easy for me. You know, I guess it was a
- 22:24concern coming from the Virgin Islands whether the academics
- 22:27would, you know, it, it would, it would transfer over well.
- 22:30But I was always a good student in, in the Virgin Islands.
- 22:32When I came up to Teaneck High, it was, it was an easy
- 22:35transition for me. So I spent a lot of time
- 22:37talking, and some of that talking was just talking about
- 22:40how fast. I was so I'm faster than
- 22:41everybody, you know, And it was like, who is this?
- 22:44Who is some point? Folks like who is this guy?
- 22:46Because at Teaneck High School, everyone who's there comes from
- 22:51Benjamin Franklin Middle School or Thomas Jefferson Middle
- 22:53School. So they all these rivals kind of
- 22:55come together and that's Teaneck High.
- 22:57And if you didn't go to either one, it it's, it's hard to
- 22:59establish yourself, but I, you know, I'm the fastest.
- 23:02And so I started challenging folks were like, OK, let's shut
- 23:05this guy up. Let's let's race him.
- 23:08That just goes in my favor. So I started racing people after
- 23:11school. And beating them.
- 23:12And so I was like, OK, this guy is fast.
- 23:14So at least I could have a little bit of clout there where
- 23:17I was like, OK, this guy is fast.
- 23:20He has some athletic prowess. There's some backup to the talk.
- 23:23Yeah, yeah. Something, yeah.
- 23:25And then eventually, and that was my freshman year in fall, I
- 23:29joined the soccer team. So then I was able to make a
- 23:31bunch of friends and. And I was pretty good.
- 23:33I scored a bunch of goals for my freshman.
- 23:34Year I was pretty good. And then when track season came
- 23:38around, indoor track, then I was home and I was, I was able to
- 23:42make varsity as a freshman and then it was like.
- 23:44Who's this this little freshman on varsity and and?
- 23:48So yeah, it was just the. Beginning of me chasing that
- 23:50that dream. Jersey what a great.
- 23:54I love that you ended up in Jersey for track and field
- 23:56because one of my favorite states for track and field when
- 23:59I when I was a college coach, that was my recruited state and
- 24:02you know it. It should not be as good as it
- 24:04is, you know, weather wise. We just have to establish this
- 24:07that Jersey is a crazy track state.
- 24:10One of the best. I mean, there are always dogs
- 24:13coming out of there. I mean, every year there are
- 24:16big, big time recruits. I just love that little weird.
- 24:19I can't take a left on the street state, man.
- 24:21I just love it, man. I love it.
- 24:23So how did high school career go?
- 24:24You kept getting faster. How did you how was it finding
- 24:28your event? Were you always a sprinter?
- 24:29Did you try anything else? I was.
- 24:33I was. Yeah, I was, I was.
- 24:35Well, you talk to my high school coach to this day and she'll
- 24:38tell you I was a 800 runner. But there's no way, no how so
- 24:42that. But that'll tell you how my high
- 24:43school. Experience when when you're, you
- 24:47know, like a sprinter but you're coming off of soccer and your
- 24:50coach thinks you're an 8 runner, it can make things a little
- 24:52tough. But I did all the events and I
- 24:54was long jumping. I was running the 50 fives in
- 24:56the 60s and at least in my little neck of the woods, New
- 24:59Jersey, I was doing well. I was, you know, first team all
- 25:01county, Bergen County a million times.
- 25:03So that was that was pretty good.
- 25:06It wasn't until we would get down to South Jersey where it
- 25:08would get my butt kicked because I don't know what's going on
- 25:12down there. You know, back in my time it was
- 25:15Camden, you know, running three O 9 in Willingboro.
- 25:21What? What years is this?
- 25:22What year did you graduate high school?
- 25:25That's 2002. So this is 98 O2.
- 25:28So did you? Wow, that's interesting.
- 25:31Did you know, like Chris Stevens, Anthony Acklin, these
- 25:39are hurdlers, they would have graduated like O one, yeah, they
- 25:43were the top. There's three of them that they
- 25:48were #1 two, number three in the nation, all from Jersey 13131.
- 25:52I. Signed I wasn't at this the meet
- 25:54of champs. So OK, OK, I signed them in the
- 25:57Meet of Champs in JUCO in Kansas.
- 25:59So I again, I love the jersey. So I went and get as many
- 26:01athletes as I could. Wait, so you weren't the Meet of
- 26:03Champions? Wait a minute, hold on.
- 26:04OK, so yeah, so so let me Yes, so.
- 26:08I had, I ran OK and I ran 48 mid and 22 low and, and, and, and,
- 26:15you know, in that range. And at the time I had even back
- 26:20then, I had wanted to go to South Carolina.
- 26:22One of the track mates that I competed in when I was a kid was
- 26:25this youth games meet that was held right in Columbia at the
- 26:29University of South Carolina. And I guess back then I was
- 26:32saying that I wanted to be a Gamecock and then Fast forward.
- 26:36Isn't that? Interesting, I had forgotten
- 26:38about it. Fast forward in high school, one
- 26:41of the first coaches that my high school coach, we had
- 26:44multiple coaches. So one of my other high school
- 26:45coach introduced me to was Coach Fry.
- 26:48And it was like, OK, another encounter.
- 26:50And at that point, it was starting to be like, all right,
- 26:52something about this place. He was the New Jersey king too,
- 26:54by the way. Every kid that was good went
- 26:57from Jersey to South Carolina. To 2001 to you know South
- 27:01Carolina was hot and so I. You know, he wanted me to run at
- 27:07least 47 and I had, you know, I won the Burgundy, the Champs and
- 27:11I advanced to groups and everything.
- 27:14Then I pulled my groin at the, at Egg Harbor.
- 27:18I think it was the state sectionals and one of those
- 27:20meats. And so that was the end of my
- 27:22season and I hadn't run the time that he wanted me to run to be
- 27:25recruited. So at that point I was like, I,
- 27:28I had, I didn't run fast enough, you know, for a scholarship and
- 27:33I had my mind set that I wanted to go there because I figured
- 27:37that was the best place that I could, you know, have the
- 27:41opportunity to run fast enough to make it to the Olympics.
- 27:44Like I needed to be at a place where I can really get some
- 27:46expertise and be around some dogs.
- 27:48So I wasn't going to, didn't run fast enough.
- 27:52So I was like, well, you know what?
- 27:53I'm not going to go to college. I'm just going to train.
- 27:56You know, and figure it out. Yeah, I know this is now, mind
- 27:59you, I'm like in AP classes, national society, but I'm, I'm
- 28:04locked in, man. I'm locked in.
- 28:05I'm not worried about all of that.
- 28:07I'm like track, you know, and so.
- 28:10Are you? Hold on, let's make that picture
- 28:12a little bit more. Are you so locked in?
- 28:15Like are you the kid? I'm gonna call it the dream kid.
- 28:18And what I what I mean by that is, you know, right now, I say
- 28:21right now, back when I was in high school, they the same
- 28:23complaints from coaches about kids that they don't know their
- 28:26track history. They don't know who, you know,
- 28:28back then, it's like you guys don't know who Carl and Leroy
- 28:30are. Now today they're like, you
- 28:31know, you guys don't know who Noah and Aryan and you know,
- 28:34these guys were you the guy? Like you're so locked in because
- 28:36at 12 years old you're like, I'm, I want to go to the
- 28:38Olympics. Are you like, you know, reading
- 28:40the track and field news or you? No way.
- 28:42There's not a lot of Internet early back then, but are you
- 28:44like so you you're you're not that you're just locked in on.
- 28:47I'm not. I'm worried about me.
- 28:49Yeah, OK. It's it's me and you.
- 28:51I'm not. I'm not.
- 28:52Yeah. No, I wasn't.
- 28:53I wasn't locked you. Didn't know, like in Jersey
- 28:55you're like, Oh yeah, here's the top 4400 meter runners.
- 28:58I'm going after them. It was just like, I got it.
- 29:00It's my time. It doesn't matter what they
- 29:01well. I did know the top guys, but I
- 29:04was a little bit far from those guys at the time.
- 29:07I was just, you know, at the time, like I said, around 40.
- 29:10Eight, I'm like, all right, let me get the 47 because it opens
- 29:12up my chance to to at least try to walk on or figure something
- 29:15out of South Carolina, which I was able to.
- 29:18I was, I wasn't going to go to school.
- 29:20And my grandfather was like, yeah, OK, you're going to
- 29:23college. Like, it's not even a
- 29:25discussion. So he had a little money saved
- 29:29up and my mom took out a loan and was like, all right, one
- 29:32year, you know, one year. Good luck.
- 29:36Walked on it, South Carolina. I walked on in South Carolina.
- 29:39My PR in the 400 was 4862, hundred was 22 flat and hundred
- 29:44was 11. Flat at the time and I walked
- 29:47on. Other schools.
- 29:50I mean, yeah, so I could have gone.
- 29:52You're. I could have.
- 29:53Yeah, I know this was. That is not a good idea.
- 29:57I wish. I would have known that I could
- 29:59have gone to the Ivy League for free.
- 30:00Yeah, you had. The grades I was going to
- 30:03school, public issues, I had SAT scores, I just and I had no
- 30:07income, you know, so I was like, I could have gone to one of
- 30:10these schools, but at the time they weren't as good in track.
- 30:12They were. They were good, but.
- 30:14It's different. Now, Yeah, yeah, right now we're
- 30:16the 6th strongest conference, right?
- 30:17So it's a little different. I didn't want to.
- 30:20I wasn't trying to hear the Ivy League thing or any of the
- 30:23schools up north. I was like, no, I want 100° down
- 30:26South. I appreciate that you're not
- 30:28spouting off the, you know, these kids need to all walk on
- 30:32like I did. I appreciate that because that's
- 30:35not for everybody. Yeah, exactly.
- 30:36I get a little, you know, there there's no bigger track coach
- 30:39advocate than myself. So I, you know, I love the, I'm
- 30:41always supporting our coaches, but there's sometimes that means
- 30:43you have to push back. And I don't like that
- 30:45necessarily that, you know, all these kids, they need to go walk
- 30:48on. And it's like, bro, that's
- 30:49that's not every situation. Yeah, No, I can't.
- 30:52Demand that so. No, I wouldn't.
- 30:54I wouldn't. You know, that was my dream.
- 30:58That's how I thought I could accomplish it.
- 30:59And right or wrong, you got to own it.
- 31:01So I was willing to accept whatever the consequence, if I
- 31:04was going to get sent home after that year, so be it.
- 31:07So if you willing to own up to it then.
- 31:10Go for it. Before we get into how it worked
- 31:12out, So what is your mindset besides the Olympics?
- 31:18Professionally, I'm going to go to South Carolina.
- 31:20I'm going to study X. I'm going to become a business
- 31:22owner. What are you thinking and is
- 31:24coaching at all in your brain? As a 18 year old kid, no.
- 31:28OK, no way. I was, I was, I was in high
- 31:32school. I took computer science classes.
- 31:33So this is back in, you know, 2000 when things were first
- 31:37going. I was taking C++ classes.
- 31:39I took. C++.
- 31:41There we go. So, so I was and I was good at
- 31:43math, so I went into South Carolina as an engineer.
- 31:46I was in computer engineering and I didn't really like it.
- 31:50Adrian My first major was computer engineering.
- 31:53Look at this, a lot of common here.
- 31:55What's going on, man? I'm like, I'm like just the
- 31:57little bit older whiter version of you I think is what we're
- 31:59good at. Except for you're now at the Ivy
- 32:00League and there was no way, yeah, the academics actually is
- 32:03way different. But yeah, is that right?
- 32:05So on took C plus I was not good at math though, so I I sucked.
- 32:08I, I got AC in C++ and I was like, oh, it's not not going to
- 32:12get good. All right, keep going.
- 32:13Sorry, sorry. So I came in as an engineer.
- 32:14I didn't like discreet math. I didn't like.
- 32:17Just the high. Level math.
- 32:18I was like, all right, this is a little too much math for me.
- 32:21And I ended up switching over to pretty much it.
- 32:24Yeah, you know, I, but I still have my engineering background.
- 32:27Like I can, I can put together APC, you know, I can fix, fix
- 32:31PCs and laptops and whatnot, whatnot, which they were the
- 32:34point of my life. I have to survive off of that.
- 32:37Yeah, yeah. Adrian Adrian's computer repair
- 32:40had me afloat for a little bit, so.
- 32:43I love that because, you know, I, I think so highly of the
- 32:46people who choose to be track coaches and I'm really glad that
- 32:48they chose to be track coaches. But I look at people like you
- 32:51and, and other coaches and I'm like, oh man, you could have
- 32:53been like, you could have been like employee number 100 at
- 32:56Apple, like you could have been a doctor.
- 32:58That's, that's amazing. That's that's quite amazing.
- 33:01Yeah, but I didn't want to. I, I, you know, this.
- 33:04So I was, I was in IT because I'll tell you about the.
- 33:07First kind of job that I had in IT, but.
- 33:10So I graduated in IT. Essentially.
- 33:12And when I graduated, you know, I wasn't thinking about working.
- 33:16It was just like, I want to. Well, don't.
- 33:18Don't track. Don't graduate, Just skip, yeah.
- 33:20Yeah. So don't graduate, Yeah?
- 33:23So I was so I was computer engineering and switched to IT.
- 33:25Pretty much. And so you're betting on
- 33:27yourself, you know, that's the only thing you know at this
- 33:29point. For crying out loud, you go down
- 33:31as a 48 point kid to Curtis Frye and they, I mean, man, they're
- 33:35running fast. This is 2002.
- 33:38This is National Championship 4 by 4.
- 33:41Yeah, how did Portis? Harris, O Tequila Dakote,
- 33:45Jonathan Fortenberry and Anka Leg is a freshman.
- 33:48Fortenberry, Oh I. Loved.
- 33:49Him. Yes, Yes, yes, yes.
- 33:52Yeah, Otis Harris. How did it go?
- 33:57So, so my freshman year I came in, I had the mindset, I really
- 34:02didn't think that folks were better than me.
- 34:04Like I always just thought like, look, they had better coaching,
- 34:07they were in a better environment.
- 34:09I just always. Just chalked it up to
- 34:10circumstance. I never thought like, OK, it's
- 34:13like folks were really better than me.
- 34:15I don't know where I got that mindset.
- 34:17But I got a lesson. I was convinced.
- 34:20Well, I got a lesson, but that's another piece of it too.
- 34:24So I was convinced that if I could just, you know, get in the
- 34:27right place that I could be just as good as all of these other
- 34:30guys. So I walked on to South.
- 34:31Carolina. And I can just remember there
- 34:33being there the first day as a walk on.
- 34:36I had these big red sweatpants and I was I was a little guy.
