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Shah and Nicole - Turning Loss into Strength · Cats & Pudding with Jennifer Dilandro

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  Speaker 1: This is the Cats in Footing Podcast, a melting pot
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  Speaker 1: of pudding and now here's Jen.
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  Speaker 3: Good afternoon, everybody, and welcome to today's episode of Cats
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  Speaker 3: and Pudding. And today I have two great gats. I
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  Speaker 3: have a double whammy. I have Shaw and I have Nicole.
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  Speaker 3: And welcome, ladies. Look at this gorgeous women that are
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  Speaker 3: on my show tonight. Thank you, Welcome, you guys got here,
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  Speaker 3: you're safely.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, finally I've been awaiting your able to come. But
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  Speaker 1: I'm so happy.
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  Speaker 4: I thank you. We finally made it.
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  Speaker 3: Save the best for last. So I want you girls
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  Speaker 3: to tell me what is going on. I know that
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  Speaker 3: you are going to be on this new show together
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  Speaker 3: and it's on VH one, right, so it's.
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  Speaker 5: On now, that's TVs. She comes from VH one, from
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  Speaker 5: H one, but it's on now, that's TVs.
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  Speaker 3: Tell me a little bit about the show and what
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  Speaker 3: it's about.
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  Speaker 5: It's called Coming Up Miami and so basically, it's a
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  Speaker 5: group of girls who are entrepreneurs, women who are go getters,
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  Speaker 5: you know, up and coming girls of today's society. And
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  Speaker 5: we're just out there having fun, you know, get into
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  Speaker 5: the bag and doing what we do best, looking.
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  Speaker 4: Cute while we while we're doing it.
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  Speaker 1: I love it. Yes, yes, right?
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  Speaker 3: Do you both own businesses? Or is it more but
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  Speaker 3: you're doing it? Like is it girls who owned businesses
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  Speaker 3: or they like in the entertainment business, or they.
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  Speaker 5: Like entertainment some girls have like their boutique stores. Like
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  Speaker 5: it's a little bit of everything. It's a nice little
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  Speaker 5: melting pot of what entrepreneurship is.
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  Speaker 4: So and what show were you on on VH one
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  Speaker 4: Cartel Crew?
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  Speaker 6: I did three seasons with them.
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  Speaker 3: I've heard, I've heard I think somebody that's one of
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  Speaker 3: my patients.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if you know that. I also do
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  Speaker 1: I also owe Maddy's spas.
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  Speaker 4: To I'm coming.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah up. So I do a lot of reality.
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  Speaker 3: Reality, so it's obviously actresses and you know, so there
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  Speaker 3: was a girl, there's a girl, I am fox Setta.
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  Speaker 4: Is that her?
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  Speaker 1: She's on? It was on your show? I think she
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  Speaker 1: might have been Maybe she was on? Oh I thought
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  Speaker 1: it was your show.
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  Speaker 3: Was there was another one that was filmed in Miami
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  Speaker 3: and I think it was about the the Instagram models
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  Speaker 3: that that's not your show.
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  Speaker 6: Our show is basically simon cast members that come from
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  Speaker 6: cartel families.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, so kind of like the like like us, the wifely.
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  Speaker 6: So Michael Blanco, which is Casada Blanco's son, it's a
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  Speaker 6: show with me as well. So yeah, we all basically
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  Speaker 6: come from cartel families, you know, Like it.
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  Speaker 1: Was a Pablo Weston's uh uh.
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  Speaker 6: He's not on the show, but we was trying to.
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  Speaker 1: We're trying to get this son.
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  Speaker 6: He was doing it.
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  Speaker 1: No, and how that was for three seasons.
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  Speaker 6: Three seasons, three seasons.
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  Speaker 1: And what and now they approached you to do this show?
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  Speaker 3: That was this one of your ideas or there was
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  Speaker 3: just something that some people approached you to do.
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  Speaker 4: It was not my idea, No, Cole was casted for
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  Speaker 4: the show.
