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How Do You Raise Your Kids? · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: It's topic time called eight hundred and five eight five,
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  Speaker 1: one oh five. Want to join it to the discussion
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  Speaker 1: with the Breakfast Club, talk about it every show me
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  Speaker 1: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got our
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  Speaker 1: guest Hope, Miss pat joining us this morning, and we're
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  Speaker 1: talking about raising the keys and that this comes from
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  Speaker 1: Tyler Perry now and say, listen, what are you doing.
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  Speaker 1: We don't behave this way, you don't do this, this
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  Speaker 1: is this is unacceptable. You're not gonna disrespect her. You're
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  Speaker 1: not gonna disrespect your mom. You're gonna do what they
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  Speaker 1: say to do. And do you understand that he's just crying, Yes, Papa,
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  Speaker 1: yes papa. But as he's crying and I'm down on
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  Speaker 1: this level, I'm trying to hold my tears. So I
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  Speaker 1: get out and I leave out of the room. Galia says,
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  Speaker 1: you okay, because nobody talked to me as a five
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  Speaker 1: year old like that. Nobody had a conversation with me,
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  Speaker 1: nobody talked to me like a person. So here I
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  Speaker 1: am having an opportunity to heal my little boy self
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  Speaker 1: by talking to my son like a first beautiful. So
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  Speaker 1: we're asking eight hundred five eight five, one oh five
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  Speaker 1: when we're talking about raising your kids, how do you
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  Speaker 1: raise your kids? We start with you, miss Pat, Miss Pat?
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  Speaker 1: Do you you all pop your kids? Did you? I
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  Speaker 1: raised my kids according to how they dare to pay
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  Speaker 1: ch'all support? What that mean? He don't pay you? Get
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  Speaker 1: up a cup. I don't whip them anymore. My husband
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  Speaker 1: do a lot of talking because you know, we out
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  Speaker 1: of that area era of beating all kids, because that
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  Speaker 1: that comes from our ancestors and stuff. So I do
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  Speaker 1: a lot of time. I do a lot of cussler
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  Speaker 1: mouth and then every nine ding them wrong word slip
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  Speaker 1: out of my mouth, and my daughter upstairs who never
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  Speaker 1: come out of the the room and come out and say
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  Speaker 1: that you can't say that. So but yeah, I think
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  Speaker 1: in my family, I think we do good cop bad cops.
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  Speaker 1: Like I'm using the bad cop. I'm like, you'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna cut you out, I'm gonna yell at you.
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  Speaker 1: And then my wife is the one that talks to them,
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  Speaker 1: and then we all come in the room. And then
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  Speaker 1: Daddy used the apologize for cursing. Now apologize for cursing.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta apologize here, kids when you do something wrong.
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  Speaker 1: When you rob me, apologized. I say the B word
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  Speaker 1: by the state. You know, I get a little bit shit. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't never cursing my kids. I say you god damn.
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  Speaker 1: I thinks of my family, my house, cursing. Bro. We
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  Speaker 1: there certain words we don't use in the house. Like
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  Speaker 1: we don't use fat in our house. We don't use
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  Speaker 1: god damn in our house. You don't even fat because
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  Speaker 1: ain't nobody fat. But I just don't use the word
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  Speaker 1: fats for me word. We just don't use the word
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  Speaker 1: house not a mean word. Don't you want a fast steak?
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  Speaker 1: Don't you want your wife and have a fat ass?
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  Speaker 1: How's fat? I mean word? I'm sat here, you're gonna
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  Speaker 1: tell me I'm mean It depends how. It depends on
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  Speaker 1: what's saying. Like you say, man, shut your fat ass up.
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  Speaker 1: Well that's sweet, y'all. Don't even fat in your house either,
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  Speaker 1: Uh depends when we're talking about the defenders. Whenn't the
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  Speaker 1: fat become a mean word because you don't want to
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  Speaker 1: be like that fat ass kid or a fat kid
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  Speaker 1: or a fat I wouldn't say that when I was
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  Speaker 1: me and my husband almost got a divorce one time.