- 34:40And to me that it's all look like giants, you know, and and
- 34:45you know, the women, too, they just won a national
- 34:47championship. So you have, you know, Mickey
- 34:49and Lisa here, Lashinda, everyone's there.
- 34:51You know, it's like, OK, this this is like intense just being
- 34:56there. And I'm.
- 34:56Trying to just keep my eye my head down, not make eye contact.
- 35:00And, and just, you know, just go through the most, do the drills
- 35:03and learn as much as I can. And that's pretty much what I
- 35:05did. But it got to a point where it
- 35:10was trying to figure out where I would be short sprints or long
- 35:12sprints. And it just, you know, they
- 35:15started figuring, figuring out that I had a little bit of
- 35:17strength because when I would train with some of the the short
- 35:19sprinters, I could just do a little more than they could.
- 35:23So I don't know what made Coach Fry do this, but he.
- 35:27Decided that I was going to be the training partner or training
- 35:30dummy. I don't know what it was for
- 35:31John and Otis, so he decided to just throw me with them right
- 35:37now. Can you imagine?
- 35:39Can you imagine? I'm running 48 Otis Harris, you
- 35:42know he silver medalist in the. Four, Yeah.
- 35:44Yeah, John, freshman year anchors it was something like 44
- 35:48one. It was something ridiculous to
- 35:49pass Gary Kakaya and and and to and to finish.
- 35:55After. Before.
- 35:56Troy No, I mean, I'm sorry. Daryl.
- 35:59Daryl. Williamson Yeah, that anchor
- 36:00leg. So, so you know, I'm like, OK,
- 36:05so I just did. Tons of grass workouts with
- 36:08these guys, three hundreds on the grass, and they would just
- 36:11drag me, drag me down the field every day.
- 36:14What was what was their attitude towards you?
- 36:17Because I'm picturing these two of you.
- 36:18They were studs. Here's a different one at first.
- 36:21Is that right? At first it was indifference.
- 36:24And then, you know, they made fun of me.
- 36:26They put me through my my growing pains.
- 36:27Coconut Coconut King Pineapple prints all the names, all the
- 36:32Caribbean nicknames they could make up, but.
- 36:36As the fall progressed, it was like, wait a second, you know,
- 36:40because I was training with them and they started realizing like
- 36:43he's not like he's, he's dying, but like he's getting closer
- 36:48every. Week he doesn't go away.
- 36:49Like he's still here. He's not, he's not giving up.
- 36:52Like he's he's staying like in this distance with us and so.
- 36:59I remember during my freshman year I had went to a track meet
- 37:04in to represent the Virgin Islands in El Salvador.
- 37:07I think it was Central American Caribbean Games and one of them
- 37:10so. That was cool that I.
- 37:12Was getting the opportunity to represent the VI and I went out
- 37:14there and I got smoked. I ran I ran like 49 one Now
- 37:20remember. But here's the thing though.
- 37:22Remember this is this is in the. Fall.
- 37:25So this is like. November this is like late
- 37:28November, early December. It's an outdoor meet and my PR
- 37:32coming in is 48 six so it's like OK, yeah, I got smoked, but I'm.
- 37:37Already kind of, you know where I left high school at, We're
- 37:41still in, we're still in fall training.
- 37:43So they made fun of me a little bit, but I didn't give up, kept
- 37:47going at it. And I just remember as we got
- 37:49towards. The indoor season, we should do
- 37:51like little inner squad meets and things like that.
- 37:54And but John Fortenberry, they were talking about picking the
- 37:59teams and picking the relays and, and yeah, the the short
- 38:03sprinters, you know, some of them were like greats like
- 38:05Thomas Lewis out of North Carolina and Duan Barrino, you
- 38:09know? That's what we got, some pretty
- 38:10fast time and John was like, we'll take Adrian, he's faster.
- 38:14Than all of you and. They're like, oh come on, get
- 38:16out of here. And he's like, he's faster.
- 38:19Than all of you and so. Kind of a bit of a position.
- 38:23Where? Well, no.
- 38:24Well, for me, I, you know, I'm like, I, I, I wasn't, I didn't
- 38:27really, at the time, I didn't know how much better I had
- 38:30gotten. Like, I just was thinking like,
- 38:32you know, yeah. You know, these guys are
- 38:34incredible. They're on full scholarship, you
- 38:37know. Yeah, I guess I could beat them.
- 38:41And so there was another time when there was another sign I
- 38:44was doing a 300 workout. For some reason I was with the
- 38:46short sprints group. And I'm not going to call any
- 38:49names so they don't in case they watch this, they don't.
- 38:52And I just I was a freshman. These guys are a full
- 38:54scholarship and we're on our 4th 300.
- 38:57And we were taking turns leading.
- 38:59It was my turn to lead. Now they say to me, don't run
- 39:03too fast because we're we're tired.
- 39:06I'm a I'm a walk on trying to earn a scholarship.
- 39:08So I've gun it bow last Rep. I run like. 30.
- 39:11You know, where flats in the fire run like 34 flat.
- 39:14And so Kevin Brown, he's like, oh, hold on now this, this, this
- 39:18guy have, you know, he has some wheels on him.
- 39:21So there were these little indicators that this was.
- 39:23Going to happen and then my freshman year going and I pretty
- 39:27much PR D every track meet. So I low starting point but I
- 39:30just kept PR ING PR and PR and PR to the point where they were
- 39:34like OK. It was just expected.
- 39:36I got to go to SEC indoors as a as a as a walk on.
- 39:40Where I pretty much ran the equivalent of my outdoor PRS in
- 39:44there and then his. The big one was our very first
- 39:48outdoor home meet. Florida came up, I forgot who
- 39:54else was there and I was in a slow heat of 200, but I ran 21
- 39:58flat and ended up getting like second to like Kyle Farmer and
- 40:02it was like. Oh, hold on.
- 40:04So now it's now I had AI had. Just made a huge jump.
- 40:07That's a second drop. From.
- 40:08When I had run in high school I was like 21 flat bordering on 20
- 40:12point something, so all. Right now I'm actually.
- 40:15Going to be able to do something and.
- 40:18So that was my freshman year. I ended up.
- 40:20For some reason, Coach Fry took me to SEC's as a walk on.
- 40:24Some folks got hurt, so I ended up having to lead off the four
- 40:27by four and we ran three. O 4 became SEC champion Otis
- 40:32Harris. Before that race I was nervous.
- 40:34He comes up to me and says look man.
- 40:38Take the baton, bring it around the track.
- 40:41Go to the podium and collect your FM metal.
- 40:45I was like. Because I was nervous and he
- 40:47came up to me, so I was nervous. He grabbed me and said get the
- 40:52baton, go around the track. Go to the podium.
- 40:55He's waiting for us at the podium.
- 40:58And he's like, that's, that's. And you know what?
- 41:00That I mean, you got to love having a teammate with that much
- 41:03confidence, right? You're like, all right, well, we
- 41:04feel good. It calmed me down.
- 41:08I gunned it and I know I gunned it because I don't have the
- 41:11footage, but I remembered them saying like South Carolina is
- 41:14out. Well, so you know, I just I was
- 41:15running scared. I had to come through way too
- 41:17fast. The 1st 200 I was rigging going
- 41:20through, but I handed off maybe in like you know, I was
- 41:22somewhere with Florida. You know, I think that I was
- 41:25siku. Clark.
- 41:26Leading off. And so we handed.
- 41:28Her out maybe in that third, fourth position and you know my
- 41:31team mates. Did the rest Wow.
- 41:33What? What?
- 41:34So is this the O3 season? This was O.
- 41:38Three yes, so I I joined four O 2.
- 41:40This was O3 my walk on year and and and so it was pretty cool
- 41:45after that because you know and and I ended up PR ING in 100.
- 41:49I ran 1037 that year and then. So I let off 40. 61 ran 1037 and
- 41:55then I end up running a 20.8 in the 200 at the regionals right
- 41:59after that. So the coolest thing for me was
- 42:02that the summer before leaving high school and I like I said, I
- 42:06was injured in high school, but the Virgin Islands wanted
- 42:09someone to compete at the. The CAC Juniors and the World
- 42:13Juniors. So I went to Barbados, so I was
- 42:16training there and that's when I first met Shirani Martina, who
- 42:18I've been good friends with for a long time.
- 42:20And we were roommates at the AT in Barbados.
- 42:23And I ended up going to the World Juniors in Jamaica where I
- 42:27met, you know, Daryl Brown and from Trinidad and and a bunch of
- 42:30these other folks. So it was an exciting time for
- 42:32me because I was kind of meeting and competing against all the
- 42:35top Caribbean folks. And yeah, I got smoked
- 42:40completely at the World Juniors after high school.
- 42:43I mean, it was bad it and I'm not saying I would have run a
- 42:47fast time, but part of it was them kids.
- 42:50This is lack of preparation. So, you know, I'm used to just a
- 42:54regular starting pistol pop, right?
- 42:57That for some reason 2003. They had this.
- 42:59Speaker system and it was a very different sound and so they have
- 43:03days where you can go and practice with the starter and I
- 43:06didn't do that so I went straight to the you know I'm so
- 43:09there I'm lined up I'm nervous big stadium full of people and
- 43:12the gun you know, set and I know.
- 43:14I should be responding to anything.
- 43:16And. I hear this sound and I don't
- 43:19move at all. You.
- 43:20Can imagine. So I get smoked, but luckily I
- 43:24come back the next year and the next year I'm able to make it to
- 43:28the Krypta finals in 100, get fit for six.
- 43:32Then I end up making it to the finals in a 200 at Krypta, going
- 43:35head to head with Shirandy and and Usain Bolt and Daniel Bailey
- 43:39and all these guys. And I pulled out a bronze.
- 43:42Going into I went into the final with the second fastest time to
- 43:45both and I actually thought I was going to beat him.
- 43:47So I may I may have to tell that story.
- 43:49Yeah, I. Think it's smoked?
- 43:51It's amazing. I'm putting my time frame in
- 43:54there. So that was 03 season, 04 and 05
- 43:57seasons I was on staff at Mississippi State, which, you
- 44:02know, we battled a lot in the four by four.
- 44:04We had a, you know, a 301-3024. We, we did a lot of battling
- 44:07back and forth then. So you would have been on those
- 44:09teams, man. That that's just, it's just kind
- 44:11of helping me like, Oh my God. Like I, I knew you air quotes as
- 44:13an athlete, like I had to. Well, luckily for me, I didn't
- 44:17have to compete against you. Thank God.
- 44:18The athletes. Yeah.
- 44:19It was just, it was an amazing time.
- 44:22You know, I'm gonna sound like the old man here.
- 44:24You know, this is before A&M, Missouri, obviously now the SEC
- 44:29is just, it's weird to me. It was, it's more pure, I think
- 44:33it was the 12 team SEC. It was just, it was a lot of
- 44:36fun, amazing athletes, amazing coaches and all that's still the
- 44:40same. They're still amazing athletes
- 44:41and amazing coaches. But I don't know, just the, the
- 44:4312 team format felt like it was more like, oh, like not, not
- 44:47that anybody could win the, the conference title, but there was
- 44:50more variety. Like South Carolina could win
- 44:52the four by four and you know, those kind of things.
- 44:54Now with this 16 team, it's kind of like, I don't know, just it's
- 44:58like, yeah, you're down to three teams basically that will always
- 45:00only win any of all the events at this point.
- 45:01So I don't know, just like I sound like the old man there.
- 45:05So you're going through your I mean what amazing.
- 45:08Like every coach right now is like, gosh, how do I get a walk
- 45:12on at 11 point and they run 1037 freshman year like that.
- 45:16That's the the Holy Grail of walk on and and coaching
- 45:20improvement. How did like so as you come back
- 45:23in for a sophomore, junior, senior season, like you, you
- 45:26already had some pretty good confidence, it appears, but I
- 45:29mean, now you've got like stats behind it to back up.
- 45:33I feel like not bad confidence. I just feel like more
- 45:36confidence. You you mentioned earlier about
- 45:38competence equaling confidence. You got a lot more competence
- 45:41now going into it. How did the rest of the, the
- 45:44career go? You know, we, we want to hear if
- 45:47you ran 1037 freshman year, then you ran 937 your senior year,
- 45:50right? I, I wish so no, it didn't go
- 45:54that way and I, I learned a lot of valuable lessons from that
- 45:57experience as well. You know, freshman year was
- 45:59amazing. I was able to get put on a full
- 46:02ride came back my sophomore year.
- 46:05Thanks. I made it to nationals my
- 46:07sophomore year in the 60 and so it was kind of progressing in
- 46:11the right direction. I would say outdoor my sophomore
- 46:17year is probably when I, well, I did make it to the Olympics in O
- 46:234. Let's get to that.
- 46:24I was able to, I was, I was able to represent the US Virgin
- 46:27Islands at the O four games in Athens.
- 46:29OK, I want to know this then, because I love this that you
- 46:33know, like there's like actual physical receipts.
- 46:35There's newspaper articles of 12 year old Adrian saying I want to
- 46:38go there now in O 4. So talk about the first time
- 46:44when you found out you're actually going to the Olympics.
- 46:47I mean, that had to be. It's almost been like your life
- 46:49goal for crying out loud up to this point.
- 46:51It was, but I can't. Even remember the moment,
- 46:54really. Yeah.
- 46:58Because it was so unceremoniously meaning I assume
- 47:00it was probably in a letter, e-mail, phone call.
- 47:03Did it not hit you until? You got there.
- 47:05I just, I, I think, and this I think I took a lot of things for
- 47:12granted because I was so young. I really did.
- 47:16I think I thought that this was just how like I remember doing
- 47:20the press conferences and I was, I was very excited.
- 47:22It was like, I get to do this, but I think I just felt like
- 47:25this is just a start and it's going to.
- 47:27Be the norm. Interesting.
- 47:29You know, I, I, I think I, I took it a little bit for granted
- 47:32and I, which I regretted eventually.
- 47:35Sure. You know, I, I think I, you
- 47:38know, I talked to my kids about that, you know, like having a
- 47:41great freshman year based off my experience and then coming in
- 47:43the next year, just thinking you're automatically supposed to
- 47:46be the man. That's not necessarily the case.
- 47:48You have to refocus, you know, create new.
- 47:51Goals. I think once I got through
- 47:54Athens. I didn't create new goals.
- 47:58I hadn't thought about what I really wanted to be.
- 48:01I was just going through the motions of being a track and
- 48:03field athlete. And and like I told you about
- 48:06the keys to success earlier, if you don't identify the goal,
- 48:10then you're kind of floating through.
- 48:12So I didn't really decide that I wanted to be, you know, I wanted
- 48:19to be a world champion. I wanted to run, you know, 98
- 48:22and 100. I wanted these things to happen.
- 48:24I never really thought about it and decided on it.
- 48:26I just thought it would just keep happening and it did it.
- 48:30And you know. I.