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  Speaker 5: So mincle have been friends since yay Hi, we've been
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  Speaker 5: friend since we're five years old. And I'm a licensed
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  Speaker 5: cosmetologist out of New York City. And she asked me,
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  Speaker 5: you know, basically, can you come down with me? Maybe
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  Speaker 5: you could do my hair and makeup. Let's kick it.
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  Speaker 5: It'll be like a great time whatever. So I was
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  Speaker 5: not an original cast member. We were down there together
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  Speaker 5: and they scouted me for the show while I was
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  Speaker 5: down there because you know.
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  Speaker 4: My energy is just it. So they were like, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: why don't you come up on come up on the show?
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  Speaker 1: Girl?
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  Speaker 4: You got it? And I was like, yes, like I'm
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  Speaker 4: hearing a col like she.
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  Speaker 6: An't the being another main cast member.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, it was really exciting. So that's how that worked
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  Speaker 5: out for us. So thank you, Nicole.
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  Speaker 1: That's what you do for your friends. Listen.
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  Speaker 3: I love when I see women lift each other up
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  Speaker 3: and each other down, which is good because I.
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  Speaker 4: Sometimes they push them down if they we don't like him?
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  Speaker 1: How is that? How was the other cast members? Are
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  Speaker 1: you guys getting law with them?
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  Speaker 4: Or let me let her tell you first and then
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  Speaker 4: I'll then.
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  Speaker 6: I'll have the drama. You known't they all get along
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  Speaker 6: with me except one. So I had the drama one
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  Speaker 6: of the girls on the show, and you know a
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  Speaker 6: little fighting, a little you know, attitude, But other than that,
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  Speaker 6: everybody else was cool.
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  Speaker 3: Are you guys living in like a house together or
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  Speaker 3: is it just like you guys showing your lives and
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  Speaker 3: you're kind of all like hanging out as friends. And
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  Speaker 3: that's how like they bring the cast members together. There
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  Speaker 3: was coming to visit you and then you guys always
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  Speaker 3: go brought together.
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  Speaker 1: All that fine.
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  Speaker 3: So these are these old people, you know that the
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  Speaker 3: rest of the cast members.
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  Speaker 4: I didn't really know them.
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  Speaker 6: I just heard of them, right, so you know, but
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  Speaker 6: that's what we all met. We all met in the house,
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  Speaker 6: and that's how it's filming and stuff. And you also
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  Speaker 6: live up here too, yes, I so fifty percent of
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  Speaker 6: Miami and fifty here.
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  Speaker 1: Where's your better fifty up here? Right?
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  Speaker 6: I don't know when I'm in Miami. I like being
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  Speaker 6: in Miami. When I'm here, I want to stay here.
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  Speaker 5: Lies you're always sick and you miss it up here,
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  Speaker 5: and then when you look here.
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  Speaker 4: She's like, fuck this cold.
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  Speaker 2: I need to go back down to like a snowbird.
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  Speaker 1: You're too young to be a snowbird.
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  Speaker 3: The snowbird is somebody who's like in their sixties and
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  Speaker 3: goes travels back and forths go out of the cold weather.
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  Speaker 3: They can't take it, and they go to the South.
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  Speaker 3: I have a house in Fort Luda Delle, which I love.
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  Speaker 3: What I have to tell you, when I'm there for
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  Speaker 3: a long period of time, I can't wait to come
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  Speaker 3: home because.
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  Speaker 1: I missed the food vibe and I missed the vibe
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  Speaker 1: of New York.
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  Speaker 3: You know, right now, there's a lot of crap going
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  Speaker 3: on in New York that I can't stand. It's like,
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  Speaker 3: you know, too many people on the streets and people
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  Speaker 3: are too much crap going and all.
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  Speaker 4: My mom says it reminds her of the eighties.
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  Speaker 1: She's like, it's back to the eighties. It's worse.
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  Speaker 3: It's the seventies. Because I grew up in the seventies
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  Speaker 3: that was bad. So it's pretty bad out there. But
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  Speaker 3: I do New York is New York, of course, you know.
