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if it’s all falling apart…congratulations! · Beauty In Positivity

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  SPEAKER_00: Hello and welcome back to the Beauty and Positivity Podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: My name is Alyssa Skinner.
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  SPEAKER_00: I created my dream life with all of the practices and mindset shifts that I share here on the podcast as well as all of the deeper inner work I share in my babe academies.
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  SPEAKER_00: As you know, my enlightened babe academy is the deep work.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's everything I used to walk out of a as a different identity in just months, not years.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's all of the practices I had finally learned how to implement after years of trying to manifest my dream life, dream income.
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  SPEAKER_00: So my enlightened babe is the shortcut to those nine years I spent doing work.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's the shortcut that I offer you to get to the finish line a lot quicker than I did.
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  SPEAKER_00: But my newest academy, I'm very excited for.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is my daily ritual babe academy.
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  SPEAKER_00: I've seen so many of you enroll already.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's a very introductory academy.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's the 10 rituals and practices that I still use today to speed up my manifestations.
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  SPEAKER_00: So those of you that have enrolled, you'll have to keep me updated on what you manifest and how they're working for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you decide to enroll, let me know how your journey is going.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you have a whole month to purchase.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay, let's get into today's episode.
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  SPEAKER_00: In Mindline Babe Academy, I discuss one of many chapters.
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  SPEAKER_00: One of them I go over the 12 laws of the universe.
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  SPEAKER_00: I want to talk about one of those today.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's not the law of attraction, it's not the law of assumption, it's the law of polarity.
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  SPEAKER_00: Others call this the law of continuity, but in my Enlightened Babe Academy, I say polarity.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can use them intertwiningly, but I think you'll agree with me the law of polarity is much easier to understand and applicable to us actively manifesting.
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  SPEAKER_00: So this law will help you understand why everything tends to fall apart and turn to chaos when you finally decide to put effort into manifesting your dreams.
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  SPEAKER_00: When you finally decide, I'm gonna go for it, I'm gonna start, you know, being optimistic and thinking positive, today's gonna be a good day.
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  SPEAKER_00: You take control and you start getting all of these signs that it's not working, it's not for you, it's not meant to be, or you're on the wrong path.
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  SPEAKER_00: I want you to remember this law whenever you feel that.
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  SPEAKER_00: The law of polarity helps you understand that light and dark exist together.
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  SPEAKER_00: Love and fear exist, hot and cold exist.
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  SPEAKER_00: These things are not separate.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's like a coin.
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  SPEAKER_00: So think of a coin, you have heads and you have tails.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's still a quarter.
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  SPEAKER_00: The two sides are one of a whole.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it's two parts of a whole.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's important that you think everything in life is like a quarter.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hear me out.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's all one with multiple parts, it's the same energy with different expressions.
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  SPEAKER_00: So this is like you.
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  SPEAKER_00: One moment you're joyful, grateful, going after more good in life.
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  SPEAKER_00: The next moment you're angry, pessimistic, and reacting.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're still you, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: You've simply expressed another part of you.
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  SPEAKER_00: All emotions are still you, simply moving through a new expression of yourself.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's like a thermostat.
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  SPEAKER_00: It can be set to hot or cold, it's still a thermostat.
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  SPEAKER_00: Whether you turn on the AC or the heat, it's the same source.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay, now that you understand a little bit of the law of polarity in how everything has an equal opposite, meaning one side must exist for the other side to exist, such as yin and yang, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: There's no joyful moment without feeling sorrow.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because how would you know you're feeling joy?
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  SPEAKER_00: How would you know you're experiencing joy if you didn't experience the exact opposite of that?
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  SPEAKER_00: Experiencing the exact opposite of that has let you feel joy, the polarity of the two feelings.
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  SPEAKER_00: So there's no courageous heroes without them feeling fear.
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  SPEAKER_00: They wouldn't be courageous if they didn't feel fear.
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  SPEAKER_00: Courageous heroes do it in spite of fear.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's what makes them courageous.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, how does all of this apply to your dreams?
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm very big into personal development books, as you know, and there's a pattern, a very distinct pattern, amongst every successful person who has shared their story, which is they started with nothing.
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  SPEAKER_00: They all seem to have started with nothing.