- 48:31Probably should have taken some things more.
- 48:33I would have taken some things more seriously had I decided.
- 48:37Would have had less injuries. I would have taken better care
- 48:39of my body. The injuries are really what
- 48:41sidelined. Me.
- 48:42Most elite athletes? Sure.
- 48:44Exactly. Yeah.
- 48:45I'm running sixty to 100, you know, the injuries handy, of
- 48:49course. And so I do think it's
- 48:52important, you know, even when you're achieving some of your
- 48:55goals to to really stop and decide what's next.
- 49:00You know what, OK, you're conference champion.
- 49:02So what? What is it?
- 49:03That or or set the big goal from the beginning.
- 49:05But I think what you're describing is like it's a
- 49:07continual, there is no finish line, right?
- 49:10So. You're never done.
- 49:11I made this goal. Great.
- 49:13Well, what's the next thing? Because if you don't have that
- 49:15next thing, I think you're kind of describing it well.
- 49:17It's like, well then where's your aim?
- 49:20There's a lot of ambiguity. Ambiguity.
- 49:25I went to Troy University, so you know, education's a little
- 49:29less there. It's much more ambiguous if you
- 49:31don't have that target in front of you.
- 49:32That's why we have targets, for crying out.
- 49:34Loud yes, you're aimless and and it's hard to put 100%, you know
- 49:38of your effort when you're aimless.
- 49:42So that led to injuries and and so that's why you haven't heard
- 49:46of me as this, as this great track and field athlete, but I
- 49:50learned enough to know that I know how to achieve a goal.
- 49:54And so I was able to at least experience that.
- 49:56And, and I had said some, I've achieved some other goals since
- 49:59then, you know, just not as a track and field athlete, as a
- 50:03coach for sure. Before we move on graduation and
- 50:06how we started to get into coaching, you know, I mentioned
- 50:08Curtis Fry and I think you know extremely highly of him.
- 50:11You mentioned Kevin Brown, another guy that I'm not sure
- 50:14gets his due. I I don't know if I don't want
- 50:17to surprise and say overshadowed by Curtis Frye maybe, but Kevin
- 50:21Brown is amazing, by the way, Love, love him and what he's
- 50:24done and and does. What was it like?
- 50:27You actually your whole staff, by the way, Deletia Quarles was
- 50:30there at that time and you had, you guys had some, I mean just
- 50:34leaders. Mike, Sergeant.
- 50:36Come on, Mike love. Mike, did you?
- 50:39Were you able to get a sense, you know, it's kind of looking
- 50:43back now, you know, now that you're in coaching and things
- 50:46like that, but were you able to get a sense of like who was
- 50:49actually working with you? Like, oh, these guys and gals
- 50:51like like this is cream of the crop type people not only
- 50:54coaching but like leadership person wise?
- 50:57Or was it more just like, yeah, they're the coach.
- 50:58They say go, I go. Yeah.
- 51:00No, I don't think we ever. We never really thought about
- 51:03that. You know, this group of people,
- 51:06like the people I was around, there's some motivated folks.
- 51:10So if they're there, it's because they believe in the
- 51:12system. They believed in Coach Fry.
- 51:14You know, they, they saw what they were able to accomplish in
- 51:16South Carolina. So it's it's, it didn't take
- 51:21much to get them to be locked in like these are these were some
- 51:25serious, you know, Lachinda, you know, Otis, these folks were
- 51:29very serious about this. I'm not sure.
- 51:32I'm not sure they could have. I'm not sure at the time they
- 51:35could appreciate, you know, the leadership that they were
- 51:40experiencing. But you know, I think if you
- 51:43talk to some folks now, you talk to Lashinda and and and Chelsea
- 51:46right now off that. They just were taking a picture
- 51:49with coach. Fry like this is all daddy blah
- 51:51blah blah. So, I mean, you know, they love
- 51:53Coach Fry. It it's hard sometimes.
- 51:54And by the way, a lot of empathy because we're talking about 18
- 51:56to 22 year olds here, by the way.
- 51:58I mean, these are kids. It's hard sometimes to see it in
- 52:01the moment. It's it's easier as a 30-40
- 52:03fifty. You're like, look back like, oh
- 52:04man, thank God that person was in my life because of, you know,
- 52:07yada, yada, yada, 1920 year old kids.
- 52:09Sometimes you're just figuring out like, am I eating ramen for
- 52:11dinner tonight or am I going to the cat?
- 52:13Like, hey, you think you know everything too?
- 52:14Exactly, Yeah, yeah, a lot of sympathy for that.
- 52:17I I get that. So as you're moving towards
- 52:19graduation, things are happening as some injuries, they're still
- 52:23improvement still. You guys are still a great
- 52:25squad. Yeah.
- 52:27Coaching at all. In your mind, what's what?
- 52:29What are we thinking? We're getting ready to graduate.
- 52:31What do we think of? No, no, I was at South Carolina.
- 52:35So I was thinking what everyone else was doing, like I was just
- 52:38going to go pro. Like I.
- 52:39Really took it for granted you just.
- 52:40Assumed. That well, what a flex.
- 52:42Did you guys just hear that like everybody else in South Carolina
- 52:44was like, what's the contract? Is we going to DS or Nike?
- 52:47That's what that's what I was around.
- 52:49You know, that's what was happening at the time.
- 52:52You know, Otis went ahead and like, these folks are just, you
- 52:54know, and then we had pros around us all the time.
- 52:56You know, Alan was there, Terrence Jamel was there.
- 52:59So, you know, to me that was the process.
- 53:01You graduate and GoPro and so I I ended up when I left S.
- 53:07So what ended my collegiate track career?
- 53:11I did make it to the 200 semis my junior year, my senior year
- 53:15NC it's my senior year. I thought it was a given that I
- 53:18was going to be in that final of the 200 and I end up just
- 53:20tearing my hamstring and it just ended my season before before
- 53:24even pen relays. So that was that was that I was
- 53:28I was done. I think it happened at maybe Sea
- 53:30Ray Relays. It was a bad one.
- 53:32So that pretty much ended my season and at the time, if it
- 53:36was now I would have gotten it back.
- 53:38But back then it was it was. No getting it back.
- 53:40Yeah, that's right. So that was it.
- 53:43So it ended. It's kind of anti climatic.
- 53:46It was like, all right, this is I'm done.
- 53:49But I was able to, you know, academically I was good to go.
- 53:54So my last year was pretty easy and I was able to rehab and kind
- 53:57of get back into training a little bit.
- 53:58And so I ended up moving to Virginia, Norfolk, VA, to train
- 54:03with Coach Dwayne and then Lashawn Merritt.
- 54:06Yeah. Is that right?
- 54:08So you're you're thinking I'm going to, I just keep running.
- 54:11I've got this degree, but I'm I'm still in the mix to to make
- 54:15some things happen. Yeah, I've been haven't changed
- 54:17my course yet. I'm like, well, I'm still doing
- 54:19it. You know, I'm I'm still one of
- 54:21the top track and field athletes from the Virgin Islands.
- 54:24So I still have opportunities to go to all these meets.
- 54:27And I went to a lot of meets. I compete in a lot of
- 54:29competitions all over the place. And I made it to a round round
- 54:33at the 60 at the World Champs in Madrid.
- 54:37Or I don't. I don't.
- 54:39How? How would that have changed if
- 54:41you were AUS citizen knowing that you'd have to go through
- 54:45the US trials for for these type of opportunities?
- 54:49Probably would have. Well, you could say two things.
- 54:53I never would have would have had the opportunity or I would
- 54:57have taken things a little more seriously and I would have
- 54:59become a better athlete. So yeah, that's a good point.
- 55:01Yeah, it's. One it's one of the other.
- 55:03Yeah, 'cause I always wonder, you know, we see some athletes
- 55:07that change citizenship based on their, you know, their birth
- 55:10rights and things like that. And I know there's a lot, you
- 55:13know, there seems to be a lot of like it seems a very black or
- 55:17white people hate it or they're OK with it.
- 55:19I think I'm, I'm kind of OK with it because I'm like, well,
- 55:20that's legal through the rules. So what, how you going to get
- 55:23mad? You know, it's legal through the
- 55:25rules. And I also understand like, you
- 55:27know, the US system is just so brutal and unforgiving that like
- 55:32maybe it's cooler to have a little easier path and that
- 55:34you'll be more successful that way.
- 55:35Like I, I don't know, I just wonder like the opposite, like,
- 55:38man, if you have that gauntlet in front of you of like, man, I,
- 55:41I have to be top three on this one day or I stay at home.
- 55:45That's just, it's so brutal. Well, I think you could make the
- 55:48case that there's some folks who would not have made it through
- 55:51the US qualifying system. They wouldn't have finished top
- 55:55three or top four. But for sure.
- 55:57They can, but they can be finalists at the big meet,
- 56:00right? And sometimes they meddle.
- 56:01So it's like, you know, right, it's a different, it's different
- 56:04pathway that was available to them because of their heritage.
- 56:07Like to me, I would do whatever is the easiest way to get into
- 56:10the finals, because once you get to the finals, who knows what
- 56:13happened, you know what I'm saying?
- 56:14So. I don't know.
- 56:16I just, no, it was just interesting.
- 56:18It's interesting. So where and how did a
- 56:21transition out of professional track and field of being an
- 56:25actual athlete? Wait, transition out of.
- 56:30Running, I'm going to say unattached because everyone
- 56:33knows what that is. That's when you're not making
- 56:34any money, but you're still running track.
- 56:36Yeah, so or maybe on equipment? Back in the.
- 56:38Day. It's also called professional
- 56:40track and field, unfortunately. Yeah, it's, oh, I mean, I, you
- 56:44know, you get some prize money, so I guess I was a pro.
- 56:46But it's, it's just, it's sad. Agreed, agreed agreed.
- 56:52So I I ran in Virginia for a couple years, trained out there
- 56:55with Lashawn and and like I said there were ups and downs.
- 56:57Had some good experiences and learned a lot, but at some point
- 57:02it was like, OK, I'm going to need to get a job or something
- 57:06here. Like what what am I going to do
- 57:08for long lasting income? Like what's my career going to?
- 57:12Because it's not going to be running 95 and and getting rich.
- 57:16So what am I going to do? And so my first, I don't want to
- 57:22say my first serious job at post, you know, track was
- 57:27working at Canon and IT and, and tech support because I did my
- 57:32internship at the University of Virgin Islands and IT moved back
- 57:35there. I did my internship there.
- 57:38And so I had the background and I, I worked at Canon and I
- 57:41absolutely hated it. I mean, it was like, you know, I
- 57:44was sitting there and they were like, yeah, you know, you have a
- 57:46degree, so we'll pay you more than everyone.
- 57:47You'll get $13.00 an hour instead of, you know, 10.
- 57:50And I'm like and and I'm sitting there with people who are like
- 57:5560, who've been there for like, you know, 20 years.
- 57:58Thank you for calling Cannon Adrian speaking.
- 58:01How may I help you? And you know, oh, you have a
- 58:04whatever, whatever the model is and and it was mind numbing.
- 58:08Oh, I. Was about to say how do.
- 58:09You. Yeah, it was mind numbing.
- 58:11I started gaining, gaining weight and was just like, Nah, I
- 58:15don't, I don't. This is this is.
- 58:17I can't do this. This is what I got a degree for,
- 58:19to do this, yeah. Yeah.
- 58:21So I ran back to track for a little bit.
- 58:24You know, I got in shape. There's an opportunity, the
- 58:26benefits of a small country to run at some meats.
- 58:30And I took it and I ran and I ran, you know, pretty slow times
- 58:33and I was running like 10 fives. But it felt good to kind of.
- 58:36Be, you know, I was like, this is better than what I was doing.
- 58:41So I ran a couple meets, you know, a little circuit in
- 58:43Canada, this and that. And after that I went.
- 58:46I end up moving back to the Virgin Islands for a bit.
- 58:51So I'm not hearing, I'm not hearing like, oh, so I thought
- 58:55I'd get into like, I'm not hearing coaching yet at all.
- 58:57No, listen, so wait, let's, I mean, I'll be met maybe messing
- 59:02up the order a little bit when I shut it down.
- 59:04I worked at Cannon, then I did that little series of of racing.
- 59:10Then I decided I was going to I was going to keep training and
- 59:14then maybe establish myself as a coach.
- 59:16So I went to volunteer coach. OK, So I ended up volunteer
- 59:19coaching at Illin at University of Illinois for a little bit
- 59:23under Wayne Angel. That was my first opportunity.
- 59:26That's. Right.
- 59:26I forgot you were out here. That's that's where we went.
- 59:29Yeah, Yeah. That's right.
- 59:31Yeah, I was in. Champaign through the winter
- 59:32and. Now you know what I'm going
- 59:34through. Yeah, so I was there for a
- 59:36little bit as a volunteer, just figured out a housing situation.
- 59:40How did you get connected with Wayne?
- 59:42So, OK, all right, So my second grade coach and who coached me
- 59:49through exactly through elementary school and who a lot
- 59:52of people know because he also coached me when I was running,
- 59:56you know, in the world champions, all these other
- 59:57meets, and he's a very noticeable person.
- 1:00:02Talking to a guy, his name is Charles Goffin.
- 1:00:03Some folks going to hear that they're going to know exactly
- 1:00:05who he is. But he had coached with Wayne
- 1:00:08Angel at Pike High School back in Indiana, back in.
- 1:00:12Yeah. And so they knew each other.
- 1:00:14And so I was able to become a volunteer with Angel through
- 1:00:18Charles Goffin, volunteer there for a little bit until he left
- 1:00:22Illinois. Now, are when you say volunteer,
- 1:00:25are you volunteering like you're actually coaching or are you
- 1:00:28like you're, you're pacing people, You know what I'm
- 1:00:31saying? No, no, I'm well.
- 1:00:34No, I'm I'm doing a. Bit of both.
- 1:00:36Like it's my introduction to coaching.
- 1:00:38So but you're. Wayne Angel is still He's
- 1:00:40running the show. I'm doing what he's telling me,
- 1:00:42but I'm still, I'm still kind. Of yeah, sometimes volunteer
- 1:00:46coaches are they're, they're pace horses, they come in and
- 1:00:48they lead the 400 meter group. That's not volunteer coaching,
- 1:00:50that's just that's training. No, yeah, I wasn't.
- 1:00:53No, I was training as well, but I would do a lot of training on
- 1:00:56my own. Right.
- 1:00:57Go coach with the team. So are you now?
- 1:01:00Because there is a difference between being an athlete and
- 1:01:02being a coach on what the workout means to you.
- 1:01:04When you're an athlete, the workout is 3 by 400.
- 1:01:06It's okay, this is the pace, blah, blah, blah, blah.