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  Speaker 3: And you know I'm I'm from Brooklyn, so I love
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  Speaker 3: to be you know in my my Brooklyn Queens you know, vibe,
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  Speaker 3: my Burrow, my Borough vibe, like more not as much
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  Speaker 3: in the city anymore. I like to but I like what.
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  Speaker 3: I feel comfortable being at home, right, But.
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  Speaker 1: So I do miss it.
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  Speaker 3: So what I'm there for a little while, like it's
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  Speaker 3: too slow that like I'm at the counter at a.
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  Speaker 1: At the wind Dixie and they're taking too long to
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  Speaker 1: pack up. Hurry up.
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  Speaker 4: That's how we are up here up north.
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  Speaker 5: I were trying to tell people like we don't got
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  Speaker 5: time for it, like speed up up that mean, get
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  Speaker 5: to the point. Mean, it's just gets to the point
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  Speaker 5: every time, right.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think it's being mean.
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  Speaker 3: I think it's like when you're sitting there trying to
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  Speaker 3: talk to me when I'm in a Harvey.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's rude that you're trying to hold me off, right,
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  Speaker 1: Like just get to the point. I gotta go back,
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  Speaker 1: Like that's that.
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  Speaker 4: Give me my slice, give me my coffee, and let's
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  Speaker 4: give me my.
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  Speaker 1: Slice of pizza. Take care of the rest of the
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  Speaker 1: people online. I don't want to have a five hour
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  Speaker 1: conversation with you.
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  Speaker 5: That's all right, So ask me how I'm even doing,
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  Speaker 5: because I don't even care how I'm.
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  Speaker 6: Find it out.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, just give me my slice. I gotta have a
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  Speaker 1: good day.
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  Speaker 3: So that's that's nice that you guys are on the
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  Speaker 3: show together.
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  Speaker 1: And do you guys live together.
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  Speaker 6: Up here or you just no, we live separate right
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  Speaker 6: up the right up the black.
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  Speaker 1: Do you live in the city or do you live
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  Speaker 1: in Jersey.
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  Speaker 4: In Jersey part of Jersey Bergen County.
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  Speaker 1: That's where I'm looking right now.
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  Speaker 4: Please come over to the to the dark side right.
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  Speaker 2: Now, the move.
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  Speaker 1: They're actually been looking around.
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  Speaker 6: Like it's it's very quiet, more like family every time.
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  Speaker 5: I like, we're we're city girls, like one hundred percent,
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  Speaker 5: like we're always out here. But like once you cross
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  Speaker 5: that bridge, you know what I'm saying, on the other side.
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  Speaker 4: Of night, what a relief. It just feels like, yes,
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  Speaker 4: we're finally.
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  Speaker 3: Angry, Like especially just going down this the traffic and
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  Speaker 3: it's the stop and go, the stop and go, and
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  Speaker 3: then it's twenty miles an hour to drive I get
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  Speaker 3: it's like the tickets to.
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  Speaker 4: Ski or in Jersey. Here it's ridiculous.
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  Speaker 3: And for me to get to my I have a
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  Speaker 3: place in Brooklyn, it's at fourteen miles from my house
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  Speaker 3: to my Brooklyn office and it literally takes me an
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  Speaker 3: hour and a half.
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  Speaker 1: If I lived in Jersey. It would take me forty
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  Speaker 1: five minutes to get to work if I went on
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  Speaker 1: all time with no lights, no traffic.
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  Speaker 3: As long as I get into Jersey out of Jersey
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  Speaker 3: at a good time, I'm not going to hit that
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  Speaker 3: traffic right.
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  Speaker 1: That drives me crazy. Yeah, and you love frank It's
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  Speaker 1: Franklin Lakes you live in or just no.
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  Speaker 4: I live in Bergen County, live in Cliffside Park.
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  Speaker 1: Cliffside Palk is beautiful. You too.
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  Speaker 6: I'm rich Field, Okay beautiful.
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  Speaker 5: So we're literally like not even five minutes worth, three
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  Speaker 5: minutes away from each other.
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  Speaker 1: I love that, and we love that. No boyfriends, husbands.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not married. I'm not married. I have no boyfriend.