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  SPEAKER_00: Why is this?
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  SPEAKER_00: My story's the same.
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  SPEAKER_00: I started with nothing.
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  SPEAKER_00: I've shared this story many times, and in that nothing, in the moment of rock bottom, having nothing, I kept affirming to myself, I will tell this story one day.
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  SPEAKER_00: I will tell this story one day.
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  SPEAKER_00: I am going to tell this story one day.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is the beginning of my success.
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  SPEAKER_00: I decided that having nothing was the path to my success.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, wow, this is my sign I'm on the right path.
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  SPEAKER_00: So they all started with nothing.
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  SPEAKER_00: Why is this?
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  SPEAKER_00: It's almost like a promise that if you've experienced some of the hardest times in life, gone through the hardest chapters, it is inevitable that you will experience your biggest dreams.
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  SPEAKER_00: The more sorrow, the more joy.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because of the law of polarity.
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  SPEAKER_00: Equal opposites.
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  SPEAKER_00: Key word equal.
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  SPEAKER_00: The more sorrow you've gone through in life, the more love and joy you're likely to experience at some point in the same life.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, this is only one of twelve laws.
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  SPEAKER_00: So when you start to go after your dreams and everything starts falling apart, now that you understand the law of polarity, why do you think this is?
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  SPEAKER_00: Why do you think everything goes to shit the second you start to think positive, be optimistic, take inspired action, believe you're worthy of it, believe you can go after it and achieve it?
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  SPEAKER_00: Why do you then start bumping into all these walls?
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  SPEAKER_00: Why do the obstacles start showing up?
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  SPEAKER_00: When you run into these problems, as you're going after your dream life, know that this is simply the law of polarity showing up, which means it's working.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is working if you experience this.
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  SPEAKER_00: It means the quarter has arrived.
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  SPEAKER_00: Just because you're experiencing tails and you want to be experiencing heads instead, does not mean heads is not present with you as you were on tails.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is working, otherwise, you wouldn't be experiencing the coin itself.
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  SPEAKER_00: The coin is the success.
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  SPEAKER_00: The coin is your dream.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now you've officially jumped on the coin, you're just on heads.
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  SPEAKER_00: So now that you're experiencing chaos, you decided to go after your dreams and believe it was possible, you are experiencing the first side of success.
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  SPEAKER_00: So do not stop when these things arise.
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  SPEAKER_00: Keep going because heads is inevitable at some point.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're already on the coin.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is law.
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  SPEAKER_00: You will experience the exact polar opposite of chaos.
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  SPEAKER_00: The problem is people take it as a sign that it's not for me.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm not meant to do this, my plan isn't working, manifestation doesn't work for me, it only works for other people, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: You cannot journal once and wake up to your dream life the next day.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can't meditate once and expect to wake up rich the next day.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's not likely.
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  SPEAKER_00: Doesn't mean it's impossible.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because, like I said, this is only one of the 12 laws.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's another law called the law of assumption.
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  SPEAKER_00: You get whatever you assume you're gonna get, quite literally.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if you have a strong enough belief that you can wake up a millionaire after a very deep meditation, you can wake up a millionaire.
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  SPEAKER_00: The problem is most of us don't assume that's gonna happen.
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  SPEAKER_00: We don't assume that's how it works, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: We all assume, well, there's rules to the game.
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  SPEAKER_00: We have to assume that we're gonna go through chaos and hardship.
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  SPEAKER_00: We assume we have to earn the success.
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  SPEAKER_00: We all think we have to earn it through blood, sweat, tears, and grinding.
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  SPEAKER_00: We all think we have to earn it by waking up at 5 a.m.
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  SPEAKER_00: doing a cold plunge, running 20 miles, and reading a David Goggins book.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: Look at those methods work for some.
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  SPEAKER_00: In fact, they work for plenty of people, but it only works because they assume that's how they will get to success by taking those actions.
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  SPEAKER_00: Not because those actions are the key to success, those actions are their beliefs.
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  SPEAKER_00: They believe if they take those actions, they will get to success.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you believe you have to wake up at 5 a.m.
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  SPEAKER_00: before the rest of the world and do hard things mentally to achieve financial freedom, then do those things.