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  Speaker 1: A little you can go ahead and lead, You're gonna
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  Speaker 1: take your fat ass kid with you because I don't
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  Speaker 1: get enough food stamp forward. So I already got my
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  Speaker 1: own kids, Nate Thailer, so you take it. The most
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  Speaker 1: defensive thing about that is that you're saying that did
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  Speaker 1: his kids like they're not yours basketball, not doing a divoice.
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  Speaker 1: They hed kid I have for him. I had already
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  Speaker 1: had to buy a dude that one hit non nothing.
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  Speaker 1: But I do feel Tyler par d Man because I
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  Speaker 1: always feel bad after I yelled at my kids, Like
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  Speaker 1: I literally went to bad last night and woke up
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  Speaker 1: this morning feeling like a bad parent because I feel
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  Speaker 1: like I can be a short tempered with a couple
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  Speaker 1: of my kids too. You know what I'm saying, Like, yeah, four,
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  Speaker 1: I got fourteen year old to seven year old, to
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  Speaker 1: four year old and one year old and the four
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  Speaker 1: year old and the one year old. Fine is that
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  Speaker 1: the fourteen is a teenager, so that would be difficult,
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  Speaker 1: and then the seven year olds. He wanted them just
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  Speaker 1: independent seven year old, you know what I'm saying. So
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  Speaker 1: raising the kids is difficult, especially when they're not listening
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  Speaker 1: and they talk to me in ways I would never
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  Speaker 1: think to talk to my parents or my grandparents aren't
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  Speaker 1: to nobody. And I threatened my seven year old that
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  Speaker 1: after you wouldn't have made it in the nineties, you
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  Speaker 1: wouldn't have it when she's back, No, damn nineties, you
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  Speaker 1: know what I mean. I have a ten year old
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  Speaker 1: like that. Yeah, yeah, she'd be talking man crapping. I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: she's like, you guys are my parents? You know? Couple
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  Speaker 1: of niece ran off and left. She smoked craig and
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna show her birth certificates. So bad. And the
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  Speaker 1: kid when the kids smartest different like I told I
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  Speaker 1: told my seven year old, like, you ain't going next
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  Speaker 1: door to the neighborhouse at the same age, in the
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  Speaker 1: same grade and their friend. Right, I'm like, that's that's
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  Speaker 1: cut out. You're not going there next week. I don't care.
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  Speaker 1: I'm see her in class anyway. God damn, I ain't
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  Speaker 1: got no respond to what you say. You ain't going
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  Speaker 1: to school exactly. You know what I'm I'm gonna put
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  Speaker 1: your eyes out so you can't see it. But but
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  Speaker 1: I feel them though, and you know, and that's why
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  Speaker 1: I do like having conversations with my children for the
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  Speaker 1: exact same reading Tyler Perry said, because you know, when
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  Speaker 1: they get grown, they're gonna remember that, because we all
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  Speaker 1: remember being young and getting yelled at and getting told
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  Speaker 1: different things by your parents. I'm sure. I'm sure this stuff.
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  Speaker 1: I'm unpacking the therapy now that my daddy said. My
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  Speaker 1: mom was ugly. Oh the talent man, My mom usa,
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  Speaker 1: get your gland. And my sister was a like cuter
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  Speaker 1: yeah and nada, And I look at us now, I
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  Speaker 1: was like, yeah, yo, cute daughter, smoke Craig, but yo,
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  Speaker 1: little uglyone else succeeded, and you dad. My daddy told
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  Speaker 1: me one time, let's kill them me get the insurance money.
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  Speaker 1: He told Mama, just killing me, get the insurance money.
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  Speaker 1: Damn anyway, you were that bad? Yeah, well you know,
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  Speaker 1: damn it, man, y'all need therapy. My parents weren't that bad.
