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052 Risk, Grind, & Real Estate w/ 6ixms · Here's to You

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  Podcast, Podcast. Because Fanny didn't do it, I
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  outside of our normal operating hours, going up on a Tuesday
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  night tonight. Where are you in your ears?
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  It's Thursday morning, though, or like 5:00 AM.
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  Exactly, Yeah. Because we post at 5:30 in the
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  morning, right? Isn't that when you post?
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  That is when I post, I wake up and hit post this public now at
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  5:00 AM and then I go back to sleep for another 2 1/2 hours.
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  Do you see how committed we are? Like we're.
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  Fucking committed like we we don't grind the algorithm.
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  Mostly at 5:00 AM, so everybody see when they wake up, you know
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  what I'm saying? You know that's.
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  Commitment though 9:30 to wake up and post.
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  That's commitment. No, it's.
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  Scheduled. I was going to say, I'm like,
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  why are you waking up at 5:30? Just schedule.
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  It. Cam, don't you schedule it?
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  You missed me with the quotation.
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  Like I wake up fanister, tell everybody who we've got with us
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  today. Yeah, no, we have some really
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  cool guys here with us. This like trio A unit, A3 man
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  Empire, these young bosses behind six Ms. They're they're
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  making some real estate moves. They're doing some clothing
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  line. They're doing some shit with
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  dogs. They're flying some pigeons
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  because pigeons is where they get them.
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  And they have a lot more hustle stories that they're going to
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  share with us. Cam is here, who was a hoopster.
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  Shout out to Cam. Trey was here, who has the
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  highest anxiety out of all of them.
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  And Jamal's here to pretend to be a dad just 'cause he just
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  came on and suddenly he knows what the fuck he's doing.
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  So suddenly, suddenly he knows more than everyone.
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  But we have some three different personalities here. 1
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  unstoppable grind, all gas, no brakes in a lot of energy.
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  So they're here to talk hustle, relationships and conspiracies.
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  Yeah. Got it all laid out on the
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  table. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  I want to hear it as a rap though.
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  Checking in 1/3 Cam. Should have invested in Cam on
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  Instagram. No, it's a six in with all the
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  team. You know what I'm saying?
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  Like she said, we'll do a, we'll do a little bit of everything,
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  so I'm gonna let them introduce their self as well.
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  Yes, Sir, Trey from Six in His Properties LLC appreciate you
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  guys for having us on. Really good opportunity for us.
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  So I'm just glad to be here for real.
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  Yeah, Yeah, it's Jamal or some people know me as Tyree or the
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  official J like I said. Why the official J?
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  Because it's only one official me and it's me the official tag.
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  The official What makes you official?
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  How do you how do you get the official tag?
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  You lead. Oh, that's.
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  What you did? There you go.
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  Yeah. An official and the government
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  they supposed to lead. They don't always do it, but.
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  We lead. Yeah, yeah.
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  So actually I have beef with investors, so I wanted to start
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  there. Oh man yeah and then like you
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  have to do the little thingy on the the controller and did it
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  again. OK, ignore that thing.
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  Yeah, we actually had a clock too, which I don't have one in
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  front of me, which is fine. I would say ignore that too if
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  it was out here. But anyways, all eyes on me.
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  No kidding. What's your beef?
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  Oh yeah, my beef with the investors is how you guys want
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  to go ahead and buy my house at current state.
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  Like it's nothing like it's some ugly ass property.
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  Like fuck y'all. Like what are you trying to say?
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  Oh my goodness, where do we start?
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  We're just trying to start. We don't like.
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  Money. Yeah, I don't like money.
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  It's not that I don't like money.
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  I don't like people telling me that my house is trash.
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  OK, that's understandable. Even if it is, even if I do need
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  new Windows. See, we don't try to convince
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  people of their house is trash. So So what is this?
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  Some. People are a little different.
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  Yeah, yeah. So like what we look for most
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  likely is a vacant property. Somebody is not living.
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  There might be somebody who owns 100 properties and it's just
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  owning one that somebody else could live in one day.
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  So that kind of the houses that we look for, we buy it, make it
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  into a home that's livable and then give it to somebody on the
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  other end that needs a home. So there's, I mean, obviously
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  with any type of business, there's the people who do it
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  immorally and morally, but we try to do it as morally as
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  possible, obviously so. But you, you cold call people
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  too, don't you? Yeah, but I want to hear.
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  I want to hear about this. I want to hear about.
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  This you want to hear a cold call.
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  You want to hear like a little? Spiel.
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  Yeah, yeah. Let me hear a little spiel.
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  So. Who's going to be the seller?
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  The seller. Who's gonna?
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  Who am I calling? I gotta you.
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  Know you're calling me, calling you.
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  Yeah, but but wait, set the context.
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  This is a house that you don't live in.
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  You don't live in this house. You.
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  Own a couple of houses. This is just a house.
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  How do you know that I own a couple of houses?
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  Because all we can see is because.
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  Because y'all are stalking me, not stalking.
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  Not stalking. It's called doing your homework.
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  Yeah, y'all are stalkers. It's called doing your homework.
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  I stalk too when I like I'm dating someone.
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  I'm kidding. See, just go watch out for fans.
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  That's the. It's you and all chicks.
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  Yeah, but I say you ain't doing 1.
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  Got to stay safe, got to stay. Safe.
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  I don't know, but so you. Got beef with certain pages?
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  OK, let's go. No, it's just those inside
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  jokes. So, yeah, so I'm calling you
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  about a house that you don't live in.
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  Nobody lives in it. It's been sitting there probably
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  for about 10 years, just sitting there.
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  OK. Because you guys went and did
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  the research. No, I might just drove by and
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  saw it and then oh, let. Me board it up window.
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  Look up the address. Roof is all.
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  It tells me who the owner is, tells me the phone number.
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  So you're driving around neighborhoods?
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  Weird. Little.
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  Bit more personalized, a little bit more.
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  Actually, the way I found this house that we're actually
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  looking into now is I was looking at another house across
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  the street. Yeah, we're about to leave.
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  And I, I looked across street. I said that house looks like
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  it's vacant. So I said don't leave yet.
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  Jamal, like let me call him real quick.
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  So I sat there right in front of the house.
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  I called him. Sure enough, the answers, I was
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  like, hey, I saw this house, you know, it looks like it's been
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  vacant for a little, a little while.
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  I don't know if you guys have any plans of selling the
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  property, but if you do. This is this is you calling me.
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  I'm calling you and you said that to me.
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  I don't know if this house has been or you know how long it's
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  been vacant for. I don't even know if it is
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  vacant, but if it is, I'm interested in buying it.
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  You guys are willing to sell it? Why do you think my house is
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  bacon? Because the way it.
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  Looks. Wow So what are you saying?
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  Are you saying? Are you saying that my house is
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  trash on the? Sidelines on the sidelines
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  because I was there. Shit.
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  I was there. I see the house.
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  So I'm like boarded up windows across the street.
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  I. Like corded windows.
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  No, Yeah, yeah, I would say the windows were like I could see
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  there was nothing, like I couldn't see in the windows and
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  there was not a trash can. Usually 9 times out of 10,
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  people in Wichita have trash service whether they're paying
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  for it or not. So I would really be able to
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  tell that your house is vacant most likely.
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  All right, you caught me. It's vacant.
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  Yeah. Well, so now when can we come
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  see it? Yeah, can.
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  I and when can we get off her? No, I'm talking.
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  To her. So that happened already.
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  No, that's just so. What she said was that's my
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  husband's house. Now listen, listen, listen.
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  So you know what I said? Oh, that's fine.
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  Well, if he's interested in selling it, next thing you know,
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  a hair in the background, I'm interested in selling it.
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  So I'm like, OK, well, Lee, how you how you doing, Lee?
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  My name is Cam. You know what I'm saying?
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  Well, we're out of town right now.
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  We're back on Monday. No worries.
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  I'll get back with you guys on Monday, You know what I'm
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  saying? Come down Tuesday.
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  I talked to him today. They had a funeral today, so
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  they told me to get back with him tomorrow.
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  But there you go. That's how we got that lead.
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  So there you go. So sometimes it's all just take
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  a like. A lead, 9 times out of 10,
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  that's the experience. Just try, yeah?
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  You never know until you try you.
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  Know what I'm saying So there's what is that saying like you
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  missed 100% of the shots that you don't take 100% Yeah, it's
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  gotta. Start take the first.
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  Step so Speaking of starting, Speaking of taking that first
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  step, I mean like you guys have done a lot, right?
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  I mean, I know a little bit about what you have done, but
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  you guys have been doing a lot I mean, I know a little bit about
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  what you have done I mean you you went the school route 100%
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  yeah. And then these two, it sounds
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  like they didn't. He did as.
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  Well, yeah, it's good you weren't there at the you're
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  outside. You showed up late.
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  You. Showed up late and you actually
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  showed up late for this recording.
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  You showed up late for this recording, guys, I got.
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  To be other places too. I didn't.
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  Want to show? Up.
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  OK. So like speaking right?
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  Yeah, He's so responsible. All right, OK.
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  Don't believe them. This is Fanny telling you guys
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  this. I'm a believable source.
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  Yeah, she's the most chronically late person I know.
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  She likes our meeting by like 30 minutes.
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  I don't know what she's talking about. 515 I think. 17 1/2 on my
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  account. He was asking me where he was
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  at. I'm asking him where he's at.
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  We was at. We was all trying to make sure
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  he's all there. Actually, that's true.
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  That's right. Every time I'm late, Dusty's
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  always like I am like, dude, I'm running late.
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  And Dusty's like, how many years have I known you for?
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  Anyways? Dusty loves working with me, but
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  I have. Seen.
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  That right, Dusty? Dusty. 1000 years.
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  No way, that's a good one. We've already been through this.
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  I asked Dusty a while back what it's like working with me and I
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  think he might do it again so we don't.
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  Need it. Dusty and I are really great
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  business partners. Any who starting small, starting
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  big, making sure you take all these these shots because people
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  don't kind of, you know, set the stage, Tell us what it was, you
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  know, like what made you guys do this together or how'd you guys
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  get started as a trio? Should I answer it?
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  I don't matter. It don't matter.
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  I'll let try answer it because he was on the outside looking
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  and he's the one that made of the trio so.
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  Yeah. Oh, really?
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  Because it was a duo. At first it was me and Cam, but
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  now we're trio, so I like yeah, sorry, we.
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  Wanted him to be, though. It's like for a long time we
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  wanted him to be a trio. The third person, he was just in
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  school, you know what I'm saying?
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  We was letting him do his thing. He was playing basketball.
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  We supported him through everything.
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  He got going on with his graduation, you know what I'm
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  saying? After that, he was ours.
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  You know what I'm saying? He kind of, he's just right.
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  I was always kind of like the the school guy.
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  I mean, he went to school too, got my bachelor's and masters of
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  friends. And so during that time I was
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  always focused on basketball, basketball, basketball.
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  But I haven't known these guys for years and they've always had
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  some sort of business and always making money on the side.
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  And it's kind of always what I wanted to do.
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  And then, I don't know, after I got out of school, I had a
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  little bit more free time to dive into what they had going
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  on. They already had like pigeons
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  and dogs and a clothing brand. So I knew I had to bring like
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  some, some value to the table. And I got introduced to real
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  estate really young, which I'm kind of grateful for.
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  And then I don't know, I brought, brought it to these
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  guys and they already knew how to run a business.
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  I didn't know how to do that. So I feel like just
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  collaborating and taking that first step like they said was
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  was what we needed to do so. Where Where'd the capital come
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  from? Because real estate's expensive.
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  So that's what. Our business model is a little
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  different. Yeah, that's what a lot of
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  people think. Where'd the capital?
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  Come from. I mean, I can let one of you
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  guys take over. On this, well essentially when
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  we, when we first started real estate, we weren't buying houses
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  on our own. We were just wholesaling real
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  estate. So basically we're wholesaling a
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  contract with somebody else to buy that property so they can
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  come in and flip it. So I might call that person I
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  got to talk to and I might get the house on an under contract
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  saying I'm going to give you $30,000 to purchase this house.
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  And on the other contract I have, it says I'm assigning this
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  contract to somebody else to buy for 45,000.
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  So therefore on the closing day, the buyer and the buyer brings
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  the 45,000, we make the 15,000 and the seller gets the 30,000.
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  Does that make sense? But we don't, we didn't spend no
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  money to do that. So basically we just spawned
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  whatever how much money we made and admit between a check off
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  just knowledge and you know, just trying just.
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  Trying the reason, the reason why that is too is like a lot of
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  investors who are looking for their next deal, they don't
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  actually want to be the ones looking for their next deal.
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  They don't have time for it. They have other deals got they
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  have going on. So they're willing to pay people
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  to kind of look for the deal for them and go through all the no's
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  to get to the yeses, things like that.
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  But yeah, that's kind of what we came up with.
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  I mean, we've seen it happen before.
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  So that made it a little bit easier to believe.
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  And then just jumping into you just meet so many people who, as
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  many people as you meet that don't want you to win.
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  I feel like you always meet the same amount of people who want
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  you to win. And so once we found that, we
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  found our core group of people who believed in US and support
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  for us, supported us and well became now so definitely isn't
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  just us three. There's a lot of people who
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  provide and helped out along the way for sure.
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  So. Yeah.
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  What year was that when you guys started?
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  Like 2 years ago. Two years.
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  Ago, yeah. I was, but you guys have been
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  doing a lot of shit since then. Like you guys have been two
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  houses flipping those and a bunch of holes.
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  We've got, we've got people asking us to, to flip $1,000,000
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  homes for them. Like they hurt, like doctors
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  that want to live in houses that you know, they don't know how
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  to, who else to get it from. But they know his mom.
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  So they know your son can't find houses.
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  Let me buy a house from him. So now we're looking for now
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  we're looking for a five bedroom, 4 bathroom, you know?
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  What I'm saying? If you have one.
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  Let us know, Let us know. Please.
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  Yeah, a quick. Quick, quick drop, A quick drop.
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  What are you looking for again? Yeah, yeah.
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  So, OK, you said that you got introduced to real estate at a
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  young age and so you brought that to them.
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  So kind of tell us a little bit about that because I think Cam,
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  you told me later that you had a different experience with seeing
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  in your family who finally owned a home and it's your grandma at
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  70. Four, I haven't closed yet, but
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  I've done, I didn't close. I done bought 2 homes, you know
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  what I'm saying? Since I was only 25, I bought
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  the first one when I was 24. You bought the first one was 6-7
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  months ago, Yeah. When I was 24 still, because
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  before July, you know what I'm saying?
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  So I just feel like his. Frontal lobe is finally
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  developed, ladies, by the way. Yeah.
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  Yeah, for sure, for sure. But anyway you will not.
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  Be robbing him of his youth. Anyway.
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  I'm kidding. Don't do it.
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  Anyway, no. So I just feel like it's a big
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  accomplishment because like, nobody in my family has ever
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  owned a home other than my grandfather, you know what I'm
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  saying? He doesn't even live here.
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  He lives in Missouri, but he's also 70, almost 80 years old,
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  too, you know what I'm saying? So I just thought he was pretty
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  cool. Now, my grandma was buying a
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  house to actually live in and I was actually able to help her,
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  you know, not help her actually, but give her the right, you
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  know, put her right in the right direction to be able to purchase
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  a house. You know what I'm saying?
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  So that's a different story than like what your experience with
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  real estate has been or not real estate, but like owning a
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  property. Yeah, not 100%.
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  So I got introduced to my parents have like owned their
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  home for many years now. But outside of that, I had
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  actually give a lot of credit to a buddy of mine that I grew up
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  with and I won't name drop or anything because we used to be
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  crazy. Just doing.
• 17:22
  Just doing reckless things, No, But he.
• 17:23
  I'm going to have to hear a reckless story later.
• 17:25
  OK, later, later, later. But he knows what I'm talking
• 17:27
  about. The shots, Yeah.
• 17:29
  After more shots. After more shots, yeah.
• 17:31
  But he knows what I'm talking about.
• 17:33
  He's kind of the person when I was like 18, about to go into
• 17:35
  college, he sat me down at Panera and ran me through like
• 17:38
  what the business model of wholesaling was.
• 17:41
  Kind of told me that he was going to get into it and then a
• 17:44
  few months later found out that I don't know, I think he did go
• 17:47
  to college for a little bit, but ended up dropping out and just
• 17:48
  pursuing this full time. We kind of went our separate
• 17:51
  ways because I was focused on basketball and then four years
• 17:54
  later I was about to graduate and he kind of came we kind of
• 17:59
  crossed paths again because I started to get more into more
• 18:01
  into into real estate because what he told me back then kind
• 18:03
  of stuck in my head. I just didn't have enough
• 18:05
  courage to like take the first step.
• 18:07
  And then, yeah, I don't know if something just kept bugging me
• 18:10
  about it, bugging me about it. We met up again.
• 18:12
  I think he was with me at that dude's office, had a night, I
• 18:16
  mean, a brand new BMW, nice little office space that he
• 18:19
  could work from. And it just showed me that like
• 18:22
  I did do the do the typical I go to school, get your bachelor's
• 18:25
  and masters. But there is more, more out
• 18:27
  there too. And so worked a job for the
• 18:29
  first year after school and and then I just decided to go 100%
• 18:33
  with these guys and been all in ever since.