- 1:01:08As a a coach, it's I'm watching and monitoring them while
- 1:01:11they're going through their paces and their splits and
- 1:01:13things like that. Are you now starting to because
- 1:01:15maybe you didn't as an athlete it, it's excusable to not maybe
- 1:01:18pay attention to the workout as much because it's just you need
- 1:01:20to go get the job done. Are you now like, oh, Wayne
- 1:01:23prescribed this on Monday and then he did this on Tuesday.
- 1:01:26I wonder why, why, why did we actually do that?
- 1:01:29Did you start? No, no, no, no, no.
- 1:01:30At that point, No, at that point, you know, I was only at
- 1:01:33Illinois for maybe six months because he ended up leaving
- 1:01:37Illinois right, Right when he left, when he left Illinois,
- 1:01:41that was a little bit, even though I wasn't making any
- 1:01:44income in men, I, I had to leave.
- 1:01:46So that was tough that for me, because I already wasn't making
- 1:01:50any money, things were really bad.
- 1:01:51So now moving back to Virginia, that was, you know, it was a
- 1:01:57rough situation. So I ended up.
- 1:01:59It sounds a little turmoil. Yeah.
- 1:02:05How now, now you, you, you know, you're a kid who went from Saint
- 1:02:10Croix to Jersey. You know that that's turmoil.
- 1:02:13But you, you survived and thrived.
- 1:02:15How are you? You know, I, I got this job,
- 1:02:18that kind of thing that wasn't cool.
- 1:02:19So I went back to train. Now, OK, I'm going to go to U of
- 1:02:21I and and volunteer coach that maybe this will be OK.
- 1:02:25I feel like maybe this will be some stability.
- 1:02:27Oh, doubt that's pulled out. How are you handling instability
- 1:02:31as an as an adult? I mean, you're, you know, this
- 1:02:34is quote UN quote, get real time.
- 1:02:35Gotta gotta get a job. It's like stuff, you know, a
- 1:02:38career. Yeah, I never really thought
- 1:02:43about it. You know how I handled it.
- 1:02:45I was just in it. And so when I'm in it, I'm just
- 1:02:47trying to figure it out. I don't spend a lot of I I don't
- 1:02:50really, you know, I don't believe in, in worrying.
- 1:02:52I don't believe in panicking. So none of that said.
- 1:02:58Rule #1 And I got this from Charles Goffin, and I should.
- 1:03:00Still use this so I still use stuff for my second grade coach.
- 1:03:03All that and rule #1 is never panic.
- 1:03:06And I use that in all aspects of my life, you know, And I've been
- 1:03:11in some interesting situations, I can tell you that.
- 1:03:13And just panicking just never serves any purpose.
- 1:03:16So if I'm in a tough situation, I don't waste time.
- 1:03:20I'm trying to figure it out. So when?
- 1:03:23I'm always looking forward is what is kind of the picture I
- 1:03:25get the most panicking is looking back like, oh, crap,
- 1:03:28this just happened. Yeah, yeah.
- 1:03:29So you're six months in. That's gone.
- 1:03:32OK, well where do I need to go next then?
- 1:03:34How to figure it out? Yeah.
- 1:03:35So I'm OK. First thing, let's get back to
- 1:03:37Virginia. And now I'm here.
- 1:03:39But I'm. There's nothing for me here.
- 1:03:40So I end up moving back to the Virgin Islands.
- 1:03:42Wow, so now I'm in the Virgin Islands, all right.
- 1:03:46Started from scratch essentially.
- 1:03:48And, and, and, you know, and like people think like, oh, you
- 1:03:52know what's? College.
- 1:03:53But you're an Olympian, so now you're set.
- 1:03:55Like no, that was one thing and now I'm on to the next.
- 1:03:58Thing and it's like starting over from scratch.
- 1:04:00How do I get into college coaching?
- 1:04:02You know? Well, I could coach and man, I
- 1:04:04missed the whole big section. Maybe it was dark ages.
- 1:04:07I did coach high school. Yeah.
- 1:04:10I did coach high school. I probably, I feel like I just
- 1:04:13blocked that out of my I coached at Lake Lake Taylor High School
- 1:04:17in Virginia. Yeah.
- 1:04:18OK. And I probably blocked it out
- 1:04:19because it was at a time where I was still training and then I
- 1:04:22was working at the high school and I was working at home.
- 1:04:24Depot in the paint department. So I was doing that whole, you
- 1:04:28know, a lot of track folks were working at Home Depot because
- 1:04:30they let you leave to go compete.
- 1:04:31Right, so I was doing the whole Home Home Depot.
- 1:04:36High school coaching and then also still training, you know,
- 1:04:39in the mornings I was training, so I did that for a little bit
- 1:04:44to get my feet wet. Adrian and it's funny.
- 1:04:47I am struck and I'm sorry to interrupt you here knowing what
- 1:04:54I know about you today but admittedly is is little I I see.
- 1:04:58I just know. Here's what I know of you and
- 1:05:00you know for you guys that are listening.
- 1:05:02I think I've said this before, I do 0 research before a, a, a
- 1:05:06guest sits down here. So what I know from them, from
- 1:05:08what I know from them, from work and things like that is, is all
- 1:05:11I know. So here is, you know, when
- 1:05:15Adrian, when I invited Adrian on, here's what I, my background
- 1:05:19of what I know of Adrian, I knew you were a great athlete.
- 1:05:21I for some reason thought you went to Florida, not South
- 1:05:22Carolina. I knew you were smart.
- 1:05:24We've talked to like USTFCA and stuff like that.
- 1:05:26It's like, oh, this is a bright individual.
- 1:05:29I, my memory serves you've been at Cornell for a good little
- 1:05:31while now. So like stability.
- 1:05:34Yeah. So stability, intelligence that
- 1:05:37that goes into more stability. Like I, I am floored of who you
- 1:05:42are, what I know of who you are today based on this story so
- 1:05:45far, 'cause I'm your story is instability, not the golden
- 1:05:50goose key, you know? Yeah, I ran, I went from 11 to
- 1:05:5410 three freshman year and it just kept on, you know what I'm
- 1:05:56saying? Like.
- 1:05:56I'm. Really amazed by this.
- 1:06:00Actually, I was adopted, right? And I, I don't, I don't even
- 1:06:04know who my dad was, right. So it's like, so my, it's been
- 1:06:08instability, I suppose, but I've had support, I've had a family,
- 1:06:12I've had people, but in my corner, which is what's
- 1:06:15necessary. So I don't.
- 1:06:18Yeah, I guess I'm always striving to find stability, so
- 1:06:21when I'm in a unstable or chaotic situation, I'm not
- 1:06:26dwelling in that. It's like, OK, let's let's
- 1:06:27figure this out. A.
- 1:06:28Great skill to not get caught up in that.
- 1:06:30That's it's quite amazing. It makes it solves.
- 1:06:33It's very helpful to learn that. I would recommend.
- 1:06:36All right, keep going. You move back to to the British.
- 1:06:39Virgin Islands, US Virgin Islands.
- 1:06:41Sorry, I moved back. I'm I'm starting from scratch
- 1:06:44essentially. So I'm done with I'm so I'm
- 1:06:46done. I'm pretty much, I'm not going
- 1:06:49to say I'm done with running. I wasn't, I'm still, you know,
- 1:06:51in my 20s. So I'm like, all right, but I'm
- 1:06:53trying to figure out how I can get back in the coat.
- 1:06:55Because I've decided at this. Point I'm going to be a coach.
- 1:06:58So why? Because.
- 1:07:00So when I left high school, I had the wait.
- 1:07:02So I had the opportunity at Illinois and I was like, all
- 1:07:06right, well, I don't really like these tech jobs.
- 1:07:10Like I don't want to sit behind a desk all day doing this.
- 1:07:13It is mind numbing. It's not I, I just don't like it
- 1:07:16at all. And then somehow I just started
- 1:07:18reminiscing and thinking back to Coach Fry.
- 1:07:21And I was like, man, Coach Fry's job seems pretty cool.
- 1:07:26I was like, man, Fry comes to practice.
- 1:07:28It's chilling out, gives us some workouts.
- 1:07:30You have to travel to all these meets, goes to Europe, to the
- 1:07:33Olympics, like he's driving this nice Jaguar like I, I kind of I
- 1:07:37want. So I started thinking about it
- 1:07:39like, man, that. Seems like something more so.
- 1:07:43I love that. I hear that a lot when sometimes
- 1:07:46people grow up and they know they want to be a coach, whether
- 1:07:48they're, you know, a parent was a coach or their coach was so
- 1:07:51instrumental, like, man, I wanted to go to college, become
- 1:07:53a coach. Most people don't.
- 1:07:55And then there's usually, and I love that you just how you just
- 1:07:57express that. There's usually like this aha
- 1:07:59moment of like, wait, it's been in front of me the whole time.
- 1:08:02Chris Frye's not new to you at this point.
- 1:08:04You had years with him. It's like, wait a minute.
- 1:08:06I never even thought like that could be a career.
- 1:08:09That's his career. Maybe.
- 1:08:10I mean my career. Yeah.
- 1:08:11I love that like epiphany of something that's been in front
- 1:08:14of you the whole time. But I'm not going to say because
- 1:08:17I know a lot of coaches who they, they started coaching out
- 1:08:20of the pure desire to coach me. I was like, I don't want to be
- 1:08:25on the lower levels of the like, I want to be, I see where Fry is
- 1:08:28head coach. I don't want to have to struggle
- 1:08:31forever. But that's what I so the
- 1:08:33volunteering at Illinois was a struggle.
- 1:08:35I was like, I, I, I, you know, high school coaching and working
- 1:08:38at Home Depot. That was, I was living in the
- 1:08:41hood. That was a struggle.
- 1:08:42And so when I moved back to Saint Croix, it was like, all
- 1:08:45right. I want to give it another shot
- 1:08:48because I had the Illinois opportunity, but it wasn't long.
- 1:08:50How do I get back into college? But first I need some money
- 1:08:54because I'm broke. I had to move back to the Virgin
- 1:08:56Islands. So I found a gym.
- 1:08:58I didn't have any certifications.
- 1:08:59I just went into the gym and said, Hey, I'm a, I'm going to,
- 1:09:01I'm a local Olympian. Can I have a job?
- 1:09:04And it was like, oh, well, you know, we'll give you, we'll, you
- 1:09:07know, connect you with a client and you could train that person.
- 1:09:10So they gave me, I don't want to say the worst client they can
- 1:09:13find because it was a great, he's a great guy.
- 1:09:17It was, it would be a difficult client for anyone who said he's
- 1:09:21like, he's like, you know, in his 60s, you know, overweight,
- 1:09:25you know, having a lot of health issues because of that, you
- 1:09:28know, and, and a lot of mental. Health issues as well.
- 1:09:32And so that was my first client and they gave them to me and I
- 1:09:35put him on a treadmill, jacked the incline up, jacked the speed
- 1:09:38up and was like go. He had heart problems too, by
- 1:09:40the way. Adrian, I just talked about how
- 1:09:42intelligent you are. Listen, listen.
- 1:09:45You know what? Let me tell you what happened.
- 1:09:47OK, that guy lost like 30 lbs and and was able to come off all
- 1:09:50his meds. So his quality of life
- 1:09:53skyrocketed because I was, I was pretty hard on him, but I
- 1:09:55thought. You were going to tell me you
- 1:09:56killed him? Yeah.
- 1:09:57No, no, no, no. No, come on now.
- 1:09:58So I I just, I treated it like I took it seriously.
- 1:10:02So and once he started having results, I started getting more
- 1:10:07clients. It got to the point where I
- 1:10:08pretty much had all the clients and Preedus was teaching.
- 1:10:11All the group fitness classes at the gym and.
- 1:10:14Like it was so. Can you imagine I'm in there
- 1:10:16like good morning, everybody. Doing that you know doing like
- 1:10:19Taibo type class. My wife teaches those classes
- 1:10:21and that's exactly what I was like, Oh, you are my wife.
- 1:10:23That's hilarious. To me, I was that guy and I was
- 1:10:26100% into it. I don't care.
- 1:10:27I was making that money. So I had the class.
- 1:10:29My classes were full like, so I had all the classes.
- 1:10:33Of course I had haters who were trying to report me to P90X
- 1:10:35because we use their, some of their stuff.
- 1:10:37But it's OK. And it got to the point where
- 1:10:41kind of I, I ended up getting an opportunity.
- 1:10:43With the local TV station to form a contract with them to
- 1:10:47train their employees. So I presented them with a
- 1:10:50proposal that I would train your employees for, you know, after
- 1:10:53work for an hour, $100 per day, $5 per.
- 1:10:57Person so it's up to them to. Show up but I get paid.
- 1:11:00Regardless and I so I started that and with that.
- 1:11:03And the gym, I was able to save up like, you know, $15,000,
- 1:11:07which was a lot, allowed me to be able to go to FAMU to
- 1:11:09volunteer. So I moved to FAMU, just found a
- 1:11:13random place to stay with somebody for a little bit on a
- 1:11:16couch and, you know, got on food stamps and.
- 1:11:21Volunteer coach that FAMU. That is amazing to me, like is
- 1:11:24you're describing, you know, the classes in a contract with the
- 1:11:28local TV and it's like, oh, you're fine.
- 1:11:31In my mind. I hear stability.
- 1:11:33I'm finding a career, a career player.
- 1:11:34You can make it a unbelievable career in this type of fitness.
- 1:11:38I don't want to stay in. That corporate fitness and I
- 1:11:41love how you said you're like, I I was able to save this money
- 1:11:43and I'm like, oh, you know, I'm like getting like, oh, this is
- 1:11:45cool. So, so that I can go volunteer,
- 1:11:47I'm like, whoa, like record scratch.
- 1:11:48Wait, what are you doing? Because I had had my goal
- 1:11:53already on what I wanted to do right?
- 1:11:54So I saved up the money I had someone take.
- 1:11:57Over the business for me, so they were sending me funds every
- 1:12:00month that at least cover some of my basic expenses.
- 1:12:02That with the food stamps and finding couches to crash on, I
- 1:12:06was able to survive my first year at FAMU and coach.
- 1:12:09Conference champion in the long jump, All American in the long
- 1:12:12jump. I was jumping coach.
- 1:12:13What was the connection? How?
- 1:12:14Did I have your question, Wayne Angel in my second opportunity.
- 1:12:18So when he left Illinois, he went to FAMU.
- 1:12:21He needed someone to cover the jumps.
- 1:12:22He already had met me and worked with me in some capacity, right?
- 1:12:26So it was like, all right, give him a shot.
- 1:12:28So I came up there and gave me a shot and I work.
- 1:12:32I went to work. I was at 6:00 AM weight room as
- 1:12:34volunteer. I was driving a.
- 1:12:35Van for 10 hours I was doing all the stuff, you know.
- 1:12:38So what are you? OK, so now there's always, you
- 1:12:43know, nearly 300 interviews I'm getting good at.