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  Speaker 1: My parents huxtables who have been messed with y'all because
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  Speaker 1: killing me get the white light skinny white man, I'm
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  Speaker 1: light skinning, I'm black? Why what am I say? I'm black? Hello?
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  Speaker 1: Have you ever had a hickey on your neck? That
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  Speaker 1: probably would kill you? There? Yo? What's up? What's your name? Brochu?
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  Speaker 1: Chu up? Chuck from Connecticut talking about raising our kids. Man,
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  Speaker 1: how you raise your kids? Bro? I'm a big yellow staying.
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  Speaker 1: I was just meet my wife, two daughters, and yeah,
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  Speaker 1: sometimes I'm still bad right after that good, I know. Man,
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  Speaker 1: it's so hard man, especially when you got girls and
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  Speaker 1: old boys. I got good. That's what make you feel
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  Speaker 1: even worse when you got girls and you got a
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  Speaker 1: yellow at them all. Lord, But it's the two. It's
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  Speaker 1: the two. It's the two youngest ones, right. They play
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  Speaker 1: together old day long, and then they fight like a
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  Speaker 1: married couple. And that's what I'd be screaming at them,
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  Speaker 1: and they'd be mad at each other. And then at
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  Speaker 1: night they got they got to sleep in the same bed.
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  Speaker 1: They gotta keep the same room. So it'd be pissing
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  Speaker 1: me off. Like y'all gonna be friends later on anyway,
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  Speaker 1: so stop it. But they just shout the Jackson and
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  Speaker 1: book when I'm sure they're in the call listening. Hello,
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  Speaker 1: who's this, hey, breed. We're talking about discipline and raising children.
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  Speaker 1: What's your approach? How are you giving it? So? First
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  Speaker 1: of all, going and everyone, So I with my discipline
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  Speaker 1: as a child. My mother never thanked me, can never
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  Speaker 1: beat me or anything. But I do notice that with
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  Speaker 1: my child. He's a little bit more hardheaded than I was,
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  Speaker 1: so I do have to discipline a little bit more
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  Speaker 1: with him than my mom did with me. But what
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  Speaker 1: I've noticed is when I have conversations with people who
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  Speaker 1: works think that as a child has really disciplined, they're
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  Speaker 1: very disciplined as adults. And I noticed I do like
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  Speaker 1: a little bit of discipline, and I feel like it's
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  Speaker 1: because I wasn't heavily disciplined when I grew Interesting, that's
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  Speaker 1: an interesting take. Yeah, what do you mean when you
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  Speaker 1: say you like discipline? So aside from my ad it's
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  Speaker 1: just kind of like, if I don't want to do something,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not going to do it. And when it comes
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  Speaker 1: to school work, I have to like really force myself
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  Speaker 1: to do the things I'm justosing to do. When it
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  Speaker 1: comes to work, I really have to purst myself to
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  Speaker 1: do the thing, but I'm supposed to do it, and
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  Speaker 1: I just feel like a setting as well, I do
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  Speaker 1: what I want to do that. But that's the scariest
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  Speaker 1: thing though, because a lot of things you probably got
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  Speaker 1: disciplined for when you didn't get discipline when you was young,
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  Speaker 1: but if you did, it would probably have to do
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  Speaker 1: with the fact you had ADHD. And that's what I
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  Speaker 1: worry about. You don't know what type of issues your
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  Speaker 1: child might be dealing with that having showcased a self
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  Speaker 1: yet you know what I mean that you might be punished,
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  Speaker 1: You know I exactly. And I just found out my
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  Speaker 1: dog got ADHD and he won't go sleep at night.