• 18:35
  So yeah, what was that like for your parents to hear that, you
• 18:38
  know, cuz like they just put, maybe they didn't put you
• 18:42
  through school and maybe I also, I'm curious from your guys's
• 18:45
  perspective too, like from your guys's parents, like cuz you had
• 18:47
  just gone to school. So they're expecting maybe a
• 18:50
  different actor, right? They have different
• 18:52
  expectations. Yeah, my dad, he's, he's been a
• 18:54
  pharmaceutical Rep for like the last 30 years.
• 18:56
  My mom's a nurse. So 9 to 5 is kind of what they,
• 18:59
  you know, go to school, get the job.
• 19:01
  They didn't know. I mean, it's 2025 now.
• 19:03
  People are getting paid from posting videos online.
• 19:05
  That's true. There's just so many different
• 19:06
  avenues. Yeah, teach us how.
• 19:08
  Yeah, yeah. Make this happen guys.
• 19:10
  No, this will happen. This is dope.
• 19:12
  This is dope. Yeah, that will happen for it
• 19:14
  starts here 100%, but for sure. OK, sorry, keep going where
• 19:19
  where your mom, not your mom and your dad 9:00 to 5:00 and then
• 19:23
  like that's what they. Experienced.
• 19:24
  So no. So 100% when I first got into
• 19:26
  this and I was working my, my 9:00 to 5:00, well, really it
• 19:29
  was a 7 to 67 AM get there 6:00 PM close every single day of the
• 19:33
  week. It was, I mean, I got a lot of
• 19:35
  good things from it too, but it was a lot of experience.
• 19:38
  But man, it was, I didn't have any free time to do anything.
• 19:42
  But we already had this business model going and it was decently
• 19:44
  working, like kind of outperforming my 9 to 5 already.
• 19:47
  So you were a side hustling? I was side hustling, yeah, yeah.
• 19:51
  And relying on these guys to really carry a lot for for the
• 19:54
  business, especially this dude because this, he's also
• 19:56
  travelling, working a job at the time.
• 19:57
  This dude was holding it down in the field, boots on the ground.
• 20:00
  Because Cam hasn't had a job, sorry.
• 20:02
  And I mean that you've been a serial entrepreneur since 18, is
• 20:09
  that? Right. 17 That's, that's what I
• 20:11
  meant to say. I no shade on any of that.
• 20:13
  We we love everybody's different.
• 20:16
  Paths OK. I it's just that that I know
• 20:20
  that that can come off a different.
• 20:22
  Way they definitely did not weren't rocking with it at first
• 20:27
  I would say and it took a lot of I guess proof in the pudding.
• 20:31
  It took a lot of deals for us to close, a lot of, like, footwork
• 20:34
  for them to be able to be like, OK, you know what?
• 20:37
  You might be right. And then eventually they just
• 20:39
  gave me the green light. They they almost convinced me to
• 20:41
  be like, OK, you just need to quit.
• 20:42
  So really. Yeah.
• 20:44
  And now my dad does what we do, too.
• 20:47
  Yeah. He bought a house from us.
• 20:49
  Yeah, that's so. Cool though.
• 20:51
  Damn. OK, so I'm curious about your
• 20:53
  guys's stories now too. Similar because you've been a
• 20:58
  serial entrepreneur since 18 but you've been out of your house
• 21:01
  because of trauma since 16 since.
• 21:04
  Like 17 I've been. I just been.
• 21:06
  Standing on business since I was like.
• 21:07
  You've been standing on business.
• 21:09
  Yeah, look at that. Taking care of myself, taking
• 21:12
  care of the family when I need to.
• 21:13
  You know, I went to school at Butler, got a degree there.
• 21:16
  And then like you, like you guys said, like we've just always had
• 21:20
  a business. Like 6 Ms. started that one day
• 21:23
  because I got six siblings, last name, start with AM and I'm
• 21:26
  like, that's gonna rock. We go rock with it.
• 21:28
  So then we had clothes. Then after that we did dogs,
• 21:34
  pigeons, The story goes on and on, you know?
• 21:36
  Why pigeons? Just we're just different.
• 21:39
  Serial entrepreneurs. Serial entrepreneurs.
• 21:42
  You just don't see too many young.
• 21:44
  Pigeonholes. Yeah, Yeah, you don't.
• 21:46
  See Too many pigeons doing. That type of stuff, you know
• 21:48
  what I'm saying? So we just like to be different
• 21:49
  and everybody's in the streets doing this and that.
• 21:51
  We like to go this way when everybody goes that way, you
• 21:53
  know what I'm saying? Cheerleader Cheerleader The
• 21:56
  official J for a reason. Cheerleader Official.
• 21:59
  J for a reason. Yeah, but no, definitely so.
• 22:02
  But even with the whole business thing, like we just are always
• 22:06
  ambitious with everything. Like that's always been our
• 22:08
  slogan, ambition and hustle. So even when it gets hard, we
• 22:11
  just like stay there did. You guys have someone who's
• 22:15
  pushing that or not pushing but. Looking at them, yeah, well, I
• 22:18
  mean like. Did you have like a figure, a
• 22:22
  model, like somebody in your family?
• 22:26
  We had we had a lot, we had a friend who passed away and he
• 22:29
  was real big in the business. He's a real hustler.
• 22:31
  Like we then looked up to him, you know what I'm saying?
• 22:33
  We're the same age, but you know, he was like our best
• 22:35
  friend. So he kind of was doing a lot of
• 22:37
  things like youngest dude I know doing a lot of things.
• 22:40
  So basically he kind of like because we had bought a salon,
• 22:43
  me and him, but he passed away like a week before we took
• 22:46
  ownership of it. So ever since then you found me,
• 22:48
  I was kind of like what he'd be doing right now.
• 22:50
  He'd still be going probably 10 times harder than we would, so I
• 22:52
  might as well do the same thing, you know what I'm saying?
• 22:54
  So I feel like that's kind of where I got it from too.
• 22:56
  I kind of got a little more firing up my ass, you know what
• 22:59
  I'm saying? For real though, because like
• 23:01
  damn, like, you know, I just not only I lose a friend, but some
• 23:04
  people will lose faith or hope in that type of situation, you
• 23:06
  know what I'm saying? So that's something I didn't do,
• 23:08
  you know what I'm saying? Having him around and even being
• 23:11
  friends with trade family, just having good people around you,
• 23:13
  you know what I'm saying? What kind of lift your spirit
• 23:15
  up, you know what I'm saying? So that's what happened.
• 23:18
  I'm just just putting it all all up to him and thanking God for
• 23:23
  everything, you know? Thanking bro for being with us,
• 23:25
  really. Because it was just a lot of
• 23:27
  stuff. What was his name again?
• 23:28
  Marcel. Marcel.
• 23:30
  Yeah, Long live self. We don't never forget saying
• 23:33
  that. We don't never forget saying
• 23:34
  that. Really.
• 23:35
  That's so sweet. So like a lot of this is like a
• 23:37
  note to him. Yeah, for sure.
• 23:40
  And all of you guys were close friends with him.
• 23:42
  I was more on the outside. Like he knew him during.
• 23:44
  The time I knew him, though, like I was always around these
• 23:46
  guys, so I was brought around. But I'm not just going to sit up
• 23:48
  here and claim that I was his best friend or anything like
• 23:50
  these guys were. Yeah, but.
• 23:51
  He still knew. Around, yeah, for sure.
• 23:54
  Definitely can see. His spirit.
• 23:57
  Yeah, definitely can see his spirit and he definitely left a
• 24:00
  a standard that people need to live by cuz for sure.
• 24:03
  Yeah, he's definitely a. Yeah.
• 24:07
  How did you guys navigate that grief while also running a
• 24:10
  business? I mean like, 'cause you were
• 24:11
  really young when that happened, Did you do the salon with him?
• 24:15
  No. It was just, it was really just
• 24:17
  me and Marcel, yeah. At that time, OK, I'm.
• 24:20
  A little young. And you're going to have to get
• 24:21
  closer. Oh.
• 24:22
  Yeah, me and Marcel we bought. Don't be afraid of me.
• 24:23
  We bought it together. She bite.
• 24:25
  She bite. Yeah, we bought it.
• 24:27
  Together I just scratched. Get it?
• 24:31
  Sorry, let her get you Cam. I let her.
• 24:33
  Get you Cam. I'm sorry, I have been told to
• 24:39
  chill out, chill out. I'm dead.
• 24:44
  I told you to chill out. Did I OK?
• 24:49
  Anyway, what was your question again?
• 24:50
  I. Forgot.
• 24:52
  Hold on, it was. You deal with grief.
• 24:58
  Oh yeah, How do you deal with grief while like, opening this
• 25:01
  business? There's no, there's no way to
• 25:03
  explain it. You kind of just got to go with
• 25:05
  the emotions, you know what I'm saying?
• 25:06
  You don't know how to deal with something until you deal with
• 25:07
  it, you know what I'm saying? It's kind of hard to like, yeah,
• 25:10
  of course we're sad. I've been, you know, I was sad.
• 25:12
  I'm still sad. You know, it is where it is.
• 25:14
  But it's like, you know, it kind of pushes you, you know what I'm
• 25:16
  saying? It depends on what type of type
• 25:18
  of ego and spirit you got. You know what I'm saying?
• 25:20
  It can like I say, it can crush some people or it can motivate
• 25:22
  some people, you know what I'm saying?
• 25:23
  So it definitely motivated me, you know what I'm saying?
• 25:26
  Not like in a good way, you know?
• 25:28
  And, and it also opened my eyes to a lot of other things
• 25:31
  spiritually, you know what I'm saying?
• 25:32
  Just believe in the difference too, like you know, so.
• 25:34
  Like what? Like I know there's a guy,
• 25:37
  there's got to be, you know what I'm saying?
• 25:38
  Because because that, that, that's something I never thought
• 25:41
  could happen. You know what I'm saying?
• 25:42
  Like it's being like me, what if I'm around these guys?
• 25:45
  It's like, I always run him every day, you know what I'm
• 25:46
  saying? So it's like, it's just
• 25:48
  something like that happens. You're like, hold the heck up.
• 25:51
  Yeah, no way. You know what I'm saying?
• 25:53
  So I don't. Know shakes you back to reality.
• 25:54
  Yeah, definitely shakes you back to reality.
• 25:56
  It has me looking at life a lot different for sure.
• 25:58
  Since then, yeah. Yeah, Something that you guys
• 26:01
  kept telling me a lot when we were talking was like that you
• 26:05
  guys really wanted to talk about, like how you guys can
• 26:09
  show people, younger people that like, you really can do this.
• 26:13
  It's not that scary. So I'm curious like I wanna ask
• 26:16
  like what do you wish that you could tell your 16 year old self
• 26:20
  that you like, wish you would have known?
• 26:23
  That's a good question. Keep chasing them dreams and
• 26:25
  don't let anybody tell you otherwise because you know a lot
• 26:29
  of things can stop you and people's opinions or you
• 26:32
  telling. People.
• 26:33
  Girls like that can stop you so. Sometimes you got to be careful.
• 26:37
  Straightforward and take the risk.
• 26:39
  Yeah, Before I bought a salon, I had people tell me it was a bad
• 26:41
  idea. And to this day I still have it.
• 26:43
  So how bad of an idea was it? You know what I'm saying?
• 26:45
  So it's like, and not only it was a good idea for myself, but
• 26:48
  like I said, my mom was a hair stylist, so she was paying
• 26:51
  somebody $250 a week or a week to be in this little room when
• 26:55
  she could be paying me $125.00 a week.
• 26:57
  And she has the whole salon, you know what I'm saying?
• 27:00
  So it's kind of like it's not about the money.
• 27:03
  It's more about, you know, doing it for your people and doing it
• 27:05
  for, it's why you do it. You know what I'm saying?
• 27:07
  What's your why? You know what I'm saying?
• 27:08
  So I would say I do it for the family.
• 27:11
  Yeah, that's. Great.
• 27:14
  I would definitely say like not being too hard on yourself.
• 27:17
  Feel like just going to school. I always wanted to.
• 27:20
  I mean, I always want to have straight A's, like be the best
• 27:23
  basketball player I could be. And I don't know, my parents
• 27:27
  obviously pushed me. But then you also get to a point
• 27:29
  where you're just never happy with the result.
• 27:31
  Even though you get you're getting all A's or you're doing
• 27:34
  all these things, you feel like you could always be a little bit
• 27:36
  better. And so I don't know, I feel like
• 27:39
  just celebrating those little peaks, no matter how small the
• 27:42
  win is, you know, you need to celebrate it because being hard
• 27:45
  on yourself all the time, you're just never going to be happy.
• 27:47
  You're always going to chase the next thing.
• 27:48
  And yeah, it's fun to, like, accomplish new things, new goals
• 27:51
  and get new milestones. But if you don't celebrate that
• 27:54
  and you're always looking for the next one, you're just going
• 27:56
  to be in a continuous state of like, why am I never doing
• 27:59
  enough? And I felt like I felt like that
• 28:01
  for a long time until like, I don't know, I finally I felt
• 28:04
  like playing basketball was a lot of it.
• 28:06
  A lot of. Pressure, you do a flip, you
• 28:07
  know, and shit, perfect until you do a flip, yeah, so then.
• 28:11
  What's a flip? I'm I'm buying a house I
• 28:13
  actually like actually. I thought you were talking in
• 28:16
  basketball terms. No, no, no, no.
• 28:18
  I'm talking about like business terms like buying a house and
• 28:20
  actually putting the work into it and having to run into
• 28:21
  problems you didn't to expect to run into.
• 28:24
  Stuff like that is what I'm. Talking, but yeah, not yeah,
• 28:26
  because getting out of that space was definitely beneficial
• 28:29
  because your your identity gets wrapped up in whatever you're
• 28:31
  doing, whether you're playing basketball or maybe even doing
• 28:35
  the podcast or like doing what we do now, you can kind of makes
• 28:39
  your identity into it. And you need to kind of keep
• 28:41
  that separate. Because when I first had to quit
• 28:43
  or I guess leave basketball, I didn't know what to do, right.
• 28:47
  Even though I knew it was coming, like I was a senior and
• 28:49
  wasn't going proud. We said, we said, come on.
• 28:52
  Yeah, yeah. So I'm glad they took them on
• 28:54
  because it's time to go. I mean, that sounds like you had
• 28:57
  really great friends. I mean, but all of you guys have
• 28:59
  really great friends that you're just.
• 29:01
  Like friends too. Yeah.
• 29:03
  No. And that's what I'm saying like
• 29:05
  it sounds like you, you guys have built a really strong
• 29:07
  system and both in family and maybe out but.
• 29:11
  Like that's another thing not only we do, we do business
• 29:13
  together, but we see each other every day.
• 29:16
  When there's a game, we go to his mom's house.
• 29:18
  When there's a we have team dinners at my house, we go to
• 29:21
  his house. He just had a baby.
• 29:22
  We all you know, we all you know, we all support each.
• 29:24
  Other shout out Andy, we just. Keep it close, keep it tight.
• 29:29
  Yeah, it's a family. Like even though we're friends,
• 29:31
  we're not blood like we're still a family.
• 29:34
  Look out for each other. Look out for just like you would
• 29:36
  say about kids, you take care of kids that ain't yours because
• 29:40
  they're kids. So same with friends and family.
• 29:43
  Like just take care of your people at all times because you
• 29:46
  never know when they can eat it or you never know when you can
• 29:49
  eat it or when they just need somebody around them to give
• 29:51
  them that that uplifting or the motivation, you know for sure.
• 29:56
  How, you know, like a lot of people are like, don't go into
• 29:59
  business with friends. I mean, Dusty's my friend, so
• 30:01
  he's forced to be my friend forever.
• 30:03
  So. Do you guys ever argue?
• 30:07
  Yeah. But like, but like, I don't feel
• 30:09
  like we actually argue. Yeah.
• 30:11
  Right. There's no argue.
• 30:13
  Let me give you I'll tell. I'll tell.
• 30:14
  But like, you know. I'm like, I don't like this this
• 30:17
  like right. Just try to figure.
• 30:20
  I tell, I tell us 3 all the time.
• 30:22
  It's like about what you're arguing about too.
• 30:24
  Like if you guys are arguing about some important, like some
• 30:26
  about the podcast, it's not not necessarily a bad argument like
• 30:29
  when we're arguing. You guys both have valid points.
• 30:31
  Yeah, yeah, it can benefit whatever you guys got going on
• 30:34
  versus like arguing about something completely pointless,
• 30:36
  which a lot of people do. They just argue about anything.
• 30:38
  Like when we get in arguments, it's about like something
• 30:41
  important, you know? And it's like, OK, we both have
• 30:44
  valid points and it might take one of us the third one just OK,
• 30:47
  you guys both have valid points, now bring it together.
• 30:50
  Oh, is that, is that where the dad comes in?
• 30:53
  Are you, are you more of that mediator or?
• 30:55
  Just argue in the. Other Oh, that's funny.
• 30:57
  So you guys all take turns of who?
• 30:59
  The mediator. Yeah, OK.
• 31:02
  Definitely. OK, I wanna hear a recent thing
• 31:04
  that pissed you guys off. No, I was there.
• 31:06
  What did you mean pissed all of us off as a whole?
• 31:08
  No, I don't. I'm sure.
• 31:09
  Or as the thing that make you guys argue what?
• 31:12
  Was y'all arguing about and I had to come in?
• 31:14
  It don't even matter. That's the point.