- 1:12:46There's always like this somewhere there's a transition
- 1:12:48from like I, I coach, I want to be a coach to like, OK, I am a
- 1:12:52coach. Like a lot of times in your
- 1:12:54story here so far, there's a lot of exit ramps like U of I, you
- 1:12:58go to University of Illinois and that goes away.
- 1:13:00OK, exit ramp. I'm going to go become a fitness
- 1:13:02and start, you know, there's but then there's usually a like here
- 1:13:05it is this is the this the career for the next 40 years.
- 1:13:08And you know, God willing, this sounds like your Yeah.
- 1:13:11And even though you're still volunteering, by the way, but
- 1:13:13but this seems like, but this seems like, OK, this is my
- 1:13:16identity. I'm a coach now, so.
- 1:13:19Well. With that, I want to know.
- 1:13:20Then you come from a sprinting background.
- 1:13:23You mentioned the success you're having with jumpers.
- 1:13:26What are you doing? How are you doing?
- 1:13:28Coaching education? Like how are you learning how to
- 1:13:30coach jumpers? That's not a natural thing.
- 1:13:31Where are we heading that side? Yeah.
- 1:13:33OK, great question. So my.
- 1:13:36Coach, I do this a lot, so I'm pretty good at them, yeah.
- 1:13:39Charles golfing. He was, you know, he, he coached
- 1:13:41me in a lot of different ways, but he was, he considered
- 1:13:43himself a jumps coach. And so I just, I, I learned a
- 1:13:46lot through him over the years. And it was a year that he was
- 1:13:50going to attend the I double AF course, like a level four or
- 1:13:53five coaching course for the Virginians.
- 1:13:55And I went with him because he was training me and I was able
- 1:13:58to sit in on the course. Oh, that's so.
- 1:14:00Cool. Who was it?
- 1:14:01It might have been Victor Lopez. And maybe, maybe.
- 1:14:05How was it? Maybe Damn path.
- 1:14:10I don't remember who it was, but it was.
- 1:14:12You know, a high level. Course where you go through
- 1:14:14periodization and everything and, and, and pick up some
- 1:14:16things. And so I sat in on that.
- 1:14:18So that combined with just, you know, what I picked up from him
- 1:14:22over the years, I had just gained a lot of knowledge in the
- 1:14:25jumps and I, I long I did long jump.
- 1:14:28I also went to some competitions with the Virgin Islands team
- 1:14:30with him where coach Nathan Taylor, who was my predecessor
- 1:14:35at Cornell, who coached two triple jump national champions,
- 1:14:39you know, Muhammad Heilim and Rayon Taylor.
- 1:14:42You know, he was part of the Virgin Islands coaching staff
- 1:14:44with Charles Dolphin. And so I would sit at the long
- 1:14:47jump as a senior member of the Virgin Islands team, as a
- 1:14:49captain and just be there with them coaching the long jump.
- 1:14:54You're an intellect as this stuff is going on.
- 1:14:58It's one thing to be an observer.
- 1:15:00Are you, you know, the way I would term it is, are you eating
- 1:15:03it up? Like, are you really like, oh,
- 1:15:04if I ever coach jumpers, I see what they did there.
- 1:15:07Or is this still more observation mode at that point?
- 1:15:10No, I'm picking it up. I'm I'm, I'm, I'm learning it
- 1:15:12and. And and seeing, you know, yeah,
- 1:15:14I'm learning it. And so my opportunity at family
- 1:15:17was a jumps position and and Coach Angel, who didn't coach
- 1:15:19the jumps, he was like, hey, I mean, he knew the vault, but he
- 1:15:21was like. Go ahead.
- 1:15:23And he actually was at the point like, man, you're getting them
- 1:15:25on the board. Like, you know, I I was doing
- 1:15:27doing my thing at. But it was still survival
- 1:15:30because I was a volunteer my second year at FAMU, I was able
- 1:15:34to finally get a paid in like 300 bucks, you know, so.
- 1:15:38It was, it was still in survival mode and that year I had to.
- 1:15:44At the time, my my jump scoop was definitely the best in the
- 1:15:46MIAC. I mean, I had like the top long
- 1:15:48jumper, like the third best long jumper and like, you know, third
- 1:15:51best triple jumper. And you know, it was like, it
- 1:15:53was, no, the top triple jumper had an all American triple
- 1:15:57jumper that year I coached all American jumped like got 16
- 1:16:02meters or something like that. So that's my two years at FAMU
- 1:16:06conference champions all American.
- 1:16:07So I'm, I'm starting out well, but it's like such a struggle.
- 1:16:11Like I'm struggling so badly. I'm like, I literally can't go
- 1:16:14another year making like $5000. Like the money that I've saved
- 1:16:18up is, is, is run out. The money for the Virgin Oz has
- 1:16:21stopped coming. Like it's, I can't do this
- 1:16:24anymore. And so I was like, OK, I'm I'm
- 1:16:25going to have to leave. And I wasn't in a position that
- 1:16:28family just wasn't in a position to do anything for me.
- 1:16:32And so, and I think you can see some of it is connections too,
- 1:16:35because Coach Taylor, he was at Cornell, they had a position
- 1:16:39open up, which I applied for. And so I went through the
- 1:16:43application process and end up getting a job and I had to work
- 1:16:46some odd jobs before I got got that job.
- 1:16:49Work in the warehouse and, you know, just do whatever I can to
- 1:16:51stay afloat for, you know, a half a year.
- 1:16:55But I end up moving from Tallahassee to Virginia, you
- 1:17:00know, to Ithaca, NY in December. So Can you imagine?
- 1:17:05So what? What year is this that you
- 1:17:07joined Cornell? I December 2012.
- 1:17:12So this is so you've been and you mentioned 12 years.
- 1:17:14So this is wow. Yeah, I was.
- 1:17:17Assistant coach. I became head coach in 2015.
- 1:17:20So I was assistant coach 2012, 2013, 2014.
- 1:17:23Became head in 2015. What Which was?
- 1:17:25It was a little quick. One of the yeah, yeah, the the
- 1:17:2912 to 15 that would that yeah, to be the head coach.
- 1:17:32That's we'll get to that in a second too.
- 1:17:33But what I love about this, you know, one of the feedbacks, one
- 1:17:38of the things values that I believe this podcast gives to
- 1:17:42people out there that choose to listen to it is there is no you
- 1:17:46talked about paths earlier. There is no when you're talking
- 1:17:49about the athletes you talked about you.
- 1:17:50There was a pretty I shouldn't do linear because we know what
- 1:17:52the actual path is, but there was kind of a set like these
- 1:17:55things happen for these athletes becoming elite.
- 1:17:57When I kind of first started this podcast interviewing
- 1:18:00coaches, I thought I would find similar.
- 1:18:02There'd be outliers, of course, but it's similar thing for
- 1:18:05coaching. And I'll tell you what, if
- 1:18:08there's not, there's not. We we just had a guy last week,
- 1:18:11I believe it was last week who didn't do track at all in high
- 1:18:15school was a baseball guy and went to a school that he
- 1:18:19couldn't make the baseball team. And they were like, hey, you
- 1:18:21know, you're a big guy, you want to throw and you know, he's a
- 1:18:22baseball guy. And this guy goes on now he's
- 1:18:24like one of the top throws coaches around.
- 1:18:26And it's like, like you would not have scripted that out.
- 1:18:28I no one I could. I mean this, like I said, this
- 1:18:31is, you know, we're getting close to 300 here.
- 1:18:33I, I've not heard this journey. This is amazing.
- 1:18:35Amazing. Journey is chaos.
- 1:18:37It didn't seem that bad at the time.
- 1:18:39Yeah, well, you're just in the muck.
- 1:18:41You're just living it when you're, you know, when you're.
- 1:18:42In it and I'm an optimist, so even when I'm at the low points
- 1:18:45I'm you're never going to really see me down in the dump.
- 1:18:47So I'm never going to be like. Oh, this is.
- 1:18:49So bad so you know. So I have this reverence for the
- 1:18:54Ivy League for many reasons. I wasn't very smart.
- 1:18:57So it's automatically like a whole it's you know, it's the
- 1:18:59smart conference, you know, so reverence there.
- 1:19:02I, you know, a good friend of mine is the head coach of Troy
- 1:19:05in my alma mater, Troy University, and he coached at
- 1:19:07Yale and it when he was being interviewed for the Troy job and
- 1:19:11everybody told him it's like, hey, you need to talk to Mike,
- 1:19:12he's a big Troy guy, blah, blah, blah.
- 1:19:14And so Mark calls me. I remember I was in Sacramento
- 1:19:16on the track when he called and he and he's like, hey, I'm, I'm
- 1:19:19going in for my interview, you know, next week.
- 1:19:22I was like, yeah, I'd heard, you know, I was like, I, you know, I
- 1:19:24keep my eyes on what's going on, Troy.
- 1:19:25And he's like, you know, I was hoping I can ask you some
- 1:19:29questions, you know, so he asked me some questions and I said, is
- 1:19:31it OK if I ask you a question? And he goes, yeah.
- 1:19:33And I said, so you're at Yale, right?
- 1:19:35You're in the Ivy League. He's like, yeah.
- 1:19:38I was like, all right, man. I was like, well, I got good
- 1:19:40news and I got bad news. He's like, OK, what's that?
- 1:19:43I go, here's the good news. You don't have to worry about
- 1:19:45like 32 or 36. I don't know what the top ACT
- 1:19:47is. You ain't got to worry about
- 1:19:48that stuff no more like you get anybody as long as they're, you
- 1:19:51know, pass, right? I go, that's the good news.
- 1:19:53Here's the bad news. Grades will always be an issue
- 1:19:56like this ain't the Ivy League brother.
- 1:19:57Like I assume you don't even have study hall because they're
- 1:20:00just I was like, you will always have study hall.
- 1:20:02How did study hall? Now you yourself very, very
- 1:20:06intelligent individual. I'm not knocking South
- 1:20:09Carolina's education here. When I say you went to South
- 1:20:12Carolina, you coached at FAMU, you coached UVI.
- 1:20:15You know, I'm probably biased because I'm here.
- 1:20:17It's a pretty good academic school, but still it's not
- 1:20:19Cornell and Ivy's. How did you?
- 1:20:23I mean, it just me, me be my like, you know, I've never
- 1:20:26coached the Ivy, so I just don't have any clue.
- 1:20:27How did you like, I can't even say adjust like you had to learn
- 1:20:31assuming learn a whole new like person to recruit the academics
- 1:20:37and athletic. I mean it just seems like it
- 1:20:39always seems like the most impossible task to me.
- 1:20:41The Ivy League's the kids that you guys get, for crying out
- 1:20:43loud. Yeah.
- 1:20:46No, I mean, I couldn't really recruit at FAMU, so I had to
- 1:20:52learn to recruit at Cornell essentially.
- 1:20:54Like, you know, I could assist with things at FAMU and I was a
- 1:20:56volunteer, right? That couldn't.
- 1:20:57That seems like a. Set things up.
- 1:20:59An advantage, actually. Maybe.
- 1:21:03You know. The way I learned to do it.
- 1:21:04Yeah, right, right, right. Because I learned directly
- 1:21:06under, you know, Nathan Taylor, who was the men's head coach,
- 1:21:10who had won in the Ivy League championship a bunch of times
- 1:21:13for the Northeast Region coach of the year a million times and
- 1:21:16also Rich Bowman. So I learned from them.
- 1:21:19They had been at Cornell for a significant amount of time.
- 1:21:22And, and so it of course, it was difficult, I would say the first
- 1:21:26two years, but once I kind of got into stride, now it's just
- 1:21:29how I recruit. It's kind of like folks who
- 1:21:31asked me like, oh, your roster size, you know, we have 78 men,
- 1:21:34you know, and it's like my Sprint group, I have, you know,
- 1:21:3820 men, 20 women just in my sprints hurdle group that I
- 1:21:41coach, folks are like, oh, so many.
- 1:21:43People, how do you think we like this is what I've learned.
- 1:21:45So this is like, I don't want to say easy.
- 1:21:47To me, but it's what I do, I don't, it doesn't feel like it's
- 1:21:51difficult, like coaching one kid that's easy.
- 1:21:54Like, you know, when you're like past freedom, those points, one
- 1:21:56person or two people, that's simple.
- 1:21:58Because I'm, so I'm used to such a, a big group, but the culture
- 1:22:03of our team, I guess that, you know, that helps develop the
- 1:22:06culture of our team because the kids are very like helpful,
- 1:22:10supportive of each other. You know, they're pretty
- 1:22:13self-sufficient. They're good at executing.
- 1:22:14Like when you tell them what to do, they can bam, bam, bam.
- 1:22:17You don't have to make them do it.
- 1:22:18They're, they're, they're like, they're pretty disciplined and
- 1:22:22focused kids. So there are a lot of positives
- 1:22:25when you're getting these Ivy League kids like they, they,
- 1:22:27they're used to being a students.
- 1:22:29They want to get it right. They want to be perfect.
- 1:22:31They don't want, you know, there are also negatives that come
- 1:22:34with that when you're used to always winning and being
- 1:22:38perfect. Now we're on another level now,
- 1:22:40just the big leagues. You know, this is Cornell and
- 1:22:42most difficult schools in the world and we're D1 track.
- 1:22:44So you know, this everyone's fast, everyone's smart here.
- 1:22:49And and how do you separate yourself?
- 1:22:51You're going to get your first C probably or your first BI don't
- 1:22:54know. How do you deal with that?
- 1:22:56You know, you know, how do you deal with expectations?
- 1:22:59How do you deal with failure and disappointment?
- 1:23:02You know, so I think when you come to the Ivy.
- 1:23:06It's it's a. Growing and learning experience
- 1:23:08because it is very difficult. Like the school the school is.
- 1:23:11Hard, but the kids have a lot of great qualities and I, I'd say
- 1:23:15the most difficult part of coaching And I, I figured this
- 1:23:17out, I think pretty early on because at the end of the day,
- 1:23:21and I'm not an Ivy League kid, but the way they think and do
- 1:23:25stuff, I was like that. I could tell I annoyed my coach,
- 1:23:28not Coach Frye, but when I was in South Carolina because I
- 1:23:31would ask so many questions and I was like, stop thinking so
- 1:23:34much. And so that's what you're going
- 1:23:35to deal with with, you know, some of my best athletes are
- 1:23:38engineers. They want to know.
- 1:23:40Details and sometimes you get caught in the details.
- 1:23:43So for example, if I'm at FAMU and you know it's not, then I'm
- 1:23:47not sitting on SMART. Kids, but it's just.