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  Speaker 4: But I'm looking.
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  Speaker 1: You're looking, and they're all.
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  Speaker 6: No same thing. No kids, not married, no kids, have
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  Speaker 6: to boyfriend. I'm my actually my current boyfriend, well my
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  Speaker 6: past boyf friend. He just passed away a year and
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  Speaker 6: a half.
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  Speaker 1: Ago, so sorry, thank you.
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  Speaker 4: Same We share that.
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  Speaker 5: That's how we bond to Okay, and my my man
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  Speaker 5: passed away in twenty twenty, so it's like, I'm so sorry.
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  Speaker 5: We both share that. So it's like another little trauma
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  Speaker 5: bond we have together.
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  Speaker 6: But yeah, it was bad experience for me, like a
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  Speaker 6: deep depression. It was so bad.
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  Speaker 1: Well, you know what, now take your time and you
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  Speaker 1: guys could be.
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  Speaker 5: She's a mental health advocate, so she like she she's
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  Speaker 5: that's so.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So if you don't want me asking how we how
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  Speaker 1: did he pass away?
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  Speaker 6: He got killed, he got murdered.
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  Speaker 1: I'm so sorry.
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  Speaker 6: I know you know he's wasn't that lifestyle? Yeah, that's
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  Speaker 6: what comes with it?
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  Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, was it was? He also in jail too,
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  Speaker 1: did if it's gears.
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  Speaker 6: In jail, came out, lived for seven years outside and
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  Speaker 6: got murdered.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what usually happens. You know.
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  Speaker 3: Listen, I'm Sicilian and you know what kind of lifestyle
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  Speaker 3: we live too, and the same thing.
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  Speaker 6: And I'm so crazy that happened because he was just
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  Speaker 6: about telling me, like, babe, I'm going to get out
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  Speaker 6: the streets, I'm not going to do this no more.
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  Speaker 6: You know. He invests in properties too, though, you know,
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  Speaker 6: and as soon as he was making that decision to
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  Speaker 6: change his life around.
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  Speaker 1: That's what happens.
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  Speaker 3: And that's when it usually happens, because it's when you
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  Speaker 3: stay in the lifestyle, like that's what happens, it's either
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  Speaker 3: death or jail.
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  Speaker 1: And I know my husband was in jail twice while
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  Speaker 1: we were married.
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  Speaker 3: So that was ten years of my life without without
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  Speaker 3: my husband, went with my children alone, So.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I can imagine how that was horrible.
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  Speaker 3: Like you know, listen getting my dog kicked in on
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  Speaker 3: Christmas Eve that, you know, getting him handcuffed.
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  Speaker 1: Throw down in front of my children.
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  Speaker 3: So I understand it's traumatized, traumatiz it's traumatizing.
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  Speaker 6: You know, he's much older, he's forty five. You know,
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  Speaker 6: I'm thirty one, and he left and with you know,
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  Speaker 6: have five kids, five little babies. Literally the oldest one
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  Speaker 6: is poor.
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  Speaker 1: Do you see any of his kids now?
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  Speaker 6: Do they to his mom? Here and there? But I
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  Speaker 6: don't have no relationships with the kids. Oh baby, Mom's
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  Speaker 6: nothing like that.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, no, And what about you?
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  Speaker 5: He was also in the lifestyle too, or he was
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  Speaker 5: in a lifestyle, but he didn't pass away from being murdered,
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  Speaker 5: thank you God, because I would have to go after them.
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  Speaker 5: But he passed away from an ailment called psarkadosis. So
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  Speaker 5: it's really hard to watch somebody that you know, you
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  Speaker 5: love deteriorate from start to finish, and a lot of
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  Speaker 5: people don't even know how you can, like how that happens,
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  Speaker 5: like how it how it manifested your body, you know
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  Speaker 5: what I mean. Like so it was just like with
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  Speaker 5: the blink of an eye, he was gone. So it's
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  Speaker 5: were with each other since I was fourteen, No, fifteen,
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  Speaker 5: twenty sixteen.