• 31:15
  It's not even about that. Yeah.
• 31:17
  But look at this, look at this I.
• 31:19
  Know, I know 'cause I was, I was.
• 31:23
  Trying. To We're gonna need another shot
• 31:25
  to get into those times. Yeah.
• 31:27
  OK, 'cause I was like, because we've also had three dudes who
• 31:30
  are trio too. And so it was.
• 31:32
  I forgot what they were arguing about and it was kind of funny
• 31:34
  to watch. Like in here arguing No, no.
• 31:37
  No, we, we asked them the same question.
• 31:39
  We like to ask deep questions. You guys can ask us questions
• 31:44
  too. By the way.
• 31:46
  You can dish it out too. Stay behind closed doors, OK?
• 31:49
  We're out. Dirty laundry.
• 31:51
  Yeah, it's not even dirty laundry.
• 31:52
  It's just funny. It's just stupid.
• 31:54
  It's just like, shut up. That's actually how it went
• 31:59
  through. It was, it was a good argument.
• 32:00
  It wasn't bad. It was funny.
• 32:03
  So yeah, I mean, like, I was going to ask you guys cuz again,
• 32:07
  like a lot of this is how you guys are wanting to maybe show
• 32:11
  people younger kids that they can do something else.
• 32:14
  Like what is a skill that you would say that every teen should
• 32:17
  learn even if they never go to college?
• 32:19
  Sales. Sales.
• 32:20
  Yeah, it could be selling. A little bit more.
• 32:24
  Managing the finance after they make the sales.
• 32:29
  OK, so sell 1st and managing and then managing after?
• 32:32
  Just like, yeah, sales I feel like is a is a skill that you
• 32:36
  can apply in 100 different industries.
• 32:38
  Like it doesn't matter if you're selling medical device
• 32:40
  equipment, homes as a realtor dog.
• 32:43
  Dogs like pigeons. Clothes if you can sell these
• 32:47
  pigeons. Yeah, yeah.
• 32:48
  If you can sell, you can sell so.
• 32:51
  People say everything out here. Trust me.
• 32:54
  That one's almost. That one's almost more
• 32:56
  important, though, because it doesn't matter how much money
• 32:58
  you make if you don't know how to keep it.
• 33:00
  Or more, whatever you have. You'll never You can make $1000.
• 33:04
  If you can't manage it, you can't manage 100,000 or
• 33:07
  1,000,000 so. What would be like some easy
• 33:10
  advice to help you start to manage Don't Tell me budgeting?
• 33:14
  I would say, I would say, I would say I'm gonna get my
• 33:16
  point. I would say me personally, but
• 33:19
  being around this guy and him, you know, him being in that,
• 33:22
  that school mindset that more, you know, professional organized
• 33:25
  mindset. I say if I can't buy it like two
• 33:28
  or three times, I probably shouldn't get it at all.
• 33:30
  I mean, we're at the mall of the day.
• 33:35
  So basically, if I can't buy it two or three times right now, if
• 33:39
  I came by for something I want $10,000, I can't spend $30,000
• 33:43
  on it right now, then I probably shouldn't buy it.
• 33:45
  That's some good. For me, but we're at the model
• 33:47
  of the day. I was looking at something, it
• 33:48
  was like 45 bucks, 50 bucks. I said I can't buy that until I
• 33:52
  make like two or three more wholesalers like which that'd be
• 33:56
  that'd be way more than $45.00. But you get what I'm trying to
• 34:00
  say though, because. Like it's making you get a lot
• 34:02
  better mindset. That's smart.
• 34:03
  That's. Smart.
• 34:04
  I had to give it to him. Let train, let train give you
• 34:07
  guys the. Formula.
• 34:07
  Yeah. All right.
• 34:08
  This is how you say essentially, Nah, I just, my dad growing up,
• 34:15
  like he always made good money. So but one thing he never did
• 34:19
  like, and honestly, there's a balance, right?
• 34:21
  So growing up, we didn't really go on to me like family
• 34:24
  vacations and do things like that.
• 34:25
  But my dad put like, you know, having a nice house over our
• 34:29
  heads, going to a good school district, making me or allowing
• 34:32
  me to travel for basketball at a high level, kind of put those
• 34:35
  things in priority over just kind of traveling.
• 34:37
  So we did travel, but it was for like basketball and stuff like
• 34:40
  that. But he always, I don't know, he,
• 34:42
  he was a more of like a Dave Ramsey guy.
• 34:44
  So like never take on any type of debt, which honestly, we're
• 34:47
  not like that. There's good debt, bad debt, but
• 34:50
  my. Dad is the opposite of Dave
• 34:52
  Ramsey as well. Yeah, yeah.
• 34:53
  Take on the debt cause like, that's how you're going to make
• 34:56
  it here in the US. Yeah.
• 34:57
  Leverage the debt, you know, good debt, bad debt.
• 34:59
  And, but growing up listening to him, you gain a lot of
• 35:03
  discipline when it comes to saving money because if you
• 35:05
  don't believe in taking on debt, you're going to save a lot of
• 35:07
  your money. And so that kind of put me in a
• 35:10
  mindset of, OK, I'm, I'm saving money.
• 35:11
  I got a job when I was like 1516, I think it was like 16
• 35:14
  years old. And ever since then I just did
• 35:17
  like a 6040 rule. I just put like 60% of my, and
• 35:20
  obviously that young, you don't have any responsibilities and
• 35:24
  stuff like that much expenses. So I was putting like I played a
• 35:26
  game with myself and saw how much money I could actually save
• 35:29
  each check. So it went from like the 6040
• 35:31
  rule to like the 8020 rule. And then I was saving like 80%
• 35:34
  of my checks every single time. Now that's changed.
• 35:37
  I got expenses and responsibilities.
• 35:39
  But but yeah, but kind of whenever you get the check, just
• 35:43
  knowing that at least 30 and what we do, we're 1099.
• 35:46
  So like, and whatever we do, 30% of that is going at least to the
• 35:51
  government, you know, at least just think about that.
• 35:53
  And then outside of that, how much do you need to save to if
• 35:56
  anything goes wrong, you know, it could be anything, you know,
• 35:59
  tire, medical bill or anything. So you always gotta prepare for
• 36:03
  the worst and expect the best. I feel like so.
• 36:06
  That is how actually, that's how I got my house when I was like
• 36:09
  20. I was 19.
• 36:10
  No, I was 20. I was 20 when I got my house
• 36:12
  too, because of that, because I was like, I'm gonna start to
• 36:15
  save really young. And and then I was planning to
• 36:18
  move over here to Wichita. And so I was like, OK, I'm going
• 36:20
  to just save as much as I can. And again, it's easier when you
• 36:24
  don't have bills to pay. Now it's fucking hard.
• 36:27
  And I look back at that time all the time because I'm always
• 36:29
  like, man, how the fuck did I pay for that?
• 36:32
  And like, I'm always like, I need to remember to do this
• 36:35
  shit. But then now I'm at this point
• 36:36
  where I'm like I'm trying to travel 7 * a year.
• 36:39
  And I'm. Trying to still do that I will
• 36:43
  drop everything. There's there's a balance for
• 36:45
  sure. I would say.
• 36:46
  Yeah, you definitely. I don't want to be the guy that
• 36:47
  saves all his money, never does anything.
• 36:49
  Or you got to enjoy the fruits of your laborers.
• 36:54
  So you got to save money and prepare for sticky situations
• 36:58
  that you could be in. But don't also just spend money
• 37:01
  because you have money. Yeah, you can have.
• 37:03
  Nice, you could go get. No, no name brands and still
• 37:08
  look good for sure. Yeah, we're probably.
• 37:10
  Saving money. How about I say we probably the
• 37:12
  most frugal people you probably meet like, yeah, like I didn't
• 37:17
  even lie. When it comes to certain things,
• 37:18
  we just be like, we don't need it right now or not right now or
• 37:22
  yeah, somebody has to pay for it.
• 37:23
  Yeah, that's. The difference between.
• 37:25
  One, I was paying for it for sure, but yeah, for.
• 37:28
  Sure. So create, let's do a quick
• 37:30
  activity like I want you guys to create like the five item
• 37:33
  starter kit for young hustlers. Like what's 1 mindset they need?
• 37:37
  What's 1 habit, One skill, one resource?
• 37:42
  Is give one. And one trap to avoid and I can
• 37:44
  repeat this stuff. Yeah, yeah.
• 37:46
  So do the first one and then Cam will go.
• 37:48
  What's 1 mindset that they need for a young?
• 37:51
  Like we're going to give like A5 item starter kit for young
• 37:54
  hustlers. What's 1 mindset they need?
• 37:59
  I think I say, I would say don't listen to not don't listen to
• 38:04
  what people say, but don't listen to all the negative
• 38:06
  stuff. You know what I'm saying?
• 38:07
  I feel like just believe in yourself at the end of the day
• 38:09
  because it is yourself. You know what I'm saying?
• 38:11
  Like it's your thoughts, whatever's going into whatever
• 38:13
  you're putting into, it's your thoughts, it's your actions,
• 38:15
  it's your feelings. You know what I'm saying?
• 38:17
  So for somebody else to tell you what you can and can't do, what
• 38:20
  you should and shouldn't do, obviously if they haven't done
• 38:23
  it, then definitely don't listen to them.
• 38:26
  I have people telling me don't buy a salon and they never even
• 38:28
  touch the player Clippers. So how you going to tell me?
• 38:30
  You know what I'm saying? So it's like, let me try it out.
• 38:32
  If it don't work for me, it don't work for me.
• 38:33
  It is what it is, but at least I tried.
• 38:35
  So I think I say just take the leap of faith and at least try
• 38:37
  and just have your own, you know, have your own I'm going to
• 38:40
  do it mindset regardless of what's being told to you.
• 38:43
  For sure. What's 1 habit?
• 38:47
  One habit, I would say it's a good habit of a young hustler.
• 38:58
  Yeah, a good routine. Yeah, I would say routine.
• 39:00
  That's that's big. That's big for me too.
• 39:02
  Like what's? What would be a good routine?
• 39:03
  I don't know. I would say like waking up
• 39:05
  early, you don't have to wake up too early.
• 39:07
  I'm not one of those like 5:00 AM, yeah, go on a run type of
• 39:09
  thing. But I think like the small
• 39:11
  things like waking up early, making sure your room looks nice
• 39:13
  before you leave your home, you know, having a calendar or like
• 39:18
  a checklist or schedule of what to do.
• 39:20
  A lot of people, they kind of know what to do but don't know
• 39:23
  the order to do it in. So just writing those things
• 39:26
  down the night before waking up and then just kind of following,
• 39:31
  yeah, following what you said you were going to do.
• 39:32
  If the night before you said you were going to do XYZ, then
• 39:35
  actually going to do XYZ at the times you said that you're going
• 39:37
  to do it. I think those things will like
• 39:39
  build discipline and good habits for you that will make you
• 39:42
  successful in business or as a partner in life, things like
• 39:45
  that. So yeah, I would say routine for
• 39:48
  sure. One scale.
• 39:50
  One scale understanding to always be a student, that's a
• 39:57
  skill because some people don't understand that they always want
• 40:00
  to be the person who's teaching something or a know it all.
• 40:03
  So just a skill is to understand when to be a student and when to
• 40:08
  listen and when to take advice. Like Cam said, like you know,
• 40:12
  somebody can tell you to do something and they've never done
• 40:14
  it. So at that point, is their
• 40:16
  advice the best advice or should you go get it from somebody else
• 40:20
  and continue to do your own research or your own homework,
• 40:24
  as I would always say like. So.
• 40:26
  Yeah, for sure, one resource. Resources.
• 40:31
  The phone. The phone.
• 40:33
  Oh, OK. Yeah, yeah.
• 40:35
  I'll say, I'll say. 2020. Five, I'll say 26 people, people
• 40:39
  say trace that people and the best place to find people is
• 40:43
  whatever you got going on. There's probably a Facebook
• 40:45
  group for it. That's right.
• 40:47
  That's right. So therefore we are doing real
• 40:49
  estate so on. Facebook again?
• 40:51
  Yeah. There's a Facebook group called
• 40:52
  ICT real estate investors. We're all in it.
• 40:55
  You know why? Because we're ICT real estate
• 40:57
  investors. So I'm saying, so it helped us
• 40:59
  sell deals, helped us find who to come get the roaches out of
• 41:03
  the house, you know what I'm saying?
• 41:05
  It's resources for everything. So what I'm saying is it's good
• 41:08
  to know people, you know what I'm saying?
• 41:09
  Somebody might know somebody you might need, you know what I'm
• 41:11
  saying? So it's always like never burn
• 41:13
  bridges and always just make sure you can just keep, you
• 41:15
  know, even if you don't like somebody, you know, always you
• 41:17
  might need them one day, you know what I'm saying?
• 41:19
  So never, just always keep some good Facebook groups, your
• 41:22
  phone, go to events, stuff like that.
• 41:24
  Just put yourself out there. Don't just like it's going to
• 41:26
  come to you. Yeah.
• 41:27
  What camera? What camera say you know what
• 41:32
  I'm saying? Oh.
• 41:34
  No. But anyway, so like you like you
• 41:36
  know, if a cop sits in one spot all night, he might get lucky.
• 41:39
  He wanted to, but if he's moving around, he's going to be able to
• 41:41
  stop a lot of crime in the city, you know what I'm saying?
• 41:44
  So. OK, what's 1 trap to avoid?
• 41:51
  I got this. Yeah.
• 41:53
  I'll tell you one trap to avoid, especially for like a young
• 41:56
  hustler entrepreneur is kind of kind of goes piggybacking off of
• 42:00
  like taking anybody else's, everybody else's advice.
• 42:04
  It'd be like, damn, I almost forgot what I was about to say.
• 42:09
  Oh, no, no, no, no. I got, I got don't, don't look
• 42:12
  at everything like a shiny object.
• 42:13
  Like there is so many things that you can do in 2025 that
• 42:17
  work. I think everybody just doesn't
• 42:19
  have enough consistency or like Dr. determination.
• 42:23
  And it's because we've been put in a society where like, I don't
• 42:25
  know, we scroll on TikTok, those, you know, videos are 12
• 42:28
  seconds long and when they're not interesting in the 1st 2
• 42:30
  seconds, we slide again. And so I think life really
• 42:33
  rewards the people who continue to do the same thing that was
• 42:36
  monotonous tasks over and over and over again.
• 42:39
  I don't like being on the phone, but I know that when our
• 42:42
  business is running and running well, it's because we're all on
• 42:44
  the phone over and over and over again and what what whatever it
• 42:48
  is like waking up early, you know, whatever you believe in,
• 42:51
  like spiritually, things like that.
• 42:53
  If you're dedicated and you put the time in over and over and
• 42:55
  over again, think life is going to reward you with regardless
• 42:58
  what it is, this podcast, our business, anybody that's out
• 43:01
  there doing a different hustle, don't look at the next hustle
• 43:04
  and be like, oh, I got to do that.
• 43:05
  You know, there's days after. The ones you're doing first,
• 43:07
  Yeah, At least focus. What?
• 43:08
  Was that thing we heard? It's called focus.
• 43:10
  Follow one course until successful.
• 43:13
  Yeah. Yeah, yeah.
• 43:14
  Don't think everything else is going to work.
• 43:16
  Just, you know, we just believe in it.
• 43:17
  Yeah. Just just understand, we just
• 43:19
  look like this. What do you mean we just look
• 43:21
  like? We got some games.
• 43:22
  I love, I love all the black sheep.
• 43:25
  I, I mean like, I just look like this too people.
• 43:29
  Like you guys. Got all this going on?
• 43:31
  Yeah, people, people think I'm kind of weird too, so it's fine.
• 43:36
  I really like this. OK, so one mindset was there's
• 43:39
  people that we should listen to, but there's also making sure
• 43:42
  that you listen to the right people.
• 43:44
  One habit which is like get a good routine.
• 43:47
  One skill which was fuck me I. Think I just understanding when
• 43:51
  to be a student. Oh yeah, understanding when to
• 43:53
  be a student, your resources, people, and can be through the
• 43:58
  phone too. Which knows who you know.
• 44:00
  Yeah, and that trap to void is just don't be chasing shiny red
• 44:04
  balls and make sure that you're focusing.
• 44:06
  And what was that again? Run that back again.
• 44:08
  Oh, focus, yeah. Follow one course until
• 44:11
  successful. So yeah, you know, everybody
• 44:13
  wants to stack their plates and honestly, that's kind of what we
• 44:16
  went through, like trying to juggle 5 different businesses,
• 44:18
  six different business at the same time.
• 44:20
  We realized once we put all our focus into one, just so it can
• 44:25
  be powerful, focusing on one thing until it's actually
• 44:27
  successful, so. Yeah, speaking about focusing,
• 44:31
  Yep, I'm so sorry that you hit live at this moment because
• 44:34
  we're about to make your drink. So we are actually going to go
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  What were you going? To say honestly, yeah, I might
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  just be, I might just be hating not wanting to give it to him
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  because this is like really good.
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  I have like no complaints. Really.
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  Yeah, OK, fine. You guys are just like gassing
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  me up now. That's what the kids say, right?
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  Gassing. I'm so Oh yes, thank you.
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  I'm sorry. I'm so rude.