- 1:23:50Go touch the wall all right, coach and Matt Cornell go touch
- 1:23:55the wall where in the wall should I touch go touch the wall
- 1:23:58what what part of my body should I touch the wall go touch the
- 1:24:00wall how much pressure should I apply to the wall Go touch the
- 1:24:03wall like it's And you've paralyzed yourself trying to be
- 1:24:07perfect and not acting so some so I've had to learn sometimes
- 1:24:12it's to just. Like keep it simple, be an
- 1:24:15athlete. Like let's not treat it like
- 1:24:17school because they that's how they deal with everything.
- 1:24:20They deal with everything in this very analytical way, which
- 1:24:22helps a lot. But it doesn't help when you're
- 1:24:24in the middle of competition and doing something athletic.
- 1:24:28Beforehand, sure, after hand, afterwards, sure.
- 1:24:32But during it just stops you from being able to act.
- 1:24:35I. So I learned that early on.
- 1:24:37I think I always looked at the negative side of it and you're
- 1:24:40showing kind of there, you know, when you talk about like time
- 1:24:42management and. Yeah, amazing.
- 1:24:44Yeah. Like those are there are
- 1:24:45positives to that side of it the the high level academic kid that
- 1:24:49you have to recruit there as well.
- 1:24:52Yeah, they have discipline. They, they, they know how to
- 1:24:54accomplish things, you know, like if I, I give them rules and
- 1:24:57they know they're going to be consequences if you don't, if
- 1:25:00you break the rules and they understand that, they respect
- 1:25:03that. They know these are excellent
- 1:25:05students. These are kids who are 1415
- 1:25:07perfect Sats, you know, so, so they, they've been trained up
- 1:25:10well, you know. So you spent three seasons and
- 1:25:15then you're promoted to the head.
- 1:25:16Coach. Yeah.
- 1:25:18What's it three? Yes, I think it was.
- 1:25:20It was. Yeah.
- 1:25:20Three seasons. What?
- 1:25:21Three years. My, let's say six seasons.
- 1:25:24My Oh yeah, OK, good point I'm. Trying to make it sound like.
- 1:25:27More important, Ivy League. That's an Ivy League coach
- 1:25:30answer and it like it's six actually.
- 1:25:31I'm trying to make it like two years.
- 1:25:34Three years. How did that happen?
- 1:25:36Yeah. My favorite question to ask
- 1:25:40every coach Their first head coaching job.
- 1:25:43Well, the easy one is where you're ready.
- 1:25:46And you know, most emotionally intelligent coaches, you say no
- 1:25:51because you don't know until you're in the chair.
- 1:25:52But I'm going to go to my, my next question is what did you so
- 1:25:57you, you get the, the, you sit in the big boy chair.
- 1:25:59Now you're, you're the head coach.
- 1:26:00It's different than being assistant.
- 1:26:02Heck, you're still at that point learning what even being
- 1:26:05assistant means, you know, being 3-4, you know, a couple of
- 1:26:08volunteer seasons in there. What was something again,
- 1:26:12you're, I feel like you're, you're going to have a great
- 1:26:14answer for this because you're just, you're a thinker, you're
- 1:26:16an intellect here. What was something that you
- 1:26:19thought was going to be hard? Like, OK, I don't know if I have
- 1:26:23much experience in XY and Z, But then when you got in the chair
- 1:26:26and you had to go do that, it actually was like, oh, that's
- 1:26:28that actually ended up being pretty easy.
- 1:26:30Like I, I naturally got to that. What was something you thought
- 1:26:32was going to be hard but became easy?
- 1:26:34Something that I thought, I don't think there's anything
- 1:26:36that I thought that was going to be hard.
- 1:26:38It doesn't even happen in that order.
- 1:26:39It's always something you think is going to be simple, and it's
- 1:26:42much more complicated. That's my follow up question.
- 1:26:44You can answer that on too, yeah.
- 1:26:45I can't think of anything that I that I just in my mind thought
- 1:26:49is it was going to be hard and it was easy.
- 1:26:52So the I wouldn't because if it's easy, there's no way I
- 1:26:55would think it's going to be. That difficult like it's always
- 1:26:58the other way where you're underestimating things and
- 1:27:00you're like, well that's going to be simple and it's.
- 1:27:02Terrible. What do you have there?
- 1:27:03Because that's always the follow up question.
- 1:27:05What did you think? Like I'm going to be able to
- 1:27:06breeze through this and like crap everything.
- 1:27:08Every everything. So first thing when you said I,
- 1:27:12I think I was a. Very good assistant.
- 1:27:15And that's because I supported my head coach, you know, I
- 1:27:19supported them and everywhere. And even when I didn't agree
- 1:27:23with them, I wouldn't publicly air out our laundry.
- 1:27:26I wouldn't, I wouldn't disrespect my head coach in
- 1:27:29front of the athletes. That's right.
- 1:27:31I would take my and I, I because I was not afraid to directly
- 1:27:35confront my head coach in private, which they always
- 1:27:38respected, which a lot of assistants are afraid to do,
- 1:27:41which leads to just their relationship just deteriorating.
- 1:27:44So you got to be able to come and say, Hey, look, man.
- 1:27:47And a lot of folks, folks are afraid to do that.
- 1:27:49So I've never had that fear of like, you know, just saying
- 1:27:52like, look, this is ABC. But I also support my supporting
- 1:27:57my head coach, you know, and I try to keep things.
- 1:28:01I was always a young coach, so I went out of my way to try to,
- 1:28:05you know, I would I'm always going to get call while all the
- 1:28:07coaches will call me unprofessional because I was,
- 1:28:10you know, broke and I wouldn't like how I was when I first
- 1:28:13started volunteering. It'd be like, Oh, you know,
- 1:28:15because I'm wearing whatever case may be.
- 1:28:18And I'm like, well, my actions though, like I wouldn't.
- 1:28:24No one on families campus had made a first name basis.
- 1:28:28And so the AD at the time he said, you know, I really respect
- 1:28:30that about you because no one has your first name basis.
- 1:28:33So I established little things so that even though I was, you
- 1:28:36know, in my 20s, you know, and I looked younger, that I just
- 1:28:40could always maintain that I'm a coach and maintain some
- 1:28:43authority. So I was practicing that from
- 1:28:44the beginning and so. Did you do that?
- 1:28:49Was that a big thing for you as an athlete?
- 1:28:51Coach Fry coach like making sure like, hey, I, I, I get that
- 1:28:56you're the coach. And so I'm going to give you
- 1:28:58that respect. Yeah, I respected my coaches,
- 1:29:01but I, I, I'm, I'm always, you know, I'm a little opinionated,
- 1:29:05opinionated. So I'm going to, if I think
- 1:29:06something I'm not afraid to like, let's have a let's talk
- 1:29:09about this, you know? So I, I, I thought that was a
- 1:29:14good quality. I think as an assistant, you
- 1:29:16know, I think that's important. So that's how I was and and
- 1:29:20because of that, I think I maintained.
- 1:29:23Like respect. So, like, we don't have to be
- 1:29:27best friends and we could disagree on a lot of things, but
- 1:29:30if I carried myself a certain way, then folks, you know,
- 1:29:33they're looking at me like, OK. Despite this, he's.
- 1:29:36Qualified for this or he or he done a did a great job with
- 1:29:39this. I don't have to agree with this,
- 1:29:40but you know how he's preventing himself Professional.
- 1:29:42Blah blah blah. So I think a lot of that on how
- 1:29:44I carried myself as a an assistant when I got the Cornell
- 1:29:48is kind of what allowed folks to feel comfortable making a
- 1:29:53younger coach, a newer coach to the league, a head coach at a
- 1:29:56program that had a legacy to it. And I had the support of, you
- 1:30:00know, the of Rich Bowman, Artie and the other coaches as well.
- 1:30:05So I think that just. You know, some of those things
- 1:30:07as as an assistant, just I, I'm, I'm a rule person.
- 1:30:10You know, I saw, I, I just, I, I just certain things I don't, I
- 1:30:14do and I don't do. Like I understood early that the
- 1:30:16kids aren't my friends and so I don't even now when they call
- 1:30:21coaches by their first name, it's like chalk.
- 1:30:23I corrected a kid yesterday talking about one of the
- 1:30:25coaches. Hey Coach Durant, I spoke to.
- 1:30:28First name blah blah blah and I stopped and I said coach first
- 1:30:31name. They said I'm sorry about that
- 1:30:32coach like I'm old. I just cuz those little things
- 1:30:36snowball and I learned that in my time.
- 1:30:38Little things so, so yes, so those things that that's what I
- 1:30:43was saying earlier, things that don't seem big can be terrible.
- 1:30:46Little things like that. Let's go ahead and let your kids
- 1:30:48call your coaches by their first name.
- 1:30:49Let that go on for a couple of years.
- 1:30:51And then when you try to have some discipline, some authority
- 1:30:53and have some rules, well, I have to tell you don't follow
- 1:30:55them and you're not able to enforce them like this is things
- 1:30:58you have to do. So I learned those things early.
- 1:31:00So when I was able to, when I became a head coach.
- 1:31:03It wasn't. I didn't have an issue with
- 1:31:05that. My relationship, the kids.
- 1:31:07Respected me and followed my lead, which is how my first year
- 1:31:11as head coach we won the Ivy League championship and we broke
- 1:31:14the all time scoring record. And it wasn't just seniors, it
- 1:31:17was freshmen on that squad who were scoring too.
- 1:31:18Had a freshman conference champion.
- 1:31:19So the kids already respected me in that way.
- 1:31:25But I learned though, I I went, I would say I I also learned a
- 1:31:28lot from there on. So that was one issue I didn't
- 1:31:31have, but there are plenty of other issues.
- 1:31:33You, you mentioned some coaches that you know, kind of in your
- 1:31:36phone of friends for like coaching.
- 1:31:38What about, you know, sometimes we get into coaching because we
- 1:31:41think, you know, 90% of the job is being on the track and doing
- 1:31:44block starts and then the and and it's getting.
- 1:31:47Worse. Yeah, it's getting worse, where
- 1:31:49it's probably less than 10%. That's the actual job and 90% of
- 1:31:52it is paperwork, fundraising. Maybe you're, you know, as a
- 1:31:56head coach, maybe you're on hiring committees for other
- 1:31:58sports positions, things like that.
- 1:32:00How do you have you built a network support system for those
- 1:32:05type of, I'll call them phono friends of like, hey, man, I'm
- 1:32:08struggling. Maybe you're not struggling now
- 1:32:10in the, you know, 10th year, 9th year as the head coach, But you
- 1:32:13know, man, I got to put together this budget.
- 1:32:15I'm struggling with where to put this.
- 1:32:17I, I got to put together this schedule.
- 1:32:18Have you built a network around those type of the, you know,
- 1:32:22again, 90% of the job as a head coach?
- 1:32:26Not for those things essentially, because we do them
- 1:32:28differently from everyone else. Like how we do things.
- 1:32:31It's very different. You know, recruiting is very
- 1:32:33different. Our our whole process, our
- 1:32:36budget is different. You know how how so it's so no
- 1:32:39one really does things how we we do them so but maybe.
- 1:32:43Even maybe even in house, though, like the the tennis
- 1:32:45coach, man, I really rely on her.
- 1:32:47She helps me with blah blah. Or the Southwest, whatever.
- 1:32:50You know, it doesn't have to necessarily be other track
- 1:32:52coaches. You have a network even even
- 1:32:54internally. I would say I do have a network
- 1:32:58of coaches, but I can't say I go to these coaches to talk about
- 1:33:01any of those things because we, we, we, we saw those things, you
- 1:33:04know, between myself, Mike Henderson, who was our women's
- 1:33:07head coach, and the rest of our staff, we just handle that
- 1:33:10stuff. The budget stuff would be Mike
- 1:33:12and I and, and I've been just 12 years of, of doing it of, of,
- 1:33:17of, you know, creating our season schedule, you know, how
- 1:33:20many kids were taking each meet, you know, yadda, yadda, yadda.
- 1:33:22So that stuff, you just get into the flow of it at some point and
- 1:33:26it's not that hard to, to track where you are for the most part.
- 1:33:29So, and I, I was good at math. I was good at numbers.
- 1:33:32I'm good at spreadsheets. I'm good at, I'm organized.
- 1:33:35So that stuff was always simple. I never, I never had an issue
- 1:33:38with with the accounting stuff, the math stuff, just the pure
- 1:33:42logistical stuff. I think the stuff you have to
- 1:33:47learn is like hiring. I'm hiring people who are a good
- 1:33:50fit for your program. Let's talk about this because
- 1:33:55you know, where I get out with that type of question is, is you
- 1:33:57know, there is a lot of coaching education for how to coach a
- 1:34:00sprinter, a jumper, whatever you can go to USTFCAI can go to
- 1:34:04level one level twos. There's a ton of amazing
- 1:34:07coaching education opportunities out there.
- 1:34:10However, again, like we just said, you know, let's use the
- 1:34:128020 year old, 20% of it is actually coaching today. 80% is
- 1:34:15all these other things. And one of those things that
- 1:34:19I've yet to see and have heard from anybody that actually gets
- 1:34:22trained and it's very important as a head coach, you're in
- 1:34:26charge of a staff that means hiring, retention, etcetera.
- 1:34:30And I have yet to see anybody who says, yeah, I, you know, my
- 1:34:33AD actually worked with me on here's what I look for an
- 1:34:35assistant coach. It's more of like hey, hire who
- 1:34:37you want, good luck. Yes, and you learn and you.
- 1:34:42Get burned. I've done a bunch of hirings
- 1:34:45over the years and I would say my first on my first hire was a
- 1:34:52was a friend. And I was sick.
- 1:34:59When you hire a friend, you have to, you should put a level
- 1:35:03between you, right? So, you know, I would say when
- 1:35:07we hired Coach Byron, who's a good friend of mine, he was in
- 1:35:10my mom's wedding. He was hired on the women's
- 1:35:13side. So technically he was under RT,
- 1:35:15so that was his head coach. So even though we work together,
- 1:35:21I wasn't, you know, necessarily responsible for him.
- 1:35:25And that that helps a lot because I already have a
- 1:35:27pre-existing. Relationship with him as a
- 1:35:29friend and I could tell you a lot of folks have bright ideas
- 1:35:32about man. When I become head coach, I'm
- 1:35:34gonna hire all my friends. OK, but what happened?
- 1:35:36When that friend isn't recruiting or what happened when
- 1:35:38that friend isn't, you know, is it Whatever the case may be, if
- 1:35:43if something that you as a head coach need to address.
- 1:35:46Will it be awkward or will they be able to keep it professional
- 1:35:49and deal with you like a boss? Or are they going to treat you
- 1:35:51like a friend in a in a way that puts you where you can't even,
- 1:35:56you know, essentially? And why are you doing this to
- 1:35:58me? Yeah.