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  SPEAKER_00: You will reach financial freedom because you assume you will by taking those actions.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's a belief.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you believe you have to do hard work to reach success, you will reach success through hard work, but you can change those beliefs.
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  SPEAKER_00: That is the work I talk about in the Enlightened Babe Academy.
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  SPEAKER_00: Rewiring your beliefs.
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  SPEAKER_00: I didn't want to work even harder than I was already working to achieve success.
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  SPEAKER_00: I wanted to believe that I could wake up at 8 a.m., 9 a.m., do a podcast in my pajamas, have a slow morning, work three days a week, four days a week, and be the richest I've ever been.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I had to rewire those beliefs, let go of the hard work equals success belief, and give my brain a new belief that I could rest and receive.
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  SPEAKER_00: I could sleep and make money.
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  SPEAKER_00: That is possible because that's exactly what I did, and that is what I teach.
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  SPEAKER_00: It takes a lot of effort and a lot of rewiring.
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  SPEAKER_00: So that is the neuroplasticity I talk about in the Inlight Babe Academy.
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  SPEAKER_00: So here is the thing: the universe says yes to whatever you say.
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  SPEAKER_00: You are the designer, you are the creator.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you say, well, can't just sit on your couch and become a millionaire, you have to actually take action, you have to work hard, you have to be consistent.
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  SPEAKER_00: The universe says, Yes, you do have to do that.
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  SPEAKER_00: You do have to grind, you do have to work at it for years and years for it to finally pay off.
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  SPEAKER_00: You do have to prove yourself worthy of living this life.
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  SPEAKER_00: You were right.
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  SPEAKER_00: You cannot sit on your couch and become a millionaire.
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  SPEAKER_00: The problem is we use our logical brain mixed with our intuition.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's like having the angel and devil on your shoulder.
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  SPEAKER_00: I do not think our ego is the devil whatsoever, but that analogy, have that imagery in your mind for a second.
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  SPEAKER_00: The angel on your on your shoulder is your soul telling you you can have whatever you desire.
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  SPEAKER_00: Ask, and it is always given.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then you have your ego, the devil on the other shoulder, your logical mind saying, one million dollars doesn't just fall out of the sky.
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  SPEAKER_00: You have to do something, you have to work hard, you have to earn it.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so these two are fighting, they're at a disagreement with how you will get to your dream life.
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  SPEAKER_00: And this is why people talk about the ego death killing your ego, which I have an episode on that, a podcast episode called The Dark Knight of the Soul.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can listen to this, and I will tell you exactly what my ego death felt like because it's not actually killing your ego.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your ego is a very important, valuable assistant to move through the world, not to lead you to your dream life.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you have to know when the ego is talking and when your intuition or your soul is talking.
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  SPEAKER_00: When to let your soul lead, when to let your ego lead.
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  SPEAKER_00: Another very important chapter in the Inlight Babe Academy.
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  SPEAKER_00: I teach you how to know who is talking, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: We've all said, I just have a gut feeling, and then you're wrong.
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  SPEAKER_00: It was not a gut feeling, it was your ego taking control, your logical mind.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I do teach you how to know the difference between the two and master that feeling so you know yourself more.
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  SPEAKER_00: So the law of polarity has simply been activated when you go after your dream life and things start getting hard or falling apart.
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  SPEAKER_00: You've heard me talk about the analogy cleaning out the garage to bring in the new car.
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  SPEAKER_00: Sometimes it can look like this.
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  SPEAKER_00: You tell the universe you want a dream partner, you want someone who puts you on the pedestal, who puts you up and sees all of your highest best qualities, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: They love you for exactly who you are.
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  SPEAKER_00: They want to grow with you and love you and do life with you.
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  SPEAKER_00: But you're currently with a partner who's unmotivated, who thinks you're doing woo-woo practices and it's so pointless, and you live in lala land, they're pessimistic, they don't want to go after dreams, they think only rich people get that stuff, and rich people are bad, and and so you journal and you meditate and you ask the universe for your dream partner.
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  SPEAKER_00: Suddenly your relationship gets worse, and you're fighting, you're arguing all the time, the relationship's no longer working.
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  SPEAKER_00: Why does this start right after you ask for your dream soulmate?