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  OK, So yeah, no, we were going to switch topics because you
• 49:47
  guys are like really heated about your broken hearts
• 49:51
  recently. Well, I mean, and then some of
• 49:58
  you are not because some of you are like, damn, now you have a
• 50:01
  little kid who is feeling your heart all over again.
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  Yeah, absolutely. And like also, I mean, and
• 50:08
  you're a girl dad, right? Both and both.
• 50:12
  So I mean, that's also girl. Dad.
• 50:14
  So that's also hard. I mean, right?
• 50:17
  I'm a Oh my gosh, my wallet. Just pray for me.
• 50:21
  Just. Pray for.
• 50:23
  Me, I work and I live for them. Everything I.
• 50:27
  Do. Everything I do for.
• 50:30
  You. OK.
• 50:32
  Yeah, it's. Good on.
• 50:33
  It's good on my end. I still rock with these guys.
• 50:36
  Make sure they're good on their ends too, yeah?
• 50:38
  You let them tell them. Tell you about their
• 50:40
  relationships. No, you're going to tell me
• 50:42
  stuff too. Mine is good.
• 50:43
  Yeah, mine is good. My stuff.
• 50:44
  I know, But you had previous ones.
• 50:46
  Oh, yeah, And you got tea. I mean, you have maybe advice,
• 50:50
  You have maybe things that you want to share, right?
• 50:53
  He's that. Vice guy for sure he's.
• 50:54
  Definitely that vice. Guy.
• 50:56
  It's like, no. Choose who choose.
• 50:58
  You. That's fair.
• 51:01
  That's fair. I mean, OK, so I was going to
• 51:04
  ask this because I think like from a girl perspective, I get
• 51:07
  this because I'm pretty ambitious.
• 51:08
  I'm like doing a bunch of stuff and I feel like sometimes it is
• 51:13
  really hard to date a dude who's like, I want an ambitious woman
• 51:17
  and then they meet her and then they're like, no, I don't want
• 51:20
  an you don't have time for me. You don't have this, you don't
• 51:22
  have that. But we're going to flip it
• 51:24
  because I want to know, like, what's one thing that you guys
• 51:27
  wish women understand about man who men who are just grinding,
• 51:31
  You know, like we're going to flip it because like I, you
• 51:33
  know, we get up from my side. I want to.
• 51:35
  Hear from your side. I'll say one quick thing.
• 51:36
  I think it's back to that point of like always chasing the shiny
• 51:39
  object. I think a lot of like in
• 51:43
  business, we can miss our blessings because we're not
• 51:45
  chasing that one thing over and over and over again that we
• 51:47
  actually believe we see something else that looks nice
• 51:50
  or somebody else that has more than us, and we jump to it.
• 51:54
  And I feel like in 2025, it's very competitive on like in the
• 51:59
  dating world. Yeah, because you, I mean, you
• 52:00
  have people with the same age as you that have more than you, you
• 52:04
  know, and it's just like they have access to the same people,
• 52:07
  you know, from a click of a button.
• 52:09
  So it can be someone in a completely different town, city,
• 52:11
  you know? And yeah, I don't know, people
• 52:14
  just need to go back, I think to connecting in person and stuff
• 52:19
  like that. I don't know.
• 52:19
  It's no, it's. Different. 2020.
• 52:21
  Five, yeah, like, I mean, like social media really does kind of
• 52:25
  mess up. Yeah.
• 52:26
  Because like, you could be having a good connection and
• 52:29
  then whether you're female or male or whatever, right, Like
• 52:34
  you're homie or home girl could just be like, I saw somebody
• 52:38
  else and I want to go explore this.
• 52:42
  Oh, did you get heartbroken crying?
• 52:52
  Did this happen to you recently? I'm sorry.
• 52:54
  I've gotten dumped. Rejection is hard.
• 52:59
  It's OK, We all have. Sounded like Andy.
• 53:05
  We all have to deal with rejection.
• 53:07
  No, but you get what I'm saying though.
• 53:09
  It's like it's a whole different.
• 53:10
  I feel like playing field nowadays.
• 53:12
  So I feel like men always think that they got to, you know, do
• 53:16
  extra to prove themselves. And I feel like I don't know,
• 53:18
  I'm not going to speak on a woman.
• 53:19
  I'm not, I'm not, you know, girl.
• 53:20
  But from the men's side, I feel like we always feel like we got
• 53:22
  to, you know, prove ourselves and things like that.
• 53:24
  But then we see examples, you know, like Jamal, he's got a
• 53:27
  good loving relationship, so. Yeah, what do you mean by like
• 53:31
  men feel like they have to prove themselves?
• 53:34
  Feel like you always just got to do more, you know?
• 53:36
  Yeah, yeah. Because it's just.
• 53:37
  I need to meet meet these men. No, that's this, No, because
• 53:40
  even though like people will look at us and like, oh, you
• 53:42
  guys do a lot. You guys do a lot.
• 53:44
  But like we see it from our perspective.
• 53:46
  We're in a field where we're at the bottom of our totem pole.
• 53:48
  Like, we see people doing way more than us, you know, And it's
• 53:52
  just like. That's how I see my.
• 53:53
  Life no 100% and and it's for any business, right.
• 53:56
  So especially in 2025 because you can just get on your phone
• 53:58
  and see it. Back then, you couldn't really
• 54:00
  see it. And I feel like comparison is
• 54:02
  the thief of joy is kind of old saying.
• 54:03
  But we're constantly, we constantly have to.
• 54:06
  And in in 2025, it's almost not fair because it's like, no,
• 54:10
  yeah, even if you don't want to or even if you don't feel like
• 54:13
  you have to, you have to like somebody.
• 54:16
  Nobody. Yeah.
• 54:16
  I just feel like even if you feel like you don't have to or
• 54:19
  try or anything, I feel like you have to because somebody else
• 54:21
  is. And it's like it's a very
• 54:23
  competitive world that we live in now.
• 54:24
  I feel like with social media and stuff like that.
• 54:26
  So I don't know. That's my take on it.
• 54:28
  These guys probably have different opinions.
• 54:30
  I I just want a side note here is that I love the background
• 54:34
  noise of all the drinks. Like.
• 54:36
  That's what I love about our episodes.
• 54:39
  I don't know. It's just not.
• 54:40
  Yeah. It's just like a little nice.
• 54:42
  OK. That sounds so lovely on here.
• 54:46
  OK. Sorry.
• 54:47
  Yeah. I mean, so like, are you saying
• 54:49
  that you've experiences too, like as you're dating?
• 54:52
  No, I'm to be honest with you, I had a long term relationship
• 54:55
  going out like from high school to college.
• 54:57
  And then you've always been a good boy, huh?
• 55:00
  No. No, no.
• 55:01
  No, people don't. People don't see this and have
• 55:06
  something to say. All I'm saying is all I'm saying
• 55:10
  is. All I'm saying is what am I
• 55:12
  saying? I don't even know what he's
• 55:17
  saying. I don't right now, but all I
• 55:19
  know is from my previous experience, I didn't have like a
• 55:23
  like a bad, I don't know, exit out of the relationship.
• 55:26
  No bad blood or anything like that.
• 55:27
  So yeah, it was, it was it was cool.
• 55:28
  I. Guess 0.
• 55:29
  Relationship trauma. Yeah, not really.
• 55:31
  Don't fuck them up, girls. No, don't do that.
• 55:33
  Don't do that. I feel like.
• 55:35
  I'm kidding. A lot of the traumas came from
• 55:36
  outside. Oh shit.
• 55:37
  So yeah, but. That's good, yeah.
• 55:40
  Yeah, I had one relationship my whole life and it was actually
• 55:43
  smooth shit. It lasted like 4 years and then
• 55:46
  ended up, you know, didn't work out.
• 55:48
  So, you know, that's cool. Yeah, damn.
• 55:51
  So we were asking this question of like, what's one thing that
• 55:54
  you guys wish women would understand about men who are
• 55:56
  just grinding? That I feel like if a man's
• 56:01
  grinding and it's actually, you know, for that woman or whatever
• 56:03
  the case may be, and you know, they feel like there's always
• 56:07
  can be something that's done better or like, you're not doing
• 56:09
  this, you're not doing that well.
• 56:11
  Well, then go find somebody who's doing this, the minimum
• 56:14
  that I'm doing, you know what I'm saying?
• 56:15
  Like that type of stuff. So go find it somewhere else and
• 56:17
  see if it's the same. And nine times that 10, it's
• 56:19
  not, you know what I'm saying? Because someone actually, you
• 56:22
  know, is into somebody, they'll do whatever for him, you know
• 56:24
  what I'm saying? Just like Jamal, you know what
• 56:26
  I'm saying? Like he said that daughter might
• 56:27
  not be his, but he's still, you know, treated like it is his,
• 56:29
  you know what I'm saying? So I thought you got to take
• 56:31
  responsibility. If somebody's taking
• 56:32
  responsibility and able to own up to what they know they have
• 56:35
  to work on, I feel like that's enough, you know what I'm
• 56:37
  saying? 100%.
• 56:40
  Yeah. Yeah.
• 56:44
  Yeah, yeah. And and and like, I guess like
• 56:46
  for me, yeah. I mean, I think like as a girl
• 56:48
  or I don't know, I mean like, see, I, I'm not saying that what
• 56:53
  you did what you nothing wrong. You had said I'm grinding for
• 56:59
  you. I think I look at that
• 57:01
  differently. Like me personally, I I cried
• 57:05
  for myself. I guess you know what I mean.
• 57:06
  I guess I didn't mean for them. What you mean?
• 57:08
  Yeah, like all this shit that I'm working on, it's for.
• 57:12
  You, but when you're in a relationship and you have a
• 57:14
  partner and you guys are tied together like you're not.
• 57:17
  If you're in a relationship, especially like you're not
• 57:19
  building this to be together for tonight or tomorrow.
• 57:23
  Like especially if the person you're with is like a
• 57:25
  entrepreneur slash, like business owner slash, like go
• 57:28
  getter slash type of same type of mentality as you.
• 57:30
  You know what I'm saying? That's kind.
• 57:32
  Of, you know, it's a partner thing, but I don't know, I
• 57:36
  think. Is your is your partner an
• 57:39
  entrepreneur too? Or are you more like the go
• 57:41
  getter I'm? The.
• 57:42
  He is the go head winner. You're the breadwinner, so I
• 57:45
  think. I take care of what I have to
• 57:47
  take care of. I think.
• 57:49
  Care of what she has to take care of.
• 57:50
  It's a 5050. What she can do, I can't do, and
• 57:53
  what I do she could, but she doesn't do she.
• 57:56
  Don't need to. She doesn't need to take care of
• 57:59
  it because like, like you said, you know, I have kids.
• 58:02
  So my daughter and a bonus daughter, they're both my kids.
• 58:05
  So I'm like, I need you to be focused on this.
• 58:08
  And when you can give me advice or give me a picker upper or
• 58:12
  motivation, like that's what I need.
• 58:14
  I don't need you. Like I was texting her and she's
• 58:15
  like, I'm, I'm not texting you because I don't want to rush
• 58:18
  you, you know? And it's like you're not rushing
• 58:21
  me. You're.
• 58:22
  Not rushing me because I already understand you have that
• 58:24
  relationship. Like they're not going to sit
• 58:26
  here and be mad because I'm doing something too better
• 58:29
  myself, but she will benefit from it.
• 58:32
  Yeah. Yeah, but you are more locked
• 58:35
  in. He's very locked.
• 58:36
  In yeah. So that that is different from
• 58:38
  when maybe you're in early stages.
• 58:40
  Yeah, at that point in the early stages, I feel like you just,
• 58:43
  you know, look for those signs like if you guys are gonna be a
• 58:47
  long term relationship or not. Like cuz you know, there's such
• 58:50
  thing as like it doesn't last long forever and it doesn't last
• 58:56
  or work and last long and still not work out exactly.
• 58:58
  So like you need to identify that for what it is.
• 59:02
  Yeah, identify that for what it is and keep going.
• 59:06
  Yeah. So yeah.
• 59:09
  Yeah, I heard some lady. I was just totally off topic but
• 59:11
  I heard I was at the humidor one day like a cigar lounge.
• 59:14
  Yeah, I know. I remember that one time that
• 59:17
  like we were at, we were at Humidor one time and then Dusty
• 59:21
  was trying to be my wing man, remember, Do you remember that
• 59:24
  one time? It's.
• 59:26
  Like why you even got me being a wing man, that's what she's.
• 59:28
  Talking about Dusty is the worst wing man.
• 59:31
  Oh wait, I do. Remember.
• 59:33
  Yeah, he does. Yeah, he does.
• 59:34
  He's. Like.
• 59:35
  I remember, call me a time. Yeah, it didn't work out.
• 59:40
  He had a girlfriend. Hey, it's OK.
• 59:43
  But I was, I was sitting with somebody, a dude, one of my
• 59:48
  friends, you do a guy. Anyway, we're just sitting
• 59:51
  across these older ladies, not going to hear them talking.
• 59:53
  And then we just start talking to each other.
• 59:54
  And example, the lady said she's been married for like 45 years,
• 59:58
  but for the last like 17 years, they have something in the same
• 1:00:01
  bed because she's not truly happy.
• 1:00:03
  So I asked her. I said.
• 1:00:05
  Well, then what's keepy? Like what, Why are you still
• 1:00:06
  there if you're not happy? You know what I'm saying?
• 1:00:08
  And or the the older generation has different reasons.
• 1:00:12
  You know, they might not be able to go out there and find another
• 1:00:14
  67 year old man or woman. You know what I'm saying?
• 1:00:17
  That's that's single cause a lot of them back are got somebody or
• 1:00:20
  widowed or you know what I'm saying?
• 1:00:21
  So it's like they want to stay for certain different reasons.
• 1:00:24
  So it's like, like you said, not everybody happy and shit and
• 1:00:27
  like you said, it can last a long time, but you're not be
• 1:00:28
  happy family. You're sticking together for the
• 1:00:30
  kids or you're sticking together for I don't know what reason I'd
• 1:00:33
  be gone. Gotta have something, you know
• 1:00:34
  what I'm saying? But I.
• 1:00:35
  Was I was, I was happy, Yeah. Don't tell me in that.
• 1:00:41
  Boat, I'm saying like you just said, if you work out.
• 1:00:44
  But it can. It's not happy, honey.
• 1:00:45
  Yeah. Honey, you know so.
• 1:00:47
  You see it every day. I'll see it every day,
• 1:00:48
  everybody, trust me. I mean, that's why in the United
• 1:00:51
  States, the divorce ratings are like higher than the divorce
• 1:00:54
  percentage is like higher than people who stayed married.
• 1:00:56
  Basically I want to get married. 30 I'm already I already beat
• 1:00:59
  the odds. Beat the odds.
• 1:01:02
  Because I'm not married. Never been.
• 1:01:04
  Never been, Never been. Yeah.
• 1:01:06
  Oh my God. I mean, like, I like Midwest.
• 1:01:09
  You do have this to some degree. It's like this pressure to get
• 1:01:13
  married really young and have kids.
• 1:01:15
  Is that Midwest? Yeah, she's here.
• 1:01:17
  Yes, in the Midwest. Yes.
• 1:01:20
  I. No, no, she's right.
• 1:01:21
  In like in smaller towns there is that pressure to get married
• 1:01:24
  super young or like have kids. Yeah or yeah, I'm Mexican, so
• 1:01:30
  very different thoughts for me and how I was grew up too.
• 1:01:34
  And so like it is that you're also supposed to get married
• 1:01:37
  really young and have kids like my both of my older siblings got
• 1:01:41
  married and had kids at they got married at 21.
• 1:01:46
  And I remember like my parents would be like, OK, are you?
• 1:01:49
  And I'm like. Nope, that's.
• 1:01:54
  OK. And and no, it's not about
• 1:01:56
  finding the one. I'm a child.
• 1:01:59
  Yeah. At that age, yeah.
• 1:02:01
  I'm a It's not about finding the one that's a child.
• 1:02:05
  Yeah. And also 25 is young
• 1:02:09
  respectfully. Yeah, 25 is young, but.
• 1:02:12
  But like you said, my frontal lobe is definitely available.
• 1:02:16
  I also think it's situational. Like I'm ready.
• 1:02:18
  No, no. I also think it's situational
• 1:02:20
  too. Like like Jamal tell you, like
• 1:02:22
  he has raised himself since he was 1617 years old.
• 1:02:26
  And I'm like, I wasn't that I didn't have to be put in that
• 1:02:29
  position. I'm the youngest child.
• 1:02:30
  I always had older siblings looking after me.
• 1:02:32
  So I can be, I don't know, a little bit more goofy at times
• 1:02:36
  or like, just nonchalant. Yeah.
• 1:02:38
  But I was never, like, made to be in that position at an early
• 1:02:41
  age. So sometimes I'll just be like,
• 1:02:43
  well, I didn't know how to handle that situation, but.
• 1:02:45
  That's a good point, yeah. I mean, I felt like I had to
• 1:02:47
  grow up really young the way that I had to grow up as well.
• 1:02:53
  I'm still like, I think, I think this is the thing though, like
• 1:02:56
  for me personally, I, I have so much to chase and I think, I
• 1:03:03
  think to a degree it is maybe my cultural stuff because I'm from
• 1:03:09
  Mexico. So they're in small town too.
• 1:03:11
  So it's very different beliefs than even Midwest.
• 1:03:14
  And it was just like, as in beliefs, as in like, you're as
• 1:03:19
  soon as you have a husband, you have to listen to him.