- 1:35:59Yes. So I think that's one thing you
- 1:36:01learn when you do it. You're like, oh, this is not a
- 1:36:04great idea. See, I'm interested in how do we
- 1:36:07find ways to accelerate that? Like I, I don't want someone
- 1:36:12making that mistake because they don't know because no one ever
- 1:36:14even counseled them on, on like what you just said there, that
- 1:36:18gold nugget right there. Like rewind 15 seconds and
- 1:36:20listen to what he just said again.
- 1:36:22If you ever want to be or are a head coach.
- 1:36:24Put a degree in separation between.
- 1:36:25You for valuable information that most of us have to learn by
- 1:36:30making the mistake and hire in our buddy and then getting to
- 1:36:33the situation where you know, they say, why are you doing this
- 1:36:36to me? It's like, well, you're the one
- 1:36:37who's doing or not doing that. I'm really interested in how do
- 1:36:39we accelerate? How do we make essentially
- 1:36:42today's assistant coaches better head coaches when they get that
- 1:36:46opportunity two years, 20 years down the line that that's what
- 1:36:48I'm super interested in. Well, I mean, this is stuff
- 1:36:52that, you know, you could be doing at the convention, right?
- 1:36:54But I, I, there are certain things that are popular at the
- 1:36:57convention and certain topics that aren't so popular.
- 1:37:00So you can have a, a head coach, you know how to transition into
- 1:37:03the head coach role type, you know, seminar, but I'm not sure
- 1:37:07that many people would would be interested, but you could, you
- 1:37:10could have something like that. You know, I don't know how many
- 1:37:13people. I, I think also you have to be
- 1:37:17an assistant who's thinking you're going to become a head
- 1:37:19coach. If you don't see a path to that,
- 1:37:21then you might not even find interest.
- 1:37:23I I was. I agreed, but you will always be
- 1:37:27hired, so you should probably know.
- 1:37:30Like maybe you don't take the job the buddy gives you either.
- 1:37:32Like, oh, that's not going to be good for us, Joe.
- 1:37:34I'm going to move on, send advice.
- 1:37:36If you're picking, if you're if you're going to pick the the
- 1:37:39seminar, the symposium that you're going to go to, you know,
- 1:37:42that just not might be the top. You might want to go to look.
- 1:37:45How do I create a nine nine guy? You know, that might be your
- 1:37:48priority. You're like, how can I well, you
- 1:37:50not necessarily looking at yeah, I'm going to definitely be a
- 1:37:52head coach. So let me.
- 1:37:53Hone up on the skills That's just not, and I think they've
- 1:37:56already tried some of those. And and the interest wasn't, you
- 1:37:59know, wasn't that great. How do we make that interest
- 1:38:02great though, because that how to make a nine nine guy?
- 1:38:04First of all, stop it. I, I know, but that's that.
- 1:38:07I know. Listen.
- 1:38:08And I agree with you. I agree with you.
- 1:38:10I'm I'm with. You.
- 1:38:10I've done a couple symposiums and the first one I gave pure
- 1:38:13knowledge, like just how to set up the training plan.
- 1:38:17Just I didn't give workouts and Coach Frye was in with that.
- 1:38:21He was like, man, I was like level 4.
- 1:38:22That was high level stuff and the feedback was good from all
- 1:38:25the older coaches. Their coach was like, what's the
- 1:38:28workout? Yes.
- 1:38:30So last year, do you know what I did a symposium last year.
- 1:38:33I gave all my workouts and the PDF of my entire training for
- 1:38:37the year and. And everybody, they loved it,
- 1:38:40folks. Yeah, they they loved it.
- 1:38:42I don't care. I'd give.
- 1:38:43Out my whole training that. That's that's not the important
- 1:38:45thing. That's that's why they sell
- 1:38:46cookbooks and they're still professional chefs.
- 1:38:48You can get the you can get the recipe.
- 1:38:51You still need a Chef Buddy. So unimportant.
- 1:38:53Yeah, yeah, yeah. So who knows?
- 1:38:56I like having these important discussions and so something you
- 1:38:58brought up I'd like to to talk about a little bit here before
- 1:39:02we start wrapping up. Wait, wait, I have wait.
- 1:39:04I have one important thing if I'm going to.
- 1:39:06Please. Because this was a mistake I
- 1:39:08made as a head coach. Yeah, please, please, please.
- 1:39:10Absolutely. OK, So I became head coach and
- 1:39:15was this a year? This might have been a year
- 1:39:17after winning the championship, you know, and I had I, you know,
- 1:39:21you're trying to create your own identity as head coach because
- 1:39:24right now the kids are used to the previous head coaches team
- 1:39:27cheers and his team meetings and his slogans and and I'm and you
- 1:39:32can't be that person. You're going to be a, a bad
- 1:39:35imitation of that person. So they have to understand who
- 1:39:38you are and what your slogans are.
- 1:39:39Maybe you don't have slogans. That's not your personality.
- 1:39:41That's not me. I'm not a.
- 1:39:43You know, Nathan Taylor, boomer, giga rah rah.
- 1:39:45You know, I'm more like, hey, let's let's go to business and
- 1:39:48let's go do work like that's I'm I'm not you know, that's just
- 1:39:52not me. And it's good if you are you get
- 1:39:55to have someone like that around is but it's not me.
- 1:39:57And, and sometimes I know a lot of kids had they had to come to
- 1:40:03terms with. That that that isn't me.
- 1:40:07And I had to, I was trying to figure out, you know, how I want
- 1:40:11to do team rules, how I want to do all these different things.
- 1:40:14And I said, OK, you know what, Captains, I like the current
- 1:40:17captains. But I see this become a little
- 1:40:19bit of a popularity contest. And I think the captains that
- 1:40:22the kids are choosing aren't the best picks for captain.
- 1:40:27And I'm the head coach. So you know what?
- 1:40:29I'm not. We're not voting for captains.
- 1:40:30Anymore, I'm going to pick the captains right when I tell you.
- 1:40:35When I tell you the amount of chaos this 'cause I mean, I
- 1:40:38thought it was, I was just going to be like, this is what I'm
- 1:40:40going to do. I say so.
- 1:40:41And it goes, no, I, I divided my team.
- 1:40:45I made the seniors completely give up on the team.
- 1:40:48I mean, and part of it was, I mean, if you're going to give
- 1:40:50up, I don't know how serious you are anyway, but I made it easier
- 1:40:54for them to completely abandoned their duties as seniors and
- 1:40:57leave all the others to fend for themselves.
- 1:40:59Left a lot of upper. The underclassmen to fend for
- 1:41:02themselves because the seniors just decided they weren't going
- 1:41:05to be leaders, right? We're not captain, so we're not
- 1:41:07captain worthy. And I almost destroyed the team.
- 1:41:12You know, it was just toxicity. We ended up going from, you
- 1:41:15know, second place to 6th place in the league for the first time
- 1:41:18ever. I mean, it was.
- 1:41:19Like, whoa, this is and it, it really had to come to a point
- 1:41:23where I had to 1st I had to apologize, then I have to say,
- 1:41:28OK. I've apologized for this, it is
- 1:41:31my fault, but I'm trying to fix this problem and then I said OK,
- 1:41:35here are my solutions. We don't.
- 1:41:37But at some point if you, if we can't get on the same page, it's
- 1:41:41only going to at the end of the day, it's either going to be me
- 1:41:43or you. So let's try.
- 1:41:45So I try to fix it. It was fixed for a second and it
- 1:41:49still was a little bit of and I ended up having to remove two
- 1:41:51people from the team and when I did we went from 5th place to
- 1:41:553rd place. So I had just created this toxic
- 1:41:59environment where folks were just.
- 1:42:01Allowed to kind of be cancerous and I and even though I created
- 1:42:05it, the only way I could solve it was remove the folks who were
- 1:42:08too far gone. So I have to re establish that
- 1:42:11no, hey, it is my ship. But I was wrong.
- 1:42:14So I'm willing to listen to you. And I realized you have to let
- 1:42:17people speak like they have to be heard.
- 1:42:19You don't have to agree with them.
- 1:42:20You don't have to decide in their favor.
- 1:42:22But if you don't give them the ability to voice their opinions,
- 1:42:24to cast their vote, to say what they're feeling, it's going to
- 1:42:27come back to bite you in a in a terrible way.
- 1:42:29And and I had gotten to the point where it was like, look.
- 1:42:32I'll cut the whole. Team like it, it had gotten that
- 1:42:34negative and folks don't know that, but it had gotten that bad
- 1:42:37and it got resolved. But it was a, it was, you know,
- 1:42:40a lesson I learned early on as head coach, and it was a hard
- 1:42:43lesson to learn. To first of all, I appreciate
- 1:42:48your openness and authenticity there that that's amazing and
- 1:42:51you just helped 1000 people that heard this literally that you.
- 1:42:53Don't want to go through that. To to apologize to someone can
- 1:43:00be a hard thing, typically because of ego.
- 1:43:03Don't want to admit being wrong, right?
- 1:43:05It takes humility to look someone or someone's a team,
- 1:43:10especially someone where there's a power dot.
- 1:43:11You're the head coach. This ain't to your spouse or to
- 1:43:14this is to kids. OK, so bravo to you.
- 1:43:21You get a lot of credit for showing that humility, but
- 1:43:25that's not necessarily a learned an innate trait.
- 1:43:29Sometimes it's a learned. It's modeled.
- 1:43:32Does that come from is that do you think about, you know, the
- 1:43:36humility of maybe your mom or a coach or a teacher or where
- 1:43:40where did somebody had to, I believe had to have modeled that
- 1:43:44type of attitude for you to then show in adulthood you?
- 1:43:51Know I had not Never. Really.
- 1:43:53I haven't thought about that. I just think.
- 1:43:57When you're looking for solutions, you know your ego
- 1:44:00can't get in the way of the solution.
- 1:44:01So I saw very clearly that they had an issue with the decision I
- 1:44:05made. The decision I made was wrong.
- 1:44:07And even though the way they were acting was not right and
- 1:44:11they would still be consequences right, I had to admit that I
- 1:44:15made a mistake. Because if I can't admit.
- 1:44:18That I made a. Mistake.
- 1:44:19Then how could you really trust me?
- 1:44:20Like all I could tell these. Kids is I do my best.
- 1:44:22I'm going to do my best to make you a conference champion, a
- 1:44:25national champion, Olympian, whatever.
- 1:44:27You tell me your goal is I, I'm going to do my best to get you
- 1:44:30there. But I'm, I'm a human, so if I
- 1:44:32make a mistake, you know, I'm not going to try to cover for
- 1:44:35it. Like, oh man, I made this
- 1:44:36mistake. That's the truth.
- 1:44:37So. The example, the example, the
- 1:44:41example you set there, though, you know, it's I, I think a lot
- 1:44:43of coaches probably stand in front of their team or athletes
- 1:44:46on their team and say, Hey, I'm a human like you.
- 1:44:48I'm, I'm going to make some mistakes here, let you know,
- 1:44:50let's have some grace for each other.
- 1:44:52And then when a mistake is actually made, it's much easier
- 1:44:55to dig in and just, you know, almost use like the, the title
- 1:44:58of coach or head coach as a buffer of like, I didn't really
- 1:45:01to make a mistake, just shut up and go do what I said.
- 1:45:03So for you to actually show, like to say that and then show
- 1:45:07and actually do the example, like what, what a a a teachable,
- 1:45:11learnable leadership moment for those kids.
- 1:45:13Like those kids now when they go into the professional world,
- 1:45:17they'll have that like when I asked them that question,
- 1:45:19they'll be like, Hey, you know what, my coach, I tried coaching
- 1:45:22in Cornell, made a mistake. And you know what?
- 1:45:24Didn't bury it, didn't dig his heels in, actually came to us
- 1:45:27and said, hey, I made a mistake. Hey, I'm the leader here.
- 1:45:30We're going to move forward this way.
- 1:45:31But you know, he didn't have to do that.
- 1:45:33He could have just told us to shut up and go run.
- 1:45:34And we're the athletes. We got to go do that.
- 1:45:36I just think that example is powerful of saying it, but
- 1:45:41caveat doing it. That's the hard part.
- 1:45:44It's easy to say the hard part. I I love that.
- 1:45:46What a great example of leadership there.
- 1:45:48Will, will kids will be surprised.
- 1:45:50I mean, coaches may be surprised at how much being open with the
- 1:45:53kids can save you a headache. Like, you know, look, I'm, I'm
- 1:45:56still young, I'm a younger head coach.
- 1:45:58I still, I'm, you know, I'm not married, I'm not settled down.
- 1:46:02So I still like to travel and do things in my up time and and.
- 1:46:06Kids aren't really used to coaches having a life and so.
- 1:46:09I remember I used. To get a lot of heat about that.
- 1:46:11But I'm not whatever texting or calling while I'm.
- 1:46:14On vacation and I had to sit and talk to them like, hey, look, am
- 1:46:17I allowed to have friends and family and like time off?
- 1:46:20And they're like, you are, I'm like, they're like, you're
- 1:46:22right. Like they're not, you know,
- 1:46:25they're not monsters. So you just got to talk to
- 1:46:28people, communicate and they, I find that they're very
- 1:46:30understanding. You need to talk about that to
- 1:46:34more coaches, by the way, that we get too wrapped up into coach
- 1:46:39being our number one title and in reality.
- 1:46:41Of a life. Yeah, in reality, and again,
- 1:46:44there's no bigger fan of track coaches than me, That title of
- 1:46:47coach is maybe your 4th or 5th most important title.
- 1:46:50You're a son, a brother, maybe a spouse.
- 1:46:53You know, there's other things. I I love that.
- 1:46:56Hey, we're getting close to time, but I, I've still got a
- 1:46:58couple things to pick your brain.
- 1:46:59Are you feeling good on time or? Oh, yeah, yeah.
- 1:47:02I'm really interested in this because I, I, I have feels like
- 1:47:05a similar belief system. You talked about the role of
- 1:47:08confrontation earlier and you seem to not have a problem with
- 1:47:13confrontation. I, I agree with that.
- 1:47:16I, I actually feel like when someone doesn't, and we're not
- 1:47:18talking mean spirited confrontation here.
- 1:47:19We're talking about if there's a, if I think there's an issue,
- 1:47:22I will speak it to you and let's work it out and then we'll move
- 1:47:24on. And I think a lot of people
- 1:47:27don't do that because they feel like that's mean.
- 1:47:31So it's nicer if I just ignore it and, you know, push down my
- 1:47:34feelings or don't ever tell you that, hey, this bothers me,
- 1:47:36etcetera. How do you, you, you, you did
- 1:47:39that as an assistant coach. Now you're the head coach.
- 1:47:42How do you foster that? How do you empower your
- 1:47:45assistant coaches that, hey, if you, if you, if there's an
- 1:47:47issue, whether it is a real or unreal issue, bring it to me.
- 1:47:51Let's hash it out and then we can move forward.
