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💅 An Etiquette Coach teaches Croat Nat how to be more lady like... · The KIIS Breakfast Wrap with Chris, Amy & Jack

• 0:04
  Speaker 1: Oh, that's Nat.
• 0:07
  Speaker 2: We've known for a long time, haven't we.
• 0:10
  Speaker 1: What a journey.
• 0:11
  Speaker 2: Yes, you're you've been known around the office. Really is
• 0:14
  Speaker 2: you know, quite quite direct? Firm abrupts with people. There
• 0:20
  Speaker 2: have been trans allegations in the past, but they were
• 0:25
  Speaker 2: put to bed. They were put to bed because.
• 0:27
  Speaker 3: We've got my boyfriend on who are confirmed.
• 0:31
  Speaker 2: Yes, so we've left that in the past, Matt. You
• 0:34
  Speaker 2: even tried to do a feminine reset. At how long
• 0:38
  Speaker 2: did that go on for?
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  Speaker 1: Look?
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  Speaker 3: I probably committed for one day and then I gave up.
• 0:43
  Speaker 3: But also I met my lovely boyfriend Kine, who loves
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  Speaker 3: me for me and doesn't want me to change.
• 0:48
  Speaker 1: We all love you.
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  Speaker 4: I love that because I've had a guy say to
• 0:51
  Speaker 4: me on the dating apps, and you might have had
• 0:53
  Speaker 4: this net when you were single. I don't give off
• 0:55
  Speaker 4: enough feminine energy, but I really do have a soft
• 0:58
  Speaker 4: feminine side. I guess I'm also an alpha female. But
• 1:01
  Speaker 4: I'm also did you see this as a negative? And
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  Speaker 4: then Caine made you.
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  Speaker 1: Love who you are?
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  Speaker 5: People just said they were scared of me less, okay.
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  Speaker 3: Which I guess is the same thing. And I notice
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  Speaker 3: I'm sitting next to zaref Is coming from the Australian
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  Speaker 3: School of Etiquette, and I'm already just because she's next
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  Speaker 3: to me, I'm going to very erect.
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  Speaker 6: Posture with that lady, feminine reset. What kind of stuff
• 1:23
  Speaker 6: were you trying to do?
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  Speaker 7: So?
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  Speaker 3: One of the things was to walk fifteen percent slower
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  Speaker 3: and glide with my steps as opposed to apparently I
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  Speaker 3: walk quite like woman on a mission. Also to speak slower,
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  Speaker 3: and I think in.
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  Speaker 5: A more hush tone.
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  Speaker 3: I speak quite loudly.
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  Speaker 1: So'd be a bit more of a lady now.
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  Speaker 6: As you said, Zareif is here from the Australian School
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  Speaker 6: of Etiquette and has been monitoring you all morning. You've
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  Speaker 6: been writing extensive notes, Zeif one morning morning.
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  Speaker 5: Thanks for joining us, my pleasure. You are the epitome
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  Speaker 5: of etiquette.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like the.
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  Speaker 5: Biggest bogan to you, but you're lovely.
• 2:02
  Speaker 3: Okay, So before we get into this, what's your thoughts
• 2:05
  Speaker 3: on Bi Anchor's hat, said, your dad is my cardio.
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  Speaker 5: You'd wear no, absolutely not.
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  Speaker 6: An inappropriate hat for the workplace.
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  Speaker 7: Incredibly inappropriate propres Yes, yes, let's tone it back a.
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  Speaker 5: Little bit, beacre.
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  Speaker 4: But but I'm like a little unicorn that vomited like
• 2:26
  Speaker 4: shiny poo.
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  Speaker 1: I feel I.
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  Speaker 7: Know and this you know little story about cheeks and
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  Speaker 7: the jet Star toilets. I think you may need to
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  Speaker 7: refine some of our stories.
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  Speaker 5: I need to be more like a is.
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  Speaker 1: Even wearing a hat appropriate hats, it will.
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  Speaker 5: Not be not be worn inside. They should only be
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  Speaker 5: worn outside.
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  Speaker 7: As soon as you step inside, they should be removed
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  Speaker 7: from your headsel.
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  Speaker 1: Remove your hat.
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  Speaker 3: Well, maybe you'll benefit from some of these tips as
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  Speaker 3: well the acre. So listen, I'm ready.
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  Speaker 1: So you been monitoring Crow at Nats all morning. I mean,
• 3:02
  Speaker 1: even the name Crow at NAT is not very lady.
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  Speaker 6: Myself's been Natalie.
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  Speaker 5: Full name correct.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, so you've been monitoring Natalie or morning. What are
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  Speaker 6: some of the things she could improve on? What are
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  Speaker 6: the most unladylike?
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  Speaker 7: I'm going to say it had to start with the introduction.
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  Speaker 7: I arrived and I got straight into I'm a full
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  Speaker 7: bush pig.
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  Speaker 5: Instead of justin and I said that, yes, you did.