• 1:03:21
  He's the one who's going to be saying whether you can or can't
• 1:03:24
  do something. He's the one.
• 1:03:25
  And those were things that I grew up with that I was like, I
• 1:03:28
  don't want any of that. I grew up with that damn.
• 1:03:32
  So you wouldn't want that to be your relationship.
• 1:03:34
  How did? It well, it's because like I've
• 1:03:35
  seen, I've seen the woman have to give up herself so much.
• 1:03:39
  Like give up where? She is.
• 1:03:41
  I think it's situational. Like, yeah, I.
• 1:03:42
  Want a stay at home wife? Well, if all she's doing is
• 1:03:44
  staying at home, she had no purpose.
• 1:03:46
  How's she going? How's she going there?
• 1:03:47
  She ain't got no purpose. No, for real.
• 1:03:49
  No literally because some people want to stay at home so much and
• 1:03:52
  then what's she doing but staying at home?
• 1:03:54
  But she. Got kids if she has like if you
• 1:03:56
  guys have a family though if you guys have a family if kids yeah
• 1:04:00
  think about it if if both of you guys are at home or if both of
• 1:04:03
  you guys are out all day grinding and being entrepreneurs
• 1:04:05
  who's raising your. Kids, you know the school
• 1:04:07
  system. Or somebody who you don't even
• 1:04:08
  know. I'm not saying.
• 1:04:10
  It's not even about paying. It's not even about paying.
• 1:04:12
  It's just about like you're going to have the best interest
• 1:04:14
  for your kids at all times. Listen.
• 1:04:15
  Yeah. I'm saying some, some dudes want
• 1:04:18
  their wives to just stay home, is my point.
• 1:04:20
  Don't have, don't go out. Don't do nothing.
• 1:04:22
  But you just stay at home watching these kids and I'll
• 1:04:24
  make sure you're straight. Damn, I can't go to Pilates.
• 1:04:26
  Damn. I can't go here.
• 1:04:27
  Yeah. I feel like that has to.
• 1:04:29
  Do. That.
• 1:04:30
  Has to do with insecurity because when you're dealing with
• 1:04:32
  people and you love somebody, like I said, like you should be
• 1:04:36
  confident in yourself and what. The lady that said she was, she
• 1:04:40
  was happy for the last 17 years. I was talking about how she
• 1:04:43
  feels like it's a prison, not a relationship.
• 1:04:45
  So that's my point. Just like she can't do nothing
• 1:04:47
  because she's. Everybody in situation in
• 1:04:50
  situation, like you said, because some people are in that
• 1:04:52
  situation and some people have high school sweethearts and
• 1:04:55
  they're happier and loving relations as much.
• 1:04:57
  As they want some, I mean, or they've stuck, yeah, or.
• 1:05:00
  They're stuck and they don't admit it.
• 1:05:02
  Yeah, you're. Right, A lot of people will be
• 1:05:04
  stuck because of point. Yeah, I mean, well, well, they
• 1:05:07
  obviously didn't do anything like that.
• 1:05:09
  But like what I'm saying is like, say you started dating
• 1:05:12
  really young and all you've ever known is this person, your
• 1:05:18
  personality has grown to be this person.
• 1:05:22
  And so you do not know yourself without this person.
• 1:05:24
  I. Can I can vouch for that shit?
• 1:05:26
  I was I was in a relationship look young, 16 years old all the
• 1:05:30
  way to like 2122 years old. So for me it was like, and that
• 1:05:35
  was who I shared life with. Like every day was either at her
• 1:05:38
  house or my house. And then when that ended, I
• 1:05:40
  pretty much ended basketball at the same time.
• 1:05:44
  Parents house at that time. But but look, I'm out on crib
• 1:05:47
  now, guys. They have their own home.
• 1:05:51
  Their frontal lobe is developed. Let me see those biceps.
• 1:05:54
  If you like biceps, they got the biceps.
• 1:05:58
  So basically, like in that situation, like I feel like
• 1:06:02
  there is a certain age where, OK, like I'm not going to be
• 1:06:06
  married at 18 or 21. Like you have a life still to
• 1:06:10
  live, but once you reach 25, once you reach 30 and you're
• 1:06:14
  still chasing it, quote UN quote, you know, like what if
• 1:06:17
  you don't reach it? And what if you don't have
• 1:06:19
  anybody there for those moments when you actually need somebody
• 1:06:22
  to be by your side and your family doesn't care, your
• 1:06:25
  friends don't care nobody, but you need somebody to give you
• 1:06:28
  unconditional love and unconditional support in that
• 1:06:31
  moment. It's not about money, it's not
• 1:06:33
  about ego, it's not about my personality.
• 1:06:35
  It's not about all these different things.
• 1:06:37
  It's about person to person. We're human, you know, So it's
• 1:06:40
  like, like I said, you're continuously chasing it.
• 1:06:45
  When does the chase end? So.
• 1:06:47
  I think that's my problem. I don't know when the chase end.
• 1:06:49
  That's a lot. And when I say chase, it's not
• 1:06:54
  relationship related. For me, it is very much, yeah.
• 1:06:58
  It's like, it's like, I know I could do this better.
• 1:07:01
  I know I could do that next. I know I have this thing next,
• 1:07:04
  yeah. And it's.
• 1:07:05
  The same with that perfectionist mindset I was talking about
• 1:07:08
  earlier. Like if you never celebrate
• 1:07:11
  those small wins, when are you ever going?
• 1:07:12
  To know what a win is. Actually never know what the win
• 1:07:15
  is just as much as I'll say this too, because even being in a
• 1:07:18
  relationship and everybody body in their situations, like just
• 1:07:22
  as much as you appreciate being on your own or having your own
• 1:07:25
  life or chasing what you want to chase.
• 1:07:27
  You know, like at what point do you separate what you want for
• 1:07:30
  somebody else? You know, because for whether
• 1:07:33
  it's you have a kid, whether you have a best friend, whether you
• 1:07:36
  have a sick mother, a sick father, like at what point do
• 1:07:40
  you stop and say I'm not chasing my dreams?
• 1:07:44
  I'm going to put everything to the side for this and then
• 1:07:47
  you'll need support. Well, I mean, I've done.
• 1:07:49
  That's already been my life story, right?
• 1:07:51
  Yeah. It's like that's already
• 1:07:52
  happened. That's already happened.
• 1:07:53
  I've already had a second. I'm lost or all that stuff.
• 1:07:58
  It's more of like, I think to some degree, like I gave up the
• 1:08:02
  idea of a relationship at some point because it's like, it's
• 1:08:07
  like, if I want to chase this mastery and leave a really good
• 1:08:13
  thing for the rest of everyone else, I need to give myself to
• 1:08:16
  that. Yeah.
• 1:08:17
  I need to give myself to this not because of just me, but
• 1:08:21
  because of what I want to do for others.
• 1:08:24
  Right. Yeah, Yeah.
• 1:08:25
  And then it's like, and then you almost and you become
• 1:08:28
  sacrificial and it's like, what can I sacrifice to do this?
• 1:08:32
  Can I sacrifice 2 hours of sleep?
• 1:08:35
  Can I sacrifice this type of relationship?
• 1:08:38
  Can I sacrifice this other hobby?
• 1:08:40
  Can I sacrifice my doom scrolling?
• 1:08:43
  And I used to do that like I used to be like, what can I
• 1:08:46
  sacrifice? And I would be like, I'm going
• 1:08:48
  to sacrifice romantic relationships because for me, I
• 1:08:53
  was like, I, I go to therapy and then I'm like, I can work on my
• 1:08:58
  relationships because I think, like to your point, we need
• 1:09:00
  people, we need community, we need all of this.
• 1:09:03
  And so it's like I can work on my relationship with my family
• 1:09:06
  and I can work on my relationship with my friends,
• 1:09:09
  and I can have a very fulfilling life in that perspective.
• 1:09:12
  Right. Definitely.
• 1:09:13
  And so then it's like, OK, I can do that.
• 1:09:15
  I'm going to sacrifice this aspect.
• 1:09:18
  And then now I think I am at this point which Oh my God I'm
• 1:09:21
  going to say this but nobody fucking slighted my DM.
• 1:09:26
  Go ahead and tell. Tell the public.
• 1:09:29
  Say it as it is. Because it's like I'm at a point
• 1:09:31
  where it's like, man, I really grinded all that, that I'm just
• 1:09:33
  like, and I really worked on all that, that it's like, I think
• 1:09:36
  I'm ready to share this with someone, right?
• 1:09:39
  I'm ready to be like, I'll be like travelling or I'll be doing
• 1:09:43
  something. And it's like, I'm ready to
• 1:09:44
  share this experience. And like I'm at this point where
• 1:09:48
  like I know who I am. I know what I'm doing.
• 1:09:51
  I know what I'm chasing. Huh.
• 1:09:57
  But that's that is some change like.
• 1:10:02
  But I mean, and so I am, I'm more open to it now.
• 1:10:05
  Yeah, yeah than I was before. But I mean, I think it was
• 1:10:09
  because, I mean previously, I mean like, I'm, I'm like, OK,
• 1:10:12
  I'm going to give up this idea because I don't know that I, I
• 1:10:15
  think to some degree I'm like, I'm not going to find it.
• 1:10:18
  And then to. Another degree I kind of, I kind
• 1:10:20
  of look at like just like one of my teachers, he told me.
• 1:10:23
  And I went to like a private Christian college, so I don't
• 1:10:27
  know what. But anyway, yeah.
• 1:10:29
  Anyway, Long story short, I got told I was like, at the end of
• 1:10:31
  your life, you know, like he basically told her like there
• 1:10:35
  was, you know, someone who, you know, focused on their career,
• 1:10:39
  never had any kids, always wanted every, you know, just was
• 1:10:42
  focused on themselves their whole entire life.
• 1:10:44
  And at the end of their life, you know, they're in the the
• 1:10:47
  hospital bed. It's just them and there's no
• 1:10:49
  kids, no grandkids, no great grandkids come in to to support
• 1:10:54
  these people in their final moments of their final life.
• 1:10:57
  You know, and and if you there's a book called into the light.
• 1:11:00
  My mom told me to read it. I've read like one or two child.
• 1:11:02
  I need to keep reading it. It's about like a nurse that's
• 1:11:05
  he's like the person at the very end of everybody's life.
• 1:11:08
  And he basically determines what like when the family tells him,
• 1:11:11
  OK, pull the plug, he pulls the plug and he he wrote a chapter
• 1:11:14
  or he wrote a book. It was 16 chapters.
• 1:11:16
  Each chapter is about each person's life right before they
• 1:11:18
  died. It was about all the hallucin
• 1:11:21
  like hallucinations. They had dreams like you know
• 1:11:24
  their. Experiences.
• 1:11:25
  Experiences on, you know, spirituality, things like that,
• 1:11:27
  He wrote. Chapters on each person's story.
• 1:11:29
  And not one of them mentioned all the things that they did in
• 1:11:32
  their life. Not one of them mentioned all
• 1:11:34
  the great things that they bought in their life, the things
• 1:11:36
  that they owned. If they had 20 houses, if they
• 1:11:38
  had one house, if they didn't own a house, if they had, you
• 1:11:41
  know, yeah. Anything.
• 1:11:43
  All that they cared about at that final moment was who was
• 1:11:46
  there to see them, who came at the final very moment their life
• 1:11:49
  and who came to see them. And not to get like spiritual or
• 1:11:52
  anything, but I think that that's that's kind of like what
• 1:11:54
  I feel like life is about is like not only your community,
• 1:11:57
  but like also, you know, you can share memories.
• 1:12:01
  Yeah. And like now, you know, you have
• 1:12:03
  a kid and it's like you didn't pass down your genes to somebody
• 1:12:07
  else and brought some more life in.
• 1:12:08
  Yeah. But that's not everybody also
• 1:12:11
  doesn't want that. And I also, yeah, 100% like I
• 1:12:13
  also don't like think anybody's wrong for just wanting to live
• 1:12:18
  their life how they 100% they can let everybody can live how
• 1:12:21
  they want to live. But at the same time you do have
• 1:12:23
  to start to. Think we all live three
• 1:12:25
  different lives? Yeah, yeah.
• 1:12:26
  So literally we all live three different lives.
• 1:12:29
  So it's like but at the end of the.
• 1:12:32
  Day. Families don't matter.
• 1:12:33
  I didn't mean to get too deep or anything, but that's just kind
• 1:12:35
  of, you know, I took that lesson from what he told me and I.
• 1:12:38
  No and no, I think I think that's true.
• 1:12:41
  Like I think that when you also lose someone who's really
• 1:12:45
  important to you, that becomes is really relevant.
• 1:12:47
  It's like acolytes don't matter what nothing.
• 1:12:52
  Matters. Yeah.
• 1:12:54
  It matters about, like, who I have around me, who genuinely
• 1:12:57
  love me, yeah, and care for me. So many people you got at the
• 1:13:00
  end of the day. So.
• 1:13:01
  Yeah. For sure and.
• 1:13:02
  That's why like to sum that up, that's why I think like even
• 1:13:05
  having a partner, partner or finding that one like you said,
• 1:13:08
  now you want to share that stuff with somebody.
• 1:13:10
  Yeah, I started like life a little early with having to pay
• 1:13:14
  bills and having all these different responsibilities and
• 1:13:17
  lorries. And it's like, what am I working
• 1:13:20
  for? Like, what am I living for at
• 1:13:22
  the end of the day? Like I meant like I always say
• 1:13:25
  I'm going home to enjoy the fruits of my labor.
• 1:13:27
  Like I want to be around the people who just unconditionally
• 1:13:30
  love me. They can be pissed off or I'll I
• 1:13:32
  give a fuck. But they.
• 1:13:34
  Love me, you know, like they actually care about me.
• 1:13:37
  If I was to die right now, they would show up, you know, so it's
• 1:13:40
  like that's more important than going to party at the club.
• 1:13:43
  This for sure. You know, that's more important.
• 1:13:45
  How much money we made last week, Lincoln having five
• 1:13:48
  different, you know, like, just in that sense, like for me.
• 1:13:52
  You got, you got. Why are you look at?
• 1:13:59
  I'm just, I'm just a little tipsy that's.
• 1:14:00
  All. Cam was the most excited about
• 1:14:07
  this part and he is not. I can't say nothing.
• 1:14:11
  I got my answer, my question. We did.
• 1:14:14
  I talked about what I need to talk about.
• 1:14:15
  You didn't answer another question.
• 1:14:17
  Don't open this can of worms, I. Can don't, don't, OK.
• 1:14:20
  Actually, we can, yeah. What's the next topic?
• 1:14:23
  Let's get it in. I thought we were still on
• 1:14:25
  relationships. We're moving out, we're moving.
• 1:14:27
  A little. Bit I was that was not these
• 1:14:31
  guys talk. Damn, damn not.
• 1:14:34
  Like. That let them move.
• 1:14:35
  Let them move. Tell them talk your shit.
• 1:14:37
  Can we talk? Can we talk about that now?
• 1:14:39
  What? Basketball player let's talk
• 1:14:41
  about Cam Cam wants to make the. Show does he knows about does he
• 1:14:44
  knows about basketball? I don't.
• 1:14:48
  Kobe. Kobe.
• 1:14:50
  Who's your favorite basketball player?
• 1:14:51
  Kobe. So you like you?
• 1:14:56
  You got Kobe over Braun. Yes, because of the skill set
• 1:15:03
  that he had in the killer mindset like when when you when
• 1:15:07
  the team needed him to take over the freaking game and win it for
• 1:15:12
  them, he did it he. Win camera lights.
• 1:15:14
  He's like, he did that, he went. At him, you know.
• 1:15:17
  Like I'm Kobe and. Where's LeBron?
• 1:15:19
  Like, yeah, I'm gonna make the right play this and that.
• 1:15:21
  And it's like, but bro, you're so big and built.
• 1:15:25
  Just you can just. Go get the fucking bucket.
• 1:15:29
  No, Yeah. You're getting paid $80 million.
• 1:15:33
  Go do it. Yeah, yeah.
• 1:15:36
  No, no, I feel like that. Do it.
• 1:15:37
  Oh. My.
• 1:15:39
  God do it shit. Miss the season?
• 1:15:41
  And I gotta fade away, like where's bronze fade away at?
• 1:15:44
  I got one. He's a.
• 1:15:46
  Hooper. He's a hoop.
• 1:15:47
  I definitely got a step back I like.
• 1:15:49
  That. I got a crossover.
• 1:15:52
  Dusty. Literally 360.
• 1:15:53
  Dunks. Dunks on people.
• 1:15:55
  Noon, Boss. Defense.
• 1:15:57
  Noon ball. Sundays where?
• 1:16:02
  I don't know. I don't know.
• 1:16:03
  I don't. Know.
• 1:16:05
  Jomoni's a join into that. I do.
• 1:16:07
  I'm a dog cardio, so I need some guys to go in cardio.
• 1:16:10
  I gotta feel like dude. Don't you?
• 1:16:12
  Don't you have? Like a whole, I did OK.
• 1:16:16
  People get busy, things get busy.
• 1:16:19
  So what are we talking about? You know how hooping goes?
• 1:16:21
  You like, run into a group and then you guys hoop for a little
• 1:16:24
  bit, but then it dies down? Yeah.
• 1:16:26
  Yeah, Dan was just a part of a team.