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  SPEAKER_00: In some cases, it is the universe pushing out the old because you don't have room in your life for your partner to come in, your dream partner that you just asked for.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's no room.
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  SPEAKER_00: That space is taken up by someone who's not aligned with you.
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  SPEAKER_00: You have to make room, and the universe will nudge you forward and to do something that you're not strong enough to do by yourself.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it will collapse your relationship and push you forward into exactly what you just asked for.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is not the case for everyone.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is just my example, and it is a common theme.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it's making room in your life to say yes to your request.
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  SPEAKER_00: This can be a relationship, this can be a job, this can be the house or apartment you live in.
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  SPEAKER_00: In fact, I'll share a personal story.
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  SPEAKER_00: I asked my manager at the time for a raise.
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  SPEAKER_00: I wanted a$2 raise.
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  SPEAKER_00: I got into my good energy, I was practicing my manifestation techniques, I was visualizing her saying yes, I got into the excitement and joy.
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  SPEAKER_00: I visualized leaving the meeting so full of joy and ecstatic because she said yes to my request, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: But then I went into the meeting and she said no.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I was like, wait, no, I manifested this.
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  SPEAKER_00: Why is this happening?
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  SPEAKER_00: Am I not a good manifester?
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  SPEAKER_00: Why did this not work?
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  SPEAKER_00: I did everything I was supposed to do.
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  SPEAKER_00: She's supposed to say yes.
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  SPEAKER_00: I left that meeting feeling defeated.
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  SPEAKER_00: I felt like I was a terrible manifester, and on top of that, now I feel undervalued at work.
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  SPEAKER_00: So here's the thing that meeting was the catalyst to the the yes to what I asked for, which was making more money.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I didn't know it in that moment.
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  SPEAKER_00: So here's the thing: you won't you won't know that these uncomfortable moments are happening because it's a yes to what you just asked for.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's gonna feel like a no.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's gonna feel like a door is shutting when really, in hindsight, you'll realize a door was opening.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's very hard in that moment because it feels like the door was slammed in your face.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like it feels like you were just told no to what you asked for the universe for, but in fact, it's always a yes.
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  SPEAKER_00: So trust that no because it is leading you to your yes.
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  SPEAKER_00: So looking back, that was the moment I started feeling undervalued.
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  SPEAKER_00: I started looking for another job, and I loved this job, and I loved the people I worked with, so I never thought I would do this.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I lived in San Diego.
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  SPEAKER_00: I wanted more money, I needed more money, so I started looking for other jobs, and I found one, and I got a raise at this new job.
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  SPEAKER_00: I even started doing work I wasn't previously doing at the other place.
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  SPEAKER_00: So now this is upping my resume and giving me more respected work.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I was making a little bit more, not the$2 more, but I did make a little more.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it was a start.
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  SPEAKER_00: And about a year into this job, my husband and I decided to move and I got another job, and this work prepared me even further.
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  SPEAKER_00: And now I'm doing work I didn't do at the last place.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I kept moving forward, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm climbing, but eventually I realized okay, this is not what I want.
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  SPEAKER_00: I've reached the top, I don't want this job anymore.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that was the moment where everything I have now started.
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  SPEAKER_00: I decided to quit my job and start my own business because I had nothing else to climb in the jobs that I was in, and I wanted to make more and I wanted to do more and have more freedom.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I started my business and I did not give up.
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  SPEAKER_00: I kept going for my original dream.
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  SPEAKER_00: I had now worked three jobs that still wouldn't pay me what I was asking for, and I didn't give up.
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  SPEAKER_00: That didn't mean I was a bad manifester.
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  SPEAKER_00: I kept with my manifestation practices, I kept believing and training my identity as someone who is valuable, who to have abundance, and to have anything I wanted.
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  SPEAKER_00: In my first year in business, I made more money than I had ever made, doing very respectable work in my previous jobs.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I had to experience being unhappy enough at these jobs to actually go after my career, to feel ready.
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  SPEAKER_00: If I was happy, if everything was great at work, I would have never left.
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  SPEAKER_00: I would have never grown, I would have never expanded.
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  SPEAKER_00: I was given the desire for more through unhappiness at work.
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  SPEAKER_00: So now I make more money than I've ever made, am the most at peace, I have the most regulated nervous system I've ever had, and I rest way more than I used to working a full-time job for someone else.