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  Speaker 4: I'm thirty. I'll be thirty one in July.
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  Speaker 1: You guys are as old as my oldest daughter. O.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, mold to be your mommy.
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  Speaker 1: But for you guys to go through that that young.
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  Speaker 3: You know, I understand because my ex husband went to
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  Speaker 3: jail when I was twenty nine years old, and you know,
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  Speaker 3: I was left with two children by.
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  Speaker 1: Myself and it was worn. So I do understand.
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  Speaker 5: It's like anyone that you love and hold dear to
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  Speaker 5: your heart is very traumatizing for anyone, whether it be
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  Speaker 5: a family member or just a life partner, you know
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  Speaker 5: what I mean.
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  Speaker 4: It's just an ugly thing, but it's part of life, right.
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  Speaker 1: You know what?
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  Speaker 3: But it defines you when you go through certain things,
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  Speaker 3: and you know it's it's it's it does change you
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  Speaker 3: and does also mature you in certain ways. Yeah, absolutely,
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  Speaker 3: you know I can agree, right, you feel like a
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  Speaker 3: little bit more mature than maybe your other friends.
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  Speaker 4: I honestly feel.
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  Speaker 5: That after he passed away is when my life took
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  Speaker 5: a different turn. It's just something something within me. I
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  Speaker 5: can't even explain it. Just my life was different and
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  Speaker 5: it and it kind of got a little bit better
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  Speaker 5: not to say that, like, oh, because he died, now
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  Speaker 5: I'm living my life. No, Like you mature, you decide
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  Speaker 5: to make different decisions, you go different places because you
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  Speaker 5: you just suffered a loss. You're like, you know what,
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  Speaker 5: I want to enjoy my life. I want to like
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  Speaker 5: because tomorrow is not promised. Anything could happen, so like
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  Speaker 5: literally the year he died was twenty twenty, and twenty
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  Speaker 5: twenty is like when my life started changing for the better.
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  Speaker 5: And I'm like, I'm happy that every year that goes
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  Speaker 5: by is like something new, something exciting. And I know
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  Speaker 5: that he would be like, damn girl, like I would
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  Speaker 5: have never imagined.
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  Speaker 1: You know that life's a gift.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, right, true, And that's where you gotta live every
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  Speaker 3: life every day knowing that that you know every day
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  Speaker 3: is a gift.
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  Speaker 6: Absolutely absolutely, I live my best life. I always tell
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  Speaker 6: my friends, live your best life, don't plan for next week,
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  Speaker 6: you know, do whatever you gotta do it doing now
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  Speaker 6: because tomorrow is not promised.
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  Speaker 4: She's always saying that.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, she'd be like, it's twelve minute shot, get ready,
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  Speaker 5: we're going on.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, girl, I gotta work tomorrow. She's like, do
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  Speaker 4: you know tomorrow is not promised? Can we get home
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  Speaker 4: at fivey?
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  Speaker 6: And she's like, I'd been saying that's I'd go hard
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  Speaker 6: with that because like, I was so traumatized when my
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  Speaker 6: when you know, I was literally just talking to him, babe,
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  Speaker 6: I love you, Okay, I'm going to call you tomorrow.
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  Speaker 6: An hour later he was gone, So I.
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  Speaker 3: Imagine, so it could it happened that quickly. So and
• 14:01
  Speaker 3: I'm glad. I'm glad. I mean, you sound you know
• 14:04
  Speaker 3: that you're not you're at peace with it, that you're
• 14:07
  Speaker 3: not like, you know, depressed, and you're not in the
• 14:10
  Speaker 3: dark place. You're living your life and that's what you
• 14:13
  Speaker 3: should do because you can't because somebody else's.
• 14:15
  Speaker 1: Life is over.
• 14:15
  Speaker 3: You don't want to throw your life away now, you know,
• 14:18
  Speaker 3: And you're opparenty now because he probably wouldn't. He wouldn't
• 14:22
  Speaker 3: want you to do that either, even though you want
• 14:24
  Speaker 3: to it's a lot easier just to lay down and
• 14:26
  Speaker 3: roll on a ditch. When something bad happens to you,
• 14:29
  Speaker 3: you know, it's it's terrible. I lost my parents when
• 14:32
  Speaker 3: I was young, but I also lost my sister and
• 14:34
  Speaker 3: it was like the worst thing in the world to
• 14:36
  Speaker 3: lose a sibling.