• 1:16:28
  Tell them about I. Got a whole team, he.
• 1:16:31
  Said I got a whole. I want to hear about this.
• 1:16:35
  Oh bro, tell. Them about your backups?
• 1:16:36
  No, like the team, Like oh. No, no, you know what he meant.
• 1:16:40
  You know what he. Meant, oh, we're talking about
• 1:16:41
  the roster now. How do people like, what is this
• 1:16:44
  idea of like being casual dating and like not being in casual
• 1:16:49
  dating? Yeah.
• 1:16:51
  I'm just, I work for these guys, you know, every day I get up, I
• 1:16:57
  wake up and I say, you know what, it's 10:00 in for 6:00
• 1:17:00
  rooms. And what does that mean?
• 1:17:01
  6 Sims, It's Trey and Jamal. You heard him every day.
• 1:17:04
  Now ask him about every night. Tell him.
• 1:17:09
  Tell him he does what he needs for his 9:00 to 5:00.
• 1:17:14
  I was about to say that the person who pushed the most I was
• 1:17:18
  saying I want to talk about relationships was this guy was
• 1:17:22
  not these two as long as he shows.
• 1:17:25
  Up for work, I can't say much so.
• 1:17:27
  And I'm and listen like I'm a, I'm a good host.
• 1:17:30
  I respect my guests. I'm going to, I'm going to open
• 1:17:33
  up and open up as little as I want.
• 1:17:35
  To just about what you want to talk about.
• 1:17:37
  What I'm trying to say is I'm single and I'm not trying.
• 1:17:41
  To. Came on here to who he.
• 1:17:44
  Said he's not ready to. Meet.
• 1:17:46
  I'm not. I'm not.
• 1:17:46
  That's what I'm saying. I'm ready to meet.
• 1:17:48
  See. Oh oh.
• 1:17:49
  You got to be like 28 and older. Oh my, for real?
• 1:17:55
  OK, why is that? Like older women?
• 1:17:57
  Yes ma'am. Why?
• 1:17:58
  I like thick, beautiful women, women that look like women.
• 1:18:02
  You know what I'm saying? I don't want to, you know?
• 1:18:05
  You know, I think they're attracted to me more than I'm
• 1:18:08
  attracted to them. Does that make sense?
• 1:18:11
  But you know, once they attract, you got to think I'm 25, they're
• 1:18:17
  303132 people, 32 ain't even do what I'm doing.
• 1:18:22
  So it might look a little different.
• 1:18:23
  You know what I'm saying? I'm not trying to toot my own
• 1:18:25
  toot my own horn, you know what I'm saying?
• 1:18:27
  But I'm just, it just is what it is, you know, so.
• 1:18:32
  There we go. I'm just saying.
• 1:18:37
  How's your whistle? That sound like a gambling.
• 1:18:39
  Yeah, no, I thought that what it was.
• 1:18:41
  OK, let's do that. Again, got to understand Joe
• 1:18:43
  Rose. I'm telling you.
• 1:18:45
  You got to understand Joe. Rose, dude, how'd you do that?
• 1:18:47
  I don't know how to whistle. Oh, I do.
• 1:18:52
  Cam will teach you. OK, go.
• 1:18:54
  How I don't? Know Cam is going to teach me
• 1:18:56
  how to whistle that whistle that you just did.
• 1:19:00
  Wow, no. He know how to like oh.
• 1:19:04
  Yeah, let me see. It do it do it do it.
• 1:19:06
  Do it. Do it.
• 1:19:10
  What? I've never seen that type of.
• 1:19:12
  Whisper eat a dog. Whisperer.
• 1:19:13
  Oh my God. OK, so Jamal, you're not you're
• 1:19:17
  not single and you're not ready to mingle.
• 1:19:19
  You're. Single and ready to mingle.
• 1:19:21
  And you're or you're not. I'm focused on focus on my
• 1:19:26
  business right now. But at the same time though, I
• 1:19:28
  think that things don't always come around twice.
• 1:19:31
  So you do still have to have your eyes open if something
• 1:19:33
  passes by you, you know, And it's like meant to be and it's
• 1:19:36
  meant to be. So I'm not like eyes totally off
• 1:19:39
  of it, but I am focused on the business if they can handle we.
• 1:19:43
  Need some real. We need some.
• 1:19:45
  We need some real. Whoa, whoa, whoa, before you get
• 1:19:47
  a speaking for everybody. Aye.
• 1:19:51
  We're talking about weed. We can't even be in the same
• 1:19:54
  conversation. I'm not in that combat.
• 1:19:58
  I am looking and I'm not looking for shit.
• 1:20:00
  Oh OK, he don't know he jumped but she didn't got him a drink
• 1:20:03
  and. She but look like this.
• 1:20:06
  Can of warm. I do prefer the Tinas.
• 1:20:11
  Kevin's drunk. Only because they know how to
• 1:20:15
  clean. Wow, this is.
• 1:20:16
  Getting bad. This is getting.
• 1:20:17
  Bad. They're not taking.
• 1:20:20
  They're not taking. Drink away.
• 1:20:22
  From Yeah, they know how to take.
• 1:20:23
  We're going to have. To cut some stuff out.
• 1:20:25
  Yeah, I'm not saying anything bad.
• 1:20:27
  I'm just embracing. I'm.
• 1:20:29
  Just embracing the. Yeah.
• 1:20:31
  Culture. Yeah.
• 1:20:35
  Wouldn't, wouldn't you say that from Laotian or no?
• 1:20:39
  Do you got, do you got some like cultural?
• 1:20:43
  Preferences. Preferences.
• 1:20:46
  Dusty's married. Oh, is he?
• 1:20:48
  Congratulations. Congratulations.
• 1:20:49
  Congratulations, Dusty. 'S married, I mean all the, all
• 1:20:52
  the listeners know, but Dusty's married.
• 1:20:55
  And so like Cam is saying, like the Latinas, they know how to
• 1:20:58
  clean and they know how to cook, which is they say.
• 1:21:03
  That's why it says. I mean, it's a general gender
• 1:21:09
  role, I guess. Yeah, I can cook and clean now,
• 1:21:13
  but but. You I can also cook and.
• 1:21:15
  Clean. Thank you, Dusty.
• 1:21:16
  I know that's right, Dusty. I can.
• 1:21:20
  Also cook. He's like, I don't know.
• 1:21:28
  Everybody should know how to cook and clean.
• 1:21:31
  And if you don't, it's YouTube. YouTube teach everything.
• 1:21:37
  OK. Don't you?
• 1:21:40
  I think. I think.
• 1:21:40
  We can switch topics and then later on you guys will watch
• 1:21:43
  this or hear back or remember and sleep on this and then I'll
• 1:21:46
  get a bunch of text messages up. Hey, can you cut that out?
• 1:21:49
  And it's OK. We cut things out all the time.
• 1:21:52
  It's OK. I have no shame on my game.
• 1:21:55
  And so I'm going to, I'm going to ask a different question
• 1:22:00
  instead. So it's like, is it petty to
• 1:22:02
  block and delete at the end of something?
• 1:22:05
  Yes, hell. Yeah.
• 1:22:06
  Yeah, yeah, it's petty. Look.
• 1:22:08
  Look who am I? Blocked me, I said.
• 1:22:09
  Damn. Buddy has access to me after.
• 1:22:12
  Listen, listen. I'm.
• 1:22:13
  Messed up. I'm not gonna.
• 1:22:14
  I'm also. You and I, You and I.
• 1:22:17
  Hey, hey, hold on, Hold on. Hey, you had access.
• 1:22:22
  You ain't getting it again. Yeah.
• 1:22:24
  No, I don't block nobody. You guys, I.
• 1:22:26
  Block. Everyone, this is what this is
• 1:22:28
  what I think that's what I think.
• 1:22:30
  That's what I think that's the right thing.
• 1:22:31
  Yeah. How are you going to get so
• 1:22:34
  like, I mean, and maybe it's just from a like a point of I
• 1:22:37
  guess respect or whatever, but like why?
• 1:22:39
  And I've done this before. I block people, I've done things
• 1:22:42
  like that, but at the same time, like, why even get that upset as
• 1:22:45
  somebody else to block them and and just totally like especially
• 1:22:49
  if that was somebody who at one point you guys had an actual
• 1:22:52
  relationship or something like that.
• 1:22:57
  Not that anyway. I'm.
• 1:23:05
  Still telling you guys some pretty feet I'd like to meet,
• 1:23:07
  you know? What I'm saying I can't say, but
• 1:23:16
  if you guys have like a real lasting type of relationship
• 1:23:19
  type of thing, yeah, what? How you just going to block
• 1:23:22
  them? Like y'all have way too many
• 1:23:23
  good encounters. This is the one thing I have a
• 1:23:24
  pet peeve about about relationships thing will be good
• 1:23:27
  for however long. One year, five years, 10 years,
• 1:23:31
  someone bad tooth. But damn, this is I'm looking
• 1:23:36
  real bad on this episode myself too.
• 1:23:40
  But but what I'm trying to say is that no, I'm not going to
• 1:23:44
  like one. All my friends are amazing and
• 1:23:48
  whimsical and beautiful and like I surround myself with really
• 1:23:52
  amazing people and you'd be stupid to not be interested.
• 1:23:57
  Because I've heard beautiful like 5 times.
• 1:24:00
  Hold on. Go go through my shit, go
• 1:24:01
  through my shit. You'll see them but and you'll
• 1:24:04
  find amazing things. I mean really, it's that sound
• 1:24:06
  again. But will they all be open to it?
• 1:24:10
  Probably not. But hey, you know who's talking
• 1:24:14
  to? I don't even know.
• 1:24:16
  I don't need them all to be open soon, just one.
• 1:24:19
  I'm not looking for all of them. No, what I'm trying to say is
• 1:24:24
  like, to your point, I'm not going to be like, go and block
• 1:24:28
  this person. Go and do this thing.
• 1:24:30
  Go and do that. Because one thing for me is
• 1:24:33
  like, and this is true for me is like, I think that if I'm in a
• 1:24:37
  relationship or as this is a goal for me at least, is that I
• 1:24:42
  want to experience this person at their point.
• 1:24:45
  And I want them to experience me at my point and want them to
• 1:24:48
  continue to meet me as I continue to grow throughout the
• 1:24:51
  rest. Because I'm going to continue to
• 1:24:53
  change and I'm going to continue to grow.
• 1:24:55
  And I hope that you do. And I hope that you continue to
• 1:24:58
  change and continue to grow because I'm going to and, and
• 1:25:06
  also like, you should be chasing all your shit.
• 1:25:10
  Chase all your shit separately. I'm going to chase my shit
• 1:25:12
  separately. And I hope that that's coincide
• 1:25:15
  somehow. And if it doesn't, then Oh well.
• 1:25:19
  I wish you the best. Yeah, I'm not going to wish you
• 1:25:22
  anything bad. Yeah, I wish you the best so you
• 1:25:25
  can, so you can receive the best.
• 1:25:27
  I'm serious. You ready?
• 1:25:30
  You. Know what that sounds?
• 1:25:32
  The conspiracy. Yeah, I do.
• 1:25:33
  I do know what that sounds. It's your favorite part.
• 1:25:36
  My favorite part too. It's.
• 1:25:37
  Your favorite? I don't know.
• 1:25:40
  I don't know if you can call it my favorite part, but why?
• 1:25:43
  We're going to get into it. What we're getting into.
• 1:25:47
  I don't know what we're going to get into, but we're going to get
• 1:25:48
  into it. Actually, I do, but we just
• 1:25:52
  wrote it down. What?
• 1:25:53
  We're getting into. Let's see.
• 1:25:55
  Let's see. Excited for.
• 1:25:56
  This. What's the conspiracy today?
• 1:26:00
  Do you think that they were really shipping kids in those
• 1:26:02
  Wayfair furnitures? Oh, I seen this.
• 1:26:05
  What happened? I did see this.
• 1:26:07
  I didn't see that. I didn't.
• 1:26:08
  Hell yeah. You know why?
• 1:26:11
  You know why? Because they put it out and to
• 1:26:12
  make you like, Oh my God, this ain't real, This ain't real.
• 1:26:15
  They put it right in your face. I don't.
• 1:26:16
  Lie when this because everything was going around, I seen
• 1:26:18
  something it was like, oh, this this like this cabinetry was
• 1:26:22
  like $599, but it was the same cabinetry still in Wayfair for
• 1:26:27
  like 10,000. And I'm like, why is this same
• 1:26:30
  cabinetry, same skew, a different price?
• 1:26:33
  Did something come with that package?
• 1:26:35
  A kid. That's cool.
• 1:26:37
  I'll be going to war behind my baby if I ever.
• 1:26:42
  No, I don't know. I'm I'm playing.
• 1:26:46
  I got a kid so. You're right, you're right.
• 1:26:48
  So from your perspective, I'd. Be like, man, we got to, we got
• 1:26:51
  to crack down. From your perspective.
• 1:26:54
  But it's going on like this stuff is happening for real, so.
• 1:26:57
  You believe it's happening? I feel like even isn't Wichita
• 1:27:00
  like hub for sex trafficking? Yeah.
• 1:27:03
  Yeah, for sure. It's going on.
• 1:27:05
  I feel like it's in front of our face, but people just don't
• 1:27:07
  believe it or choose to believe it.
• 1:27:09
  There's a lot of shit going on in front of our face.
• 1:27:11
  And like, people don't really open their eyes.
• 1:27:13
  And they think people who say conspiracies are crazy, but it's
• 1:27:16
  like, how much research does the average person do on anything
• 1:27:20
  going on? You know, they're just watching
• 1:27:22
  the news. They're watching their phone,
• 1:27:24
  social media. And there's stuff going around
• 1:27:27
  here in Wichita too, like if you actually just dove deep into a
• 1:27:31
  private, investigated into it, like you'd actually probably
• 1:27:33
  find something out. Yeah.
• 1:27:35
  It's kind of scary. There's people who are way too
• 1:27:38
  much money, way too much control.
• 1:27:40
  That's just the country we live in because that's it's a
• 1:27:42
  capitalistic country. Oh yeah.
• 1:27:44
  Epstein files. What else?
• 1:27:45
  What else? You got a question, Dusty.
• 1:27:46
  What else do you want to know? The Epstein files is what you're
• 1:27:49
  talking. About.
• 1:27:50
  I don't know. No, we're, we're, we're, we're.
• 1:27:52
  You. Wanna Choo Choo Choo?
• 1:27:54
  Jews ain't the real juice. I did I.
• 1:27:58
  Did I did? I mean that is related to the
• 1:28:01
  Wayfair furniture thing because. So the Epstein files is kind of.
• 1:28:04
  Where else are those kids gonna go, this island?
• 1:28:07
  Yeah, you're right. They're out there doing some
• 1:28:10
  crazy things. Some kids are fucked up.
• 1:28:12
  I. Just thought of.
• 1:28:14
  That I just connect that dot for you you.
• 1:28:16
  Did you did cuz like fuck where? Are they going?
• 1:28:20
  I did see a study instead of a million kids go missing every
• 1:28:23
  year without like a report. Like the parents didn't even
• 1:28:25
  report. Them.
• 1:28:25
  They never find them. Why?
• 1:28:26
  Would the parents? It's that McDonald's.
• 1:28:29
  Though did they get paid? Do you think that they get paid?
• 1:28:31
  It's because they got taken. They got paid.
• 1:28:35
  I feel like if the kid got oh you mean the parent too.
• 1:28:38
  No, the kid. If the kid got taken, I feel
• 1:28:40
  like the parent would report them.
• 1:28:41
  Yeah, right. They paid them.
• 1:28:43
  It's a lot of, it's a lot of extortion.
• 1:28:45
  I got 5 million for you. Let me give me a little.
• 1:28:47
  Let me get a little Johnny. I need them right now.
• 1:28:51
  No, I'm serious. I got 5 million for little
• 1:28:54
  Johnny right now, Nick only two. That's crazy, that's crazy,
• 1:29:00
  that's crazy because that's really what's going.
• 1:29:02
  On like the. Thing is, like with kids, I
• 1:29:05
  mean, you don't only have two years with them, you have nine
• 1:29:08
  months to, and like, you have like made-up your, your mind
• 1:29:12
  about this and like, you've started to like feel all these
• 1:29:15
  things about them. You started to like, you know,
• 1:29:19
  like you have made all these wishes for them.
• 1:29:24
  Yeah. So I don't think so.
• 1:29:26
  I don't think that, like, I don't know.
• 1:29:28
  Hey, some presents broke some. That's true.
• 1:29:31
  I mean, people, people do do crazy things for money.
• 1:29:34
  That's true. I swear.
• 1:29:36
  There was like a documentary on Netflix.
• 1:29:38
  I forgot what it was. It was about the IT was about
• 1:29:40
  the Epstein stuff like that. It was.
• 1:29:43
  What's that? Does anybody know what I'm
• 1:29:44
  talking about? Damn, could you be like 2
• 1:29:47
  seconds? Geez, it was a no.
• 1:29:51
  It was like a a Netflix documentary about the the
• 1:29:54
  Epstein files and it was like a girl telling her story.
• 1:29:56
  I think she was like 14 to 16 years old.
• 1:29:58
  She was telling her story about how her parents from a different
• 1:30:02
  country these I think she's like French or something like that
• 1:30:04
  sold her too. But I don't know.