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  SPEAKER_00: The hard work that I do now is energy.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm not rushing around, waking up early, being someone else's right hand at their beck and call, fast-paced work environment, dysregulated nervous system.
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  SPEAKER_00: I simply put effort and love into every woman I see to make them feel beautiful out in the world so that on their journey, they feel the best possibly, they feel the best they possibly can that day.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, another law of the universe, the law of compensation.
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  SPEAKER_00: The law of compensation is an extension of cause and effect.
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  SPEAKER_00: Basically, the law of compensation states that you get whatever you put out.
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  SPEAKER_00: Other no, other ways known as karma.
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  SPEAKER_00: You get what you put out, and people tend to forget that this law exists.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um they don't believe in this law because let's say you smile at someone, you're feeling really good, and you just want to give them a nice big smile, you know, put some love into the world, and they look you up and down and turn around.
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  SPEAKER_00: They don't smile back at you, and you're just like, ew, what did I deserve to do that?
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, to get that, I was being nice.
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  SPEAKER_00: The law of compensation has nothing to do with them.
• 19:55
  SPEAKER_00: You gave your energy, you gave your kindness, your love.
• 19:58
  SPEAKER_00: Just because you didn't receive that transaction back immediately, they didn't reciprocate, doesn't mean you didn't receive your payment.
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  SPEAKER_00: Doesn't mean being kind is worthless.
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  SPEAKER_00: It means you didn't receive your blessings, your payment through them.
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  SPEAKER_00: It means it's coming through a different vehicle, it's coming through a different outlet.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your blessings come one way or another.
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  SPEAKER_00: So for my story, I asked, you know, I was putting, I asked my previous boss, I was putting so much work in, effort, I was working hard day and night, and they still said no to my raise.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, I could have thought, well, what's the point of all of this hard work?
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm just gonna come in, do my job, and leave.
• 20:41
  SPEAKER_00: You know, I'm not gonna try to work and grow, etc.
• 20:44
  SPEAKER_00: I'm just gonna do my job and go.
• 20:46
  SPEAKER_00: This job isn't gonna mean anything to me because it's worthless, right?
• 20:49
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not receiving anything back for all this extra work I do.
• 20:53
  SPEAKER_00: But no, the blessing was always gonna come later through my business.
• 20:58
  SPEAKER_00: I'm extremely blessed now because of the hard work I put in before.
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  SPEAKER_00: I worked hard at anything that I did, and that was my character.
• 21:08
  SPEAKER_00: And the the blessings all came back to my character.
• 21:13
  SPEAKER_00: I could have blamed my previous boss for being the outlet and not receiving my blessings back, but it was never gonna come from that place.
• 21:23
  SPEAKER_00: It was always coming from my business.
• 21:26
  SPEAKER_00: So just because you decided to meditate really deep this morning and journal and do your affirmations and listen to your podcast episode, and then you have a terrible day, after all of that work, it's not for nothing.
• 21:40
  SPEAKER_00: Your blessing is still on the way.
• 21:42
  SPEAKER_00: You just have to be open to it.
• 21:44
  SPEAKER_00: You can't decide, well, none of this works and give up.
• 21:47
  SPEAKER_00: Keep going because you always get back what you put in.
• 21:52
  SPEAKER_00: If you experience lows, you're gonna experience highs.
• 21:58
  SPEAKER_00: And yes, it might.
• 22:00
  SPEAKER_00: Sound scary thinking, well, if I experience highs, does that also mean I'm gonna experience lows?
• 22:05
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, just because you achieve your dream life does not mean you never have a problem again.
• 22:13
  SPEAKER_00: Life is still life and polarity still exists.
• 22:18
  SPEAKER_00: But there's less stress of life problems when you live your dream life.
• 22:24
  SPEAKER_00: I still have to take work off and take my dogs to the vet and spend thousands of dollars.
• 22:29
  SPEAKER_00: That's not fun.
• 22:31
  SPEAKER_00: But the fact that I have manifested the life I live of feeling free, feeling abundant, feeling at peace.
• 22:39
  SPEAKER_00: I get to take off work with ease because I don't have a boss to go back and forth with, right?