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  Speaker 1: Your dog, your dog, Okay, how you know your dog
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  Speaker 1: got ah he'd be up out. We can put him
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  Speaker 1: to sleep. Don't say that. No, I mean, I'm talking
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  Speaker 1: about what you don't do that. Don't do that. Don't
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  Speaker 1: do that. Eight hundred five and five. We're talking about
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  Speaker 1: how you discipline your kids. Oh my god, this is
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  Speaker 1: the breakfast Club. Good morning, how do you dj Envy
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  Speaker 1: Charlemagne the guy We all the breakfast club. Now if
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  Speaker 1: you just join us, we're talking about disciplining our kids.
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  Speaker 1: Just came from Tyler Perry and this is what he
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  Speaker 1: said about his son. He was really rude to the nanny.
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  Speaker 1: And it was in the room with bathroom argument and
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  Speaker 1: Galida calls me and I go in and I said,
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying I get down to his level. I'm talking
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  Speaker 1: to him out and say, listen, what are you doing.
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  Speaker 1: We don't behave this way. You don't do this, this
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  Speaker 1: is this is unacceptable. You're not gonna disrespect her. You're
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  Speaker 1: not gonna disrespect your mom. You're gonna do what they
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  Speaker 1: say to do. And do you understand that he's just crying, yes, Papa, yes, papa.
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  Speaker 1: But as he's crying and I'm down on his level,
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to hold my tears. So I get up
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  Speaker 1: and I leave out of the room. Galida says, you okay,
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  Speaker 1: because nobody talked to me as a five year old
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  Speaker 1: like that. Nobody had a conversation with me. Nobody talked
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  Speaker 1: to me like a person. So here I am having
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  Speaker 1: an opportunity to heal my little boy self. Yeah. By
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  Speaker 1: talking to my son like a person, I feel a man.
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  Speaker 1: But you know another thing, I was scared of my dad.
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  Speaker 1: Though my dad is six foot three, six foot four,
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  Speaker 1: retired police officer, ex military, I was always scared of him.
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  Speaker 1: So I never wanted to do nothing because I never
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  Speaker 1: wanted to have a problem with it. Ain't none of
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  Speaker 1: my daughters to me, and I don't want them to
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  Speaker 1: be scared me because I don't want to raise out
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  Speaker 1: of fear. But nobody I mean, I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: raise out of love. That's something you learned in therapy too,
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  Speaker 1: though you learned that. You know a lot of times
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  Speaker 1: our parents raised us out of fear, and their fear
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  Speaker 1: was especially with my dad, he didn't want me to
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  Speaker 1: turn out the way. He didn't want me to make
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  Speaker 1: make the same mistakes that he did. You know, you
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  Speaker 1: know I made it still made him anyway, except for
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  Speaker 1: like you know, using hard drugs, But he didn't want
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  Speaker 1: me to make the same mistakes that he made. And
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  Speaker 1: Mom was the same. My dad was a cop in
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  Speaker 1: New York City at the time, and he worked in
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  Speaker 1: the Bronx and on the train, so he's seen things
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  Speaker 1: from a different place that I shot it from and
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  Speaker 1: it was the crack error. So it was he wanted
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  Speaker 1: me to stay away from that. So he was gonna
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  Speaker 1: do whatever it takes to make sure I wasn't gonna
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  Speaker 1: go down that left. He parented out of fear. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I did too, especially because I had my first child
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  Speaker 1: at fourteen, and I think I parented out of field
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  Speaker 1: with my daughter. I was like, don't you ever touched
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  Speaker 1: no boy? Don't you ever tide of no boy? Day horrid?
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  Speaker 1: Or did she end up being gay and something somebody like, dude,
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  Speaker 1: I preach my, that's why you said that out of them,
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  Speaker 1: you scared the love for du No, that makes sense.