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  Speaker 7: You came out with the bush pig straight away. You
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  Speaker 7: did have a smile though, so that was a big tick.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 7: Now I'm up to about eighteen on their bombs. They
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  Speaker 7: are quite consistent.
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  Speaker 1: She's swearing a lot out there.
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  Speaker 7: Thrown out all the time in front of the team
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  Speaker 7: as the leader of the team.
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  Speaker 1: Because the lady you just never used that word.
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  Speaker 5: We don't need to use bad language. What's a substitute
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  Speaker 5: for that word? There is no okay's just use nice language. Okay, Sure,
• 4:05
  Speaker 5: I don't trust people who don't swear.
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  Speaker 4: I like someone who drops an fbom because you know,
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  Speaker 4: with nat it's what you see.
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  Speaker 5: Is what you get.
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  Speaker 1: But is it too many?
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  Speaker 5: There's just too many.
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  Speaker 7: If I maybe saw one or two, I might not
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  Speaker 7: have written it down where it acheen in over two hours?
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  Speaker 5: Is hr thing? Now?
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  Speaker 1: Nah, not here, don't worry about that.
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  Speaker 5: Shut up. Now, let's touch on this posture.
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  Speaker 7: It is incredibly slouched as everyone's in some straight I've watched.
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  Speaker 5: You at the desk.
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  Speaker 7: Your head's nearly hitting the actual desk with how fast slouched.
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  Speaker 4: Over you are because she's hiding them.
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  Speaker 7: Those feet definitely pound the ground when she is walking
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  Speaker 7: from room to ring.
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  Speaker 1: So she needs to do a bit more of a delicate, well, a.
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  Speaker 7: Little bit more refinement, walk in that straight line, back
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  Speaker 7: to the glide, back to that more polished control.
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  Speaker 4: How long do you think it would take to dr
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  Speaker 4: Doolittle and lady up someone like Nat with your care Like,
• 5:00
  Speaker 4: how long would someone like Nat take or I'm thinking
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  Speaker 4: probably a good solid for for six weeks daily daily exercises.
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  Speaker 4: There'd be a lot of accountability, a lot of sheets
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  Speaker 4: that need to be filled out, a lot of boxes
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  Speaker 4: that need to be ticked. The other thing that was
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  Speaker 4: quite interesting is the I've called them the natisms, So
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  Speaker 4: these words that.
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  Speaker 5: She comes out with.
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  Speaker 7: So it started with, you know, sure thing chicken wing,
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  Speaker 7: but we need to gummies had Nat loves nuts and
• 5:36
  Speaker 7: you know there's a lot of your and idiot that
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  Speaker 7: gets called out regularly. Yes, so definitely we need to
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  Speaker 7: be toning down from a leader of a big team.
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  Speaker 7: We do need a lot of refinement in a.
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  Speaker 5: Lot of wo like a little bit Tourette's. She just
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  Speaker 5: come out with us. Yes, I'm sure in.
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  Speaker 3: The moment there was con text. I don't remember what
• 6:02
  Speaker 3: that context was, but I can't imagine I'm just shouting.
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  Speaker 1: Overall.
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  Speaker 6: Nat introduced herself as a bush pig.
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  Speaker 5: Correct a bush pig.
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  Speaker 7: I'm going to say, not completely, but we're getting very
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  Speaker 7: close to it. Wow, I think there is a lot
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  Speaker 7: of room for improvement. Matt Matt, and I do think.
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  Speaker 3: Fantastic. Now I have another question for you. When we met,
• 6:36
  Speaker 3: I shook your hand, And another thing I've been called
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  Speaker 3: out for in the past was having a very strong
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  Speaker 3: and masculine handshake.
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  Speaker 1: Shake your hand now, ye isn't too strong.
• 6:45
  Speaker 7: It's it's actually not strong in the actual shake, but
• 6:48
  Speaker 7: it's when you go up and down you're like shake
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  Speaker 7: shake like to such so slower, okay, slower, and don't
• 6:56
  Speaker 7: be in such a rush.
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  Speaker 5: Everything is like fast to movement, banging harsh. Do you
• 7:02
  Speaker 5: know what it's even the radio, it's bricky radio, She reflects.
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  Speaker 5: Nat has to be like that or she wouldn't be
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  Speaker 5: so great trying.
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  Speaker 3: To defend me. But I feel as if what I'm
• 7:09
  Speaker 3: getting here softer in maybe even the way I speak,
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  Speaker 3: I could speak a little bit more likely, Yes, And.
• 7:16
  Speaker 5: No swear words, and stop calling the team idiots?
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  Speaker 7: Are you? And no crunching of those chips, Oh there
• 7:23
  Speaker 7: was quite a few chips. She likes to wander and
• 7:25
  Speaker 7: pick up chips and then crunch them in front of everybody.
• 7:27
  Speaker 1: Because you've got you've got a whole list there. We'll
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  Speaker 1: get you to go and work on that.
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  Speaker 5: Could she change absolutely? But a lot of work she
• 7:35
  Speaker 5: needs to want to change. I don't think I love
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  Speaker 5: Nat just the way she is, bushy and all