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: It was like taking a piece of you. It was horrible.
• 14:41
  Speaker 3: It was like, you know, you know your parents are
• 14:43
  Speaker 3: always going to go before you, but which was horrible
• 14:45
  Speaker 3: because I lost the when I was young, but losing
• 14:48
  Speaker 3: her was like, it was traumatizing.
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: It was horrible.
• 14:51
  Speaker 4: So she's older than you, were, younger than you.
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: She's young older than me.
• 14:54
  Speaker 3: I'm the youngest, so it's knowing that pain like the
• 14:59
  Speaker 3: only thing worse because losing a child like that probably
• 15:01
  Speaker 3: only be worse than losing a sibling.
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: So it's it does define you.
• 15:05
  Speaker 3: And what I had to get out of that depression
• 15:08
  Speaker 3: because it was the It was depressing watching her, watching
• 15:12
  Speaker 3: her second and then passing away. You know, it just
• 15:15
  Speaker 3: took her, and which is so difficult. I don't know
• 15:18
  Speaker 3: if it's work, if it's worth watching somebody slowly die
• 15:21
  Speaker 3: or somebody getting taken like that.
• 15:23
  Speaker 4: There is no better way.
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know, I don't know what.
• 15:26
  Speaker 4: That's no better way.
• 15:27
  Speaker 5: It's just knowing that they're gonna go eventually. Whether it's quicker,
• 15:29
  Speaker 5: whether it's slow, it's just it just it sucks either way.
• 15:33
  Speaker 3: And you both it's a tunny because you both had
• 15:35
  Speaker 3: a different experience. You said, somebody with sickness who took
• 15:39
  Speaker 3: a long time to die and somebody just got taken
• 15:41
  Speaker 3: from you like that, So you got both perspectives on that. Well, listen,
• 15:46
  Speaker 3: you guys are young, and now you gotta live your
• 15:48
  Speaker 3: life and now you have you have this show and.
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: Get out of the stands, get back some happy times.
• 15:57
  Speaker 3: How how does it feel that now, like when you're
• 16:01
  Speaker 3: when you're on this show, how they're going to portray you?
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: Do you want them to? How are they What kind
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: of light are they portraying you in on this show?
• 16:09
  Speaker 6: Well? The show is very raw. Okay, you know some shows,
• 16:12
  Speaker 6: I could say, you know, some shows are scripted. This
• 16:14
  Speaker 6: show you just went in and whatever happens happened very
• 16:19
  Speaker 6: raw like it was. So the drama is real. The
• 16:23
  Speaker 6: fights are real.
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: But did you have fun? Fights are real?
• 16:27
  Speaker 6: Oh? Yeah, we had a blast filming of course, But
• 16:30
  Speaker 6: it was. It was a lot of drama.
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: Because I'll be honest, like I'm sick of watching reality
• 16:34
  Speaker 3: shows that are all negative. I mean, there's always gonna
• 16:36
  Speaker 3: be some negativity. I want to see fun. I want
• 16:38
  Speaker 3: to see some people having fun. Like twenty five years ago,
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: it was.
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: Fun to watch.
• 16:43
  Speaker 5: If they're fighting, then they want to say I want
• 16:45
  Speaker 5: to see fun and we're uplifting each other. If they're
• 16:47
  Speaker 5: uplifting each other, they say, I want to see them fight.
• 16:50
  Speaker 5: What's going on? So it's like either way, we're just literally,
• 16:52
  Speaker 5: like she said, it was raw. It was raw, it
• 16:54
  Speaker 5: was unscripted. It was like by the minute, everything is changing,
• 16:58
  Speaker 5: personalities are changing, is involved. So literally like every minute
• 17:02
  Speaker 5: it's changing, you know what I'm saying. So it's like
• 17:05
  Speaker 5: you look at me the wrong way with a twist
• 17:06
  Speaker 5: that I might copy real quick.