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  Speaker 1: I did because it was all about because I was
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  Speaker 1: saying such a bad lationship with her daddy and she
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  Speaker 1: saw her daddy beat me. And I'm not saying that,
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  Speaker 1: you know that's why, but I think that has a
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  Speaker 1: lot to do with it. Beans, And she saw daddy
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  Speaker 1: shoot me, and she's like, nah, I'm going on here
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  Speaker 1: with the girls. We just scratch each other, even though
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  Speaker 1: I do think that you know you are born you know, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: my daughter was born gay or a gay hat on
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  Speaker 1: and a jumpsuit. She hadn't want them little overall suits. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: She came out to wound with it on with a
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  Speaker 1: painter's bridge sham. She was, what's that little paint of name?
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  Speaker 1: Nia polion? What's a little pain which one? Cosso? Okay, hello,
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  Speaker 1: who's this? Hi? Everybody? Hey? So I can't be honest
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  Speaker 1: withcause this topic y'all not Yes for me, Yes, we
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  Speaker 1: know your real name. We got called d but we
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  Speaker 1: ain't gonna say it's the word unless you do something. Wow.
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  Speaker 1: All right, brown, all right, we're gonna use to Misha
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  Speaker 1: Brown all right. So to be totally honest, my mother
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  Speaker 1: is a single mother with four k and he beats
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  Speaker 1: up the break off of us. I have a son
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  Speaker 1: right down, and I'm not gonna sit up here and
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  Speaker 1: say I beat him oge I don't. But am I
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  Speaker 1: gonna light his little old leg up? Yes? Am I
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  Speaker 1: gonna light the topic that's foot up? Yes I am,
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  Speaker 1: because you're not going to disrespect you today. So essentially,
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  Speaker 1: I don't feel like disciplining your kids, Uh is a
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  Speaker 1: bad thing. I was raising a discipline. I can say
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  Speaker 1: that I'm a good person. Um, I have a lot
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  Speaker 1: only all for myself. But I believe in discipline popping.
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  Speaker 1: I do believe in that. What's your weapon of choice
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  Speaker 1: when you discipline? Right now my hand, I have the
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  Speaker 1: fighter weapons and this is gonna explore. It's going to
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  Speaker 1: hurt you. Oh yeah, Mama back hands used to be
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  Speaker 1: no joke. She sounded like a fly squad of Mama
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  Speaker 1: the fad with the fly stuck. Only now we have
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  Speaker 1: Christina on Aline, Christina Gamrni. Hi, how are you now?
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  Speaker 1: You're a school counselor? Correct? Yeah, talk to us about
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  Speaker 1: traumatizing these kids out here. So earlier, I heard in
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  Speaker 1: the conversation you guys say, oh, how traumatizing can yelling bee?
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  Speaker 1: It can be very traumatizing. I can stay with a
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  Speaker 1: child for their whole lot. And I also heard, I
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  Speaker 1: think it was Charlomagne's say, there's no guide in raising
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  Speaker 1: these kids. Charlomagne, there are arey literally hundreds of thousands
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  Speaker 1: of books out there raising kids, parenting guys. There's a
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  Speaker 1: great series called How to Talk to Your Kids so
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  Speaker 1: that they will listen and they will talk, and they
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  Speaker 1: have it for a little kids, elementary school age and
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  Speaker 1: high school age, and they have an an audible and
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  Speaker 1: it's translated in various languages, and it talks about how
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  Speaker 1: to discipline your kids and um, non cooing. I agree
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  Speaker 1: with you. I know there there's a lot of material
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  Speaker 1: out there on body, but it don't matter when you're
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  Speaker 1: in the midst of it. I guess everybody got a
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  Speaker 1: planet get punched in the face. Yeah, that's true. And
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  Speaker 1: you you have your own path to contend with and
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  Speaker 1: your own methods of raising your children. But when you
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  Speaker 1: do have some calm time in downtime, it wouldn't hurt
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  Speaker 1: to the Google some new methods for next time to
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  Speaker 1: keep things. They escalated, I agree with you and your
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  Speaker 1: children how to talk to others in the world. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna get that book and give it to my kids.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to read them. I was like, this
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  Speaker 1: is right here. Well, I'm gonna need y'all to read
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  Speaker 1: what I want to do with you now? You know what,
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  Speaker 1: it's funny that you said that me and my wife
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  Speaker 1: are writing a book or raising our kids. We have
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  Speaker 1: six kids. We have a twenty one year old, a
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  Speaker 1: nineteen nine and eight to six, and a one year old,
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  Speaker 1: and we talk about everything that we go through, everything
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  Speaker 1: from my daughter getting her first period, to us talking
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  Speaker 1: about sex, to m popping out kids at times, to
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  Speaker 1: having conversations to you know, I came from a household
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  Speaker 1: of because I said, so that was my dad, because
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  Speaker 1: I said that le is a terrible way of pairing.