• 1:30:06
  This is on Netflix so I'm just listening to what I'm hearing,
• 1:30:10
  things like that. It's almost.
• 1:30:11
  Like that, that that dwarfism girl Natalie.
• 1:30:15
  Oh, I can't remember her name. It's like she she was sold.
• 1:30:20
  Well, she wasn't sold, but like, oh God, she.
• 1:30:23
  Was borrowed. No, shut up.
• 1:30:27
  Dwarfism. Natalie Slavery was going.
• 1:30:29
  Natalie Grace, this is going. On think of it, they were
• 1:30:33
  selling people. And it was they were selling ***
• 1:30:36
  and they were sorry, you know, like.
• 1:30:38
  So even now, yeah, you know, if you got something you want, you
• 1:30:41
  can buy it. Money is the root of all evil.
• 1:30:44
  It is if you have evil as much as you can do good with it you.
• 1:30:48
  Can do bad. I think nowadays you can pick
• 1:30:50
  your gender of your child if you do it like artificially, right?
• 1:30:53
  Yeah. You can pay for it.
• 1:30:54
  You can pay for it. Yeah.
• 1:30:55
  That's that's some crazy ass shit.
• 1:30:57
  I want a boy 10,000. That is crazy, you know what I'm
• 1:31:02
  saying? Like you can pick what you want
• 1:31:03
  nowadays. It's fucked up, yeah.
• 1:31:06
  Yeah, has anyone here heard of the Three Eye Atlas?
• 1:31:10
  Three eye out of this. Yes.
• 1:31:12
  What is that? That's now what is.
• 1:31:13
  Tell me what it is. So everybody thinks that it's
• 1:31:16
  like this big giant rock that's like heading towards us from
• 1:31:20
  another solar system, and it's not flying like another rock,
• 1:31:25
  it's flying like it's like a ship.
• 1:31:27
  Right. And some of the satellite
• 1:31:31
  telescope things took pictures of it and then they, like clear
• 1:31:36
  it up and it almost looks like it has like windows and lights.
• 1:31:40
  So do you think the aliens are coming?
• 1:31:44
  It's going to get pops. I got a hell cat.
• 1:31:47
  Look, the final very, very alien, I think.
• 1:31:49
  We're, I think we're aliens just as much as anything else out
• 1:31:52
  there. Because if you think about it,
• 1:31:53
  if you look at the solar system or what we've taught to, or what
• 1:31:56
  we have been taught to be the solar system, what, you know,
• 1:31:58
  people have shown us, there's all these different planets in
• 1:32:00
  our solar system and we're just one of another planet.
• 1:32:03
  So if people are like, oh, there's someone from another
• 1:32:05
  planet coming, it's like, yeah, we are calling a planet in space
• 1:32:09
  that's floating on a rock in space.
• 1:32:11
  We're aliens, too. Like, yeah, they don't call us
• 1:32:13
  humans. They think of us as another
• 1:32:15
  extraterrestrial. Yeah, but you know, we never
• 1:32:21
  went anywhere and they came here so.
• 1:32:23
  Apparently. We ain't never went nowhere.
• 1:32:26
  We ain't never been nowhere but. We went to the.
• 1:32:28
  Starbucks. Oh yeah.
• 1:32:30
  Yeah, yeah, sure. What?
• 1:32:31
  Is it? I mean, it kind of doesn't count
• 1:32:33
  though, does it? No, we didn't go.
• 1:32:35
  What if we did go? We didn't go.
• 1:32:37
  If we went to the moon, we still didn't see another form of life.
• 1:32:42
  Yeah. Or the other side.
• 1:32:43
  You may see right SO. I believe.
• 1:32:45
  OK, so I believe half and half, like from the pictures and
• 1:32:48
  everything, I'm like, man, there's no way they went to the
• 1:32:51
  moon right then and there. But at the same time, there's so
• 1:32:54
  much technology because I'm in tech and I understand that
• 1:32:57
  there's only so much that we know.
• 1:33:00
  There's only so much you know about this phone.
• 1:33:02
  Like there's somebody else who knows exactly how to use this to
• 1:33:06
  its full potential. There's somebody else who knows
• 1:33:08
  how to use everything to their full.
• 1:33:10
  Yeah, Grandma is a Grandma Black.
• 1:33:12
  I press, I do FaceTime. They don't know.
• 1:33:15
  Nothing. And we know our phones, but
• 1:33:17
  there's somebody else who knows that.
• 1:33:19
  But even in the broader scape of things like space and going to
• 1:33:23
  different planets or things like that, like.
• 1:33:25
  A lot of technology. They make a lot of this is a
• 1:33:27
  device I can carry in my pocket and contact any 1969.
• 1:33:31
  When did these come out? Somebody look it up.
• 1:33:32
  There's no way somebody look it up can't go to another.
• 1:33:36
  That's your. Age.
• 1:33:38
  One of these come out because 1969 I can tell you that's how.
• 1:33:42
  It's not going to that moon. Well, I mean they they say that
• 1:33:44
  we went to, we got. Flying cars yet?
• 1:33:46
  I mean, they said. I mean, you just don't have
• 1:33:49
  access to it. Yeah, and and they did say that
• 1:33:52
  like you're like, I'm fucking pissed off.
• 1:33:55
  Fuck you. Yeah.
• 1:33:57
  But but I mean, they say, yeah, they say that we went to the
• 1:34:02
  moon with the same like intelligence that's on the a
• 1:34:07
  simple calculator, which is kind of crazy, right?
• 1:34:10
  Like that. That's not true.
• 1:34:11
  Not. Such That's not true, because
• 1:34:14
  this is my iPhone. We all have iPhones.
• 1:34:16
  You can't tell me right now that the government doesn't have
• 1:34:19
  something more advanced than this.
• 1:34:21
  No, right, but like. The time if I had access to a
• 1:34:24
  calculator. Bro, no one had access to a
• 1:34:26
  rocket ship. What I'm talking about, no one
• 1:34:29
  had access to their arms beside the area where they wanted to
• 1:34:32
  go. What is it?
• 1:34:32
  Area 51? Yeah.
• 1:34:33
  What about area 51? What do you think about that?
• 1:34:35
  And and like. A distraction A.
• 1:34:38
  Distraction. A hoax.
• 1:34:39
  They doing way too much other I. Mean like, because at this time,
• 1:34:42
  like when we go to the moon, This is why the general public
• 1:34:45
  is so skeptical, because this is also when the microwave comes
• 1:34:48
  out. And so people believe that the.
• 1:34:51
  Yeah, I hold. On think of.
• 1:34:53
  It hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on the.
• 1:34:55
  Microwave came out the same year that we took a shuttle.
• 1:34:58
  No, no, no, no, no. No way.
• 1:35:02
  We just started heating up food and now we're going to the mood
• 1:35:05
  all of a sudden. Like no way, look.
• 1:35:07
  OK, look, no, what I am saying is that like that like it's it's
• 1:35:11
  like within the I think fuck, y'all are going to make me look
• 1:35:15
  stupid. But but like what I'm trying to
• 1:35:18
  say is like people become really skeptical because it's within, I
• 1:35:22
  don't know, maybe within the same decade or two, I don't
• 1:35:24
  know. But it's like people are just
• 1:35:27
  like, there's no fucking way that we learned how to microwave
• 1:35:33
  heat things. I see what you're.
• 1:35:35
  Saying fucking aliens behind that.
• 1:35:36
  Or like a or like a light bulb. Like who thought of like light
• 1:35:39
  dude? No, but.
• 1:35:41
  Light dude it. Was look him up.
• 1:35:43
  Green Lantern. There's anything in general,
• 1:35:47
  though, like that's like crazy like that.
• 1:35:48
  Like how even just the calculator in general, he's
• 1:35:50
  like, who made that? Yeah.
• 1:35:52
  How is that possible to me? Yeah.
• 1:35:53
  OK. But if you say that, then you're
• 1:35:55
  also going to be curious about. No, I got some in here.
• 1:35:58
  I got so also going to be curious about how this table was
• 1:36:00
  built. I got some.
• 1:36:01
  How are the pyramids built? How was the *** Was it aliens?
• 1:36:04
  Oh, because I was going to ask you, do you think that it's a
• 1:36:07
  power source for the universe? I do believe that.
• 1:36:11
  I believe that everything is vibrations.
• 1:36:13
  A lighthouse. I believe that what I believe
• 1:36:16
  that what what do you believe you over here talking about?
• 1:36:19
  You believe in some pyramid? So so, he said.
• 1:36:22
  So do you believe that the pyramids were built or like is
• 1:36:25
  it a power source? And I believe that the pyramids
• 1:36:28
  are a power source, so. What?
• 1:36:31
  Because I don't call me on this. Don't call me on this.
• 1:36:33
  Don't call me on this. For energy.
• 1:36:35
  Yeah, I think it's right. I think now listen, Now listen.
• 1:36:37
  All those things were built in a different way, exactly how we
• 1:36:39
  build buildings nowadays. The things flat.
• 1:36:41
  So now before then, everything was going back to the conspiracy
• 1:36:44
  theories of of going to space if we had some energy so strong
• 1:36:50
  enough to power all these things and to do all these things that
• 1:36:53
  we have now in years and years and years.
• 1:36:55
  So why do you not think that we don't have something that you're
• 1:36:58
  just clueless about or don't know about that can actually
• 1:37:01
  take us to the moon or have you could take us to a different?
• 1:37:04
  Talking about the hyperbolic time chamber, no.
• 1:37:07
  I don't know, lost? No, I get what you're talking
• 1:37:10
  about, though. I get, I get it because it's
• 1:37:12
  like people think that the people who built pyramids had
• 1:37:14
  some form of like, power, power, energy that we don't even know
• 1:37:18
  today because it's been a race. True.
• 1:37:20
  Which is true. Because that's what.
• 1:37:21
  They call it, they call it the lost race because like, so like
• 1:37:24
  I went to go see these pyramids in Egypt.
• 1:37:26
  Oh, you actually went? Yeah, I got yeah, I got to see
• 1:37:28
  them in February. And man, that shit was crazy
• 1:37:31
  because it's like you saw so one of them like you, you went
• 1:37:36
  inside and it was the island. And I can't even remember the
• 1:37:40
  name of the island right now. But like the statues of this
• 1:37:44
  pharaoh, they followed the sun and how it was like made or no,
• 1:37:51
  they followed the sun and how the how the light came in
• 1:37:53
  through right. Through the pyramid.
• 1:37:56
  Through, through into the temple because they, they followed the
• 1:37:59
  rays of the sun. And so you went in and it was a
• 1:38:02
  bunch of like statues of the Sparrow.
• 1:38:04
  And then all the way at the end, because there was a bunch of
• 1:38:08
  things, there were 4 statues. And on his birthday, which was
• 1:38:14
  on that, you know, like February, whatever and whatever
• 1:38:18
  date, the sun would come and light up his statue only and
• 1:38:24
  nobody else's. And like, it's like they did.
• 1:38:28
  And, and like we're talking about an ancient civilization
• 1:38:31
  that didn't have any of this access to knowledge.
• 1:38:35
  Like how the fuck I? Think also like what you're
• 1:38:38
  saying, like do that. That's what we think too like.
• 1:38:40
  That's the term. I forget the term of it.
• 1:38:42
  It's something in the Bible though, and it does relate to
• 1:38:46
  religion and things like that because at this time, like when
• 1:38:51
  Noah, so Noah's ark, so everybody's like, oh, why was
• 1:38:55
  this funny? Like blah, blah, blah.
• 1:38:56
  Like Noah's ark happened because he had this item that was so
• 1:39:00
  valuable to the, to the earth, you know, and it was the source
• 1:39:04
  of power. Everybody wanted to take it and
• 1:39:07
  all he can take was the source of power and everything else
• 1:39:10
  that was available to keep life going.
• 1:39:13
  So he took it with him and they got out of Egypt.
• 1:39:16
  So it started in Egypt. So think of that in the Bible
• 1:39:20
  when you open up the Bible, Bible in the book of Genesis,
• 1:39:23
  they start in Egypt and they got taken away from mind you, this
• 1:39:26
  is another thing it says in the very beginning of the Bible too.
• 1:39:28
  Egypt is not just a place of like pyramids or things that you
• 1:39:31
  might think that we've been taught of today.
• 1:39:33
  Egypt is just like in the Bible. It's like, well, for what I, for
• 1:39:36
  what I've read for whatever it is, like a place of like, like
• 1:39:40
  served like a place of slavery, damn it.
• 1:39:42
  Like almost like, yeah, any place of Egypt, almost.
• 1:39:45
  In the Bible, as God describes, he tells you he's, you know,
• 1:39:48
  your father, he rescued who rescued you from the land of
• 1:39:50
  Egypt. He's not talking about like the
• 1:39:52
  physical place we think of today as like, you know, pyramid
• 1:39:55
  statues and things like that. But he's just talking about any
• 1:39:58
  land of like slavery and voluntary servitude that he
• 1:40:02
  rescued you from. Because if you read the Bible,
• 1:40:04
  it's just over and over and over again, Israelites, you know?
• 1:40:07
  You know, following by God's law and then being blessed by him
• 1:40:10
  and then obviously like kind of falling, falling away from him
• 1:40:14
  and then, yeah, and then being cursed by him as.
• 1:40:16
  Living God is the is the God of War, I'll tell you that.
• 1:40:20
  Well, I mean, like what I was going to say about that.
• 1:40:24
  Like we have then the pyramids that were also getting built in
• 1:40:29
  Mexico that are super far away from each other.
• 1:40:32
  Egypt and Mexico are really far away from each other physically,
• 1:40:36
  physically because like, but at the same time they're getting
• 1:40:40
  built. Yeah.
• 1:40:42
  So that's kind. Of like what the fuck?
• 1:40:45
  How? Like, I don't think it was
• 1:40:48
  aliens, though. I still think it was.
• 1:40:49
  I think it was people who are more connected with the Earth.
• 1:40:51
  Think about this though. Think about this.
• 1:40:53
  We've been raised with a iPhone. We've been raised all these
• 1:40:56
  things. If you literally go into there's
• 1:40:57
  people who go and travel and they're independent, you know,
• 1:41:01
  independent journalists and they go visit Indian indigenous
• 1:41:04
  tribes in the middle of nowhere, people who have never met humans
• 1:41:08
  and they've never had access to a phone or anything like that.
• 1:41:11
  They still hunt for their food. They know exactly where to go
• 1:41:13
  for the food. They know exactly where to go
• 1:41:15
  for the water and everything like that.
• 1:41:17
  It's like these people are spiritually connected with the
• 1:41:19
  earth. So they know, I mean, they know
• 1:41:22
  a little bit more than we do about how how the world works.
• 1:41:25
  I feel like, you know, we've been kind of.
• 1:41:27
  And then it this all goes back to that one reel.
• 1:41:31
  It's like, well, home girl just left knowing a little bit more
• 1:41:33
  about you should never trust the government and how was it?
• 1:41:37
  What are you? Doing.
• 1:41:40
  Who? Owns all the banks.
• 1:41:41
  And all the banks and. She got something out of me.
• 1:41:45
  The Rockefeller. Sixsomes didn't say that.
• 1:41:47
  Sixsomes properties. Oh my God, did you want to add
• 1:41:53
  anything else to this topic? What do you think about all
• 1:41:56
  those statements, Dusty? Which about the Israelites?
• 1:42:00
  No, no, no, not that about about about pyramids, how pyramids
• 1:42:04
  were built. You think it was like some form
• 1:42:07
  of, you know, aliens? Or was it?
• 1:42:09
  Oh. Watching human beings watching.
• 1:42:10
  The Bible and tells you in the Bible tells you what I'm talking
• 1:42:13
  about tells you people it's a lot stronger than what we are
• 1:42:17
  now. Yeah.
• 1:42:18
  For we let him answer the question.
• 1:42:19
  It could have been like, you know, like some nephilims giants
• 1:42:24
  or like, you know, a superior. Like a superior race doesn't
• 1:42:28
  necessarily have to be aliens cuz there's also like, you know,
• 1:42:32
  tale of like a race beneath the waters.
• 1:42:35
  I was gonna bring that up. Yeah, it's a.
• 1:42:37
  Race beneath the crust of the earth.
• 1:42:39
  I think, yeah. Could be a lot of different
• 1:42:42
  things that's. What they they?
• 1:42:45
  Talk about the lost civilization.
• 1:42:47
  Yeah, yeah. This is not what you're talking
• 1:42:50
  about I. Can tell you.
• 1:42:51
  Yeah, that's definitely. A lot of stuff, yeah, we don't
• 1:42:54
  know. And I think that's been Dusty's
• 1:42:57
  conspiracy corner. I like that.
• 1:43:04
  OK. So as we kind of go into this a
• 1:43:07
  little bit more and start to wrap up, I think like we want to
• 1:43:11
  go into like the legacy of 6 Ms. and maybe what's next?
• 1:43:16
  So like what does 6 EMS look like in 10 years?
• 1:43:21
  In 10 years, we would have about 10 neighborhoods, you know what
• 1:43:25
  I'm saying? We're trying to have a lot of
• 1:43:27
  more rentals, do more things for the community, you know what I'm
• 1:43:31
  saying? Like I said, like Trey says,
• 1:43:32
  it's always it's about us at the end of the day.