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: So this so this is the first season. It is okay,
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: and it's airing on where and now that's TV every Sunday.
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: So do you see yourself going further with this show
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: or do you have other other absolutely us you want
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: to go down besides doing this show.
• 17:28
  Speaker 6: Absolutely? Yeah, the show, I know it's going to go
• 17:30
  Speaker 6: for a few seasons.
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, and you want to and you want to
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: maybe go to doing something else or you are you.
• 17:37
  Speaker 6: I'm starting to do movies. Yeah, so I'm getting into
• 17:40
  Speaker 6: the acting room.
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: What about you.
• 17:42
  Speaker 5: I would love to be an actress. I think I'm
• 17:44
  Speaker 5: born an entertainer, so for sure, Like you know, I
• 17:47
  Speaker 5: always say it's so crazy, because let's bring it back
• 17:50
  Speaker 5: a little bit. I know Nicles in some five maybe six,
• 17:53
  Speaker 5: we went to private school together. After private school, we
• 17:57
  Speaker 5: went to uh grade school, high school. We were still friends,
• 18:02
  Speaker 5: but you know, like in high school how everybody kind
• 18:04
  Speaker 5: of like ventures off and like they have It's very cliquish.
• 18:06
  Speaker 5: So after graduating high school, I lost touch with Nicole.
• 18:11
  Speaker 4: We had each other.
• 18:11
  Speaker 5: By on like MySpace or whatever was going on back
• 18:14
  Speaker 5: in that day, right whatever, and like we really did
• 18:18
  Speaker 5: not see each other at all. So my thirtieth birthday,
• 18:22
  Speaker 5: I was at a members only club down in Jersey
• 18:25
  Speaker 5: and I'm like vibing, and all of a sudden, I
• 18:28
  Speaker 5: looks America because I'm lit, and I'm like, see, I'm
• 18:30
  Speaker 5: checking out who's next to me, and I seen a.
• 18:32
  Speaker 6: Call and I'm like forever and never so knocked in.
• 18:38
  Speaker 5: So ever since we literally been locked in and it
• 18:41
  Speaker 5: was so crazy because I legit did not see you
• 18:43
  Speaker 5: in ten years, and people and people say like, because
• 18:47
  Speaker 5: on the show, you see like how I ride for
• 18:49
  Speaker 5: her and she rides for me, like we got each
• 18:51
  Speaker 5: other's back, And people are like, how could you be
• 18:53
  Speaker 5: so tight with somebody that you haven't even seen in
• 18:54
  Speaker 5: ten years? It doesn't matter, Like I grew up together,
• 18:58
  Speaker 5: and that's and the vibe is like, seriously, the same
• 19:02
  Speaker 5: vibe that we wouldn't see it for thirty years, it
• 19:04
  Speaker 5: would be the same, the same, so and it's just
• 19:07
  Speaker 5: so that's difference. But a lot of people don't understand that,
• 19:09
  Speaker 5: especially coming from New York and New Jersey.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: That's the way the vibe is with people, right exactly.
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: I know I'm still friends with people that I'm friends
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: with from grammar school, right my friend and my best
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: friend is I know it since I'm four years old.
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: And if I don't talk to her for two months,
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: four months, nine months, six months, it's like we never
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: left each other.
• 19:26
  Speaker 5: And that just goes to show like her personality who
• 19:28
  Speaker 5: she is as a woman right now is that you
• 19:31
  Speaker 5: didn't see me for ten years, but like she's still
• 19:34
  Speaker 5: loved me. The same as much as I loved her
• 19:36
  Speaker 5: the same too, Like girl, like what's up? You know,
• 19:37
  Speaker 5: like and we kicked it off and she saw opportunity
• 19:40
  Speaker 5: that she was like, you know what, like I, like
• 19:41
  Speaker 5: I said, I wasn't a castmember.
• 19:43
  Speaker 4: She brought me.