- 1:47:53Don't just keep it in your corner over in the throws or the
- 1:47:56jobs or whatever. How?
- 1:47:57How do you lead this now with your staff?
- 1:48:01Well, and I would say this right about confrontation.
- 1:48:04I, you know, I do not like confrontation, but I hate
- 1:48:09stress. And so I try to mitigate stress.
- 1:48:14I try to find solutions to problems quickly.
- 1:48:17That's why I say never, don't. I don't panic.
- 1:48:18I don't waste time on that solution.
- 1:48:21Problem solved, no stress. I can relax, right?
- 1:48:23So I like to get there. Sometimes to solve the problem,
- 1:48:29you just have to. It takes conflict, you know you.
- 1:48:32Just have to do it so I do it out of necessity.
- 1:48:36So I would much rather just deal with that issue then have it get
- 1:48:39kicked down the line and I'm worrying about it a month later.
- 1:48:42You know, I keep a lot of, I keep a lot of stuff like I know
- 1:48:45everything is going on with my program, right?
- 1:48:46It's in my head. I'm always kind of like right
- 1:48:48there thinking about this that recruiting, budgeting,
- 1:48:51fundraising, alumni and get all this stuff is going on and it's
- 1:48:55good if I have everything kind of under control.
- 1:48:57So if there's something that's like, you know, coming to the
- 1:49:01boiling point, I don't even let it get to that point.
- 1:49:04And so I like to think that I have, you know, with my staff, I
- 1:49:08try to this, this, I'm always open for communication.
- 1:49:11You know, they can talk to me anytime there's an issue, But I,
- 1:49:15I can't say that I've had my staff come to me with many
- 1:49:21issues because I think I'm, I'm with them the whole time.
- 1:49:24So if there are issues like I there, I'm already knowing that
- 1:49:27this issue from the, because we communicate all the time, you
- 1:49:31know, it's, I think it's very similar to our team culture.
- 1:49:33Our staff culture is something that we fostered and created and
- 1:49:36it's intentional. We don't have drama on our
- 1:49:39staff. We don't have gossip, dirty
- 1:49:41laundry. You don't hear about this coach
- 1:49:43hating this coach. We don't do that like, and we've
- 1:49:46we've built that just like with our team.
- 1:49:47Our team is known for being very loud and supportive and a very
- 1:49:50welcoming team culture. We've been complimented on that
- 1:49:53from other coaches who see us in action and that's something that
- 1:49:56we've created. So.
- 1:49:58You know, I, I think if you create the environment that, you
- 1:50:01know, people aren't holding on to things and they're OK with
- 1:50:04bringing stuff to you and they're OK with, hey, I, I need
- 1:50:07to take a vacation, you know, and they're not afraid to do
- 1:50:09that. Then people, if they're not
- 1:50:11afraid to do it, they're going to be much more open to sharing.
- 1:50:13So you don't end up with those things being those, you know,
- 1:50:16things festering and toxicity in the, in the background.
- 1:50:19I. Like that.
- 1:50:20All right, Last two questions. I'm curious about your thought
- 1:50:24process. Again, I just, you know, you're
- 1:50:27so intelligent, Adrian, So I'd just love to know your opinions
- 1:50:29on these things. What effect do you believe?
- 1:50:34And this is completely your opinion because we have no idea
- 1:50:38what actually is going to look like the whole division 145
- 1:50:44roster cap. And I know, well, I shouldn't
- 1:50:46say I know, I, I assume maybe there's some, I don't want to
- 1:50:50call it separation or difference in the Ivy League.
- 1:50:51I, I don't know. But you tell me what?
- 1:50:53What's your thoughts and ideas of what's going on right now in
- 1:50:56track and field specifically? So I'm on the track and field
- 1:51:01executive committee, so I'm in the conversations about this.
- 1:51:04I knew I had the right guy. Yeah, hey, I'm the Ivy Rep and
- 1:51:08but I'm not going to reveal, you know, anything but I.
- 1:51:11Think. I don't think there's much to
- 1:51:14reveal. I think no one really knows
- 1:51:16what's going to happen. I think right now the Ivy League
- 1:51:18isn't, isn't a place where the Ivy League is going to opt out.
- 1:51:22You know, folks, institutions and conferences will have the
- 1:51:25option for my understanding to opt out or opt in.
- 1:51:29And there's a lot of, you know, hypotheticals on, on, on the
- 1:51:32results. Some folks think that, you know,
- 1:51:34if they, a lot of schools are going to opt in and focus on
- 1:51:37specific sports which are going to kill other sports.
- 1:51:40I think most people think it's going to really harm men's track
- 1:51:43because they're going to be looking for spots for baseball
- 1:51:46and and yadda, yadda, yadda. So I could, I could see that as
- 1:51:51a problem. But honestly, being in the Ivy
- 1:51:52League, we're a little insulated from some of that stuff because
- 1:51:54although we are a very good, you know, track and field
- 1:51:57conference, we kind of also do our own thing.
- 1:52:00So right now my guess is the Ivy League's like, no, we're opting
- 1:52:02out. And you know, if that means we
- 1:52:04can't go to national championship, then because we
- 1:52:07focus on conference and I that that like conference.
- 1:52:11So everything else is secondary to our, our team spirit
- 1:52:14conference alumni. That's our thing in the, in the
- 1:52:17Ivy. So, you know, the the dual meet
- 1:52:20try meat stuff like I think we're OK with that stuff.
- 1:52:23So what some people guess is that it's going to kill a lot of
- 1:52:26programs and those recruits can't all go to the Power 5, so.
- 1:52:31Y'all might see the Ivy League jumping up to #2 if you if this
- 1:52:34is the way things go. And not only that, but I'm going
- 1:52:36to keep 78 men on my roster opted out so.
- 1:52:40Yeah, that I love that because I I'm not a chicken little.
- 1:52:45The sky has fallen. You know, you go on social media
- 1:52:48where where I live on social media, but you go on social
- 1:52:50media and it's you know, this is going to devastate the Olympics,
- 1:52:53right? Because you know, college track
- 1:52:54and field Division One is a big Olympic feeder as well, right,
- 1:52:56For all countries, not just US. You're a product of that
- 1:53:00actually, but but it is going to change for for sure something's
- 1:53:04going to change in track and field.
- 1:53:06What I'm wondering, because I've heard this as well, You know,
- 1:53:08there's opt in, opt out and, and you know, I'm, I'm holding you
- 1:53:13to nothing here. These are your opinions.
- 1:53:15These are your opinions. What and you maybe kind of
- 1:53:19alluded to it, when a conference opts out, does that mean there
- 1:53:23is a opt in national championship and an opt out
- 1:53:27national championship? Unanswered questions.
- 1:53:31OK, that's fair. That's good.
- 1:53:33To be to be determined. Yeah, OK.
- 1:53:35I, I appreciate that because I didn't know the answer and I was
- 1:53:38like, I don't want the answer being out there and I don't know
- 1:53:40the answer. I kind of need to know the I.
- 1:53:41Don't think anyone knows to answer.
- 1:53:42That question I. Don't think anyone knows to
- 1:53:44answer. That question, yeah, it's fair.
- 1:53:47I appreciate that. So last question is Adrian, as
- 1:53:50you look forward, you know, we're months away at this point
- 1:53:53from the 2025 season. And of course you know, you're,
- 1:53:56you're a, you're a plow ahead kind of guy.
- 1:53:57So you're already imagine in your head thinking of 262728
- 1:54:01etcetera. What's got you excited about
- 1:54:03your program, about Cornell track and field?
- 1:54:06So it's bittersweet. This is our final time hosting
- 1:54:10the indoor Haps in Barton Hall. You know, they we got voted out
- 1:54:14of the rotation and we put up a fight.
- 1:54:16But all the other coaches want to go to bank tracks.
- 1:54:18They don't want flashbacks anymore, even though we try to
- 1:54:21prove that the conversion it was the conversion is great.
- 1:54:24Yeah, it's. Very generous, but they don't
- 1:54:27want it. They want to go to bank track.
- 1:54:28So we got voted out with Dartmouth.
- 1:54:32And so it's, it's, you know, everyone's sad about it because
- 1:54:35Barton was the home of Hepps and it's just so many amazing
- 1:54:38conference championships that was held in this, in this
- 1:54:40building, this former airplane hangar.
- 1:54:42You know, it gets loud and it's just, it's, it's an energized
- 1:54:46place. And so we're going to make it a
- 1:54:48huge alumni event. We've invited all generation of
- 1:54:51alumni to come back. Our men's team got second in the
- 1:54:54Ivy League indoor last year and we were the number one team in
- 1:54:57the Northeast. So we're going for the win, so
- 1:54:59we could win it, but all of our alumni home and it just ends up
- 1:55:03being we we want it to be the most memorable Barton heps ever.
- 1:55:07So I'm pretty excited about that.
- 1:55:09And that's what I'm focusing all my energy on right now, you
- 1:55:12know? That's exciting, hopefully.
- 1:55:13We can pull it off, yeah. Yeah, make stick it to him for
- 1:55:17voting you out then it's like, fine, you know what, you're
- 1:55:19going to vote us. That's how I feel about They'll
- 1:55:21be going to destroy it on that last one then.
- 1:55:23Exactly. Yeah.
- 1:55:24Make them call all the way up because they hate coming in.
- 1:55:26Because all the way up here, yeah.
- 1:55:29I love it. I love it.
- 1:55:30Well, Adrian, man, I, you know, I had a feeling I my, my intros
- 1:55:35are normally too long and I was like, not we need to get into
- 1:55:38this, my man, Very fascinating. I love your journey and I love
- 1:55:44how different it is. Again, that's just I love
- 1:55:47sharing coaches journeys that don't look like whatever
- 1:55:50stereotypical path you think there is.
- 1:55:52I love it, man. I love, I just love it all, man.
- 1:55:56I love your thought process. I love your energy.
- 1:56:01This is fascinating to me. So I'm just really, really
- 1:56:03grateful for your time. It's most of valuable thing you
- 1:56:06can give me is, is your time and you're busy this week with move
- 1:56:08in and all that stuff. And I know how that goes man.
- 1:56:11I'm glad never to do that again. So just grateful for your
- 1:56:14openness, your authenticity, your journey matters.
- 1:56:17Your journey is important and I think it's going to help a lot
- 1:56:20of people that choose to listen today.
- 1:56:23I appreciate you having me on and giving me the opportunity to
- 1:56:25tell my story. As soon as I hit stop, you're
- 1:56:28going to go call your next. Get your season 2, your episode
- 1:56:3235 guest, and you're going to get back up on the podcast.
- 1:56:36I just believe it all right? Hey, I was going to try to get
- 1:56:38coach. Burrell on there, get some more.
- 1:56:40Coaches yeah, Leroy is awesome, absolutely.
- 1:56:42Because here's why. You know, I just love this
- 1:56:45podcast and stuff. Here's why I also encourage it
- 1:56:47because you know, for me, my goal is a little bit like
- 1:56:51Pokémon. I want to catch them all.
- 1:56:52I want to get every coach on this podcast, right.
- 1:56:54However, I only get 52 a year. I get one a week.
- 1:56:58So if I if so really about my Pokémon catch them all is I need
- 1:57:02Adrian on my team. He's going to go catch these
- 1:57:04hundred plus coaches and Tyree is going to go get these.
- 1:57:08You know what I'm saying? I, I, I want all of these
- 1:57:11coaches, all of you coaches to have your journey on wax so that
- 1:57:15twenty, 30-40 years from now, when that new coach begins to
- 1:57:19join Cornell track and field and says, man, how, how am I going
- 1:57:22to do this? How am I going to lead Cornell
- 1:57:24track and field? And they Google or whatever
- 1:57:26we're using in 30-40 years and they see this YouTube video,
- 1:57:29this Apple podcast of Adrian Grant, head coach of Cornell
- 1:57:32goes, oh, wait a minute, I've heard of this guy.
- 1:57:34So we have a lane ones named after this old coach that we
- 1:57:37used to have here and listens to your journey and goes, wow, look
- 1:57:40what Adrian went through. Look how he solved that.
- 1:57:42And that makes in this example, Cornell track and feel better,
- 1:57:44which makes our sport and our profession better.
- 1:57:46So I just want to get all of these coaches from the coaches
- 1:57:49who this is their first year up to, you know, we had Clyde hard
- 1:57:52earlier this year. You know, I think he's been
- 1:57:53doing it for 100 years. Those are important.
- 1:57:56And so I'm just honored that you allow me to capture your journey
- 1:57:59here on our podcast. And again, just just super
- 1:58:01grateful for you, man, and, and what you do.
- 1:58:03And I'm excited for 2025. I I'm I'm going to be ideally
- 1:58:08watching that that the heps meet for sure to see.
- 1:58:10How? Well, Adrian, thank you again so
- 1:58:14much for being here today. Thank you guys for pressing
- 1:58:16play. You know, I don't take this
- 1:58:18responsibility lightly. I absolutely love sharing
- 1:58:21journeys and learning. You know, I'm, I'm trying to
- 1:58:23twist it a little bit more. Still keep the journey part, but
- 1:58:26get into their headspace, what these coaches are dealing with
- 1:58:29every day from A Division One Ivy League to a high school to
- 1:58:32Division Three and AIA, etcetera.
- 1:58:34We're all in a journey that's in this great sport and in this
- 1:58:37great profession. So we need to learn from each
- 1:58:39other and I think this was awesome.
- 1:58:41Think we learned a lot. So thanks for being here.
- 1:58:42Join us next week. We'll do it all over again.
- 1:58:44See you guys. If it goes super appreciate the
- 1:58:46coach, the ones that pour people most every season needs a voice
- 1:58:50of reason speaking the growth. Got a prep for you.
- 1:58:53Carry the load, ask off to the soul.
- 1:58:55For those of us who stay on the go proper handoff to stay in
- 1:58:58this what you're packing for the road.
- 1:59:00There's more than one way to go taking those SAS pan you're told
- 1:59:03it ain't practice if your purpose ain't clear, it can't
- 1:59:06happen until you listen with both is you can't mentor without
- 1:59:09a mentor of experience. You can reinvent those years
- 1:59:12every plan's got to stand and deliver to and the price
- 1:59:15sacrifice can you give up you. It's a choice and a fight, not a
- 1:59:19win or lose. It's not a ploy boy device y'all
- 1:59:21can make more moves. It's not about how to, it's all
- 1:59:24about why. You don't know till you know who
- 1:59:26you are inside 6,000,000. Choose none so we all cross the
- 1:59:30finish line. The work ain't done so we learn
- 1:59:33from the experts. But y'all got to put in the leg
- 1:59:35work. Kill athletics.
- 1:59:36Who's the network? It's all about connections put
- 1:59:39together for the profession to where every track coach could be
- 1:59:41blessed.