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  Speaker 1: But we don't do it like that. We explained to
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  Speaker 1: the kids why, like if they want to go out,
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  Speaker 1: and it's the reason why, I know, we explained to
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  Speaker 1: them why so we talk about all that. And that's
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  Speaker 1: what Tyler Perry is saying, Like you sit down and
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  Speaker 1: have a conversation with your sid's that's what I tend
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  Speaker 1: to do. You know what I mean? And and yes,
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  Speaker 1: when I do have a short temper and I do yell,
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  Speaker 1: I always feel bad about it afterwards, and then I
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  Speaker 1: sit down and I always apologize to I always apologize
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  Speaker 1: for yelling. That's another thing our parents never did for
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  Speaker 1: us when we was young. They never apologized us. They
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  Speaker 1: didn't know how. They didn't know how. But I break
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  Speaker 1: that down to when when me and my kids, if
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  Speaker 1: I do something wrong like yell or scream or whatever
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  Speaker 1: it may be, we pull them in the room and
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  Speaker 1: we talked to him, why you know why I did this,
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  Speaker 1: Why I don't why I screamed, why I raised my voice,
• 14:33
  Speaker 1: Why I don't want them to do this? And it
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: works pretty good in my household. And they so quick
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: to go to the school and tell everything. So like
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: I had an incident in less than six months ago.
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  Speaker 1: What a teacher called me and I said, oh, I'm
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: a head's upside the head. And so next thing I
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: know defects that my dough. I said, ma'am, these ain't
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: my kids. I said, I'm black. That's how I taught.
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  Speaker 1: So later the teachers like we don't hit upside, hit
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  Speaker 1: hit on the behind. I said, late, I'm gonna do
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  Speaker 1: what I do, and you do what you do. Become
• 14:59
  Speaker 1: a lease up down. I don't think she's gonna send
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: defacts to my house. They tried to put them in
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: a counseling program. I said, man, I was talking jump.
• 15:06
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest with you, miss pat. I think
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: that program did you? Yeah? I think I kind of
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: agree with call us. If you need us to bell
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  Speaker 1: you out, you know we got you. You know, just
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  Speaker 1: a game. I appreciate. I'm glad to know I got
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  Speaker 1: rich friends. I just want to I just want to
• 15:19
  Speaker 1: paying out of love and not fear. Absolutely no ring
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  Speaker 1: them every nine. Did I do that? All? I'm gonna
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: telling my kids, I love you Ashley and not kill
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: june Bug. And then the mother foe at the house
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: and I'm my oldest ben't gonna hug you. But therapy.
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Everybody going to therapy day?
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean? The resources that we didn't
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: have when we was younger. Why not, Yes, you did.
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: Your mamma was always on the phone telling her friend
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: your bees. That's like saying white people going to the
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: gym all the time. It's pat to throw that out.
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: That's not no, put my mask on and turned into
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: wrestling number two. Y'all remember wrestling number two? No, you
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: don't remember wrestling number one and two. I just figured
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: it was just big wrestless. No, who whoa the white
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  Speaker 1: man with the mask on? I don't remember. You don't
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: remembers wrestlers right name? I remember Andre the Giant. No,
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: wrestling number one and two? D on the mask? Two
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: white men? I will yeah, they were good for the
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: ficking fault. When we come back, we got your room report.