• 19:43
  Speaker 5: She's like, you're still going to be on the show
• 19:46
  Speaker 5: because you're gonna be filming because you're my friend, Like
• 19:47
  Speaker 5: and I want you there. You're going to do hair,
• 19:49
  Speaker 5: makeup whatever, because like I said, I'm a cosmetologist. But
• 19:52
  Speaker 5: like it's still because of you that I had this opportunity,
• 19:55
  Speaker 5: so to say it publicly again, thank you.
• 19:57
  Speaker 4: I really appreciate it.
• 19:58
  Speaker 5: And that just goes to show like and she's oh
• 20:00
  Speaker 5: ways feeding people opportunities.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: And that's what I love that beautiful. And you guys
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: are gonna know have a bond because you grew up together.
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: So that's a beautiful thing.
• 20:09
  Speaker 3: Look you didn't see ten years and it's like you
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: never left each other exactly.
• 20:13
  Speaker 6: Love it.
• 20:13
  Speaker 5: I love you like our parents, our parents. Like one
• 20:18
  Speaker 5: time I was on face and I was like, Dad,
• 20:19
  Speaker 5: guess who I'm with right now. I was like remembering
• 20:20
  Speaker 5: Nicole and he was like whole vala And I was.
• 20:23
  Speaker 4: Like I was like, yeah, it's so funny. Like my mom,
• 20:27
  Speaker 4: her mom remembers her dad. So it's like our family past.
• 20:31
  Speaker 4: You guys, our families still even know. So it's like
• 20:33
  Speaker 4: it's fun.
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: That's nice, and you guys are going to be friends.
• 20:36
  Speaker 4: For we'll be sixty Like, bitch, are we going to
• 20:40
  Speaker 4: happy hour?
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: Let's go right? I love that.
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: Well, girls, I want you guys to definitely come back
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: to the show and I want to hear and I
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: want to know what it is on Sunday.
• 20:54
  Speaker 5: It's now every Sunday on Now that's TV. So it's
• 20:57
  Speaker 5: a streaming app. You have to go to your app store.
• 20:59
  Speaker 5: You have to die load now that's TV. It'll say
• 21:02
  Speaker 5: now that's CV plus. You'll click on that, subscribe to it.
• 21:05
  Speaker 5: You find coming up Miami will be there every single Sunday.
• 21:09
  Speaker 5: So it's gonna be ten episodes. Stay tuned for the
• 21:12
  Speaker 5: next seasons. Follow us on Instagram for you know, our
• 21:16
  Speaker 5: content minus Shahans TURKMANI. I'm sure you'll like put that
• 21:19
  Speaker 5: in there or something or whatever is rural Nicolesovala good.
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: This is whether everybody will find you have a TikTok
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: or a Twitter or those it's all the same.
• 21:28
  Speaker 4: It's all the same.
• 21:29
  Speaker 5: Made it easy and I hope you guys follow me
• 21:31
  Speaker 5: back to Yes, absolutely, they have you back.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: After the season. Yes, you can talk about it because.
• 21:38
  Speaker 4: There's so much to talk about, so much.
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: Well, I'm excited to hear about the season and I'll
• 21:43
  Speaker 3: have you guys back after the season's overall, people, we
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: can talk about the whole thing, go through or.
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: Break it down and we can. Everybody stayed and I
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: love the disacca. I'll be watching.
• 21:55
  Speaker 4: Yes, thank you so much.
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: It was so nice to have you both on the show,
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: and you have coming in. I know it was a
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: little rough coming from Jersey with the traffic tonight. We
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: made a nice I'm so happy you guys came.
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: Thank you everybody.
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: Please, I'm looking at the wrong cameras. This is what
• 22:12
  Speaker 3: I've been doing all day. Everybody, please watch us on Apple,
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: on Spotify and on YouTube. Watched the whole episode, not
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: just the shorts, and hit the subscribe button. Please don't forget.
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: Kats are putting everybody and I'm Jennifer delandro Yeah.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: And have a great day. I'm so happy to have
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: you girls. Thank you. Yeah, that was good. That was great.