• 22:46
  SPEAKER_00: I don't have the scarcity of finances that I used to have.
• 22:51
  SPEAKER_00: I'm now abundant and can swipe my card stress-free.
• 22:55
  SPEAKER_00: I don't love paying that thousands of dollars, but I can now.
• 22:59
  SPEAKER_00: It doesn't come out of my rent anymore.
• 23:02
  SPEAKER_00: Money is energy and it always flows to us and from us.
• 23:07
  SPEAKER_00: So that's another example.
• 23:09
  SPEAKER_00: Highs and lows, the law of polarity.
• 23:12
  SPEAKER_00: If you hold on to money with a clenched fist, you will have your money.
• 23:17
  SPEAKER_00: It's not gonna go anywhere, but you also won't receive anymore.
• 23:21
  SPEAKER_00: You have to be open to money coming and going, the law of polarity.
• 23:27
  SPEAKER_00: And so only when you accept the law of polarity and you honor it, you honor the cycle of life, does it feel peaceful, at ease?
• 23:39
  SPEAKER_00: It's no longer stressful, or you don't feel the lack of when you experience the lows, or when you experience money coming from you instead of to you.
• 23:50
  SPEAKER_00: You just honor the cycle, and you know if it's money is leaving you, it's coming to you next.
• 23:56
  SPEAKER_00: And vice versa.
• 23:58
  SPEAKER_00: When you get your paycheck, what do you do?
• 24:00
  SPEAKER_00: You flow it out to the next thing.
• 24:02
  SPEAKER_00: You received your money, and now you put your money to an experience you want, dinner with your girlfriends, to groceries so you can eat that month.
• 24:12
  SPEAKER_00: You don't see that as a bad thing because you're grateful your money can pay for the things you want to enjoy.
• 24:19
  SPEAKER_00: Now I'm not here to talk about the economy, okay?
• 24:22
  SPEAKER_00: That's another discussion.
• 24:24
  SPEAKER_00: But you get the point I'm making.
• 24:26
  SPEAKER_00: Even when you're driving your dream car, you still might get a flat tire.
• 24:30
  SPEAKER_00: You still might wake up to your tank on empty on a morning that you're already rushing.
• 24:35
  SPEAKER_00: Even living in your dream house, you will still need to repair something that's really annoying one day.
• 24:42
  SPEAKER_00: Even being with your dream partner, you will get in an argument, you'll get in a fight, even running your dream business, you will experience a slow period or a very challenging event that you'll have to overcome and grow from.
• 24:57
  SPEAKER_00: Living your dream life, you are still living life.
• 25:02
  SPEAKER_00: You're still you just dealing with life problems from a different identity with more resources, being abundant, being regulated, knowing the universe always provides for you, it relieves the stress of life stress.
• 25:21
  SPEAKER_00: So it's much easier to deal with when you get to a certain level of life, and this is why you deserve your dream life to handle problems with ease.
• 25:34
  SPEAKER_00: So I hope you like today's episode.
• 25:36
  SPEAKER_00: And you can find my Daily Ritual Babe Academy in my link in my bio at Gorgeous by Alyssa and do all 10 practices that I shared that I still do to level up anytime I have a new desire and help you embody the successful version of yourself, right?
• 25:53
  SPEAKER_00: Because everyone always tells you act as if, but then you're like, okay, how?
• 25:57
  SPEAKER_00: Now what?
• 25:59
  SPEAKER_00: I tell you what, in the daily ritual babe academy.
• 26:02
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• 26:07
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• 26:14
  SPEAKER_00: So you can apply that to all academies right now.
• 26:17
  SPEAKER_00: They are always linked in my bio on TikTok and Instagram.
• 26:21
  SPEAKER_00: Let me know what you manifest.
• 26:22
  SPEAKER_00: Let me know your thoughts on this episode.
• 26:25
  SPEAKER_00: And never give up on your manifestation.
• 26:28
  SPEAKER_00: Seriously.
• 26:28
  SPEAKER_00: Assume it's always working.
• 26:30
  SPEAKER_00: Because assuming it's working is the only thing that serves you and gets you there.
• 26:35
  SPEAKER_00: I'm sending you so much love and success.
• 26:38
  SPEAKER_00: Bye.