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: We gotta talk about puff. He's trying to buy maybe
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: b et. We'll tell you about it when we come
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: back for Paul the breakfast Luve, good morning from my
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: hat name? Or you gossiping or you chatting? The rumor report?
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: I mean, I guess we're on the breakfast club. This
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: were the tea spills right right on the breakfast club.
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: All right, First, let me say so, pos say to
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: my brother why Cleff White. Cleff checked himself into a
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: hospital yesterday. He says he'll be back soon, So I'm
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: hoping everything is okay. We don't know the reason why
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: but he did say this, I never stood in the hospital.
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: He said, he never stays in the hospital overnight, and
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: he posted this on Instagram. He just said, sometimes we
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: forget that our body is our temple. Be back soon.
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: He'd been in the hospital overnight. He was born in
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: the hospital. He had to be there for leat two games.
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: Is a doult life. I'm just trying to correct them.
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: You know, why, Cliff, you've been in the hospital of
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: the folk. Your mama just didn't have you on the
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: corner baby, And he said, dult life. So hopefully everything
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: is good with why Cleff also h did he might
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: be your bass soon? Who? Boss? Your boss? I heard
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: the rumors are did he is exploring opportunity to purchase
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: a majority steak in b et think did he gonna
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: outbid Tyler Perry? Come on, Tylay Tyler Perry already plug? Well,
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: you know, um, what's your calling? Is in it too?
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: What's his name? Who the riches are the Tyler Tyler?
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: Are all three of them? Tyler Tyler, come home, mister pair,
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: I'm ready. But why wouldn't it do it where they
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: could possibly all own a percentage? Because they all bring
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: so much to the table. Right, Tyler break the table
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: with the stuff, and so this did he and sow
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: this viron right? All about it? What did it bring? Music?
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: I mean, the reality is what did that mean for Revolt?
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: It with did he own both? Because in my mind,
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: if you got money to buy BT, how about put
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: that money in the revolte, put those resources in the
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: revote and keep building a revote up. That would making
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: more sense. But what was the main problem with Revolt
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: That it just wasn't in enough households? Right? Revolting still around, right,
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: but it's not in enough households. And Tyler paragraph over that,
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: why are you gonna share all that land? You don't
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: need no help, Tyler, don't need no help. Don't need
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: no help me. Tyler called me? What did he say?
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: I'm now you better not say I'm no mdeal If
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: you do, I come on there and jumping that clean nothing, Okay,
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: Now I wouldn't mind seeing that. Now that's a battle.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: What boy, you and my deal fighting? I whooped Tyler
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: pair Dad. That's a good matchup right there. I'd love
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: to see him a dam miss Pat go at it? Well,
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: he said did he said? He wants to turn b
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: ET back into a black owned brand, and he believes
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: it's better for business, for the culture, and for building
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: wealth in the black. What did that mean for Revote?
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: You sold us on this Revote thing? Did he like?
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: You know Revote has has? I think Revots built a
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: lot of cultural cachet, you know what I mean. People
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: know the brand Revote, But the thing that people always
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: saying about vote Revote ain't got no money. So if
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: you got money to buy DT, how come you just
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: don't put that money into Revolt. I just want to
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: know about Revote and fell asleep. He gave it to
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: your Miami you think, so, yeah, somebody got it. If
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: you ain't, if it ain't, if ain't nothing going on now, Yeah,
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: I mean, I just would like to hear him. I'd
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: like to hear more about the business if I was
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: That's how I would like to hear more from praying
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: Tyler get it. Don't get him, miss a pair. I'm
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: over here waiting on yet. I think Tyler gonna get Yeah,
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: I think so waiting on you like a black child
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: waiting on his daddy. Shut up, you're having flashbacks, I think. Yeah.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: All right, well that is your rumor report, Now keep it.
• 20:06
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• 20:07
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