• 1:43:34
  But also we have to think about other people, you know what I'm
• 1:43:37
  saying? Like we give back as much as we
• 1:43:38
  can. We do a lot of things, you know,
• 1:43:41
  as far as community based, you know what I'm saying, giving
• 1:43:44
  back, you know, so it's not it's about us at the end of the day,
• 1:43:46
  but also it's about what can we do for the community.
• 1:43:49
  And so I feel like that's also we had like to, you know, have
• 1:43:53
  no neighborhoods and do do good. But you know, I was like to give
• 1:43:56
  back. So I'll let them get back on
• 1:43:58
  that. Yeah, I would say in 10 years
• 1:44:00
  just, I don't know, leaving a legacy where people want to
• 1:44:03
  follow it. You know, like when I talked to
• 1:44:06
  you before we even came on the podcast, I talked about wanting
• 1:44:08
  to do something bigger than just six M's, like something for
• 1:44:12
  whatever hustle you have. It doesn't matter if you're, you
• 1:44:15
  know, wholesaler, if you flip houses or even if you're in
• 1:44:17
  something else like social media based, you know, getting into
• 1:44:20
  content, doing a podcast. I just want to make it a light
• 1:44:24
  to to people who want to try their own thing and not follow
• 1:44:27
  the typical 9 to 5 rat race, things like that.
• 1:44:31
  And nothing wrong with their like I, I mean, I love the job
• 1:44:34
  that I was at. I just honestly, I love my
• 1:44:36
  friends more and I believe in what we got going on.
• 1:44:39
  No 100% that's not sweet. No 100% and cut.
• 1:44:41
  Off bro. No, yeah, you cut off.
• 1:44:45
  No, yeah, you cut off. And but no, that's just kind of
• 1:44:49
  how I feel. I feel like success in like you
• 1:44:52
  were talking about before we met, like success isn't always
• 1:44:54
  determined about, you know, you're tired or things like
• 1:44:56
  that. I'm most happy when I'm around
• 1:44:58
  the people that want me to be around.
• 1:45:01
  And so that's just kind of what I continue to do.
• 1:45:03
  So I think in 10 years, I want to leave that kind of impression
• 1:45:06
  on people, like be around the people who want you to be
• 1:45:08
  around. Believe in what you got going
• 1:45:10
  on. Don't let everybody tell you
• 1:45:12
  what you can and can't do. And yeah, stay down.
• 1:45:17
  Yeah, yeah, yeah, for sure. I mean, that's me.
• 1:45:21
  Go ahead, Jeremy. I guess 10 years from from now
• 1:45:24
  for six M's, the legs going. To be 9 years old and 10 years.
• 1:45:26
  Yeah, I got a daughter, so she'll be 9 years old and 10
• 1:45:30
  years. But just like you said, leaving
• 1:45:32
  a legacy for everybody else and just showing what it was all
• 1:45:34
  for. Like, I mean, of course we're
• 1:45:36
  going to build something for ourselves, but I want to put the
• 1:45:39
  people around me in a position to understand what they're doing
• 1:45:42
  because a lot of this stuff is just not taught to people.
• 1:45:46
  And like my stereotype, you're gonna learn it.
• 1:45:49
  So like, I didn't grow up with somebody teaching me real
• 1:45:52
  estate. I didn't grow up with somebody
• 1:45:54
  telling me, hey, get up and invest your mind.
• 1:45:56
  Go be consistent and have a routine and invest your money.
• 1:45:59
  Like, I grew up in a cycle of a generational curse, what people
• 1:46:03
  would call it. So it's like, for me, it's like
• 1:46:05
  I want to show people 10 years from now how to do exactly what
• 1:46:09
  I did, like break that generational curse and make it
• 1:46:13
  something for the people after you or even the people around
• 1:46:16
  you. Because I know I do a lot for
• 1:46:18
  myself and for my friends, but I do a lot for other people
• 1:46:21
  because I want people to actually be in a better position
• 1:46:24
  just as much as I want it for myself, you know?
• 1:46:26
  So 10 years from now, just continuously giving that stuff
• 1:46:30
  out to people in like seeing the fruition of it basically, you
• 1:46:34
  know? Yeah, yeah.
• 1:46:36
  I think we're going to start to lean into lightning ground,
• 1:46:39
  right And it. This is where we ask you guys
• 1:46:48
  some quick fire questions and then I want you to guys to
• 1:46:52
  answer things that just like off the cuff what comes to you.
• 1:46:57
  So Dusty's going to go first. Which one of you is most likely
• 1:47:05
  to accidentally get in trouble in the group?
• 1:47:11
  You've seen it all podcasts. You've seen it all podcasts
• 1:47:14
  accidentally. Pretty sure it doesn't matter
• 1:47:17
  what trouble any trouble accidentally.
• 1:47:24
  OK, who is that? I told you so, friend in the
• 1:47:27
  group. Cam, it's also Cam.
• 1:47:30
  After every statement, if he got a point, he's going to say
• 1:47:33
  exactly. Yeah.
• 1:47:34
  Exactly. What I tell you I'm.
• 1:47:37
  Just kidding. You're good, *** That you're
• 1:47:39
  good, *** That how stupid. OK.
• 1:47:47
  I thought you were going to go next.
• 1:47:48
  OK. What impact do you want to leave
• 1:47:50
  on Wichita? Everybody has a bad Rep about
• 1:47:55
  Wichita, I feel like. I think that Kansas is just a
• 1:47:58
  state where it's just like farms and chickens and cows and
• 1:48:01
  Wichita's nice. I mean, it's not a whole bunch
• 1:48:03
  to do, but there's enough. To do because I have a Wichita
• 1:48:06
  about Canada. I think in Yellow Bear Rd.
• 1:48:09
  I didn't see one of them and never.
• 1:48:11
  Yeah, Yeah, that's true. Sean missed a lot of opportunity
• 1:48:14
  in Wichita. Stay down till you come up.
• 1:48:16
  That's what Wichita's doing right now.
• 1:48:17
  They stand down till they come up because they're going to come
• 1:48:19
  up real soon. Yeah, for real.
• 1:48:22
  What's next? Question.
• 1:48:27
  What impact do you want to leave on which time?
• 1:48:30
  Oh, did you? No.
• 1:48:32
  You didn't. Yes you did.
• 1:48:33
  I just answered. 1. The dad.
• 1:48:37
  Why did you highlight it again? What's the next one that's in
• 1:48:40
  there? He said The.
• 1:48:43
  Same. No.
• 1:48:44
  Who takes the longest to get ready before going out?
• 1:48:47
  Oof, we don't. Really go out so.
• 1:48:51
  It just takes the longest that you're ready in general.
• 1:48:52
  We see who was here last, who got here last.
• 1:48:54
  I have to tell you the answer. I'm not in no rush.
• 1:48:57
  I'm gonna get there. I got a baby to get home
• 1:48:58
  afterwards, you feel me? So I ain't rushed.
• 1:49:01
  Before we had the baby, it was late too.
• 1:49:07
  I don't. Have a baby I'm late all the
• 1:49:09
  time so I can't ain't no excuse Andy don't got nothing to do
• 1:49:11
  with it that's. Terrible.
• 1:49:13
  I'm. Gonna take my time I.
• 1:49:16
  Don't really care. Yeah, I don't.
• 1:49:17
  Care. You don't care about my time.
• 1:49:19
  Nope I do but I'm like I care about my time.
• 1:49:23
  That's fair. I care about if I'm stressed or
• 1:49:25
  not. I get that, I get that I get.
• 1:49:28
  That one step at a time. No, I hear that.
• 1:49:30
  I hear that I'm not the same way and that's why Dusty loves
• 1:49:33
  working with me. Yeah.
• 1:49:38
  OK, we asked this at the last person, but we asked it from a
• 1:49:41
  female perspective, so I'm going to kind of switch it up a little
• 1:49:44
  bit. Who is a male person or figure
• 1:49:47
  or whoever is in your life who you look up to when it comes to
• 1:49:52
  leadership and authenticity? Go ahead or you want to start.
• 1:49:59
  I look up to myself, OK, I can't lie.
• 1:50:02
  I don't have no big homie. No, nobody asked her really.
• 1:50:05
  Like put me in position to do to do good as far as like my
• 1:50:10
  friends, you know what I'm saying?
• 1:50:11
  So I guess I gotta look up to myself and them, you know?
• 1:50:14
  That's. Real, you know that is real.
• 1:50:17
  I would say you said like male figure, it doesn't matter any
• 1:50:21
  figure it. Doesn't matter it.
• 1:50:22
  Could be any figure. Yeah, it could be.
• 1:50:24
  Then. I would say my parents probably
• 1:50:28
  yeah, just cuz I don't know like growing up they didn't really
• 1:50:31
  have like always the best relation.
• 1:50:33
  They're kind of would get in arguments a lot, but they show
• 1:50:35
  me kind of what it's like to, I don't know, stick to what you
• 1:50:40
  what you have going on, you know, and they knew what they
• 1:50:42
  wanted. They wanted a family and they
• 1:50:44
  wanted to stay together. Like I have half siblings.
• 1:50:46
  My sister is not, she doesn't have the same dad that I have
• 1:50:49
  and my brother has, doesn't have the same mom that I have.
• 1:50:53
  But they just taught us the importance of it doesn't really
• 1:50:55
  matter the title. It just matters like how they
• 1:50:58
  treat you. And so, like, for my sister, I
• 1:51:00
  could tell you that she would tell you that that my dad is her
• 1:51:03
  dad, even though it's not necessarily her dad.
• 1:51:05
  So I don't know. They showed me, I feel like the
• 1:51:08
  best example of what it's like to just keep going even through
• 1:51:10
  hard times, struggle, stick together, stuff like that.
• 1:51:14
  So yeah. Yeah.
• 1:51:16
  So I don't know. Shit, like you said, I look up
• 1:51:22
  to my friends and you know, just I look up to my peers, like I
• 1:51:27
  always tell all my friends and like just random people, you
• 1:51:31
  know, like there's not a lot of people I would let lead me
• 1:51:33
  astray. And so like when I put my trust
• 1:51:36
  into you, I put my trust into him or I put my trust into like
• 1:51:39
  my stepdad or my dad or my mom, you know, like that's what I
• 1:51:43
  call looking up to somebody or even my Big Brother.
• 1:51:46
  I have a Big Brother who like, we were just talking about it
• 1:51:49
  the other day. Like he was explaining to
• 1:51:52
  somebody like, if you want away, like just follow what I'm doing.
• 1:51:55
  And he said I'm doing the same thing like Jamal's doing.
• 1:51:57
  Like I just took a blueprint he had and I'm doing it and I took
• 1:52:01
  a blueprint he had because like the job I work at is the job he
• 1:52:05
  works at and I just ran with it, you know?
• 1:52:07
  So it's kind of like just those people around you who like
• 1:52:11
  actually authentically want something good for you.
• 1:52:14
  You know. Like, and who could lead you
• 1:52:16
  astray and you could say put me in the car and I know I'm fine
• 1:52:20
  with wherever we end up because either it's going to be a good
• 1:52:23
  location for me to be at, a room for me to be in or surrounded by
• 1:52:28
  other people. I want to be alike like minded
• 1:52:30
  people. So, so pretty much that like,
• 1:52:33
  yeah, that's what I look up to. Just what do you look up to?
• 1:52:38
  Who do I? Who do I?
• 1:52:40
  Who do you look up to, Desty? She looked at you.
• 1:52:43
  I've never. No, it's because I never get
• 1:52:46
  asked this. Yeah, we we never get turned
• 1:52:49
  around. We haven't asked many questions,
• 1:52:51
  so I think you see now. Time to turn the.
• 1:52:52
  Table is a little bit. I think maybe right now because
• 1:52:56
  I'm also like feeling it. So a lot of our listeners, you
• 1:53:01
  guys, I know my our listeners know I lost my mom.
• 1:53:05
  She's a really big piece for me. And I also recently lost my
• 1:53:10
  grandma, my mom's mom, and she was 99 when she.
• 1:53:13
  Passed. Yeah, Yeah.
• 1:53:16
  She lived a really long life. She also, I mean, I don't want
• 1:53:20
  to say it's just, you know, I have been blessed with both
• 1:53:23
  really amazing male figures in my life.
• 1:53:25
  I love my dad and I love my mom too, and I love my grandma.
• 1:53:29
  But there is something that I I learned a lot of patience from
• 1:53:34
  both of them. And then for my grandma, like
• 1:53:37
  she was just like, she when I was doing things that were so
• 1:53:43
  different from everybody in my family and also from her who is
• 1:53:48
  at a very different time, just very different time.
• 1:53:53
  She never once was like, you shouldn't be doing that.
• 1:53:58
  You shouldn't be doing this. And while everybody else was
• 1:54:00
  telling me what I should and shouldn't be doing, and she was
• 1:54:04
  just like, you know, if this makes sense to you, you should
• 1:54:08
  do it. And no one else has had the
• 1:54:10
  opportunities that you have had, right?
• 1:54:12
  So you should do that. And I don't know, it's just
• 1:54:14
  something to me, it's like, I really hope to be able to be as
• 1:54:19
  patient, as loving, as giving, as forgiving.
• 1:54:24
  That's a hard one. Yeah, for sure.
• 1:54:27
  Forgiving is a hard 1 be. Forgiven so you can get your bus
• 1:54:30
  and won't be blocked. Yeah.
• 1:54:32
  I mean, yeah, I mean it. Those are all easy things to
• 1:54:34
  say. I mean even it's hard though,
• 1:54:36
  depending on what? Especially on what they did,
• 1:54:39
  yeah. All of this is easy to say, but
• 1:54:41
  in action, it's so different. Like she really lived a life
• 1:54:45
  where she went through so much hardship and she was just like,
• 1:54:50
  you know, but we should never judge them and we should always
• 1:54:53
  love them. And when and like when a, when a
• 1:54:55
  Latino tells you primero dios, ojala dios or like sidios quiere
• 1:55:03
  sidios, whatever. Like they're not just saying
• 1:55:06
  this shit. Like they really mean it.
• 1:55:09
  Like, and that just means like first God.
• 1:55:13
  And I'm not saying I'm super religious.
• 1:55:14
  I'm probably more spiritual than religious, but when they say I I
• 1:55:19
  feel the love, it's different. It's different from Spanish than
• 1:55:24
  in English. So I don't know.
• 1:55:25
  What about you, Dusty? Yeah, Dusty are.
• 1:55:28
  You looking up to? Coming out here with all these
• 1:55:33
  deep ass questions. It was deep.
• 1:55:35
  It got deep for a second. For a. 2nd.
• 1:55:39
  Hard strings are getting pulled. They never.
• 1:55:42
  Asked us. I mean, yeah, it's kind of off
• 1:55:45
  the top of my head, I guess yeah, I look up to my mom a lot.
• 1:55:49
  She epitomizes the 2 words of hard work, especially in
• 1:55:58
  immigrating here from another country back in the 70s and get
• 1:56:05
  to get to where we are today to build her family out.
• 1:56:08
  And you know, it's yeah. I'll look up to her a lot.
• 1:56:13
  Thank. You, but yeah, for sure man.
• 1:56:16
  That's somebody you look up to moms for sure.
• 1:56:18
  Can't even put in the words almost.
• 1:56:20
  You know moms are important. Yeah.
• 1:56:22
  Moms are. They're the ones that got us
• 1:56:23
  here. Shit, literally.
• 1:56:25
  Oh man, we had a dumb question in this.
• 1:56:29
  We went from really deep to a really dumb question.
• 1:56:33
  Do you put the toilet seat down for your significant others?
• 1:56:36
  Toilet seat, yeah, all the way down.
• 1:56:37
  Significant other. I don't have a significant other
• 1:56:39
  unfortunately, but I wouldn't. Go.
• 1:56:41
  I wouldn't have to pee. I wouldn't go.
• 1:56:44
  Outside a. Pee.
• 1:56:47
  I put the toilet seat down. I hear her.
• 1:56:49
  Yeah, for sure. You got to put it.
• 1:56:51
  Down because. If you don't.
• 1:56:52
  On that, no, I think we are wrapped up maybe.
• 1:56:55
  It's crying, switching hour. It's.
• 1:56:58
  Switching. Hour So we've now heard, we've
• 1:57:00
  now heard a little bit about both your stories, your passions
• 1:57:03
  and your interests. Tell us and our listeners how
• 1:57:06
  everyone can find you and support you.
• 1:57:08
  You can find me on Instagram at Should've invested in Cam
• 1:57:11
  because that's really what I'll be on mostly is Instagram and we
• 1:57:14
  don't have a page for our real estate yet but we will soon.
• 1:57:17
  So it'd probably be 6 in real estate.
• 1:57:19
  Yeah, I would say on TikTok 6 M's properties and then
• 1:57:23
  Instagram Trey read, but the E and Trey is a three so TR 3YR
• 1:57:28
  Eid and then I don't know Snapchat, I guess I'm on often
• 1:57:32
  is like Trey read 20. That's about it.
• 1:57:34
  I gave a Snapchat out. That's something different, he
• 1:57:37
  went on. The Adam.
• 1:57:39
  They're single, remember? Yeah, single.
• 1:57:42
  Their cognitive thing was was done.
• 1:57:44
  I mean, I still wouldn't, but you if you want to.
• 1:57:48
  You can find me on Instagram too at the official J, but it's TH
• 1:57:53
  AA, not TH so official J. Should you'll find me no
• 1:57:58
  problem, you should. None.